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- 0:00In the middle of after the Rama discussing over here about the
- 0:08out about the name Manos and a woman, a woman who says who says
- 0:15she's Tamaya. So she says she's Tamaya.
- 0:18Then the question is she gives it a Masla to or they say in the
- 0:23start to pronounce I'm Tala whatever I'm Tala at least here
- 0:31whatever that that they she gives an excuse to why she said
- 0:36it so then she would be in their menace.
- 0:41However, the IT says the the driver says about Imbra, Ruha,
- 0:45Loveshi, spaghetti and Yuhotin. Many does if they see that she's
- 0:49wearing clothing, which is Yuhotin for so her avidation not
- 0:59a mastole at Vareja either she says, Oh no, I did it because of
- 1:03this or that whatever Internet menace, because it because
- 1:12either, you know, either it's some say it's because she again,
- 1:15I mentioned this before that she has to give the the master to
- 1:18everyone and not everyone's going to know it's either it's a
- 1:20Dinder Aban and some say it's a Dinder right.
- 1:23So because it's a Helzaca, is it Mama?
- 1:27It's a little bit a little bit of a finish.
- 1:33Let's say Alan Moss is mice a Cooley high to put on you know,
- 1:37her big Denita again, nowadays people, you know, obviously
- 1:40there's no you know, whatever this is not a woman don't wear
- 1:44big Denita, but is you know, then that's the problem.
- 1:53Although the Shah said, unless you know, there's a certain you
- 1:57know, it's it's it's OK again with everything.
- 2:01If it's obvious that this was the only way to go ahead and to
- 2:04take care of the issue and and you know, it's and there's a
- 2:07reason why she had to, you know, do basically high.
- 2:12So then that would work also that's question the police
- 2:16scheme, whatever she separates the beds.
- 2:18I don't really understand. You know, also maybe that would
- 2:21that she can't be closer from that.
- 2:23I don't know why what you know, like you can say, yeah, I
- 2:26separated the beds. If I drop my earring in the
- 2:28floor, like I don't know, you know, separated the beds all the
- 2:31way. I was looking for something and
- 2:32the kids came in their eyes like, you know, I don't think
- 2:35it's the same. It's the same thing as as
- 2:38wearing, you know, you know, you know, wearing the, you know,
- 2:44wearing big thing, neither armour Ploni Hochum T Hurley
- 2:47Kassam. She said, listen, you know the
- 2:50the Rav so this castle's motor, she was Shakira.
- 2:55I never I never I never, I never was back for such a thing.
- 2:58Hakan Nehman, it's Mehi. In this case Hakam is born in
- 3:04Nehman, even though you would suffer law and she has name name
- 3:08on us. In this case, Hakam is is Nehman
- 3:16now the the McCord the McCord the McCord this discussion.
- 3:19But the but there's a did of ABPA.
- 3:22It's a did in for example, in in in Evanescer talks about if
- 3:28someone says, you know that you know, he says I spoke to the and
- 3:33this and this woman's married and they speak to the to the OR
- 3:39speak to the guy or let's say no, it was a call.
- 3:41Sorry, it was one guy, ABPA guy. I spoke to the guy.
- 3:44He was by the whatever he was the 8 whatever it was.
- 3:48So it's called ABP aid. So in that case, you know, or
- 3:54it's like 2 agents said this guy says she's married.
- 3:57So you go back to the guy who says no, I never said that.
- 4:00So so the whole since the whole binion of the aiders is built
- 4:03upon upon, you know, on on this person's statement.
- 4:08So Nuffala binion, the whole thing, the whole thing falls
- 4:11apart. The social aware.
- 4:12It's not that the huckle is more than menace in the Isha, but
- 4:16since she's toiler, she's told her name Manos that she's
- 4:20terreira on this Hakam. So and you go to the Hakam, he
- 4:24says I never said such a thing. So then then we can in that
- 4:28case, the you know, that case we get we don't we can't believe
- 4:32within her name Manos falls apart.
