Latest / SOTA Personal Training Podcast / Team Getaway Special: Get to Know Your Coaches! (Ep. 27)
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- 0:08Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Soda Personal Training
- 0:11podcast. We help busy adults get strong
- 0:14and fit. But this weekend we aren't doing
- 0:17any of that because it's party weekend.
- 0:21It's party weekends everybody. Raise your glass, raise your
- 0:24coffee, your water, your 0 calorie non alcoholic beverage.
- 0:27Let's make a toast. Party weekend.
- 0:29OK, party weekend. We're going to talk about what
- 0:31personal trainers do for fun. Somebody take it away, Phil.
- 0:35Go all right, totally off off regular schedule.
- 0:38This is not going to work for me.
- 0:41But no, we've got I've got like some this or that questions just
- 0:44to help our listeners, our community.
- 0:46And so that gets to know our coaches better and what we like
- 0:49to do in our off time, if you're curious.
- 0:53Do you want to just start with your questions out first?
- 0:55Let me like, OK, let me intro this by saying that we are like
- 0:57all here right now. There is so many people in this
- 0:59room. We got 123-4567.
- 1:01So we got me coach Sean, coach Blake, coach Katie, coach
- 1:05Maddie, coach Rob, coach Ben and coach Phil.
- 1:07OK? So seven, OK, seven of us.
- 1:10And we have no idea how this is going to go down.
- 1:11Somebody give us a little background.
- 1:13Katie, why don't you talk a little bit and just say like
- 1:15where we are, what we're doing? Intro the setting for us.
- 1:20Get up on the mic, K? There you.
- 1:24Go Hello everybody, we are in the beautiful city of
- 1:28Alexandria, MN at a very nice Airbnb and Coach Kira will be
- 1:34here in a little bit but for now we're just enjoying each other's
- 1:39company and doing some team bonding.
- 1:43Some team bonding? Yep, Yeah, Phil, take it away.
- 1:47You wanna go into these, these questions that you're gonna ask
- 1:50us? Let's do let's do a rapid fire
- 1:52session of some this or thats OK, I got a list of these and I
- 1:57think I'll just rapid fire and we'll go through one at a time
- 2:01and we'll just go through like this.
- 2:03We'll do like a little roll call.
- 2:05So let's let's start with that get some that sounds.
- 2:10Good. Remember everybody get in pretty
- 2:11close to your mics when you speak.
- 2:13You know, 4 to 6 inches. Away, yeah.
- 2:16All right, all right. Good first category, everyday
- 2:19life and habits. All right then.
- 2:21Then up first, Coach Ben. Coffee or tea?
- 2:24Definitely coffee. Rob Yeah.
- 2:29Rob early bird or night owl? Night owl, Oh boy.
- 2:34Maddie paper planner or phone calendar?
- 2:39Buffering. I do both.
- 2:43Katie cook at home or eat out. Cook at home you.
- 2:47Can answer that for. OK.
- 2:48All right. Excellent.
- 2:49Why are you looking at me like that?
- 2:51Cook at home. You love cooking for me, Blake?
- 2:56Netflix or YouTube? YouTube.
- 2:58Oh quick Sean, text or call, I know the answer to this.
- 3:02Call. I'm a 90s guy.
- 3:04Voice message, right? Yes, it's sometimes it's a
- 3:07voice. You're right, you're right.
- 3:08Yeah, Ben, Road trip or flight? Flight.
- 3:12Flight for Ben Rob Big city or small town?
- 3:15Small town. Natty beach day or hiking day?
- 3:19Beach Day. Katie, summer or winter?
- 3:23Summer all day. Excellent.
- 3:25All day we're on the food and drink Coach Blake, pizza or
- 3:29tacos. Pizza wrong.
- 3:34Sean sweet or salty? Salty.
- 3:37Easy. I know all Barbie nuts.
- 3:38I know all of Sean's answers before.
- 3:42Ben ice cream cone or milkshake? Ice cream cone question.
- 3:47Mark Rob Wine or beer, Beer, Quick Maddie breakfast or
- 3:52dinner, Food all day. Probably I should say breakfast.
- 3:59That's the right answer. Good, good, good, Katie.
- 4:03Chocolate or vanilla? Chocolate.
- 4:06How do you feel about that film? Vanilla boy.
- 4:11All right. Like pancakes or waffles?
- 4:14Pancakes. Good answer, Sean.
- 4:15Spicy or mild? All right, I would say spicy,
- 4:19but my fiance would say that I can't handle.
- 4:21Anything spicy? Different.
- 4:22Yeah. Different opinions.
- 4:24Yeah. Ben.
- 4:25Fancy restaurant or hole in the wall joint?
- 4:28Fancy restaurant. Bob OK Rob, a smoothie or coffee
- 4:34to start the day. Coffee.
- 4:36Quick answers, This is a good answer.
- 4:38Good question for you, Rob, but it's going to Maddie, Marvel or
- 4:41DC? Don't ask me.
- 4:43Marvel. New question.
- 4:47Star Wars or Star Trek? Next question?
- 4:50You're killing me. Well, I know more Star Wars than
- 4:53Star Trek. The only thing I know with Star
- 4:54Trek is there's someone named Worf because that's what my
- 4:56grandma named her dog after. Fair enough.
- 4:58So that's yeah. I love it.
- 5:00He was a Klingon. He was the chief of security on
- 5:03them. We'll give you, yeah, we'll give
- 5:05you the next one, Maddie. Comedy or drama?
- 5:07Comedy. Katy reality TV or scripted?
- 5:16It depends. Yeah, they're all scripted, so
- 5:20oh gosh, all. Right Blake concert or sporting
- 5:26event? Sporting event, Sean, podcast or
- 5:28audio? Podcast.
- 5:32Doing them or listening to them? Both.
- 5:34Yeah, exactly. OK, Ben, movie at home or
- 5:39theater? Theater.
- 5:43Rob TikTok or Instagram? Instagram.
- 5:46Maddie Rock or hip hop? Rock.
- 5:50Really. OK.
- 5:51All right. I thought you were going to say
- 5:52the. Other I know we're learning.
- 5:55We're learning here today, Katie.
- 5:56Super Bowl or Oscars. Super Bowl.
- 6:01Yeah, sure. Sure, just think I'm real.
- 6:04Hard about it. All right, travel and adventure,
- 6:06Blake Mountains or ocean? Mountains.
- 6:09Montana man. Yeah, cowboy Sean, Camping or
- 6:13hotel? I mean, I would like to say that
- 6:16I can do camping successfully, but just hotel, I'm not, I'm not
- 6:19gonna. OK Ben, explore a new city or
- 6:26revisit a favorite. Which is a good one for you.
- 6:29Yeah, explore a new city. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 6:32OK. Rob Cruise or all inclusive
- 6:35resort? Have you done either of those?
- 6:38Yes, I'd have hated them both actually.
- 6:39I've never, I've never been on a cruise.
- 6:41I would never go on a cruise. So yeah.
- 6:42You would not like a cruise then.
- 6:43No, I have a whole argument against cruises All inclusive
- 6:46resort in that case. OK, all inclusive.
- 6:48All right. Good, Maddie.
- 6:50Spontaneous trip or carefully planned?
- 6:55So you spontaneous there. You go, it's more fun Katie
- 6:58backpacking your luxury travel. I know the answer.
- 7:03I think I do. You say luxury travel, right?
- 7:07Luxury backpack. Glamping, glamping, glamping.
- 7:14Blake National Parks or theme parks?
- 7:17National Park. OK, Montana, man.
- 7:19All right. Sean's staycation or vacation
- 7:21abroad? Vacation.
- 7:23Yeah, vacation abroad. Yeah, you'd really do
- 7:26staycations. Yeah, I mean, I don't know,
- 7:29you'd have to define. Days of.
- 7:30Vacation, yeah, just move on, I suppose to.
- 7:33Yeah. Ben long flight or long drive?
- 7:37They're both terrible. Probably a long drive 'cause you
- 7:40can stop easier. That's fair.
- 7:42That's fair. Rob.
- 7:43Cold weather getaway or tropical escape?
- 7:47Tropical escape. Yeah.
- 7:48Yeah, Don. Alright.
- 7:51The last 10, thought provoking and fun.
- 7:53These might take longer. I think we can maybe expand on
- 7:55these if we'd like. Maddie always be slightly late
- 7:59or always slightly. Early.
- 8:01Yeah, yeah, yeah. All right, Katie, Read minds or
- 8:07be invisible. Read minds.
- 8:10Yeah, yeah, Read minds all. Right.
- 8:13Did you just read her mind? I did.
- 8:15Actually, yes, you. Guys.
- 8:17Are incredible. Women already can.
- 8:19When it would be invisible then, so you could do both.
- 8:21You don't need that superpower. You already have it, Blake.
- 8:24Unlimited time or unlimited money?
- 8:30Unlimited time because I can make still make money on all
- 8:32that time. Right.
- 8:34That's a defining Yeah, it's a funny piece of you.
- 8:36Like that's right. OK, Sean, never.
- 8:42No, this is a bad one for you. Never use social media again or
- 8:45never watch TV again. Well, actually both.
