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Romeo In The Morning 7-6-26 · Romeo & Friends

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  Speaker 1: That was going on as Romeo, we made it back
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  Speaker 1: from fourth of July weekend. We're going to talk about
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  Speaker 1: the barbecues, the pool parties, the illegal fireworks. We're also
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  Speaker 1: going to talk a little about it. If you could
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  Speaker 1: do it all over again, would you choose the same person.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get going. Let's talk about mom and dad for
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  Speaker 1: a minute. Your mom and dad, how have they changed
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  Speaker 1: since you were a kid? Goomor a you not what's
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  Speaker 1: going on?
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  Speaker 2: Change of a parent?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, my mother, we could hardly do nothing, go outside,
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  Speaker 3: go do this, go do that with their grandchildren.
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  Speaker 4: Get yeah, we couldn't you and this is hell.
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  Speaker 1: It's amazing how they change.
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  Speaker 5: It's a bottom.
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  Speaker 1: I look at my son.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I'm getting you when you get home.
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  Speaker 2: If you tell him, if your mom.
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  Speaker 1: Tout, you call me, damn, look at you taking it
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  Speaker 1: out on him. He didn't do nothing because your mom changed.
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  Speaker 6: You're not to.
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  Speaker 7: Act like that.
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  Speaker 1: That's awesome, That's awesome. It's amazing. Now, especially your parents
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  Speaker 1: tat their grandkids way efferly than they treated you.
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  Speaker 8: Romeo.
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  Speaker 9: I just I just I just looking on the same way.
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  Speaker 1: Now I have a grandparent.
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  Speaker 6: Leave him, my mom, You're not doing nothing.
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  Speaker 1: All right, thanks for college. Yeah, that's that's a real
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  Speaker 1: big one right there. Why they change because their grandparents.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I got a when you were a kid.
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  Speaker 1: This is I'll give you this the best example. When
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  Speaker 1: you were a kid, right and you just some your
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  Speaker 1: parents will say, well you do what'd you do? What'd
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  Speaker 1: you do? Now that you have kids and your kids
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  Speaker 1: do something, your parents, as their grandparents, say what'd the
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  Speaker 1: other person do? It's funny how that changes how you
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  Speaker 1: It was always your fault when you were a kid,
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  Speaker 1: but your kid never their fault according to the grandparents. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: your parents, man, when you were a kid, they were
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  Speaker 1: one way. Now that you're a grown up, are they different?
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  Speaker 1: How have your parents changed since you were a kid.
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  Speaker 1: Most of them, I believe have, especially if they have
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  Speaker 1: grandchildren already four two, five, four or seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: The help's going on this? Yeah, what's up?
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  Speaker 8: Oh my god?
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  Speaker 9: Oh it worked.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 8: I've listened to the radio station.
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  Speaker 9: I'm gonna call one day and I'm grown now.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, it works.
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  Speaker 8: I was just I was just listening to you about.
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  Speaker 9: Moms and dads and you know, your grandkids.
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  Speaker 1: And you when you were a kid.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, I just listened to what the lady said,
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  Speaker 9: and that.
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  Speaker 8: Is very true to me.
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  Speaker 3: The most important thing was that every time.
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  Speaker 8: I wanted McDonald's, there was no McDonald's money.
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  Speaker 2: And there's beings that home with my with my kids.
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  Speaker 10: You know, Okay, I'll get you a hat.
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  Speaker 9: You know you want extra frise, you want that extra ray?
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  Speaker 10: I said.
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  Speaker 4: And now I'm grown, I'm like, where was that McDonald's money?
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  Speaker 10: Time was different.
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  Speaker 8: I'm like, yeah, but I have to know the more
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  Speaker 8: intensive now because they were by men.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's hilarious.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: And then getting in trouble and everything that.
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  Speaker 7: It was very true with me.
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  Speaker 8: It was always like, and what.
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  Speaker 10: Are you doing?
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  Speaker 9: I see everything?
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  Speaker 8: You know, everybody's in trouble.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care who did it.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted one of her grandkid's like, oh he's a baby,
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  Speaker 3: she's a bit.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I was a baby, and I feel like, yo,
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  Speaker 1: that's funny how your parents change. It's funny how their
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  Speaker 1: mentality changes about things.
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  Speaker 9: Uh, yes, yes it is.
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  Speaker 5: And every time when I asked her for something so
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  Speaker 5: as grown, she's like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: But then when I say, oh, your grandkid wants oh,
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  Speaker 2: forget it, get it, it'll.
