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Love Island Love Lessons: Why Won’t You Believe In Love #brinity #toogoodtobetrue · I Do, Part 2

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Speaker 1: Hey, folks, it is Saturday, June twenty seventh, and we
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Speaker 1: are watching a love story unfold right before our eyes.
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Speaker 1: It is the story of the season of Love Island.
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Speaker 1: They already even have their own nickname, Grinity. So why
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Speaker 1: is it some people, plenty, some loud voices are calling
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Speaker 1: bs on their love story with that welcome to this
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Speaker 1: Love Island love lesson edition of Amy and TJ. I
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Speaker 1: did not know there were this many voices and this
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Speaker 1: many loud ones saying that the story of the season
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Speaker 1: for me ain't real.
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Speaker 2: I'm shocked.
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Speaker 3: To be honest, I get it. Reality TV isn't reality.
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Speaker 3: I understand the healthy skepticism we should all perhaps view
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Speaker 3: these types of shows through it's a healthy lens. But
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Speaker 3: I am Call me a sucker, call me naive, call
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Speaker 3: me somebody.
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Speaker 2: Who just loves love.
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Speaker 3: But I believe in the real feelings being shared between
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Speaker 3: Bryce and Trinity.
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Speaker 1: Okay, how can we not? What signs? What signs do
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Speaker 1: we have that it's not true? And the only one
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Speaker 1: I'm seeing robes is that it's too good to be true.
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Speaker 3: That's exactly what folks are saying, that they don't believe
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Speaker 3: that they each could be crying separate from one another,
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Speaker 3: pining away from one another.
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Speaker 2: No one's ever seen.
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Speaker 3: They claim a man, a male contestant on Love Island
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Speaker 3: literally pout and be depressed and.
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Speaker 2: Cry during Casa amore.
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Speaker 3: That is the opposite of what has happened typically with
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Speaker 3: almost every other man, regardless of the relationship they're in.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so it's just unbelievable, is what some are saying.
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Speaker 1: Now you can add to that a little bit, and
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Speaker 1: that the suggestion we see him cry, but it was
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Speaker 1: the fact that both of them were crying separately, robes.
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Speaker 1: That's not just a suggestion. This is unlikely or performative
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Speaker 1: but planned.
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Speaker 3: Yes, there is a suggestion by a whole group of
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Speaker 3: people online who believe this is all they're playing us,
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Speaker 3: that Bryce is pretending to win, that there's no way
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Speaker 3: that they have this deep of a feeling for one another,
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Speaker 3: and that this is all put on to win the
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Speaker 3: one hundred thousand dollars. So people are very skeptical that
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Speaker 3: Brinity is for real because they just won't believe that
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Speaker 3: true love can happen on television that quickly.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so can I ask, though this isn't the biggest
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Speaker 1: point of us talking here, but what if they are
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Speaker 1: playing us, if they are playing a game so they
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Speaker 1: can win that money and get out of there and
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Speaker 1: get the biggest endorsements in all this, Is there anything
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Speaker 1: wrong with that?
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Speaker 3: It is a game, Yes, But I do think to
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Speaker 3: fake how you feel and to misrepresent how you feel
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Speaker 3: to win money is not something that is admirable or
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Speaker 3: likable or in any way encouraged in the show. Now,
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Speaker 3: we love the show because we like its authenticity, even
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Speaker 3: when it's ugly, even when it's messy, even when it's
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Speaker 3: a dramatic. And some people would say especially when it's
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Speaker 3: all of those things, but I would say especially when
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Speaker 3: it's when you find love, when someone finds a connection. Look,
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Speaker 3: people are comparing them to last season's Nick and Landria,
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Speaker 3: and their people doubt their love.
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Speaker 2: You want to know why.
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Speaker 3: A Maybe because it's inter racial and a lot of
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Speaker 3: people have talked about how that could be. There's a
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Speaker 3: level of skepticism that uh that two people from different
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Speaker 3: races black white could actually fall in love with one another,
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Speaker 3: which is sad that that is still a conversation.
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Speaker 2: And number two, that they were.
