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- 0:02Hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian.
- 0:05I'm here with Alison and this is maintaining frame number sixty one. There is
- 0:09no such thing as a sex drive, so the LGBTQ community must be stopped.
- 0:15H this isn't really about the lg Well that's what Yeah, well,
- 0:18that's what you gave me. I mean, I didn't have a lot.
- 0:21Well this isn't really about Yeah, go ahead. I also gave you I
- 0:26have no sex drive, so you don't either. Yeah. Well, um,
- 0:30I don't think that either of those are really applicable to the video,
- 0:34but I will I will make clear that this isn't really about LGBTQ stuff at
- 0:40all, but there is. It is kind of interesting in the way that
- 0:44this woman frames sex and so there there is something to it that I think
- 0:50it is relevant. But uh so, pay no mind, pay no heed
- 0:54to the title. This is, um really about the myth of the sex
- 1:00drive. That's what that's what this woman is going to. There's no such
- 1:03thing. It's a myth. Okay, okay, let me explain the logic
- 1:07behind this, and I really hope we don't get something striked for hate speech.
- 1:11Strike for that title. Um, the logic is this. Okay,
- 1:15So this woman argues that there is no such thing as a sex drive that
- 1:19we can't compare I guess a sex drive to a desire for food, desire
- 1:23for shelter, desire for water, you know, for heat, And so
- 1:29we can't I guess say that people are driven by it or something because it
- 1:32doesn't result in tissue damage. But here's the thing. If you're going to
- 1:34say that, then why have an entire spectrum of identities based solely on sexual
- 1:45preference? Yep? Yeah, well yeah, that's the strongest argument she's presenting,
- 1:52is to get rid of all of the identities based on sexual preference.
- 1:56Instead, say that human beings should be ordered based on whether or not they
- 2:01have access to basic um funk of basic um needs. Yeah, basic needs
- 2:09actually another word. Yeah. I watched the whole thing and and it's actually
- 2:14a much I think there's something much darker going on. And well, well,
- 2:19yeah, always is something there always is, but there is something much
- 2:22darker going on. Yeah. Okay, So before we start, I'm gonna
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- 7:49This is from Big Think, a channel I used to be subscribed to and
- 7:55then I woke up where you know, it was called Big Thing because it
- 7:59was supposedly intellectual and sometimes, I mean they used to have good people on,
- 8:03but now I think it's kind of like lost its way, to put
- 8:07it mildly. And this is doctor Emily Nagaski and the title of the video
- 8:13is the Sex Drive myth Debunked. So let's let's get let's get ourselves a
- 8:18big thong. Oh and it's part of a series I guess that they're doing
- 8:20called Devil's Advocate, which you know that's not at all foreboding. But let's
- 8:26go on. Nobody ever died because they couldn't get laid. Frank Beach,
- 8:39who was an mythologist in the middle of the twentieth century, twent to a
- 8:41conference in nineteen fifty six and said, no one has ever suffered tissue damage
- 8:46for lack of sex. All right, I'm pausing there, So she's sort
- 8:50of setting the stage. There's jojo, she's sort of setting the stage.
- 8:54Now, no one has ever died because they didn't get laid. Can you
- 9:00smell the straw? Okay, if you want to prove to me that sex
- 9:05is a drive, show me the tissue damage that an organism experiences because they
- 9:09do not have orgasos. For the first half of the twentieth century, scientists
- 9:13more or less treated sex as a drive. Drive is a very specific kind
- 9:18of motivational system where an organism experiences an uncomfortable internal experience that pushes them out
- 9:24into the world to go solve a problem. Okay, stop, ye okay,
- 9:33Well I'm sorry, but I'm pretty sure that sex drive induces an uncomfortable
- 9:41internal experience, maybe even not even uncomfortable, maybe positive, maybe negative,
- 9:46but it's inducing an internal experience that sends people out to make to solve a
- 9:50problem, and that problem is often either acquiring a mate or acquiring the resources
- 9:56to attract a made. What the hell is she talking about? Yep,
- 10:03um, well, we'll get to it. She's sort of she's still setting
- 10:05the setting the chessboard up alson. Like there's definitely like something something else that
- 10:13I think she's moving towards, But she's setting the precedent. So first of
- 10:18all, she she shows you, and I love when you know, feminists
- 10:20are doing like you're dealing with feminists when they do this, they show like
- 10:24old footage from the nineteen fifties of people trying to do things men usually right
- 10:30wearing suits, doctors checking guys, you know, reflexes things that like we're
- 10:35supposed to look at and say, oh, that's so old fashioned, right,
- 10:39that's so ancient history. And then of course she says, throughout history,
- 10:43i e. Throughout like ancient times of the nineteen fifties or whatever time
- 10:46period she's pulling out of her ass, we have treated sex as a drive.
- 10:50And you know, oh how stupid and foolish men were back then,
- 10:54am I right, ladies? Actually it's not that's that's like setting every thing
- 11:00up. But let's let's see what she means by this. Anyways, we'll
- 11:03go and I do see a super chow on a super chow. I'm gonna
- 11:05get to those in a second. So, first is a drive. Hunger
- 11:09is a drive. Sleep even is a drive. You can literally die of
- 11:13sleep deprivation. Sex, it turns out, is not one of those.
- 11:16Instead, it is an incentive motivation system where instead of being pushed into the
- 11:22world by an uncomfortable internal experience, you are pulled into the world by an
- 11:26attractive something or other out into the what's that all right? Pausing there again,
- 11:33So she's saying it's it's not now, I just want to point this
- 11:37out really quick. Yes, if you don't eat, you'll die. If
- 11:41you don't drink water, or if you don't stay hydrated, you'll die.
- 11:45Drink water, guys, And if you don't sleep, you'll die. Like
- 11:48all those things are true. But if you don't have sex, the whole
- 11:52species dies. So like we kind of like, it's it is. Well,
- 11:58I'm not gonna get into it now, but that is a consequence of
- 12:03not having sex. I can see what she's setting up, all right,
- 12:07So she's saying a drive to avoid something negative, A desire is to acquire
- 12:11something positive, all right, and she's trying to do this, I think
- 12:16in order to minimize the I don't know. They're a feminist belief that there
- 12:22are men who think they're entitled to sex. Yes, we call them yapists,
- 12:26yeah, and we put them behind bars. And every other man on
- 12:30the planet does not believe himself to be entitled to sex. In fact,
- 12:33I don't even think a lot of rapists do. They just end up reenacting
- 12:37compulsively things that have happened to them, regardless outside of the tiny minority of
- 12:45men who are more genetically distinct from normal men than gay men are from straight
- 12:50men. Not that gay men are not normal. In fact, gaymen are
- 12:52very normal relative to rapists. Rapists are off in their own little freakish category,
- 13:00probably both male and female. Okay, they're just have severe mental development
- 13:07delays and probably have also been aviews. So there's just off in their own
- 13:11category. Okay. Those are the only ones you could honestly say feel entitled
- 13:16to sex, and probably because they feel entitled to a lot of things that
- 13:20they're not entitled to, like other people's property or lives or identities because they're
- 13:28criminals. Again, there's only one group of men or women who feel that
- 13:33they are entitled to sex, and they are criminals and they're behind bars.
- 13:39No other group. This does not apply to any other group, period.
- 13:43Yeah, understand that. And if you do not understand that, you cannot
- 13:46have a coherent adult conversation about anything. Okay, I don't think. I
- 13:52don't get the sense that she understands that. No, I mean she's got
- 13:58green hair out. I'm making a lot of a No, I'll come back
- 14:05to that, so okay, playing about say, I'm gonna wait because I
- 14:11got there's a couple things I want to say about this, but I'm gonna
- 14:13wait. So plain Dane, thank you for the super super chow playing.
- 14:18Dane, appreciate that, and this is what you get for it. Sorry,
- 14:28I mean, I didn't mean to play it twice. Um, this
- 14:33is one. He gives us five bucks and says, this is one of
- 14:35the most annoying things I hate about women that they complain about men wanting sex.
- 14:39Women in general don't understand what it's like to have a sex drive,
- 14:41like it's a like a real male. A teen girl's puberty is not the
- 14:46same as the teenage boys as puberty. Also, our braids are different,
- 14:50so we naturally value sex very differently. Or a woman to even glimpse at
- 14:54what it's like to live with a male libido, she would have to start
- 14:58HRT burning puberty years or abuse HRT and higher dosages along with other pebs.
- 15:05If you want to hear what it does, go watch a video by the
- 15:07channel Leo and Longevity. The video is titled Females on Trend. I don't
- 15:13know if that's a typo, but the truth with Ariella Palumbo and Boston Lloyd
- 15:20Skip two forty two oh three and watch Ariella, a female bodybuilder, describe
- 15:24what it's like to be on male hormones. She basically describes herself as being
- 15:28addicted while on male hormones and that she felt bad for teenage boys going through
- 15:33puberty and what it's like for men on a daily basis. If women had
- 15:37to deal with this, Earth's population will be in the quadrillions. Okay,
- 15:41thank you for that, Well we'll come there's more. We'll come back to
- 15:48it, but um we will, we will, We'll get back to that,
- 15:52So thank you for that. And then I got a super chat from
- 15:56Derek Workman. No, it's okay. Derek Workman is the super chatt and
- 16:00says, better question why we evolve genitals at all? Well, it does
- 16:03seem like that's kind of on the table as a question, where like where
- 16:07we are now, But again, um, you know these people are putting
- 16:14the car before the horse, is what I'll say for now. Anyway,
- 16:17let's continue. We can go ahead and say sex drive. I understand that
- 16:21that is much easier to say than sexual incentive motivation system is just as innate
- 16:25and just as natural as a drive system, but it's just not an uncomfortable
- 16:30internal experience that pushes you to go solve a problem or else you could die,
- 16:33all right, pausing it there. So she's basically saying sex drive is
- 16:40not a thing because you're not gonna die if you if you die a virgin
- 16:44or whatever. And and I just want to I just want to point out
- 16:48that I don't think this is directed at women. She doesn't explicitly say it,
- 16:52but I think she's talking about men. And I'm gonna show you like
- 16:56how in a little while it becomes yeah, she's talking about She's saying men
- 17:00don't need to to get laid. Go ahead, Okay, yeah, but
- 17:06here's the thing. All of her logic could apply also to the LGBTQ whatever
- 17:14I sing, whatever, because I do not understand the full acronym don't.
- 17:18I mean, I can barely pronounce my own name. Don't ask me to
- 17:21um. But she The way that this could apply to it is they are
- 17:25defining themselves by some aspect of their sexuality. Okay, sex drive is supposedly
- 17:32subordinate to these other drives, So why is it? Why is it if
- 17:37it's not necessary for life that you don't just change your desires and put them
- 17:44in line with something that is considered more socially responsible. M Like, seriously,
- 17:49it's it's not It shouldn't be a big deal for you to become normal.
- 17:55This is what I'm saying. This is the the extension your logic.
- 17:57She's not extending it that way. But when you say that sex isn't a
- 18:00drive, then you take away all the legitimacy for recognizing all of the identities
- 18:06based on the sex drive. Do you see what I'm saying? I do?
- 18:11I do. I totally get it, Allison, I get it.
- 18:12But like, she's not operating under logic in fact, she thinks that this
- 18:18justifies the well, we'll get we'll get to it. We'll get to it.
- 18:23Okay, I promise we'll see. You'll see, you'll see where her
- 18:26head is at um in a moment. But like for now, she's just
- 18:30you know, she's just building the case for something that doesn't make any sense.
- 18:34So let's let's continue teaching like a group of students, and we'll be
- 18:37like, excuse me, ma'am, miss Emily. I'm pretty sure I have
- 18:41experienced an uncomfortable internal experience when I could not get the sex I wanted,
- 18:45and that it's correct, you have. The sensation you're experiencing is frustration.