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  Speaker 1: Matter the type.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I was always looking at price tags, tag discounts,
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  Speaker 2: nothing worse.
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  Speaker 1: That's she got that McDonald's money now, all yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, thanks for colling. We'll see you later. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's funny.
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  Speaker 12: Ow.
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  Speaker 1: Grandma and grandma always got that McDonald's money with their grandkids,
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  Speaker 1: but they never had that McDonald's money for you already
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  Speaker 1: four two, five, four or seven seven? How are your
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  Speaker 1: parents different now? How have your parents changed since you
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  Speaker 1: were a kid?
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  Speaker 5: Going on?
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  Speaker 11: Oh my god, man, when I tell you.
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  Speaker 5: Me as a child, I was I was getting hit
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  Speaker 5: with coffee cups, the TV, and tennis. I got my
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  Speaker 5: hands burnt on the stove one time because I grabbed
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  Speaker 5: two dollars worth of change.
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  Speaker 4: To go to the store before I went to school
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  Speaker 4: when I was eight years old.
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  Speaker 2: Straight up child's abuse.
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  Speaker 4: And now that I have three children of my own
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  Speaker 4: ild my kids. Because he forgot his manners at his
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  Speaker 4: grandma's house, I scolded him, not just a firm voice
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  Speaker 4: like hey, you don't do that.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, And this woman wants to be like you don't.
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  Speaker 8: You shouldn't talk to them like that.
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  Speaker 4: You're too aggressive. And I'm looking at her like me.
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  Speaker 9: You're lucky.
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  Speaker 5: It's too late for me to cockyps.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that sounds exactly right.
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  Speaker 2: Emotionally damaged. But my kids can get away with everything.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, it's funny how parents forget how
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  Speaker 1: they treated you when it comes to their grandchildren.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's weird, but I'm sure I have no problem
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  Speaker 5: reminding her, not one bit.
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  Speaker 1: That's awesome. That's awesome. Thanks for calling. I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 1: It's crazy, right, All you moms know, All you moms
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  Speaker 1: know how your mom treated you, and now you got
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  Speaker 1: your own children, how she treats your children. Who it's different,
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  Speaker 1: it's different. Parents are different nowadays. Man, they're different than
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  Speaker 1: when you were a kid. They treat you different. Let's
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  Speaker 1: talk about how your parents have changed since you were
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  Speaker 1: a kid. Now you're an adult and they're totally different,
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  Speaker 1: right already four two, five, four or seven to seven
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  Speaker 1: year room? Hey, I got sober for my kids since
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  Speaker 1: my mom couldn't do that for us. I'm addicted to
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  Speaker 1: house plants now hated dogs. Now we have three. They
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  Speaker 1: leave hair everywhere and it don't bother me. They go
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  Speaker 1: on my bed and I don't lose my stuff. I
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  Speaker 1: would have and I would have in the past. I
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  Speaker 1: guess I got softer with age. That's pretty funny, Hey, Romeo,
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  Speaker 1: my dad would not allow people to drink or smoke
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  Speaker 1: in the house. Now that he's old, he's seventy. Who
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  Speaker 1: shouldn't who shouldn't be smoking and drinking? Still now smokers
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  Speaker 1: all day and drinkers all day in the house. Man,
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  Speaker 1: it's funny how people change. Bro, it's crazy, right, your
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  Speaker 1: parents have changed. They're different. Weren't you how it's going on?
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  Speaker 8: Hey, you talk about parents changing?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what's up?
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  Speaker 10: Man?
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  Speaker 8: So pro my first my dad's first grandson. My whole childhood,
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  Speaker 8: this land was the worst. Meet me with everything you
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  Speaker 8: think of that you can find here. Beat me. I
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  Speaker 8: just want to work. Wouldn't use it? Make me feel
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  Speaker 8: so bad? And work six ovens zero and short?
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  Speaker 9: Soon as they get a first grade child? Mad? What's
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  Speaker 9: going to church?
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  Speaker 8: A height? Forget that? It's something to get a second
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  Speaker 8: grand child that way, I wants to become a pastor. Wow, bro,
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  Speaker 8: bro stop me, stop me.
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  Speaker 1: I know to you, man, that's funny.
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  Speaker 8: Man, I've been murdered verbally, physically, everything.
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  Speaker 6: It's soon too bad.
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  Speaker 8: Can't come out. Now you speaks the only word to him.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about how your parents have changed since you
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  Speaker 1: were a kid. They've really changed now that they have grandchildren. Right,
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  Speaker 1: all right, hey Roam, it's so true. I was getting
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  Speaker 1: hit with car and tennis coffee cups, the metal ones.
