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Was Busta Rhymes Wrong For Throwing Drink at Woman Who Grabbed His Butt ? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Morning. Every Rodney is DJ Envy Charlemagne the guy. We
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  Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We got our guest hosts with us.
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  Speaker 1: Claudia Jordan's joining us this morning, and we're asking eight
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  Speaker 1: hundred and five eighty five one oh five one thoughts
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  Speaker 1: on the bust of Romes situation. Now, bust of Rams
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  Speaker 1: looks like he was walking out of a Super Bowl
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  Speaker 1: party and a young lady came up behind him and
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  Speaker 1: grabbed his ass. Now, a young lady said that she
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  Speaker 1: didn't try to grab his ass, she was trying to
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  Speaker 1: tap him for a picture. Buster turned around and threw
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  Speaker 1: a drink on her. So we're asking what are your thoughts?
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  Speaker 1: Start with you, Claudia, um Ben here done that before
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  Speaker 1: and uh it was slapp him in, but no ben
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  Speaker 1: Ben grabbed out in clubs. And I definitely asked you,
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  Speaker 1: have you a woman if I pushed men away from
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  Speaker 1: me and something like that when it's obvious that they
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  Speaker 1: try to grab you, but sometimes you will. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: now that I hear that she said she was trying
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  Speaker 1: to tap him, that kind of makes sense too. We're
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  Speaker 1: tapping on the ass that didn't look like that looked
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  Speaker 1: like to walk up behind nobody and come use your
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  Speaker 1: hand under when we just talk about you being grabbed
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  Speaker 1: in the ass and djbles and you did nothing. I
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  Speaker 1: was walking out the club, but I was. It was
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  Speaker 1: it was so shocking to me, That's what it was like.
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  Speaker 1: It was shocking because, yes, I've been grabbed on the
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  Speaker 1: ass before walking to a club. Usually it's females. So
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  Speaker 1: you know, when I turned around and it was a dude,
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  Speaker 1: it was just shocking because I've never seen that before.
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  Speaker 1: Now you know how women feel, right like, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean. I remember reading this book that's one
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  Speaker 1: of my favorite books ever. Everybody should buy this Call
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  Speaker 1: from n Words the Gods. And in that book they
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  Speaker 1: talk about you know why. You know, they're talking about
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  Speaker 1: why men should never do that the women. We shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: objectify women, we shouldn't sexually assault women like that. And
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  Speaker 1: they say, what if a big Diesel dude like Mike
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  Speaker 1: Tyson came up behind you and grabbed you on your ass.
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  Speaker 1: The book was written, you know, back in the nineties,
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  Speaker 1: so at the time, Mike is the epitome of correct,
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  Speaker 1: you know manliness, right, So what if a guy like
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  Speaker 1: that grabs you on the ass, what you're gonna do
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  Speaker 1: and that's how women feel. They were using that example
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  Speaker 1: to say this is how women feel when men grabbed
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  Speaker 1: him on the butt. CARDI and you've been that's happened,
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  Speaker 1: You've been like assaulted. I've been assaulted many times, like
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  Speaker 1: the rejection thing. It is a scary thing. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: a woman and a man's much bigger than me. So
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  Speaker 1: do I think he overreacts? Did? I don't know? Maybe
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  Speaker 1: that was like the third time that day happened, so
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  Speaker 1: he's sick of it. Maybe he's tired of it. And
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  Speaker 1: I know bust a rhyme, don't play now, bus round,
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  Speaker 1: don't bust round doesn't like anybody touching him. I've known
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  Speaker 1: bust a long time, But I don't think he overreacted. Me.
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  Speaker 1: You touched you in the space, You touched his body
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  Speaker 1: like like you said, it could have been anything. You
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  Speaker 1: could have had a knife, you could have had a blade,
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  Speaker 1: you could have had a gun, you could have did anything. No,
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  Speaker 1: get Maybe he just felt violated that but RMS did
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  Speaker 1: nothing wrong. The man was actually assaulted and he defended himself.