- 18:49There is a little monitor in your brain that has goals and keeps track of
- 18:53how much effort you're putting into it and how much progress you're making. Gets
- 18:57really frustrated that there is something you would like a lot. It's not a
- 19:02basic biological need, which means you are not entitled to it. So it's
- 19:06about entitlement. Of course, No nobody. Okay, maybe some women because
- 19:14they aren't told, they aren't regularly told that they're not entitled to touch other
- 19:18people. Women have a real problem with this. But if we just restrict
- 19:22this to men, the only men who feel like they're entitled to sex.
- 19:26And it's much more complicated than that when it comes to male rapists are criminals.
- 19:32Period. You don't need to tell this to anyone, dude, lady
- 19:36person, you don't need to inform anyone of this. Most people already know.
- 19:42Yep, Okay. I don't think there's I mean, I don't know
- 19:49how many men need to just stop paying attention to women before we stop thinking,
- 19:55oh yeah, the real problem is men who u push women into having
- 20:00sex because they say that they need to have it. I mean, how
- 20:03often does that really happen? And you know how you solve that issue?
- 20:07Just learn to set boundaries, be like no, not interested, goodbye.
- 20:12Apparently you're not allowed to set boundaries because you know Jonah Hill, but that's
- 20:18another conversation. Yeah, but you just say no, and if they persist,
- 20:22then they're a rapist and then you send them because you especially in the
- 20:26UK, like eighty five percent of men charged with rape or going to jail
- 20:30in the UK, so you know, there you are seventy five percent,
- 20:33sorry, eighty five was what it was in Victorian times, but seventy five
- 20:37percent. Now in the UK, that's a pretty that is like almost that
- 20:44is twenty five percent higher than any other violent crime. So you're doing good.
- 20:47You're good at batting average there, all right, you're the UK in
- 20:51particular good batting average. He's going to jail, all right, case closed
- 20:57done. The criminal goes to jail. Every other dude is not entitled,
- 21:02does not feel entitled. So stop it. Stops presenting this narrative and this
- 21:07admonition. Like men need to know it. Like if they don't think you
- 21:11don't think they know it. They know it. Yeah, the average man
- 21:15knows it. Okay, Well, the average man really wants a woman's consent,
- 21:22so like if this is a ridiculous thing, I mean like it's the
- 21:26average man wants the woman to be to give consent, Like that's what they're
- 21:32trying to get. Yeah, they want to be desired exactly. It's it's
- 21:36not hard, I mean unless it is. Anyway, let's let's continue.
- 21:42No one has any obligation to make sure you have enough of it is no
- 21:47one is actually nobody has nobody nobody. Yeah this is in shell. It
- 21:52does come down to in cell ship. But but nobody's actually under any obligation
- 21:56to give you food or water either. I mean, like you know,
- 22:00ideally you should have access, like the ability to get it or earn it
- 22:06or grow it yourself, but nobody has to give you those things. So
- 22:11like this, this doesn't make sense. I know some of you might think
- 22:15I'm being cruel, but that's the reality. Like, don't a strange guy
- 22:18can't come to my door and say, can I have some ground beef?
- 22:21I mean, I don't have to give it to him. They're not entitled
- 22:23to that. So it's it's kind of a stupid thing to try to make
- 22:27a parallel to. But maybe in her world we do have to do that.
- 22:33Maybe in her world these things are human rights, but not sex though
- 22:38established piece of science and all of them. As you are, I get
- 22:41it's the only idea that has ever caused anyone on Twitter to call me a
- 22:44stupid People are feeling, oh my god, I got insulted on Twitter.
- 22:52What what what Caldor called a stupid bitch? Well, they bleeped it out,
- 22:56so I'm not sure that they said bitch. But I don't even think
- 22:59in stills feel like they're entitled to sex. I think many of them just
- 23:02want people to be honest with them. Yeah, all right, and what
- 23:07you're doing is you know what. But the thing is, but the thing
- 23:10is, just real quick, she isn't. She isn't saying in cells.
- 23:14She's just saying men. I mean, like so like it's not just you
- 23:18know, any guy who's got a dry spell, any guy who's like,
- 23:22man, you know, I haven't had my you know, i haven't gotten
- 23:26late in a while or whatever, I'm going through a dry period. Like
- 23:29that's all those men. That's not just like the men who are actually like
- 23:33you know, who would consider themselves to be in cells that are on the
- 23:37in those spaces, um, you know, I don't know, raising like
- 23:41voicing their grievances. She's she's not, She's not even This is not like
- 23:47a targeted sniper attack on insult. This is a shotgun blast to like all
- 23:51men, I mean, like in general, like all men should know this.
- 23:55You're not entitled to sex, right, So just saying just making it
- 23:57clear, this isn't. I mean, yes, in cells are her example,
- 24:02but in cells are not her targets. That makes sense Alison's viewed it.
- 24:11I think she might be. Yeah, I'm just dealing with a dog
- 24:17that's really excited. Oh that's fine. I got a supertow. Thank you
- 24:22again for another another? Yeah, another supertow. Guys, thank you all
- 24:30right. Plane Dane gives us twenty bucks and says, I would argue that
- 24:33sex is a drive if you think about it as your offsprings are you?
- 24:37Are you like clones? In fact, when you think about it, the
- 24:41only time you touch someone is when you procreate. Sorry for the long comment.
- 24:45I'm high as fuck on weed right now. Lol. It's literally not
- 24:48attractive if it's not consensual. Yeah, that's true, and well we'll get
- 24:52to the procreation thing in a little bit. So um, okay. Let's
- 24:57also do you want to say something else or are you done with the because
- 25:00I know that you were dealing with Skippy? Yeah, no, he's good
- 25:03now. He's no longer barking all right, because they feel like I'm taking
- 25:08something away from them, when in fact I am giving them the freedom to
- 25:11be able to experience sexual desire and know that nothing bad is going to happen.
- 25:15Nobody ever died because they couldn't get laid. The closest thing to a
- 25:18scientific argument for the idea that it might be a drive is Okay, if
- 25:22it's not about individual survival, it is about genetic survival. What about a
- 25:26drive to move my genes into the next generation. That is not how biological
- 25:30psychologists to find the term drive. All right, pausing and are very very
- 25:36semantical here, Yeah, all right, because I'm gonna blow your fucking mind.
- 25:42A lot of animals will sacrifice what you are calling so called drives in
- 25:48order to procreate. Procreate, right, They'll sacrifice their ability to take care
- 25:55of themselves. They'll sacrifice their fitness. Look at peacocks. They they have
- 26:00sacrificed their fitness when it comes to predators in order to become attractive to pea
- 26:04hens. Okay, that's the reality that they're at least men. I don't
- 26:14know about females, the species they will actually, if you think about it,
- 26:18females sacrifice physically as a result of their sex drives when it comes to
- 26:25pregnancy and raising offspring. Okay, so there is an impact. We are
- 26:30willing. Unless you think that human females are so stupid. They understand that
- 26:36sex results in pregnancy, which is itself a sacrifice of fitness and well being
- 26:44and tissues in order to get it. So whatever you're calling a drive.
- 26:49You're saying, oh, well, to avoid hunger, to avoid thirst,
- 26:52to avoid tissue damage, we will actually get tissue damage. We will invite
- 26:59tissue damag we will invite predation, We will invite depredation in order to pursue
- 27:04procreation. So whatever you think, you think that drives are are powerful,
- 27:11well let me tell you a drive is like a is like a little person
- 27:18being bodied by a sumo wrestler. When it comes to procreation, they are
- 27:22subordinate, my dear. So you may you may not want to use the
- 27:29word driven, then, um, what is it? Even a compulsion perhaps
- 27:33would be a better word. We have drives towards drinking water, we have
- 27:37drives towards having food, We drive towards shelter, we have compulsions towards sex
- 27:45and reproduction. That body every other drive, and well, so what is
- 27:52your overall point in all of this? Sorry, this just really pisses me
- 27:59off. No, it's all right, I get it. I was pissed
- 28:02off too, all right, So so the experts don't define this as a
- 28:07drive, therefore it's not right other human beings that are just using words and
- 28:12well, anyway, let's just keep going The way we get motivated to have
- 28:15sex is that something sexually relevant happens in our environment and our rain. Notice
- 28:22is that we turn on signal. That's for women. That is for women.
- 28:26She's literally defining everything in terms of women's experience. Women have a sex
- 28:33drive, It's just it is in response to something. Men's sex drive is
- 28:40not in response. It's just there. Does that make sense? Like men
- 28:45have it just as a sort of a function of their biology. That's the
- 28:52wrong way to put it. It is a constant. It doesn't require external
- 28:56stimulus to exist to be triggered. It's probably like a hormonal fluctuation or whatever.
- 29:03Women require an external stimulus. This is like one of the things that
- 29:07in psychology that they've found and I'm surprised she's completely ignorant of it. And
- 29:11they've also found apparently that when women get going, their sex drive can be
- 29:15very high. Right, Yeah, it's just that they don't start the motor.
- 29:22It's like men start the motor and you know, women don't. They
- 29:26just they need an external stimulus. So she's literally defining sex drive in terms
- 29:33of women's experience of it and ignoring men's experience of it. What a surprise.
- 29:40Yep. Okay, let's see no new super childs or chats or rumble
- 29:47rants. So I guess let's continue. And you notice the sensation in your
- 29:52body, maybe in response to that turn on signal, and that sensation is
- 29:55itself a turn on signal, and that goes up to your brain and you
- 29:57get even more I turn on signal. It M what's up? I want
- 30:03to move toward that in the right context, You're like, I would like
- 30:04to explore further this sensation. It's motivating because it feels good in the right
- 30:10context. Why do we have sex because it feels good? Okay, this
- 30:14is something I gotta speak to. Why do we have sex because it feels
- 30:18good? That's not the reason. Yes, sex does feel good, but
- 30:22that's not why we have sex. And I think it seems to me and
- 30:26I this is maybe going to be contentious for some people, okay, but
- 30:30the truth is that sex only exists for the purpose of reproduction. It doesn't
- 30:37mean that we can't enjoy it because we're it's supposed to be enjoyable, because
- 30:42it's supposed to drive us to do it so that we make more of us.
- 30:48That's the purpose of it. And what it seems to me is that
- 30:52this woman and a lot of people like her have this backwards. They think
- 30:56that reproduction is a product of sex. It is not like the purpose of
- 31:03sex, you know what I'm saying, And this is this is I think
- 31:07this is a big problem to assume because well, okay, I got like,
- 31:14I can't give you all the details right now, but I'll get them.
- 31:18But I watched a video about um sex and it was talking about the
- 31:23population and how what the replacement rates are for people that are forming families.
- 31:30They're they're forming way less families, are having way fewer kids, right,
- 31:33and it's getting to the point now while while they're you know, people will
- 31:37say, but eight billion people, but like, we are not reply,
- 31:41we're not making families. We are. We are and when we have kids
- 31:45in the case where we do, people will have like one or two.
