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- 0:00Speaker 1: I with Alexi Napola and Marisa Patton an iHeartRadio podcast.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Hi guys, welcome to another episode.
- 0:10Speaker 1: Of that was great?
- 0:14Speaker 2: How did we do that in unison sync? Yes?
- 0:17Speaker 1: Yeah, we see b and Benidos welcome back. We had
- 0:20Speaker 1: a lot of trash to talk today, don't with my friend?
- 0:23Speaker 2: Oh per usual for her. I think we're pretty good
- 0:25Speaker 2: at it, and I know that you guys love listening
- 0:27Speaker 2: to us, and I guess we should just start by
- 0:30Speaker 2: playing a quick catchup, right, jump on in. By the way,
- 0:34Speaker 2: did you see? Us Weekly reported that many illustors avoided
- 0:38Speaker 2: taking pictures or asking to be taking pictures with Megan
- 0:42Speaker 2: Markle at the lavish Hampton's gathering.
- 0:46Speaker 1: I get Bana, Bana, Hannah. I just I don't.
- 0:51Speaker 2: Why does she still just good anyway? We're so embarrassed
- 0:55Speaker 2: for her?
- 0:56Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we're embarrassed for her. Why does she go anywhere?
- 0:59Speaker 1: And anyway? Every time she goes out, everyone gets like
- 1:02Speaker 1: pissed off and nobody wants to be around her. It's
- 1:06Speaker 1: she's just like.
- 1:07Speaker 2: This, does she even realize it? I think that she
- 1:09Speaker 2: thinks she's like so above all that that she doesn't
- 1:11Speaker 2: even realize that people really don't like her, want to
- 1:14Speaker 2: take a picture with her. I yeah, So one source
- 1:17Speaker 2: said that they knew that if they're in a picture
- 1:20Speaker 2: with her, which means Megan, it is an approval of
- 1:25Speaker 2: her that she can't use to promote herself.
- 1:30Speaker 1: Oh right, So people don't want to take a picture
- 1:32Speaker 1: with her because they think that she's going to use
- 1:35Speaker 1: it to promote her thing, her projects, whatever it is,
- 1:39Speaker 1: whatever it may be, Like she wants people to believe her,
- 1:43Speaker 1: right right. But I thought it was funny that it's
- 1:45Speaker 1: Gweneth Paltrow. Yeah, that she's not very liked either. Nicol
- 1:50Speaker 1: wants a picture anyway, She's She's probably like, look, nobody
- 1:54Speaker 1: likes me. So I'm talking definitely not taking a picture.
- 1:56Speaker 1: I am Megan, get away from me.
- 2:00Speaker 2: I got enough troubles on my own exactly. I mean,
- 2:02Speaker 2: I just thought it was like a poor choice, Like,
- 2:04Speaker 2: if you want to take a picture, it's not going
- 2:05Speaker 2: to be with gwen because by the way, nobody likes
- 2:08Speaker 2: her and YouTube together, like, it's not going anywhere, are
- 2:11Speaker 2: they right? So the big question is, really, have you
- 2:14Speaker 2: ever avoided someone out a function?
- 2:16Speaker 1: Oh? Actually, I have a really good story and you
- 2:19Speaker 1: were there like usual okay, well I want to hear it.
- 2:23Speaker 2: Okay, remind me of that good story.
- 2:24Speaker 1: Do you remember this summer when we went to Madonna's
- 2:28Speaker 1: son's art Guy.
- 2:29Speaker 2: You already that one.
- 2:31Speaker 1: I knew it was that one.
- 2:33Speaker 2: Say it?
- 2:34Speaker 1: So we Alexi and I obviously are invited to an
- 2:40Speaker 1: art showing for rocker Richie. He was an amazing artist,
- 2:42Speaker 1: Madonna's son with Guy Ritchie and the people that were
- 2:47Speaker 1: throwing it on. The minute I walk in the door,
- 2:50Speaker 1: come running up to me and going, oh my god,
- 2:53Speaker 1: Adriana from your show showed up. She wasn't invited. I'm
- 2:56Speaker 1: so sorry we didn't invite her. We're so sorry. Please
- 3:00Speaker 1: don't leave. I mean, we know, you know, we want
- 3:02Speaker 1: you in Alexia here, but we don't want her here.
- 3:05Speaker 1: Right the way, Yeah, nobody even noticed her, you know,
- 3:08Speaker 1: I mean I was trying not to know. I mean,
- 3:10Speaker 1: she's easy to miss. But anyway, fast forward with that
- 3:14Speaker 1: being said, uh huh. So then a photographer comes out
- 3:18Speaker 1: to me and says, hey, let's get a group picture,
- 3:20Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, sure, And all of a sudden
- 3:22Speaker 1: I'm standing next to Adriana. I go, oh no, no,
- 3:23Speaker 1: wait wait, I'll be right back and I go grab
- 3:26Speaker 1: Alexia and I said, Adrianna wants a picture with us?
- 3:29Speaker 1: And Alexia's like, hell, no, of course.
- 3:31Speaker 2: Not so at that moment, I'm like, are you kidding me?
- 3:33Speaker 2: Like Adriana wants a picture with us to validate or
- 3:36Speaker 2: to pretend they were in good terms and were in
- 3:38Speaker 2: speaking terms, and she's my friend, and guess what, I'm
- 3:41Speaker 2: not doing that. I'm not falling into that now. So
- 3:43Speaker 2: I know the photographer didn't like it, because of course
- 3:45Speaker 2: he wanted that picture of the three of us, and I,
- 3:48Speaker 2: you know, very quickly said absolutely not, pretty much like
- 3:52Speaker 2: in her face. And I was like, okay with it.
- 3:55Speaker 2: It's like I can't be a hypocrite that aya.
- 3:57Speaker 1: But then she called you out and when you were.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Leaving it so she you know, became who she is,
- 4:01Speaker 2: like a housewife. Moment the cameras weren't there, and she
- 4:04Speaker 2: actually chased me outside. Yeah, and she's like, you know,
- 4:08Speaker 2: you should have taken that picture with me. I don't
- 4:09Speaker 2: know where you want a picture with me? And I go,
- 4:11Speaker 2: why don't I want a picture with you? I know, like,
- 4:13Speaker 2: are you kidding me? You've been insulting me all season
- 4:15Speaker 2: and making up lies you know about my family and
- 4:19Speaker 2: you know, just going after me every season, and now
- 4:21Speaker 2: you want a picture with me, Like I'm not that
- 4:23Speaker 2: kind of friend. Yeah, Like I take pictures with my friends,
- 4:26Speaker 2: with people that I like and I admire or fra respect.
- 4:30Speaker 1: If you want to say you're our fan, then maybe
- 4:32Speaker 1: we'll let you know what.
- 4:34Speaker 2: Maybe no, no, my fans.
- 4:35Speaker 1: I love my family.
- 4:36Speaker 2: I mean her right, Well, maybe that's what she was
- 4:38Speaker 2: trying to do. Fan. I feel like a lot of
- 4:40Speaker 2: people are very strategic about that, and I feel like
- 4:43Speaker 2: Megan is one of those people. You know, she just
- 4:45Speaker 2: goes to events, you know, to get that picture and
- 4:47Speaker 2: you know, to have like, you know, a false narrative
- 4:50Speaker 2: of who she is and who her friends are and
- 4:52Speaker 2: her story and just to use it later on.
- 4:54Speaker 1: I Unfortunately, for her, there's just nothing she does seems
- 4:58Speaker 1: to feel authentic and right. It just always seems like
- 5:02Speaker 1: bad acting.
- 5:04Speaker 2: I agree, Well that's not why she's acting. I mean,
- 5:06Speaker 2: I feel like that's why she's not acting, because like
- 5:09Speaker 2: she's not even a good actress. I've never been I've
- 5:11Speaker 2: never really cared for her.
- 5:12Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know she wasn't until she did
- 5:14Speaker 1: at Megan, I mean, sorry, Harry. But yeah, but then
- 5:17Speaker 1: you know, when she was on the world stage, it's
- 5:19Speaker 1: been Wow. Yeah, she's like the world's worst actress.
- 5:23Speaker 2: She is, and she's never been like somebody that's caught
- 5:26Speaker 2: my attention. You know, there's like certain like celebrities or
- 5:28Speaker 2: like stories about families or people that are quite interesting
- 5:33Speaker 2: and you just you know, even though everybody may hate them,
- 5:35Speaker 2: you may still have like a liking for them, or
- 5:38Speaker 2: there's something but about her. I've just like never been interested.
- 5:41Speaker 2: So you know what, we're not taking a picture with you, Megan.
- 5:44Speaker 1: I feel bad for Harry. I'll take a picture of
- 5:46Speaker 1: Harry any day.
- 5:47Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 5:48Speaker 1: Yeah, he's not with me. He's a redhead. You know
- 5:50Speaker 1: how I feel about Gingi's.
- 5:51Speaker 2: Well, that's you. Yeah, I don't have that fetish. We'll
- 5:54Speaker 2: leave that to you.
- 5:57Speaker 1: We're not gonna talk about this because my husband listens
- 5:59Speaker 1: to this.
- 6:00Speaker 2: Okay, well I didn't even want to talk about this,
- 6:04Speaker 2: but like you know, we have to start with something.
- 6:06Speaker 1: Yeah, why not start with bashing Megan?
- 6:11Speaker 2: Okay, Well, moving right along to people I love? Yes,
- 6:15Speaker 2: So this time is Ben Affleck of course really not
- 6:18Speaker 2: j Loo, So you can talk about it because it's Ben.
- 6:21Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, listen, I mean, how could we not have
- 6:24Speaker 1: an episode without at least one of them in it,
- 6:27Speaker 1: Ben or Jail. Of course.