- 8:48It's a pretty easy idea, I know. And I may, I may do that
- 8:51starting in June of 2026. I mean, the TV one is easy, you
- 8:54know, depending on what you count as TV, right.
- 8:56But social media, yeah, yeah, I may just get off of the social
- 9:00media just forever. I might.
- 9:02Or for at least for like 10 years, you know, 'cause then you
- 9:04do. Like, this is just me going way
- 9:06off on a tangent here, but like, you do like Doctor Dre does.
- 9:10This is 1. Thank you.
- 9:11This is 1. No, but like, you do like Doctor
- 9:14Dre does, and you only drop an album every seven years, you
- 9:16know, So then it builds up to it, you know, like this guy's
- 9:19been off social media for seven years and then comes back on the
- 9:22Instagram algorithm, shows everybody your story if you take
- 9:25like that much of A hiatus. OK, So anyway.
- 9:28So it's about the comeback. It's about the comeback, yes.
- 9:31Sean's back every Yeah. You you create FOMO.
- 9:33You create FOMO in the algorithm.
- 9:36That's right. I I think it's a real thing you.
- 9:38Have it all worked out. I love it.
- 9:40OK, OK, good Ben, have a rewind button or a pause button for
- 9:45life. Rewind, Rewind.
- 9:49Yeah, yeah, I could go back and fix the mistakes.
- 9:52Sure. Are they mistakes or are they
- 9:54necessary? Learning opportunity.
- 9:56OK, there you. Go.
- 9:56There you go. OK Rob, be famous or be wealthy.
- 10:05Oh, I guess be famous. Yeah.
- 10:09It's easier if I'm already famous.
- 10:10It's easier to also become wealthy.
- 10:12But if I'm wealthy without being famous, there's probably a
- 10:14reason I don't want to be famous with this wealth.
- 10:16Yeah, yeah. What would you want to be famous
- 10:18for? I.
- 10:19Don't know, probably for being a famous writer or an artist or
- 10:22something. Yeah.
- 10:25You. Were right you were writing out
- 10:27there? Were you getting ready for AD
- 10:28and D thing? Or no, I just, I just wanted to
- 10:31something to do with my brain and my hands and drawing and
- 10:33writing little adventure D&D stuff like that is a good way to
- 10:37keep my ADHD occupied. So I made a little battle map
- 10:39and based around like the lake that we have out here actually,
- 10:42and wrote little scenarios and scenes and like here's this
- 10:45place and here's what it's like and just all this, the
- 10:47imagination stuff. I like it.
- 10:49I try to do that instead of look at my phone too much.
- 10:51It's a good goal, Yeah. It's a very good call.
- 10:53Anything. Cuz I tell my daughter not to
- 10:54look at screens all the time, so now I have to not look at
- 10:56screens all the time too. Yes.
- 10:58That's awesome, Rob. Yeah, that's really.
- 11:00Great. They lead from the front.
- 11:01You do, and it's hard. Yeah, it's hard to lead by
- 11:05example. Cuz I'll be like don't, don't,
- 11:07don't, don't look at your screen so much, yeah.
- 11:09Right. Scroll on my phone.
- 11:11It can't be like can be that guy.
- 11:13We've been doing that a lot more.
- 11:14We've been coloring a lot with the girls and it's so great.
- 11:21I haven't like drawn. I used to be in a cartooning
- 11:22class when I was a kid. I wasn't good at like drawing
- 11:24real hands. They say if you can draw like a
- 11:26hand, you can draw realism. I could never, could never get
- 11:29it right. So they signed me up for a
- 11:30cartooning class. Cool.
- 11:32It's come in handy. He's fantastic at drawing like
- 11:35cartoon stuff. It's really fun.
- 11:36Beast at Pictionary. Oh, that's, that's great.
- 11:43This is the side follow question.
- 11:44Who has like an artistic side? If there was an artsy part of
- 11:47you, what would you have been? Shaking his head furiously.
- 11:51Definitely not not there's I disagree.
- 11:53There's something. What's the most artistic part of
- 11:56you, perhaps? Cooking.
- 11:59The. Artist going.
- 12:00To say culinary. Arts.
- 12:03That's very true. That's your canvas, Rob.
- 12:06Writing. Would you say writing or?
- 12:08Writing. I actually used to want to be a
- 12:10cartoonist. There was a long time I wanted
- 12:12to be a comic book illustrator. Like that was like my plan.
- 12:15My life was through like 5th through 8th grade.
- 12:18That obviously didn't wind up happening, but I love drawing.
- 12:23Drawing, writing, obviously doing Dungeons and Dragons I
- 12:27consider sort of like an art because it's like theatrical
- 12:31cooking. Talking about my own podcast and
- 12:33stuff like this. Like anything creative and
- 12:35artistic, I like it. Except for music.
- 12:37I can't do music. It's the RF podcast was the.
- 12:41RF podcast. RF Fitness podcast.
- 12:44Yeah, yeah, I'm wearing this shirt.
- 12:45Actually you are keep questing. Keep questing everyone.
- 12:49We tried doing DND a couple of these outings last two years and
- 12:53I thought that we had Lion. It's great.
- 12:55I had no idea what to expect. And I'm like, it's like, as you
- 12:58put, I think you're like writing the book along the way.
- 13:01Like you pretty much structure. Yeah.
- 13:03And then we just, like, decide it's like those old Goosebumps
- 13:06books, like turn to page 23. We could choose an adventure
- 13:08story, yeah, but yeah. But like Ken, we're all writing
- 13:10it at the same time. But it's kind of a big idea.
- 13:12And if it's hard to get subscribed to it, it's it's hard
- 13:15to have fun. Yeah, yeah.
- 13:16If you don't have like, a really, like, visual
- 13:18imagination, I think it's really tough If you're not big on
- 13:21reading stories and listening to stories by yourself, it's pretty
- 13:25much yeah, yeah. Maddie, what do you, what would
- 13:28you say most artistic component? In the kitchen, yeah.
- 13:33Culinary arts, yeah. I do have a little musical
- 13:37background, so I do play the flute, but I wouldn't
- 13:41necessarily call that creative because I'm reading.
- 13:45Oh, you're creating. You're creating, Yeah.
- 13:48I suppose. Everyone's.
- 13:49Everyone's just copying something.
- 13:51Else not everyone. And there's no realist few
- 13:52artists, right? I know, and that's what I I.
- 13:55Yeah, I feel like I didn't know that you played the flute.
- 13:57Why have you not? It wasn't lost.
- 13:59It. Out.
- 14:00Did you bring it here? Yeah, actually I'm just like,
- 14:03wait with me everywhere and. No, I'm glad we're on the same.
- 14:06Page like an actually, yeah, and.
- 14:09Waiting. Waiting for.
- 14:11This funny as you actually slept.
- 14:12Out of her sleep. I just prepare a little bit
- 14:15later pops out. Yeah.
- 14:18I thought you never asked. Yeah, I've been waiting.
- 14:21For this moment, Katie, what's the most artistic part of you?
- 14:26Oh. Boy, there's a lot.
- 14:30I like crafting things like making clothing or like
- 14:37personalizing apparel like our soda jerseys.
- 14:40And I like, I love woodworking and making.
- 14:47You need a lot of space and time to do a lot of these things, so
- 14:50it'll come back. When I met Katie I didn't
- 14:53realize that I had one core of the tool.
- 14:56She had like power tools and everything.
- 14:59So now we have like 3 circular saws and three air compressors.
- 15:03Yes, I like creating things. Yeah, yeah, Tools.
- 15:08Blake, what would you say? I would say I can go the
- 15:10culinary route and like if you need me to organize and do like
- 15:15interior design, I can help with that.
- 15:17Like I did that at, I did that at the last gym where we had a
- 15:20whole renovation of like moving. Around the place.
- 15:22What? Yeah.
- 15:22No, no, we just did one of. Those.
- 15:26I know, that's the thing. I opened my big mouth.
- 15:29To our GM and he's like, how about you draw out a blueprint?
- 15:31And then we'll set it all up and I'm like, oh crap, now I wish I
- 15:33wouldn't have said anything. Well, you now are gonna have a
- 15:37few more responsibilities. By the headache.
- 15:41For that nugget of info. Pretend like he doesn't know how
- 15:43to cut a hole in drywall. OK.
- 15:46OK, buddy. That's good to know.
- 15:49I love it. Sean, most artistic part of you?
- 15:52Well, I would love to be a rapper and I'm hoping at some
- 15:56point in the future, you know, because realistically, this
- 15:59personal training thing is not gonna work out for that long,
- 16:01you know, I mean, like. Because of the AI.
- 16:03Probably, yeah. I mean, like at some point, you
- 16:06know, it's a job that will take a little bit longer to get get
- 16:09replaced by AI, but it will happen.
- 16:12The rapping. No, no, no, no wrapping is going
- 16:14to take a debatable, but no, no personal trainers will be
- 16:18replaced by AI at some point soon enough.
