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BONUS: Jax Taylor or Jesse Lally? And… Don’t Care! Unfollowed! Goodbye! · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, My loves, Welcome to the bonus episode of the
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  Speaker 1: Give Them La La Podcast by Gorgeous Girl. I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to hone in on relationships, friendships, a couple topics that
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  Speaker 1: I was really interested in. I asked you guys on
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  Speaker 1: the Give Them La La podcast page, which is give
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  Speaker 1: those of you who don't follow, like that follow button
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  Speaker 1: because I love audience participation. My first question on the
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  Speaker 1: heels of Durrey Kemsley filing for divorce one day after
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  Speaker 1: PK was seen kissing a Oh was you on the
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  Speaker 1: Amazing Race? I think it was what it was they
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  Speaker 1: were seen kissing. The next day, dere files for divorce.
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  Speaker 1: We spoke about this on the normal episode last week,
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  Speaker 1: but I wanted to know during a separation, can you
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  Speaker 1: still see other people. I have a pretty strong opinion
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  Speaker 1: about this, okay, because when you take two people who
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  Speaker 1: are in a relationship and you've been intimate. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: firm believer of relationships are already very, very complicated. When
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  Speaker 1: you add intimacy into it, there's a level of annoyance
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  Speaker 1: that comes with it. Like I think about things that
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  Speaker 1: happen throughout the day. Lily, who can't walk and she
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  Speaker 1: cries all the livelong day, sometimes poops herself. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: if I were dealing with this not with my mom,
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  Speaker 1: but dealing with it with a partner, where I've got
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  Speaker 1: two kids who are making a mess. Sosa, you know,
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  Speaker 1: is still a baby. Lily shits herself. If you added
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  Speaker 1: a partner who I'm intimate with, it could add a
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  Speaker 1: tremendous level of stress, right.
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  Speaker 2: But it shouldn't. It just does.
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  Speaker 1: That's very true, and that's why over fifty percent of
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  Speaker 1: marriages don't work out, because a lot of things come
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  Speaker 1: into the mix and people don't evolve together. Chances are,
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  Speaker 1: when two people decide let's hit pause, one person is
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  Speaker 1: probably picturing this pause differently than the other person. I
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  Speaker 1: think it has to be something that you lay out very,
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  Speaker 1: very clearly during this separation. My intent is to gather
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  Speaker 1: clarity in this moment. I want to take time to myself.
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  Speaker 1: I want to feel what it's like to be on
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  Speaker 1: my own. If at any point in time, the feeling
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  Speaker 1: of being alone leads to I don't want to be alone,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't want to be with you, I will
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  Speaker 1: convey that to you and let you know I would
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  Speaker 1: like to see other people. Now you have to wait
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  Speaker 1: for their response. What if the other person is like, well,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to see other peopeople, or I'm dead
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  Speaker 1: set on during the separation test in the waters. At
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  Speaker 1: that point in time, I think you now know you
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  Speaker 1: have no choice. But then there's the flip side. What
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  Speaker 1: if you go out and you test the waters and
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  Speaker 1: you're like, I actually don't want to be with anybody
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  Speaker 1: but you.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know what people are saying, but
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  Speaker 2: the only thing I could say is conversation, and then
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  Speaker 2: from that it's going to be a personal however they
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  Speaker 2: take it.
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  Speaker 1: The conversation. It's like communication the key to success in
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  Speaker 1: any relationship, yet it is the most complex, most difficult
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  Speaker 1: thing to have in all relationships. And actually the comment
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  Speaker 1: section of this question was kind of on our same page.
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  Speaker 1: Like communication, but when you get to that point, it
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  Speaker 1: actually becomes very difficult because you don't know what you want.
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  Speaker 1: That's why you're going the separation route rather than straight
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  Speaker 1: to divorce. So Mace Underscore Hunters six one eight says,
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  Speaker 1: I think it depends is the marriage one hundred and
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  Speaker 1: ten percent over or is one person still hoping to reconcile.
