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Empress Njamah's Fake Engagement - Watch Her Harrowing Ordeal · DidiLawren

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  Hello. Welcome back to my channel.
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  My name is Lawrence, Yahoo Diva and this is bound with lorenza.
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  How are you all doing? I hope you're doing great.
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  For today's episode, we're going to be talking about Nollywood
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  actress and pressing jamas. Second gauge means, it's not
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  even funny like two days ago and press and Gemma posted on a
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  verified Instagram page. That's a she's engaged.
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  She's of the markets that she was engaged in August of this
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  year and people wondering why she just put.
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  She looks like a seasoned celebrity one.
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  One of the things I noticed about a initially was very
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  impressed. He's kind of person.
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  She like, Glam, like, high Glam. She is that babe.
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  She like long news. She will come in full Glam.
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  Even when every other person is just dressing casual and press
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  who come in drunk. So she, you can trust and
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  pressed to bring the food drama to any events.
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  So, when I press announced her engagement on Instagram, she
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  literally had cornrows she didn't do her.
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  Will's. No makeup.
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  I think she just woke up in the morning and the shock not video.
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  I mean she was video would have phone and the guy also was kind
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  of, you know, video in her. Like it was interested, weird.
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  I mean, I saw my engagement and something just told me this
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  something is not adding up. Something is not right.
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  I just left it. I was just like, you know what,
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  a you engaged, you are will 43 years old, you can choose to,
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  you know, engage Age 30 engagements or post engagement,
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  whatever you want to post it, not everybody wants to like
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  shoots an engagement video just for the gram but before then let
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  me this story is so layered that I don't even know how to start
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  absolutely engagement which was two days ago.
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  Yesterday and press posted a video online that her account
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  has been hacked and she was explaining listen.
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  I am just going to play that video for you for you guys to
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  see what I am talking about. Hello, friends, family.
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  And thanks. I'm doing this video to clear
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  the air. And also to save a lot of women.
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  I'm a victim. It could happen to anyone.
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  It's not easy, telling her story and a society, where a lot of
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  people will only criticize you and say all kinds of things.
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  Home thing is, I am out here saying this to encourage a lot
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  of women out there to speak up. I'm a victim of blackmail.
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  I thank God that my life to tell you the story.
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  It's not been easy coming out to do this. but I'm here doing it
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  and flesh and blood and I will heal a guy that one could have
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  been called a human being came into my life and print ends up
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  wanting to marry me. I didn't know that he had other
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  motives. And he came when I was very
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  vulnerable. When I lost.
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  My friend are their armor. I've been speaking to this girl
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  the phone for months we're going to people that I thought were
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  his relatives, everything was just scam.
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  Came to my life said he could not leave me because I was not
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  okay, I really wasn't, okay? I was hiding it from the Press.
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  The death of my friend broke me down so bad I could not
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  function. He said he was going to stay
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  with me, I didn't know he was busy gathering his tools as
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  materials which he was going to use to Blackmail me.
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  Afterwards. They had my naked videos.
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  And he changed, he started hitting me.
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  And when I wanted to talk and tell him, this can't work.
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  He blocked me with my own videos and said I'm going nowhere.
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  And that's when he turned into an animal beats me anytime,
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  locks me, or put the keys in his pocket in my own house.
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  I had access to the ring that he got was fading, my hands.
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  And each time I looked at my hands, it was burning.
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  You could not have fought that ring obviously, but I couldn't
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  talk. I'm going to leave this here for
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  now. I just want to say thank you to
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  those who have been coming to check on me.
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  I'm fine. I will be fine.
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  My family. Have you here with me?
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  It's been amazing with my friends who come to check up on
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  me every day they sleep with me. I'm still a total wreck but I'll
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  be better. I'll be okay with time but I'm
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  happy that I love you guys. Thank you for everything.
