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- 0:00If you've ever been in that situation as a parent where your child just won't stop crying,
- 0:08you know, or you're noticing a health ailment that's coming up and you just feel scared.
- 0:14Or maybe your baby is about to start eating food and there's 50 different ways you can
- 0:19start feeding them and you just don't know where to start.
- 0:21I'm Chef James Berry and I'm the host of Everyday Incessial and I think you're going to
- 0:26really love our next guest, Kate Pope.
- 0:30She will answer all of your questions around, what do I feed my baby?
- 0:37What should I be thinking about as I'm pregnant?
- 0:41She's going to be talking about picky eating and in general what it means to heal our gut
- 0:47and how we can start looking at food truly as medicine.
- 0:51So Kate Pope is a mom, a holistic chef and a nutritional therapy practitioner and a certified
- 0:57gaps practitioner.
- 0:59A lot of certifications, she knows her stuff.
- 1:04Through her cooking and nutrition courses, she educates families and communities on the
- 1:08importance of local food systems and cooking meals at home for physical, mental and emotional
- 1:15health.
- 1:16She founded regenerative cooking school in 2019 so that she could reach more parents
- 1:22and families around her message advocating gut health and real food for children.
- 1:27Kate helps babies and mothers start solids the gut healthy way.
- 1:31You can work with Kate in her signature course, Mama Baby Biome or Baby Biome First Foods
- 1:37Plan where their husband, Alex, they've self published three cookbooks, cooking and
- 1:42active love, every meal, healing and a guide to a regenerative Thanksgiving.
- 1:48Please enjoy Kate Pope.
- 1:51As parents, we want our kids to thrive, we want them to be healthy, happy, but what does
- 1:57that actually look like because when you're a new parent, you're kind of lost, right?
- 2:02So I'm super excited to dive into that with you.
- 2:04The first, let's address the elephant in the room.
- 2:08You are the wild nutritionist, what's wild about you and dive into like, what is a wild
- 2:16nutritionist?
- 2:17Oh, I love that you asked that because there is a reason for my name and it was super
- 2:21lucky.
- 2:22I was actually working a private chef job when I thought of it.
- 2:25I was chopping in the kitchen and I was like, oh my God, wild nutritionist.
- 2:30I wonder if it's taken and this was in like 2020, maybe like a little bit after that and
- 2:37I looked and it was available and so I like got it right away, I was like, oh my gosh.
- 2:41So what does it mean to me?
- 2:43Basically to be a wild nutritionist means I'm connected with the cycle of life and death.
- 2:48I really value regenerative agriculture.
- 2:52I value the life cycle and I respect birth and I respect death and everything that comes
- 2:58with that.
- 3:00Comes to our food, that means eating those to tail, that means handling raw meat, that
- 3:06means learning how to use a knife and potentially later in life it will mean hunting and acquiring
- 3:13my own food.
- 3:14But as much as I can be connected to source life and also understanding that that comes
- 3:21to an end, that really connects me to my wildness ultimately.
- 3:26So a lot of times what we become is a contrast to what we started out as.
- 3:32So what kind of happen early on in your life to make nutrition a focus for you later in
- 3:38your life?
- 3:39I've always been a rebel.
- 3:41I've always been going against the grain and figuring out what could work for me even
- 3:47if it's not what's working for the masses and I was a dancer.
- 3:51So my background is in dance.
- 3:54And I studied like modern dance and choreography.
- 3:58I did a lot with dance and social justice working in juvenile detention centers and that
- 4:03kind of thing, really cool community work in like 2010, 2009.
- 4:09After my career in dance, I basically had a adrenal fatigue.
- 4:13I saw a Chinese medicine practitioner and she taught me about, you know, basically
- 4:19like the importance of red meat and butter.
- 4:21And I became a local warrior and I started sourcing from farmers and then I just had this
- 4:26like fire lit in me about sourcing local food and how it made so much sense to me because
- 4:31I was like, well, if you just source the highest quality food, it tastes so much better and
- 4:35it's so much better for your body and it's so much better for the earth.
- 4:38So why is everyone not doing this?
- 4:40And that's when I founded regenerative cooking school and started to teach other people
- 4:44how to do that, how to source locally, how to use the harvest all year long and how to
- 4:48leverage it specifically to heal your body.
- 4:51What was your diet prior to that diagnosis of the adrenal fatigue work?
- 4:56Were you eating meat?
- 4:57Just not local meat.
- 4:58I had like a phase of vegetarianism in college because I thought that would, I was actually
- 5:03challenged by these like Irish guys when I was on a study abroad.
- 5:06Like if you care about the earth, you would be a vegetarian and I was like, okay.
- 5:10And I went for it and I was six months in and my mom was like, you don't look so good.
- 5:14I was like, I think it's fine.
- 5:16And then I was like, eh, that didn't work for me.
- 5:17So I was like uninformed at the time and just kind of figuring it out, right?
- 5:21Trying to be like an activist and helping tend to the earth as I can as a responsible
- 5:26human.
- 5:27But I was eating like, I always was health minded.
- 5:30In my mind, healthy was like, I always had a protein.
- 5:33So I always had steak or chicken or something.
- 5:34And then I would eat like a lot of like raw broccoli in college or like try to eat avocado
- 5:38but it was actually too fatty for me, couldn't digest it.
- 5:41And so I didn't forget those things until much later.
- 5:43And now I eat like a very high fat meat based diet with local and seasonal vegetables.
- 5:48But what made the difference from not being able to tolerate fat to then being able
- 5:53to tolerate fat?
- 5:54Because I have a feeling that's also led you to what you're doing now.
- 5:58Oh, yeah.
- 5:59For sure.
- 6:00I mean, the healing process, it was just a continuous unfolding.
- 6:03So obviously I was very inspired by the immediate results that I got from just starting to
- 6:07eat local meat.
- 6:08Like once I started shopping local, I never went back to conventional meat.
- 6:11It was just like, oh, I'm always going to have this relationship with my farmer, which
- 6:14I found very valuable.
- 6:16I'm always going to prioritize this at any income level.
- 6:19And I'm going to just like scrap my way to getting the quality meats.
- 6:22And those results were showing through my body.
- 6:24So what I know now about dealing my gallbladder and essentially helping myself digest fats
- 6:29is that you need healthy fats to have your gallbladder work properly.
- 6:34And things like meat stock, eating more butter, increasing my fat slowly are actually the
- 6:38things that helped me to have a functioning healthy gallbladder digest those fats and
- 6:43thus use the fat soluble vitamins to heal my brain.
- 6:46There are so many doctors that are removing people's gallbladders and then they don't
- 6:51actually tell them, oh, you can't digest fat now.
- 6:56And they don't give them any support around it because they don't, it's not even talked
- 6:59about.
- 7:00Yeah, it's crazy.
