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No Excuses, Just Hard Work – Level Up. · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: You're afraid. You don't know how it's going to work out.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't feel good, perfectly fine, But but I've come
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  Speaker 1: to understand. I've come to realize that the beauty of
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  Speaker 1: life isn't in pursuing happiness, it's in pursuing experiences.
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  Speaker 2: Four hundred trillion to one, that's how rare it is
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  Speaker 2: to be a human being.
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  Speaker 3: And what are you waiting for?
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  Speaker 2: Like you've been given this ridiculous triple miracle, Like you're
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  Speaker 2: literally more likely to win the lotto ten times in
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  Speaker 2: your life that actually have a life.
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  Speaker 4: Were the lucky ones. We're the ones who get to die.
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  Speaker 4: Most people who could ever exist will never even be born.
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  Speaker 5: Plactors don't make Barnmit pact doesn't make Barmanen, and.
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  Speaker 6: You won't die, And if you do die, you won't
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  Speaker 6: care because you'll be dead, and so best case you win,
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  Speaker 6: worst case it won't matter.
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  Speaker 7: It's tom to stay focused. It's grind season, homie. It's
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  Speaker 7: not about today, it's about the future.
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  Speaker 8: And I'm telling you from the bottom of my soul,
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  Speaker 8: it is so easy to beat people today. They are
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  Speaker 8: so soft, they have no work ethic. No one gets
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  Speaker 8: stick with anything. Everyone's distracted. There are social media. They're
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  Speaker 8: kind of the edifications because they can't stick with shit,
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  Speaker 8: they can't say no, find something difficult to do.
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  Speaker 9: You need that.
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  Speaker 10: You're not built for comfort or pleasure. Like if that
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  Speaker 10: comes along good. You know, if you have a day
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  Speaker 10: where you're comfortable and there's some things around you that
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  Speaker 10: give pleasure, have some sense and enjoy it, but don't
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  Speaker 10: be thinking that's what your life is aimed at. There's
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  Speaker 10: a lot of potential you locked in your genetic coat,
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  Speaker 10: and then if you put yourself in a new situation,
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  Speaker 10: then then the stress that's the situation, rational stress that's
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  Speaker 10: produced by that particular situation unlocks those genes and then
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  Speaker 10: builds new parts of you. And so that's very cool
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  Speaker 10: because who knows how much there is locked inside of you?
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  Speaker 11: Honestly, just lock in, man, I think the biggest thing
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  Speaker 11: nowadays everybody has social media and stuff, and like sometimes
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  Speaker 11: you just got to put the phone down.
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  Speaker 12: Sometimes you got to figure out who you are.
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  Speaker 11: And I see people all the time like how do
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  Speaker 11: you figure out what you want to do? And like
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  Speaker 11: I got big dreams to be rich and famous or
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  Speaker 11: just rich, but I just don't know what to do
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  Speaker 11: I got so many things.
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  Speaker 12: I want to do.
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  Speaker 11: A lot of people don't like remove their self from
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  Speaker 11: the crowd, or like they you never put down the weed,
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  Speaker 11: or you never put down the alcohol, or you got
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  Speaker 11: to really remove yourself from all all this stuff, and
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  Speaker 11: like maybe put down your phone for ones. Just think
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  Speaker 11: and like just sit back and sometimes it might make
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  Speaker 11: you cry, you might be to go into some deep depressions,
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  Speaker 11: but it will trigger that that thing in your brain
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  Speaker 11: to think and to figure out what you really want
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  Speaker 11: to do.
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  Speaker 13: Jimmy Copp broke my brain with this one. Every One
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  Speaker 13: is jealous of what you've got. No one is jealous
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  Speaker 13: of how you got it. People see the trophies, but
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  Speaker 13: not the training ground.
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  Speaker 12: Everybody wants the view, but no one wants to climb.
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  Speaker 11: I don't expect to believe in my dream like I
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  Speaker 11: believe in my dream. And the problem with some of
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  Speaker 11: y'all is you want somebody else to support your dream.
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  Speaker 9: It's yours. I don't know you and die it's your dream.
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  Speaker 11: If we wanted to have it, get your butt up
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  Speaker 11: and make it happen.
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  Speaker 14: If we wanted to have it, rise and ride.
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  Speaker 9: This is my time, This is my moment.
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  Speaker 11: Tomorrow, Tomorrow, Tomorrow ain't no such thing as tomorrow.
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  Speaker 15: We only die today.
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  Speaker 16: You've made no progress, none, you never moved. You might
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  Speaker 16: even be further from your goal than you were. Why
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  Speaker 16: why did you let that happen? It's because you lost
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  Speaker 16: sight of that long term goal. And at some point.
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  Speaker 17: After you lose sight of that goal and years have
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  Speaker 17: gone by, you think to yourself, maybe I can't, maybe
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  Speaker 17: I can't do it, and so you give up and
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  Speaker 17: you let it fade, and you settle.
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  Speaker 16: You settle for mediocrity, you settle for average, you settle for.
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  Speaker 18: Oh well, but no, no, don't do that.
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  Speaker 19: That goal.
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  Speaker 16: Isn't going to achieve itself.
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  Speaker 9: It's all on.
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  Speaker 15: You.
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  Speaker 20: You were born to do something great with your life.
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  Speaker 20: And when you were a little boy or a little girl,
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  Speaker 20: there was probably one person who made you feel that way,
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  Speaker 20: and you want to give yourself the gifts right now of.
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  Speaker 19: Who is that person?
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  Speaker 9: When you're a little girl or a little boy.
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  Speaker 21: They made you feel special, and there's probably only one,
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  Speaker 21: maybe two.
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  Speaker 20: Maybe it was your parents, or your grandmother or grandfather,
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  Speaker 20: a coach.
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  Speaker 21: There's someone that was in your life and that you
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  Speaker 21: felt something about you because of the way they looked
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  Speaker 21: at you or spoke to you, And the amazing thing
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  Speaker 21: about that is they were right.
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  Speaker 9: What's stopping you?
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  Speaker 22: Are you too tired, take good enough sleep, don't have
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  Speaker 22: enough energy, don't have enough time? Is that what's stopping
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  Speaker 22: you right now? Don't have enough money? Is that the
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  Speaker 22: thing or is the thing that's stopping you?
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  Speaker 7: You excuse to sound best to the person that's making
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  Speaker 7: them up. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Get off the
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  Speaker 7: pity party, telling everybody your sad and soft story, trying
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  Speaker 7: to get people to show up to your pity parties
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  Speaker 7: and your pity parades.
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  Speaker 19: If you ever see me.
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  Speaker 7: In a Rose Royce, a private plane, a six or
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  Speaker 7: seven star hotel, living my life to the fullest, don't
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  Speaker 7: hate on me, don't get jealous of me, because I
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  Speaker 7: work my ass off to get it. Everything about my
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  Speaker 7: life and career I've earned it. Ain't nobody gave me,
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  Speaker 7: Nobody handed me nothing. Wake your ass up, Awaken the
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  Speaker 7: beast inside.
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  Speaker 19: It's game on, it's ghost season.
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  Speaker 7: It's time for you to take advantage of If you're America,
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  Speaker 7: take advantage of the access and the resources that you
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  Speaker 7: have in your country and your community.
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  Speaker 19: You got a problem with your life.
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  Speaker 7: You got a problem with your environment, do something about it.
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  Speaker 19: If you want it, go get it.
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  Speaker 23: If you place your dreams in front of the crowd,
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  Speaker 23: you risk ridicule. If you go forward in the face
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  Speaker 23: of overwhelming ods, you risk failure. But risk must be
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  Speaker 23: taken for the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
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  Speaker 23: The person who risks nothing has nothing, does nothing, is
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  Speaker 23: nothing well in the world of ego is nothing. That
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  Speaker 23: person may avoid suffering pain and embarrassment, but that individual
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  Speaker 23: will not learn, love, change, feel, or grow. Only the
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  Speaker 23: person who takes risks is truly free.
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  Speaker 11: I want you to know something that the bigger your dream,
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  Speaker 11: I want you to understand the harder to grind.
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  Speaker 12: There.
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  Speaker 9: Listen to me.
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  Speaker 11: What I am telling you is that if you're willing
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  Speaker 11: to go be small, you could have whatever you want.
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  Speaker 11: I'm a living example. You could start from nothing. Some
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  Speaker 11: of you in this room.
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  Speaker 9: You might be an ad. You might have small beginnings.
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  Speaker 11: You might not have a lot of money, you might
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  Speaker 11: not have a lot of resources.
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  Speaker 9: But there's no excuse.
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  Speaker 12: You said.
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  Speaker 19: I'm not that lion.
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  Speaker 9: You might be the hand and the.
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  Speaker 11: Ad has very little, but he's determined, he's strong, he
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  Speaker 11: has a dream and a goal, and he'll do whatever
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  Speaker 11: it takes. And I need you to understand that the
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  Speaker 11: bigger your dream is, the earlier you're gonna have to
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  Speaker 11: get up, the longer you're gonna have to stay up.
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  Speaker 9: The bigger your dream is, the more effort you're gonna
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  Speaker 9: have to put in.
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  Speaker 24: I heard this one one beautiful advice and a mean
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  Speaker 24: and greet not too long ago. This therapist was like,
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  Speaker 24: I'm a therapist. I can give you a piece of
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  Speaker 24: a little word if I can. And she said, the
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  Speaker 24: way people treat you as a reflection of the way
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  Speaker 24: that they see you. The way you let people treat
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  Speaker 24: you as a reflection of how you see yourself.
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  Speaker 12: I don't want to hear a rest. I can't rest
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  Speaker 12: right now.
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  Speaker 9: I will hear what I'm doing to myself. I know
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  Speaker 9: what I'm doing to myself.
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  Speaker 12: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 14: It may be is you may you may be unbalanced,
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  Speaker 14: It may not look right to you.
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  Speaker 15: I don't give it.
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  Speaker 25: And I need people to say when I don't want
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  Speaker 25: to give her three in the morning, you need.
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  Speaker 12: To get this done.
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  Speaker 26: And I think from all of my experiences, all of
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  Speaker 26: my travels, the one thing I've learned is that that
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  Speaker 26: never give up spirit is everything.
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  Speaker 12: So whether you're surviving.