- 31:48You know, you don't have like Amish numbers or Mormon numbers. Right,
- 31:52Um, we are an endangered species. We're like, we're we are at
- 31:57the point where we're in dangered species because we're not going to We're not able
- 32:02to replace the people that are here, right. The replacement rates are too
- 32:07low. And then on top of that, you have like every generation more
- 32:10and more people identifying as trans. And I'm not saying that that's you know,
- 32:15terrible like on the whole, but I think that it's being overused,
- 32:21let's say, and people are castrating themselves without really knowing that that's what they're
- 32:25doing to their bodies. And they're not going to have kids either, and
- 32:29this is going to be a big problem in the human race. If we
- 32:31don't like step it up, we're gonna be gone. I mean, the
- 32:36Amish will take over, basically, the Amish are gonna take over, and
- 32:38the Mormons will take over because they're having a lot of kids. But you
- 32:43know, the rest of us, the rest of us folk are going to
- 32:46be gone. And the one of the things that's contributed to this is this
- 32:51notion that sex is something that you do for fun. It's just something that
- 32:55you enjoy. And that's when that's where I think what you know you're saying
- 33:00about the lgbtqum thing, it kind of comes into it because most of these
- 33:05people in the LGBTQ they can't reproduce, so they're having sex just for fun.
- 33:08And it's fine, like do you but the rest of us, you
- 33:13know, if we're concerned about our legacy, if we want, if we
- 33:15want to continue the species, we have to make babies. I mean,
- 33:20I'm sorry, but that's the truth. You don't like you don't have to
- 33:22like it, and maybe it's not for you personally, but if you care
- 33:27about the future of the species, then you know we have to stop looking
- 33:30at sex is just like a hobby because it's not. It's what it feels
- 33:36good because it causes us to reproduce. That's the reason it feels good.
- 33:40It's not us. It's not a side effect. Okay, I'm gonna I'm
- 33:45gonna push back on that, but I'm gonna okay, multiple things. One
- 33:50for human beings, it's a bonding activity, so there is room for all
- 33:53the whole spectrum with a caveat. Most people are going to want to bond
- 34:00with the opposite sex. Sure us free produced. What's interesting about all of
- 34:05this is when she frames it in this way, when she frames it not
- 34:07as a drive, not as something and you know it's human sexuality is really
- 34:13complicated. It's much more complicated than just reproduction because our sexuality drives social factors
- 34:20like theory of mind. It drives interestingly enough, because of theory of mind,
- 34:24because we can abstract after off of our sexual desires, so we desire
- 34:29the feeling. Well, okay, what desire is is modeling someone's mental model
- 34:35of us. So it's a recursive thing, and it's very complicated, very
- 34:40psychologically complex and involved, and it allows us to do other things like engage
- 34:46in courting behaviors towards abstractions like the sea, nature, the stars. It
- 34:55drives a lot of our mental and intellectual activity, and it's one reason why
- 35:01a lot of scientists are sort of chaste. That's because all of their desire
- 35:07for a courtship, these kind of courtship behaviors is being driven into a more
- 35:10abstract area, you know. But it's still fundamentally about reproduction, about courtship
- 35:17and about how human beings structure their sexuality. So all of this it is
- 35:23not just reproductive. But the thing is that because the drive is so great,
- 35:28it can also be abstract. It can also be more inspirational, more
- 35:35artistic or scientific. It can drive all of these endeavors. That's why we
- 35:38have it. Like literally, our our entire species, civilization rests on the
- 35:45fact that we have abstracted off of our sexual drive. Okay, and that,
- 35:52but when she says that that isn't the case, when she says that
- 35:55our sexual drive is not a drive that or whatever it's it's less important than
- 36:00hunger and thirst and and need for shelter and warmth. When she says that,
- 36:06she's essentially saying that it is a simply a frivolity. It's it's it's
- 36:14it's something. It's it's something negotiable. It's like a it's like an I
- 36:17don't know, and when you go get a McDonald's meal, do you want
- 36:22to supersize it? This is just basically, you know, it's it's something
- 36:25that you can cut out of your life, and humans could cut out of
- 36:29their lives and nothing bad would happen. Well, no, lady, A
- 36:32lot of bad things would happen, because you would get rid of all of
- 36:37the impetus to abstract off of our sexual desires that push a lot of our
- 36:44activities, a lot of building our our colonies and pushing our knowledge forward in
- 36:50an artistic expression, and not just that. Once you reduce this down to
- 36:53like, uh, what is the right word for it, A uh,
- 37:00something that's that's not necessary, I'm really struggling for the right word optional,
- 37:05optional, an optional A. But it's even more trivial than that, like
- 37:09a something that you can walk away from, something that's irrelevant, like frivolous,
- 37:16a luxury, a luxury. Maybe that's a good word, frivolous luxury.
- 37:21When she reduces it down to a frivolous luxury, she undermines all of
- 37:28our all of this construction of philosophy around people's sexual desires and that they should
- 37:34derive an identity from it. You should derive an identity from what enjoying,
- 37:38like the stir straws with little made into little animals, like you see what
- 37:46I'm saying. Yea. The more you make it frivolous, the more you
- 37:50undermine people's right to drive an identity from it, like we don't if something
- 37:55is socially harmful at like not reproducing can be you know, because eventually,
- 38:01eventually the West won't be able to borrow on the the productivity of grandchildren.
- 38:07That won't exist, right right? Um? So, I mean, so
- 38:13people need to have children in order for our society continue to function, whether
- 38:17or not we want it to is regardless. But I mean, I don't
- 38:21think she wants the future in which in which the West can no longer borrow
- 38:25on the productivity of its children. Um but uh, but my overall point
- 38:30is that you could argue thou that the LGBTQ plus community is being disruptive,
- 38:37socially disruptive, is being um, socially maladjusted for nothing for what reason?
- 38:47For for for volity, for a luxury? Like really, you you get
- 38:55to engage in behaviors that people find bothersome because you like turlely straws. No,
- 39:01yeah, what what to scare the forces? Because you like I don't
- 39:07know pet Rocks. No, is that is she really arguing that like a
- 39:14gay man it's just well he's just basically has the same Well no, she
- 39:19she thinks it's more important that sex be something that is simply for pleasure then
- 39:24that has like that has no other greater purpose. That that is the greatest
- 39:30purpose, Like the satisfaction of your pleasure yourself is the most is the highest
- 39:37pleasure. It's the highest like thing you could attain. That's why it feels
- 39:42good. She's saying, you know, sex feels good. That is the
- 39:46end goal is to feel good, okay, and not not not the children
- 39:52that that you know our byproduct and for that and and and and if we
- 39:55didn't have the birth control pill, like but because I think the pill had
- 40:01it made a big change in this right, it was part of how we
- 40:07had like this this um a lot more laise fair approach to sex because the
- 40:13consequences of pregnancy were reduced by the existence of the birth control pill. And
- 40:19so that I think that's what changed people's perception. Because before the pill,
- 40:23if you had sex, there was a good chance, even with condoms and
- 40:27everything, that you were gonna get pregnant as a woman and the man was
- 40:30gonna get you pregnant. And if that happened, then you know, they
- 40:34had to be taken into account. It ha'd be taken very seriously before you
- 40:37laid out with somebody because that could be the product that could be the result.
- 40:40But now that we have the pill, I mean, single motherhood is
- 40:45higher than it was before the pill, and and like um and um um,
- 40:52children being born out of wedlock is higher now that it was before the
- 40:55pill. So it's that it was supposed to correct that. But you know,
- 41:00there's a quote by T. S. Eliott about this, and I
- 41:01can't remember what it is, but it something to do with um. You
- 41:06know, if we if if we um, we get we get like something
- 41:12something advancement in our in technology that lets us essentially like do something that we
- 41:16would never do before because now there's no consequences, so we think it's good.
- 41:21And I think that's what this woman is doing. She's saying it's it's
- 41:25so backwards because now she's saying that children are a side effect of sex,
- 41:32so not not not the biological imperative. And I know it's not just about
- 41:38having children. I'm not I'm not making the case that people don't fall in
- 41:43love and try to build a relationship. And I think i'm Before you continue,
- 41:47I'll just say I think I'm expanding on your point because I think it's
- 41:51not just about children. It's also a drive to create the communities where you
- 41:53can raise children. So she's throwing that out too. Yeah, no,
- 41:58I know it's all of it. Yeah, it's just sex. Like it's
- 42:00it's like literally like Brave New World. You know, like in in Brave
- 42:05New World, the people would just have orgies and they would just have sex
- 42:07all the time, and there was they didn't have to worry about having kids.
- 42:10They didn't have to worry about any of those other things. They didn't
- 42:13have relationships. People weren't allowed to fall in love, you know, they
- 42:16just had to. Like if somebody approached you and made an offer to have
- 42:20sex with you, you you couldn't turn them down because it was considered super
- 42:23rude. I mean, that's kind of what she's saying, except, of
- 42:27course, because she's a feminist, and I'm fairly positive she is based on
- 42:31the green hair and the talking points that in this brave New World scenario the
- 42:37menu, they're not included unless, of course, she desires them, because
- 42:43otherwise, you know, they're not entitled to any of that. So it's
- 42:46it's completely twisted. I think it's um, it's it's pretty evil too,
- 42:52to basically say because like I like, you know, I like sex.
- 42:57Sex is fun, it's great. But like so I'm not a prude,
- 43:00but I'm not going to pretend like it's only something that exists for its own
- 43:05sake, like you're just supposed to take pleasure in it. It's a part
- 43:08of a larger network of ways that you, like you said, build not
- 43:15just a family or you know, with with your wife or husband, but
- 43:19a community on the wider scale because other people are doing that too, and
- 43:23you want and you and it also preserves your future. And when you have
- 43:28children, all of a sudden, like the debt of children of generations not
- 43:35yet born, suddenly that matters. Right, this woman, I don't think
- 43:38she has kids or she doesn't care about her kids, because she's making this
- 43:43case and it's like, well, what about your kids or your kids kids
- 43:46or your kids kids kids? Right? But I think that a father or
- 43:51a mother that is invested in their children is going to be thinking about that
- 43:54stuff and it will affect the way they raise their kids, the way they
- 43:58behave, the way they treat things like property and all of that for generations
- 44:02that these are not disconnected from this. So when you say, when this
- 44:07woman says sex is just something that you enjoy, that I'm sorry, but
- 44:12that's not the way it works in at least not in heterosexual couples that are
- 44:16looking to start families. That's gotten. It's it's not that at all.
- 44:21That's just the means. It's just the means. And I would say that
- 44:24the sex will drive drive, Yes, underwrites all a lot of our activities
- 44:30as human beings. Yes, Like it drives and there's this really good I'd
- 44:37have to locate it, but there's this really good quote about how um courtship
- 44:45is at the heart of a lot of intellectual endeavor. So this kind of
- 44:50fascination and the desire to know and to understand the other that is courtship behavior
- 44:55for humans, and that drives a lot. And this because are for mastery
- 45:00is courtship behavior and humans, so that the sex drive doesn't just drive reproductive
- 45:06behavior, it also drives a lot of human endeavor, and that human endeavor
- 45:10constructs these kind of these colonies that allow us to be successful and raising not
- 45:15just giving birth to children or conceiving children, but raising them to adulthood and
- 45:21also giving them the opportunity to do to the same. So it's like,
- 45:25this is okay, this is freaking dumb, and she's getting rid of all
- 45:32of that. She's getting rid of all the pro social aspects of human sexuality,
- 45:39the desire to create a family, the desire to create a community.
- 45:43And this is where I would say, you know, like you can you
- 45:45can fold in sexualities that aren't necessarily heterosexual, because people who are more interested
- 45:54in, for example, discovering the secrets of the atom, people are more
- 45:59interested in pushing the envelope when it comes to art, or even men who
- 46:04don't want to have a relationship with a woman have a relationship with another man
- 46:07and then thus pump their resources into their nieces and nephews. There's all a
- 46:12place for all of it, right when you understand that human reproduction and human
- 46:17sexuality drives, drives not just reproductive behavior, but also well, it drives
- 46:24not just sexual behavior, but reproductive behavior, which includes all the courtship behaviors,
- 46:30all of the endeavors, all the abstract courtship behaviors that our underpin every
- 46:34part of our society. Look okay, one a while back, I went
- 46:37to Amsterdam. I think you were with me too at one point. No,
- 46:40I didn't go to I didn't go to Amsterdam. We got in if
- 46:47I can, if we can actually travel us on persons. But yeah,
- 46:52um, well, I went to the museum in Amsterdam. And it's a
- 46:55really great museum, like it's awesome to walk through. Not quite as intense
- 47:02as the Vatican Museum. The Vatican Museum is the first time I have ever
- 47:06experienced visual exhaustion. But anyway, so the Amsterdam Museum is really and I
- 47:10got to the point where they've had these these stained glass windows celebrating the guilds.
