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2086 - BONUS: Interview with Mallorie of 90 Day Fiance (s12) · Pink Shade: Reality TV with Mary Payne

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, Welcome to Panche. This is a bonus episode
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  Speaker 1: for you, guys. I didn't even announce it because I
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  Speaker 1: wanted everybody to be surprised. I've got an interview with
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  Speaker 1: Mallory from this season of A ninety Day Beyonce the OG.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome Mallorie. You're so cute.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you for having me.
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  Speaker 1: You're so cute. Now are you at your house there
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  Speaker 1: in Alabama?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm in my work from home office.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well that was gonna be one of
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  Speaker 1: my questions. People are asking because you said on one
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  Speaker 1: of these recent episodes that you had two jobs, Like
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  Speaker 1: what are the two jobs?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: So I'm a medical coder. I'm not sure if people
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  Speaker 3: don't know what that is. Anytime you go to the
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  Speaker 3: doctor's office, have a surgery, the emergency room, whatever it is,
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  Speaker 3: there's documentation for your diagnosis codes and what the provider did.
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  Speaker 3: So pretty much, I go in, I review the doctor's documentation,
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  Speaker 3: I select the diagnosis codes and also what type of
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  Speaker 3: we call it a CPT code, which CPT code to
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  Speaker 3: a sign and I sent it off to insurance.
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  Speaker 1: So okay, so that's job number one. What's job number.
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  Speaker 2: Two, same thing, same thing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well that is interesting because people were like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: she says she has two jobs. I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you guys, I'm sure it's something like boring, you know.
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  Speaker 3: And it's yeah, it might be boring to other people,
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  Speaker 3: but I mean keeps me entertained.
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  Speaker 1: It's interesting to you, all right. First thing, the first
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  Speaker 1: thing I really want to know is how you got
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  Speaker 1: on the show. Did somebody tell you about it? Did
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  Speaker 1: you were you a fan? How did you know about it?
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  Speaker 3: So I've watched ninety Day before, I've been a fan
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  Speaker 3: of the ninety Day universe, and after my girl's trip
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  Speaker 3: where that's where I met rash It. On my girl's
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  Speaker 3: trip to Greece in twenty twenty three, I had a
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  Speaker 3: co worker and she goes, oh my god, you need
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  Speaker 3: to apply for ninety Day fiance And I was like, girl,
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  Speaker 3: they're not gonna pick me. They're not gonna pick us.
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  Speaker 3: We're too boring. Like it's you know, like at the
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  Speaker 3: time you have like the Jasmine and Ginos stuff, you know,
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  Speaker 3: going on, and I'm like, we're boring, They're not gonna
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  Speaker 3: pick us.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, but just for the fun of it,
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  Speaker 2: I'll apply it'll be like our little joke and now
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  Speaker 2: here we are.
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  Speaker 1: Yew. How long how long we all together before? How
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  Speaker 1: long were you together before you applied for the visa?
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  Speaker 1: And then how long did the visa take?
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  Speaker 2: So we were together for like four or five months
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  Speaker 2: before we applied for the visa.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, So not that long.
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  Speaker 2: No, not that long at all, Not that long at all, okay.
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  Speaker 2: And then the visa took about twelve thirteen months.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. And were you just going back and forth back
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  Speaker 1: and forth?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: So I so after my girls trip summer twenty twenty three,
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  Speaker 3: I then went back to Turkey January twenty twenty four,
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  Speaker 3: and then I went back in October twenty twenty four,
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  Speaker 3: and then thankfully, the next trip was bringing him to America.
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  Speaker 1: And that's when the cameras went with you. Yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: FA's okay. So you're one of the rare couples on
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  Speaker 1: this show. And if you've been watching it a long time,
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  Speaker 1: you know that we're immediately rooting for We're immediately like okay,
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  Speaker 1: And as we say on my show, we're always like,
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  Speaker 1: I believe in their love. I believe in their love.
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  Speaker 1: I believe this is gonna be a fairy tale. We
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  Speaker 1: immediately liked him and thought he was super cute. We
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  Speaker 1: immediately liked how much he loved you. And it obviously
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  Speaker 1: is not like a scam, you know, but you've got
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  Speaker 1: to tell me that you met him. You went on
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  Speaker 1: a girl's trip and you say, and this is what
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  Speaker 1: the young people do. I get it. You go on
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  Speaker 1: Tender or whatever and you're like, I'm gonna find a
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  Speaker 1: hook up.