- 4:35Is that because she's just saying the Hakam is That's one
- 4:38thing because she's the cow of the Hakam.
- 4:41I don't know, but upon him, well, that's the basic, that's
- 4:47the basic understanding in the first case, why can't you just
- 4:54say Pesha also Pesha, she's wearing a big thing because
- 4:55there is also bicycling high. It's like a Khazaka.
- 4:57Before the case of Pesha, Pesha hit her, it's 218 came and said
- 5:01and said, you know, she's like she's married and she's
- 5:03divorced, right? That's what she says.
- 5:05But 280 came and came and said no, no, she, you know, by the
- 5:08way she was married that her Pesha also doesn't work anymore
- 5:12because all the reason Pesha also works is because of the
- 5:15fact we don't know anything. She said she was also now she
- 5:17was not. That's a because no, she's
- 5:26wearing it in this case, she's she's no.
- 5:30If she said she went to the big van and everything and that
- 5:32could be that would be fine. But she says she's wearing a big
- 5:35Anita Sudan to her. I was just I put it on because,
- 5:38you know, I never think to wear. No, no, she didn't go to the big
- 5:43that's how about the case She if she says, yeah, I was Tamaya and
- 5:46now I went to the mikvah and there's enough time and then she
- 5:48is never in the phenomi. The case is she's saying, you
- 5:51know, I never and I never saw anything.
- 5:54I just put it on. I never I never was actually
- 5:56Tamaya. That's when we don't believe
- 5:57her. She's yeah, it was Tamaya.
- 5:59Now there was enough time to hire us and then yeah, why not?
- 6:02That's no different. Say I saw something, you know,
- 6:04whatever she said, she says a little bit deeper and I'm Mr.
- 6:10Hora and the guy bumps into the Rob and the Rob says I saw your
- 6:12wife tomorrow and she's the mayor.
- 6:14She's saying that she's got more man in that situation.
- 6:19Some say yes, but she didn't tell her on the Hawk home.
- 6:22She didn't say she went to the Hawk Home.
- 6:24And then then then the horror. She's more than menace.
- 6:26And there's a story. There's a there's a story.
- 6:28I heard of her in times the Ramallah and the ROM became the
- 6:32Robin and Krakow, right? They used to they used to give
- 6:37the after the next the next after wife went to the mikvah.
- 6:40So they give the guy an Aaliyah and they're over on the robot,
- 6:45something like that. So there was like pizzas, you
- 6:50know, he wants to it and he found out that the reason of the
- 6:53socket it was because of the fact that women were being
- 6:56rational and going to the mikvah.
- 6:58I was. And then the women weren't going
- 7:00and he realized whatever. Yeah, he realized that he
- 7:02realized that there was a reason why that they were attacking it
- 7:06because women, you know, right. He said, right.
- 7:14So he so he said, you know, he's you know, so you know, whatever
- 7:22it's you have to be careful who's born am on this, whatever
- 7:25this is to be. You know, there's different
- 7:30things to be worried about anyway.
- 7:32Sif Dalit, hi, I'm Shami. She went to Hari Ramadan.
- 7:35It's Macy. He was he was in the middle of
- 7:39the Maisa and and she said it's Macy.
- 7:41You know, let's say she had our Russia.
- 7:44She knows Pirush Miyad have chorus.
- 7:47She'd see also on all low Hevi also because the the the Easter
- 7:55Kate said yeah, because he'd see us is just as he gets the same
- 7:58on us. Kibi also and therefore and
- 8:01therefore it's Keith Koris. It's Mishami Shimanido.
- 8:05Kate said, yeah, I said no, It's it's a parnay Raghav Aritz with
- 8:08Shoah below Disha. He should, you know, stick his,
- 8:12you know, his toenails or whatever in the Aritz and and
- 8:17and keep himself as steady as possible at Yama Savior or
- 8:21porridge paver Mace because shamish paver Mace is the
- 8:26Piraeus is Potter. It's a drabonim, but opponent
- 8:31it's Potter is OK Karis and obviously here isn't he was he
- 8:34was an audience over here, unless some say because he was
- 8:37the shower. OK, that's different thing here
- 8:41doesn't but Uncle Paul name and Emma says this is the this is
- 8:46the this is the couple of the coolers over here.
