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The Wacky World Of ADHD With Connor DeWolfe · Aspergers & Autism Podcast [The Aspie World] AuDHD

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  Guys, welcome back to another Saturday live.
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  I see it's Saturday live. This is prerecorded, but it's
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  live for you guys because it's like unedited.
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  So anything that happens in the all bleeps and everything else
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  is included. So buckle UPS gonna be a good
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  one. Guys, Today I'm joined by a
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  really, really super awesome influencer.
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  He I came across his videos on TikTok and I just, I just love
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  it was so funny. And then like my team were like,
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  you got to get this guy on the show.
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  I was like, OK, OK, OK. So without further ado, scandals
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  needs no introduction. It's Connor de Wolf and this guy
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  is awesome. So college, you want to kind of
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  it was a little bit of like what you do, who you are, where
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  you're from and stuff like that. Yeah, I am.
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  I was born in Michigan and then I was raised in Kansas.
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  And then I've been, I was, I, I've been an actor since 5th
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  grade. The, the even had a person
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  class, you know, and then, and I just fell in love with that.
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  And then I went to Chicago for a second, hung out with buddies,
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  went through a depressive episode couple years or like a
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  yes exactly a year ago with COVID accutane a breakup.
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  And then I the only way I could like fully express all my
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  emotions was making tik toks about how my own brain works.
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  And they're, and they're absolutely golden.
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  You have to see it, dude. You do.
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  You can tell you're an actor because you, you do like such
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  good. Like the, you know, the whole
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  split thing, like one guy's like, Hey, stop tapping your pen
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  or whatever. You know that one.
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  What the AD? What do I put my ADHD?
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  I love so, so, so from my views, you don't know here.
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  Well, what kind of content do you put out?
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  I've put out it's, it's like a sketch comedy with myself, like
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  that one show that Paul Rudd's on.
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  But also I'm a Leo, so I'm very Bo Burnham type, just inherently
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  not even meaning to be. It's just like I have to have
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  the spotlight. But I just like, you know, I
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  can't like, I have to like always create something.
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  But basically in high school, I I, I became very good at this.
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  It's something in the United States, I think it's I no, it's,
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  I think it's everywhere where it's just a forensics and debate
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  speech and debate where. And so in this class and in this
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  part of acting in my high school, we would go to
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  competitions and basically you had to do full entire scenes by
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  yourself. And that would be called like an
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  humorous interpretation where you had to switch characters on
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  a whim and be very present in the moment to go from like A to
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  like a old woman to like to like the knight fighting the dragon.
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  So like that just, it was a perfect combination.
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  And it just kind of all worked in perfectly where I just like
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  applied that knowledge and just applied it straight to TikTok
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  because that's what I used to on TikTok where I just switched
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  back from. I used to literally like take my
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  phone as a bobble head and just switch my head back and forth.
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  But the old lady is where you really come alive.
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  Yeah, that's where like truly I, I cope with most of my emotions.
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  They're my acting. That's where that's where I find
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  a lot of my learning experiences.
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  I channel the old lady because she's now it's it's.
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  Cool, and she holds all the wisdom.
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  Called it the old lady, but no, I I honestly like it it it works
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  so well because, you know, you talk about topics that are not
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  not taboo. They're more like negative right
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  in in their respects where people like you see, OK, look,
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  this is one of the issues why I started my channels.
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  All the stuff I was I was talking about Asperger's, right?
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  Especially one of the Internet had type in videos about
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  Asperger's and it would talk so find people talking about it.
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  Everyone was like, my life sucks and I want to die.
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  And I was like, holy smokes, like this is the most depressing
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  stuff I've ever seen in my life. So then I was like, I'm going to
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  put videos out talking about how cool the things are.
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  Like I love talking really fast on my breath.
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  They want to do some stupid shit, but like and and I love
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  that about you as well. You're taking the topics that
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  are somewhat kind of like negative or like the job,
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  drawing off the mandial and the very mundane.
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  And then you're saying like, let's spice it up for making
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  comedy or, you know, comedic flip and love that, you know,
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  and, and I think I think you have like this charm around you
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  as well with your content, which makes it you super charismatic
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  And that way obviously being terribly good looking and young
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  helps. But like, you know, just that
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  whole kind of like, you know what I mean?
