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Capítulo 097: SIMP! In the Name of Love! · Locatora Radio [A Radiophonic Novela]

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  Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, we had so much business to discuss,
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  Speaker 1: for the content, and I'm so excited. This episode has
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  Speaker 1: been a long time coming. We have been talking about
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  Speaker 1: All right, y'all, So today we are going to be
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  Speaker 1: discussing simps and reply guys. If you don't know what
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  Speaker 1: a reply guy is, they are the person, the man
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  Speaker 1: that is always in your d M s, applying to
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  Speaker 1: every single story and every single tweet, no matter what
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  Speaker 1: it is. Let them not be mistaken with creepy men
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  Speaker 1: that are sending things because they're thirsting over you. Um,
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  Speaker 1: there's no unsolicited dick picks involved, Like, let it be known.
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  Speaker 1: The reply guys are kind of like the nice guys,
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  Speaker 1: kind of because there's zero expectation of anything. They're not
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  Speaker 1: expecting to take you out, they're not expecting you to
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  Speaker 1: send them a nude or anything. They're just there in
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  Speaker 1: the d M s applauding whatever move you make. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and it's interesting because we're gonna get into the intricacies
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  Speaker 1: of these two labels, the categories that overlap. There even
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  Speaker 1: diagrams involved here. So that's generally speaking, a strict pure
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  Speaker 1: reply guy is literally replying to everything, but a sim
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  Speaker 1: right is someone who any of any gender or honestly,
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  Speaker 1: because anybody can simp over anybody, Like truly, I'm definitely
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  Speaker 1: a simp for like Rihanna Beyonce, Like the list goes
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  Speaker 1: on and on, you know, so as simple as somebody
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  Speaker 1: who puts somebody else, usually a woman of them, somebody
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  Speaker 1: I would say, almost goddesslike in the simps Eyes on
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  Speaker 1: a pedestal. The simp is somebody who's putting the object
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  Speaker 1: of their affection on a pedestal, who is just like
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  Speaker 1: head over heels and love, who wants to send gifts,
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  Speaker 1: send money, send donations, send praise like in the d
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  Speaker 1: m s. Practically writing sonnets, like naming parts of your
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  Speaker 1: body based on you know, like how they feel about
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  Speaker 1: you and your photos. Like these people really go on in,
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  Speaker 1: go all in. They can be intense, They can be
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  Speaker 1: extremely poetic. Sometimes it can be a little much. I
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  Speaker 1: have had to block simps before because there's a there's
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  Speaker 1: a line for me, especially with the married ones. This
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  Speaker 1: is a The other thing we're going to talk about
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  Speaker 1: is the way that the reply guys and the sims
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  Speaker 1: are with us online and then how are they in
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  Speaker 1: real life with the actual women and people in their lives, right,
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  Speaker 1: So that's like a strict SIMP. And I would say
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  Speaker 1: that not all reply guys are sims, and not all
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  Speaker 1: sims are reply guys, but there are reply guys who
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  Speaker 1: are sims, and there are sims who are also reply guys.
