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Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 296:3-297:5 · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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Okay, good morning. Where is still at havdalah /?
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Yein race. Third evolved.
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See if great see if Gilma sponsored her for shame, have
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been seen moving when Shane do and all right, Bud, Rocco Lester
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Guillermo. Even though you 90 Shake our, if
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you have no wine and you have no beer, we should arm asking and
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no other liquids that are acceptable for havdalah.
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Now, just one quick thing is to make sure this to bring it out
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as to be acceptable, right? So it has to be either wine or
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come on Medina just point out there is we're not going to get
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into it but there's a lot of discussion on what is coming
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Medina and I did not go through this at length but I will just
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point out that there are some. I mean we saw this basically
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initial kinara that some say how Medina has to be is only
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acceptable if there's no wine. The entire city.
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So that generally doesn't apply nowadays are usually is and
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generally. And so that's one issue about
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color Medina and some say it has to actually be something that
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most people, drink regularly probably even more than a couple
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cups a day. So there are some who there is.
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It is a real issue on if and what is coming Medina I do know
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that the midnight is generally to be Mako but that's generally
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how We've been going, but just point out there, it's Erica.
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So even here the mission aboard, for example, also points out
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that not all Shake. Our is Hummer Medina.
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So, again, that's just interesting that discussion.
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So if you have, if there is no liquid, that's appropriate for
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havdalah. What do you do?
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That's where we're at. Yes, o.
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Muhammad are Lola, alcohol. So one says, you're allowed to
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you already eat. We can do fast, is you don't
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you? Because it's clear.
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Current to basically pretty much if not all the postgame that if
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you don't have any wine. So let's important that we try
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and get wine or grape juice but if there's no wine and no common
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Medina, everyone says there is no you do not say Kiddush and
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you do not say have dollar. That's the clear.
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Hello, okay, so what do you do? You can't say it.
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So some say you're allowed to eat so because you don't have to
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fast. The a Showman's you Mitsubishi
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Omaha but some say no let's say you're expecting to get wine
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tomorrow, then that's fine after fast Saturday night and you just
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have to wait until tomorrow. Not tomorrow.
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The mission Abreu points out. No one's expecting you to fast
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beyond the morning or up until hot.
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So it's maximum, they were talking about the case.
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You're going to get it in the morning but if you're not going
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to get it till the later on in the afternoon, then for sure
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even this this happen. And he says you're allowed to
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eat in the morning. Or if you're not, you're not
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going to get it until much later.
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You can already start eating Saturday night.
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This is even if you say a talk on Antonio, because we're not
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allowed to eat. Even if you say a taco Nintendo
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of David, which is the Abdullah of show when I say, we're not
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allowed to eat until we actually say Abdullah with a cup of wine.
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Okay? Yesterday we discussed, like
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what happens if you miss a tough hunt?
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I know if you have to future 1sj but that was yesterday today
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sir. Is Leo.
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Cardamom our car. She Abdul.
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So if you know you're going to get it tomorrow, you're not
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allowed to eat until tomorrow after you do have Dola.
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Okay. Also I just want to point out
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that the are some postgame. Would you say if I know you
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mentioned it yesterday? I mentioned a couple hiding
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yesterday but some others, right?
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Just to be clear. If you realize that you only
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said, kid a shot of dollar without wine.
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Let like let's say it's maybe if it's spilled or really, that
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might also be okay. But let's say for sure turned
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out, it wasn't even wine. It was a shock.
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Oh, so some say that you're not even.
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No, it's a video of it, so that's enough.
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Look, it's almost a to repeat condition of Della with wine and
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someone say, listen to somebody else.
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If at all possible, the cuff of Heim says, survey bracco's the
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Hackle not to, but just want to point out the are definitely
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different opinions. So, okay.
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So here fine, like always, uh, only, they show me my locket,
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kvasir the second opinion and so says the mesh number as well.
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However, he points out that if You can handle the fast of
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Saturday, night's wait till the morning to eat.
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But if you're going to be week Saturday night, and it's
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difficult, then you are allowed to eat even Saturday night.
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That is a often a general principle throughout schalke
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Nora. Why does he quote two opinions?
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So many times. The shulkin are quotes, one
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opinion and so many times he quotes to opinions well, but he
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often doesn't quote both opinions often.
