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Apps Passwords And Two Step Verification Overload · Aging ain't for Sissies

• 0:06
  SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome to AgNate for Sissies.
• 0:09
  SPEAKER_00: My name is Marcy Backis, and I am your host.
• 0:13
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, I am.
• 0:14
  SPEAKER_00: This is my podcast.
• 0:17
  SPEAKER_00: I'm glad you're here.
• 0:20
  SPEAKER_00: I have something really great to talk about today.
• 0:23
  SPEAKER_00: Why is everything so freaking complicated?
• 0:27
  SPEAKER_00: Honestly, I want to welcome you back to Aging Infra Sissies, the podcast where we stay, say the quiet parts out loud about getting older.
• 0:36
  SPEAKER_00: And we do it with a whole lot of humor, a little bit of sass, and zero patience for nonsense.
• 0:40
  SPEAKER_00: I have no patience for that.
• 0:42
  SPEAKER_00: Never have, even when I was young.
• 0:44
  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Marcy, and around here, we're trying not to be 25 again.
• 0:49
  SPEAKER_00: We are trying to feel good, live smart, and actually enjoy this stage of life.
• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: Because let's be honest, what's the choice, number one?
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_00: And aging isn't for sissies, but it can be done intentionally.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's exactly what we're doing here.
• 1:04
  SPEAKER_00: So hope you enjoyed last week's episode.
• 1:08
  SPEAKER_00: Um if I could even remember what last week's episode was about.
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  SPEAKER_00: What did we talk about last week?
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, our biological age.
• 1:20
  SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hope you learned something.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_00: I did.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm doing pretty good, actually.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm doing better than I was doing before with my biological age.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I will take that.
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  SPEAKER_00: And today we are going to talk about just freaking everything is so annoying.
• 1:40
  SPEAKER_00: It's my friend Pearl always says, it's annoying.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a lot of annoying stuff in the world right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: But before we get into that, let's do a quick recap.
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  SPEAKER_00: On I met with my radiology oncologist.
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  SPEAKER_00: I got a clean bill of health for right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: So yay! Don't have to see her until after my next mammogram in November.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't have to see my oncologist again until then.
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  SPEAKER_00: So life is good.
• 2:03
  SPEAKER_00: Um, beat cancer, and I'm happy to say that I have beat it.
• 2:08
  SPEAKER_00: I've been doing pretty good health-wise, and I'll take it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't like to get too cocky because when I get cocky, things seem to happen, but I'm feeling good.
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  SPEAKER_00: Life is good.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am leaving at 7 a.m.
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  SPEAKER_00: tomorrow morning for California.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am going to spend Mother's Day with my oldest child, Kyle.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm also going to see my nephew Chris and his wife Beth.
• 2:28
  SPEAKER_00: They are going to be moving up to California.
• 2:31
  SPEAKER_00: I mean to Oregon from California back to Oregon, where they're from.
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  SPEAKER_00: Their kids are moving into the school district that my kids were in when we lived there.
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  SPEAKER_00: And actually, my great nephew Alan will be attending the same elementary school that my kids went to.
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  SPEAKER_00: Very exciting.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's also exciting for me because A, it gives me another place to go visit and a place that I have friends at.
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  SPEAKER_00: So very excited about that for them because I think it's a great place to raise your kids.
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  SPEAKER_00: I truly do.
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  SPEAKER_00: I think my kids were really happy there.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am going on this trip and I am going to use my Sudhu packing method that we've talked about.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's on my website in um MarcybackusMedia.com.
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_00: There I had my AI create uh Sudoku packing method.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's um nine squares, and each square has either a bottom, a top, or a layering piece.
• 3:32
  SPEAKER_00: And you do it in the order that it is on the on this the nine squares, and then you can draw a line and you can draw where this outfit, but then if you go this way, these pieces, it's all the pieces are mix and match, like granimals.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anyways, um, I am going to do it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna do the Sudoku packing method.