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  Speaker 1: That woman violated his boundaries. You don't do that to
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  Speaker 1: any man, especially a Caribbean man. You know, Caribbean men
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  Speaker 1: don't want nothing around there, But Cribban men don't even
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  Speaker 1: like that explains it all. Cribman men don't even like
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  Speaker 1: wiping their own ass like that, Paul, And people gotta realize,
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  Speaker 1: like people's realized, like what if he had a girl
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  Speaker 1: with them, like his girlfriend that already had beef about
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  Speaker 1: groupies or whatever, and then this girl goes and does this.
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  Speaker 1: It's icing on the cake. That's true. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what else you got going on your life already, you're
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  Speaker 1: already trying to deal with. And how about disrespect respect
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  Speaker 1: me to respect you? Because guess what, that young lady
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  Speaker 1: would have hated it if some man just ran up
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  Speaker 1: to her and randomly smacked her on the ass. So
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  Speaker 1: don't do that to somebody else. I do agree that
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  Speaker 1: women do get a pass a lot of times because
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  Speaker 1: it's a man and we kind of make fun if
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  Speaker 1: you know, oh, you sensitive, and it probably shouldn't be
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  Speaker 1: like that. Let's go to the phone lines. We have Angelica, Angelica,
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  Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. How you feeling this morning? I'm sorry?
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  Speaker 1: Would you say my mom can here? How are you feeling? Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm great and blessed there you go. Now,
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  Speaker 1: what did you think about this lady that we have
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  Speaker 1: to say allegedly because she said she didn't do it,
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  Speaker 1: allegedly grabs busters ass video. Oh so I guess we don't.
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  Speaker 1: But she says she has for a picture. You're trying
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  Speaker 1: to tap him. So look, I called a couple weeks
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  Speaker 1: ago about objectifying men. So I am one of those
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  Speaker 1: type of women who made appropriately Yes, yes, but look,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be serious a time, Like Toy said, if
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  Speaker 1: the roles were reversed, you know, you can't be putting
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  Speaker 1: your hands on people. You know people are getting too
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  Speaker 1: comfortable with doing that. You know, this is my personal
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  Speaker 1: spaces in my body. You can't touch me. So I
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  Speaker 1: don't think he overreacted in any way. And say, like,
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  Speaker 1: for instance, it was Rihanna and so try'm touch your stomach.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of women don't like that either, like keep
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  Speaker 1: your hands to yourself. Can you imagine that since they
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  Speaker 1: were babies, imagine Rihanna walked through a crowd of some
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  Speaker 1: guy just randomly running up to her trying to people
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  Speaker 1: do that to wo when women are pregnant. I see
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  Speaker 1: other women like go to touch the belly oh, let me.
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  Speaker 1: They don't even ask. It's good to grab the belly.
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  Speaker 1: You're negative, juju off my stomach. I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: you're putting hands on me for. And if A sapped them,
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  Speaker 1: jump on that dude and beat them up and they're wrong, right,
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  Speaker 1: I'm with you. Hello? Who's this? Hi? Is this this Patience?
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  Speaker 1: I'm calling from Beaufort, South Carolina at A four three three?
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  Speaker 1: What was happening? What's your thoughts, Patience? So I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: I feel like the lady was absolutely the wrong one
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  Speaker 1: in the situation. Because if someone we hold men accountable,
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  Speaker 1: we gotta be able to hold women accountable. Right, So
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  Speaker 1: like if I was in the clouds and somebody did
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  Speaker 1: that to me, I would feel a way about it.
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  Speaker 1: So I feel like he was writing what he thought.
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  Speaker 1: I'm with you absolutely, And you know the other thing too, Buster,
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  Speaker 1: he didn't know who was behind him. Buster would have
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  Speaker 1: reacted like that regardless of who it was man, woman.
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  Speaker 1: He was just ready soon as he got that ass slapped. Absolutely.