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  Speaker 1: I had my hands burnt on one time, straight up,
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  Speaker 1: child abused sperm voices. All of a sudden they got grandkids. Man,
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  Speaker 1: they can't do no wrong. And Romeo, my parents always
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  Speaker 1: told me and my siblings, we don't got money for things.
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  Speaker 1: All of a sudden, they got grandkids and they flashed
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  Speaker 1: money like millionaires. Like really, where was all that money back?
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  Speaker 1: They got McDonald money now, it's crazy. Yeah, they didn't
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  Speaker 1: have McDonald money when you were a kid, but they
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  Speaker 1: got McDonald money now, hey, roam, all right? E four
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  Speaker 1: two five four seven, there's seven. It's roby outside of
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  Speaker 1: the four point one. What's up? Hey, what's hey, Ruben?
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  Speaker 1: What's going on?
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  Speaker 12: Man?
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  Speaker 8: Man, it's funny.
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  Speaker 9: Last night my daughter was over with my grandbaby and
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  Speaker 9: they were talking about his birthday party, and I'm like, dude,
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  Speaker 9: that's the way you far away.
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  Speaker 12: He's only four months, said, oh.
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  Speaker 9: Dad, if I want to do this and aw so
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  Speaker 9: I let her have the room.
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  Speaker 12: I said, all right, well Sunday, I said, we're going
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  Speaker 12: to do after party because she's talking about you want
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  Speaker 12: to little Colby and said, now I want to do
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  Speaker 12: pap patrol And I said, well, then Sunday.
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  Speaker 10: I'll do an after party.
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  Speaker 9: I said, for my grandbaby, I said, and for the
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  Speaker 9: families that stay from out of town, you.
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  Speaker 12: Know yeah, And she's like, you never did that for us.
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  Speaker 8: I'm mad now, my grand baby. You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 9: Wrong, man, get you're gonna do what you want.
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  Speaker 12: You did it for the baby shower too, my grand baby.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are messed up.
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  Speaker 10: Man.
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  Speaker 12: No, I only sent my invitations on the baby shower
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  Speaker 12: to my people because she they were complaining about this region. Yep, okay,
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  Speaker 12: well I think the only people I'm gonnavite.
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  Speaker 1: On Sunday my people exactly, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 12: And when they say they're all macause their people ain't
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  Speaker 12: them and be like, well you didn't want the partner.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's fun. You just have your own. You guys
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  Speaker 1: are too much what I want on the day after
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  Speaker 1: right for my grand baby? Absolutely all. That's hilarious. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you mad parents, change, bro, especially when they have grandkids.
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  Speaker 1: Alre they four two by four, seven and seven. My question, though,
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  Speaker 1: is this for all your parents to change it? Why
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  Speaker 1: is it you don't see the same innocence in your
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  Speaker 1: grandchild as you do your child? Why were you so
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  Speaker 1: different already? Four two, five, four, seven and seven? I
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  Speaker 1: have your parents changed since you were a kid?
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  Speaker 9: Hello, ramel in me? Bet that was going on? I
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  Speaker 9: got drunk for two days already. The Mexico win yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: No, Mexico lost what they lost?
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  Speaker 5: Three two?
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  Speaker 1: They tried to help him win, but that didn't happen.
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  Speaker 9: But I had to change you on for two weeks already.
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  Speaker 5: Guess.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, that's okay Romeo, because I'm just gonna go out
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  Speaker 9: and go give me England. Okay, you want one? Give
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  Speaker 9: me one?
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  Speaker 5: Two?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 12: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Mexico lost last night to uh to England, which was
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  Speaker 1: a that's pretty impress It was a pretty good game,
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  Speaker 1: I think, but uh so Mexico's gone. USA is still
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  Speaker 1: in it though that I think USA is probably gonna
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  Speaker 1: lose today though, right they played what five, five or
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  Speaker 1: six today? They might be out today, So there you go.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, I guess I'll have to stop watching
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  Speaker 1: soccer after uh, the USA loses. But yeah, it was yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so Mexico's I was. I know there was something I
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  Speaker 1: was going to say about the I was gonna say
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  Speaker 1: about the game last night, but I I totally spaced it.
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  Speaker 1: I can't remember what it was now anyway, already four
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  Speaker 1: two five. Oh, let me see if I wrote it down.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, let me see if I wrote down what
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  Speaker 1: I was going to say about Mexico. It was uh,
• 11:51
  Speaker 1: oh no, it wasn't Mexico. I was going to talk
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  Speaker 1: about illegal fireworks. I want to get into illegal fireworks.