- 7:01The amount of women that just get their gallbladder removed on a whim or like basically they're
- 7:06having a gallbladder attack, which I've had before.
- 7:08It's so painful.
- 7:09So you go to the emergency room, but usually by the time you get to the emergency room,
- 7:13your gallbladder has already passed the stone.
- 7:15So there's no need to remove the gallbladder, but they do it anyway.
- 7:19And then luckily your liver can actually create a little pouch, which can secrete bile.
- 7:24So your liver can grow a little pouch, which does a little bit of help.
- 7:28But yeah, you really need to then rely on ox bile supplements your whole life and your
- 7:32time you eat dietary fat.
- 7:33It's a huge deal to take out your gallbladder.
- 7:37In case there's people that are listening or watching that are just like, I have gallbladder
- 7:41issues, like what have you found is usually the cause for so many gallbladder issues?
- 7:48Well, the cause is typically low in poor fat diets.
- 7:52So a diet like I was raised eating like seed oils, canola oil.
- 7:56I didn't eat a ton of fat in my diet and toxins, right?
- 8:00So toxins come in and all of that create these like little balls that are stuck in our
- 8:05bile ducts and we're not eating any fat.
- 8:07So we're not using that literal muscle to produce the bile to push out those stones and
- 8:11they just get stuck there.
- 8:13So then let's now dive into really what you kind of specialize in, right?
- 8:18Which is supporting parents who have just had kids or about to have kids and supporting
- 8:24their kids into their first foods and beyond.
- 8:27But kind of made you focus on that initially.
- 8:31The really beautiful part about babies is that they bring forth so much truth and light
- 8:37to your situation.
- 8:38So when my son was born, he was born in the hospital system and by Cicerian and he reflected
- 8:45symptoms right back to me and I really was determined to have answers and just like,
- 8:51wow, if this could happen to me, I'm a relatively informed person when it comes to natural
- 8:56health and the doctor sent me home with like laxatives and painkillers and like, there's
- 9:01no discussion about what's happened to my son's microbiome, what's happened to my
- 9:05bronchrobiome.
- 9:06You know, I just had like a huge surgical procedure and I'm left with no information and
- 9:12I really want to get this out there that there is actually very important steps to take
- 9:17for people.
- 9:18And so once I started talking about my son's journey, my own birth, that really just
- 9:23changed the trajectory of my business because people wanted to share it so much because
- 9:28I believe that it's happening.
- 9:30So many women can relate to having the birth, you know, that they didn't want.
- 9:34So I've spun it into a web of good, which is wonderful and I've since had another baby
- 9:38born at home with no medical intervention and both my children are really well adapted
- 9:44and thriving and happy.
- 9:45But I always want to give parents the tools to take back their power and I believe that
- 9:49starts in the kitchen.
- 9:51I love it.
- 9:52Well, before we get right to those tools, I want to ask you, what is your philosophy
- 9:59around that idea because we also, our first born was also born in the hospital, not intended.
- 10:05It was really hard emotionally, particularly for me because I wasn't, you know, drugged
- 10:10up at that point.
- 10:12So I cried a lot when my wife was getting prepared to go get the cesarean.
- 10:17I just cried because it was not the birth story that we wanted in.
- 10:21So I'm just kind of curious, what philosophy have you taken on since you've experienced
- 10:24that?
- 10:25And then of course, now you're working with so many families.
- 10:27Are you familiar with that thought of like, well, the baby comes into the world, how
- 10:31they need to come in and do you buy that or what's your philosophy on that?
- 10:36I don't buy that in regards to a C section, particularly in my case.
- 10:40I can only speak to mine, but, you know, also if we look at the statistics of cesareans,
- 10:44they're much higher than they need to be.
- 10:46I believe that my situation was a case of just fear, not being prepared, myself not
- 10:55being prepared in terms of having the right team around me to say, you know, somebody
- 10:59to go forehead to forehead with me and say, Kate, this is just a part of the process.
- 11:03You've got this.
- 11:04We're hunkering in.
- 11:06Instead, my energy was met with, oh, I'm afraid of this too.
- 11:10We have to transfer once we got to the hospital.
- 11:12It was really a lot of dead ends.
- 11:15And I feel that both my son and I were robbed from the experience of a lifetime, which is
- 11:20a vaginal birth.
- 11:21And I'm a 100% healthy woman.
- 11:24I believe there are so small ranges of emergency cases that do require surgical birth.
- 11:30And I don't see that that was the case for my son and I, of course, we can never know.
- 11:36But I think that I mourn his birth, you know, I celebrate his life.
- 11:41And I am going to help him the best that I possibly can.
- 11:46But I think that ultimately we were both robbed of an experience that is once in a lifetime.
- 11:52I feel that and I hear you on that.
- 11:55Let's dive into the person that's listening or watching that has had this, let's give
- 12:01them a little uplift of like, okay, if you just had it or maybe recently, what are some
- 12:08things they should be thinking about?
- 12:10And I think this will also help the person that hasn't had the child yet.
- 12:13That maybe is pregnant right now.
- 12:14And who may be in a scenario where they have to have a certain, so let's dive into what
- 12:19should we as parents be thinking about and really preparing for when the unexpected accessory
- 12:25happens?
- 12:26Absolutely.
- 12:27So the first thing that I like to do in this case is remove the moral from it.
- 12:32It's not a good or a bad that you have had a sister, you're not a good or a bad mom
- 12:36because you've had a sister and you just have had one and we need to look at the physiologic
- 12:40truth of this, right?
- 12:42There is absolutely something that has changed in your body and there's something that has
- 12:46been different with your child's body because they don't go through the motions of birth
- 12:51as birth is meant to be and they are not also contacting the microbes.
- 12:55So there's many, many ways that I have worked to heal the pain that has come from having
- 13:01the cesarean birth as well as the physical changes that have occurred in my body.
- 13:07All of those drugs were huge.
- 13:08I mean, I was just thinking about this the other day, like I'm such a clean living person.
- 13:13I eat this beautiful diet that it worked so hard on.
- 13:16I prepared my body for two years, both my husband and I before we had our baby and then
- 13:21we just got like morphine, fetinol and antibiotics, stomach acid reducing drug, like so many things
- 13:28that are just way far out from the realm of my everyday life and that's really intense
- 13:33that like our system is there.
- 13:36But I don't want to shame mothers or really even shame myself because that was just that
- 13:41was the path.
- 13:43So acceptance is key and after that, we can really get to work with some very nourishing
- 13:49foods that help the body repair.
- 13:51So tissue building foods are very, very important after any birth and especially a cesarean as
- 13:56tissue has been cut, but in vaginal birth, there's tears that happen, there's expansion
- 14:01and we want this like super supple tissue to go back to its holding and so we need a lot
- 14:07of collagen rich foods and that's actually very convenient because our baby also means
- 14:12those collagen rich foods and so breastfeeding is something that came really easily for me
- 14:17luckily even after a cesarean and I was eating so much nutrient dense foods which was passing
- 14:24to my baby and helping him heal.