- 47:19And what was fascinating to me is at the bottom of each of the
- 47:22guilds you had like the legal guild, you had like the Tradesmen's guild,
- 47:27politician's guild army. At the bottom of each was a woman holding up like
- 47:32the guild hall. So you had this this, this muse holding up the
- 47:37guild hall. And I was looking at this and I was like, this
- 47:40is a representation of how courtship behaviors are captured and used pushed human industry and
- 47:50endeavor. So you see what I'm saying, Like maybe I've done it doesn't
- 47:53come true, come through, but it's like you see this over and over
- 47:57again, this kind of idea that when you are a carpenter you are expressing
- 48:04um where you're giving something to the muse of carpentry or whatever, which maybe
- 48:07may have been more historical, but it's like this that you're developing a relationship
- 48:13with this this concept of of excellence, you know, and and pursuing it.
- 48:22And it's like that there seems to be like a strong sense that you're
- 48:24capturing a drive And I'm like This is something that has driven, in my
- 48:29opinion, most of human endeavor throughout history. You know, it's what people
- 48:32die for, it's what people build for, and and not just sex.
- 48:37Is what I'm getting at, also the society in which the products of sex
- 48:43can grow and develop themselves. She's basically saying all of that is just about
- 48:49pleasure, And what I'm just saying is that I'm just pushing back on it
- 48:52just being about reproduction. I think that minimizes it. It's not just about
- 48:55sex. It's also about all of this other powerful endeavor, you know,
- 49:00and like going out as an artist, pursuing your muse. Yeah you know
- 49:07that kind of thing. Well and go ahead, go ahead, No,
- 49:09No, it's okay, finish. So I'm just I'm just saying that she's
- 49:15throwing out a lot more than just pet or spec That's a lot, Yeah,
- 49:20I know, but I think that's her target. But like I agree
- 49:23with you, the thing is, Okay, we only have everything we have
- 49:29now because of the things that you know, our ancestors and the people came
- 49:36before us, especially men did once they were invested in their own future and
- 49:44their own legacy. We only have that because of that. Right, If
- 49:47everybody just starts living in the moment and they just say, I'm not gonna
- 49:51have kids, I'm not gonna start a family, I'm just gonna have sex
- 49:52with whoever. And then what will We'll basically let our own you know,
- 49:58children die because we don't care about them, and we're gonna be done in
- 50:02like a generation. I'm saying that the sex she's she is boiling it down
- 50:07to just sex. Okay, I know that there's more to it than that,
- 50:10but it sort of starts from that. Men are driven to do things,
- 50:17to accomplish things, and one of the main things that drives that is
- 50:22attracting a mate. And I mean that's just that's that's just what it is.
- 50:28So every person that is here now is here because their father was pushing
- 50:36to attract a mate and he did something right. Look maybe and yeah,
- 50:42there are some really really great men that maybe they never marry or whatever,
- 50:45but they were still brought in to the world by a man and a woman
- 50:51that we're invested in their future. So we we like, we have a
- 50:54society because of that. I mean, like if you boil it down just
- 50:59to that, every level, yeah, at every level, we have that
- 51:01because of that it's and it doesn't necessarily start with sex, but it's a
- 51:07very important part of it. Is like, is the is the reproduction?
- 51:10Yes, it starts with Even our theory of mind is driven by our sexuality.
- 51:15Yeah, you know, the fact that we can even have the concept
- 51:20of identities is driven by our sexuality, and in particular sexuality. Yeah,
- 51:27in particular with men because uh you know, um, the way that men
- 51:32try to attract women is through the work that they do. It's all about
- 51:37their status, right, women, they they have value by default. Men
- 51:42have to earn the title of man. I mean, that's just the way
- 51:45it works. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, but that's the reality.
- 51:49So when she says that, you know, you shouldn't. It's not
- 51:52a drive and you shouldn't feel entitled to it and it's not for you.
- 51:57She's not talking to women because women are allowed to be um entitled if they
- 52:01want to, you know, to a man's money, to a man's time,
- 52:05to to his sex, whatever, um, But men are not.
- 52:08This is the This is what she's getting at. Is that what what built
- 52:13everything that we have as a human species. That's all that's all arbitrary that's
- 52:22that's that that's not something that men did because they wanted to, you know,
- 52:27because they wanted to make their societies comfortable enough and safe enough that you
- 52:32could raise a family and have a wife. No, no, no,
- 52:36though, that that's that's all a side effect that we had that anyway.
- 52:40I mean, it sounds like she thinks that we've had cell phones since like
- 52:45you know, Rome, and like like if nothing like nothing happened in between
- 52:49them and now you know so well, I mean she's really minimizing the effect
- 52:53of yea, our sex thrive on the world. Yeah, if we were
- 52:59just purely driven by hunger and fear of predators and thirst, we would have
- 53:04as much technology as chimpanzees. That's the quite the big in my opinion,
- 53:09the big revolution for humans was that we captured our sexual drive to a very
- 53:16complex mental process called theory of mind. And then everything blows up out of
- 53:22that ritual mythology, language, high degrees of cooperation between men, and also
- 53:30to a somewhat lesser degree between women because they're still very resource or very territorial.
- 53:36So I mean, all of it comes out of that, All of
- 53:37it comes out of the fact that we can turn our courtship behaviors towards anything.
- 53:43I think that's what I'm trying to get at. We can turn the
- 53:45drive, the sexual drive, and our need to engage in courtship behaviors and
- 53:50all of that, like the willingness to sacrifice oneself towards anything, anything towards
- 53:58making a cell phone, forwards building a skyscraper, towards landing on the moon.
- 54:04We can capture that and drive it towards anything, because it is so
- 54:07powerful in us. And it's not just powerful in terms of like literally a
- 54:14man lusting after a woman. It's powerful in terms of a scientist having that
- 54:21intense curiosity and fascination towards the object of his research. That's very similarly,
- 54:29and that comes out of not just the physical like um sexual response, that
- 54:35comes out of the mental sexual response that human beings have. And that's what
- 54:39makes us so fucking successful. And she's pissing off of all, pissing all
- 54:44of that. Yep, exactly. It's ridiculous. And who the hell is
- 54:47you can't even say this? I know, I mean it's you know,
- 54:52I'm sorry, But like I don't think she's dumb. I mean, if
- 54:55you you have to know better, you have to. I think this is
- 55:00it is intentional, and I think it is. It's an attack on men,
- 55:01and it's on attack specifically on male sexuality, like the what they want,
- 55:06like men care about their future and their children's future. I'm you know,
- 55:10I mean women get the baby rabies too. I'm not saying that's not
- 55:14the case, but what I mean, it's absolutely insane. Okay, so
- 55:20I got another another super child. Seither the super childs are really I guess
- 55:24batter Chan is really making that, making that work. So thank you for
- 55:29the super child. Playing Dane playing Dane gives us eight dollars. No,
- 55:37I'm sorry, he gave us two A good thing. I played that twice
- 55:40twelve dollars, and says the reason we have drives are to avoid dying.
- 55:44When you die without procreating, you die for good. My ancestors live on
- 55:47through me. If it was a byproduct, we wouldn't have a natural protective
- 55:52instinct. We wouldn't sacrifice ourselves to protect our children. I think the word
- 55:55you were looking for is pretentious. If it is pretentious, why would they
- 56:00want to prevent the male pill um? Well, yeah, that's the thing
- 56:06too. I think that the thing. The reason why they oppose the male
- 56:08pill so much is because they don't want men to have to feel entitled to
- 56:14protect themselves from predatory women. I guess, thank you, playing Dane.
- 56:21Then he gives us another super chat for a super chat for eight dollars and
- 56:23says, procreation is how we live on forever with your loved one, with
- 56:28your children. It's the closest thing to immortality. That's a god's your ability.
- 56:31That's why we're so social, absolutely, and that's why men they don't
- 56:36just um, you know, they're not just doing this to attract women.
- 56:40They're also doing this to build bonds with other men. So, so I
- 56:45got the ts Eliot quote. I want to read it really quick because in
- 56:49case you guys don't know. T. S. Eliott was a poet from
- 56:51the twentieth century, kind of early early twentieth century. This is he was
- 56:54very famous. This is something that he once said. They can silly tried
- 57:00to escape from the darkness outside and within by dreaming of systems so perfect that
- 57:06no one will need to be good. But the man that is will,
- 57:10but the man that is will shadow the man that pretends to be. So
- 57:16they try to perfect a dream up a system so perfect that people don't have
- 57:21to be good. That's what the sense that I get from this. I
- 57:23don't know if you guys know that. Um yeah, but yeah, yeah,
- 57:29so this is kind of what's going on here, and that's what may.
- 57:32I heard this today on another stream, another video, and I thought
- 57:37it was so good. So all right, but anyway, let's continue the
- 57:40video ds Elliott was based. Apparently, so while it is true that no
- 57:47one has ever died because they couldn't get laid, because we cling to this
- 57:52myth that sex is a biological need to which people are entitled, nobody believes
- 57:59that. Sorry, unless you do. Nobody believes unless us your projection.
- 58:04Yeah, nobody believes that anyone is entitled to sex unless you're a woman,
- 58:09okay, or if you're you're like part of the fat acceptance movement. Apparently
- 58:14you believe you're entitled to be being seen as desirable okay. Nobody believes that.
- 58:19Ye, did I blow out the game? I apologize people? No,
- 58:22No, I don't thinkiating. Yeah, it is furiating how she's freaking
- 58:28speaks for the rest of humanity. You don't know that. I don't even
- 58:31think you know your own damp. Well, you're probably right, she does,
- 58:34but she knows what she's doing. But you don't get to speak for
- 58:37all of humanity. Nobody except criminals think they are entitled to things that belong
- 58:44to others. Are you a criminal? Do you think you're entitled to things
- 58:50that belong to others? Yep, I guess that. I guess we have
- 58:52to wonder about that one. But this is like, this is infuriating and
- 58:58also it's really aggravating because she's focusing on this idea that the big problem with
- 59:06seeing biology as a sex drive, as something that is a need is what
- 59:12that men will feel entitled to fulfill their needs will First of all, men
- 59:15don't And second of all, the way that human beings express sexuality is so
- 59:21different than other animals. They use the chemical signals. Basically, the female
- 59:27animal is so doped up on her hormones that yeah, there's no way she's
- 59:30gonna say no. But it doesn't matter. They're animals. They don't have
- 59:32a concept of consent. We have a concept of consent because we have theory
- 59:37of mind, because we're humans. And the average man, the normal man,
- 59:43I don't even want to say average because it's it's so fucking it's so
- 59:45rare for men not to be attracted to consent. It is so rare,
- 59:51And there are so many factors, ugly factors that have to go into his
- 59:53making before he will pop out the other end. This like weird free.