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  Speaker 27: Corona or a jungle, or a mountain or a desert,
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  Speaker 27: know the power of resilience, that never give up spirits,
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  Speaker 27: and you know the storms of life always come, but
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  Speaker 27: they also always pass.
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  Speaker 12: And tough times make tough people.
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  Speaker 9: So whoever you are, whether you're.
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  Speaker 26: A nurse or a health worker, or a single mom
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  Speaker 26: at home, or maybe just a teenager trying to get
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  Speaker 26: on with your brothers or s, remember peeky.
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  Speaker 12: That's why I need you to understand something.
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  Speaker 9: You can have it if you want it.
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  Speaker 11: But the bigger the dream, the bigger to dream, the
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  Speaker 11: bigger the dream, guys, the bigger the dream, the bigger
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  Speaker 11: the dream, the harder to grind.
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  Speaker 12: Don't give up. Don't say the world is just against me.
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  Speaker 12: That's not true. So a person can accomplish anything that
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  Speaker 12: they want.
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  Speaker 28: So my brother was the one who said I should
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  Speaker 28: be an actor. I said, what should I do with
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  Speaker 28: my life? He said, you should be an actor. You're
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  Speaker 28: as funny as Rodney Dangerfield and Eddie Murphy. And I
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  Speaker 28: never thought that, but he sort of. He just made
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  Speaker 28: me feel like I was. He's the one who brought
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  Speaker 28: me to Boston when I was seventeen years old. I
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  Speaker 28: was a senior in high school and he brought me
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  Speaker 28: to do a stand up comedy at Stitches Comedy Club.
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  Speaker 12: He set it all up.
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  Speaker 28: He says, you're getting to get on stage for you
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  Speaker 28: have five minutes to do jokes.
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  Speaker 12: What are you going to say?
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  Speaker 9: I said, I'm not sure.
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  Speaker 28: I'll just wing it, and you know you're supposed to prepare.
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  Speaker 28: So I went up there. I was terrible. I didn't
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  Speaker 28: I don't even know what I said. I was like
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  Speaker 28: in a fog, those weird fogs you get when you're
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  Speaker 28: a stand up sometimes when you lose your mind. I
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  Speaker 28: just kind of was babbling. I remember one guy screaming out.
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  Speaker 28: He still as a retainer for some reason. On the
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  Speaker 28: way home, my brother made me feel like I had
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  Speaker 28: the best set of any comedian that night, and he's like,
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  Speaker 28: you just got to prepare the next time. But they
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  Speaker 28: loved you, and in my head I was like they did.
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  Speaker 12: It's the thing.
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  Speaker 26: Life is going to knock you down, you know, especially
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  Speaker 26: if the goal or the mountain, all the project.
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  Speaker 12: Is big enough, but when life gets tough.
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  Speaker 29: The wild has reminded me over and over of the
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  Speaker 29: power of resilience. We've left so much through failure and
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  Speaker 29: through experience because life is all about how we recover
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  Speaker 29: for setbacks, how we work together under tough conditions. For me,
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  Speaker 29: that's the heart of what I speak about about, how to.
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  Speaker 12: Find courage in the big moments.
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  Speaker 29: Life is full of dream sealer's people who tell you
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  Speaker 29: can't or you're crazy to follow your dream don't listen.
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  Speaker 29: You've got to be naive enough to start and stubborn
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  Speaker 29: enough to finish.
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  Speaker 12: Right all along, Phil, dreams are for rookies.
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  Speaker 9: No no, no, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 12: Kid giving up is for rookies.
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  Speaker 16: I came back because I'm not quit, not yet.
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  Speaker 19: I'm willing to go to distance.
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  Speaker 12: How about you?
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  Speaker 30: And most people struggle their whole life to find out
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  Speaker 30: who they are, struggle their whole their whole life to
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  Speaker 30: find out what defines them, what they actually enjoy, and
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  Speaker 30: what they don't.
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  Speaker 14: So you just want to be like everybody else that
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  Speaker 14: roams the world, not knowing the power that's in them,
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  Speaker 14: being fine with being mediocre.
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  Speaker 12: You want to go back to who you were.
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  Speaker 14: David, I struggled my whole life, but I ran from it.
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  Speaker 14: So I started realizing that I gotta start facing the struggle.
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  Speaker 14: And I got be mentally strong for the struggle. So
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  Speaker 14: that's why I started coming up with like I'm training
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  Speaker 14: for life, and I found it out on my own
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  Speaker 14: pretty much. Is that through this, through through discipline, through
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  Speaker 14: self discipline, through repetition, through tons of repetition, the same
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  Speaker 14: thing that you don't want to do, And that's the
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  Speaker 14: key thing. Through repetition, the things you don't want to do,
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  Speaker 14: you develop mental armor for your mind. Start to armor
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  Speaker 14: your mind, and mind's like, okay, we suffer. We suffer
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  Speaker 14: every day.
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  Speaker 9: That's what we do.
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  Speaker 14: We do stuff that sucks every day. So then when
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  Speaker 14: the suck stuff comes, you're ready for it.
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  Speaker 31: If you have to ask how to get motivated to
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  Speaker 31: go to the gym, you don't need to be going
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  Speaker 31: to the gym. You don't want it enough. When you're
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  Speaker 31: sick and tired of looking and feeling like, you'll show
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  Speaker 31: up on them. I'll see you there because you're going
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  Speaker 31: to look in the mirror and you're gonna be like that.
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  Speaker 31: You gotta want to be in the gym. And if
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  Speaker 31: you're going to make this a lifestyle, you have to
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  Speaker 31: lower the barriers. Make the gym cheaper, closer, training partners,
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  Speaker 31: exercises you like, and you have to raise the impetus, goals, inspiration,
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  Speaker 31: and fucking goddamn real desire to be there.
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  Speaker 32: A person who thinks all the time has nothing to
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  Speaker 32: think about except thoughts.
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  Speaker 25: Who are you scared to fail in front of the
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  Speaker 25: reason so many of you are not doing what you
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  Speaker 25: want to do is you're scared to fail in some
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  Speaker 25: you're scared that your brother will judge you, your wife,
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  Speaker 25: your girlfriend, your husband, and most scary, your mom or
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  Speaker 25: your dad. You need to eliminate that end or own
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  Speaker 25: that fear, and put yourself in a position to succeed
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  Speaker 25: because with all of this, with all of this, we
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  Speaker 25: are now in the greatest era for the first time ever,
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  Speaker 25: with no money, with no goddamn connections. This can put
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  Speaker 25: you on the map if you're good enough, If you
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  Speaker 25: are good enough to be up here to make bling bling,
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  Speaker 25: If you are good enough, nobody's stopping you, not fucking.
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  Speaker 33: My deepest it is not that we are innaticate our
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  Speaker 33: deepest fears, that we are powerful beyond measure. It is
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  Speaker 33: our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. You're
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  Speaker 33: playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing
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  Speaker 33: enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure
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  Speaker 33: around you. We were all meant to shine, as children do.
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  Speaker 33: It's not just in some of us, it's in everyone.
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  Speaker 33: And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously
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  Speaker 33: give other people permission to do the same. As we
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  Speaker 33: are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
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  Speaker 9: It can't be weak.
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  Speaker 30: Jordan Peterson has a really interesting way of looking at this,
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  Speaker 30: and he said it to me once and it made
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  Speaker 30: a lot of sense. He said, people think that you
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  Speaker 30: should be weak, and you should be docile, and then
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  Speaker 30: you should be a pacifist. He goes, no, you should
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  Speaker 30: be a monster. He said, you should be a monster.
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  Speaker 30: You should be ruth leastly ambitious, and then learned how
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  Speaker 30: to control it. And it's that old expression, it's better
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  Speaker 30: to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener
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  Speaker 30: in a war.
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  Speaker 12: Your failure, and then you're getting back up.
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  Speaker 34: The man who never fail, the man who never fail
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  Speaker 34: has no glory. The man who fail and got back up,
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  Speaker 34: that's where his glory is. The man who fell twenty
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  Speaker 34: times and got up twenty one times.
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  Speaker 19: That man has even greater glory.
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  Speaker 34: Wow, that man has more courage, way more courage than
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  Speaker 34: the guy who was so strong.
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  Speaker 12: From birth that he never failed. There's no glory in that. Yeah.
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  Speaker 12: People don't know how to manage their emotions.
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  Speaker 6: I think the more, at least for me, the more
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  Speaker 6: I've tried to create space between how I feel and
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  Speaker 6: what I do, the more consistent my outcomes have been.
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  Speaker 35: For you all, And remember for me to every day
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  Speaker 35: that we are here is a gift.
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  Speaker 12: Every day that we have our health is a gift.
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  Speaker 36: No wonder I'm going to be somebody.
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  Speaker 19: You'll know when I.
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  Speaker 2: Just look at my face for somebody. Now, do you understand? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's the game. How was somebody long before people knew
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  Speaker 2: who I was? And I believed that you're somebody now?
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  Speaker 12: Adha bey? Sure Lord?
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  Speaker 33: What is the best lesson you learned from your parents?
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  Speaker 19: Oh?
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  Speaker 32: Wow, that's a really interesting question. I think there were
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  Speaker 32: I don't know why the Christians moved me so much,
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  Speaker 32: but it has. My parents were of the generation that
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  Speaker 32: went through a lot of things. They went through the Depression.
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  Speaker 32: My mother lost her father in the First War. But
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  Speaker 32: they were very stoic people, and I had a year
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  Speaker 32: at the university. It came to exam time and I
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  Speaker 32: realized I've done almost no work. It got me very anxious.
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  Speaker 32: Now I got her and Mom said, how are you doing?
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  Speaker 32: And I said, oh, Mom, I think I'm having a breakdown.
• 18:06
  Speaker 32: And I've got exams in a couple of weeks and
• 18:08
  Speaker 32: I don't know how I And she just looked at
• 18:11
  Speaker 32: me and she said, well, you're just going to have
• 18:14
  Speaker 32: to pull yourself together after you.
• 18:18
  Speaker 37: I'm limited by the technology of my time, but one
• 18:21
  Speaker 37: day you'll figure this out, and when you do, you
• 18:26
  Speaker 37: will change the world.
• 18:30
  Speaker 12: What is and always will be my greatest creation.
• 18:36
  Speaker 38: Is you.
