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I Got Married! The Big Announcement and the Story Behind My Wedding · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: You know what? No. You really thought I was gonna
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  Speaker 1: make peace with him? No. You also thought this was clickbait,
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  Speaker 1: didn't you? No, it's not. I've been lying to you.
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  Speaker 1: I've been... That's not true. I just avoided the truth
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  Speaker 1: with you. I'm married. I am married now. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: married woman as of... 12 hours ago? And I've been
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  Speaker 1: engaged for... quite some time. I know, I know some
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  Speaker 1: of you already knew because I'm an idiot and I
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  Speaker 1: sometimes wear my rings in pictures and accidentally in videos,
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  Speaker 1: but you didn't, okay? I kept it a secret. You
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  Speaker 1: know how hard it is for me to keep secrets?
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  Speaker 1: It is so hard. The reason that we did was
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  Speaker 1: just because I feel like being on the internet is
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  Speaker 1: just so awesome but also your whole life is out
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  Speaker 1: there and I we just kind of wanted something for
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  Speaker 1: ourselves to like look forward to and to just have
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  Speaker 1: to us like people could speculate and everything but it
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  Speaker 1: was it was really nice to just our whole engagement
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  Speaker 1: just us know and like obviously our close friends and
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  Speaker 1: family it was really special so I'm sorry we didn't
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  Speaker 1: tell you, but I am telling you now, your girl
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  Speaker 1: is hitched, and I am happier than ever. We had
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  Speaker 1: a tiny, itsy-bitsy little ceremony. We eloped, if you will,
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  Speaker 1: and now we're about to do a reception with all
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  Speaker 1: friends and family, and it's going to be so fun.
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  Speaker 1: Just like a big barbecue. Just super chill. That's what
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  Speaker 1: we both wanted. We just wanted it to be fun
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  Speaker 1: and not super traditional, but I don't know. We're super happy,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm so excited to hang out with family and
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  Speaker 1: friends and just celebrate this whole thing, and finally for
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  Speaker 1: you guys to know, because you guys do matter. You
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  Speaker 1: guys are family too, but you know, OG family comes first.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm super excited. I figured I'd tell you a
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  Speaker 1: little bit of the backstory, catch you guys up a
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  Speaker 1: little bit, you know, so there's not speculations or anything.
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  Speaker 1: I'll do that, and then I also asked you guys
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  Speaker 1: for some other random questions that you want to know,
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  Speaker 1: so this will be kind of a my story, our story,
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  Speaker 1: and a little Q & A. Let's get into it.
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  Speaker 1: Where do I start? I was born July 1st, 1996
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  Speaker 1: in Abbotsford, British Columbia, Canada. Just kidding. I'm not going
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  Speaker 1: to do that. It's not going to be a deep
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  Speaker 1: dive on me. It's not, it's not that serious. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: But I kind of want to tell you guys like
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  Speaker 1: how we met, how this all happened. We moved here.
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  Speaker 1: We got engaged and remarried and all this stuff. So
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  Speaker 1: I'll kind of just, I'll give you the cliff notes
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  Speaker 1: version of that. So basically Caleb and I met a
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  Speaker 1: couple of years ago, a few years ago. Oh God.
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  Speaker 1: almost a few years ago now. Yeah. And 2023, we
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  Speaker 1: met online. A tale as old as time. Guy did
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  Speaker 1: not play any games. He reached out to me after
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  Speaker 1: I followed him. About five minutes went by after I
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  Speaker 1: followed him. And all caps, he said, you're amazing. And like,
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  Speaker 1: thank you for following me, yada yada. We talked and
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  Speaker 1: talked for like months or a month and a half.
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  Speaker 1: And then I went to meet him and he's just
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  Speaker 1: an awesome dude. And I was like, this is crazy.
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  Speaker 1: Like he's just, everything's out on the table. There's no games.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my God. Like every person wants to play these days.
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  Speaker 1: It seems he was just hard on his sleeve, told
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  Speaker 1: it how it is, was so sweet and caring and
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  Speaker 1: generous and just all the things. Hilarious. I've never laughed
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  Speaker 1: so much in my life. There's not a day that
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  Speaker 1: goes by where I don't cry laughing, and that's like
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  Speaker 1: so special to me. Why the am I crying? Anyway, so.