• 3:52
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna let you know how it works.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, I only do a carry-on no matter whether I'm five days or 14 days.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, you have to remember you also have the outfit you have on and whatever layering piece you have with that.
• 4:06
  SPEAKER_00: So you have those shoes, you have those pants, that top.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, in essence, you really have 12 pieces.
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  SPEAKER_00: But anyhow, I'll let you know how it goes.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's up on my website.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can um download it from there.
• 4:20
  SPEAKER_00: I think it's pretty cool.
• 4:22
  SPEAKER_00: I'm kind of crazed right now because I got so out of the habit of going to the movies.
• 4:27
  SPEAKER_00: And there are four, I think four movies I want to see right now.
• 4:30
  SPEAKER_00: Devil Wears Prada 2, The Sheep Detective.
• 4:34
  SPEAKER_00: Oh my God, if you haven't seen the trailer for that, go look it up.
• 4:37
  SPEAKER_00: The Sheep Detective.
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  SPEAKER_00: So good.
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  SPEAKER_00: So up my alley.
• 4:42
  SPEAKER_00: I want to see Michael and I want to see, I still want to see Hail Mary.
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  SPEAKER_00: I haven't seen that, and I heard they've kept it in the theater.
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  SPEAKER_00: So hopefully when I get back after these five days, I'm gonna be hitting the movie theater.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, after COVID, excuse me, we so got out of going to the movies, and I really love the movies.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I have a movie theater two blocks from my house.
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  SPEAKER_00: I can just walk.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not that hard, people.
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  SPEAKER_00: But for some reason, I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: I gotta get it in my head.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'll spend the afternoon here just farting around, doing nothing important, and I could be at the doggone movies.
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  SPEAKER_00: So that is my goal, is to get more movie time in.
• 5:22
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, let's see.
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  SPEAKER_00: I need someone to explain this to me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why everything now requires an app, a password, a verification code, an emotional support beverage.
• 5:36
  SPEAKER_00: Nothing is simple anymore.
• 5:37
  SPEAKER_00: So you all know I love technology.
• 5:40
  SPEAKER_00: Obviously, I do three podcasts.
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  SPEAKER_00: I record them, edit them, get them up in Spotify and Apple Podcasts.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know how to do all that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know it all doesn't mean that this part of the world is not annoying me.
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  SPEAKER_00: This two-step verification is horrific.
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  SPEAKER_00: You have my face.
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  SPEAKER_00: You've used my face, you've used my fingerprint, and yet you still want another verification.
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  SPEAKER_00: It really is annoying.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you okay, if you go into our McDonald's here, I will tell you you're either scanning a QR code that you have on the app, or you're doing something.
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  SPEAKER_00: So my McDonald's here in Chicago, on Chicago and Rush, I call it the Murder McDonald's because just before I moved here, there were nine people shot in there.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I don't live in a bad neighborhood.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was just a bad moment at that freaking McDonald's, but I do call it the murder McDonald's.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anyways, um, I'm really good at it because I love the app.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you use, here's the deal.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna talk about these things as annoying, but if you use the apps, you save a ton of money.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you do have to, you know, I know how to sit down at the table, do the app, order it so they deliver it right to my table.
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  SPEAKER_00: But all of this is annoying because people like Craig, who are not good at this, they don't have anybody at the registers anymore.
• 7:03
  SPEAKER_00: You have to either use your phone or you have to use the giant iPads that they have inside.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I know for a big group of you that that is off-putting, but it's the way of the world.
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  SPEAKER_00: So as I've told you before, get on the wham wagon.
• 7:18
  SPEAKER_00: But it's annoying.
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  SPEAKER_00: This two-step verification, um, resetting your passwords, verifying that I'm not a robot.
• 7:24
  SPEAKER_00: If somebody had told me I was going to be verifying that I'm not a robot as much as I am in my life, I would have never believed them when I was 10.
• 7:32
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm having a robot tell me I need to tell it that I'm not a robot.
