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Gigi Gorgeous and Nats Getty · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, my little gorgeous faces. Today is super exciting because
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  Speaker 1: I have my most favorite couple in the entire world
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  Speaker 1: on the podcast. We have Nats Getty and Gigi Gorgeous.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I'm so sweet, am I?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Nice?
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  Speaker 1: Well, so Randall's not here, so today is the Give
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  Speaker 1: Them La Lat with GG podcast. She's going to co
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  Speaker 1: host with me and Nats is our guest.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, welcome, no, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm super I'm super excited, but I'm also very nervous
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  Speaker 1: because you guys, I obviously instagram stock you both, I
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  Speaker 1: mean diddo.
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  Speaker 4: We honestly are like the biggest fans of you and Randall,
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  Speaker 4: so the feelings mutual.
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  Speaker 1: Well, thank you, and you guys have amazing content on
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  Speaker 1: the Gram and I'm like, how does it happen? I
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  Speaker 1: don't get it. How long do you spend on your gramjee?
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  Speaker 4: I mean addicted to social media.
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  Speaker 1: But you're like good at it. Thanks.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, just like you know, content photo shoots, you
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  Speaker 4: always got to get the photo. Yeah, I mean yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I try to like stay up with it, but it's
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  Speaker 4: it's honestly not as bad as it used to be.
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  Speaker 4: I used to be like god to post every day,
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  Speaker 4: like always on my phone. But now I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: I haven't posted in a few days. Like it's not
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  Speaker 4: that deep.
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  Speaker 1: It's not that deep.
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  Speaker 4: It's not that deep for him. It's like really not
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  Speaker 4: that deep though. I really don't like you barely go
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  Speaker 4: on anything like your phone's for like texting and.
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  Speaker 3: Calling, yeah, if that and shopping, I mean barely. Like
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  Speaker 3: just no, I don't like my phone.
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  Speaker 1: I mean you're a fucking getdy so you can do
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  Speaker 1: whatever the fuck you want totally, and like mental.
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  Speaker 4: Health and all that, like it's a big thing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: like it can really mess with your head being on
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  Speaker 4: it too much.
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  Speaker 1: That's so true. I notice when I start getting in
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  Speaker 1: a funk, I'm like, you scrolled too much?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, And you know, like why am I picking myself
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  Speaker 4: apart so much?
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  Speaker 1: Yep? Totally I'm the same way. And I'll like look
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  Speaker 1: at girls and I'm like, how do they like I
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  Speaker 1: want to look like that? I'm like, bitch you, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: they don't even look like that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, It's just like, why am I obsessing over shit?
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  Speaker 2: That's not real?
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  Speaker 1: And it's like it's not real.
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  Speaker 4: Like probably obsess over us as much as we do
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  Speaker 4: other people sometimes, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I do it's just like that's absolutely true because I
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  Speaker 1: look at your guys's graham and I'm like, they have
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  Speaker 1: so much and you guys do have so much fun obviously,
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  Speaker 1: but then I sit there and I'm like, your life
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  Speaker 1: kind of sucks.
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  Speaker 4: It's the highlight reel of everyone's life. It just is
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  Speaker 4: like people just post the best stuff. I mean, us
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  Speaker 4: really not included though, because we really do share some
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  Speaker 4: dark stuff and you.
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  Speaker 3: Feel like it's like really hardcore.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, your Instagram's hardcore, but I think it's something that
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  Speaker 1: people it's refreshing. Yeah, you know, like I wouldn't say
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  Speaker 1: that it's hardcore where it's like I gotta get off
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  Speaker 1: of this. You know. It's like you really do make
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  Speaker 1: people feel like I can relate to this person. I'm
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  Speaker 1: going through a tough time. I want to follow him
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  Speaker 1: just because he speaks some real shit.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I try, because like it used to
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  Speaker 2: be like superficial as how, just like my muddling picks
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  Speaker 2: and it's like when I felt skinny, I'm gonna take
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  Speaker 2: a picture, and now it's like, okay, I know, like
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  Speaker 2: I struggled with drugs, I hadn't eating disorder, Like that's
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  Speaker 2: all real shit, and it's like stuff that sits with
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  Speaker 2: me on the daily. So like if I don't include
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  Speaker 2: that and what I'm posting, then like I'm just being super.
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  Speaker 1: Fake, right, No, I totally get that. And the realization is, wow,
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  Speaker 1: if you're not gonna talk about it, Like there are
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  Speaker 1: people in different places, little small towns who who don't
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  Speaker 1: feel comfortable talking about these things, and you're the person
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  Speaker 1: that they look at and go, I'm gonna be comfortable
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  Speaker 1: talking about these things.
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  Speaker 2: No, And whenever I get like dms or like comments
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  Speaker 2: from people like reaching out talking about like oh I'm
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  Speaker 2: struggling with this, I'm going through that, Like it always
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  Speaker 2: makes me feel like really amazing, and I always like
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  Speaker 2: interact with them, like I respond to whoever, like, especially
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  Speaker 2: if they're going through like a hard time. Yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 2: like super conscious of that and like that makes me
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  Speaker 2: like selfish, you feel like amazing.
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  Speaker 1: So I love that you brought that up, because I'll
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  Speaker 1: have people reach out to me about their alcoholism and
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  Speaker 1: it's it's kind of I don't want to call it
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  Speaker 1: a burden, but in those dark moments that people are
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  Speaker 1: reaching out to you, it's that's something that you know
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  Speaker 1: you have something heavy too. I keep I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: find the words, but it's like they could be in
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  Speaker 1: the darkest time ever and you are the person that
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  Speaker 1: could single handedly change it all for that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a responsibility.
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  Speaker 1: There's the word responsibility, is it is?
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  Speaker 4: And when that's goes on the gram or on social
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  Speaker 4: media in general, even like this podcast, like he just
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  Speaker 4: spits so much truth and that's why I think, like
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  Speaker 4: I have so much respect for him. One of the
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  Speaker 4: reasons why because it's just like people just post selfies
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  Speaker 4: and you know, I'm guilty, guilty of this, but it's
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  Speaker 4: like every time he pops off, he pops off in
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  Speaker 4: like the most real, respectful way, right, and like for
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  Speaker 4: his community, it's like he holds the responsibility so high.
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  Speaker 1: I love that you said that. And even though you
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  Speaker 1: may post like your gorgeous selfies, the caption the captions
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  Speaker 1: are the money.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, yes, you know you have to you have
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  Speaker 4: to keep it real for real. I mean, it's just
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  Speaker 4: it's just fun at the end of the day, it
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  Speaker 4: really is. If you're not having fun, then just like
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  Speaker 4: don't do it. Log off for a minute, right.
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  Speaker 1: I like to turn my comments off because there was
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  Speaker 1: so okay, yeah, I do it, tid I have to.
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  Speaker 1: There was one I've never gotten, not that I've seen
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  Speaker 1: messages that have been directly derogatory toward my child and
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  Speaker 1: someone someone the other day was so mean about her
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  Speaker 1: and I won't even lie. I went insane on this
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  Speaker 1: gang cry I nope, rage blind, rage, Like I'm almost embarrassed.
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  Speaker 4: How does she say? I?
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  Speaker 1: So I went to slide into her DM. She had
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  Speaker 1: actually written me a bunch of times, like just tearing
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  Speaker 1: me apart. But now, like what I saw originally was
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  Speaker 1: she was being mean about my kid. So I told
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  Speaker 1: her she was a human trash bag. I said, I
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  Speaker 1: want you to remember that you're a waste of flesh
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  Speaker 1: on this earth, and I feel so sorry that your
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  Speaker 1: kid has to call you mom.
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  Speaker 3: I went too, Yes, that's insane.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you guys, if it would have just been
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  Speaker 1: mean towards me like I would never stoop to that level.
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  Speaker 1: I also told her I'd pay for her therapy.
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  Speaker 4: It probably won't work.
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  Speaker 1: It won't work. She's the lost cause. But when you're
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  Speaker 1: mean about a three month.
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  Speaker 4: Old like that's crazy, along with you just trying to
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  Speaker 4: reach desperately for any kind of attention, she's clearly obsessed.