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When we read helices, initial car.
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Has its really a macoco. It in the rezoning.
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So it's often to point out that because you know sometimes
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people have different mean hugging.
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His wasn't always one sock and call your cell and you didn't
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want any gate one sock or it's also to teach you that I got
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every case is specific but often is to teach you that.
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You can be so much on the less popular opinion when it will
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need. Okay, let's continue to be
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emailing. Well, across all kinds of
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ailments, a piss yellow marker. Okay.
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Now, what happens? Yes.
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You don't have, you only have one cup of wine, get more
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tomorrow, but right now you only have one.
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Musashi. Okay, I'll call them.
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She obviously very caliber. Customizando, harkavy, Olive.
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So we read the whole thing to get the final picture, but
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basically, we're saying you only have, we want to eat Saturday
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night and you want to have bread.
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So you want to say the cuts Amazon and you want to see work
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at Amazon and a coast and went to say coach Holbrook at the end
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when you bench but you only have one cup of wine.
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So what do you suppose to do? So first you says Okay, maybe
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it's better to eat before Abdullah because you only have
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one cup of wine and then you'll use that same cup of wine for
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both birkat hamazon. And you'll also, once you save a
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paragraph, an aftermarket amazing will continue into of
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dollar. You can get both with one cup.
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You must shiver a cricketer mohsin below costs, the Divya
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O'Meara customers in China Coast.
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So then this way, you're not benching without a cup, if you
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use it up right away on Abdullah.
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So, it says, this is, A true. If you hold you must bench with
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the capitol, every time you eat all the Divya.
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I mean, the A no-talent únicos and according to the opinion
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which says you don't apps, you don't need a cup of wine or beer
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cuts a Muslim, it's just preferable.
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So then and that's how we, I believe everyone.
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Postions nowadays, blow your local ad.
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She Avail. So actually you only have one
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cup of wine, you don't eat until you use that one cup of wine on
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his Della. And then you save your, then you
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eat your meal, then you save your Cuts Amazon.
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And at that time since you only had one cup and you used it up
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now, you're going to bench without a cup of wine, but it's
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better to bench. Better to use your cup of wine
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on havdalah. That's number one, and it's
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better to do have dollar before you eat.
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Okay? My racial cause the and just a
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continuation of what the what we were talking about, who my
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research because the lawyer Burrell RAV eat, but Simpson.
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We're just talking about it. Just so, you know, we're talking
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about, obviously, it's pretty obvious.
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Anyway, one cup of wine. That's only holds a ravit, and
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you only had revealed the wine look of our yamazaki Dino.
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And it was already it was mixed with water to its maximum.
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She even my amazing woman Michelle are released yet but if
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you added more water it wouldn't be wine anymore.
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The watery she IAM looking with if not then what's the problem
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you really have to, if not, that's if that's not the case,
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then really you end up. You could have two cups.
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Why the Give real cool mods, your tequila.
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And everyone say, of course you have done first.
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You should have told me my new mod and then drink a little bit
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which is Molly look mouth, right?
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Just drink while looking up and you still have leftover either
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you add more. Well, mostly Falafel actually
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meant to be then you can add to it either with more wine that
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you have a little bit left in the bottle or just extra water
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because it wasn't watered out yet.
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So then it's, if obviously, if you could, in other words, if
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you can stretch, your one cup and since you obviously you
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should do that weird. All case, that he mentioned was
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when you do your at your maximum and you only have one ravit, and
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then a very high collar birkat hamazon.
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Then you'd be able to use it for both.
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Okay. Doll.
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It Misha and on the second Leaf, not lying the key to school
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Abdallah or if you only have enough money or you could only
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get your hands on a bottle of wine or enough of wine.
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That's only enough for Kiddush or only enough for Abdullah.
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What do you do? You connect have the other which
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takes precedence wine for of doll.
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Allah. All right, we assume the killer
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Chef charbel part because we know you're able to use bread
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for Kiddush, right? You see where instead of, I
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guess, when you say how much you like Amina arts, and then you
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can, then you say, the barakah of Kiddush McCarthy shops.
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So, and that you can do, but there is no option to use bread
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for havdalah. Okay, hey, you mainly, I do my
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second deck, not Chemin linear Hanukkah, VI in loved, Allah.
