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- 0:05This is Kevin Sportsfirit Daily here on one of five point nine Academy of m
- 0:10bringing you the Folkstone and Hive Sports Show. On today's show. In the
- 0:17first hour, we're joined by eleven year old Dexter who'll be cycling the equivalent
- 0:23distance of London to Brighton to help raise money for a cause called Ryley's Take
- 0:27a Seat Fund, and he will be joined by his dad Tim. In
- 0:35the second hour, we're joined by Martin Chandler, who this Sunday takes on
- 0:38the London Landmarks Half Marathon as he raises money for Evelena Children's Hospital. And
- 0:49then we'll be joined by Lisa Yorke, who is also running the London Landmarks
- 0:52Half. She wants to share her story after suffering a few low points in
- 0:57her life and now she's turned it around and is now helping others. So
- 1:07let's start a show with a cracking song from nineteen seventy six the Bellowie Brothers
- 1:11let Your Love Flow, and some local music Local music there by Lenny and
- 1:38before that the Bellamy Brothers with a great track to start a show from nineteen
- 1:42seventy six, So let your Love Flow. Okay, Now, this is
- 1:45a great story today. I'm really so pleased, and we've got these two
- 1:49guests in which joined now by Tim Drey and his son Dexter. Hello Tim,
- 1:53Hello Dexter, and welcome to the show, Kevin. Yeah, good,
- 1:56excellent. Now then we start with you, Dexter. We'll get you
- 1:59straight in to it. So tell us how old you are and what you're
- 2:01up to this Saturday. I'm eleven and on Saturday I'm doing a fifty four
- 2:07mile bike ride. Fifty four Wow, that is some distance. So I
- 2:12mean, are you really ready for this? Are you really ready to go?
- 2:15Hopefully? Yeah? Yeah? Good? All right. So I mean
- 2:20we're going to we're going to just find out all about the day because your
- 2:23dad's here, but we want to find out speak to your dad, Tim,
- 2:27Tim, I did all this start where it started? Last year we
- 2:32sadly lost our son, Dexter's older brother, and we've decided we wanted somewhere
- 2:38somewhere where his friends and family could go. So we acquired a bench on
- 2:44over harbor board on the Marina Curve and we were sat there one day and
- 2:49Dexter asked what the people do if they haven't got the money to pay for
- 2:53benches. Okay, and that's where Riley's Take a Seat Fund began. He
- 2:59just so I did that he was going to raise money to pay for benches
- 3:02and trees. All right, what a great idea. We originally only set
- 3:07out to raise five hundred pounds for one bench. Yeah yeah, and it's
- 3:10got bigger than we far, has it? Yeah yeah, far bigger than
- 3:14we ever thought. So yeah yeah, okay, And I mean I don't
- 3:20know how much as a bench cost. Well to have a plaque put on
- 3:23a bench, is five hundred pound is well on an existing bench? Yeah
- 3:29yeah? And he's paid for one, so that the people have now got
- 3:34that. We're now looking into maybe trees and plaques for people getting in touch
- 3:42with farriers because they were brilliant for us, and seeing about people who can't
- 3:50afford to have memorials to maybe have their name in the Book of Remembrance,
- 3:57yeah, or the plaques out burrom because we just feel that memorial places shouldn't
- 4:02be means dependent. So you're thinking of other people that perhaps might not be
- 4:06as fortunate as yourselves, that might be struggling to have somewhere to go to
- 4:11remember their loved ones. Ye. So how did you come up with the
- 4:15idea of a bike ride. Well, Dexter originally wanted to do the London
- 4:19to Brighton. Oh did you, Dexter? So you wanted to cycle from
- 4:24London to Brighton? Did you? Yeah? But you know old enough,
- 4:27no, And it's a bit of a challenge, isn't it. I mean
- 4:30it's a long way. I mean, I know you're going to do the
- 4:31same. That's a great idea actually, because you've got another member of the
- 4:35family that's done London to Brighton, haven't you. Who's that? My granddad,
- 4:39your granddad? Yeah, he has mail. You see, I know
- 4:41your granddad and I know male and I've known it for a long time and
- 4:46I know for a fact that he's done to London to Brighton and he's done
- 4:48it twice. And I could tell you this that in twenty eighteen he raised
- 4:54twelve hundred pound for mc millan Nurses Cancer and he said never again, never
- 4:59going to it again. And because this horrible thing called Ditchling Beacon gets in
- 5:03the way, it's a he all like that. Anyway, he went back
- 5:06in twenty twenty two. He was an hour and twenty minutes faster, but
- 5:11he still couldn't get up that hill. So you're lucky you're doing it on
- 5:13a nice flat sea for and aren't you anyway, Just we'll say this that
- 5:15that year he raised five hundred pounds for a Make a Wish foundation. So
- 5:20on Saturday, you are, he's joining you on Saturday, isn't Heah.
- 5:25He's a good person to have on board actually, because he's got the experience
- 5:29of cycling all that way. Do you think you're going to get any Are
- 5:33you going to have any problems on your bike? Is your bike all up
- 5:35to it and it's all been Yeah, so your bike's your bike's all raring
- 5:42to go, is it? Yeah? Good? Good, that's good.
- 5:44Okay, Tim, let's bring you back in. Have you had to have
- 5:46you had to go to any lengths to get this particular course, you know,
- 5:53permissions or anything like that. We did get in touch with the over
- 5:57Harbor Board to make sure that it was all right too to do it that
- 6:00day. They have a park run in the morning, so we can't start
- 6:03until eleven, but yeah, they said it was all right. Originally we
- 6:09wanted to make it a big event, another marquee and that there, but
- 6:13because of insurances, we had to scale it down a bit. It's still
- 6:17going to be a good day. And yeah it's great. I mean the
- 6:19weather doesn't look too bad actually at the moment, so fingers crossed now.
- 6:25I was actually at the very first park run at Dover, so I kind
- 6:30of know the course. But what shocked me was the bit around the back
- 6:34They call the curve, don't they. And I've always we've always walked from
- 6:39like that restaurant up to the other end and back and it wasn't utill I
- 6:44was at the first part run and Amy, the lady was the race director.
- 6:49She said, oh, we go. You know, there's the curve
- 6:50around there and I said, the curve? What's that? So I had
- 6:54to walk around there and it's a lovely focal space, isn't it. And
- 6:58is that where the benches? Yep, that's where Riley's bench is about halfway
- 7:01up. That's where Dexter will be starting, So that would be your focal
- 7:04point you start on the finish. Yeah, sorides from from the bench down
- 7:10to the other end to the coffee be on the road or is he allowed
- 7:12to go on the on the on the on the promenade because there's a cycle
- 7:15path is there. Oh yeah, of course there is. Yeah, And
- 7:17it's funny. You know, I've walked that so many times, and now
- 7:23you said it, I realized this is I think I had a few cyclists
- 7:25win ting ting as they went by, and then you ran me over.
- 7:27Yes, so you have to be to make sure you don't run anybody over,
- 7:30Dexter. Okay, Well we're going to take a little break now,
- 7:32but we're going to come back because there's loads more we want to talk about.
- 7:35But I found this a lovely little song and I think it's just perfect
- 7:40for what you're doing on Saturday. I want to ride man and where there's
- 8:00special song for dex today, and that'll be buzzing around in his head all
- 8:05day Saturday. You probably won't want to see another bicycle after Saturday night,
- 8:11right, Dexter. Let's bring you in there. Let's talk about this bike
- 8:15ride then. So you're going to start off around the curve and it's going
- 8:18to go right to the end along the cycle path. Is that correct?