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Speaker 3: Such good friends first, both Nick and Orlandria and Bryce
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Speaker 3: and Trinity it.
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Speaker 2: Was a slow burn. It wasn't some immediate fireworks. It
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Speaker 2: wasn't lust at first.
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Speaker 3: Sight, it was hmm, this is interesting, and then they
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Speaker 3: built it. And I think that's why they actually have
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Speaker 3: such deep feelings for one another that seem very genuine.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so what we are what they're teaching us at
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Speaker 1: this point is are they teaching us something? Are we
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Speaker 1: learning something here about ourselves as the audience? It's I
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Speaker 1: think both are people reacting in this way and we're
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Speaker 1: not saying it's the overwhelming attitude out there, but it is.
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Speaker 1: There's more of a drumbead than I thought robes. Are
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Speaker 1: they showing us just how what unhappy we are? How
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Speaker 1: are they showing us how disappointed we are in our
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Speaker 1: own lives, our own relationships, how our own relationships have gone.
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Speaker 1: That we see something happening in front of us, and
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Speaker 1: we refuse to believe it. We just don't think it's possible.
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Speaker 3: Sadly, I think there is a large portion of this
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Speaker 3: country and I have been there. I know I believe
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Speaker 3: you've been there too, where yes, you're unhappy, it's not
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Speaker 3: that you're rooting for anyone else to be unhappy or
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Speaker 3: as miserable as you might be, but you need to
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Speaker 3: believe that this kind of display isn't real, that it's
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Speaker 3: fake and it's a put on, because no one could
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Speaker 3: actually feel that way.
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Speaker 2: Number one.
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Speaker 3: Number two, you also just want to believe Okay, fine,
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Speaker 3: that's now, but wait till they get outside the villa.
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Speaker 3: People love to say they won't last more than one week,
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Speaker 3: you know that, because we need to believe that. I
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Speaker 3: think sometimes to justify or at least to not feel
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Speaker 3: as bad about our own situations or our own relationships.
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Speaker 3: So I think there are those people who just choose
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Speaker 3: to not believe it because to believe it would be
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Speaker 3: too painful to recognize where our own relationships are.
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Speaker 1: That is something that in recent years, this wasn't us,
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Speaker 1: but this is People talk about this all the time.
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Speaker 1: But doctor Jeff Gardier is somebody that helped us through
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Speaker 1: some of the difficulties we had to pass several years
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Speaker 1: as roads. But he talked about and I stopped and
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Speaker 1: thought about it, and it makes you have a more
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Speaker 1: sympathetic ear and kinder when you do hear people. Last out,
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Speaker 1: when you do hear people, they're not bad folks who
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Speaker 1: have these attitudes, who are doubting this relationship, not at all,
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Speaker 1: But it does say something about where we are, where
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Speaker 1: we sit, and the lens through which we view other relationships.
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Speaker 1: Love the possibilities. It's that's fascinating to me. Bro, didn't you?
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Speaker 1: I asked you to grab them for me? Here? You
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Speaker 1: you were reading all the comments, you were We were
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Speaker 1: in the kitchen a little while ago, having breakfast, and
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Speaker 1: I was cooking per usual, and you were looking at
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Speaker 1: the computer. I kept hearing you just laugh out loud.
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean, I actually am just so surprised
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Speaker 3: at how.
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Speaker 2: Skeptical people are.
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Speaker 3: But this is where we are. Yes, So it's this
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Speaker 3: whole question. Do y'all think Bryce and Trinity are playing
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Speaker 3: it safe? Or do they genuinely miss each other? Do
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Speaker 3: they genuinely like each other? People are like it's giving
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Speaker 3: they plan this. Someone actually said this, damn can two
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Speaker 3: people not really like each other? Have y'all been so
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Speaker 3: damaged to where you can tell if someone is genuine
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Speaker 3: or not? People have said that this is hilarious. They
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Speaker 3: actually think that they've gone and done a deep dive
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Speaker 3: on Bryce's social media and its that he hasn't followed
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Speaker 3: one black woman.
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Speaker 2: This is all an act.