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Near kanuka column. So you only have enough money at
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the option to get oil for can lights of Hanukkah or for wine
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for have dollar which comes first.
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So Hanukkah comes first, why? So two reasons are given because
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presumably Nisa is really important and that's more
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important. Secondly, really you can be out,
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they have Dollar the rice and least on some level through
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Feelin, right? And she went astray.
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In a talking and Tanner, you can say it.
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Well, Omar Abdullah me, you shall ideally you should say
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Abdullah standing, all right, that's many do that and the
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reason is because it's you want to do it generally, anything you
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do because it's more appropriate to be sitting down because
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otherwise it's like walking around that's less curious.
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And going to do it with clear Serbian will see other people.
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It's Abdullah. The who like, however, a guy
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says VA shami Mohammed. And he says, no, no, our Um, an
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Ashkenazi as we stand up, why? So the mission versus busier
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being Meloetta, malka Shabbos is leaving and so you're giving
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your standing up in honor of the Shabbos Market, okay?
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Okay. No, again, when we denote a low
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and that is the custom in Europe.
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Okay, let's go on. Okay is the IND be?
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I mean now, when you start saying havdalah, you should hold
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up the cup with your right hand. Always right hand is considered
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the more cashew and therefore when you're doing the actual
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Mitzvah over the wine so therefore you should be holding
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it in your right hand the hardest be smaller, Mubarak Ali
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Ein and in the meantime you have in your left hand, you have the
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the scene or whatever you're going to use for Bassam e and
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then you sit in that seat. In your left hand the show and
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then and then so that's when you say the broke up, I get often.
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Now, when you start switching the brockless, when you start
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saying for bastami more, I'd say the something, whatever you're
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saying, so then you switch, and then you're switching from one
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hand to another the, shoob no telling how does be ameen.
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And then you switch, you put the hottest in your right hand
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behind the small, but you still keeping the wine in your left
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hand because everything is for havdalah that we're doing here
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and, and wine in everything is B is and wine is part of the Of
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the other process. So it's ideal.
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Again, it's not an arcade. Everything can sit on the table
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that you have it, because you're having a mind for it, but that's
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what he'll it's better to hold everything in the Barrio color,
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how does? And then when it's in your right
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hand, you say the brothel and a decision will be something.
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We'll mark the area and let me know.
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But then when you continue some say before after age, whatever
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then at some point before you get to the the bra, five Dolla,
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then you want to make sure that you Ian was back in your right
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hand. Okay.
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Some say also when you're saying, I don't know if one were
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to say this but just to point out when people say h, so there
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is a custom to look at it. So there's two basic Customs out
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there. They'll get into details.
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Some are mach speed to look at the fire before they say the
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bracha because that's generally how any Brock have shovel works.
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Is you first experience the what you're experiencing the fire and
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then Give a sháá back to the College Park.
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Was not a bra. Clever Mitzvah we have to say
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before / LS. He a ton, it's not narrating
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where you are, so it's not really a broken and it's more of
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a breakfast ever. That's also depends how you
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extender stand it. So anyway, so some but after
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they say, they look at the flame, they say the bracha and
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then they look at it with their can't with their fingernails.
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What's idea of a fingernail either has to do, it's a bracha,
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it's a similar bracha because nails are constantly growing
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rowing. So one of the one of the few
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things in our body that actually keep growing.
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So that's that. And then also has to do with the
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pagamo of a 2.0. There's According to some or few
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Kabbalah, that our bodies used to be surrounded in basically
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like a fingernail. And that was basically our skin.
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Okay, it was all around us, okay?
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Okay, then some some just say, the brocklin and they look at
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the fire, the great sign, right? I feel Shah Rukh Albany of items
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elevator knesset in commercial that statement dealing with by.
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Okay. So, anyone everybody can be out,
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say, at show. They say I've dollar there, but
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he says, if anyone didn't hear it in, or didn't have in mind to
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be outside when they're in show, then, of course, when they go
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home, they shall then they have to repeat it was they didn't
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have a mind to Beyonce and generally it's recommended that,
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especially if you have anybody at home who's expecting?
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You just take it and have dollar for them.
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So if you're if you hear of dollar, then you should be
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having mind not to be lets say, okay?
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And that's generally what we do. Okay.
