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When Words Become Weapons: Slander, the Ninth Commandment, and the Call to Christlike Speech · Reformed Thinking

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Welcome to reformed thinking. For this deep dive, we are
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zeroing in on a sin that is well.
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It's as prevalent as breathing in our digital age, yet it's one
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that scripture and historical form tradition treat with
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absolute gravity slander. Our sources stack up to examine
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the 9th Commandment, which says you shall not bear false witness
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against your neighbor. And I want you to just stop for
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a moment and think about how fragile a reputation is today in
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the modern world. A person's name, it feels 1 was
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weightless, you know, it's so susceptible to immediate and and
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lasting damage. A single hastily written post
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online, a casual remark whispered in a private message,
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or even just a brief, carelessly spoken sentence can instantly
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stain a person's name. And that stain, it settles so
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quickly and can linger for years and cause real serious harm to
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their livelihood, their friendships, their ministry.
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Our culture tends to treat destructive negative speech
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pretty lightly. We excuse it.
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We say, oh, I'm just letting off steamer.
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I'm sharing a necessary concern. Maybe we just dismiss it as the
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inevitable friction of online life, but the Bible tells us
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that words are not harmless, neutral noises.
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They were. Instruments of creation or
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destruction. We read in Proverbs 18.21 that
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death and life are in the power of the tongue.
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The apostle James tells us that the tongue is this tiny,
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seemingly insignificant spark that can set a great forest
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ablaze. Are instruments of
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communication, whether they're in person or digital, have this
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frightening capacity to either bless or to utterly destroy.
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So our mission today is to move past the shallow popular idea of
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the night commandment is just, you know, don't tell an outright
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lie in court when you're underoath.
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You know, we need to see how the Reformed tradition, particularly
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through the the really penetrating lens of the
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Westminster standards, reveals this command to be God's
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comprehensive moral rule for how we as believers are supposed to
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think and judge and speak about one another.
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This lie is God's design, and it's specifically for
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safeguarding a neighbor's person, their material
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well-being, and, most crucially, their good name.
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The central question this deep dive forces us to face is, well,
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it's highly searching and applies to every word, every
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post, every piece of information you forward.
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Am I, by these words, preserving or destroying my neighbor's good
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name? That framing is so important
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because it immediately shifts the perspective.
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It goes from a negative prohibition, what we must not
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do, to a positive responsibility, or what we must
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actively do. And the Westminster Confession
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and Catechisms, they capture the sweeping reach of this law
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better than almost any other ethical framework I can think
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of. And you're absolutely right that
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its scope extends far, far beyond prohibiting lying
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underoath. I mean, think about the original
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context in ancient Israel. False testimony could literally
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condemn an innocent person to death.
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Or, just as devastatingly, it could strip them of their land
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and their inheritance. So to lie about someone was to
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put their very life and their future at risk.
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The law was, at its heart, protective.
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The genius of the Reformed tradition, particularly among
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the Westminster Divine's, was applying this law as a spiritual
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mirror. They saw it was God's moral rule
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for the entire person. It extends to the intentions of
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the heart and applies to every conversation, every inward
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judgement we make. It's not just about what you say
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in the Magistrates Court, it's about what you whisper in the
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kitchen. And this expansion leads
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directly into the dual nature of of the law.
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The law doesn't just forbid certain destructive actions, it
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positively requires others. The law demands that believers
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become active guardians or spiritual Watchmen of each
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other's reputation and name. Guardian is a strong term, so
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we're not just told to be neutral bystanders making sure
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we don't start the fire, but we're supposed to be protectors.
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What are the specific positive duties that this tradition says
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we are required to undertake? Well, the first and maybe the
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most striking requirement is the act of love of the neighbor's
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good name. And this goes well beyond basic
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civility. We're required to actively love
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our neighbor's reputation as much as we love our own.
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We have to desire their esteem, we have to rejoice in their good
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report, and we must be committed to seeing them treated with the
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respect that truth allows. It's a a warm, generous
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disposition toward others, and this leads directly to the duty
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of charitable judgement. Now, this is an incredibly
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challenging requirement because it runs so counter to our human
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instinct to assume the worst. The Westminster Larger Catechism
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commands us to interpret a neighbor's words and actions in
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the best possible light that remains consistent with the
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known facts. OK, hold on.
