Latest / Honest Esthetician Education / Licensed Esthetician Shares Her Path | Madisen Humphrey ( Cloud Towels)
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- 0:00Hi guys, I'm with Madison Humphrey.
- 0:01She is a amazing licensed esthetician, the owner of Cloud Towels, and also a registered nurse.
- 0:07And I'm so excited to have her on the podcast today.
- 0:10She is one of our amazing Founders Lounge girlies.
- 0:13And I'm so excited to spend the weekend with you, have our dinner, and have an amazing weekend together.
- 0:19But I am so excited again to have you on today.
- 0:22But I want to hear all about your story and how you started in the aesthetics industry.
- 0:26First of all, I'm so excited to be here too.
- 0:29So I'm so thankful I was able to come today.
- 0:31I have been an esthetician for five years now and I just got my nursing license last year.
- 0:38So still new to that and learning how to combine the two together.
- 0:43I actually was in nursing school first and found out about aesthetic nursing quickly into it.
- 0:48I didn't really have anything set on what I wanted to do with that.
- 0:52So it sounded good to me.
- 0:53I was 20 years old.
- 0:54Like that's what I
- 0:55to do.
- 0:57And so I got a reception job at a med spa and I was like following around with the nurses a lot and just watching a lot what they do.
- 1:05And at that same time, like months after I started there, I started experiencing acne for the first time in my life.
- 1:12And so that's when I really was like,
- 1:15I need to figure this out and really started diving deep into skincare.
- 1:19And then I started following the esthetician that was at the med spa a little bit more and seeing what she did.
- 1:25And I was like, I think I like this a little bit more.
- 1:29So then COVID happened.
- 1:30Like, I don't remember how many months.
- 1:32It was like four months after we opened.
- 1:35And so it was...
- 1:36kind of a shock, obviously.
- 1:38So I had to put everything on pause.
- 1:41And my sister asked me when things open back up, do you want to go to aesthetic school with me?
- 1:46And I was like, sure, why not?
- 1:49I was really deep into skincare, which is why she asked me.
- 1:51And she wanted to do lashes.
- 1:53And so it was kind of like perfect timing for both of us.
- 1:56So I put nursing school on hold.
- 1:58It was just my prerequisites that I was finishing up with.
- 2:02And I went to aesthetic school in 2020.
- 2:05And then I got my license like January 2021.
- 2:07Yeah.
- 2:08And I just started off right away as a solo esthetician.
- 2:14I knew that I wanted to work for myself.
- 2:16I wanted to bring on the brands that I wanted to try and carry.
- 2:19And I wanted to specialize in skin at this point.
- 2:22So that's where I started.
- 2:24And I really just like kept going with skincare.
- 2:29I was like, do I even want to be a nurse anymore?
- 2:31Uh-huh.
- 2:31I know.
- 2:31Once you fall in love with aesthetics, there's no turning back.
- 2:35And I think that's the beauty of this industry is once you know, you know.
- 2:39And I love that story.
- 2:41And I actually started at a med spa.
- 2:43That was my first job as an esthetician solely focused on more like treatment-based services.
- 2:49So I can totally relate to that.
- 2:51When you were going through your acne journey, were you going through it at the time and then you figured out how to – I know that you said you fell in love with Avant, which is kind of what we talked about a little bit before.
- 3:03But how was your journey with your skin at that time?
- 3:08So I had no good routine when I first came into this.
- 3:13Like I did not have a good routine.
- 3:15I didn't like use products regularly and nothing was customized for me.
- 3:20I would buy whatever I saw looked good and fun to try and,
- 3:23And I never had skin issues growing up.
- 3:26So when I started getting acne, it was like a big shock to me.
- 3:30And with it being like one to two months after I started this new job, I was like, I feel embarrassed.
- 3:34Like I'm the face of this business.
- 3:36The first thing that people see when they walk in here and I have a face full of acne and it won't go away.
- 3:42So I kept trying facials and products there.
- 3:44And the owner was actually a nurse practitioner and she was like, it's probably all the supplements you're taking.
- 3:50And I was like, no, it's not like,
- 3:52It's not my supplements.
- 3:53Oh, my gosh.
- 3:54And I was like, these are good for your skin, okay?
- 3:56Wait, what was it?
- 3:58Do you remember?
- 3:58To be honest, I have no idea.
- 4:00It was a whole bunch of literally nothing.
- 4:01I forget the famous one at that time, but yeah.
- 4:03Yeah.
- 4:04So I was like, you don't know what you're talking about.
- 4:06I'm good.
- 4:07Kept taking them.
- 4:08And then one day I was like, you know what?
- 4:09Maybe it is a supplement.
- 4:11Yeah.
- 4:11And I stopped and...
- 4:12It started clearing up.
- 4:13That was not the only thing.
- 4:14But was it Biotin B12?
- 4:18Yes, 100%.
- 4:19Yeah.
- 4:20It was just loaded up.
- 4:21And I was also taking things that weren't needed for me in my body.
- 4:26So that was the other thing.
- 4:28But...
- 4:29Other than like cutting that out, I was still dealing with the scarring and the pigmentation and the random flare ups.
- 4:35And so I really started diving deep into like holistic skin health and focusing on healing the skin from the inside out.
- 4:42Yeah.
- 4:43And that's when I found Noi Skin Care, Donna Omari.
- 4:46She was like my intro into aesthetics.
- 4:48I know.
- 4:50RIP my angel.
- 4:51I know.
- 4:51Seriously, such a huge, huge impact on this industry.
- 4:56For real.
- 4:57Absolutely.
- 4:57I agree.
- 4:58But yeah.
- 4:59So I like loved what she was doing in her.
- 5:02treatments and how she was combining facials with acupuncture with her mom.
- 5:06And I was like, this is the coolest thing I've ever seen.
