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- 0:00SPEAKER_03: Hey there, it is Chris Cillizza.
- 0:02I am with two friends,
- 0:03Geoffrey Skelley of DDHQ and Leland Vittert,
- 0:07anchor of News Nation.
- 0:10And more importantly,
- 0:11at least for this conversation,
- 0:13you've got the book behind you,
- 0:14Leland.
- 0:15SPEAKER_03: I've got the book right here,
- 0:17SPEAKER_03: Born Lucky,
- 0:17SPEAKER_03: A Dedicated Father,
- 0:18SPEAKER_03: A Grateful Son,
- 0:19SPEAKER_03: and My Journey with Autism.
- 0:21They always told me when I was trying to sell books,
- 0:23show the book as much as humanly possible.
- 0:27SPEAKER_03: I am I am showing the book as much as possible.
- 0:30SPEAKER_03: Let's let's get right into it.
- 0:32SPEAKER_03: And Geoffrey's going to ask you some questions, too.
- 0:36SPEAKER_03: I want to start we're going to talk about the book,
- 0:39SPEAKER_03: but in the book functions as kind of a memoir in some ways for you.
- 0:42SPEAKER_03: And, you know, Geoffrey and I are political guys.
- 0:44So we wanted to jump off with your recounting of not just the 2020 election,
- 0:50SPEAKER_03: but I want to you write about this on November 28th.
- 0:54SPEAKER_03: 14th, 2020, one week after Fox made its call.
- 0:56SPEAKER_03: You were at Fox News at the time.
- 0:58SPEAKER_03: This is its call that Biden won.
- 1:01SPEAKER_03: I find myself in an intensive,
- 1:02SPEAKER_03: combative interview with Erin Perrine,
- 1:06SPEAKER_03: a Trump campaign spokesperson.
- 1:07SPEAKER_03: Now,
- 1:08anyone who's followed this knows that whole thing went hugely viral and
- 1:12impacted
- 1:13SPEAKER_03: your career in ways you probably couldn't have foreseen.
- 1:15SPEAKER_03: Walk us through that,
- 1:16and then we're going to go back and talk about how you got to where you are.
- 1:19SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 1:20SPEAKER_00: The irony,
- 1:20SPEAKER_00: of course,
- 1:21SPEAKER_00: in just how small Washington is,
- 1:24SPEAKER_00: right,
- 1:25is that Erin Perrine is now often a guest on News Nation here in the Green Room,
- 1:31SPEAKER_00: right?
- 1:31SPEAKER_00: So, yeah.
- 1:34SPEAKER_00: But, look, I was doing my job.
- 1:37SPEAKER_00: This was one of the Stop the Steal rallies of Trump, and it was—
- 1:43Trump's spokesperson claiming that there was fraud and there was this and
- 1:47therewas
- 1:47SPEAKER_00: that and all this stuff.
- 1:48And I was just asking normal journalistic questions,
- 1:51which is what sort of my job is,
- 1:52right?
- 1:53And after that,
- 1:55I was told by a Fox News executive,
- 1:57and the interview was combative,
- 2:00right?
- 2:00SPEAKER_00: Because she was spewing all this complete...
- 2:02SPEAKER_00: Garbage.
- 2:03And you write about,
- 2:03you write in the book,
- 2:05like you were saying,
- 2:06just show me.
- 2:08SPEAKER_00: Just show me the numbers.
- 2:09SPEAKER_00: Show me the numbers.
- 2:10SPEAKER_00: Show me the evidence.
- 2:11SPEAKER_00: No, there is no evidence.
- 2:12SPEAKER_00: The judges have overturned everything.
- 2:13SPEAKER_00: Show me how you're going to get to 270.
- 2:17SPEAKER_00: I mean, the Trump people didn't have anything, right?
- 2:18SPEAKER_00: That's why they were...
- 2:20SPEAKER_00: sort of just spinning and yelling, which is fine.
- 2:23SPEAKER_00: That's what politicians do when journalists ask tough questions.
- 2:25SPEAKER_00: That's the way it's supposed to work.
- 2:27AndIgetofftheairandIgetaveryangryphonecallfromaFoxexecutivethat
- 2:30SPEAKER_00: says,
- 2:30SPEAKER_00: you need to respect the audience.
- 2:32Now,
- 2:32what we didn't know at the time and we now have is the emails right from,
- 2:36Lachlan Murdoch to Suzanne Scott and Jay Wallace saying Leland Vittert's
- 2:39doneand
- 2:41theandbythewayforpeoplewhodon'tknowobviouslyyouprobablyknowwho
- 2:44Lachlan Murdoch is he's now going to be the boss but the other two people
- 2:48Leland
- 2:48named are extremely high level executives at Fox News the two leaders of Fox
- 2:53News
- 2:53yesandtalkingabouthowcrazythatwasandhowawfulIwasandonandonandon
- 2:59SPEAKER_00: fine but
- 3:01I was basically told after that,
- 3:04not long after that,
- 3:05you won't anchor at Fox News again.
- 3:07And I was also told as punishment,
- 3:10you're going to have to work weekend mornings as a reporter.
- 3:12SPEAKER_00: So to go from being an anchor to that is like,
- 3:14SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 3:15SPEAKER_00: just being completely kicked in an area between the legs.
- 3:18It's like going back,
- 3:19you're in the majors and you go back,
- 3:21get sent to single A for baseball.
- 3:23SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 3:25SPEAKER_00: Yeah,
- 3:25SPEAKER_00: you're in the major leagues,
- 3:26SPEAKER_00: and now all of a sudden it's like,
- 3:27SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 3:27SPEAKER_00: why don't you go down to single A ball and hang out?
