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The Truth About Visibility, Sovereignty & Manifesting Your Reality with Loren Cellentani · Willow Healing Matters Podcast

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  Welcome to Willow Healing Matters the podcast we are so excited
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  to have you joining
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  us on this journey where we explore different ways to empower
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  your soul whether
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  it's healing in your kitchen or all the way up in the corporate
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  world come with us
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  SPEAKER_00: as we look into different ways to heal your mind body and soul
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  SPEAKER_01: love,
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  and how chasing perfection through technology can lead to
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  fantasy and reality
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  SPEAKER_00: colliding.
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  SPEAKER_01: Hey everybody,
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  it's Catherine Crestani with another episode of Willow Healing
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  Matters and today
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm joined by the beautiful Lauren Cilentani
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  SPEAKER_01: She is a sacred visibility mentor,
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  SPEAKER_01: a priestess and the host of the top 2% global podcast,
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  SPEAKER_01: The Sovereign Self Show.
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  SPEAKER_01: Through somatic leadership,
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  SPEAKER_01: storytelling and energetic alchemy,
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  SPEAKER_01: she helps spirit-led women transmute fear,
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  freeze and burnout into embodied magnetic visibility without
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  abandoning their
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  SPEAKER_01: truth.
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  Her mission is clear and performance led business and lead from
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  presence instead.
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  SPEAKER_01: And amen, Lauren, a big welcome to the show.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh my goodness.
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  SPEAKER_02: Thank you so much for having me.
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  I can't wait to see what spirit guides us to because I feel
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  like we're in for a ride today.
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  SPEAKER_01: Well,
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  SPEAKER_01: straight away when I was just finishing reading up your bio,
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  SPEAKER_01: I so resonate with,
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  SPEAKER_01: you know,
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  SPEAKER_01: stepping out of that hustle culture of running a business,
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  SPEAKER_01: which we've been so conditioned to do.
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  and stepping more into that flow-based alchemy and allowing our
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  clients to be magnetized to us.
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  So I guess the question I have there is how did you step into
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  that work and that alignment?
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  SPEAKER_01: Because it does take a lot of deprogramming.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm not going to lie.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm still doing it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Amen.
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  SPEAKER_02: Me too.
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  SPEAKER_02: Me too.
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  SPEAKER_02: Goodness.
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  SPEAKER_02: How long do we have?
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  I think for me,
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  I think a lot of,
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  you know,
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  old soul,
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  sense of souls,
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  empaths,
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  listening.
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  SPEAKER_02: Knew they had some gifts, knew about sensitivity growing up.
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  SPEAKER_02: And a lot of us channel that into overachieving,
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  SPEAKER_02: into people pleasing,
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  SPEAKER_02: into checking everything off to be the perfect daughter,
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  SPEAKER_02: partner,
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  SPEAKER_02: mother,
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  SPEAKER_02: fill in the blank.
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  SPEAKER_02: And for me, that really all came to a head.
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  SPEAKER_02: I did all the right things, got into a great university.
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  During my graduation in university,
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  I was having my first full blown panic attack.
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  SPEAKER_02: and I'd never really experienced anything like that ever before.
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  SPEAKER_02: It was almost like my ears just shifted frequency ringing.
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  SPEAKER_02: It was like spirit was shaking me like, this is not your path.
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  SPEAKER_02: So just like so many of us earlier and earlier now,
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  SPEAKER_02: that quarter life crisis started to wake me up.
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  SPEAKER_02: And what I didn't know then was I had my job lined up,
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  SPEAKER_02: my corporate job,
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  SPEAKER_02: you know,
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  SPEAKER_02: a partner at the time that just wasn't aligned anymore.
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  SPEAKER_02: All of these things were lining up and my
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  SPEAKER_02: Spirit Guides, my team were like, okay, we need to shake things up.
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  SPEAKER_02: So fast forward to getting more into the body through food,
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  SPEAKER_02: through yoga,
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  SPEAKER_02: slowly but surely was able to kind of thought I healed anxiety.
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  SPEAKER_02: Food was such a medicine for me for such a long time.
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  SPEAKER_02: I was vegetarian since I was 16,
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  which is funny because I'm in my mid to late 30s now and I just
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  started eating meat
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  SPEAKER_02: again.
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  SPEAKER_02: So I listened to my body 100%.
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  SPEAKER_02: But I went raw vegan for a time,
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  but those really those nutrient dense but higher vibrational
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  foods really helped
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  starting to really connect me back to me and to spirit and to
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  ground my body.
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  SPEAKER_02: I started health coaching because I felt so good.
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  SPEAKER_02: I wanted to help and give back to people.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm like, this is really just law of attraction right here.
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  Yes,
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  it's about eating semi healthy,
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  but it's about how do I want to feel?
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  And so that's what I started really doing is I started while I
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  was working full time.
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  SPEAKER_02: in corporate America,
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  SPEAKER_02: started health coaching,
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  but in the spiritual woo-woo sense where women who had lifelong
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  digestion issues
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  SPEAKER_02: and migraines healed that.
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  Women who had miscarriages got pregnant naturally without even
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  trying three months
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  SPEAKER_02: after working with me.
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  SPEAKER_02: All these things started to just seamlessly click for my clients.
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  As I was building this,
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  I got into the empath narcissist phase of my awakening journey.
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  SPEAKER_02: As so many of you probably know very well,
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  SPEAKER_02: This I feel like was a real huge shakeup to be like,
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  SPEAKER_02: okay,
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  SPEAKER_02: if I really do create my reality,
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  SPEAKER_02: what in me led me to this moment?
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  SPEAKER_02: Because yeah, I really feel like this victim.
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  SPEAKER_02: I really feel like it's that person.
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  SPEAKER_02: I know I'm supposed to be here.
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  SPEAKER_02: I know this is part of my journey.
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  SPEAKER_02: And how do I continue to put myself first in all the senses of that?
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  SPEAKER_02: And it really came back to my body's leading the way.
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  SPEAKER_02: So during that time, my body,
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  Felt like it was sabotaging me Anything sacral chakra and root
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  chakra related was
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  popping up Chronic UTIs I've never had in my life before
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  Phantom pains to the point
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  I would fall down to my knees crying And I really was ignoring
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  my body during that
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  time And I would yell at myself Why can't you just act normal
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  All of this horrible
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  stuff that I would never even think about now But it was really
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  guiding me to that
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  SPEAKER_02: next initiation of my journey And then,
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  SPEAKER_02: thank God,
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  SPEAKER_02: I listened
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  Trusted Left That And Within A Week All Those Mysterious
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  Symptoms Disappeared Never
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  Been Healthier I Feel Better And Better Like I Said I'm In My
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  Mid Late 30s Now Age
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  Is Just A Number I Feel More Energy More Vibrance More Potency
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  But That Really Took
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  Doing That Deprogramming Like You Talked About Really Diving
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  Into What Was I Really
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  Thinking What Was I Really Feeling Why Did I Create This And
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  For A Few Years I
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  SPEAKER_02: Really Dove Into That
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  and I decided you know what through that journey I needed to
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  share my voice and I
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  needed to bring on beautiful people like Catherine here to my
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  show at the time it
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  was called Witchy Wellness Radio and it was a huge step for me
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  from this girl who
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  had crippling anxiety who worked on the computer all day long
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  to really start to
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  SPEAKER_02: actually put herself out there during health coaching
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  Instagram was early at that time it was just pictures y'all no
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  photo no videos or
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  reels yet and to even just put the audio out there took me over
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  two hours to record
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  a like 10 minute solo episode pre Riverside and AI had to
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  manually edit everything
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  from the ground up I feel blessed that I know how to do it but
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  really that
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  visibility part of my journey is really what led me to the
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  clarity and the
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  SPEAKER_02: conviction of what I'm here to do
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  SPEAKER_02: Yes, it's about sovereignty.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yes, it's about stepping into your power.
