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- 0:05Guess how the amazing Universe always works.
- 0:09We are going to change up our intro and at first, I wasn't
- 0:14sure. And then I was like, you know
- 0:16what, wait a minute, let me go revisit that.
- 0:18I am expanding Consciousness intro and just hearing the first
- 0:22couple minutes of a. Okay, yes, it is time for an
- 0:24update especially with all the new episodes that you'll be
- 0:28hearing. And the integration of
- 0:31trauma-informed and somatic informed, as well as the somatic
- 0:35experiencing informed upcoming mine site.
- 0:38So, all of the lovely addition to our human elements, the
- 0:42intro, this one's going to be kind of short, and I'll revisit
- 0:45them. Probably, according to when time
- 0:48will ask me for a new one again, in the meantime, anybody who's
- 0:51new welcome, you can find in really the description of all of
- 0:56the podcasts since their standard.
- 1:00The nation of what we're all about.
- 1:04And so, I'm just going to break it down, where enlightened Soul
- 1:08age group. And so people who are in their
- 1:105D self empowered and letting State of Consciousness, and what
- 1:14this means and human terms is people who are functional
- 1:18adults. They are differentiated selves
- 1:22differentiate itself. You can find that in family of
- 1:25origin, therapy stuff, and we also Have mindfulness brain and
- 1:31mind frame. So we are able to use our lovely
- 1:34brain and the neuroplastic way and just using words to describe
- 1:37Concepts that my regular listeners know about, but that
- 1:39anybody who wants it's in, you know, you would want to know
- 1:43about, otherwise you can't follow the conversations also
- 1:46and like mental age, when people are in their ventral vagal
- 1:49system. So we are always safe and social
- 1:53with Humanity. In fact, we love humanity and
- 1:55Life to death, the death of us. In fact, we're all still
- 1:58breathing for now, right? And I wake up tomorrow.
- 2:00I'm still breathing and we don't suffer.
- 2:03We actually experience emotional pain in its natural form,
- 2:08allowing it to flow and do its thing and we don't sit and
- 2:11create stories. There's a way that I can explain
- 2:14this. By the way, it's always
- 2:16Neuroscience, psychology education and we only have love
- 2:19Cycles, but I do look at those who might have shame Cycles
- 2:23because I know that everyone is always going to be looking to
- 2:27expand. So there are people who will
- 2:29choose move out a 3D 4D and or other Soul age groups and so
- 2:33they will begin to be able and see wait a minute, my body heart
- 2:37and mind. They speak something.
- 2:39And I actually want to listen to it, I want to be the grown-up
- 2:43version of myself. So taking those emotions and
- 2:46sting, you know, I'm going to pay attention to what I think
- 2:48and feel and I will be able to move forward with respecting
- 2:54others by being able to be Economist because see, when you
- 2:57are a functional do. That means you're forgiving and
- 2:59nuanced because you're Using again, your mindfulness brain
- 3:01and I forgot you're in a state of physiological compassion.
- 3:06You're actually able to sit in your psychological floor.
- 3:09It's called a neocortex. It has six neurons to for the
- 3:12hearing now, to for the implicit memory stuff that every human
- 3:16being body holes, and it goes all the way back to fishies.
- 3:19Thank you Dan Siegel, for that explanation.
- 3:22They meet in the middle where there's other two neurons, which
- 3:24creates our subjective reality. So everybody's emotions or based
- 3:28for our own self survive, Evil, but it comes in begin since we
- 3:32were little. So again, when you are in the
- 3:34enlightenment still age group, you're actually aware when the
- 3:37implicit memory stuff is coming off and you're able to sit in
- 3:40this zero place. And understand, I'll wait, these
- 3:42are my motions in to talk about them and in every one of our
- 3:46episodes, we look at different things to inflame.
- 3:48So mates, over Soul because I have a person who's also in that
- 3:53community of the mystics. Mystical is a terrorism
- 3:56metaphysics. So besides the human elements
- 3:58and oh spirituality. Sadhguru lovely, yogic Sciences.
- 4:02He's the one who I learned from. They took his inner engineering
- 4:05course and I also did some Bobby Korean.
- 4:08I'm doing another thing with him.
- 4:10So I listened to him when it comes to spirituality.
- 4:13He's my room of choice and the other subject matter experts,
- 4:18I'd aim as I as it goes, but long story short, we're in a
- 4:22physiological state of compassion.
- 4:24So we know how to be able and sit with a orange and apple.
- 4:29And actually, Enjoy our conversation.
- 4:31You get to learn about this and more from both the perspective
- 4:36of again, Mystic as well as a person.
- 4:38It's the infinite higher human consciousness expression.
- 4:41Potential etc, etc. That's why in our growth is All
- 4:44Me, What comes forth and we don't have regret.
- 4:48We don't have any of that, we don't suffer again, we don't sit
- 4:51in our Temple Junction. So explain all these things and
- 4:54more through our topics. There's also subscription-based
- 4:57model content, for those who want to Learn to put into
- 5:00practice because there are some episodes that are for practice
- 5:04and then there's also the light workers life that's where I
- 5:06share my personal, Claire stories, and relate it to you
- 5:11from an indictment. So age group perspective we do
- 5:14have, I'm Consciousness expanding Consciousness but I
- 5:18evaluate month to month, we have at least one episode, you can
- 5:21sign up. It's a five or six dollars in
- 5:24dollars Euros would be probably not more than six year olds and
- 5:28in other currency. And I'm not sure what that would
- 5:31be but meantime, thank you for tuning in to the intro and I
- 5:35hope you stay for the episode and if not thank you for
- 5:38stopping by and I share with you my unconditional love and wish
- 5:42you the best. Welcome back to my lovely HP
- 5:54Community. We have some extra time for bit
- 5:57of Enlightenment special Really, what it is is that I have some
- 6:02upcoming episodes that I've organized and you can thank
- 6:06friend of mine for posing. The question as we discussed how
- 6:12there are some of us who don't have suffering though.
- 6:14They're not the first person who presents the aspect of no, you
- 6:20know, they look at you and it's like, that's not actually
- 6:22possible unless you're not a human, you know?
- 6:24It's like no, no it is, the science is out there, it's just
- 6:28in different pieces. And parts.
- 6:30And so, here's where thanks to their curiosity.
- 6:36Because of being open to reading more.
- 6:40I went ahead to find some of the neuroscience and psychoeducation
- 6:43on it, because obviously, it was not on the spectrum of
- 6:48philosophizing, which is where spirituality is out with the
- 6:51stories, doesn't matter. If it's satguru or a Ram Dass or
- 6:56anyone, the minute that anything in Enlightenment and Is why
- 7:00Enlightenment is still something that people think is not
- 7:03achievable? And that's where I thanks again
- 7:06to this friend, I'm able to present something, I'm very
- 7:09excited. I'm debating how?
- 7:12And if I want to present it on a special day for me, it's a
- 7:16special day for me. So I might do that and in the
- 7:19meantime, like, well I'm already excited about presenting all of
- 7:22this stuff to my lovely sister. So I chose to do an amendment
- 7:26special on it and to give you a little bit of A heads-up.
- 7:30So tomorrow, for example, or talking about aspects of
- 7:34Enlightenment with twin flames, soul mates and over soul and
- 7:38sadness and there's two or three episodes scheduled, they will
- 7:44integrate as always to the best of their ability.
- 7:46The part where the individual who is here is not from having
- 7:52or some special being is actually a human being who the
- 7:57words that I'm going to use or organized.
- 7:59That's why I just found out. Thank you, Wikipedia.
- 8:02And I gotta love how academics works until they have all their
- 8:05empirical data. It's not proven.
- 8:07So that's why our lovely naysayer gave us.
- 8:10The best way to talk about the ihp content.
- 8:13It's pseudoscience, doesn't have to be bullshit, but it can and
- 8:17will fall into that category for some years to come as our lovely
- 8:20academics, in the Mental Health Community, get all of their
- 8:24proof together. Just like when people are like
- 8:27no you can't you know, not suffer.
