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Ep271. Don't Die With Your Song in You: Stop Waiting to Live (with Angie). · The Inner Wealth Podcast

• 0:04
  SPEAKER_00: Do you ever wake up feeling like there's something missing in your life?
• 0:07
  SPEAKER_00: Do you ever feel the need to escape your business?
• 0:10
  SPEAKER_00: Are you running your life or is your life running it?
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm like Kit Kill and I'll help you design and create a life so authentic and aligned with who you really are.
• 0:17
  SPEAKER_00: You'll get excited just to wake up.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll help you create real wealth, success, and freedom from the inside out.
• 0:24
  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Inner Wealth Podcast, where we learn and choose to live inspired each and every day.
• 0:38
  SPEAKER_03: It's me.
• 0:38
  SPEAKER_00: You say something.
• 0:39
  SPEAKER_00: There's people listening.
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  SPEAKER_01: I just said it's me.
• 0:41
  SPEAKER_01: Angie.
• 0:42
  SPEAKER_00: It's Angie Kitko.
• 0:43
  SPEAKER_01: Hello, everyone.
• 0:44
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and hey.
• 0:45
  SPEAKER_01: Actually, it's hello.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_01: Hello.
• 0:47
  SPEAKER_00: We'll explain that in a little bit, but we just got back last week from uh our bucket list trip.
• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: And we went to four, three magical places, but four places total.
• 1:01
  SPEAKER_00: Where do we go?
• 1:02
  SPEAKER_01: We uh started off in Munich, Germany, and uh went to Oktoberfest in in Munich, and then we took the train through the Bavarian countryside and spent four days in Vienna, Austria.
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_01: Uh while in Vienna, we took a day trip over to Bratislava, Slovakia, which was another country we got to touch.
• 1:22
  SPEAKER_01: And then we took a four and a half hour train through the Monrovia countryside and uh ended our trip in Prague Republic.
• 1:29
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and we said I said three magical places, three magical cities, because Slovakia just seemed like it was still part of the Cold War.
• 1:37
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_00: It just felt a little depressed.
• 1:39
  SPEAKER_00: And I don't know, maybe I carried my mood into the country, but it was it just didn't have the same energy and vibrancy as as Vienna and Munich and and as Prague.
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_01: So yeah, and I think we also didn't give it.
• 1:51
  SPEAKER_01: I mean, we only had it, we only did a day over there, and there were people that we we took a boat.
• 1:55
  SPEAKER_01: I I left that out because we took so many different modes of transportation during this trip.
• 1:59
  SPEAKER_01: It was super cool.
• 2:00
  SPEAKER_01: Uh, we took a boat and there were people getting off that boat and spending three nights in Bratislavia.
• 2:05
  SPEAKER_01: So there must be something there, but we uh did not find it.
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  SPEAKER_00: We found in Bratislava, uh, we found a Soviet era, not a Soviet era, because it it wasn't it didn't exist during the Soviet era, but it was a basement that was a a Soviet-themed pub.
• 2:23
  SPEAKER_01: It was called the KGB pub.
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  SPEAKER_00: KGB pub, and it was it was pretty neat.
• 2:26
  SPEAKER_00: That was a cool thing.
• 2:27
  SPEAKER_00: But man, we did a we did so much in Munich and Vienna and Prague.
• 2:31
  SPEAKER_00: And this podcast episode is not just all about you know our our travels.
• 2:36
  SPEAKER_00: We we we did some cool things and we learned some cool things, but the the thing that I want to really drive home, the the main point is uh Angie and I have been talking about going to Germany since 2000.
• 2:51
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, and uh if you for anyone, yeah, this well, you guys all know when this is because it'll be dated, but uh it's 26 years later, and we're just getting to Germany.
• 3:06
  SPEAKER_00: And uh we I'd say 10 years ago when we when we did put our visions together for the first time, when we really established a vision, travel in heavy and and intensive travel was part of our vision from the beginning.