- 3:30SPEAKER_00: So that's fine.
- 3:32SPEAKER_00: That was their right.
- 3:33SPEAKER_00: I think the funniest part of it,
- 3:34SPEAKER_00: and Cillizza knows this and Geoffrey knows this from being in my office,
- 3:37SPEAKER_00: right,
- 3:37is we also have the text message from Tucker Carlson where he said to Sean
- 3:41Hannity
- 3:42SPEAKER_00: and Laura Ingraham,
- 3:43SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 3:43SPEAKER_00: we go and build Fox News and Leland effing Vittert goes and destroys it.
- 3:49And now I have the nameplate on my desk at News Nation,
- 3:54Leland effing Vittert,
- 3:56Tucker Carlson.
- 3:58SPEAKER_00: So take from that what you will.
- 4:00But look,
- 4:01I think in the book,
- 4:03you get a really raw look at what cable news is like.
- 4:07SPEAKER_00: And so much of growing up in middle school and everything else was great.
- 4:11aviperpitformeandwashellandthosestoriesareinthebooktoobutboy
- 4:17SPEAKER_00: middle school was great training for Fox News Geoffrey go ahead
- 4:23SPEAKER_01: Yeah,
- 4:23SPEAKER_01: I mean,
- 4:23I guess in terms of your experiences in sort of that entire 2020 election
- 4:27cycle,
- 4:28SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 4:29SPEAKER_01: it seems like,
- 4:31SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 4:31you found yourself in the middle of probably the sort of aspects of the two
- 4:35biggest
- 4:36SPEAKER_01: things.
- 4:38You encountered sort of protesters after the George Floyd murder in
- 4:43Washington,
- 4:43SPEAKER_01: D.C.,
- 4:44SPEAKER_01: and you encountered...
- 4:46SPEAKER_01: you know, a combative Trump staffer in an interview.
- 4:51AndIguessIjustthoughtifyousortofhadthoughtsonthiscurrentsortof
- 4:57SPEAKER_01: political moment,
- 4:57SPEAKER_01: because we're obviously still in it,
- 4:59SPEAKER_01: you know?
- 4:59SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 5:00SPEAKER_00: Look,
- 5:01SPEAKER_00: and I often say that the thing I'm proudest about in my journalism,
- 5:07SPEAKER_00: right,
- 5:07SPEAKER_00: is I've had Trump trash me on Twitter.
- 5:10SPEAKER_00: I've had Trump
- 5:13SPEAKER_00: praise me on Twitter.
- 5:14I'vehadtheWhiteHousesendoutstoriesI'vedoneasproofthatthingsare
- 5:17SPEAKER_00: working and they've blown up and go viral.
- 5:19SPEAKER_00: I've had the White House quote me about Trump's foreign policy.
- 5:24SPEAKER_00: I've had Antifa target me and beat me up.
- 5:29If you want to be judged as a journalist just by being attacked by all sides,
- 5:33SPEAKER_00: if that's proof of you being in the middle,
- 5:35SPEAKER_00: then that's where I am.
- 5:38andyeahyou'rerightyouknowoutsidethewhitehouseduringtheBLMandthey
- 5:42found out i worked for Fox and they surrounded me and attacked me and got a
- 5:45pretty
- 5:45SPEAKER_00: good thumping fine um
- 5:49I think the climate we're in is that politics in America is a full contact
- 5:55sport,
- 5:55right?
- 5:57SPEAKER_00: And cable news is a full contact sport.
- 5:59And anybody who tells you otherwise just is being Pollyanna and silly about
- 6:04it.
- 6:04SPEAKER_00: You guys know this well.
- 6:06SPEAKER_00: You know, this whole idea, oh, we're going to turn down the temperature.
- 6:09SPEAKER_00: Nobody's going to turn down the temperature.
- 6:10And that's because the economic incentives right now in the media are to turn
- 6:16up
- 6:16SPEAKER_00: the temperature and to divide people because that's how you get clicks.
- 6:18SPEAKER_00: That's how you get viewers.
- 6:19SPEAKER_00: That's how you get fundraising as a politician.
- 6:20SPEAKER_00: So to me,
- 6:22the one thing I've always thought about being a journalist is I always love
- 6:24whatAl
- 6:25SPEAKER_00: Michaels said.
- 6:27When everybody says he roots for one side or roots for the other side in a
- 6:30football
- 6:30SPEAKER_00: game,
- 6:30SPEAKER_00: well,
- 6:30SPEAKER_00: we can tell you're really calling it because you love the Steelers.
- 6:33SPEAKER_00: He says, I don't root for anybody.
- 6:34SPEAKER_00: I call the game, I root for drama because drama means ratings.
- 6:37Now,
- 6:38unfortunately now,
- 6:39drama in politics doesn't mean a debate over government shutdown.
- 6:42SPEAKER_00: It means people getting shot.
- 6:43SPEAKER_00: So you don't root for drama anymore.
- 6:46SPEAKER_00: That part has changed.
- 6:48SPEAKER_00: So I can't use the Al Michaels story anymore.
- 6:50SPEAKER_00: But...
- 6:52I am at the point where I just kind of view myself as the guy calling the game,
- 6:57right?
- 6:57SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 6:58SPEAKER_00: you've got Fox News who calls,
- 7:00SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 7:00SPEAKER_00: if it's the Yankees,
- 7:01SPEAKER_00: Red Sox,
- 7:02SPEAKER_00: Fox News calls it like,
- 7:04SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 7:05SPEAKER_00: a New York radio station.