- 8:29As you know, humans do it's like, no, that's actually the
- 8:32tail that they've told and it's not a tail, it's that there
- 8:35wasn't the information. Furthermore, if you look at the
- 8:39fact that our bodies actually do evolve like any other species,
- 8:42it adapts to its environment. And so you know here's where a
- 8:47person who Taps into their infinite, higher human
- 8:49consciousness potential because of loving humanity and life, I
- 8:53raised my hand and I'm sure there's plenty out there.
- 8:56It's like, wait a minute. I'm so we're able to connect
- 8:59Many different thoughts that. Obviously, again, those
- 9:02empirical data professionals will take time.
- 9:05Here's where I also differ with the whole 43d community, on
- 9:09using words, to Define our bodies, whether it be machine or
- 9:13that we are again, filling in the holes where there's gaps
- 9:17with other life-forms. These are all hypotheticals.
- 9:21I'm going to stay grounded. And, and, and share again from
- 9:25my basic knowledge of anatomy. Thank you to my university
- 9:29courses. Even though I was very, very bad
- 9:31at remembering, all of the body parts because my memory doesn't
- 9:34work like that. So the very challenging class
- 9:38and atomy for me and even had a lab with it think that I'll
- 9:43never forget that one of my exams is, basically, we have to
- 9:47walk into the lab and remember all these parts.
- 9:49And I don't remember what great I got.
- 9:51But I just remember having a blank mind and like, fuck.
- 9:54I don't know any of these and I was looking at this one bone, it
- 9:57was a leg bone because the leg One has like three different
- 10:01parts to it, you know. And so there's three different
- 10:03names, which I don't even know how to pronounce and you know
- 10:06that made it even that much more harder or so.
- 10:08Anyways side, no personal, share for my regular listeners.
- 10:12Yeah, College was fun for me. I would have stayed in college,
- 10:16but then, you know, it's like, well, let's get started with
- 10:18work and stuff, which is also very awesome.
- 10:21Long story short. And I know I just got
- 10:23sidetracked from where I was headed the evolution of our
- 10:28bodies. And so, here's where Or our
- 10:30environment would be the world around us.
- 10:32And so when you look at the fact that this was from a Netflix
- 10:35documentary that when we began life on the planet, the human
- 10:39species, a pair of whatever it is whenever they've traced it
- 10:41back to there were 70 percent of nature.
- 10:45This was the one, this is the people who are blaming Humanity
- 10:48for where the environment is and and, you know, all that stuff
- 10:51versus just, let's work together.
- 10:53You know. I love how the pointing of
- 10:54fingers just keeps people in separation Consciousness waste
- 10:57our time. You know?
- 10:58Can see, here's where the in Adult would be like, dude.
- 11:01Okay, we get it. Like why are you not just
- 11:04figured out your you you got the equations but they're too busy
- 11:08with their belief systems and they're too busy being
- 11:11undifferentiated cells. All of these people.
- 11:14So again, I'm not going to get in-depth on the topic, but
- 11:17differentiated self is actually something that was brought about
- 11:21by a specific psychologist, and it is related to person becomes
- 11:26independent from their own family of origin.
- 11:29In their family of orange, and beliefs and values because the
- 11:33individual is able to create their own distinct relationship
- 11:38with their own emotions, and thoughts, and still love their
- 11:41own family. That is where we don't feel
- 11:43rejected. So everything that we talked
- 11:46about when it comes to getting to 5D's, self-empowered,
- 11:49enlightened and Indian Lightman. Sole troop actually could be
- 11:52broken down in this one Theory alone, when I read it, I am
- 11:56going to review some of the specifics furthermore that
- 11:58mindfulness brain. Neuroplasticity, how it shows
- 12:02with mindfulness, you actually work with your brain.
- 12:05Same thing goes with mine site and this is where you're pausing
- 12:08your own mediator again, the enlightenment.
- 12:11So a true person. The 5 DC person in Enlightenment
- 12:14is already here and we've been using our mindfulness and
- 12:17mindsight brain, basically, our entire lives.
- 12:20Furthermore, the ventral vagal system, yes.
- 12:22Which by the way. So there's the data point of the
- 12:25academics who have not proven that this is true or not yet.
- 12:28So Wikipedia, Well, the way they open up with the polyvagal
- 12:32theory. This is what, you know, I don't
- 12:34love I'm being sarcastic when I say I love because what I think
- 12:37is that this is the level of unnecessary, you know?
- 12:42Let me highlight this but then again, that's how Academia works
- 12:45with their research and that's how most people work.
- 12:48Anyways. So you know, again dies have to
- 12:50see those who are in separation Consciousness.
- 12:52They don't believe in the goodness of their own species.
- 12:55Not, they must not, they still believe in the stories that are
- 12:58created same Those with suffering some so you present.
- 13:01The data is like, well no, the concept of suffering has lasted
- 13:04this entire life. It cannot be.
- 13:06It just can't be, it. Must be aliens.
- 13:08So technology. Here, here you go.
- 13:11Now, some people and definitely, again, create stories, and they
- 13:15will keep doing that for some time.
- 13:16But in the meantime, those of us over here, we're not creating
- 13:19story we're creating conversations.
- 13:22So here's this polyvagal Theory. When you go to Wikipedia also I
- 13:25laughed as soon as I read this polyvagal theory is a Election
- 13:30of unproven, they have to just unproven evolutionary
- 13:35neuroscientific and psychological constructs
- 13:38pertaining to the role of the vagus nerve in Emotion
- 13:41regulation, social connection and fear response to introduced
- 13:45in 1994 by Stephen porges. I laughed very hard inside
- 13:49because the somatic experiencing approach the bottom up approach
- 13:53is actively helping people that go through actual therapy and
- 13:56the fact that somebody had to specify this The first word they
- 14:00had to use, it's just like, okay then let's discredit something
- 14:05that is being found that actually shows that Humanity can
- 14:09work in a way that is social FYI.
- 14:12It's like just hilarious to me how many times I get to have to
- 14:17read stuff like that. So here I shared it with my
- 14:21lovely listeners, that way you can have a chuckle yourself, my
- 14:24Enlightenment still age group. Obviously people, there are
- 14:27always going to be passerbys that are not in this old age
- 14:30group and they're just going to be, you know, the whole other
- 14:33place, but the other aspects. So the ventral vagal nervous,
- 14:38system State. That's part of our they might
- 14:41mental age group ability. So we are actually always
- 14:45engaging in it, and that's why we feel safe and social with
- 14:48people. Because here's where, when I
- 14:50started to read more about this, that's the part that I wanted to
- 14:53get to and at least present today is that I'm going to read.
- 14:59So this is from Wikipedia, okay, the traditional view of the
- 15:03atomic nervous system presents a two-part system.
- 15:06So the traditional view the sympathetic nervous system which
- 15:09is more activating dots are fight or flight and the
- 15:12parasympathetic nervous system which supports Health growth and
- 15:15restoration. This is the rest and digest.
- 15:19The polyvagal theory, identifies a third type of nervous system
- 15:23response. It's called the social
- 15:25engagement system, a hybrid state of activation and car,
- 15:29Calming that plays a role in our ability to socially engage or
- 15:33not. He goes onto or whoever is the
- 15:36writer on Wikipedia. Polyvagal Theory views, the
- 15:38parasympathetic nervous system as being split into two,
- 15:42distinct branches eventual vagal system.
- 15:45This is the one that's activated for those of us in the 5 DC and
- 15:49the enlightenment. So a troop for sure, there's not
- 15:51even a shadow of a doubt about it because otherwise, you would
- 15:53not be in a state of Enlightenment right now, and you
- 15:57would not be able to be in your mindfulness.
- 15:59Mine's that all these things. And really what it is, it's that
- 16:02Stillness and accessibility. So the 5D person is a person
- 16:07who's still with Humanity, doesn't matter what biological
- 16:09rudeness is in front of you. This is where I actually
- 16:13experienced this every day of my life.
- 16:15So I'm sharing it from my personal experiences, even
- 16:18though. Again, there will be always
- 16:19people who question when you say, I don't suffer.
- 16:22I feel emotions and no matter how you try to present it, they
- 16:25will keep on because in you see again, the eyes are like no.
