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If Somebody Unfollows You On Social Media, Will Your Real Life Relationship Be In Question? · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: It's topic top.
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  Speaker 2: Please call eight hundred five five one five one to
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  Speaker 2: join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: Morning.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody is tj n V cholaminea God. We are the
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  Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. We got our guest co host. Don't call
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  Speaker 2: me white girl. Here, Hello people, and we're asking some questions.
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  Speaker 2: Eight hundred and five five one oh five one. It's
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  Speaker 2: coming from Bobby Lights. Now, Bobby Lights is calling out
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  Speaker 2: his soul called friends.
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  Speaker 4: List listen, attention. Let me tell y'all just something. If
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  Speaker 4: you ever want to unfollow me and I'm following you,
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  Speaker 4: please tell me you're following me so that I know
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  Speaker 4: so that I can on follow you back. It's no pressure,
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  Speaker 4: but I'm not going to be sitting around following somebody
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  Speaker 4: or don't follow me back then when it's like we're
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  Speaker 4: supposed to be cool, is what I'm saying. So that's
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  Speaker 4: just the heads people are y'all. People are weirds. Please
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  Speaker 4: give me your heads up, please, because I have no
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  Speaker 4: problem I'm following you. Mother is back. I follow too
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  Speaker 4: many people anyway.
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  Speaker 2: All right, So the question is eight hundred five eighty
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  Speaker 2: five one oh five one. If somebody unfollows you on
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  Speaker 2: social media, does that put your real life friendship in question?
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  Speaker 5: That is the question. Let's start with you on sanity.
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  Speaker 1: That is crazy.
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  Speaker 6: I hate that we're in those days and times you
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  Speaker 6: want to follow somebody and you can't get no gravy
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  Speaker 6: at things giving everybody acting all funny. It's ridiculous. I
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  Speaker 6: told my own story. I wanted to focus a little
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  Speaker 6: more on social media. I tried to unflower everybody. I
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  Speaker 6: made it halfway through and I was getting facetimes three
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  Speaker 6: am or I didn't know.
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  Speaker 1: We had beef.
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  Speaker 5: Just because you're gonna follow somebody, just people take.
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  Speaker 1: That as a sign of like the relationship.
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  Speaker 6: People take that as a way to figure out how
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  Speaker 6: do you feel about a person, instead of just texting
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  Speaker 6: saying yo, are you good?
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  Speaker 1: Is everything? Okay?
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  Speaker 6: It's the strangest thing in the world, But that's the
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  Speaker 6: world we live in nowadays.
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  Speaker 7: Charla Mine, I could care less if you unfollowed me
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  Speaker 7: right now, I wouldn't even notice, you know.
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  Speaker 4: What I mean.
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  Speaker 7: And the reality is there's a lot of people we
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  Speaker 7: follow and they not even our friends, you know what
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  Speaker 7: I mean. So it don't matter to me either way.
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  Speaker 7: It's just social media. At the end of the day,
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  Speaker 7: we don't care.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm with you. I don't care.
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  Speaker 2: Like Charlam they said, there's people that I follow that
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  Speaker 2: it's not my friends. I just find things interesting, Like
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  Speaker 2: I like cars, so I meant I follow people that
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  Speaker 2: own cars or talk about cars. That's things that I'm
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  Speaker 2: meant to, you know. So I really don't care if
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  Speaker 2: you have to unfollow me. I'm not following you because
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  Speaker 2: you follow me. I'm following you because you know something
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  Speaker 2: that you put up is of some kind of interest
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  Speaker 2: to me.
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  Speaker 6: Yo, you know what just occurred to me. The people
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  Speaker 6: that know when you followed them right away, it's because
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  Speaker 6: they have the app that watches that.
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  Speaker 1: So they're freaks already.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, there is.
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  Speaker 6: A why would you know? How would you know that
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  Speaker 6: somebody checking? I don't have no clue.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly.
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  Speaker 6: If I'm telling you why I followed people in about
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  Speaker 6: three am, I'm not joking about that. They were calling me.
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  Speaker 6: It's because they have that app. So the fact that
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  Speaker 6: you even downloaded it shows that you're a freak.
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  Speaker 7: I haven't even I don't know if I've ever unfollowed
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  Speaker 7: a person, because there're people that I don't even deal
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  Speaker 7: with anymore that I still follow.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe you know what. That's a good question.
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  Speaker 5: I deal with you.
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  Speaker 3: I never thought about that.
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  Speaker 4: I think.
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  Speaker 1: Have you on the mute button? Do y'all use the mute?
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  Speaker 5: I use block, I use block on the block, I
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  Speaker 5: do block.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm more of a muter.