- 7:07And MSNBC calls it like a Boston radio station,
- 7:10as does CNN,
- 7:12different versions of Boston radio.
- 7:14SPEAKER_00: And I'm the national broadcast.
- 7:16SPEAKER_00: And therefore, I don't really take it personally.
- 7:19SPEAKER_00: And I don't have the people who go, oh, are you?
- 7:23SPEAKER_00: No, I don't have a side, so I don't really care.
- 7:26The lesson I learned too late in my life in this business is don't take it
- 7:30personally.
- 7:32SPEAKER_03: I want to talk about the bulk of the book,
- 7:34SPEAKER_03: just to be clear,
- 7:35SPEAKER_03: and this is what I want the bulk of the conversation to be about.
- 7:37SPEAKER_03: The bulk of the book is not about politics in any meaningful way.
- 7:40I mean,
- 7:40it's about Leland's experience,
- 7:42and Geoffrey and I are political guys,
- 7:43so I'm fascinated.
- 7:46SPEAKER_03: The stuff in there about politics and Leland's experience,
- 7:48SPEAKER_03: which we just spent some time talking about,
- 7:50SPEAKER_03: is fascinating.
- 7:50But the bulk of the book,
- 7:52and again,
- 7:52they always say show the book as much as possible.
- 7:54SPEAKER_03: Born Lucky, a dedicated father, a grateful son in my journey with autism.
- 7:58SPEAKER_03: I mean, this, I knew Leland.
- 8:01SPEAKER_03: before I knew anything about his background to be totally candid.
- 8:05SPEAKER_03: So Leland, I want to, I want to talk about that.
- 8:08SPEAKER_03: Look, I was, I think I've written about this.
- 8:10SPEAKER_03: Thank you.
- 8:10SPEAKER_03: Know this.
- 8:10SPEAKER_03: I was bullied as a kid and it was incredibly difficult and challenging.
- 8:17And,
- 8:17you know,
- 8:18I look back and I'm like,
- 8:19wow,
- 8:19okay,
- 8:19I'm glad I made it through.
- 8:20SPEAKER_03: But I will say reading the first, you know,
- 8:24100 ish pages of this book you mentioned it a little bit about middle school
- 8:28but
- 8:29jeezimeanyourearlyyearswerenoteasywhatwalkussortofthroughthatand
- 8:35SPEAKER_03: then we'll talk about your dad too
- 8:37SPEAKER_00: Yeah, look, seventh grade, I showed up to a new school.
- 8:42In fifth grade,
- 8:43my parents had to pull me out because the bullying had gotten so bad.
- 8:46SPEAKER_00: One of the stories in the book in Born Lucky is that I'm in fifth grade.
- 8:51SPEAKER_00: I'm getting bullied horribly.
- 8:52SPEAKER_00: My dad goes over to the school,
- 8:53SPEAKER_00: goes up to the PE grounds where he hears that I am,
- 8:57SPEAKER_00: and runs into the PE teacher,
- 8:58SPEAKER_00: who's a guy he knew from another school's football program.
- 9:01SPEAKER_00: My dad had been a gifted athlete saying it was a small town.
- 9:04SPEAKER_00: And he says, hey, how's Lucky doing?
- 9:06SPEAKER_03: And by the way, Lucky is Leland's childhood nickname.
- 9:10SPEAKER_03: Yes.
- 9:10SPEAKER_03: Sorry.
- 9:11SPEAKER_03: I should have explained that.
- 9:13SPEAKER_00: So they said, how's Lucky doing?
- 9:16SPEAKER_00: And the coach goes, I think he's doing better this week.
- 9:19SPEAKER_00: My dad goes, great.
- 9:20SPEAKER_00: Let's go see him.
- 9:21SPEAKER_00: And the football coach goes, I don't think that's a good idea.
- 9:24SPEAKER_00: My dad goes, why not?
- 9:25SPEAKER_00: And the guy goes,
- 9:25SPEAKER_00: well,
- 9:26I've had to put him with the girls this week because he was just getting beaten
- 9:29up
- 9:29SPEAKER_00: so bad with the boys.
- 9:31So my dad's looking down and now realizes I'm down on the field with all the
- 9:34girls.
- 9:36You know what that would do to a father,
- 9:37and he turns around and walks away.
- 9:40SPEAKER_00: Later, I leave that school.
- 9:41Seventh grade,
- 9:43start in school,
- 9:44and two weeks in,
- 9:46the principal calls my parents in.
- 9:48SPEAKER_00: Every parent's been in a principal's office, right?
- 9:50And they thought it was like a check-in,
- 9:52like,
- 9:53hey,
- 9:53you know,
- 9:53two weeks in.
- 9:54SPEAKER_00: And the woman starts off and says,
- 9:55SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 9:56SPEAKER_00: everybody at this school thinks Lucky Leland is really weird.
- 10:00SPEAKER_00: And frankly, I do too.
- 10:02SPEAKER_00: Which meant anything that happened to me was my fault, right?
- 10:05SPEAKER_00: That the parents, you know, that the school had decided.
- 10:08AndItellthestoriesaboutwhatthefacultywasdoingbecausewhateverthe
- 10:11SPEAKER_00: students were doing wasn't nearly as bad as what the faculty was doing.
- 10:14SPEAKER_00: The faculty were adults.
- 10:16SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 10:16SPEAKER_00: Adults were not being adults.
- 10:18SPEAKER_00: No.
- 10:18SPEAKER_00: They were not serving their adult role.
- 10:19SPEAKER_00: Eighth grade art class.
