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DOUBLE STANDARDS BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN?? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Baddies, we have got a very exciting announcement for you.
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  Speaker 2: I am so excited.
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  Speaker 3: As you know, we've been loving reading and experiencing The
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  Speaker 3: Housemaid by Freedom McFadden with you guys, and a little
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  Speaker 3: while ago one of you baddies suggested, what about we
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  Speaker 3: all go watch the movie together.
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  Speaker 1: When it comes out.
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  Speaker 2: Amazing idea and we thought, hmmmm, we said we're on it.
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  Speaker 2: It was a shot in the dark.
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  Speaker 3: It was a massive, blindfolded dart throw at nothing, but
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  Speaker 3: for some reason it landed right in the bullseye. We
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  Speaker 3: have the privilege of inviting you baddies to a special
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  Speaker 3: advanced screening of The Housemaid.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god. We are going to be there and
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  Speaker 2: we're going to enjoy the movie together for the first time.
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  Speaker 3: We all we want to experience it with the baddies.
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  Speaker 3: So couple of things. We don't have all the fine
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  Speaker 3: details yet, but what we do have is it's on
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  Speaker 3: the nineteenth of December, yep, in Sydney afternoon. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 3: this is a Sydney only event, so apologies if anyone
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  Speaker 3: is anywhere else.
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  Speaker 1: We did our best, yes, but hey, we take what
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  Speaker 1: we get.
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  Speaker 2: We're very excited and a few lucky baddies get to
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  Speaker 2: see the movie early yep. But otherwise, the movie The
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  Speaker 2: Housemaid is being released on Boxing Day. Yes, so if
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  Speaker 2: you miss out Boxing Day, the Housemaid by FREEDA. McFadden
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  Speaker 2: and the movie that stars some wonderful stars will be
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  Speaker 2: in theaters on Boxing Day. Yeah, and Jake, how do
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  Speaker 2: the baddies potentially get their hands on this occasion?
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  Speaker 1: You know us and you know we.
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  Speaker 3: Love everyone equally, but we show some priority to our
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  Speaker 3: special batties over on Patreons. So on Thursday, the eleventh
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  Speaker 3: of December, you guys will be finding out how to
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  Speaker 3: secure your spot to come to the advanced screening of
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  Speaker 3: the house made with us.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so excited, Jake. The link to Patreon will
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  Speaker 2: be in the description. If you want to head over
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  Speaker 2: there early, that's how you do it. But the rest
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  Speaker 2: of the details are coming.
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  Speaker 4: Can I please get a medium almond flat white with
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  Speaker 4: two sugars?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, have a small.
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  Speaker 3: Coke zero and one small coke zero please? That's everything?
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  Speaker 2: Are you all right? All right?
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  Speaker 3: I'm goody Hi, thank you having me a happy day.
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  Speaker 2: I couldn't look at us.
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  Speaker 5: Kind of right.
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  Speaker 2: I hate that baddie the relatable podcast is hosted by
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  Speaker 2: myself What You Like aka Mommy, and my partner in
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  Speaker 2: crime is the Jake Craig ak Daddy, and you guys
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  Speaker 2: are the baddies. And Jake is Daddy because he is
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  Speaker 2: driving his.
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  Speaker 3: New car, and what he's mummy because he is Look.
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  Speaker 6: I don't want to say any stereotypes, but sitting in
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  Speaker 6: the passenger seat, I'm a passenger princess.
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  Speaker 2: That's right, he's living the dream. But Jake, give us
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  Speaker 2: a rundown? How'd you get it? What is it? All right?
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  Speaker 7: Guys daddies?
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  Speaker 3: I selected the smart route.
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  Speaker 7: Everyone commented, we said, should we go fun?
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  Speaker 2: Should we go cool? Should we go what was the other?
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  Speaker 2: What is it?
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  Speaker 3: Not?
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  Speaker 1: Smart?
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  Speaker 2: Like sensible? Smart? Sensible?
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  Speaker 7: And everyone based just commented, how about you just get.
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  Speaker 1: A new car?
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  Speaker 4: And I was thinking kind of valid, So I've gone
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  Speaker 4: with a twenty sixteen Suzuki Vitara is a manual, nice
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  Speaker 4: and sensible, get two point five leaders to the every
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  Speaker 4: one hundred kilometers, so she's fucking got on fuel mate
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  Speaker 4: and thirteen five thirteen five hundred, very sensible. I know
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  Speaker 4: I got the It was up for fourteen thy nine.
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  Speaker 2: Hundred and as the passing the Princess. I think it's sick.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I got Apple car Play, I got cruise control,
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  Speaker 3: I got what else do.
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  Speaker 7: I have that I didn't have?
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  Speaker 3: Let's let's just go with the big one safety, safety, don't.
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  Speaker 2: Go see you before we're talking about it. It's like
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  Speaker 2: I just feel something safer driving. And before prior to that,
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  Speaker 2: I'm like you said that anyways, Like, yeah, I'm just
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  Speaker 2: gaslating myself.
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  Speaker 3: I was.
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  Speaker 4: I was gaslating myself into saying the GETS was good,
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  Speaker 4: so I didn't have to get a new car.
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  Speaker 7: But you got to get that bad boy cleaned up.
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  Speaker 2: That's what everyone wants to know. What are you doing
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  Speaker 2: with the gets? Are we wrapping out? You're selling out?
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  Speaker 2: What do you want to do?
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  Speaker 7: I'm going to sell it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to try if anyone buys it, gets is
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  Speaker 3: yours if you want to.
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  Speaker 2: I'm still saying, comment, wrap that car, wrap that car?
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  Speaker 2: What are we going to do with it? Tax right up?
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  Speaker 2: That's right.
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  Speaker 3: I guess technically Relatables already owns it. Yeah, so we
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  Speaker 3: could just keep it as a tax right off.
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  Speaker 6: But not like I'm going to utilize that and drive
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  Speaker 6: that instead of this and like claim the money on
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  Speaker 6: tax instead of the fuel, and I'll just sit there
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  Speaker 6: and collect us pretty much. But all right, most important
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  Speaker 6: thing when getting a new cardie is the name. Now
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  Speaker 6: I have a name, but I would like to just
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  Speaker 6: I think you'll like it, and I think the baddies
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  Speaker 6: will like it. Yeah, okay, But before I tell you,
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  Speaker 6: I want to know what you If.
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  Speaker 2: You have a suggestion, do you have a specific route
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  Speaker 2: you wanted to go through?
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  Speaker 3: You can go whatever you want. And as soon as
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  Speaker 3: I tell you what I've chosen then and look, also,
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  Speaker 3: i'll say what I want to name it.
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  Speaker 6: You say what you want to name it, and I
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  Speaker 6: will let the bowties vote. But if I don't win,
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  Speaker 6: I will actually donate my left night.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, I am going with and I feel
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  Speaker 2: like the color is an important detail. It's white. Yep, yep.