- 16:20And it's, we're going to get into a world where people, like,
- 16:22all we're good for is our creativity and these random art
- 16:25skills, right? And like, the problem with me as
- 16:28a rapper is like, I'm a decent lyricist, but I don't have a
- 16:31great flow yet. So I'd have to work on that.
- 16:35And then I wouldn't really know which voice to use, you know?
- 16:38Because like my regular random voice just just wouldn't make
- 16:40any sense to like, rap like this, you know?
- 16:43But I'm pretty good with languages.
- 16:44I'm decent with like other accents and stuff.
- 16:46So maybe I could figure something out.
- 16:49So I haven't really thought through that.
- 16:50So that is my backup plan though if soda fails.
- 16:53Dude that could be like your whole shtick is like rapping in
- 16:55several languages on the. Same.
- 16:56Yeah, I was gonna say so. You speak 4 languages, Bengali
- 16:59you speak. Well, OK, what I really want to
- 17:02get. Any big Bengali rappers?
- 17:03So. Could you take that mark?
- 17:05Yeah, but that's. A serious question.
- 17:06OK, hold on, hold on, hold on. So Bengali is the worst of the
- 17:09languages that I speak because I am still learning it.
- 17:11So my fiance speaks Bengali. But I mean, OK, so if we really
- 17:15want to go into that. So I speak Spanish and
- 17:16Portuguese pretty damn good. Arabic's still and pretty good.
- 17:20French mediocre, whatever, right.
- 17:23I mean, the the multilingual rap scene, if I can put it that way.
- 17:28Yeah. We might have to brainstorm.
- 17:32Let's hold that thought and brainstorm it after the episode,
- 17:35you know? Yeah, some potential, but thank
- 17:38you for the question. Yeah, absolutely.
- 17:41OK, OK, let's see, let's see one more.
- 17:45OK, here's here's one that will do one more altogether, not at
- 17:51the same time, but then we'll wrap it up with this one.
- 17:53As far as these questions, would you rather have dinner with your
- 17:56younger self or your future self?
- 17:59Then why don't you take that one first?
- 18:01I think similarly to pausing or rewinding, I would have dinner
- 18:08with my past self and tell them all the things they could do
- 18:14better and then I'd be a better future self.
- 18:20What if you could learn from your future self and from here?
- 18:23On I don't think I need to learn about my future stuff from here
- 18:26on out. I think that fix my earlier
- 18:28mistakes. That's fair, That's fair.
- 18:30But then you wouldn't be who you are today.
- 18:32And you're pretty. You're pretty wonderful because
- 18:35of your past experiences. I wouldn't change you a bit.
- 18:41That's so nice. It's all sweet.
- 18:44Like what it I mean I mean that. Rob Yeah.
- 18:50Would you rather have dinner with you and yourself or your
- 18:52future self? Future Self.
- 18:54Yeah, that's quick. Yeah.
- 18:55What got you there so fast? Well I always know the answers
- 18:58to questions but for one thing is I made a question the answer
- 19:03doesn't actually matter. So it's easy to have a quick
- 19:05answer on low stakes thing, but a future self, because I'm often
- 19:10very like I have a daughter who's six.
- 19:12I'm very concerned about the future overall.
- 19:15So kind of knowing like what's coming down the pipes, like what
- 19:17to expect. Like anyone with kids of any age
- 19:20knows that there's always a surprise, something like some
- 19:23brand new thing you'd never thought of was going to happen
- 19:25about this kid that you're going to have to address for the first
- 19:28time ever in real time. So to have like any sort of
- 19:32headway on that would be pretty cool.
- 19:34Yeah. And I guess, you know, to invest
- 19:35in Bitcoin or whatever. Yeah, right.
- 19:37Exactly. Whatever the next.
- 19:39Question no, the Boo boos are the real deal you need to get a
- 19:41bunch right now yeah like for 20 years in the future we're.
- 19:44Going to be trading with Boo. Boo.
- 19:47That's your money. That's your money, the American
- 19:48dollar. For new currency.
- 19:50It's a la Boo Boo based economy from.
- 19:51Now 500 la Boo boos, I don't know what they were.
- 19:55And someone's like, it's just a doll.
- 19:57I'm like, yeah, it doesn't seem like that.
- 19:59It's just a Beanie Baby gamble. So yeah, it's something to
- 20:02report to us. That'd be good, Maddie.
- 20:05Mine would be the same answer as Ben's, so easy and quick.
- 20:10All right, for the record, I wouldn't change you at all
- 20:13either. Katie, same question for.
- 20:17You very similar to Rob's answer.
- 20:22I wouldn't change a thing about my past because it brought me to
- 20:25where I am now and I'm very thankful for all of that.
- 20:30But yes, having kids makes the future a little uncomfortable
- 20:35because you don't have control over it nor can you predict or
- 20:39plan for it. So it would be nice to speak to
- 20:44my future self and be like, you know how you were so worried
- 20:47about. Blah blah blah.
- 20:49Just don't. And just having that reassurance
- 20:52would be very comforting, yeah. Quick follow up question, how
- 20:56come you didn't say that you would change anything about me
- 20:58or not? Just curious because you kind of
- 21:01you talked about them. No, you didn't.
- 21:03Just you actually didn't answer that question.
- 21:05I'm just kidding, I know. But I also wouldn't change
- 21:07anything about you well or any of you.
- 21:10You guys are all really great. It's.
- 21:12Really sweet. Oh yeah, Blake, dinner with your
- 21:15younger self or future? I'd go future that way if some
- 21:18things didn't work out for him, I can manipulate those.
- 21:20Oh. Yeah, manipulation.
- 21:23OK, You seen that movie Butterfly Effect with Ashton
- 21:26Kutcher? See, that's what I'm saying.
- 21:27That's what I mean is like, you can't.
- 21:29You can't mess with the past. That's right, we've seen too
- 21:32many movies about. That, but in the future they
- 21:33have the technology to make it. That's right.
- 21:35That's right, Sean. Dinner with the younger self for
- 21:38future. Dinner with future self.
- 21:40Not because I wouldn't change anything about the past.
- 21:42I would change like 100 things about my past if I could, but I
- 21:46would. So here's how I would frame
- 21:48this. Like if you could say, like,
- 21:50hey, we're gonna have, you're gonna have dinner with your
- 21:51future self from 2100, right? Like you're guaranteeing me that
- 21:55I live to be 111. Like Cyborg Sean?
- 21:58Well, yeah. And then, like, I wouldn't even
- 21:59really give a shit what we eat for dinner and what we talk
- 22:02about. Like, I don't even care.
- 22:03It's like, all right, cool. Then I just go back to the
- 22:04present and I know I have 75 more years.
- 22:07Like, what a deal, right? So yeah, it wouldn't even be
- 22:10anything. It's cool.
- 22:11You'd stay alive, you know? So yeah, that's.
- 22:14Fantastic. Yeah, OK.
- 22:16Good. What's your answer, Mr. Shrub,
- 22:19to? Which one, additional parks or
- 22:21theme parks? I, I, I was just asking.
- 22:25I did not think about it at all. I think past stuff is tricky.
- 22:30There's lots of things you could say you want to change, but it's
- 22:33tough because it does align things with where you're at now
- 22:37in life. There's lots of things I thought
- 22:39at the moment that needed to happen.
- 22:42I thought I had to go to PT school and do all that.
- 22:44I was like convinced, like that's my path.
- 22:46I thought it was that that clear and then I didn't.
- 22:49And that's obviously led to, you know, the gym and everything.
- 22:52And I probably would have been miserable as a physical
- 22:54therapist. I would have been miserable.
- 22:57So, you know, you're just so caught up.
- 23:00And so I think I crossed enough of those barriers that I think
- 23:04future self would be interesting, you know, see if I
- 23:07in fact, you know, ended up getting hair implants or
- 23:09something. You know, what's, what's the
- 23:12technology like with that? Yeah, stupid.
- 23:16That's what happens when you ask me questions, OK?
- 23:18Imagine being filled with hair is quite.
- 23:21I'll show you a picture. Used to have the long sweeping
- 23:23like hockey hair look. You know the cow lick.
- 23:25I had all that. Justin Bieber hair.
- 23:28Well, never quite that far. It was never thick enough for
- 23:31that, but I was born with my dad's like receded hairline, you
- 23:36know, So I started off in a, in a deficit like.
- 23:39Born with a widow's feet. That's right.
- 23:40I was, everyone was always like, you look so much older than you
- 23:44are. And I was like, they think I
- 23:45look mature. And I was like.
- 23:46They're like. Balding dude.
- 23:49That's what they need. So I don't need to speak to that
- 23:51kid because he's he's totally ignorant and blissful, so.
- 23:55We'll leave that be. That's all I had as far as the
- 23:59this or that's you guys think you wanna, I don't know, tell us
- 24:03what what you do on any any week.
- 24:05If you had a week off, you could do anything.
- 24:08What would you do with that time?
- 24:10Well, you know, I guess I'd like to ask that with you guys.
- 24:13It's a question I generally wanna know, Ben.