- 16:29But their idea comes from Concepts that don't actually do
- 16:36any work with people by the way or understand that you know this
- 16:40man. He's not creating shit from his
- 16:42ass. He has technology he's W like
- 16:44this is where it's with technology that he sees this
- 16:48activity as well as do others who are in the same group trauma
- 16:54research experts who are looking at how our brain works and
- 16:57compassion. So when Scanners.
- 17:00Remember my one class, this was either in Detachment one from an
- 17:03ICBM.com or was the abandonment. One of the classes that I began
- 17:08but I didn't finish it yet and it explains what happens in the
- 17:13body. When a person a human being is
- 17:15in the physiological state of compassion, which is what the
- 17:18indictments will age, would person is in.
- 17:20When a person's physiology is in a state of compassion, service,
- 17:24in a concept is physiologically. Speaking, your eventual vagal
- 17:28nervous systems State is on line Your Love.
- 17:32Oxytocin, Gene hormone is online because your body feels safe and
- 17:37it's still. So it's not in fight flight or
- 17:40freeze, the dorsal Bagel. That's the other system, I'll
- 17:44finish reading the Wikipedia in a minute.
- 17:46The brain, remember, what lights up the insula, which connects
- 17:49the head to the brain, the insula Orissa La.
- 17:52Forget always, which one it is the, it's either ins Ula, or is
- 17:57ul8. Here's where we learn with
- 17:59Jennifer's. When you're in trauma response,
- 18:02safety Behavior, response or traumatized brain, the insula,
- 18:06I'm going to call it with the and guys is not as active, but
- 18:10the person who instead it is active their body and their hat,
- 18:14their brain, we feel our body. So those of us who have an
- 18:17activated and a good activating in selasa, when you're in
- 18:21compassion, the in so lights up, our body and our header one.
- 18:25We feel both the amygdala lights up because that's our alert.
- 18:29System. Otherwise, you wouldn't be
- 18:30paying attention to something. So this is where it's part of.
- 18:33Wait, let me look around, I'm aware of some things going on
- 18:36the temporal Junction, which is you relate to suffering, or you
- 18:39relate to another because you're a human being who has had your
- 18:42own experiences. And here's where people, sit and
- 18:44rumination, which is what I was trying to explain to when I
- 18:48answered the question about why I know for a fact that I don't
- 18:51suffer personally and that anybody can not suffer as even a
- 18:56set group pointed out and he was questioned in the same.
- 18:59Led by Professor who is not a psychology expert though.
- 19:03The same way, with any other person who's going to present
- 19:06the data point. So again, this is where because
- 19:08of all the stories or just, let's look at it again.
- 19:11Stephen porges with his wife, that did not publish the above
- 19:14code book, because these bubbly Publishers, feel that love is on
- 19:18a big protest or whatever the frick that word is, which would
- 19:21be. It has to be suffering and pain
- 19:23and not be exchanged. You can only be in a state of
- 19:26love if you're safe inside your body.
- 19:28So if You're safe and social, but, you know, reducing it to
- 19:32that for those who like stories and those who want to reduce it
- 19:36to machine, we're not machines either.
- 19:38So, here's the middle ground, which is what the 5dc person in
- 19:43the indictments will age group is here to talk about with
- 19:45lovely Humanity. Our 5D relationships, I love
- 19:48uncontrolled of I love science and I love spirituality and I
- 19:52love all the mystics and spiritual.
- 19:53I love bringing all of it. To you guys is amazing to have
- 19:56all three. And, you know, I've always loved
- 19:59Number that 3 is about change. It's always changing but it's
- 20:03always expanding for those of us who are a constant.
- 20:06I am presence connected to that lovely full Consciousness Akash.
- 20:10So our downloads, We already know without knowing we don't
- 20:15get lost in the story so we get to see all of this is all thanks
- 20:19to our lovely over. So by the way, so and every time
- 20:22they stuck a finger though up or noses, which is where we got to
- 20:25learn how to be differentiated selves because every time
- 20:28they're like, nope, you don't. Just your thoughts and emotions,
- 20:30don't exist. Nope.
- 20:31Nope. Do we have to go with the
- 20:33stereotypes? Have to go with the?
- 20:34We're like, well, I don't know about that.
- 20:36But okay, you can keep your opinion.
- 20:38I'll keep mine and we'll keep loving each other.
- 20:40Just the same as yesterday and those who don't.
- 20:42Well, you know, again, that's where the adopted child is
- 20:45protecting their own wounded parts.
- 20:47So, those individuals are in fact, in a different mindset
- 20:54which would be shame. Blame fault Revenge. 3D 4D
- 20:57mindset, beneath the neutrality belt.
- 20:59This lovely map of Consciousness that people who don't understand
- 21:03how the body works. And that you can always buy
- 21:05about Enlightenment. They don't understand because
- 21:08they don't actually apply the whole.
- 21:10So, before we move on, what's the last part of the brain that
- 21:13lights up? When you're in a state of
- 21:14compassion? Without this party, ain't going
- 21:16to be in compassion? Might be an empathy, which means
- 21:19you'll suffer the last part of the brain that lights up.
- 21:23Prefrontal cortex. My regular scissors will have
- 21:26known this by Heart by now, because when I learned it, I
- 21:28spelled it out like Like, I don't even know for how many
- 21:30weeks is, that's how my brain works.
- 21:32So, when you're in a physiological state of
- 21:34compassion, your prefrontal cortex life's up, which is where
- 21:37you take in the information of what's happening and you're
- 21:40like, okay, is there something that I can physically do to help
- 21:43the situation? Yes, I can give them my
- 21:46emotional support. Okay, great.
- 21:48There you go. Don.
- 21:51You don't have to suffer with them.
- 21:52And in fact, usually, you don't suffer with them.
- 21:55Usually, you sit there and allow people to complain about their
- 21:58lives as there. In hammered, in their own way
- 22:01and ignoring their implicit memory stuff, right?
- 22:03So here is where we don't actually get bored with the
- 22:06people that do that. We're very understanding in
- 22:09time, we just realized that people, you know, and their
- 22:12life, and their emotions are going to be overwhelming.
- 22:15And in fact, thank you. Psycho Educators pre-existing so
- 22:18much with the technology that you have because they are all
- 22:22the people who suffer in their temporal Junction and really
- 22:25when you look it up, so I did look up again, we won't talk
- 22:29about About each day, the difference between suffering and
- 22:31emotional pain. But let me give you a little bit
- 22:34of a. Let's see, where is it?
- 22:39One of the articles is best to share?
- 22:43I think it was this one, emotional pain and suffering are
- 22:46different right here, so let's see.
- 22:51Emotional suffering is a subjective experience.
- 22:54Individuals defined suffering in different ways but they include
- 22:57the subjective feeling of pain. Discomfort people suffer from
- 23:01colds, diseases, breakups, and hardships of all kinds, but
- 23:04suffering is different and separate from hardship,
- 23:07secondary to an original discomfort and it's the result
- 23:11of how one perceives the discomfort muscle pain can
- 23:15result from an intense workout. This is from another website,
- 23:18living systems thought, CA a person could feel good about
- 23:22that, a relationship breakup could be a relief.
- 23:24That's something very challenging is over, it doesn't
- 23:27mean that there isn't any discomfort.
- 23:29Change. Emotional pain is real, but it
- 23:31differs from the suffering that might follow.
- 23:35So here's where emotional pain is the experience of some
- 23:39perceived threat or damage to our emotional self, the
- 23:42quote-unquote sense of who we are and our psychological self
- 23:46but then like physical pain. We want to understand it because
- 23:51we want the pain to go away and this is where suffering can
- 23:54start. We can create a story about the
- 23:56meaning of the emotional pain. The story is inherently
- 24:00subjective. This story can easily be based
- 24:03on misunderstandings or misinformation, Asian and they
- 24:06give a lovely example, suppose Chris insults, Pat Pat could
- 24:10make up a story about why this happened and create quote
- 24:13unquote, meaning about the event.
- 24:15For example, Chris insulted me, because I'm stupid.
- 24:18I'm different now, that story becomes a source of the
- 24:21suffering for Pat. So I'm not going to keep
- 24:23reading. Because again, this is part of
- 24:25what we're going to discuss in other topics.
