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- 1:45Speaker 1: One.
- 1:47Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. I will be
- 1:50Speaker 2: your host, Alison, and with me today is Brian and
- 1:54Speaker 2: we are going to be doing Is There a Hero's
- 1:57Speaker 2: Journey for Women? That is the title of the show
- 2:00Speaker 2: that we will be doing. Maintaining frame number one thirteen.
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- 3:17Speaker 2: the Tip, and apologies for the late start. I have
- 3:21Speaker 2: been dealing with the website. A few of you have
- 3:23Speaker 2: mentioned the fact that the website isn't working. Apparently it
- 3:27Speaker 2: might have gotten infected with malware, and I had some
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- 3:56Speaker 2: we go. That's fixed, and then I had an issue
- 3:58Speaker 2: with my setup, which I have been changing so I
- 4:01Speaker 2: don't jiggle or the jiggle the camera as much because
- 4:04Speaker 2: there's lots of complaints about that. And there's always the
- 4:06Speaker 2: complaints about the sound. So if I'm too loud or
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- 4:14Speaker 2: All right, all of the missed critical systems seem to
- 4:17Speaker 2: be optimal. So let's get started. Do you want to start, Brian,
- 4:21Speaker 2: or do you have anything you wanted do? I know?
- 4:23Speaker 1: The only thing I wanted to say is so the
- 4:28Speaker 1: way that my macro works for the camera switching it
- 4:32Speaker 1: if you if it picks up any sound on your end,
- 4:35Speaker 1: it's gonna switch to you, even if I like a video.
- 4:38Speaker 1: So what we'll what we'll do is either yeah, either
- 4:41Speaker 1: that or just mute when you're not talking and then
- 4:43Speaker 1: unmute when you're ready to talk.
- 4:46Speaker 2: So I need to stop the rollerblading and the surping
- 4:49Speaker 2: and the demolition just.
- 4:51Speaker 1: Whatever it is, because yeah, because it is a it's
- 4:54Speaker 1: it's a sensitive setup that works well when all of
- 4:59Speaker 1: the pieces are working, you know, individually, So I just
- 5:04Speaker 1: want to prevent a situation where you know, like like
- 5:08Speaker 1: say I start playing the video and the audio the
- 5:10Speaker 1: video is playing, and then while it's playing, you make
- 5:12Speaker 1: a sound, it switches to you, but it won't switch
- 5:15Speaker 1: back because the way that it works is it it
- 5:19Speaker 1: will switch to the scene if there is a pause
- 5:23Speaker 1: of one second, so like if I pause the video
- 5:28Speaker 1: and like everybody stops for a second, then it'll switch.
- 5:32Speaker 1: So otherwise I just have to do it manually, which
- 5:35Speaker 1: I'm I'm you know, I'm fine with so anyway, Yeah,
- 5:38Speaker 1: I mean I've been doing it manually for a while anyway, So,
- 5:42Speaker 1: but the automated system is super helpful. Yeah. So anyway,
- 5:50Speaker 1: we have talked about the woman's female hero's journey before
- 5:55Speaker 1: and what that might be, and I remember talking to
- 5:59Speaker 1: Icon Carbage and Pegout about it on the show, and
- 6:02Speaker 1: it's an interesting subject because I do think that it's
- 6:05Speaker 1: one of the reasons why we are having so many
- 6:10Speaker 1: problems with men and women is because women's journey is
- 6:15Speaker 1: not It's like the narrative of womanhood is not defined.
- 6:21Speaker 1: And I think that there's a number of consequences of that.
- 6:25Speaker 1: But I can get into it when we watch the
- 6:27Speaker 1: video So first, I have this video. It's a feminist
- 6:30Speaker 1: video and a channel called the Writer's mind Set. The
- 6:36Speaker 1: Writer's Mindset is doing an interview with a writer named
- 6:41Speaker 1: Calee or Gail Carriager, and it's called what is the
- 6:44Speaker 1: Heroine's Journey? So this is from the feminist perspective. Take
- 6:48Speaker 1: that as however you will, and we'll listen to her
- 6:52Speaker 1: a bit. It's only it's short. It's like four minutes.
- 6:55Speaker 1: So yeah, let's go ahead and listen to.
- 6:57Speaker 3: It for anyone who hasn't heard of the heroines.
- 7:00Speaker 2: Actually, before we get into it, I realized, go back
- 7:05Speaker 2: to the very beginning the first still I know, I
- 7:07Speaker 2: did that with I did it with Byrony last yesterday,
- 7:10Speaker 2: same expression. And also, how can you have a journey
- 7:16Speaker 2: if you're maintaining the idea that women are morally better
- 7:20Speaker 2: by virtue of being women? Yeah, where do you journey to?
- 7:26Speaker 2: There's a lot about the hero's journey is about taking
- 7:28Speaker 2: responsibility for an external set of principles or a group
- 7:34Speaker 2: of people that needs your help. Where is the journey
- 7:37Speaker 2: for women if they already start with I guess moral
- 7:41Speaker 2: perfection or relative moral perfection? Anyway, I just I just
- 7:46Speaker 2: noticed the expression is so similar to Byrony who recovered Yes,
- 7:52Speaker 2: it's that same kind of smirking, contemptuous, duplicitous like Doper's
- 7:58Speaker 2: delight expression. They all start, I mean, like when I
- 8:02Speaker 2: start my my videos, usually I start on some weird
- 8:06Speaker 2: neutral expression like resting bitch face, you know, yeah, And
- 8:10Speaker 2: I try not to because that just looks a little weird.
- 8:13Speaker 2: But I'm like, you know, it's just a it's just
- 8:17Speaker 2: a I'm thinking about how to get the camera working,
- 8:21Speaker 2: how to get the sound working. I'm thinking about all
- 8:23Speaker 2: of this stuff. What are they thinking about before they
- 8:25Speaker 2: roll the camera? Are they thinking about how much they're
- 8:27Speaker 2: they're by I'm boozling someone because that's the expression I get.
- 8:31Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I'm trying to figure out why
- 8:34Speaker 1: is your camera frozen on my obs it?
- 8:38Speaker 2: Okay, maybe I need to reduce I.
- 8:40Speaker 1: Think you need to do because your internet is like,
- 8:43Speaker 1: I don't know, man, it's super slow.
- 8:46Speaker 2: Yeah, because I'm not really doing anything but this. For
- 8:51Speaker 2: some reason, Elgato just does not want to register this.
- 8:54Speaker 2: So maybe that's the problem.
- 8:55Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't like it doesn't like this camera feed.
- 9:01Speaker 1: I don't know if it's the camera you have or what.
- 9:04Speaker 2: But what was working?
- 9:07Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, it was choppy yesterday too, though I don't
- 9:11Speaker 1: know if it's just this camera.
- 9:14Speaker 2: Is it completely frozen.
- 9:17Speaker 1: In video Ninja? It's fine, But the browser source at
- 9:21Speaker 1: OBS is very like it's basically like a fill a
- 9:25Speaker 1: still frame, and that's what it was doing yesterday.
- 9:30Speaker 2: Oh so it's going fine into into video Ninja. So
- 9:33Speaker 2: on my side it should be fine, and it's just
- 9:36Speaker 2: on on your side it's just not picking.
- 9:38Speaker 1: Yeah, and I just did a speed test and it's
- 9:40Speaker 1: not my internet, but I am getting the red I'm
- 9:43Speaker 1: getting your SINS video packet loss indicator of video Preview. Yeah,
- 9:50Speaker 1: I don't know what I can do.
- 9:51Speaker 2: Because if it isn't in video Ninja, if it's fine,
- 9:54Speaker 2: if you're seeing the indivision of video Ninja and it's fine,
- 9:56Speaker 2: then it's not actually on my end, it's it's something
- 9:59Speaker 2: about BS is incompatible with whatever I'm sending, which is weird.
- 10:04Speaker 2: Weird because isn't it just like basically.
- 10:06Speaker 1: A screenc Yeah, it's basically a browser source. So what
- 10:09Speaker 1: I'm what it's doing is oh, okay, let me see
- 10:13Speaker 1: if I can change this in some way to make it.
- 10:17Speaker 1: Yeah about this guy, I mean difficulty.
- 10:22Speaker 2: Well, technical difficulties.
- 10:23Speaker 1: With gideo settings. I'm just trying to see maybe I can, like,
- 10:28Speaker 1: you know, make it like lower the frame rate or something.
- 10:31Speaker 1: I don't know, so that it's smoother.
- 10:34Speaker 2: Okay, I well, I mean I could change.
- 10:39Speaker 1: Are you a dire box iPhone? Is that your camera?
- 10:43Speaker 2: Yes? Yes, use that. Use that's what that's my camera.
- 10:46Speaker 2: It's because I got I got like this thing that
- 10:49Speaker 2: comes across and it's less, it's more impervious to me
- 10:52Speaker 2: moving around.
- 10:53Speaker 1: So you're using you're using an iPhone to do this
- 10:56Speaker 1: camera work?
- 10:57Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, I didn't know you'd know that.
- 11:01Speaker 1: Yeah, the thing. Try losing the moving background. What are
- 11:06Speaker 1: you talking about? There's no movie? No, that's that's not
- 11:09Speaker 1: the problem. You want me to turn it off. I
- 11:11Speaker 1: can turn it off. I don't think that's going to
- 11:13Speaker 1: change anything though. Uh here boom, no background and and
- 11:21Speaker 1: it doesn't and it is what it is.
- 11:26Speaker 2: Yeah okay, well so it but it does register that
- 11:32Speaker 2: I'm sending. It just doesn't like the I for.
- 11:34Speaker 1: Some reason, it doesn't like the iPhone.
- 11:38Speaker 2: Hmmm, Well I can do I can do a look
- 11:41Speaker 2: up on obs and see if there's anything.
- 11:43Speaker 1: I can change your camera on I am. Let me
- 11:45Speaker 1: see do that.
- 11:53Speaker 2: So I can't believe that that's an issue really because
- 11:56Speaker 2: it's going through video ninja, right, so wouldn't it. Okay,
- 12:06Speaker 2: so it here is something. Maybe you need to have
- 12:11Speaker 2: a plug in an OBS or something.
- 12:14Speaker 1: No, I don't think so, I don't know. It's just
- 12:18Speaker 1: like this, only this camera seems to be an issue.
- 12:23Speaker 2: Hmmm. Well because you can't use iPhone in OBS, so
- 12:26Speaker 2: it's still just stuck.
- 12:28Speaker 1: Yeah, and now you're gone.
- 12:31Speaker 2: Yeah I turned it off for briefly.
- 12:33Speaker 1: And you're back.
- 12:35Speaker 2: M hmm.
- 12:38Speaker 1: I mean if you want to look, if you want
- 12:40Speaker 1: to look out of yourself, just go to the stream
- 12:42Speaker 1: and look at it.
- 12:44Speaker 2: Well, I'm using the desktop camera.
- 12:48Speaker 1: Yeah, it's still giving me well if I haven't read cars,
- 12:51Speaker 1: But let's refresh the cash on this thing. Oh, I
- 12:59Speaker 1: could just do it right here, so give me a second.
- 13:04Speaker 2: I don't know why that would change any Yeah.
- 13:06Speaker 1: There you are.
- 13:09Speaker 2: I don't know why that would change.
- 13:11Speaker 1: Yeah, but now it's working. Yeah, okay, I don't I
- 13:15Speaker 1: don't get it, but it is.
- 13:18Speaker 2: All right. Then I guess we'll use this. Then let
- 13:24Speaker 2: me just fix this a bit. M hm. Get the
- 13:33Speaker 2: chords out of the way. Make you can actually see
- 13:38Speaker 2: me there.
- 13:39Speaker 1: Yeah, now now now it's now it's working, don't Yeah,
- 13:43Speaker 1: I guess it didn't like that that camera, I don't know.
- 13:46Speaker 1: All right, okay, well yeah we're good. So sorry about that.
- 13:50Speaker 1: Let's get into the video now that you know, we'll
- 13:54Speaker 1: have like an Allison that moves and not like.
- 13:57Speaker 2: A talking We gotta figure that out out though, because
- 14:00Speaker 2: I that that camera has less some annoyance to me.
- 14:04Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Well, for anyone who hasn't heard of
- 14:08Speaker 3: the Heroine's Journey, can you just explain how it differs
- 14:11Speaker 3: from the Hero's Journey?
- 14:12Speaker 4: And also what with that word I'll actually.
- 14:16Speaker 2: Wait a second. Are we is this is this going out?
- 14:19Speaker 2: Because it hasn't been It didn't go to the it
- 14:24Speaker 2: hasn't been announced like the only streams that have been
- 14:26Speaker 2: announced in the discorder yesterday's streams.
- 14:31Speaker 1: What Yeah, yeah, I'm live. There's people watching. Okay, yeah,
- 14:39Speaker 1: we got we got art force. It's live. It's not
- 14:45Speaker 1: it's public. Yeah, we're live. Well, actually the vertical is
- 14:50Speaker 1: not let me make that one. Sorry, the vertical one
- 14:54Speaker 1: is unlisted, but I'll just make it public.
- 14:58Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll make that listed.
- 14:59Speaker 1: Probably, but uh yeah, so but yeah, no, it's live
- 15:03Speaker 1: and it's live on Rumble.
- 15:05Speaker 2: Then why is it not going out to the Discord.
- 15:09Speaker 1: Well, then the announcements didn't go through. That's that's whatever
- 15:12Speaker 1: the bot is that sends out announcements for whatever reason,
- 15:16Speaker 1: that didn't go out. But I put like an event
- 15:18Speaker 1: and it's and it's it's showing up. So I don't know.
- 15:22Speaker 1: It didn't go out on the Discord though, I guess.