- 1:00:00Okay, that's so rare. And then she's focusing on this idea of entitlement
- 1:00:07that oh, oh, this is this is what's going to happen. No,
- 1:00:08that's not how human sexuality works. So you shut up about it because
- 1:00:12you have no fucking clue. You're so ignorant about that. That is not
- 1:00:16how human sexuality works. There's a biological drive that makes men rape. Bullshit,
- 1:00:21that's bullshit. It is a biological drive that makes men desire to be
- 1:00:27socially desirable, Okay, not sexually socially desirable. Why do you think the
- 1:00:34carpenters is perfecting his craft? Why do you think the artist is creating the
- 1:00:37new expression of human mind? Of the human mind? You know, it's
- 1:00:43because they want to be socially desirable, maybe not to everyone, but to
- 1:00:46their social group. That's what it drives, okay. And it also drives
- 1:00:52being socially desirable to a partner. A sexual partner that you're interested in.
- 1:00:55It does not dw drive rape. Right, that's criminal, So let's just
- 1:01:00clarify that that is criminals. That is the entitlement behavior of criminals. So
- 1:01:06what she's doing is she's connecting this belief about the biology of sex, that
- 1:01:12sex is a sex drive, to this idea that that somehow justifies men raping,
- 1:01:15which is bullshit. That's not how men express their sex drive. But
- 1:01:20also, she's probably going to tie or she probably in her mind is tying
- 1:01:24this to the men who go the very very small minority of men who go
- 1:01:28out and kill people because they can't get sex. Well, lady, that's
- 1:01:32just you poisoning the well. Because the vast majority of men who have trouble
- 1:01:39with their sexual relationships kill themselves. Okay, now that's not every man who
- 1:01:46has trouble with their sexual relationships, but if they're going to do anything extreme,
- 1:01:52they're most likely going to kill themselves. So you choose to focus on
- 1:01:55the men who act entitled rather than the men who realize that they're never going
- 1:02:01to get what they want or have been damaged by the sexuality that's either been
- 1:02:07inflicted on them or they've experienced and it's abusive or whatever and kill themselves.
- 1:02:12So you choose to focus on the murderers and rapists, Yeah, in order
- 1:02:16to poison the well, well, it becomes easier to focus on rapists when
- 1:02:23you're constantly expanding what that means. Anyways, So you know, didn't you
- 1:02:29can? You? That's how you make the numbers bigger, right, you
- 1:02:32just say, well, you know, we'll just broaden the definition until until
- 1:02:37it essentially encompasses almost every relationship between a man and a woman. Is the
- 1:02:43numbers bigger? Yeah, the feminists make the numbers bigger and suddenly bam,
- 1:02:49because well what they did is they they went from saying were you raped too?
- 1:02:53Did you experience this kind of forced sexual behavior? And then boom,
- 1:02:58they see that men are equally likely to be raped. Oh, that's that's
- 1:03:01sort of that's a that's a finding we don't want to keep perpetuating. Um.
- 1:03:08And then they they what um, Well, they just ignore it and
- 1:03:17they continue to assume that sexual entitlement is just a male issue and it's being
- 1:03:22justified by narratives like oh, sex is biological as a biological drive. Kay,
- 1:03:30right, all right, let's continue. Died in surprisingly large proportion.
- 1:03:37So she's showing you, guys who might might be listening to this and not
- 1:03:42watching it. She's showing some news headlines like fed self identified in cell admits
- 1:03:50to Ohio state mass shooting plot. What how did I predict this? Yeah?
- 1:03:55I know, I know. I mean I knew it too when she
- 1:03:58said that sex drive is this? No, I knew. I did not
- 1:04:02watch this and I was like, she's going to do that, and then
- 1:04:04she just does it. Yep. Yeah, this is how this is as
- 1:04:09predictable as it as it gets. Proportion of the mass murders that happen are
- 1:04:15committed by people who declare that their motivation is that they're not getting access to
- 1:04:19the sex that they want a need. If we just understand that that's not
- 1:04:24okay, First of all, how many instell murders have there actually been?
- 1:04:28Well, Alex manasking was wasn't it Alec mass and we found out that he
- 1:04:32had um employment pressures or yeah he had like problems at his job, and
- 1:04:39yeah, sure, well even then, though, even then, like if
- 1:04:42if if you even if let's say we were to take every in cell incident,
- 1:04:48of which I can think of like half a dozen off the top of
- 1:04:51my head. Uh and let's just assume that they're all guilty. That's still
- 1:04:56what like point zero zero one percent of the population. Like, it's like
- 1:05:00nothing, it's nothing even because you know sometimes I mean you can find probably
- 1:05:05far more examples of like, I don't know, middle school teachers raping their
- 1:05:11students female teachers, right, you can find more examples of that, yeah,
- 1:05:16far far more. Probably about fifty five thousand men are being raped by
- 1:05:24women annually in the US, and I mean the numbers for women I think
- 1:05:29are like maybe seventy uh no, probably, like it's very close, and
- 1:05:35nobody cares. Yeah, absolutely, nobody gives a flipping fuck. And we
- 1:05:40focus on the what half dozen murders that have been done by these incredibly depressed
- 1:05:45young men who feel like they have no future, right, and usually they
- 1:05:48kill themselves, and they usually end up killing more men than women. So
- 1:05:51like you know, like the Elliot Rodgers, the go to or the guy
- 1:05:56in in in Canada, can't remember's name, it's been asking no, no,
- 1:06:00no, no, not that guy. It was another guy that wanted
- 1:06:02to kill women. I think he gets lumped in with that. It was
- 1:06:04before Alec Manassy and I believe but I don't remember. It doesn't matter.
- 1:06:09The point is is that she is trying to take something that is extremely rare,
- 1:06:15and in many cases it's been demonstrated to not be a byproduct of them
- 1:06:20being like you know, have going through a dry spell, but rather they
- 1:06:25have other issues or had nothing to do with that at all. Yeah,
- 1:06:29they have mental health, yeah, criminal, mental health problems, whatever it
- 1:06:32is. And she's trying to say this is male because this is she's using
- 1:06:36in cells to tar men as a whole. That's what I'm getting at,
- 1:06:41right, this isn't about in cells. She's just using this as a substitute
- 1:06:45for men. And I can demonstrate that if we go a little deeper,
- 1:06:50a little further into the video, because you'll see it. But she is
- 1:06:54basically just saying in cells blame women for their lack of sexual success. Okay,
- 1:07:00want a need. If we just understand that sex is a pleasure based
- 1:07:02motivation, not a life and safety based motivation, we can free ourselves into
- 1:07:08the joy and ecstasy that's available to our bodies when we're not feeling frustrated and
- 1:07:13angry about a sense of failure to get something that we feel what the fuck
- 1:07:17are you talking about lady. People will line up and pamper your ass to
- 1:07:24say that you're desirable. If you were a man and you looked like that,
- 1:07:30yeah, you would be considered a creep. You would be socially ostracized.
- 1:07:34You're certainly able to say this on a very different landscape. Mh.
- 1:07:41You know the meme of the guy that's tipping his fedora is the old old
- 1:07:45man guy. She looks like the female version of that guy, honestly in
- 1:07:49the face. Yeah, um okay, but anyway, that's I know,
- 1:07:55that's petty. I'm just being I'm dissilting her a petty. She looks at
- 1:07:59the female version of that guy like that guy. No, she looks like
- 1:08:03a female version of that guy. Yeah, but can you imagine, you
- 1:08:08know, like what that guy experiences. M h. And she's trying to
- 1:08:12spin this positively. Oh, if we could just see sex is just purely
- 1:08:16about pleasure, m then we could enjoy more of it without the frustation of
- 1:08:24expectation. Yes, well that's meanwhile, you enjoy You think that men killed
- 1:08:31themselves for society because something wasn't driving them to do it. That kind of
- 1:08:38pro that desire to be pro social Why do you think they've painted women on
- 1:08:43their planes in World War Two? Yeah, I wonder why why is it
- 1:08:47they had like female performers, like go to the barracks and the and the
- 1:08:54basses and stuff and do a little put a little show on for the soldiers
- 1:08:57to what was what was the purpose of that? No, it doesn't have
- 1:09:00to be sexual it's like cheerleaders social approval yep. And that is driven by
- 1:09:06sexuality about the way that humans structure our sexualities, which is really complicated,
- 1:09:12really intricate, really fascinating. Ye has a hell of a lot more to
- 1:09:15do than just about physical pleasure, because it drives everything, my dear.
- 1:09:20It drives the existence of this camera that you're mugging into. It drives the
- 1:09:28existence of this big think channel yep. Playing with fire friend all right,
- 1:09:36Like, I mean, I just get the thing that drives the thing that
- 1:09:40drives men to sacrifice themselves to build a skyscraper. And she's like, oh,
- 1:09:46no, that's not just about passure. Well maybe for you, Yeah,
- 1:09:51you don't have you don't have an investment though. See I bet she
- 1:09:56doesn't have kids. I bet she doesn't. I mean, if she does,
- 1:09:59I feel sorry for them. But I bet she doesn't, and that's
- 1:10:00why she's like, I'm just doing me, Like you know, I got
- 1:10:04my ties and I'm on the beach and I have no I don't care about
- 1:10:09my future, so that means I don't care about anyone's future. I think
- 1:10:13that people who virtu yeah, I think people who have it that good to
- 1:10:17do that they were If they were virtuous, these individuals would stop judging cultures
- 1:10:25that aren't Western cultures is morally lesser. Because you look at the Sea Dam
- 1:10:29map that's the Committee for the Discrimination against Women around the world. You'd look
- 1:10:33at the Sea Daw map and you compare it to the skin tone map of
- 1:10:38the world, and it maps one to one. So somehow women like her
- 1:10:42have discovered that Western nations are the most moral nations on the planet. You
- 1:10:47know, maybe you should actually go and talk to them about how they structure
- 1:10:51their lives and why they do what they do, and maybe understand that in
- 1:10:56their world they need sex to be a drive so that they can keep social
- 1:11:01cohesion, that they can keep their families together, and that they can keep
- 1:11:08going in order to pay for your shit, lady, for your dreams of
- 1:11:14utopia, Why do you get those dreams of utopia because you're sitting on the
- 1:11:16petrol dollar, because you are part of a system that can merely print money
- 1:11:24with no productivity behind it, which is what I'm getting at. Usually other
- 1:11:28countries, if their money is going to have any value at all, it's
- 1:11:30tied to some kind of productivity, so people will will take the money in
- 1:11:34order to buy their products. You know, in the West, that's not
- 1:11:38the case as much. You know, So you sit on a situation of
- 1:11:45unbelievable privilege that other people, other the brown nations, are footing the bill
- 1:11:49for, and you are opining about how, oh sex can be pleasure.
- 1:11:55Oh thank you, para mistress. What a surprise. You live in a
- 1:12:00world of cushions. Your sex is just about pleasure. Yeah, congratulations.
- 1:12:08That is one of the most entitled, privileged things a human being could say.
- 1:12:15Yep, absolutely, absolutely, Um how does it go again? Let
- 1:12:21me see? They constantly tried to escape from the darkness outside and within by
- 1:12:26dreaming of systems so perfect that no one will need to be good. That's
- 1:12:30what she's doing, all right, Let's keep let's keep going. I feel
- 1:12:34like we're supposed to be able to get if it's not about getting what about
- 1:12:39connecting and feeling the sense of freedom that comes with letting go of the shoots.
- 1:12:46And we don't get those things through in false belief. That's something we
- 1:12:51just really want. Oh boy, have you not? Did you notice when
- 1:12:58she shows the video of the sort of like stock footage of couples, it's
- 1:13:04two men and then it's two women, and and I think, well,
- 1:13:09then there's this one, but um, you know, guy's got a man
- 1:13:12bun, but it but she starts from that, So I think I think
- 1:13:17that the reason for this is um in in in gay couples and lesbian couples,
- 1:13:28Uh there there there can't be children, There can't be family in a
- 1:13:32naturally like unless you adopt or you do some science shit right, But heterosexual
- 1:13:40couples don't. They don't need any of that to to start family. So
- 1:13:43I think what she's doing is she's trying to say that because the idea that
- 1:13:48a heterosexual couple can actually reproduce through sex, that somehow that has more value.
