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Are we still cool? · So We Were Saying

• 0:05
  SPEAKER_02: Welcome to So We Were Saying.
• 0:07
  SPEAKER_02: We're three best friends getting together to talk about life, the things we're figuring out, and whatever else comes up along the way.
• 0:14
  SPEAKER_02: But before we get into today's conversation, let's do a quick intro.
• 0:18
  SPEAKER_02: Jack?
• 0:19
  SPEAKER_02: Hi, I'm Jackie.
• 0:21
  SPEAKER_02: I'm a military wife, a stay-at-home mom.
• 0:24
  SPEAKER_02: I have three kids, and that's good enough for now.
• 0:27
  SPEAKER_02: And this is my friend Melissa.
• 0:30
  SPEAKER_02: Hi.
• 0:31
  SPEAKER_02: I am Melissa, and I also am a mom of three.
• 0:35
  SPEAKER_02: I'm just starting out with the high school with my twins and senior year for my son.
• 0:40
  SPEAKER_02: I'm a lunch and recess aide at the school in my neighborhood.
• 0:44
  SPEAKER_02: And that's it for now.
• 0:46
  SPEAKER_02: I'm Jamie.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_02: I work in the finance industry.
• 0:50
  SPEAKER_02: I have two dogs, a husband who you can barely understand.
• 0:55
  SPEAKER_02: And that's about it.
• 0:56
  SPEAKER_02: He's from Britain.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_02: That's why you can't understand him.
• 1:01
  SPEAKER_02: You made him sales special.
• 1:03
  SPEAKER_02: I did.
• 1:04
  SPEAKER_02: I did.
• 1:05
  SPEAKER_02: He's a very heavy accent.
• 1:06
  SPEAKER_02: Think of Ted Lasso.
• 1:08
  SPEAKER_02: You can barely understand him.
• 1:09
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, that makes sense.
• 1:10
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 1:11
  SPEAKER_02: So what is everyone going up to this uh past two weeks?
• 1:14
  SPEAKER_02: Jack?
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_02: My youngest that's eight made travel softball.
• 1:18
  SPEAKER_02: So we've been doing that.
• 1:20
  SPEAKER_02: She has two practices a week for two hours.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_02: So that takes up a lot of time.
• 1:25
  SPEAKER_02: And she also plays soccer.
• 1:27
  SPEAKER_02: And then my middle daughter is at college.
• 1:32
  SPEAKER_02: So we got to go visit her the past weekend.
• 1:35
  SPEAKER_02: And I haven't seen her since August.
• 1:37
  SPEAKER_02: So yeah.
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_02: But you get to see her soon.
• 1:39
  SPEAKER_02: So that'll be.
• 1:40
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah.
• 1:40
  SPEAKER_02: Parent weekend is next weekend.
• 1:42
  SPEAKER_02: So I'm very excited to go see her again.
• 1:44
  SPEAKER_02: She's gonna love it.
• 1:46
  SPEAKER_02: Melissa, what have you been up to?
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_02: So I just got back from Italy last week.
• 1:52
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm just getting back into the beginning of school with the kids and just trying to get myself situated.
• 2:01
  SPEAKER_02: I love it.
• 2:01
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 2:02
  SPEAKER_02: It's exciting.
• 2:03
  SPEAKER_02: She has a nice tat.
• 2:04
  SPEAKER_02: We should say she is glowing.
• 2:06
  SPEAKER_02: She definitely is glowing.
• 2:08
  SPEAKER_02: And they're also very tasty.
• 2:09
  SPEAKER_02: So that's LCP.
• 2:12
  SPEAKER_02: So I have just been up to work.
• 2:14
  SPEAKER_02: I started volunteering at a local animal orphanage.
• 2:18
  SPEAKER_02: So I will be walking the dogs because I am obsessed with animals, especially dogs, and uh taking a painting class tomorrow, which I'm really excited about.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_02: So I'm gonna start getting into that.
• 2:28
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, this actually brings us to what I wanted to talk about today.
• 2:33
  SPEAKER_02: Are we still cool?