- 10:21Yeah.
- 10:21SPEAKER_00: Eighth grade art class, none of us were going to be Picasso, right?
- 10:24But we're sitting there and there's drawings all around us and everything
- 10:26else.
- 10:26SPEAKER_00: And this eighth grade art teacher looks at me and goes,
- 10:30SPEAKER_00: Vittert,
- 10:30SPEAKER_00: if I was as ugly as you,
- 10:32SPEAKER_00: I guess he didn't like my painting or something.
- 10:35If my dog was as ugly as you,
- 10:36I'd shave its ass and make it walk backwards.
- 10:39SPEAKER_00: For the whole class.
- 10:40SPEAKER_00: So that was the kind of thing that went on in eighth grade.
- 10:44SPEAKER_00: My dad,
- 10:44SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 10:45he had quit his job to be my friend because he realized I didn't have any
- 10:48friends.
- 10:49SPEAKER_00: So I got home every day and he would sort of spend the day,
- 10:52SPEAKER_00: the night,
- 10:53SPEAKER_00: putting me back together from the day of being bullied and broken.
- 10:58SPEAKER_00: And I now know this is pretty remarkable that,
- 11:01SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 11:01he would spend a couple hours in my room every night with me crying and upset
- 11:05and
- 11:05SPEAKER_00: angry and all these things.
- 11:07SPEAKER_00: And then he would leave me to do my homework or go to bed, whatever.
- 11:10And he would walk downstairs and he would sit by himself in the living room and
- 11:14cry himself.
- 11:15SPEAKER_03: It's brutal.
- 11:16SPEAKER_03: I mean, as a parent, it's brutal.
- 11:18SPEAKER_00: I can't even imagine it.
- 11:19SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 11:19SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 11:19SPEAKER_00: I come out and find him at two o'clock in the morning crying.
- 11:21SPEAKER_00: And then,
- 11:21SPEAKER_00: but,
- 11:22SPEAKER_00: and this is the different part of the book is that the next morning,
- 11:24SPEAKER_00: every morning I'd go back to school.
- 11:27SPEAKER_00: And the idea is right,
- 11:28SPEAKER_00: that you don't pave the way for your kid,
- 11:31SPEAKER_00: you hold their hand through the adversity.
- 11:37SPEAKER_03: So Leland, one more and I'll turn it over to Geoffrey.
- 11:41SPEAKER_03: At what point,
- 11:43SPEAKER_03: first of all,
- 11:44SPEAKER_03: you're younger than me,
- 11:46SPEAKER_03: but not so young that,
- 11:47SPEAKER_03: I mean,
- 11:48SPEAKER_03: autism feels as though we're still trying to understand it.
- 11:51And certainly when you were a kid,
- 11:52we were in its infancy in terms of understanding it.
- 11:56SPEAKER_03: At what point did you get...
- 11:59SPEAKER_03: Well, two questions.
- 12:00SPEAKER_03: At what point did you realize yourself or your parents,
- 12:04SPEAKER_03: but I'm more interested in you,
- 12:05SPEAKER_03: something's different with me.
- 12:08And then number two,
- 12:10at what point did you get diagnosed and did that change anything?
- 12:15SPEAKER_00: All good questions.
- 12:15SPEAKER_00: So for...
- 12:17SPEAKER_00: As long as I can remember, I knew I was different, right?
- 12:20SPEAKER_00: I could see kids playing and having fun and I knew I wasn't, right?
- 12:25SPEAKER_00: And we have the report cards in Born Lucky of like needs improvement,
- 12:29SPEAKER_00: social skills,
- 12:30SPEAKER_00: needs improvement,
- 12:31SPEAKER_00: interact with others,
- 12:31SPEAKER_00: needs improvement,
- 12:32SPEAKER_00: like all the way down.
- 12:34SPEAKER_00: So I always knew I was different.
- 12:37SPEAKER_00: I just didn't know how to fix it.
- 12:39SPEAKER_00: And I always knew I was isolated.
- 12:40SPEAKER_00: I always knew all of that.
- 12:43SPEAKER_00: Some people sort of attract friends like a magnet.
- 12:46SPEAKER_00: I repelled them like a magnet, kind of like the opposite thing.
- 12:50SPEAKER_00: So...
- 12:52SPEAKER_00: When I was like five or six, I had to be evaluated.
- 12:55SPEAKER_00: So got taken to some psychology testing center and,
- 12:58SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 12:59parents sit out in the little waiting room with the old magazines and the
- 13:02stale
- 13:02SPEAKER_00: coffee.
- 13:04SPEAKER_00: And my parents leave me to go in with the person.
- 13:08SPEAKER_00: The person brings me back out and they sit my parents down and they say,
- 13:10SPEAKER_00: look,
- 13:11SPEAKER_00: it is very difficult to understand what's going on inside his head.
- 13:16SPEAKER_00: At the time autism was basically,
- 13:17SPEAKER_00: you're either profoundly autistic,
- 13:19SPEAKER_00: what we now know is somebody who like,
- 13:20SPEAKER_00: you look at them and you go,
- 13:21SPEAKER_00: oh,
- 13:22SPEAKER_00: they have autism.
- 13:23SPEAKER_00: This is the- 80s.
- 13:24SPEAKER_03: I was gonna say 80s, yeah.
- 13:25SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so this is the 80s.
- 13:28Or they didn't really know what you were and they just sort of said,
- 13:31meet the kid where he's at.
- 13:33SPEAKER_00: We're gonna give him more time on tests.