• 3:21
  SPEAKER_00: We are both lovers of travel, we feel most alive when we're traveling, and it's almost like when we come home, there's a letdown, not because we hate our home, but it's just how much we absolutely love traveling.
• 3:33
  SPEAKER_00: And and uh man, just being in Germany, which it both of our families have some lineage and some roots there.
• 3:42
  SPEAKER_00: Going to Oktoberfest, that day was like one of the most magical days of my life.
• 3:47
  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I couldn't wipe the smile off my face in that in the tents and and during the celebrations, it was so much fun.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_00: But in my on my mastermind calls uh last week and this week, I had to keep emphasizing that when people are designing their vision, they're really looking out a lot of times, they're looking out one to two weeks or one to two months in what they want or a year.
• 4:12
  SPEAKER_00: And this it this isn't a this isn't a an exercise in impatience.
• 4:18
  SPEAKER_00: Going to Oktoberfest was part of our our vision for 26 years, and the point of a vision is to really get clear about what it is you want to experience in life, not not determined by time or possibility.
• 4:36
  SPEAKER_00: And I think those two, when you when you eliminate the need for things to get to you in a hurry, and you open up and you eliminate the the impossible and just get clear about what it is you want to experience, that's when you can really start living life and letting life bring you the experiences that are going to get you what you want.
• 4:55
  SPEAKER_00: And here we are, 26 years later, we've been together for 27.
• 4:58
  SPEAKER_00: 26 years later, we're you know, we're filling that bucket list or or or checking that that that tab off the bucket list.
• 5:06
  SPEAKER_01: Well, I think that vision and goals, I think the primary difference between vision and goals is goals come with the timeline and and vision is just an overarching theme for your life.
• 5:18
  SPEAKER_01: And and I know when we first did our vision, I think that um it was one we had one beach, one mountain, one desert, and one European trip per year.
• 5:34
  SPEAKER_01: And this year we've done mountain, we've done beach, we've done beach, mountain, we've done Europe.
• 5:40
  SPEAKER_01: We've done mountain, we've done Europe.
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_01: We have not done desert this year, but now we've not we haven't actually stuck to it.
• 5:46
  SPEAKER_01: We haven't been able to that vision hasn't we haven't done the Europe annually yet, but but we also went to the beach four times last year, yeah.
• 5:54
  SPEAKER_00: So we could have definitely yeah, so so we're we could have come.
• 5:58
  SPEAKER_00: We're also going with what we're inspired by too.
• 6:01
  SPEAKER_00: So but the the point is is uh lately I've been hitting you know the the vision really, really intensively, and I think there's four areas.
• 6:09
  SPEAKER_00: I've got two speaking engagements that are coming up.
• 6:12
  SPEAKER_00: One at Gateway to Freedom, and Rich Groves is a a great uh facilitator and and creator of Gateway to Freedom.
• 6:21
  SPEAKER_00: And I can't wait to speak at Gateway to Freedom.
• 6:24
  SPEAKER_00: Next week I speak at uh Buyers Club, my good friend Brian Schroeder, and uh I'm gonna be speaking about stop playing defense in life.
• 6:33
  SPEAKER_00: And uh overall, that's a that's a great title, and I love the title, but there's four aspects of life that we really need to understand if we want to live the fullest and highest expression of what we put this meat suit on to create.
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  SPEAKER_00: Number one is what a life on defense means, and it means just trying to avoid negative consequences.
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_00: That's it.
• 6:56
  SPEAKER_00: Playing like but it's playing not to lose, it's playing to not die, it's playing to be safe and secure until your last exhale, right?
• 7:04
  SPEAKER_00: If you're playing life on defense, then you don't go skydiving because it's uncomfortable, you don't take the you don't take the trip because you know you're scared of spending the money.