• 2:34
  SPEAKER_02: Because in my head, I am, but I'm not sure the outside world agrees.
• 2:39
  SPEAKER_01: What's something that makes you feel completely out of touch?
• 2:43
  SPEAKER_01: Anyone can answer this.
• 2:45
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like the lingo that the teenagers use.
• 2:47
  SPEAKER_02: I agree.
• 2:48
  SPEAKER_02: Because now making out is doing the dirty.
• 2:52
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
• 2:53
  SPEAKER_02: It's not so this.
• 2:55
  SPEAKER_02: Is your daughter telling you yes, or are you seeing it on TikTok?
• 2:58
  SPEAKER_02: No, my daughter is telling me the one that's in college.
• 3:00
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 3:01
  SPEAKER_02: So that makes me feel old.
• 3:04
  SPEAKER_02: Or like some I can't even think of some of the words that they say that I have to Google because I don't know what it is.
• 3:09
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_02: And where do you think they're like getting these words from?
• 3:12
  SPEAKER_02: They're making it up.
• 3:13
  SPEAKER_02: Are they really?
• 3:14
  SPEAKER_02: Are they like real?
• 3:15
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 3:15
  SPEAKER_02: They like make is it like fictitious words?
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_02: I think they're just making it up.
• 3:20
  SPEAKER_02: Really?
• 3:20
  SPEAKER_02: I think it's a mixture of real words and fictitious words.
• 3:23
  SPEAKER_02: Really?
• 3:24
  SPEAKER_02: I asked my nephew, I sat down with him one time and I was like, all right, what and he was like, stop saying these words.
• 3:29
  SPEAKER_02: But I was like, no, I need to know like what do they actually mean?
• 3:32
  SPEAKER_02: Because I've never heard of them before.
• 3:33
  SPEAKER_02: But sometimes I don't think the kids even know what they mean.
• 3:35
  SPEAKER_02: They're just saying it because at least elementary school level.
• 3:38
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, so speaking of that, I know this one's kind of outdated, but what's a six-seven mean?
• 3:43
  SPEAKER_02: What does that mean?
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_02: I don't think it really means anything.
• 3:46
  SPEAKER_02: I think they said it was something about like a height, but then when they do that thing.
• 3:50
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, they like do something with it.
• 3:53
  SPEAKER_02: I think that's inappropriate.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_02: Would you like to ask an eight-year-old what it is?
• 3:56
  SPEAKER_02: I was like to ask an eight-year-old what is.
• 3:58
  SPEAKER_02: So here's my daughter, Jordan.
• 3:59
  SPEAKER_02: And what does he mean?
• 4:00
  SPEAKER_00: Hi, I'm Jordan, and it's about this basketball player that was six foot seven, and then this kid at school, I think it was like a fourth grader or third grader.
• 4:12
  SPEAKER_00: They said six seven, and then everybody in the school, it kept catching on and catching on, and then they told their friends, and then at a different school, then that catched on.
• 4:22
  SPEAKER_00: And then somebody posted it on TikTok or like Instagram, and that's how it got like so big.
• 4:28
  SPEAKER_00: So viral.
• 4:29
  SPEAKER_00: Mm-hmm.
• 4:30
  SPEAKER_02: Thanks.
• 4:30
  SPEAKER_02: Wow, thanks.
• 4:31
  SPEAKER_02: There you have it.
• 4:31
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, straight from an eight-year-old's mouth.
• 4:33
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you.
• 4:34
  SPEAKER_02: That was really good.
• 4:35
  SPEAKER_02: Perfect.
• 4:36
  SPEAKER_02: All right.
• 4:37
  SPEAKER_02: In your head, what age are you?
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_02: And what reminds you that you're actually not that age moless you're up?
• 4:44
  SPEAKER_02: Well, that's hard to say.
• 4:46
  SPEAKER_02: Because if I can go out and feel like I'm 25 and I can hang, and then sometimes the next morning I realize I'm not doing it, and I can't when the hang of the last for three days.
• 5:00
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, exactly.
• 5:01
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 5:01
  SPEAKER_02: Jack, what about you?
• 5:03
  SPEAKER_02: Hmm.