- 1:13:56And it shouldn't because all everything is the same, everything is equal.
- 1:14:00So what do we do? Well, we could we could devalue sex itself.
- 1:14:05We could make it just for pleasure and not for family. And I
- 1:14:11know that it's it's more than just sex, but but that is what she's
- 1:14:15railing against when she shows these images. These aren't accidents. Like this was
- 1:14:19chosen when they edited these this video together. They were like, let's get
- 1:14:24a gay couple, and let's get a lesbian couple, and then we'll put
- 1:14:27ahead of a sexual couple in there towards the end. And yeah, I
- 1:14:30mean, I'm I'm sorry, but like the reality is, yeah, what
- 1:14:36what do the darkness here? Yeah, because she's saying it sex is about
- 1:14:41pleasure therefore, Yeah, um, well that's really interesting because literally, why
- 1:14:46why do people like I guess they just don't even see it? Why do
- 1:14:48people like this think that men made all of these sacrifices to build society?
- 1:14:54Right? And it really was men as men who were building the skyscrapers,
- 1:14:58men who are building that tunnel between underneath the Thames, and like I think
- 1:15:02eighteen men died for every fucking foot of it, you know, men who
- 1:15:05built the railways. Why do you think men did that? Do you think
- 1:15:11what what? What what made you think that men would would put themselves in
- 1:15:15danger, put themselves in deprivation because labor is not something fun it is it
- 1:15:19does actually involve the destruction of tissues. So why are men willingly engaging in
- 1:15:25the destruction of their tissues and willingly engaging in the destruction of their bodies in
- 1:15:30order to do these things that built the world that you enjoy or protected the
- 1:15:34world that you enjoy. Because in World War Two there's a whole bunch of
- 1:15:39men who ran into a situation where you know, if you think that the
- 1:15:45survival instinct is primary, what explains the motivation of men in World War two
- 1:15:51to run into artillery? Okay? What explains that? Lady? You know
- 1:15:58what explains that social approval? They don't want to be seen as a coward?
- 1:16:04And I've I've read play, I've read a whole bunch of stuff about
- 1:16:08like the psychology, so I can I can say that, and I don't
- 1:16:11mean that as to be rude, but it seems to be a primary driver
- 1:16:14of that whole situation. Okay, they did not want to be seen as
- 1:16:17a character. Where is the concept of being seen as a coward as a
- 1:16:20negative come from? It comes from women's social disapproval. So women's social disapproval
- 1:16:27directly leads to men charging the artillery. Okay, and those men dying directly
- 1:16:33leads to the US's ascendency as the world reserve currency, which directly leads to
- 1:16:42your cushy, goddamn existence. So literally, you exist in a world constructed
- 1:16:48from men's drive, yeah, to have sex, and all of the all
- 1:16:57of the the subsidiary qualities of that, which is that they want feminine approval,
- 1:17:03which they don't want to be seen as a coward. Therefore they will
- 1:17:06be brave in the face of danger. Therefore they will face the destruction,
- 1:17:11the complete destruction of their tissues, in order to not feel like they are
- 1:17:15disapproved of, either by their comrades or by the potential woman in their head.
- 1:17:20Okay, and like this is that that's what a coward means. I
- 1:17:26mean, think about it this way. Women were more likely to see a
- 1:17:30man who was a deserter as a coward than the men who actually went to
- 1:17:34war. They understood the psychological pressures of trying to face up against that level
- 1:17:41of tissue destruction, so they didn't. Thistle soldiers actually don't have as much
- 1:17:45contempt or condemnation of deserters. It's all the civilians left home that don't experience
- 1:17:50it. They're the ones who are calling them cowards. And that is why
- 1:17:55those men are rushing the guns. And that is why you live and cushy
- 1:17:59fucking distance where you can opine about how well the sex drive just isn't necessary.
- 1:18:04It's oh yeah, pleasure, Yeah, because you you exist in a
- 1:18:08world constructed for you. Harem girl, you exist, and you sit your
- 1:18:13plump ass on a bunch of silk cushions. M hmm. It's not just
- 1:18:16anti family, it's anti human. Yes, were for nothing. Yeah,
- 1:18:24I want to show you one more thing about this video clip that I thought
- 1:18:27was interesting that she uses as like her b roll. Notice this I'm gonna
- 1:18:30show you and I'll talk over it as it plays people to get if it's
- 1:18:33not these two men are already together, only hand champagne glasses. These two
- 1:18:41women also already a couple, right, they're about to make out things.
- 1:18:46But in this case, that's something we just really want. This guy is
- 1:18:49alone and he's like thinking about going over and talking to this woman. What
- 1:18:55is something we are entitled to and require? For Sandy the new and radical
- 1:18:58line. So there's no there's no guarantee that that even worked out. All
- 1:19:01that is is evidence that that man is not entitled to anything. So he
- 1:19:06has to like approach. None of the other couples did, they were already
- 1:19:11together. Do you see that? I don't think again, not an accident
- 1:19:14in my opinion. Yaws to earn it. Yes, he has to earn
- 1:19:17it because society still requires that that drive to earn the sexual approval of women
- 1:19:25to keep functioning. So society, she knows that they live on that drive
- 1:19:30than men for the sexual approval of women. But at the same time as
- 1:19:34they want to say that men are not entitled to feel sexually desirable, because
- 1:19:40that's what this is. This isn't about entitlement to sex. It's about wanting
- 1:19:44to know how to become sexually desirable to women. Yeah, of course,
- 1:19:48And she wants men to continue to strive to be sexually desirable to women,
- 1:19:55which is all of the things that men do, even the abstractions that men
- 1:19:59do, like wanting to appeal to their muse by pursuing excellence in whatever right.
- 1:20:05She wants to keep all of that while telling men that they shouldn't even
- 1:20:13want to know how to become sexually attractive to women. Yeah, they shouldn't
- 1:20:16even want to know what for society to be honest about whether or not they're
- 1:20:21sexually attractive to women, because that's the thing. That's what I see with
- 1:20:25these interactions with insults. People refuse to be honest with insults about whether or
- 1:20:30not they're sexually attractive to women because insults will say things like, well,
- 1:20:33i'm short, i'm disabled, i'm black. You know, I have lots
- 1:20:36of them with mental health issues. Yeah, I've been raped by a woman,
- 1:20:42so you know all of this stuff. And they'll say, well,
- 1:20:44it's really your personality and your hygiene. Yeah, you shouldn't be entitled a
- 1:20:49dark triad six foot two men who reeks like a will to beast. It's
- 1:20:57still going to be considered attractive, Okay, so we can't. They're trying
- 1:21:03to get a situation where society won't even be honest with men of whether or
- 1:21:09not they're going to become. What they're doing is going to make them sexually
- 1:21:12attractive or at least not seen as a coward. They don't want to give
- 1:21:15anything any kind of social approval to men for anything for any reason. No,
- 1:21:19let's talking about sex, just social approval, even recognition that men are
- 1:21:24keeping society afloat nothing. Men should feel no entitlement, but we should still
- 1:21:30still exploit their desire to become socially desirable. You see what I'm saying,
- 1:21:34without ever telling them whether or not what they're doing will do that, or
- 1:21:42telling them whether or not it is socially desirable. This is the sickest form
- 1:21:47of gas lighting. This is some sick shit. Yeah, I don't know,
- 1:21:57it is, absolutely this is why I'm saying. When I said this,
- 1:22:00at first, I was just cringing, and then like I thought about
- 1:22:03it, and I was like, holy shit, this is really bad,
- 1:22:08Like this is like really evil in my view. But let's hear her last
- 1:22:12her like last comment on this. Hi jojo, hi jojo? Stay there,
- 1:22:16Um, The new and radical idea is pleasure is what matters. Connection
- 1:22:20is what matters. Authentic humanity is what matters. What are you talking about?
- 1:22:27Pleasure is what matters? I mean, I mean always matter. Well,
- 1:22:34obviously this is she's acting like it's a revelation, like you know what
- 1:22:38I found out? You know what I learned today human beings like we just
- 1:22:44started doing this apparently. You know. It's just like when when feminism,
- 1:22:47uh had what they they they they changed men from you know, not loving
- 1:22:57women or caring about women to carrying about women. It's that, yeah,
- 1:23:00I know, when did when did men? When did h how did feminism?
- 1:23:04Or when did men start to care about women? Here, I've figured
- 1:23:06out how to say it really succinctly. They want to use or exploit men's
- 1:23:12desire to become socially desirable without ever recognizing if they're socially desirable or sexually desirable,
- 1:23:21which is it's some ways it's a very it's the same thing. Like
- 1:23:25I mean, if a man is socially desirable, he's usually sexually desirable as
- 1:23:28well. Yeah, um, to some degree. All right, all right,
- 1:23:32I got a super chow, another super chow. Very cool, Thank
- 1:23:36you very much. Dane is really locking the superhows. Yeah, it's it's
- 1:23:43pretty amazing. Um, so, thank you so much. And it's plain.
- 1:23:46Dane again gives h well, actually he's sent two, so I gotta
- 1:23:50I gotta do this again. I'm sorry, all right, So gives this
- 1:23:58one for five dollars and says the male anglerfish will literally permanently fuse himself with
- 1:24:03the much larger female anglerfish. He ends up being a tiny appendage on her.
- 1:24:09The female octopus will literally guard her eggs twenty four seven for months,
- 1:24:13eating herself to survive and fend off predators. Female octopi are the most selfless
- 1:24:17mothers on the planet. I don't know if you want to say anything to
- 1:24:21that, Allison, but yes, oh yeah, yes. Male animals will
- 1:24:30go through depredations in order to gain access to sexual sexual access. And that's
- 1:24:36the animals, male animals that are there to promiscuous or don't form para bonds.
- 1:24:42Then when you look at the male animals that will form para bonds,
- 1:24:45the lengths that they will do to sacrifice everything that she's calling a drive in
- 1:24:49order to create and maintain offspring is incredible. And then you look at human
- 1:24:58men, everything they have done in order to construct, not even at the
- 1:25:02hope. Like the men who went to war in World War two, they
- 1:25:06knew, like you go, I mean, I've read stuff like water um,
- 1:25:12like in the the the islands in the in the Asian Islands in Asia
- 1:25:18and the ship that they went through, and they knew the likelihood that they
- 1:25:24would survive, but they still did it. They still sacrifice themselves, and
- 1:25:29they sacrifice themselves because there's that instinct or that drive to sacrifice oneself for one's
- 1:25:33can group. And it humans, it's like it's it's abstraction, it's you
- 1:25:40don't want to be seen as a coward because your courage is is it's like
- 1:25:45almost your connection to the group for a man. Yeah, and we used
- 1:25:53that constantly to keep our societies running. And it is it is an aspect
- 1:25:59of mensactionality. Okay, Like cool operation between men is sexually selected for in
- 1:26:05our species, so it is an aspect of men's sexuality. Men's pro social
- 1:26:12behavior is sexually selected for in our species, so it's an aspect of the
- 1:26:15sexuality. It is driven by their sexuality. And she is using all of
- 1:26:20that to enjoy an incredibly comfortable life, and she wants to continue to use
- 1:26:27it. Like, like you said, Brian, those clips weren't weren't accidental
- 1:26:30That man is striving to be socially desirable or to be seen by another as
- 1:26:36socially desirable, But she wants to use that without ever recognizing it. We're
- 1:26:43not even recognizing that that is what's driving men. This is what really blows
- 1:26:46my mind. Okay, Okay, fine, We'll never recognize that men are
- 1:26:50socially desirable, will still use their desire to their drive to become socially desirable
- 1:26:58in order to perpetuate our luxuries and our pleasures, but will never really give
- 1:27:05them a sense that they've ever become socially desirable. But at the same time,
- 1:27:10feminists will look at that and say, oh, that whole thing is
- 1:27:14not about being socially desirable. It's about oppressing women. It's about becoming the
- 1:27:18opposite of socially desirable. And it's like, can you gaslight any harder?