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  Speaker 2: I'm still locking in what we had for the Jymney. Okay, Fran, Fran, Yeah, Fran,
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  Speaker 2: I'll give you. I'll even let you give the reason
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  Speaker 2: for Fran.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, because that's how how confident I am mine will win.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. So Fran was a past gardening client of mine
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  Speaker 2: who turned into a bit of a friend a bit
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  Speaker 2: of a I don't know, sort of like a grandma
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  Speaker 2: figure to me. And it's the garden with her like
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  Speaker 2: once a week for like three years, went through her house,
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  Speaker 2: helped her move to Terrigul, like another suburb near where
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  Speaker 2: we live, and just had a really good, really relationship
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  Speaker 2: with her, and she taught me a lot, and she's
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  Speaker 2: an important person in my life. So I wanted to
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  Speaker 2: call a frank because it's an important thing to get
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  Speaker 2: you to and front places safely. Okay, that's pretty good.
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  Speaker 2: That was pretty good. Well your comfort. I'm very over that.
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  Speaker 2: I actually am. And you're gonna see you're gonna see why.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, So we got Suzuki Vitara. Okay, initials s VA
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  Speaker 6: if you swap them, the initials are vs. We've just
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  Speaker 6: started reading Fourth Wing and the main protagonist is our girl,
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  Speaker 6: Violet Soaring Gale.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, you're gonna call it Violet. I want to name
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  Speaker 5: it Violet Soaring Gale. Pretty good, it's pretty good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: Violet doesn't have a ring to it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling you vice.
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  Speaker 3: Suzuki violence is a Violet Soring Gale.
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  Speaker 2: But I don't know, it's a little bit teching this
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  Speaker 2: switch there if it was yes, because like you could
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  Speaker 2: just call it soro and Gale could say so and
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  Speaker 2: Gail but interesting, so are you saying? Comment below? Which
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  Speaker 2: one you.
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  Speaker 7: Guys can choose either Violet sorro and girl or friend
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  Speaker 7: for the reasons he has given.
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  Speaker 3: Sure for Francis Francis, I kind of think of Francis
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  Speaker 3: as a boy's name.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like it's both. It's my dad'smond on that too,
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  Speaker 2: Michael Francis Clark, What I not know that? Yeah, it's
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  Speaker 2: Michael Clark, the famous cricket art's right, Yeah, that's you guys.
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  Speaker 7: We've just been ounted, got so out of even living.
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  Speaker 2: On daddy's money for time. That's crazy. That's crazy. But
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  Speaker 2: I guess we'll leave it up. Congratulations man, thank you
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  Speaker 2: new car.
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  Speaker 7: Yes, very exciting.
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  Speaker 3: And apologies to the McDonald's worker that we just got
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  Speaker 3: the coffees from.
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  Speaker 2: And I couldn't even look him in the eyes when
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  Speaker 2: I said it. Relative.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I would like to welcome everybody back to the
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  Speaker 3: Baddest Baddie. Let's go fireworks. Okay, now the Badest Baddie.
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  Speaker 3: Last couple of weeks, I've had a couple of little
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  Speaker 3: weeks in between, but This is a segment where we
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  Speaker 3: are trying to highlight the real engines behind business, the
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  Speaker 3: women doing amazing things. So we wanted to use our
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  Speaker 3: platform to showcase their achievements and their progress because we
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  Speaker 3: didn't want them to go unseen by.
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  Speaker 1: The wider public.
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  Speaker 2: And I think what's happened has been We've talked to
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  Speaker 2: some amazing, wonderful baddies who have been absolutely inspiring.
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  Speaker 1: To say the least. Yeah, according to the comments, at.
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  Speaker 2: Least everyone here, everyone who's been on has been doing
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  Speaker 2: amazing things. And today we have the finalists.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Sarah, Sarah and Chelsea.
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  Speaker 2: Let's call them and get into the Baddest Baddie. Hello, Hello, Sarah,
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  Speaker 2: how is it going good?
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  Speaker 8: Thanks? How are you both?
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  Speaker 2: We are both going great. Welcome back to the Baddest Baddie.
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  Speaker 2: How are you feeling? How's your day being? What's going on?
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  Speaker 8: Day's been good, honestly, just been cleaning, mostly doing too much,
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  Speaker 8: so it's it's been nice.
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  Speaker 2: Well, firstly, we want to touch on thank you for
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  Speaker 2: sharing your story about two weeks ago. It's been super inspiring,
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  Speaker 2: not only for yourself, but a lot of other baddies
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  Speaker 2: have commented how cool your story is. So I just
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  Speaker 2: wanted to say thank you for that.
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  Speaker 8: Oh, thank you. I'm glad to hear it was inspiring.
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  Speaker 2: That's all right. And how'd you feel after the episode too?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 8: Oh, I was buzzing like I had training straight off
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  Speaker 8: the episodes after I filmed it, at least to the audio.
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  Speaker 8: And so it was really good to Actually it's surprise
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  Speaker 8: to get up the streets because my heart rate was
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  Speaker 8: quite elevated. And yeah, listening to it, honestly, just sitting
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  Speaker 8: in the comments from my friends being like that was amazing, well,
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  Speaker 8: but really helped me up a lot.
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  Speaker 2: Which it's great, that's awesome. Let's go so good. It
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  Speaker 2: was a very feel good episode, thanks to you. But
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  Speaker 2: today we are here to crown the baddest baddie. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: so we have a question for you, Sarah. Are you ready?
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  Speaker 8: I'm ready.
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  Speaker 2: So you have now been hired as an ambassador for
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  Speaker 2: all baddies. Tell us in your own words, what it
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  Speaker 2: means to you to be a baddie.
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  Speaker 8: For me, i'd say being a bady kind of changes
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  Speaker 8: day to day. So I previously kind of thought being
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  Speaker 8: a badie was being really successful, whether they were studying
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  Speaker 8: full time or working full time, it's been on top
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  Speaker 8: of my classes or top of my sports and kind
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  Speaker 8: of exceeding everyone else's expectations. But my metal health journey,
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  Speaker 8: I've kind of realized that I've had to change what
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  Speaker 8: success means to me. Some days, to me, being a
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  Speaker 8: bad is actually just getting out of bed and getting
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  Speaker 8: through to day. Sometimes it might be vocating for myself
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  Speaker 8: or for others when life is getting a bit much
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  Speaker 8: or really overwhelming, or seeking out in our senses and
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  Speaker 8: leaning into understanding, but I think also looks like following goals,
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  Speaker 8: and for me, it's working through struggles, seeing the gaps
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  Speaker 8: and mental health sectors and wanting to make a positive difference,
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  Speaker 8: so publishing my book, running presentations to inform others on
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  Speaker 8: skills that can enhance mental well being, and something I
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  Speaker 8: forgot to mention my write up the other week, but
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  Speaker 8: being a youth worker at a high school and being
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  Speaker 8: an extra support to students, or badling the challenges that
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  Speaker 8: come with being a teenager. And I guess it's also
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  Speaker 8: like similar to how like Chelsea saw the lack of
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  Speaker 8: help for those with endometriosis and painful periods and designed
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  Speaker 8: the whole Pooty to help build that get and support others,
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  Speaker 8: which I think leads to also being a baddie is
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  Speaker 8: to support others and hype each other ups. To listen
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  Speaker 8: and not judge, is to hear other baddies dilemmas and
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  Speaker 8: struggles and just build each other up because I think
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  Speaker 8: there's so much negativity in the world and online, So
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  Speaker 8: I think being a badie overall is to hype each
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  Speaker 8: other up, bring hope and joy to others, and create
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  Speaker 8: paths for other baddies to succeed, however success may look
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  Speaker 8: to them.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, that was some baddie shit.