• 5:04
  SPEAKER_02: That's a great question.
• 5:05
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 5:07
  SPEAKER_02: I think like just moving your body, like just trying to like get off the floor, like not and I'm not like super fat or anything, but like I know the viewers can't see us.
• 5:19
  SPEAKER_02: We're just saying, you know, I'm not obese or anything.
• 5:22
  SPEAKER_02: I just struggle.
• 5:23
  SPEAKER_02: I'm just struggling to get off.
• 5:26
  SPEAKER_02: See, I got this.
• 5:28
  SPEAKER_02: I totally get it.
• 5:30
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like from the hours of 6 a.m.
• 5:36
  SPEAKER_02: to 3 p.m., I'm like 32.
• 5:38
  SPEAKER_02: Like I feel like I'm like a good younger age.
• 5:41
  SPEAKER_02: You're a morning elf, right?
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_02: Why wasn't a morning elf?
• 5:44
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 5:45
  SPEAKER_02: I just feel like I thrived at 32.
• 5:47
  SPEAKER_02: You know, I was just like living life.
• 5:49
  SPEAKER_02: And I just feel like 32 years old.
• 5:51
  SPEAKER_02: That is what I am in the beginning part.
• 5:54
  SPEAKER_02: The latter part of the day, especially when it hits like 6 p.m., I feel like I'm 82.
• 6:01
  SPEAKER_02: Like I and you're ready for bed.
• 6:03
  SPEAKER_02: Uh 7.45.
• 6:04
  SPEAKER_02: I'm sleeping by 8:30.
• 6:06
  SPEAKER_02: If I have more than like three drinks, I'm hungover for like three days.
• 6:09
  SPEAKER_02: No joke.
• 6:10
  SPEAKER_02: So yeah, that's kind of my age range.
• 6:13
  SPEAKER_02: And for the record, I'm 44.
• 6:15
  SPEAKER_02: Actually, all of us are 44.
• 6:16
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 6:17
  SPEAKER_02: But not for long.
• 6:18
  SPEAKER_02: And when we first met for Jack.
• 6:21
  SPEAKER_02: Oh well, really long time.
• 6:22
  SPEAKER_02: Almost 42.
• 6:23
  SPEAKER_02: But when we met, we were 19, 20.
• 6:27
  SPEAKER_02: Melissa.
• 6:27
  SPEAKER_02: We were young.
• 6:28
  SPEAKER_02: We were very young.
• 6:29
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I met these girls in college.
• 6:31
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 6:32
  SPEAKER_02: And Melissa and I in high school.
• 6:33
  SPEAKER_02: She was a year older.
• 6:34
  SPEAKER_02: Well, actually, now I am not a pool year older.
• 6:38
  SPEAKER_02: You're just a grade below me.
• 6:40
  SPEAKER_02: I got held back in pre-K.
• 6:43
  SPEAKER_02: Or else I would have been in Melissa's graduating class.
• 6:45
  SPEAKER_02: But anyway, let's move on.
• 6:47
  SPEAKER_02: Um so what's something you do that you think is cool, but your kids or younger people would absolutely roast you for?
• 6:54
  SPEAKER_02: Melissa.
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_02: Every single thing I do.
• 6:56
  SPEAKER_02: Like what?
• 6:57
  SPEAKER_02: Talk.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_02: Stories.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_02: Your stories, maybe that you think are cool.
• 7:02
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, everything.
• 7:03
  SPEAKER_02: I could phone someone laughing and it's horrible.
• 7:06
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, in the car.
• 7:07
  SPEAKER_02: If I'm singing, if I like a song, if I am just talking to their friends in the car.
• 7:12
  SPEAKER_02: Well, yeah, whatever.
• 7:13
  SPEAKER_02: Every single thing.
• 7:14
  SPEAKER_02: Like you think that you're like vibing with the friends with it.
• 7:16
  SPEAKER_02: And I am.
• 7:17
  SPEAKER_02: The friends love me.
• 7:18
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
• 7:20
  SPEAKER_02: Jack, what about you?
