Latest / Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families / #791 The Parental Guidance Season 2 Debrief With Allison Langdon
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- 0:03Speaker 1: It's the Happy Families podcast.
- 0:05Speaker 2: It's the podcast for the time poor parent who just
- 0:09Speaker 2: wants answers.
- 0:10Speaker 3: Now, well, it's finally done. Parental Guidance Season two has
- 0:14Speaker 3: come to a close. We've talked about it at nauseum
- 0:16Speaker 3: on the podcast for the last couple of weeks, and
- 0:18Speaker 3: now we have one last conversation that has to be had,
- 0:23Speaker 3: and that is with the ultimate star of the show.
- 0:26Speaker 2: I feel like there needs to be some drum rolls.
- 0:28Speaker 3: We have Jr.
- 0:28Speaker 2: For that.
- 0:34Speaker 3: I'm really excited for this. Of all the people that
- 0:36Speaker 3: we could talk to, I love talking to the parents,
- 0:38Speaker 3: I love understanding what's going through their minds. I love
- 0:41Speaker 3: the way we've been able to incorporate the show into
- 0:43Speaker 3: the podcast. But really everybody just wants to know what
- 0:46Speaker 3: Allison Langdon thinks about the Parental Guidance season two. And so,
- 0:51Speaker 3: just like at the beginning of the season, you interviewed
- 0:54Speaker 3: Melissa MacLean, the executive producer of the show, and I
- 0:57Speaker 3: stayed quiet except when I couldn't help myself. You're in
- 1:01Speaker 3: the hot seat again. You've starting to create a bit
- 1:03Speaker 3: of a habit of doing high quality interviews missus Happy Families.
- 1:06Speaker 3: So it's over to you talking with Allison Langdon, the
- 1:10Speaker 3: host of the hit TV show Parental Guidance on Channel nine.
- 1:14Speaker 3: And I believe, Alie, you also do some other show
- 1:17Speaker 3: that I'm not sure if it's as popular as Parental Guidance.
- 1:20Speaker 3: How do you what's that? What's what's the name of it? Again?
- 1:28Speaker 2: Were you still on my thunder again? I know.
- 1:32Speaker 3: I didn't know what you were going to ask. I
- 1:33Speaker 3: was trying to be tricky and cheeky.
- 1:35Speaker 2: But Allie, your routine has changed. You've gone from morning
- 1:38Speaker 2: TV with the Today Show and now you're doing a
- 1:41Speaker 2: current affair. How have your mornings changed at home?
- 1:46Speaker 4: The mornings are a revelation. It is it is a
- 1:49Speaker 4: man And can I say I let my kids in
- 1:50Speaker 4: the morning a lot more than my kids at night, right,
- 1:53Speaker 4: And They've been a big part of the change for thinking,
- 1:56Speaker 4: Oh gee, but I'm home every night with the kids.
- 1:59Speaker 4: I picked them up from school every afternoon, even though
- 2:02Speaker 4: I'm not there in the mornings. And now I just find,
- 2:05Speaker 4: you know what, They're delightful in the mornings. They're sweet,
- 2:09Speaker 4: and they're still cuddly and we have cuddles in bed.
- 2:11Speaker 4: I don't even call work till after we've walked them
- 2:13Speaker 4: to school, so I had sort of my work brain
- 2:17Speaker 4: doesn't even kick in till nine o'clock and they're up
- 2:20Speaker 4: at five thirty in the morning. So I have this
- 2:22Speaker 4: enormous time with them where the TV doesn't go on,
- 2:26Speaker 4: there's no technology, it's us as a family, and it
- 2:30Speaker 4: is wonderful, so good.
- 2:33Speaker 2: That is amazing. Congratulations on season two are Parental Guidance.
- 2:38Speaker 2: It must have gone really really well. I know that
- 2:41Speaker 2: it went well, but it must have gone really well
- 2:42Speaker 2: for us to have another season under our belt. And
- 2:45Speaker 2: I'm wondering if, now that we've got a second season,
- 2:50Speaker 2: if you have been thinking about your own parenting style
- 2:53Speaker 2: and whether or not you see it in other parents,
- 2:56Speaker 2: or whether or not your parenting styles actually changed as
- 3:00Speaker 2: a result of being on the show.