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  Like that? Like if you're if you have
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  charisma, like it comes across new videos and you do that
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  really, really well. So I like you're more than
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  welcome, dude. Honestly, I love your content.
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  You're one of the very few kind of tick tockers.
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  I like just follow like I, I don't tend to follow people on
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  ticks. Like they just like I do that
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  whole ADHD thing. I'm like.
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  Like you have so same. Ah, yeah.
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  But again, like all or nothing. Like it's, it's, it's like, I
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  like sometimes social media is like the last thing.
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  I it's it's like funny because like the one thing that holds
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  most anxiety over our funky brains in our teenage years is
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  like a number on a screen. And so like, as soon as you have
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  any, you realize there's like still a problem.
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  You're like, oh, OK, so maybe I'm, why am I still sad when I
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  have this, all this validation? So you're like, OK, I'm just
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  going to like stop looking at it.
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  But I don't know. I just like if my brain had just
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  like clicked and stopped. But that's the thing, it's not,
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  it's like, yeah, external validation is, is not the one
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  really you want that internal validation, right?
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  It's that stuff. And this is what I was going to
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  say. So, so talk to us a bit about
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  your diagnosis of what you, you know, your conditions or
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  conditions like sellers, what what are your diagnosis?
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  You know, how did that come about?
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  Yeah, I mean, I went to AI, went to a psychiatrist who said a
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  bunch of bunch of fun names. But at the end of the day, I
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  like just I, I think it's, I just like calling it Connor.
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  And like, you know, I, I don't, I think we all have like, I
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  think truly the neurodivergent community on this planet is a
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  cry of the universe to go back to nature.
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  And I think the community that is building and we're continuing
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  to build everyday on the Internet is just going to build
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  us closer and closer to that goal of just.
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  Harmony. I don't know, but that's like
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  the big expansive goal. I I, but recently I've been
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  trying to, I've been trying to deal with my anxiety without
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  Zoloft. And so I, I've cut it out and
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  it's been a couple weeks and I because I think I learned the
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  lessons I needed to learn with Zoloft.
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  Yeah, what I needed. And I think that put me in that
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  perspective for a while, but I think I just, I was ready to
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  like get off of it. But of course, you know, our all
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  or nothing brain. Of course I have to become like
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  a full on like hippie and like search for enlightenment.
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  So like right now in my current state of mind, like I'm, I'm
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  trying to deal with a lot of anxieties just because I was, I
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  was in LA filming on set and, and acting and fully like
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  completing my college education of acting.
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  It kind of it, it brought back a lot of similar characters that I
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  had in like high school theatre, and it just triggered some
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  things I didn't realize I fully needed to deal with.
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  And so I put, I was put, I was in a very dark place.
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  But you know, there's a thin line between love and hate, and
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  there's a thin line between depressed and fully awake.
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  Yeah, I get that. So.
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  Yeah, I've been on a, I've been on a that kick recently.
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  But when it comes to like my love for the neurodiversity in
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  my own brain is that I'm just really focused on the, the
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  neurodivergent hive mind that we have like even before this
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  interview is crazy. Just the correlations and how
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  like fascinatingly similar down to our type of car, like, and
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  the fact that we just got it. Like it's, it's just like, yeah,
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  yeah, it's just those it's, it's and that's what I really want to
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  focus on. I'm just like caught and being
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  confident within saying to myself that there's no other
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  label besides I am like, I am neurodiverse.
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  I am a neurodiverse human on this earth and like I have a
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  connection with all these other regardless of, you know, what
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  these other neurodivergence are going through symptomatically in
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  their own mental state because it changes every day and
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  whatever labels they have put on them regardless, because
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  symptoms are symptoms and they're all valid.
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  So I just like, I'm just trying to like not call myself anything
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  and just call myself what I am. And that's neuro diverse.
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  And yeah, but the Internet, you know, you got to ease them into
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  those that, that those crazy shits.
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  So you got to you do you? Do you have to?
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  They don't know. You.
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  Know that is funny yeah, I love I love that you said it's just
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  neo diverse like you haven't got these subsects.
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  It's like, you know, because I I look at my diagnostic excited
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  updated diagnosis recently because I'll see Asperger's is
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  an outdated term. So like diagnostic criteria is a
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  little kind of update to EST level like 1-2 whatever and so
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  now there's like just a bunch of different stuff in a you know,
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  like PDA and like Alexis I'mere and I'm thinking you know the
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  and it's really fascinating to talk to talk about that on my
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  channel but you're absolutely right.