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  Speaker 4: If she started with you announced to the kid, it's like, okay,
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  Speaker 4: well she's really grasping its straws here, right. It's sick,
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  Speaker 4: I know, and really sad. I mean, people will say
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  Speaker 4: the craziest shit just to get you riled up, and
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  Speaker 4: its better. Did you feel better off?
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  Speaker 1: I did?
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  Speaker 4: You did? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Only because it had to deal with my baby, right,
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  Speaker 1: You're like what I had to say? Yeah, in that moment,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I am defending my young bitch. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I was like a mama bear.
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  Speaker 4: Did you like screenshot it and post it so other
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  Speaker 4: bitches new?
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  Speaker 1: You know? I wanted to, but then I was so
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  Speaker 1: embarrassed about my response. Yeah, I can't do it.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I feel like it won't be the
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  Speaker 4: last time people are crazy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, people are nuts.
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  Speaker 1: It definitely won't be the last time. But that needs
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  Speaker 1: to be the last time that I do that.
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  Speaker 4: And sometimes I regret it whenever I like comment back
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  Speaker 4: or I you know, just give any of my energy,
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, I shouldn't have fucking done that. I would
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  Speaker 4: you get deleted or just have them see that I
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  Speaker 4: didn't see it. That's like giving them so much. I
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  Speaker 4: don't know.
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  Speaker 1: The scene part leaving them on scene is like pretty
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  Speaker 1: powerful to I saw it and I didn't even respond. So,
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  Speaker 1: how was your guys's pride? I was fine.
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  Speaker 4: I mean it's like virtual, right. So we've been doing
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  Speaker 4: not as much traveling.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean getting to go out in West Hollywood
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  Speaker 2: has been a treat because it's been so fun.
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  Speaker 1: Did you guys go to West Hollywood yesterday?
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  Speaker 2: No, yesterday was a personal day for me because I
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  Speaker 2: was watching movies.
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  Speaker 4: It was his brother's birthday this.
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  Speaker 3: Weekend, this weekend, so we had is that August August?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, he is so gorgeous and hot name. Your family
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  Speaker 1: just breathes beauty.
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  Speaker 4: They really do. Like the jeans like I've always I've
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  Speaker 4: always said it, it's like they're like God.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, come on, it's true, it really is. When
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  Speaker 1: you guys all have pictures together, I'm like, what the fun?
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  Speaker 1: Everyone is like so.
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  Speaker 4: Good looking in their family, and it's insane because they
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  Speaker 4: all kind of look the same. So it's like when
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  Speaker 4: I meet an uncle or what was it two three
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  Speaker 4: years ago, we went to London for Mark's wedding and
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  Speaker 4: I met so many of the family that I was
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  Speaker 4: like so overwhelmed and so nervous. Okay, I'm like, I
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  Speaker 4: don't want them to think that. I'm like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: this blonde dumb ass that's just showing up to this
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  Speaker 4: like gorgeous old money castle. I'm just like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 4: it's so much pressure. But they all are so stunning.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, of course you're in the family or
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  Speaker 4: spaghetty jaw baghetty eyes.
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  Speaker 1: People pay mad money for that job. I'm one of them,
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  Speaker 1: and it still just doesn't look like that.
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  Speaker 4: You know, it's just not you got to have it
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  Speaker 4: built in from the jump totally.
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  Speaker 1: So I have to know how did you guys meet?
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  Speaker 2: We met actually because of my brother. We were both
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  Speaker 2: in his fashion show. He did a show with Davel
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  Speaker 2: Chappelle and we were both like his muses at the time,
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  Speaker 2: but we were on like opposite ends of the presentation,
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  Speaker 2: so we never like saw each other directly. And then
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  Speaker 2: like two weeks later we went to Paris for fashion
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  Speaker 2: week all together for ten days or two weeks or
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  Speaker 2: something like that, and I stumbled into lax, like still
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  Speaker 2: up from the night before, definitely like yeah, like not
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  Speaker 2: one of my healthier moments, and I.
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  Speaker 3: Like saw gig.
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  Speaker 2: I just like my mind explode and it was just
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  Speaker 2: like instant.
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  Speaker 4: And I was in this like faux fur jacket of Paris,
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  Speaker 4: like yeah, goes to Paris once, and I was just
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  Speaker 4: feeling it totally have to give them fashion. I show up,
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, nobody dresses like that, so embarrassing.
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  Speaker 1: So then what was your like how did you approach her?
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember? I think money, like.
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  Speaker 2: Really aggressively, like I just pretty much. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I made it completely clear and like obvious. I feel
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  Speaker 2: like within like four days, I was like, Okay, so
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  Speaker 2: I really like you. I think we should go on
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  Speaker 2: a date. Let's go to ball Mall get in the car,
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  Speaker 2: we're going and we went.
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  Speaker 1: Mm hm, you would have snagged me that way.
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  Speaker 4: It was very that. It was very that and we
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  Speaker 4: went like to the dressing room. They gave us like Champagne.
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  Speaker 4: I was like Parisian and like I saw Taylor Swift
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  Speaker 4: where this bamba dress. It was like this strapless one
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  Speaker 4: with like crystals in the middle, and they had it
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  Speaker 4: and I was like, can I just try it on?
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  Speaker 4: We took pictures like in the dressing room with it,
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  Speaker 4: gave it back and I was like that was the
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  Speaker 4: best first date ever.
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  Speaker 1: That is, I mean that first date makes mine look
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  Speaker 1: like I think my first date may have been to
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  Speaker 1: like a chain restaurant with Randall. I think.
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  Speaker 4: So it's the company that makes it good, though we could.
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  Speaker 1: Have done Yeah the bitch, I'm from Utah, take me
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  Speaker 1: to Applebee's and shit, I love it.
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: And then you guys were just in separable after.
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  Speaker 3: That pretty much, pretty much.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I remember I went to Canada right after that
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  Speaker 4: trip and we were just texting all the time, and
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  Speaker 4: I would tell all my friends at home. I was like,
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  Speaker 4: I think I like someone new. This is like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: coming on really strong, Like I'm thinking about them all
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  Speaker 4: the time. And at the time it was before his transition,
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  Speaker 4: so they were like, oh my god, like, you're with
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  Speaker 4: a girl. That's so insane, Like this must just be
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  Speaker 4: a phase or something.
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  Speaker 1: Had you always been with men? Okay?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, So my friends were like, oh, you know, she's
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  Speaker 4: just like going through a phase. This is just like
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  Speaker 4: Paris love or whatever, and I like, no, I think
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  Speaker 4: it's more though, Like I have a feeling inside me
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  Speaker 4: that it's more so. When we went When I came
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  Speaker 4: back to la we just were like together all the time,
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  Speaker 4: and I was like still together, guys, like I had
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  Speaker 4: to prove myself.
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  Speaker 1: But so, how long after you had the Balman experience,
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  Speaker 1: was it like We're official, I'm obsessed, never going to
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  Speaker 1: anybody else.
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  Speaker 4: Like probably like a month or two.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like pretty and media like I'm sure.
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  Speaker 2: I think probably within like two months, I was saying
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  Speaker 2: like I love you, Like I was like totally in
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  Speaker 2: love with Gigi. Like it was like I want to say,
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  Speaker 2: probably by the end of like that Paris trip, I
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  Speaker 2: was like totally in love.
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  Speaker 1: With How long was the Paris trip?
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  Speaker 2: It was like fourteen days and we were just like
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  Speaker 2: together every day.
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  Speaker 3: I had a different hotel long days.
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  Speaker 2: I was staying in like the Mandarin Oriental, like the
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  Speaker 2: most gorgeous hotel.
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  Speaker 3: Gigi in August, We're staying somewhere else and.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like like a five minute drive away.
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  Speaker 3: No, it was like further. It was like far and
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  Speaker 3: like annoying, And I.
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  Speaker 2: Would sleep on Gigi's couch because I just wanted to
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  Speaker 2: hang out with her. And like on the one of
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  Speaker 2: the last night's they all came to my room and
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  Speaker 2: like in my hotel and they're like wait, you've been
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  Speaker 2: sleeping on our couch, and this is you like where
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  Speaker 2: you actually have been meant to be staying, Like you're crazy.
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  Speaker 3: This room is so like room.