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  Speaker 1: I believe that Deret she had said, I'm still very
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  Speaker 1: much in love with him. That's where it gets very,
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  Speaker 1: very difficult. I think if you have someone and you're
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  Speaker 1: in the public eye, and you have one person saying
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  Speaker 1: I'm still in love with you. I'm not seeing anybody,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm open to it. The other person should at
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  Speaker 1: least have enough respect for you, especially as the mother
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  Speaker 1: or father of your children, to not go out and
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  Speaker 1: display affection for someone else until a divorce has happened.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's communication. And all I'm thinking about right now.
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  Speaker 2: And all of this is the movie Hall Pass.
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  Speaker 1: Oh God, that ended bad for everyone. By the way, Uh,
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  Speaker 1: who did it not end bad?
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  Speaker 2: Pole Past? They all they get together. Yeah, it ends
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  Speaker 2: well for everyone. Oh so yeah, a lot of But.
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  Speaker 1: I mean it is it'll see the extent. Then you
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  Speaker 1: got to worry about the aftermath. You make up. But
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  Speaker 1: then it's it's in your mind, like, oh, he touched
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  Speaker 1: another woman.
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  Speaker 2: But that's where it's going to be up to the
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  Speaker 2: person who was doing it, because say you're in a relationship,
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  Speaker 2: yeah you want to make it work. He wants to
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  Speaker 2: test the waters. You aren't gonna be okay with that,
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  Speaker 2: But there is going to be somebody that is like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: go and do it. Maybe you'll do it too, him
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  Speaker 2: going out and testing it and maybe coming back and
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  Speaker 2: then treating you like you should have been treated the
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  Speaker 2: whole time, like oh my god, I didn't know what
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  Speaker 2: I had.
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  Speaker 1: I would have thought, why couldn't you do this before
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  Speaker 1: you went? And that's the other And that's why I
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  Speaker 1: know any any cheating involved your your where John, I
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  Speaker 1: can I can never get over it. Agreed, underscore cute
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  Speaker 1: underscore Nova says, no, finish the drama and then move
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  Speaker 1: on fully Agree Mommy net seventy six, Mommy net seventy
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  Speaker 1: six if you agree to, but I don't think you
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  Speaker 1: should if you want to get back together. See so simple,
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  Speaker 1: Yet it's so difficult, right.
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  Speaker 2: It's so difficult because it's it's emotions.
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  Speaker 1: And right when it's a hypothetical, you're able to be logical.
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  Speaker 1: I know, Candice Phoenix, Yes, if you want separation to
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  Speaker 1: lead to divorce, laughing crying face, absolutely yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Kissed a girl divorce next day.
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  Speaker 1: That is so sad. My next question was when a
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  Speaker 1: breakup happens, must you pick a side? These were interesting
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  Speaker 1: Heidi with three Eyes at the end underscore, And it
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  Speaker 1: depends on how bad it is and what the relationships
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  Speaker 1: were like before Rachel Underscore Huser. It depends on why
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  Speaker 1: the breakup happened. If there is cheating one thousand percent
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  Speaker 1: Melanie zero two to one, Oof feel like it depends
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  Speaker 1: on the situation, mutual breakup, fine, cheating DV Then I
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  Speaker 1: I'd choose Blair period Segel. I'd say yes ninety percent
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  Speaker 1: of the time. You need to pick a side. Again,
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  Speaker 1: It's so interesting when we're talking about a hypothetical and
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  Speaker 1: your emotions are not involved. Intimacy was never there. You
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  Speaker 1: have no you don't have memories and history. It's easy
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  Speaker 1: to say what you should or shouldn't be doing.
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  Speaker 2: Hindsight's twenty twenty.
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  Speaker 1: I think you evaluate your relationship with each person, and
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  Speaker 1: you need to know if you're choosing to not pick
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  Speaker 1: a side, who is more more important to you? Well, oh,
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  Speaker 1: you value more.
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  Speaker 2: In my opinion, Yeah, you always ride with the one
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  Speaker 2: who you knew before the relationship, right whether okay, And
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  Speaker 2: that's that's just me. If I'm if I got my
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  Speaker 2: homie and then they start dating and they're dating for
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  Speaker 2: two years and I gat like a relationship with her.
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  Speaker 2: If they break up, I'm done. I don't need you.
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  Speaker 2: I was talking to you because my homie was dating you.
