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Dispelling Death Rumors and Break Up News with Joan Vassos, Susan Noles, and Kathy Swarts · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Hey guys, I am here with three of probably probably
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  Speaker 2: the three most popular epic goldens we've ever had. Kathy, Susan,
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  Speaker 2: and Joan. Welcome to the podcast. So fun. You guys
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  Speaker 2: all look younger than ever right now, professional professional makeup.
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  Speaker 3: With each other.
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  Speaker 2: Oh. I was gonna say, Kathy, do you have a day?
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  Speaker 2: Because I know Ben was working on that.
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  Speaker 4: You know what, Ben failed?
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  Speaker 2: No, No, I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 3: We still have a little time.
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  Speaker 5: It's still going to bemen.
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  Speaker 2: Women women, Susan, Kathy. When we were last together in September,
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  Speaker 2: we were going to see the Jonas Brothers. Unfortunately, there's
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  Speaker 2: nobody as hot performing at jingle Ball tonight. Would you agree?
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  Speaker 2: Not even close?
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I don't even know half the bad name jon gets it?
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  Speaker 2: She said, there's no one close, So you agree they're
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  Speaker 2: super not even close?
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  Speaker 5: Well, first of all, I feel so like old right now.
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  Speaker 5: But I don't know. I think I only knew two.
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  Speaker 5: I think I only knew who to the performers are.
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  Speaker 2: The rest of them, I don't know who they are.
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  Speaker 3: I'm living to my grandchildren.
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  Speaker 1: They all love k pop, so I cannot yeah.
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  Speaker 5: And kid Leroy, but other than I don't know anybody.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm going to make you feel younger at thirty seven,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know anyone.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. Okay, good and you're young.
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  Speaker 3: Imagine how you're.
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  Speaker 2: We're a testament to the lineup. This is a testament
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  Speaker 2: to the fact that, like when you're thirty plus, you
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  Speaker 2: like check out.
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  Speaker 6: Wait a minute, we are all thirty plus, all together
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  Speaker 6: in the same boat.
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  Speaker 2: Relating to the fact that I heard that there's like
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  Speaker 2: this stuff that you kind of stop discovering new music
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  Speaker 2: around thirty Okay, that happens, you don't know. I don't
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  Speaker 2: mean like new songs to me, I've like cut off
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  Speaker 2: my artists. It's kind of like I know that the
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  Speaker 2: music that I like, and I know who I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: go to when they come out with a new album.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna, like.
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  Speaker 6: You understand, for us, we would not know who Taylor
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  Speaker 6: Swift is that.
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  Speaker 2: You can.
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  Speaker 5: There's you can't ignore, like Taylor Swift, But then there's
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  Speaker 5: all those auxiliary ones you don't have to embrace anymore.
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  Speaker 1: I use the Shazam app when I like a song
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  Speaker 1: and I discover a new artist.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Jazam, that's basically where I get all of my
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  Speaker 2: new music from.
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  Speaker 4: I get it from my thirty eight year old daughter.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Joan, do you have any plans with
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  Speaker 2: Chalk this Christmas season?
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  Speaker 5: I'm glad you're asking me that because I've gotten so
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  Speaker 5: much crap on social media because I talked about Thanksgiving
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  Speaker 5: and I was like thankful for my family, my friends
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  Speaker 5: or whatever, and like, I consider him family, so I
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  Speaker 5: didn't like say Chalk individually because he's my family, and
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  Speaker 5: I got so much crap. Everybody's like they broke up.
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  Speaker 4: They broke up.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't mention his name. Sorry, I didn't think I
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  Speaker 5: had to. I think it's like assumed. So thank you
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  Speaker 5: for asking, because the rumors were all untrue. First of all,
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  Speaker 5: I didn't die because apparently there was rumors that I
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  Speaker 5: was in a tragic accident. So I didn't die, and
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  Speaker 5: I also didn't break up. They were one all over
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  Speaker 5: social media. Yea, yep, So I'm alive and I'm still
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  Speaker 5: a Chalk. We didn't break up, and we do have
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  Speaker 5: plans for the holidays. We got an AIRBNBA New York
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  Speaker 5: for the whole month of well, most of the month
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  Speaker 5: of December and into January, so we're gonna be taking
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  Speaker 5: together a lot. Yeah, and then he'll meet my house
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  Speaker 5: with my family for Christmas.