- 24:28And I also wanted to share from a neuroscientific level because
- 24:34Sears where I got a gun. Unquestioned on it conceptually,
- 24:37and it's like, well, I'm not actually conceptualizing.
- 24:39There's an actual difference, physiologically between in fact,
- 24:43feelings, and emotions. And so, let me see, which one of
- 24:47the articles I should use, maybe this one.
- 24:53No, we'll try this one. This is from Wake Forest
- 24:56University, the difference between feelings and emotions,
- 25:00emotions, and feelings are all traits.
- 25:02We share as humans, according to an article in the publication.
- 25:05They emotions are multifaceted experiences of internal
- 25:08subjective experiences. Facial expressions blah blah
- 25:11blah. Okay.
- 25:12Feelings versus emotions, here we go.
- 25:14Many people use the term feeling and emotion as synonyms but they
- 25:17are not interchangeable while they have similar elements.
- 25:20There is a market difference between feelings and emotions.
- 25:24Feelings, both, emotional experiences, and physical,
- 25:26Sensations, such as hunger pain, bring about feelings.
- 25:29According to psychology today, feelings are a conscious
- 25:32experience, although not every conscious, It's such as seeing
- 25:36or believing is a feeling as explained in the article
- 25:40motions. According to psychology today on
- 25:42emotion, quote-unquote they're quoting.
- 25:44Can only ever be felt through the emotional experiences?
- 25:47It gives rise to even though it might be discovered.
- 25:50Through its Association Associated thoughts, beliefs
- 25:54desires, and actions, and emotions are not conscious.
- 25:58But instead manifest in the unconscious mind, these emotions
- 26:01can be brought to the surface of the conscious State through
- 26:04extended cycle. Before by people who use their
- 26:08prefrontal cortex. And that's where we go to,
- 26:10julienne, with the neocortex. Everybody psychological floor.
- 26:14So self that is shaky, is not going to have such an easy time
- 26:18doing this. Like, my lovely attachments.
- 26:19So, friends who presented the word tactic and is basically
- 26:24still using their story of suffering and they're attached
- 26:27Cry for Help. Unfortunately, as their
- 26:30modality. Now in years, they've gotten
- 26:32better that's not being as agitated and R body, but their
- 26:36suffering has not diminished and their way of handling, their
- 26:39interpersonal relationships have, has not in continues, not
- 26:42to change. So they go back and forth, back
- 26:44and forth, between their states of friendships, because they are
- 26:49unfulfilled on satisfied. With the reality.
- 26:51Is their body is not feeling ever fulfilled in an actual
- 26:55physiological sense and they could use a good somatic and
- 26:59sensorimotor therapist that would work with their nervous
- 27:02system and explain to them because I'm not the May have the
- 27:06trauma and somatic and forms. They know this about my
- 27:10education and my updates with the snipe education.
- 27:13Thanks to being in this role of, not only a podcast host who
- 27:17wants to educate and Enlighten but also those mentorship
- 27:21courses and content and programs, and all these things
- 27:25and wanting to help people basic helping people.
- 27:29Since I was eight was to help people in their inner well-being
- 27:33to be happy to be yours. Self to be joyous to be like,
- 27:37because you can't and guess what?
- 27:38The indictments will age of, is that now getting away from this
- 27:43whole spirituality, which is a story, this Enlightenment is
- 27:46thought of as a badge that says, because again, Evolution our
- 27:50bodies go through Evolution our environment, which would be the
- 27:53world around us, getting back to that data point that I
- 27:55mentioned. So, when we began our lovely
- 27:58here on Earth, it was 70% animals.
- 28:01Well, right now, there's 30% animals, so it was 70, Animals
- 28:05and foresting and all nature and 30% humans.
- 28:08Now it's the opposite like the very opposite.
- 28:11So While others are focused on blaming Humanity, you know,
- 28:14because here's where the attacking themselves is very
- 28:17natural for those who fear their own species because again if you
- 28:20don't have it safe. So you actually don't feel safe
- 28:24in Social with Humanity. You're too busy judging from
- 28:27whatever belief system you got going on.
- 28:28And in this case, the environmentalists who are
- 28:30extremists. They just a human beings.
- 28:32You just watch the movies. All those movies.
- 28:35I don't like those movies. Every time I watch when I'm
- 28:38like, I feel bad for the director, whoever they are man,
- 28:40you you really need to work on your imagination because this is
- 28:43horrible and I love being alive. So, you know what, I had to
- 28:47choose who to eliminate. It would be all the people who
- 28:49want to leave innate human beings because I'm a human.
- 28:52So, excuse me, if I'm going to look to self preserve you know
- 28:56while you think of blaming people for something that you
- 29:00could be doing something better with and you know creating
- 29:02parasites and horror movies again.
- 29:04Some people they like Atkins are in the same boat as that
- 29:07director thinking of their own species as the shitty shit of
- 29:11the earth. And it's like gu not realize
- 29:14you're actually like going against us.
- 29:16That's a natural to want to go against your own living and
- 29:19breed like it's unnatural. So while people want to talk
- 29:24about their Concepts and Society stuff in the lovely little
- 29:28morality book of codes, we're like I see you want to
- 29:32exterminate the very life that I am.
- 29:34Well, let me make sure That I don't allow that one to happen
- 29:37and luckily for us we have a bunch of Enlightenment.
- 29:39So a true people out there doing the same thing so we got to be
- 29:43smiling 5D, it's beautiful. And in the meantime for doing 3D
- 29:48will see their conspiracy stuff come to being but let me get
- 29:51back to our topic as I was trying to describe.
- 29:55So emotion. Now, if we remember from our
- 29:58lovely other psycho, educator, where is she when she describes
- 30:05Us. How important emotions are your
- 30:08emotions? And this is not mine.
- 30:10This is Ebony. I read to you guys her name the
- 30:13couple episodes ago. I think your emotions are
- 30:16invested in your survival and your protection.
- 30:19Not in reality, it's subjective reality, which is why you quote,
- 30:23unquote need an outsider. Here's where the people who have
- 30:25the shaky psychological floor and they are undifferentiated
- 30:29cells. They need the mediator for short
- 30:31and especially in their adoptive child responses because they're
- 30:35Harsh unforgiving. They don't know how to have a
- 30:37conversation because they get taken over by their shame blame
- 30:40fault. Revenge cycles and Loops, which
- 30:42really don't get much scarier than somebody sticking and fork
- 30:46in your eye. Quote unquote, basically just
- 30:49accusing you and name calling you and doing a lot of other
- 30:52things that, you know, you just learn to be like, okay that's
- 30:56fascinating again and to be a grown-up and be able to explain
- 31:00everything that. As a teenager, I was like, wow,
- 31:02a lot of stupid people around me and here's where You know what
- 31:05happens when you get emotional. So people aren't actually stupid
- 31:09in the sense that they can't absorb information.
- 31:12What happens is they're taken over by their limbic system.
- 31:15So the bus is where you are actually blacked out your
- 31:18unconscious. And Dan Siegel, I'm going to go
- 31:21rob him because he's the one who lets us in on the little secret
- 31:24that our brain and even julienne.
- 31:27So remember the neocortex every one of our psychological floors.
- 31:31You got the two for the here and now we got the two that has our
- 31:33implicit memory stuff as well. We can walk every morning when
- 31:36we wake up instead of having to learn to walk again and again,
- 31:39so our body stores memory. Okay, so that's a little
- 31:44implicit memory stuff goes all the way back to when we were
- 31:47fishy. So yeah, there are people that
- 31:48have their animal instincts way up on high.
- 31:51And this is where their chemistry and there's a lot of
- 31:54other things their own environment, the infant in the
- 31:57gestation time and then when they're growing up in their own
- 32:00household. So here's where attachment
- 32:01trauma. Come into the mix, okay?
- 32:05My regularly sirs, I know you are falling.
- 32:07Anybody who's neither? Like wow this is a lot of
- 32:09information. Yes, I'm almost done and we can
- 32:11get to storytelling time and really what we conduct is
- 32:15talking time. So, in the middle, there's other
- 32:18two. So these six neurons, which are
- 32:20made up of a like a million other neurons or something like
- 32:23that. The to hear.