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  Speaker 1: I wish I had more reflexes like that. I have
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  Speaker 1: a little delayed reaction, like how you did you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean? Like sometimes at first, like wait, what
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  Speaker 1: kind of comprehending that is it? Because you already have
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  Speaker 1: your defenses up because you're a beautiful woman and that
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  Speaker 1: has happened to you so much. Well, one time I
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  Speaker 1: told you off air one time a man felt rejected
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  Speaker 1: because I didn't call him, and he gave me his number.
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  Speaker 1: I told him I had a boyfriend at the time,
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  Speaker 1: and he saw me out and he actually punched me
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  Speaker 1: in my face and well punched me the back of
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  Speaker 1: my head so much so that I had memory loss.
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  Speaker 1: He pined for just the randomly, He's like, you didn't
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  Speaker 1: call me, ass that I told you I wasn't going
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  Speaker 1: to call you. And then I walked away from him,
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  Speaker 1: and then he pushed me real hard and I slapped him.
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  Speaker 1: He pushed me almost I almost felt to the ground,
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  Speaker 1: and then he cocked his hand back and I don't
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  Speaker 1: remember being hit, but I had to go to the
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  Speaker 1: ear the next day and get you know, X rays
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  Speaker 1: on my team in my job everything. You know, many
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  Speaker 1: a woman tell me that they have to give a
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  Speaker 1: guy of their number or you know, act like they're
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  Speaker 1: interested in the guy, just so things like that don't happen.
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  Speaker 1: Many times. A lot of people have my phone number
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  Speaker 1: have the same number for a long time. I have
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  Speaker 1: been guilted into it out of fear that if I
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  Speaker 1: see you again, you may assault me. Because once you
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  Speaker 1: get punched in the back of the head where you
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  Speaker 1: lose memory, you're traumatized. And I know a lot of
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  Speaker 1: women out there like that, and we get blamed for
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  Speaker 1: like you know, everybody knows you, or you know this
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  Speaker 1: guy you're being nicely. You don't get assaulted half the time,
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  Speaker 1: like we're scared a lot of time that you should
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  Speaker 1: have been shot. You're trying to be a police officer,
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  Speaker 1: and the police went to anything about it. He was
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  Speaker 1: in with the cops. He was trying to be a
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  Speaker 1: police officate trooper in Rhode Island. Jesus were in a
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  Speaker 1: football Jesus all right, eight hundred five eight five, one
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  Speaker 1: oh five one. We're talking about Buster Rymes. If you
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  Speaker 1: don't know the story Buster Romes was. It looked like
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  Speaker 1: he was walking out of a super Bowl party and
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  Speaker 1: a young lady grabbed his assally assaulted him. He was minded,
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  Speaker 1: that's right. Buster returned around through a drink on a Uh.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think bust overreact or you think that's right
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  Speaker 1: on the only thing be upset when I got to
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  Speaker 1: go back to the ball, go get me another drink,
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  Speaker 1: because I didn't throw all the drink on You're not
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  Speaker 1: gonna go back to get me another day. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if it was liquor, could have been water. You
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  Speaker 1: don't know what it was. Nobody drinks water out of cup.
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  Speaker 1: Have you guys ever thrown a drink at someone? That's good?
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  Speaker 1: That's good. Have you guys ever thrown a drink at anyone?
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  Speaker 1: Look that way as Charlot Mane that definitely look at
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  Speaker 1: the look at his eye reminiscence right now. No, New
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  Speaker 1: York City was a wild time. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Back in the day, Why okay, why did you throw
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  Speaker 1: the drink? Back then? I was just ignorant back then.
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  Speaker 1: I just didn't like how that person was acting. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: in in our in the section, in the section we
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  Speaker 1: was INEX. Yeah, I got a girl. I just tossed it,
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  Speaker 1: tossed it. I actually was throwing it at the whole squad.