- 5:09So I saw that she was healing acne with facials and acupuncture.
- 5:13So I was like, I want to try that.
- 5:16And so I started really cleaning up my skincare routine and like figuring out what worked for me.
- 5:23And then I was like,
- 5:24I went to my acupuncturist and I was like, can you do my face and help get rid of my acne?
- 5:29And he was like, I've literally never had anybody ask me this before.
- 5:33And I was like, well, there's a first for everything.
- 5:36So let's just try it.
- 5:37I mean, the science makes sense.
- 5:39So he's like, I agree.
- 5:40And literally within a few weeks, like inflammation gone, pigmentation starting to get better texture, like
- 5:47back to normal.
- 5:49And I was really struggling with non-inflamed acne the most and then random like inflamed acne patches.
- 5:55So it was really a combination of the two.
- 5:56Oh my gosh, wait, so how does that work?
- 5:58How does acupuncture with the skin work?
- 6:01So every acupuncturist is probably different.
- 6:04Yeah.
- 6:05And the person that I go to, it doesn't actually specialize in skin.
- 6:08So I
- 6:08I was kind of just like telling him my input and going off of what his education is and combining the two thoughts together.
- 6:15But he obviously is trained and knows like what to do for specific areas.
- 6:21And so he would kind of go around like if I had like a cystic acne spot over here, he would go around it.
- 6:28But really, like even if you do, there's energy channels throughout the entire body.
- 6:32So if you did something on your feet, that could help something with your face.
- 6:34Wow.
- 6:34Just an example.
- 6:36Um, so all the energy channels are connected, but he would do like specific points on my face as well.
- 6:43And, um, I actually saw from noise skincare as well.
- 6:47It was like a natural lip filler.
- 6:49And so I like made him plump my lips up as well.
- 6:52He thought it was crazy.
- 6:53Give me everything.
- 6:54You have beautiful skin, by the way.
- 6:55So he definitely was like, I have never had anybody like you come in here, but, um, it works.
- 6:57And I, um, I, um, I, um, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I
- 7:04I've just been sending my clients there as well for like people who are like hard to clear or just need that little extra or they just want to get their results quicker.
- 7:13Yeah.
- 7:13Go see Daniel.
- 7:14He'll really help.
- 7:15Do you still go see him?
- 7:16Oh, I do all the time.
- 7:17I recommend people to him all the time.
- 7:19All the time.
- 7:20Oh, my gosh.
- 7:20That's so nice to have, like, a referral base in your business.
- 7:23I feel like that's so valid.
- 7:25Do you have any other referral or is it mostly just him?
- 7:28Oh, I refer everybody to everything I love.
- 7:30Yeah.
- 7:30I love acupuncture, Reiki, and, like, massage therapy and lymphatic drainage.
- 7:35Yeah.
- 7:36So all four of those are, like, my go-to.
- 7:38Mm-hmm.
- 7:38If you have something going on, one of these people can help you for sure.
- 7:42And I love that.
- 7:42I think that positioning yourself as an expert in whatever niche that you are and like very corrective, also holistic.
- 7:49Like when you think of holistic, like how do you explain that to people who are looking to book your services?
- 7:55Like what does holistic mean to you?
- 7:57So really just taking a full body approach from whatever your main concern is, like figuring out what the root of that is.
- 8:05And I'm not saying I'm going to be the one figuring out every single step of the way, but helping you figure that out with other specialists as well.
- 8:12Yeah.
- 8:13And then also like comparing it to like medical aesthetics versus like holistic aesthetics.
- 8:18I feel like medical aesthetics is more like protocol based.
- 8:21And you kind of feel like if you go to a med spa, like you feel a little rushed in the service or like it's in and out like a doctor's office type of vibe.
- 8:29And I like to take my time with clients.
- 8:31Like every time they come in, my like shortest facial is probably an hour and a half.
- 8:35Yeah.
- 8:37I can relate.
- 8:37I'm like all about pouring into.
- 8:39Yeah.
- 8:39Yeah.
- 8:40I would say, like, I go, like, two hours with my clients just to really get to know them, catch up with them, get to know their skin, and allow the products to do their time instead of leaving a mask on for five minutes because what's that doing?
- 8:53Yeah, I know.
- 8:54No, it's so true.
- 8:55I feel like there's a big part of the industry and the aesthetics industry where –
- 8:59You have your corrective side, like you said, that's in and out within that hour.
- 9:03And like you don't really get to know a person.
- 9:05And I think that's the beauty of owning your own business is you get to have this different approach with your clients where like you can spend an hour and a half to two hours to like find the root cause of what's causing your acne or like.
- 9:16explaining with your clients what is triggering their acne or how to help them manage their acne.
- 9:23So I love that you take a holistic approach.
- 9:25And I think it's such an awesome thing that you do in this industry is take that holistic approach with your clients and help them become like
- 9:36to better themselves.
- 9:37And how long did it take for your skin to clear when you started?
- 9:41Were you doing a mixture of products and acupuncture?
- 9:44It was definitely a mixture.
- 9:46And I would say after a trial and error of like what routine worked best for me, definitely within six months, I was like fully back to my skin and healthier because I never really had a healthy skin barrier.
- 10:01It was probably non-existent.
- 10:02I just, I didn't have acne.
- 10:04So I thought I had
- 10:05perfect skin like before.
- 10:06You're like, what was I missing all these months?
- 10:10My friend always laughs because she's actually an esthetician too.
- 10:13And we've been friends since high school and she would always wash her face before bed when we'd have sleepovers.
- 10:18And I'm like, what are you doing?
- 10:19Going to sleep in my makeup, judging her for washing her face before bed.
- 10:24And she's like, you're not sleeping in my bed without washing your face.
- 10:27So it's really funny how like the tables have turned up.