- 14:26So that is like the foundation of Post Burr foods.
- 14:30We really want to emphasize the collagen rich cuts of meat, meat close to the bone, lots
- 14:35of animal fats that's going to warm and nourish your system and help tissues rebuild.
- 14:39Excellent.
- 14:40And just so we cover it in case anyone doesn't know, when you mentioned the microbes, when
- 14:46the baby's being born, you're talking about the microbes that are in the vaginal tract
- 14:50right as the baby's coming out.
- 14:52Absolutely.
- 14:53And the vaginal flora informs or seeds the baby's microbiome.
- 14:56So you're passing on your microbiome all the good and all the bad to your baby and your
- 15:00partner is also contributing their microbiome because mother and father or whatever the arrangement
- 15:05is, they have sexual contact and that makes like a mix of a microbiome and that informs
- 15:12the baby's microbiome.
- 15:13So when the baby's born, they're covered in all of the birth and that is basically setting
- 15:19their gut up for life.
- 15:20And there's a lot of talk about the first one thousand days.
- 15:23So that includes all the time in the womb and up until the child is about two years old
- 15:28and that's the most formative for shaping the microbiome and ultimately shaping the palate
- 15:33and in my understanding, shaping the immune system as well as the brain health.
- 15:37I love it.
- 15:38So what kind of foods do you recommend people should be focusing on during that?
- 15:42You said how many days?
- 15:43A thousand, first one thousand days, yeah.
- 15:45A thousand days.
- 15:46Yeah, so that is in utero and when the baby's born up until they're about two years old
- 15:51and like I started this podcast saying, I healed my gut when I was much later.
- 15:55So if your baby's four, your child's four or six or ten, it's not like you're too late
- 15:59to the party, but we do have a particularly golden opportunity to influence our children
- 16:06in these first one thousand days.
- 16:07So in the womb, you want to be, while the baby's in the womb, you want to be eating lots
- 16:12of nutrient-dense foods so that the baby has adequate nutrition to grow.
- 16:17And that looks like animal-based foods are really, really wonderful.
- 16:20You want to get in your ancestral foods like liver, bone marrow, all the animal fats.
- 16:25I want to make sure you're getting lots of sunshine, touching the earth, good sleep, low
- 16:30toxic load, filter your water, that kind of thing really important.
- 16:34And then on top of that, I would say adding in beneficial strains of yeast and bacteria
- 16:38ideally through fermented foods.
- 16:41So that can look like fermented dairy, things like yogurt, kefir, cultured butter, or it
- 16:47can be vegetables like beets and cabbage, you know, into sauerkraut, fermented carrots,
- 16:52all of those are super lovely.
- 16:54And you want to eat them daily and you want to like make your whole life around them,
- 16:58you know, you can actually put them in your sinuses.
- 17:00You can put kefir on your vaginal wall up until the birth, you know, it's really wonderful
- 17:06to use these fermented foods not just to consume them, but all over the body.
- 17:12And it's so lovely, as you mentioned, because you are helping to shape the palate.
- 17:15One thing I'm always talking to people about is, you know, if you're following the standard
- 17:18American diet, you are skewed towards salty sweet.
- 17:22And that's a lot of times why kids are so picky.
- 17:24It's like they need exposure to these other flavors, the bitter, the sour, the umami.
- 17:30And that's what you're creating when you're eating these foods in utero.
- 17:34And then, of course, you want to continue once the baby's out.
- 17:36And so let's talk about like babies first foods rather than calling it baby lead weaning.
- 17:42I call it microbiome lead weaning.
- 17:44And so we just want to be really particular about what goes into the baby's mouth and what's
- 17:49shaping and feeding the bugs that are inside of us because we have 10 times as many microbial
- 17:55cells as we have human cells.
- 17:56So obviously, the state of that microbial world is very powerful for how we feel as humans,
- 18:02for our babies.
- 18:04The first food that I feed and teach all moms to feed their baby is meat stock.
- 18:08And meat stock is not bone broth.
- 18:10It's different meat stock is made always from a piece of meat with a joint in it.
- 18:18So there's more meat on the bone than your typical idea of a bone broth.
- 18:22And you cook it for a much shorter period of time.
- 18:26So bone broths are 24 or 36 hours meat stock for chicken is one to two hours.
- 18:31You always use a collagenous cut.
- 18:32So my favorites are like feet, next heads and you make a jelly stock.
- 18:37So in the fridge, it's solid and jiggly.
- 18:40And that's the first food because it is full of minerals.
- 18:44It's very collagen rich and it primes digestion for the rest of foods that you try.
- 18:48And it also is a great balancer for the microbiome because it takes care of the mucosal lining,
- 18:55which is the house where the majority of the gut microbes live.
- 18:59Meat stock is so gentle.
- 19:01I think that's a lot of people don't realize that bone broth can be particularly for a digestion
- 19:06system that's delicate or just forming.
- 19:09It can be too intense.
- 19:10Yeah, meat stock is like the primer food.
- 19:13It's the base for everything.
- 19:14So after you have your meat stock that has their first food, then you can go on and make
- 19:18purees out of the meat stock as the base.
- 19:20You can add in layers of animal fat.
- 19:22So if you start with meat stock from a chicken, you might add in a little bit of lard, you
- 19:26might add in a little bit of ghee, you might add in a little bit of coconut oil, mix it
- 19:29up different fats for different days.
- 19:31And then you can go on to pureing vegetables in there.
- 19:34You can add in drops of sauerkraut, brine.
- 19:36So you really start with these powerful liquid foods that are very nutrient dense, but are
- 19:41still so easily assimilated by the body and they also help to build.
- 19:45I make a huge point to teach parents.
- 19:48We want to build the baby's body.
- 19:50We build the body.
- 19:51We give the body building tools and ourselves can regenerate.
- 19:55I mean, babies, they're so generative.
- 19:57So they're just making, making, making all the time, aka growing.
- 20:01And the more tools we give them for that, the more efficient that system is.
- 20:05I had some friends who they were working with a pediatrician, and I think it was a functional,
- 20:12someone that was more functional, but they were all about introducing allergen foods to
- 20:17the baby early with like little pricks, not actually having them eat the food, but they
- 20:22were exposing them, thinking that I guess the philosophy is that the exposure is going
- 20:27to help them early on create the antibodies for it or whatnot.
- 20:31And so to not then be allergic to it later, what is your thought around that?
- 20:36And I'm talking about peanuts, I'm talking about probably other nuts and seeds as well.
- 20:42And even like egg, egg white and yolk.
- 20:45So I kind of go against the grain on this one.
- 20:48I am not a huge fan of nuts before one, even though that's very much pushed.
- 20:53The reason being is because nuts are super hard to digest, they're not necessarily ancestral
- 20:58and they're hard to get into a form that's actually not rancid.