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  Speaker 4: I was like I would have Yeah, he was sleeping
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  Speaker 4: on like the floor. Basically the couch was like a
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  Speaker 4: fashion couch, Like you're not functional.
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  Speaker 1: That is true, levet, when you're willing to like sleep
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  Speaker 1: on a couch. I mean, I definitely I loved Gid.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, I would have come to you.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, not this the whole time, so let's
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  Speaker 4: just stay here now. And we had like two days left.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, okay, and then you guys end up
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  Speaker 1: obviously getting married.
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  Speaker 4: I know, it's insane. It's like it's crazy though, because
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  Speaker 4: I'm always like I'm such a hopeless romantic. I'm like,
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  Speaker 4: how did you meet? When did you say I love you?
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  Speaker 4: You know, when did you guys hook up? When was
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  Speaker 4: your first kiss? Like all that, But for us, it
• 13:42
  Speaker 4: just happened so fast, Like yeah, it wasn't like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: you guys got together too soon or I'm always kind
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  Speaker 4: of judging like that of people, but with us, it
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  Speaker 4: was just like you can't, like you can't predict these
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  Speaker 4: things now, we were not looking for love. It literally
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  Speaker 4: just happened, and looking back, it's like that was really fast.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah right, but it's like it's we're still together, we're
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  Speaker 4: still madly in love and we're married. It's like, wow,
• 14:04
  Speaker 4: you know, when you look back at everything on paper,
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  Speaker 4: it's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I totally get that, because if you were to write
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  Speaker 1: Randall and I down on paper, people would be like,
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  Speaker 1: this is fucking weird, this makes zero sense. But I
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  Speaker 1: always say, like rand and I were written in the
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  Speaker 1: stars before we even arrived on this planet, right, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like that's what you guys had. Yeah I have.
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  Speaker 4: I see that with you and him too.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I just you can't deny something that's right.
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  Speaker 4: You guys are like Bonnie and Clyde. I feel yeah whenever, yeah, duo.
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  Speaker 3: The dynamic is like super real.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And that's why I tell people, I'm like, you literally
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  Speaker 1: cannot you you number one cannot have a type because,
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  Speaker 1: like you said, you were like dating men and everyone
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  Speaker 1: was like, it's a phase. You can't have a type
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  Speaker 1: because that puts you in a box. You also can't
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: deny something that you feel in your gut, like your
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: heart and your mind. I feel will fuck you a lot,
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: but when you fill it in your gut, you just
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: got to roll with it.
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah, right, and you just know like when you know
• 15:03
  Speaker 4: you know. I was like, oh my god, I think
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: I'm in love.
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah that's so cut me. And then how long were
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: you together before you tied the knot two years?
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: Two and like two and a half years.
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: That's a good amount of time.
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: I think so too. That on paper makes sense to me.
• 15:19
  Speaker 4: That makes total sense, makes sense to me. I think
• 15:21
  Speaker 4: I was the hesitant one though, like he'd be like,
• 15:24
  Speaker 4: let's move in together, you know, let's do.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: Yah such a.
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: Move.
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: Always lived alone, always my whole life. I just feel
• 15:33
  Speaker 4: like I'm such a nightmare to like live with.
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: But we spend every day at my house. You slept
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: there every single day.
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: Like my hang up was like I'm going to move
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: all my clothes in, all my.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Shoes, right, Like I'm not going to have a drawer.
• 15:44
  Speaker 4: No, no, I was not going to be half like
• 15:47
  Speaker 4: it's I have a lot of stuff. And I was like,
• 15:49
  Speaker 4: I don't think you're ready.
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: And were you when she moved in?
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: You like of course, I was like you've been living here,
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: like you're crazy, Like all we have now is your
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: couch like a couple more TVs.
• 16:00
  Speaker 3: It's like, it's fine.
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: Are you in the same house that you were in
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: when you first moved in?
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, when we moved in, yes, No, but I was
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: thinking about the one before.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we met and I was living in West Hollywood,
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: and now we live in.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: The valley amazing, which I'm obsessed with. Yeah, you get
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: the best content in the valley. I mean I see it.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what the fuck?
• 16:20
  Speaker 4: Where are the neighborhoods? The like the heat, I'm obsessed.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: All I'm like a lizard. I want to like bake
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: in the heat.
• 16:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah too, except I just burn, so I just like
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: have to be careful. But I love the heat. I
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: especially the dry heat because you're not really constantly sweating. No,
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: like you're not kind of just gorge gorge.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: So at any point, are you guys wanting to have babies?
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: Oh my god?
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I like can't wait to have like an extended family,
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: like outside of me and g and like our cats
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: that we currently have.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: Right the cats are the babies right now, I see
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: them on gram There's They're the stars.
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: Yes, they really are high maintenance baby, but I feel
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: like we actually are friend. Our best friend has her
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: sister over at the house right now with two kids. Okay,
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: and that's like our little taste of having kids.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm obsessed with I'm.
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: Obsessed to you, but I will say, when they're not yours,
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: I feel like you're like, okay bye, right like a
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: few hours, it's like, oh my god, Okay, I can't
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: wait to focus on me again.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Like one hundred percent.
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: I feel like when it's ours, though, we'll be like
• 17:28
  Speaker 4: wanting that we won't be like annoyed with it.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: I literally so. I have two step children who I
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: love dearly, Like the only way I could love them
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: anymore is if I birthed them, or like, I just
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: I totally get what you mean, because when you know,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: like your baby is coming, and it doesn't even matter
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: how your baby gets here, right surrogate, it doesn't matter
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: if you have them on your own, it doesn't matter
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: if you adopt. I have a family member who is adopted.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: Literally the best thing that ever happened to our family.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to say who it is because who
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: knows if they know, but oh my god, my god,
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: I don't know how old. Are they like younger? Oh? Yeah,
• 18:14
  Speaker 4: too much.
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: But when you know that it's your human it's just
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: like there's nothing like it.
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: Game changer.
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: That's it's a game changer. I'm just so like, I
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: don't know, I feel like I'm ready to be a mom,
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: But at the same time, I'm like, am I ready
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: to give up my own life? And that's what it
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: feels like it's going to be.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: But you know what change it won't be because you
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: guys will be able.
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: To have help, right And yeah, you're you're both too.
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: Busy to not have help. Like you're in the entertainment world.
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of things that you guys are having
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: to do that moms that are you know, stay at
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: home moms and the dad goes and works in nine
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: to five. It's just very different. It's different, you know,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: like agreed, Yeah for Ocean, I mean I have to
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: have all hands on deck, especially during filming. She can
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: fill for twenty minutes at a time, and you know
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: a scene could she filming? Yeah, Oh my god, I
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: was wondering that.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: She's a star.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: She's a baby.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: She was very colicky at the beginning, and it was like,
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: it just means they cry for no reason.
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: It's like usually oh right, like they're just like feeling it.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Three months, it's out of their system.
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: She's more like diva baby.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Like she'll be sitting there and she'll be like, why
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: the fuck have I been sitting here for twenty minute? Cry?
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: You know, like do something for me.
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: What's your sign?
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: She is a hold on She's a Pisces.
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: Pisces. Pisces.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Pisces are my soulmates?
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: Is Randall? You're like, no, Randall's and Aries? Oh my god,
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: me too? Okay, bullheaded, goal oriented fire stoners. Yeah, wait,
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: what's your sign?
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: I'm a sage? Okay. Sages are very like I love
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: my mom's a sage. She's going keeps it real, very
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: chill unless you fuck with them over game over. But
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: there's no middle speed.
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: No I agree with.
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: That, Yeah I do.
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah. Whereas Aries, I feel like there's a lot
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: of middle speed, Like we could just be.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, kind of what you see is what
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: you get. You're never gonna be thrown off by a arees.
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: I heard once, like once like two days ago. I
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: heard one like on Instagram someone said Aries is they
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: either are so obsessed with you or they just don't care.
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: There's no room for hate. I feel like that's kind
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: of very me. I never really thought about it like that.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: Oh I like that. I actually just.
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: Don't really care a lot of the time when I
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: don't like somebody.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I get that vite from you.
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I feel like I do hate.
