Latest / The Knife: A True Crime Podcast / Kidnapped at Birth (Part 2 of 2)
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This story contains adult content and language. Listener discretion is advised.
- 0:05Speaker 2: The claims and opinions in this podcast are those of
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- 0:14Speaker 3: I promise my mom not only will I find her
- 0:17Speaker 3: kidnap child, which we did, but I'm going to find
- 0:20Speaker 3: the kidnapper as well, and we are so close to
- 0:23Speaker 3: that right now. Oh my God.
- 0:40Speaker 1: Welcome to the Knife. I'm Hannah Smith. I'm Patia Eton.
- 0:43Speaker 1: This is part two of a two episode series where
- 0:46Speaker 1: we're speaking with Paul Franksac. If you have not heard
- 0:48Speaker 1: part one, we recommend you go back and listen to
- 0:51Speaker 1: that now. We will be back at the end of
- 0:53Speaker 1: the episode to discuss the series. Let's get into part two.
- 1:00Speaker 1: When Paul Franzac was ten years old snooping in the
- 1:03Speaker 1: attic looking for Christmas presents and he stumbled upon an
- 1:07Speaker 1: old newspaper article and was shocked to see his name.
- 1:11Speaker 1: He was told that when he was only one day
- 1:12Speaker 1: old in nineteen sixty four, he was kidnapped from Michael
- 1:16Speaker 1: Ray's hospital in Chicago, and then he was missing for
- 1:20Speaker 1: almost two years before being found and returned to his parents.
- 1:25Speaker 1: It wasn't until Paul was an adult that he discovered
- 1:28Speaker 1: that he wasn't actually biologically related to his parents, Dora
- 1:32Speaker 1: and Chester Franzac. He was the baby found in New Jersey,
- 1:37Speaker 1: but he was not the same baby stolen from the
- 1:39Speaker 1: Chicago hospital. He made that discovery in twenty twelve, and
- 1:44Speaker 1: it launched Paul's search for his biological family. At that point,
- 1:48Speaker 1: all he knew was that he wasn't Paul Franzac, not
- 1:52Speaker 1: the original Paul Franzac. But he didn't know who he was.
- 1:56Speaker 1: He didn't know his name, He didn't even know his
- 1:59Speaker 1: date of birth. Then, in twenty seventeen, he discovered his
- 2:03Speaker 1: original name, Jack Rosenthal, and not just that, he learned
- 2:07Speaker 1: he had a twin sister, Jill. They were born in
- 2:11Speaker 1: October of nineteen sixty three, which made him six months
- 2:15Speaker 1: older than Dora Franzac's baby son, Paul, who was kidnapped
- 2:19Speaker 1: from Chicago. Paul immediately began looking for his twin, Jill,
- 2:23Speaker 1: but no one seemed to know where she was.
- 2:26Speaker 2: What did it feel like to have gone through this
- 2:30Speaker 2: search for your own identity, but then to find that
- 2:34Speaker 2: you have a twin?
- 2:37Speaker 3: Well, I just wanted to find her. I wanted to
- 2:40Speaker 3: find out more about who I was, who my family was.
- 2:43Speaker 3: How did I end up abandon on the street in Newark,
- 2:46Speaker 3: New Jersey with a black eye.
- 2:48Speaker 2: You know, her name is Jill. So twins Jack and
- 2:51Speaker 2: Jill Rosenthal Rosenthal, Jack and Jill Rosenthal. And so was
- 2:57Speaker 2: there happiness in learning you had a twin? Or was
- 2:59Speaker 2: there sort of this neutral just and want to find
- 3:02Speaker 2: more information.
- 3:04Speaker 3: So honestly, the way I've handled this whole thing, it's like,
- 3:07Speaker 3: it's not my life. I'm an investigator investigating someone else's life,
- 3:12Speaker 3: and so to me, it was another mystery that I
- 3:15Speaker 3: had to tackle. I had to solve this part as well.
- 3:18Speaker 3: I never just sat there and thought I got a
- 3:20Speaker 3: Twinn's missing. Oh my god, this is horrible. You know,
- 3:23Speaker 3: I didn't have time for that. There's a girl out
- 3:25Speaker 3: there that's missing. I gotta find her.
- 3:28Speaker 1: When Paul says that Jill is missing, he means that
- 3:31Speaker 1: there is a record of Jill as a baby alongside Jack,
- 3:34Speaker 1: and then nothing. Baby Jack had been left in a
- 3:38Speaker 1: stroller outside a department store in Newark in nineteen sixty five,
- 3:43Speaker 1: and it seemed that Jill disappeared around the same time.
- 3:47Speaker 1: Was she left in a different stroller found by someone else.
- 3:50Speaker 1: Was there a grown woman walking around somewhere who had
- 3:53Speaker 1: no idea about her biological identity, no idea that she
- 3:57Speaker 1: was Jill Rosenthal. By this point, Paul's story had been
- 4:01Speaker 1: covered by multiple news outlets, including Twenty twenty. It had
- 4:06Speaker 1: captured the attention of many people in the nation, and
- 4:09Speaker 1: so Paul decided to ask them for help. He asked
- 4:12Speaker 1: the public for tips help him find Jill.
- 4:17Speaker 3: Pleading for information, tips, anybody out there that knows something.
- 4:21Speaker 3: I wanted to work with neck MEC, the National Center
- 4:23Speaker 3: for Missing and Exploited Children. In order to do that,
- 4:27Speaker 3: I had to open a police report, a missing person's
- 4:29Speaker 3: case on Jill, and the process of all this. When
- 4:32Speaker 3: I went to New York, I met this guy named Alex.
- 4:34Speaker 3: Alex Tresniowski. He's a writer. He worked for People magazine,
- 4:37Speaker 3: investigative writing all that good stuff. He liked my story
- 4:40Speaker 3: and he asked me if I ever thought about writing
- 4:42Speaker 3: a book. I hadn't, but people were writing into me
- 4:46Speaker 3: every day. Your story's inspiring me to start my own journey.
- 4:49Speaker 3: I wish you would write a book about this because
- 4:51Speaker 3: you could help so many people. So we decided to
- 4:54Speaker 3: form a partnership and start writing a book. We wrote
- 4:57Speaker 3: it as we were learning things. First book, The Foundling,
- 5:01Speaker 3: is written like you're on the journey with me. When
- 5:04Speaker 3: I'm digging a grave, you're digging it with me. We're
- 5:06Speaker 3: knocking on doors, we're being assaulted. Whatever, you're with us.
- 5:11Speaker 3: Because we would do something during the day, go back
- 5:13Speaker 3: and write it down, and that's what I wanted to do.
- 5:15Speaker 3: I wanted people to really appreciate the journey that we
- 5:18Speaker 3: were on in order to start their own journeys.