• 18:40
  Speaker 39: To succeed at anything requires time and effort and boredom
• 18:44
  Speaker 39: and tedium. So let's just say a simple example. You're
• 18:48
  Speaker 39: learned to play the piano. If you think it's got
• 18:51
  Speaker 39: to be passion, forget it. You're never going to get far.
• 18:55
  Speaker 39: The thrill comes after a year of playing the piano,
• 18:58
  Speaker 39: and you get better at it, better and better, and
• 19:00
  Speaker 39: now starts coming fun.
• 19:03
  Speaker 20: Wise man once told me there's only one rule in
• 19:05
  Speaker 20: this world, small question that drives all success.
• 19:11
  Speaker 19: The more a man invests in that question, the more powerful,
• 19:15
  Speaker 19: and that man.
• 19:16
  Speaker 12: Will become can you guess what that question is? Mister Green?
• 19:24
  Speaker 19: What in it for me?
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: You're going to suck for a long time at something
• 19:31
  Speaker 6: before you become a master at it. And most people
• 19:33
  Speaker 6: don't have the ability, don't have any experience mastering anything
• 19:36
  Speaker 6: in life early on, and so they have to learn
• 19:39
  Speaker 6: how to work.
• 19:41
  Speaker 12: And so I think I think learning to work is
• 19:44
  Speaker 12: the most useful thing that you can do.
• 19:46
  Speaker 6: I mean, I think for me, I love finding input
• 19:50
  Speaker 6: output equations that equal like success of some kind.
• 19:54
  Speaker 40: We can stay here, get the shit kicked out of us, aw,
• 20:00
  Speaker 40: we can fight our way back into the light.
• 20:04
  Speaker 19: We can climb out of hell.
• 20:08
  Speaker 9: One inch at a time.
• 20:11
  Speaker 40: The margin for error is so small, I mean, one
• 20:15
  Speaker 40: half a step too late or too early and you
• 20:18
  Speaker 40: don't quite make it. One half second too slow, too fast,
• 20:21
  Speaker 40: you don't quite catch it. The inches we need are
• 20:25
  Speaker 40: everywhere around us.
• 20:27
  Speaker 9: Tell you they're in every break of the game.
• 20:31
  Speaker 12: Every minute, every second. In any fight, it's.
• 20:35
  Speaker 40: The guy who's willing to die who's gonna win that inch.
• 20:40
  Speaker 9: And I know, if I'm gonna have any life anymore.
• 20:43
  Speaker 40: It's because I'm still willing to fight and die for
• 20:47
  Speaker 40: that inch.
• 20:50
  Speaker 14: Now, what are you gonna do.
• 20:55
  Speaker 12: What the key concepts of life.
• 20:58
  Speaker 30: And even if you're not where you want to be
• 21:00
  Speaker 30: in life and you're grinding and you're on that hustle
• 21:02
  Speaker 30: and a.
• 21:03
  Speaker 9: Lot of people I get it, get it, keep grinding.
• 21:05
  Speaker 41: Getting but also appreciated. Appreciate that hustle, Appreciate this thing.
• 21:11
  Speaker 41: Appreciate this beautiful, chaotic, unknown existence you're in.
• 21:18
  Speaker 12: Yeah that you you don't know what the fuck is
• 21:20
  Speaker 12: gonna happen. It's open ended.
• 21:22
  Speaker 41: It's why it's man, It's a complete open loop experience.
• 21:27
  Speaker 41: You don't know what the fuck is coming next, and
• 21:29
  Speaker 41: you're just trying to enjoy the ride.
• 21:31
  Speaker 6: Most people respect excellence, and excellence only comes from depth.
• 21:36
  Speaker 6: It comes from exposing yourself to the same thing for many, many,
• 21:39
  Speaker 6: many many periods of time so that.
• 21:40
  Speaker 5: You can pick up those little nuances. It hurts keep going,
• 21:44
  Speaker 5: so you just puts on his art for a reason.
• 21:46
  Speaker 5: You were meant to be average, you were meant to excel.
• 21:49
  Speaker 5: Understand this grind is meant to make you who he's
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: supposed to be.
• 21:51
  Speaker 19: A dog.
• 21:52
  Speaker 9: The little grindin never hurt nobody. It's not being solved.
• 21:55
  Speaker 12: Lit's embrace it.
• 21:56
  Speaker 9: If you go through that fire, you're gonna come out
• 21:58
  Speaker 9: real cold.
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: That's what we So I wanted to project myself forward
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: to age eighty and say, Okay, now I'm looking back
• 22:06
  Speaker 3: on my life. I want to have minimize the number
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: of regrets I have. And you know, I knew that
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: when I was eighty, I was not going to regret
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: having tried this. I was not going to regret having wanted,
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: you know, trying to participate in this thing called the
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: Internet that I thought.
• 22:23
  Speaker 12: Was going to be a really big deal.
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: I knew that if I failed, I wouldn't regret that.
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: But I knew the one thing I might regret is
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: not ever having tried. And I knew that would haunt
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: me every day. When I thought about it that way,
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: it was an incredibly easy decision.
• 22:40
  Speaker 19: To get old.
• 22:41
  Speaker 12: You think about things wished tom in.
• 22:45
  Speaker 37: Historically, eighty percent of the time it ends up in
• 22:47
  Speaker 37: the can, like Johnny Shack.
• 22:51
  Speaker 19: Orich Reward.
• 22:53
  Speaker 12: Did I take enough risk that I put myself out
• 22:55
  Speaker 12: through it?
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: Definitely didn't. So you definitely did not. Here's how I
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: know it, At least again one man's point of view.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: I'm not sure anybody is taking enough risk from twenty
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: to thirty. It is the most interesting thing that I've
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: been thinking about, which is it is never more practical
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: to be disproportionately risky than from twenty two to thirty.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: Yet everybody goes the other way because now they're the
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: real world and it's time to prove something to their parents,
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: to themselves, to everybody else, and everybody goes conservative.
• 23:28
  Speaker 42: And that's when I realized that there's two ways to
• 23:30
  Speaker 42: see the world. Some people see the thing that they want,
• 23:34
  Speaker 42: and some people see the thing that prevents them from
• 23:37
  Speaker 42: getting the thing that they want.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: This next five year window is when you don't go
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: practical and safe. This is not the time to get
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: the job mom.
• 23:46
  Speaker 12: Wanted you to.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: This is the time to realize that you have a
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: five year window. And it's three for some, it's eight
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: for others. But there's a five year window for you
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: to attack the life that you want to win.
• 23:58
  Speaker 43: Don't ever lett somebody tell you you.
• 24:01
  Speaker 12: Can't do something, not even me.
• 24:05
  Speaker 9: You got a dream when.
• 24:08
  Speaker 43: You got to protect it. People can't do something themselves.
• 24:12
  Speaker 43: They want to tell you you can't do it. You
• 24:16
  Speaker 43: want something, go get it.
• 24:19
  Speaker 9: Period.
• 24:20
  Speaker 6: This is why I'm big believer in this is that
• 24:22
  Speaker 6: when you are starting out I think you gotta find
• 24:24
  Speaker 6: the thing that's the pain, And like pain motivates significantly
• 24:27
  Speaker 6: faster and stronger than pleasure does. Like people are like
• 24:30
  Speaker 6: no passion is the right way. It's like point a
• 24:31
  Speaker 6: gun at a family member all of a sudden ten
• 24:34
  Speaker 6: out of ten motivation pain, And so like I think
• 24:38
  Speaker 6: people should use their pain more.
• 24:41
  Speaker 12: It wouldn't kill you to try.
• 24:43
  Speaker 44: You know, spending a long time getting a life you
• 24:46
  Speaker 44: would actually want is about a million times better than
• 24:49
  Speaker 44: getting a quick turnaround time.
• 24:51
  Speaker 12: On a life that you'll forever be disappointed with.
• 24:54
  Speaker 44: You know, playing it safe seems just fine until you
• 24:57
  Speaker 44: get to the last moments of.
• 24:58
  Speaker 12: Your life realize all.
• 25:00
  Speaker 44: The potential that you throw away you can never get back.
• 25:04
  Speaker 44: And I will never know from experience what that feels like,
• 25:08
  Speaker 44: but the thought of that realization is hot.
• 25:11
  Speaker 45: Taking What matters is at some point you have to
• 25:16
  Speaker 45: identify what you want to do, and you've got to
• 25:18
  Speaker 45: become the best in the world at that period, not
• 25:20
  Speaker 45: really good, you've got to be the best.
• 25:21
  Speaker 12: In the world. So your thing in life at something,
• 25:26
  Speaker 12: you've got to become the best in the world at it.
• 25:28
  Speaker 45: And if you're not prepared to go in with that mentality,
• 25:31
  Speaker 45: you're never going.
• 25:32
  Speaker 12: To get anywhere.
• 25:32
  Speaker 46: I'm speaking to all of you out there that want
• 25:34
  Speaker 46: to do something unbelievable.
• 25:37
  Speaker 14: So many of us come from these small places in
• 25:40
  Speaker 14: our mind that we're not willing to think outside only
• 25:45
  Speaker 14: what we've seen. Our mind works in such a small compartment.
• 25:51
  Speaker 14: And one thing I was able to do was to
• 25:53
  Speaker 14: dream until you're able to really put yourself into that dream.
• 25:59
  Speaker 12: But don't make dreams your master.
• 26:01
  Speaker 14: That's where you truly become which you're destined to become.
• 26:06
  Speaker 47: So you're always trying to come up with reasons that
• 26:09
  Speaker 47: you don't have to.
• 26:09
  Speaker 15: Do it today.
• 26:11
  Speaker 47: But if you build, you're building the muscle. Either way,
• 26:16
  Speaker 47: you're either building the muscle that says I do what
• 26:20
  Speaker 47: I say, I keep the commitments that I make, or
• 26:25
  Speaker 47: you're building the muscle that says I make excuses, I
• 26:29
  Speaker 47: don't do what I say. I can't be counted on right.
• 26:32
  Speaker 47: And so when we think about discipline, it's really about
• 26:35
  Speaker 47: what promises are.
• 26:36
  Speaker 9: You going to keep?
• 26:37
  Speaker 47: And the tricky thing is you're keeping promises to yourself
• 26:41
  Speaker 47: and nobody even knows that you made right.