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  Speaker 1: We talked, we met, came down here in the beginning of...
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, we started talking in 2022. Oh my God,
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting this all mixed up. 2023, I came and
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  Speaker 1: met him and we just hung out, you know? And
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  Speaker 1: we kind of built up a friendship first. I came
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  Speaker 1: down a few times and he was just about to
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  Speaker 1: launch Sour Boys, like from building it in the city
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  Speaker 1: where we are in Stephenville. So I kind of watched
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  Speaker 1: him through that whole process. Like this guy I'd met
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  Speaker 1: is building a candy factory and he's putting his heart
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  Speaker 1: and soul... and every single time he has into it,
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  Speaker 1: and on top of having several YouTube channels, he's just
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  Speaker 1: works so hard and is so driven and I was
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  Speaker 1: like so attractive you know I was just like damn
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  Speaker 1: this guy works hard but he also makes time you
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  Speaker 1: know so I was like this guy's a great balance
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  Speaker 1: and then shit hit the fan he got scammed and
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  Speaker 1: he lost every like dime that he had basically so
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  Speaker 1: I watched him go through one of the hardest things
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  Speaker 1: anybody has to go through you know besides some sort
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  Speaker 1: of death and that's just like starting from ground zero
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  Speaker 1: from what he had already built because he had had
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  Speaker 1: a whole team behind him. He got scammed out of
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  Speaker 1: a lot of money and it was hard. It was
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  Speaker 1: hard to watch that. And I was really starting to
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  Speaker 1: fall for him. And that's when he was like, I really,
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  Speaker 1: really like you, but I don't think I can give
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  Speaker 1: you everything that you deserve right now. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: come on, man.
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  Speaker 2: Like, okay.
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  Speaker 1: Like in the most, like, I couldn't even be mad
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  Speaker 1: because it was the most respectful thing. It was just like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: but that just made me wanna more. It just made
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  Speaker 1: me wanna more. So anyway, week goes by, he reaches
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  Speaker 1: out to me again. I was like, yeah, that's what
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  Speaker 1: I thought. And then we started talking again. But I
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  Speaker 1: watched him go through that and that just like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, it kind of solidified it for me because
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  Speaker 1: he kept his head on straight that whole time and
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  Speaker 1: has since in building this whole business with like Sour
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  Speaker 1: Boys and everything. And I was like all in. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, this is so amazing of you. And then
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  Speaker 1: when we started talking again, he was like, that was dumb.
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  Speaker 1: What I just, I was stupid. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: it was. So we just started talking again for hours.
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  Speaker 1: You know, a few months goes by and then we
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  Speaker 1: start to date. We start to date officially, officially, which
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  Speaker 1: you guys know, we dated a little bit before my
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  Speaker 1: video came out. I think it was when I went
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  Speaker 1: to Texas on my podcast that no longer exists, really.
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  Speaker 1: Jake can pull it up, put it right there, that episode.
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  Speaker 1: So we started dating. maybe a couple months before that.
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, I just, I don't know. I've never felt
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  Speaker 1: so myself with someone. And I know people on the
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  Speaker 1: internet are like, you're exactly like him. Like you've changed.
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  Speaker 1: You've changed into him. Yeah, dude. I spend every day
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  Speaker 1: with him. When you spend every day with your partner,
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  Speaker 1: you just kind of morph into this one being, but
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  Speaker 1: it's a person that it's a better person. Like it's
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  Speaker 1: a person that I haven't even met before, like myself.
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  Speaker 1: Like I feel so much like myself and I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I can even be goofier than myself, which I
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  Speaker 1: never thought I'd be able to have, you know? Because
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  Speaker 1: with past relationships and stuff, I've just been like a
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  Speaker 1: shell of myself. Oh God, looking back, it's like PTSD,
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  Speaker 1: it's really bad. And I feel like every day I
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  Speaker 1: don't deserve what I have, but he really helps me
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  Speaker 1: with that. And I love him a lot. Anyway, so
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  Speaker 1: we start dating. Things just happened in like, we were
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  Speaker 1: dating for like half a year, I guess. And we
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  Speaker 1: were just tired of traveling mostly. And I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: move down to the States anyway. So I was like,
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  Speaker 1: hey man, like it was kind of, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: think he brought it up. He's like, well, you can
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  Speaker 1: move down here. And I was actually going to move
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  Speaker 1: into like a separate house. But then by the time
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  Speaker 1: it came to fruition, enough time had passed where we're like,
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  Speaker 1: what are we doing? Like, let's just move in together.