- 21:02The most important thing I emphasize to parents about allergens is understanding why an allergic
- 21:07reaction would happen in the first place.
- 21:09And that comes back to the gut health.
- 21:11So if the gut is functioning and we are able to digest our foods and there is no leaky
- 21:16gut, which is either caused from toxins or undigested food or imbalanced microbes.
- 21:22In leaky gut, let's just explain what that is for anyone that doesn't know.
- 21:24It's actually when the food particles are going into your bloodstream.
- 21:28Correct.
- 21:29And babies, so part of the reason my meat stock is such a good first food is because babies
- 21:32are born with a immature gut.
- 21:35Their gut's not fully formed when they come out of the womb and breast milk helps to heal
- 21:40and seal and continue to form the gut.
- 21:44It closes all those holes further develops the digestive system.
- 21:48So when we transition from breast milk to solids, we really want the foods to continue what
- 21:53breast milk is doing.
- 21:55We want those foods to mimic that, which is why I love meat stock because it's full of
- 21:58that collagen and gelatin, all those amino acids, which can easily become the building
- 22:02box to heal and seal the gut.
- 22:04So if the gut is healed and sealed, that means all food is being properly digested and
- 22:10staying in the digestive tract, whereas an allergen comes from a food being improperly
- 22:15digested, going into the bloodstream and the immune system rightly says, this is not
- 22:20belong here.
- 22:21This is a big deal.
- 22:22I need to flag this.
- 22:23I need to create a reaction in the system so that an alarm is sounded that this food is
- 22:27not the food for me.
- 22:29So in terms of the small microdosing of the foods, I'm fine with that with the proper
- 22:36foundation laid.
- 22:38For example, egg is a very nutrient dense food.
- 22:41Egg is a food that I would want my kid to eat every single day because the nutrient
- 22:45profile is so big and it's really, really good for kids for growth.
- 22:50A nut?
- 22:51I don't care so much about my kid eating a nut.
- 22:53I don't want them to have an anaphylactic reaction to it.
- 22:56But if their body is adequately digesting foods, that's not even in the realm of possibilities.
- 23:02So when it comes to trying egg for the first time, after a couple of weeks of meat stock,
- 23:08we drop a little bit of yolk into the meat stock to make sure that it's just a small amount.
- 23:13We want to test out that reaction.
- 23:15Is this baby going to be reactive to the yolk?
- 23:17If they do have a reaction to it, then we know, okay, we've tried very few foods.
- 23:22Clearly, when we introduce the egg that caused a reaction, let's remove the egg from
- 23:26now.
- 23:27Continue with building foods.
- 23:28We just support the gut and the microbiome and we'll reintroduce the egg just the yolk
- 23:33a couple weeks later and we work like that in slow amounts.
- 23:36There's a reason why the yolk is preferred as a first-interaction to eggs over the whites.
- 23:41Can you share a little bit about that?
- 23:43Absolutely.
- 23:44So the yolk is where all the nutrients are, first of all, it's the most nutrient dense
- 23:47part.
- 23:48It has the vitamin A, it has vitamin D, it has colon, it has B vitamins, it's the best part
- 23:52of the egg.
- 23:53The white is like water and a little bit of protein and it tends to be more reactive
- 23:57to people.
- 23:58It also tends to keylate toxins more so the yolk is just more nutrient dense, less reactive,
- 24:04the white doesn't have as much nutrition and people tend to react to it more.
- 24:09So we start with the yolk first and many people have a lot of success just with the yolks
- 24:13and using this method that we're previously reacting to eggs through breast milk or couldn't
- 24:18tolerate eggs before doing my program and healing the gut.
- 24:23Now you have a specific position around eggs because I guess sometimes parents will face
- 24:30their child saying like, I don't want to eat eggs anymore and I've experienced that,
- 24:34I guess, as an adult where I go through phases of really wanting eggs and sometimes not.
- 24:39But you are positioned specifically around kids that are refusing eggs.
- 24:42Can you talk about that?
- 24:43Yeah, so this was really funny because my son was so into eggs and he loved eggs and
- 24:48it was like it's a staple food for us.
- 24:50And then one day he was just like not into the eggs anymore and I'm like that's so weird
- 24:53and this is like pretty much pre-verbal, you know, maybe had a few sign language things
- 24:57and I'm like, that's weird.
- 24:58So I kind of like was sitting with it for a while, increased the butter.
- 25:01I always think that like, make sure the eggs taste really good, like plenty of butter,
- 25:04plenty of salt.
- 25:05All right, we've got the fat soluble vitamins covered because there's nutrient synergy.
- 25:09So we need to be able to have fats in order to digest and use the really beautiful vitamin
- 25:15A that's in the egg.
- 25:16So butter is really important or any other animal fat if you're having trouble with dairy.
- 25:20But then I thought, okay, well, what if I put this with liver?
- 25:23And I serve him with liver and suddenly he is like gobbling up his eggs again.
- 25:28And so for me, that pings something in my mind like, okay, there must be some sort of nutrition
- 25:33in the liver that helps to digest the egg and therefore he's interested in eating the
- 25:38egg again.
- 25:39Whereas before he had maybe had a little too much of something in the egg and was not
- 25:42interested.
- 25:43And I've since tried this with tons of moms and it works really, really well.
- 25:47And we also use pluck.
- 25:49Cluck is like super easy to just sprinkle on the eggs.
- 25:51My daughter, she'll spit out eggs that are playing.
- 25:53She swallows eggs that have pluck on them.
- 25:55I love you now speaking my love language here.
- 26:00That is fascinating because really what you're talking about is this synergistic properties
- 26:04of food and I don't really get to die that deep with people very often about that.
- 26:08So I want to expand on that.
- 26:10But before we do, because you've now brought up organ meats, I find it fascinating.
- 26:17I've talked to midwives, I've talked to doulas.
- 26:20They all say they can tell when the mother has eaten organ meats because the placenta is
- 26:25beautiful, color wise and size wise.
- 26:29And I also hear the milk production is flowing.
- 26:35It's like really good.
- 26:37What is it that expecting moms and of course parents that are just had a baby should know
- 26:44about organs and what they're not getting from these other foods that they are getting
- 26:49from those?
- 26:51Organ meats historically, if you look at the ancestral patterns, they were always saved
- 26:57for women and children.
- 26:58So there was a knowing that the organs had specific nutrients that we need for the child
- 27:03bearing continuum.
- 27:05And I have found that to be so true in my own lived experience.
- 27:08I have eaten so many organs.
- 27:10I've eaten as much as I can get my hands on.
- 27:13Never had brain because we can't get it here.
- 27:15I'm going to get that for you.
- 27:16I have brain.
- 27:17I'm excited.
- 27:18I have brain.
- 27:19That's a product.
- 27:20We're going to be coming out with cinnamon brain.