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  Speaker 2: That's such a treat. How do you split up amongst
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  Speaker 2: your family who has Thanksgiving? Who has Christmas?
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  Speaker 5: So we're kind of a working prop gris now that
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  Speaker 5: there are grandkids, so that makes a big difference, and
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  Speaker 5: you probably have the same thing, like you don't want
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  Speaker 5: to leave your house at Christmas time. So I always
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  Speaker 5: do Christmas. I've always done Christmas. I will keep that
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  Speaker 5: and I get to keep it because I have grandkids now,
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  Speaker 5: So even though my kids are grown, I now get
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  Speaker 5: to have Christmas because they come over to my house.
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  Speaker 5: And Thanksgiving kind of has gotten handed off to different
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  Speaker 5: family members over the years. My daughter did it last year, John,
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  Speaker 5: my late husband's cousin did it this year. She's a
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  Speaker 5: big house and but she doesn't cook, so I, myself
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  Speaker 5: and my mother in law had to make all the
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  Speaker 5: She has the house, but she doesn't cook, so we
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  Speaker 5: made all the food and brought it over. So I
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  Speaker 5: brought over like ten dishes and my mother in law
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  Speaker 5: did I made to.
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  Speaker 3: Cook two turkeys.
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  Speaker 5: Thanksgiving I just didn't have to get the house ready.
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  Speaker 5: So Jo, when you refer to mother in law, is
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  Speaker 5: it your john's you have my late husband's mom.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, very barely mean.
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  Speaker 5: She was part of my life for forty years. I
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  Speaker 5: mean she never won't be part of my life.
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  Speaker 4: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so glad that you guys still have so so
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  Speaker 2: so close to our holiday, a relationship that's so nice,
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  Speaker 2: really close. And then, do you guys have any New
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  Speaker 2: Year's plans? All of you? Kathleen Susan, I feel like
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  Speaker 2: you would be hosting some New Year's we want.
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  Speaker 6: We want to do New Year's Rock and Eve, but
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  Speaker 6: we haven't been asked yet.
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  Speaker 3: But.
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  Speaker 5: I think Ryan Secrets has that monopoly on that one.
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  Speaker 3: I'll be on a nice, beautiful island laying on the beach.
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  Speaker 2: On New Year's You're perfect? How aout?
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  Speaker 5: Okay?
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  Speaker 2: What are you doing?
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  Speaker 4: Counting down to midnight?
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  Speaker 5: And I'm going to be New York. I love to
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  Speaker 5: go to Times Square, but I don't want to have
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  Speaker 5: to get there at six am and wear a diaper
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  Speaker 5: just because there's no trash can I mean there's no bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: So I don't know how people do it. I used
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  Speaker 2: to do it as like a teenager, just like my
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  Speaker 2: sister and I would basically be like flirting with cops
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  Speaker 2: and they let us into Times Square at like eleven pm.
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  Speaker 5: I but I don't think florting is going to do
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  Speaker 5: any good right now.
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  Speaker 6: When that we had great New Years, we would my
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  Speaker 6: husband would grill steaks and we'd have champagne and we'd
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  Speaker 6: watch the ball drop.
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  Speaker 4: I love that week.
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  Speaker 6: We had really nice, quiet New Year's East together and.
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  Speaker 5: When my kids were a little we used to go bowling.
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  Speaker 5: It was so much fun with like a whole bunch
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  Speaker 5: of other families.