- 8:22Yeah? Yeah, okay? And will anybody be joining you? I know
- 8:28your granddad is, but you've got any friends going to come along? I
- 8:31think one of my friends might be right, So your bike. Have you
- 8:35been getting it ready? Let's talk about the bicycle side of things. Do
- 8:39you know how to change a puncture? No, well that's what your dad's
- 8:43there for, isn't it it. Yeah, And so your bike's all tip
- 8:48top ready to go? Yeah? Yeah, right, have you been training
- 8:50much? You've been doing out on your bike just to get a little feel
- 8:52for it? Yeah? Yeah. And you've got how many miles have you
- 8:56got to do? Fifty four? Fifty four? So how many up and
- 9:01times up and down? You know? Got one lap half far? Is
- 9:03one lap that will be twenty seven there and backs twenty seven So there's fifty
- 9:09four, isn't it. So? Also it's a mile there and a mile
- 9:13back. Oh that's hay in it. Yeah, fifty four. So fifty
- 9:16four that sounds a long way. So you're gonna have a little sleep halfways,
- 9:20you think, fully not? Yeah, No, Well I've looked at
- 9:24the weather and it looks quite nice, because I was chatting with Mail last
- 9:26week actually and he said it didn't look too good. But it's funny the
- 9:30old BBC. Yeah, the weather changes the closer you get to the day.
- 9:33Back to you, Tim, So you've got you've got all the on
- 9:37the bicycle side of things. You've got all the kit down there if it
- 9:39gets a puncture, or you've got all your spanners on that, have you?
- 9:43Yeah, yeah, well I will have yeah. Yeah, I'm designated
- 9:46pitt Man. Okay, yeah yeah, and all the rest of the family
- 9:50coming down. Yeah. Yeah. A few friends have said they'll swing by
- 9:54as well. Yeah. I think a few of male's friends have said they'll
- 9:58come and do a couple of laps. Right, Mum's going to be doing
- 10:01a lap with him, you see, are good well, Dexter. I'm
- 10:05pretty sure that the family are out there listening. So if you want to
- 10:07say a few hellos to your family, Hi, Mum, I'm on the
- 10:11radio. Yeah, and hide done high Bluebell and maz we'll bet the dog
- 10:18and the cat and the budget you've got any of them. No, she
- 10:24won't be listening. She's upstairs probably watching. Oh well we can say anyway.
- 10:28Right, so this sounds like a big team event. Now you've got
- 10:33Ryley's bench's all paid for and all sorted. Yeah yeah, but you've got
- 10:37a nice pot of money to distribute to other people, and so what are
- 10:43you going to do with that? Because the councils are not taking any applications
- 10:50for new benches. Like you said, we've got this pot of money,
- 10:54so we've decided to pay for trees and plaques, to pay for people to
- 10:58plant in gardens, and then also the price of the plaques and the book
- 11:03of remembrance at Barron is it's a lot. I mean, once you've you've
- 11:09paid for that day. Very rarely have you got one hundred and fifty pounds
- 11:13to put a name in a book. Yeah, So we're going to we're
- 11:16going to speak to farriers and say, anyone who you feel is struggling and
- 11:22we can't there is that pool of money there for them. So farriers were
- 11:26the undertakers, were they? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, they were brilliant,
- 11:30especially a lady killed Sarah. Oh yeah, that's good diamond, Yeah,
- 11:33excellent. Something you don't think of, actually, you signing a book
- 11:37of remembrance and having to pay for it. So have you thought of any
- 11:41idea? So farriers are going to help you in this. I suppose they've
- 11:45got the understanding and the kind of knowledge that you'd be looking forward to.
- 11:50We haven't contacted them yet because we want to know the exact pool that we
- 11:54can donate. Yeah, well you have a cut off time to say,
- 11:58right, that's it, you know, it's the end of end of April.
- 12:01Yeah, right, Well we're coming to all that go fund me just
- 12:05before we go. But this is also my idea, Dexter, and so
- 12:09you've really got to be praised for it. Just tell me how how you
- 12:15thought of this this idea in the first place when he was preps sitting on
- 12:18Royali's bench. So we were sat on the bench and then we took a
- 12:24walk to the end of the curve and there was like a couple of benches
- 12:28left, and I thought that some people might not be able to afford benches
- 12:33because they were quite expensive. Yeah, So then I asked my mum how
- 12:39I do you have to be to start charity and then she said that I
- 12:43could start one now if I wanted to. So then my mum and dad
- 12:46like help sort everything out. And then it was all your idea, was
- 12:52it? Yeah that is brilliant. Yeah, that's fantastic. And Tim,
- 12:56how much is actually in your pot now? So far we're just over three
- 13:01thousand and five hundred really, oh wow, that is mo. Yeah,
- 13:05it's still climbing. We have a raffle going, so tickets can be purchased
- 13:11through the go fund me page. Some excellent prizes there's a Eurotunnel day trip.
- 13:16Oh I wonder where that came from. Thank you, Mill Tatoo vouchers
- 13:22from Merlin's in tatoists and Dover driving lessons from Lighthouse Driving ten three driving lessons.
- 13:31They're based in Folkston. So yeah, there's still there's plenty of prizes
- 13:35and if anyone wants to buy raffle tickets, yeah, we'll come to that,
- 13:41right. So I'm sure Tim, and I'm sure Dexter you've got you
- 13:46want to thank people, so Tim will start with you. I just want
- 13:50to say thank you to first of all Dover Harbor Board for allowing us to
- 13:56do it that day, Merlin Tattoos, Eurotunnel, Lighthouse Driving, thank you
- 14:03for the prizes. Thank you to everyone who's donated prizes. Thank you for
- 14:07the Sea Angling Association Club and Over. They have given us their whole to
- 14:11do the raffle and have a little shindig after. I think Dexter's going to
- 14:18need it. He won't be at a stand up maybe he's still in a
- 14:20sitting down position, I think, But yeah, thank you to everyone who's
- 14:26donated. Mate, this what it is, and this is Dexter's brainchild.
- 14:31He's designed the logo, he's decided the name. Everything still business, okay,
- 14:39Dexter. So will you be at sleep Friday night? Do you think
- 14:43will you be too excited? You might need your sleep? Actually, probably
- 14:46best to try and get some need. But I'm not sure i'll be able
- 14:50to. Like Christmas is and when the next day is going to be exciting,
- 14:56he will be Yeah, I can't sleep, Yeah, I know.
- 14:58Yeah sleep Saturday, Yeah, you're right there. And Sunday. Yeah,
- 15:03it's because you'll be not at school. You've got a week off, another
- 15:07week of right. So so Tim is time to wrap it up now,
- 15:11So let's let's get down to the nitty gree. Just remind our listeners and
- 15:16please listen us. If you're out there and you're like, you know,
- 15:18you're warm into this story and you want to go along, Tim's going to
- 15:22tell us where you can go. And perhaps even if you just do a
- 15:24lap and make a donation, that would be a great idea and you'll be
- 15:26doing something really really special. And to be honest, I think this is
- 15:30something that no one's ever thought of before. This is a unique idea from
- 15:35an eleven year old, So let's let's learn by it. So, Tim,
- 15:37when and where is it going to be? So it will be on
- 15:41oversea front from the curve. That will be this Saturday. And it starts
- 15:46at eleven eleven, right, and it finishes about three o'clock the next day,
- 15:50doesn't it finish week Saturday? Yeah? And so you've got a go
- 15:58fund me page, But how can people get in touch with that? Can
- 16:03they go directly or can they go through your Facebook page or have you got
- 16:07a special Facebook pace out? Yep, we've got a Facebook page. Riley's
- 16:11take a seat fund Riley spelled r y elie y. All the details are
- 16:17on there, everything that Dexter's doing, we'll go on there. All the
- 16:22details for the go fund me, the details for the ride and the raffle.