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  You know that the real label is just neo diverse and I kept hear
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  about there's like a vibe like you vibe.
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  It's like near division people right can almost like feel it
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  just regardless and. Such an energy wave, yeah.
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  Right. And just, and you're absolutely
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  right, you know, about being like full blown hippie, like I'm
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  such a hippie. I love it.
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  But like, you know, even like down to Elon Musk, you know,
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  like he's part of the community and he's like trying to put
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  people on Mars. You know, this guy, he he's so
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  fascinating. Like the stuff like we was just
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  before, like we recorded this interview colour and I were
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  having this discussion about like, you know, people on with
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  ASD, like either all or nothing, right?
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  We kind of like just just we 10X and skip steps, right.
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  Oh yeah, And Elon Musk, this is really funny.
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  Like the two things really start out for me.
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  But Elon Musk, I don't even know this, but he when he was when
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  you only have a a few million left and he either has a bit all
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  into Tesla or into SpaceX, or you have to split it down the
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  middle and give half to each. And but the problem is that both
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  of them could have failed or just one of them could right,
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  right. So he just says like gamble,
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  both of them and both of them paid off.
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  And in history, only two car companies in the history of the
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  planet have never gone bankrupt. 1 is Ford, obviously 2 sevens
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  like Scott and the other is Tesla.
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  So Tesla's one like making history of ministry really cool
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  car cover. And the second thing I want to
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  say is that he couldn't afford a chief rocket engineer for
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  SpaceX, so he taught himself, and he is the chief rocket
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  engineer of SpaceX. The guy's an absolute beast.
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  Like I love that. That's such a it's a monster and
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  that's, and that's why I like Chandeline, like the impatience
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  of ADHD in a view and being able to harness the, the
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  hyperactivity with the pattern recognition of like, Oh yeah,
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  ASD is like, dude, you can literally that's like skipping
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  steps is like impatient. Plus like just hyper focus of
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  special interest like level of algorithms and like you can
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  literally just do anything you want in life 100.
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  Percent like that there's no limit to that, you know, and I
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  think, you know, we're living testament.
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  Like I said, we just like, you know, we're both young dudes and
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  we just like I just bought a house like crazy like I never
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  thought a million years ago to buy like a house this big more
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  of it. And like I just bought a car,
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  you know, I mean like and a Tesla car like my own car like
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  it. No, I always like second hands
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  like you know, like BF cause from like see.
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  I did all the same things, but I also my ADHD got trapped in the
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  in the whole credit card game. It's bad here in America.
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  Yeah, it's it's yeah, it's it's crazy.
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  Anyway, I was about to info dump about my own current financial
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  status on a live stream. Never mind.
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  Don't edit it after. Never mind.
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  No, no, we could do. We could do.
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  This is all raw and edited. Do you know what's really funny?
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  OK, it's raw dude. It.
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  Doesn't matter. Do you ever do that thing where
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  you like Google your name and then you find those like weird
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  celebrity like channels where they say like what's Daniel
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  Jones's net worth from the ask me world?
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  And they always come like ridiculous.
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  I was like, she's well, like 7 million.
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  I'm like, I don't know what $7,000,000 like what are you
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  talking about? Like and grossly overestimate
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  your income because of your state.
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  Well. I think my brain has justified
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  it because like I always like to over exaggerate, but I don't
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  think it's like I've seen the numbers, but you know, sometimes
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  I got a lot of myself to motivate myself.
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  But like, I see the numbers online, like I'll Google it and
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  I'm like, I'm like, OK, first of all, we're back, though.
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  Yeah, what we're getting. Stalled out, but then I'm like,
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  OK, wait, so it's like over time?
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  Yeah Holy shit. I was impulsive as how?
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  Why did I buy this thing? OK, wait, that is a lot of
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  money. Dude, I I told I so hard
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  related, like seriously, the amount of money I would just
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  like I spent on stuff. I'm thinking, Oh man, like what?
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  I could have just been so much careful with my money.
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  That's another thing that's like that's a huge like symptomatic
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  issue, right where like the the bad money management, like and
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  not really knowing like the control of game capital.