- 32:24Now, the to implicit memory system, they meet in the middle
- 32:27with the other 20. Create that subjective reality.
- 32:29Now, the implicit memory if they don't have a solid foundation
- 32:34and so person, Doesn't have at the very least.
- 32:36Secure attachment. Are we going to be like my
- 32:38attachment friend suffering, and being in those Cycles.
- 32:42Now, there's plenty of expert therapists out there that are
- 32:45great and trying to spread the word.
- 32:47They even negotiate with their own clients to keep doing the
- 32:50work on shame because those same clients, their protector lenses
- 32:54are on those adoptive children that are feisty and fighting and
- 32:58not connecting with their higher self.
- 33:00Meaning, not able to just recognize when I get charged up,
- 33:03I'm blanking my brain. Because I'm getting in my fight
- 33:06flight or freeze. The safety behavior is not a
- 33:09chosen Behavior, attached car for help collapsed, Summit,
- 33:12please appease are not choices. These are instinctive and these
- 33:16are those emotions. So, again, emotions are invested
- 33:19in your survival and protections of the infant begins to have
- 33:22emotional responses in queues in the nervous system back to
- 33:26Stephen porges before I forget to finish that one in Wikipedia
- 33:30and then I think we can move along our lovely and Lightman
- 33:34special. And here you are Wikipedia.
- 33:38So I will start again, the traditional view of atomic
- 33:43nervous system presents a two-part system.
- 33:45The sympathetic nervous system, which is more activating fight
- 33:49or flight and the parasympathetic nervous system
- 33:51which supports Health growth and restoration, rest and digest.
- 33:55The polyvagal theory. Identifies, a third type of
- 33:58nervous system response these social engagement system.
- 34:01A hybrid state of activation and calming that plays a role in our
- 34:04booth. Adidas socially engage or not,
- 34:07the polyvagal theory views. The parasympathetic nervous
- 34:10system. As being split into two,
- 34:14distinct branches eventual vagal system which supports social
- 34:18engagement and a dorsal vagal system which supports
- 34:21immobilization behaviors, both rest and digest and defensive
- 34:27immobilization or shut down. The polyvagal theory was
- 34:32introduced for you, okay? So when we are in our ventral
- 34:36vagal system, we are ready to socially engage.
- 34:40We are not Immobilized in a way of being in danger.
- 34:46We will have that Stillness Continuum where we can go from
- 34:52accessibility to vulnerability. So the person who's in the
- 34:55enlightenment. So age group, we have a way of,
- 34:59not only being functional adults, forgiving nuanced,
- 35:02understanding that others have trauma.
- 35:04We also have only what is known as a love cycle.
- 35:07Thanks to also being though, a differentiated cells, over able
- 35:10to separate Emotions and thoughts from belief systems
- 35:15that meet take a quick look at giving you a little bit
- 35:19undifferentiated self where to begin with this.
- 35:22This one's a very interesting topic.
- 35:25The ability to distinguish between thoughts and feelings in
- 35:28an emotional relationship system and so you don't counsel
- 35:32yourself out because your loved ones, they are, I don't agree
- 35:36with you, you're stupid, you don't lie like, oh my God.
- 35:39I hate, you did that. So we don't do that.
- 35:42Holy ghost stuff. We don't why Italy shut down or
- 35:46suppress emotions. So this is by Murray Bowen and
- 35:50the he developed the self differentiating Theory
- 35:53differentiation Theory, which applies to human development and
- 35:56family Dynamics. So his theory has two major
- 35:58parts. I'll read you.
- 35:59Those two differentiation of self is the ability to separate
- 36:03feelings and thoughts undifferentiated.
- 36:06People cannot separate feelings and thoughts when asked to think
- 36:10they are flooded with feelings, Have difficulty thinking
- 36:13logically and basing their responses on that this is
- 36:16because their protector lenses are on and this is why people
- 36:19still whine about things. They've chosen to do continue
- 36:23asking themselves. Why those ten stories five
- 36:26stories? You've heard recently that
- 36:28they've been going through things and every year I'm like,
- 36:31well, you're adding here, the car mom.
- 36:33Remember, Consciousness is where you don't add Karma instinctive
- 36:37reaction is where you're at, and Karma, and this is where you see
- 36:40these other still age groups. Soooo they can be in 5D by
- 36:43learning how to harness their own body and be in a state of
- 36:46ease within it. But as their life moves forward
- 36:49their unfulfilled, they wonder why they find themselves and
- 36:52field. And so I'm thinking of a
- 36:54specific story where I'm being presented back and forth,
- 36:57information of things that actually the minute, this
- 37:01individual even began what they began.
- 37:04I as a part of their oversoul and there's of mind you, this is
- 37:08not something that's going to lead to your enlightenment.
- 37:12Something that's going to add to your burden.
- 37:14And in fact, this is where in the asking of why is the part of
- 37:18this individual as many others only using this left brain, and
- 37:22completely being not in a place of assessing their own right
- 37:26brain stuff because otherwise Not only would they not be in
- 37:29suffering and they would not be in a charge state, but they
- 37:32would also remember their choices and why they made them.
- 37:34They would not have regret remorse.
- 37:36They would not have confusion, they would know where they are.
- 37:39Why they are and take ownership in a way of He's and in a way of
- 37:43proactivity, which is a physiological state of
- 37:46compassion of a differentiated self person who's using mindset
- 37:50mindfulness. Their ventral Lagos, State
- 37:52functional, adults, love cycle and light, mental age group,
- 37:55there we go. I mean, this is where I'm going
- 37:57to try and break it down humanly possible every time again and
- 38:01again, and again, as you move forward, as well as 5 DC or just
- 38:045 deed Concept in and of itself that way we can have another
- 38:08addition. So that people who actually want
- 38:10to get here to know. Very easy.
- 38:13It really is. It's just a matter of.
- 38:15Do you want to, do you have the will to persevere to try and
- 38:18become your mediator in your own brain and your own body?
- 38:22Are you willing to try and get from the fishies and the animal
- 38:25instincts, to just you being able to be an evolved human
- 38:28being because that's all it. All this is is US evolving as a
- 38:31species. I mean, we talked about tigers
- 38:33and bears and about nature evolving.
- 38:36Why is it not that the human being remembers that Evolution
- 38:39involves moving into other? Other areas physically, so our
- 38:44environment by their being 70% humans.
- 38:48So while people are too busy meeting the horrible humans, you
- 38:52know, where the mind of Enlightenment person with all
- 38:54this information. I just shared with you goes.
- 38:57Wow. Okay, that makes so much fucking
- 39:00sense. Our environment is no longer
- 39:03humongously threatened by this Animal Kingdom.
- 39:05That really is stronger than us without weapons.
- 39:09So, our bodies can actually safely and socially engage.
- 39:12Oh, and wait, as a marketer that me.
- 39:14Remember about the Muslims, here are key of needs.
- 39:17Oh yes. And people's morality book of
- 39:19codes again. Undifferentiated people, let me
- 39:21get back to this one. Let me continue reading to
- 39:25further. They have difficulty separating
- 39:30their own from others feelings. They look to family Define how
- 39:34they think about issues. Feel about people interpret
- 39:37their experiences. This is And she did people.
- 39:40Let me specify excuse me. So I'll begin.
- 39:42Again, one differentiation of the self is the ability to
- 39:46separate feelings and thoughts undifferentiated.
- 39:49People cannot separate feelings and thoughts.
- 39:51When they are asked, to think they are flooded with the
- 39:54feelings and they have difficulty thinking logically
- 39:57and basing their responses, on that they have difficulty
- 40:01separating their own from others feelings.
- 40:04They look to family to Define how they think about issues feel
- 40:08about people, And interpret. Their experiences
- 40:11differentiation is the process of freeing yourself from your
- 40:15family's processes to Define yourself.
- 40:17This means being able to have different opinions and values
- 40:21than your family members. But being able to stay motion
- 40:24Ali connected to them. It means being able to calmly
- 40:27reflect on a conflicted interaction, afterward realizing
- 40:31your own role in it and then choosing a different response
- 40:34for the future bra and family therapy.
