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Treat The Elderly With the Dignity Of Care · Talk to Prince Show - Solving World's Problems

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  Yeah, you know, sometimes I always feel for the old, the elderly
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  mhm, and the age, the grandpa and the grandma. I always think
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  about these great people, this great mind, a great intellect, and how
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  they get hold and how they're taken care of. Now sometimes they've been neglected,
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  forgotten, you know, disadvantage, I just ignored or disrespected. And
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  I get to imagine that people age I didn't sometimes that left with around kids
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  or care takers, who caregivers who disregard their importance, the time, the
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  error, their contribution, and I've just been forgotten and their voice doesn't matter
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  anymore, and they're just being this discarded right, and and some just feel
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  that they don't they lasted, they don't have it, they don't know what
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  they're talking about, and their time has passed. It's always run unfortunately that
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  those very people muh who are disrespecting this great human being, another intelligent another
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  first, and neither the technocreds or the leaders, or the engineers or scientists,
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  doctors or great teachers, philosophers, our students that they once were.
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  And it's always good to remember that age shouldn't be played mhm. Their contribution
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  and the worth hm hm of somebody. Right, they shouldn't they shouldn't minimize.
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  They are positive contribution because these people were once the leaders of the world
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  that we all celebrate today. They were once the champions and the kingmakers.
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  They designed us, the rulers and leaders. And there are doors who a
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  bound the streets. You know about the hospitals, there still lights. I
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  know, our water system, our energy system. You know. There were
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  those or those who protected our democracy. And there were those who sacrificed their
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  lives in US military officer and infantry house, a police officer or a firefighter,
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  a nurse, a doctor. There were those who nurtured and educated the
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  young. There were those who created the systems that we now enjoy. We
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  always give them credit, and when they do age, we shouldn't forget that
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  they still matter, that their contributions are indelible, and that they should be
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  treated with dignity, expect honor, integrity, and thankfulness. How we should
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  learn to listen to them, Listen to their stories, no matter how boring
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  it is. They speak with a voice of wisdom. Right, they got
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  something to teach us, something for us to remember, and something to help
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  us, something to make us avoid the mistake of the past in order to
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  farge a better future. Even if they were hateful or better in their lives,
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  or there were criminals or wrong doers in their lives, you can still
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  listen to their experience and learn from the example to be something better. It's
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  for you to choose to take a leave what desaid, and he must remember
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  to give them dignity. They came to the world, and they sacrificed their
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  lives and limbs and time and energy to build the systems that we have to
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  die good or bad. It's for us to make better. But it's upon
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  us. It's upon you to make their last days on this planet happier,
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  healthier, friendlier, and with some fulfillment and the sense of purpose and meaning.
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  For while they were here, you too shall be all wonder and you
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  would like to be treated better. And don't false on the old what they
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  may not like, do not want them to be what you want. And
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  do not blame them for all your problems and the mistakes they did. They
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  won't help them because they are towards their aim Kah. Make their end to
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  be a time of forgiveness and repentance, redemption and restoration of that which is
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  lost, and give them the opportunities to see their grand kids if they have
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  one or some, and let them have a good time if it cannot,
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  listen to them that they have on their grand kids and the muticium where you
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  all like. But those kids who only have minds of their arms but don't
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  give any skills, not to do. Not not take care of the elderly.
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  It doesn't matter if you have veterans or leaders, but they're all all
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  and we have their obligation, the commitment, the responsibility, and expectations,
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  our investment to take care of them. It's a beautiful thing for your last
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  days to be happier and frelier and kinder, to be surrounded with family and
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  friends, and to reconcile your past and keep your meaning and go to that
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  which be wait. Let's say that I came, I saw, and I
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  made it better. And if you do care for the old or the elder,
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  please treat them with tender care and the gentle, are nice and treat
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  them like your parents or ask you would like your parents to be treated.
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  And if they are your parents, please do not treat them their objects,
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  just wishing for them to die for you to take over their estate, or
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  their name, or their companies. H Yeah, those companies and all those
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  things will be there for you. Just give them the beau of life,
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  the satisfaction of life, and the happiness of life. It's good to be
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  loving and care if that is a better world to those who cannot help themselves.
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  When our parents get all, they depend on us, the one they
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  take care of them at once, great person becomes a child again that cannot
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  make decisions for themselves, and that decisions we depend on you. And when
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  you do make that decisions for them, don't do it for self interest.