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  So like I've got no one. I've got like accountants and
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  stuff hide now my my girlfriend, like she actually does all my
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  finances. This is a true story guys, when
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  they say that the woman wears A trousers, they really do because
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  they're better finances than me, but.
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  I didn't have that. I was on this like whole hippie
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  thing. I was talking to to my
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  girlfriend and we're in Michigan staying with our parents for a
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  second after I was on in LA. We're on set.
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  And so, but like I, I've never felt the because I, I, I was
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  trying to relieve anxiety and you know, like money's not
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  really like that's never, that doesn't motivate us.
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  And so it's never it's, it's, it's, and actually it's can
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  sometimes hinder to the hyper focus.
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  So it's like I was all in this chill out mode, but there's
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  nothing like the motivation. I've never felt this in my life
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  before. And it's actually really cool
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  because like my my girlfriend, it was getting anxious about
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  like going back to LA and, and the apartment and, and
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  everything. And I was like, I have a whole
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  new drive for life it. Was.
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  Crazy. I was like, wow, I'm growing up.
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  What is that? Let me know.
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  Yeah, it's like. Exactly.
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  I was like. Wow, no.
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  Adult Emotion. It's true.
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  I think I felt like I bought a washing machine and like a
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  couple of years ago, I first into my first apartment, like I
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  bought a washing machine was like some like cheap the crap
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  thing. Anyway, when I was this half my
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  girlfriend was like, OK, well, our dry is black.
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  We used to buy the matching like washing machine and I was like,
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  I'm in a position to do that. I'm wearing No am I an adult
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  like I'm going to do I'm going to do this.
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  You know I'm going to make this house aesthetically free.
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  Yeah. That was like, does this not an
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  adult? Like, and that's the thing, like
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  I bought like fake plants for my studio and I'm like, that makes
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  me an adult, right? Yeah.
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  Well, it's funny cuz I've always been the person with a perfect.
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  It's not that I've had a very decor, I had a very not
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  personalized room my entire life, but I always had
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  everything organized in the way I wanted it.
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  But as soon as I got my own place, it was really cool
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  because as soon as you like have ownership of it and you're bit
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  like, even though I was renting, like I definitely broke a lot of
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  the rules, but it's fine because we all did at the end of the
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  day, I was renovating. I was like literally renovating,
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  dude. I started like repainting like
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  the. The dude you you approved edges
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  and. Everything you know, and you
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  just make it an art piece. And that's like, that's why I
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  have a great pitch for an HDTV show and it's oh crap, what was
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  it called? Oh, Beehive, right, OK, it's and
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  it's the pitches, the log line. It's P millionaire creatives
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  with different brains where they I can't remember what I wrote,
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  but it's like their houses because we just I was in because
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  I'm in Michigan and we were touring a house and and this
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  house this, this so neuro divergent.
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  Man. Yeah, made his entire house.
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  What he did for a living was he loved making.
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  He still loves and he, he still runs his business, but he he
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  loves creating aquariums and running and creating plumbing
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  for like huge koi ponds and ginormous aquariums.
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  So this entire house is like a ginormous aquarium and in the
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  backyard like a koi pond. And I was like, this would be
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  just a great TV show because there's no way that this guy's
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  not neurodiving. Yeah, he has to be.
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  He has to be like. This is like the most creative
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  thing like. Creative just I just did a video
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  on this this woman who's near the virgin in Glasgow and she's
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  like she like decoed her entire house and even did like ADHD
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  storage container in the kitchen like the videos like went quite
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  viral. I think it they'll go.
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  Yeah, it was, I don't know if you saw this, but it was like
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  I've. Seen something?
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  I've seen similar videos though at the organization.
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  Yeah, did and I. Wish I could say names and give
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  them credit right now, but I'm so sorry I.
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  Can't remember the girl say about goodness.
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  So she's a friend of mine now because I did a video.
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  She comes and we say like, well, thanks for featuring me, blah,
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  blah, blah. You have to see.
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  I'll send you the link. You have to see it, dude.
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  Like if you're in, if you like the other guy's house, you're
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  going to, you freak when you say this girl's house.
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  It's so dope. I'm actually going to send one
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  of my, one of my team members lives like 40 minutes away from
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  this house. I'm going to actually send to
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  that with a camera and just be like, dude, you have to like
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  literally interview this girl. Like, yeah.