- 24:17Yeah, if I had a week off, I would definitely pick some new
- 24:23destination that I haven't been to get a really nice hotel or
- 24:28Airbnb. Cuz I do really value relaxing
- 24:31and like having a comfy bed and like coming back to something
- 24:35and like being very chill, not having an agenda, but just
- 24:39enough adventure, just enough trying new things, love food,
- 24:42coffee shops, breweries, etcetera.
- 24:45So definitely would want somewhere new to explore, but
- 24:48also something like really cozy and chill to like have lazy
- 24:51mornings and maybe a glass of wine or two at night and just
- 24:56chill maybe with a view like a cool balcony either at the beach
- 25:01or a cityscape. Yeah, that's kind of what I
- 25:05would do. Just adventure around, have no
- 25:08agenda, check out new things, keep it low key, have.
- 25:12You been to Italy? No, but I think I would really
- 25:15do well. I think that's Italy.
- 25:18Yeah, I think most of Europe I would do really well.
- 25:22Yeah, I. Love it.
- 25:23Rob. About a week off, I'd probably
- 25:27go to jiu jitsu every day. Yeah, I'd probably go to jiu
- 25:30jitsu every day. I'd say I'd call my friends
- 25:36Monday morning so we can play Dungeons and Dragons Tuesday
- 25:39night, and then I'll roll after that session, play another game
- 25:43on Friday night, Do that 'cause I need time to plan for running
- 25:46the game in between. And then just spent a lot of
- 25:49time in the garden and like cooking with the girls and being
- 25:53kind of a homebody. I don't go places anymore.
- 25:56I don't need to. I don't.
- 25:58Want to? Yeah.
- 25:59I pay for this whole mortgage, man.
- 26:00We gotta spend time at the house.
- 26:02It's so expensive. Why would I want to go somewhere
- 26:04else? Yeah, I get my money's.
- 26:07Worth. Yeah.
- 26:08Maddie, what would you say? If yeah, it wasn't a vacation.
- 26:13Just catch up on, you know, do some, do some laundry.
- 26:16Whoa, whoa, whoa. Do.
- 26:17Some grocery shopping. And you can do whatever you do,
- 26:20chores, let's say money's like nothing.
- 26:22And you know you got. If money is not a factor then
- 26:24absolutely I'm booking a cruise without Rob.
- 26:27Yeah. Going.
- 26:30Sam's going on a trip, but like cuz I don't yeah, I don't really
- 26:35can't can't afford a luxury cruise.
- 26:37So with money being a factor, I'm hanging out at home getting
- 26:41stuff done, enjoying not working.
- 26:44Yeah. Yeah.
- 26:46You can. Yeah.
- 26:48I'm gonna stop. You can absolutely go on a
- 26:51cruise, Katie. I'm on a Carnival cruise.
- 26:53You should spend a little bit more than what we did.
- 26:55That was like. It's cheap as well.
- 26:56No, I. Royal Caribbean.
- 26:58I will never go on another cruise line other than Royal
- 27:00Caribbean. I had a blast on that one.
- 27:05Well then, that one's 2022 spending.
- 27:07I think next year's retreat should be out of.
- 27:10I don't think I want to go on a boat like that again.
- 27:13No, I need to like, I think to be able to like run away
- 27:16somewhere. That's the whole thing.
- 27:19You have nowhere to go. You're stuck.
- 27:21You're stuck in a neighborhood for an indeterminate amount of
- 27:23time with people you've never met in close quarters.
- 27:26Well, you have your own room you can go back to and just.
- 27:28Well, yeah, but it's like right on.
- 27:30You're living in a part. I spent four years in dorms.
- 27:32No, I did. I spent two years in dorms and
- 27:34that was bad, and that wasn't even on a part of the world that
- 27:37will actively kill me if I just walk away too far.
- 27:40That's fair that I will attest to that.
- 27:42When we were getting off at our Haiti stop, they're like not
- 27:47like walk past the really buff militiamen with machine guns and
- 27:53just go, go down a little bit further down the beach.
- 27:55I was like. Oh, they said, they said you
- 27:58can. You can go up and see them, but
- 28:00don't go past. Them then they were like just
- 28:02standing. Feel like they're still too
- 28:03close, you know, if you can see them, you should probably go
- 28:06the. Other way but but now I was
- 28:08looking at cruises a couple weeks ago and go to Haiti.
- 28:10It's really cheap so. Weird because of the militia,
- 28:13did you? Get that militia bonus.
- 28:16Yeah, that's right, the active militia.
- 28:17Cheap want to go to this area that's, you know, that's kind of
- 28:19iffy, but like I want to save a few bucks.
- 28:20It's all about a bargain. Katie, Katie a week, a week.
- 28:25What would you do? I was listening to you guys
- 28:29answer and it's really challenging for me to like
- 28:33picture a week because like I want to go on a trip with the
- 28:37girls, but then but then also I don't yeah, right.
- 28:41I want to go on a trip with you but I also don't right like.
- 28:46I'm picky. Yes, Maddie and I can.
- 28:52Go on a cruise with Maddie. I can go on a cruise with Maddie
- 28:55as long as then I don't, but I won't bring my computer, so I
- 28:59can't do any work. So then you're going to have to.
- 29:01It's hard to like picture what that looks like to be really
- 29:05honest. Have you ever done an Eat Pray
- 29:06Love solo adventure Pray? Love no she goes, but I
- 29:13definitely would. Just go hike up the that trail
- 29:16on the West Coast solo. Just sit with your thoughts.
- 29:19And I definitely will one day. But right now it's, it's
- 29:23challenging to like to remove myself.
- 29:27And then it's like we've only been away from the girls for
- 29:31like 2 days. But I'm like, I want to, I want
- 29:34to see him. I want to talk to him.
- 29:35It's tough right now, yeah. Blake.
- 29:41Well, I think I'm escaping out West to go off the grid at some
- 29:43national parks and. Stuff.
- 29:45With his cowboy hat. Can you hunt?
- 29:49Like, do you find joy in hunting?
- 29:51Like would you use time to do that?
- 29:53To talk to friends, they always want to do an elk hunt in like
- 29:56Colorado or Idaho or something like that.
- 29:57That would be fun. But after watching some videos
- 30:00of people doing it, that's a hell of a lot of hiking and a
- 30:03lot of ground cover. Now you don't think you have the
- 30:06stamina for it or what? I don't know.
- 30:08I don't think my knees will hold up.
- 30:09Yeah, you got bad knees. All these old knees.
- 30:13All right, Shawn. Shawn.
- 30:15Yep. What you got?
- 30:17For me, my fiance and I would go on a trip.
- 30:20We would go probably go France, Lebanon, Morocco, Portugal and
- 30:26then back in a week and well, we can.
- 30:28Do. Some we can do that.
- 30:30Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, just one night stay in all of them.
- 30:32And it'd be cool because like so she would, you know, she would
- 30:36want to do like the five star Rizzorti thing, like everywhere.
- 30:38And I'd be like, no, because I can't stand that.
- 30:40Like I just whenever I go to a different country, I cannot
- 30:43stand the whole like all inclusive thing.
- 30:46You know, it's just, it's not an authentic experience.
- 30:49Whatever. So we would probably argue over
- 30:51that quite a bit. But like, in terms of like what
- 30:55we would do, well, I mean, I don't really do relaxing that
- 30:58well, so yeah. So weird to hear from.
- 31:01You in terms of like what we would do, I mean, we would go to
- 31:05some local coffee shops. I would find there's OK, so I'm
- 31:09a member at anytime fitness. I'm not sure if I'm supposed to
- 31:11say that on this podcast, but fuck it anyway.
- 31:13But so like there is there are any times all around the world.
- 31:18It's so cool. When I was in Morocco a couple
- 31:20of years ago, they have one in in Casablanca, which is great.
- 31:24Nice gym. OK.
- 31:26They don't have sodas everywhere around the world.
- 31:28So if if you branch out at some point I I would go but Morocco.
- 31:33Next satellite location, right? Yeah.
- 31:36So, yeah, yeah. Yeah, you would work out.
- 31:38Yeah, I would drag her to the gym with me a little bit.
- 31:42Yeah. And we would have some coffee
- 31:43and then apparently see some of the touristy stuff too.
- 31:46And then we would we would fly home, you know?
- 31:48Yeah, Yeah, I guess. That's it isn't so interesting
- 31:50of people vacation so so differently.
- 31:53You know, people are like I want agenda or I don't or I want the
- 31:55nice stuff. I want to be catered to or I
- 31:57don't. I like do not do well staying in
- 32:00a nice place where people are like here Sir, let me like pull
- 32:03your chair out. We, Katie and I went to a place
- 32:05for like our anniversary trip like last last year went to this
- 32:08place. It was like a relatively cheap
- 32:11place to eat, but the service was incredible.
- 32:13Like 8 people doing different things.
- 32:14Someone's job was literally just to fill up the cup of water.
- 32:17This was not like an expensive place, but I was like, it's OK.
- 32:20Like you can just leave that pocket of water.
- 32:23And I was like, well, maybe that's like that's his job.
- 32:25Like if I start doing that. It was, it was incredible.
- 32:28It was up their system. It was a crazy good experience.