• 7:21
  SPEAKER_02: I would say kind of the same thing, but like I hang out with my neighborhood mom, shout out Westbury Chase.
• 7:27
  SPEAKER_02: There you go.
• 7:33
  SPEAKER_02: Like we just get crazy and we just have a really good time.
• 7:36
  SPEAKER_02: And then sometimes I think we think we're the cool moms.
• 7:39
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 7:39
  SPEAKER_02: But I don't think our children sometimes think we're the cool moms.
• 7:42
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 7:43
  SPEAKER_02: But we really are the cool moms.
• 7:44
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 7:45
  SPEAKER_02: Because I could not picture some of the PTO or PTA people being as cool as us.
• 7:51
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you just called it PTO.
• 7:52
  SPEAKER_02: So that right there.
• 7:53
  SPEAKER_02: But that's what it's called.
• 7:54
  SPEAKER_02: Stop it.
• 7:55
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, PTA.
• 7:56
  SPEAKER_02: What key difference?
• 7:58
  SPEAKER_02: One's like an association, PTO keeps it in the school.
• 8:02
  SPEAKER_02: You learn something new every day.
• 8:04
  SPEAKER_02: So mine is going to be a little different.
• 8:07
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like tucking your shirt into like jeans is like really cool.
• 8:13
  SPEAKER_02: I love that look.
• 8:14
  SPEAKER_02: I think it looks great.
• 8:15
  SPEAKER_02: But when you have like love handles and a bit of a gut, like it's not as cool as it looks that when you see people like on Instagram or on Pinterest.
• 8:24
  SPEAKER_02: And my husband always makes fun of me with how high I wear my pants.
• 8:27
  SPEAKER_02: But again, like that's in high-waisted pants.
• 8:30
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you, those Jack.
• 8:31
  SPEAKER_02: You just lifted up for sure and showed us how high her pants are.
• 8:34
  SPEAKER_02: And they're tubing.
• 8:35
  SPEAKER_02: They're my dudes.
• 8:38
  SPEAKER_02: Keeping it in it.
• 8:39
  SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
• 8:40
  SPEAKER_02: So yeah, I like the look.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_02: I get roasted.
• 8:42
  SPEAKER_02: I get it.
• 8:42
  SPEAKER_02: All right, but it's all right.
• 8:43
  SPEAKER_02: That's all right we're friends.
• 8:45
  SPEAKER_02: All right.
• 8:46
  SPEAKER_02: If someone invited you out at 9 p.m., would you be excited or personally offended?
• 8:51
  SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna go first.
• 8:52
  SPEAKER_02: I would be personally offended to be asked to go out at 9 p.m.
• 8:58
  SPEAKER_02: I would be offended to be asked to go out at 7 p.m.
• 9:01
  SPEAKER_02: If you don't propose a time for me to go out like the day before, actually.
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_02: So I have time to prep for this.
• 9:09
  SPEAKER_02: Wow, you're real hard.
• 9:10
  SPEAKER_02: Oh I can have real fun.
• 9:13
  SPEAKER_02: I I would be so offended.
• 9:17
  SPEAKER_02: You need to prep.
• 9:18
  SPEAKER_02: If I'm going out for a night out, I need naps, I need water, I need the right amount of food, but not too much food because then you can't drink.
• 9:27
  SPEAKER_02: It's like a system.
• 9:28
  SPEAKER_02: Who wants to follow that?
• 9:30
  SPEAKER_02: Jack.
• 9:31
  SPEAKER_02: I forget the questions.
• 9:32
  SPEAKER_02: So what are we saying?
• 9:34
  SPEAKER_02: Would you be offended if someone asked you at a nine?
• 9:37
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, would you?
• 9:38
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, so I'm so sorry.
• 9:39
  SPEAKER_02: I don't think I would be excited, but I would go.
• 9:43
  SPEAKER_02: If somebody needed me to rally up to celebrate a birthday, in your pajamas already.
• 9:49
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, I would just get dressed.
• 9:51
  SPEAKER_02: Aren't you in your glasses and like your makeup off?
• 9:53
  SPEAKER_02: Like once this bra is off, and once my makeup is off, nothing's going back on.