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  Wait, OK, you get that clip. I'll get this clip, yeah.
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  Do this house. Yeah, let's make a video, dude.
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  Let's we could be. Yeah, we did OK.
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  Wait. OK, let's do that.
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  OK, all right. OK, so some comment, you know,
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  we've been talking nonsense now for like 25 minutes and I'm
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  really, really bored. So is there anything like tell
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  us about like, what are your plans for the future in social
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  media? Why it's like, have you got any
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  kind of cool projects going on? Anything you can talk to us
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  about? And they're like, you know, if
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  you probably sign Ndas here, there and everywhere, but like,
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  is there anything fun you can tell my audience about your
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  project? Yeah, yeah.
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  There's not really any contracts.
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  It's just I can't, I don't know why.
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  Like it's, I can never not have like a yeah, it's yeah.
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  So I've got really cool things going on.
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  I've got Disney Mighty Ducks going on that's coming out in
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  September. I was really synced it.
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  Yes. So there's a take on the the old
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  movies, right? Yes, and it's and it's on Disney
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  Plus. And so your boy went really
• 19:02
  hyper focused in acting, dude. And you know, it's one of those
• 19:08
  things where you're like, you go about life very ignorant and
• 19:11
  aloof and you're very focused on one thing.
• 19:13
  And then like you get a call a week later from people like in
• 19:16
  your work team and they're like, you haven't done any of this
• 19:20
  shit yet. And so like I was dating, I was
• 19:24
  just going on set going about my life, but going to bed, like,
• 19:28
  oh, going to set acting, going to bed.
• 19:30
  And then people are like, no, you have all these.
• 19:32
  Things yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Dude, I have a 200 e-mail inbox
• 19:35
  that's like, I'm like, honestly, my system like kicks my ass
• 19:38
  every day. Shout out to Alyssa Hashtag for
• 19:40
  putting up on me. Thanks.
• 19:41
  Yes, and thank you. Shout out to Eddie, Eddie,
• 19:44
  Eddie, I love you. Eddie, I don't think this is the
• 19:47
  thing. If I didn't have a team, I
• 19:49
  wouldn't have got anything done Like it just I got it, man.
• 19:52
  I get it. But my dad's dude, this looks
• 19:53
  like dude, that's so dope. I've got the, I've got the
• 19:56
  Disney Plus things to watch, some Kenobi, you know, all that
• 19:58
  kind of stuff. I just watched the Sex Pistols
• 20:02
  start. Have you seen that The Sex
• 20:03
  Pistols show I. Haven't seen it dealing with
• 20:06
  it's not I. Think it's just called pistols.
• 20:08
  Wait, what? Is it called pistols?
• 20:09
  Or pistols. But what was?
• 20:10
  The what was the producing from the little OH?
• 20:13
  I don't know. It's about the thing you.
• 20:15
  Said before Sex Pistols. Sex Pistols.
• 20:18
  Yeah, The Bat. They're like a British punk
• 20:19
  band, right? They're like they're the first
• 20:21
  ever like proper punk band. Oh, that's awesome, dude.
• 20:24
  It's like, and it's and it's shot in like, you know, like old
• 20:27
  TV frame where you get like black bars on the side.
• 20:29
  It's not like 10. It's so great.
• 20:31
  It's like super cool, just like the 70s dude is great.
• 20:34
  I I highly recommend checking it out.
• 20:36
  It's really authentic. Oh, I.
• 20:38
  Love the 70s right now. It's such a vibe right now.
• 20:40
  Did. Honestly, it's all it's all
• 20:42
  about Vivian Westwood and how she brought like punk fashion
• 20:45
  like to to like the the masses and how they made a movement
• 20:48
  with fashion rather than kind of just a band.
• 20:49
  It was just absolutely fantastic.
• 20:51
  I love that dude, honestly. Actually, like it blew my mind.
• 20:54
  I think I binge watched the whole thing in like 24 hours.
• 20:56
  My girlfriend was like, did you sleep?
• 20:58
  I was like, yeah, I got this next episode like.
• 21:03
  Last night I stayed up all last night.
• 21:05
  Well, actually, no, I slept until like 2:00 PM because I was
• 21:08
  like, I was finally in my house and I was like, I'm just gonna
• 21:12
  spend all night doing self-care. You ever do that?