- 3:02Speaker 4: You know what, I would say it changed significantly after
- 3:05Speaker 4: the first and during the first season of Parental Guidance.
- 3:10Speaker 4: For one, I just got to sit next to your
- 3:11Speaker 4: delightful husband every time and Picky's brains. Most conversations will
- 3:17Speaker 4: start with so like I've got this friend who does this,
- 3:21Speaker 4: and it's like al al, yeah, okay, this.
- 3:25Speaker 3: Is actually that, this is actually true.
- 3:28Speaker 2: I know I don't tell lies.
- 3:31Speaker 4: And you know, and I could tell by his reaction
- 3:34Speaker 4: in his face if that was a good parenting hack
- 3:36Speaker 4: or not.
- 3:37Speaker 2: And it's hiding things, is he no?
- 3:40Speaker 4: No, no, not at all. He's his face doesn't lie.
- 3:42Speaker 4: I can't tell I like any and and so it
- 3:45Speaker 4: was just it was just wonderful, especially that first season
- 3:50Speaker 4: because my husband I'd never even talked about how we parent,
- 3:52Speaker 4: and so I think from from that point it was
- 3:55Speaker 4: great that we just had this conversation and we kind
- 3:58Speaker 4: of worked out what we do is what we do.
- 4:00Speaker 4: But there were really key things that Justin told me,
- 4:04Speaker 4: and that was things like, you know, and we had
- 4:06Speaker 4: our kids then were what three and five or two
- 4:09Speaker 4: and four, I would do the whole stop, just calm down,
- 4:14Speaker 4: and you know, and I remember Justin saying to me, okay, Alie,
- 4:18Speaker 4: So say you're worked up about something and your husband,
- 4:20Speaker 4: Mike turns and tells you to calm down. Do you
- 4:22Speaker 4: come down?
- 4:23Speaker 1: Go? I come out of him with helicopter ass if
- 4:25Speaker 1: you had to tell me that, and it so, why
- 4:27Speaker 1: do you think your kids are any different?
- 4:29Speaker 4: It's like, I mean, you know, now that you say
- 4:32Speaker 4: it feels really obvious and sounds obvious, but it's all
- 4:35Speaker 4: those really little tricks and just getting down on their
- 4:38Speaker 4: level when they're having those big emotions as opposed to like,
- 4:41Speaker 4: you know, losing McColl with it, which I previously did.
- 4:45Speaker 4: And this season was just great because I think it's
- 4:48Speaker 4: branched out with those sort of styles that we saw,
- 4:51Speaker 4: and once again it's one where you go, Okay, I
- 4:55Speaker 4: see how that one works in that environment and that
- 4:57Speaker 4: that is perfect for there, and you do you pick
- 5:00Speaker 4: up different hacks and bits and pieces that different parenting
- 5:03Speaker 4: styles do, and some that probably wouldn't necessarily fit with
- 5:07Speaker 4: how I would sit naturally. You know, I learned a
- 5:10Speaker 4: lot from the gentle parents and the spiritual parents, and
- 5:13Speaker 4: I don't think that's where I sort of naturally sit
- 5:15Speaker 4: in my parenting style. It's more kind of free range
- 5:19Speaker 4: and sometimes strict. I don't know, it's still all over
- 5:22Speaker 4: the shop.
- 5:23Speaker 3: Right, but I was about to compliment you for yourself
- 5:25Speaker 3: awareness and it just went everywhere. It's everywhere.
- 5:29Speaker 4: It's still everywhere, but it's slightly more consistently everywhere.
- 5:35Speaker 2: So there's very little on TV that is actually instructive
- 5:41Speaker 2: and you know, generally useful practical for parents especially do
- 5:47Speaker 2: you feel any sense of responsibility to how things come
- 5:52Speaker 2: across on the show, or are you just happy to
- 5:56Speaker 2: kind of let things flow.