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Speaker 3: He doesn't really like her, and so they're really more
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Speaker 3: than questioning Trinity, They're really questioning Bryce. They're questioning his
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Speaker 3: They're questioning if he likes men or women. They're questioning
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Speaker 3: if he likes black women. It's like anything they can
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Speaker 3: do to poke holes in this relationship that, I'm sorry
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Speaker 3: brought me to absolute tears.
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Speaker 1: And I guess some of that should be said as
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Speaker 1: well and understandable. Some of this is folks trying to
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Speaker 1: protect her, like she is the fan favorite on the show. Here,
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Speaker 1: she is the star of the show, and I think
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Speaker 1: she's building her her audience in her little army, and
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Speaker 1: I think some of that might be just they're looking
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Speaker 1: out for her.
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Speaker 3: Maybe. So Bryce is a trickster. He's not tricking me
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Speaker 3: though he's tricking y'all. Someone said they both was crying
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Speaker 3: and the confessionals you can't fake that.
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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I go with that too.
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Speaker 3: They had no way of knowing what the other person
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Speaker 3: was doing. And look, they have not had No one
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Speaker 3: has a private moment to have words, to have a discussion,
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Speaker 3: to make a plan that I'm aware of the way
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Speaker 3: I understand this program to exist, you don't even when
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Speaker 3: they go away and they whisper, and they hide and
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Speaker 3: they kiss.
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Speaker 2: We can all still see them in America. We can
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Speaker 2: all hear their mics.
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Speaker 1: I didn't think of it. Is there any way to
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Speaker 1: get a private conversation in with your partner?
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Speaker 2: I don't think so.
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Speaker 1: They do at night, don't. They take their microphones off
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Speaker 1: and they hang them to sleep at night.
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Speaker 2: I believe I still hear them kissing, do we Yes?
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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I think that's the only way to whisper in
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Speaker 1: somebody's ear and late at night. But to your point, Bro,
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Speaker 1: it's highly unlikely they could have a long conversation to
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Speaker 1: coordinate this plan to fool America. It's hard to believe.
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Speaker 3: It's impossible for me to believe. And look, some people
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Speaker 3: are saying, y'all are haters. This is exactly why hay,
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Speaker 3: y'all lonely in these comments, Bro, y'all be miserable. Y'all
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Speaker 3: was on the same shit with Nicolandria and they're still together.
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Speaker 2: So but everyone's entitled to their opinions.
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Speaker 1: I guess, okay, that was what I was trying to
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Speaker 1: say earlier, and that's a different way. But yes, bro,
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Speaker 1: but it's okay, you do if you if you're sitting
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Speaker 1: there right now in a miserable relationship that you think
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Speaker 1: you can't get out of, and you've been in, and
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Speaker 1: to see someone else fullnd love and to be happy
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Speaker 1: and to make different choices and to choose each other,
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Speaker 1: that's the Yeah, it can sting.
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Speaker 3: Just ask yourself if you ever said, y'all give them
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Speaker 3: two months just because they're madly in love.
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Speaker 1: That's mean and me and it's really not.
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Speaker 2: And we've been given so many timelines.
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Speaker 3: Oh how many people said, I'll give them six months
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Speaker 3: or give them one year, This will be funny when
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Speaker 3: they break. It's like to root for someone to break
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Speaker 3: up because you don't believe their love is real, or
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Speaker 3: you don't like how their love makes you feel.
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Speaker 2: And that's really what this is. Isn't this all about projection?
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Speaker 3: You don't like how their love makes you feel, whether
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Speaker 3: it's because they're interracial, whether it's because you don't believe
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Speaker 3: that can exist, whether you don't believe a man can
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Speaker 3: actually cry and miss a girl on public television without
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Speaker 3: being performative.
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Speaker 1: I have to say his reactions, we've almost seen him.
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Speaker 1: We've seen him spiral rope since he got to CASA Amore.
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Speaker 1: He looked like he wanted to get out of Casa Amore.
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Speaker 1: It just he was uncomfortable there. It wasn't hiss thing.