• 26:44
  Speaker 19: It's not it's not like, hey, you made this comment.
• 26:47
  Speaker 47: If I don't write this book by this time, like, uh,
• 26:53
  Speaker 47: you know I have to do this embarrassing thing, or
• 26:56
  Speaker 47: you know that all retire. You know they're not even
• 26:59
  Speaker 47: You're not really putting your ass on the line in
• 27:01
  Speaker 47: that sense. But you said to yourself you're gonna do
• 27:04
  Speaker 47: this thing, and building that muscle is really important.
• 27:07
  Speaker 9: You have to take chances in life.
• 27:09
  Speaker 48: If you don't take chances in life, you'll never have
• 27:12
  Speaker 48: the life God has for you.
• 27:14
  Speaker 9: Life is about risk.
• 27:17
  Speaker 48: If you play it safe in life, you ain't gonna
• 27:20
  Speaker 48: have much of a life. If you play it safe,
• 27:24
  Speaker 48: you won't have much of a life. Life is risk.
• 27:28
  Speaker 48: It takes courage to pursue your dreams. I just did it.
• 27:32
  Speaker 48: It cost me everything. But eventually God is very good man.
• 27:37
  Speaker 48: When he sees you take a leap of faith, he supplies.
• 27:41
  Speaker 9: You everything you need. Now, it's gonna cost you something.
• 27:44
  Speaker 48: But most people but are not willing to pay what
• 27:47
  Speaker 48: it costs to go after your dream because you're gonna
• 27:50
  Speaker 48: have to hurt a little bit.
• 27:52
  Speaker 49: So if there's times where questioning if you've anything left, No,
• 27:57
  Speaker 49: a day from that, and a week from that, and
• 27:58
  Speaker 49: a month and then a year from that, you will
• 28:01
  Speaker 49: never remember dis comfort, the pain, you will always remember.
• 28:05
  Speaker 12: The pride, the accomplishmentner that lives on. That's why pain
• 28:08
  Speaker 12: is temporary, pride forever.
• 28:10
  Speaker 49: Guys, you give it, you're all, You get it all tenfold.
• 28:15
  Speaker 12: What do you think all success starts with?
• 28:20
  Speaker 45: Well, the fast answer is mindset, going back to the
• 28:23
  Speaker 45: only beliefs that matters. You said it, it's the way
• 28:26
  Speaker 45: you act is ultimately all that matters.
• 28:28
  Speaker 12: And the way you act follows what you allow yourself
• 28:30
  Speaker 12: to believe. Maybe a better way to say it is
• 28:32
  Speaker 12: what you choose to believe.
• 28:33
  Speaker 45: So, if you choose to believe that your energy and
• 28:36
  Speaker 45: efforts will result in more skill set, then you will
• 28:38
  Speaker 45: actually put energy and effort into getting that, which means you.
• 28:41
  Speaker 12: Actually will get the skill set.
• 28:42
  Speaker 45: But if you think, well, my talent and intelligence are fixed,
• 28:46
  Speaker 45: so no matter how much I.
• 28:47
  Speaker 12: Work, I'm never going to get better. Right, I can't
• 28:49
  Speaker 12: be a fast pick.
• 28:51
  Speaker 45: And if you don't think that putting time and energy
• 28:54
  Speaker 45: into it will yield anything, then you won't put time
• 28:56
  Speaker 45: and energy into it, and.
• 28:57
  Speaker 12: You thusly won't get the skills.
• 28:59
  Speaker 45: So, and if you don't have the skills, and you
• 29:00
  Speaker 45: can't do the things other people can do, and so
• 29:02
  Speaker 45: people just get stuck because they don't have the only
• 29:04
  Speaker 45: belief that matters, so they don't put the time and energy.
• 29:07
  Speaker 45: And so that's like where everything starts, is are you
• 29:12
  Speaker 45: putting the time and energy into getting better?
• 29:13
  Speaker 12: Yes or not? Everyone thinks you're crazy until it works.
• 29:19
  Speaker 6: And so I mean, if you think of the outcome
• 29:23
  Speaker 6: as the trump card, then all of the pain and
• 29:26
  Speaker 6: suffering that you lead up to that point, if you're
• 29:28
  Speaker 6: just I'm trying to think of an appropriate saying, I
• 29:33
  Speaker 6: actual to say, balls deep certain that no matter what,
• 29:37
  Speaker 6: you will die or you will get there, then the
• 29:42
  Speaker 6: likelihood that all of the things that you've done up
• 29:44
  Speaker 6: to that point will then be justified in retrospect is
• 29:47
  Speaker 6: super high.
• 29:47
  Speaker 12: And I actually see that as super.
• 29:51
  Speaker 6: Compelling as a thing to latch onto in harder times.
• 29:57
  Speaker 50: Second, go o pain, It's almost like excruciated, and seconds
• 30:01
  Speaker 50: later it like flows out of you, like you just
• 30:04
  Speaker 50: pull the plot on your sink and all the water
• 30:06
  Speaker 50: and all the pressure just goes. It's a greater feeling
• 30:09
  Speaker 50: than what the pain was. I mean, the pain you
• 30:11
  Speaker 50: felt doing that man is both written with cry and
• 30:15
  Speaker 50: when you feel and you pull that plot and all
• 30:17
  Speaker 50: the water goes out, and all pain leads because what's
• 30:19
  Speaker 50: left there add to all the war leads.
• 30:21
  Speaker 9: It won't take more.
• 30:22
  Speaker 12: You won't keep you. So don't want the pain rob
• 30:25
  Speaker 12: you of your pretension.
• 30:26
  Speaker 41: Guys, don't let in the what you can't do in
• 30:30
  Speaker 41: the moment interfere with what you know you can do.
• 30:34
  Speaker 9: I mean, you don't want the pain you can rob
• 30:37
  Speaker 9: you of your beliek on what.
• 30:38
  Speaker 51: You can be because your body hears everything in your
• 30:42
  Speaker 51: mind says, and anytime you had any kind of disclosed
• 30:46
  Speaker 51: or can be subject through the discomforts of the situation,
• 30:51
  Speaker 51: your body remembers that.
• 30:52
  Speaker 12: And your body's just a messages whope, security right here.
• 30:56
  Speaker 12: It's it just delivers whatever this says.
• 30:58
  Speaker 50: If you start thinking you can't do that pain, he's like,
• 31:00
  Speaker 50: oh it feels I keep the pain.
• 31:02
  Speaker 12: You think that body's going to tell your pain the
• 31:05
  Speaker 12: boss of the world.
• 31:06
  Speaker 9: Hey man, we can do it. Most shit.
• 31:08
  Speaker 52: It's like a little victor body is and it's like, okay,
• 31:10
  Speaker 52: who done? Then your body just everything your mind sets.
• 31:16
  Speaker 52: Don't even give it a chance to think that kind
• 31:17
  Speaker 52: of shit.
• 31:19
  Speaker 53: My father could have been a great comedian, but he
• 31:21
  Speaker 53: didn't believe that that was possible for him, and so
• 31:24
  Speaker 53: he made a conservative choice.
• 31:26
  Speaker 19: Instead.
• 31:27
  Speaker 53: He got a safe job as an accountant, and when
• 31:29
  Speaker 53: I was twelve years old, he was let go from
• 31:32
  Speaker 53: that safe job, and our family had to do whatever
• 31:34
  Speaker 53: we could to survive. I learned many great lessons from
• 31:37
  Speaker 53: my father, not the least of which was that you
• 31:40
  Speaker 53: can fail at what you don't want, so you might
• 31:43
  Speaker 53: as well take a chance on doing what you love.
• 31:48
  Speaker 44: The reason I'm gonna get what I want out of
• 31:50
  Speaker 44: life is because I'm like most I'm willing to have
• 31:53
  Speaker 44: nothing in the moment. Of course, it feels a world
• 31:56
  Speaker 44: it's better to have something right now, But I'm unfortunately
• 32:00
  Speaker 44: what most people really want is not what's available right now.
• 32:05
  Speaker 44: Those people with the best relationships, the best health, the
• 32:09
  Speaker 44: best careers, it's because they were completely unwilling to settle
• 32:13
  Speaker 44: for anything less than that. And you might think I'm
• 32:16
  Speaker 44: overly optimistic because most people don't get those great outcomes,
• 32:21
  Speaker 44: But I'm not most people, and you.
• 32:23
  Speaker 12: Don't have to be either.
• 32:27
  Speaker 14: Most of us we live in a box and we
• 32:30
  Speaker 14: don't want to go outside that box at all.
• 32:32
  Speaker 12: Ever. Outside that box is all.
• 32:36
  Speaker 14: These possibilities of life, but we do we shackle our mind.
• 32:40
  Speaker 14: We are a prisoner in our own mind that this
• 32:42
  Speaker 14: is all I can do, this is all I'm good at.
• 32:46
  Speaker 14: But people are there is that they live for themselves,
• 32:49
  Speaker 14: not knowing that you have the power within yourself to
• 32:53
  Speaker 14: change millions of.
• 32:54
  Speaker 12: Lives by face of life, by facing myself.
• 32:59
  Speaker 54: What if it's a mist it's a mistake, rest assured.
• 33:03
  Speaker 12: What do you know? You're gonna stumble around?
• 33:05
  Speaker 54: Right, And what's gonna happen is this. You're gonna move,
• 33:08
  Speaker 54: You're gonna not stay in stasis, You're not gonna wander
• 33:11
  Speaker 54: around in circles. And I see people like that, they said, well,
• 33:14
  Speaker 54: I never knew what to do, and now I'm forty.
• 33:17
  Speaker 10: It's like, that's not so good.
• 33:19
  Speaker 12: That's not so good.
• 33:20
  Speaker 54: And you might say, well, and there is a literature
• 33:23
  Speaker 54: to that suggests that people are a lot more unhappy
• 33:26
  Speaker 54: when they look back in their lives about the things
• 33:29
  Speaker 54: they didn't do than they are about the mistakes they
• 33:32
  Speaker 54: made while they were doing things.
• 33:34
  Speaker 14: We are training kids and people to be soft in
• 33:39
  Speaker 14: a world.
• 33:40
  Speaker 16: That continuously gets harder, and.