- 1:27:26H yeah, absolutely, it's it's gross even we can't even acknowledge that what's
- 1:27:32driving men right right being wanting to become socially desirable, which sexually desirable is
- 1:27:40a subset of But I don't think that men run into artillery fire in order
- 1:27:45to become well, maybe they do to a degree sexually desirable, but I
- 1:27:48think it's more about maintaining social desirability at that point, not being a coward.
- 1:27:56Okay, yep, okay, And I got another super chow of playing
- 1:28:00Dane for ten bucks, and they say, careful, Brian, you don't
- 1:28:02want to sound homophobic, now, do you. I'm often called homophobic because
- 1:28:06I think he says I think that because it just says I that I think
- 1:28:11that heterosexual relationships are superior because we generally are able to touch our partners.
- 1:28:15Technically speaking, you'll only ever touch anyone or anything is when you procreate.
- 1:28:20Right now, you are not touching anything on the atomic level. Haile Adam,
- 1:28:26blessed the children of Adam. That's a fallout for a reference. Thank
- 1:28:29you, playing Dane. I mean, all I would say is, you
- 1:28:31know, I don't care what you do in the bedroom or with who.
- 1:28:34I don't give a shit. Okay, I don't care if you are against
- 1:28:36marriage. I don't care if you are against for yourself right having kids whatever.
- 1:28:42But all I'm saying is is that most people, like the overwhelming majority
- 1:28:46hopefully, do want families, and especially men. And so when you say
- 1:28:51that, you know, when men are trying to get women's approval so they
- 1:29:00can find a partner and make babies with that partner, that that is somehow
- 1:29:05like something that should not be let's say valued for what men are putting in,
- 1:29:12you know, to to hopefully like um get as uh you know,
- 1:29:17as a reciprocal arrangement, or that the children that might be a product of
- 1:29:23that like are of no consequence and they don't mean anything. They're just a
- 1:29:27side effect. You know, you're you're you're saying what you really think.
- 1:29:30Like you you're saying that children don't matter, and that that people who want
- 1:29:34families they're just entitled. Right. That a surprise, It's a weird thing.
- 1:29:42What a surprise. The Western woman who enjoys a life of luxury based
- 1:29:47on the exploitation, economic exploitation. I'm gonna just fucking say it, the
- 1:29:50economic exploitation of the rest of the world, enjoying a life of luxury based
- 1:29:56on the economic exploitation, because this isn't capitalism, This isn't when when you
- 1:30:00can just fucking p that's not capitalism, right, Um, A Western woman
- 1:30:06who's enjoying a life of luxury based on the ex economic exploitation of the rest
- 1:30:11of the world says, ah, well, sex is about pleasure, not
- 1:30:15about motivating men in my country to be productive. So our dollar actually is
- 1:30:21worth a fucking thing, you know, it's it's that's that's not that's not
- 1:30:27important. It's just about how well I pamper my ass on this silk pillow.
- 1:30:32Thank you, Thank you for thoughts from the from the the hair,
- 1:30:36the the the thank you for thoughts from the Turkish Arab lady. Yeah,
- 1:30:44so anyway, that's all the super childs. But man, I think the
- 1:30:48jumping badger cham thing works. I'm just saying like, yeah, least on
- 1:30:56Phil, Yeah, at least on on somebody. But um playing Dane,
- 1:31:00all right, not Plaine Dane, Yes, plain Dane. Thank you playing
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- 1:31:18like what you guys are doing here. We want to be able to do
- 1:31:21this or maybe another ten years I don't know, so we'll see, hope.
- 1:31:27Hopefully we won't need to do it for other thanny of but we might.
- 1:31:30So I have a I have a I have a suspicion. Yeah,
- 1:31:34I have a suspicion. Me and me and Brian will be we'll be like
- 1:31:38in our eighties and be like God please no but up. Yeah. So,
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- 1:32:04I know it's a bitch a girl. Yeah, I mean, is that
- 1:32:08wrong? Am I wrong? Like? Oh, you mean like Badger Chan
- 1:32:15is a bit of a bitch? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I think.
- 1:32:19I mean, honestly, you have to be a bit disagreeable to keep
- 1:32:24pushing this like, there's no I don't think that we're necessarily impolite people.
- 1:32:30Yeah, maybe we are a bit or mean spirited, but we are definitely
- 1:32:34disagreeable. I think. Yeah, the truth hurts and it helps if you
- 1:32:41don't mind pulling the band aid off really quickly, like oh did that thing?
- 1:32:45Doesn't it feel better? Um? Exactly? But anyway, Yeah,
- 1:32:49so if you want to send a super chat a super chat after the show,
- 1:32:54if you want to comment on anything that we talked about, or just
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- 1:33:34bonding in terms of pleasure, but in terms of the construction of society.
- 1:33:39And it seeks to bring back a kind of romance to the relationship between men
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- 1:34:17of the show like this, but just to say that it's it's really my
- 1:34:25refuge when things that I don't know who said this, but they said that
- 1:34:32anybody who writes about I don't want to say necessarily utopia, but heaven,
- 1:34:40like a heaven on Earth, has been through their personal health. And this
- 1:34:44is where I went dealing with my personal health. Is this world and it
- 1:34:49really, in a lot of ways became a companion to me, and I
- 1:34:55would like to share it with the rest of the world in the hopes that
- 1:34:59maybe other people will find in a sanctuary, we find it a place where
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- 1:35:16okay, thanks, okay, all right, So I guess we'll wrap it
- 1:35:20up. Oh I got one more. I got another, Uh got another
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- 1:35:36Chan and lt Semi colon. Oh, I don't know what that is,
- 1:35:43gives us five dollars and says a small five dollars. Thank you for H
- 1:35:46two HBr for the great discussions, analysis and wisdom. Well, thank you
- 1:35:50Badger Chan. Um that's the name that you gave us. So that's how
- 1:35:55I'm gonna address you. All right, So we are going to go into
- 1:36:00the patron show. I'm gonna read through this article that's a review of Caitlin
- 1:36:04Morand's book entitled What About Men. I don't know what it's gonna have in
- 1:36:10it. Sure it's not going to be cringe at all. Um, so
- 1:36:14it looks like it's critical, So yeah, it's it's probably gonna be.
- 1:36:18Isn't just me? Or does there seem to be like an uptick of women?
- 1:36:23Are feminists trying to contain the Andrew tatement? Yes? Yes, well
- 1:36:28you know I'm not like, I'm not seriously, I'm not worried about Andrew
- 1:36:31Tate. I'm not either. No, you know, wake me up,
- 1:36:35like I said multiple times, wake me up when there's the guy that realizes
- 1:36:40the military potential of a whole generation or a couple of generations of men who
- 1:36:45have nothing to lose. Yeah, who have been constantly told and gaslighted by
- 1:36:49society about their own natures and been turned into the enemy. Give it.
- 1:36:55Wake me up when that dude's on the ascendancy. Of course. Yeah,
- 1:37:00I don't know. At that point, we might not even have an Internet.
- 1:37:03I think, you know. My opinion is is that, um,
- 1:37:09you know, Andrew Tate, whoever it is, doesn't really matter. It's
- 1:37:13just whenever there are more and more men and women that are speaking out against
- 1:37:17feminists and feminism, there's more and more of this happening. And whether it's
- 1:37:21Pearl or Tate or you know, the whatever podcast or Jordan Peterson, whatever
- 1:37:28or us, they're going to attack them the same way because they want to
- 1:37:32monopolize the conversation around gender and they don't like anybody that's trying to threaten them,
- 1:37:38so that's why they will bat mouth them. And that's also, by
- 1:37:41the way, that's also why you will find more and more feminists writing about
- 1:37:46men and they're trying to tackle the you know, the man problem right because
- 1:37:53they don't. They don't want other people that are not towing the line with
- 1:37:58them discussing this stuff. They want to be the ones to control. This
- 1:38:00is why Caitlin Morn wrote the book What About Men, because she's saying,
- 1:38:05Okay, it looks like I can't ignore this problem anymore. I can't pretend
- 1:38:11like it's not happening. More and more, especially younger men, are saying,
- 1:38:15you know what, I feel like I'm shit on from the day I'm
- 1:38:16born. I don't know why I don't like this. I think it's feminism's
- 1:38:20fault. And she has to interview before they realize it and say no,
- 1:38:24no, no, it's not feminism. Feminism is the cure. You just
- 1:38:28have to follow me. And she pulls out the pipe, piper pipe and
- 1:38:32starts playing it in the hope that boys will follow her. That's all this
- 1:38:35is, Yes, I know, but it's also doomed a failure. Like,
- 1:38:41honestly, what we're looking at right now, Andrew Tate took what feminists
- 1:38:45left for men, which is that playboy ideal, that idea that they can
- 1:38:50be dissocially desirable by becoming a playboy. Yeah, like literally, that's what
- 1:38:55feminists gave men. This is the last thing that could possibly be seen as
- 1:38:59social, as a pro social right, and they're taking that away. So
- 1:39:02there's absolutely no way to be pro social and a man in Western society,
- 1:39:09right, Like, that's it. What the problem is? Then, still
- 1:39:15are driven to be pro social and to see themselves as pro social in some
- 1:39:19way. And if you are a part of a society that's basically giving men
- 1:39:23no way to be pro social, you have especially constructed every man as an
- 1:39:29enemy of your society. Why do they owe you your elite, their allegiance.
- 1:39:32That's why I say what, we have a choice right now, right,
- 1:39:36we have a choice. Okay, we can continue to deny men any
- 1:39:42pro social way of being in our culture. We can continue to do that,
- 1:39:46and believe me and your tape still was presenting a pro social way of
- 1:39:50being a man. I know, pep are probably are just agreeing right now.
- 1:39:56I'm not saying it was exclusively or only pro social, but the very
- 1:40:00least you could argue that have helping women make money in a very sleazy occupation
- 1:40:08is not the absolute worst thing he could be doing. Yeah, okay,
- 1:40:14and I'm not saying he's a great guy, but it's not like he was
- 1:40:16killing hookers and burying the bodies in landfills. Okay, let's give them that.
- 1:40:23At least we don't know that yet. All right. So that was
- 1:40:28the last way being the playboy, being the pimp, you know where,
- 1:40:32having the diamond tipped cane and the and the exotically covered first. That was
- 1:40:38the last way that feminists gave men to be pro social in our society.
- 1:40:43Now that they have no way, none, none soever, And we have
- 1:40:47a choice now, okay, we can start telling the feminist to take a
- 1:40:53hike and start recognizing how men are pro social and start recognizing the pro social
- 1:41:00contributions to society and recognizing the unique pro social value that they give society.
- 1:41:06We could do that, or we can continue to treat them like the enemy
- 1:41:14until they finally realize they are the enemy. But that also means we are
- 1:41:19their enemy, and that oh yeah, once the yeah, Like I say,
- 1:41:26wake me up when there's the guy that figures out the military potential of
- 1:41:31that generations of men who have been deconnected, unconnected, disconnected from their society
- 1:41:39and treated like the enemy when they finally realize when that guy finally hits the
- 1:41:44button of making those guys realize, oh wait, you know I've been treated
- 1:41:47like the enemy my whole life. Maybe it's because they're the enemy. Wake
- 1:41:54me up when that happens. Now you won't need to wake me up because
- 1:41:56you'll be able to hear the screaming, all right, And that our choice.