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Speaker 1: He clearly wasn't immediately attracted to anybody in a major way.
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Speaker 1: And Rood, do you remember they sent those postcards and
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Speaker 1: those pictures from the other camp. Everybody was looking all
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Speaker 1: around and gathered around. They was showing him kind of
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Speaker 1: shy and kind of down, and Robes, this was he
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Speaker 1: was impacted.
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Speaker 3: He won me over in that moment because instead of
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Speaker 3: getting mad and wanting to get even, which is that's
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Speaker 3: what the typical response has been from most folks.
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Speaker 1: And we saw that.
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Speaker 2: He instead just said, wow, that really hurts. That's amazing.
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Speaker 3: I don't know many men, no matter how old they are,
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Speaker 3: whether they're twenty nine, nineteen or fifty nine, who are
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Speaker 3: able and confident enough to react that way when they
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Speaker 3: see their woman with another man.
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Speaker 2: That's remarkable. That actually is love.
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Speaker 1: But Robes, it's also human nature. And he just Robes
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Speaker 1: he handled his emotions probably better than anybody in the
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Speaker 1: show because he was just honest about them.
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Speaker 2: And sat with it and it was so refreshing.
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Speaker 1: And I'm not going to push back against it. I'm
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Speaker 1: not going to try to explain it. I'm not going
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Speaker 1: to try to retaliate. I'm not going to try to
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Speaker 1: make myself feel like damn.
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Speaker 3: This this sucks and Babe, that's why people think it's
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Speaker 3: an act because people aren't used to seeing a man,
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Speaker 3: especially react that way, and so it can't be real
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Speaker 3: to being hurt, not to being hurt, to express that
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Speaker 3: hurt in real ways instead of reacting, he actually expressed
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Speaker 3: it instead of reacting to it and behaving badly, which
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Speaker 3: is what we're.
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Speaker 2: Used to seeing.
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Speaker 3: So it's almost it's offensive to men that people don't
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Speaker 3: believe Bryce because he actually is reacting in an emotionally mature.
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Speaker 1: Way, but it's not the way that we're accustomed to
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Speaker 1: men reacting, and therefore we're now questioning how he's reacting.
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Speaker 1: You're not questioning Casey's reaction because he reacted.
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Speaker 4: The way we would expect a lot of men to react.
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Speaker 4: He's just as hurt as Bryce is. These two men
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Speaker 4: are reacting and expressing that hurt in two different ways,
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Speaker 4: and one of them is doing it terribly. Bryce is
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Speaker 4: doing it correctly, but it's it's causing him to be.
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Speaker 3: Getting backlash, get him backlash saying he must be gay.
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Speaker 3: They're saying he must not really be that into her,
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Speaker 3: because if he really were, there's no way he could.
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Speaker 2: Just be sad and be a lost puppy dog.
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Speaker 3: No, he's going to be a man. He's gonna get
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Speaker 3: all angry, he's gonna get even. So it's interesting to
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Speaker 3: know that I saw his reaction is so sweet and
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Speaker 3: genuine and beautiful and pure, and it's interesting to see
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Speaker 3: some people view it very differently.
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Speaker 1: I just said it was authentic. That's an authentic reaction.
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Speaker 1: He's hurt. And the thing is, Robes, everybody else felt
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Speaker 1: their hurt. They just expressed it differently. I applaud and
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Speaker 1: I appreciate. But he showed what vulnerability. Some others would
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Speaker 1: say it was weakness, but.
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Speaker 2: That is I think that's strength.
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Speaker 1: Strength to sit and recognize what you're feeling.
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Speaker 2: And that's hot by the way.
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Speaker 1: I'm recognizing it.
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Speaker 2: That's attractive.
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Speaker 1: And then what does he decide to do do about it?