• 9:59
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, if my people need me, I gotta go.
• 10:02
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, don't do it all the time.
• 10:03
  SPEAKER_02: This is like uh a very PSA to like, yeah, don't turn for it.
• 10:08
  SPEAKER_02: But yeah, don't come knock.
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_02: Like you are knocking at my door.
• 10:14
  SPEAKER_02: I will 1000%.
• 10:18
  SPEAKER_02: No matter the time, easily offended by anything.
• 10:21
  SPEAKER_02: I am certainly not offended by going out and having a good time.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_02: And I'll stay out as long as he meets.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_02: There you go.
• 10:29
  SPEAKER_02: What a friend.
• 10:30
  SPEAKER_02: What a friend.
• 10:31
  SPEAKER_02: Taking one for the team.
• 10:33
  SPEAKER_02: All right, who's cooler?
• 10:35
  SPEAKER_02: You now are you at 25?
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_02: And why?
• 10:39
  SPEAKER_02: Melissa Grace, you're up.
• 10:41
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, that's so mark.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_02: It's a mark.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_02: I was pretty cool then, and I am really cool now.
• 10:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 10:47
  SPEAKER_02: So I don't know.
• 10:48
  SPEAKER_02: I definitely had a very uncool phase, I feel like, in between there.
• 10:52
  SPEAKER_02: But yeah.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_02: I honestly can't say.
• 10:56
  SPEAKER_02: Could you answer for me?
• 10:57
  SPEAKER_02: What do you think?
• 10:58
  SPEAKER_02: Because you knew me.
• 10:59
  SPEAKER_02: I think now.
• 10:59
  SPEAKER_02: You think I'm cooler now?
• 11:00
  SPEAKER_02: I do.
• 11:01
  SPEAKER_02: I 1,000% do.
• 11:03
  SPEAKER_02: Wow.
• 11:04
  SPEAKER_02: And I don't know.
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_02: I think you are just down.
• 11:06
  SPEAKER_02: So, hey, you want to go on a trip?
• 11:08
  SPEAKER_02: Sure.
• 11:08
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I want to then too birding show with sure.
• 11:12
  SPEAKER_02: Naby, that's it then.
• 11:13
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, because I have money to spend at that time.
• 11:16
  SPEAKER_02: Right.
• 11:16
  SPEAKER_02: Do you still think I was like down and funny?
• 11:19
  SPEAKER_02: You were down for things.
• 11:20
  SPEAKER_02: You were.
• 11:20
  SPEAKER_02: You were definitely down for things when we were 25, but I don't know.
• 11:23
  SPEAKER_02: Like I just think you have a different vibe to you now.
• 11:25
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 11:26
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know what it is.
• 11:27
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know how to put it into words, but I just think you'll kind of just go with it.
• 11:30
  SPEAKER_02: You roll with it.
• 11:31
  SPEAKER_02: But she's kind of always rolled with the pieces.
• 11:33
  SPEAKER_02: You did.
• 11:34
  SPEAKER_02: But just something about it.
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_02: I think in your 40s, in your mid-40s, I just see a difference in 25.
• 11:41
  SPEAKER_02: But they do say that 40s is the best years because, like you said, you have money to get to travel compared to like when you're 25.
• 11:48
  SPEAKER_02: Like and you don't care about things.
• 11:50
  SPEAKER_02: No.
• 11:51
  SPEAKER_02: You know that it's the pieces that you do when you were in your 20s.
• 11:55
  SPEAKER_02: Like it's so different.
• 11:56
  SPEAKER_02: You don't get held up on things.
• 11:57
  SPEAKER_02: You don't get the same.
• 11:58
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, you get annoyed at things because you I think you just have less tolerance when you're in your 40s than you did when you were in your 20s.
• 12:04
  SPEAKER_02: But I think it's just a different level of caring about things.
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_02: Right.
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_02: Jack, do you think you were cooler at 25?
• 12:11
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 12:11
  SPEAKER_02: Because I at 25, I already had a two-year-old and I was pregnant.
• 12:16
  SPEAKER_02: So I mean, I guess I was cool, but I think you're cooler now.