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  Speaker 1: I'll get into that in just a second, though. We
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  Speaker 1: gotta talk about that. But yeah, Mexico's out. They lost
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  Speaker 1: three too. I mean it was a pretty good game.
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  Speaker 1: I mean Mexico. I know that Mexico had Uh England
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  Speaker 1: lost a player because of a red card, and Mexico
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  Speaker 1: just couldn't overcome it. I don't know why. I guess
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  Speaker 1: England was probably the better team though. Already four two five,
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  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven?
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  Speaker 8: How you doing?
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  Speaker 1: What's going on?
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  Speaker 9: Christ?
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  Speaker 8: And I'm doing great. I'm doing greatly.
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  Speaker 3: I was calling to tell you.
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  Speaker 4: The difference is how we did not see the innocence
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  Speaker 4: in our own children.
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  Speaker 5: Over our RN kids.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, okay, So.
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  Speaker 4: I have five children.
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  Speaker 9: I have four five, you know, four.
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  Speaker 5: Kids that I actually had for my body.
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  Speaker 8: And I have a step daughter.
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  Speaker 9: So I have five kids.
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  Speaker 10: Let me tell you what's the different kid? So we
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  Speaker 10: we do so much more and so much love for
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  Speaker 10: our grandchildren because.
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  Speaker 6: They're four in their innocence now our children, however, so
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  Speaker 6: I put call it thanks.
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  Speaker 13: Oh, that's an amazing perspective. It never occurred to me
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  Speaker 13: what she just said. That's so, that's so insightful. You're
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  Speaker 13: absolutely right.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that is so funny. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: that's awesome.
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  Speaker 4: She do.
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  Speaker 1: That's great. So I got this text messages, good morning Romeo.
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  Speaker 1: I've been married to my husband for ten years, and
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  Speaker 1: these past years have been amazing. Why do you guys
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  Speaker 1: always start with this? I thought I would regret marrying
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  Speaker 1: marying Young at twenty one, but my husband is just amazing.
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  Speaker 1: We have one child together and another one on the way.
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  Speaker 1: So two nights ago we went into a deep conversation
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  Speaker 1: about what would you have done if you never married me?
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  Speaker 1: Why would you even have that conversation for me? I
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  Speaker 1: would have chose my husband and marry him all over again.
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  Speaker 1: Would have done it sooner if possible. But for my husband,
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  Speaker 1: he would have married his ex girlfriend. Why would he
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  Speaker 1: say that to you, Hey, Romeo, I knew him when
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  Speaker 1: he was dating that girl, and he chose me over her.
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  Speaker 1: I asked him why her? He said, because she was
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  Speaker 1: there for me for my darkest moments. I lost my job,
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  Speaker 1: I got evicted from my house, I got kicked out
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  Speaker 1: of school, and she was there when I needed someone
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  Speaker 1: the most. But I chose you, and I gave you
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  Speaker 1: what I promised her. There was one question I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to ask him, Romeo, but I'm scared of the answer.
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  Speaker 1: If she ever contacted you and wanted to work on things,
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  Speaker 1: would you leave your would you leave our family that
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  Speaker 1: we have built for her? I fear the answer, Well
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: you should fear the answer, because it's obvious. The answer is,
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  Speaker 1: would he would leave leave you for her? I don't
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  Speaker 1: even know if he'd leave you. You know, he'd probably
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: just cheat on you with him. But why would you
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  Speaker 1: have that conversation, And why would he talk to you
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  Speaker 1: like that?
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  Speaker 8: Why?
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  Speaker 1: What kind of man? I mean? You're telling me your
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  Speaker 1: husband's great, But what kind of man tells you, that
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  Speaker 1: tells you, oh, yeah, I would have I would have
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  Speaker 1: married my ex instead of you, if I could do
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  Speaker 1: it all over again. I mean, why of course he
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  Speaker 1: would choose her to have that type of conversation and
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  Speaker 1: tell your your wife and the mother of your children,
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  Speaker 1: that's not good already four two five, four, seven to
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  Speaker 1: seven to check out this text message I got. Good morning, Romeo.
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  Speaker 1: I've been married to my husband for ten years. In
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  Speaker 1: these past years have been amazing. I thought I would be.