- 16:30So the cutoff point is end of April, and then you can announce
- 16:34just how much you pay, right, Okay, Well, Dexter, Tim,
- 16:38thank you so much for coming on. Good luck for Saturday. I
- 16:41mean, you're doing something to help others. It's really commendable. And this
- 16:45is making you know your school, your parents, or your family really proud
- 16:48of you, so so Tim, thanks for bringing Dexter on and I just
- 16:52want to issue both all the best and good luck for Saturday. Thanks for
- 16:57having us on. What a brilliant story. And once the end of April
- 17:02is up, we will let you know just how much the fund made and
- 17:07just exactly where it's gone. As the hole is there there that I breathe.
- 17:25Okay, time to turn their attentions now to the Folkston ten Now Good
- 17:30Friday. I was on the MIC at the fortieth birthday of the Folks and
- 17:33Running and Athletics Club ten mile race. The limit was set at eight hundred
- 17:37and it was a sellout, which is a shame really for some of those
- 17:40that couldn't get a place because according to the race results, only six hundred
- 17:44and eighty five actually run the race, meaning one hundred and fifteen runners didn't
- 17:48turn up. It seems to be the trend actually, which is a shame.
- 17:52High tides the night before caused a huge amount of shingle to be washed
- 17:55up on the Sandgate Promenade section and an urgent call was put out for volunteers
- 17:59to go up with their brooms and sweep the path, which they did.
- 18:02Magnificently. Now, if you managed to track down any photos of the on
- 18:06the Facebook on the Folkston page, you just see what a great job they
- 18:11did. The place was absolutely you couldn't see the path, it was just
- 18:12smothered and shingle. Now, the race was started by Mike Gratton, who
- 18:17actually won the very first race forty years ago. Mike is a local lad
- 18:21and it was good to see him back in his hometown. The race was
- 18:25won by Josh Carr from the Cambridge and Coleridge Club in a time of fifty
- 18:29three minutes twelve seconds, but all the runners had to battle with a fierce
- 18:33wind that got up just as the race started, and one cheeky athlete said,
- 18:37well, thanks for providing forty mile an hour winds. Are this on
- 18:40your fortieth anniversary? However, Mike Grant's course record still stands at forty eight
- 18:47minutes forty five seconds, which he is held since nineteen eighty five. And
- 18:52after the race I managed to catch up with him and his partner Amy,
- 18:55who actually ran the race. So let's have a little listen. So I've
- 18:59just had a lovely day here down at the green at Hive and the folks
- 19:03in ten is now over, and I'm joined by the gentleman who won the
- 19:06very very first race forty years ago. Hello Mike, how are you?
- 19:08I'm very good. Thank you, it's so good to see you. How'd
- 19:11you feel about coming back here. I'm happy to come back and completely didn't
- 19:15run because it's a bit windy. You're right it was. We've been hearing
- 19:18about that later from your partner Amy, who did actually run it. But
- 19:22take us back to your early days of your school and how you sort of
- 19:26broke into running. Yeah, my dad was in the Army. We were
- 19:30stationed in Germany and the school I went to there had into Service Schools championships
- 19:37and I did the eight hundred meters. School needed someone to do it,
- 19:40so I put my hand up and I finished second. So next thing is
- 19:44my dad was stationed back at Shorncliffe and this was his last stationing, so
- 19:48he bought a house in Cheriton. I went to more Horse School for my
- 19:51O levels and while I was there, the pe teacher stuff suggested I're going
- 19:56on to the local running club, which was obviously Folkson, and in no
- 20:00days we trained on a little grass circuit down back of State Street before we
- 20:03moved there up to Shorncliffe on the Cina track, the Ciner track. I
- 20:07remember that because we used to race around the cinder track. But the cinder
- 20:11track's not there unfortunately. But we have got a lovely brand new running track
- 20:15behind the Three Hill Sports Park anyway, Sorry I digressed, that's right.
- 20:18So I'm pleased they have because we campaigned right back in the early days of
- 20:22the Folks and Sports Center at Bagnon Park and we helped raise money for that
- 20:26to mere help hope at the time we will get a running track, maybe
- 20:29at the cricket stadium. It never happened, but now it happens. Yeah,
- 20:33yeah good. So I mean, how did you break in? You
- 20:37so you're with folks at running club in your school days. The next step
- 20:41it was through school really. I got entered into the district school's cross country
- 20:45which was that brock Hill, uh. And then from there I got into
- 20:48the district team for the county cross country as an intermedia, got in the
- 20:53Kent team and then the English School Championships were at Luton. So I finished
- 20:56about one hundred and fortieth I think in that and that really sort of made
- 21:00me think I'm a county level runner. So that summer I made the English
- 21:03Schools track and field team, finished seventh in the fifteen hundred and went on
- 21:07to win the English Schools five thousand meters three years later, and by then
- 21:11I was doing a pe course at college, starting to think about the marathon.
- 21:15Then the marathon boom started and there was ideal timing for me. Yeah.
- 21:18Good, So there's forty years ago. But it's funny that those early
- 21:22clubs. For example, last weekend I was in Hastings to watch that they
- 21:26are half marathons and there was also their fortieth anniversary. So those clubs are
- 21:30boomed in the in the eighties and they are still around. It's forty years
- 21:33ago, it is, and it's it's the first London Mountains started all that
- 21:37up because there were lots of little club races Tombridge ten, Thant ten.
- 21:41They all existed, but they were quite small. Yeah, and then all
- 21:45of a sudden there's this new boom of runners who wanted to run the London
- 21:48Mountain needed to start somewhere, so lots of running clubs can Toby Harriers,
- 21:52South Kent in this area of folks and obviously just absorbed all these new runners
- 21:57and suddenly there was a need for play more races on the seafront and Folks
- 22:00and half Mountains and Hastings. Yeah, it didn't exist before. That's right.
- 22:04Now we're also joined by Amy, Mike's partner Amy. You had the
- 22:08pleasure of running today, didn't you? I did? Hell was it?
- 22:11Because it was a very breezy when I got out of the car this morning
- 22:14on the course, I got straight back in, So hell's it for running?
- 22:17It was breezy, but it was breezy for all of us. So
- 22:19this was my first time doing the Folkeston ten and great on the way out
- 22:25and you had to dig deep and work hard on the way back, but
- 22:27really well supported, really enjoyed it. And there's no hills, no hills,
- 22:32totally flat. It's not is it definitely not. It's not like that's
- 22:37not like Scottish shows. But yeah, no, it was good. It
- 22:40was good out and back, straightforward and you just had to dig deep.
- 22:44Yeah, yeah good. How does it compare to some of your other races?
- 22:48I mean you've probably done you've done loads and loads of races, but
- 22:52yeah, is it is it sort of an easy one? You think,
- 22:53I know, the conditions are tough, but conditions are tough for everybody.
- 22:56Easy one probably if you're on your game, yeah, and if you piece
- 23:03it right. But yeah, it's good open back, it's straightforward. You
- 23:06can get into kind of your your rhythm. Let's just see so you can
- 23:10keep that rhythm. But you can't. You could do negative splits, but
- 23:14unfortunately for me to do it was positive. You were there taking part.
