Latest / Authentic Living / Leadership, Workplace Culture, and Humor with Michael Kerr
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- 0:01Welcome to Authentic Living with Roxanne, a place where we have conscious conversations
- 0:08about things that really matter in our lives.
- 0:12And now here's your host, Roxanne Durhaj.
- 0:38Hi, everyone.
- 0:38It's, Roxanne Durhoch.
- 0:40Thanks for tuning in again this week.
- 0:42Today, I have this is the second time, Michael Kerr.
- 0:47Yeah.
- 0:49Yes.
- 0:49Yes.
- 0:50This is the second time you're on the podcast.
- 0:52It's an honor, so I didn't mess up too much the
- 0:54He's doing gesticulation for anybody that can't see the video, and I'm like
- 0:57I'm interpreting.
- 0:58I'm yes.
- 0:58I'm interpreting.
- 0:59Sound.
- 0:59Is it Michael Kerr?
- 1:00It's Michael Kerr.
- 1:01He's trying to mess me up.
- 1:02Michael is a a dear, I would say, friend and colleague, and, we're both members of the,
- 1:08Canadian Association of Professional Speakers.
- 1:11Michael has been at at this bid a lot longer than me.
- 1:15We're saying 1998 was the first book, but membership probably longer than that, I would
- 1:20assume, Mike.
- 1:21And today, Mike's come on to talk a little bit more about he's written nine books and but he
- 1:26has a recent book, Small Moments, Big Outcomes about leadership that we wanna chat about.
- 1:33Beautiful cover.
- 1:34Anybody can see it.
- 1:35So we're gonna talk a lot about that today.
- 1:37So, Mike, tell me what what made you wanna write this book.
- 1:41You've written eight before.
- 1:43This is the ninth.
- 1:44What made you want to write this particular book?
- 1:47Yeah.
- 1:47It's a culmination really of years of work leading up to this book, of years of research
- 1:53going into companies, interviewing leaders, CEOs, presidents of companies all over the
- 1:57world.
- 1:58I've spoken for, well, twenty plus years as you say.
- 2:01Well, god, I guess, close to twenty six years.
- 2:04That's insane.
- 2:05Wow.
- 2:05I know.
- 2:06That's crazy.
- 2:07About humor in the workplace, I first was in that space and speaking about eventually
- 2:13workplace culture.
- 2:14And my previous book's kind of funneled up into this book.
- 2:18So this book is my culmination, I think, of a lot of research of a lot of thinking in this
- 2:23area.
- 2:24And so the book very much is geared to this idea that leaders need to think of themselves
- 2:31first and foremost as a leader and not just a manager, not just a boss, not just a
- 2:35supervisor, that there is a difference that goes beyond semantics between being a leader
- 2:39and being the manager, being a leader and being the boss.
- 2:41But more than that, Roxanne, being a culture leader and thinking of themselves in this day
- 2:47and age, first and foremost, as a culture leader.
- 2:52K.
- 2:52So define here obviously, I either think culture, and I'm gonna assume or leader.
- 2:57Right?
- 2:57So tell me what the definition how do you define a culture leader?
- 3:03I define a culture leader as somebody who obsessively thinks about culture first and
- 3:08foremost in everything they do.
- 3:10By culture, first of all, I just how I define culture is it's your workplace mojo.
- 3:16It's the feel of the place.
- 3:17It's the personality of the place.
- 3:19It's the unique set of rituals, traditions, values, behaviors that you and different than
- 3:24your nearest competitor.
- 3:25It's your number one competitive advantage, But here's why culture leadership matters.
- 3:30Great cultures don't just happen.
- 3:32You can't fake it.
- 3:33You can't go buy your culture at IKEA.
- 3:36Even if you did, you wouldn't understand the instructions.
- 3:38You'd have parts left over.
- 3:40So you need to because it is your number one competitive advantage, because it impacts every
- 3:46aspect of your organization, including employees' health and wellness and how well you
- 3:52communicate and work together and collaborate, how creative and innovative you are, how you
- 3:56provide customer service and outstanding customer experience, how happy employees are.
- 4:01Because it affects all of that, being a culture leader is simply about being intentional in
- 4:08everything you do as a leader in regards to your culture and recognizing that as a leader,
- 4:14you have a disproportionate impact on your culture, that everything you do and say either
- 4:18adds to your workplace culture in some way or detracts from your workplace culture.