- 8:49This is this is the dim by all Orias, not just the Shamashi
- 8:52Mennito. This is the dim by all Orias
- 8:55that let's say, you know, whatever, you know, you know,
- 9:02some of you know, they gets married and, and she said I
- 9:05don't think she's, you know, she says, yeah, by the way, I never,
- 9:08you know, I never bought to get a gift from my last husband.
- 9:12Now, then again, I don't think she's dim Venice, truth be told.
- 9:14But I'm saying though, let's say, however, Miller Maison
- 9:17found out she's a, she's a, she's a erva.
- 9:20It's the same. It's the same.
- 9:21It would be the same. It's the same din.
- 9:23It's not special din by neither. It's a din.
- 9:25I was trying to look into the the you know what's what about
- 9:35the is there is there like when it says Ava Mays, What about the
- 9:39you know, what about being Mazria?
- 9:41Is that is that ulcer is that if curries if he's Maziar or not,
- 9:46It says I'll show Ava Mays doesn't talk about the you know,
- 9:49is there is there is is there a key of curries if he's Mazaria
- 9:53Bush name or not? No, no, so what's what's the
- 9:57what's the Nash can mean then on the sunshine?
- 10:01No, it is not totally in Hazra, right, So no, So this I was just
- 10:05I'm just wanted to find just wanted.
- 10:07It was you know, because the the the the the the wait for it is
- 10:11the is the the BS the BS sister is what is the Disha, not the
- 10:19not the Hazra right. I try looking at whatever the
- 10:22posture is is. I think it's a tool to force and
- 10:25evaneser as well as not, you know, the Shyla Shyla, if he if
- 10:31he's if he's just just he just goes in a little bit and and you
- 10:39know what, or if he doesn't go at all, just that's that's not
- 10:43that's not Easter by Arias filter over here waiting for
- 10:47Ava. May said it.
- 10:48It doesn't you know, it doesn't mean it.
- 10:50It means even as long as he doesn't move, it's OK.
- 10:52No matter whatever else happens. Even if he's Mazria, that would
- 10:57be, you know, that would be that.
- 11:01That's not, that's that's not the, the issue over here.
- 11:11Yeah. So I saw, I saw someone asked.
- 11:14So let's say, let's say, let's say he's worried about the, the
- 11:16kid, right? Can he be parish Miyad 'cause
- 11:19he's he hasn't. Or let's say, let's say he's
- 11:21talking to me with an Airvo, right and he realizes that
- 11:25whatever it is and then he doesn't want him announcer right
- 11:29isn't too bad. You know, he has to be with
- 11:32weight and he can't he can't pourish beyond, nor can the
- 11:35woman be pourish either. Well, it's a kiddush because
- 11:38it's cargo oil. I don't know if it's either.
- 11:40I don't know if she keeps carries something.
- 11:42I don't know that's a different issue, but you know, because
- 11:48some people hold that she doesn't taste since the whole
- 11:50woman's carco olam. She's never high for she's never
- 11:53high evidence for for via. So I'll come over here.
- 11:56Also the hire, even if she was part of she wouldn't she
- 12:00wouldn't be high if it could be she's on this Navy.
- 12:02I don't know. Right.
- 12:10Right. Right.
- 12:17Right. Not not right.
- 12:19Right. In economy.
- 12:20In economy. If you're a Zionist, you know,
- 12:23even that they have friend show gate, onions, whatever.
- 12:26Either way, right. He'll he show gate.
- 12:30No. If he had no idea.
- 12:32If he had no idea and she tricked him.