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  Speaker 2: Yep.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So you find this hookup and he braids your hair.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, he braids my hair. He so okay.
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  Speaker 3: Backstory, and me and my friend went to Greece. She
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  Speaker 3: had already had Tender on her phone, and I was
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  Speaker 3: just kind of like on a hiatus of dating apps.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm over it, like whatever, and she
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  Speaker 3: was like, girl, you gotta download Tender. These men on
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  Speaker 3: here are unreal, like they're gorgeous.
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  Speaker 2: So I didn't, and I was like, oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: She was flying.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then me and Ross match, and you know,
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  Speaker 2: a couple of days later, we.
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  Speaker 3: Meet up and I don't even know, I can't even
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  Speaker 3: remember how he started to braid my hair, but he
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  Speaker 3: just started braiding my hair, and I was just like,
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  Speaker 3: what are you doing and he was like, I'm braiding
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  Speaker 3: your hair and I was just like, okay, is this
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  Speaker 3: normally what you do after hooking up with somebody like
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  Speaker 3: this your.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's like, no, I just.
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  Speaker 2: Wanted to braid your hair. Your hair is beautiful, and
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  Speaker 2: I was like, Okay.
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  Speaker 1: On an upcoming episode, we see y'all go to a
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  Speaker 1: baseball game when your hair is braided. Did he braid
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  Speaker 1: your hair?
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  Speaker 2: No, not that time I braided my hair.
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  Speaker 1: Now the magic is gone. You no longer braid my hair.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was like he he yeah, it's not
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  Speaker 2: on camera, but he does.
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  Speaker 3: He has braided my hair since being in America. It's
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  Speaker 3: just it was never on camera that.
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  Speaker 2: They caught it.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's so funny. I know that my husband
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  Speaker 1: and my son would not know how to braid anything.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I.
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  Speaker 2: Know you would it.
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  Speaker 3: It caught me off guard and I was just kind
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  Speaker 3: of like, how do you know how to braid? And
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  Speaker 3: he was like my sister's He was like, I have
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  Speaker 3: my older sister and my younger sister. He was like, so,
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  Speaker 3: I you know, his older sister was already out of
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  Speaker 3: the house when when his younger sister with his younger
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  Speaker 3: sister was growing up, so he everything his older sister
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  Speaker 3: taught him.
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  Speaker 2: He just did it for his younger sister.
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  Speaker 1: That's really sweet.
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  Speaker 2: And he braids his mom's hair too. Video. Yeah, he's
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  Speaker 2: oh god.
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  Speaker 1: That's sweet. That's sweet. Okay. I am from Mississippi and
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  Speaker 1: you're from Alabama. So what is your closest town there
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  Speaker 1: to where you are in Athens, Alabama? What's your closest
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  Speaker 1: big city.
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  Speaker 2: Huntsville, Huntsville, Alabama.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, one of my bests from colleges from Huntsville. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Really what a small world?
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  Speaker 1: Small where they've got the aerospace training thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah right, NASA, yep, yeah, is it NASA rocket.
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  Speaker 1: NASA because she one summer was like a camp counselor
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  Speaker 1: at like rocket camp for yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, the space camp I told is so funny.
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  Speaker 3: I told my nieces and nephews about there's a space
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  Speaker 3: camp and they were like, well, you want to go
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  Speaker 3: there one summer to Aunt maun MOUs and do space camp.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, that's okay.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I appreciate that you were so honest about
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  Speaker 3: You know, the like I said, the only problem that
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  Speaker 3: I had had previously was a friend of a friend,
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  Speaker 3: you know, at a at a at a get together.
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  Speaker 3: This was and the comment was made like a year
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  Speaker 3: before Rosh was even here, so ron, you know, like
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  Speaker 3: and the comment just caught me off guard. You know,
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  Speaker 3: I was just like, whoa, Like I didn't, you know,
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  Speaker 3: like okay, but it wasn't somebody that I hang out
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  Speaker 3: with or I don't associate myself with people like that
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  Speaker 3: like once, I you know, once, especially having an im
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  Speaker 3: you know, having an immigrant, being in a relationship with
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  Speaker 3: an immigrant.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you just you you can't surround yourself with
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  Speaker 2: people like that.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, okay, I'm glad to hear you haven't
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  Speaker 1: really had any major problems.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, not yet though, I mean there might be more.