- 4:24So being intentional about your culture means everything from hiring with your culture in
- 4:29mind so that you are hiring people who aren't just a match for your culture, but people who
- 4:34can grow your culture in the direction you want your culture to grow.
- 4:39It's about training with culture in mind.
- 4:41It's about communicating relentlessly what your cultural norms and values are.
- 4:47And as a culture leader, it's about getting into the habit of always thinking about when
- 4:53you make a decision as a leader, are you building the culture that you wanna build, and
- 5:00does this decision reflect the culture that you want?
- 5:03So always keeping your culture front and center in the back of your mind in everything you do
- 5:09say and in all of your decisions that guide your business.
- 5:14I'm gonna assume over your your tenure in doing this kind of work you've seen, I gotta say,
- 5:21iterations or metamorphosis around that whole concept.
- 5:25Right?
- 5:25So I'm thinking twenty, twenty five years, we've gone we've seen such shifts.
- 5:30And even as, you know, as soon as the pandemic, we've really seen that the companies that are
- 5:36excelling are the ones that really take this concept to fruition.
- 5:40The ones the leaders that made the phone calls or had the one to ones or did the Zooms or did
- 5:46the Facebook lives are the ones that really got it.
- 5:49And when you started way back when, I'm not calling you old, but way back when, how has
- 5:55that shifted, that whole concept of culture based on what you're talking about today, which
- 5:59makes it makes so much sense.
- 6:02Like, you'd think that everybody would get this, but not a lot of people still get it
- 6:06today.
- 6:06Yeah.
- 6:07Yeah.
- 6:07Sadly, not a lot.
- 6:08Certainly, way more than when I started.
- 6:11When I started, I think yeah.
- 6:12People talk about culture, but it was it was very minimal.
- 6:16I think it was off the radar.
- 6:17It wasn't talked about or written about all that much.
- 6:21We talked about all sorts of other things, and I think often in a very hodgepodge kind of way.
- 6:26So we talked about all these these the separate topics.
- 6:29So culture kinda pulls everything together, right, too.
- 6:34And, really, it's just been, I would say, in the last, what are we, 2025 now in the last ten
- 6:40years
- 6:41Yes.
- 6:41Fifteen years that you've really seen a shift in a lot of organizations where they're
- 6:47recognizing and appreciating the importance of culture and putting a priority on that.
- 6:51And you can see that in terms of how they spend their money.
- 6:53You can see this in terms of even a lot of companies hiring chief culture officers.
- 6:58Mhmm.
- 6:59Often, they have different names, but a a position related to that, people to help
- 7:03champion the culture and to drive initiatives to help educate their employees about the
- 7:09culture and support their values and bring them to life.
- 7:11So there has been a huge shift, but I think there's still a long ways to go.
- 7:16Absolutely.
- 7:17I would think that companies are coming forward and they want this concept.
- 7:23They would have probably been companies that have been doing bits and bites of the the work
- 7:28along the way, or they maybe have gone through some kind of crisis in market share or there's
- 7:33something like that when they're thinking, wow.
- 7:36We seem to be generally kind of, you know, keeping the tempo with the competitors, but now
- 7:40we've kind of been left behind, and we're not sure why that's happening.
- 7:45So when you get called in, I I know a lot of it comes from keynoting, but are there other times
- 7:50where you get calling for consulting or just like we're trying to kind of figure out how to
- 7:55keep up with our competitors?
- 7:56How might people come to you to kind of delve into this whole concept of culture leadership?
- 8:02Yeah.
- 8:02Absolutely.
- 8:03And and you hit on a really good point.
- 8:04That is often when companies or leaders for the first time start to think about their culture
- 8:09when a crisis hits.
- 8:10Right?
- 8:10Mhmm.
- 8:10Or when they have a huge change in their organization, and they realize sometimes much
- 8:16to their chagrin that they don't really have the right culture in place to deal with change,
- 8:21to deal with innovation and creativity and uncertainty and all this the stuff that leaders
- 8:26today have to think about.
- 8:28I do get called in very often to do coaching or to to give advice and help.
- 8:33I do longer full day and multi day training workshops as well to help implement some of
- 8:38these ideas to really help them put things into practice, to help them shift their culture.