- 32:31And I was like, how much is this going to be like, did I misread
- 32:33the pesos? Like, and it was totally
- 32:36reasonable. I mean, it was like twice as
- 32:38good as like a nanny's experience for half the cost.
- 32:41I need to look up what it's called because.
- 32:44It was. It was like some straight name.
- 32:45It was a it was a steakhouse. Yeah, in Cancun.
- 32:49Oh, that's right. Yeah, and like part one of one
- 32:53of their desserts is like this giant cotton candy thing that
- 32:58they bring out on this big everything is gold.
- 33:01I I need, I need to look up what it's called because it was.
- 33:05I highly recommend the experience.
- 33:06Yeah, if you're in Cancun. And it was not, it was not
- 33:09outrageous. The cost was not.
- 33:13It was, it was amazing. What were you guys want to get
- 33:17from here? I got 2 tangents left.
- 33:20Oh boy. You do.
- 33:21You haven't even done a metaphor yet.
- 33:22You've not done AI. Don't think I'm.
- 33:24Just getting them going. How's that?
- 33:25No, I'm going to do 1 today. No, I mean, I'll find some, you
- 33:29know, I, my plan at some point was to like put things into
- 33:33perspective for people when we talk about like what personal
- 33:35trainers do for fun, you know, and just to like, you know, just
- 33:39as an example, because we always obviously as coaches and
- 33:42trainers, we have to talk to people about, you know, their
- 33:43lifestyle, right? You got, OK, you got to work
- 33:45out, but then you got to eat a certain way, you got to sleep,
- 33:47you got to do all these other things, right?
- 33:48And just like sometimes I feel like people don't understand,
- 33:52like, you know, if you want to get into like really, really
- 33:54good shape, like how boring your freaking life has to be
- 33:57sometimes, like as an example, you know, like yesterday, it was
- 34:02Friday night here, you know, me and and Blake and Rob were
- 34:06playing video games until 10:45 PM, which is like the wildest
- 34:10thing that I've done in like, I mean, it's like an hour later
- 34:13than I regularly stay up. Like this is wild.
- 34:15You know, like up till 10:45 with bright lights in a screen
- 34:18still, heaven forbid, didn't even have my blue light, didn't
- 34:24even bring them on the trip. Like I am rogue this weekend.
- 34:26I am off my fitness patterns, obviously not drinking, thinking
- 34:29I don't I haven't drank in like 4 years, but like wild night
- 34:32right up till 10:45 K playing video games Mario Kart yes
- 34:37exactly and and for the record, you know to talk about the talk
- 34:40about the things that I've done for fun in my life Mario Kart
- 34:44Nintendo 64. If anybody listens to this and
- 34:47thinks that they can beat me at that game, I will bet you
- 34:54$10,000. I won't get my Life savers.
- 34:56I will bet anybody $10,000 on it, OK?
- 35:00We could even make it 1 Grand Prix, or we could do like a
- 35:02series of time trials. But Mario Kart on Nintendo 64,
- 35:06OK. I will bet anybody no one.
- 35:07Is he's quite bad. Here he's good, he's confident.
- 35:11I wouldn't say arrogant. Very.
- 35:12Confident. No, I'm fucking arrogant.
- 35:14Never mind. I will be arrogant and cocky at
- 35:16Mario Kart 64. I will be more arrogant and
- 35:19cocky than I am against Jerry, our client Jerry, in those
- 35:23basketball shoot offs that we have.
- 35:24OK, too. Poor Blake.
- 35:25He's like, come on, Blake, run it again.
- 35:27Let's go, let's go. Such.
- 35:28A sweaty nerd. I've never seen someone so
- 35:30aggressively handle a controller before.
- 35:32Yeah. I've never like played where the
- 35:35joysticks are clacking that loud.
- 35:36I. Think that Sean's like.
- 35:38Shaking. His.
- 35:38Hand, Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, he's gotta take breaks.
- 35:42Every two to three Grand Prix cuz his thumb's killing him.
- 35:45Well, like I was telling you guys, I have a very addictive
- 35:47personality, which is why I try to stay away from the bad stuff.
- 35:50You know, I've got don't use drugs because I would get I
- 35:52would beat the fucking like craziest addict you could ever
- 35:55imagine. Right.
- 35:56Like, yes, literally, yeah. And like get in with.
- 35:59Other rappers that you wouldn't be like.
- 36:00Exactly. Well, so at some point in the
- 36:01future maybe be the right move, but like for right now, it's not
- 36:04a good. Drug It won't ever be the right
- 36:06move to become a big drug addict.
- 36:08Unless obviously, well, technically.
- 36:10You don't want it. Technically you just are talking
- 36:11about that I'm drinking, but. Yeah, you go ham on the coffee.
- 36:15I do go ham on the coffee a little bit, but This is why I
- 36:18don't own video games. This is why I don't have video
- 36:20games in my house because like the one time once a year that I
- 36:22play them, you guys see what happens.
- 36:24Like I would just go for like 7 hours basically.
- 36:26You guys know I. Wish we had a film of him
- 36:28playing Goldeneye and how he was just.
- 36:30Smacking every. Time he died.
- 36:32He was. He was.
- 36:33Doing again just a couple hours. Punching the couch with a smile
- 36:37on his baby time. I just sleep from 10:00 to 1:10
- 36:39to 2:00. Run it back.
- 36:42Run it back. Let's go again.
- 36:45I'm so sad I missed it all. Week.
- 36:47You're going to see more of it, yeah.
- 36:49You can't avoid it. It'll find you.
- 36:51Oh, my God, that's so funny. Yeah.
- 36:55No, I totally know what you're saying.
- 36:57It's like there's this procession of personal trainers
- 37:00and you're like, wow, you must eat good all the time.
- 37:02You probably don't do any of this.
- 37:04And a lot of people think we, like, judge them even when they
- 37:06tell us things. It's like, well, I had this or
- 37:08that. You know, we're coaches.
- 37:10We're not. We're not judges.
- 37:11And so it's it's a matter of, you know, we're real people too.
- 37:16Like, yeah, Katie are at this wedding last night and I had a
- 37:18couple drinks. A lot of people, I don't know,
- 37:20she's like, jeez. But we do a lot of the same
- 37:24stuff. But a lot of times they a
- 37:26process or the awareness is a little bit different.
- 37:30But but yeah, we're real people too.
- 37:34Yeah. You may also have some thoughts
- 37:36of that and they want to share. I got plenty.
- 37:40More stuff. Someone beside Sean want to
- 37:42share something? I don't be shy.
- 37:45I don't know. I don't.
- 37:46I don't. Know see the.
- 37:47This or that are way better, right?
- 37:49Yeah. Little AD libs.
- 37:51Sean, what's your second tangent?
- 37:53No, I did the second one. I mean, I can do the third one,
- 37:55but somebody just say something. I can get a third one real
- 37:57quick. Yeah, more than happy.
- 38:01Well, let's put it this way. What's 1 common perception of a
- 38:04personal trainer you think you guys think other people have?
- 38:07That's maybe not true. Plus some myths.
- 38:09Oh man, yes. Myth busting about personal
- 38:11trainers. Yeah, yeah.
- 38:13You got one in mind? That we all work out all the
- 38:16time and have a six pack. Not true.
- 38:18Yeah. Not true, no.
- 38:19Only one of us has worked out this morning.
- 38:22That's right. And she worked out for like 4
- 38:23hours. Four.
- 38:24Or. Five hours she was.
- 38:25Gone. If you combine all the time we
- 38:27would spend working out, it was right.
- 38:28Yeah, Maddie did all of it for us.
- 38:30Maddie, what'd you do in there? Could you tell us the routine
- 38:32this morning? It'd be fun.
- 38:33I'm sure. So we started off 30 minutes on
- 38:36the stairs and then absolutely no warm up straight into leg
- 38:40day. So I don't have time for a warm
- 38:42up you. Didn't have time?
- 38:45We're gone for. Like 4 hours.
- 38:46My warm up was the Stairmaster. Yeah, that's true.
- 38:48Yeah. Yeah, leg day.
- 38:52What's leg day? Come on now.
- 38:54This morning it was 5 by 12 hip thrust superset with 5 by 20
- 39:01plank dips. And then we did a little heel
- 39:04elevate, heel, heel elevated offset kettlebell squats paired
- 39:10with cable Rd. LS.
- 39:12And then we did some hyperextensions with what did I
- 39:17do with that? Penguin Crunches.
- 39:22No, no cable chops. Chops.
- 39:28Nice. And then we did some like
- 39:31extension with a tall kneeling farmer press and then some
- 39:36abductor abductors. I'm like, it's a fucking
- 39:40workout. Fuck ton of all.
- 39:41So that's so this is what I was telling Katie and Ben when I got
- 39:46back was the weekends is like the only time I have to actually
- 39:50have a lengthy session. And ever since I got puppy.
- 39:56Well, there was a month and a half span where I didn't work
- 39:58out at all. The most working out I did was
- 40:02demonstrating an exercise on Monday or Friday morning.
- 40:06And then I was like, I feel like garbage.
- 40:09I'm gonna get, you know, my poop in a group now.