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  Speaker 2: You guys might see.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I will say that. You know, people were immediately
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  Speaker 1: immediately like, well, they shouldn't live there, she should take
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  Speaker 1: him and move to a bigger city, moved to everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: What are you gonna you're I mean again, I'm from Mississippi,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, you're in Alabama. You know, even if
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  Speaker 1: you move to Atlanta, which would be like the biggest,
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  Speaker 1: one of the biggest, New Orleans, like a big southern city,
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  Speaker 1: You're still gonna have it.
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  Speaker 2: So racism, Yeah, racism is everywhere.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't stay in one spot, like it's not just
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  Speaker 3: located in one state. I mean there's you know, I
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  Speaker 3: think in the South people are more I think, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I don't. I don't want to say this, but it's
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  Speaker 3: the truth. I think in the South people are more
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  Speaker 3: comfortable with being blatantly racist. Where if you go up
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  Speaker 3: north or you know, if you if you go to
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  Speaker 3: other areas, they're they're more low key about it or
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  Speaker 3: right their comments, Yeah they don't, they're they're yeah, they
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  Speaker 3: say like snarky comments like they're not as you know,
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  Speaker 3: bold as I feel like people in the South.
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  Speaker 1: I agree, and again, like I said on my show
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  Speaker 1: like a million times, like this is not every single person.
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  Speaker 1: And I, like I said, I'm so glad to see
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  Speaker 1: that all your friends have been They threw that white
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  Speaker 1: trash bash, which was hilarious, so funny, and I got
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  Speaker 1: to tell you that when Brandon was so upset about
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  Speaker 1: a man doesn't sit on your tailgate. We when I
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  Speaker 1: tell you we have taken a poll. We have like
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  Speaker 1: unlike everybody's southern out there, please reach out, and only
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  Speaker 1: one out of no lie, like I'd say, thirty forty
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  Speaker 1: people respond to only one person said Okay, I have
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  Speaker 1: heard of this, and how Yeah, I was never heard
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  Speaker 1: of such a thing in my life.
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  Speaker 3: I literally when I saw the when I saw the
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  Speaker 3: footage for the first time, I was like, I've never
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  Speaker 3: heard of that in my life.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean, did Brandon make it up?
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  Speaker 2: I you know, one thing about Brandon is maybe in
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  Speaker 2: Brandon's world, you don't sit on his tailgate.
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  Speaker 3: You know, maybe maybe the way he was brought up
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  Speaker 3: with his southern family, he was told that.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: It was so I was he was like, the Heath
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  Speaker 1: disrespected me by sitting on my tailgate. I was like
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  Speaker 1: what like he walked into your living room and took
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  Speaker 1: a beer and sat in your favorite chair, Like, now,
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  Speaker 1: how long ago was it that you and Brandon were
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  Speaker 1: like friends with benefits? Like, like, was it six years ago?
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  Speaker 1: Was it? Was it right before Rash? Like what I
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  Speaker 1: can understand? Like he yeah, I can understand Rash is
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  Speaker 1: uncomfortable with it. But yeah, you guys are all in
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  Speaker 1: a friend group and seemed to have been good friends
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  Speaker 1: for years. So how long ago was it?
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  Speaker 2: So it was the beginning of twenty twenty one, and.
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  Speaker 1: It was two years before you met Rash.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, two years before I met Rash.
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  Speaker 3: It lasted for maybe two months if that, and then
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  Speaker 3: after those two months, we were never physical ever again
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  Speaker 3: ever again, Like we never like once we stopped having
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  Speaker 3: that situationship with each other, we were like, Okay, we're
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  Speaker 3: gonna be in each other's lives. You know, I'm Mikayla's
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  Speaker 3: best friend, you're her husband's best friend. Let's not you know,
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  Speaker 3: we're not getting rid of each other, that's for sure.
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  Speaker 2: You know that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not getting rid of each other. So I
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  Speaker 1: think it's just a very youin of like a mature thing,
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  Speaker 1: because you know, I mean definitely, like in college, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you have all sorts of like big groups of friends
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  Speaker 1: and somebody may have some drinks at a white trash
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  Speaker 1: bash and you hook up and you're in your twenties
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  Speaker 1: and who cares, You're still all in the same friend group. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and especially it sounds like the two of you were
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  Speaker 1: very much like this happened, is not gonna happen anymore,
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  Speaker 1: and now we're done and we're still all have to
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  Speaker 1: be friends.