- 23:19Lovely see you. Yeah, okay, finding back to you, Mike.
- 23:22There, We're going to just have a little shout out for two O nine
- 23:26events because I bump into you over in Cyprus, and so how's two O
- 23:30nine events going. They're doing well. I've taken semi retirement because I'm seventy
- 23:33in November, but I'm still enjoying going to Cyprus and just come back from
- 23:40Portugal. Hence I've got a bit of a suntan and that's the coaching side.
- 23:42But we're still doing the New York Mouth, in Chicago Mouth and all
- 23:45those things, and it's a pleasurable side of industry. The office stuff I
- 23:49don't go and do anymore, the good stuff I still do. Yeah,
- 23:53Mike, it's been a pleasure to talk to you and you today. Thank
- 23:56you so much. For coming back and it's so nice. You've got a
- 23:59little place in your heart, folks. And then the folks in too.
- 24:00It all started. Yeah, thank you so much. Okay, it's a
- 24:03pleasure, so great catch up there with Mike and Amy and it sounds like
- 24:08they're going to be back now. I mentioned his company two o nine Events.
- 24:12Well two o nine actually was the time that he won the London Marathon
- 24:15in nineteen eighty three. So if you ever fancy running a marathon in places
- 24:19like China, Greenland, South Africa, Sydney and many more exotic venues,
- 24:25just google two o nine Events. But they do also organize events at home.
- 24:30Now myself and missus Ferrett now Mike would have known her back in the
- 24:33day as Superville. Now we volunteer for him at the four Days Cypress Challenge,
- 24:37which is held in November this year. This is where we mix a
- 24:40holiday with a bit of giving back something to the sport we both love and
- 24:44that's running. Now, before I close this report, a massive thank you
- 24:47must go to race director and former guest of the show, Margaret Whittam and
- 24:51all the running members who gave up their time to Marshall and as I said,
- 24:55earlier to sweep the shingle of the promenade. Four members of the club
- 24:59were given world card. Torbyn Jessen was first in the Vet sixty age group
- 25:03in a time of one hour, four minutes, five seconds. Tom o'
- 25:06murray was annext in one hour eleven twenty three. Hazel Green was first female
- 25:11VET fifty five in one hour seventeen fifteen, and Ivanna Cullier was finishing just
- 25:17behind Hazel in one hour twenty one fifty seven. A big thank you must
- 25:22also go to club store with Dave Danya, whose idea forty years ago it
- 25:26was to start the race. He's also served many years as a runner,
- 25:30race director, secretary and treasurer and somehow I don't think we've seen the last
- 25:34of him. So all in all, a good day all round. So
- 25:37time for a bit of music now, and we've got altered images and if
- 25:41it is your birthday out there, happy birthday. Also dimages there from nineteen
- 25:57eighty one, and for anyone who's got a birthday out there, happy birthday.
- 26:03Okay, time for some netball news now. Last Saturday, the Folks
- 26:06in Netball League held their annual Easter tournament at the three Hills. It was
- 26:10well supported with ten teams taking part. Some team names where they come from
- 26:14Folkstone, they were familiar and some have come from outside the area. Now
- 26:18the results pick A Mix took the bronze trophy, Silver Ferns Well they took
- 26:22the silver trophy and taking the gold trophy were RDM Sharks. Other teams involved
- 26:29were Falcons, Barretts, Woodpeckers, Vipers, Tigers, Rough Diamonds and the
- 26:33Spice Goals. Star player of the tournament was Katie from RDM Sharks and the
- 26:38best umpire was Ange Bates. Now, the feedback from the tournament was good,
- 26:42so if you want to get involved with the netball then check out the
- 26:45folks in the Netball League of Facebook page and thanks once again to Hannah Palmer
- 26:51for that information. Now a bit of a music tribute time. Unfortunately,
- 26:55it's time for another tribute to a musician who sadly passed away. Now the
- 26:59name r Is Cross might not be familiar to you, but he was a
- 27:02co writer of a song made famous back in the early eighties by his group
- 27:06Ultravox, who released the song Vienna in nineteen eighty one. Miture was the
- 27:11front man for Ultravox, but it seems that all the band members had a
- 27:15hand in writing this classic track. One story goes that they were writing this
- 27:18love song set in Vienna and putting a lot of classical influence into the composition.
- 27:23When midure at the time he said to the producer he said, do
- 27:27you know what? He said? This means nothing to me, to which
- 27:30the producer said, oh, that's a great line. We put that in
- 27:33the song. Anyway, the song only made it to number two as it
- 27:36was kept off the top spot by would you believe it, Joe Dulce's shut
- 27:40up at your face. That's a real travesty of justice. That was now.
- 27:44Bassist Chris Cross passed away on March twenty fifth, but the news was
- 27:48not shared with the public until this week. Whilst his name is not so
- 27:52well known, the song he played a part in writing We live on for
- 27:55a long long time. So let's have a little listen to Ultravox and Vienna
- 28:19the arrhythmics. They're from nineteen eighty three. Right by your side. Now,
- 28:26I just want to put this little bit in. It's a wheelchair basketball.
- 28:30Now, if you get a chance, go down to the Folks and
- 28:33Sports Center and watch these guys in action. It really is exciting. It
- 28:37really is is like so fast, you know. And Folks have got a
- 28:41team called the Arrows and they're in the league and at the moment their top.
- 28:48But so we want to wish them good luck for Saturday because on Saturday
- 28:52at the Folks and Sports Center they welcome a team from Cardiff in Wales called
- 28:56Cardiff met Archers. Now this is in there to stay top of the league.
- 29:03Next week they travel back down to Cardiff, which is their final game
- 29:06of the season. Now they've really got to win both games to stay in
- 29:08contention of winning the league because Cardiff have got two games in hand. And
- 29:14you just see that the way this game goes, it's just like end to
- 29:17end. It really is such exciting stuff. Now, I would suggest that
- 29:22you find out a little bit more about it if you go to the Folks
- 29:26and Arrows Wheelchair basketball site and check it out, and why not pop down
- 29:30there. And you can also probably when the league is finished, they carry
- 29:34on training. You can go down and try it yourself. Because what they
- 29:38do you don't have to be if you like disabled, you can be able
- 29:42bodied and they strap you into a wheelchair makes it a level playfield, but
- 29:48it's really worth a try, and I think you should go down down and
- 29:51have a little got Okay, So we're going to play a little song now,
- 29:53and this is a strange old song, but it's by Nina Cherry and
- 29:59it's called seven secon Now. We had a gift in here once and I
- 30:02played this song and she said to me, when I was being born,
- 30:06my mum would have played this song right at the berth. So they were
- 30:10going push no, no yet seven seconds. This is Kevin's Sports Very Daily
- 30:32here on one of five point nine Academy of m and you're joining me for
- 30:36the second hour of the Sports Show, and we've got a fully packed show
- 30:38today coming up. In this hour, we'll be chatting to Martin Chandler,
- 30:45who this Sunday takes on the London Landmarks half marathon as he raises money for
- 30:49Evelena Children's Hospital. And then we'll be joined by Lisa Yorke who's also running
- 30:56the London Landmarks but she wants to share her story after suffering a few low
- 31:00points in her life, how she turned it around and is now helping others.
- 31:11So don't go away. Have you got the kettle on two sugars for
- 31:15me. So we're going to listen to get the show, get this second
- 31:21out, going to Banana Rama and then some local music. Okay. So
- 31:42now we're joined in the studio by Martin Chandler. Hello Martin, and welcome
- 31:47to the show. Okay, thanks, thanks for inviting me in today.