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How is that charitable judgment different from just being naive
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or or gullible? I mean, if someone acts
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suspiciously or ambiguously, doesn't charitable judgment
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demand that we just ignore our instincts and assume they're
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perfect? That seems unrealistic in a
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fallen world. That is a fair question, and it
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speaks to why that phrase, consistent with truth, is so
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crucial. Charitable judgment does not
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mean turning a blind eye to sin or ignoring clear evidence of
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malice. What it means is that when
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actions or motives are unclear, when there are two possible
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interpretations, 1 generous and one cynical, we are bound by
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love to choose the generous interpretation until compelling
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evidence proves otherwise. So it's a default position.
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It's a default position. It forces us to slow down our
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instinct to convict. It means we must be ready and
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willing to receive a good report about a neighbor.
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And conversely, we must be unwilling to admit an evil
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report without absolutely sufficient verified proof.
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If the evidence is lacking, or if the interpretation is
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ambiguous, the law binds us to favor the neighbors honor.
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That seems to be the highest hurdle for us today, especially
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online. We just absorb information so
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quickly, and the narrative that confirms our own suspicion or
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bias is often the one we adopt immediately.
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Absolutely. And this duty then extends to
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active defense and concealment. The positive duty requires us to
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defend the innocent when their name is attacked unfairly.
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If you are in a conversation and someone begins to tear down
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another person's name with unverified or clearly distorted
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claims, we are commanded to step in and speak up.
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For the absent party. We are their shield.
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And conversely, we have to practice concealment.
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We're required to conceal a neighbor's faults or weaknesses
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where there is no necessity to expose them.
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If a fault is private, it's been repented of, and it affects no
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one else. The law commands secrecy, not
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broadcasts. OK, so even if it's true.
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Even if it's true, sharing negative information, even if
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it's factually accurate, constitutes a violation of the
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9th Commandment if it's done without necessity, without love,
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and without a defined purpose for restoration or protection.
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That's a sharp distinction. Think about the nature of a
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fault. If a person struggles with a
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weakness that doesn't immediately jeopardize others,
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our duty is to cover that weakness.
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Modeling the love described in First Peter 4.8, where love
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covers a multitude of sins. The only time exposure is
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necessary is when the fault is public, when it's unrepentant,
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or when concealing it would endanger others.
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For instance, protecting a flock from a clearly dangerous leader.
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That brings up the final point in this section.
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Speaking seasonably, if we're obligated to defend and conceal,
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how does the Commandment regulate the timing of truth
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telling? The law requires that our speech
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be truthful, yes, but also seasonably spoken.
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This means speaking at the right time, in the right manner, and
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to the right people. Truth spoken carelessly,
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motivated by malice, or just thrown out into the public
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square when it should have remained private, can be just as
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destructive as an outright falsehood.
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I see. Think about the difference
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between a necessary surgical incision and a reckless stab.
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Both use a sharp instrument. The surgeon uses the sharpness
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precisely at the right moment for healing, right.
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The stabber uses it maliciously or carelessly for injury.
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Truth out of season or spoken to the wrong audience often
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functions as a reckless stab, destroying trust and reputation
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needlessly. So when we turn to the negative
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duty, what the law prohibits, slander is condemned as a
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particularly vicious way of breaking this commandment.
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It is viewed as the theft or destruction of a neighbor's
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honor. And this is where the language
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becomes very, very sharp. Slanderers are called the
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thieves of honor because a person's good name isn't some
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expendable social construct. It's part of the dignity God has
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given them as image bearers created in His likeness.
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When we slander, we strip away precisely what the law commands
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us to guard. We are despising the dignity
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that God has placed upon that neighbor, and the commandment
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searches the heart, condemning inward suspicions.
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This is the sin of eagerly assuming the worst without
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adequate evidence. Often, because we want the
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neighbor to be guilty, we've already committed slander
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against them internally before the destructive word has even
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left our lips. Wow.
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The prohibition therefore extends beyond the flat out lie
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to subtle damage. It condemns distortion,
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exaggeration, selective presentation of facts or
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statements ripped from context, all of which are designed to
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lead listeners to think the worst.