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  Speaker 3: It was just yeah, And I think I think that's
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  Speaker 3: what you know, the internet being up and roar over that.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just kind of like, you guys really don't understand,
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  Speaker 3: like we're like, it's not you're friends.
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  Speaker 1: You can still be friends.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we're we're adults, like we're friends.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, now, if if we were in a very
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  Speaker 3: serious relationship and we were engaged at one point, okay,
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  Speaker 3: but it was never Yeah, it was never like that.
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  Speaker 1: It was never like that. No, okay. And speaking of that,
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  Speaker 1: I saw a post that you did here in the
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  Speaker 1: last day or two regarding your car accident, and explain
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  Speaker 1: to me what that was about. You did a long
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  Speaker 1: post about people not being Tell me you've gotten negative
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  Speaker 1: feedback about your car accident. I don't do it.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm I'm not going to name any names because
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to give this person the satisfaction.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but it was.
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  Speaker 2: So night there.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I'm scrolling through TikTok and you know a
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: lot of con you know, people that make stuff about
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  Speaker 3: reality TV, they're everywhere.
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  Speaker 2: I follow a lot of them, and I have very good.
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  Speaker 3: Relationships with majority of them. This person was watching, they
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  Speaker 3: were doing like a.
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  Speaker 2: Recap or whatever of the show, and they were like, well,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be heartless, but it really seems
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  Speaker 2: like TLC's dragging out her car accident.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, she just ironically went by the crash site. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: like I can't like this cast is so boring, blah
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  Speaker 3: blah blah. And you know I slept on it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I slept on it.
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  Speaker 2: I prayed on it.
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  Speaker 3: And then yesterday, ironically, yesterday I had a doctor's appointment
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  Speaker 3: with my gi doctor, and you know, hearing them just
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  Speaker 3: reiterate some things that are going to be with me
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  Speaker 3: for life, I was like, you know what, you know what,
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  Speaker 3: like you you are heartless, Like that's you're disgusting, Like
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  Speaker 3: if you if you don't have anything nice to say
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  Speaker 3: about something like that, then just skip over it, like
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  Speaker 3: you don't have to commentate, like comment like there is
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  Speaker 3: more in that episode, comment commentate on something else, like yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you know, if you're acknowledging it, you don't want to
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  Speaker 3: seem heartless, and then you continue to be heartless.
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  Speaker 2: It's just kind of like grow up, like ew, Yeah, there's.
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  Speaker 1: Lots of things that you could comment on the episode,
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  Speaker 1: but that doesn't make any sense to me because I
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: think from what I watched, very clearly you said I
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: don't ever drive by there, and he says, take me
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: to where it is. I want to like see for
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: my eyes what happened. And you stood on the side
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: of the road and you explain this car was coming
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: this way and you can see how fast. And I
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: thought you said very clearly, I never drive by here,
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: but we're near it, and he said, well, let's go
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: to where it is. It wasn't like you said, I've
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: never driven by there in one year, but today's the day. Yeah,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: you know, I thought it was done very well. And
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: I don't think thank you. I don't think it's been
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: harped on it all. I think it was mentioned at
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: one point because you had a settlement and then it
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: was mentioned when you showed where it was, and then
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: it was mentioned again regarding the prenup, like I have
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: this settlement that's in a it's in a brokerage firm
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: that I just want to protect, and I don't. I mean,
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: by the way, this is not a boring season. This
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: season is amazing.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: I mean I would sound biased if I would say that,
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: but I think this season's pretty good.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: We are loving it. We are we are diagnosing Katie
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: every week, so concerned about her drinking problem, so that
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: everybody's like, she's got this and that I'm like, nobody's
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: gonna say that she drinks too much? Like no one, no,
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: any friends, family, anybody, no husband, no, no, nobody's gonna say.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: I will say on a coming up episode there is
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: someone that mentions it, and I was like, well, thank god,
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Like somebody is talking about the elephant in the room
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: with Katie.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Well, And I think you know when you're
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: she's a couple of years not that I'm so much
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: than her, but she has a couple of years younger
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: than me, and you know, some of her friends and
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: stuff like that, and I think it's just like when
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: you live in small towns, it's like, well, what do
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: you mean there's this is all we can do is
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: go out to the bars and go drinking to have
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: a good time.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: And it's like she will you have more than one
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: guy literally palm your face to push you away. You
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: have to think about if the roles were reversed and
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: a guy was doing that, it would be it would
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: be pretty bad. Yeah, yeah, god bless you want we
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: want justice for Katie. Yes, what are your thoughts on?