• 33:44
  Speaker 14: It doesn't, it doesn't correlate. Like that guy talking about
• 33:47
  Speaker 14: the tear gas with the seals, Is that necessary. I
• 33:51
  Speaker 14: don't know, but what is necessary is you have to
• 33:55
  Speaker 14: build a person that can withstand the pressures of whatever
• 34:00
  Speaker 14: they're going to be dealing with in life.
• 34:03
  Speaker 12: And we don't do that.
• 34:05
  Speaker 14: I'm not trying to send a message of run two
• 34:08
  Speaker 14: hundred miles, be the best mother in the world, but
• 34:12
  Speaker 14: be tough. You better have a part about you that's tough,
• 34:15
  Speaker 14: a part about you that can break down situations and
• 34:18
  Speaker 14: get better.
• 34:19
  Speaker 55: We actually have to re embrace risk on a personal
• 34:22
  Speaker 55: level and on a societal level. We have to take
• 34:24
  Speaker 55: the risk of freely exchanging ideas because that's where innovation happens.
• 34:28
  Speaker 55: We have to take the risk of being able to
• 34:29
  Speaker 55: invest and reap the benefits of that risk. In a
• 34:31
  Speaker 55: personal relationship, getting married is a risk. It is foregoing
• 34:35
  Speaker 55: a current benefits for a future gain. Every decision you
• 34:37
  Speaker 55: make is a risk. The biggest risk of all, of course,
• 34:40
  Speaker 55: is the decision to be free and to take responsibility
• 34:43
  Speaker 55: for your own choices.
• 34:44
  Speaker 12: That's a major risk.
• 34:45
  Speaker 55: But if you take that risk, you become a better
• 34:47
  Speaker 55: and a stronger human being, a more contributing human being,
• 34:49
  Speaker 55: a more valuable human being. You feel better about yourself.
• 34:52
  Speaker 55: When we discard risk, we discard meeting. When we are coddled,
• 34:55
  Speaker 55: we discard our own ability to be a fully adult
• 34:57
  Speaker 55: human being.
• 34:58
  Speaker 12: And here's the dirty little secret.
• 35:00
  Speaker 55: No matter how much we try to discard the risk,
• 35:01
  Speaker 55: you can't actually discard risk. It's inevitable because reality intails risk.
• 35:05
  Speaker 55: We can choose to live free rather than coddled. It'll
• 35:08
  Speaker 55: make us better people, more open people, or understanding people.
• 35:12
  Speaker 55: And when we do that, I think that not only
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  Speaker 55: will we be saving the country and saving the civilization,
• 35:16
  Speaker 55: we'll be saving ourselves.
• 35:18
  Speaker 56: But no matter what challenges or setbacks or disappointments you
• 35:21
  Speaker 56: may encounter along the way, you will find true success
• 35:25
  Speaker 56: and happiness.
• 35:26
  Speaker 12: If you have only one goal, there really is only one, and.
• 35:29
  Speaker 56: That is this to fulfill the highest, most truthful expression
• 35:37
  Speaker 56: of yourself. Theologian Howard Thurman said it best. He said,
• 35:42
  Speaker 56: don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what
• 35:47
  Speaker 56: makes you come alive, and then go do that, because
• 35:51
  Speaker 56: what the world needs is people who have come alive.
• 35:56
  Speaker 12: There's no hacks, bro, it's you, a gist, you, you
• 36:00
  Speaker 12: against you. And if you misunderstand that you've.
• 36:04
  Speaker 9: A real problem, you real problem.
• 36:07
  Speaker 12: I can understand you misunderstand me. Run on a street
• 36:09
  Speaker 12: short off.
• 36:10
  Speaker 9: No, yeah, I can get it.
• 36:12
  Speaker 12: I get it.
• 36:13
  Speaker 14: If you misunderstand saying right now today, the problem is you.
• 36:18
  Speaker 12: And you don't want to fix it.
• 36:20
  Speaker 37: Take charge of your life, take charge of your time,
• 36:23
  Speaker 37: take charge of your resources, or take charge of your health.
• 36:27
  Speaker 12: You're the one that's responsible for.
• 36:28
  Speaker 37: It's not a requirement of society that you not have
• 36:32
  Speaker 37: a heart attack to take care of your family. That's
• 36:34
  Speaker 37: not a requirement of society, but you must make it
• 36:36
  Speaker 37: a requirement of yourself. Society doesn't require that you build
• 36:41
  Speaker 37: a financial wall around your family. Nothing can get through.
• 36:45
  Speaker 37: That's not a requirement of society. It's a requirement you
• 36:49
  Speaker 37: impose on yourself.
• 36:51
  Speaker 12: Do things worth doing.
• 36:53
  Speaker 6: And I think a lot of it is coming down
• 36:55
  Speaker 6: to making sure that you take the few precious seconds
• 36:58
  Speaker 6: that we have to do the few things that are
• 37:00
  Speaker 6: worth doing for the rest of your life. They see
• 37:03
  Speaker 6: it as a pure disadvantage, and so you can flip
• 37:06
  Speaker 6: the fact that you have nothing going for you with
• 37:08
  Speaker 6: you have nothing to lose, and that means that you
• 37:11
  Speaker 6: can take lots of risks very quickly and end up
• 37:15
  Speaker 6: in the exact same position you are, which is nothing.
• 37:18
  Speaker 6: And so if you eliminate downside. It should decrease your
• 37:21
  Speaker 6: action threshold, meaning you should be able to do more
• 37:23
  Speaker 6: things faster rather than do fewer things because you don't
• 37:26
  Speaker 6: have a great life or things going for you. And
• 37:29
  Speaker 6: so I think if people flip that, a lot more
• 37:31
  Speaker 6: people would take action because they actually realize the advantage.
• 37:34
  Speaker 12: Of their position.
• 37:35
  Speaker 30: That most men live lives of quiet desperation. It's one
• 37:38
  Speaker 30: of my favorite quotes ever because it's true, and I've
• 37:40
  Speaker 30: been that guy. You're just in this world where you
• 37:44
  Speaker 30: just can't wait to just run away. But the only
• 37:48
  Speaker 30: way I could be this person now is if I
• 37:50
  Speaker 30: took that chance when I was twenty one, when I
• 37:52
  Speaker 30: was dead broken, had my cars repossessed and all that stuff.
• 37:56
  Speaker 30: That's the only way you ever get where you want
• 38:00
  Speaker 30: to go.
• 38:00
  Speaker 12: You have to take a path.
• 38:02
  Speaker 30: It's dangerous, and most people want to take the safe path,
• 38:06
  Speaker 30: and the safe path leaves you stuck in quiet desperation
• 38:10
  Speaker 30: almost every time.
• 38:11
  Speaker 13: It's hell reminder that if you want to be exceptional,
• 38:15
  Speaker 13: you're going to be different from everyone else. That's what
• 38:17
  Speaker 13: makes you exceptional. You can't fit in and also be exceptional.
• 38:21
  Speaker 13: Both have discomfort. When you fit in, you have internal
• 38:24
  Speaker 13: conflict because you're not being one hundred percent you. When
• 38:27
  Speaker 13: you're exceptional, you have external conflict because everyone sees you
• 38:31
  Speaker 13: as different.
• 38:32
  Speaker 12: Pick one.
• 38:33
  Speaker 13: When your friends start to say you've changed, remember it's
• 38:37
  Speaker 13: because they don't know how to say you've grown.
• 38:41
  Speaker 57: Everything was done to try to learn how to become
• 38:44
  Speaker 57: a better basketball player.
• 38:46
  Speaker 12: Everything everything, you know.
• 38:48
  Speaker 57: We have a million and one excuses that we can
• 38:50
  Speaker 57: go to back that. The matter is, we're not going
• 38:52
  Speaker 57: to make it. They blame better than we did this series.
• 38:55
  Speaker 57: We had an opportunity is to win it. They go
• 38:58
  Speaker 57: for us. We have to regroup. Like I said, next
• 39:02
  Speaker 57: season starts right now, and you'll come back next season.
• 39:05
  Speaker 37: What how much harder will you work in this on
• 39:07
  Speaker 37: season now to get back to the championship.
• 39:12
  Speaker 12: I'll push myself to exhaustion.
• 39:14
  Speaker 31: And so when you have that point of view, that
• 39:17
  Speaker 31: literally the world becomes your library to help you to
• 39:20
  Speaker 31: become better at your craft.
• 39:22
  Speaker 14: And it's a true quote to life. I saw it
• 39:26
  Speaker 14: going through training. I saw it everywhere I went. There's
• 39:28
  Speaker 14: so many people who just show up to life that
• 39:31
  Speaker 14: shouldn't be around, and there's a.
• 39:34
  Speaker 9: Few people who do all the work.
• 39:35
  Speaker 14: I wanted to be part of that nine, and I'm
• 39:38
  Speaker 14: working towards being that one.
• 39:40
  Speaker 7: Your pride and your ego has been killing your career
• 39:44
  Speaker 7: growth could be on another level.
• 39:48
  Speaker 12: You know better, but you're deciding to not do better.
• 39:53
  Speaker 7: You are a lazy, unprofessional, mean attitude, having more and
• 40:00
  Speaker 7: yet when things are not happening good for you, when
• 40:03
  Speaker 7: things are not coming your way, when things are not
• 40:06
  Speaker 7: happening as fast as you want them to happen, you
• 40:10
  Speaker 7: blame everybody else and what they're doing and saying, and
• 40:14
  Speaker 7: you completely disown everything that you're doing to contribute to
• 40:19
  Speaker 7: your career not going to another level.
• 40:23
  Speaker 19: You know better, but.
• 40:25
  Speaker 9: You never want to do better.
• 40:28
  Speaker 6: My personal goal is to squeeze every ounce of potential
• 40:31
  Speaker 6: out of whatever I have, and I think that if
• 40:35
  Speaker 6: you feel like you have potential left over, then it
• 40:38
  Speaker 6: will eat you alive until you do something about it.
• 40:42
  Speaker 12: The winners always show up they're willing to.
• 40:44
  Speaker 9: Lose in order.
• 40:45
  Speaker 13: Are un astounded by how many people want to be
• 40:48
  Speaker 13: spectacular in life but also want to be normal. By
• 40:51
  Speaker 13: being normal, you are, by definition, aiming for average. Normal
• 40:55
  Speaker 13: people get normal results. Exceptional people get exceptional results. Literally
• 41:01
  Speaker 13: can't do what everyone else does and expect to not
• 41:04
  Speaker 13: get what everyone else has got. By doing what everyone
• 41:07
  Speaker 13: else does, you guarantee average results.