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That internal condemnation is so important because it gets at the
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intent, not just the action. That focus on the heart and
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unsettled damage is what truly separates this reformed view
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from a simple dictionary definition of lying.
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So if slander includes technically true but unjustly
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damaging speech, we need to spend some time to finding the
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anatomy of this destructive language, our materials, to find
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the core of slander as false or unjustly damaging speech about
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another person's character or conduct spoken to others, which
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needlessly injuries that person's reputation.
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At its root, slander uses the divine gift of words which
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should be used to bless and build as a weapon against the
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neighbor we are commanded to love.
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And this issue of subtle damage is where most of us stumble.
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I think it goes beyond the outright lie.
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Slander often operates in the realm of technical truth, but
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presents it unjustly. 1/2 truth, a fact delivered without its
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necessary context or a statement that exaggerates A flaw into a
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defining characteristic. These are all forms of bearing
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false witness because they create a picture of the person
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that is fundamentally unfair and misleading.
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For example, if a person once struggled severely with a sin 10
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years ago, but has repented, been restored, and is currently
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walking faithfully, bringing up that isolated sin today to
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discredit their current good work, that constitutes unjust
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disclosure. Even though the historical fact
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is technically true. It's a theft of their honor
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because it undermines their present fidelity by poisoning
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the listeners perception with irrelevant past failure.
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And that concept of unjust disclosure really highlights the
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malice, or at least the gross lack of love behind the words.
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Slander is the verbal expression of hidden hostility or
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carelessness. It's not neutral information
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sharing, even if the facts reported are, in isolation,
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accurate. And to really grasp the
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theological weight of this sin, we have to look at the specific
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language Scripture uses to identify it.
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The biblical lexicon reveals how relational and corrosive this
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sin truly is. Let's look at that.
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In Hebrew, the term is textiva wapple.
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It's often translated simply as report.
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But what did your sources reveal about why that specific word
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carries such venom? Well, Textiva means evil report
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or bad report. It's a report that is poisoned
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with unbelief, distortion, and it's often tied directly to
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deceit and hatred. And crucially, the Old Testament
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frames this idea as relational pretory that actively endangers
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a neighbor's well-being. Think of the spies who brought
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back an evil report Atexaba about the Promised land in
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Numbers 13. They weren't necessarily lying
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about the size of the giants, but they poisoned the report
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with fear and unbelief, and that led the community to
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destruction. OK, the famous command in
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Leviticus 19.16 prohibits someone from going around as a
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slanderer among your people, and it immediately links that sin to
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not standing up against the life of your neighbor.
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Slander is seen as this corrosive force that undermines
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the love and loyalty required of the covenant community.
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It threatens the social fabric God established.
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And the New Testament seem to to intensify this picture.
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They do. The New Testament sharpens the
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focus with terms like textitalia, which means slander
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or backbiting. This specifically suggests
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whispering and negative talk about people behind their backs.
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This is the quiet, insidious verbal activity that erodes
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Community Trust. It turns friends into suspicious
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adversaries, even if the person spoken against never hears the
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negative talk directly. And the New Testament repeatedly
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categorizes text Catalalia alongside deep moral evils like
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malice, deceit, hypocrisy, and envy.
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This shows that it is far more than a social faux pas.
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It is a serious breach of moral law.
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Right. It's a sin of cowardice, really,
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where we attack the person's reputation when they're not
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present to defend themselves. OK.
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And then there's another one. Then there is text blasphemia.
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We commonly translate this as blasphemy when it's directed at
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God, which is speech that reviles or dishonors him.
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But when it's directed toward people, it translates as slander
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or reviling. This tells us that slander
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directed toward a human image bearer is abusive speech meant
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to verbally attack and tear down.
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It connects the dishonor of God with the dishonor of man.
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And then we reach the most striking term, which connects us
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immediately to the Kingdom of darkness.
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Precisely. Tex diabolos is the standard
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Greek term for the devil, and it literally means slanderer or
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accuser. So when the New Testament uses
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this Word family to describe human behavior, it shows that to
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slander is literally to speak in a diabolical way to imitate the
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accuser of God's people. That is a staggering claim, and
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we'll get into the vertical sin aspect in a moment.
