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Dirty Little Secret: I Lied About My Girls Trip! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: This is Dirty Little Secrets. Okay, you got a secret.
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  Speaker 1: It's time to confess. It's Bailey the Kid, Candace Lopez,
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  Speaker 1: producer Pooh. Just do it. Just tell us what's going on.
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  Speaker 1: It could be a big secret, a little secret, whatever
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  Speaker 1: is happening in your life. Or maybe it happened five
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  Speaker 1: years ago.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Or ten years ago. It doesn't have to be recent.
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  Speaker 1: Just confess, and you got one. What's up?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so, okay, I'm hiding something from my boyfriend, and
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  Speaker 3: this is actually the second year in a row that
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  Speaker 3: I've done it. Every year, I tell them I'm going
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  Speaker 3: on my annual girls trip, except there's no girls trip.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, really?
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 1: You tell them you're going on a girls trip. There's
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  Speaker 1: no girls trip. Where are you going?
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  Speaker 3: I go back to my hometown for a few days
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  Speaker 3: completely by myself.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 3: I love my boyfriend very, very much. We've been together
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  Speaker 3: almost three years. I've never cheated on him, and I
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  Speaker 3: never would. I just desperately need a break.
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  Speaker 1: And I think that's reasonable, but why not just be
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  Speaker 1: honest about it? Tell him.
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  Speaker 3: Well, my boyfriend is extremely clingy. He wants to do
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  Speaker 3: everything together. If I'm watching TV, he wants to watch
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  Speaker 3: with me. If I'm running errands, he wants to come.
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  Speaker 3: If I have plans, yeah, he wants to know what
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  Speaker 3: I'm doing, what we're doing afterward. It's actually gotten worse
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  Speaker 3: the longer we've been together.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: He's codependent.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's codependent. But I mean, like maybe if anything
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  Speaker 1: in relationships, I've had a problem in the past because
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  Speaker 1: I'm too independent. Yeah. And I like I like my time.
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  Speaker 1: So I get this, but it just looks shady.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I need alone time to function. You know, like
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  Speaker 3: I just can't deal with someone by my side all
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  Speaker 3: the time. So once a year I tell him I'm
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  Speaker 3: meeting up with girls and that I went to college
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  Speaker 3: with pack my bags and I disappear for a few days.
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  Speaker 1: And he's just like, cool, have a good time. And
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  Speaker 1: you're just doing your own thing. You're just I mean,
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  Speaker 1: are you doing things there that he wouldn't want to
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  Speaker 1: know about? And I know you said no cheating, but
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  Speaker 1: is it? Anything that might be weird or bizarre?
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  Speaker 3: Well, you know, I don't lie about where I'm going.
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  Speaker 3: I really do go back home. I might see one
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  Speaker 3: or two friends while I'm there, but that's mostly about it. Like,
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  Speaker 3: I sleep in, I get coffee by myself, go shopping,
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  Speaker 3: I eat wherever I want, and I watch terrible TV
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  Speaker 3: in my hotel room. I don't answer to anybody.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah. I'm not mad at that. You refresh. You
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  Speaker 1: just kind of like a little reset and you need that. No,
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  Speaker 1: I do get that.
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  Speaker 4: I think everyone needs a reset. It doesn't have to
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  Speaker 4: be from your boyfriend or your partner, but from your work.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, just from the change of pace, you know,
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  Speaker 4: you need a change of scenery.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. But I don't like the fact that you say
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  Speaker 1: he's clingy. That, to me, is a little red flag,
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  Speaker 1: but whatever.
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  Speaker 3: It is.
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  Speaker 1: It is for me, too. Why are you in a
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  Speaker 1: relationship with him if he's that clingy? Well, you can
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  Speaker 1: love someone and they're not perfect. It's just, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I've dealt with that before.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but if it's getting worse over time, you would
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  Speaker 4: think it would be less clingy over time.
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  Speaker 3: But now there is, like, one other detail that's probably
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  Speaker 3: going to make this sound approximately 500 times shadier. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Why? Why?
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  Speaker 3: Well, when I'm back home, I usually have lunch with
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  Speaker 3: my ex.
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  Speaker 1: There we go. There it is. Come on, girl. I
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  Speaker 1: was on your side.
