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- 0:00Welcome back. This is Kimmy Miller of Woman at the Well Ministries,
- 0:03bringing you another Bible bit for you to enjoy.
- 0:07Word choice matters.
- 0:09Today as we journey through the scriptures, mining the truths of God's word,
- 0:13we find that it matters what words we choose.
- 0:16Proverbs 15.1 says, A soft answer turneth away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger.
- 0:24There are dozens of ways to say almost everything we have to say.
- 0:28You can choose the harshest way to say something or the softest way to say something
- 0:33and various versions in between these two ways.
- 0:36But rest assured, what you say has a big impact on how it is received and how the conversation goes.
- 0:44Romans 12, 8 tells us, If it be possible, as much as lieth in you,
- 0:49live peaceably with all men.
- 0:52Here we see that we have an obligation to do everything within our power,
- 0:56whatever we can do, to live at peace with everyone.
- 1:00It all starts with the words we choose to use. A soft, gentle,
- 1:04and thoughtful answer smooths the way and reduces tension, wrath,
- 1:10and negativity in a conversation.
- 1:12But harsh, bitter, careless, and negative words stir up anger and increase tension.
- 1:20Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace and things wherewith
- 1:26one may edify another romans 14 19.
- 1:30As children of God who demonstrate our love for God by our love for others,
- 1:34John 13, 35, we must enthusiastically pursue the things which promote peace and build others up.
- 1:43We need to use our words for edification and to encourage others' spiritual growth.
- 1:50A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver, Proverbs 25, 11.
- 1:56Words spoken at just the right time are precious like apples of gold and settings of silver,
- 2:04as christians children of god we are to let no corrupt communication proceed
- 2:10out of your mouth but that which is good to the use of edifying that it may minister grace,
- 2:18unto the hearers Ephesians 4, 29.
- 2:21Our words are to be a blessing to those who hear them.
- 2:25Our words should give grace and godly favor to those who hear them.
- 2:30No foul, evil, unwholesome talk should ever come out of the mouth of a believer.
- 2:37Our words should always point others to Jesus, fit the occasion,
- 2:44and be beneficial to spiritually growing others.
- 2:48It matters what you say. Choose your words wisely.
- 2:53Death and life are in the power of the tongue, Proverbs 18, 21.
- 2:59Words can produce life or death. You will reap what your mouth sows.
- 3:05So be careful what you say.
- 3:08Too much talk may cause you to eat your words, and they may be a bitter pill to swallow.
- 3:13You must be ready to accept what your words bring your way.
- 3:18Guard your heart, Proverbs 4.23, for out of the abundance of your heart your
- 3:23mouth speaketh, Luke 6.45.
- 3:26Be very careful what you store in your heart, because what you think and what
- 3:32you say comes from the overflow of your heart.
- 3:35Guard your heart with your life. Protect what goes in your heart,
- 3:39so you will be happy with what comes out of it.
- 3:43Guard your heart, and thereby guard your witness. Wherefore,
- 3:47my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear,
- 3:51slow to speak, slow to wrath, for the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.
- 4:00Wherefore, lay apart all filthiness and superfluity of naughtiness,
- 4:06and receive with meekness the engrafted word which is able to save your souls
- 4:13james 1 19 friends be careful,
- 4:17be a careful thoughtful listener carefully choose your words demonstrating patience and forgiveness,
- 4:26for the anger of man doesn't produce the righteousness of god and his standard
- 4:31of attitude and behavior that god requires of every born again believer.
- 4:37So get rid of all wickedness and uncleanness. And in a gentle,
- 4:41humble spirit, welcome the word of God.
- 4:45Plant the word of God, the truth, into your heart, allowing it to save your
- 4:51souls, direct your lives, and lead you into the way everlasting.
- 4:57Today, as the psalmist David did in Psalm 139, 24, invite the Lord to search
- 5:03your heart and see if there be any wicked way hidden within your heart.
- 5:09If the Holy Spirit brings something to mind, confess it.
- 5:13Ask the Lord to remove it from you and know that you are forgiven.
- 5:171 John 1.9 Guard your hearts and choose your words wisely.
- 5:23They truly matter. Remember you are loved. Jesus loves you.
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