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But given this incredibly broad definition encompassing half
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truths, unjust disclosure, and inward malice, it becomes
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absolutely essential to distinguish slander from lawful
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rebuke or legitimate required truth telling.
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I think this is where many of us struggle.
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When am I exercising necessary biblical accountability and when
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have I crossed the line into malice?
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Isn't the line blurry? How do I know if my motive is
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really love and restoration or just disguise malice and self
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justification? Where does the source material
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offer a litmus test for that self deception?
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That is the right question to ask because our hearts are
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masters of deceit. The sources provide a very clear
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litmus test based on motive, method, and context.
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If you're struggling with that line, you need to apply these
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three filters, and they are. They're unforgiving.
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OK, first consider the motive. Slander's motive is driven by
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hidden hostility, malice, pride, envy, or revenge.
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It is aimed explicitly or implicitly at injuring the
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neighbor's name, or at least elevating the speaker's status.
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By tearing the neighbor down, the speech seeks destruction.
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Lawful rebuke, on the other hand, must be characterized by
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transparent love. Its motive must be the
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restoration of the sinning person, the protection of the
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vulnerable, or obedience to a clear, established biblical
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command. Like discipline, it seeks
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healing and reconciliation. If you're sharing the
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information because it makes you feel superior, it's slander.
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So if the information is painful, but the intent is to
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see that person restored, then we pass the first Test.
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But sometimes love itself can be distorted.
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What about the method? Second, examine the method in
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context. Slander's method is distorted,
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exaggerated, or selectively presented speech.
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It's shared without necessity, without love, and always
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involves talking around someone instead of directly to them.
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This is the crucial point. If you share a negative report
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with a third party who has no biblical role in solving the
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problem, they aren't a pastor, they aren't a necessary witness,
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and they aren't the victim. You have committed slander
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regardless of the truth of the fact.
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That's a bright line. It is lawful rebukes method is
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truthful, measured and it adheres to biblical processes.
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The primary process is Matthew 18.15.
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Go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.
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The information is shared only with the necessary parties in
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the proper sequence, the one person, then two or three
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witnesses, and finally the church.
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If you jump straight to broadcasting the sin to a group
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chat, you have failed the method test and committed slander.
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The goal is always reconciliation, not exposure.
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That is an excellent framework. The key difference is often who
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we are trying to serve with the information.
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Are we serving the goal of restoration, or are we serving
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our own need to vent or validate our feelings?
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Precisely. The key difference is stark.
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Slander is the careless or malicious smearing of a name,
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whether true or false, shared without love or necessity.
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Lawful rebuke is the careful, necessary naming of sin in the
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proper context, always aimed at repentance and restoration, and
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this distinction helps us to recognize the true theological
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seriousness of this sin, moving us into the vertical
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implications. Slander is not a mere
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communication issue, something we need therapy or better
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etiquette for. It is a serious spiritual evil
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that aligns the speaker with the Kingdom of darkness.
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We have to revisit that diabolical connection as we
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established the standard Greek term for the devil literally
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means slanderer or accuser. When humans use their tongue to
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accuse or tear down the reputation of others unjustly,
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they are using their speech in a diabolical way.
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They're imitating the accuser of God's people.
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Revelation 12.10 Zu describes Satan as the accuser of our
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brothers who accuses them day and night before our God.
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Slander is active participation in this ancient, destructive
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pattern of accusation that belongs entirely to the Kingdom
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of darkness. It means we are speaking in the
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vocabulary of the devil, the father of lies.
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This is why the New Testament treats slander as so serious,
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classifying it alongside the sins that define the old,
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unregenerate self that believers must decisively put off.
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So every time we indulge in a necessary destructive speech,
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we're essentially auditioning for the role of the accuser.
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Yes, and we're also contradicting the work of the
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other side of that spiritual equation.
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Slander forces the speaker to resemble the accuser rather than
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Christ. Christ is not our prosecutor, He
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is our advocate. As First John 2.1 states, He is
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the one who speaks on behalf of his people, not to condemn them,
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but to plead their cause and perfect righteousness before the
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Father. To speak accusatorily,
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deceptively, and destructively contradicts the gracious and
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truthful ministry of the Advocate.