- 10:30Like that's my specialty now.
- 10:31And it's so funny.
- 10:32That's so – I love that though.
- 10:34That's like full circle moment with your friend.
- 10:36For sure.
- 10:37Oh, my gosh.
- 10:37So the products that you used with your skin during that time, like what were the main products that you used?
- 10:42So I forget where and how I found out about Vivant.
- 10:48I really can't remember the first person or like –
- 10:51like how I saw it marketed.
- 10:52The MedSpot didn't carry it?
- 10:54Oh, no.
- 10:54No.
- 10:55Oh, my gosh.
- 10:55I had to do my own research because the products there were not helping me.
- 10:59Okay.
- 11:00Was it Zio?
- 11:01No.
- 11:01There was, like, no name brand.
- 11:02Okay.
- 11:03To be honest.
- 11:03It was – it's not – Just whatever.
- 11:05Not the vibe.
- 11:06Yeah.
- 11:06So I had to go and search my own stuff, and I found Vivant, and –
- 11:12I hadn't started trying them until I went to ICSC the first time and they were there.
- 11:18And I was like, I want to carry your line.
- 11:21I want to try your products.
- 11:22I've seen amazing results online and I want to try it.
- 11:25And they were like, well, you have to have a medical director to carry us.
- 11:29And oh, you have to have a medical director.
- 11:31Yeah.
- 11:31Yeah.
- 11:32And you had to have like a storefront and a website.
- 11:36And I actually, I didn't even mention this.
- 11:39I started working from home from the beginning.
- 11:43So right when I graduated aesthetic school, I knew I was going back to nursing school.
- 11:48that was in January.
- 11:49I was starting again in August.
- 11:51And I was like, I don't have time to go find a spa and pay rent.
- 11:54And I don't know what nursing school is going to look like once I got into the program.
- 11:58So I was like, I'm just going to work from home.
- 12:00And I did that for two and a half years until I had Zayden.
- 12:04And then I had to use that room for his bedroom.
- 12:07So I was like, well, I guess it's time to move out of here.
- 12:11You're like, it's my time.
- 12:12Yeah.
- 12:13So then I moved to a spa and I was like, let me reach out to Vivant again because now I feel like I could have this on my shelves.
- 12:19And then the rules changed even more and I still couldn't get them.
- 12:24Wait, can you explain the rules?
- 12:26Do you know the rules?
- 12:26I don't know every single one.
- 12:28And from my understanding, it does change like...
- 12:32Every time somebody kind of reaches out.
- 12:33Okay.
- 12:34I don't know if it's based on reps or what the deal is there, but I think you have to have a medical director.
- 12:39You have to have a website and a storefront now.
- 12:42And they're saying, like, you can't work in a salon suite.
- 12:45Like, it has to be, like, an actual storefront, which.
- 12:48Okay.
- 12:49I'm not sure the reasoning.
- 12:50Yeah, that's very interesting.
- 12:51Yeah.
- 12:52Because, and it just seems like it's kind of different for everyone, which really does suck because the product line is amazing.
- 12:59Yeah.
- 12:59I mean, I've stuck with it for this long because it treats, it heals.
- 13:03Yeah.
- 13:03It's so good for acne prone skin, but also aging as well.
- 13:07Yeah.
- 13:07So it's really great for pigmentation and it's what got me clear in the beginning.
- 13:11And also my fiance, he has struggled with acne since he was in high school and, um,
- 13:19For the whole 12 plus years that we have known each other, like he really was struggling with his skin.
- 13:25And he was like the one person I couldn't clear until I found Vivant at the ICSC convention.
- 13:32And so actually I asked one of their reps like, hey, can you help me put a skincare routine together with your products for him?
- 13:38And within months he was clear.
- 13:40And that was in 2022.
- 13:42Yeah.
- 13:44Uh-huh.
- 13:45Or one.
- 13:46I can't remember.
- 13:47Yeah.
- 13:47It was one of the 20, one of the, yeah.
- 13:49Sometime in that frame, but, um, he has not had like active breakouts since then.
- 13:56So, yeah.
- 13:57So safe to say that it's an amazing line, but maybe the support isn't all the way there yet, which is, which is sad when brands do that because you're closing off like the potential for so many people
- 14:06knowing your brand and helping people at the end of the day.
- 14:10That's the goal.
- 14:11Yes.
- 14:11Like if it's helping people clear their skin, why not give access to estheticians, any esthetician to, uh, be able to carry your brand.
- 14:19And that's why I like, I don't know if you've heard of Mixi skincare, but like, that's like why I use the,
- 14:23Yes.
- 14:24Like I really just respect the the like accessibility.
- 14:28Yes.
- 14:29Yeah.
- 14:30That's like my main go to for clients actually a lot now is I love the price point.
- 14:35I love how easily accessible it is not only for you, the esthetician, but also like the education that they support because that is not from all brands.
- 14:44Yeah.
- 14:44You just don't get that.
- 14:45No.
- 14:45And I think that just like speaks to an esthetician running a business because they understand what it's like.
- 14:51And they're like, wow, if I put myself in the esthetician shoes, like what would I do with my brand?
- 14:56That's why I just really respect that aspect.
- 14:59Do you have any other lines that you carry within your business?
- 15:02I mean, I'm sure you do, but what other lines do you carry?
- 15:05So my newest line is Environ and I have been loving their stuff.
- 15:09I actually just got my first product from, or my first shipment from them.
- 15:12Like
- 15:14I would say like two weeks ago.
- 15:15So I'm still very new to like learning what I love most from them.
- 15:19But I got them for their peels, their cool peels.
- 15:22That's like what I felt like was missing in my back bar and like just needed something extra.
- 15:27Yeah.
- 15:27So I'm loving that.