• 7:15
  SPEAKER_00: You don't you don't pour into yourself, you don't practice self-care, you don't get massages, you don't eat nice foods because you just you're just trying to pad your bank account or whatever to protect yourself instead of really enjoy what life has to offer.
• 7:28
  SPEAKER_00: So playing life with deep on defense is really about avoiding negative circumstances.
• 7:32
  SPEAKER_00: And the reason we do that is because of the nervous system.
• 7:36
  SPEAKER_00: And I like to call them apps, uh, adaptive protective programs.
• 7:41
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe at some point in your life when you were a kid, you you know, you you heard your mom and dad argue about money, or maybe there was one time where your family ran out of money, or maybe whatever you grew up and you didn't have what you needed.
• 7:54
  SPEAKER_00: Now you're scared of money for the rest of your life.
• 7:56
  SPEAKER_00: So there's this app running inside of you, this adaptive protective program that says, hey, we always always have to be on alert, on guard for money, and there's never going to be enough money in the bank account.
• 8:05
  SPEAKER_00: And those apps that could be about relationships, could be about money, could be about you know a whole host of things.
• 8:12
  SPEAKER_00: Um, feeling selfish, right?
• 8:15
  SPEAKER_00: Not not wanting to feel selfish or feeling selfish when you want something for yourself is an app.
• 8:20
  SPEAKER_00: That's all it is, an app, an adaptive protective program.
• 8:23
  SPEAKER_00: And that came from somewhere, right?
• 8:25
  SPEAKER_00: But when we when we understand what a life on defense is, we understand what apps are, we can we can start to make the move to life on offense, and that's living life on our terms, living the life that we came here to experience in this meat suit.
• 8:38
  SPEAKER_00: And I do believe that everybody has a dream inside of them, everybody knows what they want, everybody came here with a mission and to experience something very unique and very aligned and very authentic to them.
• 8:51
  SPEAKER_00: And when we get really, really clear, then we can go on offense.
• 8:56
  SPEAKER_00: And but creating a vision for your life is the way we shift from offense or from defense to offense.
• 9:03
  SPEAKER_00: Without a vision, we can't fully know how to play on offense.
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_00: And we haven't always played on offense in every aspect of life, but especially with travel, we has have definitely over the last couple years gone on offense.
• 9:19
  SPEAKER_00: What what triggered a couple years ago?
• 9:22
  SPEAKER_00: What triggered our drive and our now our relentless pursuit and and just enthusiasm for travel?
• 9:31
  SPEAKER_00: What was that event that you remember that really said, okay, now it's go time?
• 9:36
  SPEAKER_01: COVID.
• 9:36
  SPEAKER_00: COVID.
• 9:37
  SPEAKER_01: When COVID hit, uh everybody you remember everything shut down, the world shut down, every travel was unavailable.
• 9:46
  SPEAKER_01: And for so many years it was always, oh, we'll do it later, we'll do it later, we'll go here later, we'll do this later.
• 9:52
  SPEAKER_01: And this intense fear set in me, like, oh my gosh, all of these things that we said we were gonna do later, they made it very possible that we might not get to do them now.
• 10:03
  SPEAKER_01: So as soon as things got back to quasi-normal, it was it was go time for us.
• 10:08
  SPEAKER_00: We went on offense with with with travel.
• 10:12
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but that doesn't mean we've we're we're consistently playing offense in all areas of your life, but but we do monitor that, right?
• 10:19
  SPEAKER_00: We do monitor that right now.
• 10:20
  SPEAKER_00: Our business is down, our inner the inner wealth mastermind is down.
• 10:23
  SPEAKER_00: Right now, the coaching industry as a whole is down.
• 10:26
  SPEAKER_00: So, you know, sometimes we find ourselves going back and playing defense and getting into a defensive posture, but that's when we can look at our vision and say, Oh no, okay, what is it that we want to experience?
• 10:36
  SPEAKER_00: And we don't want to experience, we didn't.