- 15:25Speaker 1: Let me see here show announcements. Yeah, it's weird. I
- 15:29Speaker 1: didn't I didn't do that, but there it is. Well,
- 15:34Speaker 1: I guess not my fault. I don't deal with the
- 15:36Speaker 1: bots on Discord.
- 15:38Speaker 2: Well, YouTube's up to something. Then I guess we're we're
- 15:40Speaker 2: no longer announced again. Let's get there. Let's get that m.
- 15:52Speaker 5: Most people are.
- 15:52Speaker 4: Familiar with the hero's journey because of not talk to us.
- 16:03Speaker 6: At least eventually you kind of pick it up or
- 16:05Speaker 6: encounter it just you know, if you're a sci fi writer,
- 16:12Speaker 6: talk about the hero journey first, because most of the
- 16:14Speaker 6: time it's the one people.
- 16:15Speaker 4: Have access to and the language talk about.
- 16:19Speaker 6: Essentially, it's basically this idea that a hero has a quest,
- 16:24Speaker 6: has these sort of patterns of withdrawal and return where
- 16:27Speaker 6: he goes into a liminal space.
- 16:28Speaker 4: And I'm using pronouns.
- 16:31Speaker 6: Casually, so I'll get to that in a second. But
- 16:34Speaker 6: so he crosses a threshold, he retrieves a boon, he
- 16:37Speaker 6: takes it back, he's presented with an award, etcetera.
- 16:39Speaker 4: Etc.
- 16:40Speaker 6: You can just google and take a look of it
- 16:42Speaker 6: at any image of the hero's journey out there, and
- 16:44Speaker 6: they'll give you the sort of circular layout of this journey.
- 16:47Speaker 6: You'll be very familiar with the hero's journey because you
- 16:50Speaker 6: will have encountered it in like most sort of in
- 17:01Speaker 6: a way, the hero's journey, the hero always ends up
- 17:03Speaker 6: kind of going at it alone.
- 17:04Speaker 4: It's usually him against the universe.
- 17:06Speaker 6: He has to prove himself, either to himself or two others,
- 17:11Speaker 6: et cetera, et cetera. So it has all of these
- 17:13Speaker 6: also sort of messages in narrative.
- 17:15Speaker 2: Good Lord, I'm feeling the hero's journey towards the point. Good.
- 17:22Speaker 1: She's explaining what it is. It's a short video, but well,
- 17:29Speaker 1: we'll get into it. I think there is something interesting here,
- 17:32Speaker 1: but obviously we have to get that. So this is
- 17:34Speaker 1: the feminist perspective. So she's gonna get a little intersectional
- 17:40Speaker 1: on us here in a second with.
- 17:42Speaker 4: It, and then there's the heroin's journey.
- 17:44Speaker 6: So the first and most important thing to know is
- 17:46Speaker 6: that these narratives are referred to using gendered language, but
- 17:50Speaker 6: they aren't gendered, So a female or non binary person
- 17:55Speaker 6: can be a hero.
- 17:56Speaker 4: An example that I often use is the reason.
- 18:08Speaker 1: Did you see the Wonder Woman movie? Which one the
- 18:12Speaker 1: well she must be talking about the Gala Gadot one
- 18:15Speaker 1: from like the when, well, when did that come out?
- 18:19Speaker 1: Like two thousand and I don't know, thirteen or something
- 18:23Speaker 1: like the one that takes place during World War one?
- 18:28Speaker 2: Mm hmm, Yeah, I've seen that. I've seen it.
- 18:32Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 18:32Speaker 2: I thought it was a good movie.
- 18:34Speaker 1: I liked it. I thought it was like, yeah, it
- 18:36Speaker 1: wasn't I didn't think I mean I didn't like the ending, but.
- 18:41Speaker 2: Where she fights what it was it Zeus or something.
- 18:46Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean like everything up to that point
- 18:49Speaker 1: was good, and especially the pilot. He was like, you know,
- 18:54Speaker 1: the the most likable and he gives he does the
- 18:58Speaker 1: biggest sacrifice, which you know, kind of mad. I'm not
- 19:02Speaker 1: saying he's the hero, but you know, usually the person
- 19:06Speaker 1: has the most to lose and risks. It is like
- 19:10Speaker 1: worthy of recognition. But what I what I mean when
- 19:14Speaker 1: I say I didn't like the ending is not the
- 19:16Speaker 1: reveal that Aries was like this. I think he was
- 19:19Speaker 1: like a uh some British pop prime minister or politician
- 19:23Speaker 1: or or something that was disguised as Aries, and he
- 19:26Speaker 1: was like fomenting war, you know, World War One. He
- 19:29Speaker 1: was like behind it. I didn't mind any of that.
- 19:31Speaker 1: I thought that was really cleverly dumb. What I don't
- 19:33Speaker 1: like is that the ending just turned into a big
- 19:35Speaker 1: CGI fight that wasn't very like nice to look at.
- 19:39Speaker 1: And I thought they could have they could have done
- 19:41Speaker 1: better than just have a big CGI fight at the end.
- 19:45Speaker 1: So and but I enjoyed it regardless. I there were
- 19:49Speaker 1: two Wonder Woman movies, but I'm not talking about the
- 19:51Speaker 1: second one. She's referred to the first one. I don't know.
- 19:54Speaker 1: I mean, I guess in a way it does reflect
- 19:57Speaker 1: the hero's journey. I suppose like she's you know, an Amazon,
- 20:02Speaker 1: and she like learns about the world of men and
- 20:06Speaker 1: stuff like that, and like all of her sisters are like,
- 20:08Speaker 1: don't go there. Men are terrible, and she like you know,
- 20:11Speaker 1: falls in love with one and but I don't know
- 20:15Speaker 1: is that is that unique in this regard what she's saying,
- 20:21Speaker 1: Is she right about that? That's why I'm asking if
- 20:23Speaker 1: you saw the.
- 20:23Speaker 2: Movie, yeah, yeah, well if it's a classical heroes journey,
- 20:28Speaker 2: Well I want to note something. We are how much
- 20:31Speaker 2: into the video about half and we still haven't gotten
- 20:33Speaker 2: to the hero the heroines journey.
- 20:36Speaker 1: Yeah, she's about well she said she yeah, she's talking
- 20:39Speaker 1: about pronouns and nine binary people, but.
- 20:41Speaker 2: Yeah, and the hero's journey. She's also talking about the
- 20:44Speaker 2: hero's journey. She's basically saying, Wonder Woman's journey was the
- 20:48Speaker 2: hero's journey, which you know, fair enough, but they still
- 20:53Speaker 2: haven't talked about the heroines journey. I'm just I'm just
- 20:55Speaker 2: pointing this out. I don't think they really have.
- 20:57Speaker 1: Yeah, I think what they're suggesting is that the heroes
- 21:00Speaker 1: the hero's journey can be the heroine's journey if you
- 21:03Speaker 1: just change the gender. So it's like a simple like
- 21:08Speaker 1: that's what I think she's saying, But let's listen to.
- 21:10Speaker 6: Some more Similarly, heroines can be male identified or not.
- 21:28Speaker 4: That kind of clear.
- 21:29Speaker 6: It's just that the language we have to refer to
- 21:31Speaker 6: these two narratives was kind of sixties and seventies, and
- 21:35Speaker 6: so that's just how it's fallen out of this JOm.
- 21:41Speaker 1: Was it.
- 21:41Speaker 6: But what the heroine wants and the goals that she
- 21:44Speaker 6: sets for herself are just completely different from the hero
- 21:47Speaker 6: And there's no like a priory value as to one
- 21:50Speaker 6: journey being better or worse than the other one.
- 21:52Speaker 4: It's just as readers and as writers, we.
- 21:54Speaker 6: Often gravitate to one instead of the other, especially in
- 21:56Speaker 6: the Western world. So a heroin's journey is really speaking,
- 22:00Speaker 6: she has something that is taken from her, and it's
- 22:02Speaker 6: usually a family network or emotional tie or bond of
- 22:05Speaker 6: some kind. So the example that I use often is
- 22:08Speaker 6: Persephone being taken from Demeter, so that Demeter is started
- 22:12Speaker 6: on a heroin's journey because she is questing for her daughter.
- 22:14Speaker 6: And that's that's kind of what the heroine is usually doing.
- 22:17Speaker 6: The heroine is usually questing for some kind of reunion
- 22:21Speaker 6: or unity or cohesion of some kind. She's looking to
- 22:25Speaker 6: put something back together again that was broken or that
- 22:28Speaker 6: she's you can define something that was taken.
- 22:30Speaker 2: And her, Okay, that doesn't what about all of the
- 22:38Speaker 2: men who are like so, I guess John Wick is
- 22:43Speaker 2: a heroine's journey because he gets his dog taken like
- 22:50Speaker 2: or taken away? Was this dog killed or was there
- 22:53Speaker 2: the opportunity to save his dog?
- 22:57Speaker 1: No, his dog was killed.
- 23:00Speaker 2: It well, but you know he loses his dog. I
- 23:02Speaker 2: guess the revenge jasspac means it's a so any oh oh.
- 23:09Speaker 2: The Big Lebowski is a heroine's journey because he loses
- 23:13Speaker 2: his rug, yes, and he has.
- 23:16Speaker 1: To get it back.
- 23:17Speaker 2: Like, what the hell is she talking about? This is
- 23:21Speaker 2: not the okay, so we can't have so it specifically,
- 23:25Speaker 2: a female journey is losing something and getting it back.
- 23:31Speaker 2: I don't think so. I don't.
- 23:34Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think so either. I think, well,
- 23:37Speaker 1: what about? Okay? What I think are probably some of
- 23:40Speaker 1: the best examples of a classic story that involve a
- 23:43Speaker 1: female protagonist. The Wizard of Oz and Alice in Wonderland.
- 23:48Speaker 1: So what have they lost in those Dorothy? Like, yeah,
- 23:54Speaker 1: she's trying to find a way back home. Alice doesn't.
- 23:58Speaker 1: I don't think that she's initially trying to get back.
- 24:00Speaker 1: I think that she's just dropped into this world. Maybe
- 24:04Speaker 1: I'm wrong, but I think that she's just trying to
- 24:08Speaker 1: It's like she's she originally believes in nonsense, and then
- 24:12Speaker 1: she goes to Wonderland and realizes all nonsense, and she
- 24:17Speaker 1: rationalizes everything, or tries to, and that's what put her
- 24:22Speaker 1: at odds with like the Queen of Hearts? Is that
- 24:25Speaker 1: is that wrong? I'm not I've be't read that in
- 24:26Speaker 1: a while. But I don't think it's about finding something
- 24:29Speaker 1: that was lost.
- 24:32Speaker 2: And also, yeah, I don't. I mean, the Snow Queen
- 24:35Speaker 2: is another female heroic, and it's basically I mean, I
- 24:38Speaker 2: guess you could say that her friend was taken from her,
- 24:42Speaker 2: so she's finding was lost, But then what about all
- 24:45Speaker 2: your princesses another castle kind of stuff? You know. It
- 24:49Speaker 2: just that doesn't seem to be the defining factor. It
- 24:53Speaker 2: seems to be arbitrary what she's saying.
- 24:57Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I do. I think that what she's
- 25:00Speaker 1: try to do is universalize the hero's journey and say
- 25:04Speaker 1: this can apply to women. But well, wait till she
- 25:07Speaker 1: talks about There's another thing that comes up that's pretty
- 25:09Speaker 1: interesting too. Really, more of the video now Here we Go.
- 25:15Speaker 6: Is similar in that she has a discent, she has
- 25:18Speaker 6: she crosses a threshold, she disguises herself usually and then
- 25:21Speaker 6: she has all of these patterns much like the hero does,
- 25:25Speaker 6: but her goal and strength is almost always in accessing
- 25:28Speaker 6: information and communicating with people. So a heroine on her
- 25:31Speaker 6: journey is always seeking to talk to people, to get
- 25:35Speaker 6: in contact with people, to put a group together, to
- 25:37Speaker 6: put a group quest together.
- 25:39Speaker 4: I like to say that heroines make very good generals.
- 25:41Speaker 6: They're usually really good at identifying the strengths and weaknesses
- 25:44Speaker 6: and others and activating them.
- 25:46Speaker 4: Heroines are very good at asking.
- 25:50Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so what are the other things? So
- 25:53Speaker 2: a heroin loses something and goes on a quest to
- 25:55Speaker 2: get it. A heroin goes on a quest to put
- 25:57Speaker 2: a group together. Is this another thing that she's saying
- 26:00Speaker 2: that is part of the heroin's journey? You need so
- 26:04Speaker 2: all of the all of the assembling the crew for
- 26:07Speaker 2: a heist, those are that's the heroines.
- 26:12Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if she would say this.
- 26:13Speaker 5: But the bioepics on Napoleon Heroin's journey, because he's assembling
- 26:19Speaker 5: an army and you know, people who can enact his will.
- 26:26Speaker 1: Cringe to say that they're you know, heroines are good generals.
- 26:29Speaker 1: I think that's a bit.
- 26:31Speaker 2: This is a very interesting This is a very interesting
- 26:34Speaker 2: interpretation because I never realized that the war part of
- 26:37Speaker 2: war in Peace was the heroin's journey as opposed to
- 26:41Speaker 2: the part that involved the domesticity and everything that was
- 26:44Speaker 2: going on there. No, actually it was Napoleon gathering his
- 26:47Speaker 2: troops and then the Tzar gathering his troops. That was their
- 26:51Speaker 2: respective heroines journey.