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  Speaker 1: We are doing sociological research here, y'all, you've heard it
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  Speaker 1: here first. I also want to point out that in
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  Speaker 1: this episode we may be talking about specifically sis heterodman,
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  Speaker 1: probably the first time we've ever done. In this episode,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, in this entire podcast, however, we have been
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  Speaker 1: actively thinking about, like, what is a gender neutral term
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  Speaker 1: for a reply guy, because there are queer women that
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  Speaker 1: are in the replies right that they like also like
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  Speaker 1: are partaking in some type of goddess worship, right, So
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  Speaker 1: we're still like thinking about what is a good name,
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  Speaker 1: a fitting name, a positive name for the queer women
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  Speaker 1: that are in the d ms that are always hyping
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  Speaker 1: you up, right, Because we have those two and we
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  Speaker 1: love them, we respect them, we thank them. So if
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  Speaker 1: that's you, thank you. And I think too, there are
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  Speaker 1: some reply people, reply guys, reply people simps in general.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes the sim thing is only in the d M
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  Speaker 1: s are only you know, behind the scenes. Other times
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  Speaker 1: there are reply people and simps who are in the
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  Speaker 1: comments or who are you know tweeting at you? Okay, wait, okay, wait,
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  Speaker 1: tell me Bosa the man who tweets at you and
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  Speaker 1: says the man that tweets at says, I am obsessed
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  Speaker 1: with you, like when you're holding tools every time, every
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  Speaker 1: time I have I didn't even put this in my
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  Speaker 1: in my notes for today. This is so true. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So there's this man that's in my comments like on
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  Speaker 1: Instagram because I've been posting since you know, quarantine started,
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  Speaker 1: the pandemic started. I've been doing a lot of home
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  Speaker 1: renovation d I y things things I can do myself.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a professional, and so I like post little
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  Speaker 1: videos with me like hammering shit of building things. Right,
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  Speaker 1: built my bar car and um, he like is like,
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  Speaker 1: can you come and fix my sink? And this was
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  Speaker 1: the first comment that I saw, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: that's kind of weird, right, I'm like, why would I
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  Speaker 1: fix your sink? And then I started tracking his comments
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  Speaker 1: like more and more, and he like recently tweeted at
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  Speaker 1: me because I said, I literally just tweeted I'm obsessed
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  Speaker 1: with my dog, period, and his reply to that was
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  Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with you holding tools, and so I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: this is the king, Like he likes to see beautiful
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  Speaker 1: women holding tools and it's very phallic obviously. Um, but yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's like one of the one of the men in
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  Speaker 1: the he and he's public like he never I don't
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  Speaker 1: think he's ever deemed me or anything like that, but
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  Speaker 1: he he's like, he's publicly commenting that he wants to
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  Speaker 1: see me holding tools. Isn't that interesting? Because I feel
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  Speaker 1: like there are some who like they'll do public and
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  Speaker 1: DM there are some who are only public, and then
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  Speaker 1: there are some who are only in the d M
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  Speaker 1: s And it just depends on what they want, I guess,
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  Speaker 1: or what their what is their goal, what is the desire?
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  Speaker 1: The psychology of the reply guys, and it's a spectrum
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  Speaker 1: of reply guy and simple reply people and SIMP. Like
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  Speaker 1: the psychology behind it is truly fascinating because one of
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  Speaker 1: the questions that we do discuss and that we ask
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  Speaker 1: ourselves is like, what some of these like simps who
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  Speaker 1: have been following us for years, like for years some
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  Speaker 1: of them, some of them I've talked about before, Like
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  Speaker 1: you know, if you've been listening for the If you've
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  Speaker 1: been listening since the beginning, you know that I've talked
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  Speaker 1: about my nail sponsor. If you're a real one, you
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  Speaker 1: know Mala has had an ongoing nail sponsor. Yes, And
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  Speaker 1: so I'm gonna and this is like basically with the
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  Speaker 1: ongoing permission of this particular individual. I do talk about
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  Speaker 1: him here and there in vague terms on the podcast,
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  Speaker 1: but he sort of lives for it, and it's part
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  Speaker 1: of the SIMP dynamics. So I'm gonna, like, because I've
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  Speaker 1: conversed with him, and I actually I'm going to read
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  Speaker 1: to you guys some of his language, like describing why
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  Speaker 1: it is that he simms so hard and for so long.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna dedicated simp and we love to see it, honestly.
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  Speaker 1: But so this guy nail sponsor, I would call him.
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  Speaker 1: He's a SIMP and reply guy combo. He's public mostly
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  Speaker 1: only on Instagram, public in the comments, also in the
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  Speaker 1: d M s, also replying basically constantly. And for a
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  Speaker 1: while he was my nail sponsor. He was sending me
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  Speaker 1: money like every few weeks and it was super cute.
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  Speaker 1: He's like sent me money for bading suits and things.
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  Speaker 1: And I basically was like going back and forth with him.