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_00: There's nowhere in our vision that says we want to really experience heightened states of money fear, right?
• 10:45
  SPEAKER_00: It doesn't say that in there, right?
• 10:47
  SPEAKER_00: So when those happen, we can go into our vision and say, okay, what is it that we want to feel?
• 10:51
  SPEAKER_00: We want to feel we want to feel alive, we want to feel vital, we want to feel loved, we want to feel loving, we want to feel worthy and deserving, we want to feel gracious for life, we want to feel or grateful for life, we want to feel these things.
• 11:06
  SPEAKER_00: So when whenever we're feeling what we don't want to feel, that's when we can look at our kind of use our vision as a pattern interrupt, yeah, and get into what we want instead of what we don't, because your circumstances don't have to change for the energy of the inside of your body to change.
• 11:23
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you've been talking a lot, you've been using the vision as a pattern interrupt a lot lately.
• 11:27
  SPEAKER_00: I have it, it's a great pattern interrupt, right?
• 11:30
  SPEAKER_00: And this is that's the focus on what you want instead of what you don't want, right?
• 11:34
  SPEAKER_00: That is exactly it.
• 11:36
  SPEAKER_00: So a couple years ago, and I'm gonna throw it over to Angie because she's gonna she's the one who led this charge, but a couple years ago, it was quite a while ago, okay.
• 11:46
  SPEAKER_00: Not a couple years ago, but I remember driving, but I don't know where I was, I don't know who I was with, I don't know what the circumstances were, but I was driving by a cemetery, and what I heard is somebody pointed to a cemetery and said, Most of those people in that graveyard had a song in them, and it never came out, and they died with their song in them, and I thought that was beautiful.
• 12:14
  SPEAKER_00: I'm getting emotional.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what that means is there was something that they wanted, there was a talent that they had, there was a dream that they had in inside of them, there was something, some ambition, there was some desire, there was some dream, there was some experience that they wanted to experience, there was a trip that they wanted to go on, there was something that they wanted to do, and they died before they they truly experienced it.
• 12:39
  SPEAKER_00: And most people had opportunities, most people in that graveyard had the opportunities to do what they wanted, they just never took them because they were playing on defense.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_00: And I thought that was a beautiful way to look at it.
• 12:51
  SPEAKER_00: So now I'm gonna throw it to Angie because we saw something that was absolutely rocked our world and was absolutely surreal.
• 12:58
  SPEAKER_00: Can you tell everybody about it?
• 12:59
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, so when we were in Prague, we um there was a place that I had heard about that I really wanted to go see, and it was called the um the uh Satellite Ossuary, and it's in about an hour outside of Prague.
• 13:14
  SPEAKER_01: So I I had fun.
• 13:15
  SPEAKER_01: This is what I love about travel.
• 13:16
  SPEAKER_01: Instead of booking the the tour, there was like a full-day tour we could have taken, and we were like, we really don't want to spend an entire day going to like five other churches because at this point we were church castled and palaced out, like we had seen all the churches.
• 13:29
  SPEAKER_01: Uh that didn't stop us from going into more, but I I digress.
• 13:33
  SPEAKER_01: Um so I planned this little trip, and we took a train and we got on the wrong track, and then we had to switch trains, and our train was delayed.
• 13:42
  SPEAKER_01: It was another trip, another experience, and we went out to uh it was it was really fun and we came back on a 55-minute standing room only train that was not fun, but we did it.
• 13:52
  SPEAKER_01: But it was a town called Kutnahara, and we went to the Sedlik Ossuary, and we could not take pictures inside because I just I I wished and I'm glad we couldn't, but I also wish that I could share what we saw.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_01: Um, Sedlik Oshuary is also known as the Bone Church, and it holds the remains of I can't remember.
• 14:13
  SPEAKER_00: It had to be a hundred thousand people.