- 6:28Speaker 2: Well, they're all over the place, you know, and unlike Megan,
- 6:32Speaker 2: Ben doesn't want a picture with anybody, right, he doesn't.
- 6:35Speaker 2: By the way, he doesn't want anybody to take a
- 6:36Speaker 2: picture with him either.
- 6:37Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 6:38Speaker 2: So he's like avoiding this but evoting. He can't get
- 6:41Speaker 2: away from it, you know, he can't get away from
- 6:43Speaker 2: the paparazzis, he can't get away from the media attention.
- 6:46Speaker 2: And now he can't get away with his horrible crew cut,
- 6:50Speaker 2: not krow cut.
- 6:51Speaker 1: What is it? The foe hawk full hawk? Yeah? Can
- 6:55Speaker 1: you say that three times? Oh?
- 6:56Speaker 2: Hawk, full hack, full hock. Yeah, I know what you
- 6:59Speaker 2: want me to say, You're gonna have a slip, and
- 7:01Speaker 2: I'm going to say the other words.
- 7:02Speaker 1: Yeah, it still sounded pretty nasty, Okay.
- 7:04Speaker 2: So yeah, so he can't even get a fu hawk
- 7:07Speaker 2: without the cameras, you know, chasing him and taking pictures
- 7:10Speaker 2: of him. And now he's like spotted embracing that rocker
- 7:16Speaker 2: look riding around town in a motorcycle. I mean that
- 7:20Speaker 2: screams midlife crisis all over the place.
- 7:24Speaker 1: I don't think I've seen him on a motorcycle before.
- 7:26Speaker 1: But listen, I don't know anything about him. He does
- 7:27Speaker 1: like a bicycle, so now, yeah, he threw a motor on.
- 7:30Speaker 1: Now he made it electrical. Yeah, so yeah, and he
- 7:33Speaker 1: has the black leather jacket to go with it.
- 7:35Speaker 2: The skinny jeans. By the way, bro, skinny jeans are
- 7:38Speaker 2: installed anymore.
- 7:39Speaker 1: Well, you know, he's like a simple guy from Boston.
- 7:41Speaker 2: That's not you know, Okay, So it's okay. I think
- 7:43Speaker 2: that we always for Justinians.
- 7:46Speaker 1: Bostonians, they're like they're super gringo, or they're they're very waspy,
- 7:51Speaker 1: or they're very very like.
- 7:52Speaker 2: Well, he's never had a sense of fashion.
- 7:54Speaker 1: He's like a simple dude. He likes his beer, he
- 7:57Speaker 1: likes his dude, he likes his friends. He just has
- 7:59Speaker 1: a really glamorous job. But he doesn't fit the profile
- 8:02Speaker 1: of a movie star.
- 8:03Speaker 2: He's just okay, you know what profile if he fits what?
- 8:07Speaker 2: Midlife crisis? Oh yeah, midlife crisis. You know, he's being
- 8:11Speaker 2: super impulsive. He's having poor judgment in my.
- 8:17Speaker 1: So tell me why you think he's having poor judgment.
- 8:19Speaker 2: I think his whole behavior in the last couple of
- 8:21Speaker 2: months shows his poor judgment, you know, as far as
- 8:25Speaker 2: taking his belongings out of the house when Jalo left
- 8:28Speaker 2: and she was in Europe, kind of like doing it
- 8:31Speaker 2: behind her back.
- 8:32Speaker 1: But maybe maybe she said I'm gonna if you're I
- 8:34Speaker 1: don't want to be there when you move out, and
- 8:35Speaker 1: she left, you know I would do that.
- 8:38Speaker 2: I don't want to be I don't think it's like that,
- 8:39Speaker 2: but it's okay, you can go with that. But yeah,
- 8:42Speaker 2: I mean, we don't know. I mean, we don't know
- 8:44Speaker 2: about Megan either. We don't know about any of these
- 8:45Speaker 2: people were talking about me. I mean, we just can't
- 8:48Speaker 2: like assume or speculate like a lot of people are
- 8:51Speaker 2: doing and then go by what the sources are saying.
- 8:54Speaker 2: And you should eat the sources. We know who they are.
- 8:56Speaker 2: They're the people around you that are in your everyday lives,
- 8:59Speaker 2: that are listening, are watching and all these things. So
- 9:02Speaker 2: and I think he's being super And the last thing
- 9:05Speaker 2: he did was buy a twenty million dollar home on
- 9:08Speaker 2: the day of her birthday.
- 9:09Speaker 1: Uh huh.
- 9:10Speaker 2: So that's impulsive. You just don't go buy that's a
- 9:12Speaker 2: a super super impulsive act that you just go buy
- 9:15Speaker 2: a house for twenty million dollars.
- 9:17Speaker 1: Well maybe he needed a write off.
- 9:19Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you could be funny and you can
- 9:21Speaker 2: say all the stuff that you want. He didn't need
- 9:22Speaker 2: a rite off. You know what. He still has a
- 9:24Speaker 2: sixty eight million dollar home that he and j Lowe
- 9:26Speaker 2: bought together.
- 9:27Speaker 1: So I don't know.
- 9:29Speaker 2: I just think all of his behaviors and this kind
- 9:31Speaker 2: of like seals the deal where he's being he's going
- 9:34Speaker 2: through a crisis, and that's okay. He's I tirty nine
- 9:37Speaker 2: years old to fifty to No, sorry, he's fifty one.
- 9:40Speaker 2: He's fifty one, so it's it goes with his age.
- 9:44Speaker 1: A divorce is a crisis though, what I mean, yeah,
- 9:47Speaker 1: and we all do, we all get that, and you know,
- 9:53Speaker 1: just I don't know what it is or something about
- 9:54Speaker 1: that new taste of freedom that just kind of makes
- 9:57Speaker 1: you do all sorts of crazy stuff.
- 9:59Speaker 2: It's a but I feel like a lot of men
- 10:02Speaker 2: that do make these impulse decisions end up regretting it
- 10:07Speaker 2: at the end. You know, I think that they're so
- 10:09Speaker 2: unhappy with their with their state of mind and with
- 10:13Speaker 2: their lives at that moment that they just want to
- 10:16Speaker 2: get out. You know, they're just very unhappy, and then
- 10:18Speaker 2: they want to attribute everything to their marriage or to
- 10:21Speaker 2: their person that's next to them, when in reality, it's them.
- 10:25Speaker 2: You know, it's something like hormonal that the man goes through.
- 10:27Speaker 2: I don't even know like what it is, you know,
- 10:29Speaker 2: I know for women also go through the mid life crisis,
- 10:31Speaker 2: but I feel like we obviously go through it differently
- 10:34Speaker 2: towards like when we reach menopause. You know, ours is
- 10:37Speaker 2: more like physical mental, and I feel like we think
- 10:41Speaker 2: things over more than men do.
- 10:43Speaker 1: So what it looks like is to me, from what
- 10:45Speaker 1: I'm saying, is he just wants to be young and
- 10:47Speaker 1: free and unattached to any kind of responsibilities of the
- 10:54Speaker 1: life he had before, aside from being a father.
- 10:57Speaker 2: Right, Yeah. I mean a lot of times too, men
- 11:00Speaker 2: go through these things when it's like the emptiness syntrome,
- 11:03Speaker 2: you know, when their children leave. You know, I feel
- 11:05Speaker 2: like a lot of couples and marriages once their children leave,
- 11:08Speaker 2: it's kind of like they start focusing on themselves. And
- 11:11Speaker 2: it's also a very scary age. I mean, we're in
- 11:13Speaker 2: our fifties and the truth is that it happens to
- 11:15Speaker 2: both men and women, and we're like, oh my god,
- 11:18Speaker 2: and I start thinking of mortality. You know, like before,
- 11:21Speaker 2: like in my thirties and forties, I always thought I
- 11:23Speaker 2: was going to be young forever, and I felt it inside.
- 11:25Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I'm never gonna get old.
- 11:27Speaker 2: But once you're in, you're.
- 11:28Speaker 1: Never gonna look old or get Yeah, you never think
- 11:32Speaker 1: you're gonna get a rinkle or a line.
- 11:34Speaker 2: I wasn't so much to that. I mean, I didn't
- 11:36Speaker 2: really care so much about the physical because I don't
- 11:39Speaker 2: care how good we look. It's internal, at least for
- 11:42Speaker 2: me it is. So it's kind of like, oh my god,
- 11:44Speaker 2: like I have you know, maybe like another good ten
- 11:48Speaker 2: or fifteen years. And unfortunately, sometimes you think, you know,
- 11:51Speaker 2: you want to blame the person next to you because
- 11:53Speaker 2: it's the easiest thing. It's like a scapegoat, like, you
- 11:56Speaker 2: know what, I'm not really happy with my life. You know,
- 11:59Speaker 2: I think it's you and you know, and people don't
- 12:00Speaker 2: self reflect and say, you know what, it's me, because
- 12:03Speaker 2: guess what, be's not that perfect. But what happens with
- 12:05Speaker 2: men is that they're not vulnerable, like they're not honest
- 12:09Speaker 2: with themselves and they're not honest with the person. So
- 12:11Speaker 2: you know, whereas women like we have friends and you
- 12:13Speaker 2: talk it out with your friends. You have so many friends,
- 12:15Speaker 2: and then we all start sharing other women like, oh
- 12:17Speaker 2: my god, I want to do the same thing. Oh
- 12:18Speaker 2: my god, my husband. So we kind of like share
- 12:21Speaker 2: things and we have a lot of friends. Women have
- 12:23Speaker 2: more like of a closed circle, and they're kind of
- 12:26Speaker 2: like embarrassed. Like for them, it's like a sign of weakness. Yeah,
- 12:30Speaker 2: some some, yes, some, I mean I've some and all
- 12:34Speaker 2: of my friends that have been married or whatnot, most
- 12:37Speaker 2: of the men have gone through mid life crisis. It's
- 12:40Speaker 2: something normal. But I feel like the rich guys and
- 12:45Speaker 2: the ones that already have everything, you know, it's easier
- 12:48Speaker 2: for them to make that decision or selfish people and say,
- 12:51Speaker 2: you know what, it's about me now, Like you know,
- 12:53Speaker 2: why am I going to sit here and you know,
- 12:55Speaker 2: make all these sacrifices when I've done it all and
- 12:57Speaker 2: I have like another good ten years and I just
- 12:59Speaker 2: want to like live my life.