- 5:58Speaker 4: I definitely feel a responsibilit I think it's something that
- 6:01Speaker 4: justin probably feels as well, because we want to be
- 6:03Speaker 4: celebrating parenthood and however on parents, and we want to
- 6:07Speaker 4: be celebrating the kids because we're all there but the
- 6:10Speaker 4: same goal in mind, if we want to raise these wonderful, kind,
- 6:14Speaker 4: well rounded children who go out and do amazing things
- 6:17Speaker 4: in the world. So every single person in that room
- 6:20Speaker 4: wants the same thing for their kids, and so you
- 6:22Speaker 4: feel a great responsibility to ensure that each style is
- 6:26Speaker 4: represented fairly, I guess because there are moments where you
- 6:31Speaker 4: have certain challenges where certain styles they shine and others
- 6:36Speaker 4: kind of do fall apart under those particular pressures. But
- 6:40Speaker 4: you also know that the next time we get to
- 6:42Speaker 4: the next challenge, it's probably going to shift entirely and
- 6:45Speaker 4: it's going to be the other way around. So you
- 6:47Speaker 4: really do you really feel that you know every single
- 6:50Speaker 4: person in that room is doing their very best to
- 6:54Speaker 4: be the best parent they can be, and so you
- 6:57Speaker 4: want to make sure that that is celebrated. Would you
- 7:00Speaker 4: agree with that justin I think that was something that
- 7:02Speaker 4: was sort of top of our list really with this show.
- 7:05Speaker 3: Hundred percent. There's something that I also I know this
- 7:08Speaker 3: is Kylie's interview with you, Ali, but I really want
- 7:10Speaker 3: to do what I always do and say a bit
- 7:12Speaker 3: more than I probably should. I actually want to compliment
- 7:15Speaker 3: you watching the season back, watching what happened. I mean,
- 7:19Speaker 3: because we sit there and the days are long, right,
- 7:22Speaker 3: we have these long days in the studio and the
- 7:24Speaker 3: conversations along. We've taken like six full days of studio time,
- 7:29Speaker 3: ten hours a day in the studio, and condensed it
- 7:31Speaker 3: into these seven episodes of parental guidance. What I saw
- 7:37Speaker 3: in you, I'm not quite sure how to put it
- 7:40Speaker 3: to words, because I wasn't preparing for an interview. It
- 7:42Speaker 3: was all Kylie. But as Kylie's asked that question, you've
- 7:44Speaker 3: given that answer. I guess I just really wanted to
- 7:46Speaker 3: compliment you, Alie, the human way in which you come across,
- 7:50Speaker 3: the way that you related to the families, and the
- 7:53Speaker 3: way that you I mean, there were so many times
- 7:55Speaker 3: when you look at me and you're blubbering on the
- 7:57Speaker 3: TV about what we've just seen happen.
- 8:00Speaker 2: That's not true.
- 8:00Speaker 4: I never cry. I'm super tough and I'm heart all right,
- 8:04Speaker 4: and don't you go ruining this for me. Justin all right,
- 8:07Speaker 4: I've worked very hard. I've got a reputivity.
- 8:09Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that you did some serious damage to
- 8:11Speaker 3: reputation because it was a real.
- 8:14Speaker 4: We feel it, right like you know, those those those
- 8:18Speaker 4: moments when you when you see one of them, you know,
- 8:22Speaker 4: and there's there's a particular challenge in I think it's
- 8:24Speaker 4: in the first episode to do with with online and
- 8:29Speaker 4: when you see a parent's reaction to something that they've
- 8:32Speaker 4: spoken to their kids about and and then you see
- 8:35Speaker 4: them do something entirely different and unexpected, and that we
- 8:40Speaker 4: all feel that, Yeah, we all feel for that parent.
- 8:43Speaker 4: And you know, there's not a single person in that
- 8:45Speaker 4: room thinking, oh, gee, well that wouldn't have happened, because
- 8:48Speaker 4: my parenting style is this, We just every one of
- 8:51Speaker 4: us just felt for that family, and all of us
- 8:54Speaker 4: imagined it was our kids in that scenario.
- 8:56Speaker 3: And I look at it.
- 8:57Speaker 4: You know, my kids are still little, I mean, you know,
- 9:00Speaker 4: getting a little bit older, but a lot of this stuff,
- 9:02Speaker 4: I know that this is all the stuff that's coming
- 9:04Speaker 4: ahead of me. And yeah, I think you just you
- 9:07Speaker 4: put yourself in it for a lot, and you just
- 9:09Speaker 4: you just feel for everybody when it doesn't go the
- 9:12Speaker 4: way they want it to go.