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It's a profound choice of loyalty.
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We either reflect Christ, who intercedes and covers us, or we
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reflect the devil who relentlessly accuses and exposes
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us. And you mentioned earlier that
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this makes slander a vertical insult that strikes a God's
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character. How does my gossip about my
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neighbor become an assault on God's nature?
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It assaults God's nature as the God of truth.
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God's words are perfectly pure. He's incapable of lying.
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He gave us the gift of language, speech, and reason, intending
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for that gift to reflect His own perfect truthfulness and love.
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Slander takes that divine gift and weaponizes it against the
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neighbor with deception, malice, and injustice.
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We are denying the very nature of God by using the gift He gave
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us to sin against His truth. And ultimately, slander acts as
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a smoke detector for the heart. Jesus teaches us plainly that
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out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
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Evil thoughts, false witness and slanders do not float in from
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the environment. They come from within, from the
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reservoir of the heart's corruption.
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Slander is never just a social flaw or a bad habit.
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It reviews precisely what lies beneath the surface.
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So if it reveals hard corruption, what are the
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specific idols or deep seated issues that usually drive a
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person to slander? Our sources identify several
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specific idols. The first is pride and self
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exultation. The slanderer uses negative
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stories about others to justify their own status, implicitly
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positioning themselves as superior.
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They are in effect performing a verbal version of the Pharisees
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prayer. God, I thank you that I am not
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like other men. They want to be seen as more
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righteous, more discerning, or more intelligent than others.
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So they lower someone else in the eyes of their listeners to
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achieve that temporary false elevation.
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Can you give a quick example of how that pride manifests itself
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in a typical church or committee meeting setting?
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Absolutely. Think about a church committee
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tasked with selecting a new leader.
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Person A is highly qualified, but perhaps they had a public
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minor failure in a completely unrelated area five years ago.
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The slanderer driven by pride might say we should be careful
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about AI. Heard they really struggled with
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XYZ in the past. It just makes me question their
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judgement. The underlying goal isn't
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protection, it's self promotion. The slanderer wants their
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preferred candidate, or perhaps themselves, to look better by
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comparison, casting an unverified, irrelevant shadow on
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A's competence. The second driver is envy and
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jealousy. Slander chips away at a
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neighbor's name because their gifts, their fruitfulness, or
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their favor makes the speaker feel small or insecure.
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Instead of rejoicing in the neighbor's good name and
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success, the slanderer attempts to pull them down to their own
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perceived level by undermining their reputation.
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If I can't attain their success, I will at least make sure others
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view them skeptically. The third is bitterness and
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revenge, when grievances are nursed rather than forgiven and
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the person feels they were slighted or injured.
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Slander is used to exact revenge in social form.
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Since they can't physically punish the offender, they use
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their tongue as an instrument to punish them by damaging their
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reputation among peers. In every case, slander exposes
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idolatry. It reveals that the speaker
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trusts idols, whether it's their own reputation, their desire for
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revenge, or their need for peer approval, more than they trust
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God to vindicate them, provide for them, and judge justly.
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Slander is the weaponized outcome of a heart that chooses
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self justification and hostility over humility and faith in God's
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righteousness. That forensic analysis helps us
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diagnose some of the most frustrating and damaging forms
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of slander we see operating in the church today, particularly
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when the malice is veiled by religious language.
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The most pervasive contemporary manifestation is what we call
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sanctified gossip or pious malice, where damaging reports
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are carefully disguised using highly respectable language.
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This practice involves passing along details of struggles,
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faults, or alleged sins under the convenient guise of sharing
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a concern or using the classic disclaimer, I don't want to
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gossip, but followed instantly by the damaging detail that the
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listener has no need to know. The materials point out that
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this is precisely the kind of malicious whispering Scripture
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condemns which Solomon said separates close friends.
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The violation here is not the inaccuracy of the fact, but the
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absence of biblical purpose. This speech lacks any loving
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necessity for restoration or accountability, and it avoids
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Christ's specific instruction to go directly to the person.
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That's right, and the compromise here is the evangelical tendency
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to think that mentioning God or prayer automatically washes the
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sin away. But adding Please pray about
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this sensitive matter to an unnecessary, damaging report
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does not transfigure slander into ministry.