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  And more specifically,
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  helping fellow lightworkers own that healing journey.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yes,
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  SPEAKER_02: we've all gone through some type of awakening physically,
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  SPEAKER_02: emotionally,
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  SPEAKER_02: mentally,
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  SPEAKER_02: through relationships,
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  SPEAKER_02: abundance,
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  SPEAKER_02: all these beautiful things.
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  SPEAKER_02: And we're always going to be on that journey.
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  But that doesn't mean that you can't show up right now for
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  yourself and help other people.
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  SPEAKER_02: And I really,
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  SPEAKER_02: truly,
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  SPEAKER_02: truly,
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  truly believe being visible to yourself is how you get to be
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  visible today.
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  SPEAKER_02: in your world externally,
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  SPEAKER_02: whether it's through podcast,
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  SPEAKER_02: Instagram,
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  SPEAKER_02: whatever that is for you,
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  that is the next stop of your healing journey is actually that
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  sovereignty and that
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  SPEAKER_02: leadership and allowing your inner being,
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  SPEAKER_02: your spirit to speak through you,
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  SPEAKER_02: that everybody here,
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  SPEAKER_02: you know,
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  SPEAKER_02: to really be that channel,
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  that force to be able to flow that life force at a higher
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  capacity than you.
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  SPEAKER_02: than you thought you could.
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  SPEAKER_02: And it starts with tuning inward.
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  SPEAKER_02: So in a very small nutshell, that is kind of how I got into everything.
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  I love that journey but I actually mirrored so much of my
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  journey Lauren so I
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  resonated on so many levels and especially the you know the
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  overachieving I had my
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  breakdown in my final year here it's like year 12 like when we
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  go to do our final
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  exams to get into university and that year I was just stressed
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  to the max and even
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  SPEAKER_01: when I finished school I got so unwell
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  SPEAKER_01: because it was just how my body was.
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  And it was only recently that someone said to me,
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  stop using your body as a punching bag.
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  SPEAKER_01: And I went, oh, yes, I am using my body as a punching bag.
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  SPEAKER_01: And yes,
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  our body can carry that symbolism to give us that feedback of
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  what's really going
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  SPEAKER_01: on on that deeper level.
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  SPEAKER_01: But we don't have to allow it to get to that point that it's like,
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  SPEAKER_01: you know,
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  that dis-ease or we get to that point where it's chronic pain
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  or like you said,
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  SPEAKER_01: collapsing from phantom pain.
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  SPEAKER_01: and I understand I was making myself go numb.
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  SPEAKER_01: I was losing feelings.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I fully understand,
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  SPEAKER_01: you know,
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  SPEAKER_01: from that component where you're coming from,
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  SPEAKER_01: but also about creating your outside world,
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  SPEAKER_01: you know,
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  SPEAKER_01: like attracts like and how you've been on both sides of that,
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  SPEAKER_01: right?
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  SPEAKER_01: Where you were like,
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  I'm into health coaching because I feel really good about it
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  and I want to teach
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  SPEAKER_01: other people.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I'm going to attract those people.
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  SPEAKER_01: But to the flip side of that,
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  like I'm creating myself a victim reality because I need to
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  work through some
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  SPEAKER_01: deeper things.
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  SPEAKER_01: And a lot of people,
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  you know I coach people in so many aspects of relationships
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  with life with business
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  with themselves or however that looks when they come to me and
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  the biggest thing I
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  always say what do you want they're like what I was like what
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  do you actually want
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  you know like and they look at me it's like but my relationship
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  I said but do you
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  want that relationship and they just look at me like what what
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  do you mean I could
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  choose not to have it I was like yeah you're not dictated by
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  the other person you
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  SPEAKER_01: actually
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  SPEAKER_01: can be sovereign and show up in that and choose to listen to your,
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  SPEAKER_01: you know,
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  SPEAKER_01: wisdom,
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  SPEAKER_01: you know,
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  SPEAKER_01: and see how that shows up as well.
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  SPEAKER_02: Goodness.
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  SPEAKER_02: And what kind of F with my mind,
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  SPEAKER_02: so to speak,
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  SPEAKER_02: because I will drop an F-bomb,
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  SPEAKER_02: so I will add it myself here.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'll just put a caption on it.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's fine.
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  SPEAKER_02: Good, good, good.
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  is when you realize it is most it's all you when you shift your
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  energy either the
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  clarity to leave that relationship or the people will change in
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  front of your eyes
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  and that's really more recently is what kind of messes with me
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  because we want to
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  be like no no it is you it is you it's your energy and whether
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  you tolerate that or
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  not good for you but you're choosing it and you know you have
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  you always have a
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  SPEAKER_02: choice that's
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  I've been sharing this example recently because at the start of
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  the year I journal
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  a lot and that's how I ask deeper questions on myself I just
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  have a conversation
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  with myself on the paper essentially and I was journaling and I
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  wrote why don't I
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  have any clients because I didn't at that moment I didn't
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  understand why I
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  SPEAKER_01: and I wrote back, I don't want any.
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  SPEAKER_01: I went, I'm not with it.
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  And I went,
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  actually,
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  no,
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  that is kind of true because I was focusing on releasing a
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  book.
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  SPEAKER_01: I was doing my podcast.
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  SPEAKER_01: I had like all these mom duties to do.
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  SPEAKER_01: I had so much going on.
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  SPEAKER_01: The idea of taking on clients was a lot as well.
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  And I told my husband and he's like,
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  well,
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  yeah,
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  I've been dealing with people for a long time.
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  SPEAKER_01: Like you probably actually just need a break to circle back there.
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  SPEAKER_01: And then about a month ago,
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  I was in this sales energetic sales workshop and I'm sitting
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  there going actually
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  you know what I think I'm ready for clients again and I kid you
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  not Lauren within
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  an hour my phone is like blowing up and I've got people wanting
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  like clients I was
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  like thank you spirit I understand I have you were waiting for
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  me to be ready yeah
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  yeah beautiful yeah I and I feel for people to understand that
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  is how concrete it
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  can be like it is there's something deeper in you that is
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  creating that bigger
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  SPEAKER_01: reality and
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  SPEAKER_01: and stopping you from, sometimes we self-sabotage as well.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's something we can be so guilty of too.
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  Yeah,
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  and I think for me,
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  it's like,
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  okay,
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  I'm actually,
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  I'm resisting the contrast.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm resisting that part of me.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm judging that part of me.
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  SPEAKER_02: Even though I'm looking at it,
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  SPEAKER_02: even though I'm doing the work,
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  SPEAKER_02: so to speak,
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  SPEAKER_02: but how can you be okay with that part?