- 13:34We'regonnasortofputhiminapaddedroomandbubblewraparoundhimandit's
- 13:40SPEAKER_00: gonna be fine and he's gonna be who he is.
- 13:42SPEAKER_00: That was not acceptable to my dad.
- 13:44SPEAKER_00: But at the same time,
- 13:45SPEAKER_00: he never wanted me to be defined by a diagnosis,
- 13:47SPEAKER_00: and he also didn't want me to use it as a crutch.
- 13:49So the diagnosis at the time was pervasive developmental disorder mixed
- 13:55withwhat
- 13:55SPEAKER_00: they called social blindness,
- 13:57SPEAKER_00: mixed with a severe learning disability.
- 14:01SPEAKER_00: So on the IQ tests that one takes, there's two halves.
- 14:06SPEAKER_00: A 20-point spread between the two scores is...
- 14:10SPEAKER_00: a learning disability, I had a 70-point spread.
- 14:13SPEAKER_00: So from basically genius to mentally retarded.
- 14:16SPEAKER_00: And they got all those diagnoses, and my dad said, I'm telling nobody.
- 14:22SPEAKER_00: And then I went through life.
- 14:25SPEAKER_03: Geoffrey, go ahead.
- 14:28SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I mean, I guess I wondered if you could speak a little bit to...
- 14:35SPEAKER_01: your relationship with your father.
- 14:38SPEAKER_01: And I say this as a new dad.
- 14:40SPEAKER_01: Congratulations.
- 14:42SPEAKER_01: Yeah, thank you.
- 14:42SPEAKER_01: Well, I was more just thinking about like,
- 14:45SPEAKER_01: you're when you're in that position as a parent,
- 14:50SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 14:50it'sobviousjusthowbigadealyoucanbeandhowmuchofaguideandhelpyou
- 14:55SPEAKER_01: can be or you can not be.
- 14:58SPEAKER_01: Right.
- 14:58And so and I,
- 14:59you know,
- 14:59your example really shines through of how impactful a father can be.
- 15:04SPEAKER_01: So I didn't know if I'd love for you to speak to that a little bit.
- 15:07SPEAKER_01: Sure.
- 15:07More importantly,
- 15:08I should be asking you,
- 15:09right,
- 15:09as a new dad,
- 15:10what did you get from the book?
- 15:13But I've learned in these interviews not to put somebody on the spot about did
- 15:16they
- 15:17SPEAKER_03: read the book or not.
- 15:18SPEAKER_03: Tell me what's on page 216.
- 15:20SPEAKER_03: Tell me right now.
- 15:21SPEAKER_00: Yeah, we're going to do one of those reading quizzes from high school.
- 15:25SPEAKER_00: Okay, what color shirt did I have on on my first time on TV?
- 15:30SPEAKER_00: White.
- 15:31SPEAKER_00: This book is not a – it's always a safe bet.
- 15:37SPEAKER_00: It is always getting parenting advice for a parent, right?
- 15:42SPEAKER_00: This is a parenting book written by a kid.
- 15:44SPEAKER_00: I'm not a parent.
- 15:46SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to give people advice.
- 15:49SPEAKER_00: But I think what you took from it,
- 15:50SPEAKER_00: right,
- 15:51SPEAKER_00: is just the words of George Will,
- 15:54SPEAKER_00: who wrote the foreword,
- 15:56SPEAKER_00: the mountain-moving power of parental love.
- 16:00SPEAKER_03: I love that phrase.
- 16:02SPEAKER_00: Leave it to George Will to come up with it.
- 16:04SPEAKER_00: I write this book, 240 pages.
- 16:07SPEAKER_00: I give it to George Will to write the foreword.
- 16:10SPEAKER_00: I give it to my dad to write the afterword.
- 16:12SPEAKER_00: And those are the two best parts.
- 16:14the whole thing i think you're a little harsher yourself there but well it is
- 16:18um
- 16:19and the great news is in all the interviews i don't talk about either the
- 16:22forward
- 16:22or the afterwards so you gotta buy exactly stay tuned yes um if you want to and
- 16:28the
- 16:28other one i keep i keep holding back is if you know everyone says well do i want
- 16:31to
- 16:32SPEAKER_00: have kids that one you got to buy the book for all yeah man question
- 16:36SPEAKER_00: But I think,
- 16:38SPEAKER_00: Jeffrey,
- 16:38SPEAKER_00: that's really the lesson,
- 16:39SPEAKER_00: right,
- 16:40SPEAKER_00: of what an enormous difference a parent makes.
- 16:43SPEAKER_00: And I think my dad said,
- 16:44SPEAKER_00: and I'll give readers just a little bit of insight,
- 16:47SPEAKER_00: he said in the afterward,
- 16:49SPEAKER_00: I had no expectations of me.
- 16:53SPEAKER_00: That's not quite true because there were two expectations that...
- 16:59SPEAKER_00: Anybody can control, right?
- 17:00SPEAKER_00: So there were no expectations about how I would do in school.
- 17:03SPEAKER_00: Would I have friends?
- 17:04SPEAKER_00: I didn't.
- 17:05SPEAKER_00: Would I do well in school?
- 17:06SPEAKER_00: I didn't.
- 17:07SPEAKER_00: Would I be a great athlete?
- 17:08SPEAKER_00: I was not.
- 17:10Would I work hard and would I be a good person,
- 17:14which anybody can control?
- 17:16SPEAKER_00: And those were the expectations.
- 17:18SPEAKER_00: And actually, more than expectations, those are the demands.
- 17:21SPEAKER_00: And,
- 17:21SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 17:21in the book is this story about the first time my dad finds out that I'm lying,
- 17:25SPEAKER_00: he makes me write,
- 17:26SPEAKER_00: I will tell the truth a thousand times.