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on Debbie and Meadow?
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: I love Debbie. I do.
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: I I want the best for her just because she just,
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: you don't know, like I just there's just something about
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: her that I'm just.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Like, she's just you're rooting for Debbie.
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know, the only thing I can say
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: is I hope and pray that he is that Meto
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: is here for the right reasons. I mean, I don't
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: I can only criticize my own relationship, you know. I
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: mean I don't know.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: How their relationship is behind closed doors when the cameras
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: are off.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: So I mean my thoughts, look how he talks to
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: her with their camera on, you.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Know, yeah, yeah, yeah, and and yeah.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: It's it's all. It's all a wait and see and
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: we keep saying, Okay, surely on the next episode they'll
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: show us this or that, and then they don't and
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: we have to wait it out. I Shay and Annabelle.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: How much I mean, on a scale of one to ten,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: how much do you love annabel Oh?
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: My god? Like I love annabel She is exactly what
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: he needs.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: Like she is when I watch their stuff, like I
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: was just like, yeah, he needs a woman that is
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: not going to put up with his nonsense and she's
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: gonna set them straight.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: I love her like I love them.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: I love her so much and every time. And you know,
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: as a Southerner, when they talk about the lake, I'm like, oh, yeah,
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: I know about the lake or you go down to
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: the river, the lake or the river. Yes, they're definitely
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: having a white trash bash down by that lake and
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: in that river.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh for sure, That's what I'm saying. I'm like,
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: you guys are talking about our white trash bash.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: What about Yeah? What about that one? They just didn't
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: name it, They just didn't name it. Well. I love
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: Annabella and I hope she is gonna set. I hope,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: I hope when we get to the reunion. I do
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: love when all you guys like meet in person at
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: the union and then we've got you're from Alabama and
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: as just from Alabama? Yeah, And I was like, now,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: is Alabasa close to Athens? I have no grasp of Alabama.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: No. No, she's about two hours south of me south.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I uh, I'm fascinated fascinated by her. I'm
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: fascinated by we're gonna see coming up. Like his family
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: gets real mad that she's thirty eight and they're basically
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: like she's the dad literally says she's so close to menopause.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: Which is crazy. It's like that's a bold statement for
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: a man to say.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, right, And I was like, no, I don't know,
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: God bless. Okay. Now back to Brandon. We have lots
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: lots of questions about why did you have to borrow
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: his pet camera? Why couldn't you buy your own pet camera?
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: People were concerned, you know, to be completely honest with
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: everything that was on my plate preparing for my fiance
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: to come to.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: America, buying a pet camera slipped my mind.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: Why did you need one?
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: So?
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: How long were you gone and you had all those dogs,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: so with somebody like coming in to watch the dogs.
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, my friends were coming in to watch them. But
• 21:52
  Speaker 3: so I just I really liked I just I liked
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: being able. I was only gone for like a week,
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: but still I was able to like log.
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: On and just you know, see them, see them.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: And because Mickey and Minnie were are you know they're
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: at the time that we were filming there, they were
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: like three, two or three months old, So I just
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: was really worried about, you know, puppies.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah. They also you just got them and then you
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: had to leave.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So I was just like, oh, I hope
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: you know, Like, yeah, I.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Just tell me about the decision making thought process of
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: getting two dogs in addition to the two you already
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: had right before you're bringing your fiance to move in.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: There wasn't much of a decision making, There was no
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: thought process. So I the backstory on how I got
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: two of them, and they're from the same litter and everything.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: I do not recommend having two puppies at the same
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: time unless you can mentally handle that. I'm never doing
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: that again.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Well you do, then you'd have six, So I hope
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: not yeah, I would.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: Never never doing that again. And I had gone to.