- 27:22It'll be my first taste tester.
- 27:24Okay.
- 27:25Perfect.
- 27:26Can't wait.
- 27:27And you know what's so funny actually, I say I can't get brain, but I do get chicken
- 27:28heads and I make meats stock out of those.
- 27:29So there's brain in there.
- 27:30So that's good.
- 27:31Anyway, I love organ meats, liver, postpartum, absolutely brought the life back into me.
- 27:37It was a food that I started my son on as a first food, my daughter as well.
- 27:42And it really is a part of our whole food ethos like we truly eat nose to tail.
- 27:47We truly cook liver in all the ways that you could think of.
- 27:51We just love it.
- 27:52And it wasn't something I always loved.
- 27:53It was something that I learned to love because I knew it was good for me.
- 27:57And it's the most nutrient dense food on the planet, meaning for gram, it has the
- 28:01most wide range of nutrition that we could eat.
- 28:04And it's all found in nature.
- 28:06And so we can digest it too, which is really important.
- 28:09Love it.
- 28:10So going back to synergistic properties of food, babies born, we're now entering first
- 28:17foods.
- 28:18Are there other synergistic things you found egg and liver were very synergistic?
- 28:25Yeah.
- 28:26Other food as baby is growing that you have found are really synergistic to support that
- 28:30microbiome health.
- 28:31Totally.
- 28:32Always animal fats paired with vegetables.
- 28:35So if you're ever serving vegetables, they need to be served with animal fats because
- 28:39any of those plant vitamins that are inside broccoli, for example, are going to be unlocked,
- 28:45served with bone marrow, okay?
- 28:46And we need babies to digest these foods using the animal fat.
- 28:51So that's another synergistic one that's really important.
- 28:53And then the other thing that comes to mind is just like flavor, right?
- 28:56So we want things to taste really good.
- 28:59If you're feeding your baby's food, it should also taste really good to you too, you know?
- 29:02I don't think it needs to be like crazy overseas and especially in the beginning.
- 29:06But it's like, you know, I give my babies warming spices.
- 29:09I like to use things like cumin and ginger and garlic and make my baby's food taste good.
- 29:15My children's food taste good so that they just have a lot of adventurous ways about
- 29:21them.
- 29:23Love it.
- 29:23Yeah.
- 29:24It's so fascinating to me when I meet adults or even kids that just don't have any interest
- 29:30in flavor or they've grown up with eating such bland food that now it's almost scary
- 29:34or too unknown for them.
- 29:37Ultimately, when we start talking about flavor as kids get older, we're really kind of delving
- 29:41into like picky eating and how to either support picky eating or not support it.
- 29:46Have you had a much experience with not only picky eaters, but supporting parents with
- 29:51their picky eaters?
- 29:53Absolutely.
- 29:54First of all, one of the biggest pitches that I make for starting solids this way is that
- 29:58you are literally shaping your child's microbiome and thus shaping their palate.
- 30:03So the microbiome of the mouth, if it's healthy and diverse, it's going to be really excited
- 30:08by different flavors and in nature, flavor equals nutrient density.
- 30:13So liver has a very unique flavor, but it's also the most nutrient dense.
- 30:17So that flavor-packed food is a signal to the body that, oh, this is really good for
- 30:23us, which makes sense because what's been hijacked in modern times is our taste buds.
- 30:28They have made these ultra-processed foods which are chemically laid in to make us have
- 30:33this dopamine hit to continue to go back for more and for more.
- 30:36And that's what's happening with a picky eater.
- 30:38They're not just picky.
- 30:39They're addicted to sugar and that has to do with their microbiome.
- 30:42So my picky eater approach is all about the microbiome health.
- 30:46I talk about changing the family culture, which is both around, you know, what is your
- 30:51attitude around food, how is the family gathering around the table, how are the children involved
- 30:57in the food practices, and also, let's not lie to ourselves and say that certain foods
- 31:01are as nutritious as others, right, because the bean is not as nutritious as steak.
- 31:06And so we have to be real with that and understand how the body uses nutrients, how the body
- 31:11digest foods, and that's going to help you understand which battles you need to pick
- 31:15with your children and which ones you just need to leave behind and let the body lead
- 31:20the way.
- 31:21Yeah.
- 31:22I love it.
- 31:23So you're clearly not a fan of dino-shaped chicken nuggets.
- 31:26No.
- 31:27I don't understand how anyone gets results with that.
- 31:29I think it's just appeasing the child.
- 31:32I assume that you're also a fan of like there is no kid menu.
- 31:36It's people menu, right?
- 31:38Totally.
- 31:39Yeah.
- 31:40My kids have never eaten off the kid menu.
- 31:41He eats oyster steak, clam.
- 31:42We actually, on the menu, we're just looking for the least toxic thing on the menu.
- 31:46That's typically what we're trying to figure out because it's hard to go to places that
- 31:51don't use seed oils or don't use sugar.
- 31:55We're trying to find the nutrient dense food that doesn't have something that's going
- 31:58to make his body eat.
- 32:00Yeah.
- 32:01Which is hopefully going to start improving, but yes, it's challenging.
- 32:05The reality is is that kid menus are designed not for nutritional density, they're designed
- 32:10for price, right?
- 32:11Right.
- 32:12And entertainment.
- 32:13Yeah.
- 32:14Everyone just assumes that like when you go out to dinner, you pretty much just want your
- 32:17kid to like not scream at the table and that means like appeasing them and I have a completely
- 32:21different perspective on, you know, just how children belong in society.
- 32:25I think that's disrespectful to give a child a French fry that's basically a mop for toxic
- 32:30oils and unrefined salt and a breaded chicken that's covered in glyphosate.
- 32:36I think that's horrible.
- 32:37How do you navigate a topic that both disturbs me?
- 32:42You know, I have some solutions, but I fear is kind of a part of our food system, the
- 32:48way it's structured right now, which is the idea of you have to be wealthy to be healthy
- 32:54because some of these foods that we're talking about, they are more expensive.
- 32:58Some of these restaurants that serve these things are more expensive.
- 33:02Some people don't have the time or I should say they could have the time, but they don't
- 33:06make the time and potentially have the knowledge of making a lot of these foods from scratch.
- 33:12So they're looking for that quick fix, but what are some kind of cost-effective tools that
- 33:18you've found that not only support people's time, but also their wallet?
- 33:22Yeah, we live our priorities every single day.
- 33:25So if you want to prioritize home cooking, you're going to have to prioritize it and
- 33:29simply just start where you are.
- 33:31I rely so much on ground beef, ground pork, and organ meats that we get the heads for
- 33:37two dollars a pound.
- 33:38We buy the skin.
- 33:39I look, I say, oh, you have boneless, skinless, chicken breasts.
- 33:41Where do you do with the skin?
- 33:42Oh, we throw it away.
- 33:43Okay.