- 5:21Speaker 1: In Paul's first book, The Foundling, he writes about the
- 5:24Speaker 1: years he spent searching for the missing people of his past,
- 5:28Speaker 1: for his own family members, and, by extension, his identity.
- 5:32Speaker 1: He writes about becoming a father and suddenly wanting answers
- 5:36Speaker 1: about his past and his medical history, not just for
- 5:39Speaker 1: himself but also for his daughter. That doesn't mean the
- 5:43Speaker 1: task of digging up the past was easy. There were
- 5:46Speaker 1: answers he wanted that seemed determined to stay hidden forever.
- 5:50Speaker 1: He writes, I spent many dark, desperate nights staring at
- 5:54Speaker 1: a computer screen, hunting for hours without knowing what I
- 5:58Speaker 1: was hunting for. There were times it felt like I
- 6:01Speaker 1: was being pulled into a black hole, away from everything
- 6:04Speaker 1: that was good in my life and toward an endless nothing.
- 6:08Speaker 1: Moments when I could feel my mission turning into an obsession,
- 6:12Speaker 1: could feel myself becoming withdrawn, isolated, angry, Paul writes about
- 6:17Speaker 1: the toll this obsession took on his relationships, including those
- 6:21Speaker 1: with his parents, his brother, and his then wife Michelle.
- 6:25Speaker 1: But Paul could just not let it go. He had
- 6:28Speaker 1: to find answers, and eventually he did, starting with his
- 6:32Speaker 1: biological parents. But he quickly learned that finding answers does
- 6:37Speaker 1: not equate to finding out good news.
- 6:41Speaker 3: I learned quite a bit, and none of it's good.
- 6:44Speaker 3: I had two older sisters and a younger brother. For
- 6:46Speaker 3: some reason, they just wanted to get rid of Jack
- 6:48Speaker 3: and jail. They kept us in a dark room upstairs.
- 6:51Speaker 3: No food, no water, dirty diapers. I had a black eye.
- 6:56Speaker 3: Jill didn't speak. We were fortunate enough. This one lady
- 7:00Speaker 3: who baby sat us one evening when she was in
- 7:03Speaker 3: high school, remember this, and reached out to me and said,
- 7:06Speaker 3: I know who you are. I actually watched you and
- 7:08Speaker 3: your sister one night.
- 7:11Speaker 1: In the documentary The Lost Sons, that neighbor Paul mentioned
- 7:15Speaker 1: who baby sat him when she was a teenager is interviewed,
- 7:18Speaker 1: The picture she paints is bleak. She was asked a
- 7:22Speaker 1: babysit the two older girls one evening. She said she
- 7:25Speaker 1: didn't even know there were babies in the house until
- 7:28Speaker 1: she wandered upstairs and found Jack and Jill isolated in
- 7:32Speaker 1: a room with no toys, just two bare cribs. She
- 7:36Speaker 1: said they were dirty and hungry, and they looked scared.
- 7:40Speaker 1: Jack had a black eye. She cleaned them up and
- 7:43Speaker 1: took care of the twins until their parents came home
- 7:46Speaker 1: early the next morning, smelling of alcohol. She remembers their
- 7:50Speaker 1: mom being angry that she'd ever gone upstairs and interacted
- 7:54Speaker 1: with the twins at all. She came away with the
- 7:57Speaker 1: distinct impression that this type of nicole was routine in
- 8:01Speaker 1: that household. She was alarmed by what she saw, but
- 8:05Speaker 1: as a teenager, she didn't know what to do or
- 8:08Speaker 1: who to tell about it. But she'd never stopped thinking
- 8:11Speaker 1: about those twins all these years later.
- 8:15Speaker 2: How did you learn this information about your childhood? Like,
- 8:19Speaker 2: where did that information come to you from?
- 8:22Speaker 3: For meeting relatives Lenny his family, people from my mom's
- 8:26Speaker 3: side in the family, the Duncan's side, you know first
- 8:30Speaker 3: hand accounts of how things were, and you know they've
- 8:33Speaker 3: actually seen the twins and how we were treated, mistreated,
- 8:37Speaker 3: and then we vanished.
- 8:39Speaker 2: And so you had two older sisters, correct, were you
- 8:43Speaker 2: able to reach them?
- 8:45Speaker 3: So when has passed away, I got to meet the
- 8:47Speaker 3: other one.
- 8:48Speaker 2: That's right.
- 8:49Speaker 1: Paul found his living biological sister. She was older than him,
- 8:54Speaker 1: born in nineteen sixty one. This means she would have
- 8:58Speaker 1: been about four years old when Jack and his twin
- 9:00Speaker 1: Jill were abandoned. Would she remember that she once had
- 9:04Speaker 1: twin siblings who just disappeared. Paul looked up his sister's information.
- 9:09Speaker 1: She was still living in New Jersey.
- 9:12Speaker 3: I just went went to her house in Atlantic City.
- 9:14Speaker 2: You literally went to her house.
- 9:16Speaker 3: Yeah, she wouldn't answer the phone.
- 9:20Speaker 2: Oh my god, I I look.
- 9:22Speaker 3: So I'm in there in Atlantic City. I'm knocking on
- 9:25Speaker 3: her door and there's no answer, and I'm knocking. I'm
- 9:28Speaker 3: thinking all these scenarios in my head, and it's going
- 9:30Speaker 3: to shoot a shot under the door or something, you know,
- 9:33Speaker 3: you don't know what, right, So, after about ten minutes
- 9:36Speaker 3: of knocking, she finally answered the door. I said, I'm
- 9:39Speaker 3: Paul and Astley and Jack your brother. She goes, I
- 9:41Speaker 3: know who you are, Come on in, came in. We
- 9:44Speaker 3: talked for about half an hour, just told me stories
- 9:46Speaker 3: about and growing up in the family and how it
- 9:48Speaker 3: was and how my parents were difficult, how when my
- 9:51Speaker 3: dad passed away and no one went to his funeral,
- 9:54Speaker 3: things like that, and I thought we were getting along
- 9:56Speaker 3: pretty well. It was a good conversation, so we agreed
- 9:59Speaker 3: to meet the next day for lunch. Cannect. The next day,
- 10:02Speaker 3: shod and answered the door, ton't answer the phone, and
- 10:04Speaker 3: that was it. My younger brother, who I was talking
- 10:08Speaker 3: with on the phone and emailing, he called the same
- 10:10Speaker 3: day and said, I think this is a scam. I
- 10:13Speaker 3: don't care if I'm my brother or not. I want
- 10:14Speaker 3: nothing to do with you.