- 9:13Speaker 3: Kyler, did you hear a little of fear in Allie's voice?
- 9:16Speaker 3: Is she said that my kids are getting older, and.
- 9:18Speaker 2: It's just that.
- 9:21Speaker 4: Like a little bit of fear, like shaking with fear. Well,
- 9:26Speaker 4: but that was one of the things that did teach
- 9:28Speaker 4: me to like, like, I am fearful of technology with
- 9:33Speaker 4: I mean not fifth, I mean I just don't like it,
- 9:35Speaker 4: I guess at the end of the day, and so
- 9:37Speaker 4: I think it's that one thing I should keep out
- 9:39Speaker 4: of our kids' lives as much as possible. But that
- 9:42Speaker 4: was one thing I learned from it from this show
- 9:43Speaker 4: is that you can't do that. I mean, it's here
- 9:46Speaker 4: you can be really responsible in how you use it.
- 9:49Speaker 4: And it comes down to Justin's three c's. I can't
- 9:52Speaker 4: remember what the seas stand for.
- 9:54Speaker 2: Remember you sound very intelligent being able to say that
- 10:01Speaker 2: you know the three seeds.
- 10:02Speaker 3: You know that Justin has three seeds. I'll send you
- 10:04Speaker 3: a copy of my new book. Okay, I don't know
- 10:05Speaker 3: if you've got the Parenting Revolution yet, but you should
- 10:07Speaker 3: have gotten the media copy, but if you don't, I'll
- 10:09Speaker 3: get a copy to you because those three seeds are important.
- 10:12Speaker 1: I'm just saying, what's the one that's bad again? What's
- 10:15Speaker 1: the bad seed? The bad I mean, not the bad,
- 10:18Speaker 1: not that bad seat the other bade you talk. You
- 10:21Speaker 1: talk about the screen seeds, the three seeds of screens screen. Ah, yeah, okay,
- 10:25Speaker 1: so I thought you were talking about different three seeds.
- 10:27Speaker 2: You're not complicating.
- 10:30Speaker 3: I love the literation. People remember well. I thought people
- 10:33Speaker 3: remembered things when they used the literation, but evidently they don't.
- 10:35Speaker 3: They just remember there were three seeds, so there was
- 10:39Speaker 3: I've just gone blank. How bad is that people use
- 10:41Speaker 3: screens for creation, for connection, and for consumption?
- 10:46Speaker 4: Consumption?
- 10:47Speaker 3: That's the bad one, yea, well, not always, not always.
- 10:50Speaker 3: You can't tarnish your consumption with it's bad. But let's
- 10:53Speaker 3: not go down that avenue because I don't.
- 10:55Speaker 2: Want to just stop hijack.
- 10:56Speaker 3: I don't want to send k close interview sideways.
- 11:02Speaker 2: We had this really nice moment there just a minute ago. Ali,
- 11:04Speaker 2: We're going to go back there because emotions were actually
- 11:08Speaker 2: really close to the surface a lot of times on
- 11:10Speaker 2: the screen, and I'm guessing that that's probably quite a
- 11:14Speaker 2: unique experience for you as a host. I'm wondering how
- 11:18Speaker 2: you've found having to navigate I guess the emotional temperature
- 11:22Speaker 2: in the room and whether or not that was particularly
- 11:24Speaker 2: draining for you.
- 11:27Speaker 4: I'll admit there wasn't much left in the tank by
- 11:29Speaker 4: the end of each day because it is exactly that,
- 11:32Speaker 4: and because you want these conversations to you want everyone
- 11:36Speaker 4: to get their point across, and we still it's television.
- 11:39Speaker 4: It's still to be entertaining. So you know, when there's
- 11:42Speaker 4: a bit of fire in the room, it's great, but
- 11:45Speaker 4: you've still got to manage that and ensure that everyone's
- 11:48Speaker 4: being respectful in that. So, I mean you would have seen,
- 11:51Speaker 4: like with there are different times when the parenting style
- 11:55Speaker 4: does extraordinarily well and then other times when it's really
- 11:59Speaker 4: under pressure, and when that room really challenges that parenting style,
- 12:04Speaker 4: it can it gets heated and you don't want to
- 12:08Speaker 4: stop that debate because it's kind of what we're there for.