• 12:21
  SPEAKER_02: Thanks.
• 12:22
  SPEAKER_02: I do.
• 12:22
  SPEAKER_02: You do?
• 12:23
  SPEAKER_02: I do.
• 12:23
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, you were fun then.
• 12:24
  SPEAKER_02: Like you were always fun.
• 12:26
  SPEAKER_02: Like you used to have a fun vibe about you.
• 12:28
  SPEAKER_02: One that I don't have, but like you just have a very fun.
• 12:33
  SPEAKER_02: When you were 25, it was I think we know what my answer is gonna be.
• 12:38
  SPEAKER_02: But no, you always had like a very chill, fun vibe.
• 12:41
  SPEAKER_02: But I think now I don't want to say chill.
• 12:44
  SPEAKER_02: I'm more like, no, you're not wound up.
• 12:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 12:46
  SPEAKER_02: You are a bit wound up.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_02: But I think now you are more, you'll go out a little bit more, you'll hang out a little bit more, indulge in things now.
• 12:56
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah.
• 12:57
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, I do, girl.
• 12:59
  SPEAKER_02: Definitely.
• 13:00
  SPEAKER_02: But I think we already answered mine, and I think I am probably cooler when I was 25 than I am now.
• 13:07
  SPEAKER_02: Because I have an old lead.
• 13:08
  SPEAKER_02: But I don't know, because she like you're into fashion now.
• 13:12
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 13:13
  SPEAKER_02: You have trends before they're even trends.
• 13:16
  SPEAKER_02: You are like the cool aunt.
• 13:18
  SPEAKER_02: I think I am cool from that standpoint.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I do think I have like a cooler style about me, maybe, but I didn't back then.
• 13:27
  SPEAKER_02: But I would be more down to go out and do things back then versus I'm such a homebody now.
• 13:33
  SPEAKER_02: True.
• 13:34
  SPEAKER_02: So maybe I look cool, but it's like in my own home.
• 13:38
  SPEAKER_02: I'm front of it.
• 13:39
  SPEAKER_02: But when you're committed to turning ahead, you will.
• 13:42
  SPEAKER_02: And again, that goes back to having to have a nap, having to drink the right amount of water.
• 13:47
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I need it.
• 13:48
  SPEAKER_02: Is a day prep for me to actually like go out in the evening.
• 13:52
  SPEAKER_02: But you did just do it when we had our reunion with the girls.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, I did.
• 13:56
  SPEAKER_02: That was unexpected.
• 13:58
  SPEAKER_02: That was unexpected.
• 13:59
  SPEAKER_02: Shout out to the OGs.
• 14:01
  SPEAKER_02: We though we had a great time.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_02: You have it in you when you I do.
• 14:05
  SPEAKER_02: If I need to, if I need to, I will show up.
• 14:07
  SPEAKER_02: But Jamie was down for three days.
• 14:11
  SPEAKER_02: I was down and off for three days after.
• 14:12
  SPEAKER_02: We stayed out to what, two in the morning?
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_02: Ooh.
• 14:15
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know, the last time.
• 14:16
  SPEAKER_02: Rebecca.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_02: It's a Friday night.
• 14:19
  SPEAKER_02: What makes a woman our age cool to you now?
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_02: So when you look at somebody our age now, like you're on Instagram, you're on TikTok, you're watching a show, and you see somebody that's our age, what to you makes them seem cool?
• 14:34
  SPEAKER_02: I think if they're like put together.
• 14:36
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, I think that's a big thing.
• 14:38
  SPEAKER_02: Like that they take time for themselves to like you could see that they worked out, they're like getting their meal.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yes.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, a thousand percent.
• 14:47
  SPEAKER_02: Is there anybody that you follow that like sticks out in your mind?
• 14:50
  SPEAKER_02: No.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_02: Not that I can like think off my head.
• 14:53
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, yeah.
• 14:53
  SPEAKER_02: But that's what I would think.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_02: Plus, I agree.
• 14:57
  SPEAKER_02: I'm trying to think of some line that I don't I don't know.
• 15:00
  SPEAKER_02: I know.