- 10:16Speaker 2: A scam because it's like, what were you weren't asking
- 10:18Speaker 2: them for money right exactly? And it sounds like they're
- 10:23Speaker 2: aware that your parents were difficult people and that it
- 10:26Speaker 2: was not a perfect upbringing. But did they have an
- 10:29Speaker 2: experience with your parents that they could tell you about.
- 10:32Speaker 3: My younger brother told me that it was a very
- 10:35Speaker 3: dysfunctional family. They wouldn't do anything together, there was no
- 10:38Speaker 3: love in that family. I mean, I know I dodged
- 10:41Speaker 3: many bullets. Put it that way. I'm so thankful I
- 10:44Speaker 3: was raided by the franz Acs. I actually got to
- 10:46Speaker 3: interview my older sister's first husband and it was a
- 10:50Speaker 3: very eye opening interview. Just an amazing guy. He has
- 10:54Speaker 3: since passed away. But I'm really glad that I was abandoned.
- 11:00Speaker 3: How many times have you heard that?
- 11:01Speaker 2: Never? But it's like, it's so strange how this is
- 11:06Speaker 2: all played out in that I think the silver lining
- 11:10Speaker 2: is that you grew up in a household where you
- 11:12Speaker 2: were wanted.
- 11:14Speaker 3: Yeah, it's an amazing thing I highly recommended.
- 11:18Speaker 2: Yeah, it's sad to think about what happened in that house.
- 11:21Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 11:22Speaker 1: The things Paul learned about the first year of his
- 11:25Speaker 1: life were not pleasant. It's a story of neglect, abuse,
- 11:29Speaker 1: and dysfunction. His investigation put him in contact with multiple
- 11:33Speaker 1: people who remembered that time. Although there is still a
- 11:37Speaker 1: lot of missing information, he also heard some alarming theories
- 11:41Speaker 1: about what might have happened to Jill.
- 11:45Speaker 3: I did hear a story from multiple people that actually
- 11:49Speaker 3: witnessed this. They came and surprised my parents one day.
- 11:52Speaker 3: They wanted to see the twins my mom was drunk.
- 11:55Speaker 3: My mom was I'm very being drinker, So you want
- 11:58Speaker 3: to see the twins. She went upstairs, she got us.
- 12:00Speaker 3: She came down the stairs. She was holding Jill and
- 12:03Speaker 3: I by our wrists. We were naked like little chickens.
- 12:08Speaker 3: Got to the third step and just dropped us on
- 12:10Speaker 3: the floor. We bounced on the floor by my uncle
- 12:13Speaker 3: said I. Rod jumped up and ran over and hugged him,
- 12:15Speaker 3: and Jill just laid on the floor. So a lot
- 12:18Speaker 3: of the people that we talked to thought that something
- 12:21Speaker 3: happened to Jill. They either murdered her or they killed
- 12:25Speaker 3: her on accident. And they couldn't explain just one twin
- 12:29Speaker 3: around the house. That's why they abandoned me.
- 12:32Speaker 1: But Paul wondered, how can you go from having twins
- 12:36Speaker 1: to suddenly not having twins? How did his parents explain
- 12:40Speaker 1: this away to their family members and neighbors.
- 12:44Speaker 3: So my parents lied to everyone in the family. With
- 12:46Speaker 3: someone who asked where the twins were, they would say,
- 12:48Speaker 3: you have the other side of the families watching them.
- 12:51Speaker 2: What did your sister and your brother say about Jill
- 12:53Speaker 2: if anything, or what they thought happened nothing when you
- 12:58Speaker 2: brought her up to them. Did they just literally say nothing.
- 13:02Speaker 3: Yeah, like they didn't want to believe it.
- 13:04Speaker 2: Denial of of me too, denial of you actually being
- 13:08Speaker 2: their brother.
- 13:09Speaker 3: Yeah, in my own, my own thought process, they're hiding something. Yeah,
- 13:15Speaker 3: because why else would you shut family out?
- 13:17Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hard to imagine doing that, Paul said. His
- 13:21Speaker 1: older sister claimed not to remember him or Jill. She
- 13:25Speaker 1: was only four years old when they disappeared, but Paul
- 13:28Speaker 1: isn't convinced that she's being totally transparent regardless she stopped
- 13:33Speaker 1: speaking with him. Paul had another older sister who died
- 13:37Speaker 1: when she was young, and he has a biological younger
- 13:40Speaker 1: brother who likely would not remember the twins anyway, but
- 13:44Speaker 1: his brother has also stopped speaking with him. Paul can't help,
- 13:48Speaker 1: but wonder do they know something more about Jill. It's
- 13:52Speaker 1: also possible that digging up the past and their difficult
- 13:55Speaker 1: childhoods is just too much to ask. One thing Paul
- 13:59Speaker 1: has learned on this journey is that you can never
- 14:01Speaker 1: predict how someone will respond to a decade's old secret
- 14:05Speaker 1: being resurfaced.
- 14:07Speaker 2: It makes me.
- 14:08Speaker 1: Think about that moment Paul told us about of his mother,
- 14:11Speaker 1: Dora Franzac, being told in nineteen sixty six that her
- 14:15Speaker 1: kidnapped son had been found in New Jersey, of all
- 14:19Speaker 1: places of the moment when the FBI placed her into
- 14:22Speaker 1: a room with an abandoned baby boy and asked her
- 14:25Speaker 1: if that was her son, Paul.
- 14:28Speaker 3: So they were put in the room, and as soon
- 14:31Speaker 3: as they brought me in, missus Fronzick was quoted as saying, Oh,
- 14:34Speaker 3: my god, that's my baby. So I asked my mom
- 14:37Speaker 3: about that. We didn't talk about this for a long time,
- 14:39Speaker 3: but just a couple of years ago she started opening
- 14:41Speaker 3: up to me and actually talking about these things, which
- 14:43Speaker 3: is so good because you can't keep that inside. I
- 14:46Speaker 3: asked her, did you really think I was your child?
- 14:49Speaker 3: She said that the FBI was a known authority back then,
- 14:53Speaker 3: so you believe them not so much anymore, I don't think,
- 14:56Speaker 3: but back then you did, and they're telling you this
- 14:59Speaker 3: is your child. So she said that. She could have said,
- 15:02Speaker 3: I'm not really sure. Have me be put back in
- 15:05Speaker 3: the system, and I always wonder what happened to me,
- 15:07Speaker 3: Or she could say, yeah, that's my kidnap child, because
- 15:10Speaker 3: I very well could have been. And that's what she
- 15:13Speaker 3: decided to do because in her heart she wanted me
- 15:16Speaker 3: to be your kidnap child.
- 15:18Speaker 2: You don't know how someone's going to respond to difficult circumstances.
- 15:23Speaker 2: It's like some people respond very differently. And she had
- 15:26Speaker 2: the world watching and she said that's my son and
- 15:30Speaker 2: accepted this. And then you have on the other end
- 15:33Speaker 2: of the spectrum siblings who are sounds like, still in
- 15:36Speaker 2: pretty full denial.