- 8:44And very often, companies will contact me when they've introduced some new values, and they
- 8:50want to make sure these values actually mean something and they actually stick and that
- 8:55people take them seriously.
- 8:56I wish sometimes they would call me before they came up with their values because sometimes I
- 9:00would I would have some advice on the values they came up with.
- 9:04Like, maybe 18 values is a little bit too much.
- 9:07So that is, though, why a lot of companies and leaders reach out to me.
- 9:11They've got a new strategic plan or they've got new values in place, and so we wanna get our
- 9:16employees excited about this.
- 9:18We want employees to embrace our values, and and we want you to help us trends.
- 9:23Excuse me, tran I got choked up talking about this because it's so exciting to translate
- 9:27those values into observable behaviors.
- 9:30And and that's what great culture leaders have to do.
- 9:33Right?
- 9:33We have to make sure we are translating what those suckers mean.
- 9:37Right?
- 9:37Because here's what I joke about all the time.
- 9:39Here's what I joke about in my talk.
- 9:41Culture is held together by the values.
- 9:43Right?
- 9:43But everybody talks about values like this.
- 9:45Right?
- 9:46Like, that these
- 9:46So I've tried for people that won't see the video, I'm looking at my what is that?
- 9:51It's a flower hat.
- 9:52He's got a pink flower hat.
- 9:53Everybody else are fixed.
- 9:55If you're not watching this video, I just kinda swing with him as he's got a flower hat on his
- 10:01head.
- 10:01Yes.
- 10:01Yes.
- 10:01You know, this this playfulness, Michael Yep.
- 10:04Which is what I love about what you since I've met Michael and the kind of work that he does.
- 10:10You bring such a playfulness to a culture
- 10:13Yes.
- 10:13As as you kind of come from the external kind of world.
- 10:17Do you find that sometimes you go in and some cultures are like the CEO is a little bit
- 10:23they're like, they're so serious.
- 10:26Right?
- 10:26And they want their values, and they they they want the tactical outcomes, and they want
- 10:30investor buy in, or they have those quarterly meetings with the ROIs and all that stuff that
- 10:35they don't get that sometimes they have to shift a bit?
- 10:38Oh, for sure.
- 10:39Absolutely.
- 10:40Yeah.
- 10:40And and you're right.
- 10:41Everything that I talk about and everything in this book, has humor throughout the book.
- 10:46I'm a huge proponent, and that is one of my main messages and themes I bring to audiences
- 10:50is the importance of humor, of having fun.
- 10:52That humor is both a driver of more collaborative, inspiring, productive, humane
- 10:57workplace cultures, but, also, humor is the end product of working in a positive, humane,
- 11:04collaborative culture where people feel good about themselves, where it's easy to bring in a
- 11:07good attitude to work and have a little bit of fun because you feel appreciated and valued and
- 11:13respected.
- 11:14And so it's easy to bring that sense of humor along.
- 11:17But for sure, I meet leaders like that, and here's one of my messages when it comes to
- 11:21humor.
- 11:21Humor is not about telling jokes.
- 11:24It's not about being It's not?
- 11:26Noun.
- 11:26Sometimes sometimes it can be, but it's not about being the stand up comedy of the other
- 11:31comedian of the office or being the office clown.
- 11:33And it's not always even about being funny.
- 11:35It's about being more human, more authentic, more real, being more balanced.
- 11:39It's about finding the funny in your work lives that's out there waiting to be found that
- 11:45especially the things that you can't control, right, which some days is probably a 47%.
- 11:51And it's especially, back to your point about the stern CEOs, it's about laughing at yourself
- 11:56more.
- 11:57Is it not a truism after all, Roxanne, that the more seriously a person takes themselves, the
- 12:02less seriously we tend to take that person, which is ironic because people take themselves
- 12:07so bloody seriously in the hopes that everyone will take me seriously.
- 12:11And the reality is, I'm sorry, no one takes you seriously because you are taking yourself so
- 12:16seriously.
- 12:16So it's about being able to show your human side to laugh at yourself, which as a leader
- 12:22makes you more approachable.
- 12:24It makes you connect with your employees better.
- 12:27It creates psychological safety in your environment so people do ask those challenging
- 12:32questions and suggest outrageous ideas and point out issues that need pointing out because
- 12:37they feel safe and comfortable to do so.