• 15:00
  SPEAKER_02: I follow so many people on Instagram and TikTok, and I'm like, oh man, no, I they really act like I like their vibe, so I'll follow them.
• 15:07
  SPEAKER_02: Like I couldn't tell you their name.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_02: But I think it is that overall vibe of just like being put together, you know, working out, eating right, looking good, like dressing appropriately for their age, but like in a really cool way.
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_02: So yeah.
• 15:24
  SPEAKER_02: But then I like when you actually meet somebody like that, but then know that it's like shit show behind the scenes.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_02: Then I'm like, they're my kind of key.
• 15:32
  SPEAKER_02: Exactly, exactly.
• 15:33
  SPEAKER_02: But I also think confidence is like another thing.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_02: Like when you see somebody that's like very confident in themselves, I think that's something else that like I really admire in someone.
• 15:41
  SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 15:43
  SPEAKER_02: Great questions, James.
• 15:44
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you.
• 15:45
  SPEAKER_02: All right, Jack.
• 15:46
  SPEAKER_02: What is your biggest I've become a mom moment?
• 15:50
  SPEAKER_02: I think when my kids did something, like, say they were throwing a ball in the house, and I was like, don't throw the ball in the house.
• 15:57
  SPEAKER_02: This is my house.
• 15:58
  SPEAKER_02: And then I felt like my mother was coming out of my house.
• 16:02
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 16:02
  SPEAKER_02: And I was like, oh my gosh, I turned into my mother.
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_02: Like, just like something like that.
• 16:08
  SPEAKER_02: Or like hearing sayings that like she might have said when you were younger.
• 16:12
  SPEAKER_02: Yes.
• 16:13
  SPEAKER_02: Coming out of you.
• 16:14
  SPEAKER_02: Yes.
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_02: All right.
• 16:15
  SPEAKER_02: Before we go, we're ending with a little PS.
• 16:19
  SPEAKER_02: One thing we want to leave you with something we're loving, watching, using, whatever.
• 16:25
  SPEAKER_02: Who's got one?
• 16:26
  SPEAKER_02: All right, Jackie.
• 16:27
  SPEAKER_02: So I don't remember what TV, if it's on Netflix or Hulu, like I don't know.
• 16:32
  SPEAKER_02: But it's called Furious.
• 16:34
  SPEAKER_02: It is so good.
• 16:36
  SPEAKER_02: I didn't know what it's about.
• 16:37
  SPEAKER_02: It's the girl from Shameless.
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, Emmy something.
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 16:43
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 16:43
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I do like her too.
• 16:45
  SPEAKER_02: You just have to watch it.
• 16:46
  SPEAKER_02: What is it about though?
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_02: Give us a little sneak peek.
• 16:49
  SPEAKER_02: What's it?
• 16:49
  SPEAKER_02: What's it about?
• 16:50
  SPEAKER_02: I don't even know how to explain it without like saying it.
• 16:53
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, it's one of those.
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_02: It's just so good that I was hoping there's gonna be a second.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_02: And soon as it left you as a cliffhanger, it's definitely gonna have a second season.
• 17:03
  SPEAKER_02: It was so good.
• 17:04
  SPEAKER_02: Is it like a mystery?
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_02: Kind of.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_02: Like this girl was getting like abused.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_02: That's okay.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_02: So it's like a serious like trauma thought.
• 17:11
  SPEAKER_02: And then, yeah, she's like trying to get back at people.
• 17:14
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 17:15
  SPEAKER_02: And then that girl from Shameless is a cop.
• 17:17
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 17:17
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 17:18
  SPEAKER_02: So, but I don't want to give it away to our viewers.
• 17:21
  SPEAKER_02: Of course.
• 17:22
  SPEAKER_02: But it's really good.
• 17:23
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 17:23
  SPEAKER_02: All right.
• 17:24
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 17:24
  SPEAKER_02: So hopefully by the time we meet again, you guys would have watched it.
• 17:28
  SPEAKER_02: Yes.
• 17:28
  SPEAKER_02: And do a little debrief.
• 17:29
  SPEAKER_02: Yes.