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  Speaker 1: It was slow. I was throwing it at the whole squad,
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  Speaker 1: sprayed everybody. No, No, I don't know how that to
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  Speaker 1: this day, I don't know how that happened. Where that
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  Speaker 1: only that one person got it was God. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: gonna say God, God had nothing done. Oh my goods.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we'll talk about it when we come back
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  Speaker 1: at the Breakfast Club. Good morning to the Breakfast Club
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  Speaker 1: Top eight five one morning. Everybody is dj n V
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  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. We got
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  Speaker 1: our special guest host Claudia Jordan with us this morning.
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  Speaker 1: So we're asking if you haven't joined us eight hundred
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  Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five one. If he's just
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  Speaker 1: joining us, Buster rhymes he was leaving. It looked like
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  Speaker 1: a super Bowl party, and it looks like a young
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  Speaker 1: lady grabbed his ass and Buster turn around and throw
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  Speaker 1: a drink on her. We're asking, did he overreact me personally?
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  Speaker 1: I don't think, so don't touch me, don't touch my body.
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  Speaker 1: If you do, you just never know what's gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: And like you said, if my wife's with me, now
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  Speaker 1: now you gotta deal with her. So just just just
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  Speaker 1: keep you hands wild, disrespectful. And by the way, that's
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  Speaker 1: because she don't know who Buster wood with, but might
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  Speaker 1: have been with his significant other. That's true, I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: but you're only thinking about yourself because you want your picture.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, you know what I mean? Or whatever you
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  Speaker 1: was trying to do. People get out over a picture.
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  Speaker 1: Oh man, yes they do. Hello, who's this? Yo? This
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  Speaker 1: rude Chicago, rude from the shottown? What's up? From? What's
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  Speaker 1: going on? Man? But you think it rude? Hey? Man,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yesterday was Valentine's that he
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  Speaker 1: feel I was kind of in the master relationship. Man,
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  Speaker 1: my girl, you think but we made it parts, you feel,
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  Speaker 1: but I kind of, man, we made it part because
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  Speaker 1: it was rude, rude, rude, rude. I'm not asking about
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  Speaker 1: the Valentine room. I'm sorry. That was earlier today. Rod Drew,
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  Speaker 1: he was he was, he was kind of I mean,
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  Speaker 1: he was in the wrong. She was in the wrong.
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  Speaker 1: He was in the wrong. But at the same time
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  Speaker 1: you see him such a man. But bro don't know
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  Speaker 1: why play that? Why Why was he in the wrong
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  Speaker 1: because he threw the drinker. They could have huge he
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  Speaker 1: could have snapped on the yells and all that stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I highly disagree. You can't tell people how to react, man,
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  Speaker 1: And we got to stop trying to police people's reactions.
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  Speaker 1: You can't, you right, and I thought, No, you cannot
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  Speaker 1: slap me on the bar. Get them balls? Monday, Man,
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  Speaker 1: Can I cannot throw a little something out? Up? You did? What?
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  Speaker 1: Now I heard dude? Put them balls? What was that? Monday?
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  Speaker 1: I think, Man, you didn't. He was kind of he
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  Speaker 1: didn't on a if he did or whatever? Man, I
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  Speaker 1: was saying, can I get up ten fIF bob oh? Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not feeling well this morning. Man, Come on, man,
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  Speaker 1: just one than I got a stomach gate. Yeah. We're
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  Speaker 1: in the middle of something, man, So you're not respecting boundaries.
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  Speaker 1: Man slapping bucks man? Have his dream? No, Wow, he's
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  Speaker 1: crushed his spirit. Hello black man, Good morning breakfast club.
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  Speaker 1: Is Francis from Fort Myers to talk to us. Man.
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  Speaker 1: The issue with bust the runs is so wrong because
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  Speaker 1: if it was the other way around it, he couldn't
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  Speaker 1: fitted sexual harass. That's right, Surrens was all in the rain.
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  Speaker 1: It's sexual arrassment now. It is sexual arrasment now exactly exactly. So,
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  Speaker 1: just because he's saying the thing he got a little bread,
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  Speaker 1: they want to make it all like he's wrong. He
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  Speaker 1: need a rist. She was running when she touched him
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  Speaker 1: and violated him and his security. He definitely should be
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  Speaker 1: checking them because you're investing that money in the security,
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  Speaker 1: and they sure wasn't on their game, Yeah, because that
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  Speaker 1: could have been anybody coming up behind him to do anything.