- 33:44I'd like to buy that from you.
- 33:45Thank you.
- 33:46I make delicious crispy skin chips for my kids and we dip them in avocado dip, something
- 33:52like that.
- 33:53Cheap cuts of meat are always going to be heavily relying on the ground.
- 33:56Getting the organs, those are also going to be sold very affordably to you using the
- 34:02bones, that kind of thing.
- 34:04If you are not in a place to buy all of your stuff locally or you can't invest fully in
- 34:09regenerative agriculture, still buy meat, still buy from the grocery store.
- 34:14Like I'm pro meat, no matter where you can get it, because I think that once you start
- 34:20to genuinely make all your home cooked meals, you stop relying on processed foods, even
- 34:24if you're buying meat, just regular from the grocery store, you're going to start to
- 34:28see a change in your health and eventually your body is going to say, I think I want
- 34:32to upgrade this and you're going to find a way to make that grass-fed meat happen because
- 34:36the body breeds health.
- 34:38We just want health.
- 34:39We go towards health.
- 34:40We get more health.
- 34:41And I find that with my people who are not able to start buying all regenerative, which
- 34:45hello was me in the beginning to, eventually their body just leads them to a certain way
- 34:51and they feel way better because of it.
- 34:53Yes, thank you so much for spreading that message.
- 34:56I'm always telling people, we cannot only focus on, you know, is it regenerative?
- 35:01Is it 100% grass-fed and let that dictate whether we eat something or not, like sometimes
- 35:07even the stress around that is freezing us from making the right choice and the right
- 35:11choice is just get the animal product in, get that nutrient-dense food into you and
- 35:16let that affect your health and help support the next decision you make.
- 35:21Exactly.
- 35:22I'm avoiding it because it's too expensive or doesn't fit what, you know, influencer
- 35:27A in social media has told you is this is the only option, you know?
- 35:31Absolutely.
- 35:32And I also think that the other part that's really important to this is the community aspect
- 35:37of actually meeting your farmer.
- 35:39And so like going and building relationship is going to help you understand that process
- 35:43even more and it's going to connect the dots for you for a bigger picture of what's actually
- 35:47happening with our food system.
- 35:50And I think that honestly, it was my favorite part about changing my diet and I started
- 35:55to teach it thinking like, oh, people maybe are not going to like this or whatever.
- 35:59And they come back to me and they're like, hey, I love my beef farmer.
- 36:01I talk to them every week and you know, it's just, it's so fun that they have this whole
- 36:06new perspective on food, it's no longer a chore, it's a gift.
- 36:10And like you said earlier, it exposes you to new cuts of the animal, right?
- 36:15Yeah.
- 36:16I know that you would never get at the butcher shop, particularly at a more conventional market.
- 36:22So there was this comment on one of the posts about picky eating.
- 36:26I saw and I wanted to share what this person asked or what their experience is.
- 36:32What they were recommended by the pediatricians and the school counselors to do.
- 36:36And I would love to hear the feedback you would have given this person.
- 36:40This person says both their kids are picky eaters, they asked multiple pediatricians and
- 36:46the school counselor and they all said the same thing.
- 36:49They said, give them 30 minutes to finish their food.
- 36:52If they don't finish, take it away and repeat the same for the meals after and the person
- 36:56states how he and his wife are just throwing away all this food and they hate it.
- 37:02Here is a fight with the kids that it's a kind of a constant thing.
- 37:06So that was very interesting feedback that these pediatricians and school counselors are
- 37:11giving.
- 37:12It's not at all how I would handle it.
- 37:14So how would you handle it?
- 37:15Yeah.
- 37:16So these are school age children.
- 37:18Yes.
- 37:19My first inclination is to really get the kids involved in the cooking because they're
- 37:25at an age where they have some agency, they have skills, they have hands.
- 37:28And I have seen so many times where parents just take a food that they're typically used
- 37:32to eating.
- 37:33Let's say chicken nuggets and it comes from a bag, you take some ground beef and ground
- 37:37pork, mix it together, get the kids hands in there, add some pluck seasoning, do a pork
- 37:42grind, breading, fried and lard, and let your kids taste those homemade chicken nuggets
- 37:48that you've been made together.
- 37:49You have a nutrient and smell on your hand.
- 37:51That's something that's familiar for them and they made it themselves.
- 37:55So it's a win all around.
- 37:56I see that kids are much more willing to try foods when they have experience making it
- 38:02and when also the parents are involved in showing that they really want to do this too.
- 38:07It's a great first and fourth step for parents to take their kids down that journey of participation
- 38:13in the kitchen and making the food, trying the different food at different stages as well,
- 38:18the raw stage, the cook stage, you know, thinking like vegetables like taste a bell pepper
- 38:22before it's cooked.
- 38:23Now it's cooked.
- 38:24Now it's with fat.
- 38:25But for the parent that let's just say they don't have the time yet to do that, right?
- 38:30They've made the meal.
- 38:32Do you have a certain philosophy that you apply in your own house like, hey, when meals
- 38:38are cooked, this is how we treat it.
- 38:40For example, are you making, if your kid says, hey, I don't want this food, which obviously
- 38:45your kids aren't doing, but let's just say a parent says that, my kid's not eating this
- 38:49food.
- 38:50I don't have the time to include them in the cooking because we have 30 minutes and this
- 38:54little kid will make it take an hour, right?
- 38:56It's a good kind of philosophy that they should have in the household around like making
- 39:01meals.
- 39:02Clearly, we don't want them making multiple meals.
- 39:05Is it kind of like you eat what you get or you just don't eat?
- 39:09How would you kind of coach that parent?
- 39:12My approach is definitely leaning towards the parental authority.
- 39:17So you have to own your authority as a parent.
- 39:19You have to be clear about what your food values are for your kids.
- 39:24When a food is served, that is what is served.
- 39:27So I don't make any other options.
- 39:29I don't recommend children or parents have other options with the exception of a few
- 39:33foods.
- 39:34So we all have desires and taste preferences, right?
- 39:38At any time of the day, my son can have scrambled eggs with butter and he can have meat stock.
- 39:43He can have beacovass or he can have kefir.
- 39:46So if any four of those options appeal to him over what my husband and I have made for
- 39:51him, he may have that option.
- 39:53But generally speaking, families and food, they should be tied together.
- 39:59So I would really want to understand like, okay, a parent gives me something that they
- 40:03say, no, we don't have time to cook with our kids.
- 40:06Okay, I think that really is an excuse.
- 40:08So we're going to make the time to create these rituals around food that actually change
- 40:13the food culture of the family.
- 40:15Because I don't see picky eating as just one thing.
- 40:17Yes, the microbiome is a piece of it.
- 40:19Because there is food addiction in these crazy like hijacked taste buds, right?
- 40:24But it's more than that.
- 40:26It's a family affair, food equals family and we really need to bring families together
- 40:30on this.