• 21:15
  Yeah, I just stay up all night. Just like reset of self-care.
• 21:18
  Yeah. You have to well, yeah, I do
• 21:20
  like half I have like I have a three-year old son.
• 21:23
  So like I got a little kid. So like he he gets yeah, he's
• 21:27
  he's the most amazing thing in the world.
• 21:29
  But like, so he gives up at like like 5:00 AM, which I'm cool
• 21:33
  with, but I can't do the things I used to like watch alien
• 21:36
  conspiracy documentaries until 3:00 AM and then fall asleep on
• 21:38
  my keyboard and then wake up and do the same thing.
• 21:40
  You know, right, Because you also this kids like dad didn't
• 21:43
  eat breakfast. I'm like, okay, but yeah, but I
• 21:46
  do that. I do the self-care thing.
• 21:47
  You know, it's funny you should say that because that is like
• 21:50
  super important to people on the on on the spectrum to to to take
• 21:53
  that time to self-care because, and it's not, and this is
• 21:55
  interesting. People think that self covers
• 21:57
  are going to go to a spa weekend.
• 21:58
  I'm going to fucking stay in a hotel.
• 21:59
  Also, it's bull crap. You want to be in the place that
• 22:01
  you're comfortable in, but not doing the demanded work that you
• 22:04
  know, we do right? And that's well and.
• 22:06
  That's and like that's what makes it the like the disabling
• 22:10
  part, dude. It's like that's like the
• 22:12
  biggest issue for me is like, because I can't, I have to do it
• 22:17
  all at once when my brain allows me like it's yeah, yeah.
• 22:22
  Yeah, yeah. And.
• 22:22
  It's and I think it's just because I need to get better
• 22:26
  when it comes to like. And that's the problem with like
• 22:29
  the planner, dude. It's like you need the
• 22:31
  structure. It's like when you're doing,
• 22:33
  when you do, when you do what we do.
• 22:34
  And that's why you just see the support system.
• 22:36
  Yeah, at the end of the day, because it's like the the
• 22:40
  self-care goes goes to shit really fast.
• 22:42
  But. Yeah, super fast, dude.
• 22:44
  That's usually like burnouts. Like I mean, like, you know, I
• 22:47
  was super sick. I got like about 3 weeks or 4
• 22:51
  weeks ago I got COVID and then it gave me a lung infection.
• 22:54
  And then when COVID wore off I called the flu Seriously dude
• 22:58
  whilst having a lung infection. And then no.
• 23:00
  Same, I had bronchitis last month.
• 23:02
  Yeah, see me rise. And then like I caught like like
• 23:06
  tonsillitis, which is basically like a throat infection.
• 23:08
  Yeah. And I was like, and then like so
• 23:11
  4 weeks I was just completely flat and I was like, it just
• 23:13
  kind of and then I was like super like just burnt out
• 23:17
  because like I just, I was just like, there's no self-care I
• 23:19
  couldn't self do. Here's the here's oh, this is
• 23:23
  amazing because I think as the hive mind, I think we all had a
• 23:26
  similar last month because yes, I was, I went through sickness
• 23:29
  after sickness and and the the the problem with me is I
• 23:33
  couldn't stop working. And so like, you know how will
• 23:36
  like when you're sick, but your brain is literally like cool
• 23:39
  enough and it can like it can be like, Nah, we can still be
• 23:43
  completely fine. Yeah.
• 23:45
  And so like all to that side. And then it's you're burnt out
• 23:48
  as soon as you get out of work, like so having to work and be on
• 23:55
  for 24 hours on a set. One thing I will say in those
• 23:58
  moments of like just allow and accept yourself at the fact that
• 24:03
  in those moments you're only going to be able to do one thing
• 24:07
  a day. And when you get home, don't be
• 24:11
  mad at yourself when all you do is STEM, when all you do is like
• 24:14
  do self-care or like pick at your nails, but like, get to
• 24:19
  know your toes, dude. Yeah.
• 24:21
  Especially as a person who played hockey and learned how to
• 24:25
  do it in like 2 weeks on this mighty duck shot, I will tell
• 24:30
  you, pay attention to your toes. Get to know your toes.
• 24:36
  It's not stretching. Get grounded.