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  Those of you out there who are on that this guy's, whatever,
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  come out, speak out. Speak through me, I know your
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  videos. I know what you're going
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  through, they will Did my airports he had two bags of my
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  of my valuables to the car and left.
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  He has to gossip is sending threat videos.
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  And saying, whatever I do whatever I tell is going to put
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  it out there, he's going to put it out there.
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  He has, he's the one posting chatting people on diem.
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  I was able to get back my SIM cards but he hacked my WhatsApp
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  but the IT people were able to get my wife's up after he had
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  done the damage it It already. I'm not the one chatting you.
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  If I come back with my page in ever it happens.
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  I'll let you know that I'm handling my page for.
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  Now I'm not handling that page and pressing Jama.
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  It's not been handled by me. The rest of the story and the
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  details I told to the appropriate persons but for now
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  I needed to clear the air and go to my page and see the video.
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  He posted those that look like something I will post.
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  I was on the directs posting that video called engagement.
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  Leaving my room. This is a guy who lied to me
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  that when he came to Nigeria, all his things were stolen, his
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  phone's his, his credit cards, his clothes, and he got into
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  trouble, and he needed lawyers. which I Which I gave a huge
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  amount of money in talking Millions.
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  He was. LT came to Abuja started.
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  Living With Me. I became a shadow of myself but
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  a, you know, became a shadow of herself.
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  If you were around me, you notice my social life is It's no
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  more weed minute. I was able to run away from my
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  house, my house. This first thing I'm telling you
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  actually got a ring and forced me to do a video, which he
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  posted on my page because he has access to my page.
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  He changed all my password, lock me, out of every email, I have
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  everything, I have all my phones, my iCloud, everything, I
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  don't have access to anything. I don't, I don't mind.
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  I my life to tell you the story. I was able to run that night.
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  I ran into the streets not minding who or how I fell into a
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  gutter. I was able to see him Alum to
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  ask her phone. I called my brother and he
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  picked me up from the hospital. The following morning took me
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  home, this guy came back after looking for me, took my car,
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  took my international passport, he took the remaining money, I
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  have left He beats me, takes me to the hospital.
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  He makes you I don't get involved with anyone too many
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  three minutes so I don't tell anybody what's going on with me?
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  He close Mac to me everywhere. I went he dropped me everywhere
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  and it's always watching me not to tell the story to anybody.
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  My family knew I was not okay, but I wasn't speaking.
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  They just needed me to speak. They came to the house to ask.
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  If I was fine, I still could not speak.
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  I could not tell them. I couldn't.
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  I couldn't allow my mom. He has such a thing.
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  My family left, he bounced on me.
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  Me and beat me and said, I called my family, there's
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  nothing they can do his ten times our head or whatever thing
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  I was going to do two Saturdays, it two Saturdays ago.
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  He beat me, took me to the hospital came back and I said no
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  more as better. My life to tell the story than
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  being in such a mess. There was nothing to post on
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  social media. My fans were asking you okay,
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  are you still morning? They did.
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  My was going through something worse than that.
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  He wrecked me. Finished everything.
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  I noticed that t also had lots of videos of other people.
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  I saw most of my colleagues. I saw their chat.
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  I saw everything. And I know that people could not
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  speak up because they were scared.
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  On my birthday. You guys know how I don't joke
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  with my birthday. My birthday was the worst
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  birthday ever in my entire life. He beat me up broke my TV.
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  People who came to greet, me notice, that was an okay, but
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  here, I am telling you in special people, we are kind of
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  scratching their heads, they were like, oh my God, how could
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  this happen to impress? Like who could do this to
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  another human being people are confused because Empress has
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  this kind of person that has always mind her business?
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  She's a has been a very notorious, Nollywood doctor.
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  In terms of the rules that she played or in her private life,
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  the only thing that she has been engaged in in like in terms of
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  relationship is have very Infamous relationship with
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  Samaya the crashed and Tamiya has been dragging a.