• 7:38
  SPEAKER_00: Meanwhile, honestly, I'm starting to identify with that robot more than I would like to.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why does everything need an app?
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  SPEAKER_00: Let's start there.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why does everything need an app now?
• 7:50
  SPEAKER_00: Because it does.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't want an app for my refrigerator.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't want an app for my toothbrush.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't want an app to tell me I need another app.
• 8:01
  SPEAKER_00: I just want things to work.
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  SPEAKER_00: My car, my brand new car has an app.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love my brand new car, by the way.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is a Vovo.
• 8:13
  SPEAKER_00: CX60, XC60, CX60.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've driven it, I've had it for six weeks, and I've driven it a total of six times.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe seven times now because I went to the doctor.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't drive a lot here in Chicago.
• 8:28
  SPEAKER_00: But it's exhausting, and I know it's exhausting for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm coming at this from a place where I know people aren't enjoying this.
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  SPEAKER_00: And somehow every company decided, you know what would make this easier?
• 8:46
  SPEAKER_00: More technology.
• 8:47
  SPEAKER_00: No, no, it did not make it easier.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not every time you buy something, you immediately hear download our app.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I've got Craig who hates apps.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't want any more apps on my phone.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was sitting with the ladies at coffee a few weeks ago and I was telling them about the McDonald's app because you get free Friday, you get free food.
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  SPEAKER_00: The more you order, you get points.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love it.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a game for me.
• 9:14
  SPEAKER_00: I also am a huge CVS app fan.
• 9:17
  SPEAKER_00: Um, I can go to CVS and spend$65 and watch it go down to nine.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm really good at it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love it, but I don't like being told I have to do it.
• 9:27
  SPEAKER_00: And I, it bothers me that other people don't get the same perks in the world that I do because I'm an app fiend.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, Craig, I only have one page of apps.
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  SPEAKER_00: I let them all be in the library.
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  SPEAKER_00: I call them up when I need them.
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  SPEAKER_00: He's got a swipe through his phone.
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  SPEAKER_00: There's an easier way, people.
• 9:45
  SPEAKER_00: And I'm as I'm bitching and complaining about this, I'm gonna send you to the Apple store.
• 9:50
  SPEAKER_00: Go to the Apple store and let them help you.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's free for God's sakes.
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  SPEAKER_00: They have classes, they'll help you one-on-one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Tell them you don't want a hundred pages of apps, help them organize your apps.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like use the Apple store, people.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is there for you to use.
• 10:05
  SPEAKER_00: And if you have a different kind of phone, sorry, you're not in my you're not in my hemisphere.
• 10:12
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 10:14
  SPEAKER_00: All right, I got a little excited there.
• 10:17
  SPEAKER_00: You know, I'm not gonna download an app to buy a muffin.
• 10:21
  SPEAKER_00: I'm just not.
• 10:23
  SPEAKER_00: But I will if I'm gonna save a lot of money.
• 10:25
  SPEAKER_00: If that muffin's gonna be half price or I'm gonna get one free, yeah.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_00: I'd rather use an app and buy six, get one free, than have them punch those damn cards.
• 10:35
  SPEAKER_00: I have a punch card for the coffee place we drink at every day.
• 10:38
  SPEAKER_00: I still haven't gotten a free coffee and I've had it for months because I forget to use it.
• 10:42
  SPEAKER_00: I don't forget to use my apps.
• 10:44
  SPEAKER_00: So there's a positive.
• 10:47
  SPEAKER_00: This is what has me in this in a in an absolute fit.
• 10:53
  SPEAKER_00: Passwords are out of control.
• 10:54
  SPEAKER_00: At this point, passwords are basically a part-time job because apparently every account now requires 14 characters, a capital letter, a symbol, a blood sample, and your childhood trauma.
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_00: And then when you finally create one, you cannot use a password you've used before.
• 11:10
  SPEAKER_00: Who remembers what they've used before?