- 12:39We know from studies that leaders who embrace a positive sense of humor now that's important.
- 12:44Right?
- 12:44Not a sarcastic, cynical, biting, cutting sense of humor, but a positive sense of humor.
- 12:50Leaders who think about how their use of humor will make the people around them feel better,
- 12:55that we trust those leaders more because they seem more real, more genuine.
- 13:00We know it's one of the most powerful stress busters available to us.
- 13:03It creates more resilient teams.
- 13:06We know from studies that workplaces, that teams that embrace a lot of fun tend to have
- 13:11lower employee turnover rates, lower absenteeism rates.
- 13:13Everything moves in the right direction.
- 13:16So one of my messages too is even if adding more humor into your workplace culture or into
- 13:22your leadership style, even if it doesn't generate all these benefits that I suggest it
- 13:27will, what would you rather have?
- 13:29The same level of success at work in your business and less fun or at least the same
- 13:35level of success and at least enjoy the journey a little bit more.
- 13:38Right?
- 13:38It's it's Right.
- 13:39Because you have to spend so much time there.
- 13:41Right?
- 13:41So you might as well you might as well have fun.
- 13:43And I like, I ran clinics, addictions clinics, and stuff like that.
- 13:47And at the end of the day, you're dealing with people's lives, for instance, right, over the
- 13:50years.
- 13:50And then you realize, like, at the end of the day, we would we'd have these little jokes, and
- 13:55then you'd realize you're not making fun of people.
- 13:58You're just trying to alleviate the stress that you'd be dealing with when, say, somebody has
- 14:02kind of dealt with a bad situation with a family member or the public or the media or
- 14:07something like that.
- 14:08And then we would talk about it and somebody would bring something up.
- 14:12We'd have a good little chuckle and then the stress level to your point goes down, and then
- 14:16people can kinda go off and go, I can do this again.
- 14:19And that's so important.
- 14:20And you make such a good point, Roxanne.
- 14:22It's not about taking your clients, your patients, your customers less seriously or
- 14:27lightly.
- 14:27It's about taking yourself lightly in order to be more professional in your job.
- 14:32I've spoken a lot to funeral homes, to funeral people, to ER doctors and nurses and people in
- 14:39these high stress jobs, and they tell me time and time again about how they need to have a
- 14:45healthy sense of humor in order to maintain their professionalism, in order to cope with
- 14:50the job, with the demands of the job.
- 14:53So as long as you're doing it in a safe way, respectfully behind the scenes, and sometimes
- 14:57it is very black humor.
- 14:58It can be gallant humor.
- 14:59Yes.
- 14:59Yes.
- 14:59Yes.
- 15:00That'll say
- 15:00if it helps you distance yourself from that stress and it helps you maintain your sanity
- 15:05and your resilience so you can be professional, then, of course, it's something we need to
- 15:11learn to embrace.
- 15:12Now, Mike, I'm curious.
- 15:14Right?
- 15:15Like, when have you come across companies that they think they're ready?
- 15:19They're like, Mike Kerr, we heard you speak, and we wanna embrace this whole concept in a
- 15:25workplace.
- 15:26And you have the consultation, and you go, I don't know if we can kinda work with you.
- 15:32Have you come across scenarios like that over kind of your time working with companies where
- 15:37you give them some homework and tell them, let's talk again at a later point?
- 15:42I I'm trying to think of ones where I've actually said, no.
- 15:46I don't think this is a fit.
- 15:47I I know there are some examples where I thought, okay.
- 15:50This is not a long term relationship I wanna pursue Right.
- 15:53Right.
- 15:53Because they're not serious about it.
- 15:54They're not gonna take it seriously.
- 15:56They're not ready to shift their culture in this way.
- 15:59There's just too much resistance still, too much Yeah.
- 16:02Skepticism, I think.
- 16:02Yeah.
- 16:03So there there certainly are those examples.
- 16:05I think most, though, I would say the majority are open to shifting the way they do things.
- 16:12And and the number one way I find that they get excited, that they get inspired to shift things
- 16:17is through the examples that I share.
- 16:19So I hear this time and time again, especially from senior leaders where because I share so
- 16:24much research and I share examples from businesses all over to show that this stuff
- 16:29works.