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Speaker 1: Sprint to his woman? So that's okay. Yes, see that
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Speaker 1: little noise, you male, that's where some of us sit,
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Speaker 1: and some of us are optimistic and some of us
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Speaker 1: are hopeful. Robes. It's I can understand if someone has
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Speaker 1: had different relationship experiences to sit there and go no way,
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Speaker 1: to be jaded, to say this is inauthentic, and then
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Speaker 1: to explain it away and that helps you understand and
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Speaker 1: feel better. Okay, that's why I don't have that because
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Speaker 1: it doesn't exist. Yep, that's not real either. My experience
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Speaker 1: is the reality. This is just some bs so that
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Speaker 1: kind of thing, and that's you. You get it, Robes,
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Speaker 1: and you got to leave some space for people feeling
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Speaker 1: those things I just right now, and it could swing.
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Speaker 1: That would be really hard if it did. But right
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Speaker 1: now they're the darlings and one of the best at
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Speaker 1: this moment. Robes one of the best stories I've seen
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Speaker 1: on Love Island any of the seasons I've seen.
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Speaker 2: I agree.
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Speaker 3: And when we come back, we're going to talk about
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Speaker 3: the other lesson we learned from watching Brinity, because it
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Speaker 3: was the opposite of what we've seen from so many
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Speaker 3: other couples on Love Island and in real life, the
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Speaker 3: anti love bombers.
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Speaker 2: Well, welcome back everyone here on Amy and TJ.
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Speaker 3: We're talking about the love lessons we've learned from one
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Speaker 3: of the most dramatic Love Island USA episodes ever last night.
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Speaker 3: But yeah, we're talking about Brinity, Bryce and Trinity. We
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Speaker 3: are obsessed with them, and for the record, most of
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Speaker 3: America is. But wow, there is a loud group of
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Speaker 3: folks online who are questioning the validity of it, even
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Speaker 3: suggesting that these two colluded and planned this that they
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Speaker 3: could win. And maybe if they don't throw shade at Trinity,
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Speaker 3: they're definitely throwing it at Bryce, saying he is manipulating,
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Speaker 3: he's performative.
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Speaker 2: There's no way a man would be crying like that in.
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Speaker 3: Costs More unless he's gay, or unless he is pretending
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Speaker 3: to like black women. I mean really, it's like, I
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Speaker 3: feel like so unwarranted. Some of the criticism that's being
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Speaker 3: leveled without any sort of proof, just based on people's
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Speaker 3: unwillingness to accept that he actually might really be into
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Speaker 3: this girl and have fallen in love with her.
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Speaker 1: Well, what is the criticism of Sincere and case.
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Speaker 2: C Oh, they just think they're dogs?
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Speaker 1: And Zach from cosa amore?
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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, but that's expected behavior.
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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so this guy, isn't he doing the thing
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Speaker 1: that everybody complained that k C and Sincere didn't do
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Speaker 1: staying considerate. Yeah, he was missing.
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Speaker 2: I thought it was so sweet.
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Speaker 1: Isn't he doing the things that everybody said they wish
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Speaker 1: k C had done and sincere had done, But now
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Speaker 1: he's doing it, he's still being questioned.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't win, right, But I thought this was interesting.
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Speaker 3: Someone there's a lot of comments, and someone pointed this out,
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Speaker 3: and this was there in the in the camp of
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Speaker 3: Loving Brennandy.
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Speaker 2: They said, I don't care basically what all y'all are saying.
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Speaker 2: I love them two together.
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Speaker 3: Bryce might be fancy, but I think they're slowly building
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Speaker 3: their relationship that allowed them to like each other for real,
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Speaker 3: instead of love bombing like everyone else did.
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Speaker 2: I feel like that's why everyone else's.
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Speaker 3: Relationship started falling or failing, because they came in too hot.
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Speaker 3: And I actually think there's a really good point to that.
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Speaker 3: It's interesting they did slowly build a friendship. Trinity even
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Speaker 3: complained early on that she didn't know that he was
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Speaker 3: that into her, that she felt like maybe he was
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Speaker 3: friend zoning her.
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Speaker 1: What qualifies as love bombing that you saw in this show,
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Speaker 1: And actually, when you go back, this is something I
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Speaker 1: never fully understood the definition of love bombing is what exactly.
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Speaker 2: When you basically over.
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Speaker 3: Compliment, over gush on somebody in order to get them
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Speaker 3: to like you.