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  SPEAKER_02: Because that part's actually leading you to the clients,
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  SPEAKER_02: to the health,
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  SPEAKER_02: to the partner,
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  SPEAKER_02: just as you beautifully described.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's like, okay, once I got honest with myself and that,
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  just observe what was coming up rather than judging the pattern
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  the feeling the
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  situation then you knew when it was time boop no resistance
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  yeah exactly right into
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  your reality right into you yeah exactly and then you know and
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  this is where I talk
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  to people too about you know abundance and abundance comes in
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  so many forms and we
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  SPEAKER_00: forget that because we're so conditioned it's just money right
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  and there's nothing wrong with money money is energy it's
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  beautiful I happily
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  welcome it into my life but when you shift these these beliefs
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  and when you shift
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  the underlying subconscious programs however that looks and
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  shows up money would
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  just come and appear from nowhere and I mean like just nowhere
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  you're like strike
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  why are you paying me turns out someone subscribed to something
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  that I forgot I
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  SPEAKER_01: even had you know it's like oh
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  thank you very much you know or you know my favorite is when
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  it's you get a message
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  or something hey we realized you overpaid this account and
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  we're giving you a
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  refund I was like thank you I didn't realize I had but clearly
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  spirit must have
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  thought I did so I appreciate that and show me more thank you
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  very much than the
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  way you least expect right I mean I had last about a year ago a
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  little over a year
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  SPEAKER_02: ago I was doing some deep
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  inner abundance and you know lack stuff coming up for me and
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  just let go of what
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  the what the actual situation was let it go and just tuned in
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  and felt worthy of
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  receiving focusing on loving you know raising that vibration
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  really tuning into
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  that in the quantum field and during a meditation I got a phone
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  call from my car
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  insurance company from over 15 years ago an accident I was in I
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  got my um well not
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  SPEAKER_02: the deposit but
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  the minimum back from that because the person who hit me didn't
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  have insurance and
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  15 years later they finally settled that suit and they were
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  trying to get a hold of
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  me I know right I had someone there's this platform in
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  Australia called Class Bento
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  and you can put like workshops and things and I had someone
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  contact there for me
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  because they wanted to give me a refund for overpaying rent
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  from my old career for
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  using a space and they're like oh we need to give you this
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  money back I'm like
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  SPEAKER_01: can't you just keep it they're like
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  SPEAKER_01: No, no, no.
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  SPEAKER_01: We want to give you the money back.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, hang on.
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  SPEAKER_01: Why am I asking them if they can keep it?
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  SPEAKER_01: I want that money.
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  SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
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  SPEAKER_01: Thank you for giving it back.
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  And I feel that's a big thing when we're lightworkers or when
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  we're working in the
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  SPEAKER_01: spiritual realms.
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  There is still this big contradiction that comes through where
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  people are like,
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  SPEAKER_01: oh,
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  SPEAKER_01: but we should just do energy exchanges.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, but money is the energy exchange.
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  and then also where's the breakdown there that you're not open
• 14:25
  to receiving and
• 14:26
  that was something I realized and from what you shared too we
• 14:29
  have to work on is
• 14:30
  being open to receive because we forget that we forget we give
• 14:34
  we give we give even
• 14:35
  we forget the back of our chakras which is receiving we forget
• 14:39
  to to pay attention
• 14:40
  SPEAKER_01: to what's happening at the back
• 14:42
  and then all of a sudden when like why aren't we getting
• 14:44
  opportunities or receiving
• 14:45
  money and it's like oh I forgot all about the other half of me
• 14:49
  I've just been
• 14:50
  giving and I forget to ask to receive yes amen and I think
• 14:54
  that's what you know I
• 14:55
  have to constantly look look at it myself because when you do
• 14:59
  have that giving want
• 15:01
  to give back energy and you know that's your mission hello
• 15:04
  burnout hello overgiving
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_02: hello snapping at
• 15:08
  the drop of whatever and it's really as simple as being able to
• 15:12
  feel what's coming
• 15:13
  up and learn to really work with that energy to be able to
• 15:17
  transmute it and always
• 15:20
  always always what's coming up for you is going to be coming up
• 15:22
  for your ideal
• 15:22
  client is coming up for your soul mission purpose they're
• 15:26
  resonating with you yes
• 15:28
  SPEAKER_02: you might be a few steps ahead but it's still that same energy and the
• 15:31
  SPEAKER_02: vulnerability and the authenticity the audacity to actually talk about
• 15:37
  I'm not perfect whoa whoa I'm not perfect that's going to
• 15:41
  actually attract a lot
• 15:42
  more people into your world than trying to be this cookie
• 15:46
  cutter create everything
• 15:47
  perfectly an AI person you know we're humans we're real and the
• 15:54
  art of that
• 15:54
  transmutation the alchemization of that energy I mean the word
• 15:58
  emotion is literally
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_02: energy in motion to be able to
• 16:02
  to not trauma dump but be able to share your story with power
• 16:06
  and conviction and
• 16:08
  the art of storytelling is I think something likeness of you
• 16:12
  know old mystery
• 16:13
  schools to be able to really show and see for yourself the
• 16:19
  magic that you've
• 16:20
  created it's the magnificence of who you are you don't have to
• 16:24
  have a million
• 16:25
  SPEAKER_02: dollar brand to help other people you don't
• 16:27
  You know,
• 16:27
  like like people think like,
• 16:29
  oh,
• 16:29
  my gosh,
• 16:29
  I don't have a doctorate in this or a Ph.D.
• 16:33
  SPEAKER_02: Doesn't matter.
• 16:33
  SPEAKER_02: You have your experience,
• 16:35
  you have your unique codes and your day one is not going to
• 16:39
  look like day 300 or
• 16:41
  SPEAKER_02: 3000.
• 16:42
  SPEAKER_02: I went from health coaching to helping people with anxiety.
• 16:45
  SPEAKER_02: to helping people with their awakening journey to now,
• 16:48
  SPEAKER_02: even more specifically,
• 16:50
  SPEAKER_02: helping people get their message out there to be able to be visible,
• 16:53
  SPEAKER_02: the next step in their own sovereignty and leadership journey.
• 16:56
  SPEAKER_02: And that's going to change.
• 16:57
  SPEAKER_02: And I trust it's going to change.
• 16:58
  SPEAKER_02: I don't want to be doing the same thing over and over and over.
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_01: How boring.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_02: I'm growing.
• 17:03
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 17:05
  SPEAKER_01: And I love that you brought that up because we're always evolving.
• 17:08
  SPEAKER_01: And it was actually interesting.
• 17:09
  I was on a panel this morning where we were talking about
• 17:12
  living your authentic life,
• 17:13
  right?