- 40:12And I have AI have a whiteboard that I started tracking all of
- 40:18some of visual person. And so I started my goal was to
- 40:21get 4 workouts a week and then 10,000 steps a day.
- 40:25And so I'd write each day. I fill it in and.
- 40:29I finished five weeks and I was like, that was cool.
- 40:32I took a picture of my whiteboard, erased it and
- 40:35started again and so on. Now my I just need to.
- 40:39I need to keep the. You want to refill that, you
- 40:42want to fill that board up again because it felt really good.
- 40:45No. Because every the days that I
- 40:48lifted, did stairs and got 10,000 steps, I got a green
- 40:53check mark. And so now it's like I want a
- 40:55lot of green check marks. It's it's the same concept as
- 40:59the gold stars. Gold stars.
- 41:02But it looks good. Shiny.
- 41:03I'm still I'm the only one who hates the gold stars.
- 41:05It works. Never stop wanting them.
- 41:07I yeah, one of the sticker. Clients love it.
- 41:09Maybe it's like, it's a time when as kids, right, didn't like
- 41:12elementary school and was like, blissful, we don't realize,
- 41:15Yeah, now we're like, wow, that we thought that was tough.
- 41:17It's not. But yeah, everyone listening.
- 41:19I want to, you know, illustrate to you guys that we all struggle
- 41:23with the same things too, like finding time for workouts, like
- 41:26being motivated or finding that motivation or even relying on
- 41:29motivation. It's still a struggle for
- 41:32everybody. There's not some magic gene that
- 41:35obviously gives us more success. Yeah, I think one of the things
- 41:40that is maybe a myth or misunderstood is we literally
- 41:45spend 4 to 8 hours a day at the gym and sometimes staying for
- 41:51another hour or two for our own workout is like about it.
- 41:55So much like could you imagine having to stay at work for fun
- 41:59after you are done with work? Like it's not something that
- 42:02comes easy to everyone. So I think a lot of us and I, we
- 42:05joke about having other gym memberships and like, why don't
- 42:09you just work out where it's free for you to work out?
- 42:11It's because it creates this barrier of like this mindset of
- 42:14we can go somewhere else. We can escape what our work job
- 42:17is to go work out somewhere else.
- 42:20And my favorite thing is that those people don't know you're a
- 42:23fitness professional. They don't know you're a
- 42:24personal trainer. So they're just letting you do
- 42:27your thing. And there's some freedom to
- 42:28that, which I really enjoy, which is why I pay for a gym
- 42:32membership outside of the three gyms that I work at that I could
- 42:36just have access to for free. So that's funny.
- 42:39Right camera so. Yeah.
- 42:45Yeah, what were we? I was just gonna say, well, I
- 42:47mean, are there other myths? There's a lot of myths, but.
- 42:50There's a lot, yeah. Although we all have some crazy
- 42:52diet that we're always on, like it has to be keto or it has to
- 42:55be milk or it has to be just fruit or it has to be vegan or
- 42:59whatever. Like a personal trainer can't
- 43:01eat like a normal person, Yeah. Yeah.
- 43:04I also think a myth that just to kind of lift everyone up in
- 43:09here, I think a lot of people just think personal trainers are
- 43:12just kind of like meatheads or don't have brains and they just
- 43:17work out for fun. But I think that especially at
- 43:21Soda, a lot of us have really strong most emotional
- 43:25intelligence and just empathy for other people.
- 43:28I don't think that always comes about with the personal trainer
- 43:33career path. You have to really work at it
- 43:37and you become a therapist and we joke around about it, but you
- 43:40have to do it. That is what I was trying to
- 43:44come up with yesterday. That's right.
- 43:46That's what it was. Because no.
- 43:48So Katie and I went to Zorbas and we're playing darts, okay.
- 43:53And these two, the gentleman walked over and wanted us to
- 43:59play, and we were politely declining.
- 44:01And they kept saying like, no play.
- 44:03And Kaylee, Kaylee, Katie's like, well, I'll sit here and
- 44:06Heckle you, stab him with a dart.
- 44:07And so it started off as heckling, but then she went into
- 44:11cheerleading and one of them said because they were like
- 44:14questioning if she was a coach. And they said something like,
- 44:19you, you aren't heckling like that's that's a cheerleader
- 44:21because she started cheering him on.
- 44:22And I was like, yeah, like we know how to.
- 44:25I would go between Drill instructor, never missed and
- 44:28cheerleader. He said are you a motivational
- 44:30speaker? Like, are you a motivational
- 44:32speaker? And I said, well, yes, obviously
- 44:35are. You feeling motivated?
- 44:38You just catch on to this. Yeah, what nice boys.
- 44:42Yeah, so. They have the best intentions.
- 44:46No, somebody can't read the room.
- 44:49Yeah. Right.
- 44:50Like I I did. I did feel like it was innocent.
- 44:53Like I actually, I found it quite funny and fun.
- 44:56Absolutely not there. Yeah, there was intentions.
- 44:58There, Yeah. Was it the motivational speaking
- 45:01comment that wow, you're so eloquent?
- 45:05You know, it just all of a sudden they were at a table
- 45:09across and then it was slowly they were leaning up against our
- 45:12table and I was like we have got to go.
- 45:15We have different. Inspired.
- 45:16We gotta go. This is so funny because we have
- 45:20very different, we had very different experiences.
- 45:25I didn't experience any of that. Because I saw right through what
- 45:28they were doing, yeah. But I.
- 45:29Knew what was. Happening.
- 45:31I'm not. I'm not.
- 45:32I was not playing into it. I don't know.
- 45:34Were they scooting their table over like an inch of their time?
- 45:37They were, they were flirting and I was like, get out of here.
- 45:43But a couple of boys were just enjoying their time.
- 45:45They would probably not be at a bar necessarily be out.
- 45:48I don't know it. Was there?
- 45:50Yeah. Can I pose a question to the
- 45:52group that I want to pull out of that story?
- 45:54Yeah, Made Is that because you talked about your motivational
- 45:57speaker now and then you said, yeah, we know how to kind of
- 46:01cross those thresholds between cheerleader, coach and drill
- 46:04instructor. Are there ports of your life?
- 46:07What the fuck was that? Is there parts of your life
- 46:11where you take that like kind of coach voice or that those those
- 46:15soft skills that we use at work and you apply them to somewhere
- 46:17outside of the gym? Like I find myself doing coach
- 46:20stuff with Olivia A. Lot.
- 46:22You know, just like the language you use, the way you back it up,
- 46:24the way you lead from the front and do XYZ's or 1-2 threes with
- 46:28the kid. You know, if you're a parent,
- 46:30obviously it's going to be like the really easy place to put it,
- 46:32but those are other places that you do or have in the past would
- 46:36be interesting. Yeah, we'll make sure they speak
- 46:40in the microphone. Make sure we speak in the
- 46:42microphone. There we go, Rob, I'll just jump
- 46:45in. Yeah, absolutely, 100%, mostly
- 46:47parenting. You got to know like what what
- 46:49gears to kind of turn on based on how well they're going to
- 46:52receive or not receive a certain style.
- 46:54So it's, yeah, I think it's working with people and that
- 46:57idea of empathy and trying to understand what's going to be
- 47:01beneficial. Yeah, it's very common with
- 47:04parenting. And you know, I coached Jay's
- 47:06soccer team too, and that same, same stuff, I mean.
- 47:11Screaming at those more burpees and stuff like that.
- 47:13Just like at work with their. Yeah, with their kicks.
- 47:15Yeah, it's a bunch of soccer team.
- 47:17I had to run sprints. I had them run sprints.
- 47:20Like I'm fast. Yeah, yeah.
- 47:21They like doing that, though. It's not punishment.
- 47:24And by the time I have kids, I'm going to be so done with
- 47:26empathy. I already like.
- 47:28I think it might, yeah. It might make it tough.
- 47:30I'm turning into a full on. Drilling it does touch.
- 47:33You I I'm done with empathy, maybe a little cheerleader vibe,
- 47:36but I'm done. I'm no I.
- 47:39Can't do it anymore. I think empathy is part of our
- 47:41our DNA. I don't think I think we can
- 47:43work to make it better, but I don't know if I don't know.
- 47:45Can we? Can we become less empathetic by
- 47:48choice? You watch me, yes.
- 47:52OK, watch out. Sean's client's very sorry.
- 47:55No, you're a, you're a, you're a tremendous listener as is like,
- 47:58like this is his whole team. The ability to, to shut our
- 48:01mouth and listen, actually have our clients be heard.
- 48:04That's an element of empathy. And that's really all I think it
- 48:07takes for a trainer to have success with the clients, to
- 48:10have them be heard and understood so they know they're
- 48:12in the right place and we have their best intentions in mind.
- 48:17So as long as we turn on a little bit, I think that's more
- 48:21than most people get anywhere. Just a little bit.
- 48:24Just a. Weird.
- 48:25They get anywhere more than they get anywhere more than they get
- 48:28at home, more than they get their spouse, more than they get
- 48:30from work. In some cases, yeah, because
- 48:32everyone's real tired. So sometimes people snuggle some
- 48:36little snuggles. Because they need a soft section
- 48:39and you give them a little cuddle.