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  Speaker 2: So fun. Do you have any other holiday traditions that
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  Speaker 2: you would suggest that like I or any other young
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  Speaker 2: family out there should take on or New Year's or
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  Speaker 2: Christmas for any anything.
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  Speaker 6: In my family, there are certain recipes that we make
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  Speaker 6: every year, and different people will make them sometimes, but
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  Speaker 6: it's we always when we talk about the holidays, it's always, oh, great,
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  Speaker 6: we're going to have to get those mashed potatoes or
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  Speaker 6: that bread or that cake. Like people remember my family.
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  Speaker 6: Remember you have to start it with your young kids.
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  Speaker 6: Whatever it is.
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  Speaker 4: You start to a.
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  Speaker 6: Tradition before your kids are old enough to understand that
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  Speaker 6: you're starting a tradition, if that makes sense.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, So much of it is about the food, but
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  Speaker 5: I think, like the memory is maybe a bigger thing,
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  Speaker 5: or could be a bigger thing. And like I said,
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  Speaker 5: you know, I think a lot of people struggle with
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  Speaker 5: what to do on New Year's Eve.
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  Speaker 2: So it's probably one.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: So we started incorporating our kids and we did the
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  Speaker 5: bowling or we did a bingo night. So I mean,
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  Speaker 5: yours are a little young for that, but you're getting
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  Speaker 5: there and and it's fun and if you have it
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  Speaker 5: with other families, it's.
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  Speaker 3: A lot for your children.
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  Speaker 1: Take them out at eight o'clock, bang the pots and pans,
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  Speaker 1: even think it's okay.
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  Speaker 3: I did that for years till they caught on the other.
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  Speaker 6: The other thing that I did with my kids, it
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  Speaker 6: wasn't for New Year's but at Christmas, we always adopted
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  Speaker 6: a family and we every year would a different family
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  Speaker 6: and I would take my three kids and we would
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  Speaker 6: go shopping and we would buy the things. I would
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  Speaker 6: help they would help me pick them out. And I
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  Speaker 6: will say, this year, for the first time, it made
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  Speaker 6: me cry. My daughter called me, she now is a
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  Speaker 6: two year old. She said, Mom, we're picking up the tradition.
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  Speaker 6: We've adopted a family because I remember you and Dad
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  Speaker 6: we did it every year, and so now my daughter
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  Speaker 6: has adopted a family and they're going to do it
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  Speaker 6: every year.
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  Speaker 4: So you're right.
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  Speaker 6: Food is important, but teaching kids, especially this time of year,
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  Speaker 6: to give back is huge.
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  Speaker 3: Another secret.
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  Speaker 1: Tell the kids because they all have plenty of toys
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  Speaker 1: and you're about to add more. No, now, we got
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  Speaker 1: to give some of your other stuff to the little
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  Speaker 1: kids that don't have anything, and they'd.
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  Speaker 3: Have to part with things. It was an ordeal. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: it was hard for them. What don't you want to
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  Speaker 3: have anymore because you have to wait.
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  Speaker 2: That's actually a really good idea too, putting the donations
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  Speaker 2: in their hands.
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  Speaker 4: Get your kids to help you whatever it is.
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  Speaker 6: If you have a tree, help get your kids involved
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  Speaker 6: in cooking, get involved in whatever it is, decorating, making,
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  Speaker 6: cook baking, whatever it is. Just get them involved, because
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  Speaker 6: I have found with children, it's not the big thing.
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  Speaker 6: It's not the gifts that remember. My kids don't remember
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  Speaker 6: any of the gifts. They remember the experiences that their
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  Speaker 6: dad and I provided for them and that we did
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  Speaker 6: as a family. Whatever, and it almost doesn't matter what
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  Speaker 6: it is it's the experiences that.
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  Speaker 5: And they can be really simple. I remember we used
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  Speaker 5: to on two days before Christmas, the eve of Christmas Eve,
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  Speaker 5: we would stick the kids in the car in their pajamas.
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  Speaker 5: I had four kids, and we put them in their
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  Speaker 5: pajamas and we would drive around and look at lights.