• 24:39
  And, and don't be, don't, don't be ashamed of taking that time
• 24:42
  for yourself because genuinely like your brain is so powerful
• 24:47
  and there's so much energy. That's that you guys that we all
• 24:51
  hold. And so it's, you need those
• 24:53
  moments and, and there's no way you can stop your brain from,
• 24:57
  from expelling all its energy on one thing and just expect it to
• 25:00
  do that and be fine with that. No, you know.
• 25:02
  You're absolutely right, dude. And I and I totally agree.
• 25:04
  I totally agree. OK, so we're going to wrap up.
• 25:06
  Connor, where can people find you online, on the Internet?
• 25:09
  Where can they digest your content?
• 25:11
  Yes. Oh wait, crap, I forgot about
• 25:13
  yes. And so in the future on social
• 25:15
  media, I'm going with, I apologize.
• 25:17
  No, no, no. It's funny.
• 25:19
  But in the future, yes, I'm doing a lot of cool things on
• 25:21
  TikTok because I'm off Disney shut.
• 25:24
  So I'm focusing this summer on a lot of cool TikTok things.
• 25:26
  So you'll see a lot more videos every single like every other
• 25:29
  day hopefully. Nice.
• 25:30
  So. But yeah, you can find me at
• 25:33
  Connor the Wolf, pretty much everything.
• 25:36
  Yeah, that's a cool thing to say in a in a in a on a podcast.
• 25:39
  You can find me. I just add cottage life on
• 25:40
  everything do. That tell me the difference yeah
• 25:42
  on Instagram. This is going to be shocking,
• 25:44
  isn't it right now I'm literally going to now so Oh no, is it
• 25:48
  going to do I follow you on Oh no, I do follow you on
• 25:50
  Instagram. Wait the question is do you
• 25:53
  follow me? No you don't, but you do follow
• 25:54
  my 5 Rob. I Oh yes, I love page.
• 25:57
  Yeah, Paige is awesome. Paige is a friend.
• 26:00
  You don't follow me. I know I don't follow a lot of
• 26:03
  people cuz I'm bad at it cuz I it's too many notifications.
• 26:06
  Yeah. You don't have a blue ticket,
• 26:08
  dude. What's going on there?
• 26:10
  Well, that's also a thing. It's.
• 26:13
  Annoying, but. I think it's, I think it was
• 26:15
  just how it came down to like I just had to get over myself and
• 26:19
  realize that it doesn't mean anything.
• 26:20
  A lot of people put pressure that it means something, but I
• 26:23
  was like. No, it doesn't mean buggery
• 26:24
  doesn't. Mean it doesn't mean anything.
• 26:26
  I was inscribed. What's your username?
• 26:28
  At the aspy world bro, just like everything else.
• 26:31
  So just. Wait, I thought I'd followed her
• 26:34
  on Instagram. No.
• 26:35
  I know I I think we did. No, I think we did speak of the
• 26:38
  Soho phones. I can't remember.
• 26:41
  OK, robbery. It's TikTok.
• 26:42
  Yeah, I can. 06 I probably. I'm bad at social media.
• 26:47
  Says the social media entrepreneur himself.
• 26:50
  Slash actor slash crazy person. No, he's awesome.
• 26:53
  Yes, though, absolutely, buck one, did you?
• 26:58
  Oh. There you go see look so he just
• 27:00
  follows me. There you go see.
• 27:01
  And but yeah, dude, it's funny. Hey, you know Paige.
• 27:04
  But then again, she's a Canadian tik toking autistic person.
• 27:07
  So yeah, Paige is awesome. We did.
• 27:09
  Do you know what's really funny? You talk about hive mind and OK,
• 27:11
  we will. We will end this shortly.
• 27:13
  So it's our. Canadian too.
• 27:15
  Yeah, that The thing is me and Paige broke the same vote at the
• 27:18
  same time, but we we're in the cast at the same time.
• 27:21
  So I texted. It's like, dude, I just think
• 27:22
  that ticked up and you broke your foot.
• 27:23
  She's like, yeah, I was like, which one?
• 27:25
  She's like left. I was like, me too, bro.