- 13:01Speaker 1: Well, I know, I definitely certainly think now in terms
- 13:04Speaker 1: of how much is left to my life at this
- 13:08Speaker 1: point in my life, Like, so what have I got? Yeah, ten, fifteen,
- 13:12Speaker 1: twenty years? Yeah it's for me now, Yeah, it's about me. Well,
- 13:15Speaker 1: I guess it's always been about me. But right, I
- 13:20Speaker 1: don't have you. Right, I didn't have kids, so you know,
- 13:23Speaker 1: it's kind of what what was my parents? And then
- 13:26Speaker 1: it was me and me and then more may and
- 13:29Speaker 1: still me and it will be me moving forward and
- 13:33Speaker 1: my husband and my step kids.
- 13:34Speaker 2: But they have their own mother and men. I feel
- 13:36Speaker 2: like the men, you know, their role usually is more
- 13:40Speaker 2: of being like the provider. They have so much responsibility.
- 13:44Speaker 2: So then when finally the children, you know, they've given
- 13:47Speaker 2: up all these years, I don't see it as giving
- 13:49Speaker 2: up or sacrificing, because that's your part as a father
- 13:52Speaker 2: or as a mother, your role. They need their own time,
- 13:54Speaker 2: but they leave so they have like all this time now,
- 13:57Speaker 2: all this freedom, so you know, and the first thing
- 13:59Speaker 2: that men usually do is, you know, get in shape,
- 14:03Speaker 2: lose weight, and they will yeah, but I mean in
- 14:08Speaker 2: his case, he's not doing it, and he's you should
- 14:10Speaker 2: work out a little bit more because I know Jalo
- 14:11Speaker 2: works out. You should take care a little bit more
- 14:14Speaker 2: like the donuts. I think, Yeah, I mean he doesn't.
- 14:17Speaker 2: I mean, he keeps in shape pretty much, he's not
- 14:19Speaker 2: working out.
- 14:19Speaker 1: He's cute, he looks good.
- 14:21Speaker 2: But you know, they color their hair, A lot a
- 14:23Speaker 2: lot of the men's either hair.
- 14:24Speaker 1: If he asked me out and I was saying, oh,
- 14:26Speaker 1: I don't like.
- 14:27Speaker 2: Because you know, I don't like him. I think she's
- 14:30Speaker 2: way better than him. I think by the way you
- 14:33Speaker 2: put on top of the midlife crisis, the personality styles.
- 14:37Speaker 1: But they're totally different. They should have never been together.
- 14:39Speaker 2: Well, first of all, I think.
- 14:42Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
- 14:43Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, she had to get her cocain, so
- 14:45Speaker 2: she had to get her man back because after twenty years,
- 14:48Speaker 2: it was something. It's like the one that she wanted
- 14:52Speaker 2: when they got away, the one that got away. So
- 14:54Speaker 2: she had the opportunity to get him back, and she did.
- 14:58Speaker 2: And by the way, I believe, and I really do
- 15:01Speaker 2: think that she's super in love with him. And the
- 15:05Speaker 2: reason why she shared all that is because she wanted to.
- 15:08Speaker 2: You know, I guess she's never been in love like
- 15:10Speaker 2: she's been in love with Ben. Oh, yeah, that happens too.
- 15:12Speaker 1: I think that he will always be the one that
- 15:14Speaker 1: got away because he got away again. She doesn't like that.
- 15:18Speaker 2: Nobody would like that when you're super in love. I'm sorry,
- 15:20Speaker 2: I don't care how tough you try to be. And
- 15:22Speaker 2: I don't care that you're j Lo, because when you're
- 15:24Speaker 2: really in love and love exists. She she's not fit,
- 15:30Speaker 2: you know, she's not doing good. She's hurt. I mean,
- 15:32Speaker 2: she's in pain, you know. And I think that it's
- 15:34Speaker 2: going to be really, really difficult for her because she
- 15:37Speaker 2: really had hope. You know. That's the other thing too,
- 15:39Speaker 2: you know, she lived with that hope and she thought
- 15:41Speaker 2: maybe by you know, separating for a little bit during
- 15:44Speaker 2: the summer, that they were going to come back together
- 15:46Speaker 2: and stronger. She was giving him the space, which is
- 15:48Speaker 2: smart because when men are going through through these kind
- 15:51Speaker 2: of things, you have to support it. You have to
- 15:54Speaker 2: be understanding, you have to be empathetic. I mean doesn't
- 15:57Speaker 2: mean I mean, it doesn't mean that they can on you, right,
- 16:01Speaker 2: because that's another thing that sometimes they do when they're
- 16:04Speaker 2: going through these things because they want somebody younger to
- 16:06Speaker 2: tell them how great they are and how good they
- 16:08Speaker 2: are and make them feel good again.
- 16:10Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he's like, I got to get out
- 16:12Speaker 1: of here. I need a break, and he was the
- 16:13Speaker 1: one that was like, I'm moving out, and then she
- 16:16Speaker 1: decided to take a vacation. That's what I think.
- 16:19Speaker 2: Well, obviously we all know that it's not what you think.
- 16:21Speaker 2: They've said it before too, they said before that he
- 16:26Speaker 2: was the one that initiated all this because he wasn't happy.
- 16:29Speaker 2: And then of course everybody has an opinion, and they're
- 16:31Speaker 2: saying it's because the documentary that she made, or because
- 16:35Speaker 2: of the P Diddy videos that are coming out now,
- 16:37Speaker 2: or the evidence, so everybody has something to do.
- 16:40Speaker 1: We're going to see those. I hope I never seen them,
- 16:43Speaker 1: because I don't wish her any bad. No, I don't
- 16:45Speaker 1: mean about her. I want to see what all this
- 16:48Speaker 1: craziness that's so ugly and dirty.
- 16:50Speaker 2: I want to.
- 16:52Speaker 1: I want to know.
- 16:53Speaker 2: But anyways, so, but again, you know, speaking of him,
- 16:57Speaker 2: I think it's a real thing, you know, the midlife
- 16:59Speaker 2: crisis that men go through and at the end, I
- 17:04Speaker 2: always find that the easiest thing for them to do
- 17:07Speaker 2: is to escape. And usually these men have certain personality
- 17:11Speaker 2: styles that they don't really open up. And they told
- 17:15Speaker 2: their partner what's going on, you know, and it's just
- 17:17Speaker 2: easier to blame. Oh, it's Jlo's fame. No, my love,
- 17:20Speaker 2: you met Jalo being Jalo, she wasn't even the Jlo
- 17:22Speaker 2: she is today, and you fell in love with that,
- 17:25Speaker 2: and then now twenty years later, she's even more famous,
- 17:28Speaker 2: she has you know, more work, and now it all
- 17:30Speaker 2: of a sudden it bothers him.
- 17:32Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you know what, it's him.
- 17:33Speaker 2: It's he's the problem. He's the problem. He's going through
- 17:36Speaker 2: a crisis.
- 17:37Speaker 1: We've talked about this before. We know it was a
- 17:39Speaker 1: PR spin.
- 17:40Speaker 2: Stop stop with the nonsense. Well that stupid. Not even
- 17:43Speaker 2: read that. It's not gonna Marisol. It's not a PR style.
- 17:47Speaker 1: Believe it.
- 17:47Speaker 2: Nobody believes it. I've never read that. Again. Nobody is
- 17:51Speaker 2: going to put their life on hold and be in
- 17:53Speaker 2: the media every single day with all the hateful comments
- 17:57Speaker 2: and their families involved, they have children involved. That's just stupid.
- 18:00Speaker 1: And think he thought it was going to go so wrong.
- 18:12Speaker 2: Have you been with any men that have done mid life,
- 18:14Speaker 2: that have had midlife?
- 18:16Speaker 1: Yes, and you were there for it. Like most things
- 18:18Speaker 1: in my life, you were there. Yeah. Which one my
- 18:21Speaker 1: ex turned fifty one and was all of a sudden,
- 18:25Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I feel like I need more hair.
- 18:27Speaker 1: I'm like, you have a you have a ton of hair.
- 18:30Speaker 1: Why do you want to get more hair?
- 18:32Speaker 2: Oh?
- 18:32Speaker 1: No, Well, there's this robotic arm thing and it puts
- 18:35Speaker 1: the implants. It pulls him in the back of the
- 18:37Speaker 1: head to the front. It's not like the old days
- 18:38Speaker 1: where they cut your brain open, like your skull open
- 18:41Speaker 1: and sew everything and it looks horrible. And I said, listen,
- 18:44Speaker 1: whatever you want, I don't think you need it.
- 18:46Speaker 2: Whatever you want, don't need a microphone.
- 18:48Speaker 1: I talked, I talked, I drove him there, I babysatam my,
- 18:53Speaker 1: you know, bandagees, wounded head and his hair, and then
- 18:57Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I want to do my eyes
- 18:59Speaker 1: and my and I was like, I don't think you
- 19:01Speaker 1: need any of that. You look great, like you really
- 19:03Speaker 1: don't need that. I like you just the way you are. Okay,
- 19:06Speaker 1: Fast forward six hour facelift. Yeah, hello, Marisol was the
- 19:11Speaker 1: nurse baby like you.
- 19:13Speaker 2: Were making him looking for somebody else.