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It simply adds hypocrisy to the sin, cloaking malice in
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respectable pious language. Let's put this in a modern
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common context, the private Facebook or encrypted group
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chat. This is often where sanctified
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gossip thrives. A person is legitimately hurt by
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another person's perceived fault.
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But instead of applying Matthew 18, they post a vague prayerful
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status update or send a group message to five trusted friends
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saying I need prayer for Brother X.
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He is really struggling with discernment right now, and I'm
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just so concerned about the direction he is taking the
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ministry. Pray that God shows him truth.
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Oh, that's familiar. And the listeners in that group
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chat are immediately poisoned against Brother X.
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The speaker feels justified because they asked for prayer,
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but they have achieved their real goal, broadcasting the
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negative report and soliciting affirmation of their own
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superior spiritual judgement, all while avoiding the
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difficult, loving step of confrontation.
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The information was delivered to the wrong audience for the wrong
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reason, with destructive results.
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And the digital world only accelerates this danger.
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Platforms like social media, blogs, encrypted messaging, they
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just intensify the danger of unguarded speech due to sheer
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speed and reach. This is where digital slander
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and unverified accusations flourish on a massive scale.
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Screens, unfortunately, make it far easier to dehumanize the
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neighbor. We're interacting with avatars,
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not faces. This distance encourages
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broadcasting damaging accusations, the thoughtless
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tweet or post that the speaker would never dare make face to
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face. The lack of immediate reciprocal
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accountability encourages recklessness.
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And this digital environment fundamentally undermines the
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biblical requirements for verification and patience.
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Slander occurs digitally when Christians share partial,
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unverified, or one sided information.
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This is frequently justified as warning the flock or protecting
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the truth, especially in controversies.
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But in doing so, the speaker neglects crucial requirements,
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refusing to hear a matter fully, refusing to admit a charge
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without proper witnesses, and rushing to judgment.
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The digital culture rewards speed, outrage and certainty,
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which stands in direct contradiction to the scriptural
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call for slowness, charity and verification.
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When you forward an unverified negative article about a leader
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to 100 contacts, you have functionally become a slanderer,
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stealing that leader's reputation regardless whether
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they turn out to be guilty six months later.
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That principle of verification seems absolutely abandoned in
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our public discourse. Everyone feels they have to be
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the first to share the hot take. Yeah, and finally, we see this
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send manifest acutely in theological and ecclesiastical
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disputes through doctrinal caricature and
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misrepresentation. God calls us to contend
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earnestly for the faith, but the method of contention is governed
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by the 9th Commandment. This is a devastating form of
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slander because it often targets the most diligent students of
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Scripture. Instead of careful, precise
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representation of an opponent's actual published view, speakers
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substitute caricature they attribute to opponents,
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positions they do not hold, motives they have not expressed,
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or conclusions they explicitly deny, often based on snippets,
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out of context quotes, or highly selective excerpts.
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For example, instead of summarizing A theological
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disagreement accurately, say Doctor Smith hold a nuanced view
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on eschatology. X.
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Based on this Greek phrasing, the slanderer might post Doctor
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Smith denies the clear meaning of Scripture and embraces
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heresy. Y Tying the person's name to a
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destructive, misleading label that the person does not.
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So the compromise here is equating zeal with accuracy.
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Precisely. They mistakenly assume that a
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passionate defense of doctrine somehow sanctifies reckless
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speech aimed at destroying a neighbor's intellectual or
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theological credibility. It is still bearing false
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witness against a neighbor by distorting their views or
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attributing I'll motives. It is the theft of honor even
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when the speaker truly believes they are defending the truth of
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God. We are called to contend for the
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faith and truth, and love and slander violates both.
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These contemporary forms illustrate how pervasive and and
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corrosive slander is leading us to the bitter harvest.
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Slander affects the victim, the speaker, and the entire
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community. The.
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First victim, naturally, is the person whose name is attacked.
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Slander destroys the neighbor's social capital.
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A person's reputation is their social and moral capital.
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It influences whether others trust their word, welcome their
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counsel, or rely on their ministry.
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Slander poisons the well, leading others to doubt the
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victim's integrity, sincerity, or faithfulness.