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: Those sometimes too, not really, though you don't think. It's
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: kind of been going.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: Like I'll really hate something and I'll be like Gigi,
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: like please get on board, and you're just like so indifferent.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: It's just like irritated.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Wait, is that how she is when
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: you guys talk shit?
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, for like I mean not that I talk shit
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: all the time. Like if there's like.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: Something like specifically that I like loath, I'll be like, babe,
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: like get into it, and she'll just be like, like,
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: I don't really get.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Why you're getting so worked out.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: You're like, no, I need you to, like, I need
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: you hate this as much as I do.
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: That's true. That's true.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: That is so amazing. I have Matts, Getty and Jugi Gorge.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: We will be right back after this break. We are back,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: and I love it because well, obviously because I have
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: you guys, but Also, it is the end of at
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: our house and I'm sure at your guys' houses and
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: houses in anywhere that's normal. Pride is celebrated all day,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: every day year round, but for the month, today's the
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: last day of Pride month. So this is like the
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: best way to quote unquote wrap it up. I love
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: for last, save the best for last. So we I
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: really want to dive into you, naxt because when and
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: I'm going to try my best not to get emotional, cabin,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: but you're posting on social media look at me.
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: Take off.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: So I just sorry, I just I think you're incredible.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I always have since I met you. And when you
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: decided to come out with your story, I was shook. Yeah,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: and not shook like oh my god, what the fuck,
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: but just shook because you're so well spoken when you
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: explained your path. So tell me a little bit about
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: how this whole you. I read somewhere that you you
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: told your friend first and then went into that I
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: told and GEEJ said you better work.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: Okay, So but I.
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: Was just as shook as you.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: By the way, where are you? Yes? Okay, so kind
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: of kind of walk me and my co host ye
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: through it.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I mean it's crazy because so during quarantine,
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: obviously alone with your thoughts, just like thinking, thinking, thinking
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: all the time, and I just like noticed more and
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: more how uncomfortable I was like with my body, Like
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: and I used to like be obsessed with being like
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: shirtless all the time and just like would stare at
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: myself in the mirror like naked all the time and
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: just be like, oh my god, you're like the hottest
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: thing ever.
• 23:29
  Speaker 3: Like I was like obsessed with myself.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Good for you.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: And then it stopped, and I was like, what what's
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: this about? And I just started thinking more and more
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: like okay, like I need to dive deeper here and
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: kind of figure it out. And at that time, my
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: best friend kid, who's also like a trans guy, was
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: quarantined with us, so I was just like talking a
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: lot with him, and we were just like having like
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: really like honest and open like conversations, and it really
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: just opened my mind up, and I just one day
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: out of no where where I realized, damn it, like
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: I need to get top surgery.
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: Like I'm completely unhappy with the way that I.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: Look, and I know that it's like based around my gender,
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: and I think, what's like interesting is like I decided
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: top surgery first and then I'm going to figure out
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: my pronouns and like how I identify after I get
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: this surgery, when like.
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: Normally it's the other way around, Okay, But I.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: Decided, like I'm going to do this surgery first because
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: it was like my body for my eyes, for like
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: my feelings and I feel like genders almost for other people,
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: it's like allowing them to put you in a box.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: And so I wanted to like make my body right
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: in my mind right first and then like live in
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: my new body and then figure out like what my
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: pronouns are, and like obviously they now are like he him,
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: but I like allowed myself this space to really figure
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: it out for a while. And we didn't I didn't know,
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: Gidi didn't know, and it was just like, okay, I
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: have to live with this new version of me. I
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: kind of get into.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: It, right, Yeah, I mean you had overwhelming support.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, Yeah, I mean it was insane.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: And then to see you guys released footage of like
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: the whole trip. I believe it was San Francisco, y yes, yeah,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: doctors out. Yeah, I love it. And so what was
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: that I mean, the trip looked like it was amazing,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: but you were going to have top surgery. So how
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: long were you guys there for? And where did the
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: top surgery take place? In that time?
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: We went only in specifically for the top surgery, right,
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: And so I think we were there a total of
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: like what eight days or something.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: Like that, maybe nine?
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: And how long were you there before you had your surgery?
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: In the eight days?
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: Less than two days?
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: Okay?
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: Was there a quick little merry up just like a
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: ten minute in and out think because we had done
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: everything else like virtually over like two months or something,
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: and then it was surgery day?
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: Just like that.
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: W was crazy?
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: And what was your headspace like going into it? Were
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: you nervous?
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: I was like normally like before I had like knee
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: surgery before, and I'm always like a little bit nervous,
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: But for some reason, I had just like this overwhelming
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: sense of calm and I just was like, I'm doing
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: the right thing.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: And for the first time in so long, like I finally.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: Felt like still, which was so strange because like during
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: all of COVID, like we were maybe being like physically
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: still and not doing that much. But I felt like
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: my mind was ping ponging, and my emotions were just
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: like all over the place, and I was just like
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: literally like rattled, like my body felt rattled. And I
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: woke up for surgery and I just was like, yo,
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: I'm totally at peace, and like that was just.
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: The best feeling ever.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: Waking up was painful and kind of gnarly, but.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: Right, it was right.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was definitely like a way more intense surgery
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: than I had thought of, okay, because it's literally stitches
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: from one side of your body to the other.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: As a wonderful person on Instagram pointed out, it looked
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: like I'd been cut in half by a chainsaw. But no,
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: literally that's kind of what it does. Like look like
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: that person's a dick though, home. Yeah, No, waking up
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: was kind of gnarly, but I called Gigi immediately and
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: it had like one eye closed, and I was like,
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: gg I woke up like I was just so excited
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: that I had woken up.
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: And it was over with. I couldn't believe it was crazy.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I mean, I I'm sure because even though that person
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: is an asshole, I mean essentially that is what is happening,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Like the way they have to cut you open. How
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: long is the healing time with that?
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: Okay, so we I keep saying weep. It was like
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: a team effort because like Gig was there, like.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: You took it home like a gang of support.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like everyone that lives at my house
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: and kid who like technically doesn't live with us, but
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: like kind of does.
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: So we all went.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: The first like seven days you have drains in and
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: so like three times a day somebody aka Gigi had
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: to empty the drains, which was like horrifying, Like I
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: couldn't look. So it just was like horrible because it's
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: just her blood.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: Coming out of your body.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: Do you think you could have looked if you were
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: taking care of someone else that had been through it?
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yes, I've seen Like when Caid had his drains,
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: we did, we took we went, we did the same trip,
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: just with the shame group of people. Yeah, so we'd
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: like done it before, but with him, and so everyone
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: was just like now doing it for me. The drains
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: were normally that was like seven days and then they
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: take off all the bandages and it's the first time
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: you get to see your body since before you went under. Yeah,
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: and that was when it really just like hit me
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: and I got so emotional and it still makes me
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: get so emotional now when I think about it, because
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: like I was laying down and they were like cutting
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: everything off.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: They have to pull the drains out, which is like horrible,
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: and I remember being like, wait, so.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: You can see my whole chest and she kept be
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: like yes, nuts, like I can see it.
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: I was like, no, but you can see all of it,
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: and like for.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Some reason, I just like didn't believe her, or I
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: thought that's like the surgery had been like fucked up,
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: and like it was like I still had tits or
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: something like. I just was like because I couldn't like
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: bend down and look at the angle that I was at.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: So when I finally stood up and walked towards the
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: mirror and I saw myself, it was just like I
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: don't know, I just felt like a wave of gratitude
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: and just.
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: Like I don't know, it was like pure joy. It
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: was crazy.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, of course, I can only imagine like you
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: probably looked at yourself and you felt like you had
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: come into your own Yeah.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: No, I finally was like this is the person that
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: I've been like supposed to be looking at every time
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: I look in a mirror or like see a picture,
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: and like that was just like so real and crazy.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Wow you look hot as fucka right, yeah, for real.
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: I like if it wasn't enough before.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: But I mean before and then just when you see
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: somebody really come into who they are, there's something about
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: it where it's.
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: Like, yes, we can all relate, you know, not feeling
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: good when we wake up or whatever. A gender is
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: like a whole other realm. But it's so like it's
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: so freeing when you have people around you who are
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: gonna fight for you because you know, you can just
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: live your life right. And that's like we like wound
• 30:21
  Speaker 4: right around NAT's we were like one hundred percent like
• 30:24
  Speaker 4: he him, let's get this done. You want top surgery,
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: We're all gonna come. Like it wasn't like a struggle.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: It was.