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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so who would you say, I mean,
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Speaker 1: even if you can't remember specific examples or anything, would
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Speaker 1: you say this happens? Why I have been on this show,
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Speaker 1: this is what some of the guys, well.
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Speaker 3: It does, I actually think, not just the guys, the girls.
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Speaker 3: I think Kenzie love bombed a lot of folks. I
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Speaker 3: think Corbyn loved bombed a lot of folks. The two
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Speaker 3: of them are two peas in a pod. So they're
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Speaker 3: sitting there and honestly, Sincere is maybe the poster child
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Speaker 3: of love bombing, like he basically just puts all these compliments,
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Speaker 3: loves up all these girls, tells them how great they are,
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Speaker 3: how awesome they make him feel.
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Speaker 2: But he's doing it to everybody to.
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Speaker 3: See where he gets the most feedback from.
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Speaker 2: He wants to get it returned.
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Speaker 3: So you bomb someone with love so that they make
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Speaker 3: you feel good too in return.
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Speaker 1: Okay, and that's not what these two did at all.
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Speaker 3: No, So the only purpose it's manipulative to love bomb somebody,
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Speaker 3: you're manipulating them to fall in love with you. And
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Speaker 3: that is the opposite of what happened between Bryce and Trinity.
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Speaker 2: And I actually thought Bryce took his.
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Speaker 3: Time and then it was only I feel like I
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Speaker 3: didn't really fall in love with their couple and their
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Speaker 3: maybe budding romance until they were apart. And to see
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Speaker 3: Bryce genuinely begutted and missing her, yes, I thought that
18:51
Speaker 3: was so genuine because I felt like he was being genuine.
18:54
Speaker 3: He wasn't putting on, he wasn't being overly physical with her,
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Speaker 3: and that was making me think maybe he wasn't that
19:01
Speaker 3: into her. And after you saw his emotional it seemed
19:05
Speaker 3: true emotional reaction to being away from.
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Speaker 2: Her, it clicked for him.
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Speaker 1: Okay, well he's got to stop dry humping Zack.
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Speaker 3: That's a little weird, and that is why a lot
19:13
Speaker 3: of the comments have certainly bubbled up, as you might imagine,
19:17
Speaker 3: questioning his his heterosexuality.
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Speaker 1: Okay, but I mean nothing wrong with that. It's a lot,
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Speaker 1: but sweetheart, I have please correct me if I'm wrong here.
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember. But I have seen him do
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Speaker 1: more intimate things I swear with Zach than I see
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Speaker 1: him do on a regular voluntary basis with Trinity.
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Speaker 3: Yet they have a bromance going, a real full fledged bromance,
19:46
Speaker 3: and Zach participates just as much as Bryce.
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Speaker 1: I'm sure somewhere there was somebody who could have said
19:53
Speaker 1: I was in a bromance of some kind or appeared
19:56
Speaker 1: to be with somebody else. Tight with you maybe, but
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Speaker 1: it never included.
20:02
Speaker 3: You're not really into physical touch with another man. I
20:05
Speaker 3: do think that they're this, these these Zoomers, these young folks,
20:10
Speaker 3: they are like even think about some of Anna Lisa's
20:13
Speaker 3: friends like they the boys are way more touchy feely
20:16
Speaker 3: with each other than I have ever seen heterosexual men touchy.
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Speaker 2: Feely with each other.
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Speaker 1: Babe, these two are under the covers together on a
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Speaker 1: regular basis. There was a weird image of Bryce was
20:29
Speaker 1: standing and Zach was sitting and he was gesturing with
20:33
Speaker 1: his head show him his junk, yes, and then they
20:37
Speaker 1: yet the episode yesterday literally like simulated sex on top
20:41
Speaker 1: of each other. So fun boys being I don't know,
20:46
Speaker 1: I don't know, fine, but that doesn't take away from
20:50
Speaker 1: how he could be feeling about correct.