• 27:27
  Like literally, I was down to like the day it was about, oh,
• 27:31
  about about two months ago. What, you break your foot as
• 27:34
  well? No, I'm just saying as a
• 27:35
  hivemind, if we're thinking on that universal level, like
• 27:38
  that's like literally when I had to break into my skates during
• 27:41
  hockey and and I had to like an old injury from my left foot
• 27:45
  like came back up and it re sparked.
• 27:48
  And so like I had to do a lot of like physical like things with
• 27:50
  the with the coaching stuff, dude with my left foot.
• 27:54
  Shut up, dude. Like an old injury that I had
• 27:57
  before resurfaced because I put on the skates and stuff which
• 28:00
  and and which didn't help. It probably just worsened, but
• 28:02
  probably. But like, yeah, no, like it's
• 28:04
  just like I had to do that. That's so.
• 28:06
  Dude we honestly man, like it's blowing my mind.
• 28:10
  This isn't blowing my mind dude. Seriously, I wonder if Paige is
• 28:13
  bought a Tesla's? Seriously.
• 28:17
  Yeah, that's crazy, dude. That's nothing.
• 28:19
  She bought a house the same month I bought a house.
• 28:22
  When did you what month did you what month did you buy a house?
• 28:24
  Well, I. Bought that.
• 28:25
  I didn't move in until December. I bought the house in like I
• 28:30
  bought the house in like, it was like September I think, or
• 28:34
  October last year. September of last year exactly,
• 28:38
  yeah, is yeah. September 1st is when I moved
• 28:40
  into my first ever apartment. That I alone just saying
• 28:45
  relation universal shit they page.
• 28:47
  Phase of the stage you bought a house moved in a row but they're
• 28:49
  like the first time I'd owned a place so I got I we've been
• 28:52
  renting like a probably like I've moved into this house yeah
• 28:54
  it was crazy the 1st house I've ever actually moved into as one
• 28:57
  of my parents house so I was out of public that's.
• 28:59
  Crazy that on that day we all had like a monumental moment
• 29:01
  which you buy your first house. I moved in.
• 29:04
  Well, like, you know, in that month I moved into the first
• 29:07
  ever alone for the time in my entire life.
• 29:10
  Oh. Man, I've never done it to a.
• 29:11
  Different state and page, but that's great dude.
• 29:15
  Like oh man, fuck. Astrology follow asktheworld.com
• 29:19
  cuz I'm gonna just gonna we, I need to start making we need to
• 29:22
  start making more hive mind posts.
• 29:24
  Dude, we need to like, I think we need to open up a new series
• 29:27
  on like my YouTube page just talking about like raise
• 29:30
  yourself. We're gonna talk about like the
• 29:31
  autism hive, but all the Univision hive mind.
• 29:33
  Oh, yeah, Because we could, like, when stuff sinks up, we
• 29:36
  could just put a video asking, did everybody experience this at
• 29:38
  this time? And we see how many comments we
• 29:39
  get because like, well. And it makes way too much sense
• 29:41
  because like it at the core baseline of neurodiversity just
• 29:46
  means the better connection in the universe than the Earth.
• 29:49
  And like, of course we're going to have a fucking of course, of
• 29:53
  course, all of the stars and all astrological, all like weird
• 29:56
  paths of enlightenment. Of course, all of those messages
• 29:59
  that everyone else has been seen.
• 30:01
  That guide is already for us. And we have a hive mind, so we
• 30:03
  just got to start talking to each other.
• 30:05
  More dude, well, I'll just text you.
• 30:08
  I'll be like, dude, you know, fuck social media.
• 30:11
  I'll just text you. Yeah, well, look, I mean, that's
• 30:14
  all we have time for today. Even though we've probably bored
• 30:16
  the hell out of all my listeners and my watchers, I'm still sorry
• 30:19
  this. Is probably great.
• 30:20
  I feel like this is great. It's good, it's good stuff.
• 30:23
  Anyway, guys like Conor said, you find him with Conor De Wolf
• 30:25
  on pretty much all his socials. I will leave links for
• 30:27
  everything that he is on in the description down below.
• 30:30
  And don't forget to check out the My Ducks.
• 30:31
  Come on guys, get a bit of support for the community.
• 30:33
  Check it out. Awesome, Conor, thank you so
• 30:36
  much for being on the podcast. Everyone watch this, everyone on
• 30:39
  the Internet watch this podcast. Thank you.
• 30:41
  Love you guys.