• 41:10
  Speaker 14: You're being to yourself made, not getting out there and
• 41:13
  Speaker 14: squeezing depth and.
• 41:14
  Speaker 12: Soul out every day.
• 41:15
  Speaker 9: If you grind hard.
• 41:16
  Speaker 12: Man, I got time to whorry about your money.
• 41:19
  Speaker 14: I got time worry about you, man, because tomorrow I
• 41:22
  Speaker 14: gotta go back to the grind, and tomorrow and go
• 41:25
  Speaker 14: back to the grind again and again and again and again.
• 41:28
  Speaker 14: I don't have time to put you into the hate bank.
• 41:30
  Speaker 14: There's no hate, so I'll filtered out man, through the grind.
• 41:33
  Speaker 14: People don't get it. There's great joy in the grind,
• 41:36
  Speaker 14: the great joy to suffer. It totally cleanses your body out. Man,
• 41:40
  Speaker 14: if any kind of hate it makes you grow up.
• 41:42
  Speaker 12: You're not running the day. The day's running you.
• 41:44
  Speaker 9: You always be the serving, not the master.
• 41:46
  Speaker 15: Guys, if you.
• 41:47
  Speaker 58: Find a fear, the quickest and easiest way you can
• 41:50
  Speaker 58: beat it is.
• 41:51
  Speaker 12: Initially right when it comes in.
• 41:52
  Speaker 58: If you allow the sin, it will grow roots and
• 41:55
  Speaker 58: start breaking you down.
• 41:56
  Speaker 12: Desjoin the potential the person you can be again. The
• 41:59
  Speaker 12: chance be its guys.
• 42:01
  Speaker 58: It's not their potential, it's not their genetics, it's their perseverance.
• 42:05
  Speaker 58: Will always show up, always willing to fail, because in failure,
• 42:08
  Speaker 58: that's part success. Success is not, you know, a marathon
• 42:11
  Speaker 58: of life which just ups. Success is formally through failures.
• 42:16
  Speaker 30: Fear is never reaching your potential.
• 42:18
  Speaker 12: That's it.
• 42:19
  Speaker 30: They're always fallen short, always quitting before you're done, always procrastinating,
• 42:24
  Speaker 30: always not doing the right thing.
• 42:27
  Speaker 12: And then one day you're an old man, yep, and
• 42:29
  Speaker 12: you look back and go, got it could have been great? Yep,
• 42:32
  Speaker 12: it could have been great.
• 42:33
  Speaker 50: Everybody's sleep man, or getting home after a long night,
• 42:37
  Speaker 50: you know, going out their party is Friday night and
• 42:40
  Speaker 50: so plus the three in the morning.
• 42:41
  Speaker 19: Right now, you know, the.
• 42:44
  Speaker 12: Thing is, man, it's always going to be a part
• 42:46
  Speaker 12: of you.
• 42:46
  Speaker 9: It's always going to be a.
• 42:48
  Speaker 50: Time to celebrate and at the time to join friends
• 42:51
  Speaker 50: and or a data.
• 42:53
  Speaker 35: I mean, the bars are always open, always open, no
• 42:56
  Speaker 35: how old you are, they're always open.
• 42:58
  Speaker 9: You know, it's not always opens.
• 43:01
  Speaker 12: The opportunity to.
• 43:04
  Speaker 58: Check the box in life you got to achieve your dreams,
• 43:07
  Speaker 58: that's not always open.
• 43:08
  Speaker 15: Mind.
• 43:09
  Speaker 59: I would like to know when you're in that moment
• 43:13
  Speaker 59: failing and you have to keep going, what do you
• 43:19
  Speaker 59: say to yourself?
• 43:21
  Speaker 12: What if.
• 43:25
  Speaker 14: A lot of times I'll be in Touns at my
• 43:27
  Speaker 14: run or something like that, and I'm all jacked up,
• 43:31
  Speaker 14: bodies broken, mind's broken, spirits broken. I've started to say,
• 43:35
  Speaker 14: what if I can pull this off? When I first
• 43:37
  Speaker 14: walked into the Navy sit recruiter's office, he looked at
• 43:40
  Speaker 14: me and said, it only been thirty five African Americans
• 43:43
  Speaker 14: in seventy years.
• 43:43
  Speaker 12: Make it through?
• 43:45
  Speaker 18: You know?
• 43:45
  Speaker 14: I said to myself, what if I can be the
• 43:47
  Speaker 14: thirty sixth if to what if I can pull off
• 43:52
  Speaker 14: a miracle? What if I can become someone that no
• 43:56
  Speaker 14: one thinks I can be? And just that just me
• 43:58
  Speaker 14: talking about that. I have the hair growing up on
• 44:01
  Speaker 14: my arms because it makes me just like, what if
• 44:05
  Speaker 14: I can be that guy that people who call me
• 44:07
  Speaker 14: this and that? And now I'm speaking at Tom Faerwy's event.
• 44:16
  Speaker 50: Through facing your fears, through falling down and getting back up,
• 44:19
  Speaker 50: That's what creates a champion.
• 44:21
  Speaker 12: Success does not the finance we define the success.
• 44:28
  Speaker 9: Why would you not go for it? Why would you
• 44:31
  Speaker 9: not take a chairs?
• 44:34
  Speaker 48: At one point in time, you got to take a
• 44:37
  Speaker 48: chance on you.
• 44:39
  Speaker 60: What you know is very limited and what you don't
• 44:41
  Speaker 60: know is limitless. You know, So man, go in there
• 44:44
  Speaker 60: and listen. Go in there and try to learn. Go
• 44:46
  Speaker 60: in there and try to open your ears up and
• 44:48
  Speaker 60: say what can I take from this and apply to
• 44:50
  Speaker 60: my life so that I can be a little bit
• 44:52
  Speaker 60: better every day for myself and my family and.
• 44:54
  Speaker 12: The people that I'm closest with.
• 44:56
  Speaker 38: Love.
• 44:56
  Speaker 52: You, guys, must be be the now what you want
• 45:00
  Speaker 52: to be later.
• 45:01
  Speaker 15: Let's start right now.
• 45:03
  Speaker 50: If you're not doing it now, don't I respect them
• 45:07
  Speaker 50: later to be the person you want to look in
• 45:09
  Speaker 50: the mirror.
• 45:12
  Speaker 12: Everyone's like, oh, later in life, I want to do
• 45:14
  Speaker 12: this later in life. I want to do that. Later
• 45:17
  Speaker 12: in life is turning around. Look in the mirror right now,
• 45:19
  Speaker 12: and that's the later in life.
• 45:21
  Speaker 19: And let's that turn around.
• 45:23
  Speaker 12: It's something in progression.
• 45:26
  Speaker 9: Later in life.
• 45:28
  Speaker 12: Take them bathing, difference, belief.
• 45:32
  Speaker 50: They turn around and you're going to see something, but
• 45:36
  Speaker 50: put a smile on your face.
• 45:38
  Speaker 9: It's going to make you.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Turn around the next day, crash turning.
• 45:42
  Speaker 9: Belief in the productivity.
• 45:47
  Speaker 12: Otherwise, while are you in here?
• 45:49
  Speaker 38: Man?
• 45:49
  Speaker 12: You didn't here to grow? What O think?
• 45:55
  Speaker 19: Guys, think of where you want.
• 45:57
  Speaker 50: To be before you start what it is now?
• 46:01
  Speaker 12: It's too hard, man, the geriant's too hard.
• 46:05
  Speaker 49: You guys start trying to.
• 46:08
  Speaker 12: Follow someone else in the path success. The guys are
• 46:12
  Speaker 12: gas used. You must travel your individual path success. Someone
• 46:18
  Speaker 12: else's pats are being done. It's not for you to
• 46:20
  Speaker 12: incorporate what you believe in.
• 46:24
  Speaker 6: Almost every successful person that I have ever encountered has
• 46:28
  Speaker 6: gone through not a month or a year, but many
• 46:31
  Speaker 6: years of doing work without reward, where they have to
• 46:37
  Speaker 6: do things that other people find boring, and they have
• 46:40
  Speaker 6: to sacrifice things that everyone finds interesting that most people
• 46:44
  Speaker 6: want to do during that entire season of their life,
• 46:46
  Speaker 6: and they basically sacrifice a season of other things that
• 46:50
  Speaker 6: they would prefer to do to do stuff that they
• 46:53
  Speaker 6: would not prefer to do because of the one thing
• 46:55
  Speaker 6: they want most.
• 46:56
  Speaker 46: But if you want to see, if you're a brave
• 46:58
  Speaker 46: person what they call at four o'clock in the morning courage,
• 47:02
  Speaker 46: wait when things go completely to pieces, when things are
• 47:06
  Speaker 46: the worst, when your very best deal falls apart, and
• 47:08
  Speaker 46: your rent is late, and you're tired and you're sick
• 47:10
  Speaker 46: and everybody is mad at you and your car doesn't work.
• 47:13
  Speaker 46: Then it's the person that picks himself up and says,
• 47:16
  Speaker 46: nothing is going to stop me. But the quality is
• 47:19
  Speaker 46: to develop the quality of being unstoppable.
• 47:22
  Speaker 14: I had to figure out I wasn't going to be
• 47:24
  Speaker 14: a punk kid all my life.
• 47:26
  Speaker 12: So the only way I could turn around was to suffer.
• 47:30
  Speaker 14: I had to build callouses in my brain the same
• 47:34
  Speaker 14: way I built callouses on my hands. So I brought
• 47:36
  Speaker 14: the Giinsburger Rolls record for pullups a long time ago,
• 47:39
  Speaker 14: but I felt at it twice and I did sixty
• 47:42
  Speaker 14: seven thousand pull ups and trying to break this record.
• 47:46
  Speaker 14: So to do four thousand and thirty pull ups, I
• 47:49
  Speaker 14: had to do sixty seven thousand for training for them.