- 31:48Ye're welcome. Now they're Martin. Last time you were in a studio,
- 31:52you and your friend Craig Smith. We're just about to run the London Marathon.
- 31:56And what was that six seven years a seven years ago? Yeah,
- 32:00yeah, dear, so what so what you're up to this time? So
- 32:04this Sunday, I'm running the London Landmarks half marathon. Half marathon sounds a
- 32:08bit more doable, Yes, I think it is. Yeah, okay,
- 32:12And so the London Landmarks sounds quite impressive. If you're a foreign tourist or
- 32:19you're on holiday, this must be quite quite a course. What sort of
- 32:22course is it? Yeah? I think obviously it's a bit of an easier
- 32:27course to the London Marathon. But they you start kind of along the mall,
- 32:32running through the city up the strand there's a lot of iconic landmarks.
- 32:38You've got your likes of Big Ben London, Eye, Sarah London, all
- 32:44the way through Trafagar Square, Nelson's column. So yes, there's a lot.
- 32:47That's why. Obviously it's called the Landmarks. Yes, and what a
- 32:52great And I say, if anybody's come from abroad and wants they just see
- 32:54London, then run around it. Yeah, just sign up and fine.
- 32:59Okay. So now last time you were you were raising money for a charity,
- 33:05and you're doing the same, So tell us about the charity and what
- 33:08are you're raising money for. So I'm running raising money for the Evelena Children's
- 33:13Hospital. So it's got a little fact on them about who and how it
- 33:17when it when they started. So they were founded in eighteen sixty nine by
- 33:22by an Austrian baron called Ferdinand's the Rothschild, and he named the hospital after
- 33:30after his wife Evelina, who sadly passed away in childbirth like three years before.
- 33:37Okay, so that's where the kind of the history of the hospital comes
- 33:40from. That's a good little story actually, because some of these names they
- 33:44could roll off the tongue. You know, Evelina. We all know it's
- 33:47children's hospital, but up until today I never knew you know what the history
- 33:52of it was. So that's opened my eyes a little bit. But you've
- 33:55got a little story your involvement back in the day when you did to London,
- 34:00you was heavily involved with the hospital interns recap of what happened in those
- 34:06days. Yes. So my son Cameron's now twenty two. He had a
- 34:10kidney transplant February twenty fifteen. His mum Tanya, she was the donor.
- 34:17Sure, yes, I remember now, yes, yeah, and yeah.
- 34:22So it's just like a it was a tough time, you know what I
- 34:27mean, going through it all for everybody, the family. But obviously now
- 34:32he's come through. He's what nine years post transplant and he's a fully adult
- 34:40now, he's twenty two years old. Thing now, Yeah, he's doing
- 34:44his own thing. He's a barber in Folkeston. Yeah. So one of
- 34:49the things he did say so it's the shops called man Cave, Foston.
- 34:53So he's been doing that now for over a year. I really enjoying it.
- 35:00So, but yeah, it was the hospital are great. Yeah,
- 35:04the support they give the families. Yea, when when we was up there,
- 35:07Tanua went back up after the operation and they you stand a lot in
- 35:13the ronin McDonald house. You make a you make a small donation for the
- 35:17key, and that's where you kind of live. Because it was traveling back
- 35:23daily for blood tests and making sure it was okay, et cetera. And
- 35:29that was for about two three months at the beginning, and then after that
- 35:34was managed to it was home instead had to kind of travel up every every
- 35:38three days three days, yeah, yeah, just to make sure everything was
- 35:44everything was all right and there was no signs of kind of rejection and stuff
- 35:47like that. So but yeah, there there were a specialist hospital, there's
- 35:52the there's wards for kidneys, there's wards for hearts, lungs. So every
- 35:58floor has a as it's specific kind of So when Tanya was up there,
- 36:02you says Evelena Children's Hospital, Was she actually in the hospital, So she
- 36:06was in Guys Guys right, No, was she in Guys? Yes,
- 36:08she was in Guys and that's probably ten to fifteen minutes away. So the
- 36:15first when we was up there, Tanya was in that hospital they would the
- 36:19operation would take that would be there to remove her kidney and then gets transported
- 36:23over to Evelena and then obviously given to Cam. Yeah, so it was
- 36:30kind of I was there, Tanya went down and then went over to cam
- 36:36Cam then went down. That must have been. Yeah, yeah, so
- 36:40frustrated, you know, so worrying for you know, yeah, two of
- 36:44your family in the hospital. Different and support from friend's family. Tanner's mum
- 36:49she was, she was there as well. Just a lot holding the fort
- 36:52really because I've got two other little children as well, so at the time.
- 36:58But yeah, you get through it from support with everybody around. But
- 37:02glad to say, now he's twenty two and he's doing it and does he
- 37:05still have to have check ups or yes, even attends Canterbury now, so
- 37:08he's moved from Evelina. Yeah, so they've got a unit at Canterbury where
- 37:13he goes every two to three months just to make sure that his levels are
- 37:16good and yeah and bits like that. So genus medication for his life.
- 37:21Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh well with surprise worth paying, isn't
- 37:23it Canterbury and then here. And it's one of the things that where when
- 37:29you have a transplant, it's not a cure, no, it's kind of
- 37:31it's you they need the transplant to help. And that's what the message to
- 37:37get across to people that it's not just a cure kind of it's an ongoing
- 37:42you know what I mean, be monitored for Yeah, yeah, okay.
- 37:45Now, back in the day when you and Craig run the London the Marathon.
- 37:51Sorry, how much did you raise any in that time? Ran,
- 37:53I think it was about seven thousand, was it? Yeah? Yeah,
- 37:57so we had to raise two and a half thousand each. Yeah, but
- 38:00yeah, we've managed to go a bit over that, yeah, which is
- 38:04nice, fantastic. Okay, Well, we're going to come back. We're
- 38:07going to play a bit of music. Now, we're going to come back
- 38:08because we're going to speak about you now, how your train is going and
- 38:13the logistics of getting up to London when there's rail strikes on or warbly rails
- 38:17are broken and rail bus replacement buses and stuff like that. So don't go
- 38:22away body, Blondie and call me. Okay, So we're back in the
- 38:45studio. We're joined by Martin and Martin I'm a bit curious to that all
- 38:51the money that you raised over eight thousand pounds last time, does that go
- 38:55into a big pot or is there like a project that you can you know,
- 39:00say it was wanted to go towards this particular project. Yeah. So
- 39:05originally, yes, it would have would have gone into a kind of the
- 39:08big Evelyna Fund, but I managed to find out that we could actually redirect
- 39:13it to a certain unit. So what I managed to do is speak to
- 39:17Cam's consultant and I could have I added a code that goes on in the
- 39:22background to my just Giving page which redirects it straight into the Transplant Fund.
- 39:28Okay, so she kind of keeps an eye on what comes in and then
- 39:32how they can use it. And one of the main things that we that
- 39:37is used for is the children of you. There's something called the Transplant Games,
- 39:44and it just goes toward There's a massive cost, it can be anything.
- 39:47It can be up to about sixty thousand pounds just to put the event
- 39:51on and for the kids to go. So any kind of funding that raising
- 39:55that I've done always adds the code to my just given pays it goes directly
- 40:00to that because sometimes it could get lost. That's right, Yeah, idea
- 40:04they might only get ten percent of what we raise. Yeah, so yeah,
- 40:07that's and Cam was part of the Transplant Games as well. He entered
- 40:12so I remember that. Yes, yeah, he did it for a number
- 40:15of years, didn't it, Yeah, about five years and come away.