- 15:38Speaker 3: You know it. It blows your mind. Our podcast, The
- 15:41Speaker 3: Forensic Files, we actually help people find the ritrue identities.
- 15:45Speaker 3: We've helped a lot of people, and every time we
- 15:48Speaker 3: help someone, I'm always blown away by their reaction of
- 15:51Speaker 3: what they want to do next. You think, oh my god, yeah,
- 15:54Speaker 3: let's let's notify these people. You know, I found you
- 15:57Speaker 3: found my biological mom. Let's let's notify her. A lot
- 16:00Speaker 3: a lot of times they're like, oh, I'm fine, this
- 16:02Speaker 3: is the way this is. I don't want to you know,
- 16:04Speaker 3: I'm like, how can you not see it through? You know,
- 16:08Speaker 3: because they might want that information too.
- 16:11Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, everyone is so different in the way
- 16:13Speaker 2: that they process their own life.
- 16:17Speaker 3: Blows your mind every time. Whenever you think you're going
- 16:19Speaker 3: to get an answer and it comes out completely different.
- 16:21Speaker 3: You're like, I didn't see that coming.
- 16:28Speaker 1: How did this missing baby in Chicago, Illinois, become linked
- 16:32Speaker 1: with this found baby in Newark, New Jersey. An important
- 16:36Speaker 1: factor that Paul learned is that during the initial search
- 16:39Speaker 1: by law enforcement into the foundling baby's identity, part of
- 16:43Speaker 1: that search included looking over records of missing children. But importantly,
- 16:49Speaker 1: the Rosenthals had not reported Jack and Jill missing, so
- 16:53Speaker 1: law enforcement had no idea that there were two children
- 16:56Speaker 1: missing from a home right there in Newark, New Jersey.
- 17:00Speaker 1: Paul also learned that the news about the foundling and
- 17:03Speaker 1: the stroller in Newark was not widely reported.
- 17:06Speaker 3: On so I was abandoned. Originally, the police reports that
- 17:11Speaker 3: we saw in the newspaper was that I was abandoned
- 17:13Speaker 3: July second, nineteen sixty five. But we've just learned that
- 17:18Speaker 3: it was actually July seventh, So once again there was
- 17:20Speaker 3: a discrepancy in the facts. We couldn't find anything in
- 17:24Speaker 3: the newspapers. Even though the police out there said that
- 17:27Speaker 3: they ran a huge campaign trying to find the parents
- 17:29Speaker 3: of this abandoned child, I don't think they did so.
- 17:34Speaker 3: In the newspaper articles it said that I was named
- 17:37Speaker 3: Scott McKinley because I was when I was found abandoned.
- 17:40Speaker 3: I was placed in a foster care house. I was
- 17:42Speaker 3: there for a year. They baptized me and named me
- 17:45Speaker 3: Scott McKinley, and they wanted to adopt me. The FBI
- 17:50Speaker 3: showed up and said, that's the kidnap child from Chicago.
- 17:53Speaker 3: We were told originally that the police kind of connected
- 17:57Speaker 3: the dots between the missing child in Chicago and Scott
- 18:01Speaker 3: McKinley who was abandoned in Newark, New Jersey. But we
- 18:05Speaker 3: just recently found out also that it was actually a
- 18:07Speaker 3: social worker that was working with someone that I decided
- 18:10Speaker 3: to put that out there. So when the Rosenthals got
- 18:14Speaker 3: rid of Jack and Jill, they never alerted anybody, and
- 18:17Speaker 3: that wasn't in the news or anything.
- 18:19Speaker 1: If it weren't for DNA testing, Paul says, there's almost
- 18:23Speaker 1: no way the dots would ever have been connected that
- 18:26Speaker 1: he was born Jack Rosenthal. The search for Jill and
- 18:30Speaker 1: for Paul Franzac and Paul's kidnapper continued for a time.
- 18:34Speaker 1: It created a rift between Paul and his parents, Dora
- 18:38Speaker 1: and Chester Franzac, but eventually they were able to repair
- 18:41Speaker 1: the relationship.
- 18:43Speaker 3: When I started this journey, they wanted nothing to do
- 18:45Speaker 3: with it nothing. We didn't talk for a couple of years.
- 18:48Speaker 3: My father passed away in twenty seventeen. After he passed away,
- 18:52Speaker 3: my mom started being a little bit more open to
- 18:54Speaker 3: talking about things, and I'm very grateful for that. She said,
- 18:58Speaker 3: I owe you a big apology. I only thought about
- 19:01Speaker 3: this from my point of view as having my child kidnapped.
- 19:05Speaker 3: I never thought about you and your side and what
- 19:07Speaker 3: you're going through. She said, this is fascinating and I
- 19:11Speaker 3: want to be a part of this.
- 19:13Speaker 2: It's really admirable, you know, I think, especially maybe in
- 19:17Speaker 2: her generation, to be able to say to look inward
- 19:23Speaker 2: at the most difficult thing that ever happened to you
- 19:27Speaker 2: and look beyond how it impacted you. You know, not
- 19:31Speaker 2: everyone can do that, and sounds like she did, and
- 19:35Speaker 2: I think that's really a powerful thing. And I'm probably
- 19:38Speaker 2: a gift to hear that from this person that you
- 19:40Speaker 2: didn't want to hurt by finding out who you were as.
- 19:44Speaker 3: Wanted to find her kidnap child.
- 19:46Speaker 2: So, as your mom is opening up to you, did
- 19:49Speaker 2: she ever express any doubts that she had over the
- 19:52Speaker 2: years as you got older.
- 19:54Speaker 3: About me being her biological son. She just said that
- 20:00Speaker 3: I was a little different I mean, I wasn't a
- 20:03Speaker 3: franz Ac. I don't know. How would you believe in about,
- 20:05Speaker 3: you know, DNA nurture versus nature. I am a nature person.
- 20:11Speaker 3: I believe that our personalities are talents. They're all in
- 20:14Speaker 3: our DNA. It's not learned. And I was definitely not
- 20:19Speaker 3: like they were. Yeah, I mean to me, it's an
- 20:21Speaker 3: outsider looking in you would say that's probably not your
- 20:24Speaker 3: biological child. But back then people were talking about that
- 20:26Speaker 3: kind of stuff. DNA wasn't a thing like it is now.
- 20:30Speaker 2: And how did it impact your parents because in the
- 20:34Speaker 2: way that you know, you hadn't found the real Paul
- 20:38Speaker 2: when you had to tell them that you were not
- 20:40Speaker 2: their son. Did they speak to you about any feelings
- 20:44Speaker 2: around that.