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  Speaker 2: Totally don't care. But I've also had friends that we're
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  Speaker 2: talking in the same friend group that date and then
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  Speaker 2: break up. And now it's like pick sides. And they
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  Speaker 2: even came to me and I was like, I will
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  Speaker 2: not pick a side because I didn't get a choice
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  Speaker 2: in you guys dating, did I? So you don't get
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  Speaker 2: a choice on me picking a side.
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  Speaker 1: What if you're friends with the person who cheated and
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  Speaker 1: you liked the girl.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, then I'm gonna sit down with my homie and
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  Speaker 2: just say just to let you know, I will be
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  Speaker 2: in like contact with her. She's an amazing girl and
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  Speaker 2: you really fucked up.
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  Speaker 1: She's also super hot, so I also may.
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  Speaker 2: No, I would never do that. Never, that's no, that's
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  Speaker 2: homie rules.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, until you drink, and then you know, homie rules.
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  Speaker 2: For me, not for you.
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  Speaker 1: Sober it would be difficult with the whole mo Kyle P.
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  Speaker 1: K Dey because they were friends, but you show that's
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  Speaker 1: even no, no, no, nope, nope. I will forever stand by
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  Speaker 1: the fact that Bravo has done such an incredible job
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  Speaker 1: of putting women together where there's history, true friendship start,
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  Speaker 1: and maybe the baseline for some of them was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: we filmed a show together, but off camera. Alex Baskin
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  Speaker 1: said it perfectly. He did a podcast and he was like,
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  Speaker 1: the moment cameras go down, and he was specifically talking
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  Speaker 1: about Vander pump Roules, but let's remember he does oc
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  Speaker 1: he does for the moment you put cameras down, you
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  Speaker 1: get a pin in your stomach because you're missing story.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah you know, yeah, I saw him say that. He goes,
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  Speaker 2: it's it's hard to put the cameras down because you
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  Speaker 2: know when you do, there's a multiple, like a multitude
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  Speaker 2: of stories still happening that we're.
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  Speaker 1: Missing exactly this next one. So I I jacked this
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  Speaker 1: from What's what Happens Life? Don't laugh. But Andy asked,
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  Speaker 1: he did an audience pull and he said, uh, who
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  Speaker 1: would you rather have as your ex? Jack's Taylor or Jesse?
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, I'm gonna save my opinion. I want you
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  Speaker 1: to save your opinions as who Okay, Oh I want
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  Speaker 1: to know so bad to save it. Okay, Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, this good Heidi Underscore and oh Jesus
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  Speaker 1: neither upside down smiley face, Happy life for you too.
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  Speaker 1: Love that Instagram name death Jesse even though he seems
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  Speaker 1: way difficult Sheila Underscore see Underscore, Hodges Jesse. There were
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  Speaker 1: more people that said Jesse than Jack's shocker.
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  Speaker 2: It really is a shocker.
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  Speaker 1: And don't don't no, don't don't spell what you think
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  Speaker 1: Melanie zero two one, OMG. I'd rather eat ship than
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  Speaker 1: choose Wow. If you're willing to eat shit where you
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  Speaker 1: could like potentially get e coal I and die.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd rather poop and shove it back in me
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  Speaker 2: than date anyone whatever comes with that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, Blake, Marie Benson, Jesse, Amberlee, Oh Lord, Jesse
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  Speaker 1: all day and then this person Justine Underscore and Jacks Easton.
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  Speaker 1: Who would you like as your ex?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, man, honestly, from a man's perspective, it's easy
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  Speaker 2: for me and I don't know Jesse well enough. And
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  Speaker 2: maybe I've missed out on a lot of things that
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  Speaker 2: Jax has done, But in my opinion, Jack's because his
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  Speaker 2: his like the things that he's fucked up on. I
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  Speaker 2: don't think we're on purpose or intentional.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, very different perspective than I do.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, Like I think he's dealing with what he's dealing with,
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  Speaker 2: he's finding that that help he needs and he will
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  Speaker 2: be a I think Jax was an amazing person before
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  Speaker 2: just seeing the hearing about him before the addiction. I
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  Speaker 2: was a part of the thing.