• 14:15
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I think it's there were two events that primarily that triggered, they were both 40,000 people died at the same time, and there was another one 20,000.
• 14:23
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it was the famine, uh the plague, and the Husite war.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_00: And so at least a hundred thousand sets of bones in there.
• 14:31
  SPEAKER_01: And sets of bones.
• 14:34
  SPEAKER_01: That's that's what's crazy, is like they were they made art out of these bones.
• 14:38
  SPEAKER_01: And so there was art made of these skulls, and there was a shield of um oh, what do you call that?
• 14:45
  SPEAKER_01: Just like a shield made out of all human bones.
• 14:48
  SPEAKER_01: There, there's a chandelier in the center of the room, and it's a very, very, very small room.
• 14:53
  SPEAKER_01: There's like four corners of it, uh, each one with a specific piece of art.
• 14:57
  SPEAKER_00: They're four there are four corners are called the pyramids, and it's just a pyramid of human bones, all arranged and the skulls artfully arranged, the skulls are arranged, the the bones are arranged.
• 15:08
  SPEAKER_01: And the crazy thing was you could some of these skulls you could see like their heads have been bastion, or like you could see how they died because a piece of their skull was missing.
• 15:19
  SPEAKER_01: But we we stood there and we we were looking at these these bones that used to be humans and looking at them in just absolute awe.
• 15:29
  SPEAKER_01: And the the spiritual feeling that the church wants to evoke is memento more.
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_01: Remember that you will die, and it's meant to evoke those feelings of we are we're not here forever.
• 15:42
  SPEAKER_01: Like this is this is temporary, you're you're going to be that one day, and it was very humbling and very eerie, but also very peaceful.
• 15:51
  SPEAKER_00: Somber, somber and surreal.
• 15:53
  SPEAKER_00: That's what I that's what I experienced.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_00: And it was like it was that sensation of oh my gosh, we are going to die.
• 16:00
  SPEAKER_00: Like when you look at these people, and it's like they were all human beings at one point.
• 16:07
  SPEAKER_00: They were motherfuckers, and that that shield that you talk, I the word that it came up after when you were talking, the coat of arms, coat of arms, it was formed into a coat of arms, and it everywhere you looked in this church, and and the church doesn't, there's no pews, there's no place to actually have worship anymore.
• 16:24
  SPEAKER_00: There, uh well, there's an altar, but there's I don't think there's any services there, but everywhere you looked were human bones artfully arranged.
• 16:34
  SPEAKER_00: Oh, except behind that one pyramid where they were just stacked.
• 16:38
  SPEAKER_00: So, what happened was during these three events, so many people died, they didn't have room to bury them.
• 16:44
  SPEAKER_00: So they just I don't know what they did.
• 16:48
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I don't want to know what they did, but they didn't bury them, and their bones are now in the bone church.
• 16:53
  SPEAKER_01: It was just, and you talk about the the the graveyard story, and I think that was very humbling to to look at all of these bones and know that they were once a mother, a father, a child, a grandmother, or they were had a they had a family, they had a story.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_01: Yep, they had a song.
• 17:11
  SPEAKER_01: How many of these people died with their song in them?
• 17:15
  SPEAKER_01: Or or not not having the opportunity to fully write their story, and it just it was very um, it was a very thought-provoking.
• 17:24
  SPEAKER_01: It was very short.
• 17:25
  SPEAKER_01: We were only there, you're only allowed in there for 30 minutes, so it was very uh very thought-provoking, very yeah, very existential.
• 17:33
  SPEAKER_00: How about that?
• 17:34
  SPEAKER_00: How about existential?
• 17:35
  SPEAKER_00: It it makes you see that we're all the same.
• 17:40
  SPEAKER_00: Those bones, the bones that I was looking at, they weren't artificial bones, they were real bones, and those bones are in me.
• 17:47
  SPEAKER_00: They look just like that in me.