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  Speaker 1: That security was brief doctor, what does she had a needle?
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  Speaker 1: Or she could have shot him with something and set
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  Speaker 1: him up like he could have been really exactly, I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: that's that's wrong. If it was the other way around,
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  Speaker 1: if they the person would have been arrested. If it
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  Speaker 1: was the other way around, they'd have been pulling up
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  Speaker 1: Buster's old lyrics. That's right, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: They'd have been asking for Buster to be arrested this morning.
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  Speaker 1: He'd have been trending all day like, come on, man,
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  Speaker 1: I want more. Hello, who's this he's going on? Lamar, lamar,
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  Speaker 1: come on to talk to us, all right, man. And
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  Speaker 1: first of all, I believe no man should be getting
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  Speaker 1: his buck touch at all kind of way slap grabs looked.
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  Speaker 1: It shouldn't be happening now. And in baseball, it's a
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  Speaker 1: thing in baseball. Let's keep it there. That's cool. That's
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  Speaker 1: cool in baseball, And and in baseball is not even
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  Speaker 1: a grab at a slot, so that's cool. Whatever but
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  Speaker 1: no man should be getting his buck grab or anything
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  Speaker 1: like that. Now, if you do enjoy can't get buck grab,
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  Speaker 1: I'm thinking that you're like getting your buddy eating too.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking. God damn how a friendly game
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  Speaker 1: of grab ass turned to a whole dinner. I'm just saying,
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  Speaker 1: that's what I'm gonna think. If you enjoy that, I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: all right, he probably like getting his buddy eating too,
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  Speaker 1: because no man like my girl sometimes she grabs my
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  Speaker 1: you know, grabs my butt, and I'd be like, chill,
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  Speaker 1: like I don't like that, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like that, Like you don't like you like
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  Speaker 1: like I don't like back Yeah still me yeah still
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  Speaker 1: yo don't want it. But they being the back ladies,
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  Speaker 1: can I can? I quickly shout out my gaming channel
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  Speaker 1: it will be a good segue friendly game of grabass
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  Speaker 1: dot com. No, it's actually my gaming channel on YouTube
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  Speaker 1: is actually called after gamer. I'm just saying back after
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  Speaker 1: the gamer. Why you want to after the game, bro,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, nobody grabbing nobody, butch on that a
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  Speaker 1: little bit like he's just oh ba, say't too much.
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  Speaker 1: I think he's flirting with ya look at him. No, no,
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  Speaker 1: I bought my ladies from flowers and from candy. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie to y'all. I was I was gonna
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  Speaker 1: go cheap. But then my man was like, nah, I
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  Speaker 1: bought some girls some gifts that ain't my girl. So
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  Speaker 1: I was like, damn, I gotta I gotta go all
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  Speaker 1: out and you know, spend some money on my girl.
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  Speaker 1: You know, flowers and chocolate. All right. He said cheap. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he said cheap. That's what I thought. He said, I
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  Speaker 1: thought I was gonna go cheap. My man, I'm confused.
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  Speaker 1: So she gave me that money. But last night, huh
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  Speaker 1: oh yeah, Waller bron story. The more the story for
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  Speaker 1: me is the lack of boundaries invites the lack of respect.
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  Speaker 1: So you know, I respect everybody's boundaries. The mo of
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  Speaker 1: the stories people be telling themselves on the radio, he's
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  Speaker 1: a little bit obsessed with the grabbing of the butt.
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  Speaker 1: But he sat of giggling and laughed, like I've been
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  Speaker 1: telling about girls all right. When we come back, we
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  Speaker 1: got that. What we're talking about in the room is hey,
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  Speaker 1: Tyrese was heartbroken once again. On balance Hine's Oh he
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  Speaker 1: probably deserves we'll get into it next. We've gotta get
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  Speaker 1: into it next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,