- 12:34So he's onus unless he had to. Yeah, anyway, if it happened
- 12:54then he'd still be it still was a nice Vera especially go over
- 12:59here by needed much more than something that he could have
- 13:02avoided because, you know, obviously, you know, the the
- 13:06case in the Gemara talks about that he he has to be, you know,
- 13:09he's Artemis when they smell that he has to watch out what
- 13:12her owner Syphasis is. And the question the Gemara is
- 13:15he was trying to, you know, get this last hurrah in right
- 13:19before, you know, whatever mitzvah right in right before he
- 13:23was trying to, you know, right before the onus Syphasis and
- 13:25that's a show gig. And that was a that was a you
- 13:28know, a Shia anyway, but Lois Mahala, but Lois Mahala.
- 13:32But he said he shouldn't be stomach on there.
- 13:34Stan Rocky smoke a rag of the Yoda of Shalihanna man that he
- 13:37shouldn't be stomach on there. You know, not to move.
- 13:40He has to try to be sure that he doesn't.
- 13:42He doesn't move inside some sense of shot If he if he sticks
- 13:46his hands in whatever they say. It's a formula for to get rid of
- 13:51this. I heard the shot because you the
- 13:54pressure everyone's a shot is the pressure on the on the on
- 13:57the extremities will draw the blood away from the from the
- 14:00center of his body and it will help and and it will help you
- 14:04know, everyone will be made much faster.
- 14:07I heard that that's one of the shots of interesting shot the
- 14:09imperious movement. But he surely it was show gate.
- 14:12So the others should also leave fresh movementa isana by him.
- 14:16He should fast 40 days, doesn't need there, doesn't need to be,
- 14:23you know, straight rock, kosher Bush.
- 14:25The Yami, he's going Shanima Kamishi.
- 14:28He should fast trainer Kamishi a little tiniest, also Riyan,
- 14:32Balsar a little tiny shits also Riyan and Balsar.
- 14:35You know, you call these anois. And if he can't, if he's not,
- 14:38he's not have strength to go ahead and do the tinios.
- 14:42If they call Yamamamamon, she's in stock of the Arif Monsieur.
- 14:48He has to give like a kilo. He has to put himself.
- 14:52He also eaten Yosik Sasviani. He should be very on on this.
- 15:00You know, his Chuva and I'll be very he's very, very Makwa and
- 15:05learn it well and then and know and know what to do.
- 15:08And like in any other chuva, you mean Chuva and he you know,
- 15:15these are various and it's actually the Isha does not Nikka
- 15:23Park, because again, she is what's called Karka Island.
- 15:26That she is, you know that that it's you know, she's not the the
- 15:34ball of ice. You know, whatever she doesn't,
- 15:40you know that. Yeah, it could be if she tricked
- 15:42him, if she said no, it's OK. I mean, there's different and
- 15:46obviously there's different types levels of kapara, but the
- 15:49actual Maisa, she doesn't need kapara.
- 15:51She doesn't need Taniyo. He's and she Misha Shlo, Bashas
- 15:55Vesta. And again, this is talking of
- 15:57Bashas Vista. So it's a show game.
- 15:59You know that's why he needs so much kapara because it was it
- 16:03was a show gig over here in festival a field insult 8
- 16:08shallow even they checked that he had a he had a towel or a
- 16:11cloth and found on there Mikri. That's all he is then I feel
- 16:16about even if she didn't he in that Case, No Tonyos nothing,
- 16:23because that's Mama showing it's a case where he needs Capara is
- 16:26if again, it's the same thing happened.
- 16:28He has to know it's the partner of the same light, the same
- 16:32thing by Al Capone in the Einsim by others of kind of patri.
- 16:35He doesn't need. He doesn't need any any Chuva.
- 16:45No right, no, I'm saying right after the fact.
- 16:47They still need Chuva if they if he found out and it was too
- 16:50close to it was the illness of essence, right.
- 16:53But but the Nakuta here is also an anyway stand there.
- 16:57The quote theory. I think we should work quote
- 16:59theory. Many places.
- 17:00It says that we don't do Tanius anymore and just and look, I
- 17:03mean putting an extra extra learning in is is enough to is
- 17:08become become become a tiniest and a person should make an
- 17:12extra seder, whatever and that would be that would be in any
- 17:16that would be put himself in any any, any any of theirs.