- 20:46Speaker 3: We didn't talk for about two years.
- 20:49Speaker 2: Yeah, And so you're trying to learn about yourself, but
- 20:53Speaker 2: you're simultaneously trying to find the real Paul. Frank sat correct.
- 20:58Speaker 2: How do you do it?
- 21:00Speaker 3: We did it? We did it. It was a process,
- 21:04Speaker 3: knocking on doors, you know, doing everything that you can.
- 21:08Speaker 3: But there's also luck.
- 21:11Speaker 1: Paul never stopped looking for the other Paul Franzac, his parents'
- 21:15Speaker 1: biological son who was kidnapped in nineteen sixty four. Then
- 21:20Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen, there was a crack in the case.
- 21:23Speaker 1: He found a man named Kevin Batty.
- 21:26Speaker 3: I had this person email me, I think I know
- 21:29Speaker 3: who you're looking for, but this is all I'm going
- 21:31Speaker 3: to tell you. It turns out that the real Paul
- 21:35Speaker 3: Kevin Batty. His daughters put their DNA on a site.
- 21:39Speaker 3: They matched up to Dave Franzac as Dave being their uncle,
- 21:43Speaker 3: your brother. Yeah, So when that happened, we knew immediately
- 21:48Speaker 3: that that was Paul. But Dave never told me this.
- 21:51Speaker 3: So we found the real Paul in twenty nineteen. So
- 21:55Speaker 3: we found him. I knew it was him immediately because
- 21:58Speaker 3: the questions I was asking, the family names and things
- 22:01Speaker 3: that were popping up. He wanted nothing to do with this.
- 22:05Speaker 3: This is right when COVID was happening, and right when
- 22:07Speaker 3: he found out that he was really Paul. For a Onzac,
- 22:10Speaker 3: he was diagnosed with a very aggressive cancer. So he
- 22:13Speaker 3: finds out he's Paul, it's COVID. He's in a small
- 22:17Speaker 3: town in Michigan. They can't leave Michigan yet.
- 22:21Speaker 1: Again, here was a huge discovery that was years in
- 22:24Speaker 1: the making. Paul had promised his mother he would find
- 22:27Speaker 1: her missing child and now he had. But any dreams
- 22:31Speaker 1: of meeting up in person and some big, happy reunion
- 22:35Speaker 1: turned out to be unrealistic. The world was in chaos
- 22:38Speaker 1: because of COVID and the man who was raised as
- 22:41Speaker 1: Kevin Beatty but who was biologically the original Paul Franzac
- 22:45Speaker 1: was now fighting for his life. He had received a
- 22:48Speaker 1: cancer diagnosis and the outcome did not look good. Still,
- 22:53Speaker 1: Paul was determined to connect his mother Dora, to her
- 22:55Speaker 1: biological son.
- 22:58Speaker 3: I was able to have my mom him talk on
- 23:00Speaker 3: the phone. All I wanted. I promised my mom when
- 23:04Speaker 3: I started this that I once wanted her to connect
- 23:06Speaker 3: with her biological son. I was hoping they could meet,
- 23:09Speaker 3: but that was off the table. But the first time
- 23:12Speaker 3: they talked, I was actually in Chicago with my daughter.
- 23:14Speaker 3: We're visiting, and the phone rang and I heard her
- 23:17Speaker 3: pick up the phone and say, hi, Kevin. My daughter
- 23:20Speaker 3: and I are high fiving. Oh my god, they're talking.
- 23:22Speaker 3: This is so amazing, you know. And that's all he wanted.
- 23:26Speaker 3: I wanted them to connect, and they were able to connect.
- 23:30Speaker 3: My mom got to speak with him a few more times.
- 23:32Speaker 3: He passed away a day before his birthday, in April
- 23:35Speaker 3: twenty fifth, twenty twenty. His birthday was Abril twenty sixth.
- 23:39Speaker 3: My mom got to say goodbye to him.
- 23:41Speaker 1: Paul's mother, Dora Franzac, participated in the documentary. She says
- 23:46Speaker 1: that Kevin Beatty, her long lost biological son, called her
- 23:50Speaker 1: to wish her a merry Christmas, and they both hoped
- 23:53Speaker 1: they could meet in person someday. Sadly that did not
- 23:56Speaker 1: happen because Kevin passed away shortly after. Laura also expressed
- 24:01Speaker 1: gratitude that she at least got to speak to her
- 24:03Speaker 1: son on the phone after all of those years, and
- 24:06Speaker 1: she said that she was grateful to have raised Paul
- 24:09Speaker 1: Jack Rosenthal, who she loves and is her son despite
- 24:12Speaker 1: the DNA results. Interestingly, Kevin Beatty's obituary lists his date
- 24:18Speaker 1: of birth as March fourteenth, nineteen sixty four, although we
- 24:22Speaker 1: now know that he was actually born on April twenty sixth,
- 24:26Speaker 1: nineteen sixty four, at Michael Ray's Hospital in Chicago, to
- 24:30Speaker 1: Dora and Chester Franzac, who he was with for just
- 24:33Speaker 1: one day before being stolen away. Did he accept that
- 24:39Speaker 1: he was this other person?
- 24:42Speaker 3: He had to, but I don't think he really cared.
- 24:45Speaker 3: I mean, he was just trying to survive.
- 24:47Speaker 2: What did he believe about his life until you brought
- 24:51Speaker 2: him this information?
- 24:53Speaker 3: So he was raised by a woman named Lorraine Fountain,
- 24:56Speaker 3: who told him that his father was a pro football
- 24:58Speaker 3: player and just just left left the family.
- 25:01Speaker 2: Any ties with Lorraine to this nurse that wasn't a nurse.
- 25:07Speaker 3: So Lorraine Fountain was a career criminal. We found so
- 25:11Speaker 3: many police records, so many things on this. She was
- 25:14Speaker 3: a grifter con person since she was like late teen's,
- 25:18Speaker 3: early twenties, working for companies and bezzling money, forging checks.
- 25:23Speaker 3: She was put in prison.
- 25:25Speaker 2: Is she alive when you reach out to Kevin and
- 25:29Speaker 2: let him know that he is Paul?
- 25:31Speaker 3: No, she passed away before that. Unfortunately.
- 25:35Speaker 1: At first, Paul wondered if Kevin's mom Lorraine was the
- 25:39Speaker 1: woman who posed as a nurse and kidnapped baby Paul
- 25:42Speaker 1: in nineteen sixty four. Did she go into that hospital
- 25:46Speaker 1: looking for a baby she could take and raise as
- 25:48Speaker 1: her own. The more Paul learned, the more he has
- 25:52Speaker 1: become convinced that it was not Lorraine who kidnapped baby Paul.
- 25:56Speaker 1: But he says that he is close to cracking the case.