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  Speaker 1: Let's do it. And I had never moved in with
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  Speaker 1: anyone before. So that was scary. And to a new country,
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  Speaker 1: it was just a lot. And it was, it was daunting,
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  Speaker 1: but it did it. And it And I've not regretted
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  Speaker 1: it for a minute. I was like, oh, this is awesome.
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  Speaker 1: It's like living with my best friend and we just
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  Speaker 1: get to have fun every day. It's like having sleepover
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  Speaker 1: every day. We just watch horror movies and eat junk
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  Speaker 1: food and hang out with all of our dogs. And
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  Speaker 1: we're building like this little dog army family. That's been
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  Speaker 1: super fun. And we lived together for over a year.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, this has been awesome. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: we've been through hell and high water with, you know,
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  Speaker 1: business stuff and family stuff and through mutual friends, like deaths,
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  Speaker 1: just a lot. Yeah, that time went by and somewhere
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  Speaker 1: in there, we were like, let's just, let's just, let's
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  Speaker 1: just get engaged. Just do it. See what happens, you know?
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  Speaker 1: And it was kind of funny because we were both,
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  Speaker 1: we're so dead set on never getting married. Like when
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  Speaker 1: we first met each other, we're like, hey, you don't
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  Speaker 1: ever want to get married, right? And I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't ever want to. And he never wanted to.
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  Speaker 1: I come from, you know, twice divorced families. He doesn't
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  Speaker 1: come from a divorced family, but he's just like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: if I want to spend my life with somebody, I
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  Speaker 1: want to spend my life with somebody. But then there
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  Speaker 1: was just something where it's like, no, I really want
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  Speaker 1: this person to be my person and for me to
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  Speaker 1: be able to call him my husband and for him
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  Speaker 1: to be able to call me his wife. And we
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  Speaker 1: had this, I don't know, it was this really, really
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  Speaker 1: long conversation. And it was awesome. Right after we had
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  Speaker 1: that conversation, like, oh my God, like a week later,
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  Speaker 1: he asked his grandma to mail him one of her
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  Speaker 1: rings down, um, to give it to me. And it's, um,
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  Speaker 1: it is a Peridot gemstone with, with, uh, diamonds around it.
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  Speaker 1: And Peridot is his birthstone. And I was like, what.
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  Speaker 2: The f * * *?
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  Speaker 1: That's so romantic. He was just being Caleb. He's like,
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  Speaker 1: isn't this what people do? Isn't this just what, like,
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  Speaker 1: he thought it was no big deal, but that is so,
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  Speaker 1: he mailed, his grandmother's ring and she gave him like
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  Speaker 1: a few rings to choose from and he picked a
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  Speaker 1: certain one because of its meaning. And I'm just, I'm
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  Speaker 1: a sentimental bitch. So I was just like beside myself.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, this is so nice. And it's
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  Speaker 1: been torture not to wear this thing. I also have
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  Speaker 1: a wedding band, but it's getting fixed. It's getting, it's
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  Speaker 1: not on right now because of that if you're asking why.
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  Speaker 1: But backtracking as well, because I know people will ask
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  Speaker 1: this or speculate or whatever. I was getting my green
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  Speaker 1: card before any of this happened, by the way. This
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  Speaker 1: isn't like a weird green card marriage. I already have it.
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  Speaker 1: I already had it before I got married. So that's
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  Speaker 1: not why either.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I just feel like people are going to be like,
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  Speaker 1: it's because she wanted a Greek. No, it's not. And
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  Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with green card marriages either. You know, whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Do what you gotta do. But that wasn't our, that's
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  Speaker 1: not our story. So yeah, we were engaged for, I guess,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, almost over a year. Yeah. And then
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  Speaker 1: we finally picked a date like three months ago, two
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  Speaker 1: months ago. It was very short. We're like, hey, we got,
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  Speaker 1: we should do this thing. So we just picked a
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  Speaker 1: date and we just did the thing. And it's awesome.