- 40:37So there's this on a page. Age and, you know, they got a
- 40:41resource here, 3 1419. I'm thinking that's 2019, self
- 40:46differentiation involves being able to possess and identify
- 40:50your own thoughts and feelings and distinguish them from
- 40:53others. It's a process of not losing
- 40:55connection to solve while holding a deep connection to
- 40:58others including those, you love whose views May differ from
- 41:01yours. If you grow up in a family in
- 41:04which everyone maintains attachment, or has only brief
- 41:07disconnects, in spite of Having different thoughts and feelings.
- 41:10You can begin to self differentiate alternatively, if
- 41:14the parental dictum was my way or the highway.
- 41:17Or let's all think the same to show.
- 41:19We love each other self. Differentiation is very
- 41:21difficult. The importance of
- 41:23differentiation is articulated by.
- 41:26Okay. So as you can tell.
- 41:29Oh, and let's see if there's no, this is for eaters.
- 41:31Okay, I haven't read all of that.
- 41:33So that's one on self differentiation.
- 41:37Let's do this one. This one's beautiful too self
- 41:42differentiation describes a few processes, but begins with a
- 41:46separation from a person's family of origin, as they embark
- 41:50on their own journey in life in short, it's growing up, but it's
- 41:53not just growing up. It's figuring out who you are in
- 41:56developing your own secure identity.
- 41:59The Milestone is typically smooth for folks who grow up in
- 42:02healthy home. So right here, again let's have
- 42:05compassion because the ventral vagal system can also Only
- 42:09really be there in to be engaged in an environment that is safe
- 42:12and secure or in any way, shape, or form, a person who's able to
- 42:16access again, their own love cycle in those moments where
- 42:20instead, if you get shame and there's the attached Cry for
- 42:24Help collapsed, move these appease your safety behaviors.
- 42:27Those adoptive children, the emotions are important, okay?
- 42:31Now enough about reading and let's get to little bit of
- 42:33talking here, at the end of the day, the indictments will age
- 42:38group is About in 2023 and his here to stay which is why we got
- 42:42this whole 5D. And when people in the spiritual
- 42:45Community, mysticism as a tourism separate themselves from
- 42:49our lovely signs, which is what you see them doing.
- 42:51As they got a couple of Claire's and they think of things and
- 42:54only philosophical terms. So I love that we have that grew
- 42:57out. Their Consciousness is a human
- 42:59thing, it's called primary and secondary you you read about it
- 43:03and Wikipedia again. So secondary is I exist.
- 43:07Why do I exist? I'm going to die.
- 43:08I don't know. I'm To die most people have
- 43:10suffering because they depend their their words and their lips
- 43:14and everything on, whatever it is they've read.
- 43:16So here's where the enlightenment Soul, HR person
- 43:18doesn't pain their lips, meaning we don't depend on some word to
- 43:23be able and feel our own body and brain.
- 43:25This is the one, the one distinctive factor that you will
- 43:28know the feminine. When I say Feminine, it's
- 43:31because we are completely. I am presence.
- 43:35We don't need to use a word of. I am Spirit or I am whatever.
- 43:39I have to use words organized the concepts.
- 43:41So the minute you're like for me it was my name.
- 43:44I am Maria as I told my biological father when he
- 43:47confused me with my twin sister for the 30th time and looked at
- 43:51him with a pretty sure it was a look of pissed off.
- 43:54Like dude, how you're my parent, you're calling me another name,
- 43:58do you not see the difference? Because I mean you know I'm
- 44:01another human being here in a different body.
- 44:03So here's where, While others will look at these aspects,
- 44:07those who are not self differentiated, David as
- 44:09somebody I don't even know because he hears the part when
- 44:13you are in this body in a way of.
- 44:15Yeah, this is who I am. I don't need to say, I'm not
- 44:18going to apologize them and I don't need to say anything
- 44:21because this is where I'm standing right now, the beauty
- 44:24of standing right now with a love cycle, you only got two
- 44:29primary emotions, sad and maybe angry anger doesn't stay around
- 44:35much for the feminine because we actually get get more and more
- 44:39sad as we repeat. As we see people that we know we
- 44:43love is we stay where we love them, we continue to trust them,
- 44:46we continue to expand with them. As we see people that we love
- 44:51shut us down. But see, we don't know that
- 44:54their emotions are not in their control and that their implicit
- 44:57memory. So all of their adoptive child
- 44:59and insecurity parts are coming at us.
- 45:01We don't know their their fight flight or freeze or they're
- 45:04attached Cry for Help. Collapse them, it please, a
- 45:06piece. We don't know why they're being
- 45:09envious or jealous or spiteful or vengeful and then you know we
- 45:13don't we don't know meaning in our body or like I don't
- 45:16understand what you're doing right now.
- 45:19It's a really it's like hmm. So we end up going on this
- 45:22journey of finding it out with curiosity FYI.
- 45:27That's why we grow more sad for people.
- 45:30So the sadness for Humanity as you'll hear in upcoming episodes
- 45:34like the whole twin flame. It ain't about somebody becoming
- 45:36enlightened. If I D, we don't we don't care
- 45:39what life you want to live, you live the life you want.
- 45:41We actually are happy that you're happy.
- 45:44And the aspect that everybody has their own subjective reality
- 45:47based on their own emotions. It's also very clear we hear
- 45:50people when they speak to us, depending on what tone we know
- 45:53where they're at with their life.
- 45:55And so again, we're like, okay, yeah, we still don't get why
- 45:58you're being in a place of security power and control with.
- 46:03I an individual who loves you and so here's that part of why
- 46:06trust is not about Telling us the truth.
- 46:09Again, we are not the enlightenment.
- 46:11So age of person who is in connectedness from the feminine
- 46:17and their own masculine one. We all have those same
- 46:19energetics entrance but the person who's a whole person is
- 46:23the person who's here right now. Like, I we're not, doing said
- 46:27group, we're doing something very different.
- 46:29It's called bringing the humanity to human beings that
- 46:32don't understand. That being in a place of 5D
- 46:35unconditionally, loving just means people being able Able to
- 46:37know ya. Not everything goes your way.
- 46:40We already knew that. When are you going to grow up
- 46:43with your emotions? So now we have the psycho
- 46:45Educators, who are actually helping and eventually, the
- 46:48polyvagal theory will be proven with the Machinery, that is out
- 46:52there. Oh, and the lizard story.
- 46:54That's I can't wait to hear more about the 4D, because I'm going
- 46:56to definitely stay in tune with seeing what they come up with
- 46:59us. Zoom world moves forward in a
- 47:01way that I'm so sorry that you want to go back and live in
- 47:04Forest land, you know, and that you can't accept that you After
- 47:07year after year species evolve that we don't get everything
- 47:11right the first time around. Uh, hello, did you get
- 47:14everything with you? You even now get everything,
- 47:16right? Like, this whole idea of
- 47:17perfection isn't just to obliviousness apparently from
- 47:21the mouth of people who. So when people are dumb down
- 47:24it's because their fight flight and freeze is in a I'm not safe
- 47:29environment and they're not safe environment.
- 47:32Do they keep reflecting it with whatever is their sob story?
- 47:37I'm Broken humans are broken. This is whatever it is that
- 47:40their belief system, and it doesn't even matter if it's
- 47:42family-based because people will move away from their family and
- 47:45they'll move into we groups. Oh, I got so many of those we
- 47:48groups. I see them all the time.
- 47:50They don't feel any secure than yesterday, they keep on spinning
- 47:54out. The same piece of information
- 47:56and doing the same things. Now some people sick, but they
- 47:58manifested the Brazilian billion bucks.
- 48:00Yeah, that's great. That's great that they're happy.
- 48:04We're happy they got the billion bucks.
- 48:06We happy for those who get famous.
- 48:07That's that's that's definitely a major Milestone, man.
- 48:11What I'm wondering is, how do you feel in your body?
- 48:14I'm wondering, are you, are you happy when you wake up?
- 48:17Can you actually replicate happiness in your own body?
- 48:21Do you actually know how to use your your Chemistry?