- 17:22Kuf Bev of Kuf Bev of Isha Sefalis, Isha Sheishla Vesis
- 17:27Kavoor, a woman who has a Vesis Kavoor and it's Rica Pedika
- 17:30clout. Both Natasha and we're getting
- 17:33into the gene of in the beginning of the marriage we
- 17:38have when a woman's trying to be conveyor Vesis, which she
- 17:40doesn't know when what causes her to see?
- 17:44Is it yummy? Is it maisa?
- 17:47Is it without it? Is it's yummy.
- 17:49We don't have Maisa, but you know, you have to be cautious
- 17:53that maybe she's a Goroda Makhastashvich.
- 17:55Maybe the instead of a pizza tashmish is good.
- 17:59Tashmish is what causes her to see.
- 18:02So if she has a vesis kavua ready for Yamim and you know she
- 18:06knows this, let's say from before the Haasna, whatever it
- 18:08is, then she doesn't need any bidikas at all.
- 18:12That way for Tashish the Akhar Tashvich, because we know that
- 18:14her vesis is nothing to do with Tashvich.
- 18:17Rather ABBA ain't no leaves, though, because they buy a
- 18:19little bit Shasta. She shouldn't, you know, right
- 18:21before wait, let me just check myself Haitian libel Knockfo,
- 18:25right, because then she's, you know, messing and she's messing
- 18:27up the mitzvah. Now Rambam Zalmasuk leaves like
- 18:31Akhta Shmish over. He still says she needs to check
- 18:34Akhta Shmish Shibaed a hub who made a hair.
- 18:38He she has to check her cloth and he has to check his cloth.
- 18:41There was for him Shimmer, Ross, Saddam, Shashmish to check,
- 18:44maybe even check if maybe she talked with Saddam.
- 18:51Leave the round, I guess, until three times.
- 18:53We'll see you in the next sift. We'll see you in the next sift.
- 18:57About. About.
- 19:04Because the Kumar says that a woman who's the she always
- 19:09should check afterwards so all of the police can say is talking
- 19:13about she's she's mesasic Pataris and she's trying to do
- 19:20you know, she's trying to coach him things like that, you know,
- 19:23so then she has to, you know, not to be shaking him Atomic,
- 19:26but the Robinsons tapping Labila, which is a finish.
- 19:30I mean, I don't know how people in Macmill never heard of it and
- 19:32then jump pass. We don't we're not Macmill for
- 19:34the Rambo, how it's snowable Daito.
- 19:36It's snooze for deck at both of us.
- 19:37As for AFCO and Tashmich, and According to him, the snooze in
- 19:41the machmere. We should do it before Tashmich
- 19:43also, I guess quietly, not in front of her husband.
- 19:47You know, there's no reason to be Mafra McCloud versus, you
- 19:51know, Auntie myself have no idea, but upon him.
- 19:54That's that's absurd days. We'll start Beza in a la Vesis
- 20:01Kavua, Shellish Palami ha Rishi name.
- 20:07If she does not have a Vesis kavua, then the three first
- 20:11three times when they have Tashmich so you can leave the
- 20:14kotam Tashmich Vyakh Tashmich they have to check before
- 20:18Tashmich and after Tashmich who who bade shaloh, he bade shala.
- 20:22He should check his cloth and he should check her cloth.
- 20:25I mean. But is some shell lush palami
- 20:29and if they they they were mashamish 3 times without any
- 20:33problems. Shaina wrote a dumb a
- 20:34moustachevish shuven and srika medika klal.
- 20:37She is khazaka, which is the complicated khazaka.
- 20:41But I'll kopanem the wrist says she's next shove the muzak that
- 20:45she's not worried about his Tasha.
- 20:47She's looking for akhitashmish and it's not a problem.
- 20:50Well, the Rabbum bar rush calls on Shane, the Vesis and she
- 20:53doesn't have Vesis Kavua Srika Heebdika Koden Tashmish, the
- 20:58Akritashvish which we're not, we're not mapping for.