• 17:14
  and this was a point that came up is that we have all these
• 17:17
  identities and these
• 17:18
  roles and these masks but at the same time you're always
• 17:22
  evolving and it doesn't
• 17:24
  mean it's a waste of time that you've explored that I guarantee
• 17:27
  you whatever you
• 17:29
  SPEAKER_01: learned before will come to play so even for me
• 17:32
  my backgrounds as a speech language pathologist and I'm like
• 17:35
  when I stepped into
• 17:36
  this spiritual work I was like how is this going to be relevant
• 17:40
  and the irony was
• 17:41
  first of all Lauren my throat chakra was so closed up and yet I
• 17:45
  was teaching people
• 17:46
  SPEAKER_01: to speak I thought the reflection was hilarious personally
• 17:49
  that is why I started this podcast to blow open my throat
• 17:52
  chakra like you with
• 17:53
  anxiety and learning to post and share sometimes we have to run
• 17:57
  in and face those
• 17:58
  fears right whatever way we feel is the biggest depending on
• 18:01
  our soul's little
• 18:02
  journey there and at the same time then I had these clients
• 18:05
  ringing up and they
• 18:06
  SPEAKER_01: were saying like they were having issues with
• 18:09
  This Funding that I was really familiar with or they were
• 18:11
  having issues with like
• 18:12
  something and I was like I fully understand this this is my old
• 18:16
  life and they're
• 18:17
  like really and I could do a much deeper dive into what was
• 18:21
  happening in their life
• 18:23
  because that that information came to play and like you said
• 18:26
  you attract those
• 18:28
  people because you've been in that energy and it allows them to
• 18:31
  come to you and
• 18:33
  I just say just pop it in your toolbox and on the flip side of
• 18:37
  that doing a degree
• 18:39
  in life coaching doesn't make you a life coach so you know
• 18:43
  there's you know this is
• 18:44
  this is the thing like and I so agree with you with
• 18:47
  storytelling because I tell
• 18:49
  people this all the time your story is unique to you it doesn't
• 18:53
  matter if you
• 18:53
  SPEAKER_01: didn't go through a crazy trauma or
• 18:56
  SPEAKER_01: your trauma was real to you and you're going to attract people in similar
• 19:00
  situations exactly like you said you know you're going to you
• 19:04
  know and even when I
• 19:04
  tell my story I don't think it's a big traumas but then when I
• 19:08
  put it all together
• 19:09
  and all those events that happened in my life and I'm sharing
• 19:12
  it with someone else
• 19:13
  and they're reflecting it back to me I'm like oh that was me I
• 19:17
  did go through all
• 19:18
  of that and we're so quick to discount our story and discount
• 19:22
  ourselves rather than
• 19:23
  SPEAKER_01: realizing that
• 19:23
  that is what makes us unique and why exactly what you said why
• 19:27
  we're here to share
• 19:28
  and here to share those those journeys with others yes and I
• 19:32
  think that's a deeper
• 19:33
  level you know abundance work is realizing there's so many
• 19:37
  souls out there there's
• 19:39
  only one of you but there's so many people who are looking for
• 19:42
  specifically you to
• 19:44
  work with I keep thinking of this this client I had we were
• 19:48
  doing a lot of
• 19:49
  SPEAKER_02: energetic work and mindset work together and
• 19:52
  SPEAKER_02: All of a sudden people were literally coming out of the woodwork,
• 19:54
  SPEAKER_02: kind of like your stories of podcasts she was on two,
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_02: three years ago.
• 19:59
  SPEAKER_02: They'd found her and reached out and became a one-on-one client.
• 20:03
  Someone found her through Google locally,
• 20:06
  but she'd never posted anything locally.
• 20:09
  she never marketed herself locally somehow they found her but
• 20:12
  it's really about
• 20:13
  tuning into you the more work and the more you fill up your cup
• 20:16
  we've heard it
• 20:17
  before fill up your cup first before pouring into other people
• 20:20
  yeah yeah yeah yeah
• 20:22
  you probably tuned me out by that time but it's really becoming
• 20:25
  that vessel for
• 20:27
  source to pour through to fill you up and when you really
• 20:33
  realize oh my gosh when I
• 20:35
  SPEAKER_02: that you know Abraham Hex talks about all the time this
• 20:38
  the stream of well-being is always flowing and it's really just
• 20:41
  me resisting that
• 20:42
  stream of well-being that's always here for me so the more that
• 20:46
  I can let go and
• 20:47
  allow that to flow through me the ideas will come the
• 20:50
  creativity will come the
• 20:52
  clients will come the fun will come and what I think myself
• 20:56
  included and I know I'm
• 20:58
  speaking each and every one of you right now we get we get into
• 21:01
  like the over hyper
• 21:02
  SPEAKER_02: masculine put my big girl
• 21:05
  Pants On I've got to try to do this I've got to work really
• 21:09
  hard I've got to learn
• 21:10
  all these hacks and do all the business things which you need
• 21:13
  to know like you need
• 21:15
  to know to be able to do these things but then we tune out the
• 21:18
  energetics we tune
• 21:19
  SPEAKER_02: out
• 21:20
  our own intuition and our own creativity and that sacral chakra
• 21:24
  just starts to
• 21:25
  wither and die and is really sad but like what I am creating
• 21:31
  like I am turned on
• 21:32
  like I feel that the juice is flowing through me that's how I
• 21:36
  want everybody to
• 21:37
  feel like when we're able to really tune into our energy and
• 21:41
  transmute the fear the
• 21:42
  SPEAKER_02: anger the disgust the anguish the heartbreak using our own story
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_02: In real time, that is your sovereignty.
• 21:50
  SPEAKER_02: That is your leadership.
• 21:51
  That's,
• 21:52
  I think,
• 21:52
  your spiritual duty,
• 21:53
  not only to yourself,
• 21:54
  but to collective,
• 21:56
  right?
• 21:56
  SPEAKER_02: We're not here just to only feel airy-fairy all the time.
• 22:00
  We're here to really remember how to work with this energy and
• 22:04
  to really lay these
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_02: codes,
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_02: this blueprint.
• 22:07
  SPEAKER_02: As you know, we all feel it, the collective shifting.
• 22:10
  SPEAKER_02: And it's a little hairy right now.
• 22:11
  SPEAKER_02: It's a little bit up in the air.
• 22:13
  SPEAKER_02: But you can anchor down your vibration.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_02: You can anchor down you.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_02: And that's the only thing we can control.
• 22:19
  And when we really can let go and realize that,
• 22:21
  that's when the miracles happen.
• 22:22
  SPEAKER_02: That's when the manifestations happen.
• 22:24
  SPEAKER_02: We all know that.
• 22:24
  We all have the beautiful synchronicities,
• 22:27
  the miracles pour into our reality.
• 22:29
  The same thing goes here with visibility and sharing your
• 22:32
  message with the world.
• 22:33
  SPEAKER_02: 100%.
• 22:34
  SPEAKER_01: and I love to, there were so many things you brought up there.
• 22:38
  SPEAKER_01: Someone once said to me,
• 22:39
  SPEAKER_00: God is your boss,
• 22:40
  SPEAKER_00: so why would your boss not want you to be in abundance?
• 22:43
  SPEAKER_01: I went, thank you.
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_01: Because that is the thing.
• 22:47
  SPEAKER_01: We come in here to experience on behalf of God,
• 22:50
  SPEAKER_01: spirit,
• 22:51
  SPEAKER_01: divine,
• 22:51
  SPEAKER_01: whatever resonates,
• 22:52
  SPEAKER_01: you know,
• 22:53
  SPEAKER_01: and we come on here like with our fragment,
• 22:56
  SPEAKER_01: but it's so unique.
• 22:57
  SPEAKER_01: Like our soul frequency is unique.
• 23:00
  SPEAKER_01: No one else has it.
• 23:01
  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't matter if you've had many lives or not.