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This can cause opportunities for ministry, employment, and even
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fellowship to just dry up completely.
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And the tragedy is compounded by internal harm.
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The victim often has no chance to defend themselves because
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decisions are made against them based on reports and information
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they never hear directly. This can cause immense
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suffering, leading Saints to wrestle with confusion, self
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doubt, and even despair, wondering why their fellow
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Christians were so quick to believe the worst about them.
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The damage done to their internal peace lingers, often
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long after the initial rumor is forgotten by the slanderer, and
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slander also profoundly corrupts and hardens the one who speaks.
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The tongue is like a muscle that is strengthened by use
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regularly. Engaging in negative, unjust
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speech trains the speaker to view people through a cynical,
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suspicious lens. The conscience which once
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protested against tearing others down begins to quiet down under
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repeated acts of malice. Unrepentant, persistent slander
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is a clear marker of a heart still an act of rebellion
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against the gracious and truthful God.
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And there is an ironic built in consequence.
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The slanderers own credibility inevitably begins to erode.
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Others realize that if this person speaks I'll of others,
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they will surely speak I'll of them too, causing relationships
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to become shallow, cautious, and ultimately untrustworthy.
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So the one who tries to elevate themselves by tearing others
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down ultimately loses their own standing in the community.
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Exactly, and the most tragic fruit is the erosion of church
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unity and gospel witness. Slander acts as a slow spreading
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infection in the community. As Proverbs warns, a whisperer
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separates close friends, tearing the very fabric of trust that
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makes Christian community functional.
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Facts mixed with assumptions harden into settled negative
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narratives, causing church members to take sides based on
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stories rather than truth or verifiable evidence.
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If slander is tolerated, the atmosphere becomes toxic with
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suspicion and accusation, grievously grieving the Holy
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Spirit. Outwardly healthy communities
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can be hollowed out from within because the underlying fabric of
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genuine love and trust is completely frayed by unguarded
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tongues. And finally, the severely harms
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the church's external witness, bringing deep dishonor into the
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name of Christ. Slander profoundly violates the
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mark of discipleship, which is love for one another.
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When the world sees Christians devouring each other's
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reputations and private feuds or public online disputes, they are
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given every reason to dismiss the gospel we profess.
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Slander utterly undermines evangelism and misrepresents the
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gracious, self sacrificing character of Christ.
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The assessment of the harvest is sobering, but the good news is
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that the remedy is as radical as the sin is devastating.
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The materials are quick to point out that the solution does not
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begin with better behavioral techniques, but with the gospel
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of Jesus Christ itself. The Atonement provides the
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theological remedy by eliminating the frantic need for
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self justification that drives slander.
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And we must first grasp the depth of Christ's suffering.
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Christ, the sinless Savior, willingly endured false
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accusations and slander throughout His dire ministry.
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He was labeled A glutton, A drunkard, a friend of sinners,
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and accused of casting out demons by the power of Satan at
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the cross. He bore the judgement our
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destructive words deserve. Our own history of slander,
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gossip, and character assassinations are part of the
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lawless record laid upon Him. We must not minimize this sin
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when the very blood of the Son of God was required to cover it.
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That is the essential starting point, because flowing from the
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Atonement is the doctrine of justification.
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By nature, we are desperate to justify ourselves.
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We instinctively compare, compete and often attack the
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reputations of others in order to feel secure in our own
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standing. This is where that analogy
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helps. If you are justified, you are
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standing on a bedrock of perfect, unwavering acceptance
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before God. Why would you spend energy
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trying to build a shaky tower of temporary reputation on someone
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else's ruins? That frantic need is eliminated.
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Exactly. Justification declares the
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believer righteous in God's sight, securing their status
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entirely in Christ. Perfect obedience.
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Since our status is secure in Christ, since there is no
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condemnation, we are freed from the desperate, frantic need to
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exalt ourselves by lowering others.
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The competition ends. The justified person hears
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Christ saying, Your acceptance is secured in me.
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Therefore you are now free to bless, not to slander.
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You are free to rejoice in their success because it poses no
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threat to your standing. This truth eliminates the pride,
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envy, and fear of man that fuels destructive speech.
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This new status demands concrete daily practices that flow from a
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heart that is no longer enslaved to self justification.