- 19:16Speaker 1: Well, yes, I didn't think that. He kept saying, you know,
- 19:19Speaker 1: I need to be competitive at work, and I was like, okay,
- 19:22Speaker 1: I can understand that. That's fine. Okay, fast forward everybody.
- 19:26Speaker 1: Five months later, he's like, you know what, I think
- 19:29Speaker 1: I'm gonna move out with my new face and my
- 19:35Speaker 1: face and my hair and my new egg that I
- 19:37Speaker 1: had surgically implant it and then you need and took
- 19:41Speaker 1: care of. Yeah that sucks, my friend, Yeah it sucks.
- 19:45Speaker 1: And then on top of that, a girlfriend of mine
- 19:48Speaker 1: calls me. She's like, you know, so and so is
- 19:51Speaker 1: on bumble and he went out with someone that works
- 19:54Speaker 1: for me. And I said, what why would he be
- 19:56Speaker 1: on an app? He's a good looking dude, he doesn't
- 19:59Speaker 1: need to like you know, and he works in a
- 20:01Speaker 1: business race meeting single people all the time. That makes
- 20:05Speaker 1: no sense.
- 20:06Speaker 2: He just wanted somebody to feed his ego. That's what
- 20:08Speaker 2: happens in the mad life crisis. That's they go looking
- 20:12Speaker 2: for that. They go needing for adventure, something to talk
- 20:14Speaker 2: to exactly.
- 20:15Speaker 1: He's a new.
- 20:16Speaker 2: Supply, he needed new new people.
- 20:18Speaker 1: Well, he was also a narcissist, so he liked people
- 20:21Speaker 1: to listen to his story and they tell him he
- 20:24Speaker 1: was right and how horrible everybody in his life has
- 20:26Speaker 1: been to him and blah blah blah. Yeah, and to
- 20:31Speaker 1: this day, how long has it been six years? Yeah,
- 20:35Speaker 1: he still has never had a girlfriend. It's become the
- 20:37Speaker 1: town fluy.
- 20:38Speaker 2: But that's what I mean about poor judgment, because you know,
- 20:41Speaker 2: sometimes these men that go through these crisis, mid life crisis,
- 20:45Speaker 2: they leave and you blame everything that their unhappiness on
- 20:48Speaker 2: the woman or on their marriage. When they are unhappy themselves,
- 20:52Speaker 2: they need to fix themselves. It's a lot your partner
- 20:54Speaker 2: that's making you unhappy. It's not you know, the fame,
- 20:58Speaker 2: it's not this, it's not the other, it's it's themselves.
- 21:01Speaker 2: So they need to go work on themselves.
- 21:03Speaker 1: That's true. That's true. That's true. Listen. Maybe Ben's the
- 21:06Speaker 1: kind of guy that you shouldn't even have a partner,
- 21:09Speaker 1: you know, Listen, he should maybe be alone.
- 21:11Speaker 2: The first time when he divorced Jennifer Gardner, he went
- 21:15Speaker 2: and he got this huge tattoo of a phoenix on
- 21:18Speaker 2: his back. Oh really yeah, so that was he was
- 21:21Speaker 2: going through his mid life crisis, and he as soon
- 21:23Speaker 2: as they got divorced, he got this big tattoo. And
- 21:26Speaker 2: now I have a new love for tattoos because they
- 21:27Speaker 2: do have a lot of symbolism. I love tattoos and
- 21:30Speaker 2: thing that. Well, when it's something like that, I totally
- 21:32Speaker 2: support it. Not just for fun, just getting like something
- 21:35Speaker 2: stupid on your body. But in that case, it meant
- 21:38Speaker 2: a lot for him, So I you know.
- 21:39Speaker 1: He's probably gonna get one right across his forehead. That's
- 21:41Speaker 1: his freedom, just saying.
- 21:46Speaker 2: She should get that. Oh yeah, this guy is hard
- 21:48Speaker 2: to live with, can't you see me? He always looks
- 21:50Speaker 2: like angry, he always looks unhappy. He really needs to
- 21:53Speaker 2: go fix himself.
- 21:54Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just a dude.
- 21:56Speaker 2: You know. Well, your dude isn't like that. I mean,
- 21:59Speaker 2: that's not Yeah, but.
- 22:00Speaker 1: Steve's more europe He's very European, and he's more like
- 22:04Speaker 1: Jean de Vive and you know, he's a totally different personality.
- 22:08Speaker 1: What happens, It feeds my soul.
- 22:11Speaker 2: When they're going through this that they get frustrated, frustrated,
- 22:14Speaker 2: it gets very irritable, and then they just blame everything
- 22:19Speaker 2: and their own happiness, you know, on their curtain situation.
- 22:23Speaker 2: So what do they do. They go looking for a
- 22:25Speaker 2: new situation, and by the way, they get themselves in
- 22:28Speaker 2: more trouble because how can somebody like that be ready
- 22:31Speaker 2: to move on either into another relationship or to do
- 22:34Speaker 2: like crazy stuff. And that's what I meant about poor judgment.
- 22:36Speaker 1: People do it all the time. We always think that,
- 22:39Speaker 1: you know, maybe if I'm with somebody else, I'll feel
- 22:41Speaker 1: better and put a band aid on it. And it's
- 22:43Speaker 1: usually the worst move you can do. You really do
- 22:46Speaker 1: need to heal, and we've talked about that. The time
- 22:49Speaker 1: you spend healing yourself makes you better and open to
- 22:53Speaker 1: attract the right person and have a healthy relationship. I agree.
- 22:57Speaker 2: Yeah, well, find my final thoughts on that because tell
- 23:01Speaker 2: me so well. The odd thing about a mid life
- 23:04Speaker 2: crisis is that is so painfully predictable. It's you can
- 23:09Speaker 2: see it right, you can see it, and sometimes we
- 23:11Speaker 2: just rather not see it and say kind of like
- 23:14Speaker 2: brush it off and say, well, you know, all the
- 23:16Speaker 2: signs are there, but you kind of don't want to
- 23:18Speaker 2: see it, and you make excuses until you're actually going
- 23:20Speaker 2: through it. And all the confusion, lamenting and fear of
- 23:24Speaker 2: regrets were going to happen either way. Think about that,
- 23:28Speaker 2: All those things were going to happen either way. Regardless
- 23:31Speaker 2: of what paths we choose in life. There will always
- 23:33Speaker 2: be regrets for some of us because we can't simultaneous
- 23:37Speaker 2: live every life. You know, it's kind of like you
- 23:40Speaker 2: want to live other people's life everybody, and you are
- 23:43Speaker 2: want to live your life. You have to choose your path.
- 23:45Speaker 1: Yeah, and everybody expresses themselves differently. Some people have to
- 23:48Speaker 1: vent to a million people and then they do whatever
- 23:51Speaker 1: they want anyway. Some people have to have, you know,
- 23:53Speaker 1: one hundred hours of therapy every week. Some people have
- 23:56Speaker 1: to get take pills and drink alcohol.
- 23:58Speaker 2: You know.
- 23:58Speaker 1: Everybody has a different way of dealing with these situations.
- 24:01Speaker 1: And I guess Ben's well, that's a lot.
- 24:03Speaker 2: That's a lot too, because a lot of the men
- 24:05Speaker 2: that are going through middle life crisis also turned to
- 24:07Speaker 2: like alcohol and partying ways and all that. And I
- 24:10Speaker 2: pray that Ben doesn't that doesn't happen to Ben. Oh God, yeah,
- 24:13Speaker 2: you know, because I only wish him, you know, the best,
- 24:16Speaker 2: and of course I would never want that, you know,
- 24:18Speaker 2: to happen again. So hopefully he'll keep on focusing on
- 24:21Speaker 2: being a good father and on his movie roles and producing,
- 24:24Speaker 2: and he'll find peace within himself, because I believe that
- 24:29Speaker 2: men lose their peace.
- 24:32Speaker 1: Real is she the best band? Somebody else may or
- 24:43Speaker 1: may not be joining only fans because Tory Spelling has
- 24:46Speaker 1: been joking about joining only fans because god, it's only
- 24:49Speaker 1: a joke, right, She's got to pay for a children's college.
- 24:54Speaker 1: But listen, it's no joke. People are making a lot
- 24:56Speaker 1: of money doing it.
- 24:57Speaker 2: I mean, it's no joke that we're talking about this.
- 25:00Speaker 2: I think it's pretty embarrassing for a mother of five,
- 25:03Speaker 2: five kids to be saying that she's gonna join only
- 25:07Speaker 2: fans to pay for her children's her tuition.
- 25:11Speaker 1: Her husband is a dead beat. Okay, he's a dead beat.
- 25:15Speaker 1: Well what about her? And her mother cut her off completely?
- 25:19Speaker 1: She and her mother was the one that told her,
- 25:22Speaker 1: don't marry that dude and then don't have children. But
- 25:25Speaker 1: she had one, not two, and not three, and not four,
- 25:27Speaker 1: but five kids with him, and he cheated on her
- 25:30Speaker 1: and kept cheating on her, and she kept having kids
- 25:32Speaker 1: with him.
- 25:33Speaker 2: See would I have her problem? Okay, I get it
- 25:35Speaker 2: that Tory's mom doesn't have a good relationship with her,
- 25:39Speaker 2: and that's her daughter, but these are her grandchildren. And
- 25:44Speaker 2: you know what, maybe you don't want to give them, like,
- 25:46Speaker 2: you know, a big house and cars and luxury items,
- 25:50Speaker 2: but an education is something basic. And if I had
- 25:53Speaker 2: the money they did and the kids really wanted to
- 25:55Speaker 2: go to school, I mean, because there's some kids that
- 25:56Speaker 2: just go to college for fun and you know, not
- 25:58Speaker 2: to do anything else. But if I was their grandma
- 26:01Speaker 2: in that position, I will say, you know what, I'm
- 26:03Speaker 2: going to take care of the kids that really take
- 26:06Speaker 2: school serious and want a career. I'm going to support that,
- 26:09Speaker 2: and I'm going to pay for that, and you don't
- 26:10Speaker 2: have to worry about that. But you know, I'm not
- 26:13Speaker 2: in their situation. I don't know exactly I mean it.