• 23:04
  that doesn't matter it's like in that moment your soul
• 23:07
  frequency is unique to you
• 23:09
  and that is the blessing that you are here to share on the
• 23:12
  earth and another person
• 23:13
  I love that I collect all these things right over listening and
• 23:17
  and where I get
• 23:17
  pulled but this person said to remember and I say it every day
• 23:21
  when I work with
• 23:22
  clients I am a blessing I am here to bless others and they are
• 23:26
  blessing me with
• 23:27
  their presence you know and and just giving gratitude to you
• 23:31
  for being you
• 23:33
  SPEAKER_01: Because there is no other you.
• 23:35
  SPEAKER_01: I think that's the biggest thing, right?
• 23:37
  SPEAKER_01: There is no other you.
• 23:38
  SPEAKER_01: It's just you're unique and you're special.
• 23:42
  And it's when we become disconnected from that and then start
• 23:45
  comparing or putting
• 23:47
  SPEAKER_01: ourselves into,
• 23:48
  SPEAKER_01: like you said,
• 23:49
  SPEAKER_01: that overwork,
• 23:50
  SPEAKER_01: like I have to do this,
• 23:51
  SPEAKER_01: I have to do this.
• 23:52
  SPEAKER_01: So I had this tarot reading, right?
• 23:55
  SPEAKER_01: I think it was a tarot, some sort of reading.
• 23:57
  SPEAKER_01: I don't know.
• 23:57
  SPEAKER_01: And she said,
• 23:58
  spirit is saying to make a list of what you're good at and what
• 24:01
  you're not good at
• 24:02
  SPEAKER_01: and figure it out.
• 24:03
  SPEAKER_01: I was like, oh, okay, I'll do it.
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_01: Right?
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_01: I'm this person.
• 24:06
  SPEAKER_01: I'm going to do that.
• 24:07
  SPEAKER_01: Okay.
• 24:07
  SPEAKER_01: Thank you for that advice.
• 24:08
  SPEAKER_01: So I did and I wrote down what I'm not good at and I put like SEOs,
• 24:13
  SPEAKER_01: marketing,
• 24:13
  SPEAKER_01: you know,
• 24:14
  SPEAKER_01: social media,
• 24:15
  SPEAKER_01: all that fun stuff,
• 24:16
  SPEAKER_01: right?
• 24:17
  SPEAKER_01: And you know, Spirit came back and I said, how do I work on this then?
• 24:20
  SPEAKER_01: They said, use chat.
• 24:22
  use chat GPT like use AI to help you with those things and
• 24:26
  don't worry about it
• 24:27
  just let it let it let it do what it needs to do like yes you
• 24:30
  have to put your
• 24:30
  input in but just let it happen and it was such a surrender
• 24:33
  because I was like
• 24:34
  pulling my hair out you know like you said I have to know this
• 24:38
  and I have to do
• 24:38
  that and it does take away from your creativity and it stops
• 24:41
  you from being in flow
• 24:43
  SPEAKER_01: you know from doing what you need to do
• 24:45
  SPEAKER_01: And even,
• 24:46
  SPEAKER_01: you know,
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_01: from a writer perspective,
• 24:48
  SPEAKER_01: when I write,
• 24:49
  SPEAKER_01: if I'm not in the mood,
• 24:50
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not going to write.
• 24:51
  SPEAKER_01: If I'm in the mood, I will pump out articles, I will be inspired.
• 24:56
  SPEAKER_01: And I feel like you're a manifesto generator too, right?
• 24:58
  SPEAKER_01: Where you just pump everything out.
• 25:00
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 25:00
  SPEAKER_02: I'm a generator, but yeah.
• 25:02
  SPEAKER_01: You're a generator.
• 25:03
  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
• 25:04
  SPEAKER_01: When we get into that flow, it's just like, go, go, go, go, go.
• 25:08
  SPEAKER_01: But I allow that and I'm like, okay, I'm in a writing mood today.
• 25:11
  I'm going to do a lot of writing,
• 25:13
  you know,
• 25:13
  but other days might,
• 25:14
  no,
• 25:14
  I'm not inspired today.
• 25:15
  SPEAKER_01: I'm not going to do it today.
• 25:16
  SPEAKER_01: And if people,
• 25:17
  SPEAKER_01: when we try and push it,
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_01: it's actually pushing away the creativity instead of allowing it.
• 25:23
  SPEAKER_01: It's the same when you want an outcome and you push for the outcome,
• 25:25
  SPEAKER_01: you're pushing it away instead of allowing it.
• 25:27
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 25:29
  Yes and you know I'm saying certain areas of my life I'm like
• 25:32
  yeah I see that I
• 25:33
  still do that when we're trying so hard to force it to be a
• 25:36
  certain way because we
• 25:36
  think it should be this way and this timing and this and a
• 25:40
  whole nother level to
• 25:41
  that is how do I show up when I need to show up like for this
• 25:45
  call for a coaching
• 25:46
  SPEAKER_02: call
• 25:47
  That leadership aspect and I think it's not forcing it's
• 25:51
  actually being real with
• 25:52
  yourself and you know if you're on a podcast you're doing a TED
• 25:56
  talk whatever how
• 25:57
  authentic and I love it when people are like I'm feeling a
• 26:00
  little nervous right now
• 26:01
  SPEAKER_02: you know or you know crack a joke or you know
• 26:03
  Tell what's actually real for them right now and then I'm sure
• 26:07
  you will feel instant shift.
• 26:09
  But I think that next level is how can we show up when we need
• 26:13
  to show up,
• 26:14
  SPEAKER_02: when we want to show up,
• 26:15
  SPEAKER_02: you know,
• 26:15
  SPEAKER_02: when we raise our hand to do the scary thing.
• 26:18
  SPEAKER_02: Shit, it's time.
• 26:19
  SPEAKER_02: I got to go on stage.
• 26:21
  SPEAKER_02: I've got to hit record.
• 26:22
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not backing down.
• 26:23
  SPEAKER_02: What do I do?
• 26:24
  And that's why I love,
• 26:26
  love,
• 26:26
  love,
• 26:26
  love,
• 26:26
  love working people with how do we get out ahead of it?
• 26:29
  SPEAKER_02: How do we work with energy?
• 26:31
  SPEAKER_02: How do we do the inner work to really practice that feeling?
• 26:35
  SPEAKER_02: to anchor that vibration in your body before it happens.
• 26:38
  Because your brain and body don't know the difference between
• 26:40
  it happening in real
• 26:41
  SPEAKER_02: life or happening as you visualize it.
• 26:44
  SPEAKER_02: So how do we really get out ahead of it?
• 26:46
  SPEAKER_02: But also in the moment, it's not going to go perfect.
• 26:48
  SPEAKER_02: So how are you going to react when you get thrown that curveball?
• 26:51
  And it really does come back to allowing yourself to be that
• 26:54
  channel for whatever
• 26:55
  SPEAKER_02: needs to come through and don't judge how it unfolds.
• 26:59
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, 100%.
• 27:01
  and sometimes there's a bigger thing at play like for example
• 27:04
  at the moment
• 27:05
  hopefully by the time this airs my house is sold but we've been
• 27:08
  trying to sell our
• 27:09
  house for over a year and we're like what is this like what is
• 27:13
  what is the bigger
• 27:13
  SPEAKER_01: thing like we have house and we have land
• 27:16
  Turns out our land is about to be rezoned and be significantly
• 27:19
  worth a lot more.
• 27:21
  SPEAKER_01: And I'm sitting there going, well played spirit, well played.