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We must adopt the practices of putting off slander.
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The first is building holy slowness.
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This means striving to be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to
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anger. This requires establishing the
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habit of the pause before speaking, replying, or hitting
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send on a negative thought. We must pause and ask the Holy
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Spirit to check our motives. Why do I want to say this?
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Is it necessary, is it true, is it kind, and what effect will it
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likely have? Many instances of slander die
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unborn simply by observing this moment of reflective silence.
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And instead of venting our initial frustration or anger to
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a third party, we must take that education immediately to God in
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prayer. We confess our anger and ask God
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to guard our tongues before we ever open our mouths about
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another person. We must redirect the energy of
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anger from destruction toward intercession.
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A second crucial practice, often repeated in the Source is
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Matthew 18, obedience. We have to refuse to talk around
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someone and instead commit to going directly to them with
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humility and clarity, seeking reconciliation.
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First, slander often masquerades and processing hurt with
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everyone except the person who allegedly caused it.
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Christ's command reverses that entire instinct, demanding
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direct engagement. And that ties into the third
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practice verification. We must adopt the standard of
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refusing to pass on negative reports that have not been
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personally verified through credible first hand evidence.
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This is the practical application of charitable
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judgement. We must be willing to say I
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don't know all the facts and I have not verified this
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personally so I will not. Repeat this.
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It takes humility. A lot of it.
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You must adhere to the principle of refusing to admit an evil
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report without sufficient proof. This requires A willingness to
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look foolish in our slowness, resisting the urge to be
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instantly decisive and outspoken on every controversy.
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Patience is the friend of truth, and speed is the friend of
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slander. Finally, putting off slander
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demands cultivating holy speech or putting on Christ like
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patterns. The goal is to let no corrupting
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talk come out, but only such as is good for building up as fits
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the occasion that it may give grace to those who hear.
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We must mirror the Advocate. The tongue has to fundamentally
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change sides, turning from accusation like the text
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Diabolus to encouragement in defense, mirroring the loving
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truthfulness of Christ. Holy speech should always be
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purposeful speech, aimed at strengthening and comforting,
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not tearing down or dissecting. And we starve slander by
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actively cultivating the habit of commendation and charity.
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We should be diligent in highlighting evidences of God's
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grace and others. We should practice charitable
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judgement, choosing the most generous interpretation
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consistent with truth when motives are unclear, reflecting
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the love that is willing to believe all things and hope all
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things about the neighbor. And lastly, we must turn
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conversations that drift towards criticism into genuine
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opportunities for intercession. We must pivot from repeating
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rumors about people to truly praying for them.
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The same mouth that once injured names can, by God's grace,
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become a fountain of blessing, echoing the gracious and
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truthful voice of the Lord. So to summarize this deep dive,
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we've seen that the 9th Commandment under the
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Westminster tradition is God's comprehensive moral rule for the
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tongue, requiring active love in the maintenance of our
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neighbour's good name. And slander, in its subtle or
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overt forms, is exposed as the theft of honor and a diabolical
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sin. It's evil because it imitates
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the accuser, contradicts Christ the Advocate, and exposes the
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pride, envy, and idolatry of our own hearts.
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The question is never just is the information true, but is it
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necessary, is it loving, and is it spoken to the right person
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for the right purpose of reconciliation or protection?
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The Gospel provides the necessary remedy by securing our
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status in Christ's justification, freeing us from
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the self-centered need for self exaltation, and this leads
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directly to the holy practices of slowness, obedience, Matthew
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18, verification, and the active cultivation of charitable
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building up speech. The goal for all of us is to
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move from speech that resembles the accuser to speech that
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echoes the gracious, truthful voice of the advocate.
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Now for a final thought to Mull over, think back on your last
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week of communication, especially in digital spaces.
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How often have you inadvertently played the role of the thief of
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honor simply by sharing an unnecessary negative truth under
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the guise of being honest or sharing a concern?
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And consider how this single principle could sanctify your
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communication in the week ahead. What would it look like for your
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small circle, your family, your close friends, your small group
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to apply the Westminster Standard of being unwilling to
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admit an evil report without sufficient proof?
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What conversations would immediately stop and what trust
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would begin to be rebuilt?