- 26:55Speaker 1: Oh good lord, I will say though that again, going
- 27:01Speaker 1: back to the Wizard of Oz, one of the things
- 27:02Speaker 1: that Dorothy did well was that she brought out the
- 27:06Speaker 1: best characteristics in the scarecrow, the tin man, and the
- 27:12Speaker 1: cowardly Lion. So she brought out the best in them,
- 27:16Speaker 1: and that was what you could say. She was their leader,
- 27:19Speaker 1: but it's almost like she was their mother. It was
- 27:22Speaker 1: like a very motherly thing that she was doing. Does
- 27:24Speaker 1: that make.
- 27:25Speaker 2: Sense, Yes, he does.
- 27:27Speaker 1: Yeah, So I don't know if that's what she would
- 27:30Speaker 1: say as an example, but that's what that's what I
- 27:34Speaker 1: was thinking about. Anyway, Let's play the rest of this.
- 27:43Speaker 6: Quality where they're really good at knowing what's needed to
- 27:46Speaker 6: accomplish things together, and the end of the heroines journey
- 27:50Speaker 6: is almost always a compromise of some kind that is
- 27:53Speaker 6: for the good, for the greater good for the good
- 27:56Speaker 6: of mankind. In the case of like the ancient Greek
- 27:58Speaker 6: myths Demeter, compromise results in the seasons, which allow for
- 28:02Speaker 6: the harvest, et cetera. And so that's kind of the
- 28:05Speaker 6: core of these these two narratives.
- 28:11Speaker 1: It's for the greater good.
- 28:14Speaker 2: Okay, so this is pretty this is pretty thin. But
- 28:19Speaker 2: let me see if I got everything that she actually said.
- 28:23Speaker 2: She said that, Uh, Heroine's journey. I'm just gonna open
- 28:27Speaker 2: up a little text. Doctor. Heroine's journey involves losing something,
- 28:36Speaker 2: losing something and getting it back, gathering the troops, which
- 28:46Speaker 2: is recognizing other people's unique skills, asking people, asking others,
- 28:56Speaker 2: and finally it ends with a compromise. Yeah I got
- 29:03Speaker 2: that right.
- 29:04Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's for the greater good, for.
- 29:08Speaker 2: The greater compromise, for the greater good. I haven't seen
- 29:12Speaker 2: that for a while. I mean, how are women compromising
- 29:14Speaker 2: for the greater good?
- 29:16Speaker 1: You see?
- 29:16Speaker 2: You see look, look, Mike, my camera is giggling. It's
- 29:19Speaker 2: jiggling while I was writing.
- 29:20Speaker 1: There you go, that's what I was trying to Well,
- 29:22Speaker 1: we could hear the We could hear the typing too,
- 29:24Speaker 1: is very aggressive. I do have.
- 29:27Speaker 7: Aggressive typing, Yeah, well, okay, So this definition of the
- 29:34Speaker 7: hero's journey for women, the heroin's journey, as I believe.
- 29:39Speaker 1: Less than satisfactory unsatisfactory definition.
- 29:42Speaker 2: In my final conclusion, this is a D grade definition.
- 29:48Speaker 1: Would you give it a D? I would I would
- 29:50Speaker 1: give it a D. I'm not I'm not saying I
- 29:53Speaker 1: know the answer, but I don't think that's it. I
- 29:55Speaker 1: think that it's there is something about we should be
- 30:00Speaker 1: looking at the old stories to see what is in them, right,
- 30:04Speaker 1: what is in them that that is I don't know
- 30:09Speaker 1: something that women can take inspiration from. Now. I also
- 30:13Speaker 1: have another person who spoke to this, and I also
- 30:17Speaker 1: think they're wrong, and I'll tell you why when we
- 30:21Speaker 1: get to it. But this is Mary Harrington and she
- 30:26Speaker 1: was talking to Jordan Peterson, and I didn't watch the
- 30:30Speaker 1: whole interview, but I did did see this clip and
- 30:36Speaker 1: I kind of thought it was interesting where they are.
- 30:41Speaker 1: Peterson is talking about the hero's journey because it's something
- 30:44Speaker 1: that he talks about a lot, and he was trying
- 30:45Speaker 1: to figure out what is the female version of this,
- 30:48Speaker 1: and one of the things that he sort of proposed
- 30:50Speaker 1: was that the image, like the Biblical image of the
- 30:56Speaker 1: hero's journey is the Christ and the but the the
- 31:01Speaker 1: biblical image of the female journey is actually not Mary
- 31:04Speaker 1: but Mary with child, right, and so it's an image
- 31:09Speaker 1: of motherhood. Right. So it's Christ in both images, but
- 31:13Speaker 1: one is being carried by Mary and the other one
- 31:16Speaker 1: is on his own. And Mary Harrington is trying to
- 31:19Speaker 1: give her version of things. And so we're going to
- 31:22Speaker 1: listen to this and I'll tell you why I think
- 31:25Speaker 1: that Mary Harrington is also wrong, although she brings up
- 31:28Speaker 1: something kind of interesting.
- 31:30Speaker 3: Secondly, on the question of hero's journeys for women, I
- 31:33Speaker 3: actually wrote not in the book but elsewhere. I wrote
- 31:36Speaker 3: a short essay about this a couple of years ago,
- 31:38Speaker 3: because in my observation, there is a hero's journey for women.
- 31:41Speaker 3: It just doesn't follow the same track as the male one.
- 31:44Speaker 3: And in fact, it has three parts which correspond to
- 31:47Speaker 3: a very ancient archetype for what a very ancient female archetype,
- 31:53Speaker 3: which is the maid and the mother and the matriarch,
- 31:55Speaker 3: the triple goddess, who's a figure out of some pagan traditions,
- 32:00Speaker 3: uh in which these are the three faces of These
- 32:05Speaker 3: are the three faces of the same goddess, as it were,
- 32:08Speaker 3: but they take on different aspects of different parts of
- 32:11Speaker 3: women's life.
- 32:13Speaker 1: All right, So she's talking about the three faces the maiden,
- 32:19Speaker 1: the mother, I think, and the matriarch, okay, or they
- 32:23Speaker 1: you know, there's another way they put it, is like
- 32:25Speaker 1: the young girl, like the the before, she's when she's single,
- 32:30Speaker 1: when she's got children, and when she's old, like the crone,
- 32:36Speaker 1: as it were. And these are and this is not untrue.
- 32:39Speaker 1: This is you know, we all go through it. But
- 32:41Speaker 1: I think there's something really interesting here. We'll listen to
- 32:45Speaker 1: more of this and then i'll uh, I'll give.
- 32:47Speaker 3: You my thoughts andcdotally to me, it stacks pretty closely
- 32:52Speaker 3: with what what actually a majority of normal women's lives
- 32:55Speaker 3: look like. You know, as the maiden, you're free, you
- 32:57Speaker 3: have a sort of warrior aspect. You perhaps that's the
- 33:00Speaker 3: point where you're pursuing you're pursuing ambitious professional projects. The
- 33:04Speaker 3: mother is more oriented towards home in the domestic sphere,
- 33:07Speaker 3: and you know, probably probably just doesn't bluntly doesn't care
- 33:10Speaker 3: about work as much. I mean, I know a great
- 33:12Speaker 3: many very high powered maidens who reached motherhood perhaps in
- 33:16Speaker 3: their early thirties, and then just found they just didn't
- 33:18Speaker 3: care about the deadlines and the spreadsheets anymore, couldn't give
- 33:21Speaker 3: U stuff. I mean this anecdotal, I'm sure, yeah, anecdotally,
- 33:24Speaker 3: that's pretty common. And then but then later on, this
- 33:28Speaker 3: was something that I found very interesting when I did
- 33:30Speaker 3: just likeotherapy training in the late in the late thoughts
- 33:32Speaker 3: and early tens, was just how many of the just
- 33:36Speaker 3: how many of the trainees on that on that course
- 33:39Speaker 3: were women in their late in their fifties and sixties.
- 33:42Speaker 3: So these were women who for the most part, already
- 33:44Speaker 3: had already had young adult children. Their kids had gone
- 33:47Speaker 3: off to university or were soon to leave for university.
- 33:51Speaker 3: So they'd pretty much done the motherhood arc. They'd done
- 33:53Speaker 3: the mother part of that, and they were moving into
- 33:55Speaker 3: a new phase of life. They were moving into what
- 33:58Speaker 3: I think of as the matriarch space. I mean the
- 34:01Speaker 3: I think the classic three part goddess term for this
- 34:04Speaker 3: is krone. But I mean, you know, there was some
- 34:06Speaker 3: way from cronhood. These were lively, vital, energetic, public spirited
- 34:10Speaker 3: women who had some life experience. They had a lot
- 34:12Speaker 3: of connections, they had a rich social life. They've met
- 34:15Speaker 3: lots of people, and they were ready to give something back.
- 34:21Speaker 2: Okay, is that really a journey or just life stages?
- 34:28Speaker 2: Like I mean, do we have the same for men?
- 34:30Speaker 2: You know, like the male hero's journey is you know,
- 34:33Speaker 2: you start out as a young bachelor sewing your wild oats,
- 34:37Speaker 2: and then you become a settled man and you have
- 34:43Speaker 2: a midlife crisis and you buy an expensive car, and
- 34:48Speaker 2: then you retire, and like that's just life stages. It's
- 34:52Speaker 2: not really a story about a journey because first of all,
- 34:57Speaker 2: it doesn't have an element of a story goal. All right,
- 35:01Speaker 2: it's just personal interest, you know what I mean.
- 35:06Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's the issue, right, Like she's when she
- 35:09Speaker 1: originally proposed it, I was talking to Lindsay about it
- 35:13Speaker 1: and we were like, oh, that's interesting, but I've heard
- 35:17Speaker 1: it before, you know, like the three I think that
- 35:19Speaker 1: they call the fates in Greek mythology, and it's like
- 35:22Speaker 1: a young girl, ah, you know, middle aged woman, and
- 35:25Speaker 1: an old woman. But the problem with that is it's
- 35:29Speaker 1: just like you said, it's just it's just what everyone
- 35:31Speaker 1: goes through in life, including men. So the hero's journey
- 35:35Speaker 1: is actually a part of the first Like if we
- 35:38Speaker 1: were to break the life cycle of a man into
- 35:41Speaker 1: the same three parts, where you have a young man,
- 35:44Speaker 1: the father, and then like the elder for example, Well,
- 35:48Speaker 1: then the hero's journey happens to the young man. In
- 35:52Speaker 1: most cases, it sort of fits into that because the
- 35:55Speaker 1: father is a different it's like a different life. It's
- 35:58Speaker 1: like the father is, you know, raising a young hero
- 36:02Speaker 1: of his own or maybe several. And then the elder
- 36:07Speaker 1: is the guy who shows up in the life of
- 36:10Speaker 1: the hero of like you know, he's like the obi
- 36:13Speaker 1: wan Kenobi. He's the one who comes into the guy's
- 36:15Speaker 1: life later and sort of introduces him on the path.
- 36:19Speaker 1: So you can't you can't say that the three life
- 36:23Speaker 1: cycles of a woman are equal to one small section
- 36:27Speaker 1: of one part of the male life cycle, which is
- 36:30Speaker 1: the hero's journey within the first you know, the first section,
- 36:36Speaker 1: I guess, the first third of the male life cycle.
- 36:40Speaker 1: You know the you know, the the riddle of the Sphinx,
- 36:43Speaker 1: you know it, what what what walks on? Four legs
- 36:47Speaker 1: in the morning, two legs in the middle day, and
- 36:51Speaker 1: three legs at night. It's basically that that is the
- 36:55Speaker 1: cycle of men, right, So I think that it's incomplete.
- 37:01Speaker 1: And also there's another thing about this that's interesting too,
- 37:05Speaker 1: is that one of the things I think we're running
- 37:08Speaker 1: into with young women today, especially these modern women, these
- 37:12Speaker 1: manifestel types, is that they have not gotten out of
- 37:17Speaker 1: their maiden phase. They're they're just going to be maidens
- 37:20Speaker 1: until they're in their thirties or forties, and they may
- 37:23Speaker 1: miss out on the other things that come later. And
- 37:26Speaker 1: so I wonder if there because there isn't a story
- 37:29Speaker 1: for women, that's why their court is sort of stuck there.
- 37:33Speaker 1: It's like, you know, being a spoiled girly is essentially
- 37:36Speaker 1: failure to launch for women, but we don't want to
- 37:39Speaker 1: look at it that way because we know how shameful
- 37:43Speaker 1: it is. I guess I don't know if I'm making
- 37:46Speaker 1: any sense.
- 37:46Speaker 2: But no, you're making sense. Just so what she's presenting
- 37:53Speaker 2: as life stages for women, you think is corresponding the
- 37:55Speaker 2: first part of the hero's journey.
- 37:57Speaker 1: For men or no, no, no, I'm I mean like
- 38:00Speaker 1: the first the hero's journey for men is only taking
- 38:05Speaker 1: up like it it can fit into the life cycle
- 38:08Speaker 1: for men as well, do you see, Like, because there's
- 38:11Speaker 1: no hero's journey where at the end of the day,
- 38:13Speaker 1: he's like an old man. Normally he is an he
- 38:16Speaker 1: is a man. It is a coming of age thing.
- 38:18Speaker 1: So he leaves a boy, starts the journey as a boy,
- 38:21Speaker 1: returns as a man. He has transformed, but that only
- 38:25Speaker 1: brings him from the first stage, where he's a young
- 38:28Speaker 1: man a warrior, to the Maybe the second stage is
- 38:31Speaker 1: like where it ends where he becomes a father the
- 38:34Speaker 1: hence the man bringing home the princess and like marrying
- 38:38Speaker 1: her and they have a big family. So it's like
- 38:40Speaker 1: once you become a father, that is like after the
- 38:43Speaker 1: end of your hero's journey. If we're looking at it symbolically,
- 38:45Speaker 1: does that make sense?
- 38:46Speaker 2: Mm hmm, yeah, yeah, I got you.