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: A horse show because I'm a part of the horse community,
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: and there is these people here selling these cute little puppies.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, they're so cute and
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: I had face timed rash and I was like, look
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: how cute they are and he was like, get one
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: and I was like okay, and I was like well,
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: I was like, but I want a girl because I
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: already had a boy and a girl.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: And I was like, I want a girl. He's like
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: I want a boy.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: And then the person that was selling them, they were like, well,
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: we'll do a buy one, get one free special and.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: I was just like, oh my god. I was like okay,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: and they were like, please take these puppies and are
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: what kind of puppies are they?
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: They are Australian Shepherd cattle Australian Shepherd cattle dog mixes.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: Okay, do you have a big backyard kind of Okay,
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: that's a lot of it's a lot of dogs. So
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: what are your other two dogs? Because we know Opal.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: What kind of dog is Opal?
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: She's a corky.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: She's a corky.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: I just she's a funny Welshy.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: I just saw the funniest Corky video the other day
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: about why Corky's always back up, and it was a
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: whole thing of like to the song back that ass
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: up and it was all backing up, like, Okay, so
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: she's a corky and has the tiny legs that needs
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: the the ramp from the bed. And then what's the
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: other dog?
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: Twister? So I adopted Twister. I don't remember, like twenty
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: nineteen was when I got Twister. I adopted him, of course.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: And you just said his name, so yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, sorry, that's okay.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: And he is a pit a Pitbull Healer cross.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: Wow, okay, this is this is dog corner. I have
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: two dogs. I'm always like obsessed with people's dogs. I'm
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: obsessed with people that have more than two dogs and
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: how do you do it? And then you got two
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: dogs right before he moved.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: I was like yes, and they're all herding dogs. That
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: was not planned.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: So you walk outside and they'll just circle you.
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, they're just a hot mess. They're they're
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: so hyper there. I don't recommend fo herding dogs.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you walk outside, they're trying to herd you and you're.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: Like, oh stop, I'm trying to inside outside they're following
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: me every Oh my god, I don't.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, you'll always have a convenience hip.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: That's true.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, So on an upcoming episode, we're going to see
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: you and your friends go to like a local baseball game.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: Is this like a Huntsville team?
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so they're newer.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: I think I think they were established in like twenty
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: twenty two.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Okay, very new.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they're very new.
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: And they actually had the locals pick their name. So
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: it was like it was a decision between like the
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: trash Pandas Rocket City Rockets I think, and then there
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: was some other one.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: I don't want.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: The City Rocket seems to make the most sense. I mean,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: trash Pandas is hilarious, but also like what, I.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: Don't you know, I I don't know, I don't know
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: how they came up with that. But trash Pandas won obviously,
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: And so yeah, we went to a trash Panas game
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: because rash has never been to American an American baseball game.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I loved that. I love that. And on the
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: upcoming episode, you know, you guys are also you know
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: Rash and Brandon still not getting along, and it's does it?
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Can you just give me a hint? Does it ever
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: get better? See? Are they going to braid each other's hair?
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: Maybe they'll braid each other's beards. I don't know. Maybe
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: I don't know, you guys, I don't know.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: I see well, I was like, I hope these two
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: never have a fistfight.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: I know that's like the it doesn't get physical. Let's
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: just put it that way. Thank god, it doesn't get physical.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: This there's yeah, it seems like it.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: It seems a couple of times like it gets close.
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, Mikayla and Wren. So it is? Is Wren
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: spelled r y n like Ryan without the A?
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: Pretty much?
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Yes, it's Wren?
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: Does that come from something like his mother's maiden name
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: or something?
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: I you know, that's a good question.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know, because you know how we do? You
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: know how he does? Yeah, we got the mother's maiden name,
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: and like you know, I got Mary Payne, the whole thing.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm trying to think. I don't know.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: And also I wonder if it's like part of a
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: name and they took out the Wren because he's like
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: a third and so they said, okay, co cor Wren
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: want to and three? So for the third we're gonna
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: call him Wren instead of core Wyn. You know what
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: I mean or something. The Southerners they do are real
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: crazy with the name.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I know. I'm pretty positive. Sorry my air podcast.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty positive.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: His it's his middle name, Okay, but he goes by
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: his middle name, I think.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: So there was a person on I don't know if
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: you watch any Bravo Real Housewives. On Real house Hovese
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: of Oc, doctor Jennifer's husband's name was Ryan, but then
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: he renamed himself Wren r y n E. So he
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: was Ryan but then he got his name changed to
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: r y n E. So I was like, this is
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: very similar. Like it's like, yeah, Ryan Wrenn, what's your name? Yeah?
