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Season 2 - Episode 28 - Getting past disappointment · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Welcome to the good morning from the chicken coop, podcast with
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  Kim Johnson, your creative strategist and master mindset.
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  Coach filled with inspiration, distinctions, perspectives and
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  possibilities. We help you to cultivate a
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  mindset that leads you to create the best version of yourself.
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  You could ever imagine join Kim every morning from one of her.
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  Favorite happy places her chicken coop, along with all her
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  chickens. Hey everybody.
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  Good morning from the Can coop where I have a group of very
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  excited girls that they are having pasta with shredded
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  zucchini and hot peppers in it because they love those.
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  Anyway. This morning we are talking
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  about getting past disappointment when you're faced
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  with it because every day I don't care who you are.
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  Myself included. There are things that disappoint
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  you and these disappointments often can be huge.
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  They can be little but they are. Detrimental, if you keep focused
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  on them. And one of the really did most
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  difficult things for a human to do is to let go of
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  disappointment and say. Okay listen, this happened.
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  And now, what am I going to do? What's the next step?
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  What do I want to do? Now, do I want to dwell on this?
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  Do I need to dwell on this is their benefit and dwelling on
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  this or do I need to just move myself forward and you know this
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  is a funny thing because the watch my chickens all the time
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  As you know, and one of the things that's really funny is
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  that when they catch something, if they find a creature that
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  they want to eat and they discover it, they get super
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  excited and they run and they take, they grab this little
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  creature, whatever it might be. And they start running, but
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  they're not in silence, they scream and of course all the
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  other chickens here and so they start running after them.
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  It's quite comedy show, it's quite a comedy show when you see
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  it happening. But what happens when this
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  ensues Often is that one of the girls that's dominant in the
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  flock will run up front and grab it and take it away and you see
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  the shock of the one that lost it and then it's gone.
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  It's like okay I'm moving on and I love the fact that they can
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  move on so quickly. Like they just don't care, they
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  will attempt to do things. Fearlessly often, people think
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  the chickens are like, you know, stupid and that they just don't
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  have a thought process. So not true.
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  Is a hierarchy in the flock always and there's a seating
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  assignment apparently they have their own seating assignments.
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  So inside when they go to roost, they will pick spots and those
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  are for the front rows or for the dominant hens and then the
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  others are open to going wherever they want.
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  But you'll see every day, the hens that are less dominant will
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  try that front row and they will see if they get kicked out.
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  Now, will the dominant hens? Leave them there.
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  Sometimes they do sometimes they're like, okay with it.
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  They're like all right fine you've moved up here.
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  You've tried it enough and it's just another example of how you
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  deal with disappointment. It's like they let it go and
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  they go right back to focusing on what they want, the front
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  row, the treat whatever, or they even if the treats taken away
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  and there's no chance of getting the treat.
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  They just keep going. They don't care.
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  They shake it off. They brush themselves on.
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  They guts, right saline. You tell them.
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  They brush it off, and they get right back to it, because
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  there's no point in dwelling, It's already gone that moment
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  that incident, it's already gone.
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  So when you allow things to faster when you allow things to
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  hang on and they follow you, they don't just affect you, they
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  affect the other people around you.
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  So let's say someone in your life, you, let's say you hurt
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  someone's feelings and that person you've apologized.
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  You've done everything the right way, but that person still won't
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  let go of it. What do you do?
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  You have to let Go of it. And you have to say, this is
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  their Journey, this is their choice.
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  You let go, you move on because if you've done the right things,
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  as long as your heart tells you, you've done the right things,
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  you move on. If you have a disappointment
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  from something that took place, where you were working really
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  hard, and let's say, you were trying to test for something,
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  you were trying to test for something and you kept failing
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  the test over and over and over again.
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  And all of a sudden another opportunity is presented to you,
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  but you're still focused on the failed test, you're never going
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  to be able to move. Move forward with whatever that
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  other opportunity is and maybe that's what's supposed to happen
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  to. See the beautiful thing about
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  being human is we don't know everything that we're we don't
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  know. We just know what we know and I
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  will often use the example that we are like iPhones.
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  You open the package and it says, welcome and that's it.
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  And it's and then it goes through its little process and
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  it sets up the iPhone, but guess what?
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  We don't have an instruction book.
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  We don't know. All the things that does, he'll
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  half the time my daughter has to take the Phone away from me and
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  show me. She's like, Mom gives it this
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  way, Bubba, Bubba, and I'm like, oh, I didn't even know it could
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  do that. I took, I actually took a class
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  from this amazing girl, Kelly Buckner, you know, anybody who
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  wants to learn how to do social media photography, really great
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  iPhone photography, Kelly Buckner.com.
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  I'm telling you, this girl is awesome.
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  She does it on Zoom. Well worth every dollar you
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  spend with her and this, this two hour session I had with her,
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  I take pictures constantly, anyone who knows?
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  Me knows, I use my phone camera all the time.
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  Well, guess what? Kelly taught me a whole boatload
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  about taking pictures with my camera.
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  That I had no clue at even did. And again, this is because we
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  don't know what we don't know. So this is the part of being
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  able to let go of the disappointment, if you remember,
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  I don't know what. I don't know.
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  It's easier to let go of the disappointment.
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  It's easier to move forward. It's easier to do the thing that
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  you you need to do. In order to get to where you
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  want to go. So today, I'm going to tell you,
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  even if the other people in your life, don't let go.
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  Even if you still are faced with the same problem.
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  Let go of the disappointment focus on where you want to be.
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  Go in that direction. Move with that purpose in mind,
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  I promise you, you will start to see differences but you're the
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  only one that can hold the line, you have to hold it in your
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  head. So I hope you guys have a very
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  blessed day. I know I'm going to because I'm
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  going to get to hang out with my chickens, a lot today and redo
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  some of the stuff in their Coop and I hope you guys find your
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  happy place and I will talk to you tomorrow.
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  Bye. I know I'm going to because I'm
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  going to get to hang out with my chickens, a lot today and redo
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  some of the stuff in their Coop and I hope you guys find your
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  happy place and I will talk to you tomorrow.
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  Bye.