- 15:29And I have actually started the process of bringing another brand on too.
- 15:33I haven't gotten like an order for clients yet, but I've been trying it since December.
- 15:39And so going on three months now and it's called Ourself and it has changed my skin.
- 15:45I've heard a lot of good stuff about it.
- 15:47Yeah.
- 15:47I was like, I've just been putting it off, like placing the order for no good reason because I've just been using the products that they gave me to test and they're so good.
- 15:57They have a good hyaluronic, right?
- 15:58Yes.
- 15:59They have.
- 16:00I mean, the science behind their technology is just so cool.
- 16:04They have a patented like tiered vesicle release.
- 16:07And so that's like what sets them apart from other brands.
- 16:11And I mean, you can tell a difference within your skin within...
- 16:14actual days.
- 16:15And then like two to four weeks out, it's like visible changes for real.
- 16:20Well, your skin's again, glowing.
- 16:22So I'm like, I know it's so funny.
- 16:25I have a really good, uh, I have a physician friend that like told me about this brand three months ago.
- 16:31And now I'm like, Oh my gosh.
- 16:33Uh, there's this one girl that I know also that like,
- 16:35started carrying this brand and she stopped becoming an advisor for another brand to like carry this line.
- 16:41And I'm like, it must be good.
- 16:43It's really good.
- 16:43It must be like, yeah, I know.
- 16:45I need to try it.
- 16:46It's on my list for sure.
- 16:48Maybe once this event is over and I'm like, I could finally like what I was waiting for too.
- 16:52Just like finding, I like to, I don't want to bring too many things on at one time.
- 16:56I like to take my time with brands.
- 16:58And so I really was going back and forth like environment.
- 17:01Yeah.
- 17:02Like who's first.
- 17:03But for me, I chose Environ first because I needed more back bar products at the moment, whereas ourself I'm going to use for home care majority of it.
- 17:12Yeah.
- 17:13And so that's how I kind of like made my decision on which one was first.
- 17:16Absolutely.
- 17:17And that's so smart to invest in.
- 17:20You don't have to do everything at once.
- 17:22You can take baby steps in your business and bring on one thing at a time because otherwise it does become overwhelming and you're having this abundance of skincare where you're like, oh my gosh, I bought on three lines at once.
- 17:33And everyone's like, whoa, whoa, whoa.
- 17:35But your clients have to learn all of that too.
- 17:37So I don't want to switch everyone's routine like, hey, try this, try this, try this all at the same time.
- 17:43And I think that's where a
- 17:45like a regular esthetician that's working their business, like me, I'm like – I'm like – I can't just bring on like three products line at once.
- 17:52Like I need to introduce my clients to these products.
- 17:55Most of my clients, like if we're getting them on a routine, I'm not like getting them like a 10-step routine.
- 18:01So I'm like – we're kind of like – I cherry pick with my clients.
- 18:04And so like that's the beauty of customization is like –
- 18:07I'm not this huge storefront location that can just bring on like five different product lines at once.
- 18:12And it's like, I think that's one of the smartest things that you could do is not overwhelm yourself with bringing on too much at once or else you're like going to go crazy.
- 18:21Yes.
- 18:21You and your clients for sure will.
- 18:23Yeah, no, absolutely.
- 18:24Um,
- 18:25Okay.
- 18:26So that's amazing.
- 18:28I want to talk about something that I think is like one of the coolest parts about your brand is that you own another company, which I have her towels and she owns a
- 18:40face, sorry, she owns the cloud towel company.
- 18:43And these towels are, they actually feel like a cloud on your face.
- 18:47And I'm not just saying that.
- 18:48And I have so many people who are like, oh my gosh, that I need that towel.
- 18:52Where did you get that towel from?
- 18:54So I want to hear about your company and how it started because I love the story.
- 18:57And I think it's very like impactful.
- 19:00So, like you said, I own the CloudTel and my co-owner is actually my grandma, which is like the best part to my business.
- 19:07I love that.
- 19:08It would not be possible without her whatsoever.
- 19:11So, she's really like the mastermind behind everything.
- 19:14I like to say I'm just like the face of the business.
- 19:16Yeah.
- 19:16And do what little marketing we do for it.
- 19:19Yeah.
- 19:21How it came about was, I think I was telling you, I bought my first facial towels from a barbershop supply store because I was buying Barberside.
- 19:32And I just saw these towels and I was like, oh, I need some of these.
- 19:35And I was using them and I finally gave myself a facial with them and realized how hard and scratchy and...
- 19:42Ouch.
- 19:43Yeah, it did not feel good going on my face.
- 19:46Like you said, microdermabrasion.
- 19:48Yeah, it was like handheld microdermabrasion.
- 19:51And I'm like, oh, look at this hot towel.
- 19:53No, it was actually so bad.
- 19:55So I was like, I need to do something about this.
- 19:59And I kept like buying towels on Amazon and from different places.
- 20:03And I couldn't find one that like fit all the needs I had.
- 20:07I wanted something to stay hot.
- 20:08I wanted something that wouldn't stain the first time I used it.
- 20:12And I also wanted something that was going to be like soft on the person's face.
- 20:16Yeah.
- 20:17And so I was just talking to my grandma about this, not expecting her to have a solution whatsoever.
- 20:23I was just venting.
- 20:24Yeah.
- 20:25And she was like, oh, like, what do you need?
- 20:26Send me ideas.
- 20:27Like, I could make something for you.
- 20:29And I was like, do not have to make me a towel.
- 20:31Like, it's fine.
- 20:31I can find one online.
- 20:33She's like, oh, just send me your ideas.
- 20:35And so I did.
- 20:36And then I forget about it.
- 20:38And like a few weeks later or the next week, I get a towel in the mail.
- 20:41And I was like, what is this?
- 20:43This is the best thing I've ever seen.