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  Speaker 5: And it was so simple, and it kind of got
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  Speaker 5: them tired. And I served a couple of purposes. You
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  Speaker 5: got them in their pajamas early, you stuck him in
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  Speaker 5: a car, they got a little tired. Sometimes we bring
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  Speaker 5: hot chocolate and like little sippy cups and we just
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  Speaker 5: drove around to neighborhoods and looked at Christmas lights, and
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  Speaker 5: you didn't and you would not have hot chocolate in
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  Speaker 5: your sippy cup.
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  Speaker 4: By the way, Yeah, anything you want.
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  Speaker 2: Yesterday, I realized we were kind of were unintentionally creating
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  Speaker 2: a tradition. We go to this little quaint town it's
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  Speaker 2: like a Hallmark town tree lighting where they have carollers,
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  Speaker 2: and then Santa comes in the fire truck. And then
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  Speaker 2: this is like the third year in a row that
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  Speaker 2: non intentionally. I go over into this little store where
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  Speaker 2: everything is really like handmade, and I get a couple
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  Speaker 2: of ornaments, and I let Dawson pick out an ornament
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  Speaker 2: and so now that's like our thing. That yeah, so cute,
• 10:31
  Speaker 2: good one. So I'm a big cruiser. I love going
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  Speaker 2: on cruises. But you ladies, will all three be part
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  Speaker 2: of it? What are your uh, what's your tasks? What
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  Speaker 2: are your events that we're.
• 10:44
  Speaker 3: Meeting the well, we have to do some suggestions, right.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we did the survey.
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  Speaker 6: We wanted doing a live podcast, so we're going to
• 10:54
  Speaker 6: be doing a podcast on the ship. But I just
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  Speaker 6: found out that Hammer Brown just took up neil point
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  Speaker 6: and I'm a huge needle point on, so I want
• 11:03
  Speaker 6: to give lessons on the ship. Come on, But that'd
• 11:05
  Speaker 6: be fun to teach people how to needle point.
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  Speaker 2: It's a little like non.
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  Speaker 1: Alcohol involved, you know, but it's when it's.
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  Speaker 2: For you and Hannah to have like a relaxing I said,
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to be.
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  Speaker 5: Sitting by the planet, like I'm not sure if I'm
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  Speaker 5: going to leave my nice lamp chair to.
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  Speaker 3: Go dance contest the judge.
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  Speaker 4: I love all that bingo bingo.
• 11:30
  Speaker 5: I know I volunteered, Yeah, but I think I'm doing
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  Speaker 5: a question answer, so I hope that I don't know
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  Speaker 5: what people want to ask me. I kind of feel
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  Speaker 5: like I've talked about it all. I'm I'm going to
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  Speaker 5: think of something good.
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  Speaker 1: Well, they might ask the same questions, they just didn't
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  Speaker 1: hear that yet. Maybe I'll do anything they want. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we're just happy to mingle. There's lots of single men.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, right, have okay, single men your age? You think
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  Speaker 2: that's going to happen. I think it's a different cruise
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  Speaker 2: that we did on this be all women, let's base it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and a lot of my fans, right, and her
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  Speaker 1: and her husband are coming.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, a couple couple of single men in their sixties.
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  Speaker 5: Good loss, I say zero, I say four thousand people.
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  Speaker 4: I'm heading back to the golf course. Heading back to
• 12:20
  Speaker 4: the golf course.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, So, why do I always think that you were
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  Speaker 2: in paradise because mentally we all prepared for you to
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: be there, and you were because you have got a boyfriend, Cavy.
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  Speaker 2: You obviously spent plenty of time with Kat and Dale,
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  Speaker 2: and they have maybe not really announced that they broke up,
• 12:44
  Speaker 2: but we all know that they did. So what's your
• 12:46
  Speaker 2: take on that?