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  Speaker 2: That was really really good.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, I feel like we couldn't even write that ourselves.
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy. That made me want to be more of
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  Speaker 2: a bardy. Yeah. I think if there are more people
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  Speaker 2: like yourself and with similar mindsets, the world would be
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  Speaker 2: such a beautiful place. And we need people like you
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  Speaker 2: doing these types of things to make the world function
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  Speaker 2: because it'd be a terrible place without it. So, firstly,
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  Speaker 2: thank you for the way you are.
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  Speaker 10: I guess thank you.
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  Speaker 8: That's all right, My heart stounded racing.
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  Speaker 2: Now where we go from here is we Jake and I,
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  Speaker 2: As you know, our opinions mean nothing, so we're going
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  Speaker 2: to pose it to the baddies to vote for who
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  Speaker 2: is going to win and be crowned the champion of
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  Speaker 2: the Baddest Baddy and the winner will be getting a
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  Speaker 2: call from us in about a week or two.
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  Speaker 10: Amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Sounds great, So we'll leave it up.
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  Speaker 2: To the baddies and thank you once again.
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  Speaker 8: Sarah, fantastic, Thank you, and I hope to hear from
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  Speaker 8: you for a week in a week or two, but we'll.
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  Speaker 2: Call you if you don't win. To here. But we
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  Speaker 2: also want to say there is a winner, but also
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  Speaker 2: everyone who has competed is a winner.
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  Speaker 1: Subtle, foreshadowy, but we'll.
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  Speaker 2: Always wanted to say this. We'll be in touch. Bye, Hello, Hello, Chelsea.
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  Speaker 1: How's it going?
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  Speaker 11: It's good?
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, We're going.
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  Speaker 2: Really really good. Welcome to the Baddest Baddy finales. How's
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  Speaker 2: it feeling.
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  Speaker 11: Good?
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  Speaker 7: I'm just looking up that's it because you're in England.
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  Speaker 2: You are in time? Is it now? Currently?
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  Speaker 1: What time is it?
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  Speaker 3: Six in the morning, six thirty nine?
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  Speaker 2: Are you a morning person? Chelsea?
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  Speaker 11: No?
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  Speaker 1: No, neither am I? Neither am I?
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  Speaker 2: That's okay, that's okay. We wanted to say how are
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  Speaker 2: you feeling after your competition full was a little while ago.
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  Speaker 2: Now how are you feeling?
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  Speaker 11: I was feeling good. I didn't think I get through,
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  Speaker 11: But here.
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  Speaker 2: We are today. We want to tell you that you
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  Speaker 2: are competing against a New Zealand baddie named Sarah. Oh
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  Speaker 2: so it's New Zealand versus England. Yeah, world wide, world
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  Speaker 2: wide and on completely different time zones as well. That's
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  Speaker 2: why we called her earlier. But now it's your turn.
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  Speaker 2: So we have a question for you. Are you ready
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  Speaker 2: for it?
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  Speaker 11: I'm ready?
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  Speaker 2: Okay. Now that you're in the final, you have been
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  Speaker 2: hired as an ambassador for all baddies. Tell us in
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  Speaker 2: your own words what it means to you to be
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  Speaker 2: a baddy.
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  Speaker 10: Okay.
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  Speaker 11: To me, being a body means showing up as the youngest,
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  Speaker 11: readiest version of yourself. So even on the days when
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  Speaker 11: you feel anything but strong, so tied, exhausted and pain
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  Speaker 11: A badie isn't just someone who looks confident. It's someone
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  Speaker 11: who chooses confidence while dealing with real life. The pain
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  Speaker 11: that was, the challenges, the fears, responsibilities, the setback. It's
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  Speaker 11: owning who you are in any way possible. So for
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  Speaker 11: me personally, being a body has meant pushing through the
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  Speaker 11: end of player, out of hostal visits, surgery, paper periods,
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  Speaker 11: and still deciding to build something meaningful and meaningful from it.
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  Speaker 11: So tending my pain into a products that helps women
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  Speaker 11: and girls feel comfortable and seeing that is that's my
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  Speaker 11: badie moment. It means being real, being resilient, being on
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  Speaker 11: a pology. Just defically you even when life is chaotic, painful,
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  Speaker 11: or messy, it's not perfection. It's power.
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  Speaker 2: Well that was good. You had a couple of lines.
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  Speaker 2: There's perfection, its powers choosing confidence. Wow. I really feel
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  Speaker 2: like everyone competing and everyone listening as well, really highlights
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  Speaker 2: what it means to be a baddie and everyone has
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  Speaker 2: their own version of that. Yeah, which is amazing. So firstly,
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  Speaker 2: we want to say a big congratulations and thank you
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  Speaker 2: for not only coming on our podcast, but showing the
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  Speaker 2: world what you are doing and what you're going through
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: in the adversity and coming out on the other side
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  Speaker 2: and doing amazing things and making an impact in your
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  Speaker 2: own way. So thank you for that, Chelsea.
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  Speaker 11: Well, thank you for having on a podcast, my favorite
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  Speaker 11: podcast ever.
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  Speaker 2: That's all right, thank you, that means a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you very much.
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  Speaker 2: And unfortunately we are are now posing the listeners the
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  Speaker 2: baddies with the world's hardest question, Sarah or Chelsea. So Chelsea,
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  Speaker 2: where we're going from here is there's probably going to
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  Speaker 2: be another week off, so there's going to be a
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  Speaker 2: time for the comments to brew. But then you will
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  Speaker 2: be receiving a phone call from us. I'll probably have
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  Speaker 2: to prep it because you're in England to say if
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  Speaker 2: you've won or not, So stay tuned for that, and
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: I like to say we'll be in touch.
• 18:28
  Speaker 11: Thanks, Thank you, guys, thank you, thank.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: You for waking up early. And we're excited to get
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: your hoodies as well.
• 18:37
  Speaker 11: Yes, thank you for much for ordering. You actually ordered
• 18:40
  Speaker 11: the last two.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: No way, let's go that's all right.