- 48:24Because it's very straightforward.
- 48:27And this is why people who don't understand the whole suffering.
- 48:30Pain thing. I love that there's data out
- 48:32there. It's not to prove any because we
- 48:34don't care about proving anything.
- 48:36We just know that in. Our body, we feel good and now
- 48:40there's a way that I can explain it.
- 48:41It's called the ventral vagal system, State versus being in a
- 48:45fight flight or freeze with people who love me.
- 48:47They just don't know how to say it.
- 48:48In adult words sometimes and I love them.
- 48:51I get to learn in time Equanimity.
- 48:54Here's where the Twin Flame Journey While others are busy
- 48:57talking about each other. Instead of respecting you know
- 49:01each other and actually realizing you know, these are
- 49:05people our entire oversold, our people Let's stop again.
- 49:10Talking about them with the words car makes or Soul
- 49:14contracts, or, I mean, even though will keep using those to
- 49:17allow those who want to get into this wholeness of being a
- 49:21person. Because that's the role is to
- 49:23bring it all together. Not just one piece, very boring
- 49:26to only do the psychoeducation stuff.
- 49:29As I learned with taking the somatic experiencing courses
- 49:33that I'm taking, I definitely will embark on my journey of
- 49:37adding to me. As a practitioner a coach
- 49:41consultant Mentor you know for my one-on-ones and our group
- 49:44sessions. But the reality is, I now know.
- 49:46So here's I'm going to give you insights those who are in the
- 49:50indictment soldier from their feminine, they already know
- 49:53you've known your entire life. What you're here to do and
- 49:55you're doing it, this is why you wake up every morning and the
- 49:58most amazing of amazings of everything you don't have one
- 50:01thing that you regret your life, not even want and even those
- 50:04things that you may think, it could have been different, you
- 50:07already know. It wasn't different.
- 50:08There's no reason for me and and FYI I actually can see what I
- 50:12learned from it. So the reality is we learn every
- 50:15step of the way that looking back there.
- 50:18This word regret failure means actually nothing because it's a
- 50:22bullshit sentence that is used to look at something with
- 50:25criticism, not curiosity, and not with the realization of what
- 50:29it actually did bring you. And so, here's where, if I get
- 50:34to talk about the topic again with my friend, I'll be curious.
- 50:37Once they read all the information.
- 50:38Nation but they presented an equation.
- 50:41They said well if you're telling me you've never suffered then
- 50:43you can never claim to have been happy and I really answer that
- 50:47because I didn't have the data to explain.
- 50:49I'm not making a statement based on a concept.
- 50:52I'm making a statement based on physiology based on the new
- 50:56Neuroscience based on the new psychoeducation based on
- 50:58technology that is showing this very thing that we don't have to
- 51:03suffer. When said grew set it to a
- 51:05professor, he got told no and he didn't have the Woody to
- 51:09describe or explain and or in fact, I plan on organizing this
- 51:13suffering and pain thing in a way that can be traceable.
- 51:17So that I may present it time again and again and again
- 51:20because it's important to know this is not a concept.
- 51:23This is one from personal experience to it is something
- 51:26that is proven, it's being proven now that people still
- 51:29don't buy into it. This is where.
- 51:31And here's the third thing, though, it's bullshit to compare
- 51:33the past the present as I was saying because if I have 70%
- 51:38more, Man beings da again, lions bears, tigers mean, nothing,
- 51:42especially when all of these human beings they have weapons.
- 51:47And so, our bodies, which are an intelligence, which people keep
- 51:51on ignoring, even the lovely psycho Educators, who think?
- 51:54They know everything, like that. One, dude, who had a gazillion
- 51:56million ways to contest the polyvagal theory.
- 51:59Shit and told me exactly how they plan on being a
- 52:02psychologist, which is by laying their patient down and then with
- 52:06their little notebook. I mean, the way they Grab that.
- 52:09It reminds me of the person that chose to become a lawyer.
- 52:11Why? So here's all you need to do.
- 52:13Go grab the identity of whoever knows where they read it.
- 52:16They look. So they dreamed about becoming
- 52:19that and now that's their image and they said oh, but I want to
- 52:22help people. Wow, that's how you and I see
- 52:24that. That's how you want to help
- 52:25people very cool. You want to torture people
- 52:29because the reality is, if you get a patient in there that has
- 52:32trauma to a degree where their body cannot lay down, you're
- 52:35making them suffer relive their trauma and you've done.
- 52:38Nothing for them because that's where talk therapy does not.
- 52:41See if a person is that obtuse of awful the body's not
- 52:45intelligent? Yes it is.
- 52:47So, our body knows at this poem moment in time and it has been
- 52:51evolving because that's what happens to us and any species
- 52:55that lives the ability to be in this.
- 52:59Maybe even the ventral Eagle came to be that this is why
- 53:02comparing, you know, they'll get the researchers will always do
- 53:05this because they are actually fond of Out the in-depth stuff,
- 53:10and that's their job. And that's why, you know, again
- 53:13we won't be one note yours. Not only one Soul age group for
- 53:17reasons, but the bodies of all of our lovely people.
- 53:21As we move forward, we'll be in a way of being able to vibe in
- 53:26this Enlightenment in this 5D. And this unconditional loving
- 53:30place because it's all about mindfulness meditation.
- 53:34Again, these are all trending topics breathwork.
- 53:36I see these keep seeing a bunch of different practitioners and
- 53:39they are all parts of a whole, the ones who are whole are the
- 53:44ones who keep embracing, okay? We're more than one thing.
- 53:48So, for me, for example, I bring to you the mind, the heart and
- 53:53the body, and I actually have been able to add and finishing
- 53:57up to be able and add effectively the body in a way
- 54:01that integrates for those who want to be in their 5D's of a
- 54:05enlightened State of Consciousness who want to be in
- 54:07their Lightman. Wager who want to be infinite
- 54:10higher human consciousness. Not some person of only one
- 54:13tradition or another or another because you know, really life is
- 54:17not one thing people, it's just not plus.
- 54:20Again, the OneNote means that their masculine is any person
- 54:24who does not love our species unconditionally, and does not
- 54:29see where we're at. It's not about belief, I'm
- 54:32saying consciously. So when secondary Consciousness
- 54:36is applicable, The Human Condition and those of us who
- 54:39are in Enlightenment. So age group, we don't call it a
- 54:42dilemma for reason, we actually see the dismantling as it
- 54:46happens. And then we see what it brought
- 54:49as growth. And so, we know and understand
- 54:52this is how Consciousness expands and we can then trace it
- 54:56back to and to close up with the lovely and light mental age
- 55:01group. And this is why with our twin
- 55:03flames and soulmates and over. So, we ain't busy looking at
- 55:07where they're going or We don't care again where they go either
- 55:11we walk together. We don't you make up your mind.
- 55:13We don't really, we're not invested in what you want to do.
- 55:16We're not here to be your parent.
- 55:18In fact, that's not far far from it and, and we don't want you to
- 55:23be our parent. So we actually are just sad
- 55:27again about that. Middle trust where they do not
- 55:30have the ability people to see their emotions.
- 55:33So they reactiveness. And they're poking Us in the.
- 55:36I like my attachment. And and then you know, at the
- 55:39end of the day, though, when you'll hear we even come to the
- 55:42arrival of realizing, it's not sad, it's only sad because I see
- 55:46Things. They Dont see it, they're happy
- 55:47they're fine, they were there right in their book.
- 55:51They are right. And so this is where in those
- 55:54moments of where you will, remember people who you love,
- 55:58they showed lack of trust in your love, for them your love
- 56:02meaning. I want your well-being.
- 56:03What do you think? I would want?
- 56:05Okay, so when you can use the word tactic, Anytime a person
- 56:10has come to me, and it's happened.
- 56:12Very few times in my life. And when it has though, this is
- 56:16where I've learned how to evaluate those pointing of
- 56:20fingers. And the evaluation I've learned
- 56:24thanks to my oversold pieces, how to just stand back in
- 56:27silence. Because the poking is something
- 56:31that is of their, right? They can use the word tactic.