• 27:25
  But then there's this aspect of the house and I know I've done
• 27:28
  a lot of work
• 27:29
  clearing how I want it to happen and what will happen and I
• 27:32
  keep getting dreams
• 27:33
  SPEAKER_01: showing me it's going to happen so I keep my faith
• 27:36
  SPEAKER_01: But then I will go, but I'm not the only person in this house.
• 27:41
  SPEAKER_01: So, you know, there's my husband and my son.
• 27:44
  SPEAKER_01: So then it's like,
• 27:44
  SPEAKER_01: okay,
• 27:45
  SPEAKER_01: well,
• 27:45
  maybe we need to have some honest conversations because there's
• 27:48
  obviously a lot of
• 27:49
  SPEAKER_01: energetic misalignment here.
• 27:51
  SPEAKER_01: And this is where I can try and manifest and be positive all I want.
• 27:56
  SPEAKER_01: But if there's two conflicting energies,
• 27:59
  then that's not going to work either and I guess the message in
• 28:02
  that is to be aware
• 28:03
  of the spaces you put yourself into because if you are working
• 28:07
  towards a goal and
• 28:08
  everyone around you is telling you no it's going to get really
• 28:12
  hard to drown out
• 28:13
  that noise and you need to put yourself in like places where
• 28:17
  you can be yourself
• 28:18
  and share hey this is what my vision is and have that
• 28:21
  encouragement and do the work
• 28:23
  SPEAKER_01: so that you can get there and if you haven't got those people around you
• 28:27
  We have this beautiful thing called Online Now and we can find
• 28:30
  these communities to support us.
• 28:33
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my gosh.
• 28:33
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
• 28:35
  SPEAKER_02: And you know what?
• 28:36
  SPEAKER_02: I know each and every one of you listening knows that
• 28:39
  Part of your journey if not right now the family member the
• 28:43
  friend the co-worker
• 28:44
  whoever it is telling you you can't do something telling you
• 28:48
  that's crazy or that's
• 28:49
  a silly idea it doesn't matter if you're healing your body if
• 28:52
  you're manifesting
• 28:53
  million dollars starting business whatever there's going to be
• 28:55
  the naysayers and I
• 28:57
  think that's part of the journey and honestly that prepares you
• 28:59
  for the visibility
• 29:01
  SPEAKER_02: of sharing your message sharing yourself sharing your
• 29:04
  SPEAKER_02: your heart with the world.
• 29:06
  SPEAKER_02: I get so much joy out of my haters.
• 29:08
  SPEAKER_02: I do.
• 29:09
  Because I'm like,
• 29:09
  first of all,
• 29:10
  thank you for commenting and bringing this up in the algorithm.
• 29:13
  SPEAKER_02: You know, bless you.
• 29:14
  But it's like,
• 29:15
  obviously,
• 29:16
  like,
• 29:16
  I'm not here to be everybody's best friend.
• 29:18
  SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm going to trigger some people.
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  SPEAKER_02: And it's always men.
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  SPEAKER_02: And it's always commenting on, like,
• 29:24
  SPEAKER_02: Well,
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  she's not going to have a partner or something to do with my
• 29:27
  love life or,
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  SPEAKER_02: you know,
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  SPEAKER_02: just like the lowest level low ball in it.
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  And when that happens,
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  like,
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  well,
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  clearly I'm hitting my own glass ceiling.
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  SPEAKER_02: I'm breaking to the next level.
• 29:37
  SPEAKER_02: What a great sign.
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  You know,
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  that narcissist in your life that was training for you to be
• 29:41
  visible.
• 29:43
  SPEAKER_02: It's not going to go away.
• 29:44
  SPEAKER_02: It's how are we going to react to that, you know?
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  SPEAKER_01: Exactly.
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  SPEAKER_01: And sometimes it was funny,
• 29:49
  SPEAKER_01: my spiritual mentor,
• 29:50
  she was telling me this story and this person was projecting
• 29:53
  something onto her and
• 29:54
  SPEAKER_01: she just went,
• 29:55
  SPEAKER_01: I went,
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm not having that projection.
• 29:57
  SPEAKER_01: You can have that right back.
• 29:59
  SPEAKER_01: Thank you very much.
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  SPEAKER_01: That's about you, not about me.
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  you know if it is a bit more triggering than that maybe it is a
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  reflection but at
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  the same time you know when I when I started posting I did like
• 30:12
  a 30-day post
• 30:13
  campaign for my my novel that came out and some of the earlier
• 30:16
  posts I did the
• 30:18
  amount of people even my friends my husband saw one and he goes
• 30:22
  that triggered so
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  much in me I couldn't watch it like it was like stuff from his
• 30:27
  first marriage that
• 30:28
  SPEAKER_01: it was triggering because it was talking about when you know
• 30:32
  SPEAKER_01: Things aren't right, but you choose to stay anyway.
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  and he goes it was so triggering and then I had one of my close
• 30:39
  friends she's like
• 30:39
  my goodness it's like your posts are like reading my life I
• 30:42
  said great they're
• 30:43
  triggering they're doing exactly what they need to do but these
• 30:46
  and then they were
• 30:47
  all the clients I was attracting Lauren all the people who were
• 30:50
  denying themselves
• 30:52
  what reality what actually was versus this this world that
• 30:56
  they're living in that's
• 30:57
  not congruent to who they are they're just hoping that it will
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  change or hoping
• 31:01
  SPEAKER_01: that it will shift or
• 31:02
  SPEAKER_01: False hope I would say more than actually optimism hope but it was really
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  interesting exactly like you said when you post something
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  that's triggering you're
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  like yeah my message is being heard because we are here to put
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  with we're going
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  through a duality experience currently right everything's
• 31:19
  polarizing and I know the
• 31:21
  energy as a collective is learning how to stay neutral in that
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  but if things are
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  SPEAKER_01: triggering you it should be an invitation to look deeper
• 31:29
  SPEAKER_01: Not to react and project your things onto other people,
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  but it also then shows you the level of spiritual growth or the
• 31:35
  level of growth of
• 31:36
  SPEAKER_01: that human when they make those comments,
• 31:39
  SPEAKER_01: you know,
• 31:39
  SPEAKER_01: and say those things as well.
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  SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
• 31:42
  SPEAKER_02: Hurt people, want to hurt people, you know, the classic age-old wisdom.
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  SPEAKER_02: I think,
• 31:46
  SPEAKER_02: you know,
• 31:46
  SPEAKER_02: I'm thinking about a client and,
• 31:49
  SPEAKER_02: you know,
• 31:49
  SPEAKER_02: even her parents,
• 31:51
  SPEAKER_02: her mother commented on my feed.
• 31:54
  SPEAKER_02: commented on her daughter's feed because she went no contact.
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  And the most degrading things about me and the work that,
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  you know,
• 32:01
  all these things.
• 32:02
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm like,
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  you are clearly shifting timelines because to be able to pull
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  this energy up,
• 32:07
  SPEAKER_02: you know,
• 32:08
  SPEAKER_02: think about energetic entanglements,
• 32:10
  SPEAKER_02: you know,
• 32:11
  like a vampire kind of like energy that's attached and feeding
• 32:14
  off of you.
• 32:15
  SPEAKER_02: Well, of course, that's going to happen.
• 32:16
  SPEAKER_02: You're shifting.
• 32:17
  SPEAKER_02: And then these entities can no longer get their supply.