• 11:12
  SPEAKER_00: Honestly, half my life now is hitting forgot password.
• 11:15
  SPEAKER_00: Now I save everything to my phone, but that doesn't honestly, I still have problems.
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  SPEAKER_00: Craig has problems with this all the time.
• 11:24
  SPEAKER_00: I thought our face was supposed to be enough.
• 11:27
  SPEAKER_00: You set up a password for your face, and your face should open everything.
• 11:32
  SPEAKER_00: Does somebody else have my face that I don't know about?
• 11:35
  SPEAKER_00: How about my fingerprint?
• 11:37
  SPEAKER_00: My computer um little uh keyboard here has a fingerprint thing.
• 11:42
  SPEAKER_00: Somebody else got my fingerprint out there?
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_00: I don't think so.
• 11:45
  SPEAKER_00: I it really bugs me.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_00: All right, before I get into more of this, I have a quick little reminder.
• 11:53
  SPEAKER_00: If you missed my travel episode, I made a super travel checklist and my Sudoku, it's on my website because unlike modern technology, I wanted something that was actually easy to use.
• 12:04
  SPEAKER_00: You can print them.
• 12:06
  SPEAKER_00: It's not an app.
• 12:07
  SPEAKER_00: You can print my Sudoku um packing method, and you can my travel checklist, you can do all that.
• 12:14
  SPEAKER_00: So if you caught that episode, that you can find everything at MarcyBackett's Media.com.
• 12:21
  SPEAKER_00: All right, so oh another part that's really annoying me is the customer service.
• 12:28
  SPEAKER_00: It sucks.
• 12:31
  SPEAKER_00: Uber, if Uber screws up, which they do a lot, and you may not know this because you don't use it a lot, but in the city we use it more than most people.
• 12:40
  SPEAKER_00: It screws up a lot, and you can't ever talk to a person.
• 12:44
  SPEAKER_00: We had, I had arranged a ride for Craig and I.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_00: We were going to dinner and to the opera.
• 12:49
  SPEAKER_00: And I arranged a ride to be there at 515.
• 12:55
  SPEAKER_00: So it says your ride is on the way.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I head downstairs and I look, and my ride is quite a ways away, and it's just sitting there.
• 13:03
  SPEAKER_00: It's quite a ways away, especially in city 515 traffic.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know what it's gonna take for it to get from where it's at to me.
• 13:13
  SPEAKER_00: It's gonna be iffy if it gets there on time.
• 13:15
  SPEAKER_00: And now it's not moving.
• 13:17
  SPEAKER_00: It's not moving, it's not moving.
• 13:20
  SPEAKER_00: It's not moving.
• 13:21
  SPEAKER_00: I've waited 10 minutes.
• 13:22
  SPEAKER_00: I text the driver and I said, Look, can you cancel this ride so I can get another one?
• 13:27
  SPEAKER_00: Because here's the trick if they cancel it, you can easily get another one.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_00: If you cancel it, you're gonna get a fee.
• 13:34
  SPEAKER_00: I asked him over and over.
• 13:36
  SPEAKER_00: Nothing, nothing, nothing.
• 13:37
  SPEAKER_00: Finally, I just canceled it and we grabbed a taxi.
• 13:41
  SPEAKER_00: And then I had to deal with the charge that I was charged.
• 13:46
  SPEAKER_00: And it's really hard.
• 13:48
  SPEAKER_00: So even if you can find a number to call, you call for help and immediately enter a psychological experiment.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_00: Press one for billing, press four for support, press seven if you've completely lost the will to live.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_00: So I bought my new car.
• 14:04
  SPEAKER_00: There were some issues with my old car.
• 14:07
  SPEAKER_00: They didn't pay it off on time, and I got a thing saying I had a late payment, blah, blah, blah.
• 14:13
  SPEAKER_00: So I call.
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_00: You push all the different buttons for billing, for finance, nobody answers.
• 14:18
  SPEAKER_00: You know, the only people that answer at a car dealership is sales.