- 38:50Speaker 1: Yeah, so there. So I think Mary Harrington is missing
- 38:56Speaker 1: the point because the hero's journey for men then and
- 39:01Speaker 1: why they're drawn to it, it's it's important because it
- 39:05Speaker 1: challenges them and it changes them, like it puts them
- 39:09Speaker 1: on a path of hardship, you know, if you look
- 39:14Speaker 1: like and and there isn't something like that, or at
- 39:18Speaker 1: least we haven't really explored it honestly for women.
- 39:22Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, where's the hardship, where's the service to others?
- 39:25Speaker 2: Yet in what she's saying, well, I sacrifice, Yeah, the sacrifice. Okay,
- 39:30Speaker 2: let's let's let's finish, finish this one off, eh, all right.
- 39:34Speaker 3: Yeap, and I've it's in my observation, there are a
- 39:39Speaker 3: huge number of women who reach the end of the
- 39:41Speaker 3: mother arc, the mother part of that hero's journey, and
- 39:45Speaker 3: then and then embrace some perhaps and will then retrain.
- 39:49Speaker 3: So they'll have they'll have three careers, they might have
- 39:52Speaker 3: a so so they'll be very professional. In their twenties,
- 39:54Speaker 3: they'll be a bit more, a bit pretty somewhat more
- 39:57Speaker 3: part time, maybe thirty to fifty. And then they'll then
- 40:01Speaker 3: they'll retrain and they'll do something like psychotherapy, or they'll
- 40:04Speaker 3: do ministry, or they'll do spiritual counseling, or they'll do
- 40:08Speaker 3: some or or in some other way become involved in
- 40:12Speaker 3: the community, and they'll want to do something public spirited
- 40:14Speaker 3: and give back, and and those and those, those women
- 40:17Speaker 3: are a hugely rich force for for for for deepening,
- 40:21Speaker 3: deepening reflection in the culture, for for for public service,
- 40:25Speaker 3: for all manner of the manner of incredibly positive, usually
- 40:29Speaker 3: quite self effacing, but incredibly positive, constructive and life giving contribution.
- 40:36Speaker 2: Yeah really, okay, Well, how many of these women are
- 40:42Speaker 2: willing to acknowledge that men have a validity and a
- 40:45Speaker 2: valid point of view, not that that women don't necessarily
- 40:49Speaker 2: have Well, that's true self effacement, That's that's true willingness
- 40:56Speaker 2: to admit that women are not the alpha and omega.
- 41:00Speaker 2: So anyway, let's let's uh, do you want to finish
- 41:03Speaker 2: it off or did you have something to say? Uh?
- 41:06Speaker 1: No, I don't know that there's a lot left, but
- 41:08Speaker 1: we will. I think I got like the main thing
- 41:11Speaker 1: I was curious, like to want to talk about, which
- 41:14Speaker 1: is her framing of this is incomplete and that it
- 41:19Speaker 1: doesn't actually answer the question like what Okay, So let's
- 41:22Speaker 1: put it this way. What would be like the male
- 41:25Speaker 1: version of the maiden? Would we say the warrior? Can
- 41:28Speaker 1: we say that? Or the adventure orphan or whatever? The orphan? Okay?
- 41:31Speaker 2: Yeah, actually I would say that the maiden probably, yeah,
- 41:35Speaker 2: the orphan, so okay.
- 41:36Speaker 1: So the first stage is the maiden. We have the maiden,
- 41:39Speaker 1: the mother and the matriarch or the maiden, the mother
- 41:41Speaker 1: and the crone, and they're all they all have their place.
- 41:45Speaker 1: I think that, you know, we don't honor like our
- 41:51Speaker 1: elders like we used to. And I think that a
- 41:53Speaker 1: lot of that has to do with the fact that
- 41:55Speaker 1: we're sort of separated. A lot of people are separated
- 41:57Speaker 1: from their from their family, from their ancestry, so they
- 42:00Speaker 1: don't have the same reverence, they don't have the same
- 42:03Speaker 1: filial familial piety towards it. But let's just say that
- 42:08Speaker 1: this is how it has been in the past. So
- 42:11Speaker 1: the first phase is the maiden, the second phase is
- 42:15Speaker 1: the mother, and the third phase is the crone. For men,
- 42:17Speaker 1: we'll just say the first phase is the orphan. When
- 42:22Speaker 1: the hero's journey begins, the orphan, here's the call to adventure.
- 42:28Speaker 1: And when he completes the journey, he comes back as
- 42:34Speaker 1: someone who was ready for the next phase, which is
- 42:37Speaker 1: the father. So this is what I mean, Like he
- 42:41Speaker 1: it is through the journey that he is ready for
- 42:44Speaker 1: the next step, which is to be Yeah, okay, yeah,
- 42:48Speaker 1: And there is nothing like that for women, which is
- 42:51Speaker 1: why women are girl bossing all the way into their
- 42:54Speaker 1: thirties because there's no call or fifties and sixties. Yeah,
- 43:00Speaker 1: because there is something missing there. Does that make sense? Yes?
- 43:06Speaker 2: Yeah? And I no, I get what you're saying now.
- 43:08Speaker 2: So her hero's journey is the transition between these life
- 43:11Speaker 2: stages or that you aren't that the individual or the
- 43:16Speaker 2: characters made ready for the next stage. And she's saying
- 43:20Speaker 2: that the heroines journey is the life stages, which is
- 43:24Speaker 2: actually very feminine if you if you, if you think
- 43:27Speaker 2: about it, the hero's journey is something that a man
- 43:31Speaker 2: goes out and achieves the skills necessary to enter his
- 43:35Speaker 2: next phase of life. And she believes that the heroines
- 43:38Speaker 2: journey is simply going through time happens. Time happens.
- 43:46Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. Yeah, that's the challenge. And and Mary
- 43:50Speaker 1: Herring is not she's you know, she's not dumb. But
- 43:53Speaker 1: I don't think this has been thought through because it's like,
- 43:57Speaker 1: wait a minute. You know, men all so experienced the
- 44:00Speaker 1: three phases, and it's probably be good if there was
- 44:04Speaker 1: some kind of story or narrative for each one. And
- 44:08Speaker 1: I think there is, Like there are stories about fatherhood
- 44:11Speaker 1: that are meant to inspire men to become wise like
- 44:17Speaker 1: and become like the elder, which is sort of the
- 44:21Speaker 1: male version, you know, the wise man, because he has
- 44:25Speaker 1: this lived experience of both being a young warrior orphan
- 44:30Speaker 1: and also being a father, and that's what they carry
- 44:33Speaker 1: into their old age. And I think if you skip
- 44:35Speaker 1: a step, it is a bit of a hindrance.
- 44:41Speaker 2: Well, most of the hero's journey really seems to be
- 44:44Speaker 2: about the journey from an orphan to a warrior, which
- 44:49Speaker 2: gets the male character ready for the next stage. I mean,
- 44:52Speaker 2: if we go to the prototypical version of this, which
- 44:55Speaker 2: is Star Wars. Like the original Star Wars, Luke very
- 44:58Speaker 2: much starts out as a orphan, right.
- 45:02Speaker 1: That's almost his definitely an uncle.
- 45:05Speaker 2: Yeah, he's got his own uncle. But he loses his
- 45:06Speaker 2: own uncle, which is the start of his journey. He
- 45:09Speaker 2: becomes the orphan, and then he goes through the process
- 45:12Speaker 2: of learning with Obi Wan and becomes a warrior. But
- 45:16Speaker 2: then excuse me, sorry about that, and then he so
- 45:25Speaker 2: he becomes a warrior, but then he takes it a
- 45:27Speaker 2: step further and he starts to question his own desire
- 45:32Speaker 2: for revenge in the process of developing himself or developing
- 45:37Speaker 2: his wisdom, which will take him more to the point
- 45:41Speaker 2: of being I guess the king. So it's it's it's orphan, warrior, king,
- 45:46Speaker 2: and sage essentially are the three life phases, but for
- 45:50Speaker 2: the most part, people focus on the journey for young
- 45:54Speaker 2: men between orphan and warrior, and not so much the
- 46:00Speaker 2: journey from warrior two King because that requires understanding I
- 46:07Speaker 2: guess more of a like social impact or social the
- 46:12Speaker 2: effects or the effects of not just obtaining power, of
- 46:18Speaker 2: exercising it in a way that that helps bring about legacy.
- 46:22Speaker 8: Right.
- 46:23Speaker 2: And then of course the stage is the point where
- 46:25Speaker 2: the male character takes on the role of cultivating or
- 46:30Speaker 2: i'll use the nurturing other characters, the strength of other people. So,
- 46:36Speaker 2: I mean, so what she hasn't really identified a journey.
- 46:40Speaker 2: She's just identified the stages, and so women have their
- 46:45Speaker 2: own stages like that. May I don't know if there's
- 46:47Speaker 2: a if there's a warrior stage. They seem to go
- 46:49Speaker 2: from maiden matriarch and then to crone. Maybe the problem
- 46:54Speaker 2: is that there is no like there's no step between
- 46:59Speaker 2: maiden the matrix like there seems to be with the
- 47:01Speaker 2: male version, which is orphaned warrior than two king. Yeah,
- 47:08Speaker 2: so I mean that's something you think about.
- 47:09Speaker 1: That is something to think about. I was, well, I
- 47:12Speaker 1: got some super chows and this this video there's not
- 47:15Speaker 1: there's nothing left really, but I did get superchows. Yeah,
- 47:18Speaker 1: I mean, I just well I can play them. I
- 47:22Speaker 1: can play the rest of it. But I don't think
- 47:23Speaker 1: she says much else. But let's let's see these super chows. Really.
- 47:27Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think she's gonna surprise you.
- 47:29Speaker 1: Because I did, but I don't. I don't remember if
- 47:32Speaker 1: anything stood out for me after this.
- 47:33Speaker 2: But the hero's journey requires a journey, not just stages.
- 47:37Speaker 1: Yeah right, I do think, I guess I do think
- 47:41Speaker 1: the fatherhood is part of the stages because men's like
- 47:44Speaker 1: actual hormones change when they have kids, and I think
- 47:48Speaker 1: that it's like preparing them for another stage in life,
- 47:52Speaker 1: and it's different. I don't know how to explain it,
- 47:55Speaker 1: but it is different. But anyway, so super Chows. Richard
- 47:58Speaker 1: Beerre gave us five bucks, says, okay, I recall a
- 48:01Speaker 1: fairy tale story about a daughter of a king who
- 48:04Speaker 1: sent her to live with the family of commoners who
- 48:07Speaker 1: had some beautiful daughters. The princess had an upturned nose,
- 48:11Speaker 1: a downturned mouth, and no sparkle in her eyes. She
- 48:15Speaker 1: also had a really bad attitude, and over the course
- 48:17Speaker 1: of living with this family, she had finally overcome her
- 48:20Speaker 1: attitude by willingly performing various domestic domestic tasks instead of
- 48:26Speaker 1: demanding to be waited upon. As she performed each task successfully,
- 48:31Speaker 1: a bell would be heard ringing, and a bird would
- 48:33Speaker 1: sing and one of the undesirable characteristics would be corrected.
- 48:38Speaker 1: I don't recall the title, but perhaps someone in the
- 48:41Speaker 1: audience will. I don't know. That sounds like it's like
- 48:46Speaker 1: learning to humble yourself. Yep, that's that's a good thing
- 48:51Speaker 1: for people in general. So I don't want to I mean,
- 48:55Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe it is particularly feminine, like it's
- 48:58Speaker 1: something because it like the opposite is sort of not
- 49:02Speaker 1: as discouraged, let's say. But I don't know if you
- 49:05Speaker 1: guys know what fairy tale he's referring to. Let us
- 49:08Speaker 1: know in the comments in the chat. Richard Beer then
- 49:12Speaker 1: gives us five bucks and says, so one day, this
- 49:14Speaker 1: princess was feeling the solgic slash wistful about having some muffins,
- 49:18Speaker 1: and because the mother and her daughters weren't home, she
- 49:21Speaker 1: tried to make a batch herself, and having watched the
- 49:23Speaker 1: family making them, she tried to do what she had observed,
- 49:27Speaker 1: and even though they didn't turn out perfectly, she was
- 49:30Speaker 1: praised for at least taking on the effort of doing so,
- 49:33Speaker 1: even without perfect results. And then I got another one
- 49:41Speaker 1: more superchow Astrun gave US five dollars and says the
- 49:45Speaker 1: hero's journey is like a rite of passage for men.
- 49:48Speaker 1: The man has to conquer the challenges so he can
- 49:50Speaker 1: get the woman by showing how he has values and principles.
- 49:54Speaker 1: I don't see the equivalent for women unless getting a
- 49:57Speaker 1: period and people viewing you differently, but just that, but
- 50:01Speaker 1: that just happens. She doesn't have to complete a quest.
- 50:05Speaker 1: She gets the reward and value automatically. Or that's why
- 50:09Speaker 1: we're talking about.
- 50:10Speaker 2: It though, Yeah, that's why we're talking about it. But
- 50:12Speaker 2: I think I think what we have to look at
- 50:16Speaker 2: is what need what women need to do in order
- 50:18Speaker 2: for society to function properly. That would probably entail building.
- 50:24Speaker 2: I mean, we could probably reverse engineer a heroine's journey
- 50:28Speaker 2: from that, and you know, and it might be as
- 50:31Speaker 2: multifaceted as the hero's journey. But I think that's where
- 50:35Speaker 2: we start. What is the what are the things that
- 50:38Speaker 2: women need to accomplish for society to continue to exist essentially?