- 16:30So even when you do some of these these silly crazy things, here's the end result of this
- 16:35silly craziness, though.
- 16:36Mhmm.
- 16:36So this works.
- 16:38And that kinda sets off a lot of light bulbs, I think.
- 16:40When they see it in action, they get the idea that it's relevant, that this this is something
- 16:46that they maybe need to pay more attention to.
- 16:49Absolutely.
- 16:50I think it's a congruence between all the levels of the organization as well.
- 16:54Yeah.
- 16:54Right?
- 16:55And I'm gonna assume, like, most times, like, with myself, you're probably maybe at upper
- 16:59leadership, but then looking at how from your senior leadership goes down to middle
- 17:04management, to your leaders or managers, to the public.
- 17:08Right?
- 17:08So it's we have to have that cascading elements.
- 17:11And I've worked with some companies, and the senior leadership team has a concept that they
- 17:16wanna deliver, but they're not acting in congruence with what they want the culture to
- 17:20be like.
- 17:22And then they're wanting the the frontline, say, employees to act a certain way, but
- 17:26there's that disconnect.
- 17:27And working with them to say, if you're not mentally resilient and you're reactive, but
- 17:33you're saying to employees that are dealing with customers that you can't kind of lose your
- 17:37cool, they need to see it demonstrated.
- 17:39So that whole kind of thread through becomes really important.
- 17:43I'm gonna assume that when you're doing work around your cultural leadership, that's what
- 17:47you're looking for as well.
- 17:49Absolutely.
- 17:49Yeah.
- 17:50When I was I'm putting on my flower hat again when when I was talking about the
- 17:54because he's got a pink little
- 17:57Pink flower hat on.
- 17:57Yes.
- 17:58Pink flower hat.
- 17:59Yeah.
- 17:59My point in this was that too many companies just treat their values like window dressing.
- 18:03Right?
- 18:04Like this superficial they put up their values on a nice poster with the puppies and rainbows,
- 18:08and they sing we are the world once a year with their team.
- 18:12And then there's our values.
- 18:13What great culture leaders do very intentionally is they translate what those
- 18:18suckers actually mean in terms of specific behaviors, attitudes.
- 18:21They turn it into fun top 10 list videos starring their own employees, example after
- 18:26example, stories.
- 18:27They do a values blitz.
- 18:29They use all these creative ways to make sure people understand what their values are.
- 18:33But then and you were just talking about this.
- 18:35The second thing that's absolutely critical is, of course, modeling our values out loud, making
- 18:41sure you're seen to be living your values out loud.
- 18:44And I've talked to a lot of very inspiring leaders where I've gone in for interviews, and
- 18:48very often, the CEO of a company will be out in the parking lot picking up garbage or helping a
- 18:54customer carry bags out to their car or whatever it may be.
- 18:58And they're doing that purposefully to be shown to be seen, sorry, living their values out loud
- 19:06and to be sending the message no job is beneath anyone here, and this is what I expect of all
- 19:12of our employees.
- 19:14Now the other thing I do see, Roxanne, is to that point of it cascading down throughout the
- 19:19organization.
- 19:20And this I find fascinating too is I've gone into big companies very often and worked with
- 19:24one department where the department is obviously miles ahead with their culture.
- 19:31They've got a fun, humor filled culture.
- 19:33They're collaborative.
- 19:34They're open minded, curious, creative, all the things you want in a great culture.
- 19:38And then I speak to another department, same company, but a little different.
- 19:44A little soul sucking, fun sucking culture in this department over here.
- 19:48And I'm sitting there thinking, holy smokes.
- 19:51You work for the same company?
- 19:53And it's like night and day.
- 19:55And so I think that speaks volumes to the importance of the senior leader in those
- 20:00departments because it it probably, in those cases, is cascading down from those different
- 20:05leaders.
- 20:05And one has done an exceptional job at building a great positive culture and the other one, not
- 20:11so much.
- 20:13Yeah.
- 20:13And and what you can learn that cross pollination, right, potentially without calling
- 20:17out someone to say, somebody could be transporting this over.
- 20:22Maybe the leader shifts things a bit differently, or maybe they communicate
- 20:25differently.
- 20:25Or maybe they just go do little get togethers in a different way where they structure their
- 20:30their meetings differently, where they check-in or they maybe have a funny story or they talk
- 20:35about a success.
