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Audre Lorde - If I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive · the Daily Quote - Positive Daily Inspiration and Motivational Quote of the Day

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  Podcasthero.com Welcome to the Daily Quote, a podcast designed
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  to kick start your day in a positive way.
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  I'm your host, Andrew McGivern for October 7th.
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  Today is You are Beautiful day and if you're rolling your eyes
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  thinking this is just another feel good holiday with no
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  substance, hear me out. Its observance was created to
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  combat that constant stream of negative self talk and
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  unrealistic beauty standards bombard us daily through media,
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  advertising and social comparison.
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  You Are a Beautiful Day encourages people to recognize
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  and celebrate their unique beauty.
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  Not that filtered, photoshopped, culturally dictated version of
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  beauty, but authentic beauty that comes from being genuinely
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  yourself. This day promotes positive body
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  image, self acceptance, and the radical idea that beauty isn't
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  something to achieve or attain, it's something you've already
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  possess. What makes This Day meaningful
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  is its counterculture message In a world that profits from making
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  us feel inadequate, You Are Beautiful Day is a gentle
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  rebellion, a reminder that you don't need to change, improve,
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  or fix yourself to be worthy of love and appreciation.
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  Today's quote comes from author and activist Audrey Lord, who
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  once said if I didn't define myself for myself, I would be
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  crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten
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  alive. Lord's powerful statement
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  captures exactly what you are Beautiful Day is fighting
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  against. When we allow others, whether
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  it's advertisers, social media influencers, magazine editors,
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  or even well meaning friends and family, to define our beauty and
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  worth, we lose something essential.
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  We become smaller, diminished, crunched into shapes that don't
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  fit who we actually are. Think about how much mental
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  energy we spend comparing ourselves to impossible
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  standards. How much time we waste wishing
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  we looked different, younger, thinner, taller, different, and
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  countless ways. This isn't accidental.
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  Entire industries depend on keeping us dissatisfied with
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  ourselves, so we'll keep buying products that are promising
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  transformation. Lord understood that self
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  definition is an act of resistance and survival.
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  When you define yourself. When you decide that you are
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  beautiful not despite your perceived flaws, but including
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  them, you reclaim power that others have tried to take away
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  from you. You step out of the fantasy that
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  others have constructed and into your own authentic reality.
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  You Are a Beautiful Day asks us to practice what Lord preached
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  to define ourselves or ourselves, to recognize that
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  beauty is diverse, subjective, and already present in each of
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  us. As you head into your day,
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  embrace the spirit of You Are a Beautiful Day and Lord's wisdom
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  about self definition. Look in the mirror today in
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  practice defining yourself for yourself, not according to
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  magazine, social media, or cultural beauty standards.
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  Maybe it's noticing something about your appearance you
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  usually criticize and choosing to see it differently.
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  Maybe it's complimenting yourself the way you would
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  compliment a friend. Maybe it's simply acknowledging
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  that you are enough, exactly as you are right now.
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  Beauty isn't something you need to earn or achieve.
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  It's already yours. The only question is whether
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  you'll claim it for yourself or let others define it away from
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  you. That's going to do it for today.
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  Thanks for listening. I'm Anna Mcgibbon, signing off
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  for now, but I'll be back tomorrow.
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  Same pod time, same pod station with another daily quote.