- 12:11Speaker 4: But you've also got to be really mindful of how
- 12:14Speaker 4: everyone's reacting to it and how much people can take
- 12:17Speaker 4: in regards to that criticism. So I think you know,
- 12:21Speaker 4: justin and I of sitting in those chairs when everyone's talking,
- 12:25Speaker 4: you're reading the rest of the room, and you're sort
- 12:27Speaker 4: of you're sort of seeing then how far you can
- 12:29Speaker 4: push some of these conversations, and when it's time to
- 12:31Speaker 4: sort of, you know, step in and remind, you know,
- 12:35Speaker 4: remind everyone that we're humans and to sort of just
- 12:38Speaker 4: be mindful of that.
- 12:40Speaker 2: I think one of the strengths of the show is
- 12:42Speaker 2: the fact that you see the good, the bad, and
- 12:46Speaker 2: the ugly. It's not a betrayal of perfect parenting. And
- 12:51Speaker 2: like you acknowledged, in one moment, they just shine and
- 12:55Speaker 2: in the next moment they crash. And the reality that
- 12:59Speaker 2: all of us experiences that on a day to day
- 13:01Speaker 2: basis is just really powerful to watch as a viewer.
- 13:07Speaker 4: We all have good days and bad days. Yeah, totally,
- 13:10Speaker 4: and we just don't have a camera a TV crew
- 13:13Speaker 4: in our house when it happens.
- 13:15Speaker 2: And again, I think the other powerful thing is being
- 13:18Speaker 2: able to watch it happen almost in real time and
- 13:23Speaker 2: recognize how we're acting counter to the way we actually believe.
- 13:28Speaker 2: And the thing that stands out to me with that
- 13:30Speaker 2: one is Deepak when he talks about how his children
- 13:33Speaker 2: are his great as teachers, and then he does the
- 13:37Speaker 2: reverse parking challenge and in that, you know, in that moment,
- 13:41Speaker 2: that high stressful moment, he's kind of going, no, no,
- 13:45Speaker 2: don't trust her, trust me, trust my voice.
- 13:47Speaker 3: My voice is more important than what happened.
- 13:50Speaker 2: Correct and total total failure right then and there. But
- 13:55Speaker 2: the fact that these parents were, for the most part,
- 13:58Speaker 2: really humble in the acknowledgment. Yeah, I actually got that
- 14:02Speaker 2: really wrong that time. And that's why I'm here. I
- 14:04Speaker 2: want to be better. I want to learn.
- 14:07Speaker 4: And that's the nice thing, isn't it. Because I remember
- 14:09Speaker 4: when this show started, was it going to be something
- 14:11Speaker 4: where all these parents come in and it's this my
- 14:14Speaker 4: way is the best, and no other parenting style comes close.
- 14:18Speaker 4: And then you're in the room with all these parents
- 14:20Speaker 4: and they believe in how they raise their kids, but
- 14:23Speaker 4: they're typically open to, you know, what else works and
- 14:28Speaker 4: what can we do to be better? Because we all
- 14:30Speaker 4: want to be better? Right And I thought in the
- 14:32Speaker 4: first season that I was brought in as a bad parent.
- 14:34Speaker 4: I've just started second season. I'm the perfect parent.
- 14:36Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah.
- 14:39Speaker 3: I mean, nobody will ever know because there's no film
- 14:43Speaker 3: crew following you.
- 14:45Speaker 4: This is why I say it, You're just going to
- 14:48Speaker 4: have to take my word for it. I'm always then
- 14:50Speaker 4: in the house. My children never fight, They always clean
- 14:55Speaker 4: up after themselves, exactly right.
- 14:58Speaker 3: Mornings are perfect.
- 15:02Speaker 2: There were some really really difficult moments to watch in
- 15:05Speaker 2: the show we had, you know, screen safety. We looked
- 15:10Speaker 2: at answering the door to strangers. There was the fire.
- 15:13Speaker 2: There were lots of moments that were really quite confronting
- 15:17Speaker 2: for parents. What stood out to you as being one
- 15:19Speaker 2: of the most challenging experiences.