• 17:30
  SPEAKER_02: All right.
• 17:30
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I recommend.
• 17:31
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 17:32
  SPEAKER_02: All right.
• 17:32
  SPEAKER_02: Melissa.
• 17:33
  SPEAKER_02: So I actually just re-watched White Lotus when they were in Italy.
• 17:38
  SPEAKER_02: So good.
• 17:38
  SPEAKER_02: Because I was actually at some of the places though, Ape in Sicily.
• 17:43
  SPEAKER_02: And that's my favorite season.
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, Ray.
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_02: It's such a bit shouting.
• 17:48
  SPEAKER_02: How do you watch today?
• 17:48
  SPEAKER_02: No.
• 17:49
  SPEAKER_02: My God.
• 17:50
  SPEAKER_02: Is it scary though?
• 17:51
  SPEAKER_02: No, but it does have like a mysterious aspect of it, but it's not scary.
• 17:56
  SPEAKER_02: It's not scary.
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, probably what I just told you to watch, it might be probably more darker than what you're telling me.
• 18:03
  SPEAKER_02: There are some dark parts to it, but not like it's not scary at all.
• 18:06
  SPEAKER_02: Like they're not jumping out of a closet.
• 18:08
  SPEAKER_02: No.
• 18:08
  SPEAKER_02: No, not.
• 18:09
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that's what I don't like.
• 18:10
  SPEAKER_02: It's kind of like I haven't watched it in forever, but from what I've remembered it's kind of like there's always somebody who's a bit dark in it, right?
• 18:19
  SPEAKER_02: So it's like that character, like figuring out who that character is.
• 18:22
  SPEAKER_02: It's a little mysterious, so like has like a little edge to them.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_02: It's very good.
• 18:27
  SPEAKER_02: I want to start like three or four seasons.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_02: Three.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_02: And they're making a pork.
• 18:31
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, what is that on?
• 18:33
  SPEAKER_02: HBL.
• 18:34
  unknown: Yeah.
• 18:34
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 18:35
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 18:35
  SPEAKER_02: It's very good.
• 18:37
  SPEAKER_02: All right.
• 18:37
  SPEAKER_02: Something I'm loving right now is retinol.
• 18:40
  SPEAKER_02: Have you guys been using that?
• 18:42
  SPEAKER_02: It's not like a traditional retinol.
• 18:44
  SPEAKER_02: It's like a retinol like alternative.
• 18:45
  SPEAKER_02: Why?
• 18:46
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know, because it's from that brand I was telling you about, the uncommon dame.
• 18:49
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, Kristen Cavalieri's brand.
• 18:51
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 18:51
  SPEAKER_02: Is it softer?
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_02: Like, is it not ash?
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_02: So I use it.
• 18:55
  SPEAKER_02: I've used other retinol where have they completely have like torn, not torn my skin up, but like I am flaking.
• 19:02
  SPEAKER_02: I am so red from it.
• 19:02
  SPEAKER_02: So I'm using one by Charnie Darden, I believe her name is.
• 19:07
  SPEAKER_02: And it's like a lighter type of retinol.
• 19:09
  SPEAKER_02: So you don't get the redness, you don't get like the flakes or anything like that.
• 19:13
  SPEAKER_02: But she's like a facialist to the stars.
• 19:16
  SPEAKER_02: Like she, yeah, and she has like a new product line out.
• 19:18
  SPEAKER_02: So I don't know if it's new, but she has this product line out, and I've been using it.
• 19:22
  SPEAKER_02: And so I've been loving that.
• 19:23
  SPEAKER_02: I use it every single night.
• 19:24
  SPEAKER_02: They say they use it every single night, and it just is so good for your skin.
• 19:27
  SPEAKER_02: That's what that's just what I'm loving.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_02: So I got back into that because 40s will start showing on your skin, obviously.
• 19:35
  SPEAKER_02: All right, well, that's our first episode.
• 19:37
  SPEAKER_02: Thanks for hanging out with us.
• 19:38
  SPEAKER_02: We'll be back in two weeks, probably with more opinions.
• 19:41
  SPEAKER_02: Bye.