- 20:35There's so many like, to your point, you can have two entities within the same culture, one
- 20:40getting a positive and one getting a negative.
- 20:42But with even within the culture, I'm sure there's pockets that they can learn from each
- 20:47other and have I don't know what cross I was gonna say cross contaminators.
- 20:50That's the wrong word.
- 20:51Pollinators.
- 20:52Cross fertilization
- 20:53is is a negative term.
- 20:54So that they could kind of learn from each other and not take it personally.
- 20:58I'm not leading well.
- 21:00But in fact that, oh, this actually works better or maybe we can use this or, like, the
- 21:04case study kind of sharing that I'm sure that you do with a lot of your trainings.
- 21:08Yeah.
- 21:09Well, benchmarking within your own organization, right, and learning from your
- 21:13stars, whether it's employees or teams or entire departments, looking at at the different
- 21:19cultures, looking at the different numbers even and going, hey.
- 21:21How come this department has such a low employer turnover rate?
- 21:25Mhmm.
- 21:25And over here, not so much.
- 21:26What's going on over here that we could maybe learn from and apply?
- 21:30You're right on.
- 21:31I mean, making sure that people aren't working in silos where they aren't sharing information
- 21:35and hogging resources and hogging ideas, making sure you have have those open forums from
- 21:40different departments where people connect.
- 21:42I love this idea actually, Roxanne, that some of my clients do where they do now this is at
- 21:46an individual level, but they rave about the impact.
- 21:49They do random coffee dates where everybody's name goes into a random name generator
- 21:54throughout the entire company, and then they meet for a coffee.
- 21:57So you meet with people, and some of them do it in groups of four.
- 22:00So you go and you have coffee with people that sometimes you've never met even if it's a big
- 22:04company, or at the very least people that you don't see on a regular basis or work with on a
- 22:09regular basis.
- 22:10And it just helps build this greater sense of community and the cross fertilization that
- 22:16happens with ideas when people get talking about their challenges and work, and then
- 22:20people, oh, you guys are doing that.
- 22:21That's so cool.
- 22:22I'm gonna I'm gonna tell my boss about that.
- 22:24Right.
- 22:24Or you could put in marketing with accounting or something together.
- 22:28Right?
- 22:28For sure.
- 22:29Like, for us with familiarity.
- 22:31We're gonna go for an accounting, we're gonna go sit with the person that's generally dealing
- 22:35with finance.
- 22:35Or if we're in marketing, we're gonna go and talk with maybe marketing and r and d.
- 22:40But to put four random people together, what what I would say a gift.
- 22:45Right?
- 22:45Because then you're gonna be able to say, wow.
- 22:46I hadn't thought about that, like, from that perspective and just to grow an appreciation
- 22:52for what everybody's responsibilities are at the end of the day to the business unit or just
- 22:57the overall culture.
- 22:58Yeah.
- 22:58And and that's how we know creativity and innovation thrives, right, from getting
- 23:03different perspectives.
- 23:04I love the old saying that if you have two executives or two employees that think alike,
- 23:09one of them is redundant.
- 23:11So if we can get more different perspectives around the table, that's how you get new ideas.
- 23:17Everybody sees different things from their vantage point depending on what their role is
- 23:21in the company.
- 23:21But, also, everybody has different backgrounds, different educational backgrounds, different
- 23:25totally different backgrounds.
- 23:26So they we all see things in a different way.
- 23:29So tapping into those different perspectives and ideas.
- 23:32In fact, Steve Jobs, when he redesigned Pixar Studios when he took over Pixar, that was one
- 23:38of his major goals was in redesigning the office space, the the building, was to make
- 23:44sure there was more synchronicity in how no.
- 23:47Not that's not the word.
- 23:48It's not synchronicity.
- 23:50That's the word.
- 23:51I knew it started with this.
- 23:53There was more serendipity in terms of people just running into each other randomly so that
- 23:59this cross fertilization of ideas would happen.
- 24:03Well, this is amazing.
- 24:05Now in reference to the book, if you're what should people expect?
- 24:10Where can they go to pick up a copy?
- 24:13And do you have any last words for any leaders out there or people just they've been on their
- 24:18frontline and they want they're liking the concepts that we've you've introduced in the
- 24:21book that you might want to have them some thought or something to ponder about the con
- 24:27the content we talked about today.