- 26:00Speaker 2: Did she fit the physical description of the nurse.
- 26:03Speaker 3: So we didn't think she did it. First, we had
- 26:07Speaker 3: this other person of interest that we just cleared because
- 26:10Speaker 3: we got another first hand account on this person that
- 26:12Speaker 3: we thought was the kidnapper. But now I'm starting to
- 26:16Speaker 3: think that she might actually fit the profile. But I
- 26:20Speaker 3: believe she was paid to kidnap that child. There's mob
- 26:23Speaker 3: ties in Chicago. She was a high priced escort for
- 26:27Speaker 3: the mob, numerous arrests for prostitution and mob run hotels.
- 26:32Speaker 2: This story has everything, truly, but like she's a career criminal.
- 26:38Speaker 2: So the idea is that either she bought or quote
- 26:43Speaker 2: adopted Kevin, or she was behind it from the beginning.
- 26:49Speaker 3: I think she was either. If she didn't do the kidnapping,
- 26:52Speaker 3: she was paid to raise Paul because whoever wanted that
- 26:55Speaker 3: child didn't realize the heat that was going to come
- 26:57Speaker 3: across from that kidnapping, and for some reason they didn't
- 27:02Speaker 3: just get rid of the baby. Thank god, they paid
- 27:05Speaker 3: someone else to raise him.
- 27:07Speaker 2: Did you get any sort of reaction from Kevin to
- 27:12Speaker 2: this news?
- 27:13Speaker 3: At first, disbelief, But the proof is in the DNA.
- 27:18Speaker 3: His daughters wanted nothing to do with me. They wanted
- 27:21Speaker 3: the story to go away. I sent Kevin a copy
- 27:23Speaker 3: of my book and a copy of his birthtificate. I
- 27:27Speaker 3: was told secondhand that he actually read the book, he
- 27:30Speaker 3: enjoyed it and let someone else read it. I think
- 27:33Speaker 3: if he wasn't dealing with COVID and the cancer, I
- 27:36Speaker 3: think it might have been a different possibility.
- 27:39Speaker 2: What did he do for a living? What was his
- 27:41Speaker 2: life like?
- 27:42Speaker 3: He was a machinist, just like Chester.
- 27:45Speaker 2: Isn't that amazing?
- 27:47Speaker 3: Yeah, DNA truly and.
- 27:51Speaker 2: His daughters have they since that initial outreach? Have they
- 27:56Speaker 2: had any sort of change of heart about being in
- 27:59Speaker 2: contact with you?
- 28:00Speaker 3: Nope, none at all. I believe that they wanted to
- 28:06Speaker 3: preserve this image of their grandma, even though we have
- 28:09Speaker 3: so much proof that she was a horrible person, just
- 28:13Speaker 3: a career criminal, just not a good person. I mean,
- 28:16Speaker 3: she's raising a kidnapped child with a fake pertificate, you know,
- 28:19Speaker 3: I mean, come on.
- 28:27Speaker 1: There are still ongoing mysteries in Paul's story. One of
- 28:31Speaker 1: those is Jill. Paul hopes and believes that Jill is
- 28:36Speaker 1: still alive and out there waiting to be found. He
- 28:39Speaker 1: discusses his search for Jill on his podcast The Franzac Files.
- 28:45Speaker 2: So what are you continuing to do as far as
- 28:48Speaker 2: your story, what are you hoping to close the loop on?
- 28:53Speaker 3: Okay, so right now we're still actively pursuing finding Jill.
- 28:57Speaker 3: I don't know if you believe in psychics and all that,
- 28:59Speaker 3: but I do. And I've talked to quite a few
- 29:01Speaker 3: who had no idea who I was, and they also
- 29:02Speaker 3: that I've got a part of me that is out
- 29:05Speaker 3: there that hasn't crossed over, which I'm assuming is Jill.
- 29:09Speaker 2: You're sure they don't know who you are?
- 29:12Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, how could they write that? Yeah?
- 29:19Speaker 2: Sorry about that? No, I mean I I was. Yeah,
- 29:22Speaker 2: it's fair to say I'm very skeptical of psychics, but
- 29:24Speaker 2: I also have no judgment about people seeking answers unconventionally.
- 29:30Speaker 2: I mean, there's a lot of things about the universe.
- 29:32Speaker 2: Ide I'm sure I don't understand. Okay, So you're trying
- 29:36Speaker 2: to find Jill. That is priority one, Yes, And the
- 29:40Speaker 2: kidnapper and the kidnapper.
- 29:42Speaker 3: I promised my mom Dora Forranzac, not only will I
- 29:46Speaker 3: find her kidnap child, which we did, I'm going to
- 29:49Speaker 3: find the kidnapper as well, and we are so close
- 29:53Speaker 3: to that right now. Oh my god.
- 29:54Speaker 2: And you think you're zeroing in.
- 29:57Speaker 3: Yes, we're so close.
- 30:00Speaker 2: Do you have someone in mind? No spoilers, and you
- 30:04Speaker 2: still go by Paul frong Zach, but you prefer to
- 30:07Speaker 2: be called Jack or illegally, what is your name? Can
- 30:09Speaker 2: I ask you?
- 30:11Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean legally, I'm still Jack Thomas Rosenthal. Right,
- 30:15Speaker 3: it's like both, I'm still Paul Joseph Franzac, right, but
- 30:19Speaker 3: Paul Joseph Franzi passed away, So I feel like I
- 30:22Speaker 3: have a dead man's name.
- 30:24Speaker 2: Right because Kevin Beatty is Paul and he is passed.
- 30:27Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I've got my certificate, Jack Thomas Rosenthal, I've
- 30:33Speaker 3: got Paul Joseph's pertificate.
- 30:35Speaker 2: I mean I could be anybody. Yeah, yeah. Wow. It's
- 30:41Speaker 2: definitely a story that is stranger than fiction. You really
- 30:44Speaker 2: couldn't write this one, and I think it's awesome that
- 30:47Speaker 2: you're pursuing it as heavily as you are and helping
- 30:51Speaker 2: people along the way who are maybe finding themselves in
- 30:54Speaker 2: a similar situation of not knowing who they really are,
- 30:58Speaker 2: because that could be a very lonely place.
- 31:01Speaker 3: It is. As humans, all we have is our identity.
- 31:04Speaker 3: If you don't have that, what do you really have?
- 31:07Speaker 3: And if any of your listeners out there have any
- 31:09Speaker 3: questions about their identity or know someone that does and
- 31:11Speaker 3: they're looking for help. We don't charge. We do everything
- 31:15Speaker 3: for free at the Forensis files. Check us out.
- 31:18Speaker 2: Okay, great, well, thank you so much.