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  Speaker 6: If you're constant selfies as she faced too many memes,
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  Speaker 6: I'll mute you, right, But I cannot stand the like
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  Speaker 6: over sexual post like you know, those guys are just Every.
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  Speaker 1: Meme is just and it's nine am you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean? Or the cartoon kinky stuff. I mute those
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  Speaker 1: kind of people.
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  Speaker 7: I don't if you know what, I'm not that kind
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  Speaker 7: of person. Like if I don't rock with you know what,
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  Speaker 7: that's not the first thing I think of.
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  Speaker 5: I gotta go and find. I don't think. But if
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  Speaker 5: you if you.
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  Speaker 1: Pop up on my I don't want to see.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want to.
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  Speaker 1: I'm with that.
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  Speaker 3: Especially when you acidentally go in somebody's story. You don't
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  Speaker 3: rock with no more.
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  Speaker 5: You look at it, you like I made a mistake again.
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  Speaker 6: If you check your story views, I think you're a freak.
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  Speaker 6: I think that's strange to me. What are you looking for?
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  Speaker 3: If you check your story.
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  Speaker 1: If you check your watch your story, especially us.
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  Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 6: Story views we get you know how hardest to find
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  Speaker 6: out who's to that's kinky. You ever watch my story
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  Speaker 6: and they call you, it's because you're watching Veronica.
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  Speaker 5: Hey, good morning mama, Good morning morning.
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  Speaker 2: Now, if somebody unfollows you on social media, does that
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  Speaker 2: mean that they're not your friends in real life?
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  Speaker 8: Of course? Of course. Social media is how we connect
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  Speaker 8: and like support each other these days, like you want
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  Speaker 8: to accept it or not. It's like a main point
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  Speaker 8: of communication. If you don't want to follow me or
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  Speaker 8: support me or like what I have going on, there's
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  Speaker 8: no way you mess with me in real life.
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  Speaker 3: Well what did this person support you in real life?
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  Speaker 4: Like?
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  Speaker 7: What if this person comes to your birthday parties and
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  Speaker 7: they text you and they call you just because they
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  Speaker 7: don't follow you on social media? You going dead in
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  Speaker 7: the real life situation.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, they like you, but maybe that they don't want
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  Speaker 5: see you in your kids.
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  Speaker 9: If somebody followed, if I don't follow the audience because
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  Speaker 9: I don't support what they got going, I don't like
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  Speaker 9: what they post, see you on my timeline, So we
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  Speaker 9: gotta we gotta trap that first like, why am I
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  Speaker 9: solf irritating to you? Where you got to follow me?
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  Speaker 3: Whatever? The thing too?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 7: If I'm somebody friend in real life and I see
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  Speaker 7: you on social media and I know that's not you,
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  Speaker 7: I'm gonna unfollow you. I al gonna say something to you,
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  Speaker 7: like why are you acting like that on social media?
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  Speaker 7: That meant even how you act in real life?
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  Speaker 3: You know what I mean. I may not like you
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  Speaker 3: on social media but might like you in real life.
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  Speaker 2: But I will say this, Like I said when we
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  Speaker 2: first started the Breakfast Club, I used to DJ probably
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  Speaker 2: six nights a week, right, So every night I'm posting
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  Speaker 2: a party fly and people be like, look, no disrespect MV.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to see them flies. Especially I used
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  Speaker 2: to do the stript clubs all the time. I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to see all the strict club I get it.
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  Speaker 2: I understand. I never took things personal.
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  Speaker 3: Is it better?
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  Speaker 1: Hey?
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  Speaker 10: All right, guys, good morning everyone morning.
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  Speaker 2: So somebody unfollows you on social media? Does that means
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  Speaker 2: you're not friends in real life?
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  Speaker 9: I'm a little bit because social media's has something to
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  Speaker 9: be taken seriously. But if we are.
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  Speaker 8: Friends on social media and then you unfollow me.
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  Speaker 9: It's obviously for a reason. And if you don't have,
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  Speaker 9: if you're able to tell me that reason in person,
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  Speaker 9: then obviously we're not fined.
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  Speaker 5: Now, Isabelle, Maybe I disagree.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe you got maybe posting pictures with your man and
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  Speaker 2: your friend just lost to man. She ain't got no man.
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  Speaker 2: She singles lonely and every time she sees you.
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  Speaker 4: Her problem.
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  Speaker 8: But that's her problem.
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  Speaker 9: She should be happy for me, you know, I think
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  Speaker 9: I never did with friends, So you should be like clopping.
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  Speaker 8: For me and happy for me that I'm doing good
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  Speaker 8: in life.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all take social media way too serious. Man.