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  Speaker 6: You know, I had high hopes for them. They were
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  Speaker 6: not If I'm being honest and I was. They were
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  Speaker 6: not at the top of my list of couples who
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  Speaker 6: I thought would make.
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  Speaker 4: It, but I was hoping they would.
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  Speaker 6: They both have you know, they're both a little bit
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  Speaker 6: older than the average young ones that were at Paradise,
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  Speaker 6: and they've had a lot of experiences, and they've been
• 13:09
  Speaker 6: in the public eye a lot, and you know, Cat
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  Speaker 6: had been engaged and all that. So I was really
• 13:13
  Speaker 6: hoping that they had found each other. And but yeah,
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  Speaker 6: I'm sad.
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  Speaker 4: It's sad.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't think they were.
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  Speaker 4: You know what, it's whether you think it.
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  Speaker 6: I'm a I'm the eternal optimist, Like I wanted them
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  Speaker 6: to make it. And Alicia and Sean, those were the
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  Speaker 6: two couples that I was like, I'd like them to
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  Speaker 6: make it. But honestly, it doesn't surprise me that either
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  Speaker 6: one broke up. And actually I did tell Dale before
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  Speaker 6: I left Paradise that if things didn't work out with them,
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  Speaker 6: and I have my number.
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  Speaker 3: The couples that did make it. There's quite a few there, and.
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  Speaker 4: They're all moving together. They all moved in together.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Alison and Alexander. They're talking about finances already and
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  Speaker 2: how they're splitting it. Up and investing in the future,
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  Speaker 2: and I am impressed and I'm really happy for their trajectory.
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  Speaker 5: I was so thrill.
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  Speaker 6: Girlfriend Spencer and she just moved and just she just
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  Speaker 6: moved to Dallas.
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  Speaker 1: And they have some finances to start with to invest.
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  Speaker 5: They're sorting good they want Yeah, they all do. That
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  Speaker 5: was that was interesting twist. And I wasn't a huge
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  Speaker 5: fan of it in the beginning because I didn't want
• 14:35
  Speaker 5: people to stick around and pretend they were a couples
• 14:37
  Speaker 5: just to get the money. But the way it turned
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  Speaker 5: out was.
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  Speaker 2: Just cross It really was because with her student loans and.
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  Speaker 6: She talked to you guys, don't I don't know if
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  Speaker 6: this was shown, but we did interviews towards the end,
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  Speaker 6: and Keith and I had already said on camera that
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  Speaker 6: we were not going to take the money.
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  Speaker 4: From Yeah, that was starting out there, but we had.
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  Speaker 6: These interviews and I asked, I asked Alex what they
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  Speaker 6: she would do with the money, and she said she
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  Speaker 6: had a lot of debt to pay off from school,
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  Speaker 6: and I was like, who cannot get behind that? And
• 15:16
  Speaker 6: then one of the other couple, I asked Bailey what
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  Speaker 6: she would do with Jeremy and They're like, well, we're
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  Speaker 6: just going to go traveling.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, no, no, Bailey, reach out to me
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  Speaker 5: because I'm going to be in New York. And she said,
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  Speaker 5: we'd love to see you guys. So I'm going to
• 15:34
  Speaker 5: try to get together with them.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's crazy three couples.
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  Speaker 5: They may have surprised me, and I'm happily surprised.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I know.
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  Speaker 2: And Alex she just said that it's such a burden
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  Speaker 2: off of her. It's a whole different life and she
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  Speaker 2: ever imagined herself living because of that. So yeah, it's
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  Speaker 2: great that for the season there was that twist.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but I love that she like she said that
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  Speaker 5: she was kind of on her own at a pretty
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  Speaker 5: young age, and I love that she made that investment
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  Speaker 5: and then it all like now she has a great career,
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  Speaker 5: and like I see her posting a lot about being
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  Speaker 5: a therapist and she's so good. Yeah, and there's that games.