- 20:45So we did go through like a few trials of like what exact style, length, sizes, colors that we were going to bring on first and like what the actual...
- 20:57So we have like multiple different products.
- 20:59So we started out with the original, the cloud towel.
- 21:02And then shortly after that, I was like, we also need, I use towels for under the patient's or the client's head.
- 21:09They're the best.
- 21:09And I'm like, I can't have these ratty little scratchy towels under their head that doesn't match the vibe in the videos.
- 21:17So I was like, maybe we can make one for the bed too.
- 21:19So it's like all in like uniform.
- 21:21They're my favorite.
- 21:22They're my favorite.
- 21:23Yes.
- 21:23I was just really, I, they're my favorite too.
- 21:26Yeah.
- 21:26Yeah.
- 21:27And so after she sent them to me and we kind of like tweaked some things, I just like kept it to myself and I had no intention on selling them because my grandma was making them by hand.
- 21:38I didn't think this would be like an actual business opportunity.
- 21:42Yeah.
- 21:42And then one of my esthetician friends like saw it and was like, what is this?
- 21:46Like you're gatekeeping from the entire community.
- 21:48You need to make this a business.
- 21:51And so she bought 20 of them and I thought she was crazy.
- 21:55And then I realized like –
- 21:57okay, wait, there is kind of a gap for this.
- 22:00And, um, as she was posting it, other friends were like, where did you get these?
- 22:04I need these.
- 22:05And then it just kind of stumbled upon that.
- 22:07So I was literally, and I can like vividly remember the first day that I posted about it.
- 22:13I was, um,
- 22:14I think it was like I posted it at night of just like a facial using it.
- 22:19And then my friend like shared her doing it as well.
- 22:23I went to sleep.
- 22:24I woke up.
- 22:25I went to school.
- 22:26And then I look at my phone like in the middle of class.
- 22:28It's blowing up with like people wanting to buy towels.
- 22:31And I was like –
- 22:32I'm just in pharmacology trying to learn these medications.
- 22:36And I have like hundreds of people asking me for towels.
- 22:40Like, I don't know how we're going to make this work.
- 22:41But I just literally, on the other side of my notebook, started writing down pre-orders and sent a picture to my grandma like, do you think we can do this?
- 22:49And she's like, yeah, we can.
- 22:50Oh, my gosh.
- 22:51So she actually lived in Kentucky at the time, and I'm from Ohio.
- 22:55And so –
- 22:56I'm like, I think you're going to have to move here.
- 22:58Yeah.
- 22:58Like, I've been asking you for years, but I think you actually have to this time because how can we run a business together seven hours apart?
- 23:06So she made the move and now we live a lot closer to each other and are able to do the orders together and, like, make everything work.
- 23:15Oh, my gosh.
- 23:16That's amazing.
- 23:17And I love, like, how organically – I feel like the most –
- 23:21beautiful stories that I hear are the most organic.
- 23:24And that is so awesome.
- 23:26Like, I can't believe that you were in school getting pre-orders for your towels.
- 23:30And like, I'm not kidding.
- 23:33I will specifically put your towels over.
- 23:37And whenever I run out of your towels, like for the day, I'm like,
- 23:41I don't know what I'm going to do.
- 23:42It's just like, because it's so true.
- 23:44It's that experience that your clients feel the moment that they laid down on your table and your towels are a part of that experience for my clients because it feels so soft.
- 23:54I mean, we try to create the most comfortable experiences for our clients.
- 23:57It really does set the mood.
- 23:58Yes.
- 23:59Especially if you put like some essential oils in the hot towel warmer.
- 24:02So good.
- 24:03It's the first like,
- 24:04fresh start to a facial.
- 24:06Do you have any favorite scents for your hot towels?
- 24:09So I actually don't know the name of it or what's in the blend, but there's a crystal shop not far from my house, which I have been shopping at for years.
- 24:17I love them.
- 24:18And she like custom blends facial oils.
- 24:21And I just like love one of the ones from her.
- 24:23I actually don't know the name of it.
- 24:25Oh no, you're totally fine.
- 24:26I haven't even branched out.
- 24:27I do like lavender and eucalyptus as well.
- 24:34I don't know what the blend is.
- 24:36Anything that feels fresh, like, it's just so nice when you're laying there and it just, like, elevates the experience.
- 24:41I truly believe that scents are, like, a huge part of your brand.
- 24:45Like, it's how you make people feel and when they're laying there, it's so nice.
- 24:49And, yeah, it just, like, adds the best touches.
- 24:53So you do a lot of combo therapy.
- 24:54You do – I know that we were talking a little bit about DMK and how you like to combo that with treatments.
- 25:01What are your go-to combo treatments as an esthetician?
- 25:04So my go-to treatments for like experienced clients, not for somebody first coming in, but is like DMK with dermaplaning or DMK with –
- 25:19the sculpt and lift i just really think that that's a great combination if you're looking for lymphatic drainage and like really sculpting and deep puffing is that gua sha so i use hands and gua sha okay i have like a whole bunch of different tools that i kind of go throughout yeah so um i have like a face yoga ball that i like to use i actually got that from um the idea from face gym i don't know if you've ever heard of them but they're from like new york and la and i think like in london too
- 25:48I think I've seen videos, but I don't know specifically.
- 25:50Yeah, it's like a workout place for your face.
- 25:52Yes.
- 25:52So they have this ball, and I actually got a treatment done by them.
- 25:55I was like, oh, I need that.
- 25:56You're like, absolutely.
- 25:57It's like a really good fascia release, and it's like slow.
- 26:01And I like to do that before because it's really like some yoga for your face and loosening everything up before we get into the deep tension massage and releasing anything.
- 26:11Yeah.
- 26:13And I also really love acupressure.