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  And the other thing I want to point out when I talk about that,
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  you are a sovereign being.
• 32:25
  SPEAKER_02: You have the right to cut any cords.
• 32:28
  SPEAKER_02: It's part of your journey.
• 32:29
  SPEAKER_02: All of this is happening for you.
• 32:30
  I see a lot of spiritual people wanting to use the excuse that
• 32:37
  they're shadow
• 32:37
  SPEAKER_02: banned,
• 32:38
  SPEAKER_02: you know,
• 32:39
  SPEAKER_02: all that stuff.
• 32:41
  SPEAKER_02: I know.
• 32:41
  SPEAKER_02: And so I lovingly say, it's you.
• 32:44
  SPEAKER_02: It's you.
• 32:45
  SPEAKER_02: And if you believe that, it's going to be true.
• 32:46
  SPEAKER_02: And yes, we can work through that, but it's about you
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  Feeling grounded in your own energy and your own sovereignty,
• 32:54
  nothing can hurt you.
• 32:56
  SPEAKER_02: It's your choice.
• 32:57
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah,
• 32:57
  and it's really interesting because I have this client at the
• 32:59
  moment and her
• 33:02
  SPEAKER_01: profession is she helps remove black magic off people.
• 33:05
  SPEAKER_01: So interesting, right?
• 33:07
  SPEAKER_01: But some of this has come back to her.
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  And the biggest message that keeps coming through is if you
• 33:14
  keep believing it's
• 33:14
  SPEAKER_01: going to happen to you,
• 33:15
  SPEAKER_01: it's going to happen to you.
• 33:17
  SPEAKER_01: You know, you actually have to just be like, I'm done.
• 33:20
  SPEAKER_01: This program is done.
• 33:21
  SPEAKER_01: I am done with this.
• 33:22
  And so these energies that are interfering with her showed up
• 33:26
  for me just this morning.
• 33:27
  SPEAKER_01: I've had an eventful morning.
• 33:29
  SPEAKER_01: that like showed up for me.
• 33:30
  SPEAKER_01: And I just looked at them and I went, why are you here?
• 33:33
  SPEAKER_01: They're like, and I'm like, you're not welcome.
• 33:35
  SPEAKER_01: You know, control, alt, delete, cancel, stop.
• 33:39
  SPEAKER_01: No, you're not coming in.
• 33:40
  SPEAKER_01: And they went, I'm like, off you go.
• 33:43
  SPEAKER_01: And I did it to each one.
• 33:44
  SPEAKER_01: Like, no, you're not welcome here.
• 33:46
  SPEAKER_01: You're not welcome here.
• 33:47
  SPEAKER_01: And then I went to my spirit team, went, what was that about?
• 33:50
  They're like,
• 33:50
  it was a test because if you get given to the fear and let them
• 33:54
  in,
• 33:55
  SPEAKER_01: Then the fear comes in.
• 33:56
  SPEAKER_01: And it's the same with people.
• 33:57
  SPEAKER_01: It's the same with energies.
• 33:58
  SPEAKER_01: It doesn't matter if they're a being or whoever.
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  But in the end,
• 34:03
  it's your own,
• 34:04
  exactly like you said,
• 34:04
  your own sovereignty.
• 34:06
  And I want to bring up cord cutting quickly because this is a
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  thing that clients have.
• 34:10
  They're like,
• 34:10
  I can't cut the cord,
• 34:11
  but then I'll be disconnected from them.
• 34:13
  SPEAKER_01: I said,
• 34:13
  but you can create new cords that are more aligned because a
• 34:18
  lot of parents,
• 34:19
  SPEAKER_01: especially,
• 34:19
  SPEAKER_01: and I know from being a mom,
• 34:20
  SPEAKER_01: they have a fear of cutting their cord with their children,
• 34:23
  SPEAKER_01: even though their relationship's incredibly unhealthy.
• 34:26
  I was like but you can create a new chord that's you know on a
• 34:30
  higher vibration you
• 34:31
  can make it gold so it's like a 50-50 partnership relationship
• 34:35
  I said you can
• 34:35
  create something new but you have to let the old energy go
• 34:39
  because it's that whole
• 34:40
  physics thing right energy can't be created or destroyed it can
• 34:44
  only be transferred
• 34:45
  so if you don't let go of those old paradigms old beliefs old
• 34:49
  things then yeah
• 34:50
  they're going to keep sucking on you like those energetic
• 34:53
  vampires that they are
• 34:55
  SPEAKER_01: because you're choosing not to let them and not letting go.
• 34:59
  SPEAKER_01: And this is the conversation that keeps coming up around chords,
• 35:02
  SPEAKER_01: which is people keep talking about bad chords,
• 35:05
  SPEAKER_01: but there's good chords too.
• 35:08
  SPEAKER_01: When you're working in collaboration with someone,
• 35:11
  you want a beautiful energetic chord between you two because
• 35:14
  you're collaborating
• 35:15
  SPEAKER_01: and you're having a beautiful relationship.
• 35:17
  like us having this conversation we have a beautiful energetic
• 35:20
  cord where we're
• 35:20
  having this conversation I don't want to cut that I'm enjoying
• 35:24
  this I don't want to
• 35:26
  get rid of that so what is it that you're afraid of of the cord
• 35:30
  cutting and where
• 35:30
  is that coming from in the first place is it because you're
• 35:33
  worried about being
• 35:34
  alone even though you're never alone or is it worried that
• 35:37
  you're going to sever a
• 35:38
  relationship that you know wasn't good for you in the first
• 35:40
  place and I think
• 35:42
  SPEAKER_02: another layer to that the witch wound my goodness yes
• 35:46
  SPEAKER_01: Yes.
• 35:47
  SPEAKER_02: That could be another episode.
• 35:48
  SPEAKER_02: But dear Lord,
• 35:50
  SPEAKER_02: I think,
• 35:51
  SPEAKER_02: yes,
• 35:51
  that's why I think I've come here to work with visibility
• 35:55
  because I'm sorry.
• 35:56
  SPEAKER_02: I love past lives, alternate lifetimes.
• 35:58
  SPEAKER_02: I can geek out all over that.
• 36:01
  SPEAKER_02: But you're here now.
• 36:02
  SPEAKER_02: Yes.
• 36:03
  SPEAKER_02: You're here now.
• 36:04
  And I think we can get too attached into,
• 36:06
  well,
• 36:07
  in this lifetime I did this and I did beautiful.
• 36:10
  SPEAKER_02: You learned what you need to learn.
• 36:11
  SPEAKER_02: We're going to take all of our power back,
• 36:13
  SPEAKER_02: almost like an intergender cord from that too,
• 36:15
  SPEAKER_02: from that lifetime.
• 36:17
  And you can harness that right now and you're not going to get
• 36:20
  burned at the stake.
• 36:21
  SPEAKER_02: So this is a beautiful work that we get to do in this lifetime.
• 36:24
  SPEAKER_02: It's such a really safe container.
• 36:26
  SPEAKER_02: You know, I mean, it's just I feel blessed.
• 36:29
  SPEAKER_02: But the anxiety,
• 36:30
  SPEAKER_02: the fear,
• 36:31
  SPEAKER_02: the energy,
• 36:31
  SPEAKER_02: the blocks,
• 36:33
  SPEAKER_02: the knots of energy,
• 36:34
  SPEAKER_02: sometimes it comes up literally like a knot.