- 17:28SPEAKER_00: He still has the piece of paper.
- 17:29SPEAKER_00: I will, you know, and what's that come from?
- 17:31SPEAKER_00: That comes from his dad.
- 17:33SPEAKER_00: We have the letter that when my dad's dad died at 16,
- 17:38he went down to the family office and opened the safe in the family office.
- 17:43SPEAKER_00: And there was a letter to him.
- 17:44SPEAKER_00: We have the letter, right?
- 17:46SPEAKER_00: And he can recite that letter like it was yesterday.
- 17:50SPEAKER_00: In it, a man is defined by his character.
- 17:53So I'm not giving you advice,
- 17:55but I can tell you what was the tenets of how I was raised.
- 18:02SPEAKER_03: Leland,
- 18:03SPEAKER_03: one of the things I was struck by,
- 18:05you said it in an answer previously about quoting your dad after you got
- 18:11diagnosed.
- 18:12SPEAKER_03: I'm telling nobody, and then I went through life.
- 18:16SPEAKER_03: I feel like that,
- 18:17and obviously I'm not going to speak for anyone whose kid has been diagnosed
- 18:21with
- 18:21SPEAKER_03: anything,
- 18:22SPEAKER_03: autism,
- 18:22SPEAKER_03: ADHD,
- 18:23SPEAKER_03: whatever.
- 18:24SPEAKER_03: But I feel like,
- 18:26SPEAKER_03: you correct me if I'm wrong,
- 18:27I feel like that's a little bit counter the sort of conventional approach
- 18:31nowadays.
- 18:32SPEAKER_03: Now, again, we're talking about the, you know, the 80s.
- 18:37SPEAKER_03: But tell me,
- 18:37SPEAKER_03: I mean,
- 18:38SPEAKER_03: as a kid,
- 18:38I'm sure you were probably unaware that your dad sort of made that decision.
- 18:41SPEAKER_03: But tell me how that decision impacts your...
- 18:45SPEAKER_03: your life in retrospect.
- 18:48SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 18:48SPEAKER_00: Again, this is about my story, right?
- 18:52SPEAKER_00: This is, this is about me.
- 18:53SPEAKER_00: It's for other people, but I don't pretend to be offering advice.
- 18:59SPEAKER_00: The difference was, I think it meant that there was never an excuse.
- 19:02SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 19:03And in that,
- 19:04and you hear somebody,
- 19:05you know,
- 19:05so often now,
- 19:06Oh,
- 19:06well I have ADHD.
- 19:07SPEAKER_00: Oh, well I have this to excuse really bad behavior or bad behavior.
- 19:12Or just not doing things and not having good character or not having a work
- 19:16ethic
- 19:16SPEAKER_00: or any of these kinds of things.
- 19:18SPEAKER_00: And that was the one thing.
- 19:20SPEAKER_00: There's no excuses.
- 19:21SPEAKER_00: And look, autism is not something you're cured of, right?
- 19:24And so when I was in my 20s,
- 19:26my parents told me that,
- 19:28hey,
- 19:29you were diagnosed as autistic.
- 19:31SPEAKER_03: But you never knew before then, just to make clear.
- 19:34SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 19:34SPEAKER_00: And my mom, I mean, my parents never told my sister, right?
- 19:36SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 19:37my sister would walk me home from school and I would be sobbing or I would walk
- 19:42her
- 19:42SPEAKER_00: home since my younger sister.
- 19:43SPEAKER_00: They never told her like, hey, your brother's a little different.
- 19:46It was always your brother's your brother and you love him and you protect
- 19:49him.
- 19:49SPEAKER_00: So the...
- 19:53SPEAKER_00: But mostly I will always be autistic.
- 19:55I'll always work on the social skills and the interaction and the empathy and
- 20:00the
- 20:00SPEAKER_00: understanding of the human equation that is a learned skill for me.
- 20:05SPEAKER_00: And I'll give you an example, Chris, of what you were saying.
- 20:09SPEAKER_00: About three weeks ago, I was at my father-in-law's golf club.
- 20:12SPEAKER_00: And we had played golf with this nice older man, finished 18 holes.
- 20:16And I'm now in the parking lot trying to stuff my golf bag into my travel bag.
- 20:20SPEAKER_00: We're late.
- 20:22SPEAKER_00: And I'm really focused.
- 20:24SPEAKER_00: And a hallmark of autism is that you get really focused on one task,
- 20:28SPEAKER_00: sort of hyper-focused and blind to the rest of the world.
- 20:32SPEAKER_00: And then this older gentleman came over to talk to me.
- 20:35SPEAKER_00: He was being lovely.
- 20:38SPEAKER_00: And I just stayed focused on packing the bag.
- 20:43SPEAKER_00: And he's talking to me.
- 20:43And even in the moment,
- 20:44I'm thinking to myself,
- 20:46like,
- 20:46you should really stop packing the bag.
- 20:49SPEAKER_00: But it was like I couldn't.
- 20:50SPEAKER_02: Mm-hmm.
- 20:52unquestionably and afterwards he just walked away because clearly i had
- 20:59beenreally
- 20:59rudeandijustfelthorribleafterwardslikebygodyouknowyouknowbetter
- 21:04you've trained yourself better you've you've worked so hard to be better and
- 21:08this
- 21:08was just like right back to when you're eight years old and i wrote him a long
- 21:15note
- 21:15SPEAKER_00: saying i'm just so sorry i was so rude to you
- 21:18SPEAKER_00: Never once did I say, and by the way, I have autism, that was my autism.