- 50:44Speaker 2: And I think that would probably be a start to
- 50:48Speaker 2: understanding the hero a specifically heroines journey, right, not just
- 50:53Speaker 2: spitballing about Oh maybe maybe heroines journey is assembling the
- 50:57Speaker 2: troops like a heist movie, you know, like that the
- 51:00Speaker 2: taj of a heist movie, or maybe a heroines journey
- 51:02Speaker 2: is trying to get something back like the Big Lebowski
- 51:05Speaker 2: getting his carpet back, or maybe a heroin's journey is
- 51:09Speaker 2: you know, like is uh is compromised for the greater good?
- 51:12Speaker 2: Like that one you remember that video? Uh? That one
- 51:18Speaker 2: the guy who did the zombies. Nah?
- 51:23Speaker 1: Oh oh oh. Are you talking about the director of
- 51:26Speaker 1: Sean and the Dead Edgar. Yes, and you're talking.
- 51:29Speaker 8: About Yeah, you're talking about the movie where everybody was
- 51:35Speaker 8: saying for the greater good, the greater Yeah, that was
- 51:39Speaker 8: hot fuzz.
- 51:40Speaker 1: All of those people on.
- 51:41Speaker 2: The council were like, you got to die for the
- 51:43Speaker 2: greater good, dude, that the greater good?
- 51:48Speaker 1: Uh? Well, I okay, I got a super sorry rumble rant.
- 51:52Speaker 1: I want to read it really quick and then I'll
- 51:53Speaker 1: I'll think about I'll mention something about what you said.
- 51:56Speaker 1: Nova Fan twenty one gives us a dollar and says,
- 51:59Speaker 1: the idea of a female general being acutely aware of
- 52:01Speaker 1: the strengths of others sounds like a Mary Sue trade
- 52:04Speaker 1: stolen from men's hard work. It could be maybe what
- 52:09Speaker 1: I think maybe we look at what the strengths of
- 52:14Speaker 1: women are, what are what are women's potential strengths. I
- 52:18Speaker 1: think that, even though it doesn't seem apparent today, I
- 52:22Speaker 1: think that.
- 52:25Speaker 2: Why don't we finish, like before we get into what
- 52:29Speaker 2: we think might think the heroin's journey. Let's let the
- 52:33Speaker 2: people that we're discussing have the complete their say. I'm
- 52:37Speaker 2: just saying just I'd like to do that. I'm completionist.
- 52:41Speaker 1: I guess all right, all right, all right, let's let's
- 52:43Speaker 1: do Let's watch the rest of this. It's okay to.
- 52:47Speaker 3: To the social fabric. And they're and they they're incredibly marginalized.
- 52:52Speaker 3: They're almost completely invisible in terms of the liberal feminist narrative,
- 52:56Speaker 3: which really centers the maiden, and it wants to foreground
- 52:59Speaker 3: the maiden and to and to tell women that the
- 53:01Speaker 3: hero's journey means essentially being the maiden for their entire life,
- 53:05Speaker 3: and everything else is just you know, the mother is
- 53:07Speaker 3: pretty much that you know, at best, if the mother
- 53:09Speaker 3: is noticed, it's as a problem to be solved, and
- 53:12Speaker 3: and the and the matriarch doesn't really get a look
- 53:14Speaker 3: in at all, and if she does, it's only so
- 53:16Speaker 3: that she can be denounced for being a tough or
- 53:19Speaker 3: you know, in some other way, you know, spat on
- 53:22Speaker 3: for being you know, a dinosaur or obsolete or you
- 53:25Speaker 3: know old fashioned or you know, out of touch or
- 53:29Speaker 3: in some other way irrelevant.
- 53:32Speaker 1: It did.
- 53:33Speaker 2: Yeah, well it just became about personal pet peeves.
- 53:37Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that. Just think about this for a second.
- 53:42Speaker 2: Ideological incompatibilities or it's like, no, I think that feminism
- 53:48Speaker 2: does prioritize the maiden and and also wants women to
- 53:53Speaker 2: live as maidens their whole life.
- 53:56Speaker 1: And why that is bad for the crone is it
- 53:58Speaker 1: essentially makes the chrone non ext I mean, yes, women
- 54:01Speaker 1: do grow old, but there's if there is no mothers,
- 54:05Speaker 1: then there are no elders, there are no matriarchs. So
- 54:09Speaker 1: this is it. This is and yes it will be
- 54:12Speaker 1: seen as something old fashioned. Well, but here's the thing too.
- 54:17Speaker 1: Once you're a crone, you're basically just another man. So
- 54:21Speaker 1: welcome to being a man, I guess you know. Yeah, yeah,
- 54:28Speaker 1: I mean yeah, she's making it kind of petty though.
- 54:31Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, like the whole turf, it's immediate pettiness.
- 54:35Speaker 2: It's like, oh, they don't they don't appreciate my particular insight.
- 54:38Speaker 2: As an older woman, I'm just a problem. Well, you
- 54:40Speaker 2: know the turf these are pretty pretty misinderous, So you
- 54:43Speaker 2: are a bit of a problem regardless. So is there
- 54:46Speaker 2: anything further, like, maybe there's a.
- 54:48Speaker 1: Few I'll finish it. There's like another minute left, all right,
- 54:53Speaker 1: here we go, hold on a second.
- 54:56Speaker 3: Or ridiculous And in fact, these women are the backbone
- 54:59Speaker 3: of the social I mean, those are the women who
- 55:01Speaker 3: are making who are making cups of making weak cups
- 55:04Speaker 3: of tea for slightly traumatized new mothers like I was
- 55:06Speaker 3: in small town England and telling me I'm doing fine,
- 55:10Speaker 3: and really that mattered a lot at the time.
- 55:12Speaker 9: You know, those are those are.
- 55:13Speaker 3: The women who are running, who are running Brannise groups
- 55:15Speaker 3: for no money every every Wednesday because they can and
- 55:18Speaker 3: because they want to give back. Those are the women
- 55:20Speaker 3: who are who are retraining as counselors and helping helping
- 55:23Speaker 3: traumatize people for free. You know, those are the women
- 55:25Speaker 3: who keep things going. And yet somehow the liberal feminist
- 55:31Speaker 3: version of the hero's journey just doesn't see them at all.
- 55:34Speaker 3: And I think I and so I've been very keen
- 55:37Speaker 3: to make a case for a richer if you like
- 55:40Speaker 3: a three part to opening a space for thinking about
- 55:45Speaker 3: women's heroes journeys in a more spacious way, which actually
- 55:49Speaker 3: just observes what life looks like for for mothers and for.
- 55:55Speaker 2: Okay, what we don't observe what life looks like from others. Mhmm, Like,
- 56:02Speaker 2: is this something we don't do already?
- 56:05Speaker 1: Let's play the rest of it in.
- 56:07Speaker 3: The in the arc of what what what the average
- 56:10Speaker 3: woman's life looks like when when she does have a
- 56:13Speaker 3: when when she does become a mother?
- 56:16Speaker 2: All right, so we're done with that. Okay, So on
- 56:21Speaker 2: the one hand, let me let me, let me do
- 56:22Speaker 2: my little typing things or for the aggressive typing. The
- 56:25Speaker 2: heroines journey is also the three stages of life, three
- 56:29Speaker 2: life stages.
- 56:33Speaker 1: Which.
- 56:35Speaker 2: Apparently does not involve any kind of achievement. It's just time.
- 56:39Speaker 2: Time happens. Does not involve achievement, involve acquiring achievements, were
- 56:47Speaker 2: acquiring skills. We're living up standards for a journey. All
- 56:59Speaker 2: it is is time casts time happened. Okay, all right,
- 57:08Speaker 2: let's look at Okay, you had something you wanted to say,
- 57:12Speaker 2: so go ahead.
- 57:13Speaker 1: Well, I think Mary Harrington at the end she does
- 57:15Speaker 1: sort of confess that she's opening up the conversation around it,
- 57:20Speaker 1: and I do appreciate that she said that. I mean,
- 57:26Speaker 1: she calls it liberal feminism. I don't know what that means,
- 57:27Speaker 1: but feminists will they want women to be maidens their
- 57:31Speaker 1: whole life, and I think the reason for this might
- 57:35Speaker 1: be just thinking about it. At what stage does a
- 57:38Speaker 1: woman have the most power? Is it when she is
- 57:41Speaker 1: a maiden, when she's a mother, when she is a crone.
- 57:45Speaker 1: I think that feminists will argue that it's when she
- 57:47Speaker 1: is a maiden, when she is young and fertile and
- 57:50Speaker 1: you know, attractive, she has the most power. Women have
- 57:55Speaker 1: a lot of social power, especially if they're young, and
- 58:00Speaker 1: feminists believe in is framing everything in terms of power dynamics,
- 58:04Speaker 1: so they want to give women every advantage, So they
- 58:07Speaker 1: ask them to be girl bosses and remain maidens, which
- 58:13Speaker 1: they see as a warrior type attitude for their whole life.
- 58:18Speaker 1: And the problem with that is is that it's ultimately
- 58:22Speaker 1: that power is self serving only, and that's how you get,
- 58:26Speaker 1: by the way, the situation we're in now where single women,
- 58:32Speaker 1: which is the maidens we're talking about, are a voting
- 58:35Speaker 1: block and they are a demographic voting block now and
- 58:41Speaker 1: they're using their power which they have as single women
- 58:46Speaker 1: as maidens to essentially just get what they want. So
- 58:51Speaker 1: where there is a missing story there or something for
- 58:56Speaker 1: women to aspire to is right in there. Like I
- 59:02Speaker 1: wouldn't say that motherhood is the answer. There needs to
- 59:08Speaker 1: be something before that, because if women don't want to
- 59:11Speaker 1: be mothers, then that's not that step won't happen. So
- 59:14Speaker 1: there's there's something that women need earlier in there, in
- 59:21Speaker 1: you know, during that earlier period that is a narrative,
- 59:25Speaker 1: a greater societal narrative around women that inspires them to
- 59:30Speaker 1: want to do like good, selflessly and humbly for their society.
- 59:40Speaker 1: That and that's a big ask. I'm not gonna lie,
- 59:43Speaker 1: that's a big ask. But I think that's where like
- 59:47Speaker 1: I don't think Mary Hearing too would disagree because she's
- 59:49Speaker 1: she admits that you know, this, uh, this forever maiden
- 59:57Speaker 1: thing is kind of like the room of the problem.
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: So it's like, Okay, how do you shake out of it?
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: And I think that you need a heroic tale. So
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: for women though, that tells them, you know, I could
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: just try to get what I want out of this,
- 1:00:15Speaker 1: but I should be thinking about the world. The world
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: I leave good.
- 1:00:22Speaker 2: Yeah, the greater good could say it that the compromise,
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: which doesn't seem to happen.
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: And how do you do that if we're like constantly
- 1:00:29Speaker 1: protecting women from the consequences of their actions.
- 1:00:33Speaker 2: Yeah, and we're constantly just prioritizing the sort of endless
- 1:00:38Speaker 2: not committing to anything. I was just when you were
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: saying that, I was thinking, well, what is the power
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: of the maiden? And honestly, if you if you really
- 1:00:46Speaker 2: bring it down to brass tacks, it's just being selected
- 1:00:50Speaker 2: by a good man. That's it. Now, what feminism does
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: is it uses that power of desirability and politicizes it
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: for its own benefit. Right, So instead of using that
- 1:01:06Speaker 2: power to start building a life, women submit it to feminism.
- 1:01:12Speaker 2: So that I guess feminist women with NGOs get really
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: stinking rich. I don't like. So I think that's what's
- 1:01:22Speaker 2: sort of happening. So they want to keep the maiden
- 1:01:27Speaker 2: in that state because the more women are at the
- 1:01:31Speaker 2: precipice of choosing, the more they can use that influence
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: in a political sense in society. Right, Does that makes sense? Yeah,
- 1:01:40Speaker 2: because they're saying, well, I advocate for all of these
- 1:01:44Speaker 2: women and what all of these women want if they're
- 1:01:47Speaker 2: kept in a state of maidenhood, then that that that
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: body of women that you advocate for the women who
- 1:01:53Speaker 2: are not picked. I guess, I guess that's why the
- 1:01:55Speaker 2: greatest insult is that you're a pickmy, it's because you're
- 1:01:58Speaker 2: you're no longer part of that great political body of
- 1:02:01Speaker 2: women that and gives the sisterhood. It's clout right, you've
- 1:02:07Speaker 2: decided to transition into building a life with someone you know.
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: But you know that all of that I advocate for
- 1:02:15Speaker 2: all of these single women, right, that that creates a
- 1:02:19Speaker 2: great power, but it has nothing to do with benefiting
- 1:02:22Speaker 2: the individual woman. So the sisterhood gains all of that
- 1:02:26Speaker 2: clout by all of those women picking not being picked.
- 1:02:31Speaker 2: So you know, and again that maybe that's why the
- 1:02:34Speaker 2: greatest insult is that you have been picked, that you're
- 1:02:38Speaker 2: you're reducing the power, overall power of the sisterhood, and
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: you want to shame that because you don't want to
- 1:02:43Speaker 2: do that. You don't want to reduce the clout the
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: perception that feminism advocates for all of these desirable single
- 1:02:50Speaker 2: women or women period. And Okay, so I mean that
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: that could be part of it. Well, I was thinking
- 1:02:57Speaker 2: if we want to move away from like criticism of
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: what's that actually happening to the question of what is
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: the hero's journey? And it's interesting that this is the
- 1:03:04Speaker 2: timing of all of this too, because you sent that
- 1:03:07Speaker 2: video today and yesterday myself and the patrons and people
- 1:03:13Speaker 2: who were involved in like the writer's retreat in the
- 1:03:17Speaker 2: patron Our Patron discord, which if you're interested to see
- 1:03:21Speaker 2: at least the preliminary stuff, you can go to Badger
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: Nation dot online. And we were discussing what is a
- 1:03:28Speaker 2: heroine's journey, like what is unique, what is the journey
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: that's unique to women in terms of a heroic narrative.