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  Speaker 1: After I commented, I posted something about simple content about
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  Speaker 1: how there's like women who will get mad at me
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  Speaker 1: because their their boyfriends are messaging me or are in
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  Speaker 1: my d M s, and I posted a video basically
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  Speaker 1: saying like, girl, don't get mad at me. I need
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  Speaker 1: you to know that your man is a fucking sim
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  Speaker 1: who has camped out in my d MS, like he
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  Speaker 1: gets mail there, you know. And so you're getting mad
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  Speaker 1: at me and your man is embarrassing you, like on
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  Speaker 1: a daily basis, probably when he's sitting next to you
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  Speaker 1: and he's on his phone. He's likely DMan, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, but why are you mad at
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  Speaker 1: me when he's one of many? Like we're about to
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  Speaker 1: tell I'm about to go down the list of simps,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, most notable sims I have.
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  Speaker 1: I put together like a top three here for us.
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  Speaker 1: So anyways, so based on so I post about that
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  Speaker 1: exchange I talked about simps, and so my long term
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  Speaker 1: simp uh and former mail sponsor says to me, sincerely
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  Speaker 1: and honestly speaking, it's very humbling and our real sense
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  Speaker 1: of privilege to have ever been included in any of
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  Speaker 1: your content, because you are so talented and naturally hilarious.
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  Speaker 1: It means a lot to have been a public nail sponsor,
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  Speaker 1: included vaguely in your podcast, to be a source of
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  Speaker 1: memes or the butt of a joke. And I think
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  Speaker 1: and that, so this is from him, right, And um,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's cute. I think it's adorable because on
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  Speaker 1: the one hand, he's sort of like this long term
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  Speaker 1: fan who has also contributed in material ways, and he
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  Speaker 1: has never met me in person. We've never met. And
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  Speaker 1: he said to me one time that part of what
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  Speaker 1: kind of gets him off on this whole exchange is
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  Speaker 1: the knowledge that we've never met and there's never been
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  Speaker 1: a relationship. There's never been a hook up, there's never
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  Speaker 1: been an in person interaction of any kind. And still
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  Speaker 1: here we find ourselves. And still he's simping and simping hard,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I think it's cute
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  Speaker 1: to him. Yeah, it's super cute. And I think that
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  Speaker 1: there's something like pure dare I say about these Okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: here hear me out, hear me out here out. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: appear is not the word, right word, But here's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: Hear me out. There's something like, because okay, I want
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  Speaker 1: to I want to make a clear distinction. And this
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  Speaker 1: is why I say pere right. Maybe it's not the
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  Speaker 1: right word, but I want to make a clear distinction
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  Speaker 1: that like the reply guys and the simps are not
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  Speaker 1: like sending you on solicit dick pics. They're not like
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  Speaker 1: being creepy and like sending you like, uh you up
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  Speaker 1: at two in the morning. They're not like trying to
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  Speaker 1: like come find you where they know that you maybe
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  Speaker 1: like on the weekends, like if you know record like
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  Speaker 1: they're not doing creepy ship like that. That's and I
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  Speaker 1: think that's why I want to say, like there's a
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  Speaker 1: distinction the reply guys in the samps like really kind
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  Speaker 1: of just give either like adoration or like actually monetary
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  Speaker 1: things without any expectation in return. So there's like some
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  Speaker 1: type of dynamic there. And so there's something like maybe
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if innocent maybe that's a better word,
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  Speaker 1: but there's just something where it's like it's not creepy.
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  Speaker 1: It can turn creepy, but it's not. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: it comes from a creepy place at first, unless it
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  Speaker 1: becomes obsessive. Then that's a whole different conversation about like
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  Speaker 1: stalking in the Internet. I totally agree with you. And
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  Speaker 1: the boundaries are so important because we each who who
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  Speaker 1: among us has not had our fair share of pseudo stalkers,
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  Speaker 1: actual stalkers, and boundary crossers. It's one way or another.
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  Speaker 1: I'll wrapped into one man. Yeah, I've had that one
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  Speaker 1: before too. We acknowledge that that's there, and that's the
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  Speaker 1: thing we've had to navigate that this is not that
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  Speaker 1: this is something that has been for us relatively pleasant.
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  Speaker 1: It's like playful. It's playful. Um, it's painful and for
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  Speaker 1: me in particular, and it's just because there's just have
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  Speaker 1: You've been in a long term relationship and I've been
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  Speaker 1: enjoying my reply guys in my sims, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean. And so there's a distinction there. But it's
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  Speaker 1: funny too because a part of the thing with this
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  Speaker 1: particular simp um my former nail sponsor, is that he
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  Speaker 1: also likes it what I mean to him and like
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  Speaker 1: he'll tell me that and it's not like over the
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  Speaker 1: phone or FaceTime. It's like all in the d M s.