- 21:22SPEAKER_00: Because it doesn't matter.
- 21:24And I don't know if that answers your question,
- 21:26but that's kind of how I look at it.
- 21:28It struck me in reading the book that it is your dad's approach is not what I
- 21:35would
- 21:35SPEAKER_03: say is the typical approach these days.
- 21:38SPEAKER_03: I just wanted to highlight that.
- 21:39SPEAKER_03: Geoffrey, go ahead.
- 21:39SPEAKER_03: And then I want to ask you,
- 21:40SPEAKER_03: Leland,
- 21:40SPEAKER_03: before we go,
- 21:41SPEAKER_03: and I know we're tight on time,
- 21:42SPEAKER_03: I want to ask you about sort of the debate on autism going on now.
- 21:46SPEAKER_03: But Geoffrey, go ahead.
- 21:46SPEAKER_01: Yeah, for sure.
- 21:47SPEAKER_01: Yeah,
- 21:48SPEAKER_01: one other thing I wanted to ask you about,
- 21:49SPEAKER_01: and it sort of gets back to your career as a journalist,
- 21:54SPEAKER_01: as someone in broadcast journalism.
- 21:56Andthatissortofhowdoyoufeelthisstoryforyouimpactedyourcareerin
- 22:05SPEAKER_01: terms of like how you approached making your way through it?
- 22:08I know you had lots of stories about sort of interning or doing things in St.
- 22:11SPEAKER_01: Louis at smaller operations.
- 22:13SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I interned in St.
- 22:14SPEAKER_00: Louis and people put up signs that interns should be seen, not heard.
- 22:19SPEAKER_00: So,
- 22:20SPEAKER_00: look,
- 22:20SPEAKER_00: as I said,
- 22:21being bullied and having a hard time in middle school is an awful good
- 22:25trainingfor
- 22:26SPEAKER_00: Washington,
- 22:26SPEAKER_00: D.C.
- 22:28SPEAKER_00: But the joke works better the first time.
- 22:31SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 22:35I think,
- 22:35to answer your question,
- 22:36I've never known a different way,
- 22:39right?
- 22:40SPEAKER_00: Like, I've always been me.
- 22:42SPEAKER_00: So I don't know.
- 22:45SPEAKER_00: Like, how would I be different if I... I don't know.
- 22:47SPEAKER_00: So maybe that answers the question for you.
- 22:53I think the one thing that was,
- 22:54you know,
- 22:55consistent,
- 22:55right,
- 22:55through the book...
- 22:57SPEAKER_00: Write the story in Born Lucky about my dad at a very young age.
- 23:01SPEAKER_00: I'm not good at school.
- 23:02SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to have friends.
- 23:03SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to be good at athletics.
- 23:04SPEAKER_00: How do you give a kid at five or six or seven years old self-esteem?
- 23:07I did 200 push-ups a day because it was something I could accomplish and then
- 23:11be
- 23:11SPEAKER_00: proud of and then be rewarded for.
- 23:14SPEAKER_00: And it was something nobody else did and I could be good at something.
- 23:19SPEAKER_00: And I think that lesson of hard work is...
- 23:24SPEAKER_00: In journalism,
- 23:25SPEAKER_00: especially when you're a street reporter,
- 23:27SPEAKER_00: which is what I came up as,
- 23:29hardworkknocksdownabout95%ofthebarriersjustbecauseifyououtwork
- 23:35SPEAKER_00: everybody in the newsroom,
- 23:36SPEAKER_00: it makes up for an awful lot.
- 23:38SPEAKER_00: And that lesson, I think, was a through line in the book.
- 23:43SPEAKER_03: I mean,
- 23:43SPEAKER_03: I will say as a parent of a 16-year-old and a 13-year-old boy,
- 23:46SPEAKER_03: I always say control what you can control.
- 23:48SPEAKER_03: You can control how hard you work.
- 23:51SPEAKER_03: I want to end here.
- 23:52SPEAKER_03: And thank you for taking as much time as you have.
- 23:54SPEAKER_03: And I will say again, born lucky right here.
- 23:56SPEAKER_03: Here it is.
- 23:58SPEAKER_03: I got the early copy.
- 24:00SPEAKER_03: That's the same thing here.
- 24:01SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 24:02SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I was lucky enough too.
- 24:04SPEAKER_00: Those who order on Amazon, it's out.
- 24:06SPEAKER_00: Those who order on Amazon will get the real copy with a hardcover.
- 24:09SPEAKER_03: Like, yeah, this is softcover, but you get the hardcover version.
- 24:13SPEAKER_03: All right.
- 24:14SPEAKER_03: In a feat that even your public relations people could not bring up,
- 24:19SPEAKER_03: we are now,
- 24:21SPEAKER_03: right now,
- 24:21SPEAKER_03: as the book is coming out,
- 24:23SPEAKER_03: in the midst of a national conversation about autism.
- 24:28Donald Trump holds a press conference with Robert F.
- 24:31Kennedy Jr.,
- 24:32the secretary of HHS.
- 24:34He says lots of things,
- 24:36you know,
- 24:37about vaccines,
- 24:38about Tylenol,
- 24:40about folic acid.
- 24:43You obviously have a perspective on this that is different than most people.
- 24:49SPEAKER_03: What's your takeaway?
- 24:51SPEAKER_03: Like what's your 50,000 foot takeaway?