• 18:44
  Speaker 11: When ordered, I was like, are or is it for
• 18:50
  Speaker 11: their girlfriends? But if your Pottner's with like one, we
• 18:53
  Speaker 11: have just released our pink.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: We might have to make a double purchase.
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: I think I might have got Jake like a medium
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: for him too, because it was the last one.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Do not do not encourage him.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: But we're looking forward to that and we'll talk to
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: you soon. Chelsea.
• 19:19
  Speaker 11: Okay, thank you, bye bye Medium.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: Chelsea laughed at me, But baddies we'll leave the baddest
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: batty campaign there. You know what to do to reiterate, Jake,
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: there's two comments you need to leave right now. We
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: want everyone listening, every single one of you to comment.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: It's an easy one word thing. Chelsea or Sarah, Sarah
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: or Chelsea. All Right, batties, welcome back to Week six
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: of Things that Aren't Just for Boys.
• 19:53
  Speaker 9: Week six.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's hear it.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: Let me start, Jake and I want to start off
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: strong being the designated navigator.
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: The designated navigator. Well, I gotta be completely honest with you, Audie.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not a very trusted navigator at the moment. At
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: the moment, at the moment, I am not a very
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: trusted navigator.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: What are you doing?
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: So set the scene, Beth, myself, Rose Bay Beach, Sydney,
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: the best dog beach we have found in Sydney.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, we take the dogs there and a little ritual.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: If we go to Roast Bay Beach, we come back
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: we go to this particular cafe. All right. We've done
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: it like quite a few times.
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: And I think there's something about being a man and
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: knowing how to get through a city by memory, where
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: you think you can or you think you can. Right,
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: we go, we take this little detour. I'm like, no,
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: I know where I'm gonna go. You gonna go right
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: at this round about up here in Beth goes, Are
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: you sure and to go?
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: No, I'm sure, I'm sure. I'm sure. We go up
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: She goes, Oh, no, you're right, I recognize it. Tick
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: to me. All right, we do a little weave on
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: the backstreets or whatever.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: Come down, get to a main road. It's supposed to
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: be turning right right. That's like this guy knows where
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: he's going. I'm not going to say anything.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: I turn left. And then what we had to do
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: is go all the way back.
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: The very quickest way to get back to where we
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: were is to do a lap and go back to
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: the cafe and go back the same back roads.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: And I had to get it right a second time.
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: Might I add to the story. Actually, we've been to
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: an event before in Sydney, and usually you drive because
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: you have a small car, but also you live in Sydney.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well, well yeah, okay, that was that was
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: not nice.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: And we were driving back to your house ye yea yeah.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: And on the West Connects you took a turn like
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: twenty five kilometers early and it took us like forty
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: minutes extra to get home.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Well, look now we have a story to tell.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: So I agree girls are way better anyway.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: Anyways, anyways, number two, are you thinking what I'm thinking?
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: I think I got it? Energy drinks perfect?
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: You read my mind? Dude, couldn't be more true. Energy
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: drinks are made for men.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: All the packaging is on march oh and dark and
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: stuff like.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I don't even know what's in those things.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty wild a. That's why Marissa created perfect
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: ted healthy energy drinks. And she didn't even have us
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: guys in mind when making it.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: No, she did not, And they actually slap Did you
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: know that they're powered by Marcher and all natural ingredients?
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: This apple raspberry my favor.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: I'm actually more of a juicy peach man myself at
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: the moment. Where do you pick yours up from?
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Mate?
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: Oddie?
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: You know I'm a Coles guy.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: I'm a Cols guy.
• 22:34
  Speaker 9: Too.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: Bad? Is it is time for ig Question of the week?
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: But Jake, I'm putting on the spot before we move on,
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: what should the baddies stop, pause the episode and go and.
• 22:48
  Speaker 9: Do they should go to the very closest url weber
• 22:54
  Speaker 9: browser they have and type in relatables dot com forward
• 22:59
  Speaker 9: slash no, let me resp patreon dot com forward us
• 23:02
  Speaker 9: relatable sixty nine.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Or just go to the link in description and it
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: will take you to Patreon where they get Jake.
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: They get the book Club episode five days early on
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: a Monday, they get they full Dilemmas or whatever we
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: do that week, confessions or stimulated. They get that on
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: the Wednesday, and then on Thursday they get an extra full,
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: entire episode of the podcast.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Wow, and how much for five dollars a month?
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: Well that's good, that's so good. Crazy crazy, But back
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: to ig question of the week. And after last week,
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: the conversations were really good and Jake came up with
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: this question and it's a really good conversation startup.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like, I don't know, I think there
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: would have been a time where a little while ago
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: we wouldn't have done this question.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: You reckon. I don't know, maybe all of the answers
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: are kind of like duh or like.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: True, Yeah, that's a good point.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. So the question is, what's a double standard
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: you see all the time between men and women? Can
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: I kick things off. Yes, body counts. Duh, dude.
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: There was a lot of answers and that were body
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: count Yeah.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: And I think, well, it's that stereotype that men who
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: sleep with a lot of girls are considered king's idols
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: the best, whereas if legends, legends, legends. Yeah, as soon
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: as women do it or want to do it, they're
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: using the words I saw in it, considered sluts. Yeah,
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: why can't they be legends.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: I have one that says men sleep around and it's fine,
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: but when a woman does it, she's a slut.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Harsh word.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: It is such a harsh word, and it's being thrown
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: around like that, which is kind of annoying.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: It's kind of like, I think that I don't even
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: really know what to say about it, apart from the
• 24:57
  Speaker 3: fact that it's just so obviously so dumb.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even know what to think because in
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: a sense, it's just the individual's preference. But I've always said,
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: if you want to sleep with people, sleep with people,
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: and if you don't, don't, who cares.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: I don't know, Yeah, I think I I personally don't care,
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: so I like, don't This one doesn't affect me. But
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: I just couldn't imagine, you know, thinking, there's this guy
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: that I've been seeing and he's quite nice. Like because girls,
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: at least in my experience, I can't speak for all
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: of them, but in my experience, like women don't care
• 25:33
  Speaker 3: as much about if a guy has a high bodyccount.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't. They're less judgmental, and you know, well,
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: it comes back to here's a question back to women.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: How sorry, it comes back to men. How they think
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: women are less valuable because they've slept with more people.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: They should be precious, they should be pure. It's stupid.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, that's fucking gross.
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: My question, right, is because I do that definitely, men
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: are the ones that would mostly be giving this double
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: standard more often than not. But is it also like
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: women that are other women? So it is it other
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: women also saying that a woman that sleeps with a
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: lot of people is a slut?
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Is that is that a thing?
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: I would say it's a contributing factor, but like predominantly
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: it's a men. Yeah, coming back to this value thing. Yeah,
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: there's a scene in Love Island which pissed me off.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: Someone asked Jotham, what's your body count?