- 26:15Like I said, acupuncture has been like a heart of my business and for my clients results as well.
- 26:21But I wanted to do something in the treatment that I can also help with.
- 26:25So learning acupuncture has also been a big part of my business and making sure like I include that in almost every facial.
- 26:33But I love doing that in the sculpt and lift.
- 26:35Oh, my gosh.
- 26:36Honestly, that's like one of the best feelings when you get out of the facial and you just feel like snatched.
- 26:40And you feel like everything, all the fluid.
- 26:43When people are like, oh, my God, like I don't know how to draw in an hour.
- 26:46Absolutely.
- 26:47And there's so much corrective that goes into it.
- 26:49But do you truly feel like your clients like get a big relaxation during your treatment?
- 26:53Yes.
- 26:54They are mostly falling asleep.
- 26:56Yeah.
- 26:56Yeah.
- 26:57And especially when I do the reflexology, they're like, what is that?
- 27:02Like, I've never felt anything like this.
- 27:04I also really love pairing it with buckle massage, too, because it's a huge tension release.
- 27:11And if you have any type of TMJ or...
- 27:13jaw pain at all tension in the mouth like it is so good how did you find that did you just get certified like through someone near your city or did you see it on instagram and you had to fly out for somewhere i saw it on instagram and i took a training online uh-huh and i feel really bad i don't remember her name because like she trains a lot of people online um her name is um
- 27:37I don't remember her business name, but SD Alex.
- 27:39Okay.
- 27:39You know her?
- 27:41She's from New York.
- 27:41Now you're making me feel bad.
- 27:43I'm like, I think that's her business.
- 27:45Okay.
- 27:45Yes.
- 27:46But you – Yeah.
- 27:46I took her training online.
- 27:47You did – Yeah.
- 27:48You found her.
- 27:49You took her training.
- 27:49I was like, I – After I took the training, because it was online and not in person, I did it for –
- 27:55at least six to nine months before starting.
- 27:59And on actual clients, I would just practice because I wanted to, I didn't want to just put my fingers in someone's mouth and not know what I'm doing.
- 28:07So I practice on friends and family a lot beforehand.
- 28:11And really finding like learning how to feel tension and like also learning how to see tension before you even touch their face.
- 28:19Oh my gosh.
- 28:19That's a huge part.
- 28:21And something that I just recently like within the past week I was doing this facial on someone and –
- 28:26And I was looking at her before and afters and I was like, wow, now that I'm looking at the picture, I can see this part was tense.
- 28:32This part was tense.
- 28:33It does line up to what I was feeling, but I can kind of see a little bit more.
- 28:37Like, so I think I want to start analyzing the pictures before we get into the facial to see like, where do I want to focus on?
- 28:44Because it gives you a different viewpoint from when you're standing behind them.
- 28:47Yeah.
- 28:48And so, yeah, that was my new tip I just learned.
- 28:51Wow, that is awesome.
- 28:52Because I mean, truthfully, I mean, it's, it's cool to hear different esthetician businesses, because you have your, you have your med spa feel, you have your holistic feel, you have like a mixture of relaxation, slash corrective.
- 29:05And I just really admire you for, for having a, like a true holistic approach.
- 29:11And I think that's, I've never heard of somebody like seeing somebody's face and like feeling tension and be able to see that before and after.
- 29:19And I
- 29:20makes you an expert as a buckle massage.
- 29:24I said that right.
- 29:24Right.
- 29:25Yeah.
- 29:25I think so.
- 29:26Yes.
- 29:26I know.
- 29:27It's like, I remember the first time I ever said, I think I said buccal.
- 29:30That's how I called it for like many years.
- 29:32And then I'm like, I don't think that makes sense.
- 29:34But how I remember, I think is that I, it's either I said it wrong or right, but I think that's how I remember is it's like buckle massage.
- 29:41Like you buckle your shirt, your, uh, your pants up or whatever it is, your belt.
- 29:46Uh, but yeah, that's so awesome.
- 29:48And like,
- 29:49Do you feel the moods in people's like energy shift?
- 29:52Yeah.
- 29:53So doing holistic work in general, you're going to have some energy exchange.
- 29:57Yeah.
- 29:57And so even if you realize it or not, you definitely are having an energy exchange.
- 30:03So it's really important to like clear yourself before and after too.
- 30:07Because if you're coming in and you're rushing and then you're trying to make somebody else calm, but you don't feel calm, that's like the first thing.
- 30:13Yeah.
- 30:14You're like, I'm scattered.
- 30:15Like I can't even relax.
- 30:16Your clients will feel that.
- 30:18And so also you can feel like you might feel you're holding tension in a spot randomly as you're massaging and like you didn't feel that before.
- 30:28That's like the best explanation I can give.
- 30:31It's like it's kind of like a feeling that you don't know how to explain.
- 30:35And you learn to know what that feeling is as you go.
- 30:39Yeah.
- 30:39You can kind of feel when.
- 30:41Clients need something specific.
- 30:42Wow.
- 30:43Yeah.
- 30:43I know there's so much energy that we pour into our clients.
- 30:46It's like crazy how much like emotional – like the emotional aspect of being an esthetician is.
- 30:52Like people – I talk to people all the time and they're like, oh, yeah, like you just rubbed faces.
- 30:56I'm like, no.
- 30:57There's so much that goes into it.
- 30:58It's the energy.
- 30:59It's the connection.
- 31:00It's like that – even if you spend like an hour and a half to two hours with a client, like that's so much energy that you're pouring into clients.
- 31:06And I remember when I first got my first buckle massage, like the next day I felt –
- 31:12like sore.
- 31:13Like I was like, oh my gosh, like I feel so much better.
- 31:16And then I'm like, oh my gosh, like that.
- 31:18I was holding onto so much stress and tension that I didn't even realize that I was.