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  Speaker 1: It's awesome. And now I get to celebrate it with
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  Speaker 1: all my close friends and family. And I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm so excited about the little family we've built
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  Speaker 1: so far. And I'm excited to just live my life
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  Speaker 1: with him and build things with him, like our home,
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  Speaker 1: our businesses. And it's just, I feel like I'm in
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  Speaker 1: a fever dream, truly. I wouldn't be where I am
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  Speaker 1: with my career at all, like without him either, because
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  Speaker 1: he has inspired me and pushed me to do everything
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  Speaker 1: that I wanted to do, but I didn't have the
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  Speaker 1: confidence to do. So like, I wouldn't be doing any
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  Speaker 1: sort of true crime if it wasn't for Caleb.
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  Speaker 2: He's just like, what?
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  Speaker 1: Like, you love this stuff. And I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I do. And he's like, put it on YouTube. Because
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: you are reading case files anyway, so why the f
• 10:55
  Speaker 1: * * *? I'm like, that's true. I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: we've complimented each other in so many ways. And I
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  Speaker 1: know he has said the same about me, which is
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  Speaker 1: really sweet. But yeah, I'm just really happy. Really happy.
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  Speaker 1: And it's scary to be on the internet and, like,
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  Speaker 1: getting in a relationship and stuff. Just because, I mean...
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  Speaker 1: That's people on the internet. People are going to judge
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  Speaker 1: no matter what. People are going to speculate no matter what.
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  Speaker 1: They're going to say all these things no matter what.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean, at the end of the day, I just,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to live my life and be happy.
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  Speaker 1: And I know, you know, majority of you are going
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  Speaker 1: to be happy because I'm happy and, and I'm all,
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing my own stuff and he's doing his own stuff.
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  Speaker 1: And then we do stuff together. And I feel like
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  Speaker 1: just him starting to care less about what people think,
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  Speaker 1: which I think is really important for me. personally, especially
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  Speaker 1: with everything I've been through. So yeah, that's kind of
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  Speaker 1: our story. I'm going to bring him in at the end. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to do like my little Q and A
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  Speaker 1: with y'all before I did that. But, uh, and he
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  Speaker 1: could say whatever he wants to say. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what he's going to say. I never know what he's
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  Speaker 1: going to say. That's what's so exciting about being with him,
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  Speaker 1: but let's do, um, a little Q and A and sorry,
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: I'm sniffling. I'm crying and I have allergies. Sue me. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: also I will share photos and everything, but probably after,
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  Speaker 1: probably like next week or something that, you know, you
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  Speaker 1: know how photos are. You get them and then you
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  Speaker 1: need to edit them. But I will probably share those
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram. So if you're not following me on Instagram,
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  Speaker 1: what are you doing? But let's read some questions. I
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  Speaker 1: haven't really picked out a lot. I asked you guys
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram a bunch of questions. Okay, first one up.
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  Speaker 1: Amirez Dead says, do you and Oompa want kids? Yeah. Definitely.
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  Speaker 1: That is, that's like something we've talked about at length
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  Speaker 1: and way before we even got engaged. It was like
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  Speaker 1: a big conversation for both of us. It was really
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  Speaker 1: important to me. I'm like, if I remember going to
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  Speaker 1: be with somebody, we got to be on the same
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  Speaker 1: page with all the things. I'm at the point now
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  Speaker 1: where I was a little on the edge, I'd say
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  Speaker 1: five years ago. But after meeting Caleb, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what it is about meeting a certain person, but you're like...
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  Speaker 1: You need to be a dad. You need to and
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  Speaker 1: all of these questions are going to be about me
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  Speaker 1: and Caleb, but I'm just, I'm literally just going down
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  Speaker 1: the list as they come in. But this one is,
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  Speaker 1: what's you and Caleb's day to day life? Day in
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  Speaker 1: a life like, I think that's what they're trying to ask.