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  Speaker 1: I thought I would regret marrying young at twenty one,
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: but my husband's just amazing. We have one child together
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  Speaker 1: another one on the way. Two nights ago, we got
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: into a deep conversation about what would you have done
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  Speaker 1: if you never married me? For me, I would choose
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  Speaker 1: my husband and marry him all over again, and if possible,
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  Speaker 1: I would have married him sooner. But for my husband,
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  Speaker 1: he would have married his ex girlfriend. Romeo. I knew
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  Speaker 1: him when he was dating this girl, and he chose
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  Speaker 1: me over her. I asked him why why her? And
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  Speaker 1: he said because she was there for me in my
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  Speaker 1: darkest moments, when I lost my job, when I got
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  Speaker 1: evicted from my house, I got kicked out of school.
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  Speaker 1: She was there when I needed some of the most.
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  Speaker 1: But I chose you, and I gave you what I
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  Speaker 1: promised her. There's one question I wanted to ask Romeo,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm scared to answer or for him to answer.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: If she never contacted, if she ever contacted, you don't
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  Speaker 1: want to work things out? Would you leave our family
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  Speaker 1: that we built for her? I fear the answer to that. Well,
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  Speaker 1: the question is why. I guess you should fear the
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: answer to that. Why would you have that conversation to
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: begin with? All righty four to two five four seven seven? Hey, Romeo,
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: this is just another example of someone getting what they deserved.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: Why would she ask that question about her husband? What
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: would you do if you could?
• 17:07
  Speaker 12: What was it?
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: What would you do if you could do it all
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: over again? Yeah? Why would you have that question with
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: your husband and wife? Unless you're not? I mean that's yeah.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Why would you have that question? Why would you have
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: that conversation, especially a decade in I mean, she must
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: just feel so, And I'm I'm assuming she's the one
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: who brought it up. I'm guessing. I don't know. I
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: could be wrong. Maybe he brought it up, But you're right,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: why did she if she brought it up? Why did
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: you bring up that conversation? I guess you're right. You
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: got what you deserved. You know you shouldn't have Why
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: would you have that conversation already? Four two, five, four
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey, Romeo, it's a good thing she
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: didn't ask her husband what he would do if the
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: X came back into his life, because he would definitely
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: leave her or at least cheat on her with her.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: That's I think that too. I believe that too. But
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: you don't want the answer. You've already gotten the answer.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: And here's the other thing about this conversation. You've already
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: gotten a pretty brutal answer to what would you have
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: done if you could do it over again? And he said,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: marry his ex girlfriend, not you, And you've already gotten
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: that answer. So what's one more? I mean, if she
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: wants to work it out with him, what's one more?
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: Do you think they're still not in contact with each other?
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Do you think he hasn't talking to it, He isn't
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: still talking to her? I mean, so I got this.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Good morning, rome I've been married for my husband for
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: ten years. In the past years have been amazing. I
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: thought I would regret marrying young. I got married at
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: twenty one, but my husband is amazing. We have two
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: children together and another on the way. So two nights
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: ago we got into a deep conversation about what would
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: you have done if you had never married me? For me,
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: I would have chose my husband and marry him all
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: over again. Would have done it if sooner, if possible.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: For my husband, he would have married his ex girlfriend Romeo.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: I knew him when he was dating that girl, and
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: he chose me over her. I've asked him why her,
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: and he said because she was there for me at
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: some of the darkest moments in my life. Lost my job,
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: got a victim from my house, got kicked out of school,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: and she was there when I needed someone the most.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: But I chose you, and I gave you what I
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: promised her. There was one question I wanted to ask him, Romeo,
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: but I'm scared to answer. If she ever contacted you
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: and wanted to work on things, would you leave our
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: family that we have built for her fear of what
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: he might say? Yeah, I would be afraid too already
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: four two, five, four, seven to seven A roam What
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: do of these women always ask these questions. They don't
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: not ready for the answers.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: I mean A.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Fourteen five, four, seven to seven. That's pretty common though.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: It's human nature, right. Why why do we ask stupid questions?