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: He's like, what he goes like this, he goes, it's
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: up there.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like he's a fucking legend for sleeping. Yeah. Yeah,
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: I hate that after one thing that I'm proud about
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: in my relationship, I don't know proud of the right
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: word is I don't know Cassi's BodyCount. I don't care.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: She's never asked me. I've never asked her. No, I've
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: never and the fact that it's never come out, come out,
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: and never had the I don't know urge to ask
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: or know. Yeah, I think really makes me feel like
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: it's a healthy relationship.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, a good point because I have zero zero.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: You've always heard girls and guys on a night out.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: Maybe it is both, but I think it's generally men
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: say like, what's your body girl?
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: My have a relation, my relationship before the one i'm
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: in now. Yeah, it's my last relationship.
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: We spoke about body count. We're both pretty young, Like,
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: I don't know, But to me, it was like just
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: a thing you ask. But then I remember in hindsight
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: being like you, even if you say you aren't doing it,
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: you kind of compare yours to theirs, or you compare
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: theirs to yours.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I had the stereotype though, because the person in
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: front of you, who you love or you're enjoying on
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: the date or you think is an amazing person, has
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: slept with a lot of people to get to where
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: they are, to find these things out about themselves, Yeah,
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: and to build their confidence and to grow as a person.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: And because that's over ten, you think they're a slut.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, But like, does anybody say over ten is bad?
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Well, I think I was just an example.
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: See, like I'm thinking to me, I think the reason
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: I think it's so such like an outlandish double standard
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: is because I'm assuming the numbers at like a thousand,
• 28:07
  Speaker 3: Not that that means that anyone is a slight if
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: they've slept with a thousand people, But I'm just assuming
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: that's that's the number. Like it's so bad because I
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: think like fifty, Right, you have to think about it
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: this way. Let's say you have a body count of
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: one hundred. All right, that sounds like a lot, yes,
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: But let's say you're thirty years old and you've been
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: sleeping with people since you were twenty. That is ten
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: per year. That's not even one per month, because there's
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: twelve months in a year. That's ten people per year.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: Quick math doesn't sound like that much. Now does it
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: just so happens that they did ten like ten people,
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: It doesn't sund like that much.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: I think that double standard is like more than ten
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: or fifteen, and then you're considered boom boom. I'm pretty
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: sure that's what's considered like bad, even though it's not
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: like you said.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: For think about it in that span of time, like the.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: Reason of logic and also the reason of finding yourself,
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: and also sex is fun. Doesn't want to orgasm.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: It's a good point.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Let's be you should be if instead of calm and
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: slightly you'd be like you like to have a good time.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Maybe that's not as good as I thought it would be.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Like you're talking about bodycatches like my
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: You're like, oh, so you're.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Like having a good time.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: I'm trying at least.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, yeah.
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: I don't personally think it needs to be spoken about,
• 29:24
  Speaker 3: not all.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: But again I don't think I would.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't judge someone that wanted to know their partner's
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: body count, as long as there was zero judgment from
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: them towards their partner. But if you're asking the question,
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: that means you're expecting a certain number and you have
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: a number in your head that's too high for you,
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: which is ridiculous. That's I think if you're asking what's
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: your BodyCount, you have a number that it is too
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: high on your agreed.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: I think if you're asking the question, then you're ready
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: to be in a relationship.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: Ye if I have a feeling.
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: O imagine someone that like really gives a shit about BodyCount, right,
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: and they go, so what's your body count?
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: Then?
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: And then they're like, don't ask questions you don't want
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: to know. Yeah, you're not ready, You're not ready.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: I also think, like right now we're twenty five, When
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: we're thirty five, going off what you said, we're gonna
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: look back and be like we're dumb. Or people who
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: care about body count?
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Like it's probably the thirty five year old
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: single men that care. Yeah, exactly. Let's be real, the
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: bald ones.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: All right, what's a double standard? You see all the
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: time between men and women. It takes very little to
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: be considered a good father, and it also takes very
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: little to be considered a bad mother.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: What is a double Standarday?
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: I saw a few like that.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Now, one kind of like fucking frustrates me. Hey, how
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: the bar is so low for men but so high
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: for women when it comes to children. Yeah, we expect
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: so much from women in a sense of not only
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: do they birth the child, but the standard we hold
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: them too is insane. Yeah, and I'm saying site in
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: like our people, I guess people around us, but the
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: fucking stereotype's terrible. Yeah, I hate that provided mindset, just
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: like the men.
• 31:09
  Speaker 9: Go and work your head.
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: Fuck, it's like, yeah, I'm trying to think, so I
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: I think what annoys me is I don't I don't
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: mind if someone has like the mindset of wanting to
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: be a provider, right, and if it's spoken spoken about
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: within the relationship, you know, and the mother wants to
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: be a stay home mother and that's something you want
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: as well. Like, I don't mind if someone has this
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: provider mentality of I'm in the provider, but I don't
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: like it when they use it as an excuse to
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: be a less involved parent and expect the other parent
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: to be the more involved parent, which is the mother.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: Of course.
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: I think that that's like ridiculous because if you've spoken
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: about it, right, that means that like.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: You're you're aware, like you're well aware of what you're doing.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: I think there's a toxic mindset shift in a sense
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: of there's probably plenty of provider men who have a
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: healthy mindset and how they view their partner and being
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: a father, but majority of men have that instinctual thing
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: where they don't have to do anythinghen their home because
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: they provide.
• 32:26
  Speaker 3: Exactly, they've been out all that, they've been out of
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: providing all day.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: They need to come home and relax.
• 32:35
  Speaker 12: Yeah, honestly, I I saw this thing right, I believe
• 32:42
  Speaker 12: it was on the radio, and so excuse me burping
• 32:48
  Speaker 12: apologies that shit over.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: You've been farting all day, haven't you?
• 32:53
  Speaker 8: You?
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: Literally, are you gonna lie to the baddies right now
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: we have a you're gonna look in the camera way,
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: look into your camera straight up, swear on your mother's
• 33:02
  Speaker 3: grave that or no, Barry's grave.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: You haven't been farting all day. Berry's dead exactly, his grave.
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: Well, nothing's gonna happen because he's dead.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the disrespect to his grave, though, do it?
• 33:13
  Speaker 3: Look at the camera's graves in my backyard, but look
• 33:15
  Speaker 3: at the camera and tell the baddies that you haven't
• 33:17
  Speaker 3: been fighting all day Brown Henry, sorry, not Henry's Barry's.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: We go down after and power Respects play a song.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're not going to get forgiven for lying.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: But if you want to do that after the episode,
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: I will go.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: Pay my respects to Barry. I have not paid my
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: respects yet.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: Actually, where he's buried, you can put it actually his backyard.
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: Ye's actually, yeah, you plan it like a plant or something.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe now I put a flat on
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: when he passed. Anyways, don't remember. I didn't plan it.
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: I didn't want to look at him go on the ground.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: The dirt was gone, I mean in the ground.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Wait, okay, no, here's the thing I saw. So I
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: can't remember if.