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: Also you spell Caleb wrong, but with a K it's
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  Speaker 1: kind of fire. So anyway, also love this video. Although
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  Speaker 1: I have to catch up. Love this, these videos.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Chat corner one, take some time when you write, but
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  Speaker 1: thank you. I really appreciate it. A day in life.
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  Speaker 1: Oh God.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: We wake up. probably around, I don't know, 738. We
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  Speaker 1: watch some TikToks in bed together or some Instagram reels,
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  Speaker 1: have a laugh. He tickles me near to death, makes
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  Speaker 1: some funny sound effects, get up, have coffee, hang out
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  Speaker 1: with the dogs a little bit, let them out. Then
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: we both come to the studio, come to work pretty
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: much all day. And then periodic through the day, we'll
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  Speaker 1: go back home and hang out with the dogs and
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  Speaker 1: play with them. But we're usually working all day until like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, sometimes we're in here till like 10 PM, 11,
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  Speaker 1: but we usually won't go to bed till like midnight,
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: one o'clock, because we have to go back and re-watch
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: Game of Thrones Breaking Bad or Fringe for like the
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: eighth time. Those are pretty much the only shows we watch.
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  Speaker 1: We're just repeat show watchers or horror movie. There's really
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  Speaker 1: no in between. Oh, actually we did just binge The
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: White Lotus over like a weekend. We just vegged out
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: because we were so tired. Binge all three seasons. Great show.
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: Watch it if you haven't. But then what's nice is
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  Speaker 1: his family lives really close. So they'll usually stop by
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  Speaker 1: and hang out and we'll have lunch with them or something.
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  Speaker 1: His grandparents don't live far away. So sometimes we'll go
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  Speaker 1: have lunch with them and it's really nice. And on
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  Speaker 1: the weekends, we try not to work, but there's usually
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  Speaker 1: some sort of work in there, but we'll Deuce it together.
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  Speaker 1: And then we'll always take time to just hang out
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  Speaker 1: with our little dog family. But that's about it. It's
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  Speaker 1: kind of boring. It's kind of boring. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if you want more than that. We're really homebodies as well.
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  Speaker 1: We don't get out much. And I kind of like
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  Speaker 1: it that way. I spent like two years traveling nonstop
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  Speaker 1: and it was just, I'm old. I'm getting too old
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  Speaker 1: for that shit now. Okay. S1N1 Tang says, if you
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  Speaker 1: could dye your hair any color that you haven't dyed
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  Speaker 1: it yet, what would it be? Ooh. What haven't I done?
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: I haven't done green, yellow, orange. I think that's it.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: Black or brown. Honestly, I probably would never do green, orange,
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: or yellow just because I wouldn't like that on myself,
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: I don't think. Part of me one day wants to
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: go like a really deep brunette, like not black, but
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: for my hairdressers out there, like a level seven, seven
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: and a half brown, like a deep chocolate brown. I
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: think that'd be fun, but I think I'd get bored
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: of it really fast. I am blonde naturally. The only
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: thing with dyeing my hair dark is that when it
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: does grow out, because I am blonde, it looks like
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: I'm balding because it just grows out really light. So
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: it doesn't look cute. The upkeep. So I don't know
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: if I'd ever do that at all. This would be
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: a lot of maintenance. Maybe I'll get a wig. I'll
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: get some more wigs, but I do want to do
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: dip dye again. That was my favorite. Okay, this is
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: not a cute photo, but like that. Actually, the Harley
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: Quinn one was fun too. It's just fun because then
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: you can just chop it off when you're done. I'm
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: probably going to do that. Crooked Querpo says, what's your
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: favorite thing about Texas since you moved there? So many things.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Probably the people, especially where I am. I'm like in
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: a really small town in smack dab, middle of Texas,
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: like outside of, two hours outside of any major city.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: The people are the salt of the earth out here.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: I've said it before, but if I go out, I
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: will go on a side quest with another person just
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: because they're so nice or like they'll help me on
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: my side quest. I could just go to HEB, which
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: is like a local grocery store for those of you
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: who don't know. And I don't know, there could just
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: be a little old lady there who says, oh, I
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: like your hair. And I'll be like, thank you so much.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: I really like it. I really like your glasses. They
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: look really nice on your face. She's like, oh my God,
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: thank you. What are you doing in this section? I'll
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: be like, I'm trying to look for, you know, maple syrup.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: I came from Canada. You came from Canada? I did
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: come from Canada. Whereabouts from? And then it just goes
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: down that road. And then I learn that her grandkid
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: visiting from, you know, Oklahoma, he... is needs balloons for
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: his birthday party. So I go and look for balloons
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: with him. Like it's just that shit. And it's nice.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know. People are just so nice here. Everybody
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: says ma'am and sir. And now I just say it.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: If I am on the phone with like a lady,
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: it's just like, yes, ma'am. And I think it's so
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: respectful and nice. And I love it. And people say
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: honey and sweetie. And it's just, it's just wholesome as
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: down here. It's great. Obviously, you know, It's not perfect.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: No place is perfect. It has its moments or whatever.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: But yeah, barbecue, also amazing. And the weather. Oh my lord.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: British Columbia is the most beautiful place ever and I
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: love it to death. I am a British Columbia diehard.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: And Canada, like, I think Canada is the most beautiful country.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: But listen, we don't get as much sun as we
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: do down here. And I thought I didn't like the
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: sun that much. But my lord, does it make you happier?