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  Speaker 7: If you my peoples in real life, I don't care
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  Speaker 7: how we get down on social media. There are people
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  Speaker 7: that I love, genuinely consider family, and they do what
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  Speaker 7: Mona was trying to do. Don't follow nobody. I don't
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  Speaker 7: take that personal. Why they might follow two or three people,
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  Speaker 7: I don't take it personal.
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  Speaker 5: I don't either. Eight hundred five eight five.
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  Speaker 7: One of them talking about just hllarrus too. By the way,
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  Speaker 7: that out just follows five people.
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  Speaker 6: I've been I've been up followed just for that.
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  Speaker 3: Why did you? Why do y'all do that? I meant
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  Speaker 3: to ask just why she do that?
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  Speaker 6: For just Jesse, if I'm not mistaken, just follows her businesses.
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  Speaker 6: So in that way is a way to promote, because
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  Speaker 6: people want to know who you're following. So when you
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  Speaker 6: press that following for Jess, you get to see everything
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  Speaker 6: she has glasses to yours, you know, a podcast, whatever.
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  Speaker 5: Right now, you're just why you don't follow me? You Jess,
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  Speaker 5: why you don't follow me?
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  Speaker 7: She followed eight people, but she's been like that for years.
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  Speaker 7: My point is that's on following you now, Jess. That
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  Speaker 7: don't bother me, is what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: All Right, eight hundred and five eight five, one oh
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  Speaker 2: five one will take your cause.
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  Speaker 5: Let's discuss. This's the breakfast Clug of morning.
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  Speaker 3: It's topic time.
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  Speaker 2: Called eight hundred and five eight five one five one
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  Speaker 2: to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 3: Talk about it morning.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody is dj n V, charlamagnea God. We are the
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  Speaker 2: Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us, we're talking
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  Speaker 2: about Bobby Lights and we got our guest co host,
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  Speaker 2: don't call.
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  Speaker 5: Me white girl now.
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  Speaker 2: Mobby Lights said this on social media yesterday.
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  Speaker 4: Attention. Let me tell y'all just something. If you ever
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  Speaker 4: want to unfollow me and I'm following you, please tell
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  Speaker 4: me you're following me so that I know so that
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  Speaker 4: I cann't follow you back. It's no pressure, but I'm
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  Speaker 4: not going to be sitting around following somebody that don't
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  Speaker 4: follow me back then when it's like we're supposed to
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  Speaker 4: be cool, is what I'm saying. So that's just the
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  Speaker 4: heads up. People are y'all, people are weirds. Please give
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  Speaker 4: me your heads up, please, because I have no problem.
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  Speaker 4: I'm following your mother back. I followed too many people anyways.
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  Speaker 2: We're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh five one.
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  Speaker 2: If somebody unfollows you on social media, does that put
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  Speaker 2: your real life friendship in question?
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  Speaker 3: I don't care.
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  Speaker 6: You have right now there you have. I think it's
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  Speaker 6: an age thing. I think for the young people they
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  Speaker 6: grew up on social media. A lot of us are
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  Speaker 6: introduced to social media in our twenties, so it's like
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  Speaker 6: with them, it's a different kind of pressure for them.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, for the love of God.
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  Speaker 6: All the young criminals, their crime doesn't even count unless
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  Speaker 6: they post it.
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  Speaker 5: So that's right, that's the fact, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: So they think differently, So maybe that is the reason.
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  Speaker 6: But it was grown people calling me about I'm following
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  Speaker 6: them and I'm not going to say any names, Jason,
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  Speaker 6: but people call me at three in the morning.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't know we had b Do you got BP? Jason?
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  Speaker 6: No?
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  Speaker 1: I love Jason, and I don't followed them.
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  Speaker 5: You follow them back?
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  Speaker 4: I had to.
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  Speaker 1: It was on what was on a wire? Baby?
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  Speaker 4: That's crazy, that's real.
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  Speaker 5: Hello.
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  Speaker 4: Who's this Hi?
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  Speaker 3: This is Bonnie.
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  Speaker 5: Hey Vonnie.
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  Speaker 2: Now it says this happened to you yesterday. You want
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  Speaker 2: to follow somebody?
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  Speaker 5: No, him followed me.
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  Speaker 3: He hit already, damn like, it's not No, it's not
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  Speaker 3: You're right.
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  Speaker 2: They heard her feeling, so he smashed and hen followed you.
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  Speaker 10: No, quite some time?
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  Speaker 3: You said you watched quite some time. Yeah, we've been well,
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  Speaker 3: y'all been hunching.
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  Speaker 5: But y'all broke up, obviously, But y'all broke up.
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  Speaker 3: Correct?
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  Speaker 10: He said that on.