- 1:03:37Speaker 2: And there was a book that we had been reading
- 1:03:41Speaker 2: because they're in conjunction with all the criticism of writing
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: and looking at storytelling and all of that. We also
- 1:03:47Speaker 2: read books called Butterfly and Hellflower. And there was one
- 1:03:52Speaker 2: person who's participating who said that she thought that Butterfly
- 1:03:56Speaker 2: and Healthflower represented a heroine's journey. The flag is like
- 1:04:08Speaker 2: a long haul space trucker, so it's sort of a
- 1:04:11Speaker 2: masculine sort of role that she's she's sort of like Ripley,
- 1:04:14Speaker 2: except no, he's animorphs, right Ripley before her whole life
- 1:04:19Speaker 2: was turned upside down and she ends up having like
- 1:04:24Speaker 2: she ends up getting involved with this kid who is
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: a super soldier, but he's really young and he has
- 1:04:30Speaker 2: no clue about the streets and how to exist outside
- 1:04:34Speaker 2: of the way he's been raised and being part of
- 1:04:38Speaker 2: that system. And he is royalty of some kind because
- 1:04:42Speaker 2: he's I don't know, it's like some kind of space
- 1:04:44Speaker 2: klingons whatever, and he's being targeted and she has to
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: help keep him alive and also nurture him into somebody
- 1:04:56Speaker 2: who can manage the situation that he's in, So grow
- 1:05:01Speaker 2: him into someone who has the strength of understanding the
- 1:05:04Speaker 2: streets as well as this physical strength. She constantly gets
- 1:05:07Speaker 2: into fights you shouldn't get into all kinds of stuff
- 1:05:09Speaker 2: like that. So it's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, she's put
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: into a nurturing role. So she's nurturing this other character
- 1:05:18Speaker 2: who needs to develop his strength in order to manage
- 1:05:21Speaker 2: the situation. And the reason why they were thinking or
- 1:05:24Speaker 2: that we had this discussion, we came this conclusion. The
- 1:05:27Speaker 2: reason why it was considered a heroin's journey is because
- 1:05:31Speaker 2: of that, it's not just about her own strength. It's
- 1:05:34Speaker 2: about the fact that she is nurturing and protecting someone
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: else's strength who she eventually has to let go of.
- 1:05:40Speaker 2: And it wasn't just this kid, it was also there
- 1:05:43Speaker 2: was an Ai involved that she had she was actually protecting,
- 1:05:49Speaker 2: and she had to basically get both of them into
- 1:05:52Speaker 2: a state where they could stand on their own two
- 1:05:54Speaker 2: feet and be able to manage the situations that they
- 1:05:58Speaker 2: were in. But ultimately her right. The kid returned to
- 1:06:03Speaker 2: his father and the Ai ended up leaving her ship.
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: So that was and the idea is that a heroine
- 1:06:13Speaker 2: at least this aspect of the heroin's journey is that
- 1:06:15Speaker 2: it's not focused on developing her own strength, but it's
- 1:06:18Speaker 2: focused on developing the strength of others who then she
- 1:06:23Speaker 2: has to let go. So it's like an motherly role,
- 1:06:26Speaker 2: yeah right, you have to give them the skills that
- 1:06:28Speaker 2: they need to navigate the world. But it's also a
- 1:06:31Speaker 2: paternal role as well. That that seems to come in
- 1:06:34Speaker 2: more with the with the UH one, you become a
- 1:06:38Speaker 2: kang or a sage. But you mentioned Sarah Connor. Sarah
- 1:06:42Speaker 2: Connor probably would also be entering that role too. Because
- 1:06:47Speaker 2: what she through the process of Terminator won she becomes
- 1:06:51Speaker 2: pregnant and she's going to have a child she needs
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: to teach to become the savior of the human race. Right,
- 1:06:59Speaker 2: So it's almost then like if you think about it,
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: it's got a touch of Mother Mary.
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: Yeah, it does. It does.
- 1:07:04Speaker 2: Yeah, And so she's got to nurture the savior, and
- 1:07:09Speaker 2: that is the female is a very feminine hero's journey.
- 1:07:12Speaker 2: So she needs to learn the skills necessary and that's
- 1:07:15Speaker 2: just it.
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: In the original, it's a really good point. In the
- 1:07:17Speaker 1: original Terminator, Sarah Connor was a single girl, had a roommate.
- 1:07:23Speaker 1: She liked a party. She you know, she was she
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: was like liking cute guys, like she was living the
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: maiden life. And then Kyle Reese, you know, like the
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: Terminative shows up trying to kill her. Suddenly she realizes
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: something is wrong. Kyle Reese tells her what's going on, right,
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: and while help trying to help her survive, Kyle Reeson
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: and Sarah Connor, they you know, they bump uglies and
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: they have a baby, and then she realizes she's pregnant,
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: and so like it's it forces her to change. Like
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: by the end of the first movie, she is completely different,
- 1:08:03Speaker 1: although and then by the by the midpoint of the
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: second movie when they see her again, she's changed even
- 1:08:08Speaker 1: more dramatically because she's like embraced her new this is
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: her fate now, this is what she has to do. Right,
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: I can't go to the club anymore. I can't go
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: hanging out with the girls. I gotta focus on, you know,
- 1:08:23Speaker 1: essentially getting back to my son, because that's what the
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: second movie is all about. She's trying to escape so
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: that she can get back to her son and protect
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: him and prepare him. So yeah, this and even in
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: Aliens too, well Aliens, that's why I said. Yeah. So
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: in Aliens, Sigourney Weaver's character finds a girl on the
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: planet where the xenomorphs are newt and she, even though
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: they're not related, she protects her in a motherly way.
- 1:08:52Speaker 1: And of course she lost her daughter. I think in
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: the in Aliens.
- 1:08:57Speaker 10: Well, it was the time she had good time passage, right,
- 1:09:01Speaker 10: she was in cryostasis for like long enough that her
- 1:09:05Speaker 10: daughter died of old age or something.
- 1:09:09Speaker 1: So yeah, but but like she's relearning that same thing,
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: and I think that's why those Honestly, that's why those
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: movies work because I think it does need the touch
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: of a maternal instinct in there, but it can be
- 1:09:24Speaker 1: used in a way that essentially is women's way to
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: bring out, you know, the best in people.
- 1:09:31Speaker 2: So well, the other other thing is that if you
- 1:09:34Speaker 2: look at those two movies, I'm gonna ignore Aliens three
- 1:09:38Speaker 2: because it's.
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: Aliens three kind of does because she gets pregnant by
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: a queen and like kills herself. I mean, it's not
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: a bad movie, but it kind of misses the point.
- 1:09:52Speaker 1: But I'm not even gonna reference like the no, no, no,
- 1:09:56Speaker 1: it's just the first two and that's it.
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, just the first two. But this it's interesting
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: how you have Well Connor, Sarah Connor. She starts as
- 1:10:08Speaker 2: very much like you were saying, she's the maiden, but
- 1:10:10Speaker 2: she has to go through this process of toughening and
- 1:10:13Speaker 2: gaining strength and courage as well.
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: She's really emotional, she's fragile. She's always crying and screaming
- 1:10:19Speaker 1: and hysterical and cal Reese like shakes, you know, like
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: shakes the reality into her mm hmm.
- 1:10:26Speaker 2: But she she learns to become tougher, and that's part
- 1:10:30Speaker 2: of it. Was it's necessary for her to gain the
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: strength to become a mother, right.
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: Yeah, And in that way, Kyle changes Sarah Connor too,
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: mm hmm. So he changes her and then she in
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: turn changes her son.
- 1:10:45Speaker 2: Yeah, and and he changes her. He also gives her
- 1:10:50Speaker 2: a purpose as well, you know, he can and I
- 1:10:55Speaker 2: think that's a that's a part maybe of the journey
- 1:10:57Speaker 2: from a maiden.
- 1:10:58Speaker 11: To to having the strength maybe not be may not
- 1:11:02Speaker 11: end with them becoming a mother, because with Ripley's character,
- 1:11:09Speaker 11: she was already a mother apparently when the first first
- 1:11:14Speaker 11: film started, so she I think.
- 1:11:17Speaker 1: So she was the trucker in the first alien movie.
- 1:11:21Speaker 2: Yeah, it was the cat, so she protected the cat.
- 1:11:23Speaker 2: But she had a kid who was back on Earth.
- 1:11:27Speaker 2: And essentially what happened is she was in cry Oh wait, no,
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: that's no. No, she was in cryo after the end
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: of Aliens one and she ended up aging like sixty
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: years and her daughter was dead by the time she
- 1:11:40Speaker 2: got back to Earth. So that's how she lost her daughter.
- 1:11:44Speaker 2: And so she was already a mother. But through the
- 1:11:47Speaker 2: process of confronting the alien queen she had to she
- 1:11:51Speaker 2: developed a courage and self reliance, which then was necessary
- 1:11:57Speaker 2: for protecting Newt in the second movie, So it's almost
- 1:12:01Speaker 2: like there is that element of, yeah, maybe the Maiden
- 1:12:04Speaker 2: has a warrior arc, but ultimately what they're doing is
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: developing the self reliance and the skills necessary to nurture
- 1:12:15Speaker 2: another character to strength, right Like with Sarah Connor, it's
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: more explicit of Sarah Connor than the Aliens franchise. It's
- 1:12:25Speaker 2: interesting we're talking about science fiction though, No, I think
- 1:12:29Speaker 2: they are.
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: Really great examples because like back then it was sort
- 1:12:32Speaker 1: of you know, they were just working within James Cameron
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: gave us a Terminator and Eternator two and Aliens, so
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: you could see parallels in both of those, and I
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: think that I mean, like, there was another thing I
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: was gonna mention is that Kyle Reese sacrifices his life
- 1:12:52Speaker 1: to save Sarah. So there's a sacrifice and that is
- 1:12:55Speaker 1: probably like the ultimate motivation for her to survive. Has
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: also survived with the child.
- 1:13:04Speaker 2: He gives her, He gives a purpose, and that's that's
- 1:13:07Speaker 2: before we can get into the super Child. That's one
- 1:13:09Speaker 2: of the aspects I think of the going from Maiden
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: to being prepared for being a mother is to gain
- 1:13:18Speaker 2: this desire or this willingness to use your sexuality, which
- 1:13:23Speaker 2: is what this is more for Sarah Kana there than
- 1:13:27Speaker 2: than Ripley, but to use your sexuality and the aspect
- 1:13:33Speaker 2: of your reproduction. So the process of having children raising
- 1:13:36Speaker 2: them in the service of some of a higher cause
- 1:13:40Speaker 2: than yourself. That makes sense. So you are having children,
- 1:13:44Speaker 2: I'm gonna use sort of a controversial you're having children
- 1:13:48Speaker 2: for Allah, You're having children for your for the Jewish community.
- 1:13:52Speaker 2: You're having children and you're raising them as Americans, you know,
- 1:13:56Speaker 2: proud Americans. You're having children and you're raising them your
- 1:14:00Speaker 2: religious group, or your cultural group, or your ethnic group,
- 1:14:03Speaker 2: or your national group. And there's a sense that you
- 1:14:05Speaker 2: are part of that destiny, the overall destiny of that group,
- 1:14:09Speaker 2: and the way that you serve that group is by
- 1:14:12Speaker 2: having a child and raising it with those values. And
- 1:14:16Speaker 2: if you go back to the in order to defeat
- 1:14:27Speaker 2: sin in the human raceys higher purpose, and you're putting
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: your sexuality on those aspects of your sexuality and reproduction
- 1:14:36Speaker 2: to the service of a higher purpose. And so I
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: think that's an element of it too, is to develop
- 1:14:42Speaker 2: that sense of sacrifice for a higher purpose. And yeah, okay,
- 1:14:47Speaker 2: well go ahead read that.
- 1:14:48Speaker 1: So I got a super chat from Jay Stewart and
- 1:14:51Speaker 1: he says, writing Archetypal Character Arcs by K. M. Wayland,
- 1:14:56Speaker 1: it gives gendered cycles of growth and lists examp of
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: positive and negative arcs for five dollars. Thank you. That's
- 1:15:04Speaker 1: a book. I'm gonna check it out. Writing Archetypal Character
- 1:15:09Speaker 1: Arcs by K. M. Wayland.
- 1:15:11Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm going to check that out too, And I'm
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: just curious about it to get out of out of
- 1:15:17Speaker 2: science fiction. Another work that I've been looking at recently
- 1:15:21Speaker 2: Warren Peace. I told you about that well, I I
- 1:15:24Speaker 2: might have talked about it yesterday too. We've been looking
- 1:15:28Speaker 2: at all of the variations on Warren Peace that have
- 1:15:30Speaker 2: been filmed. So the nineteen fifty six I believe one
- 1:15:36Speaker 2: with Audrey Hepburn, the nineteen sixties one from the Soviet
- 1:15:41Speaker 2: Union I will not be able to say the names
- 1:15:43Speaker 2: of any of the actors, and the nineteen seventy two
- 1:15:47Speaker 2: to one from the BBC. There was a two thousand
- 1:15:49Speaker 2: and seven to one also which was like an Italian,
- 1:15:53Speaker 2: French and German interpretation, and then there was a twenty
- 1:15:58Speaker 2: sixteen one. And so having gone through all of those versions,
- 1:16:04Speaker 2: first of all the two thousand and seven to one
- 1:16:06Speaker 2: is appalling. Don't watch it. The others all have their
- 1:16:10Speaker 2: own pluses and minuses, but just two thousand and seven
- 1:16:15Speaker 2: is just gross. They just essentially they turn it into
- 1:16:18Speaker 2: a soap opera. They turned it into a vehicle of
- 1:16:22Speaker 2: wish fulfillment for women and flattery, and it just it's
- 1:16:26Speaker 2: just really appalling. It loses all of what makes Warm
- 1:16:31Speaker 2: Piece worse worth it as a story. And it also
- 1:16:36Speaker 2: has really really ridiculous battle sceness. Just just the worst anyway.