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: It was a man or a woman that made the video,
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: But in the deo it's said the husband of a
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: state at home mother, right, should pay the mother's superannuation. Yeah.
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: I think that makes sense, yeah, because it's like, why
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: is he getting a career in a superannuation and she's
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: staying home looking after the kids that's considered not a career,
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: even though it kind of is in its own sense,
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: and she's not earning any sort of super where So
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: when she retires, she's getting nothing.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's men are dumb, and a sense of that
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: person staying on his podcast where it's like, I just
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: want my wife to stay at home and collect post
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: cards and be happy. Oh yeah, that's crazy, And I
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: guess they don't compute or they don't that is selfish
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: in a sense of as long as they're providing, they
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: don't see the future of their partner, because he's your
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: career is going up.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, your future, Yeah, your career is solid,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: you know, so you know, yeah, it's like a selfish
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: thing to think about this.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: I think the sacrifice a woman makes to be a
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: mother is the most honorable thing anyone can do. Not
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: only is it twenty four hours a day, but also
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: like you don't have to give up your career, but
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: there's a time where you have to be a mother
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: for a little bit and you can't really do both
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: at the same time for a little period of time.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: It's so honorable and it's crazy like people who say like, oh, yeah,
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: I'll just pay for fucking that. Are you paying fucking
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: super mortgage? You're paying for like half of her mortgage
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: and then everything else work has gone yeah.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: I just saw say.
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: I think there was like mad blob in the comments
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: about the more like paying the super of a stay
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: at home mum thing, but I kind of was thinking,
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: kind of valid.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: I never noticed as a kid, but my dad paid
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: because my mum was a stay at home mum. Her
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: super did it and you see it. Yeah, yeah, that's there,
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: you go. He just did it like green flag. You
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: can see it now they're old.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: How do you do it?
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: That's why you can make contributions up to twenty thousand
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: dollars a year.
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: So oh that's kind of sick.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're about It depends how much you contribute
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: to your super.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: But there's a cap make it some sort of like
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: tax right off as well.
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: I think it is.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys are gonna get You're gonna pay less tax.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: You fucking it.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, be sick. What's a double standard you see all
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: the time between men and women. Men are allowed to age?
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I never thought about that.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: I know that is a massive double standard. And I
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: have an email from one of the baddies. Oh really yeah,
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: very insightful, a little bit sad, but I guess shows
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: what it's like out there. Amanda Hall said, so, my
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: question slash discussion point is four generations women have been
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: told their youth and beauty are metrics of their value,
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: and they have until approximately the age of twenty five
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: to catch a man and make babies, because after they
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: lose their value and men don't want them so much.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: As they age, they become invisible and raised to believe
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: age is the worst thing, when in reality it's a privilege.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: I remember when an X of mine, we will call
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: him bran Flake, mentioned his friends splitting with his girlfriend
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: and how worried they were for her. Now, when I
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: asked about their concern for her, he said it was
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: because she was thirty one and the likelihood of her
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: getting a decent man is reducing fast, as men don't
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: want a middle aged woman or a woman over the
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: age of thirty. In Brackett's question, mark exclamation mark, exclamation mark,
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: exclamation mark. So after I'd done some, she said yogic breathing,
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: and somehow not smacked him over the head with a
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: flip flop. I suggested their comments to be misogynistic and ridiculous,
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: and also, what about all those hot cougar's young men
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: lust for anyways, he glitched and got bluffed, got irritated
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: and had no answer. Thankfully, I'm not with him anymore.
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: He flaked after my mother died, my favorite person who
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: I would have loved to have seen get older and
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: have many more memories with. Back to my point, that
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: comment was insane for me. Even in twenty twenty five,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: we ad just that the early days of truly loving
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: a woman and the generations of programming is still haunting
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: our younger people. As a thirty eight year old woman,
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: I feel great, look great, open to a relationship with
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: a good man slashing brackets an average woman louffy faith
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: who isn't wearing these old misogynistic goggles. With peace and
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: love and pineapples. From Amanda, north East England.
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: Damn, okay, let me think about this now. I see
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: what you're doing here, Amanda, all right, very serious topic.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: Yes, but I.
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: Will not think about being with anyone but Bethany Okay,
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: I see what you're doing.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: See that went over my head.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: No, I very like, I very I find very often
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: I think, yeah, women, older women are very attractive, like
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: they can be. Is that are we talking attractiveness or like?
• 38:40
  Speaker 3: What are we talking?
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: No? No, no, it's value. So have you ever asked your grandma,
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: like how old she is and she's ashamed to tell
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: you how old she is because oh, yeah, this is huge.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't ask a woman what her age.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: I've never understood that. It's because everyone's been told, or
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: women are their value is seen by age. The older
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: they get, the less value they get. So they're a
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: shamed to be seventy eighty ninety when it's beautiful in
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: a sense. So the problem is these men have put
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: these predispositions of how we view women to do with
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: age when it has no contributing factor at all. Yeah. Fuck,
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: it's not a beauty thing because everyone's beautiful in their
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: own way.
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: And it's going back to her example. It's like you
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: and best break up in five years, a lot of
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: people will be like, you're fine, you're successful, you're thirty
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: year old man. And then people view bet as you're
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: thirty and you don't have a boyfriend.
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, that's that's actually does still happen exactly, And
• 39:34
  Speaker 3: I guess it comes from a generational thing, and we
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: can be the changing factor, I guess, and change it
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: for generations to come and even Cassie, I know she's
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: afraid of aging.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: And I think it's also like a lot of women
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: don't think about it. It's just an instinctual thing because
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: that's how they've been told to act.
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: Fuck, we are all just products of our fucking environment.
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: Well yeah, yeah, I don't know. Age has always been
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: a constant to man, Like you always have the debates
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: when you're dating too. Obviously there is suss age brackets,
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: but also like someone's thirty five, someone's thirty, No one
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: cares no what Yeah, And there's always like this predisposition
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: of like what you should be able to go up
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: above and beyond, when in reality everyone's on their own journey.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter.
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: What's a double standard you see all the time between
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: men and women. Now this one is from a woman.
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: All of these are from women. This one I found interesting.
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: Women want men to put in all the effort, but
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: then they don't put any effort in return.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they want everything, but they won't give anything.
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: No. I think that what she's saying is women want
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: men to put in all the effort, but then women
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: don't put any effort in return.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: That's the way she's worded it.
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: Oh, and I was like, I was thinking, like I
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: didn't think that was a thing.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it always. I always put that down
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: to it too, like you can always want something, but you.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: Attract what you are.
• 41:06
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: So like say you're a woman who doesn't put any
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: effort in or you're a man who doesn't put anyfident in,
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: and you're.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: Like, and you're saying you want someone that puts effort in.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the actions speak louder than words, even though you're
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: saying that, it never works like that, Okay, And like
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: I think I think, I don't know, maybe this woman
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: has experienced that in her life. Yeah, I think I'd
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: say maybe that one's more fifty fifty to sixty forty men.