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  Speaker 5: It's such a like a responsible and mature decision to
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  Speaker 5: spend all that money or to invest all that money
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  Speaker 5: in herself and then get to have it paid off
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  Speaker 5: is like, like.
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  Speaker 2: What a great reward, perfect reward.
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  Speaker 6: You know what I love about them? They both have
• 16:23
  Speaker 6: great senses of humor. The whole time in Paradise, they laughed,
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  Speaker 6: They truly enjoyed.
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: Each other's company.
• 16:29
  Speaker 6: I just sat and watched them because they just were
• 16:32
  Speaker 6: having so much fun together. And at the end of
• 16:34
  Speaker 6: the day, the person you're in love with, you want
• 16:36
  Speaker 6: to have fun with them too, and they just epitomize that.
• 16:39
  Speaker 5: They actually worried me. I kept thinking they are two
• 16:42
  Speaker 5: friend zony, like they're not. You were there, But what
• 16:47
  Speaker 5: they showed on TV was like they were. They seemed
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: very friend.
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: Zoning to be.
• 16:53
  Speaker 5: They weren't super affectionate. I mean, it's obvious now that
• 16:56
  Speaker 5: we see it, more like in the real world they are,
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: you know, wonderful. But I felt like that sense of humor,
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: which I love to like, made it look too friends
• 17:05
  Speaker 5: friendly to me friends.
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: I understand that totally. I think it's a look thing.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: I think they have definitely gotten passively. They're just a
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: very well rounded couple right now. I will be shocked
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: if they're not end game. I'm now thinking about a
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: moment in which a breakup shocked me. Was there any
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: bachelination moments that couples that shocked you when they broke up?
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: Because to me, it was Ashley and JP.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: Oh, Ashley and Ja surprised.
• 17:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like we almost expect them usually. Now
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to think, like I yeah.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Like, hhmm, was anybody surprised with Gary and Teresa?
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: No?
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: No, are you really asking that question?
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 18:04
  Speaker 5: That was a sarcastic ask. Good okay, because I.
• 18:07
  Speaker 4: Was like, really, but how much fun was the wedding?
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: Were I was that microphone getting.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: So nice to me? I always tell her. She looked
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: at me and she was like, yeah, we we know,
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: and I feel.
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: Pregnant, right, And You're like, how do I know?
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: I'm like, you look like you're abelt development and you
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: haven't drink on it.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: You don't even know if I talked to you about
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: that afterward. But that was the most dramatic night of
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: throwing up while pregnant that I've ever had in my life.
• 18:37
  Speaker 5: Oh, that's incredient.
• 18:40
  Speaker 6: That that's a what you know what? Gary and wish
• 18:43
  Speaker 6: they had been throwing up what they were.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Doing, Alice, it would have gotten them out of it.
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: But that wedding was at the top that we have
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: to admit. That was.
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: It was a phenomenal event to be invited to a
• 18:56
  Speaker 5: good event, even though you didn't have a lot of
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: faith in the marriage. But it was a great wedding.
• 19:00
  Speaker 6: I gotta say I loved being able to have an
• 19:03
  Speaker 6: air piece and do that life with n.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: There were some great moments at that wedding. There were
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: great moments. Yeah.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And the fact that you guys can just take
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: up that skill. It's amazing showing up a party. We
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: can do that.
• 19:21
  Speaker 6: But you know what, actually, look at this three two
• 19:23
  Speaker 6: years ago, two and a half years ago. We did
• 19:25
  Speaker 6: not know each other, and look at us we've got.
• 19:27
  Speaker 6: That's the best thing about bachelors, the friendships.
• 19:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and you probably know that too. I mean obviously.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: Certainly absolutely like a frat and sority in my life
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: the time that I thought that that period was over right,
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: All right, all, thank you so much for joining us.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: Have a great time at jingle Ball tonight. Think you
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: know just you know, enjoyed the free food and drinks.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: If you don't know the songs, I know this I
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: know will happen to all of us in mean spirit.
• 20:04
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• 20:10
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• 20:14
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