- 48:40You guys don't do that. Is this, is this the touch, one
- 48:42of the seven elements of a good session?
- 48:44Yeah. Gentle.
- 48:45Touch 7 keys. Is this one point of physical
- 48:48touch? We talked at great length.
- 48:49OK, it's usually face. Yeah, but.
- 48:52Or get a little spoon. We don't.
- 48:53Have a good you ask them first, obviously.
- 48:57Or little spoon. Yeah, permission to spoon.
- 48:59Yeah. Do you like the?
- 49:00Do you like the you're little I'm?
- 49:02Sorry, that's that's awfully nice of you.
- 49:05We didn't put a spoon or a a touch pause.
- 49:08Rob, Rob, I'm going to need you to speak with HR after.
- 49:13Yeah, OK. Wash this right.
- 49:15But I like little spoons. Oh my gosh, oh, it's funny.
- 49:20But anyone else said anything we kind of want to mention on that,
- 49:22like training skills or techniques that are in other
- 49:26places? I mean, becoming a trainer is
- 49:28extremely beneficial not only to strengthen our own practice of,
- 49:32of fitness, because one of the best ways to learn is to teach
- 49:37course. And so I think the best trainers
- 49:40have worked with all sorts of different body types, histories,
- 49:42goals, dreams, aspirations, so that we're not just looking
- 49:47through our own scope, which changes everything.
- 49:52So as I've gotten older, everything's changed far as how
- 49:55easy it is, what you should be doing and how the body feels.
- 49:59It's, it's something you can only kind of experience.
- 50:03So that's a big deal. Any of the big myths you guys
- 50:07want to cover? Anything come to mind?
- 50:10Blake being strong. Basically, go watch the myth
- 50:14that Blake is strong. I I want to at some point watch
- 50:19that the movie Dodgeball, you know, because Ben Stiller's
- 50:22character of the Globo Jim. Yeah, Yeah, I, I watched that
- 50:25before I was a coach and then probably six years into being a
- 50:28coach. And it changes how you look at
- 50:30all of that. But it really is.
- 50:32Do you haven't seen the movie Dodgeball?
- 50:33Like Ben Stiller's character is like the stereotype of like
- 50:36White Goodman. He's got like, yes, yeah.
- 50:39Exactly. We should watch that tonight.
- 50:41He's got, he's got like the donut, he's got like the, you
- 50:44know, electric things on his nipples.
- 50:46And he like, he's like, come on, come on, eat it and.
- 50:48Con Michelle, turn it up. It's.
- 50:49So much like toxic culture that's got some merit because
- 50:54it's been looked at that way. It's obviously a major
- 50:57stereotype but it's just a very funny movie to watch cuz you're
- 51:01like Oh my God. He plays that character so well
- 51:04cuz also in heavyweight. As I say, it's the same
- 51:06character as Head. Yeah, I'd seen that one.
- 51:08I grew. Up on that movie that.
- 51:10We're watching. Tonight, that's.
- 51:11How to not be a personal trainer?
- 51:13Oh my. God, Tony Perkins.
- 51:15I'm perkinsizing. I'm criticizing Tony.
- 51:17I don't know, but there's something like you all be skinny
- 51:20meters. You're killing me, dude.
- 51:21This is such a good film. It's about yeah, Ben Stiller is
- 51:24a camp. Counselor Maddie hasn't seen it
- 51:26either. At a weight loss camp.
- 51:29OK. Which I do have experience
- 51:32working at a weight loss camp for the summer with children,
- 51:35and that's a whole nother podcast episode.
- 51:38Yeah, lots to learn there. But yeah, you should definitely
- 51:41watch the movie Heavyweights. You.
- 51:43Could not pass today. Well, no, you.
- 51:46Did not make no. These two haven't seen.
- 51:49Me. I mean, I haven't seen I.
- 51:50Haven't seen heavy. Not on this.
- 51:54TV. No, there's another.
- 52:02Room or something? But it's there's another living
- 52:05room upstairs. We can either watch it up there
- 52:07or see what Sean wants to put him in his little gaming Cove
- 52:11because he's on one. Yeah.
- 52:13He'll do the iPad kit. We just put him in the corner.
- 52:15Yeah, yeah. I'm more than happy.
- 52:17To. Be fair, he.
- 52:20Can't change that. He can take the switch and go
- 52:22sit in the. Corner.
- 52:23I wouldn't know how to do that though.
- 52:24Like Blake has to set it up for me because I'm not
- 52:26psychologically smart enough on how to use the Switch.
- 52:28I just know how to play Mario Kart on 64 from 1996.
- 52:32I don't know how to set it up. It's probably better he doesn't
- 52:35have the. Yeah, yeah.
- 52:37Yeah. I'm glad I got a pass code on
- 52:41there. Yeah.
- 52:42Yes, the barrier is like how to turn it on.
- 52:45Where is the. Power button.
- 52:47You don't need a pass code. He's like how do I get this?
- 52:51How do I get it rolled like started?
- 52:52Sean, Sean is like, I think this is, I think this is broken.
- 52:56Katie, just like, let's hit that button and then boom.
- 52:58He's like, it's broken. I don't know, it's not working.
- 53:02We can't do it. It's broken.
- 53:03What do you guys think was broken?
- 53:04He. I.
- 53:05Was just he just? The machine turned it on.
- 53:07I was just hitting that button. It's the button we always have,
- 53:09but now you got that thing, we got to hit that button.
- 53:11I added one one cord and. No, no, he just needed to hold
- 53:15down the power button. Is that what it was?
- 53:18Yeah, well, well, he. Just ran this button.
- 53:20Didn't, yeah. Next time, Katie.
- 53:23We're all learning, we're all on our own journey.
- 53:25You'll do better next time. That's right.
- 53:27I will I. Will, are you a motivational
- 53:28speaker? Hey.
- 53:31That's a line do. You like to speak on like stages
- 53:33like yes, well, I mean, yeah, let's get some.
- 53:38We're almost at an hour here. So I think like maybe closing
- 53:41notes in some way, shape or form.
- 53:43We have no agenda for this one other than that.
- 53:46But you know, maybe like a major take away.
- 53:48Like what what should our members know about us personally
- 53:51that I think is, you know, has value for them to to know
- 53:55anything and maybe it's too big of a question, but that's.
- 53:58Too. Big like like what do you want
- 54:01clients to know about you or like what is value about having
- 54:04a personal trainer relationship? We could go really, you know, a
- 54:07little bit deeper, like what's something that you think would
- 54:11benefit them knowing about you because you deliver what we do
- 54:14to them or either or fun unbeknownst party trick that
- 54:24would make it easy. You can go deeper.
- 54:25Not yeah. I think staying on theme with a
- 54:29lot of what this podcast talked about, don't be afraid to engage
- 54:33with us. 30 minutes, 60 minutes of a session is a long time and
- 54:38I know some people like those sessions to be silent.
- 54:41But getting to know us, asking us questions.
- 54:44We don't just ask questions because we're filling space.
- 54:47We do genuinely care about all the people we work with and we
- 54:50want to know about them. It's not like we have a a test
- 54:54after the sessions on how much we know about our clients.
- 54:57But I think it's one of the best things about being a personal
- 55:00trainer as you do get to see people every single week,
- 55:03sometimes multiple times a week. I always tell people I see my
- 55:06clients more than I see my friends and my family, so I
- 55:10should know more about them. So trust us and get to know us.
- 55:15We're not just robots, we're people.
- 55:17Except for Blake. Yeah, but.
- 55:20Program to eat, sleep, workout. It was a machine.
- 55:23Yeah, no, we do have AI guess a client quiz.
- 55:26I mean, there's those, there's eight kind of things we have in
- 55:28the front, things we should know, right, Family, occupation,
- 55:31relationships, dreams, goals, medical history.
- 55:34Those are things we need to know to, like, keep you safe, but
- 55:36also a lot of subjective ones that help us deliver a more
- 55:39engaging session because, yeah, I mean, we should know them, as
- 55:43you said. Yeah.
- 55:44Then we do. All right, Rob, what do you
- 55:48think? I mean, my favorite party trick
- 55:51is that I can do one arm push ups, but in this group that's
- 55:54probably not as impressive. Damn, it's.
- 55:56Pretty. Bad.
- 55:57OK, nevermind. That's pretty impressive then.
- 55:59I feel pretty cool. Well, we're gonna do next.
- 56:02Like a big take. Away I I would.
- 56:03Then would say too. Yeah, we're.
- 56:04Practical. Yeah.
- 56:07What? Sorry, big take away.
- 56:08Is just what Ben said. Yeah.
- 56:10There were people too. Like, I wanna talk about what
- 56:12they've got going on. I like when people ask me about
- 56:14my stuff. If I have.
- 56:17We have hobbies and interests. As it turns out, we can also
- 56:19converse about that. Yeah.
- 56:21Yeah, love it. Cuz I don't watch sports so I
- 56:24have to look for things to talk about.
- 56:25The ball game. Yeah, you see that Ludacris
- 56:28display last night? Rob does Superb Owl.