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Why do we ask things that we don't want answers
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: to because we expect to get the answer we want.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: That's why, you know, no, we want the answer. We
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: just want the answer that we want. That's why we
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: do it. All righty four two, five, four, seven to seven.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: But don't have You're right, don't have a conversation. If
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: you aren't prepared for what could happen, then don't have
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: that conversation. So all right, A four to two, five,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. It's good morning, Rome. I've
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: been married for my husband for ten years. In the
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: past years have been amazing. I thought I would regret
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: marrying young. I got married at twenty one, but my
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: husband is amazing. We have two children together and another
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: on the way. So two nights ago we got into deep,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: a deep conversation about what would you have done if
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: you had never married me? For me, I would have
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: chose my husband and marry him all over again. Would
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: have done it if sooner if possible, for my husband,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: he would have married his ex girlfriend Romeo. I knew
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: him when he was dating that girl, and he chose
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: me over her. I've asked him why her, and he
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: said because she was there for me at some of
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: the darkest moments in my life. Lost my job, got
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: a victim from my house, got kicked out of school,
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: and she was there when I needed someone the most.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: But I chose you, and I gave you what I
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: promised her. There was one question I wanted to ask him, Romeo,
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: but I'm scared to answer. Or if she ever contacted
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: you and wanted to work on things, would you leave
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: our family that we have built for her fear of
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: what he might say? Yeah, I would be afraid too
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: already four two fout four seven to seven egre Morning, Romeo.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: The real question is if he wanted to give his
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: ex that life, then why did they break up? See
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: that's a question we need answer to figure out what
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: would be the next step. Maybe the ex broke up
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: with him because of the way he acted. Who knows,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: We don't know. So maybe she is worried about if
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: the ex ever comes back into his life, how that
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: would play out. I mean, that's a very good question,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: a Romeo. It seems like she interfered with the relationship
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: during his bad time and broke up that relationship. In
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: order for him to choose her, must have still been
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: with the ex girlfriend. Well, that's another question. You said
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: you knew him when he was with the ex girlfriend.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: Why did he choose you? Maybe? Did you were you
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: the reason? Did you cause him to break up with
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: his x? It's another good question we know have an
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: answer to. Good morning, rome I've been married for my
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: husband for ten years. In the past years have been amazing.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: I thought I would regret marrying young. I got married
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: at twenty one, but my husband is amazing. We have
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: two children together and another on the way. So two
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: nights ago we got into a deep conversation about what
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: would you have done if you had never married me?
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: For me, I would have chose my husband and marry
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: him all over again. Would have done it if sooner,
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: if possible. For my husband, he would have married his
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: ex girlfriend. Romeo. I knew him when he was dating
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: that girl, and he chose me over her. I've asked
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: him why her, and he said because she was there
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: for me at some of the darkest moments in my life.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Lost my job, got e victim from my house, got
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: kicked out of school, and she was there when I
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: needed someone the most. But I chose you, and I
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: gave you what I promised her. There was one question
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I wanted to ask him, Romeo, but I'm scared to answer.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: If she ever contacted you and wanted to work on things,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: would you leave our family that we have built for her?
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Fear of what he might say? Yeah, I would be
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: afraid too, he there, So I don't think she.
• 23:04
  Speaker 6: Would have that insecurity if she were to ask him
• 23:07
  Speaker 6: the question why did you choose me over for her
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: to begin with? And I think that answer would erase.
• 23:17
  Speaker 8: The other question, would you leave me now for her? Oh?
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: That's fair, I could see, yeah, But did she ask that? No,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: she didn't ask that question. I want to see what
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: you're saying. Yeah, that's not bad.
• 23:29
  Speaker 6: She's a little insecure, you know, Well.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Why would you have that conversation to begin with? The
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: whole idea of just saying that's like saying, Hey, we've
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: been together ten years, how many girls have you banged out?
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: How many dudes are you slept? I mean, why are
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: we having this conversation at this point anyways.
• 23:48
  Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, I'm a weird I would
• 23:50
  Speaker 6: just want to have that conversation. So I think that
• 23:53
  Speaker 6: might have thrown him off too, and he's like, he's honest,
• 24:00
  Speaker 6: all right.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: I do like that though. I guess she could ask
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: him why did you choose me? As a follow up?
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: Then they then that would alleviate the why did you?
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: You know, would you if she came back, what would
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: you do?
• 24:12
  Speaker 6: I like that idea, you kin would leave her feeling
• 24:17
  Speaker 6: real good.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: That's kind of a sneaky way to do things. You're
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: kind of shisty, Thanks for Colin. Let's go on, Romeo.
• 24:32
  Speaker 10: That guy is an idiot.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: That guy is an idiot.
• 24:36
  Speaker 7: Okay, why why would you tell your wife you're it
• 24:39
  Speaker 7: that if you do it all over, then you've married
• 24:41
  Speaker 7: somebody else.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's uh you. I would say, that's a stupid
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: thing to say.
• 24:46
  Speaker 8: Yes, very stupider.
• 24:48
  Speaker 7: Dave has been married four days and I know better
• 24:50
  Speaker 7: than that. To make them feel you know that you
• 24:56
  Speaker 7: can't go without him, that they're the last you know.
• 24:58
  Speaker 10: That they're your everything.