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That's not shame Hiawatha havdalah que c'est.
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Monsieur Javert. Becky Torres says, women are
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hiring Abdullah just like Kiddush right there, both in
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Zach, Harvin, show more and therefore, their high of equally
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even though it says Mitzvah chassis, Jasmine, grandma
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doesn't matter. So The Hive in kid is too high
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of a in in Abdullah. So that's the okay.
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That's the E, Carla Hall per se. However, the issue mr.
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Kralik. But there is a serious opinion
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that that women are absolutely not hire.
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And so, there's action as I'm not lookin on that spin off for
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those who say, women are completely not cry of.
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So, muc look if they're able to even say many say, that women
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are even if they're not obligated.
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I think that's the majority opinion.
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Even if women are not obligated to say of dollars, They're
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allowed to say of dollar, why is that important?
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So the point out that a person who's has an optional for them
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to say a brother, they himself can say the broccoli, right?
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Yeah. It's a jolt but what about
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somebody else? Can somebody else say the broke
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off for that person? Can a man say abraha for a woman
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if she's not obligated but it's only optional so they say
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they're one is generally not allowed to.
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We only say mr. Said that you'd have a raving
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one for another and you could be Oh, to somebody else.
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If you yourself archive or they are high of your user, using the
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breath electrical Turnin into food or if they're higher than
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Nebraska, but if it's only optional for them, therefore you
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can say for them. So let's read the Roma, how God,
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okay. And what you have deal, that's
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when Rocky Schwab Della and I mean an option.
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So therefore in order to avoid possible Brock, hello vetala
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what it's preferable for a man to say the bracha for women and
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in this way, There's absolutely no worry about a bra.
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Kushina trifa. However if woman if there's no
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there's no manner. There's no there's no man around
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or a woman needs to hear it or she doesn't know how to say it.
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So then so they first it's preferable if a woman needs to
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say that she says it herself. That's number one preference to
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be owed, say all the shooters but push comes to shove.
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If she can't see herself or just really doesn't want to, she is
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allowed to have a man say it's for you.
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Because we hold that women are obligated.
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And so, therefore, we are allowed to be most of them.
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And so there is a I think I don't know if we mentioned it
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with the reinvention it rights. But the woman preferably should
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not drink from that cup of wine, unless they have no choice.
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But that's really just a camera man hug.
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There's no lock button. Can't drink wine even by
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Abdullah, okay? Right, so that's so for, it's
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better. If she doesn't do it, I'm sorry
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it's better. If he doesn't do it and she does
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it because he's already. Eddie yodh say that's one of the
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reasons why we say it's was better for men have to have in
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mind when they go home. So not be out, say in show.
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And this way you avoid all the problems.
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But okay. Oh Rich, Saudi design.
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Do you need some love? Dilemma Faria caliber some in
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English law. If you have, you should say the
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Brock. I'm assuming I'm right in the
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middle. That's part of the, the order of
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five dollar, we all know that we may know, but if you don't have
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insert Clarks La Creme, you don't drive yourself nuts.
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You don't have to start asking all the neighbors, you don't
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have to start waiting around, okay?
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How far do you want to take? It's up to you, but there's no
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obligation. Okay, the general minute by far,
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them is whatever you use. That's the property.
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Whatever the Brussels for Bassam you use.
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That's the proper broccoli, you make, if you do it on how the
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theme, you would say us say the summit or it could be Eastvale,
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could be meaning. So, but the general custom
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believed by most ashkenazim that was brought down in the mission
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of Aurora is no matter what when it comes to havdalah, just
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enough to Allah, the meaning is you You always say worrying?
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Me neighbors, saw me. So that's why we try a freshman.
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As in particular, with a try. We try a freshman has to use
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something that you would look at he LeSabre enable Summit.
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So some say clothes is one that's for sure.
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Barry minute because I mean no matter what or using a mixture
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of spices, if you use a mixture of spices and you have
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everything in there, then you would also just say whirring a
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the summum. So that is and the purpose is
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that you don't make a mistake. This is like You know you say
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Abdullah the summing once a week for the team were neither not
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everyone is busy saying beside him all week long.
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So from here we don't want people to start saying the wrong
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bracha especially if they're not.