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  Don't be necessistic to us there. Don't be apathetic and the psychopathic. Have
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  some tender care, some pity, some compassion, some sympathy and the dignity
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  of respect. Shame on you if you like the elderly suffering. It's a
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  disservice to the country, unpatriotic, an American and civilized, true, unusual
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  and barbaric or service to treat their own or the elderly with indignity. You
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  shall want to get hold and remember these beautiful streets you see and the beautiful
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  lives relive, the plane you fly, the car you drive, everything in
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  nature that was done, made by you, was made by an elderly person
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  that might be somewhere sitting in the home and the dark, in isolation,
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  h or somewhere and nursing home, somewhere in the street, somewhere in the
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  hospital, somewhere in the park, somewhere needing care, needing help, needing
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  some body to talk to, dying in loneliness, dying as if they don't
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  matter. That is not nice, that is not fair. Ageism, it's
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  not a good thing. And with each the young to be discussed, to
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  be disgusted with the all. It's not a good thing, and we'll make
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  gets it all as if it's a crime or something wrong, or something ugly,
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  or something to be shameful of or with it's not a good thing.
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  The number of ages given by humans, it's artificial. People age in their
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  wisdom, the age and their experience or life experiences, the age and the
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  contribution they've made, and they should matter even more, even more, even
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  more. Just remember it's a theory. It's an obligation, it's an expectation,
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  it's a comet man an investment to take care of the elderly. Shouldn't
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  matter the rights or the gender or the nationality, or the religion or the
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  six orientation, other wealth or status or power. We are civilized human It's
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  our obligation to take care of those who have come before us, to thank
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  them or what they have bailed and pass on to us, and to promise
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  them I wish her make things better for everyone else. And if they do
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  work for so long their whole lives, to pass on a company, an
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  inheritance, on an estate, or a name to ye, it's upon you
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  not to let them down, not in pains a dying person than to see
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  their life history or what they have barled. Their whole life been reduced into
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  robbers Oh, into oblivion, to be a stravagant without wish you didn't create,
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  whether wish you didn't mate. Don't misuse the earnings or the struggles and
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  sacrifices investment of the old. Do not force them and the nursing home or
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  rush them to the grave because you want what they have. It shall be
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  yours anyway, and believe it's not yours extinitude to them with dignitary place.
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  Let people die with dignity if they have been here for that long, I
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  make them suffer, die, find somewhere in your heart of hearts, and
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  your conscience of right, and your fairness of the soul, and the dignity
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  of a person, and from the grace of me, to take care of
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  the all, even if they have nothing to offer to you. Do good
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  for goodness sake. Do good for the sake of that which is good,
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  and nature shall pay you in return. Spend time with them, Spend them
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  with the whole. You can't talk to them on the phone or zoom or
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  just go talk to them if you have the means opportunities all the time,
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  greet some time with them. The best respect you can give to the all.
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  Just listen to their stories. It is wisdom in it. It's not
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  boring. Sometimes that which is boring might be you. It takes you a
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  boring person to say something is boring. How can something be boring? So
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  with something to learn from something. When somebody is speaking, especially an older
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  person, make them feel happy. Do the things they like. Remind them
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  about themselves, how great they were. Remind them about the good they did,
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  the contributions they did. Remind them about the happy places, those happy
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  places you guys went together. Let them know that you're forgotten the past,
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  and you're forgetting it. And no matter the treatment of you or whatever happened,
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  now, you are finding great in your soul to let it go.
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  You believe in what that is good that they want to start. You be
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  an example of a good in there. Tell them stories, Let the grand
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  kids make jokes with them, play with them. That warmth of family.
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  The warmth of family is the last thing. It's a take with them.
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  Be there for them, not for plartitude, not for kumbaya, not for
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  pretense or fakery. Just be genuine with them. All people are quick to
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  see you when people are taking them. It's their soul. When you're lying
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  to them, when you're pretending that you care when you don't, when they
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  are mistreeted of male handled or abuse, don't be that. Be the good
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  Angel, be the good Samaritan, be the good American, Be the good
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  servant, Be the good help or call taker or cap giver. Be a
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  good cook, the cook for them, or the person that cleaned their rooms
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  or make their bands. I will take care of them when they can't take
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  care of themselves, to the toilet or to feed them. That's a beautiful
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  thing. It's a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful thing to care for them,
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  care for them, care for them, care for them,