• 41:29
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like kind of thinking, I didn't really
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: because it is way more common that men are the ones.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: That don't put the effort in.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it is way more common. Well, we like to,
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: I don't know, bash men on this podcast, and do
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: believe that there's a big gender inequality between men and women,
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: but also there are women out there who don't.
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: You can still be a bad person, Yeah, of course,
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: you can just be a bad person.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, she was kind of cooling women out there.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: I get a bit, I guess.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, what's a double standard you see all
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: the time between men and women body hair? No one
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: cares or no one has ever cared when men has
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: hairy legs or hairy inputs pits.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah that. We had a dilemma from a mum about this.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: It was tricky. It was like.
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: He was like, why am I always shaving my armpits
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: and legs. She's like, I don't really want my daughter
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: to ask me why I'm doing that. And then I
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: tell her I do it because I think I'm supposed
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: to do it for everyone else when I didn't really
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: enjoy doing it. And then she was kind of saying, like,
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: how would you guys feel about a woman with hairy
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: pits hairy legs, like.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: You know all that?
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: And I was I felt felt really bad the fact
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: that this dilemma exists, but actually was I was like
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: really trying to think about it. And once you get
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: comfortable in a relationship, you let things go. Like at
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: the start of my relationship with Beth, I would like
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: man scape way more frequently, Like I always wanted to
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: like Man's cape for her, not that I like just
• 43:04
  Speaker 3: like kind of made me feel a little better or whatever.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: But admittedly I let it fucking go.
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: Now she also lets her legs like grow out all
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: the time. Not one bit of me is like, girl,
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: shave those legs.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: But also the mindset should be not I'm letting it go.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: That's just that's how I am.
• 43:22
  Speaker 9: True.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, it's almost like I was doing extra. Yeah,
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: that's what you're the mindset. No, I'm letting it go.
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: I was like I was doing more than I had to.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: True, Yeah, that should be the mindset.
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: I can admit. Also, it comes back to because you
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: can do it for yourself, because I admit too when
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: I shave down there make me feel sexy.
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, you kind of think like I'm getting sexy
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: for my girlfriend.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. And it's more like going above and beyond
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: rather than doing the bare minimum.
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and or doing the expectation. We're taught like men
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: are taught from a young age. Also women obviously that
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: hair is gross on women, your.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: Hair on men.
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: I remember in high school too, like there's moments where
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: I remember I think it was both genders, but girls
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: giving other girls shit for having harry legs and stuff.
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, school like a toxic get spoken about. Yeah, and
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: kids will notice that shit. Kids will like actually notice
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: that shit, because when you're at school, your whole thing
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: is like, what's it called the pyramid of, like not society,
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: the pyramid of like the fucking group, the hierarchy of so, the.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: Hierarchy of like the year.
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's like you will notice anything that could
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: get someone knocked down a peg or two for a
• 44:39
  Speaker 3: little while, so you can be on top, like if
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: you're the one that notices it.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: I remember it was a thing in school where used
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: to like obviously consensually they wanted it, but both girls
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: and guys would go around feel like the girls legs
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: had the smoothest I remember that, and you'd be like, wow,
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: that's smooth, Like it's a compliment.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: I know, I remember. Yeah.
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: It was like a thing where a friend of yours
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: that was a girl would maybe come up to you
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: and be like, feel my legs, Feel how smooth they are.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: You can also flip it on its head too, because
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: I used to. It's not anywhere near the same magnitude
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: of a problem, or it's uncomparable. I used to shave
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: my legs for soccer yeah, and I got cold gay.
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah everyone, yeah people.
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, if a guy shaves his leg at school, don't
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: you fucking dare?
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like the thing. Yeah exactly, I haven't
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: done it before. What's it like?
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: It's actually really feels because it initially so right now
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: because I like pretty hairy legs, right, you feel super clean.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: If I was to.
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: Shave these and just like walk in the air, it
• 45:38
  Speaker 3: would have would I feel naked.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: Air initially for that the first thirty seconds or a minute.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: But where you feel it is when you get into
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: your sheets. You feel clean, real like super clean.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: It's weird. I feel like I felt cleanliness before.
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: But also your legs and your definition starts to pop.
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: It's good. Well yeah, the hair definitely, yeah, it looks.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: But more so it just feels actually like clean. And
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: because her hair grows back a little bit quicker, yeah,
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: it's a little bit like when it gets like a rushier. Yeah,
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: it gets a little annoying because it rubs on ship and.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Like itchy and stuff.
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: But you just got to keep on top of it.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: But it was great for soccer because, like I can't
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: remember what was the justification. I think I did it
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: because everyone did it as a soccer player, but there
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: was some reason like you don't get like cuts as
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: much or something.
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: Actually thinking about it, why is this soccer player shaving
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: his legs.
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: There was something to do.
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: I can understand. The thing I can understand is like
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: a swimmer.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: It wasn't aerodynamic.
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: I was gonna say, because with a swimmer, you know,
• 46:30
  Speaker 3: like milliseconds count, so if you can somehow mill a second,
• 46:34
  Speaker 3: it was like a like to me, let's be real.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: It was a group thing.
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: It was a soccer thing.
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like a soccer thing. It was like everything.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: It's like I'm doing it.
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: Your legs are like a cheese greater when you're like one.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: More thing is in sports like that, rugby, soccer, whatever.
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: I don't know if this ever happenue, but if you
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: have an injury and you have to tape something, no
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: hair would be a lot.
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: Remember that's what I used to say, like, oh yeah,
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: I was, I gotta tape my knee, I gotta tape
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: my ankle. I used to get sprained ankles and I
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: was like to shave it anyway, to shave.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: My like yeah, it looks weird.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: I had to justify it.
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: All right, what's a double standard? You see all the
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: time between men and women. Men take their shirt off
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: at the beach, but if a girl wears a small
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: bikini top it's skanky.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: That double standard is crazy too, and you always hear
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: it from the elder. I think that's an elderly thing too,
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: where like girls leave the house especially and like what
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: are you wearing? Like its fucked you don't need to
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: show the world, Like, bro, yeah.
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: I have, Like I think that's it.
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: I've had multiple conversations with Beth where we're leaving the
• 47:37
  Speaker 3: house and we're going somewhere that's just like family or whatever,
• 47:41
  Speaker 3: and she'd be like, is this too revealing? And and
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: I mean admittedly sometimes I'm like, oh maybe, Like I
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: don't know. I kind of think she obviously isn't feeling
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: fully comfortable wearing this there. So it's like I want
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: to let her know, like you can change if you
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: you're not silly if you change. But at the same time,
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: it's like, sucks that you even have to think that
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: because you're obviously confident in this thing with friends, why
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: can't you be confident in this thing with family?
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: It's funny and Cassie sent me a radio station the
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: other day and it was the first time someone had
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: been in a healthy relationship. And one of the points
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: was she was wearing something what she felt comfortable in,
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: and the dude's comment was She's like, oh, do you
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: mind if I wear this? Or what do you think?