- 31:22And she told me that too.
- 31:23She was like, you're going to feel probably sore because you were holding onto a lot of tension.
- 31:28And I mean, I'm excited.
- 31:30I mean, it's never the same doing on yourself, but I definitely need a good sculpting before this weekend.
- 31:35Yeah.
- 31:36Do you do it on yourself?
- 31:37I know, girl.
- 31:38I do.
- 31:38I know.
- 31:39I actually – I don't do it on myself, like, as often as I should.
- 31:44But when I really start to notice, like, tension building up, I just, like, remind myself to, like, release and stop clenching.
- 31:51Exactly.
- 31:52And then I just, like, use the back of my knuckles and kind of, like, remind myself and, like, actually massage it.
- 31:58And what I try to do mostly is keep my reflexology tool by my bed because I struggle with holding tension in my jaws the most.
- 32:07And if I'm like going to bed and realize I'm kind of grinding or clenching my teeth, I'm like, hold on.
- 32:13Yeah.
- 32:13Just release it.
- 32:14And it really helps like instantly.
- 32:16Especially with kids.
- 32:17We're like, oh, so much tension.
- 32:20Sometimes the most frustrating part of the night.
- 32:22So it's like, you're like, whoa, I know.
- 32:26Speaking of kids, I actually do it on my son too.
- 32:30So now that he's getting a little bit older.
- 32:32Yeah, he's two.
- 32:33Yeah.
- 32:35Sometimes he wants it.
- 32:36Sometimes he doesn't.
- 32:37But there has been multiple times where I was explaining that, like, my son loves reflexology.
- 32:42And then I called to, like, just say she could say hi.
- 32:45He was literally doing reflexology on himself at home by himself.
- 32:49That's so funny.
- 32:50Oh, my gosh.
- 32:50He's like, leave me alone.
- 32:51I need my self-care.
- 32:54That's so funny.
- 32:54He's so funny.
- 32:56Actually, I do reflexology on him if it's with a tool or if it's with my fingers.
- 33:00Yeah.
- 33:01Just whatever's easiest for the night and when we're going to bed.
- 33:04But it puts him to sleep immediately.
- 33:07Oh, my gosh.
- 33:07Like within 10 minutes for sure.
- 33:09It's really calming for the central nervous system.
- 33:12And so it's really just helping you relax and relax.
- 33:14get into that like meditative state and so you can fall asleep easier but i just have a few little i call them magic spots for him and um he's always like lifting his foot like massage so i have like a few pressure points there that i'll either use the tool or my hands but it's so good teach me for my daughter she needs to relax there's a book on amazon 12 dollars okay what is it called do you remember um
- 33:41You can send me it later.
- 33:42I'll put it in the description.
- 33:43Type in reflexology book.
- 33:45It's $12.99 on Amazon.
- 33:47And it's like one of the first ones.
- 33:49Okay, perfect.
- 33:50Got a lot of good information in there.
- 33:51How was it starting from like being in your own business, like essentially like a at-home studio versus having a kid like and then having an in-person studio?
- 34:02How was that process?
- 34:04I, the, my friend, my mom's friend actually owns a spa.
- 34:09And so there's multiple rooms in there.
- 34:11She, it's like aesthetics and hair and nails.
- 34:14And it's kind of like an all inclusive spa.
- 34:16And one of the rooms came open in February and I had my son in January.
- 34:21So I was like, I'm not ready to come back right away.
- 34:23Yeah.
- 34:24But can you hold it for me until...
- 34:26March.
- 34:26And I'll start like March 1st.
- 34:28So I went back to work a little bit sooner than I wanted to.
- 34:31Freshly two months postpartum.
- 34:34So it was a shift because I'm like, how do I learn to become a mom and restarting my business in a way at the same time?
- 34:40Yeah.
- 34:42It really was like a seamless transition.
- 34:45I mean, it was right around the corner from my house.
- 34:47My mom's house was right down the street.
- 34:49I was breastfeeding at the time.
- 34:51So it was like I had to be in a certain amount of distance and could only take a few clients at a time without having to schedule breaks and stuff.
- 34:58And so that was like an adjustment period.
- 35:00And then...
- 35:02it just kind of worked its way out.
- 35:04And then once I started school again, so I kind of like redid the beginning of my aesthetics journey because I paused school, nursing school, and then did aesthetics.
- 35:13And then this is like the second round that I did that.
- 35:16So I was really just like all in on my business and building it to set me up to be able to step out.
- 35:22I had
- 35:23eight weeks left of nursing school before.
- 35:27So I got pregnant my last semester of nursing school and only had two classes left to graduate.
- 35:34So I had to postpone those like eight months, which honestly worked out for the best because I was able to dive back into aesthetics and like be a mom and do what I love.
- 35:44And so, um,
- 35:46When I started back at nursing school, I was, like, kind of restarting again.
- 35:51But I had set myself up to the point where, like, I wasn't feeling stressed out or, like, I have to be two places at once.
- 35:57And really just made a part-time schedule for here's these days for nursing, here's these days for aesthetics.
- 36:03And then I still have, like, two to three off days for the most part a week.
- 36:07Wow.
- 36:08That's incredible.
- 36:09I think that I truly am.
- 36:10I'm a firm believer that everything happens in its timing and that it's, like, you –
- 36:15whatever you believe in gives you what you need in that moment.
- 36:18So you work, do you still work?
- 36:20So how many days a week do you work?
- 36:21And then how many days do you like focus on the, on the cloud towel business?
- 36:26So the cloud towel is kind of just like as orders come in and then my grandma has her system.
- 36:31And then whenever I have time in the week, I'll just look like, what days do I have off?
- 36:35And then I'll go and help with whatever I can.
- 36:38And usually I work like two
- 36:42two days at the hospital and then I have like two to three days off.