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: It was hard, but we tried to make it not
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: a struggle. We're like, we're just gonna do this right,
• 30:34
  Speaker 4: and we're just gonna kill it for you because that's
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: what anybody needs going through her time.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I know. And obviously your mom, you're
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: super close with your mama.
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's the best.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: What was her reaction when you told her, I mean, obviously,
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I know you're gonna stay supportive, but like for people
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: that don't know.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she just started like sobbing, but not out of
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: like anything bad. I think she was just like really
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: stop for me that I had been feeling this way,
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: and then on the flip side, so happy that I
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: was able to like realize it, kind of confront it
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: and then make a plan. It's like, Okay, this is
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: what I'm going to do to get through this and
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: make myself like who I want to be. And she
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: was just like obviously like the most supportive woman in
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: the world, Like I'm so blessed, and like it's not
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: lost on me because a lot of people can't afford
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: to get surgery, a lot of people don't have the
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: support of their friends or family. So like I'm doubly
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: blessed and like super lucky, and it's like it.
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: Doesn't fall like I'm not blind to that.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: I love that you say that, because you know, I
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: surround myself and as do you guys, with people who
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: are very accepting, and you know they don't think about
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: things that maybe other people and other parts of the
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: world think. And so when I hear someone talk about
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: like them going through what you went through and them
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: saying like my parents were supportive, and it's like well done,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: and it's like, well no, not well doe, Like this
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: is something that a lot of people go through and they.
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: Have zero support, like none, It's crazy.
• 32:10
  Speaker 4: I don't know why people do it. And that's like
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: the messages that we get all the time.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: You know that those are the people that are turning
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: to you guys see yes.
• 32:16
  Speaker 4: And it's like, oh my god, Like we're literally like
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: diving into all of these stories. And it does show
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: us how privileged we are. It does show us how
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: lucky and blessed we are. It's like not lost on us.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: Just no.
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: And I think that's why Gig and I take so
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: seriously kind of like our unofficial jobs of just like
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: kind of being like champions for our community and like
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: whatever way we can, like whether it's like responding to
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: people on Instagram or just like doing anything that's asked
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: of us when it comes to like stuff to do
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: with the community. Just like anytime there's like a pride
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: something and somebody wants like a video for whatever, Like
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: we're always.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: Just the first people to be like, yeah, we're so down,
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: We're in.
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: And that's didn't have to share this, you know, that's
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: not auguest like wow, because he's like such a private
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: person at the end of the day. And when we
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: started dating, it was a constant reminder to me that
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: he didn't sign up to be on my YouTube channel
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: or just like going to events anything. You know, his job,
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: he doesn't have to do that. He can stay home.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: I like, send me off and I'll see him later.
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: But he was like, I'm kind of down. And then
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: when the whole transition thing happened, he was like, let's
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: film it, like I want this, and I was like,
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: can I put it on my channel right just for
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: documentation like purposes for us because we always want to
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: remember it. And totally he was free game and like
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: does interviews. He just did like this dope spread with
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: paper magazine.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: I sign fantastic.
• 33:36
  Speaker 4: It's like, hello, like being so loud and proud. That's
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: saving people's lives at the end of.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: The day, right, like you realize that this is way
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: bigger than just you know.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, It's like I used to be like such an
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: introvert and I was like riddled with anxiety, and I'm
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: sure I had like a lot to do with like
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: my gender related like insecurities and like coming off the
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: tail end of like being like really addicted to like
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: hardcore drugs and stuff like that. But it took me
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: like a really long time to just be able to
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: even be in a room filled with people. Like we'd
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: go to the club or like to an event and
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: I would just be like cold sweats, like shaking, because
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: I just like couldn't be around people.
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: I couldn't interact, and I.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Just like had to tell myself, like, dude, like this
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: is bigger than you. It's like more important to be
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: like visible and to do as much as you can
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: for people that like need GEO. Right. I mean I
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: don't think I'm like fucking Superman or anything, but like
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: I know a lot of people you are, actually yeah,
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: but like doing my best to like live like a
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: really out loud and proud life. I know that it
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: affects like some people because I hear from them on
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: Instagram and like in person when I've like gone around
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: and just like randomly met people. So that's when I
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: really kind of turned it around, because I used to
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: hate all I just like hated.
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: Being like public about anything.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know why.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: It was just like super insecure.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: I think, wow, I would never get that from you.
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was crazy. And everyone just thought I
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: was such a dick because.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: I was just yea everyone everyone sh Now, I feel
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: like really good because I've never like you've never been
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: a dick.
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: Yea.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: God God, So how was I know You've always been
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: a part of the community, but was this Pride different
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: for you?
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: It definitely felt.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Different, Like I made sure, like every Pride is important.
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: I've been going and attending Pride since me and my
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: brother first came out. And I think my brother was
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: like fourteen, and I was like dragging him down because
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: your brother older, younger than he's younger than me, younger
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: than you. So like I took him to his first Pride.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: We went to our first Pride together in West Hollywood.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: We were like sneaking into bars and just like being
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: bad and just having the best time.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: We definitely like went to sir and got fucked up.
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: Amazing yeah full circle. Yeah, no, we totally did.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: And you know, I've been like a part of Pride
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: each year since then.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: This one just felt different. Because I think I have
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: like a new layer or like level of pride. To me,
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: I have so much more to be proud of and
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: to like.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: Celebrate, And I feel like I have a newfound community
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: within my community, which is like really cool too, because
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: I randomly have been meeting, like recently in the last
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: couple of weeks, like so many trans guys, Like I
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: know a lot of trans women, but I really didn't
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: know that many trans men, And in the last two weeks,
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: like I've met more trans guys than I ever have
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: in my entire life. And it just felt like really
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: nice to be a part of like our and like
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: their community.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: Totally. Yeah, I love that, And sorry, I'm getting like
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: I just I think you guys are so amazed.
• 36:38
  Speaker 4: That was a really good question, by the way, How
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: is pride different this time around? I didn't even really
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: think about that, that it would be so different for you.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, this was like my first pride as like a transperson.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I felt super major, Like I've been like right,
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I haven't been verbally like talking
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: about it because like you were totally unaware, but like
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: I've been like very.
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: Conscious of it, like in my mind.
• 36:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and it's like you are prouder than ever.
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I really am.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I made sure that I did like as
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: much like pressed stuff.
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: I mean, you can't see my air quotes.
• 37:07
  Speaker 5: Because they're not feing this, but like, yeah, I've been
• 37:11
  Speaker 5: like doing as much like Pressed ship as I can,
• 37:14
  Speaker 5: just to like I don't know, like further the pride
• 37:17
  Speaker 5: and like further like like a message of like love.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like and in Utah, I'm sure a
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: lot of people will be shook by this. We have
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: one of the largest gay pride I've been parades. Have
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: you been.
• 37:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: When I was spending some time at Circlub.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: I love it. He's like really, He's like, I'll be
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: at sir, but best believe I'll be a Pride.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I know. They took me because I was the
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: only gay kid there and they're like, you want to
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: go to Pride and I was like, yeah.
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: That's fine.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: Out of this place. I can't believe they did that.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: That's actually pretty bad ass.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah that was cool then.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, No, we have a really large Pride parade. So,
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: like I was out and about with my like science
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: tits out obviously to do it. It's out and so
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: I've always wondered, you know, even though I'm not directly
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: a part of the community, I'm an ally. So I
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: was just like I always ask my friends who are
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: in the community, like.
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: How is pride for you, right, you know?
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: And how has it changed when you go through a
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: transformation like you have No.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: I mean it's like I think I have like a
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: newfound respect for it because I was so.
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: Young when I came out.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: How old were you?
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: I think I was like fifteen or like fourteen fifteen.
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: And it wasn't like some big, crazy, like dramatic moment.
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: It was like I hyped it up to be and
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: I like told my mom and.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: She was like, oh my god, I thought you were
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: gonna tell me that you got a fucking tattoo.
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: Not so I've known since you were born.