- 24:53SPEAKER_03: Cause you know,
- 24:54SPEAKER_03: we can go through the whole,
- 24:55SPEAKER_03: like there's some causal it's,
- 24:58SPEAKER_03: it's,
- 24:58SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 24:58SPEAKER_03: is it,
- 24:59SPEAKER_03: is it causal?
- 24:59SPEAKER_03: Is it not?
- 25:00SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry.
- 25:01SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry.
- 25:01SPEAKER_00: Are you a doctor?
- 25:02SPEAKER_00: Exactly.
- 25:03SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 25:03SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 25:04SPEAKER_00: So all these TV shows have some random doctor on there,
- 25:09SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 25:10SPEAKER_00: espousing whatever about,
- 25:11SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 25:12SPEAKER_00: well,
- 25:12SPEAKER_00: if you look at this study,
- 25:13SPEAKER_00: if you look at that,
- 25:14SPEAKER_00: talk to your doctor.
- 25:15SPEAKER_00: That's why you have a doctor.
- 25:19SPEAKER_00: Look,
- 25:20there are people who would take away from the press conference of Donald
- 25:23Trump
- 25:23SPEAKER_00: about autism.
- 25:24Hey,
- 25:25if no pregnant woman takes Tylenol,
- 25:27we'll never have another autistic kid.
- 25:30SPEAKER_00: No.
- 25:30SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 25:30SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 25:32SPEAKER_00: But the flip side of that is we went back and looked.
- 25:36SPEAKER_00: You know how many press conferences Joe Biden had about autism?
- 25:39SPEAKER_03: I mean, I would assume zero.
- 25:40SPEAKER_00: Zero.
- 25:41SPEAKER_00: Zero.
- 25:41SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 25:41SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 25:42SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 25:42SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 25:43SPEAKER_00: This is the...
- 25:45SPEAKER_00: public health scientific question of our time.
- 25:48SPEAKER_00: In 40 years, you don't die from AIDS anymore.
- 25:51We've basically figured out how most cancers are treatable so that you don't
- 25:55die.
- 25:55SPEAKER_00: Some are curable.
- 25:58SPEAKER_00: Huge, huge advances in diabetes.
- 26:01SPEAKER_00: We can create bionic people with artificial limbs,
- 26:04SPEAKER_00: artificial hearts,
- 26:05SPEAKER_00: all this other kind of stuff.
- 26:06Andwereallydon'tknowmuchmoreaboutwhywe'vegonefrom1in1,000to1in31
- 26:10kidstothreetimesthatnumberofboystobeingworseandpoorinminority
- 26:15SPEAKER_00: communities having autism.
- 26:16SPEAKER_02: Yep.
- 26:17And finally,
- 26:18there is a president now who says,
- 26:19we're going to figure this out.
- 26:20SPEAKER_00: And by the way,
- 26:22finally now they are willing to ask the questions and do the science without
- 26:28the
- 26:28SPEAKER_00: predisposed fears of,
- 26:30SPEAKER_00: oh my God,
- 26:30SPEAKER_00: what if we offend the autism community?
- 26:32SPEAKER_00: Oh my God, what if we offend the vax community?
- 26:35SPEAKER_00: Oh my God, what if we offend the anti-vax community?
- 26:37SPEAKER_00: Like science is the pursuit of truth.
- 26:40SPEAKER_00: You have to be willing to pursue all truths in order to find it.
- 26:43SPEAKER_00: The fact that we're doing that, hallelujah.
- 26:45SPEAKER_03: Yeah, I mean, I agree.
- 26:47SPEAKER_03: It's like,
- 26:47SPEAKER_03: I think we sometimes get so caught up in the minutia of what Trump says,
- 26:50SPEAKER_03: and it's like,
- 26:51SPEAKER_03: okay,
- 26:51SPEAKER_03: well,
- 26:51SPEAKER_03: broadly,
- 26:52SPEAKER_03: we're having a conversation about autism,
- 26:54SPEAKER_03: and its origins,
- 26:55SPEAKER_03: and what can we find,
- 26:56SPEAKER_03: and that's a good thing.
- 26:57SPEAKER_03: Leland Vittert, you know him from News Nation, 9 p.m.
- 27:01SPEAKER_03: every night, Eastern Time, that is.
- 27:04SPEAKER_03: Geoffrey Skelley, you know him from DDHQ, terrific.
- 27:08SPEAKER_03: Geoff and I, we've talked many times about how good what he does is.
- 27:11SPEAKER_03: This is the book.
- 27:12Born Lucky,
- 27:13a dedicated father,
- 27:14a grateful son,
- 27:15and my journey with autism.
- 27:17We started on politics,
- 27:18but we spent most of the time talking about Leland's life.
- 27:21SPEAKER_03: I will tell you, I liked Leland before the book.
- 27:25SPEAKER_03: But I feel like I know Leland after the book,
- 27:28becausewhatyouseeinfrontofyourightnowisnotwhoLelandwaswhenhewas
- 27:33SPEAKER_03: eight years old.
- 27:33SPEAKER_03: And that's true.
- 27:34Ithinkit'sareallygoodreminderthatwhatweareatthestartisnotwherewe
- 27:38SPEAKER_03: are in the middle or where we are at the end.
- 27:40SPEAKER_03: And I think that's a good lesson.
- 27:41SPEAKER_03: Anyway, available now.
- 27:43SPEAKER_03: Go buy it.
- 27:45SPEAKER_03: Love it.
- 27:45SPEAKER_03: Thank you, my friend.
- 27:46SPEAKER_03: Take care.
- 27:47SPEAKER_01: Thank you so much.
- 27:47SPEAKER_03: All right.
- 27:48SPEAKER_03: You got it.