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  Speaker 2: There it is.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, man. There it is right there. Wait. Wait. Wait. Wait, what?
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  Speaker 4: 500 times shadier.
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  Speaker 3: Listen, he came out of the closet years ago. He
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  Speaker 3: doesn't even date women anymore.
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  Speaker 1: What? Oh. Yes.
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  Speaker 3: We dated forever ago and stayed friends. And once a year,
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  Speaker 3: we grab lunch and catch up. There's absolutely nothing romantic happening.
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  Speaker 1: So he doesn't... Okay, so now he's... He doesn't even
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  Speaker 1: like women.
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  Speaker 4: OK, does your boyfriend know, like even this generic situation
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  Speaker 4: that this is his, you know.
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  Speaker 1: That really happens where you date someone. All of a
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  Speaker 1: sudden it's like they come out of the closet and
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  Speaker 1: then sorry. Yeah, I was never that that would mess
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  Speaker 1: with my head.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it does mess with people.
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  Speaker 1: It would happen to me. I dated a girl named Tori. Wait,
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  Speaker 1: you did? Yeah, I dated a girl. You remember Tori
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  Speaker 1: from from Denton? Yeah, she has a she has a
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  Speaker 1: wife now.
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  Speaker 2: Really yeah after poo she was like forget this all
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  Speaker 2: right yeah so you don't want to tell your boyfriend
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  Speaker 2: that though yeah my.
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  Speaker 3: Boyfriend is absolutely not no because this man would spontaneously
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  Speaker 3: combust like he's already insecure.
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  Speaker 1: Even if he knows that you're the guy's not even
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  Speaker 1: into women anymore or he would probably think you're just
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  Speaker 1: saying that maybe to make him feel better yeah that's Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't matter. He's already insecure. So if I told
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  Speaker 3: him I went on vacation alone, he'd already asked 5
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  Speaker 3: billion questions like, where are you going? Who are you seeing?
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  Speaker 1: Why don't you want me there?
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  Speaker 3: Why can't I come? And then if I throw in, oh,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm having lunch with my ex, I might as
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  Speaker 3: well just light my whole relationship on fire.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I see that. If he's already kind of like that.
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  Speaker 1: But in his defense, though, I swear I've been in
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  Speaker 1: relationships where every they have a bunch of guy friends
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  Speaker 1: and according to them, they're all, they're all gay. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's true. Oh no, he's, he's gay. And then I
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  Speaker 1: meet him. I'm like, this dude's not gay. Ain't no way.
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  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, like he's definitely gay, but I, I am
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  Speaker 3: definitely lying and I know that's probably not healthy, but
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  Speaker 3: I'm not cheating. I'm not partying with random guys. Um,
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  Speaker 3: I'm literally just hiding from the world, ordering takeout and
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  Speaker 3: enjoying the fact that nobody needs anything for me.
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  Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that. So if he finds out,
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  Speaker 1: just be prepared for the wrath of it being shady
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  Speaker 1: because then no matter what you say, he's going to
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  Speaker 1: be like, you are a liar.
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  Speaker 4: If he's already clingy and insecure, that's a recipe for disaster.
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  Speaker 1: You might have to get back with your ex. No.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 1: If he'll have you.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, no.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you never know. They never say never. People go
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  Speaker 1: back and forth sometimes.
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  Speaker 4: That's true.
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  Speaker 1: I know people who do that.
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  Speaker 4: I do, too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: If they just find happiness, that's all I care about.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever makes you happy. I'm not judging. If one
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  Speaker 1: week you like guys, next week you like girls, listen, Pooh,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to embrace you. Oh, no, you didn't. Love
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  Speaker 1: is love. Thank you so much. And let us know
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  Speaker 1: what happens, okay?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, guys. Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I totally forgot you dated that girl, to be honest. Yeah. Totally.
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  Speaker 1: I don't remember her. You don't remember her? No. We
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  Speaker 1: should rank our ex-girlfriends one day. Oh, Lord. Or at
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  Speaker 1: least poos. Okay. You know? Sounds fun. Just rank them
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  Speaker 1: from five to one. Who is the best? You know
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  Speaker 1: I love a good list. Yeah. I can line them
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  Speaker 1: up for you. Mine or yours? Mine. So could we.
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  Speaker 1: So could we.