- 56:34What I know just happened is trust was not built and you've
- 56:37proven to me me that you don't trust me, which means there is
- 56:40no relationship because we cannot relate to each other if
- 56:44we're not in a safe environment and trust is necessary.
- 56:48So lack of trust means you do not trust in me to have your
- 56:52best interest and therefore whatever words.
- 56:54You know, so this is why we're not even bothered with the
- 56:56poking in the eye, or the nose were like shit.
- 56:59You just made a very, very huge accusation.
- 57:05On what I would want for you, which means there's not a
- 57:09relationship here, there's nothing.
- 57:11There's two people here. That's all there are, they're
- 57:14strangers. That's it.
- 57:17And when we're sad about it, we will look at that.
- 57:20And know, you know what? At the end of the day, this is
- 57:22your opinion out there is because they don't trust, you
- 57:24know. So we're able to be in that
- 57:26prefrontal cortex again, very easily and to just relate to the
- 57:29emotion, of course, it's in pain because we do trust.
- 57:32Our loved ones, we don't question.
- 57:35Motives, not even a little bit even when they're envious
- 57:37jealous or when they do Revenge. Oh yeah, that one is really
- 57:41interesting when you're able to see that somebody on spite
- 57:45purpose, like literally they're trying to dagger you right into
- 57:50the heart man, that that will be Unforgettable for me, those
- 57:53moments Unforgettable. Because every moment it was
- 57:56like, wow, that's like you actually wish that I suffer and
- 58:01it's not about a suffering. We're like that's just so sad.
- 58:05That you can't use your words again.
- 58:07We love words that you will result to this, and we don't
- 58:11think of it as anything more than something that, again, it's
- 58:15fear, and it's hurt. And that's really all it is.
- 58:18It's hurt, and it makes us very sad, but not sad to, we're
- 58:24really going God, because the suffering is where you add.
- 58:26The story know, it's just sad because the person you love will
- 58:29with intense, try to hurt your feelings because they're
- 58:32hurting. So that means again, there's no
- 58:34trust you're not. Should be trusting that I can
- 58:36help or I can be a supporter that we can work on it.
- 58:38There's there's nothing there. So we don't really, you know,
- 58:41again, life is where we're breathing the thoughts and
- 58:45emotions. They're not of any existential
- 58:48consequence. They are things.
- 58:50We actually love to explore with Krishna Lila.
- 58:55She even Kali and we learn to thanks to our twin flames are
- 58:58soulmates or oversold. Every single one of the people
- 59:01that we've ever met in our entire life will be a part of
- 59:03our wow. Ow that's why when the person
- 59:06says so you know not not I wouldn't say that but you know I
- 59:10was ready to answer you know if that's how you feel about it.
- 59:12Then I'm fine with saying that I don't feel happy or sad because
- 59:15the reality is we are in the land of neutral.
- 59:19We are able to be in this land of neutral with that lovely
- 59:23neocortex. We're in the here.
- 59:24Now, we're able to see our implicit memory stuff, the
- 59:27enlightenment till a jury person in the 5dc, the feminine because
- 59:31we're our own heard, our heard. We accept our heard, however,
- 59:34they come, But we're our own heard when it comes to how we're
- 59:37evaluating our own thoughts and emotions.
- 59:40And here's where again, this French eat itself.
- 59:42We already differentiated self who is able to be mindful, mine
- 59:47site, who is able to be inventive, a go State, we don't
- 59:50suffer because when we're in our emotions, we have a love cycle
- 59:52and were able to be functional adults.
- 59:54Forgiving new ones and were always in a state of
- 59:56physiological from compassion. So however you want to put it,
- 1:00:00we're not living The Saga story, with our loved ones.
- 1:00:03We are just able to say, you know, No, it is what it is.
- 1:00:06So if I have to break it down to where somebody would say, well
- 1:00:09then you don't have any emotions fine.
- 1:00:11If that's how you want to equate it.
- 1:00:12That's good to me because neutrality apparently, is that
- 1:00:16Stillness? So Stillness is zero.
- 1:00:18Apparently that will mean no emotions, but that's not true
- 1:00:21because you do have emotions. However, if we have to make the
- 1:00:24equation, we won't have any issue making it.
- 1:00:26Because at the end of the day, this is actually what it means
- 1:00:31to those who don't know how to access their own land of.
- 1:00:35So all of the other sole troops, that's why they all have sagas,
- 1:00:38that's why they all do suffering.
- 1:00:40That's why they don't think you can maintain a vibration of
- 1:00:43Enlightenment. And that's why a lot of other 3D
- 1:00:454D stories are out there too. And doesn't matter what
- 1:00:49psychoeducation will be presented.
- 1:00:50Again, not everybody is going to go and embark on their
- 1:00:54Enlightenment so age group Journey because most people, by
- 1:00:56the way are doing what they do with Enlightenment to wear a
- 1:00:59little batch mindfulness, they're all wearing badges.
- 1:01:01They're all trying to rewrite their trying to fix themselves.
- 1:01:04So there Not even aware that they don't need fixing that
- 1:01:07they're amazing, how they are. What they can do is become their
- 1:01:11grown-up version. They move it out of their
- 1:01:14adoptive child and just began to say, wait a minute, this emotion
- 1:01:17here, I can tend to it and do that again and again again, oh
- 1:01:21yes. I do have a group that tends to
- 1:01:23meet you. They don't think the same way I
- 1:01:25do, but that's okay. That doesn't mean I'm unworthy.
- 1:01:27So to use attachment trauma to use the stuff that they're
- 1:01:31coming out and actually become the Beautiful.
- 1:01:35Full version of you. So functional adults,
- 1:01:38Enlightenment, they're one in the same, the difference for
- 1:01:40those of us with Claire's. So those of us who are the
- 1:01:44feminine of ourselves, the I am presence because there will be
- 1:01:48Claire's for those individuals. The masculine will come at their
- 1:01:52Enlightenment by doing a whole other Journey, but the feminine
- 1:01:56will have clears. And that is why we are always in
- 1:02:01our bunch of legal and accepting.
- 1:02:03We're never vulnerable. In the sense of feeling that
- 1:02:06being with somebody is unsafe, even if they're in their
- 1:02:09biological rudeness, we're only going to perceive unsafety.
- 1:02:14And this has happened to me a few times when it's physically
- 1:02:17life-threatening, What I mean by physically life-threatening not
- 1:02:31an attack because that would be like very clear.
- 1:02:34What I mean is that there are motives behind person's
- 1:02:40presence. And the best way I can describe
- 1:02:43it, whenever this has taken place is that there's just it's
- 1:02:49like knowing the behind-the-scenes.
- 1:02:50Okay. So it's a very specific energy.
- 1:02:55This is not this person doesn't have in mind what I have in
- 1:03:00mind. I'm just going to put it that
- 1:03:01way. So the few times that those
- 1:03:04moments took place where enough for me to just one, always pay
- 1:03:07attention to my gut and notice if I ever felt this and whenever
- 1:03:11I feel anything that makes me feel uncomfortable to that, to
- 1:03:15that extent. I will leave.
- 1:03:17I will leave the premises. I will, you know, move away.
- 1:03:20I will see where my friends are, you know, so this is where
- 1:03:23again. It's very easy for us to notice
- 1:03:26that and it's not based on stereotypes or generalizations,
- 1:03:32none of that we do acknowledge also our own biases based on
- 1:03:37social influence soap, FYI, to be continued another
- 1:03:41conversations, but the point I was trying to say is that the
- 1:03:44person who is here in that indictment still, a troop that
- 1:03:48functional adults in the fight, be seen us is a person who is
- 1:03:51always safe, even if people are in their biological roots.
- 1:03:55And that we actually as a family with their own, masculine tend
- 1:03:59to accept and see we feel they're fragmented part and we
- 1:04:04look to bring Harmony if it's not accessible, it's because
- 1:04:08obviously the protector does not appreciate.
- 1:04:12And really what it is, is that an unsafe body will be
- 1:04:15consistently triggered emotionally because they don't
- 1:04:18believe in safety with people. So this is again to be continued
- 1:04:21and more conversations. In the meantime, have a
- 1:04:24Beautiful day.