• 25:00
  Speaker 7: So if he's listening, tell her you were just playing.
• 25:03
  Speaker 11: You were drunk you were kidding.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: Was all right, Rader David. I don't disagree with you,
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: all right, Radder David, Although I don't think that'll work.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: You can't say you were just kidding. That's not going
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: to happen. The bell's already been wrung. Can't undering the bell?
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: All righty four two five four seven to seven. Yeah,
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: he never should have said that, But she should have
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: never asked, why are you even having that conversation? You know,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: did you send me here? Eight four two five four
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: seven to seven A roam?
• 25:35
  Speaker 10: Uh.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: The original question was like what he would have done
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: if they never met and got married, not if he
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: can do it over again. She said he picked her
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: over the X, so I don't think she has to
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: worry about anything. No, it was a little bit more
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: than that. It was I have to find it again.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, I got all these text messages, so I
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: gotta scroll back down and find the original one. But no,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: he had made a comment that he's he did everything,
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: if I remember correctly, and I'm trying to find it
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: right now. He had made a comment that if he
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: gave her everything that he wanted to give his X.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: If I believe that was correct. Hold on, let me
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: let me find it again and see what it actually
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: said verbatim. All right, already four two pop four or
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. But you shouldn't be having those questions anyways.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I mean, really, you really shouldn't be talking about that anyways.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: Hold on, I got I think. Okay, So he didn't
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: she didn't say she didn't ask him met. She asked him,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: what would you do if you didn't marry me? Not
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: if you didn't meet me? She said, what if you
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: you texted? What would he have done if they never met?
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: That's not what she said. She said, if they never
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: got married, what would they have done? I think now
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: maybe that's what she meant if they never met and
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: got married, But she said if we never got married.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: So yeah, once again, why are you having those conversations?
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: We so fourth or July got to talk about the
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: fourth It was, yeah, it was popping off, right. I
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: don't know what your neighborhood looked like. My neighborhood was crazy.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: I actually went to a couple of barbecues, which, oh
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: what I got to talk about barbecues too, Since a
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: lot of you guys barbecued on Fourth or July. I
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: went to a couple of barbecue pool parties that were
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: were a great time, one was kind of old school.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: One was crazy. But I'll tell you about that in
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: just a minute. Fourth or July. Now I heard some
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: stories about illegal fireworks. Now, I lived in my neighborhood
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: for a long time. This is the first year I
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: saw the cops in my neighborhood. First year. And but
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: I don't know who snitch. Somebody had to have snitched.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: But in my neighborhood, down the street, down the block,
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: down the neighborhood, it looked it looked better in Disneylands. Fireworks.
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: Will be perfectly honest with you, it was insane. It
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: was insane how many illegal fireworks were going off. And
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: I even heard some stories of some friends of mine
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: at a at a show where a couple of houses
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: or a house got started on fire and a tree
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: started on fire. Something crazy, but it was wild. But
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: the cops showed up. Now, I don't have illegal fireworks
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: because I don't do illegal stuff like that. Well, I
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: just watched all the neighbors do it, and I don't
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: know how many tickets the cops handed out. But once
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: the cops showed up to the neighborhood. Things pretty much
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: settled down as it pertained to the legal fireworks. But
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: here I was talking to somebody in the neighborhood about
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: the fire works, about one of the whoever got busted, right,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: they got a ticket, And what I thought was interesting
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: was nobody fessed up to having the illegal fireworks. So
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: apparently what happens when you when you when you when
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: you get caught with the illegal fireworks and they ticket you,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: And I do anybody know offhand how much the tickets
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: are you? I guess if nobody fesses up, it goes
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: to the homeowner, right, But I don't know how that
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: works if I'm the If I'm the homeowner, but I
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: didn't bring the illegal fireworks, somebody else did, shouldn't they
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: pay the fine? Or if I'm yeah, but I don't
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: know how that works. I don't know if you guys
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: got busted or not. All Right, So Fourth of July
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: was on Saturday. I hope everybody had a great time
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: doing what you do, lighting off fireworks, enjoying with family
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: and friends, the pool party, all the cool stuff.
• 29:53
  Speaker 8: Right.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: This year was the first year and I've lived in
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: Bakersfield for about thirty years. The first year I ever
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: saw anybody get busted for illegal fireworks, and it was
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: the first year of the cops ever came to my neighborhood.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Actually had to shut everybody down, and they they shut
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: him down, at least it appeared they shut him down.