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  Speaker 1: The amount of jack rolling that's going to happen. Let's
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  Speaker 1: make this very clear though, because I'm protective of you,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going off. Always been on the fringe. Easton does
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  Speaker 1: knocket his hands dirty. He doesn't like being boots on
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  Speaker 1: the ground. He stays out of people's business. Yet here
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  Speaker 1: he is on the podcast where I forced him to
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  Speaker 1: be in everyone's business.
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  Speaker 2: I'll put it this way. Jackson's fuck ups don't seem
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  Speaker 2: intentional for Jesse.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I'm trying to understand where you're coming.
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  Speaker 2: He may have been on drugs, he may have been
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  Speaker 2: on something and dealing with the demons that he was
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  Speaker 2: dealing with and doing things based off of being out
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  Speaker 2: of his mind, okay, and doing things, Yes, they could
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  Speaker 2: have looked intentional, and maybe they were. But for me,
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  Speaker 2: him going and doing what he's doing, it doesn't look
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  Speaker 2: like a lot of things are intentional. When Jesse literally
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  Speaker 2: said my job is now to make her life.
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  Speaker 1: Help, Okay, under that is why I would pat Jakes.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think Jack's intentionally does things. He's out of
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  Speaker 2: his own mind, and maybe when these things are coming
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  Speaker 2: he could have been on something here and there. So
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  Speaker 2: I'm looking from an attic standpoint in myself of I've
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  Speaker 2: done a lot of things that weren't intentional that I'm
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  Speaker 2: very like, okay, upset about.
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  Speaker 1: And I know she is the soft side of this.
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  Speaker 2: But and I mean, I don't know. I don't watch
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  Speaker 2: the shows and all of that. I just watched the
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  Speaker 2: Jesse things for when I heard him say my job
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  Speaker 2: is to make her life hell, okay, that is the
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  Speaker 2: one thing that said one hundred person.
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  Speaker 1: By the way, you and I are choosing the same
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  Speaker 1: person as our ex, I too would choose Jacks.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, my reasoning is different.
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  Speaker 1: I still stand by the fact that both Jack's well,
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  Speaker 1: Jacks has been diagnosed as a narcissist. I believe that
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  Speaker 1: Jesse is one hundred percent a narcissist. No one is
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  Speaker 1: ever going to tell me to stop screaming the word
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  Speaker 1: narcissist from the rooftops because I just think that it's
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  Speaker 1: something that people don't see the signs for and instead
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  Speaker 1: of telling me that I shouldn't talk about it or
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  Speaker 1: call people that you should be saying thank you, because
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  Speaker 1: once you have a child with a narcissist, your life
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  Speaker 1: becomes hell. That being said, I would pick Jack's over
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  Speaker 1: Jesse because Jack's and I get what you're saying, it's
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  Speaker 1: not intentional. However, it's not intentional because he's so much
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  Speaker 1: because he's a narcissist, which means he can't help himself,
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  Speaker 1: but then to maneuver in a way that is just
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  Speaker 1: so destructive and he's sabotagus. This is why I would
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  Speaker 1: pick him. The way that he goes about things. He's
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  Speaker 1: very manipulative, but he's and I don't want to say
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  Speaker 1: he's not smart enough, but I'm going to say he's
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  Speaker 1: not smart enough to be calculated. He's too transparent in
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  Speaker 1: his calculations, which is great, and we're watching it on
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  Speaker 1: the show. Although he is a nightmare and he's stalking
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  Speaker 1: her and doing those things. He's stalking you. When you
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  Speaker 1: have ring camera footage, you can call the cops and
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  Speaker 1: immediately have something done. He's acting a certain way, and
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  Speaker 1: you have ring footage to show that there was a
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  Speaker 1: point in time that he made the household unsafe while
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  Speaker 1: your son was there. He would be very very easy
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  Speaker 1: to go up against in court for custody and including Okay, no,
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  Speaker 1: I thought, I've thought so long and hard about this,
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  Speaker 1: you guys. He also is not smart enough. I hate
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  Speaker 1: saying that. It sounds so rude, but I'm just saying it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck.
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  Speaker 2: No, I don't think he's he's not smart enough.