- 31:24Speaker 1: What a whirlwind of a story. There were so many
- 31:27Speaker 1: twists and turns. I kept thinking this is going to
- 31:31Speaker 1: be done, and then it would be like another hurdle, I.
- 31:34Speaker 2: Know, and it's ongoing, which is also as a listener
- 31:39Speaker 2: exciting to have gotten this far and know that he's
- 31:43Speaker 2: still working on figuring out who that nurse or fake
- 31:47Speaker 2: nurse was that took him. But I mean and looking
- 31:51Speaker 2: for his twin sister and looking for his twin sister. Yeah,
- 31:55Speaker 2: I mean, that part of the story wrecked me because
- 32:00Speaker 2: also just thinking about, you know, Paul lived for so
- 32:04Speaker 2: much of his life without knowing who he really was,
- 32:06Speaker 2: and then struggling to find biological connections, and to think
- 32:09Speaker 2: that all that time he had a twin, which just
- 32:12Speaker 2: from what I've heard about being a twin, it's like
- 32:14Speaker 2: the closest connection you could have.
- 32:17Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wild. The twin part was really surprising to me.
- 32:21Speaker 1: You hear about people discovering family members now more with
- 32:25Speaker 1: like DNA databases, and oftentimes we hear about the sparkly
- 32:30Speaker 1: stories of like, oh my gosh, I found a long
- 32:32Speaker 1: lost sibling and we've reconnected, and obviously that's beautiful, but
- 32:36Speaker 1: you know, the reality is, you don't know who you're
- 32:38Speaker 1: going to find. And I thought that Paul's approach was great,
- 32:42Speaker 1: like he really is committed to finding out the truth.
- 32:45Speaker 1: But also he was like, I'm glad that I was
- 32:48Speaker 1: raised by the family who raised me. Yeah.
- 32:51Speaker 2: And on the note of not knowing what you're going
- 32:53Speaker 2: to find, you know, it's interesting. I thought, listening to
- 32:58Speaker 2: Paul's story when he was years old and finding this out,
- 33:01Speaker 2: what a mystery, what an adventure. I think that's how
- 33:04Speaker 2: I would have felt as a ten year old. But then,
- 33:07Speaker 2: you know, you get older and you realize, like there
- 33:09Speaker 2: are parts of people's lives they truly want to leave behind. Yeah,
- 33:14Speaker 2: and for him to be pursuing, you know, the truth
- 33:17Speaker 2: and find out about his actual family shouldn't say actual family,
- 33:21Speaker 2: but his biological family. You know that his older sister
- 33:25Speaker 2: just sort of ghosted shut the door, like was done
- 33:28Speaker 2: with it. I mean, I don't know her story and
- 33:31Speaker 2: everything she went through and maybe she has her reasons,
- 33:34Speaker 2: but just there are people who want more information and
- 33:37Speaker 2: there are people who just want to leave things in
- 33:41Speaker 2: the past. Yeah, And I thought it was also just
- 33:45Speaker 2: really touching that one of Paul's immediate goals upon learning
- 33:48Speaker 2: that he actually wasn't who he was always told that
- 33:52Speaker 2: he was, was finding his mother, Dora's missing biological son.
- 33:59Speaker 1: Yeah, because the baby that was kidnapped in the hospital, Paul,
- 34:04Speaker 1: the original Paul, was never returned.
- 34:08Speaker 2: Was never returned to her. And then the fact that
- 34:11Speaker 2: the Paul Jack Frankzac that we interviewed, who was actually
- 34:14Speaker 2: Jack Rosenthal, was able to connect Dora to her missing
- 34:18Speaker 2: son shortly before he passed. I mean that is like
- 34:22Speaker 2: an indescribable feeling. What a special gift to give her
- 34:26Speaker 2: and maybe to give him, I don't know, but like,
- 34:30Speaker 2: how amazing is that. And something that we didn't really
- 34:34Speaker 2: have time to cover in the episode, but that I
- 34:36Speaker 2: think is important is that hospital security has changed so
- 34:41Speaker 2: drastically since the nineteen sixties, and some of those changes
- 34:45Speaker 2: were a result of the Paul frank Sac abduction. And
- 34:50Speaker 2: you know, in this story, baby Paul was abducted by
- 34:54Speaker 2: a nurse, well not a nurse someone who dressed as
- 34:56Speaker 2: a nurse, who walked into the hospital and walked out
- 35:00Speaker 2: with the baby.
- 35:01Speaker 1: And you cannot imagine someone being able to do that today.
- 35:05Speaker 2: No way. And she wasn't wearing a nurse's cap. But
- 35:08Speaker 2: beyond that, no, you know, that was the only like
- 35:10Speaker 2: moment of huh, I wonder. So today I looked it up,
- 35:14Speaker 2: and I mean, I've experienced some of this, having had
- 35:16Speaker 2: a baby in a hospital. I've seen it all in
- 35:19Speaker 2: practice too. You have to sign in at a reception desk.
- 35:23Speaker 2: You get a bracelet on your wrist. I believe my
- 35:25Speaker 2: husband also had a bracelet on his wrist, but I
- 35:27Speaker 2: think that's common, and then you have to show your identification.
- 35:31Speaker 2: The nurses have to use access cards to get in
- 35:34Speaker 2: and out of the maternity ward. Babies cannot be transported
- 35:38Speaker 2: in a nurse's arms. A nurse can't just pick up
- 35:41Speaker 2: a baby and carry the baby down the railway. Yeah,
- 35:43Speaker 2: that needs to be in a hospital bassinette. You know.
- 35:46Speaker 2: I'm sure there are emergency situations and all kinds of exceptions,
- 35:50Speaker 2: but that is the standard practice. You know. We also
- 35:54Speaker 2: now that it's we've obviously jumped forward many decades since
- 35:57Speaker 2: the sixties, but we have video survey's, you know, everything
- 36:01Speaker 2: is under surveillance as it should be in a hospital.
- 36:04Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely. So this reminded me when you're talking about
- 36:08Speaker 1: these mishaps that happened at hospitals in maternity wards before
- 36:14Speaker 1: sort of modern surveillance. And did you ever listen to
- 36:18Speaker 1: there was a great this American Life episode that has
- 36:20Speaker 1: always stuck with me. It's called Switched at Birth and
- 36:24Speaker 1: it's about two baby girls born in the same hospital
- 36:27Speaker 1: in nineteen fifty one, and the infants were accidentally switched
- 36:34Speaker 1: and sent home with the wrong families. So they were
- 36:36Speaker 1: both born, you know, taken to the nursery and somehow
- 36:41Speaker 1: the hospital's staff when returning the baby to the mother
- 36:45Speaker 1: the parents, they switched them. They were born like at
- 36:48Speaker 1: such the same time, and they were never unswitched.