• 17:48
  SPEAKER_00: And they had that the chandelier had one of every single bone in a human being's body in the chandelier.
• 17:57
  SPEAKER_00: And in the coat of arms, there were teeth, yeah, and there were wrist bones, and there were like you see all the different artfully arranged in this coat of arms put together in in certain ways, and you're looking at it going, oh my gosh, those bones, those same bones are in my body, not the same ones, but they look exactly alike.
• 18:17
  SPEAKER_00: And one day, if if we get buried, I don't think we're going to, but we're gonna be like that, we're gonna look like that.
• 18:24
  SPEAKER_00: And this this existence that we have right now, it's not gonna mean anything.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_00: Because those people there, we don't even know them.
• 18:32
  SPEAKER_00: People in that bone church, but they all had a story, they all had a story, they all had a song, they all had a dream, they all had something that they wanted to accomplish.
• 18:40
  SPEAKER_00: They all had something that they wanted to experience, they all had stuff that they experienced that they didn't want to experience.
• 18:46
  SPEAKER_00: And I I was just looking at these bones going, oh my gosh, this is like this is like humanity and existentialism all in a nutshell.
• 18:55
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, you're looking at you're looking at your mortality, and it was it was pretty freaking awesome.
• 19:03
  SPEAKER_01: Yep, and then come back and immediately find myself going into the defense for a second and having to pull myself back and remembering that moment and remembering that that none of this is none of this is permanent.
• 19:17
  SPEAKER_00: Yep, and there's listen, it money fear is real, um, loneliness is real, these feelings are real.
• 19:24
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 19:25
  SPEAKER_00: And I was working with a client one time and we were on a call, and and I said, Hey, those feelings that you this is a this is a true story, right?
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_00: And and and I actually use these words.
• 19:34
  SPEAKER_00: So those feelings that you have in your body, those the feelings of unworthiness, the feelings like you don't deserve anything, the feelings that you're adding no value, the feeling that you're not significant, the feeling that you're not valuable, those feelings are 100% real.
• 19:50
  SPEAKER_00: You feel them in your body, they are real sensations in your body, they are energy patterns, they are energy patterns derived from your nervous system construct right now.
• 20:02
  SPEAKER_00: Those feelings that you're feeling are real, but they're lying to you, but they're lying to you.
• 20:10
  SPEAKER_00: That doesn't mean that they're you don't feel them and it's not uncomfortable.
• 20:15
  SPEAKER_00: They're real.
• 20:16
  SPEAKER_00: Human beings have emotions, human beings have feelings, they are real.
• 20:20
  SPEAKER_00: Don't ever, ever pretend you don't have any emotions or feelings, and don't think you shouldn't have the emotions and feelings that you have.
• 20:28
  SPEAKER_00: But understand that the ones that aren't serving and aren't pointing towards what you want, they're lying to you.
• 20:35
  SPEAKER_00: And going on offense requires knowing what you want to feel on a daily basis, knowing what you want to experience on a daily basis or in the course of your life.
• 20:45
  SPEAKER_00: And when life bumps into one of your apps, it's up to you to create that pattern interrupt, get into your vision and say, wait a minute, I'm experiencing what I don't want to experience.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: I don't need more money in order to feel what I want to feel.
• 21:00
  SPEAKER_00: The money doesn't create the feeling, your choice creates the emotion, and that's what going on offensive life is and moving into and through the discomfort of the expansion of creating something new because everything new and everything that you haven't experienced that you're going to experience or that you want to experience, including shifting feelings of unworthiness to feelings of worthiness, every single thing and change and transformation that you're gonna experience or new thing, it's gonna be uncomfortable.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be uncomfortable, right?
• 21:36
  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna bump into this new thing that you're doing, even feeling trying to think a different thought about yourself or feel a different feeling.
• 21:44
  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna bump into an out.
• 21:45
  SPEAKER_00: And in that moment, it's about doubling down on what you want instead of what you don't, and going into and through the discomfort, right?