• 47:52
  Speaker 14: And so what I realized is for me to become
• 47:54
  Speaker 14: the man I wanted to become, I saw myself as
• 47:57
  Speaker 14: the weakest person God ever created, so I wanted to
• 48:01
  Speaker 14: change that to be the hardest man ever created. Am
• 48:05
  Speaker 14: I that I don't know, but you had to have
• 48:07
  Speaker 14: a goal. And my goal when I was sitting there,
• 48:10
  Speaker 14: not going to school, being bullied, being having no self esteem,
• 48:15
  Speaker 14: my goal was the only person that could turn this
• 48:17
  Speaker 14: person around is me.
• 48:19
  Speaker 9: Everybody has a turn back moment.
• 48:22
  Speaker 48: You have a moment where you could go forward or
• 48:25
  Speaker 48: you can give up.
• 48:26
  Speaker 9: But the thing you have to keep in mind before you.
• 48:29
  Speaker 48: Give up is that if you give up, the guarantee
• 48:33
  Speaker 48: is it will never happen. That's the guarantee of quitting,
• 48:38
  Speaker 48: that it will never happen no way under the sun.
• 48:42
  Speaker 48: The only way the possibility remains that it can happen is.
• 48:47
  Speaker 9: If you never give up. No matter what.
• 48:51
  Speaker 60: The fish just don't jump in the boat, no meaning,
• 48:54
  Speaker 60: you better go out there and do it yourself, you know,
• 48:56
  Speaker 60: don't wait around wait for someone to hand deliver something.
• 48:59
  Speaker 9: Go make it.
• 49:00
  Speaker 6: My personal goal is to squeeze every ounce of potential
• 49:03
  Speaker 6: out of whatever I have, and I think that if
• 49:07
  Speaker 6: you feel like you have potential left over, then it
• 49:10
  Speaker 6: will eat you alive.
• 49:11
  Speaker 12: Until you do something about it.
• 49:14
  Speaker 6: Almost every successful person that I have ever encountered has
• 49:17
  Speaker 6: gone through not a month or a year, but many
• 49:21
  Speaker 6: years of doing.
• 49:23
  Speaker 12: Work without reward, where they.
• 49:26
  Speaker 6: Have to do things that other people find boring, and
• 49:29
  Speaker 6: they have to sacrifice things that everyone finds interesting that
• 49:33
  Speaker 6: most people want to do during that entire season of
• 49:35
  Speaker 6: their life, and they basically sacrifice a season of other
• 49:39
  Speaker 6: things that they would prefer to do to do stuff
• 49:42
  Speaker 6: that they would not prefer to do because of the
• 49:44
  Speaker 6: one thing they want most. And instead of lasting five
• 49:47
  Speaker 6: minutes it just usually the last five or ten years.
• 49:50
  Speaker 9: Stop running around here trying to live up to the hype.
• 49:52
  Speaker 19: Homie.
• 49:53
  Speaker 9: It's easy to give them, really easy.
• 49:55
  Speaker 15: It's the easiest thing in the world to do.
• 49:57
  Speaker 61: I'm done, I ain't gone, I ain't gonna keep going.
• 50:01
  Speaker 12: I feel like going to work.
• 50:02
  Speaker 15: Yeah, it's easy, it's very easy.
• 50:04
  Speaker 61: But what's hard is going Yo, yesterday, I got nothing
• 50:08
  Speaker 61: from working as hard as I could.
• 50:11
  Speaker 9: Nothing happened from that.
• 50:12
  Speaker 61: I'm gonna do the same thing again to day, but
• 50:14
  Speaker 61: I'm gonna try to go harder. That's the hardest thing
• 50:16
  Speaker 61: in the world to get up every day and give
• 50:19
  Speaker 61: one hundred percent and be in the same position that
• 50:23
  Speaker 61: you were each day.
• 50:24
  Speaker 12: But mentally know that you're.
• 50:26
  Speaker 9: Trying and trying and trying.
• 50:27
  Speaker 61: That's that's a real that's a real grind.
• 50:31
  Speaker 7: It's grind season, homie. It's not about today, it's about
• 50:35
  Speaker 7: the future. You do the work now, do the work now,
• 50:40
  Speaker 7: and all of it that you could ever want to
• 50:42
  Speaker 7: do for your family, your kids, your loved ones. It's
• 50:45
  Speaker 7: all gonna be on the whole other stratusphere. It's time
• 50:50
  Speaker 7: to stay focused, man, don't settle. Make sure that whatever
• 50:55
  Speaker 7: life that you want.
• 50:56
  Speaker 9: You just try for that. You make sure you go
• 50:58
  Speaker 9: for that.
• 50:59
  Speaker 12: Don't let anyone tell you it's not possible. Don't let
• 51:01
  Speaker 12: anyone tell you that's not practical.
• 51:03
  Speaker 9: You make sure that you go for it.
• 51:05
  Speaker 12: You're hungry, you want it, to get.
• 51:07
  Speaker 15: It, get that.
• 51:09
  Speaker 12: I went to a homeless shelter to get what I
• 51:11
  Speaker 12: have now.
• 51:11
  Speaker 9: I went through a homeless shelter.
• 51:12
  Speaker 12: I stole. I went hungry three nights in a row
• 51:15
  Speaker 12: every week to get.
• 51:16
  Speaker 9: What I have to.
• 51:18
  Speaker 11: Let no one stop you, no one tell you what
• 51:21
  Speaker 11: to do.
• 51:21
  Speaker 9: You'll make sure you get it. Don't let no one
• 51:23
  Speaker 9: stop you. All right, you're driven.
• 51:25
  Speaker 12: You hit the energy that you need to drive.
• 51:28
  Speaker 9: You need to get it.
• 51:29
  Speaker 12: You pull that from yourself, because when you pull it
• 51:31
  Speaker 12: from yourself, no one can influence it. Just you. We're
• 51:36
  Speaker 12: running from the truth, man.
• 51:37
  Speaker 14: So the only way I became successful was going towards
• 51:41
  Speaker 14: the truth. As painful and as brutal as it is,
• 51:45
  Speaker 14: it changed me. It allowed me to become in my
• 51:50
  Speaker 14: own right.
• 51:51
  Speaker 9: Who are today?
• 51:52
  Speaker 19: Courage?
• 51:54
  Speaker 62: Courage is the key to life itself. A lot of
• 51:58
  Speaker 62: people who are born and but aboy, just I'll never
• 52:01
  Speaker 62: get out of this, So they won't, I say, to
• 52:06
  Speaker 62: people say well, I would like to have done so
• 52:09
  Speaker 62: and so and so and so when you could have
• 52:10
  Speaker 62: done it so when I couldn't get.
• 52:12
  Speaker 9: Out of there. Man, the bus runs every day.
• 52:15
  Speaker 14: You have to be your own motivator, your own coach,
• 52:18
  Speaker 14: your own trainer, you own everything. So to do that,
• 52:22
  Speaker 14: you have to come into work. And work is whatever
• 52:25
  Speaker 14: your work may be ready to go. And what that
• 52:28
  Speaker 14: means is you may have failed miserably yesterday, but you
• 52:32
  Speaker 14: come to work like people like, man, you just lost everything,
• 52:37
  Speaker 14: How the hell are you just damn motivated you? Because
• 52:40
  Speaker 14: this is what it takes. This is what the fuck
• 52:44
  Speaker 14: it takes, and you got to get it from wherever
• 52:46
  Speaker 14: you can. Whether you make up this illusion of your
• 52:49
  Speaker 14: life or this false reality that gets you.
• 52:53
  Speaker 12: Motivated, whatever gets you motivated, it's going to.
• 52:56
  Speaker 14: Be here at the tip of your brain at all times,
• 53:00
  Speaker 14: because in those dark moments you gotta pull it out.
• 53:03
  Speaker 46: Say in yourself that no matter what life throws at me,
• 53:05
  Speaker 46: it will never stop me. No matter how rough it gets,
• 53:08
  Speaker 46: I will never quit and nothing will ever stop me.
• 53:11
  Speaker 46: Make the decision that you can be tired, you can
• 53:13
  Speaker 46: be worn out, but nothing is ever going to stop you.
• 53:16
  Speaker 46: That's a wonderful decision because then no matter what life
• 53:18
  Speaker 46: throws at you, you pick yourself up and you say, okay,
• 53:21
  Speaker 46: give it, you know, do give it your best shot.
• 53:22
  Speaker 12: As far as he says, why.
• 53:24
  Speaker 9: Would you not take a chase? At one point in
• 53:27
  Speaker 9: time you got to take a chair, So on you.
• 53:31
  Speaker 13: I'm astounded by how many people want to be spectacular
• 53:34
  Speaker 13: in life but also want to be normal. By being normal,
• 53:37
  Speaker 13: you are, by definition, aiming for average. Normal people get
• 53:41
  Speaker 13: normal results. Exceptional people get exceptional results. You literally can't
• 53:46
  Speaker 13: do what everyone else does and expect to not get
• 53:49
  Speaker 13: what everyone else has got. By doing what everyone else does,
• 53:53
  Speaker 13: you guarantee average results.
• 53:55
  Speaker 12: Well, I believe that he's a build belief.
• 53:58
  Speaker 14: Belief is like there's an after school special belief where
• 54:03
  Speaker 14: the mom says, believe in yourself and that's all great.
• 54:07
  Speaker 12: But there's also a built belief and the.
• 54:10
  Speaker 14: Build belief is one where you are constantly like for me,
• 54:14
  Speaker 14: I came from a bad place. How I build belief
• 54:18
  Speaker 14: is through the daunting tasks I put myself through. So
• 54:23
  Speaker 14: that's proof positive that I can. So it correlates and
• 54:29
  Speaker 14: that's how this pieceous kid I once thought I was
• 54:33
  Speaker 14: built belief I say, hmm, I was in.
• 54:36
  Speaker 12: Three hell weeks. I went to Ranger School. I tried
• 54:40
  Speaker 12: out for debt.
• 54:40
  Speaker 13: A selection, undeniable stack of proof that is proof.
• 54:44
  Speaker 14: So whenever you think, whenever you think you can't, the
• 54:48
  Speaker 14: confidence comes from the thing that you built. You must
• 54:51
  Speaker 14: build belief. You must build confidence. It can't be like, hey,
• 54:58
  Speaker 14: I'm gonna go knock that out. You got to look
• 55:01
  Speaker 14: over here and say I can knock down.