- 26:16Speaker 2: I'll go because it's very weird that a grandmother doesn't
- 26:18Speaker 2: want to pay for.
- 26:20Speaker 1: Well, Tory historically it's just done absolutely everything that her
- 26:25Speaker 1: mother didn't want her to agree.
- 26:27Speaker 2: With that, but these are their grandchildren, you know, so
- 26:30Speaker 2: you shouldn't take it out on your grandchildren.
- 26:32Speaker 1: Well, I mean, the old lady stubborn. What can I
- 26:34Speaker 1: tell you? She is and so is Tory, and she's
- 26:38Speaker 1: punishing and I guess she wants her I guess her
- 26:42Speaker 1: dying breath will be you should have listened to me,
- 26:44Speaker 1: and you should have done what I said, because this
- 26:46Speaker 1: all could have been yours.
- 26:48Speaker 2: Well, it'll be interesting to see if she does change
- 26:50Speaker 2: things around when she's in that situation of her passing.
- 26:55Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, and I don't know much
- 26:57Speaker 2: about them, but I know that she'll do. You know,
- 27:00Speaker 2: she's saying and teasing that she'll do anything to pay
- 27:02Speaker 2: for her her kid's tuition, And it's just very embarrassing
- 27:07Speaker 2: that that's the kind of example that you're trying to,
- 27:11Speaker 2: you know, show your kids, like, you know what, take
- 27:13Speaker 2: the easy way out there. Kids are going to go like, wait,
- 27:15Speaker 2: I don't even want to go to college, and I'll
- 27:17Speaker 2: just go up. I'll do my own only fans, right,
- 27:20Speaker 2: you take the shortcut, honestly, So I just think everything's
- 27:22Speaker 2: wrong about it. I wouldn't even joke about it. I
- 27:24Speaker 2: think it's embarrassing. I think it's shameful.
- 27:27Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it depends on what you're doing, because
- 27:30Speaker 1: I don't know. So we have a list here of
- 27:33Speaker 1: celebrities that is huge, the amount of money that people
- 27:36Speaker 1: are making, so it's quite tempting. I mean, I'm looking
- 27:39Speaker 1: at this list thinking, why am I going back on
- 27:41Speaker 1: a house while show? Why don't I just put on
- 27:42Speaker 1: some lingerie for OnlyFans? But but then, ill, you don't
- 27:47Speaker 1: even want to show your boops. That's what I was
- 27:48Speaker 1: gonna say, I don't even show your hooops. Well, what
- 27:52Speaker 1: am I gonna do? Run around a turtleneck and a
- 27:54Speaker 1: g string?
- 27:55Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that might be a look, that's market, that's
- 27:57Speaker 2: a market. Well, let's try you want to try it.
- 28:01Speaker 1: What are you gonna video me?
- 28:03Speaker 2: I can be your content creator.
- 28:06Speaker 1: I was thinking of maybe just washing fruit with my
- 28:08Speaker 1: feet because there's like a whole footy but is very delicious,
- 28:22Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, that we can do. But no, I
- 28:25Speaker 1: mean I don't know how much of it is true.
- 28:27Speaker 1: But again, I even what about the money, So you're
- 28:29Speaker 1: really teaching your kids just like no morals or values.
- 28:33Speaker 1: It's just like it's just easier to go on OnlyFans
- 28:35Speaker 1: and show your papaya and show your you know, whatever
- 28:39Speaker 1: it is you need to show you Like, for me,
- 28:42Speaker 1: that's a prostitution.
- 28:43Speaker 2: Honestly, you know how I've always felt about OnlyFans, right right,
- 28:47Speaker 2: And I'm.
- 28:48Speaker 1: Just like okay with it.
- 28:50Speaker 2: You know, I would do anything possible, any any other
- 28:53Speaker 2: job besides like selling myself, you know, and like to me,
- 28:57Speaker 2: that's you may selling your body, like you're trying to
- 29:01Speaker 2: sell your naked your naked body or anything sexual. Like
- 29:06Speaker 2: I want to show you my boob if I want
- 29:08Speaker 2: to show you my boob, like look at my boob,
- 29:09Speaker 2: but I don't expect you to pay me to show
- 29:11Speaker 2: you my boob.
- 29:12Speaker 1: Okay, so you would show your boob, but you don't
- 29:14Speaker 1: want to be.
- 29:14Speaker 2: But not on only fans. I'm just saying it's not
- 29:16Speaker 2: like I'm so so prude. I'm not saying like, oh
- 29:19Speaker 2: my god, no, like I would never be on lingerie.
- 29:20Speaker 2: I'm in front of lingerie whoever I want to be.
- 29:23Speaker 2: You want, there's a transaction. That's okay, Okay. I'm just
- 29:28Speaker 2: trying to clear it up for the listeners. But then
- 29:31Speaker 2: people will say, well, it's different because you know on Instagram,
- 29:33Speaker 2: you know all the girls like pos and bikinis, and
- 29:36Speaker 2: you know it's like the same thing. I'm not. I
- 29:38Speaker 2: have never gone on only fans or been on so
- 29:40Speaker 2: I don't know how much they show. I mean, I
- 29:43Speaker 2: do know there's some celebrities that are on it, like
- 29:45Speaker 2: Cardi B that this shows no nudity, Ziggy and and
- 29:51Speaker 2: Bella Thorne, so I know that Cardi really uses this platform.
- 29:56Speaker 1: Bella Thorne has racy content okay, but not nudity. There
- 30:00Speaker 1: is uh a girl Miya Khalifa that one shows nudes. Yes,
- 30:05Speaker 1: she is an adult film starng she had six million
- 30:08Speaker 1: dollars a month. That's porn.
- 30:10Speaker 2: We have only fans is porn listen in that case,
- 30:13Speaker 2: she's getting six million dollars.
- 30:14Speaker 1: What do you think for sa toes, I don't know.
- 30:17Speaker 2: I mean, are you kidding me? I don't know.
- 30:18Speaker 1: Alexia for six million dollars a month, I might put
- 30:21Speaker 1: on a brazier and even show a nipple.
- 30:23Speaker 2: No, I won't. You might.
- 30:25Speaker 1: We have to rethink this. I don't how many kids
- 30:27Speaker 1: I can do that.
- 30:28Speaker 2: You can do it? Listen, I don't know if anybody
- 30:30Speaker 2: wants to listen. That's why God gave me kids to
- 30:33Speaker 2: keep from making mistakes like that. No from no for real,
- 30:36Speaker 2: because I always put myself in that situation. Your life
- 30:39Speaker 2: is a lot different when you don't have children. But
- 30:41Speaker 2: what example is Tory spelling, you know, setting for five children?
- 30:45Speaker 2: She's boys and girls. Yeah, that's right, So it changes everything.
- 30:49Speaker 1: So you know, if she does that, Candy's not not
- 30:51Speaker 1: only not going to give her money, She's never even.
- 30:53Speaker 2: Gonna talk to her again. Forget it, right? Yeah, I
- 30:57Speaker 2: mean but not even not. I like, I wouldn't even
- 30:59Speaker 2: care so much about mom. It's kind of like what
- 31:00Speaker 2: makes you feel good and bad? And her mom's got
- 31:03Speaker 2: the money. See. I like how Cardi uses it. By
- 31:06Speaker 2: the way, besides that, I'm a Cardi b fan. I
- 31:10Speaker 2: like how Cardi uses it, because it's pretty much she
- 31:13Speaker 2: communicates them more with her audience, with her fans. You know,
- 31:17Speaker 2: she clears things up because they talk a lot of
- 31:19Speaker 2: shit about Cardi. So she uses it to say whatever
- 31:22Speaker 2: she wants, to clear up the rumors and just to
- 31:24Speaker 2: have like that connection. And people love her. People are
- 31:27Speaker 2: obsessed with her.
- 31:28Speaker 1: I mean they must love her because she's making nine
- 31:30Speaker 1: point five million dollars a month clearing up gossip. Good
- 31:33Speaker 1: for her, that's what we can do.
- 31:35Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, that's probably my niche because I
- 31:37Speaker 2: need to clear a lot of shit up that I can't.
- 31:39Speaker 1: Waited to anyway, we take gossip for ourselves and then
- 31:42Speaker 1: go clear up.
- 31:43Speaker 2: Hey, Cardi, do you need a co host?
- 31:46Speaker 1: See everybody's host? Oh my god?
- 31:48Speaker 2: Yes, okay, so you see. I like how Cardi uses it,
- 31:52Speaker 2: and then tell me Ki Musk.
- 31:54Speaker 1: Coco Austin makes a nine million dollars a month. That's ice,
- 31:59Speaker 1: the one that's ice. I see, bro. She goes to
- 32:02Speaker 1: everywhere cover with her boobies. It's true.
- 32:04Speaker 2: Yeah, so for her changes nothing, just making nine million
- 32:08Speaker 2: a month. Wow.
- 32:09Speaker 1: Wow. I want to know how much the owners of
- 32:11Speaker 1: OnlyFans have make because that's the money I want to
- 32:14Speaker 1: be talking about. I mean, it's kind of like, think
- 32:16Speaker 1: about it, it's kind of like soft porn. And even
- 32:18Speaker 1: like there's i mean, Instagram is getting.