- 1:16:41Speaker 2: But the reason why I bring it up is because
- 1:16:43Speaker 2: the character of Natasha, I think represents a female heroin's journey.
- 1:16:47Speaker 2: And there's a big, big part of War and Peace
- 1:16:51Speaker 2: that revolves around her being engaged to a man named
- 1:16:55Speaker 2: Andre Andre and up being seduced during that engagement by
- 1:17:02Speaker 2: another man named Anatoly. And what happens is Andrea wants
- 1:17:08Speaker 2: to marry Natasha and they're very much in love. But
- 1:17:11Speaker 2: Andrea's father says he wants him to wait a year
- 1:17:14Speaker 2: and get his health in order, because Andrea is older,
- 1:17:17Speaker 2: he's a soldier, he's injured, he is he does have
- 1:17:22Speaker 2: poor health, and he also wants to make sure that
- 1:17:25Speaker 2: this very young girl, because I think Natasha was like
- 1:17:28Speaker 2: eighteen and Andrea is like thirty one, which you know is okay.
- 1:17:31Speaker 2: In the time he does, he's very he's his father
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: is concerned about him marrying a very young girl and
- 1:17:36Speaker 2: that she will retain her interest in him, so he
- 1:17:39Speaker 2: wants them to wait before he gives their blessing. And
- 1:17:44Speaker 2: during the year, you know, Natasha is doing her very
- 1:17:48Speaker 2: best to wait and be patient, and you know, she
- 1:17:51Speaker 2: makes she tries and uh. But then she has this
- 1:17:55Speaker 2: disastrous meeting with his father. His father is really cool,
- 1:17:58Speaker 2: he's a crazy sort of ex trick and things happen,
- 1:18:01Speaker 2: misunderstandings happened. She thinks his father hates her. She thinks
- 1:18:05Speaker 2: the sister hates her, which she's not wrong. In the book,
- 1:18:08Speaker 2: the sister, the guy Andrea's sister, actually isn't really fond
- 1:18:12Speaker 2: of her. But and all this happens, and then she
- 1:18:15Speaker 2: goes to the opera. Her family's trying to cheer her up,
- 1:18:17Speaker 2: brings her the opera and she meets this guy called Anatole,
- 1:18:20Speaker 2: and she anatotally just loves bombs her. So she's she's
- 1:18:24Speaker 2: going from this this situation where she can't be with
- 1:18:28Speaker 2: her beloved Andre. He's sort of a stoic guy. He's
- 1:18:32Speaker 2: a little cynical, not very effusive to the situation where
- 1:18:36Speaker 2: she's He's she's with this guy. He's like, I love you,
- 1:18:39Speaker 2: I've loved you since the moment I saw you. He
- 1:18:42Speaker 2: just loves bombs the crap out of her. And she
- 1:18:45Speaker 2: starts to develop this thing in her head. And it's
- 1:18:48Speaker 2: very clear when you read it, not so clear. Is
- 1:18:51Speaker 2: it much more difficult to describe in a visual medium
- 1:18:54Speaker 2: than it is with written because you can you're watching
- 1:18:58Speaker 2: her internal narrative, and I I'll get into why it's
- 1:19:01Speaker 2: more difficult to describe what's happening with Natasha in the
- 1:19:04Speaker 2: visual medium. But she's going through this process where she's
- 1:19:09Speaker 2: inventing this reality within herself, right, She's inventing this idea
- 1:19:15Speaker 2: that she has already betrayed Andrea because she has sexual
- 1:19:20Speaker 2: feelings for anti Anatolely, So she's already convinced herself that
- 1:19:27Speaker 2: the relationship must be over just because she's got the
- 1:19:30Speaker 2: hots for another guy. She's just it's just a matter
- 1:19:33Speaker 2: of she's quite she doesn't know herself right, right, and
- 1:19:38Speaker 2: she doesn't know when things are just fleeting and one thing,
- 1:19:42Speaker 2: there's something there that you can build on. And when
- 1:19:45Speaker 2: something is just a fleeting emotion and she's constructing this
- 1:19:48Speaker 2: whole reality in her head, she's already brayed, she's already
- 1:19:52Speaker 2: betrayed Andre just because she's had sexual feelings for another guy.
- 1:19:57Speaker 2: She's convinced herself that it's this is a fate to comply,
- 1:20:00Speaker 2: and she even sort of hates herself for it. But
- 1:20:02Speaker 2: then she's like, Okay, I guess I have to go
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: with this other guy now. And I know it sounds
- 1:20:06Speaker 2: really crazy, but it's a pitball that women have where
- 1:20:10Speaker 2: they get into this state, the self referential state, where
- 1:20:14Speaker 2: they stop recognizing external factors and just start building something
- 1:20:19Speaker 2: based on what they feel.
- 1:20:21Speaker 1: Does that make sense, Yeah.
- 1:20:23Speaker 2: They build a reality based on what they feel, and
- 1:20:25Speaker 2: Natasha builds this reality based on what she feels. It's
- 1:20:28Speaker 2: only really understandable when you're looking at an interior monologue.
- 1:20:34Speaker 2: And honestly, I'm amazed at how accurately Tolstoi can, can,
- 1:20:40Speaker 2: you know, depict this like he really understood women, He
- 1:20:45Speaker 2: really understood the pitfalls of being a woman. Because there
- 1:20:48Speaker 2: is that you're having an emotion, you're going to construct
- 1:20:51Speaker 2: reality based on an emotion with no Okay, what is
- 1:20:55Speaker 2: actual real, what's happening externally? And this is really hard
- 1:20:58Speaker 2: to depict because the visual medium really needs the external
- 1:21:04Speaker 2: to explain what's going on, Right, what's external to the characters?
- 1:21:09Speaker 2: You know, you see something out there and you react
- 1:21:11Speaker 2: to it. That's how visual mediums work. The characters in
- 1:21:14Speaker 2: the visual medium have to react to something external. We
- 1:21:17Speaker 2: have to watch them react to it. And what's happening
- 1:21:19Speaker 2: here is an entirely internal process where Natasha is building
- 1:21:23Speaker 2: a completely fictional reality based on what she feels, an
- 1:21:27Speaker 2: emotion that's fleeting. And the other thing is that she
- 1:21:30Speaker 2: gets very protective of this reality. So when her cousin
- 1:21:35Speaker 2: Sonia confronts her about this and says, Okay, this Anatoly
- 1:21:39Speaker 2: is not on above board. Why is he trying to
- 1:21:43Speaker 2: spirit you away in the night. If he was a
- 1:21:46Speaker 2: man of integrity, he would be asking your father for
- 1:21:50Speaker 2: your hand in marriage. He wouldn't be just dragging you
- 1:21:52Speaker 2: in the way in the middle of the night. And
- 1:21:56Speaker 2: Natasha gets absolutely irate over Sonia pointing out the obvious,
- 1:22:02Speaker 2: like that's an external thing. Her constructed reality based on
- 1:22:06Speaker 2: an emotion becomes something that she becomes so defensive about
- 1:22:11Speaker 2: if someone introduces any external factors, any external facts, she
- 1:22:16Speaker 2: rejects them and hates them for it. Right, and then
- 1:22:20Speaker 2: she goes into this this this incredibly negative spiral of
- 1:22:24Speaker 2: all of this. What ends up happening is her family
- 1:22:27Speaker 2: finds out, they kick Anatolia out, and and her friend
- 1:22:33Speaker 2: or the friend of the family is Pierre, who's the
- 1:22:35Speaker 2: actual protagonist of the of the of the book and
- 1:22:38Speaker 2: the and these shows. He tells her that Anatolia is
- 1:22:43Speaker 2: already married. He was gonna practice big and me with this,
- 1:22:49Speaker 2: and and the the character arc that Natasha has to
- 1:22:54Speaker 2: go through is that she has to recognize this about herself,
- 1:22:58Speaker 2: and she has to read realize what is a good
- 1:23:02Speaker 2: man to choose? And you cannot base it purely on
- 1:23:06Speaker 2: emotional factors on who gives you the tingles, who's love
- 1:23:09Speaker 2: bombing you currently Andrea may not be as effusive, it
- 1:23:15Speaker 2: may not be as capable of saying romantic stuff, but
- 1:23:18Speaker 2: he was a really solid guy and I respectable and upstanding.
- 1:23:22Speaker 2: She loses that relationship by the way, Andrea's like, yeah, nope,
- 1:23:27Speaker 2: I'm done gone, And Natasha actually deeply bitterly regrets it
- 1:23:35Speaker 2: and is, you know, regrets what she did and regrets
- 1:23:41Speaker 2: the nonsense she got into. And what ends up happening
- 1:23:45Speaker 2: is Andrea Andre goes to war because of course Napoleon
- 1:23:50Speaker 2: is invading Russia. That's the backdrop of the whole story.
- 1:23:54Speaker 2: He gets mortally wounded, and the way that it's presented
- 1:23:57Speaker 2: is it's almost like Key gets himself killed. Right there's
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: an explode. There's a bomb that comes down like a cannibal,
- 1:24:06Speaker 2: and it's it's diffuses that it hasn't exploded, and he's
- 1:24:09Speaker 2: just looking at it until it explodes, basically, so he
- 1:24:12Speaker 2: gets mortally wounded. He actually ends up in the same
- 1:24:16Speaker 2: medical tent as Anatoly, the rival, but at that point
- 1:24:22Speaker 2: he doesn't give a crap because he's mortally wounded, and
- 1:24:24Speaker 2: Anatoly is also He ends up getting his leg amputated
- 1:24:29Speaker 2: in the cot next to him, so he's watching this
- 1:24:32Speaker 2: guy just screaming. And of course Anatoly ends up dying anyway,
- 1:24:35Speaker 2: probably from an infection or gangrad but at the time,
- 1:24:39Speaker 2: like Andre has this, he's so close to death that
- 1:24:42Speaker 2: he no longer even cares about his resentment towards Anatoly,
- 1:24:46Speaker 2: so he actually holds the guy's hand as he's getting
- 1:24:48Speaker 2: his legal amputated. It's it's a pretty intense scene. And
- 1:24:54Speaker 2: then he goes back and Natasha eventually finds out that
- 1:24:58Speaker 2: he's dying, and he she goes to him and she
- 1:25:03Speaker 2: wants to get his forgiveness, but you know, and he
- 1:25:08Speaker 2: gives it to her. He doesn't give it to her,
- 1:25:11Speaker 2: you know, he just gives it to her because he's dying.
- 1:25:13Speaker 2: You know, he doesn't care anymore. And he actually even says,
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: you know, I was stupid to hold you to that standard.
- 1:25:21Speaker 2: But what was interesting, and this is the twenty sixteen
- 1:25:25Speaker 2: version of the movie, how they how they approached this
- 1:25:28Speaker 2: confrontation or this this reconciliation. They had Natasha say, don't
- 1:25:33Speaker 2: treat me like a child. I was responsible for my
- 1:25:37Speaker 2: actions and that doesn't change. You know, I appreciate your forgiveness,
- 1:25:42Speaker 2: but you can't say that it wasn't my fault because
- 1:25:46Speaker 2: it was. So she takes full responsibility for what she
- 1:25:49Speaker 2: did and for the nonsense she got up to, and
- 1:25:53Speaker 2: for that that thing that women do where they turn
- 1:25:56Speaker 2: their emotions into reality and then they get they absolutely
- 1:26:02Speaker 2: attack anyone who says yes. But there's some that you know,
- 1:26:05Speaker 2: this isn't reality. You're missing a whole bunch of facts.
- 1:26:09Speaker 2: Anatotally is married to someone else. He can't marry you,
- 1:26:12Speaker 2: you know, and so she takes full responsibility for it.
- 1:26:16Speaker 2: He eventually he you know, So she she regrets it.
- 1:26:22Speaker 2: She she she and she takes responsibility for it. They reconcile.
- 1:26:29Speaker 2: He dies and she's nursing him at the end, so
- 1:26:32Speaker 2: they all they have left of their relationship is the
- 1:26:37Speaker 2: days before he dies, and he takes care of hers.
- 1:26:41Speaker 2: She changes his wounds, feeds him, makes sure he's clean,
- 1:26:45Speaker 2: all of that. So she basically becomes one percent of
- 1:26:49Speaker 2: service to another human being, even though there's like he's
- 1:26:52Speaker 2: gonna have to let him go, and she knows it.
- 1:26:54Speaker 2: She knows he's gonna die. I mean, at one point,
- 1:26:58Speaker 2: you know, there's this hope, but then it dashed and
- 1:27:01Speaker 2: it's obvious he's gonna die, and she continues to tend
- 1:27:04Speaker 2: to him, and so she has this reconciliation with him,
- 1:27:07Speaker 2: and she grows through the process of being of service
- 1:27:10Speaker 2: with no benefit to herself, like the guy is not
- 1:27:13Speaker 2: going to survive and become her husband. She's doing this
- 1:27:17Speaker 2: solely because she regrets how she behaved, and she wants
- 1:27:20Speaker 2: to make sure his final moments are as comfortable as possible.
- 1:27:24Speaker 2: That's it. So that is her hero's journey. And then
- 1:27:30Speaker 2: at the end, finally she does end up getting married.