- 40:17I think he ended up being about ten ten medals. I think he won.
- 40:22There's the competition ball throw that he won five years on the bounce,
- 40:27Yeah, gold every time. So but yeah, that's that's really kind of
- 40:30it's good that you can redirect it into certain to do certain things right.
- 40:35And now you briefly mentioned and I ever had people in here before talk about
- 40:38Ronald McDonald houses. So you stayed in one of those, did you?
- 40:42So just explain him because I think this goes under the radar a bit.
- 40:45Ronald Donald's so good. Yeah. So it's like a home from home,
- 40:52and when you've got families with children in the hospitals, it's like a big
- 41:00kind of hotel if you like a lot of rooms and you kind of pay
- 41:05a deposit for a key to a room and there's no set time, so
- 41:09you could be there for two months, three months. And this is right
- 41:14close by the yea, it's about yeah, about ten fifteen minutes from the
- 41:16hospital, and they put on bus travel between the house and the hospital.
- 41:22But you can imagine the cost if you didn't have that hosy, if you
- 41:28had to stay, if you stay there a couple of weeks in there,
- 41:30every day out. Yeah and yeah, and the traveling Court, so yeah,
- 41:32and I think it does go a little bit under the radar of how
- 41:36that the Ronald McDonald will help out the family so much. That is a
- 41:40massive, massive help. It's a huge worry taken off for appearance sholders,
- 41:45isn't it. Definitely? Okay, So let's let's just switch back to the
- 41:49London Landmarks. And now you've completed a marathon. But did you think I'll
- 41:54hang my trainers up after that and never want to run again? But now
- 41:57you're back doing a half? How's the training been going? And that's going
- 42:00really well. Started mid November. Had to lose a little bit of wait
- 42:02first, so yeah, started November and finish my final run yesterday, fine
- 42:09or five k yesterday, so nice, easy couple of days now. But
- 42:14yeah, I've got up to run up to eighteen eighteen k about ten days
- 42:19ago. So but yeah, it was tough because it wasn't the nicest of
- 42:23miserable. It has been miserable wind and rain, so it's quite tough to
- 42:30motivate yourself. But when you're running for a charity like I am, Evelyna,
- 42:34it's keep you going. It does keep you going. You can just
- 42:36look down at your vest and kind of get through that right then moments.
- 42:39Yeah, and it must be with the experience of one marathon under your bill.
- 42:47I won't say it's going to be easy, but you know what to
- 42:50expect, don't you. And it's not so much pressure put onto you.
- 42:52Yeah, I think half is easily a doable distance for probably a lot of
- 42:58people. But yeah, I think knowing it's only thirteen point one miles rather
- 43:04than twenty six point two is a big is a big thing. Yeah.
- 43:07So but yeah, there's you're trying not to put too much pressure on yourself,
- 43:10but on the other end, you're running for the chair and you want
- 43:14to complete it. Yeah course, yeah, yeah, And are you collecting
- 43:19money this time as well? Got yeah, So when you do for the
- 43:22half marathon, the target's only three hundred and fifty pound, which is reasonable.
- 43:27Yea, So today I've managed to kind of nearly double it. So
- 43:30I'm up to six hundred and fifteen so far, which is which is really
- 43:34good. Will this go into that? Is that fun? Still going straight
- 43:37into the project to the projects for the transplant Games. This year, which
- 43:42it's in Nottingham this year. So yeah, everything like I said, I've
- 43:46done, I'll keep that code added to the to the page so I know
- 43:50where it kind of goes. And Cam's been involved in that, the family
- 43:54has been involved in it, so I just think it's right. Yeah,
- 43:58keep going to keep to help them through. Yah, because like I say,
- 44:00there's a a big cost. Yeah, you're so right there and so
- 44:06sixteen thousand people. I mean there's a few issues with the trains at the
- 44:09moment because they've got some damage lines. But tell us the logistics how you're
- 44:14getting up there. So starting at Folkston West probably about eight thirty Sunday morning.
- 44:20Replacement bus is the first leg of the journey. But luckily it's only
- 44:23to Ashford, So get up to Ashford, then on the fast train straight
- 44:28through to St Pancras and then I think it's a free stop on the underground
- 44:34to Green Park. So hopefully up there within an hour and a half.
- 44:37Yeah, family coming up with you. Yes, Yeah, they'll be getting
- 44:39the truck probably the later train after me, will they be. They'll be
- 44:44on the route somewhere. You'll be looking at my Dad's planned a little route
- 44:46and he's open to see me. I think three places. So yeah.
- 44:52So Tanny is coming up with the kids as well, so good day around
- 44:58then. Yeah, so it doesn't rain, Yeah, it's done look too
- 45:00bad at the weekend actually, So right to Martin, I thank you so
- 45:06much for coming in now. Is there anything else you want to add to
- 45:07this or are we just going to wind it up there and give out the
- 45:10just giving page just to cut the thank you? Yes, so obviously,
- 45:15I just want to thank everybody who's donated so far, the hospital, the
- 45:20staff at the hospital have been great, from right at the beginning or the
- 45:24up to now going into Canterbury. Friends, family, everyone who's supported me
- 45:30along the way, and Craig when we've done the marathon, and the wife
- 45:36Tanya as well, she's like the backbone brilliant so she supports me through the
- 45:40training me coming in so yeah, yeah, we've all been there. Yeah.
- 45:49I just want to wish you the best and it's nice that we've found
- 45:52out now a bit more about the history of Evelina and a little bit more
- 45:57about the great work that to Ronald McDonald houses do, which is so they're
- 46:02kind of two a link together. It's so important to keep this going and
- 46:07keep the word of mouth out there. And just well done to you for
- 46:10raising all that money and sending it in a direct project that you can still
- 46:14be involved with. So good luck for Sunday Thanksgiving. Cheers all of those
- 46:30there from nineteen eighty one and I can't go for that, okay, Well,
- 46:34of course we've got this really pack shown now today, so let's go
- 46:37out one hundred miles an hour and head off for the football Easter. There
- 46:40is always a busy time for local senior football, so let's go over our
- 46:44team's results. Folks in Victor played two games with mixed success. Good Friday
- 46:49they beat Lewis three to one with two goals from Tom Derry and one from
- 46:52Sados and Ogo. That was in front of six hundred and fifty two spectators.