- 32:20Speaker 2: Really like racy, like uh huh sexy, like a little
- 32:24Speaker 2: bit too much as well, So it's kind of like
- 32:28Speaker 2: soft porn. Like these guys talk about midlife crisis. Do
- 32:31Speaker 2: you blame them they're going through middle life crisis because
- 32:33Speaker 2: I mean they go on their Instagram and they're like,
- 32:34Speaker 2: by the way, I have midlife crisis.
- 32:36Speaker 1: Well, somebody's paying these girls. It must be all those guys.
- 32:39Speaker 1: Of course.
- 32:40Speaker 2: It's like they want another life because they're like exposed
- 32:42Speaker 2: to it on the phone all day long seeing this.
- 32:44Speaker 2: Oh wait I can have this?
- 32:46Speaker 1: Yeah god, this is really good money. Bella Thorne eleven
- 32:51Speaker 1: million a month.
- 32:53Speaker 2: Isn't Bella Thorne like a very renown actress? She is.
- 32:56Speaker 2: She's like kind a bunch of shows.
- 32:58Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but she's got racy contact.
- 33:03Speaker 2: The owner's worth two billion.
- 33:06Speaker 1: That's just so poor than Jo doesn't make sense if
- 33:08Speaker 1: people are making nine to eleven million off of him.
- 33:11Speaker 1: You know those numbers are incorrect, They're all manipulated. Yeah, yeah,
- 33:15Speaker 1: I feel like these numbers are inflated. It doesn't make
- 33:18Speaker 1: any sense. No, I mean for some.
- 33:22Speaker 2: People, you know, it could, But I think you have
- 33:25Speaker 2: to have something different right than everybody else because how
- 33:28Speaker 2: many asses and how many tips, Like, at the end
- 33:30Speaker 2: of the day, they're all the same.
- 33:32Speaker 1: Okay, So wait, I want to know, has there ever
- 33:35Speaker 1: been a time in your life that you took a
- 33:38Speaker 1: job probably something you wouldn't have normally taken to sport
- 33:41Speaker 1: you or your children. No, me either.
- 33:45Speaker 2: You know, I was a school teacher. I was a
- 33:47Speaker 2: single mom. I got to do all that. What I
- 33:50Speaker 2: would do to make extra money on the side, I
- 33:52Speaker 2: would tutor. I would tutor, I would work in the summers,
- 33:55Speaker 2: summer school. You know, I got my masters, I would
- 33:58Speaker 2: get paid more because I was in a curtical shortage
- 34:00Speaker 2: area of exceptional education. So you know, I did all
- 34:04Speaker 2: those things, you know, And I was looking into like pharmaceutical.
- 34:07Speaker 1: Sales, you know. Yeah, that was the jam back in
- 34:10Speaker 1: the day.
- 34:10Speaker 2: And I had just gotten hired, you know, so it
- 34:12Speaker 2: was like and I also was looking to get certified
- 34:14Speaker 2: in leadership so I can be an administrator and be
- 34:17Speaker 2: a principal. So there's so many options. You know that
- 34:20Speaker 2: you can do. So nothing like like this ever came. Well,
- 34:25Speaker 2: first of all, I didn't exist. I can't imagine got it,
- 34:27Speaker 2: did it?
- 34:27Speaker 1: It was a principle? Why not so good?
- 34:31Speaker 2: Well, I know I'm a leader, you know, I like
- 34:33Speaker 2: un that school.
- 34:34Speaker 1: Yeah, actually I can, but like it's it. I don't know.
- 34:37Speaker 1: I mean, I never saw a principle that looked like you,
- 34:40Speaker 1: so that would be weird. First, everyone would be in love.
- 34:43Speaker 1: I love my principle, which by the way, nobody ever says, yeah,
- 34:46Speaker 1: my principle.
- 34:47Speaker 2: So but I really do like love students, like I mean,
- 34:49Speaker 2: I don't know, I like, there were so many things
- 34:51Speaker 2: that I would that you could do, you know, and
- 34:54Speaker 2: not this. This is the easy way out. This is
- 34:57Speaker 2: the wrong message that they're showing young girls and boys.
- 35:01Speaker 2: It's just like easy money and it just goes against
- 35:04Speaker 2: all my morals and principles.
- 35:06Speaker 1: And that's just me.
- 35:06Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, but listen, I respect that for people
- 35:09Speaker 2: that it works for.
- 35:11Speaker 1: And I feel like now that there's so many celebrities
- 35:16Speaker 1: on the site that it doesn't feel the celebrities. Can
- 35:19Speaker 1: you name them, Denise Richards, Well, we just named a bunch. Okay,
- 35:23Speaker 1: they're making a lot of money when it was just
- 35:25Speaker 1: regular people and it was a lot of Marisol. How
- 35:29Speaker 1: many people are in this world? Okay, you named five celebrities. Okay,
- 35:34Speaker 1: that's nothing. Okay, is Jennifer Aison on that?
- 35:38Speaker 2: No?
- 35:39Speaker 1: Isn't it?
- 35:39Speaker 2: Cole Kidman there?
- 35:40Speaker 1: No, is Blake Lively there?
- 35:43Speaker 2: No? I mean, who are the people you're mentioning?
- 35:45Speaker 1: A lot of money?
- 35:46Speaker 2: It doesn't matter, solved and you know what they can
- 35:49Speaker 2: do another TV roles.
- 35:51Speaker 1: It's starting to get a little more normalized now that
- 35:54Speaker 1: a lot of For me.
- 35:55Speaker 2: It's never going to be. You know, there's a lot
- 35:57Speaker 2: of things that are normalized in throughout the world right now,
- 36:00Speaker 2: society that are not knowing my life.
- 36:02Speaker 1: Saying that doing porn on there and being naked is cool, but.
- 36:05Speaker 2: They're getting paid that bait. So they're gett paid that
- 36:07Speaker 2: million dollars or less.
- 36:09Speaker 1: Other things people do on there and they make money
- 36:11Speaker 1: and it doesn't mean they make it a million a month.
- 36:13Speaker 1: But it's getting a little more, you know, engrowth ingratiated
- 36:17Speaker 1: in our culture. More people are.
- 36:18Speaker 2: Doing this and they know what sells shocking. Nobody cares
- 36:22Speaker 2: about a cookie show and OnlyFans. You know, what people
- 36:25Speaker 2: care about tits, ass and sex. That's what people care about.
- 36:30Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 36:30Speaker 2: It's just like a big note for me. It's getting you,
- 36:33Speaker 2: on the other hand, seems to be really intrigued by
- 36:36Speaker 2: it and.
- 36:36Speaker 1: Really talk about those kind of numbers.
- 36:40Speaker 2: I don't know. I'd rather have less money and just
- 36:43Speaker 2: you know, feel good about myself.
- 36:45Speaker 1: I would never do anything that didn't make me feel good,
- 36:47Speaker 1: that's for sure. I'd have to be able to lay
- 36:49Speaker 1: my head down.
- 36:49Speaker 2: I can tell you that if a turtleneck is what
- 36:53Speaker 2: makes you feel good and not showing your boobs, I
- 36:56Speaker 2: don't think you would be like a candidate.
- 36:58Speaker 1: For this month. Maybe like a turtleneck and like tights,
- 37:03Speaker 1: nobody's going to pay you that million dollars. And I
- 37:05Speaker 1: do like stretching. Stretching your life. Not flexible, did you?
- 37:09Speaker 1: I'm super flexible. I'm not athletic, but you could be flexible.
- 37:14Speaker 1: Not athletic, extremely flexible. I'm I don't just splits, but yeah,
- 37:21Speaker 1: I don't just splits. But do you not remember fran
- 37:23Speaker 1: Carlton from the seventies that she's very funny. No, she
- 37:26Speaker 1: wasn't funny. She was like she did. She wore a
- 37:29Speaker 1: unitard and tights with the flower background and did stretching
- 37:32Speaker 1: on television Channel two.
- 37:34Speaker 2: Well maybe you can do that.
- 37:35Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, your own can listen. There's a market for everything,
- 37:40Speaker 1: my friend, there really is. Yeah, you know, I wish
- 37:42Speaker 1: you well, Thank you.
- 37:44Speaker 2: I help you give me a percent marketing from your
- 37:48Speaker 2: encouragement my career. I actually liked that idea because, you
- 37:51Speaker 2: know what, everybody loves a comeback, So I feel like
- 37:53Speaker 2: that could work. Eighties inspired you know, you're very disco.
- 37:57Speaker 2: Seventies you're very disco.
- 37:58Speaker 1: I love all that show.
- 37:59Speaker 2: You know, you can have your yeah, working out with
- 38:03Speaker 2: working out with you doing the stretching, don't wear a
- 38:07Speaker 2: pany the want of the tights without that panny, no, yeah,
- 38:09Speaker 2: but you have to give them something. If you want
- 38:12Speaker 2: to make a nine million you want to go tights.
- 38:15Speaker 1: Oh maybe I can get some of those Bianca and
- 38:17Speaker 1: Sorry outfits Kanye's Beyonce girlfriend wife.
- 38:21Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's more twenty twenty four, right, take the
- 38:25Speaker 2: nineteen seventies, the tights and like a see through turnal
- 38:28Speaker 2: neckt Yeah, and the headband. Don't forget the head band.
- 38:32Speaker 1: You gotta wear the head the glitter headband.
- 38:34Speaker 2: It's all about that. There was a Telegram ceo sperm
- 38:46Speaker 2: donor that has over one hundred kids.
- 38:49Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah he beat Tory. Think maybe Tory
- 38:55Speaker 1: should talk to him? Yeah maybe, yeah, Tory, we need
- 38:58Speaker 1: to make this introduction. You need to meet the Russian
- 39:01Speaker 1: origin CEO of Telegram. He's claimed that he has over
- 39:04Speaker 1: one hundred biological kids. He can thank his lucky star
- 39:07Speaker 1: as he doesn't need Candy Spellings money because she'd be
- 39:10Speaker 1: giving him a penny.