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  Speaker 1: I'll ignore the funk out of him all the time,
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  Speaker 1: you know, or not respond or like not look at
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  Speaker 1: it or whatever it is, leave it on scene. And
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  Speaker 1: that's kind of like the dynamic and almost kind of
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  Speaker 1: part of what he's seeking, you know. And then if
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  Speaker 1: I'm rude and super short, he's into that as well.
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  Speaker 1: So yes, so so on the one hand, like it
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  Speaker 1: is pure, but on the other hand, I know that
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  Speaker 1: he's he likes it, so it's stillberving on his end.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good way for me. I guess what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: When they're not getting anything out of it, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: like they're physically not getting like they're not gonna they
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  Speaker 1: don't expect to hook up with you, and they don't
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  Speaker 1: expect to date you. That's right, I want. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: think that's like the important part. I like, you know,
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: like you mentioned, have been in a long term relationship
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  Speaker 1: for almost the entirety of the podcast at this point, right,
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  Speaker 1: so if you're a new listener, been in a relationship
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  Speaker 1: since uh, and so it's been a three years, and
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  Speaker 1: so of course my like reply guys and dms that
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  Speaker 1: kind of stuff have like dwindled over the years because
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  Speaker 1: that happens, right, you're publicly in a relationship on social
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  Speaker 1: media and um, but it's interesting to see the men
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  Speaker 1: that have stayed knowing that I've been a relationship and
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  Speaker 1: never like cross the line, but like continued to reply
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  Speaker 1: to the stories. UM. And it was really interesting because
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  Speaker 1: on my birthday, I you know, received a bunch of
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  Speaker 1: dm s from a lot of y'all thank you for
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  Speaker 1: from a lot of my our listeners. And I got
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  Speaker 1: this message in particular that like cross my eye because
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, what is this person saying to me?
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  Speaker 1: Right and just now I'm like looking at this threat
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  Speaker 1: and he has like replied to tons of my stories
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  Speaker 1: but just like fire emojis, hard eye emojis, like and
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  Speaker 1: that's it. But on my birthday he sent his first
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  Speaker 1: message and it's so intense. It's brief, but I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: this is a very intensing to sato stranger. He says,
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  Speaker 1: it's a lot that's like very romantic and that's like
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  Speaker 1: something your partner should tell you. And it was really
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  Speaker 1: it was really sweet. I just like replied like gracias
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  Speaker 1: with like a little hard because I was like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: this is nice and sweet. Um. But it's interesting that
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  Speaker 1: the reply guys that are there even when you're in
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  Speaker 1: a relationship, but they're still not trying to like hit
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  Speaker 1: a fine line because I have had multiple reply guys
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  Speaker 1: um again, some were just replied guys and then some
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  Speaker 1: were replied guys and simple combos who very clearly, based
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  Speaker 1: on their own pages, not only were they always in
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  Speaker 1: my ship, but they have wives or Beyonce's or long
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  Speaker 1: term girlfriends. And so the ones who have super intense
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  Speaker 1: a wife, a girlfriend that they live with, a tenure relationship,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm describing actual people in these moments. Um, it
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  Speaker 1: gets to be uncomfortable for me to be like, like,
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  Speaker 1: you're on my ship all day responding to me and
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  Speaker 1: I don't, and it makes it less fun for me
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  Speaker 1: knowing that you're a sucking cornball asked dude, who's probably
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  Speaker 1: unfaithful emotionally, if not physically to the woman in your life,
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  Speaker 1: Because if you're spending this much time just in my
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  Speaker 1: d MS, I would never want to date a guy
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  Speaker 1: who has camped out in some bitches d MS. I
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: really wouldn't personally. No, it's true. And that's the thing.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: It's like, once you have had a relationship with a
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: reply guy, you're you could never date them because you
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: know how they are with women they don't even know,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: you know. It's like I was saying, like Mola Tomala
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: when we were prepping for this episode, I was like
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, you never know. I don't think that my
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: man is a type of man to be in the
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: d m s when he's barely in my d M.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: So you know, I don't think he's in the stranger's dms.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: And if he is, like you know, we'll figure that
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: sh it out. But um, yeah, it's like it's interesting
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: because then it's the question is how do they treat
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: the women in their lives? Are they this attentive, are
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: they this sweet? Are they this romantic like? Or are
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: they not paying attention to them at all? I'm confused.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: I'm confused. And then I also recognize that there are
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: reply guys that I have blocked quite simply for being annoying,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: right because it there's it can be too much. It
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: can get to be too much, and then some of
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: them can be a little antagonistic, and especially when they're
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: straight men, and what they're doing is like challenging the
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: content or riffing content. They're like trying to engage you
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: with your content, and I'm like you, actually, I literally
