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Vocal De Frag Episode 196 Are We Creating To Like Ourselves Better · Arroe Collins Like It's Live

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  Speaker 1: It is a podcast network. It's called Arrow dot Net
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  Speaker 1: a r r oe dot net. There are twenty different
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  Speaker 1: podcasts for you to explore each and every day. And
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  Speaker 1: one of the favorites is one called street Speak with
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  Speaker 1: Alexa and Clarence. Imagine your world with all of this
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  Speaker 1: AI technology around you, and you know how Alexa has
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  Speaker 1: become very conversational. Yeah, do a podcast with her. Try
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  Speaker 1: it sometime. Street Speak with Alexa and Clarence only on
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  Speaker 1: Arro dot net a r r oe dot net. Enjoy
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  Speaker 1: that exploration. Hey, Sarah, and.
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  Speaker 2: This is vocal d frag vocal d fragg and it's
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  Speaker 2: taking the time out of your day. It can be
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  Speaker 2: five minutes, it can be three minutes, it can be
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  Speaker 2: an hour, it can be whatever, but just taking the
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  Speaker 2: time to ask yourself the questions and then question the answers.
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  Speaker 2: You know, one of the things that I've done as
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  Speaker 2: of late is that a question will come to me
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  Speaker 2: and I know what, I can't dive into the research
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  Speaker 2: in this moment of now, So I will that question
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  Speaker 2: down and I'll get back to it. Not only is
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  Speaker 2: it a different mindset and interpretation of the moment that
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  Speaker 2: which you are questioning, but the thing is is. It
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  Speaker 2: gives you the chance to feel something in the moment
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  Speaker 2: of now by way of stream thinking, and then come
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  Speaker 2: back and hopefully be clear minded enough to understand why
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  Speaker 2: that question even entered. You ask the questions, question the answers.
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  Speaker 2: This is vocal dfrank Ooh, this is a big one. Today.
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  Speaker 2: It hit me while I was questioning my process with
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  Speaker 2: podcast success and the question was says, how are you
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  Speaker 2: doing today? Ct that's my real name, and I said,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, Maybe you should be asking Arrow who
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  Speaker 2: is my podcasting broadcasting name. And at that point in time,
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  Speaker 2: I thought to myself, well, I don't know how Arrow
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  Speaker 2: would think about this situation where we presently are in
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  Speaker 2: the world, and when it comes to the weather, I
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  Speaker 2: think sometimes Arrow creates to get people to like what
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  Speaker 2: he doesn't like. Oh oh, hold on for a moment.
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  Speaker 2: Let's go ahead and tackle that question. People who are
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  Speaker 2: creative and there are a lot of creative people on
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  Speaker 2: this planet because they always say that God's the one
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  Speaker 2: that made us all creative. Okay, I get that, but
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  Speaker 2: let's talk about that question. Do people of creativity and
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  Speaker 2: I do say that creativity is an addiction, but do
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  Speaker 2: people of creativity do so so that other people will
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  Speaker 2: find reasons to like what the artist doesn't like about themselves.
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  Speaker 2: Let that one digest a little bit, let us sink in,
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  Speaker 2: because I want you to think about that when you're creating,
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  Speaker 2: be it in the kitchen, be it at your job,
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  Speaker 2: the man cave, in the garage, out in the yard.
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  Speaker 2: When you are being creative, is it to earn the
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  Speaker 2: respect of other people? Because inside your mind, body and soul,
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  Speaker 2: which hardly anybody ever wants to talk about inside your
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  Speaker 2: mind and soul, are you creating to get the acceptance
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  Speaker 2: of an outsider because it helps you deal with the
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  Speaker 2: things that you don't accept about yourself. That's a tough
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  Speaker 2: subject because I do write all the time, I do
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  Speaker 2: create all the time. If I could be in the
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  Speaker 2: studio twenty four to seven, I would definitely be there
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  Speaker 2: because I always say I am bleeding creativity. But let's
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  Speaker 2: break it down. Why are people bleeding creativity? I mean
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  Speaker 2: I can go to the beach. I can even go
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  Speaker 2: to an amusement park and you've got the artists there
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  Speaker 2: that are creating for people. You can go anywhere into
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  Speaker 2: a business, be it a dick sporting good, or to
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  Speaker 2: be a grocery store, to be a bank. There's all
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  Speaker 2: please someone on staff that is a little bit more
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  Speaker 2: creative than the other people. I think we should start
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  Speaker 2: asking that question, are you creating so that other people
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  Speaker 2: will like what you don't like about yourself? Can I
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  Speaker 2: openly admit that that is true about me? Is the
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  Speaker 2: reason why I host twenty different podcasts because I am
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  Speaker 2: searching for a reason to like something about me. Oh God,
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  Speaker 2: that's true transparency to be able to say, yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: think so. But the thing about it is when you
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  Speaker 2: sit down with songwriters, actors, those that write scripts for
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  Speaker 2: televison shows or write scripts for a commercial, you know,
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  Speaker 2: success is a beautiful thing because it feels absolutely phenomenal
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  Speaker 2: when you reach it. But if you think that you
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  Speaker 2: are doing it to please other people, I'm not going
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  Speaker 2: to go that route. And here's the reason why I'm
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  Speaker 2: not going to go that route, because the majority the
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  Speaker 2: people that you surround yourself with don't know what to
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  Speaker 2: say when you say, how do you like that? They're
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  Speaker 2: going I think it was good? Or my wife is
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  Speaker 2: so blunt she'll go, you know, I don't like it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, she'll tell me that. And the reason why
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  Speaker 2: she'll say that is because she knows that I'll take
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  Speaker 2: that challenge and I'll make it greater than what it
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  Speaker 2: was one two days ago or even a week ago,
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  Speaker 2: because she knows that if it sucks and I go
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  Speaker 2: somewhere and somebody else tells me it sucks, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: come back and say, why didn't you tell me it sucks? Well,
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  Speaker 2: I kind of did, but in a nice way. So
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  Speaker 2: I'm right in the middle of this white picket fence.
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  Speaker 2: Do people create to get the acceptance of their artwork
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  Speaker 2: because they don't like what they are doing? I know
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  Speaker 2: an artist. It comes with darkness, It comes with questions,
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  Speaker 2: It comes with chases and challenges, It comes with defeat,
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  Speaker 2: It comes with maybe the occasional victory. But are you
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  Speaker 2: creating because you want the acceptance of others because it
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  Speaker 2: helps you deal with the unacceptance that you have of yourself?
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  Speaker 2: Ask the questions, question the answers. I call it defragging.
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  Speaker 2: My name is Errol