- 15:22Speaker 4: I actually think it was opening the front door. And
- 15:26Speaker 4: I think because a lot of the conversations we have
- 15:29Speaker 4: around our kids with safety is what we do when
- 15:32Speaker 4: we're at the park. We talked to them about online.
- 15:36Speaker 4: Yet here we are, we have more people coming to
- 15:38Speaker 4: our house and deliveries with online shopping and all these
- 15:42Speaker 4: days that I don't think we've ever had the discussion
- 15:45Speaker 4: with the kids about not opening the door, because I
- 15:49Speaker 4: mean we as we learned, you know, it's just you.
- 15:52Speaker 4: The moment you cracked that door open, it's done. It's done,
- 15:59Speaker 4: and that scare the hell out of me. That one.
- 16:02Speaker 4: So I think that one was probably the most confronting.
- 16:05Speaker 2: And as a result of those experiences ALI as you
- 16:08Speaker 2: watch them, did it prompt any conversations that you had
- 16:11Speaker 2: at home with your kids?
- 16:12Speaker 4: I do know that with the stranger in the park
- 16:16Speaker 4: with puppies, that was one where Mac was watching. When
- 16:20Speaker 4: he was watching that, and he he was going, oh, Mum,
- 16:23Speaker 4: you never never go as strangers, do you. And I'm
- 16:26Speaker 4: sitting on the couch thinking I've had this really great
- 16:28Speaker 4: win and how good a parent am I? He understands it. Yes,
- 16:31Speaker 4: unless they've got puppies, then you'd absolutely go, wouldn't you.
- 16:34Speaker 4: It's like, Okay, there's a little bit more work to
- 16:38Speaker 4: do around this. We have watched it with the kids
- 16:40Speaker 4: and we've had some really important conversations. But you know,
- 16:43Speaker 4: I think those conversations have to take place as they're
- 16:46Speaker 4: actually seeing it and they can visualize it, and so
- 16:49Speaker 4: you know, that's a conversation that we've now had about
- 16:52Speaker 4: what happens when the doorbell rings and what you do
- 16:56Speaker 4: in that moment. I mean, we're currently not leaving the
- 16:58Speaker 4: kids at home on their own. I mean, I reckon
- 17:02Speaker 4: six more months before we do that, right, I mean,
- 17:05Speaker 4: you wouldn't leave six and a half. He'll be fine,
- 17:08Speaker 4: but not home on their own. But it is one
- 17:10Speaker 4: of those things for down the track that need to
- 17:13Speaker 4: be aware of.
- 17:14Speaker 2: Well, Allie, I could talk to you all day. There
- 17:15Speaker 2: are so many more questions that I want to ask you.
- 17:18Speaker 3: That was much nicer to you than cheers to me.
- 17:21Speaker 4: Well, that's true, I think I like you more.
- 17:26Speaker 2: That is not true.
- 17:27Speaker 4: I adore your husband and for doing the show. He's
- 17:32Speaker 4: sitting next to him telling me to stop talking, stop
- 17:36Speaker 4: saying nice things. But I mean, he's a wonderful human
- 17:39Speaker 4: being and he's got a beautiful way with you know,
- 17:41Speaker 4: the wisdom and all that he shares and the advice
- 17:45Speaker 4: and that it's never attacking parents, and it's just always
- 17:47Speaker 4: so helpful, and you know, he's made me a better parent.
- 17:51Speaker 4: So but now I'm gonna say some really mean things
- 17:53Speaker 4: about him, so he doesn't get a big cat.
- 17:54Speaker 2: Great give them to me. Come on, come on, Allie.
- 18:00Speaker 3: I watched season two though, as everyone else says around
- 18:02Speaker 3: the country, and Alie, I feel like I need to
- 18:05Speaker 3: be a little bit crankier in season three. I feel
- 18:07Speaker 3: like I feel like I just need to be a
- 18:09Speaker 3: bit firmer on a few things like well, you know what,
- 18:12Speaker 3: I'm not going to talk about them now, We've talked
- 18:13Speaker 3: about it for the last couple of weeks on the podcast,
- 18:15Speaker 3: but I think season three we might see a not heaps,
- 18:19Speaker 3: but just I'm going to ratchet it up a couple
- 18:21Speaker 3: of levels, and I think the challenges are going to
- 18:22Speaker 3: go up a level or two as well, if we're
- 18:25Speaker 3: lucky enough to get a season.