• 21:54
  SPEAKER_00: Because we're all ending up, not not in the bone church, not in the bone church, but we all end up bones.
• 21:59
  SPEAKER_00: We're all ending up bones or sand.
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_00: So don't, yeah, there you go.
• 22:02
  SPEAKER_01: Chunky sand.
• 22:03
  SPEAKER_00: Chunky sand.
• 22:04
  SPEAKER_00: Don't die with your song in you.
• 22:07
  unknown: Yeah.
• 22:08
  SPEAKER_00: I in and I've said it in speaking engagements, and and I'm I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna prompt Angie when I do this.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it goes wrong.
• 22:17
  SPEAKER_00: Oh shit.
• 22:18
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna prompt Angie.
• 22:20
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 22:20
  SPEAKER_00: There's something that I usually say in a speaking engagement, or when I'm teaching my mastermind, I say, at the end of my life, I want to have a last thought right before I die.
• 22:35
  SPEAKER_00: And I want it to be this thought.
• 22:37
  SPEAKER_00: What is it?
• 22:38
  SPEAKER_02: That was fun, something like that.
• 22:40
  SPEAKER_02: That was close.
• 22:42
  SPEAKER_00: I've only said it a thousand times.
• 22:43
  SPEAKER_00: I said that was fucking awesome.
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, yeah.
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_00: And when you look at my vision to experience that or to continue to move into it, there's no way at the end of my life it won't be fucking awesome.
• 22:56
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and I did an exercise the other day, and I challenge you to do this exercise.
• 23:01
  SPEAKER_00: Look back at the course of your life of all the things that you've wanted, that you got.
• 23:07
  SPEAKER_00: Look at all the things that were one point just a want, and at some point you actually did experience it.
• 23:14
  SPEAKER_00: And you'll see that regardless of if you made it happen or you allowed it to happen, you got most of what you've wanted in this lifetime.
• 23:24
  SPEAKER_00: And that's why creating a vision, going on offense and expecting and moving into it, it'll set you free.
• 23:30
  SPEAKER_01: And that is a great exercise, too.
• 23:32
  SPEAKER_00: It is a great exercise, all right.
• 23:33
  SPEAKER_00: Love you guys, appreciate you.
• 23:35
  SPEAKER_00: You have any last parting shots?
• 23:36
  SPEAKER_01: No.
• 23:37
  SPEAKER_01: Um, our 25th wedding anniversary is coming up, so happy anniversary.
• 23:40
  SPEAKER_00: Happy anniversary, and we kind of celebrated in Prague, yeah, right?
• 23:46
  SPEAKER_00: Stayed at a Mozart, the Mozart Hotel, and one of our favorite songs, well, our favorite song together is The Harvest Moon by uh Neil Young.
• 23:55
  SPEAKER_00: And we danced under the harvest moon in the courtyard under the harvest moon.
• 24:01
  SPEAKER_00: That was magic at the Mozart.
• 24:03
  SPEAKER_00: We did a great reel on it.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_00: If you if you haven't seen it, go back and take a look at our social media.
• 24:08
  SPEAKER_01: That was magic.
• 24:08
  SPEAKER_01: And uh next next trip, let's go.
• 24:11
  SPEAKER_00: Let's go.
• 24:12
  SPEAKER_00: Last last year we uh danced under the harvest moon in Baltimore.
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_00: This year in Prague, next year, who knows?
• 24:17
  SPEAKER_00: We'll see.
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_00: Well, listen, love you guys, appreciate you.
• 24:20
  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for sticking in with us.
• 24:21
  SPEAKER_00: Thanks for listening to this all the way through.
• 24:23
  SPEAKER_00: If there's anything I can do to help you shift from defense to offense, get clear about what you want and move into and through discomfort, just let me know.
• 24:30
  SPEAKER_00: Reach out, always willing to help.
• 24:33
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