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So familiar in this way. It's lope look sort of an order
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to prevent hmm. Okay, in order to prevent people
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say in the wrong bracha, Okay? And the purpose why we say, it
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is an order to make ourselves feel better because we left, we
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just lost the neshamah you Sarah and so, therefore, we say this
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number two, it's a really of us, a little bit of make us feel
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better, okay. And he points out the men.
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I guess, even if you ended up fasting on Shabbos unlike Yom
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Kippur since that's the MiniDV and that's like the kahua glow
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plug you always say be summing even if a person passed it on
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shoppers base aim of our King Oliver I summon shall be tacky.
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See now, you have to use Bassam in that's be covered it.
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This is havdalah were talking about you being beloved America.
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So therefore, if it's becoming that are the purpose of the
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Bassam is you you have the something you believed them in
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your bathroom all year long in order to the fragrance
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potpourri. Exactly.
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So you're not allowed to use those porphyry that you use in
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the bathroom for five dollar. Can't take it out and say, oh
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look what I got below all. Tell meeting with darker and the
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tuning. Lamar Allen imitation meat and
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you don't put them either as also the same idea, if it's mule
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cart for the furnace for the dead body.
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You don't use those Bassam either, you just don't use them
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below, I'll be some insurance information that miss you but
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Optical having this promised, a battalion of O.co have him.
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And also you can't use it. If it's in a grayish, I don't
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know if this applies nowadays, but you're not allowed to use
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Bassam. That's another goldfish holiday
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party. Because we assumed that it was
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used for about Azara. Okay.
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Right obviously, the fans which country depends on the people.
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You're right. 100% haga, the in Barack, I'll summon a level
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laureates awful. Sorry clubs.
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All over is all occurring and and if you said the Brock on is
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you're not you're saying you have to repeat it on something
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else. All right.
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These aren't used in right? It's either not for cover or
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it's not made to be for smelling.
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It's fine, it's gone gimel. Gilma sake, ma salmon, if you
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have bags that are filled up with something, she may see me
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move. They could have him talk and
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kind of guy but you, you you have the something that was put
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inside barrels of the island of Guam in that circumstance,
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whatever. So then Alpha B, she moved to
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rural areas by hmmm of dealing Alia.
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So even though you are allowed to smell them because the summon
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added, Something for the wine. Fine.
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But the, it was for the wine but the UI in was did not affect the
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Bassam a say you're not getting fragrance from the wine into the
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becoming, you're not gaining anything from the wine.
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So therefore, it's 100% mutter, even if it's the Anessa, 100%
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motor to smell the bastami, okay, the wind did not take over
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them and you're smelling the bastami, however, since it's
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full of the Schmucks of about Azara, therefore, it's improper.
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And you're Not allowed to use that for havdalah again.
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go ahead that's going on is that there is a custom to use had
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awesome whenever possible hagavi.
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make sure if you're going to use a dusting that they're not too
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dry because if they're too dry, they lose their smell Rock.
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I'll shove the salmon but you should use other Bassam Invokana
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going to say. No.
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And that's the custom like a trailer that they don't look for
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Sonia. Gandhi.
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Mohandas in Ibiza me, the other simcha Cooley on.
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He said, actually, why not the best is to take a dusting and,
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but they have to be relatively fresh.
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You can't not one time use for, you can just fill it up once a
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year, otherwise, it won't smell and just but it's good to add
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heard us team into the Bassam Ian Okay, because it's a cube of
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Mitzvah to use a dozen because they're one of the doll it a
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meaning, for 11s word, hey Misha, I know Maria, enemy very
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colobus, Ami, someone can't smell, right.
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Someone got sick after covid of Corona.
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So then you can this person cannot say the brought home.
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The salmonella in Canaan cabinets.
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Even eBay to act on him. Should give us enough hot
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steamy. She ain't no your Daya However,
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you could, if you have people around it, some say, it's better
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not to better to let those people.
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Yeah. Many say, the mice have much
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better to let those people say the brachot themselves and and
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just pause the same thing that goes for if you are already
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note. Say, for example, some say the
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same thing. If you already know t4h or
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Bassam like you were a load say in show and now you repeating it
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for them. So the many of the posts if you
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were by mistake, you re old saying show now you're picking
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for the many states. Better to just pause and let
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them say those to braavos. And then you're going to say
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that I guess in before inning to say of dollar at the end,