- 46:57Then on Easter Monday, in front of a crowd of twice that side,
- 47:00which was one thy seven hundred and nineteen to be exact, they were
- 47:04away at haste things but they lost two to one, conceding a goal in
- 47:07the first minute and in the thirty seventh minute. They pulled one back just
- 47:10before halftime to make it to one at the break. But that's how it
- 47:14stayed until the final whistle. This sees them in sixteenth place, fifteen points
- 47:19above the relegation zone with forty five points. The bottom three a Margate thirty
- 47:23points, Harringay Burrow twenty four points and Kingstonian twenty one points, all with
- 47:29five games to play this Saturday season at home to Horsham, who are currently
- 47:34in fifth place and would definitely be going for it as they are trying to
- 47:37hang on to that last playoff place. Higtown had a miserable weekend, losing
- 47:42both their Easter games. They lost one nil to Mursdam at home on Saturday,
- 47:45conceding a goal in the third minute from a corner and they couldn't find
- 47:49their way back into the game. Then on Monday they traveled away to Sheppey
- 47:52and lost free nil in front of nine hundred and sixteen spectators. This leaves
- 47:58High in twelfth place, so they quite come with seven games left, but
- 48:00the chance of a playoff place is now almost impossible. The club's misery was
- 48:06compounded when manager Steve Watt announced that he will be standing down at the end
- 48:09of the season. On Saturday, they'll be playing for Pride as they travel
- 48:14away to bottom side Beckenham who've beat them to to one just a couple of
- 48:17weeks ago. So Hawkins Town now they won't be very happy with their Easter
- 48:22weekend score lines, as they lost one nill way to Birmsea Town on Saturday,
- 48:27then drew two all with Minster at home on Monday. This means there
- 48:30are now three points behind top of the table hauls AFC, who still have
- 48:35that game in hand. Hawkins of just two games left and they now must
- 48:39win games in the hope that Hawls lose at least twice, and even if
- 48:44that did happen, they'd still be down to goal difference. So it just
- 48:46goes to show that when you draw a couple of games early on in the
- 48:50year or sort of over Christmas or whatever, the games that you should have
- 48:54won, it just shows you how important those dropped points can be at the
- 48:59end of the season. Radio, so a let's crack on and time for
- 49:01a bit of music from Marvin Gay. Got to give it up Marvin Gay
- 49:21there from nineteen seventy seven. Now we've got another guest. Was just like
- 49:25a treadmill here today running treadmill. We've got guests popping in all over the
- 49:30place. So welcome to the show, Lisa. Hello, Lisa, how
- 49:32are you hi there, Kevin, I'm good, thank you? Yeah,
- 49:35good, excellent. Now, Lisa, you're also running in the London Landmarks
- 49:39half Marathon, but your story is very different to Martin's. Tell us a
- 49:44little bit about yourself and your running background. Yeah, so I've been a
- 49:47member of folks Are Running Club, had a bit of a gap to be
- 49:52fair, few years ago, was running a bit more than than I am
- 49:57now, had some issue mental health issues which led to addiction issues as well,
- 50:04so running went totally out the window. Most things went out the window
- 50:07at that time, just to concentrate on, you know, trying to get
- 50:12well again. Really, and it's been quite a recent I'm very much somebody.
- 50:17If I signed up for something, then it obviously gives me the motivation
- 50:21to get back out and doing something good again, which obviously helps me mentally,
- 50:27physically every which way. Really, So that's what happened with the Landmarks
- 50:36And obviously I've had a lot of support over the last few years and chose
- 50:40to raise some money for the Forward Trust, who are the alcohol and substance
- 50:45misuse service in these kent Okay. So that downtime. How long was the
- 50:53downtime? How long were you if you struggling on five, five or six
- 51:00years? Was it really yeah? Yeah, so that was a tough time.
- 51:06So what was the turning point? Was it linking up with the Forward
- 51:10Trust? I think I think there's been a lot of yeah, a lot
- 51:14of support. I think there's been aspects. So the Forward Trust is one
- 51:19element, mental health teams and other element and had support with other areas.
- 51:23So it's been a bit of a bit of a complex situation and I think
- 51:29it's it's a really good point is that it's very difficult to address one thing
- 51:34without the other. So if you've got a multitude of issues, focusing on
- 51:38one won't necessarily solve it. So it's a bit of our I think I
- 51:44feel very strongly that it's a combined approach. Okay, yeah, it needs
- 51:47addressing. So it sounds a very complicated time for you, but obviously you're
- 51:52sitting here today and some things never go away, but you learn to control
- 51:55them. So did the running help? So the definitely helps. But it's
- 52:01a very difficult situation. You know, those kind of things help you,
- 52:04but sometimes when you're in a real mental decline. It's very hard to get
- 52:08out and do those simple things which help you hugely. But it's been really
- 52:14really helpful to get back into it, having some you know, a target
- 52:17at the end. And I've also I'm going to sign up for a few
- 52:22more runs, which will make me continue because it'll be easy for me just
- 52:24to say, right, I've done that now and then you know, hang
- 52:28up with trainers again, right okay. And the running community, I mean
- 52:32I was, I was a runner for many many years until my poor old
- 52:37need told me I couldn't run anymore. But they are a great community,
- 52:40aren't that very supportive? Yeah, indeed, And I think I'm a member
- 52:45of Folks and Running Club. I've never been, you know, high flyer
- 52:47with the running. Never think it's never been something that comes very easily to
- 52:52me. It's always pretty much, you know, it's always a challenge,
- 52:57but there's all different levels, and you know, there's there's lots of people.
- 53:01Everybody's supportive and you know, whenever you're out on a run you always
- 53:05say hello to others and it is quite a social thing as well. Obviously
- 53:09I've had quite a lot of support from the coach at Folks and Running Club
- 53:14Catherine who does the Top she's top coach to Yeah as well. She she's
- 53:20helped me. And I'm running it slightly differently as in I'm doing something called
- 53:23jeffing Yeah, which to those that don't know, is basically it's it's sort
- 53:30of like intervals for the whole ring, but it's walking and running. So
- 53:35I think for me that the focus is on getting out and doing it rather
- 53:38than doing it in a specific time or you know, I just want to
- 53:43do it, have some fun, you know, get to the get to
- 53:45the finishing line, and obviously raise of money. Well that's right. I
- 53:49mean the the actual the race that you're doing. It's not like a slog
- 53:53you know. I've got a little list of the landmarks that I head for
- 53:59having a chair with Martin and you're running past Big Ben and Paul's, Nelson's
- 54:02Columnia. You can always just like have a little look and you know,
- 54:07take in all the sites. And when I did the London Marathon, that
- 54:10was one thing that I did do. Unfortunately, I was just coming back
- 54:13for an injury, so I wasn't like yourself. I did a bit of
- 54:16walk running, but it was the best day I ever had. Stopped to
- 54:20listen to a bit of music, you know, and it just took your
- 54:22mind off everything. It just you know, really soaks it up and enjoyed
- 54:25the day. Okay, so we're going to talk to music. We're going
- 54:28to play a bit of music now, but we're going to come back to
- 54:31You're going to tell us what the next few stages in your life. You're
- 54:35going to start telling us about how you're going to give something back? Is
- 54:37that right? Indeed? Yes? Good? Imagine me you do in nineteen
- 54:54sixty seven, there the turtles happy together. Okay, so we're back in
- 54:59the studio, Lisa and Lisa. You mentioned something that I picked up on
- 55:06and I'd like to know a little bit more about the Forward trust were they?
- 55:09Yeah? So the Forward Trusts are the Alcohol and Substance Misuse Service in
- 55:16they're in different parts of Cancers and that there's another organization called CGL which does
- 55:22the similar thing in the other parts of Kent. But basically they support people
- 55:27with the issues. Families have various groups available provide detoxification and rehab. I
- 55:37attended a thirteen week rehab program, which is a structured program done face to
- 55:42face over thirteen weeks Monday to Friday, so it gives you structure and obviously
- 55:47there's certain elements and you know, lots of key working and one to one
- 55:52group work, therapy, lots, yeah, lots of different elements to you
- 55:59know, educate and help people to get into recovery and maintain recovery, which
- 56:07is probably the ongoing. The ongoing part is difficult. It's easy initially to
- 56:15put something down and focus on the you know, when you're getting all the
- 56:21support, but it's after that, so you have the initial support and then
- 56:23you're left obviously to try and manage your way through it. Ongoing right,
- 56:29Okay, So I mean it sounds like you're going to be a pretty dark
- 56:31place, but the very fact you're sitting here and talking about it, it's
- 56:36proved that you've come out of it. So's what's does the future hold for
- 56:42you at the moment. Then, bizarrely, it's it's quite exciting in the
- 56:45sense of I'm involved in a new organization which is being facilitated by the Forward
- 56:52Trust called RAW, which is Reach Out and Recover so RAW and in REACH
- 57:02which is a lived experience recovery organization. So it's all volunteers and we are
- 57:10using our lived experience basically to help others. We're doing various things. It's
- 57:17a Kent it's a Kent based organization. We've only recently, literally at the
- 57:23beginning of this month, had our launch. But you say, you say
- 57:28it had our launch, so you're you're actively involved in it now. Absolutely.