- 36:53Speaker 2: When did they realize that they had been switched.
- 36:56Speaker 1: It's interesting because they interview the adult women in this episode.
- 37:01Speaker 1: It's so good, but later one of them like talks
- 37:05Speaker 1: to her mother who raised her, who's not her biological mother,
- 37:08Speaker 1: And it's also like it was the fifties, you know,
- 37:11Speaker 1: such a different time. That mother said within like a
- 37:14Speaker 1: day or two bringing that babe home. She was like,
- 37:17Speaker 1: this is not my baby. I know, this isn't my baby.
- 37:20Speaker 1: And she told her husband something happened, this is not
- 37:24Speaker 1: my baby. We need to go back to the hospital.
- 37:27Speaker 1: And her husband refused to do it because he was like,
- 37:31Speaker 1: that would embarrass the doctor. We're not going to make
- 37:33Speaker 1: a scuffle about it.
- 37:35Speaker 2: Ah. Oh my gosh, no, can you believe that? Wow?
- 37:40Speaker 1: And so both of these people were raised in these
- 37:42Speaker 1: families that were not their biological families and didn't discover
- 37:45Speaker 1: it until they were adults. It's so wild.
- 37:48Speaker 2: That is the stuff of nightmares. I mean, my kid,
- 37:53Speaker 2: she didn't even leave my room, Like there was no
- 37:55Speaker 2: nursery that she was being sent to. And maybe some
- 37:58Speaker 2: I think some hospitals still offer that, but less and
- 38:01Speaker 2: less and yeah, all of her testing right in front
- 38:04Speaker 2: of me. Yeah, I mean even shortly after I gave birth.
- 38:09Speaker 2: There she had fluid in her lungs. They rushed someone
- 38:11Speaker 2: into the room to get the fluid out. It wasn't
- 38:15Speaker 2: They still didn't take her anywhere because she didn't yet
- 38:17Speaker 2: have a little tag, yeah, a little bracelet on her
- 38:20Speaker 2: ankle or whatever. Attack. Yeah, it's so different. Now, that's crazy.
- 38:25Speaker 2: I have to listen to that episode. I mean, I've
- 38:27Speaker 2: listened to so many episodes of This American Land. I
- 38:29Speaker 2: mean they're so good. But yeah, I'll have to check
- 38:33Speaker 2: that one out. I mean, you hear about it these
- 38:35Speaker 2: days in the world of sometimes fertility treatments and embryos
- 38:41Speaker 2: and that.
- 38:42Speaker 1: Is there was there was an article about it recently,
- 38:47Speaker 1: very recently that was heartbreaking.
- 38:51Speaker 2: There was another one a couple of weeks ago. It
- 38:53Speaker 2: was a couple that, you know, they thought they were
- 38:56Speaker 2: using their own embryo and it was not their embryo,
- 39:00Speaker 2: and it was very apparent that that was not their
- 39:03Speaker 2: embryo when the child was born.
- 39:04Speaker 1: So this person is pregnant, they go through all of pregnancy,
- 39:08Speaker 1: they deliver, and then look at this baby and it's like,
- 39:10Speaker 1: that's not my baby because I'm guessing it's a different ethnicity.
- 39:13Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a white couple and the baby is not white,
- 39:17Speaker 2: and it's very obviously not their biological baby. But I'm
- 39:21Speaker 2: not so familiar with story. But last I read they're
- 39:23Speaker 2: actually keeping the baby. Well yeah, well, I think sometimes
- 39:27Speaker 2: the parents who created that embryo can contest it and
- 39:31Speaker 2: say no, and I think that has happened. Wow. Yeah,
- 39:37Speaker 2: So devastating wild Yeah, oh my gosh. Yeah, but you
- 39:41Speaker 2: know the feeling of carrying a baby. There's a lot
- 39:44Speaker 2: of ways to go about being a parent, but pregnancy,
- 39:48Speaker 2: you know, whether it's your embryo or not, I mean
- 39:52Speaker 2: it really I don't know, at least for me, Like
- 39:54Speaker 2: I felt very connected and this is my biological child.
- 39:58Speaker 2: But I still think that there's just something about knowing
- 40:01Speaker 2: your body is caring for something and building something. Yeah,
- 40:06Speaker 2: it's an intense connection. Yeah, I think it would be
- 40:09Speaker 2: so trippy to go through that and then have this
- 40:12Speaker 2: baby and it's not your biological baby, which you thought
- 40:16Speaker 2: it was, but in some senses and in many senses,
- 40:19Speaker 2: maybe it's your baby. Yeah.
- 40:21Speaker 1: So I don't know that it really matters, but it
- 40:23Speaker 1: would feel like a very bizarre experience. I can't even imagine.
- 40:29Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Yeah, just the fear, like what if
- 40:31Speaker 2: the other couple wants the baby? Yeah.
- 40:34Speaker 1: In the article that we both thought, I can't remember
- 40:36Speaker 1: what it's called. In that situation, it happened to two
- 40:40Speaker 1: couples and their embryos were swapped right right, and they
- 40:44Speaker 1: both ended up getting pregnant and like, you know, having
- 40:47Speaker 1: a baby, and so in that scenario. I think they
- 40:50Speaker 1: end up switching the babies.
- 40:52Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
- 40:53Speaker 1: But it's still just like this very emotional thing. But
- 40:58Speaker 1: that's not always the case, right, Like you might get
- 41:00Speaker 1: someone else's embryo, but then it's not like your embryo's
- 41:02Speaker 1: out there as a baby form, right whatever.
- 41:05Speaker 2: Like that was more a coincidences. Yeah, yeah, gosh, so intense. Yeah.
- 41:10Speaker 2: That article I think was in the New York Times,
- 41:12Speaker 2: the one that we read about and I look it up. Yeah,
- 41:15Speaker 2: I should look it up. It's like, so there's so.
- 41:18Speaker 1: Many, there's so many. Oh god, Yeah, it is the
- 41:22Speaker 1: New York Times. It's called an IVF mix Up and
- 41:25Speaker 1: an Impossible Choice. It's a really interesting read. If you
- 41:29Speaker 1: are interested to go check it out. Well that was
- 41:31Speaker 1: our two parter. Thank you so much to Paul Jack
- 41:34Speaker 1: Frank Sach for speaking with us. What a story. Thanks
- 41:38Speaker 1: for listening. We'll be back next week. If you have
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- 42:02Speaker 1: This episode was mixed by Tom Bryfogel.
- 42:04Speaker 2: Our associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.
- 42:06Speaker 1: Our theme music is by Birds in the Airport.
- 42:09Speaker 2: Artwork fi Vanessa Lilac.
- 42:11Speaker 1: Executive produced by Karen Kilgarriff, Georgia Hardstark and Daniell Kramer.