- 18:27Speaker 5: Three The Darker side of Doctor Justin Coulson anyway, coming
- 18:31Speaker 5: to you season three, Well, if I could say one
- 18:36Speaker 5: thing to wrap things up, what stands out to me
- 18:39Speaker 5: the most is that in every family there needs to
- 18:41Speaker 5: be somebody.
- 18:42Speaker 2: Who is the glue that holds it all together. And
- 18:45Speaker 2: you just did such a beautiful job of bringing just
- 18:51Speaker 2: structure and definitely control of the room, but warmth. And
- 18:56Speaker 2: I loved seeing that that moment when you took Kat out.
- 18:59Speaker 3: Of the room.
- 19:00Speaker 2: I don't think there was a dry eye in all
- 19:02Speaker 2: of Australia and it was just beautiful that you were
- 19:05Speaker 2: able to be there and to take that beautifully maternal
- 19:08Speaker 2: approach and help her through what was such a challenging moment.
- 19:13Speaker 2: And I just I just want to tell you how
- 19:15Speaker 2: much I appreciated that the show in general, but just
- 19:19Speaker 2: I'm speechless, speechless.
- 19:23Speaker 4: Job but I mean in that moment, right, I mean
- 19:26Speaker 4: you were sitting at home and watching it, and all
- 19:28Speaker 4: you wanted to do was to give Kat a hug.
- 19:30Speaker 4: I mean I was in the room and I was
- 19:31Speaker 4: in a position where I could That's all I wanted
- 19:33Speaker 4: to do in that moment. That's instinct, right, And you
- 19:36Speaker 4: would have done it, Kylie if you were sitting there
- 19:37Speaker 4: and you just just to wrap your arms around her
- 19:40Speaker 4: and tell her it's going to be okay.
- 19:43Speaker 2: Yeah, it was beautiful to watch. So I can't wait
- 19:45Speaker 2: for season three. Just saying no because we get cranky cool, well,
- 19:52Speaker 2: that means you need to be more mellow.
- 19:54Speaker 3: I can do I can do that.
- 19:55Speaker 4: Let him have all the hard conversations.
- 19:58Speaker 3: I put my feet up.
- 20:00Speaker 4: I won't even say a word.
- 20:01Speaker 5: I think.
- 20:02Speaker 3: I think that Australia is going to experience a Langdon
- 20:04Speaker 3: withdraw with you only being on our TV screens for
- 20:07Speaker 3: half an hour every night at seven o'clock.
- 20:11Speaker 4: There's been a bit, hasn't that, And it's been very
- 20:13Speaker 4: strange going Okay, thank you for watching a current affair
- 20:17Speaker 4: hang around for me on more TV show about me,
- 20:23Speaker 4: not about me, but a show I am part of.
- 20:26Speaker 2: Well, thanks so much, for talking to us, Elie. We
- 20:29Speaker 2: just love having you on and I can't wait to
- 20:30Speaker 2: do it again.
- 20:32Speaker 4: I can't either, Thanks guys.
- 20:33Speaker 3: Allison Langdon the host of A Current Affair and Parental
- 20:36Speaker 3: Guidance Season two, which has just concluded on your screens
- 20:39Speaker 3: on Channel nine. If you want to see the rest
- 20:41Speaker 3: of it or catch up on what you haven't seen,
- 20:43Speaker 3: you can visit the nine Now app, download the nine
- 20:46Speaker 3: Now Apple I should say and watch Parental Guidance there.
- 20:49Speaker 3: The Happy Family's podcast is produced by Justin Rowland from
- 20:51Speaker 3: Bridge Media. Craig Bruce is our executive producer. We loved
- 20:55Speaker 3: having you along for the Parental Guidance right. Hopefully we
- 20:57Speaker 3: get to do it again. The Happy Family's Podcast turns
- 21:00Speaker 3: tomorrow with I'll Do Better Tomorrow as we discuss how
- 21:03Speaker 3: we can be better parents.