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: You know, you just walk outside and you're warm instead
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: of freezing cold and rained on. I'm a storm girl.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: I love a storm. Love a good rainy day. But
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: when it's 80% of the year, you get a little sad.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: And I was really sad. It's probably a mix of
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: me being in a really healthy and happy relationship and
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: having vitamin D more. It makes a difference. So, oops. Love. 4. Nyxolee asked,
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: what is your best memory from when you were younger?
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: I have a lot of great memories. We were never
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: able to like afford to take any vacations necessarily. So
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: we would just drive to places and just you know
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: pitch a tent and like we're like uh we had
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: like this little dinky camper but Jessica and I my
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: older sister it wasn't big enough for us so we'd
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: be in the tent but I kind of wanted to
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: be in a tent anyway so we just like drive
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: we on like little road trips and it was really
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: fun like once a year those were like the coolest
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: times even though we would fight and just be at
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: each other's throats at parts of it it was just
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: so fun and it was before we had any sort
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: of like iPads or anything like that. Like, I think
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: the thing that we had that was super, so cool
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: was one of us had a Nintendo DS. We had
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: to take turns, but we didn't use it. We just
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: would look out the window and play games like license
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: play games and I spy. And yeah, I look back
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: at those times and those were really, really fun. And
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: then we go meet family that was like across Canada
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: and everything. Yeah. Those were really good times. What's your
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: favorite childhood memory? Let me know in the comments below.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: I'm very curious. Veronique. Palm asked something that's on your
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: bucket list that you want to do. Probably travel more.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: Selina and I have our new channel, which is Can't Sleep.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: If you haven't checked it out, you should check it out.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: We do like podcasts and we do ghost hunting and
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: that's all the fun stuff. So we want to do
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: like a tour of some sort. And I feel like
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: that would just give me an excuse to... Because I
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: don't know. I feel bad for like traveling and not working.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: Like I should be filming it in some way or
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: spending it with somebody. And Caleb will travel, but he's
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: not too much of a travel bug. But Selena is.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: She's my girl. So we would love to like tour
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: to Europe or Australia or like South America.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Just... everywhere. Obviously America and Canada too. I would love
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: to just do like a, like just a world tour
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: kind of thing. I think that'd be really fun and exhausting,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: but also really fun. And then I could meet all
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: of you because that's honestly so fun. I do love
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: meeting you guys in person. It is so cool to
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: hear you guys' stories and to see like what you
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: even enjoy about this kind of content. Cause I'm just like,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: this is good. Okay. This is a good gauge for me.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: You know, Mr. Ken 3235 asked what food do you
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: miss from Canada? There's not good sushi here. That's the
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: only thing I don't like about where I am in Texas.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: I'm sure there is somewhere in Texas, maybe closer to water.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: Because anything else, you can get maple syrup, you can
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: make your own poutine and stuff like that, but there's
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: something about going to an authentic sushi restaurant. Shit, I
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: miss that, man. I miss sashimi. Kate P. Brunori asked,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: what's your favorite American fast food place so far? That's
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: a good question. I feel like it's just local places.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Because I like fast food, but I like generic. And
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, McDonald's. Or, ooh, you know what? Raising Cane's.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: We don't even have one in the city I am in,
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: but if we go outside the city, there's Raising Cane's. Damn,
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: that's good chicken. Holy shit. And their biscuits, pretty good. Next,
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: we have charcoal underscore two million? 20 million? I don't
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: know why I can't read that number. Thank God I'm
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: a YouTuber. All right, he asks, most interesting serial killer