• 14:24
  SPEAKER_00: So I would call and press sales every time because I'd at least get a person.
• 14:29
  SPEAKER_00: But if I pushed finance or if I pushed anything else, Nada, no one.
• 14:33
  SPEAKER_00: Talk about frustrating, talk about losing your will to live.
• 14:37
  SPEAKER_00: And then after 20 minutes, we are experiencing higher than normal call volume.
• 14:42
  SPEAKER_00: Bullshit.
• 14:44
  SPEAKER_00: No, you are not.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_00: This is your normal volume, people.
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_00: Honestly.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_00: That one kills me.
• 14:52
  SPEAKER_00: And I don't know.
• 14:53
  SPEAKER_00: And and everybody goes, push zero.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_00: That doesn't work anymore.
• 14:56
  SPEAKER_00: Now that just hangs up on you.
• 15:01
  SPEAKER_00: Oh all right.
• 15:04
  SPEAKER_00: So then we have COVID comes along.
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_00: Made same things better, made some things worse.
• 15:10
  SPEAKER_00: I don't want a QR code for my menu.
• 15:13
  SPEAKER_00: I want to look at something bigger than my phone.
• 15:18
  SPEAKER_00: Why am I scanning a QR code still?
• 15:24
  SPEAKER_00: To see a damn cheeseburger.
• 15:26
  SPEAKER_00: I'm already hungry.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_00: I want to see it.
• 15:29
  SPEAKER_00: Now, if you need glasses, you've got to find your glasses, adjust your brightness, zoom in.
• 15:33
  SPEAKER_00: You can't see everything all at once.
• 15:35
  SPEAKER_00: It's terrible.
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_00: By the time I get to the menu, I need a damn nap.
• 15:40
  SPEAKER_00: Can I just have a laminated menu like my ancestors?
• 15:44
  SPEAKER_00: Honestly.
• 15:47
  SPEAKER_00: Honestly.
• 15:49
  SPEAKER_00: Insane.
• 15:52
  SPEAKER_00: I should not QR code your damn menus, you cheap people.
• 15:56
  SPEAKER_00: I need a full menu.
• 15:57
  SPEAKER_00: I need to look at what my options are.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_00: I need everything laid out for me.
• 16:01
  SPEAKER_00: I honestly hate the QR code menu.
• 16:05
  SPEAKER_00: I bet you're with me.
• 16:07
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 16:08
  SPEAKER_00: Here's my segment.
• 16:10
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not doing this anymore.
• 16:11
  SPEAKER_00: What is Marcy not doing this week?
• 16:14
  SPEAKER_00: Well, all right.
• 16:16
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not doing this anymore.
• 16:18
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not giving up Diet Coke.
• 16:20
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to try to give up Diet Coke.
• 16:22
  SPEAKER_00: Nobody can tell me to give up Diet Coke.
• 16:24
  SPEAKER_00: At this point, I've lived 65 years drinking Diet Coke almost every day of my life.
• 16:28
  SPEAKER_00: Obviously, I think it came out in 1982.
• 16:30
  SPEAKER_00: Since 1982, I've had a Diet Coke almost every day of my life.
• 16:34
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not dead yet.
• 16:36
  SPEAKER_00: So nope, not happening.
• 16:38
  SPEAKER_00: Not doing it.
• 16:39
  SPEAKER_00: Not doing it.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_00: I gave up alcohol.
• 16:42
  SPEAKER_00: I don't smoke.
• 16:43
  SPEAKER_00: I don't do drugs.
• 16:44
  SPEAKER_00: Diet Coke is my life.
• 16:47
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not giving it up.
• 16:49
  SPEAKER_00: People try to scare me.
• 16:51
  SPEAKER_00: It's bad for you.
• 16:52
  SPEAKER_00: You should quit.
• 16:53
  SPEAKER_00: Have sparkling water instead.
• 16:55
  SPEAKER_00: Oh no, Linda, I'm not having sparkling water.