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: would never want to talk to you about anything that
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: I've posted for any reason. And so what I also
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: need some reply guys to hear is that you can
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: be a true nuisance. And I've blocked many many reply
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: guys for something super minor just because it was annoying. Yeah. Yeah,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: that's real. That is so real. Trying to think if
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: if I've had to block anyone, I don't think so
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: I do. If you're annoying and you have a wife,
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: it's like a no brainer. It takes very little to
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: block a married man. Yeah, very little. We've talked about
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: that on the show before. There was this like dude
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: that was in Molase ms Um constantly and he was married,
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: he had a wife, he had a kid, and I
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: like quickly found her Facebook because he was becoming a nuisance.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, my dude, like you have your Facebook
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: linked on your profile and you're you know, being like
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: really flirty and creepy with Mala and you have a
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: whole wife. And I found her Facebook in a minute.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: And if I was that type of bitch, I would
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: have DMed her and been like, look look what your
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: man is doing. But I'm not, honestly, but I could
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: it of because it puts us in this awkward situation
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: where it's like me just minding my business and living
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: my life, and I really need you to understand. I'm
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: I'm laid out on my couch smoking a joint, my
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: shaggy fucking dog sitting on top of me in a
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: bathroom above my grandmother's garage, posting bullshit on the internet
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: for fun, you know what I mean. And then casually
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: I end up having all this evidence of my d
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: MS of partnered men being scumbags, and it puts this
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: weird sense of responsibility onto the receiving party us to
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: be like, I have a choice here. I could probably
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: provide this information to this man's wife, who would be
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: as found in point two seconds, because now it's in
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: my d m s and I have it, and I
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: could ruin a marriage. But I didn't ruin the marriage.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: He ruined the marriage when he was replying to me
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: every thirty seconds, and then on a picture of me
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: said that the crease between my thigh and my hip
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: was so long that they needed to paint pictures of
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: me and put it in museums. And I'm like, it's
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: now too so I'm just gonna block you to preserve
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: my own sanity. But then I still just had that interaction,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: and I'm like that poor lady, because it's not she's
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: not going to deal with me, but she'll have to
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: deal with somebody event you know. Oh yeah, absolutely, that
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: kind of stuff comes back. It's hercles. It like has
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: its way not to you, but to the man or
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: to the unfaithful partner whomever. That maybe, oh girl, yeah,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: that's weird. I couldn't. I couldn't. I wouldn't know if
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: I had a married man in my d M s
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: because most of these men are private pages and I'm
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: not going to friend them, so I'm like, maybe possibly,
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: who know? So the reply guy slash simp that. And
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: again I when I talk about these guys, these are
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: guys that with me. There is already years of work
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: that they've put in to establish themselves in these terms,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: and they themselves have self identified this way okay, as
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: reply guys and as sims, so this is like and
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: they also knows who these guys are because I share
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: with her. Oh yeah, if you're listening, I know who
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: she's talking about. And I know who you are. I've
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: looked at your page. Okay, you know who you are,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: and if you have a wife, I clearly can find her.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: So just be aware. Tread lightly, tread lightly, so I
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: have not the classes vocal is what I'm saying exactly. So, um,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: we this this second person, I'm gonna call him pandemic
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: prospy because he has really dedicated himself to showing me
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: and proving to me that he could keep me alive
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: and fed during global collapse and the apocalypse. So this man,
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: who again he has been putting in the work for
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: years now, he will send me literally the other day
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: he sent me photos of the dear meat that he
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: cut up when he likes slaughtered and dressed a deer
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: and he's like, yeah, I killed it with a bone
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: arrow and he's like, we can move to the mountains,
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: bring your roller skates, like, bring your mic you will survive.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: He will send me pictures of his vegetable garden. It's
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: very hardy. It's it's a very impressive vegetable garden and
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: the weed that he grows, because he needs me to
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: know that he can hook it up in the in
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: the apocalypse. It's the only way I'm going to survive.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: So this is like a very um pristine model of
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: the simp slash for reply guy, the pandemic Crosby. He
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: wants you to know, he wants me to know that
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: he's useful and that he is really focused on my
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: survival and well being. And for me, if you're gonna
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: be camped out in a woman's dems, provide some value
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: give her, Like why are you there? What is your purpose?