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  Well, I think was just for fun because some of the interviews
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  that he granted he said that this whole thing, you know,
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  Empress if you work out for them.
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  So she's a lovely girl that I mean.
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  He's very sure that somebody else is going to work out with
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  somebody else and that was it. So everybody was still trying to
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  process the news of empress video, the video that she
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  released online and then this guy the half years, say, release
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  the video. He was he was that I would just
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  Play that video because I wanted to do this video after I've come
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  down, I Think my emotions are still running high.
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  So I'm just going to play those videos for you.
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  Everything that I said to you. I think you consider it'll be a
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  joke but trust me it's not a joke.
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  I'm no your day-to-day activities and do everything you
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  do on your daily busy, you're facing, I care about your
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  fishing days are facing dad. Everything?
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  I know absolutely everything. She had a girl.
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  Who was blackmailing her that I never knew about So she was like
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  kind of draining all the time I use Axl was going on was
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  happening. We definitely going to explain
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  to me until I was able to go through all her social media.
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  She had like harasser or whatsoever that she has to go
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  through it, get into messages. They are going to know that this
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  Gap is sex V or for her, not just one, not just two.
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  So all along the money she been taken from afar business.
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  The management asked a lot of people.
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  For keeping giving it to this guy, didn't know.
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  So as I trace, the guy, I was able to get to him and then let
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  him like a man, conscious conscious, conscious foam cars
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  everywhere, and kept, that visitors.
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  And I was able to get it for him.
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  They what I needed to do. And then I left the video of
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  empress and how, you know, fiance I just, I just couldn't
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  believe it. Like, this is, this is
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  unbelievable. Now, let me go back a couple of
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  weeks ago, so, vacay actually released a statement.
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  Saw like she made a post on Instagram where she said people
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  that laughed at her when she was in a bad relationship when she
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  was feeding him man they are in the same situation.
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  Total Decay she is she's very spontaneous person so people are
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  thinking who has upset to do. Dickie total Decay is running as
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  a Deputy Governor in. Our state.
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  So who is triggering, Tonto decaying?
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  Why are they trying to drag her into whatever?
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  They were kind of scared? Because they love you too if she
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  starts. She's not going to step it.
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  So complicated make any follow-up post after that until
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  this issue of a in Jama. Now the post that totally cool
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  was referring to total dick. A detailed principal program.
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  Now, Prince probably is I don't even know if it's a prince.
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  He's an Abuja. Big boy, let me just put it that
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  way. Allegedly, what he does
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  according to do Decay is that he dates influential women and he
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  video them like private intimate videos and then he will use it
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  to Blackmail them. According to turn to Decay, he
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  has notes of celebrity videos that he's been blackmailing.
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  This guy is living a big life and according to turn the UK he
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  is getting all this money from These women even married, women
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  politicians wife that he has been blackmailing to get all
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  this money from and she said she's a victim.
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  She even came out and asked people where the same similar
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  situation people that he have their video because according to
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  turn to education. So she saw a lot of videos of
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  celebrities. So she came out and said
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  everybody that this guy has their video, they should come
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  out some supports her. Now that she's fighting this
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  battle never. Then let's, you know, let's just
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  come out and end this whole thing.
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  Nobody, you know, supported her and the case is turning cold.
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  Look what? Christening chords fighting to
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  the decal, 200, if I seen him. I don't know how what the
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  situation is with that case. But judging from what this man,
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  the librarian fiancée of a ninja.
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  My saying he said that Allegedly, he has videos of
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  empress in Jama that he went to actually fight this man to bring
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  the video out. And he said it broke a lot of
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  things collected video and give you back to all.
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  He didn't give it back to impress.
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  He took the video back. Now, you straight mean it's like
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  this. This too much layers like you
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  dating somebody and president this guy, bitter of He was
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  abusive, he had he was blackmailing her.