- 56:32Facts. I do.
- 56:33I know more about owls and you. Will learn.
- 56:36You will learn a lot. That's great.
- 56:39It's my birthday, guys. Ask me and also Rob will tell
- 56:43you how what of any plant outside which ones you can eat
- 56:46or can't eat or making a tea. So he's good.
- 56:48Got to know when stuff hits the. Or he or he will whittle roast
- 56:53marshmallow sticks out of cattails.
- 56:55That's right. We didn't have, well, we did
- 56:57have roaster sticks, I just didn't know what they were
- 56:59'cause that's. An idiot.
- 57:01It was more fun to carve them out of the pond, by the way.
- 57:03Yes. Maddie big take away or party
- 57:06tree? Seconding Ben's statement.
- 57:10But yeah, and then I'm a human. I like to work out and eat
- 57:14clean, but I also like to eat junk food and drink beer.
- 57:17Go. To Zorbas.
- 57:18Oh yeah, go to Zorbas and play darts.
- 57:20That's right. I I won by the way.
- 57:26No. No for.
- 57:27The sake of I picked you up afterwards.
- 57:29For the sake of time, we'll just no all right.
- 57:34And for the. Record a what is open in double
- 57:37out means you have to hit the double.
- 57:40We learned something. It sounds like it.
- 57:42Wow Kitty, what do you say? Here's the biggest take away
- 57:46party trick. I'm gonna need more time.
- 57:53You don't have any? Yeah.
- 57:56I'll get back to. You Blake, take away party
- 58:00trick. When growth comes from leaving
- 58:03the comfort zone, yeah. Mm hmm.
- 58:08When he gets a house, he's gonna get that like a vinyl acrylic
- 58:11and he's gonna put that in his living room.
- 58:13He's like a like a lift laugh. Love Paint?
- 58:17That over instead, yeah. Eat, sleep, lift.
- 58:19Yep, seek just can't put. That in the kitchen.
- 58:23Yeah. Do you have that like on a rib
- 58:24tattoo? Should I?
- 58:25Yeah. Dude for sure.
- 58:27No. Yes, do you want the most of
- 58:28answer your comfort zone rib tattoos of the worst?
- 58:31Yeah, I had a friend that. He got the Statue of Liberty put
- 58:34on his and he almost passed out from the pain.
- 58:39As I've I have script here that's the goes like 1's on a
- 58:42rib and the other's between the tissue and it was because if
- 58:46it's on the rib, I can feel my entire skeleton vibrating as he
- 58:49does a thing. And if it's the space between
- 58:51the ribs, I can feel all my internal organs by that's the
- 58:54just the the pan. Went over Really dude?
- 58:59Oh my God, it's on my ribs. Wow someone and they got another
- 59:02one on the other side that goes from the from the top of my
- 59:05iliac Crest to the bottom of my top rib.
- 59:07It's a memorial tattoo for my dad and I got that done by the
- 59:09same guy. Hit my other one and I told him
- 59:11after. If I ever tell you that I want
- 59:12another tattoo on the midsection, I need you to punch
- 59:15me in the mouth because this was awful and I never want to do.
- 59:20It again put that in your client notes.
- 59:22Yep. Great.
- 59:23Don't let him. Do not see again.
- 59:26Yeah. That's great, Sean.
- 59:29Take away party trick. OK.
- 59:31Than Mario Kart other than Mario.
- 59:32No, no, no. It's gonna be about Mario Kart,
- 59:34OK? Because everybody else gave
- 59:36like, the good serious fitness advice and stuff like that.
- 59:38So, yeah, just to reiterate, like if anybody wants to do the
- 59:43$10,000 bet, okay, these are the ground rules.
- 59:47If anybody listening wants this. No, no, no, no, don't get towed.
- 59:50You don't get towed. I would be willing to do it with
- 59:53a different character. I mean, I would pick Toad, but
- 59:55if the other person gets to pick first and they pick Toad, that's
- 59:57fine. But this is Mario Kart Nintendo
- 1:00:0064, the 1996 version, OK? It has to be that.
- 1:00:03It's not some Wii Mario Kart. I don't do those versions, OK?
- 1:00:06I don't mess around with that, OK, Too high tech, but yes, it
- 1:00:09is OK, But too many and we'll do I I think the way we would do it
- 1:00:12is we do all four grand prixs, OK, So if we split them two to
- 1:00:16two, then we go to 1/5 tiebreaker, OK, But this is 16
- 1:00:20races, OK? At that point, it would
- 1:00:22definitely be enough to determine who's better.
- 1:00:23But I will take on anybody listening to this.
- 1:00:26Anybody in the World $10,000? Cash, put it on it.
- 1:00:30OK. Why?
- 1:00:30You know what you should do is you should get a video of you
- 1:00:34doing a run and like time trial that and anyone who can beat it
- 1:00:37sends it to you and then that is like how you funnel actual
- 1:00:41competitors. That's not a bad way to do it,
- 1:00:43right? She in applicants.
- 1:00:44Yeah, but she. Doesn't want to waste this.
- 1:00:46Time, Let's be real, yeah. Although you'll probably spank
- 1:00:49anyone just for fun, so. Yeah.
- 1:00:51Why was that? I mean.
- 1:00:52Seven years later, someone actually.
- 1:00:54I know well, and this is going to be on the Internet forever,
- 1:00:58you know what I mean? So people can, you know, you got
- 1:01:00time. Guys, you got to give it a
- 1:01:01little scarce. There's got to be.
- 1:01:02The rest of the. Timeline, so we'll give them
- 1:01:03until. I'll give them until 2048.
- 1:01:06No, I'm getting 23 years. You got 23 years practice up and
- 1:01:09then it's 10 grand. Because here's the thing, I
- 1:01:11don't lose the skill set, OK? I've been playing this game
- 1:01:13since I was 6, all right? I played this game like once per
- 1:01:16decade nowadays, OK? And I still got it.
- 1:01:18Just jumped in yesterday. Didn't even know which butt I
- 1:01:20was going to. Didn't even know how to get off
- 1:01:22the blocks. Blake beat me off the blocks
- 1:01:23every week. OK, But then you just get in.
- 1:01:25You're like, OK. It's true.
- 1:01:26Now if I program AI to be in it, can I sell one?
- 1:01:31I will give you 5 grand for that, OK?
- 1:01:33OK. The other five goes to the AI I
- 1:01:36think. Show up like a better AI the way
- 1:01:38he's hacking the system. I mean, that'd take a while to
- 1:01:40train that model, but what if you like, what did you start
- 1:01:43getting Like carpal tunnel or something?
- 1:01:44I saw the way you're shaking your.
- 1:01:46Game. This is part of the game you
- 1:01:48don't think I like? You think I haven't had carpal
- 1:01:50tunnel with that? Like I've dealt with this
- 1:01:52because it's like a football injury, OK, You're going to
- 1:01:54sprain your ankle every now and then or something.
- 1:01:56You know what? I like the game.
- 1:01:57You got a pay to play. Yes, and I don't think an AI is
- 1:02:00going to understand how to drift to orange.
- 1:02:02OK nobody knows what that means, I didn't know but drift to
- 1:02:05orange AI also doesn't know what it means 10.
- 1:02:07K. You have to drift to orange if
- 1:02:09you're going to beat me. That's right.
- 1:02:11So just giving it away for. Free right here on the podcast.
- 1:02:13Guys, you have to drift down there.
- 1:02:15Fantastic. Yeah, all.
- 1:02:17Right. Remember when we were ending
- 1:02:18this episode? That's remember.
- 1:02:21My party trick and then I'm going to close this up.
- 1:02:23You guys know the game. Five finger fillet.
- 1:02:26Yes. Where you put your fingers, you
- 1:02:29splay them on the table and you use a knife and you go, I was so
- 1:02:34good at college at all these parties.
- 1:02:36And I would, I would do it. My friends would beat the party.
- 1:02:39And they're like, yeah, yeah, yeah, they knew.
- 1:02:42And I did it at parties. And I'm lightning fast now, you
- 1:02:45know, with my eyes closed on my own hand with a real knife.
- 1:02:48And I did that way too many times and scraped by.
- 1:02:52And I feel like I told my wife that, but now she's did.
- 1:02:54You do that like on your first date and you're like, holy shit,
- 1:02:56this is the. One, that's what.
- 1:02:58That's my begger. Man, yeah, she's like wow, this
- 1:03:00guy, wow, this guy plays redemption.
- 1:03:02So much that I want pretty good knife.
- 1:03:04Skills. Yeah, is that what woman looks?
- 1:03:07For worthless in the kitchen, right this.
- 1:03:09Is fascinating. So I was like, I think I should
- 1:03:11talk with my wife after this now.
- 1:03:13Anyway, I'll show you guys later watch it on YouTube anyway.
- 1:03:18Well, thank you guys for for being here and doing this.
- 1:03:21We appreciate you guys a ton. Of course.
- 1:03:24Thank you for listening. If you made it this far and you
- 1:03:27remember, I hope you enjoyed. Thanks everybody.
- 1:03:31Thanks. Thank you guys.
- 1:03:33Bye bye.