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Speaker 3: I think, look, he feels really comfortable with Zach. I
20:56
Speaker 3: don't know any of that, but I that aside, I
21:00
Speaker 3: understand why some people are saying some of that stuff
21:02
Speaker 3: that there is a reason for it. We have seen
21:04
Speaker 3: things that I have not used to seeing, but I
21:07
Speaker 3: did believe.
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Speaker 2: I don't know.
21:10
Speaker 3: I do believe Bryce's emotions when he's talking about Trinity
21:14
Speaker 3: and Trinity talking about him are real.
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Speaker 1: So he was sitting in this little confessional booth by himself.
21:19
Speaker 1: If you want to say he was performative or putting
21:22
Speaker 1: on good job, he is going to get calls when
21:25
Speaker 1: he leaves the eye on them because that's a good performance.
21:27
Speaker 1: And it just seemed Robes one of the things we
21:30
Speaker 1: say we liked about him from the beginning. He's just
21:33
Speaker 1: his authentic goofy self.
21:34
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree.
21:36
Speaker 1: And that comes across in that booth and talking about her.
21:39
Speaker 1: Robes his body language, he was slumped over kind of
21:43
Speaker 1: his Oh there's.
21:44
Speaker 3: Memes of him everywhere online of the love Sick Puppy.
21:48
Speaker 2: It's hilarious.
21:49
Speaker 3: Honestly, they have both of them, so they'll show him
21:51
Speaker 3: like looking all dejected and sad Withterei eyes and her
21:55
Speaker 3: doing the same.
21:56
Speaker 2: They have memes of these two everywhere. But I love it.
21:59
Speaker 3: I think it is adorable, I think it's genuine. I
22:04
Speaker 3: am absolutely one hundred percent all in for Brinity.
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Speaker 1: Okay, last thing I wanted to ask her I had
22:10
Speaker 1: a note here, meant to ask it earlier. But the
22:12
Speaker 1: question about the slow burn, people don't necessarily believe it
22:18
Speaker 1: because at the beginning it wasn't hot and it wasn't lustful.
22:22
Speaker 1: What would your suggestion, your recommendation, your advice to women
22:26
Speaker 1: be in looking out for this particular thing, because there's
22:30
Speaker 1: a complaint you've heard on this show. Even he's not
22:32
Speaker 1: all hot and bothered off the top, he must not
22:35
Speaker 1: be attracted to me. He is not touching me, he's
22:37
Speaker 1: whor you hear that. And then on the other hand,
22:40
Speaker 1: I'm being friend zoned. What is preferable or just give
22:45
Speaker 1: some kind of counsel there. Look, but the lustful we
22:48
Speaker 1: just met thing versus taking it slow and we're seeing
22:51
Speaker 1: it pay off.
22:51
Speaker 3: I can just tell you that lustful almost never works
22:54
Speaker 3: if it's just immediately lust let it play out, have
22:57
Speaker 3: your fun, but don't get invested.
22:59
Speaker 2: I just I don't know. That's been my experience.
23:01
Speaker 3: And then I do think that you can have and
23:05
Speaker 3: there's a place in space for that in your life.
23:07
Speaker 3: But if you are looking for a lasting relationship, I
23:10
Speaker 3: personally believe having that friendship, that friendship foundation has proven
23:15
Speaker 3: to be everything. And when you have those tough moments,
23:18
Speaker 3: and you have those moments of distrust, and you have
23:20
Speaker 3: those moments of Holy hell, who is this person? If
23:23
Speaker 3: you can fall back on that friendship, it will carry
23:26
Speaker 3: you through the tough times.
23:27
Speaker 2: And yes, obviously you have.
23:28
Speaker 3: To be attracted to one another, but I do believe
23:31
Speaker 3: there can be one of the most amazing, passionate romantic
23:35
Speaker 3: relationships can be built on a foundation of friendship.
23:38
Speaker 1: We will see what happens to Brennandy. No, we're going
23:43
Speaker 1: to leave it there. I have other issues with the
23:45
Speaker 1: show from the last episode, but we're going to keep
23:48
Speaker 1: it positive here. I always appreciate Jell spending some time
23:50
Speaker 1: with us as we go through these Love Island love lessons.
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