• 36:38
  SPEAKER_02: We can loosen the reins.
• 36:39
  SPEAKER_02: We can let it go.
• 36:40
  SPEAKER_02: You're being called
• 36:42
  to this for a reason and you signed up for it and that means
• 36:45
  you can handle it and
• 36:46
  it means you can not only handle it but experience it with such
• 36:50
  joy and ease and
• 36:52
  SPEAKER_02: pleasure.
• 36:53
  SPEAKER_02: The mundane can be magical and that's really the name of the game.
• 36:56
  SPEAKER_02: The appreciation heals everything.
• 37:00
  100% and on the flip side of that when you learn to embrace
• 37:04
  those other fragments
• 37:06
  of yourself that you've been through they can come forward and
• 37:09
  support you now like
• 37:11
  this is something so powerful people don't realize so my client
• 37:16
  that we were
• 37:16
  working with her Atlantean self has come forward to start
• 37:20
  helping with like
• 37:21
  SPEAKER_01: different levels of energetic work and I was like
• 37:24
  SPEAKER_01: Wow, this is amazing.
• 37:26
  SPEAKER_01: For me,
• 37:26
  I tap into myself when I was a high priestess during Egyptian
• 37:30
  times because I want
• 37:31
  SPEAKER_01: her herbalism knowledge,
• 37:33
  SPEAKER_01: right?
• 37:33
  SPEAKER_01: I want the knowledge of the energetics and everything about plants.
• 37:37
  SPEAKER_01: Please send that through to me or I'll go to my off world self.
• 37:41
  SPEAKER_01: Hey, give me some of your warrior spirit today.
• 37:44
  SPEAKER_01: I really could use a pick me up to get through this challenge.
• 37:47
  and this is where yes you can live in the wound and make it as
• 37:50
  an excuse or you can
• 37:52
  go great I'm done with that and I'm going to break that cycle
• 37:56
  and like and it's
• 37:57
  funny because I fully resonate with the witch wound which was
• 38:00
  like no I need to put
• 38:01
  myself out there so yeah let's go on interviews let's go start
• 38:04
  a podcast let's put
• 38:06
  our face on Instagram when we've been hiding for years you know
• 38:10
  how does that look
• 38:11
  to you and I can tell you whatever feels the most scariest is
• 38:14
  probably what you
• 38:14
  SPEAKER_01: need to do
• 38:15
  more than likely said you know what is what is it the the light
• 38:19
  shines through the
• 38:20
  wound I don't remember the phrase but it's really yeah it's the
• 38:23
  lights guided you
• 38:24
  forward girlfriend yeah it's an enemy you know yesterday in the
• 38:27
  shower I had this
• 38:28
  realization when I sing and kind of start channeling and I can
• 38:32
  tell it's like I'm
• 38:33
  SPEAKER_02: not there something's coming through
• 38:35
  it's always in this like big band almost like 1920s kind of
• 38:40
  music which I don't
• 38:41
  listen I mean I love that kind of music but I do not listen to
• 38:44
  it and I'm like okay
• 38:45
  it's definitely another lifetime coming through I've had and I
• 38:49
  remembered having a
• 38:50
  regression I was like yeah this actually really aligns with
• 38:53
  that timeline and how I
• 38:55
  wasn't like whatever happened in my life I wasn't as big as I
• 38:58
  thought I could
• 38:59
  because I was being held back by situations and the
• 39:01
  relationship I was in at that
• 39:02
  SPEAKER_02: time and I was like
• 39:04
  that similar pattern of feeling is coming up for me now of
• 39:08
  course she's coming
• 39:09
  through this energy because it's ready to be transmuted and
• 39:12
  she's also helping me
• 39:13
  aka me helping me but thank you for that reminder too yeah and
• 39:18
  I love that too I
• 39:20
  just had an image of you trying to be a jazz singer then I
• 39:22
  don't know why that's
• 39:23
  SPEAKER_02: what came through yeah I mean that's what it feels like yeah
• 39:27
  But we could keep talking about so many things Lauren but I
• 39:30
  know we've got to
• 39:31
  finish our time together so I ask the guests that come on the
• 39:33
  show if you could
• 39:35
  SPEAKER_01: heal or change something in the world what would it be?
• 39:38
  For us to just really appreciate who we are where we're at in
• 39:41
  the moment because
• 39:42
  that's all that I mean that if we all could just do that or
• 39:45
  remind ourselves to do
• 39:47
  SPEAKER_02: that everything's going to change Amen
• 39:51
  SPEAKER_01: And if people want to come and find you,
• 39:53
  SPEAKER_01: Lauren,
• 39:54
  SPEAKER_01: to work with you or check out your podcast,
• 39:57
  SPEAKER_01: where's the best place that they can go?
• 39:59
  SPEAKER_02: Well, my podcast is now called The Sovereign Self Show.
• 40:02
  SPEAKER_02: You can find us on any streaming platform, on YouTube as well.
• 40:06
  SPEAKER_02: And I mostly hang out on Instagram other than Podcast World.
• 40:09
  SPEAKER_02: It's just my name at Lauren Cialantani.
• 40:12
  SPEAKER_02: I'm sure it'll be in the show notes.
• 40:14
  SPEAKER_01: Definitely.
• 40:15
  Connect with me you know I love I love to hear your stories I
• 40:19
  love to hear what
• 40:20
  SPEAKER_02: you're wanting to create what you want to bring to the world too and I am
• 40:23
  definitely here to help and be be your partner as we co-create
• 40:27
  this new reality as
• 40:29
  I feel the momentum shifting and it's just it's such an honor
• 40:32
  to be here thank you
• 40:33
  SPEAKER_02: so much for having me
• 40:34
  and to be able to dive deep into the unknown together was such
• 40:37
  a pleasure thank you
• 40:38
  so much for being on the show Lauren and I definitely will make
• 40:41
  sure all those
• 40:42
  details are in the show notes and for anyone listening if this
• 40:45
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• 40:46
  please feel free to like subscribe or share because sharing is
• 40:50
  caring especially
• 40:51
  when you feel like that intuition of like hey I really think
• 40:54
  this person would
• 40:55
  enjoy this or needs to hear this trust that because that is
• 40:59
  your soul letting you
• 41:00
  SPEAKER_01: know that you're on the right path and you need to listen to that so
• 41:04
  Feel free to leave your comments below and thank you for
• 41:07
  listening and thank you
• 41:08
  again Lauren for guiding us back to the reminders of what our
• 41:12
  sovereign self
• 41:13
  actually looks like when we leave those old wounds behind in a
• 41:17
  separate put them in
• 41:18
  SPEAKER_01: a box they're not ours anymore thank you amazing
• 41:22
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• 41:25
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• 41:28
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• 41:29
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• 41:32
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• 41:35
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• 41:36
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• 41:40
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• 42:12
  SPEAKER_01: Hey beautiful souls,
• 42:13
  it is Catherine Crestani here and I wanted to have a chat with
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  you about a really
• 42:18
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• 42:22
  SPEAKER_01: to help me ground,
• 42:23
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• 42:26
  So if you're curious and want to know about drinking something
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  other than coffee or
• 42:30
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• 42:34
  I love this with a bit of honey and cinnamon sprinkled in and
• 42:39
  just letting it brew
• 42:40
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• 42:44
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