- 40:31And if food is dividing your family, there is something else going on and so I would
- 40:35really workshop that.
- 40:38Love that answer.
- 40:39Wow.
- 40:40Yes, sometimes it's an indication of there's a crack in the foundation.
- 40:45It is a together thing.
- 40:47So like for us, yes, there's healing foods, there's preferences, sometimes soggy ones scrambled
- 40:52eggs.
- 40:53Okay, we'll make you scrambled eggs.
- 40:53But typically after he eats scrambled eggs, he's like, oh, I have the soup.
- 40:56I mean, we just rarely are getting food refusal from him.
- 40:59And I truly think that has to do with how my husband and I revolve our lives around
- 41:03our foods and how important and special it becomes for our family.
- 41:07And also his microbiome, how I set it up.
- 41:10Regardless that he had a C section, I was able to heal and bring balance to the system
- 41:14so that he's an incredibly adventurous eater whose favorite food is clams.
- 41:19What you bring up on your point, so you healed his gut.
- 41:23What are the signs that a parent is looking for or is it just through testing?
- 41:29No testing.
- 41:30I don't do any testing in my practice.
- 41:31I just use my eyes and there's a couple things that I would go through.
- 41:35So sleep, poop, mood and behavior and skin.
- 41:39So those four things are going to be constantly kind of like running through a little checklist
- 41:45weekly, daily, how is he doing?
- 41:48And you can really tell like some things get cleared up right away.
- 41:51For example, my son chronically spit up my breast milk.
- 41:54I changed my diet three months in and that reduced the spitting up like 80%.
- 42:00And then he took his first sip of chicken meat stock, which I made for him.
- 42:05He did one big belt and never spit up again.
- 42:07So it was like very obvious.
- 42:09His stomach lining was damaged.
- 42:11There was something going on.
- 42:13East overgrowth is most likely.
- 42:15He has cradle cap.
- 42:16So I saw that too occasionally had rashes that would come up and stick around.
- 42:20And so I just constantly attending to those nutritionally and really opening up his detox
- 42:27pathway so that it can continue to come out of the body and trusting that this system
- 42:31will continue to heal him because it does and will.
- 42:34So how do I know he's there basically behavioral things, sleep patterns, instead of being
- 42:41constipated, he poops every day, that kind of situation.
- 42:44So we just go through the symptoms like that and start to remedy them one by one.
- 42:49When you say sleep patterns like eight to 10 hours a night, you know that he's, you're
- 42:5312 hours a night.
- 42:54Okay.
- 42:55Yeah.
- 42:56I was going to say because for a little kid that's you want it longer.
- 42:58Point being though that you're seeing consistent sleep that he's staying asleep the whole
- 43:04time.
- 43:05He's not waking up all the time.
- 43:07Correct.
- 43:08And there's going to be different pain points for different people.
- 43:10So like some people, the skin is like the most, the biggest marker, for example.
- 43:15So if their skin is, it has eczema, the gut's not done healing.
- 43:20For my son, it's more, it leans more towards behavior and stool.
- 43:24So I look at those things as a measure.
- 43:26He doesn't have much skin issues and he's a really good sleeper.
- 43:29So what I'm saying is that like not everyone's going to have a problem with skin, not
- 43:32everyone's going to have a problem with sleep, but we always look back to the gut digestion
- 43:37in the nutrient and foods as a part of the holistic healing.
- 43:41We only know what we know, right?
- 43:42So I'm so helping that parents that are not exposed to the, you know, functional nutrition
- 43:47that aren't looking at life like that are listing this because a lot of times what's
- 43:52happening and I'm thinking directly of one of my daughter's friends early on when we
- 43:56lived in Portland, Oregon, she was overweight, clearly had health stuff going on.
- 44:02And her parents were noticing ADHD kind of behavior in school and instead of looking at
- 44:08the gut and what they're feeding her, the pediatrician said, well, let's get her on
- 44:13medication.
- 44:14And I fought them with it.
- 44:15I mean, I didn't fight, but I was like, I challenged them on it.
- 44:18I was like, please, you guys like do A before you do, you know, Z, you know, got thing
- 44:24like.
- 44:25So is there something you can just impart to the parent that is seeing these symptoms?
- 44:29Like what are some of the things that most parents are experiencing that they're thinking,
- 44:34oh, I should go to the doctor and this is not related to food.
- 44:38Like you're really here to say, no, no, this is related to the gut and it's related
- 44:41to what you're feeding them.
- 44:43So what are some of those things?
- 44:45Is it just everything or let's, maybe we can encapsulate the top things that most parents
- 44:49are experiencing with their kids that are probably food related and gut related?
- 44:53Absolutely.
- 44:54So eczema is often times food related, but more so it's gut related.
- 45:00So people will be like, but is it really just the food, Kate, is it really just the food?
- 45:04Not necessarily.
- 45:05It's what the food is feeding, which is the microbes.
- 45:07So the microbes can off gas all sorts of toxins and those toxins then have to be dealt
- 45:12with by the body, the liver.
- 45:14That just puts another layer of burden on and all the other functions can't be optimized.
- 45:19So eczema is one that we always want to look at gut health and then there's co-infections
- 45:23on the skin with eczema that come because the pH of the skin is off because there's
- 45:27dysbiosis on the skin, which is why I talk about working from the inside out and the outside
- 45:31in.
- 45:32Constipation.
- 45:33That's a huge one.
- 45:34So many kids are dealing with constipation and they go to the doctor and they get mirror
- 45:37lax.
- 45:38And mirror lax is dangerous.
- 45:39You're not going to help solve your kid's constipation and there are natural remedies that
- 45:43can help your baby's poop come out of their body and then there's long term things that
- 45:48we put in place underneath that so that your children's constipation is not ongoing.
- 45:53Because this is yes absolutely tied to the gallbladder.
- 45:56Like we initially talked about in the first part of the podcast, if there's a congested
- 46:00gallbladder in the mom, there's likely going to be a congested gallbladder in the baby.
- 46:04It's related to our melatonin, our sunlight exposure.
- 46:06It's related to the microbes that are contained inside of our gut.
- 46:10And so all of those things we want to look at, it's related to hydration, it's related
- 46:14to minerals.
- 46:15So all of that we want to approach and we can use food fully to address that.
- 46:20Not rely on a band aid fix that's going to create more problems in other organ systems
- 46:24down the line.
- 46:25Another one I think is picky eating, right?
- 46:27I have that microbiome approach, I have that whole family approach.
- 46:31Everything I do is really involved in the mother and the baby and I always teach moms
- 46:35like, this is the canary in the coal mine.
- 46:38Your baby is finally putting in front of you a symptom that you likely needed to solve
- 46:42years ago.
- 46:43And here it is and you're ready to listen because it's your precious baby who's crying out
- 46:47for your help.
- 46:48And that happened to me, you know, that's so powerful.