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: Like relax, she's like the biggest ally of life.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can totally tell them. Yeah, she's so gangs,
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: I might.
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: As well be within the community. She's like that much
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: of a mother.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Every So even my usbands, I asked them and I'm like,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: I'm hoping to find someone some day. And I have
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: a lot of friends a part of the community, right
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: m hm. And I'm like waiting for my Hallmark story
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: of their come out and they're like no, my parents
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: were like really okay, cool, like every single one of
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: them yes, wow, which I'm like, I'm happy about it.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: But I'm like, I'm like, I want, like, give me
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: my lifetime moment king and everyone's like no, my parents
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: were like what whatever? That is?
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: No money? I feel like, I mean, that's amazing to
• 39:35
  Speaker 4: hear for real, but I thought you won't get that
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: from Mari. She like is queer God, She's like, give
• 39:41
  Speaker 4: me bring another Yeah.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: If you're like no, I'm straight, She'll be like are
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: you yeah?
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: Are you?
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Are you?
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: Are you? Like not, everyone is come in, come into
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: my office and.
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: Talking about it.
• 39:52
  Speaker 4: Like literally, though.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, was your mom alive when you transitioned, Gigi?
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: She wasn't. So she passed when I was nineteen and
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: I transitioned right after, like same year when I was nineteen,
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: and I don't know, a part of me thinks that
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: she knew, but I don't know if she knew because
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: being trans wasn't only a thing in my town. It
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: was literally something you saw like on CSI like a
• 40:19
  Speaker 4: dead hooker like that would be the trans representation pretty
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: much so and like you know, Jerry Springer and things
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: like that, Like it just was never like a thing.
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: So I don't even know if she was like, this
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: is possible for where you're from again, Toronto, that's right. Yeah,
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: So it's like a very very open minded, amazing city.
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: I never really had problems there. I would go out
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: in like the littlest dresses, like fully as a boy,
• 40:41
  Speaker 4: and I'd be like hey and everyone and be like
• 40:43
  Speaker 4: oh dope, Like it was never like scary or anything,
• 40:46
  Speaker 4: but yeah, I think like that was That's one of
• 40:49
  Speaker 4: my biggest regrets not being able to tell her because
• 40:51
  Speaker 4: when she did pass, I did know that I was
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: trans okay, and I wasn't taking active steps, but I
• 40:57
  Speaker 4: had known some trans people in my life, and I
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: was like, this is me. And then when she passed,
• 41:02
  Speaker 4: I was like, that's the ultimate learning lesson for me.
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: I just life is too short. You can't fuck around.
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: You got to live every day to your as it
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: fits your last. And that's kind of still how I
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: live my life now every single day because I'm like,
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: you know what shens like, yes you do. I just
• 41:21
  Speaker 4: feel like, you know, like if she like was taken
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: such a beautiful soul too young, and then like anybody
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: could be.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: I know, I don't know if you experienced this, and
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you did because of the way you're talking
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: about your mom. But when my like it's very easy
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: to talk about like time is precious. But it wasn't
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: until I lost my dad that I realized, like I
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: have a really funny, funny relationship with time. Like I
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: was cleaning out Ocean's closet because she's now into her
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: like three month old, and I was remembering like being
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: pregnant shopping for her, and now she's just like warn
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: them and they're done, Like that's this is, it's just done.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: I don't and it was fucking with me. I was
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: stabbing and Randall was like, it's okay, we'll get her
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: more clothes, and like it has nothing to do with
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: the clothes.
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah, totally.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Like I'm so weird about time, Like I'll sit in
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: moments and be like, you're never going to get this back,
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: so you need to be very aware of what's happening.
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: That's amazing that you can do that by yourself, because
• 42:20
  Speaker 4: a lot of people don't. They get caught up and
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: like life happens, and sary like live, laugh, love, but
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: like life happens, we're in it right now. So it's
• 42:28
  Speaker 4: like you even look at last year, it's like, oh
• 42:30
  Speaker 4: my god, last year's Pride was virtual, and it's like
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: this year's pride is still virtual. It's like, where the
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: fuck did the year go? I know, Yeah, you think
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: it would be a completely different situation.
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: It's it's not, I know. And if it will fuck
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: with you if you get into that k hole of
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: like time.
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: Time, yeah, yeah, slowly time.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: So I so appreciate you saying that that's something that
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: you wish you would have.
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: Told her before she passed away.
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, And I feel like that's also something that is
• 43:00
  Speaker 4: like just a huge learning lesson because sometimes I hear,
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: you know, my parents are really accepting, but like I
• 43:05
  Speaker 4: just I don't want to come out to them. And
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: I'm like, well, if you feel like you're not in
• 43:09
  Speaker 4: a dangerous space, or you feel like you can do it,
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: maybe you steep to jump and do it, because you
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: never know if you're not going to be able to
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: tell them. And I know how that.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Feels, right, you know, and if you're not happy, you've
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: become pretty worthless. To everyone around you.
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: Totally true, it is, it absolutely is. Misery loves company
• 43:27
  Speaker 4: and really loves a miserable bit.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: No one wants a miserable bit around. So all right,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: I'm here with NAT's Getty and Gigi gorgeous.
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: We will be right back.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: We are back with my sexy babes. What a way
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: to wrap up the month of pride last truly for
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: real though?
• 43:55
  Speaker 4: How is your pride though?
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my pride consisted of a lot of sucking on
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: my nipples by my baby, fun baby stuff, got it,
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: got it, total babe stuff.
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: How is that is that painful for you? I've heard
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: it can be like a gnarly experience. So there's like
• 44:12
  Speaker 4: you're a little You're like a little girl.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: I'm a little human and I can I can take
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: down like a full cow right now because I'm so hungry.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Right the other day we went to get sushi and
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: this woman was like, are you going to eat all? Oh,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: that's just your order.
• 44:25
  Speaker 4: I was like, that's just my way in la saying
• 44:29
  Speaker 4: that to somebody.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: She was really cute. Okay, she was cute about it
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: because she was like, where do you put it? Right?
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: Thank you?
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm swallen gorgeous.
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: And then because I love compliments, I was like, and
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: I just had a baby.
• 44:41
  Speaker 4: I want to see I'm not bad. She's like, I
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: know you, Lala, I know you.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: She's like little Ocean. I watched vander Pump Rule. Yeah,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: I love it.
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: So wait, speaking of vander Pump, how is filming like
• 44:55
  Speaker 4: you just started right filming?
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: Yes, we just started, which, by the way, you guys
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: are coming to give them all a beauty events.
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah this week? Yeah, right Wednesday?
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: So today today, today, and it will be a filmed event.
• 45:14
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: And production saw your name, Geg on the rs VP
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: list and they were like, is there any way that
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: she would like be into talking to you on camera?
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: And of course Geg is my writer dying. She was like,
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: for sure, here's the thing. Give me like, I'm nervous
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: to film with you because because you're so damn gorgeous.
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: Ever please no.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: Gigi literally texts me and she's like, so is this
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: going to be like a filmed thing? Like do you
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: put it on camera? I was like no, it's just audio.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: So like you don't need to worry about it.
• 45:49
  Speaker 6: She shows that gorgeous I just rolled out of bed,
• 45:53
  Speaker 6: so this is my looking hats, staring.
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: At them the whole time, realizing, well, I wouldn't have
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: gotten ready. I just have stuff to do later, and
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: there's not gonna be enough time because it took us
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: like thirty plus minutes to get here. I know I'm
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: not trying to rush when I get home. No, and
• 46:12
  Speaker 4: also it's smoking mirror's baby. This hair is like two
• 46:15
  Speaker 4: weeks old.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: What does that even mean?
• 46:18
  Speaker 4: I just have not washed it. Just dry shampoo on,
• 46:20
  Speaker 4: dry shampoo, makeup is all.
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: It tell me this. Yeah, do you go the wig route?
• 46:25
  Speaker 4: Because I love wigs, but I have tape bins right now,
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: the tape in Yeah, I know you like wigs too.
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: Right I have. I have yet to find someone who
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: can put a wig on me and me feel like
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: it's your legit looking.