- 36:46It just really depends on – I don't like block my schedule necessarily.
- 36:50I just leave what's open.
- 36:52Yeah.
- 36:52And then like as the week leading up or a few days leading up, I'll like block those days if I want to keep the break there.
- 36:59Yeah.
- 36:59Wow.
- 36:59Well, you're a true hustler.
- 37:01Your story is so inspiring.
- 37:03And I like – I mean even just us talking off camera and like even just hearing your story even more, it is so inspiring to have you run –
- 37:12Being a business owner, running two business owners, also being a nurse, and then also being a mom, that's a lot.
- 37:18So it's super inspiring.
- 37:20And I just like for anyone listening, it's just like you can truly do anything if you put your mind to it.
- 37:25Like we all have a million things to do at once, and we have so many different roles.
- 37:30But like it's so possible, and I love your story.
- 37:33I'm really excited this weekend is going to feel like a break from all of this.
- 37:36Yes, I know.
- 37:37Shut off.
- 37:38Yes.
- 37:38But it's also like I have been so nursing focused since I had to study for the NCLEX and then figuring out if I am going to work in a hospital or not and where I'm going to work.
- 37:50And I started a few months ago.
- 37:52And so –
- 37:53just trying to like learn all of that.
- 37:55Cause I mean, I've been so into aesthetics for the past year and, um, I'm like, I am ready to just like kick back into aesthetic mode for a little bit.
- 38:04You're bossing them into like a beautiful new chapter.
- 38:07Like, I don't know.
- 38:08I'm just so excited for you and I can't see, can't wait to see and for you to enjoy this weekend.
- 38:12What are you most excited about, about this weekend?
- 38:14Learning from everyone.
- 38:16And seeing everyone that, like, I've known online for years and, like, never met in person and meeting new people.
- 38:23I'm so excited.
- 38:24But the main thing is to learn just whatever is to come.
- 38:28Yeah, I know.
- 38:29We're really excited about this weekend, and we're just so thankful that, like, we –
- 38:34you're here today, that you are here and part of this special journey.
- 38:39We are so thankful that you are like, that you believed in even us.
- 38:43So we're so excited.
- 38:45We've been planning this like, we've been planning this for a year now and for it to come to life is truly so surreal.
- 38:50And I'm excited for you to be a part of this big impactful day.
- 38:53And thank you so much for being here today.
- 38:55Thank you for putting this event together.
- 38:57I mean, when I saw it, I was like, immediately, yes, I will be there.
- 39:01Like the second you posted about it.
- 39:03So I actually was like on the website, like as soon as you drop tickets and I was like, oh, a founder's lounge.
- 39:09Like I want to do this.
- 39:10And then I was like debating and I was trying to like see if it made sense financially and like putting all the prices.
- 39:16Like if I don't get this, but just buy the ticket, how much is it going to cost me?
- 39:20Vice versa.
- 39:21And I was like, I'm going to do it.
- 39:22So I go back to the website and they're sold out.
- 39:24And I was like, oh no, like you're going to wait too long.
- 39:28And then I was like, well...
- 39:31I'll buy the regular ticket.
- 39:32It's okay.
- 39:33And then I was telling my grandma about it again, just venting.
- 39:37And I was like, you know what?
- 39:38I'm just going to go buy the ticket right now.
- 39:40And so I go to buy it.
- 39:41And there was one left of the, like, you guys added more.
- 39:44And I was like, ah, I have to do it.
- 39:47Oh my gosh, that gives me the chills.
- 39:49And I was like, ah, I have to.
- 39:51And I was like, it's definitely perfect timing.
- 39:54And I hit the buy button immediately.
- 39:56Well, we are so honored that you are here with us.
- 39:59And like that truly, like hearing that story, like I said, gave me chills.
- 40:02And it just means so much to us.
- 40:04And I feel like a lot of people don't know what the Founders Lounge is.
- 40:06So Founders Lounge is essentially a VIP experience where you get to do
- 40:12spend the weekend essentially with us together.
- 40:14We cover your hotel, your flight, and we have you here for the weekend.
- 40:18We do a dinner together, a podcast, and you just get that extra TLC for the whole weekend.
- 40:24And again, just in case anybody was confused, because people are probably like, what the heck is the...
- 40:27founders lounge, but yeah, you're VIP this weekend and we couldn't be happier to have you here.
- 40:32Of course you deserve it and, uh, enjoy this weekend.
- 40:36I'm so excited for everybody to connect together and for us to all learn and grow together and just meet so many new friends.
- 40:42But, um, if you had one piece of advice, this is my question I asked on every single podcast.
- 40:47If you have one piece of advice to give to an esthetician based on your journey, what would it be?
- 40:55I would probably say like, don't be afraid to like go after things that seem like unachievable in your head and not setting those like limiting beliefs and not saying no to things because you never know where it could take you.
- 41:07Yeah, I absolutely agree with that.
- 41:09So true.
- 41:09And then where can people find you?
- 41:11So my social media is skingales.aesthetics and then the cloud towel on Instagram and TikTok mainly.
- 41:19Yeah.
- 41:20Awesome.
- 41:20Well, we will have all those links below.
- 41:22I, you guys will fall in love with her towels and obviously you, you're amazing, but please experience those towels for yourself.
- 41:29They're absolutely incredible.
- 41:31And please support us small in business.
- 41:34That's like the best that we can do in this community.
- 41:36But thank you so much for being on this podcast today.
- 41:39Again, I'm just so honored and excited for you to be here this weekend.
- 41:43And if I'm just,
- 41:46I'm just excited.
- 41:46But thank you so much for being here today.
- 41:48Thank you guys so much.
- 41:50Make sure you like, comment, and subscribe.
- 41:52And we will see you in the next video.