• 16:57
  SPEAKER_00: Instead, I'm having a Diet Coke.
• 16:59
  SPEAKER_00: Listen, right here.
• 17:00
  SPEAKER_00: Here's one.
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna take a sip.
• 17:02
  SPEAKER_00: Mmm.
• 17:04
  SPEAKER_00: This I picked up.
• 17:06
  SPEAKER_00: It's a polar pop from Circle K on my way home from the gym.
• 17:09
  SPEAKER_00: So absolutely not.
• 17:11
  SPEAKER_00: At this stage of life, we all pick our thing.
• 17:13
  SPEAKER_00: And honestly, if a cold Diet Coke brings me as much joy as it does, I'm keeping it.
• 17:18
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna pretend I like flavored water, force myself to drink sadness in a can, or give up one tiny bit of my happiness at 65.
• 17:27
  SPEAKER_00: We are not doing it anymore.
• 17:29
  SPEAKER_00: All right.
• 17:29
  SPEAKER_00: Are you happy?
• 17:30
  SPEAKER_00: That's my what I'm not doing.
• 17:32
  SPEAKER_00: I'm not doing anymore.
• 17:34
  SPEAKER_00: All right, back to how technology can be exhausting.
• 17:37
  SPEAKER_00: It's real.
• 17:39
  SPEAKER_00: I don't think people talk enough about how mentally exhausting all this is.
• 17:43
  SPEAKER_00: And it really is.
• 17:44
  SPEAKER_00: I, you know, it's my TV.
• 17:48
  SPEAKER_00: I have a smart TV, and yes, it's smart, but I have an app for this and an app for that.
• 17:55
  SPEAKER_00: I used to, can we just go back to cable where it was all in one place?
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_00: I have an app for Netflix, I have all these different things.
• 18:02
  SPEAKER_00: I have my TV is on um Xfinity, so I have the Xfinity app.
• 18:07
  SPEAKER_00: It's the worst.
• 18:08
  SPEAKER_00: You'll be watching, and all of a sudden you realize that the voices and the mouths are not moving at the same thing.
• 18:15
  SPEAKER_00: This is an Xfinity app problem.
• 18:18
  SPEAKER_00: It is not my TV, it is not my internet, it is none of it, it is Xfinity.
• 18:23
  SPEAKER_00: Here's the problem: Xfinity comes as part of my homeowners association.
• 18:29
  SPEAKER_00: So I'm already paying for it.
• 18:30
  SPEAKER_00: So if I get another subscription service like YouTube TV, which we had for a while, I'm double paying and I'm not doing that anymore.
• 18:39
  SPEAKER_00: So I have to put up with that damn Xfinity app and have, you know, it doesn't load, and you're trying to change channels.
• 18:45
  SPEAKER_00: And if you start thinking about the amount of time you spend on technology a day, it's obnoxious.
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_00: Because it's not just learning new things, updating devices, and remembering passwords.
• 18:58
  SPEAKER_00: It's a constant.
• 19:00
  SPEAKER_00: It's updates, it's notifications, it's alerts, it's subscriptions, it's email.
• 19:04
  SPEAKER_00: And honestly, my phone has become a full-time manager.
• 19:07
  SPEAKER_00: I never hired.
• 19:10
  SPEAKER_00: And we're not bad at technology.
• 19:12
  SPEAKER_00: We're just freaking tired.
• 19:14
  SPEAKER_00: And let me say something important here.
• 19:16
  SPEAKER_00: We are not stupid.
• 19:18
  SPEAKER_00: We are not behind.
• 19:20
  SPEAKER_00: We grew up learning actual maps, phone numbers.
• 19:24
  SPEAKER_00: We memorized phone numbers.
• 19:25
  SPEAKER_00: We looked at maps to get us here and there.
• 19:28
  SPEAKER_00: We figured out directions.
• 19:31
  SPEAKER_00: We knew how to function without Wi-Fi.