- 1:27:35Speaker 2: She marries Pierre, who watched this whole process, and honestly,
- 1:27:39Speaker 2: I think that she deserved it because she took full
- 1:27:42Speaker 2: responsibility and she was learned the lesson of selfless service
- 1:27:49Speaker 2: to someone else and learned the lesson of not getting
- 1:27:54Speaker 2: seduced by your own head cannon.
- 1:27:59Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:27:59Speaker 2: And then the final scene in the twenty sixteen version
- 1:28:03Speaker 2: is her saying, you know, the best part of love
- 1:28:06Speaker 2: is you know when you're it's not the first, it's
- 1:28:11Speaker 2: not falling in love, it's being in love. And at
- 1:28:14Speaker 2: that point in time, she's a wife and a mother,
- 1:28:18Speaker 2: she has multiple kids, and she's saying, this is the
- 1:28:22Speaker 2: best time in as, this is the best kind of love.
- 1:28:27Speaker 2: So she had that arc is going from a maiden
- 1:28:31Speaker 2: who almost chooses very badly. In fact, she would have
- 1:28:35Speaker 2: chosen if her whole family hadn't pulled her back from
- 1:28:38Speaker 2: the brink and said absolutely not, you are not touching
- 1:28:41Speaker 2: that bigness, you know, rat bastard, and then regretting realizing
- 1:28:48Speaker 2: what she did or almost did if her family hadn't interested,
- 1:28:51Speaker 2: regretting it, going through an act of complete selfless service
- 1:28:56Speaker 2: with someone who she's not going to be able to keep,
- 1:28:58Speaker 2: like he's going to die, he's going to be gone,
- 1:29:01Speaker 2: and then gaining the right to have another partner and
- 1:29:05Speaker 2: become that maternal character like to she learned those skills,
- 1:29:11Speaker 2: and then she became a mother. But it wasn't just
- 1:29:16Speaker 2: because time happened.
- 1:29:18Speaker 1: Yeah, see what I'm saying.
- 1:29:21Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so that's what I have to say.
- 1:29:24Speaker 1: All right, I know that was quite long. No, it's
- 1:29:27Speaker 1: all right. Somebody does ask which version do you think
- 1:29:30Speaker 1: is the best of the of the story? Oh, Allison,
- 1:29:39Speaker 1: I don't hear you. Allison, your your volume? Your mic
- 1:29:43Speaker 1: is muted or something.
- 1:29:44Speaker 2: I'm muted.
- 1:29:45Speaker 1: I'm muted.
- 1:29:45Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Okay, which version of the story I was
- 1:29:48Speaker 2: in my own head canon? Sorry, guys, I was unmuted
- 1:29:52Speaker 2: in my head canon. I don't know. Everything was wrong.
- 1:29:54Speaker 2: I don't know what your the hell you guys are
- 1:29:55Speaker 2: saying the best version? Okay? Well, each one has its
- 1:30:01Speaker 2: own strength. I think the BBC's let's start with the
- 1:30:04Speaker 2: Soviet version. Well, okay, the Audrey Hepburn version is fun.
- 1:30:12Speaker 2: It's sort of an inspired by version. I wouldn't say
- 1:30:15Speaker 2: that it's a real accurate adaptation. I wouldn't even call
- 1:30:18Speaker 2: it an adaptation. It sort of gets you into the
- 1:30:23Speaker 2: whole thing. I wouldn't even consider I won't even let's
- 1:30:27Speaker 2: let talk about the Audrey Hepburn I think one of
- 1:30:29Speaker 2: the problems is that Audrey Hepburn is Audrey Hepburn, and
- 1:30:33Speaker 2: she was Audrey Hepburn in this epic, and I'm not
- 1:30:37Speaker 2: quite sure if she embodied Natasha. The next one is
- 1:30:43Speaker 2: the Soviet version. The Soviet version is very avant garden.
- 1:30:46Speaker 2: What it's trying to you, like, instead of presenting or
- 1:30:51Speaker 2: presenting a narrative, it sort of tries to give you
- 1:30:54Speaker 2: the feelings that the characters have. So for example, in
- 1:30:59Speaker 2: the intro where uh Pierre and Andre are at this
- 1:31:03Speaker 2: party and they're feeling very alienated because they don't quite
- 1:31:06Speaker 2: fit in with Russian high society, the Soviet version turns
- 1:31:11Speaker 2: the gossip of Russia, like the the gossip of the
- 1:31:14Speaker 2: character that in the book was sort of introducing the
- 1:31:17Speaker 2: whole story, turns their gossip into the the sounds from
- 1:31:23Speaker 2: like Charlie, you know, Charlie Brown while Mama Ma Ma Ma.
- 1:31:28Speaker 2: More so, it's like that these these two guys in
- 1:31:32Speaker 2: this kind of montage of confusion, with Ma mar Ma
- 1:31:36Speaker 2: Ma Ma Ma, Ma Ma Ma almost going in the
- 1:31:38Speaker 2: background to create this sense of on Wii and disconnect,
- 1:31:43Speaker 2: and I mean that's interesting, but he's also sort of alienating. However,
- 1:31:48Speaker 2: the battle scenes in the Russian version are the best.
- 1:31:52Speaker 2: I would say, like, I think they had the highest
- 1:31:55Speaker 2: the highest budget. Maybe the twenty sixteen is comparable in
- 1:32:00Speaker 2: some ways, but maybe not. I'd have to look at
- 1:32:02Speaker 2: them much more closely and time closer together. But yeah,
- 1:32:06Speaker 2: so the Soviet version is one if you want to
- 1:32:09Speaker 2: look at avant garde cinema and trying to generate a
- 1:32:13Speaker 2: sense of emotion rather than actually focusing on the story
- 1:32:17Speaker 2: and character interactions, that's interesting, and the battle thenes are
- 1:32:22Speaker 2: the best. The BBC one is probably the most comprehensive
- 1:32:27Speaker 2: and accurate to the plot. I think that one of
- 1:32:31Speaker 2: the best parts of the BBC one is the interaction
- 1:32:35Speaker 2: between Sonya Natasha and Natasha's mother Natalia. That that that
- 1:32:44Speaker 2: they really try to make their interaction very like, very
- 1:32:53Speaker 2: very let me give it get stakes and tension and conflicts.
- 1:32:57Speaker 2: So they tried to make it so that the domestic
- 1:32:59Speaker 2: themestic aspects of the story where could stand with the
- 1:33:05Speaker 2: with the more strategic and military aspects. Yeah, and I
- 1:33:09Speaker 2: think it worked because you can make things that are
- 1:33:12Speaker 2: more you know what it is? Why didn't I do this?
- 1:33:18Speaker 5: Is this not.
- 1:33:20Speaker 2: That my sure microphone isn't isn't it? This is just
- 1:33:24Speaker 2: the what the heck is going on? Here? Just a sec?
- 1:33:29Speaker 1: Okay, Well, while you're figuring that out, I got a
- 1:33:31Speaker 1: super chat from Albert Nata Retro. Uh, that's cool. He
- 1:33:37Speaker 1: gave us two dollars Canadian and said Zena had a
- 1:33:40Speaker 1: great hero's journey of redemption. I didn't watch the show, so,
- 1:33:44Speaker 1: but I'll go along with it. My mom watched it,
- 1:33:47Speaker 1: but I didn't watch it really, so I understanding though.
- 1:33:53Speaker 2: Okay, now what did you did you finish what you
- 1:33:57Speaker 2: wanted to say?
- 1:33:57Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I'm done?
- 1:34:00Speaker 2: Okay for some reason?
- 1:34:01Speaker 1: Okay here, Oh I can't hear you now?
- 1:34:05Speaker 12: Is that better?
- 1:34:06Speaker 1: Yeah? That's that sounds a lot better.
- 1:34:09Speaker 2: Okay.
- 1:34:10Speaker 12: Is it better than what it was before?
- 1:34:12Speaker 1: I mean it was audible before we just did a
- 1:34:14Speaker 1: whole show.
- 1:34:16Speaker 12: But uh, okay, sorry guys, chrisp So that's good. That's good.
- 1:34:22Speaker 12: I can't use the earphone, so that was what was
- 1:34:25Speaker 12: going on. God, I'm stupid, all right. So to finish
- 1:34:30Speaker 12: my impressions of war and peace, the BBC version was
- 1:34:34Speaker 12: also really good for sort of explaining the context of
- 1:34:37Speaker 12: the war, and I think it had the most sympathetic
- 1:34:39Speaker 12: look at Napoleon.
- 1:34:41Speaker 2: And uh and the Russian general whose damn I will
- 1:34:47Speaker 2: probably birch sure, but I will attempt Kurtuzov.
- 1:34:51Speaker 12: Kurtuzov. Kurtuzov, Yeah, like Kurtisov is absolutely one of the
- 1:34:57Speaker 12: best characters in this entire story.
- 1:34:59Speaker 2: By the way I judged the I judged the adaptations
- 1:35:03Speaker 2: by how well they they.
- 1:35:06Speaker 12: They honor the memory of Kurtizov.
- 1:35:08Speaker 2: But anyway, the.
- 1:35:11Speaker 12: Two thousand and seven adaptation is just awful. It's appallingly bad.
- 1:35:19Speaker 2: The battle scenes or hollywood esque and like the worst
- 1:35:25Speaker 2: kind of B movie, sort of kind of Hollywood.
- 1:35:28Speaker 12: And the setups of the characters.
- 1:35:31Speaker 3: This is what they did.
- 1:35:32Speaker 12: They turned all of the female characters into martyrs, and
- 1:35:36Speaker 12: all of the setup of the redemption arcs for the
- 1:35:38Speaker 12: male characters, where often these weren't even redemption arcs in
- 1:35:41Speaker 12: the original. They were just you know, conflicts between characters.
- 1:35:46Speaker 12: So for example, Andre never really needed redemption, he was
- 1:35:49Speaker 12: just who he was. They they made it so.
- 1:35:52Speaker 2: That Andrea was more of a bastard. They made it
- 1:35:54Speaker 2: his father was a rat bastard, you know. And then
- 1:35:57Speaker 2: what they did is they had these male characters just
- 1:36:00Speaker 2: be awful and then at the end, like at last minute,
- 1:36:05Speaker 2: they would redeem themselves by telling the nearest woman how
- 1:36:09Speaker 2: right she'd already always been.
- 1:36:12Speaker 12: Like I'm like, that's terrible. That doesn't capture what Tolstoy
- 1:36:17Speaker 12: was trying to stay at all. So just avoid the
- 1:36:20Speaker 12: two thousand and seven version. I know there's some people
- 1:36:23Speaker 12: on like Reddit who think it's it's tolerable, but I
- 1:36:27Speaker 12: think it's because it tickles their ovaries. It's it's basically
- 1:36:30Speaker 12: flattery for women and soap operas. The twenty sixteen one
- 1:36:36Speaker 12: is the one is the one that I found the
- 1:36:39Speaker 12: most emotionally impactful. That doesn't mean it's the best one.
- 1:36:42Speaker 12: I just found found it to be the best storytelling.
- 1:36:45Speaker 2: Now you have to going in, you have to realize
- 1:36:48Speaker 2: that what the creator did is they focused. He focused
- 1:36:52Speaker 2: on those scenes and dialogues and characters that built up
- 1:36:57Speaker 2: the theme that he wanted to explore. Because Warm Piece
- 1:37:00Speaker 2: is like five hundred thousand words, you have to win
- 1:37:04Speaker 2: it down unless you want to do what the BBC did,
- 1:37:07Speaker 2: which was huge, Like I think it was eighteen hours.
- 1:37:10Speaker 12: So he did reduce it, and he reduced it to
- 1:37:13Speaker 12: those things that explored the theme of graciousness, forgiveness and reconciliation.
- 1:37:21Speaker 12: So if you're prepared to see that focus, then I
- 1:37:24Speaker 12: think you don't expect to have a one to one
- 1:37:28Speaker 12: adaptation of Warm Peace for the twenty sixteen, but it's
- 1:37:32Speaker 12: a good one. Like I think that that's a way
- 1:37:34Speaker 12: to go is to focus on one of the aspects
- 1:37:37Speaker 12: of a multi aspect, multifaceted work. In terms of that,
- 1:37:43Speaker 12: that's actually what one of the individuals who watched this
- 1:37:46Speaker 12: with me suggested is that that's a very good way
- 1:37:49Speaker 12: to approach an adaptation, is to just take one of
- 1:37:52Speaker 12: the themes and focus everything around it. And so that's
- 1:37:56Speaker 12: I think it was a very good one. And I
- 1:37:58Speaker 12: think if I were to rate them in terms of
- 1:38:00Speaker 12: the character arcs of Natasha, that one's number one, Number
- 1:38:04Speaker 12: two would be the BBC, number three would be the
- 1:38:07Speaker 12: Soviet version, and number four would be Audrey Hepburn's although
- 1:38:10Speaker 12: Audrey Hepburn just plays Audrey Hepburn.
- 1:38:13Speaker 2: And then I wouldn't put like there was no character
- 1:38:16Speaker 2: arc in the two thousand and seven Like they just
- 1:38:18Speaker 2: completely got rid of the idea that women need to
- 1:38:21Speaker 2: evolve at all, that women aren't perfect as they are,
- 1:38:24Speaker 2: and all the only evolution they need is for the
- 1:38:27Speaker 2: rat bastards to admit on their deathbeds that they were
- 1:38:29Speaker 2: right all along.
- 1:38:32Speaker 12: Okay, so that's that's my appraisal.
- 1:38:37Speaker 1: Well, I guess that's it. I mean I got nothing else.
- 1:38:41Speaker 12: So yeah, no, like we're good.
- 1:38:45Speaker 2: We do have some thank yous or at least one, yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay,
- 1:38:50Speaker 2: So I want to thank h Meredith G.
- 1:38:56Speaker 12: For putting one hundred dollars to the fundraising. That is,
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