• 46:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it does get hard, I would say. I mean,
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: you don't drink. But usually when I wear a wig
• 46:41
  Speaker 4: and it's feeling a little weird on my head, like
• 46:43
  Speaker 4: I feel like I'm wearing a hat. Right, I'll go
• 46:46
  Speaker 4: out have a few drinks and by the time i'm out,
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: I forget it's my hair and you can't tell me
• 46:50
  Speaker 4: it's not putting out of my scalp. Really, yeah, I forget.
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: I feel like sometimes, like even just when I'm not drinking,
• 46:55
  Speaker 4: it's like you just get used to it. Just it's
• 46:58
  Speaker 4: definitely a weird feeling, I believe.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: So you just like naturally have great hair. Then if
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: those are just tapens, because.
• 47:03
  Speaker 4: It just tapens. But like it's so hair sprayed rock
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: hard right now, I need to wash it.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: It's you got to teach me the fucking way.
• 47:11
  Speaker 4: Too many days. I mean, just extensions. I feel like
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: they make you pretty instantly they did prettier.
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that way.
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: It all on extensions.
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: Here, but yeah, it just helps you know, little extra hair. Yeah,
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: that's a pro extension kind of girl you are. Yeah,
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: the more hair the better.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Right, Like the bigger the hair, the hotter. Literally, I
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: think I would rather have like a not so great
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: makeup day than a bad hair day because the hair
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: kind of just the booms.
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: It all a hundred percent right one. When your hair
• 47:41
  Speaker 4: looks great, it's like, oh she's stunning, one hundred percent. Okay,
• 47:45
  Speaker 4: she's a rock star.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: Did you do your own glam today? Shut the fuck.
• 47:50
  Speaker 4: I'm very self sufficient. I'm h I can do it.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: Almost think that Gigi has like a fucking ten person
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: glam team.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: It's legit, just ge.
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: Like, well, that's why you have a YouTube pannel because
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: it's like not everyone in the world can afford to
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: have a full staff of just glam.
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: And I'll find sometimes when I do, when I do
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: get the glam done, they'll leave and I'll still you
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: will go and like for like thirty minutes, I'm like,
• 48:14
  Speaker 4: well that took three hours when I could have done
• 48:16
  Speaker 4: it in forty five.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: And why do I feel hotter than I did when
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: they did it? Totally?
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: Everyone's so specific about how they look. You know, sometimes
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: you're just like this person just doesn't get it right.
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: Has Nat says your vibe changed since you've transitioned, Like
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: have you, like, do you feel more comfortable in certain
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: things that you didn't feel so comfortable in?
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, Like I'm obsessed with just like I mean,
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: I've always been obsessed with T shirts, okay, but now
• 48:39
  Speaker 2: I find that, like I used to wear like really
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: crazy oversized.
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: One today is not a good example because this is like.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: An over by the way, I'm loving the Rick and Morning.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: I love Wrick in Morning the same.
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: But like I love wearing like tight T shirts and just.
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: Stuff like that because I don't have a chest and right,
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: so it's just like and also I love being shirtless.
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: I'm sure this is like all the time. Yea, literally
• 48:59
  Speaker 3: all the time.
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: By the end of every party, my shirts off, sleeping shirtless, so.
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: Much fun walking around the house.
• 49:06
  Speaker 4: Just like like tops and stuff for summer, like the more.
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: It used to be very like cover.
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're like crazy, yeah okay, yeah, when you
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: were like the most stylish, stylish person I know. Yeah, no,
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: I won't even lie. I for sure copied some of
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: your looks.
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, and you wear Strike Oil, oh his brand,
• 49:24
  Speaker 4: let's talk about MGK had to.
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: How crazy I died because I love him and I've
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: been wanting to address him forever and we actually made
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: that custom for him.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: Shut up. Yeah, he looked amazing.
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: He looks so dope. He looks so cool.
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: When did you start Strike Oil, which, by the way,
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: for the listener's, Strike Oil is Nats's clothing line.
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: So I started it like two years before.
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: Me and g started dating, so like eight years ago, okay, yeah,
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: And it started off with just like one of a kind,
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: like painted on. I used to paint on leather jacket,
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: it's okay. And then I started doing merch and then
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: it just kind of kept growing and now it's just
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: like a full fledge and now it's just.
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: On MGK and he's performing.
• 50:12
  Speaker 4: Like you guys had to check it out. It's like
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: with his blonde hair and the blue and the white
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: and the fit of it, I was like, he needs
• 50:18
  Speaker 4: to be in Strike Oil more. It just looks so
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: good on him.
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: Look well he just has like that vibe, like he
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: has the Strike Oil vibe. Yes, I hope that You're
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: proud when I've worn it? Yeah, now you Yeah what
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: was that one?
• 50:32
  Speaker 4: You actually wore it on the show? I think I
• 50:34
  Speaker 4: did the button down and didn't you do?
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: Like yeah, I did we off sleeve eyes. It's such
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: a vibe. I love your stuff.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: So then how so you would do the artwork for
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: the actual like did you do the artwork of the
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: one that I wore?
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that came straight out of my like notebook, just
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: like from doodleing cool.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a man.
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: We just turned it into a fabric and so like
• 50:58
  Speaker 2: I do that for a lot of like the and stuff.
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: I line the bombers with my artwork.
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: So it's like actually reversible, so you can wear it
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: like on either side.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: I'm not lying. When I leave here, I'm literally filling
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: a cart and no serious tricoil dot com need to
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: be fed.
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: There's a bunch of good stuff, and I love how
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: quickly the drops come. It's not like once this season right, No,
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: it's not seasonal.
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: It's just like I put together a whole collection and
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: we just drop it like every couple of weeks. So
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: like there was just like a new drop of a
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: bunch of really dope shit like less than a month ago,
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: I think.
• 51:39
  Speaker 4: And I like it too. Speaking of Pride, it's not
• 51:41
  Speaker 4: I mean all clothing is unisex obviously, yeah, but it's
• 51:45
  Speaker 4: a very unisex vibe.
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: Oh it's like so into that you feel.
• 51:49
  Speaker 4: Like it's not like little mini dresses or like whatever.
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: It's like a lot of the stuff is like and
• 51:54
  Speaker 4: then since we've started dating forever ago, I started becoming
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: more of like I have my more tomboids days because
• 52:00
  Speaker 4: I'm wearing a lot of his stuff. You know, one
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: d oil is very that it's like boyfriend clothing, but
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: it's like dope and one of a kind, Like you'll
• 52:09
  Speaker 4: see this shit around no.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: And like I feel these days with like the vibe
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: that everyone's trying to pull off, like I'm just a
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: straight bitch, like nothing, like it's just like whatever, Verry
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: Vanilla whatever, And I I prefer like oversize everything. I
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: want to be cozy. There are days where I get
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: my like chic on right, like can be very Gugi Gore,
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: But for the most part, I'm like, I don't want
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: to fucking do that.
• 52:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Hunt, I feel you, I feel you.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: I just want to walk out in my sneakers and
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: something fucking dope.
• 52:45
  Speaker 4: Huge, huge, no to do. We got to get the
• 52:47
  Speaker 4: cast of vander pump On a little more strike oil
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: this season, Oh my god, because I feel like it
• 52:52
  Speaker 4: really levels your pussy up level are pussy up? Like truly,
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: it's just like wearing like so dope looking for it. Yeah,
• 53:01
  Speaker 4: I love that you said.
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: That, but it does tell it cool, tell our listeners
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: what leveling the pussy I mean, I don't know.
• 53:09
  Speaker 4: I feel like everyone just kind of dresses the same
• 53:12
  Speaker 4: in La, you know, like a little just like I
• 53:14
  Speaker 4: don't know, I'm not like the fashionista really but Nazas
• 53:18
  Speaker 4: and like He's like, I don't know, it just like
• 53:20
  Speaker 4: breaks the mold, like the little strike Oil moment. It
• 53:22
  Speaker 4: just like levels you up totally. Yeah, I don't know.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: I do all kind of look like a cookie cutter
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: version of each other.
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: And I'm guilty of that as well.
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: But when I wear strike Oil, what planet do you like?
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: I mean, I'm wearing like a ten dollars dress from
• 53:34
  Speaker 4: like Walmart right now?
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: Are you really?
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: I think it's from Walmart? Only you could Amazon. Don't
• 53:39
  Speaker 4: even Swiss sneaks for pride.