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  Speaker 1: A break from Hello.
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  Speaker 3: How long was y'all together?
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  Speaker 8: We've been best friend.
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  Speaker 3: He probably don't followed you because your phone is trash.
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  Speaker 3: You probably got tired. You've been trying to.
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  Speaker 7: Have these conversations with you while the phone keep going
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  Speaker 7: in and out.
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  Speaker 2: If he don't followed, he probably moved on, Mamma. He
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  Speaker 2: didn't tell you they.
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  Speaker 6: Were best friends for years. They've been dating for months. Yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: he moved girl.
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  Speaker 3: No, he didn't move on. He's just doing that to
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  Speaker 3: make you mad. He just doing that to see if
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  Speaker 3: you still feel.
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  Speaker 5: He absolutely did.
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  Speaker 3: That's all. That's all.
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  Speaker 5: But he might have a new girl, and this new
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  Speaker 5: girl said, I know, you.
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  Speaker 7: Know, you know he don't got no new girl. He
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  Speaker 7: just doing that to fish you off. And it probably
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  Speaker 7: just happened yesterday.
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  Speaker 10: Can't Hey, So just on the topic of the day. No,
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  Speaker 10: I don't think it means that somebody's not your friends,
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  Speaker 10: but you don't because you follow them. I mean, I
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  Speaker 10: got a homegirl. She posts nothing but news. She's still
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  Speaker 10: my homegirl. I love her the same, but I don't
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  Speaker 10: want to see all her lady parts on what I
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  Speaker 10: log in the I G you know, it's kind of
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  Speaker 10: like what, don't call me white girl said? The cool
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  Speaker 10: people don't follow anybody. It's like an energy you see
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  Speaker 10: when you log on social media, certain things you just
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  Speaker 10: don't want to see.
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  Speaker 6: That's the first thing I thought, kimkh person, I know
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  Speaker 6: that can do that.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Brandon out one of our producers up here and said,
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  Speaker 2: if she's posted news, what's her.
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  Speaker 4: I g p.
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  Speaker 10: Man going on with it? Got it?
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't know what it looks.
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  Speaker 4: Man.
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  Speaker 6: It's a lot of people on Twitter and no, but
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  Speaker 6: Twitter is the place for all the salacious stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Twitter is porn poring on Twitter?
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  Speaker 5: What somebody else?
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  Speaker 6: You know, as you get on Twitter, you want to
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  Speaker 6: see some kind of sex scene or something.
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  Speaker 3: I haven't been on Twitter since like twenty eighteen.
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  Speaker 1: You're just missing porn.
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  Speaker 3: That's it.
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  Speaker 1: That's about it.
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  Speaker 5: What now Twitter?
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  Speaker 2: I never see porn, so they say it's usually what
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  Speaker 2: you watch. So if you're a porn watching what you're
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  Speaker 2: trying to say, I'm saying, if you're porn watching, not
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  Speaker 2: me all the time?
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes orgy.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, mona, No, So why is it just
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  Speaker 3: in all the porn for you?
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't figure it out myself.
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  Speaker 4: It's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Now look you see this, you see rumors, you see no,
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  Speaker 2: that was Brittany Twitter.
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  Speaker 4: Now it's Twitter right here.
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  Speaker 5: It's actually she looks no pawn will pull on you, pawn,
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  Speaker 5: No pawn.
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  Speaker 1: He's skimming past porn. We'll just pretending that or not.
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  Speaker 7: I don't got Twitter is not good for my mental health.
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  Speaker 3: I ain't been on Twitter since twenty nineteen. Twitter is
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  Speaker 3: what you watch.
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  Speaker 6: I go on to Twitter and I try to like
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  Speaker 6: talk to my people, but I'm off immediately because Twitter's rough.
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  Speaker 1: Twitters rough, especially Elon Musk Twitter, because.
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  Speaker 4: It's a totally different thing.
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  Speaker 3: Elms Twitter Musky exactly.
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  Speaker 5: He's stupid man looking at porn.
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  Speaker 7: Porn not shut Yeah, i'morroll of the story is. Man,
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  Speaker 7: if you know that just your people in real life,
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  Speaker 7: you shouldn't care about what happens online.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 7: If I can pick up the phone and call you,
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  Speaker 7: text you, if you're showing up for me in real life,
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  Speaker 7: I could care less.
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  Speaker 3: You know what you do on social media personally.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Well, when we come back, we got your
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  Speaker 2: room report. We gotta talk Young Miami people are hollered
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  Speaker 2: at her dad and she ain't She ain't really feeling it.
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  Speaker 2: We'll discuss when we come back. It's the breakfast Uggle
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  Speaker 2: morning