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: And he's like, yeah, you look good, go out there.
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: But a lot of men will be like, no, you're
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: showing too much leg. No, you're showing too much cleavage.
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: And like a lot of people have never experienced that
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: because men have this thing where it's like a protection thing.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Oh that's mine, it's a property thing about thing, and
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: they go, no, you can't wear that. You have to
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: wear less revealing stuff. Alrighty, next one, what's a double standard?
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: You see all the time between men and women When
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: men and women argue, a man is making a point,
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: when a woman is arguing, it's seen as bitchy, valid dude,
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: or over the top too much.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: Fuck that's fucked.
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, fuck, you almost can't do anything, can't
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: leave the house, you can't make a point.
• 49:15
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: She trying to think like.
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: Is that in a relationship type thing or is that
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: also that that would just happen in the world, in
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: workplaces or whatever.
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: I was thinking workplace for that one, but obviously it
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: happens everywhere. I think, Yeah, I don't know. If you're
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: in a meeting and you stand on business, Yeah, he's
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: making a point because that's what he's believing. If she
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: said she's been like argumentative, yeah, it's like she's bitchy,
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: She's why are you arguing with me? You doing this?
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: He's like, no, I'm doing the exact same thing. But
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: I'm a woman.
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I'm just saying my point. Yeah, and it's
• 49:44
  Speaker 3: clearly valid enough for you to not have anything to
• 49:46
  Speaker 3: say back and then call me a bitch.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: I feel like men think it's to get our jail
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: free card when they don't have anything to say, like,
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: rather than say, oh, that's valid, you put me on
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: my place, like like she's a bitch.
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, well, you probably make him feel better
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: about yeah, a little bit better, I think, so. I
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: guess my last one. What's a double standard you see
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: all the time between men and women. A man can
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: scratch his balls in public and it's normal, But I
• 50:15
  Speaker 3: can't scratch my badge question mark, question mark, question mark, girl,
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: you can scratch your badge.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: If you want to, hey, spread those legs, scratch that badge.
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: Pause if you if you want to, let's break the norm.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: Scratch that ain't anything. Also, I shouldn't play Devil's advocate,
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: but if you were scratching your nuts in public, I
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: would also think that's a slightly little bit weird. Yeah.
• 50:44
  Speaker 3: True, but it's just it is way more I guess
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: it is more normal. He's just being a guy walking
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: around your hands down your pants.
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a better example.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: A home, I do it like I Admittedly at home,
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: I do it, but I.
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: Don't think I want to break the norm. I like that.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: We should make sure it scratch that badge.
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: That would be the funniest thing to take off, Like
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: this whole movement called scratch that bad on the news
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: everything scratch that badge.
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: And you know where it starts in the comments.
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: That badge right now, scratch that hashtag. Scratch that badge.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: Everybody videos, No, no, not to us social media.
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: We don't want videos and scratch their badge.
• 51:29
  Speaker 9: We want video.
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: We want videos on social media with hashtag scratch that badge.
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: You should have made that centence sentence more streamline. You're like,
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: we want videos, all right, Baddies, Jake and I have
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: a lot more. So what we're going to do, like
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: we did last week is put the rest on Patreon
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: because the combos are so good, so head on over
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: there and enjoy them. That is, it's time for comments.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: If you want to get your comment read, please this
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  Speaker 2: comment below on whatever episode you're listening to today, we're
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: doing something a little bit different and reading the Dilemma's comment.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: The episode was called I did something I regret. I've
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: got Steph Price. Can you boys come out with a
• 52:12
  Speaker 2: cassticker that says, in quotes, I'm not schizophrenic. I'm just
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: listening to the relatables because I look like an idiot
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: laughing out loud in my car my way to work.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's that's a possibility.
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: Will we say that?
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: What I just said? It's good friend. Yeah, I don't know.
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: It was a comment from Baddie. Yeah, it is what
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: it is like, we didn't think of it. It's let
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: us know whether or not we can do that, and
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: we'll think about it. I got one from jay Z,
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: but it's a woman profile picture. Money doesn't buy happiness, Dash,
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: But have you ever seen someone sad on a jet ski.
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: Now you haven't a just.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: Say one thing, right.
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: Money doesn't buy happiness, but have you ever seen anyone
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: sad ripping down the freeway in their Lamborghini?
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I know you haven't.
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: Money doesn't buy happiness, but have you ever seen someone
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: sad and they're on sweitet Jacuzzi?
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: Fucking doubt it? All right. Let's be real here.
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: Money doesn't buy happiness, but you have you ever seen
• 53:12
  Speaker 3: a sad scene in a movie where someone is swimming
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: in money on a bed?
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: I doubt it, all right?
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: So money can buy happiness?
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: Alrighty, last one, Jessica, we need a compilation of all
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: Jake's Watts reactions like the one at thirteen dot ten
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: in the episode Love Them? Could we get one for them?
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: Is this when I'm like?
• 53:35
  Speaker 9: What?
• 53:36
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: Alright, baddies, it's time for the baddie sign off. If
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: you want to get called by us, there will be
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: a link in the description. Today we are calling Vicky.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: Hello. Is this Vicky?
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: Yes, Vicky, It's Jake and Oddie from the Relatables. How
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: are you going?
• 53:57
  Speaker 10: Oh my god, I'm so good. How are you?
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: Very very good?
• 54:01
  Speaker 7: Very good?
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: I've got Audie with me Jake. Jake ficks up the
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: phone like so elusive. Hello, Sorry, you're some shit.
• 54:11
  Speaker 10: I was just so confused because it's actually eleven thirty pm.
• 54:16
  Speaker 10: I'm in Canada.
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: Oh that's sick that it went through.
• 54:21
  Speaker 10: Yeah, I actually didn't think it would either.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: Well, apologies if we're running up that phone, but we'll
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: keep it quick. We just wanted you to sign off
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: today's episode for us? Is can you do that?
• 54:30
  Speaker 10: Oh my god, I can.
• 54:32
  Speaker 9: Yes?
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: What have you got for us? You've got advice or
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: quote anything?
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: A joke?
• 54:39
  Speaker 10: I think just everything happens for reasons, Like I'm here
• 54:42
  Speaker 10: because I just wanted to leave and I made it happen.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: Damn, that's it.
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: I love living by that. How you do things that
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: your younger self wish you could have.
• 54:51
  Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: How long are you in Canada for?
• 54:57
  Speaker 10: I don't know. Actually I'm probably going to be here
• 54:59
  Speaker 10: until next year.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: Let's go.
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: He's in Canada. Let's go.
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: Your time to keep for picking up.
• 55:06
  Speaker 10: Yeah, thank you so much for calling.
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: Bye bye bye ah.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: She was definitely like tired and what that was meant
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: to be?
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: Went to Canada?
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy that it went you to Canada, damn well,
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: thank you all for listening.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: We love you.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: Stay bad.