- 57:32I'm a volunteer. I chair the committee for Raw which it's sort of
- 57:39the way I see it is that it complements the services as in the Ford
- 57:44Trust that's already there. We do more. We're looking to probably do more
- 57:49of the the day to day bits around supporting people ongoing, so providing i
- 57:54don't know, groups, social events, some fitness help and support just the
- 58:00ongoing part of that, and fill the gaps really after and just support people
- 58:05generally. I mean, the good thing about the organization is that it's shaped
- 58:09purely by the needs of the individuals, so we don't have, you know,
- 58:14set targets or anything like that. We literally do what we're asked to
- 58:19do within reason obviously. Yeah. Yeah, So the people that come along,
- 58:23can you kind of now you're on the other side of the fence,
- 58:27can you see similar likenesses to those people that in the sort of place you
- 58:30were in. Absolutely, and you know, I've learned so much from being
- 58:37in a situation that I would never have foreseen. The addiction is very much
- 58:45you know, there's going to be other things involved in it. You don't
- 58:47just wake up one morning and decide, right, I'm going to become an
- 58:51alcoholic or just you know, use something to access that. Really it's around
- 58:57you know, you're trying to change the way you feel and that you know,
- 59:00addiction covers a multitude of areas, you know, with people being homeless
- 59:06and not having employment, criminal justice areas as well regarding you know, losing
- 59:12jobs, you know, getting in trouble with the police. You know,
- 59:15it really does cross a lot of you know, other areas, and it's
- 59:22it's I think what I've learned is it's it's a person as a whole.
- 59:25And I mentioned this earlier. It's like we have you have to look at
- 59:29everything because there's things that impact overall, which generally, you know, which
- 59:36obviously contributes to why people self medicate and try and you know, take things
- 59:40into their own hands. And it's not it's not as if it just affects
- 59:44the person as an individual. It's all the loved ones around them, isn't
- 59:46it that you know, probably saying I'll snap out of it, but they
- 59:51don't understand. Yeah, I think it's hard for people to understand. But
- 59:53I think it's also hard for them to see somebody that they love or care
- 59:58about, you know, doing that kind of thing to themselves and not knowing
- 1:00:05how to help them, I think is a key part of that. And
- 1:00:08I think also with raw we're very focused on offering support for families and friends
- 1:00:14as well, because that's a massive part of it, you know. And
- 1:00:19the the switching back to the running on Sunday? Are you running for the
- 1:00:24charity for Forward Trust? So, yes, I am running for the Forward
- 1:00:28Trust, and yeah, with three other people from the Forward Trust as well.
- 1:00:34So there's four of us. We've all been through you know, A
- 1:00:37couple of them work for Forward Trust now actually all the others work for them,
- 1:00:42and we've all been through similar issues and that's something actually really important.
- 1:00:45The Forward Trust employ a lot of people that have had simile issues because it's
- 1:00:51quite a unique area. And then obviously the lived experience is very helpful when
- 1:00:55you're helping others. Okay, so how you looking forward to this to the
- 1:01:00run is it kind of something that you think you've just got to put yourself
- 1:01:02through or are you really looking forward to it and enjoy it. Well,
- 1:01:06surprisingly, I'm actually really looking forward to it. Yeah. I had the
- 1:01:09last training run well on Monday, and I didn't want to because I'm getting
- 1:01:15older. I get a lot of aches and pains these days, so I'm
- 1:01:21yeah, I just didn't want to do too much. I'm just ready to
- 1:01:23get started on Sunday. Now. I think there's been quite a lot of
- 1:01:25build up to it. I don't feel any pressure. It's just a case
- 1:01:29of actually having a little walk around London looking at the sites, raising some
- 1:01:32money and hopefully it's going to be you. And have you worked out how
- 1:01:37you're getting up there because there are a few rail issues As for my ible
- 1:01:40saying yeah, luckily though, I'm already in Ashford, so the trains are
- 1:01:44okay from Ashford, so I am just getting the train up there, and
- 1:01:47just yeah, brilliant. Now you say that there's there's four of you,
- 1:01:53will you be running together or you're just going to kind of do your own
- 1:01:55thing and see you at the finish. We're all going to start together.
- 1:02:00So we did all get different waves but we're all going to start together.
- 1:02:02I think I'm not sure. I think it's a case of see how it
- 1:02:07pans out. And it's quite difficult to run together, to be honest,
- 1:02:09when you say I'll meet you at sign and so when there's like sixteen thousand
- 1:02:14people, it's very little chance that you're going to see him anyway. And
- 1:02:16I've got a plan, I'm jeffing, So jeffing is set, you know,
- 1:02:21like run walk for a certain amount of time, and obviously they are
- 1:02:24not doing that, So okay that at least so before we wind it up.
- 1:02:29Is there anything else you want to add? What I would like to
- 1:02:31add, I would just like to say a little bit more about obviously RAW
- 1:02:35as an organization, it is all volunteer based. We are obviously donations are
- 1:02:43always good. We have our website up and runnings if anyone's interested in,
- 1:02:46you know, offering anything. Really, we do a bit of work with
- 1:02:50the Rainbow Center already, so like utilizing and utilizing space that's already out there
- 1:02:55and just you know, were there to support. We were doing quite a
- 1:03:00lot of stuff in the background as well around trying to change things experience wise
- 1:03:06where we've I don't know, someone may have had a hospital experience of A
- 1:03:08and E and you know, actually it wasn't too good, or you know,
- 1:03:12maybe it would be good if this was done, that kind of thing.
- 1:03:15And we've got a lot of stakeholder input as well, and we're able
- 1:03:17to feed that information back as well. So we've got a website. It's
- 1:03:22just Rawkent dot com. That's raw as in R A R yeah yeah,
- 1:03:28R okay, And if you want to get in touch with us that there
- 1:03:30is a place to do so on there. And are you raising money for
- 1:03:34the charity? So I'm raising money for Forward on this occasion, Trust,
- 1:03:37but the Forward are facilitating obviously the organization, the new organization, so yeah,
- 1:03:44in the future it will be for them. Yeah. Yeah. Well,
- 1:03:46I mean I think it's been London Landmarks day to day and it's been
- 1:03:52a great morning revenue. Both in and here are two totally different stories.
- 1:03:55And I've got to congratulate you, Lisa for talking to us so openly about
- 1:04:02your problem, but also you know, for having a strength to get back
- 1:04:06out there and give something back that's really important, something that doesn't always happen.
- 1:04:12You know, you've got to just give him page or just give HI,
- 1:04:16don't know what it is, okay, if if we, I've got
- 1:04:20to put Martin's just giving page on my Facebook page and we do the same
- 1:04:26for yours. So just thank you so much for coming in. Lisa and
- 1:04:30I wish all the best and for the run, and you must keep us
- 1:04:33informed of how all your future projects are going. Thank you very much.
- 1:04:38Thank you. Well, that's the end of this week's show. Has been
- 1:04:50an awesome show and I want to thank Lisa, Martin, Tim and Dexter
- 1:04:57for coming in.