• 55:05
  Speaker 12: This belief. It is built on what you put in
• 55:09
  Speaker 12: to yourself.
• 55:10
  Speaker 46: That if you're not a little bit afraid at least
• 55:11
  Speaker 46: three or four nights a week, you're not trying hard enough.
• 55:15
  Speaker 46: If you're not falling your face over and over again,
• 55:17
  Speaker 46: if you're not trembling when you go to sleep with
• 55:19
  Speaker 46: your heart pounding, what is happening is you're not trying
• 55:21
  Speaker 46: hard enough.
• 55:22
  Speaker 19: You're living too far.
• 57:00
  Speaker 63: Shadow.
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  Speaker 6: I think most people have the potential to be exceptional,
• 58:04
  Speaker 6: because most people are peculiar in their own way. They
• 58:06
  Speaker 6: just stifle that because they want to be accepted by
• 58:10
  Speaker 6: most people, but in so doing never accomplish what they
• 58:13
  Speaker 6: want to do because they conform and so like, if
• 58:17
  Speaker 6: there's probably a lot of things about the world or
• 58:19
  Speaker 6: even your world around you that you're.
• 58:20
  Speaker 12: Like, this never made sense to me, but then you
• 58:22
  Speaker 12: do it anyways.
• 58:23
  Speaker 6: And I think that a lot of innovation and a
• 58:26
  Speaker 6: lot of what makes people exceptional is feeling, you know,
• 58:29
  Speaker 6: thinking that thought or seeing that thing and then being.
• 58:31
  Speaker 12: Like, huh huh, I don't think I'm going to follow
• 58:33
  Speaker 12: that rule anymore.
• 58:34
  Speaker 9: Let me tell you something.
• 58:35
  Speaker 35: You already know the world at all sunshine and rainbows.
• 58:39
  Speaker 35: It's a very mean and nasty place, and I don't
• 58:42
  Speaker 35: care how tough you are. It will beat you to
• 58:45
  Speaker 35: your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it.
• 58:48
  Speaker 35: Me or nobody who's going to hit as hard as life.
• 58:52
  Speaker 35: But it ain't about how hard you hit. It's about
• 58:55
  Speaker 35: how hard you get hit and cant moving forward, how
• 58:58
  Speaker 35: much you can take moving forward.
• 59:01
  Speaker 19: That's how wit it is done.
• 59:04
  Speaker 64: And we don't feel the need to get something done,
• 59:07
  Speaker 64: we could become incredibly lazy because there's no necessity. So
• 59:11
  Speaker 64: you have to create necessity in your life. You have
• 59:14
  Speaker 64: to create the need to get things done. You have
• 59:17
  Speaker 64: to give yourself deadlines. You have to remind yourself that
• 59:21
  Speaker 64: tomorrow everything and go cupou Covid could come back. You
• 59:24
  Speaker 64: could be fired, you could die, you could have an illness,
• 59:28
  Speaker 64: give yourselves a sense of urgency that I need to
• 59:31
  Speaker 64: get things done quickly.
• 59:34
  Speaker 12: Now, if you know what you're worth, now go out
• 59:35
  Speaker 12: and tell what you're worth.
• 59:36
  Speaker 19: But you gotta be willing to take their.
• 59:38
  Speaker 35: Heads and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you
• 59:41
  Speaker 35: want to be because of him or her or anybody.
• 59:44
  Speaker 9: Cowards do that, and that ain't you. You're better than that.
• 59:49
  Speaker 37: And my personal question to you is why not you?
• 59:54
  Speaker 9: Eventually you are going to have to jump.
• 59:58
  Speaker 48: You can just exist in this life.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 9: You have got to try to live.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 48: If you're waking up thinking that it's got to be
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 48: more to your life than it is.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 19: Man, believe that it is.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 9: Believe in your heart or hearts that it is.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 48: But to get to that life, you're gonna have to jump.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 12: You've got the brains.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 37: You can make decisions, you can study the plan. You
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 37: can change your life. You can grow immensely in the
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 37: next few years. You can make your dreams come true.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 37: You can build a financial wall around your family nothing
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 37: can get through.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 12: You can become healthy, you can become powerful. Why not you?
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 7: Why not you be the one to make it to
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 7: start that business to do the impossible, to do with people.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 12: Don't even think that anybody could do.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 9: Why can't it be you you?
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 65: If you can see it here and you have the
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 65: incurridge enough to speak it, it will happen.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 66: So intentionally act like the person you want to become.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 66: Because when you intentionally act like the person you want
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 66: to become, your brain sees you taking those actions, so
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 66: your brain starts to change the way it relates to you.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 66: When your brain sees you high fiving yourself in the mirror,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 66: it starts to go, oh, wait a minute, Stephen loves himself.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 66: Steven's hearing for himself. We don't beat Stephen up.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 36: You need to just keep living. Listen to the pain.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 36: It's both history teaching watch and tell. Pain teaches us
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 36: who we all wait. Sometimes it's so bad we feel
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 36: like we're dying, but we can't really live till we
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 36: die a little county.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 14: There's no worldly possessions that should come between you and
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 14: your expression human beings.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 12: Where a blip in existence death is promised. There's a
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 12: quote that I've fallen in love with.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 13: The magic you are looking for is in the work
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 13: you're avoiding to hear the magic you are looking for
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 13: is in the work.
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 12: You're avoiding it.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 65: A lot of times people believe in certain things, but
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 65: they keep to themselves.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 12: They don't put it out there.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 65: If you truly believe in it, if you'll become vocal
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 65: with it, you are creating that law of attraction and
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 65: it will become reality.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 13: The more I listen to this, the better my life gets.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 13: If they don't have what you want, don't listen to
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 13: what they say. There's no greater waste of time than
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 13: justifying your actions to people who have a life you
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 13: don't want.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 14: It's the what if I can pull off of a miracle?
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 14: What if I can become someone that no one thinks
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 14: I can be and just be talking about that. I
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 14: have the hair going up on my arms because it
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 14: makes me just like, what if I can be that
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 14: guy that people who.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 12: Called her this?
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 14: And now I'm speaking at Tom Faerwy's event.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 37: Why not you? Why not you with good self esteem?
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 37: Why not you starting to change in setting goals? Why
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 37: not you starting to make progress toward financial independence?
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 12: Now, if I can do it, you can do it.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 38: If there is something that you feel is good, something
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 38: you want to do, something that means something to you
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 38: try to do it, because I think you can only
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 38: do your best work if you're doing what you want
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 38: to do, and if you're doing it the way you
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 38: think it should be done, and if you can take
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 38: pride in it, empty have done it no matter what
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 38: it is.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 67: In life, folks, you cannot change your life unless you
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 67: change something. If you always do what you always did,
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 67: you'll always get what you always got, no matter what
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 67: it is. Many times you say yourself, I gotta lose weight,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 67: I gotta lose weight, I'm too fat, And then you
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 67: know what, during the day, you eat, you eat at night,
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 67: and the next day you get married at you so.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 12: Well, what do you want?
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 9: What do you want?
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 67: You got to change something.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 65: I truly believe we are all equal as human beings
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 65: if we are obsessed with something and we truly pursue
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 65: our passion with everything we have, regardless of any anything else.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 65: If you are obsessed, work hard and put in the time,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 65: you will succeed.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 68: And don't be afraid to fail big. To dream big.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 68: But remember, dreams without goals, I just dreams.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 13: The real pain in life is getting to the end
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 13: of it and realizing that he left something on the
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 13: table I think.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 12: That I had unfulfilled potential. I could have done more,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 12: and I didn't.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 13: It's most socially acceptable to be our own biggest critic
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 13: than it is to be our own biggest cheerleader.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 37: Why we all ask why we should work this hard?
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 12: Why take that many classes? Why go to school that
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 12: many years?
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 38: You know?
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 12: Why take the notes? Why read the books? Why work
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 12: that hard?
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 37: Why put yourself through the pushups and the disciplines?
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 16: Why?
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 12: Good question?
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 14: Why?
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 12: Best answer to why, I think, is the second question?
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 12: Why not?
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 37: Why not see how many books you can read, how
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 37: many classes you can take.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 12: How many skills you can develop?
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 37: Why not see how valuable you can become to the marketplace,
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 37: to your friends, to your family.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 12: Why not see what you can make of yourself?
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 37: Why not see how far you can go, how much
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 37: you can see, how much you can earn, how much
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 37: you can share?
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 27: Why not?
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 37: That's the heritage all of us have in America, especially
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 37: as to see what we can make out of our lives.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 37: Now that we've been given extraordinary opportunity starting tomorrow, what
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 37: are you going to do that'll make a change in
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 37: your life's direction?
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 12: Good question? What are you going to do? Starting tomorrow
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 12: that'll make a different.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 37: Now, see if you don't do something starting tomorrow that'll
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 37: make a difference.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 12: Guess what it's gonna be the same. And see that
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 12: way you.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 37: Can guess what the next five years are going to
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 37: be like. Look at the last five, because the next
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 37: five are going to be like the last five unless
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 37: you major key tomorrow, change it all or change a little,
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 37: or change something or don't change. It's choice time. You
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 37: can do whatever you want. But it's nice to know
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 37: any day you wish you can change your whole life.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 13: Stop complaining about the results you didn't get from the
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 13: work you didn't put in. The only way to become
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 13: most successful than most people is to be willing to
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 13: do something most people aren't willing to do.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 12: So I want to ask you a question, what are
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 12: you afraid of?
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 9: What are you scared of?
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 12: Because we all have fears, don't we.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 9: We all have something that's blocking us, that's holding us back.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 38: And as we begin to look at life, what we realize.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 62: Is that the reason that most people are not living.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 4: Out their true potential and not doing all of the
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 4: things that they would really like to do, just because
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 4: of fear.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 12: The big question is what am I becoming here?
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 37: Because true happiness is not contained and what you get
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 37: happiness is contained and what you become here's the big
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 37: challenge of life. You can have more than you've got
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 37: because you can become more than you are. That's the challenge.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 37: And of course the other side of the coin reads,
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 37: unless you change how you are, you'll always.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 19: Have what you got.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 13: Why don't you ever tell me it's something that you
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 13: can't do the heaviest things in life on iron and gold,
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 13: but unmade decisions.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 12: The reason you are stressed is that you have decisions.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 15: To make and you're not making them.
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  Speaker 51: U