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  Speaker 1: Or that, or maybe his addiction has been in play.
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  Speaker 2: And that's where I'm there all of these things. Again,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not a doctor that he has to dig again
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  Speaker 2: and again in that cannot cure narcissism.
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  Speaker 1: That's first and foremost. Addiction or not you're an addict,
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  Speaker 1: has nothing to do with your narcissism. Okay, that is
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  Speaker 1: still alive and well. In a narcissist, it takes immense
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  Speaker 1: help and every day, uh, someone boots on the ground
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  Speaker 1: with you, talking you through situations on how a normal
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  Speaker 1: person would process something like this. Jesse, I would never
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  Speaker 1: want him as my ex because he is so calculated.
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  Speaker 1: He will make your life hell. He will make sure
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  Speaker 1: because he he goes through his calculations right, and nothing
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  Speaker 1: he does would ever. He will never be caught dead
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  Speaker 1: on camera. He will never be caught dead doing something
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  Speaker 1: while the child is in his care. So if she
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  Speaker 1: ever went to a judge, that judge would immediately say,
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  Speaker 1: squeaky clean, he's making your life miserable, but he's really
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  Speaker 1: good to the daughter, stay care. Exactly, I would choose
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  Speaker 1: Jack's any fucking day because he would make the job
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  Speaker 1: so easy. Jesse sounds like a nightmare.
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  Speaker 2: Of an ex just for him to just say that.
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  Speaker 2: And I know it's TV and he's maybe reaching for
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  Speaker 2: like a thing.
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  Speaker 1: But and you want to know what if he walked in,
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  Speaker 1: if Michelle wanted to walk in and say, look, he's
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  Speaker 1: purposely trying to make my life miser you want to
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  Speaker 1: know what they would say, you chose to have a
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  Speaker 1: child with him?
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  Speaker 2: Well, not this guy. They do not.
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  Speaker 1: System works. I sit here and I want to scream
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  Speaker 1: at the top of my lungs. And this is why
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  Speaker 1: I will never stop talking about narcissism, because it's like,
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  Speaker 1: once you have a child with them, you are so
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  Speaker 1: fucking fucked. I needed a double.
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  Speaker 2: If you guys are pregnant and needing to have a baby.
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  Speaker 1: Go to Utah.
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  Speaker 2: Women have all the rights there over the child.
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  Speaker 1: Well, actually, Utah has been in a lot of hot
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  Speaker 1: water for a lot of the things that they've Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: no core system has it down to a tee and
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  Speaker 1: no court system, no matter where you are, is practicing
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  Speaker 1: what is best for the child. They believe that a
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  Speaker 1: father present in the child's life curiat is better than
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  Speaker 1: a dysfunctional one out of the picture.
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  Speaker 2: That is.
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  Speaker 1: So it's it's tough, and that's I'm sticking to it.
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  Speaker 1: I would we went into who would you rather have
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  Speaker 1: as your ex but I'm more deep dived into who
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  Speaker 1: would I rather have is go into court with exactly?
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  Speaker 1: Who would I rather not have is my baby daddy. Sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I hope that didn't get too dark. I want to
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  Speaker 1: leave it on less of a dark note and more
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  Speaker 1: of a petty note. So Garcelan followed the cast of
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  Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. I asked you guys if it was petty
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  Speaker 1: Lauren and Tyrrell says very petty, Meg VP underscore yeg
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  Speaker 1: beyond Aaron Lindsay Ellis said kind of happy life for
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  Speaker 1: you too, love garcel But yes, it is petty. Bring
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  Speaker 1: me back. No, bring them back two six Nope. Peace
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: of Mind PLN nineteen seventy eight. Yes, she is so
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: calculated and knew what she was doing from the beginning
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: of the reunion.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: I I'm gonna play Devil's advocate, okay, and just say.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Like.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: You were on a show that you're no longer part of.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Why follow the people that are now filming and you
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: have to see the show that you're part of. Your
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: wanting to get away? She could follow them back in
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: a year or two and just take this away of
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: the year of like, now filming is going, I don't
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: even want to see what they're filming. I want to
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: live away, right, So that's my thing of Like, it's
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: not petty. She unfollowed things that she didn't want to
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: see on her timeline.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: I fully agree with you bring them back to six No,
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: peace of Mind. I'm fully on her same page. So
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: many people, like when I unfollowed some of my cast
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: people were like it was petty. They still follow her.