- 39:11Speaker 2: His name is Pavel d. He's the co founder and
- 39:16Speaker 2: CEO of Telegram. He claimed that he has over one
- 39:19Speaker 2: hundred biological kids in twelve countries. Wo assassinatings. Not about
- 39:24Speaker 2: spreading your seed, he says, I was just told that
- 39:27Speaker 2: I have over one hundred biological kids. How is this
- 39:30Speaker 2: possible for a guy who has never been married and
- 39:33Speaker 2: prefers to live alone. He then added how it all
- 39:36Speaker 2: started so fifteen years ago a friend of mine approached
- 39:40Speaker 2: me with a weird request. He said that he and
- 39:42Speaker 2: his wife couldn't have kids due to a fertility issue
- 39:45Speaker 2: and asked me to donate sperm at a clinic for
- 39:48Speaker 2: them to have a baby. I laughed my ass off
- 39:51Speaker 2: before realizing that he was dead serious. When he visited
- 39:54Speaker 2: the clinic to donate sperm, he was informed that he
- 39:57Speaker 2: was high quality donor material that his donation can help
- 40:01Speaker 2: couples across the world. That sounded crazy enough to get
- 40:04Speaker 2: me to sign up for that sperm donation. Yea god complex.
- 40:10Speaker 2: So the raw intends to open source his DNA so
- 40:14Speaker 2: that his kids can find each other easily. Of course
- 40:17Speaker 2: they're a risk, but I don't regret having been a donor.
- 40:20Speaker 2: This shortage of healthy sperm has become an increasingly serious
- 40:24Speaker 2: issue worldwide, and I am proud that I can be
- 40:27Speaker 2: part of it to help alleviate it. So one of
- 40:30Speaker 2: the questions is this isn't narcissistic to donate this much
- 40:34Speaker 2: because he was told that he has high quality sperm.
- 40:36Speaker 1: Well, the fact that he believed that he had high
- 40:39Speaker 1: quality sperm and he decided to make a hundred babies,
- 40:42Speaker 1: I think he's a bit of a narcissist and as
- 40:44Speaker 1: a god complex.
- 40:45Speaker 2: Yeah, and what he thinks he has like the super
- 40:47Speaker 2: sperm that the whole world I think, you know what
- 40:52Speaker 2: I mean, what's high quality sperm?
- 40:54Speaker 1: Well, they probably needed sperm and they make a lot
- 40:57Speaker 1: of money off of it, and they're like yours is
- 40:59Speaker 1: really fabulous. I saw him from a mile away. And
- 41:02Speaker 1: then now there's one hundred babies out there. Well, I
- 41:05Speaker 1: know that it's a business, and I know, yeah, people
- 41:07Speaker 1: do it because they do get paid for this. But
- 41:09Speaker 1: in this case, this guy's a billionaire. So he just
- 41:12Speaker 1: says that he's just doing it to like alleviate, you know,
- 41:15Speaker 1: the families, and he wants to the stigmatized sperm donation.
- 41:22Speaker 1: But hadniky overdid it a hundred is a lot?
- 41:27Speaker 2: Well, I think he's doing the opposite.
- 41:28Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I mean maybe fifteen, but once you
- 41:32Speaker 1: passed fifteen, even fifteen's a lot, but once you passed fifteen,
- 41:35Speaker 1: I mean.
- 41:35Speaker 2: There should be a lot. I mean there should be
- 41:37Speaker 2: a law that you can only give so many babies. Yeah,
- 41:42Speaker 2: I don't know. It's kind of scary.
- 41:43Speaker 1: Do you remember that gynecologist that was no he was
- 41:47Speaker 1: a fertility doctor and all of the women that were
- 41:50Speaker 1: going to the clinic thought they were getting their husband's sperm,
- 41:54Speaker 1: and he was impregnating them with his sperm. He ended
- 41:58Speaker 1: up with a lot of kids too.
- 42:00Speaker 2: I don't you know, this is like a crazy thing.
- 42:04Speaker 1: But yeah, and then I think he's the same one
- 42:06Speaker 1: I could be wrong. That was carving his initials on
- 42:08Speaker 1: people's tummies too. Yeah, there's some weird people out there.
- 42:12Speaker 2: What would you do if you found out that your
- 42:14Speaker 2: partner was donating sperm.
- 42:18Speaker 1: Or that okay, so that he was actively doing it,
- 42:22Speaker 1: or that he had donated and now there's a child
- 42:24Speaker 1: that we have to.
- 42:26Speaker 2: Incorporate questions. I mean, just him actively doing Like if
- 42:30Speaker 2: you knew that he had high quality sperm count and
- 42:33Speaker 2: he just wanted like this guy, you know, he wanted
- 42:36Speaker 2: to just you know, I make tribute to society and
- 42:39Speaker 2: to the family's college.
- 42:40Speaker 1: Mayriso would have been like, okay, whatever, I don't know
- 42:42Speaker 1: off about it. But right now Steve said to me,
- 42:46Speaker 1: I have like my kids are so awesome, which they are,
- 42:49Speaker 1: and why not have more out there? I'd be like, yeah,
- 42:51Speaker 1: I don't think that's a good idea. And you're staying home,
- 42:54Speaker 1: you're not going anywhere. Yeah.
- 42:55Speaker 2: I wouldn't be okay with it at any time in
- 42:58Speaker 2: my life. I just believe it.
- 43:01Speaker 1: But if I found out after meeting him that he
- 43:03Speaker 1: had donated sperm and there was a few children out there, I.
- 43:06Speaker 2: Would I just don't know. I don't have enough information
- 43:09Speaker 2: and maybe I should have read about this before. I
- 43:12Speaker 2: don't know what responsibility or how much is it is there.
- 43:16Speaker 2: It's like once you donated, I thought my understanding it
- 43:19Speaker 2: was just over. It was just like, okay, you you donated,
- 43:22Speaker 2: there was a transaction. You give me your sperm, I
- 43:25Speaker 2: pay you for it, and then you never follow through.
- 43:27Speaker 2: You don't know who which family was the one that
- 43:30Speaker 2: got the sperm. I think that's the way it came
- 43:33Speaker 2: to life, right, So then how does this this? I
- 43:35Speaker 2: think sounds like a crazy story to me. I think
- 43:37Speaker 2: he wants to see his work, you know what I mean, like,
- 43:40Speaker 2: show me what.
- 43:41Speaker 1: He doesn't have any rights. He did not know, he
- 43:44Speaker 1: doesn't know where. I guess since he's opening up this
- 43:47Speaker 1: DNA thing, maybe it's more for him to for them
- 43:51Speaker 1: to find him than each other. And as far as
- 43:55Speaker 1: money and responsibility goes, I think that if you if
- 43:58Speaker 1: you you want to do any of that, you do
- 44:02Speaker 1: it because it's a moral responsibility, not because you have to.
- 44:04Speaker 2: But no, that's not his kid. He gave the sperm.
- 44:07Speaker 1: I mean, I get it, you know what I mean.
- 44:10Speaker 2: You can't go to the families and say now I'm
- 44:12Speaker 2: responsible for your child.
- 44:13Speaker 1: No, no, I'm not saying that. I'm saying so he's
- 44:15Speaker 1: opening up this DNA testing and I think, oh my.
- 44:18Speaker 2: God, why are we living such crazy time? Because there's
- 44:21Speaker 2: so many crazy people. I can't.
- 44:23Speaker 1: I think he's just doing that so that they will
- 44:24Speaker 1: find him, and they will find each other and then he.
- 44:26Speaker 2: Can I think he just wants attention. This is another case,
- 44:29Speaker 2: like nobody knows him. He's another billionaire with a lot
- 44:31Speaker 2: of money, a lot of time in his hands, and
- 44:33Speaker 2: a lot of craziness in his head.
- 44:35Speaker 1: And he wants to see those hundred kids.
- 44:37Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, they're just fine without you. Yeah,
- 44:41Speaker 2: just let them be with their families and whoever.
- 44:44Speaker 1: You know, would you want to know about the kids if,
- 44:47Speaker 1: like say tomorrow, you meet someone love of your life now,
- 44:52Speaker 1: then afterwards he's like, I did this.
- 44:55Speaker 2: I just found out about it. But you're already together.
- 44:57Speaker 1: You're in it. This is your guy.
- 45:00Speaker 2: No, No, I mean it doesn't. It wouldn't make a
- 45:02Speaker 2: difference because, like I said, I think just being a
- 45:04Speaker 2: sperm donor, you don't have any right unless it's together,
- 45:08Speaker 2: like for example, like you know, maybe like the same
- 45:10Speaker 2: sex marriage, you know, or if your eggs aren't good
- 45:14Speaker 2: or there's sperm isn't good. You know, as long as
- 45:17Speaker 2: you're involved and there's communication and you're in it together. Yes,
- 45:20Speaker 2: of course it's your baby and you would want to know.
- 45:22Speaker 2: But this guy just went to different sperm banks donating
- 45:26Speaker 2: or donated one and then they've made all these donations.
- 45:30Speaker 2: But like, I mean, why did you donate your Why
- 45:33Speaker 2: did you donate your money instead of your storms?
- 45:36Speaker 1: Can you please do me that favorite donate your money.
- 45:38Speaker 1: You're not your sperm kill us some we like money.
- 45:41Speaker 1: We might get on OnlyFans give us some harmula. Yeah,
- 45:46Speaker 1: it's it's complicated, my friend, it's a lot. Listen, it
- 45:49Speaker 1: was too much.
- 45:50Speaker 2: Also were growing up, my friend.
- 45:52Speaker 1: Yeah, uh, listen, when there was no internet, we didn't
- 45:56Speaker 1: know holf the things that were actually going on.
- 45:58Speaker 2: Yeah, what, I like the Internet.
- 46:00Speaker 1: It's good to know.