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: or true crime case in your opinion, bro? most interesting,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: just any sort of cold case, like John Bonet or
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: there's like, oh my God, there's just too many children
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: cold cases. I don't know what it is. It's just like,
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: it hits at my heartstrings. And I just, for the families,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: like I can't even imagine being a mom and like
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: not being able to know what happened to your kid
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: or who did it, or I don't know, just getting
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: that justice. So that's why I like covering those cases.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: Cause you never know, you know, you never know like
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: who's going to see it or what's going to happen. Like,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: and not that I think that I'm doing any sort
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: of service, but I don't think it could hurt to
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: bring light to those cases. So yeah, honestly, just any
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: cold case, basically. Next up, Joyce Lynn Young asks, how
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: do you recommend getting out of toxic friend groups? Getting
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: out of them. Girl, just leave. Don't talk to them ghosts. No,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: but honestly, and as I'm getting older, I am edging,
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: getting real close, tiptoe away from 30. And light has
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: just opened up, you know? I'm just like, wow, I
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: don't need to cater to people that don't give a
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: shit about me. That's crazy, isn't it? It's just, uh...
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: You just, you don't need to put that effort in.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: You need to just be honest. You're like, you know what?
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: I think in the nicest way possible, I don't want
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: to be in this sort of relationship with you, like
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: as a friend. Put it in the group chat.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Be like, I'm out and maybe they're going to talk shit.
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: But life will go on and your life will be
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: significantly better if you cut out toxic people because your
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: life is so fleeting and short. It is not worth
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: it to waste your time with people like that. I
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: just say it straight. I know it's scary and daunting,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: but it'll probably catch them off guard and that'll probably
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: be sweet as f * * *. once you leave.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: You'd be like, yeah, you're kind of a bitch. All right.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Caleb underscore Levinson underscore 09 asks, why did you stop
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: doing TikTok skits? I didn't. I definitely post less on
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: TikTok because I'm putting my heart and soul into YouTube.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: Like I have like three channels now and I still
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: do other stuff that you guys haven't even seen yet
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: that I'm working on and other projects that I'm working on.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: So the short farm stuff definitely has taken a backseat
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: and I do miss it. It is really fun, but
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: there's just, I don't know, after making so many videos,
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: you get, your mind just stops working. So I post
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: it when I can, but also TikTok has been like
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: hella unpredictable. And after like living down here for over
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: a year, I still don't have like a US TikTok account.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: So it's kind of like messed up. I will still post.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: Riley's still here. Janet's still here. And Katrina's still here.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: And so is chat. Last but not least, Swati Prabha asks,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: what's something fans romanticize about your job that's actually the worst?
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Interesting question.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I want to say, first off, this is the best
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: job I've ever had. I have had a lot of jobs.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: Cleaning houses, hairdresser, working retail, like, quite literally most things
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: you can do. And, you know, there's something wonderful about
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: all of them. There's something terrible about all of them. Just, like,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: this is a job as well. And obviously there's stuff that's, like,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: that's not going to be awesome. But I... I will
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: never complain about this job. I just want to say
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: that because I am grateful every single day. Up until
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: I was 24, I was working since I was 13.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: It was like multiple jobs and I never thought in
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: a million years I would be on the internet being
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: able to make people happy for a living. So that's insane.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: The best part and the worst part is that a
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: lot of people know who I am, I guess. I
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: don't know. It affects your life outside of your job,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: I guess. So like if I was a hairdresser, I could...