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: Okase, Swiss, I haven't heard you look adorable?
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: Good? Thanks you, but you always do as if you
• 53:48
  Speaker 4: should see me in the morning.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: What is her closet?
• 53:51
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: Is your closet just as intense as hers?
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah? I have more we have. I have two closets.
• 53:58
  Speaker 4: And half closet and there not closes their rooms.
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: Well I've seen like on your gram and YouTube where
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: you have done and I'm like, what is this? This
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: This is like a full master bedroom.
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we live clothing. We live in clothes. It's really bad.
• 54:13
  Speaker 4: We've been meaning to get like a professional to come
• 54:17
  Speaker 4: organize it all.
• 54:18
  Speaker 3: It's like a lot. It's overwhelming.
• 54:19
  Speaker 4: It's to get you organized when you want that one
• 54:22
  Speaker 4: piece of clothing, and then it's like I got to
• 54:25
  Speaker 4: go through racks, right, whereas if it was like just
• 54:28
  Speaker 4: dresses or pants all in one area. Yeah, so much easier.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: I have someone for you, really, yeah cool, one hundred
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: person for you. See, I have the opposite problem. I'm like,
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: very Randall is a mess, right, He's like a bull
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: in a china shop.
• 54:42
  Speaker 4: And I love that for him.
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: Right, you just look at him and you know you
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: use a mess, right stop just ship everywhere. And he
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: doesn't get rid of anything. And I'm like the queen
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: of getting rid of things. So when he comes home,
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: like he takes inventory before he leaves town because he
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: knows if he leaves, you're gonna get rid of Yeah,
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: I'll get ready.
• 55:04
  Speaker 4: We call it flipping. So if I'm in a mood
• 55:07
  Speaker 4: and i want a room to look a certain way,
• 55:09
  Speaker 4: like I've just done two rooms and they look fabulous, right,
• 55:12
  Speaker 4: But if I'm in a mood, Nats will be like,
• 55:14
  Speaker 4: oh my god, she's flipping. She's gonna flitch, and I.
• 55:16
  Speaker 3: Flip the room.
• 55:17
  Speaker 4: I'll throw out so much stuff I'll donate, put it
• 55:20
  Speaker 4: in like garbage bags and stuff, and he'll be like,
• 55:23
  Speaker 4: oh my god, you gave these pants away that I
• 55:26
  Speaker 4: love so much but I had worn in five years.
• 55:28
  Speaker 4: I was like, well, you don't need them though.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: You don't need them if you haven't worn them in
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: five years, then time for them to go out. No, seriously,
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: my housekeeper and house manager love me because like I'm
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: like giving them Sendy and Gibonche and they're just like
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: walking around and I'm like, you look so fabulous, and
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: They'll tell me, like their daughters will be like, do
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: you realize like the shoes you have on?
• 55:47
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: My my housekeeper took my hooker lubetins that I'm like
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: obsessed with, and yeah, she sent me a picture of her.
• 55:53
  Speaker 4: And they gave them away though.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I gave them to her. Why because I was like,
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to wear them again.
• 55:58
  Speaker 4: I got it. You know you've already You've already worn them.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: And then like my business manager was like, you could
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: sell it. I'm like, I'm not going to sell it.
• 56:06
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to sell it to the real reel
• 56:08
  Speaker 4: or something.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I'm gonna give it to freaking Isabelle, who's
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: gonna look like a hot bitch. You know. I love that. Yeah,
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: And Isabelle fucking works. Those lubtons like nobody's business that
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: you know. Love that, So I have someone for you
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: for sure. My closet is the opposite. I'm like, wore
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: it one time, never gonna wear it again. But then
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: you look at my sweatshirts and it's like do you
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: have enough? Yeah, black T shirts and sweatshirts I refuse
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: to get rid of.
• 56:35
  Speaker 4: It's you went so special, like I need that one.
• 56:38
  Speaker 4: I need, Like the sweat closet over at our house
• 56:40
  Speaker 4: is the exact same way.
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: You have a sweat closet, yes, and it's mine, and
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: it's just like it's like merch and stuff from like Coachella,
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: Like I want to keep every.
• 56:49
  Speaker 3: Coachella hoodie that I've ever bought.
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: Of course, and it's like my sneaker room at the
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: same time, So it's just like merch, yeasy stuff, sneaker stuff.
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: I think I would have more of a Heyday in
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: his closet.
• 56:59
  Speaker 4: Than well, I don't know, really awesome, pretty cool stuff.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would probably need both because there's no middle
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: speed with me. It's like we're going full on tomboy
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: oversize everything or we are getting clammed.
• 57:15
  Speaker 4: Yes, like tonight for your event.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: Glammed as fuck, Glammed as fuck. Love it, I know,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: can't wait, can't Oh, you're both gonna do me so
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: proud of definitely, I know it.
• 57:27
  Speaker 4: We're ready.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, So with this podcast and us wrapping up, we're
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: gonna get We're going to get the feels for anyone
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: listening who is going through a tough time and you
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: are the people they look to, like, what is your
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: inspiring note to them?
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: Gee?
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: Do you want to go first?
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: Ah?
• 57:46
  Speaker 4: Sure, I would say from personal experience, I think when
• 57:53
  Speaker 4: I started my transition, it was like, I gotta get
• 57:56
  Speaker 4: it done now. I like, this is the list of
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: things I need to get done by this month and
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: this month, and then by the end of it, I
• 58:03
  Speaker 4: was like I just was rushing the whole thing. You know.
• 58:07
  Speaker 4: It's like you really just got to take your time.
• 58:10
  Speaker 4: So I would just let people know that they are
• 58:12
  Speaker 4: where they're supposed to be and it is fine. Don't
• 58:15
  Speaker 4: put more like unnecessary pressure on yourself because of comparing
• 58:19
  Speaker 4: yourself to people you see online or you know, things
• 58:22
  Speaker 4: you read. It's like, no, no, no, you are unique,
• 58:25
  Speaker 4: you are fine. You can do anything you set your
• 58:28
  Speaker 4: mind to, but just be easy on yourself. I love that,
• 58:31
  Speaker 4: and it's it works, it really does. Oh I love that,
• 58:34
  Speaker 4: gene and put away the pressure because you're killing it already.
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm true.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: Yes, amen, Sis, what about you? And next?
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: I think the most important thing is that I've realized
• 58:45
  Speaker 2: I spent a lot of my younger years when I
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: was just like a lesbian without a sense of community
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: or like chosen family. And now, especially since Gigi and
• 58:57
  Speaker 2: I got together, I had like the most incredible chosen.
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: Family around me, like friends, wife.
• 59:04
  Speaker 2: People that I live with, and like, obviously my real
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: family is so accepting, but it's so important to have
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: that core group of friends. And a lot of people
• 59:13
  Speaker 2: don't have, you know, their real family to support them.
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: So it's just like find that chosen family, whether it's
• 59:18
  Speaker 2: like an actual community of people you get to see
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: face to face or like a bunch of people you
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: meet online, Like there's always going to be a group
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: for you. You just have to go and like actively
• 59:28
  Speaker 2: search for them.
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: Dude, that's amazing.
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: Family is almost as important, if not more important, than
• 59:34
  Speaker 4: your real family.
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: Well someone told me once, because we don't get along
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: with my extended family, and it's like you can pick
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: your friends. You don't get to pick your family. So
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  Speaker 1: it's okay if you go out and you find friends
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  Speaker 1: that you're like, I'm going to make you my family.
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  Speaker 4: My especially if you're living in a town that your
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  Speaker 4: family's not in.
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  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, totally.
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  Speaker 4: All LA people basically have chosen families because they're all
• 59:56
  Speaker 4: what's it called.
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  Speaker 1: Important implant implant implants grab, that's where my mind went to.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, exactly, yeah, So I feel like it's like
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  Speaker 4: who you surround yourself with, you know, if people want
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 4: to see you doing well, it's like you're gonna you're
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 4: gonna flourish.
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  Speaker 3: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are amazing again. We had on the podcast
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: today and Nats, Getty and Gigi gorgeous. We hope that
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: you go out and you slay the day. Remember you
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: are everything and more and we will catch you next week.
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  Speaker 4: Fine app