- 46:51And it can be life changing for everyone, for the whole family, those symptoms are teachers
- 46:57and they resolve so quickly and your babies can thrive and it can impact not only this
- 47:01generation, but future generation.
- 47:03So that is my message for parents.
- 47:06It's like we have the power in our hands and we are the ones who are designed and equipped
- 47:10to solve these problems.
- 47:12Yes, indeed, empowering parents.
- 47:15Before we get off, I do want to touch base on one topic that I personally find very
- 47:20fascinating.
- 47:21I'm just very, I'm just curious what your perspective is on it.
- 47:24So there's this idea, you know, I say this quote a lot when I'm on podcasts, but it's
- 47:28like Dr. Bill Schindler, he talks about how we are the only species in the world that
- 47:33looks to someone else to tell us what to eat.
- 47:36It's even more poignant when you think about how many species there are in the world,
- 47:39there's over 8 million.
- 47:41So clearly, at one point in our evolution, we did know what to eat.
- 47:46We were not so influenced by this marketing and franken food machine that is really only
- 47:53150 years old or something like that, right?
- 47:56So the question that I sometimes think about is like, well, when we are kids, before we're
- 48:03really influenced, now granted, we are sometimes influenced if we're eating like that standard
- 48:07American diet or we're already being exposed to some of these ultra-processed foods, we
- 48:12have been influenced.
- 48:14But a lot of times, that's when we're at a pure estate, our uninfluenced state.
- 48:19And so there is this thought that if a kid is like, I don't want to eat this, right?
- 48:25And they just constantly refuse it, that actually may be like an indication of like, well,
- 48:31they actually know their body better than the parent.
- 48:34Like what is your thought around that?
- 48:36I think there's a lot of validity in that with the little caveat of the microbiome.
- 48:41So what's going on with their microbiome, what's going on with their overall health and
- 48:45what choices do they have and what choices are they refusing?
- 48:49So for example, with the baby example, if a baby is started only on bananas and other
- 48:54pureed fruits like many babies are told to start on, and then you introduce meat stock
- 48:59and the baby doesn't like meat stock and refuses it three, four or five times, I'm not
- 49:03really surprised by that because the baby has had sweet breast milk or formula or bananas.
- 49:10So of course, when they first taste this savory food that's meat stock, they might have
- 49:13a little bit of an adverse reaction to it.
- 49:16Zoom out to a child who's four years old who has severe autism and puts that meat stock
- 49:22in their mouth, that is actually going to be causing a die-off reaction in their mouth,
- 49:26which could be physically very uncomfortable.
- 49:29And so there are these considerations to take into when it comes to the microbiome and
- 49:34how that influences our taste and our preferences.
- 49:37And I do genuinely believe that the body knows what's best.
- 49:42So once we're able to get on track with healing foods and there aren't really symptoms presenting,
- 49:47absolutely.
- 49:48I can trust my son's body and what he desires.
- 49:50I don't really give him that choice because he's two and a half and I'm in charge.
- 49:54And so I'm cooking heart and I'm cooking steak and I'm cooking broccoli and like you're
- 49:58eating that, right?
- 50:00But to an extent, I value what he brings to the table in terms of what he wants to eat.
- 50:06If I let him, he would want to eat bananas all day long.
- 50:08But I'm not going to let him eat bananas all day long because that doesn't have the
- 50:11nutrition that makes him son to be around or sleep good.
- 50:14It changes his poop, right?
- 50:15And so I really let him have a banana later.
- 50:19Yes, you can have a banana later.
- 50:21That's my feeling on that.
- 50:23You do bring me bring up one last question because we're talking about empowerment.
- 50:27We're talking about looking for our kids for signs of gut issues, thus inspiring the
- 50:35things that we need to do for gut healing because you have a two-year-old.
- 50:39Do you have a child older than that?
- 50:41I have a two and a half year old, almost three and a one year old so far.
- 50:45So you are not necessarily there yet, which is what do we do when our kids go to school
- 50:52and we no longer have control over what they eat?
- 50:54Now, if you're homeschooling great, but if you're not, that's the position we are all
- 50:59in.
- 51:00And it becomes the biggest disappointment in hurdle that we have to kind of get over philosophically
- 51:06of like, oh, our place is not necessarily to control our children's decisions, but really
- 51:13give them a foundation of what their body feels like when they get nourishing food.
- 51:18Would you agree?
- 51:19Absolutely.
- 51:20So an example is like I grew up eating like sour patch kids, Skittle is totally addicted
- 51:25to candy.
- 51:26All that stuff.
- 51:27If I smell a sour patch kid now, it smells toxic and chemically to me.
- 51:31It's disgusting, right?
- 51:32It doesn't make me feel like, oh, I'm sneaking a treat and having like this sour patch kid.
- 51:37Like, no, it doesn't feel like that at all.
- 51:39It feels like a toxic chemical weird gummy thing that I'd rather not have.
- 51:44So the idea here is that I've set my son up for success.
- 51:47His body knows health.
- 51:48He knows what to go back to is he going to try the blue icing probably.
- 51:52Is that going to register as a treat likely not?
- 51:55So that's kind of my goal.
- 51:56And then we just educate our children, you know, we talk to them about the farmer's
- 52:00market.
- 52:01It's a good butcher.
- 52:02So like, it's just a part of our ethos.
- 52:04Some people used to say to me like, oh, your kid's going to grow up in BV again.
- 52:08It's like probably not.
- 52:09Like you wouldn't look at a family of musicians and say, oh, your child's going to hate music
- 52:13when they grow up.
- 52:14It's just like, that's our family's culture.
- 52:16And like, our kid's going to experiment, try things, be out in the world, be free, have
- 52:19them at their own money.
- 52:20Yes, they are.
- 52:21And I'm just going to have to accept and trust and be proud of what, you know, all the
- 52:27effort that I put in and check back with me in 10 years.
- 52:29I'll tell you.
- 52:30I love it.
- 52:31Well, and then you should be proud.
- 52:33You're not only are you modeling what's possible, but you're helping other people.
- 52:39And so thank you for all the work you're doing.
- 52:42It's been truly a pleasure talking with you.
- 52:44So fun.
- 52:45Thank you so much.
- 52:46Yeah.
- 52:47Well, thank you for joining us and thank you all for joining us on everyday ancestral.
- 52:51Tell your friends, get the word out.
- 52:53This is important stuff.
- 52:54We got to spread the word about how food affects our health.
- 52:57It's one of the most important messages I believe we can do.
- 53:01We're all experiencing health issues, but we're not realizing that we have the power
- 53:06to change them without going to other people, without going to doctors, without taking pharmaceuticals
- 53:11that you can change them by just be more mindful of what you put in your body.
- 53:15So thank you, Kate, for spreading that message.
- 53:18And thank you all for joining us on this journey.
- 53:21Stay curious.
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