- 21:01But Rambam Masvid shigama ball used like Asva Akritashvish.
- 21:06And Rahman says the husband has to check also the devices, a few
- 21:12nakudas, a few a few nakudas. The Shah famous Shah over here
- 21:18says that this whole deal of the Gamora says it's irrelevant.
- 21:22It's irrelevant. He throws out the window.
- 21:25He says the whole thing over here is talking about it's
- 21:28talking about it shouldn't be here.
- 21:32It should be an Evanescer. And the question is, is she, is
- 21:36she, is it a Mecca or not? Because if if she's a Rhoda
- 21:42Marcus Tash, which we'll see in the next next Simon, he has to
- 21:45divorce her. So because they can't they can't
- 21:48be together. We'll see in the next 7.
- 21:50But Uncle Paulian. So therefore this whole thing is
- 21:53a talk about if he was Suba, if he has a divorcer was if she was
- 21:57a rewarded by Marcus Tashmish, then it was the Beckhart tolls.
- 22:00Beckhart tolls. I'm saying like it wasn't.
- 22:03You know that you know that how much back off tolls?
- 22:06It dissolved the marriage. But Uncle Pauline, yes, he
- 22:08describes A divorcer and if she and she won't get and she won't
- 22:12in the Charlotte, would she get it super or not?
- 22:15And if you know, if she's if she's if she's Musk sucks three
- 22:18times, then then she would get then then and then that happened
- 22:22again. It would then you know, then
- 22:24then that then she would get she would get it.
- 22:26She's our ballast mum and she could get get get her, get her,
- 22:30get her tsuba. So the shack says we don't do
- 22:33any of these pedicos. It's not Nogia finished the
- 22:39Shyla is that the people do the badikas or not?
- 22:41I know and I I remember, unless things change and and and the
- 22:45Hasani were taught in the in America.
- 22:48I can't say everywhere, I don't know, but generally not to be
- 22:52mock paid for the not to be mock paid to check.
- 22:54They don't need they go. They were make it like the shock
- 23:01here, here, here often they were taught to do the three badikas.
- 23:05Now the three badikas, I'll just say this, we won't touch
- 23:08overtime. I just want to finish this.
- 23:11The three pedicas often the often the they're once a woman
- 23:19gets pregnant, she can't the pedicas don't work.
- 23:22So if they did 1, you know, if the woman gets pregnant very
- 23:25quickly, you know, after after marriage, you know they have the
- 23:28when she has Dabba suleim. Also, we can't do Pedika.
- 23:32So for her assurance that Dabba Suleiman sometimes takes a month
- 23:36or two, whatever to all the all the all the for everything to
- 23:39stop pleading. Then she does the Padika boom,
- 23:41she gets pregnant. Then it could be then pregnant
- 23:44nursing, nursing also, you go on for 10 years and then if people
- 23:49hit 40 years old, they're like, OK, now we can do now we can do
- 23:52the three padikas. So that's why a lot of a lot of
- 23:55the teachers like don't bother with it.
- 23:58He's on the shock, you know. So the the device is.
- 24:02However, if a person can be mock bid and he shouldn't, they
- 24:05shouldn't. Maybe they should try.
- 24:06I did talk to see someone asked if they do.
- 24:11If they do Tasha three times in one night before they can just
- 24:14do it three times and then mm hmm, they didn't get up to you.
- 24:25OK, then we'll get to the remote.
- 24:27Remote's not doing talking about that.
- 24:28He's talking about checking it. So can't light up a candle.
- 24:30That's something else. We'll get to the remote next
- 24:32time. But but some of the but they
- 24:34could just do it three times in one night and they don't see
- 24:37that. But I don't know.
- 24:38I don't know if constant teachers say these say these
- 24:41aces aquaponium, the person should ask Shiloh and obviously
- 24:45they should follow whatever they're, you know, constant
- 24:47teachers tell them and and you know to remach or not.