- 24:29Yeah.
- 24:29For sure.
- 24:30Here's the last thing I would just remind people of, and and you mentioned it early on,
- 24:33Roxanne, that work consumes a big chunk of our time.
- 24:37It's the single biggest use of your energy, your talents during the short thing called
- 24:42life.
- 24:43And we have and I talk about this in the book.
- 24:45The re one of the reasons I call it small moments, big outcomes is because life is made
- 24:50up of small moments.
- 24:50That's all we've got.
- 24:51In fact, on average in Canada, we are given about four thousand weeks in this thing called
- 24:57life, which doesn't sound a lot when you put it into weeks.
- 25:00Right?
- 25:00Because weeks go by really fast, and most of us listening or watching this have probably used
- 25:06up more than half of those weeks.
- 25:08Right?
- 25:09So work has this enormous impact in this short journey called life.
- 25:13It affects our mental and physical health, our happiness, our personal lives, our
- 25:18socialization, where we live very often.
- 25:20It has huge impacts on our lives, and you as a leader have a disproportionate impact on all of
- 25:27those things in terms of your employees.
- 25:29You impact your employees' families' lives.
- 25:33You impact your employees in substantial ways that perhaps you're not even aware of.
- 25:38So I challenge you to think about what do you want your legacy to be as a leader?
- 25:43What do you wanna build day in and day out?
- 25:47And it is through the small moments.
- 25:49That's the second reason I call it small moments.
- 25:51It is through those small moments that make or break your leadership.
- 25:55It is the small simple things that you do that your employees notice, and it is the small
- 26:01things, I guarantee you, that will irritate the heck out of them and annoy them.
- 26:05I challenge you to think about your legacy.
- 26:07The book is available on Amazon.
- 26:10You can get a Kindle version, the e version, or the hard copy version through Amazon.
- 26:15It is packed with relevant ideas.
- 26:17It goes into different traits of leadership.
- 26:20It talks about the importance of communication in the workplace, how to run your meetings, the
- 26:23importance of employee recognition and appreciation, the importance, of course, of
- 26:27having fun at work, how to build a service first culture, how to build a more resilient
- 26:32culture.
- 26:33It is packed with ideas, packed with a load of fun.
- 26:36So I I hope that if you pick up a copy of the book, it will help you on your leadership
- 26:42journey and help you leave behind a more positive, substantial, lasting legacy.
- 26:49Awesome.
- 26:50Mike, it's always a pleasure.
- 26:51Mike always makes me evil every time I see him.
- 26:54And again, I love the hat.
- 26:56For those that aren't seeing the hat, it was very pretty in pink.
- 27:00And and I'm trying to take him seriously yet again.
- 27:04For me, what am I taking away?
- 27:06I talk a lot of leaders knowing their mental resilience, and Mike talks about that much
- 27:11more.
- 27:12Leader knowing thyself.
- 27:14Who are you?
- 27:15What is that what is that imprint?
- 27:16When you're no longer in that space, what is the legacy?
- 27:20What will they say about the Michael Kurs of the world when he is no longer there?
- 27:24For you as a leader, think, what is it that you want people to embody or remember with your
- 27:30leadership?
- 27:31And I often see as leaders, making the place a better before you leave the environment, making
- 27:35that environment that much better so people remember something special about you.
- 27:40So for everyone, thanks again for tuning in.
- 27:42If you wanted to know how you're connected in relationships, just go to roxie and
- 27:45doravodge.com, plarge /quiz.
- 27:48You'll do a really quick quiz, and we'll tell you kind of either at home or at work where you
- 27:53are in reference to relationships and some next steps of how to make things better.
- 27:57So, again, Michael, thanks so much for everybody with everybody hanging out with us.
- 28:01Thanks so much for hanging out with us, and we'll chat with you again next week.
- 28:04Okay, Mike.
- 28:04Thank you, Roxanne.
- 28:05Thank
- 28:06you.
- 28:06Take care.
- 28:07Bye bye.
- 28:08Bye.
- 28:09Thanks for tuning in to Authentic Living with Roxanne, creating the space for positive
- 28:14healthy change.
- 28:16Roxanne is a keynote speaker, psychotherapist, and coach.
- 28:20To work with Roxanne, visit roxannederhage.com/blueprint.
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