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: you know, go out and do things and nobody knows
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: who I am. What does it matter? You know, not
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: that I'm, you know, not getting me on Dateline or anything.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing anything crazy like that, but I love
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: meeting people outside. It's literally the best part. I love
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: having conversations with people. And I've said that already. At
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: the same time, I'm just like, I don't know if
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: I just had, you know, a massive fight with somebody
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: and I'm, you know, just fresh crying in the car
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: and eating a tub of Ben & Jerry's and somebody
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: knocks on my window wanting to take a picture. I'm like,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: This is not the best time, but sure. I'm saying
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: that because that's happened. But it's a long-winded way of
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: me saying that I love and appreciate you guys so much.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: And it has been crazy to start this whole journey
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: in my parents' basement suite to be living with my husband.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: That is so weird to say. And have my little
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: fur family and have all of you. And I just never,
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: I never would have guessed this would happen. Like... five
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: years ago, I didn't think I'd be here, like at all. So, yeah,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: this just, it just means the world to me and
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I'm really happy to share it with you guys. I'm
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: really excited I could tell you my secret. I'm married.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: I'm a wife.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: I'll bring Caleb in for the outro and he can
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: say whatever he wants to say after I get my
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: shit together. Two hours later. I told them that we're married.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: You what?
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: And then what else? And then now what?
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: What do you think?
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: About what?
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: About being married.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: Feels good. Yeah? Yeah. Feels the same. The old ball
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: and chain. Yep.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: She's been the old ball and chain for a while now,
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: to be honest. That thing is different.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: What'd you just do that for?
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: I tripped.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: You tripped on your slipper.
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: That was pretty cool. We harmonized.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we did. See, we're like the same person.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing's different really to me.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: I just get to wear my ring now. Where's yours?
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: It's not on me.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: Oh my.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: I dropped it down the sink earlier.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: You don't even care. I'm just kidding.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: I wore mine for a week and then you didn't
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: wear yours. You did, yeah.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: See, he did the same thing I did. I wore
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: mine by accident in videos and stuff. He ratted us
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: out by accident.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing's different. Being legally married doesn't change any level
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: of commitment for me.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah, me neither.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: I'm a very committed person and I have no problems
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: doing what's best for you.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: Even if I don't like it. Which I think is
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: the basis of a good relationship.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: True, true, true.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: I've had a lot of friends for a really long time.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: A lot of stuff just keeps going. It doesn't stop.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: In our lives, I feel like.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't quit.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: No.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: I talked about that a lot. It says one of
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: your best qualities. I can't quit you. Yeah.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: I can't quit you. I can't quit you.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Or whatever.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Isn't that from that movie where there were a couple
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: of gay guys? I think it's from Brokeback Mountain.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: I can't quit you.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: We're just like Brokeback Mountain, basically.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: I wish I knew how to quit you. You're awesome.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: I love you.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: You're awesome, too. I love you. This is great. Yeah.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: Now we're going to go fight with Nothing's changed really.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's early still.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: It's going to be the same. Yeah, it is early.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry if I'm off. I apologize. Oh, you're fine.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: You're fine. It's early for me too. I look like shit.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Thank you.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Thank you. Love you too.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Ah, anyway, like you said, it is actually really early
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: because I need to go set up for my reception
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: with my family and friends. So I'm going to go
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: do that. But I just want to say thank you
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: so much. I love you so much. And I appreciate
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: you allowing me to entertain you because it means the world.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: It really does. It means the world, the world to me.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: And you're not going to get rid of me unless
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: you guys get rid of me. I guess you guys
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: can do that. Please don't. Or men do.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I'll probably just.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Pick up crocheting or something. I don't know what I'd do.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: But anyway, for those of you who don't know, I
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: have that new channel with Selena. It's called Can't Sleep.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: If you guys want to check that out, it's also
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: on Spotify. I also have this channel. We know about
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: this one. And my second channel, Call Me Chris 2.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: If you just want to watch reacts and rereading Reddit
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: and all that, stuff. And yeah, I have a candy
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: company with my beautiful husband called Sour Boys, and we
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: come up with new flavors every week, and it's been
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: so fun. Very hard, but very fun. And there's a
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: lot more fun stuff coming, so I hope you guys
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: like it. And yeah, secrets up. I'm married. That's about it.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: And I will see you, beautiful face, in the next video. Okay? Bye!