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: They're unbothered, and it's like, but I'm muted, So to me,
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: that's not unbothered. That's just fake. Just unfollow me. If
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: you're gonna mute mellowing.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: That's the thing, Like, I think.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: It's really actually freaking real of Garcel to be like,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: I don't give a shit about what you're doing. So
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna mute you. I'm gonna take it a
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: step further and kind of erase you. Let me put it,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: I don't want to see your content. It doesn't make
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: me feel good, so be gone.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: Not only that, let me put it this way, when
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: you are for me? If I was at work, I
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: worked for Standard Optical. Yeah, once I quick I unfollowed them.
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: I don't need to know what Standard Optical is doing.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: I don't need to see any of it, just like
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: she doesn't need to see what her workplace is totally.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: That's the thing. People are looking at it like petty friends.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: This that's work, that still is work. Yeah, So for
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: her to unfollow, she just doesn't want to work for
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: a year. Let her go to the beautiful home she
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: just purchased it and relaxed for a year. And maybe
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: we'll even see Garcel back on TV.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: You don't know, Maybe she needs to know her.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Fucking not looked at as petty well, and she doesn't
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: want to see the shit she just left.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: I totally get it, and I'm all about, like you
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: have to do life is so subd, but it is
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: sometimes I don't think it's petty at all. I think
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: she looked at her life said this no longer makes
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: me feel good seeing this. There's no reason for mute
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: meet a mute them because she's probably a weirdo like
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: me and is like, but they're taking up space in
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: my following, and I don't want to. I don't want
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: my following to look really high. I want my following
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: to look very high. I don't want the people on
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: following that number to look really high. So just get
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: rid of only.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: That you don't care about. Like when I see people
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: and they're following like a thousand or more, I'm like,
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: I'm following seven hundred. I don't even know seven hundred people.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: before we sign off. I'm so done with everyone being
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: like I love it. She's so unbothered. No, bitch, I'm bothered,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: And you know what, I'm real. I'm not gonna sit
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: here and pretend like I'm unbothered just to like make
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: myself look cool. No, I'm bothered. I'm unfollowing your acts.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Call it petty, call it bothered, call it what it is.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: All the things, don't care, unfollowed, goodbye, living a good life.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: This could be the best thing for Garcel, and not
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: only for Garcel, all of us. What if Garcel goes
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: and takes a year and she comes back just the
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: same bad bitch? But batter and how.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: Did you see the photo I post it? Ever, you
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: guys know I've already told her. I'm not a huge fan,
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: but I give credit where credit is due. That's no
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: bad bitch.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Garcela is very beautiful, banging. I honestly loved her. Look
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: for the reunion too like this, and I love her.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: I can't even touch my phone. I was dying. I
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: was laughing, but no, I I really do love her.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: And no, get rid of all of your followings. Don't
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: follow anybody, follow your kids and people you love and
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: go enjoy your time off Garcal Jesus Christ.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: My favorite before we sign off at the reunion, when
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: someone was like, what are your what are you feeling
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: with what gar Sella is saying? Or no, what are
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: you feeling with what Sutton is saying? She goes, I'm
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: not really worried about Sutton right now, I'm only thinking
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: about me.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: I was like good for her because I also will
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: say that could I I would have been hurt. Yeah,
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: very you did you ride like that for her and
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: then like you give her praise at it like you
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: would assume like she would have at least given you something,
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: And then one more just to be seen.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: She put her neck on the line every time for son.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: What she went through with the reunion was child's play,
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: but she did. I could tell she was deeply hurt.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: Forgot for Garcela to go to a gus and meet
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: her family. That enough right there, says But go close with.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Her mother on behalf of like Sutton, and you need
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: to tell her you're proud of No.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: Again, credit where credit is due you guys. I hope
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: you enjoyed this episode of the Bonus Podcast. Uh We're
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: going to catch you on Wednesday for a regular episode
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: and again next week. Bye.