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, as no, he as a grown man. He
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: did not go and change his.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: Okay. Now on this last episode, you're you talk to
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Roush about the prenup. M Okay. My take on it is,
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: why not if you think you're gonna be married for
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: one hundred years, Like, why not go ahead and do it?
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: You have this big asset, this one particular thing you're
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: trying to protect. And if you guys are married for
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: fifteen years and get divorced at that point the house,
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: the house is half his anyway, so you know if
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: he's been paying into it so or you guys may
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: have moved and bought a new house. But I think
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: that culturally we see so many of these same stories
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: play over and over. Number One is the bidet always important.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Miday is a mainte side of America. It is I mean,
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: it's and they need it, they want it, they have
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: to have it. And then we see prenup a lot.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: Is another storyline that they cannot get their brains behind
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: the whole prenup. And then of course we see the
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: muslimen are like, well, now I'm the head of the household,
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: and you do what I say. But now he's run
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: up against a strong Southern woman who's like, no, so,
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: no so. A couple of things about the Muslim man.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Number one, it seems to me that rash didn't care
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: about the thing about about no sex before marriage, Like
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: he was okay with that. Yes, he was okay with that,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: but he's not okay with you know, you got to
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: be the head of the house and all that. So
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: it's like pick and shoes.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, and I think, you know different, I.
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: Think I don't want to say, like kind of like
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: in America or like different denomination.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: Right right, right. And also, no, pork is a big
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: thing for him. He's like no York. Yeah, yeah he does.
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean and Turkey is a very secular country.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: A lot of people don't know that there is multiple
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: religions in Turkey there. You know, Islam is the predominant,
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: you know, religion, but there's Catholics, there's Christians, there's you know,
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: there's churches right beside the mosques and stuff like that.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: But I think they're just not as like how Nito
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: coming from Egypt or you know how Jordanians.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: It's Turkey is just a very it's a very Yeah,
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: it's a very secular country.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: It's a little more their religion is a little more
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: loosey goosey and not so like it has to be
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: all these things have to be followed exactly.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I and and I think they not that
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: they they just lean more Western into the into the
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: Western culture, and.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: That's just that's good for you because then you've got
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: on Tender. I know, do his uh, does his family
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: have any problem with you saying like y'all met on
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Tender and that there was you were sleeping together in
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: the same bed and all that, Like do they have
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: a problem with that?
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: No, believe it or not. I mean, I think you
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: would think that they would.
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: But I think a lot of it is is, you know,
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: they understand he's a grown man and he's gonna make
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: his own decisions.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: At the end of the day.
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: Yes, So I I think that's where a lot of
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: it came from, is they were like, we can't control
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: him well, and I yeah, I think that's where a
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: lot of it And they knew, like they knew their
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: son was you know active.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: Well you know, like you think of like Sarper. He's
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: from Turkey and he banged twenty five hundred women, So
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know, yeah.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Rash isn't that. Yeah, Rash isn't like that.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: But Okay, that's good. That's good to hear. And did
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: you guys ever talk about you moving there? Because where
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: he's from that region, we've seen it with he lived there,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: but we've seen it on other ninety Day shows, marmars
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: where it's like, wow, this is a gorgeous town. So
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: did you ever consider that moving there?
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think with when we were going
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: through that immigration process, that was definitely a backup plan.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: We obviously didn't really like talk talk about it because
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: we didn't want that to be the last resort, but
• 32:51
  Speaker 3: we did acknowledge, especially with the state of how you know,
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: immigration was going and what was going on with immigration,
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: you know, Turkey was definitely an option. It It would
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: have been a struggle, It would have been a struggle
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: for sure, but yeah, we did talk about it.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, do a lot of people in his town, a
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: lot of people speak English or no.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: I would say, I would say it's like if you
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: go to the like the restaurants and the retail stores,
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: they do because Marmorous like predominantly is like a very
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: hot spot for British people. Like it's it's like very
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: televised in England, like come to Marmorous, you know, for
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: your summer and and you know the Turkish people what
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: they do is they'll they'll put their pricing in pounds
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: instead of lira because the conversion rates higher, and.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: They get.
