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From a Professional Matchmaker: What Men Tell Me · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  Let's talk about what men say about women.
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  Holy moly. I've been doing this a long
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  time. You know, 16 years coming up
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  next month. Oh, my God.
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  All right. And what men say about women,
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  sometimes you don't want to hear.
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  All right. But I'm going to tell you a few
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  things that you can hear that might help you get in the heads
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  of these guys. Hang on.
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  First of all, no matter how old a guy is, he's still going to be
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  confused about dating. And if he's not confused about
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  dating, if he has every move right?
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  Just right, that is not a good sign, ladies.
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  Remember, the only way he got good at making those moves is by
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  having a ton and ton and ton of ladies to practice on.
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  OK, hang on, there's more. There are actually a lot of good
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  guys out there that are looking for great women and not very
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  young women, women around their age.
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  It's not about the number for many men, depending on what
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  they're looking for. If they want kids, then yeah,
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  it's about the number. I hate to break it to you, but
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  if it's not about kids, then most men, Most men.
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  Most men, OK, not the jackasses that want to speak up.
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  And comments, OK, Those are those do not represent the
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  majority of men, all right? But the most men, they want a
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  woman who just looks amazing for her age.
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  So it's not about how old you are that they're looking for a
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  really young woman. They just want a woman who looks
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  great for her age and also has a youthful spirit.
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  And I know you ladies feel the same way about these guys.
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  Hang on. The majority of men I know do
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  not need or want a woman to pay or split the bill on a date.
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  In fact, I've never had that happen.
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  Never have I had that happen. So any guy that asks you that is
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  either just cheap or he's not interested in you, OK?
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  And just, you know, put your money down and walk away and
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  never see him again, all right? But the majority of men will do
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  the right thing. They want to pay.
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  They want to be chivalrous. But if they're acting like a
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  Jackass, they're out of the gate.
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  They're telling everything you need to know.
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  All right. Last but not least, all right?
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  There is no one way to do things in dating these days.
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  All right, again, some women want to be called, some women
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  want to be texted. And there's so many.
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  The roads are so, you know, windy and the lines are blurred
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  that you need to be communicating with your guys
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  because they don't know where you want to go.
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  They don't know what you like to do.
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  And for those women that say they want a man who's going to
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  lead them and so they don't want to offer any suggestions or
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  anything, that's not being a team player.
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  All right. The man will take the lead, but
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  he would love for you to tell him where you want to go.
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  If you'd like to be called, you know, you need to give them the
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  road map to you and then then let them drive the car.
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  OK Oh and I created a quiz. It's because I work with so many
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  a game guys. They're always bringing their A
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  game to dating that the only women I can set up with my guys
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  are women who are also bringing their A game to dating.
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  OK, so I created a quiz free quiz.
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  You just take it when you DM me on IG with the word quiz.
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  Alright, DM me on IG with the word quiz.
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  Take the quiz, get your score. I don't know what your score is
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  unless you come back into IG and you give me your score and then
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  I can talk about whether I think you're bringing your A game you
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  don't need any help, or maybe there's some things you need to
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  improve upon. All right, all right.