• 19:34
  SPEAKER_00: We adapted to more technological change than any other generation ever.
• 19:39
  SPEAKER_00: We started with albums.
• 19:41
  SPEAKER_00: We went to four-track, eight-track, cassette, CD, and now MP files.
• 19:50
  SPEAKER_00: We know how to change.
• 19:51
  SPEAKER_00: We know how to adapt.
• 19:52
  SPEAKER_00: We're not incapable.
• 19:54
  SPEAKER_00: We're exhausted people.
• 19:56
  SPEAKER_00: There's a difference.
• 19:58
  SPEAKER_00: All right, a quick pause.
• 20:00
  SPEAKER_00: I want to make sure you know where else to find me.
• 20:03
  SPEAKER_00: If you're loving this conversation, and who wouldn't?
• 20:06
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• 20:17
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• 20:24
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• 20:25
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• 20:36
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• 20:38
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• 20:42
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• 20:44
  SPEAKER_00: Go check it out and then come right back here.
• 20:50
  SPEAKER_00: So I think I think that's the real issue.
• 20:54
  SPEAKER_00: Nothing feels simple anymore.
• 20:56
  SPEAKER_00: Everything feels layered, complicated, time consuming, and honestly, people are craving ease now.
• 21:03
  SPEAKER_00: Not perfection, not productivity, just ease.
• 21:08
  SPEAKER_00: And maybe that's one of the biggest lessons of aging.
• 21:11
  SPEAKER_00: Simplify where we can, because life is hard enough already.
• 21:17
  SPEAKER_00: So here's what we're rec I'm reclaiming.
• 21:20
  SPEAKER_00: Um, I want you to too.
• 21:22
  SPEAKER_00: Paper boarding passes.
• 21:24
  SPEAKER_00: Well, personally, I like a paper boarding pass because if you know me and you know my hands, my hands are a hot mess, and holding my phone and trying to get it right, I hate it.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_00: So I, who had embraced the technology of boarding passes long before most people have gone back to the simple paper boarding passes.
• 21:45
  SPEAKER_00: Writing things down.
• 21:47
  SPEAKER_00: I do write things down.
• 21:51
  SPEAKER_00: Saying, just call me.
• 21:53
  SPEAKER_00: Using cash occasionally.
• 21:55
  SPEAKER_00: Yes, I stopped and got$200 in cash today, and I love um.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_00: The bank that I stop at, I can use my phone.
• 22:04
  SPEAKER_00: Talk about technology.
• 22:05
  SPEAKER_00: I don't have to have my card with me.
• 22:07
  SPEAKER_00: I use my phone and I'm able to pick all the denominations of the bills, which I absolutely love.
• 22:14
  SPEAKER_00: But I do use cash.
• 22:16
  SPEAKER_00: These are tiny rebellions, but honestly, they make life feel a little more human.
• 22:24
  SPEAKER_00: So if you've been feeling overwhelmed by how complicated everything has become, you're not alone.
• 22:29
  SPEAKER_00: It's and it's not just you.
• 22:31
  SPEAKER_00: The world really has become more complicated.
• 22:34
  SPEAKER_00: And maybe the answer isn't keeping up with everything.
• 22:37
  SPEAKER_00: Maybe the answer is simplifying where we can.
• 22:40
  SPEAKER_00: Because around here, we're not aging quietly.
• 22:43
  SPEAKER_00: We are aging intentionally.
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_00: I want to thank you as always for spending time with me today.
• 22:48
  SPEAKER_00: If this episode made you laugh, nod your head, or almost throw the phone across the room remembering a password reset.
• 22:56
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• 23:00
  SPEAKER_00: Because we've got a lot more life to live and we're going to do it our way.
• 23:05
  SPEAKER_00: Don't forget, if you need to see me, I'll be at Disneyland next Tuesday having a personal appearance.
• 23:11
  SPEAKER_00: Catch me there.
• 23:12
  SPEAKER_00: I'll see you next time.