• 33:48
  Speaker 5: Okay, well, yeah, I mean it's I would say, it's
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: not like if you go to istanbul And and English
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: has spoken very well there, but they're like his family,
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: Rossi's family, they don't speak any English.
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: It's barely anything.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I was sad when he said, you know,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna need like one hundred and hundred
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: and fifty dollars when you guys were talking about the
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: expenses and you know, to us, that's not a lot
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: of money. But of course I liked how you're like, Okay,
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: here's everything we're spending. I have to assume at the
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: top of that piece of paper was here's how much
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: I bring in, and then here's how much piece of tract. Yeah,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: for him to really get it and then yeah, I
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: need a little money for my family. And you're like
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: and he's like, well, you know they live in a tent, baby,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my gosh, I kind of
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: forgot about that part, like did their house burn down?
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: What happened?
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: It was an earthquake. So so the earthquake, it was
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: twenty It was.
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: Like not winter, but I think it was like January
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: February twenty twenty three, it was.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: It hit there.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: So he's originally from cut a madmanage Turkey, and so
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: there was a big earthquake.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: It was like a seven point four.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: I remember that big earthway, Yes, and.
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: It hits Syria too, So it was Turkey and Syria
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: and that's what happened.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: They yeah, they yeah, they lost everything.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: And are they doing better now? Are they able to
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: rebuild or.
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: They're doing they're getting by. The Turkish government was supposed
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: to be building houses for the people that have been displaced,
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: and the houses have taken still now. And you know,
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: so so during the winners, his mom will go to
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: Marmarous that way it's cooler, and.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: His dad will stay back and work. You know. But
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: but they're you.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: Know people online, you know, their first their their first
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: initial response is like, well, why did she just go
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: to Turkey?
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: Like, oh, I would get out of the United States.
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: And I'm just like, you have like the privilege you
• 35:50
  Speaker 3: have to think that these people do not suffer over there.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Like right, just because it's a beautiful town doesn't mean yeah,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Like, the monthly South for one person is like four
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: to nine hundred American dollars.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: That's you can't that's rough, That's right, that's right.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's rough.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's oh my god. Well, I I have loved
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: your story and I've you know, I any kind there's
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: a Southerner, I get very excited. I love to do
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: a Southern accent, you know, like it just brings me
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: back to home. Yeah. And we think Rash's so cute.
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: We think you're so cute. I think you guys are
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: very good and you're like talking heads together. I love
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: this week he said, shut the motherfucker up. I was like,
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: that's so funny. Can I can I adopt that in
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: my everdition? Shut the mother Yes you can?
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: Yes, Yes.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: I love how excited he is about a sex shop. Yeah,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: he's like, never see this where you see like other
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: people like Stevie and Maddie. And he's like he also
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: was sort of like from Iron, you know, He's like, whoah,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: look at that. Have you been in touch with her?
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: She would be a great friend to you.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: I think I had it.
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: I followed her on social media. I do need to
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: reach out with her. Reach out to her because we
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: last summer when we were watching the series, Rash.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, I was like, oh, she's not I think
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: she's like four or five hours from me.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: She's in Pettisburg.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: So yeah, she's not hard.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: I would love for y' all to be friends. That
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: would be like my dream team Southern friends. I would
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: love that.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: I would love that too.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And then you have you know, husbands with you know,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: same ideas and stuff. You both have cute husbands in
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: the South. Why not?
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: I know?
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: Well, tell everybody where they can follow you if you
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: want them to. On social media, we don't say anything
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: mean about her accident. Whoever you are that said that.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's okay, they're irrelevant. Yeah, I'm on Instagram and
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: TikTok and I think it's just Mallory ninety day. Okay,
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: I've made it easy. Okay, there's no like underscore or
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: you know what, let me check hold.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: Okay, but I think if they just type in Mallory
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: with the I E, yeah, and then you could find it.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's okay, Mallory underschool on Instagram, it's Mallory Underscore
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: ninety day.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: Then it's either that the same for TikTok or just
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: Mallory ninety day. But it should pop up.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: It should should pop up. And we'll do some reels
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: and stuff from this episode, and I'll tag you, and
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: and now I've got a new Southern friend and I
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: love it. Okay, so don't hang up. And everybody make
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: sure you're following me on Instagram too, can check up