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Dirty Little Secret:The Birthday Lie That’s Gone Too Far · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Any little secrets mixed one or two point nine. If
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  Speaker 1: you've got a secret, confess anytime you want. It's Bailey
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  Speaker 1: the kid Candy slow pass. I almost said professor Pooh.
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  Speaker 1: Some people do call him professor. Some people do call
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  Speaker 1: him professor Pooh. Obviously we know why because yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: I'm smart, yeah, intelligent, very intelligent Pooh is. Yeah, ye
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  Speaker 1: know he is, he really is. But I don't know why.
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  Speaker 1: Some people call you professor, but it's got me calling
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  Speaker 1: you professor Pooh. I think you're more of a professor
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  Speaker 1: than a producer. Okay, all right, if you have a
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  Speaker 1: secret eight three three seven eight seven one two nine
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  Speaker 1: shot at this Disney World trip coming up next to
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  Speaker 1: But it's time to confess. Go ahead, what's up?
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  Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, I know it sounds ridiculous, but I swear
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  Speaker 2: it's real. Bo So, my daughter thinks she was born
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  Speaker 2: on the thirtieth of October, but she was actually born
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  Speaker 2: on the thirty first.
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  Speaker 1: What she was born on Halloween? Yeah? Why does she
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  Speaker 1: think she was born on the thirtieth?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so I want to emphasize that it's this is
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  Speaker 2: my ex husband because true that guy. Okay, Okay, here
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  Speaker 2: here was. I guess it is. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 2: turned out to talk to him like super religious, like
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  Speaker 2: like scary religious, you know what I mean, like like
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  Speaker 2: conspiracy kind of religious. All right, And he was totally
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  Speaker 2: throughout the pregnancy. You know, we knew that she'd be
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  Speaker 2: due like in the fall. But then when I went
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  Speaker 2: into labor on the thirtieth into the thirty first, he
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  Speaker 2: like freaked.
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  Speaker 1: Out because why freaked out? He didn't want to.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, exactly. So he was saying that, like Halloween is
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  Speaker 2: satanic and evil, and there was and this is a
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  Speaker 2: real quote no way his daughter would celebrate a devil's holiday.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, So you okay, let me get this right.
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  Speaker 1: So you have how old is your daughter?
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  Speaker 2: By the way, So now like this year, she's ten,
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  Speaker 2: she'll be eleven October.
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  Speaker 1: So wow, okay, so she's ten years old and she
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  Speaker 1: thinks her birthday is the thirtieth, although it's on Halloween.
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  Speaker 1: But you're lying to everyone about her birthday and her
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  Speaker 1: because it was on the quote unquote devil's holiday.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah wow, Oh I know.
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  Speaker 1: Was he that he was that intense? Yes?
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  Speaker 2: I mean there's literally a reason we're divorced now. And
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  Speaker 2: I turn out to talk to him.
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  Speaker 1: That is crazy. So, I mean, I know some people
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  Speaker 1: feel this way at some point that you're like, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: so you just kind of went along with this because
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  Speaker 1: it was like, I guess what else am I going
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  Speaker 1: to do? I feel like he probably did other weird things.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure he didn't like Halloween.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And I mean, like it never really like came
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  Speaker 2: up and like I had literally just given birth, you
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like I had an epidural, like
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  Speaker 2: there's no way I'm in it for this conversation. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: So I definitely just kind of like went along with it,
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  Speaker 2: and I didn't think too much of it at that time.
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  Speaker 2: And then you know, her first birthday came around and
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  Speaker 2: he was like, all right, we're celebrating on the thirtieth.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I told people. And I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: so you like told people that it was that she
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  Speaker 2: was born on the thirtieth, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: So I like felt really pushed into it. And now
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  Speaker 2: she's you know, she's ten, and she really believes that
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  Speaker 2: she'll tell people that, you know, my birthdays on you know,
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  Speaker 2: on whatever, the thirtieth. She doesn't know, like she doesn't
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  Speaker 2: think of days you know what I mean, But she'll
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  Speaker 2: think internal unless.
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  Speaker 1: She sees her birthday, like I wouldn't know somebody whatever
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  Speaker 1: my birthdays. You told me I was a kid. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's my.
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  Speaker 2: Birthday question that eventually I'm going to have to tell her,
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  Speaker 2: you know, if she decided to like get a job
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  Speaker 2: in high school or like goes to college.
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  Speaker 1: Was he was he weird? I know when people I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to call it weird because I respect people's
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  Speaker 1: religious beliefs. Yeah, but at the same time, this might
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  Speaker 1: be a little extreme to some. Did he do other
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  Speaker 1: things that were outlandish? Because this, to me is a
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  Speaker 1: lot changing a whole day of birth because you could
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  Speaker 1: believe that the holiday might be not the best holiday,
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  Speaker 1: but you don't have to celebrate it, right, so no
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  Speaker 1: one's forcing you to celebrate. No one forcing is celebrated.
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  Speaker 1: So it's a beautiful day. If your daughter was born
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  Speaker 1: on it, it's a beautiful day no matter what. It's
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  Speaker 1: not the Devil's holiday. But did he do other things
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  Speaker 1: that were like this, like this extreme?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I wasn't allowed to like wear a bikini
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  Speaker 2: when we were dating and when I got married or
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  Speaker 2: other stuff like he didn't he felt like women wearing
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  Speaker 2: a lot of makeup was like a form of lying
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  Speaker 2: and being like dishonest with God and stuff. So I
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  Speaker 2: didn't wear a lot of makeup either when I was
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  Speaker 2: with him.
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  Speaker 1: You know, stuff like that, right, I mean, so pretty
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  Speaker 1: controlling obviously and not something you believe in. So you two,
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  Speaker 1: you're not together, obviously. Does she see her? Does she
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  Speaker 1: see him?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very rare that she sees him. That's mostly
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  Speaker 2: because he moved out of state for for work, which
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  Speaker 2: is honestly better for everybody involved. Because he was he
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  Speaker 2: was still controlling as much as he could be, even
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  Speaker 2: even when you're divorced.
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  Speaker 1: Right, when do you break this news down and tell her?
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  Speaker 1: When she's sixteen? When she asked when she finds out,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know the right answer. I'd be happy about it.
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  Speaker 2: I know a lot of people who would love their
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  Speaker 2: birthday to be on Halloween.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she's missing out on all that candy. But
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  Speaker 1: you know, I mean you party on your birthday every year. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter when your birthday is. Really it's one day.
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  Speaker 1: Is that big of a difference. She has to be
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  Speaker 1: old enough for the reason behind it, to understand the
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  Speaker 1: reason behind it. Yeah, And that's that's why I would wait.
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  Speaker 1: Is I want her to be old enough to understand
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  Speaker 1: that her dad might have had religious beliefs that you know,
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  Speaker 1: were not you, weren't aligned with you. So to tell
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  Speaker 1: her all that stuff at ten, I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: she'll really get it.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta tell her before her like sixteenth.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, but I don't think it's going to be.
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  Speaker 1: Kids are so resilient. Yeah, they're like, oh, okay, cool, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: you'll you'll have to let us know, you'll have to
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  Speaker 1: let us know what you do. And yeah, you're right,
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  Speaker 1: we've never had a secret like this is a totally
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  Speaker 1: different secret than we've ever had. But thank you so much,
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  Speaker 1: and I appreciate you telling us.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think letting me have a place to share
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  Speaker 2: it absolutely