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  So apparently what he did was probably was doing blackmailing
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  impressed with higher nudes with her intimate, maybe sexual
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  video, nobody knows but on the Decay actually said is an S
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  tape. So maybe these are the videos
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  that half years he was able to get from probably and now he is
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  using it to blackmail her. How how devilish can that be
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  like? I don't even I don't even know
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  how to process this. Because I think when we talk
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  about abuse, we think abused only happened to weak people.
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  Abuse only happens to people that don't have voice to two
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  decades, a very vocal person online and person Jama.
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  Like she is very she's very successful.
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  She is the balls cheek. She is, she's traveling
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  influencing even before inflation.
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  Once he became a thing, all those actresses, you know, doing
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  their Nollywood era, a want to study business before any other
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  actress actually realized okay we cannot just be acting.
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  We can actually start other things to support our acting
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  career and press did at first so she is a boss lady total Decay
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  is vocal and if these things could happen to these strong
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  women we can sit down And George and see.
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  Oh my God that cannot that my can never happen to me but you
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  don't know the vulnerable states that you can be in.
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  And somebody some devil you just come and take advantage of you.
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  It is, I was so shocked. What does it mean IGN that in
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  this day and age people who go through this lens just to get
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  money from people, blackmail women?
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  The worst part is this guy's not even Nigerian his librarian,
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  he's currently I don't even know where he's at the moment, but he
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  is still threatening to release videos of impress online.
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  That he knows everything that whatever she is doing even if
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  she's a ruins Gil. How is he?
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  How is your business? You knew how you dated, how you
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  propose to her, you desire to my heart.
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  Why be what are the things if somebody had done that to her
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  and you're thinking, okay, let me be the Saviour.
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  Get all those videos. Why do you want to use that
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  against her? It's so painful, and he's coming
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  out to say that she is owing him. 450 thousand US dollars or
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  many. You are staying in our house.
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  We were living with her when you came in claim that your baggage
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  is to a lost. You don't have any more.
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  Money. She gave you millions of Lyra.
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  It's just sad all round. It is sad.
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  I mean, I think and I hope that with this to under the can
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  impress can actually come out and fight purple green because
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  the Genesis of this problem, according to impress, his
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  fiancee is the fact that somebody had a video of her and
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  he was trying to get those videos.
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  It's just ridiculous. He's in that they are supposed
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  to get married in February, hi. I can so confused, like
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  everybody's confused, everybody's confused at the
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  level of the audacity, The Audacity Of This Man.
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  To not only put his hands on her abused her and is too
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  threatening her. He took over all her social
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  media page and that is not even enough.
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  He is still posting and saying things Relationship relationship
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  relationship. I just wish a all the best.
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  Like I don't even know how she is dealing with this situation.
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  Like II don't even know why I pray that she is able to pull
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  through, she's able to pull through because this can happen
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  to anybody. This can happen to anybody.
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  I wish I love Lights. And I hope that she's able to
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  pull through, and I hope that she's able to join forces, we
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  turn to Decay to bring down. Whoever has her intimate videos,
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  and intimate videos of other celebrities and SATA cities.
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  You know, whoever has her intimate videos.
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  She should follow them legally because blackmailing the steam
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  is stages by stages, like people, somebody else, This is
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  good to get, hold of that video and they're going to Blackmail
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  you to come out. Nip it in the bud.
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  Now that everything is hot. Now that you have the sympathy
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  of everybody come out, say something join forces with other
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  celebrities that are willing to help you out that way, you can
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  adjust this once and for all so I wish I was the best.
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  Thank you very much for watching.
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  Bye. This is good to get, hold of
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  that video and they're going to Blackmail you to come out.
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  Nip it in the bud. Now that everything is hot.
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  Now that you have the sympathy of everybody come out, say
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  something join forces with other celebrities that are willing to
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  help you out that way, you can adjust this once and for all so
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  I wish I was the best. Thank you very much for
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  watching. Bye.