- 46:01Speaker 2: I don't like social media, but the Internet up to
- 46:04Speaker 2: a certain point, and obviously feel different about it, you
- 46:07Speaker 2: know when the kids are younger. But I think it's
- 46:10Speaker 2: you know, I think it's a good source.
- 46:12Speaker 1: So well, let me rephrase that question to you one
- 46:14Speaker 1: more time, because I feel like you have a different answer.
- 46:16Speaker 1: And you meet somebody you'll get married with. Him. Then
- 46:23Speaker 1: years later somebody shows up in his life and says, oh,
- 46:27Speaker 1: I was the product of a sperm donation you did.
- 46:29Speaker 1: Wouldn't you want to get to know that child? Because
- 46:33Speaker 1: but whose sperm isn't the man.
- 46:36Speaker 2: I don't have sperm?
- 46:37Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not yours, Okay. I mean.
- 46:46Speaker 2: For him, obviously, if it's going to be important for him, absolutely,
- 46:52Speaker 2: I would totally support that. And if you would want
- 46:54Speaker 2: to know, you know, who his child is if he
- 46:57Speaker 2: donated that sperm. But that's what I'm saying, like, I
- 47:00Speaker 2: don't know at that point when you donate, I don't
- 47:02Speaker 2: know what their involvement is. If they just donated and
- 47:05Speaker 2: the terms and conditions are like, okay, this was a transaction.
- 47:09Speaker 1: You're never going to know.
- 47:09Speaker 2: Where if this baby was even conceived. I mean, you know,
- 47:12Speaker 2: God forbid, a lot of things happened, right.
- 47:14Speaker 1: I think that's how it is at a sperm bank,
- 47:16Speaker 1: unless a friend says, hey.
- 47:17Speaker 2: I need your help, right, That's what I'm saying. If
- 47:19Speaker 2: it's like an agreement like that, you know, I totally
- 47:22Speaker 2: support that because you know, unfortunately there's a lot of
- 47:25Speaker 2: you know, couples that can have children naturally. So I
- 47:28Speaker 2: totally support whatever makes you happy and works for your family.
- 47:31Speaker 2: I totally support it, But I think this is a
- 47:34Speaker 2: little crazy for me.
- 47:35Speaker 1: Yeah, well it was excessive Hillis. But I know for
- 47:39Speaker 1: sure if Steve said to me, hey, you know I
- 47:41Speaker 1: was in college. Any little extra money, I went to
- 47:44Speaker 1: a sperm bank, and now you know this child has
- 47:47Speaker 1: come looking for me, I'm like, oh my god, I
- 47:48Speaker 1: gotta see this. I gotta, I gotta.
- 47:50Speaker 2: I would want no amount of minute. Would that make
- 47:52Speaker 2: this just lead to right another conversation? So would that
- 47:56Speaker 2: really make Steve the dad maybe biological half away, but
- 48:02Speaker 2: I mean, whatever, father. Imagine that happening to a family.
- 48:05Speaker 2: You know that then the kid wants to know who
- 48:07Speaker 2: the sperm donator was. But the father is really the father,
- 48:15Speaker 2: not Steep. It wasn't the donor, like you know, it's
- 48:17Speaker 2: the father that had the baby with the mom and
- 48:20Speaker 2: brought up this child and was in the child's life always.
- 48:23Speaker 2: And now the child that say, turns eighteen and he
- 48:25Speaker 2: wants to know who the donor was because he has
- 48:28Speaker 2: obviously the DNA of the donor. It's very confusing and
- 48:33Speaker 2: it's very complicated, is the question. No, But I'm just
- 48:37Speaker 2: saying that that makes it weird. I mean, don't you
- 48:40Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I feel like that's so
- 48:41Speaker 2: offensive and has had for the father.
- 48:44Speaker 1: It has a lot of dynamics, just like adoption. I mean,
- 48:46Speaker 1: it's someone's always, you know, getting hurt. But I mean,
- 48:50Speaker 1: when when you know that you come from something that
- 48:53Speaker 1: you don't know, you want to know about it.
- 48:56Speaker 2: I would, right, I don't blame the child, but I
- 48:59Speaker 2: feel like as long as is there's like some kind
- 49:01Speaker 2: of understanding and an educational talk where everybody, you know,
- 49:06Speaker 2: can be in the same page and kind of like
- 49:08Speaker 2: understand each other. Yeah, okay, so we couldn't have children,
- 49:10Speaker 2: so we went to a sperm bank and we got
- 49:13Speaker 2: the sperm. So this is the donor. That's all he did.
- 49:16Speaker 2: But I was the one that brought you into this world. Okay,
- 49:19Speaker 2: you know I have another question for you. And I'm
- 49:21Speaker 2: the one that's taking care of you and raised you.
- 49:23Speaker 2: You know, father isn't the one that only has you know,
- 49:25Speaker 2: biological it's the one who raises you and is there
- 49:28Speaker 2: in your life every single day.
- 49:29Speaker 1: Right, So, say you had to get a sperm donor.
- 49:33Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're really into this, my friend.
- 49:35Speaker 1: Well, I'm just I you know, there's a lot of
- 49:36Speaker 1: different angles.
- 49:38Speaker 2: To there is. It's a very there's very complex.
- 49:40Speaker 1: Agree. So if you had to get a sperm donor
- 49:43Speaker 1: and you raise, would you tell your child that they
- 49:47Speaker 1: came from a sperm donor you and your partner had
- 49:51Speaker 1: to do that?
- 49:51Speaker 2: That's a good question.
- 49:52Speaker 1: I feel like I would, unless obviously if they got
- 49:56Speaker 1: critically ill and you know you needed to because you
- 49:59Speaker 1: need there you know, you wouldn't be a blood match
- 50:02Speaker 1: or anything because your DNA is different. Well, mother, you know,
- 50:05Speaker 1: mother would father would?
- 50:06Speaker 2: I mean back in the day, So back in the day,
- 50:09Speaker 2: I know we wouldn't because you know, we're raised different,
- 50:12Speaker 2: you know, to keep these things away from our children
- 50:14Speaker 2: because we think it was going to cause them pain.
- 50:17Speaker 2: So the reason why a lot of our parents didn't
- 50:19Speaker 2: discuss certain things with us was really to protect us
- 50:22Speaker 2: because they didn't want us And first of all, also
- 50:25Speaker 2: you have to have an understanding. So it's very complex.
- 50:28Speaker 2: It depends would I share this with my kids, maybe,
- 50:32Speaker 2: knowing what I know today, I probably would because children
- 50:36Speaker 2: have access to all this information, so I would want
- 50:39Speaker 2: them to know for me versus somebody else, or versus
- 50:43Speaker 2: them doing some kind of research. Or them having some doubt.
- 50:47Speaker 2: So I feel like it's a conversation I would have
- 50:49Speaker 2: with my husband and the family and maybe try to
- 50:51Speaker 2: explain it to them as best as we could. And so, yes,
- 50:56Speaker 2: I would probably have that conversation with them because I
- 50:59Speaker 2: feel like there's no secrets today. Yeah, kids find everything out,
- 51:02Speaker 2: and I wanted them to hear from me, and I
- 51:04Speaker 2: don't think that would change anything. I think they would
- 51:06Speaker 2: understand that.
- 51:07Speaker 1: I agree with you. I think if it was twenty
- 51:08Speaker 1: thirty years ago, I probably wouldn't have said anything. But now, Yeah,
- 51:13Speaker 1: things are so different now, and it's another thing that's
- 51:15Speaker 1: become so normalized.
- 51:16Speaker 2: And then you don't want them to like resent you
- 51:19Speaker 2: for that or say why didn't you tell us? You know,
- 51:21Speaker 2: and it's part of life, you know. Not everybody can
- 51:24Speaker 2: you know, has good sperm to have a baby. Not
- 51:25Speaker 2: everybody has the eggs. So I think it's just part
- 51:27Speaker 2: of like educating and communicating, just sitting down and having
- 51:31Speaker 2: like a real talk.
- 51:32Speaker 1: That's right, Okay, I don't think I have another question
- 51:35Speaker 1: about that.
- 51:36Speaker 2: Okay, what do you want? You want a spirm donation?
- 51:39Speaker 2: I think you want to go to one of those
- 51:41Speaker 2: sperm banks.
- 51:41Speaker 1: Oh, my days. It's never too late my day, It's
- 51:44Speaker 1: never too late. I can't help.
- 51:45Speaker 2: You can have somebody, you can have somebody.
- 51:48Speaker 1: Oh god, you think I'm gonna have a baby now,
- 51:51Speaker 1: when when I'm starting to have some real fun.
- 51:54Speaker 2: I want you to be the baby.
- 51:55Speaker 1: I want you. Yeah, yeah, you gotta take care of me.
- 51:58Speaker 1: I will, ma'am may I was fun.
- 52:01Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been so much fun. I love being at
- 52:04Speaker 2: your house. Thank you having I think we're so much better.
- 52:08Speaker 2: We're together. Yes, next week we'll be doing it at
- 52:12Speaker 2: my house.
- 52:13Speaker 1: Yes, next week we're going to do the podcast together
- 52:16Speaker 1: at your house. I can't wait to say it. I
- 52:17Speaker 1: haven't been to your new home yet. Bro, it's got
- 52:19Speaker 1: some new digs. Maybe you should take us on a
- 52:22Speaker 1: little mini tour.
- 52:23Speaker 2: I'm not doing not no, now, welcome to my house.
- 52:28Speaker 2: Not doing that. I want to keep that private. I
- 52:30Speaker 2: want to keep that private. Just the background. Okay, thank yours,
- 52:34Speaker 2: But anyways, until next time, guys, have a great weekend.
- 52:38Speaker 2: Thanks for listening. Follow us on Instagram at iPort Forward Podcast.
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