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: What is your reason? If you're gonna simp, what are
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: you offering? Because I think that's one of the keys, Like,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: you can't just be a simple just for the sake
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: of being a simple. What do you have to offer?
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: This is what we need to know. Damn yes, pandemic puppy.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: He has been making himself useful. He knows, he knows
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: what he's doing. He knows, he knows. Oh oh, and
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: let's say this to let's talk about this too. You
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: can at one point be a notable simp, but you
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: can get knocked off the totem poll very easily, get
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: knocked off the rocks. So you can get bumped. It's
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: not that's a thing too, and that has happened to some.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: There are some simps who have definitely been bumped as
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: of recently. Why did they? Why did they get bumped?
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: You know exactly who I'm talking about. Ummm, give me
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: a hint. I'm gonna say another one that there's years
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: in the game and monetary support. Yes, yes, yes, but
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: no longer a notable Sam. Yeah, so he gets he's
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: at the end of the line. Basically, he doesn't even
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: get an honorable mention anymore. God. And this is the thing,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: there is a bit of competitiveness to this because my form,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I'm going to read you another another d M, another
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: quote direct from my nail sponsor, because again they're self aware,
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: and so he says, of the simple army, we are
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: a legion, the local SIMP legion. I'm trying not to
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: be competitive and claim best supporting fan from the problematic
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: male side right of our listenership, because we do have
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: some men who listen and who follow right, And this
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: is where the simps are coming from. So there's competition, people,
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: there's competition, and they're all buying for the top spot.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: So if you're not looking up, you can get bumped
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: at any moment, and you're not even worth mentioning at
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: that point, you know what I mean. So these are
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: things important to keep in mind if you want to
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: sim yes, agreed. What for me, what I do is
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: because I'm you know, in a relationship, so there's a
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: different type of boundary that needs to be had where
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't be responding to these dudes, like
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: I just can't. That's just not I know. So for
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: me what helps is I'm like, thanks so much, here's
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: the project. Here's look at that our radio. Direct all
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: your energy that way. You know you want to you
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: want to send money, send it to the podcast. You
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: know I don't need it for me. You can send
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: it that way to the project and we can both
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: reef the benefits. Right. And so if you're in a
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: relationship and you have your reply guys and you're launching
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: your business, that's that's what you do. And ultimately that's
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: the best way to simple support her dreams, support her dreams. Yes, yes, simple,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: that's it, period, very simple. So once again, hit the
• 29:10
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• 29:16
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• 29:20
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• 29:24
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• 29:27
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• 29:30
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• 29:34
  Speaker 1: My man became a patron recently, he's been he's been
• 29:38
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• 29:42
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• 29:48
  Speaker 1: you know you just they gotta you gotta redirect that
• 29:52
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• 29:59
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• 30:04
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• 30:14
  Speaker 1: love to all of our you know, queer women that
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: are in the d ms, in the local ms, personal dms,
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: they're there, they're there. We love y'all. We appreciate you,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: you know, wanting to help us in any type of way,
• 30:34
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• 30:37
  Speaker 1: sending donations, you know, all of that. So we see
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: you as well. We see you and we do love
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: to see it. We do love to see it. So
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: keep the love coming. We are open and receptive and
• 30:53
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• 31:00
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• 31:02
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• 31:05
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• 31:09
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• 31:11
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• 31:13
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• 31:15
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