- 1:42:00And honestly, I can't say that that's wrong because if you treat like,
- 1:42:05do enemy soldiers owe the civilian population of another country anything? I guess
- 1:42:14if they don't want to be considered war crimes, I mean, yeah,
- 1:42:17it's kind of happening in Europe. Now there are there are men who are
- 1:42:23not being shit on that are moving in and they're taking over. So yeah,
- 1:42:27well, I mean yes. So it's like, do men owe anything
- 1:42:31to a culture that treats them like the enemy. The answers no. Now
- 1:42:38there could also be just simply there may not even just be the military potential
- 1:42:43of that. There may just be the building something else that you're not part
- 1:42:47of the potential and letting this society, as reflected by do that with her
- 1:42:55weird colored hair, which what color is that trying to be? Anyway?
- 1:42:59Oh, it's blue, but I mean I I tinted the thing to protect
- 1:43:02us from copyright. It's blue. Is it like, is it like a
- 1:43:06good blue or is it just like one of those sort of No, it's
- 1:43:10it's a it's a lazy like it's like washing out. It's a lazy ah,
- 1:43:15but it's blue. It's a lazy ass to blue. Okay. So
- 1:43:20my overall point is they may know this individual may not be like, Okay,
- 1:43:25let's the military potential. Maybe it's just the build another society that you're
- 1:43:29going to be excluded from potential, you know, or or we could avoid
- 1:43:34all that completely and just recognize that men are pretty awesome. Yeah, well,
- 1:43:42this is like the this is the most difficult thing for people to hear.
- 1:43:45It's not weak men, my dudes, we men have are not weak.
- 1:43:51They're still shouldering society. It's the fact that we continue to insist on
- 1:43:57them doing so without any recognition of the positive they bring to the world,
- 1:44:02and then we gaslight them that the reason why they're doing it is because they
- 1:44:06want to impress women rather than they want a pro social identity as someone who
- 1:44:13contributes positively to society. But this is the thing, it's like this argument.
- 1:44:16I know, I'm going on and on. I had just had an
- 1:44:18argument on Twitter with this guy and I showed him this picture of these miners
- 1:44:25stuffed in a cage going down into the mind where many of them would die,
- 1:44:30either die in accidents or just die by the time they're fifty because their
- 1:44:34lungs are completely clogged with coal dust. And he was saying to me that,
- 1:44:44yeah, while those guys are complicit with the system that exploits them because
- 1:44:48they get to go home and and do what like lorded over their wives.
- 1:44:55Oh, I got to go down into the minds and work for sixteen hours.
- 1:45:00What were you doing? Like? What the fuck? That's in the
- 1:45:04reason why the men were doing it in the first places to feed and clothe
- 1:45:08their families. They weren't doing it to lord it over their families. They
- 1:45:12were doing it for their families. But that's the mentality. It's like,
- 1:45:15men are out there building and maintaining our society. Why are they doing it?
- 1:45:20Well, all they want to oppress woman, but I want to feel
- 1:45:24superior. Bullshit. They're doing it because they want to contribute in a pro
- 1:45:29social way, and you refuse to even acknowledge baseline that. Okay, I'm
- 1:45:33sorry, all right, Okay, So I got a couple of super chats.
- 1:45:38Albert Nata retro gets the Two Dogs Canadian and says, hey, Alison,
- 1:45:41did Riververse reps contact you? That will be what's your name? I
- 1:45:47really don't like I appreciate the effort you put in. I'm not really expecting
- 1:45:54anything like the Comic Verse people already did a promotion like five years ago,
- 1:46:00and I'm not Look, no, they haven't contacted me. I don't expect
- 1:46:06them to, all right, do not expect them to extend themselves to help
- 1:46:11I don't. And it's not because I think they're bad people. It's because
- 1:46:14I don't think it's something that I should expect. All Right, Okay,
- 1:46:20okay, this is I didn't want this to become yet another Oh asking for
- 1:46:27help from a new community. Sure anyway, but um okay, so no,
- 1:46:34all right, all right. So the other super chat is also Albert
- 1:46:38in retro for two dollars Canadian and he says, can we stop sucking up
- 1:46:41to the pimp? Now? Nobody's sucking up to Andrew Tate Albert, nobody
- 1:46:45up to nobody's doing that. But I do think that he should be treated
- 1:46:49fairly. And if you're still bringing up fucking video clips from a year ago,
- 1:46:55then you're you have no right to say anything about this. I watched
- 1:46:59two and half hours of him being interviewed by Tucker Carlson, and I haven't
- 1:47:02heard one thing that he said that I haven't said. So just bear this
- 1:47:09in mind. Okay, people change, It's possible. Maybe just be open
- 1:47:15to it. I'm not saying you have to love the man. I'm not
- 1:47:17telling you to do anything like that. But what you're doing right now is
- 1:47:21exactly the same as when Hollywood says, you know, stuff about Bill Cosby,
- 1:47:28stuff about Johnny Depp, stuff about what's his name, the guy whose
- 1:47:33ex girlfriend tried to throw him at whatever it is, it's the same thing.
- 1:47:39Okay. All people have arcs and they can change. So I'm not
- 1:47:45kissing up to the guy. I don't know him, but I'll tell you
- 1:47:48if you take the time to watch that stream, that more recent one after
- 1:47:54he's been in jail and he's thinking he's probably gonna get killed at some point,
- 1:48:00maybe it'll change your perspective a little bit and you're not still pulling out
- 1:48:02that fucking year old clip for a while back. And by the way,
- 1:48:06as far as like the men who may you know, may have been like
- 1:48:11paying into something, this happens. I'm only fans all the time when and
- 1:48:15when women are doing it, so it's not it's not like it's completely different
- 1:48:19anyway. Plus, as Paul Elam says, there are no such thing as
- 1:48:24victims, only volunteers. So you make a choice. Just don't choose to
- 1:48:30follow that shit. That's that's all I'm saying. Okay, let's stop it.
- 1:48:33Let's stop with the purity testing, let's stop with the hysterics. I
- 1:48:38see it with Pearl, I see it with Andrew. You know what,
- 1:48:41if we could be as big as that, all we have to do is
- 1:48:45not compromise anything and just say what we think that that's usually helpful. So
- 1:48:49I'm not I'm not angry, but I am getting exhausted by all of this.
- 1:48:57Um let's say I think it's unfocused rage in the wrong direction. Okay,
- 1:49:05Okay, this guy's not. I think it makes a really good point.
- 1:49:09And that's sort of what I'm getting at too. You're right, he's
- 1:49:13not dangerous, and he has the right to change. Guys, And and
- 1:49:18if we take him for what he's saying now, now that he's been humbled,
- 1:49:23like yeah, he's already, he's already, life is really beating the
- 1:49:26shit out of him already. Yeah, And this is what happens to a
- 1:49:30lot of guys. And a lot of guys don't start out perfect victims of
- 1:49:33shit. They start out arrogant. They start out thinking that they're above the
- 1:49:38law, that they're above other people. They have this God complex. Yeah,
- 1:49:43he had all of that, but it's possible that he has changed and
- 1:49:46that his message is of interest. Now, Okay, yeah, I agree
- 1:49:51with Brian in that, and I haven't personally watched them. The Yeah,
- 1:49:58I don't think we're sucking up to him. I'm not sucking up. I'm
- 1:50:00not. You know, you don't defending like acknowledging somebody's humanity and defending them
- 1:50:05on that premise alone is not sucking up to somebody. It's just common courtesy.
- 1:50:10I did it for Trump, I did it for Pearl. I did
- 1:50:13it for Harvey Weinstein. I did it for Bill Cosby, I did it
- 1:50:15from Michael Jackson. I feel like I'm constantly defending people that people don't want
- 1:50:19me to defend, and the only thing I'm doing is say, hey man,
- 1:50:23we don't know everything. Let's treat them like a human being. You
- 1:50:28would be surprised you saw. You remember how Johnny Depp was treated when the
- 1:50:31when the allegations first came out. We were probably the only people that were
- 1:50:34like, you know what, we don't know everything, so why why wouldn't
- 1:50:38that happen again? Like, I mean, Johnny Depp is a really easy
- 1:50:43example because he's obviously the victim. Yeah, but you know, like it
- 1:50:47does that's what you do. You just and the thing is that yes,
- 1:50:50Andrew takes said stupid things stupid, braggadicio things, things that made him sound
- 1:50:57like a complete goddamn morol. I will fully agree and he and honestly,
- 1:51:02it sounded to me the things that he says sounds to me sounds like bragging,
- 1:51:06and it sounds like trying to maintain a particular view of himself for others.
- 1:51:13Yeah, sort of a little like what I mean, her Ernest Hemingway
- 1:51:17did, constructing this kind of macho concept of himself. And I'm like,
- 1:51:24yeah, that's really fucking obnoxious. Okay, like Andrew tay I he is.
- 1:51:30To me, he's obnoxious, But that doesn't mean I guess I'm still
- 1:51:33sucking up to him. That doesn't mean he can't change, or that doesn't
- 1:51:36mean he can't say things that makes sense. Yeah right, Yes, he's
- 1:51:41fucking obnoxious, or at least he was. Yes, he really poked the
- 1:51:45tiger when it came to the Romanian mob. I don't know why the fuck
- 1:51:48he thought he was going to get away with that, but he hasn't.
- 1:51:53He could be facing death, he's definitely facing jail time. Allow him the
- 1:51:58possibility of evolve as a person. M Okay, all right, anyway,
- 1:52:02all that, thank you for the super chats. I appreciate it, Albert.
- 1:52:05I know we're thank you. I know we're not going to agree on
- 1:52:09any of this ship, but I just want to let you know that's where
- 1:52:11I stand. If you want to debate me on it, you can call
- 1:52:15in. We'll do a call in show next week or something, so you
- 1:52:16can tell me your whole spiel or whoever. But that's where I stand on
- 1:52:23it. The guy is a human being. Human beings are not perfect.
- 1:52:26Yes, he brags, so fucking what a lot of people do. So
- 1:52:29anyway, what do the thank you said you want to give Alison? All
- 1:52:33right, so I want to thank Turin for giving one hundred dollars to the
- 1:52:39captive. I oh, thank you for that. Good news everyone, And
- 1:52:45I want to thank hyper Chicken for fifty dollars. Thank you, hyper Chicken.
- 1:52:48Oh, just so you guys go ahead, Just so you guys know,
- 1:52:54we are about two thousand, two hundred and forty from the goal.
- 1:53:00I'll probably i'll see if Brian is up for doing something on Sunday, or
- 1:53:03I'll put out of it this coming Sunday. Yeah, um maybe, yeah,
- 1:53:10I mean yeah, you don't have to answer now, okay, alright,
- 1:53:14alright, sorry, No, it's okay, Okay, that's fine.
- 1:53:16Um. But yeah, so that's that's my final world word on Andrew take.
- 1:53:20I don't like I find him. I don't know why people think I'm
- 1:53:24sucking up to him because I find him utterly obnoxious. I think you have
- 1:53:27to wish I think you have to wish death upon him, basically, like
- 1:53:30that's that's kind of worth. There's a part of me that's sort of like,
- 1:53:32you poke the Romanian mob and what the fuck did you think was going
- 1:53:35to happen? Sort of like there's there's a little touch of glee or schodenfreude
- 1:53:42there. Um. But I allow that he can change and he can evolve,
- 1:53:46and he can say something that's worth listening to, and that's what I
- 1:53:49choose to focus on. Yeah, all right, So thank you for the
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