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: I was.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: But so I heard a story in the neighborhood through
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: the app or I don't know what I was looking at,
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: but they were talking about who got uh, who gets popped,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: who gets who has to pay for the illegal fireworks? Apparently, apparently,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: and I don't know for sure this secondhand information, if
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: nobody confesses to the firework, it goes to the homeowner,
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: which that's kind of cheap, right. That just shows what
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: kind of character you got. If you go and go
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: to somebody's house with legal fireworks and you get busted
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: and you don't own up to it. You let everybody
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: take the fall as opposed to just whoever brought it.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: That's kind of a jackass move, don't you think that
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: just shows what kind of character you really are. Or
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: if you're the homeowner, you sit there and expect everybody
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: to pay because while you're at my house, that's kind
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: of a punk ass move too. Right, it really shows
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: the kind of character that you are. But I mean,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: it just seems ridiculous, right already, four two five, four,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: seven to seven eight Romeo. I'm one of those houses
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: that got busted for illegal fireworks. It wasn't me who
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: brought them. I had a party. I live in a
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: nicer neighborhood, and one of my nephew's friends brought illegal fireworks.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: The cops busted us, and I just told them it
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: was him because he was going to act like he
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: didn't have nothing to do with it, and you're right,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: the homeowner gets the ticket. So I told him he's
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: the one that did it because I wasn't going to
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: pay for somebody else's illegal fireworks. Yeah, I mean, that's
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: sounds fair. I don't know what the etiquette is on
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: legal fireworks, but I mean I think I remember a
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: couple of years ago, one of my neighbors had had
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: a friend's friend or somebody bring illegal fireworks to the house,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: and he was he was in law enforcement at the time,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: and he allowed it. But I don't know what. They
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: didn't get caught, so I don't know what what the
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: etiquette would have been had they, right, I mean, once
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: you own up to it if you're If you're the
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: guy that brings the fireworks and you get busted, you're
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: the guy that should pay the fine, not everybody else
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: at the party, or not the homeowner, or vice versa.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: You're the homeowner and you're the one that provides the
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: illegal fireworks, you shouldn't ask the rest of the people
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: at your party to pay to chip in. You made
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: that decision right, all right, Fourth of July. I hope
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: you guys had a good time, hopever, really enjoyed it,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: stayed out of trouble. Nothing bad happened, although I heard
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: personally a few things that went down on Fourth of July,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: a couple of you know, some things that shouldn't have happened.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: But you know, it is what it is, when you know,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: you know, I was never a I was never against
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: illegal fireworks until this year till actually somebody sent me
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: the statistics on illegal fireworks and how much damage it
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: can and does cause people who you know don't deserve it.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: But yeah, all right, hey, Rome, years ago, I got
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: busted with illegal fireworks. What happens? Who gets fined? How much?
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Does anybody know how much the fine is? Off hand?
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: I mean just say you know already four two, five,
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: four or seven seven year rome, me and my family
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: were one of the only ones out in the street
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: lighting off legal fireworks. Somebody called the cops on us,
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: and when the cops showed up, it was actually my
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: neighbor who snitched, thinking, oh, who's snitched because her dog
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: was upset? Oh, so nothing happened you just yeah, I
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: can see that when I was in my twenties. Uh,
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: when I was in my twenties, it adds a felony
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: charge on your record. Illegal fireworks adds a felony charge
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: on your record. No, it's got to just be a fine, right.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: That can't be true, is it?
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Maybe?
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: What?
• 34:15
  Speaker 12: No, what's going on?
• 34:16
  Speaker 9: Rong killing gilly?
• 34:18
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 34:19
  Speaker 9: Man, that finds fifteen hundred to minimal or though fiers.
• 34:25
  Speaker 7: Yep, damn that.
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 34:30
  Speaker 9: I know that one of my neighbors he got busted
• 34:33
  Speaker 9: for it, and I guess he thought that was it,
• 34:35
  Speaker 9: you know, and he left the other ones off. They
• 34:38
  Speaker 9: gave him another one because they found they fought with
• 34:41
  Speaker 9: the drone. Really yeah, he got two of them.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's insane.
• 34:47
  Speaker 9: But they were both the one time I was doing
• 34:49
  Speaker 9: an expungement for somebody.
• 34:50
  Speaker 5: Uh huh.
• 34:51
  Speaker 9: And the guy there was a guy there that had
• 34:54
  Speaker 9: three of them. He said, yeah, I think I'm gonna
• 34:57
  Speaker 9: tell the judge if they can h from together at
• 35:00
  Speaker 9: a lower rate. I said, he ain't gonna do that.
• 35:04
  Speaker 7: He's gonna do that.
• 35:05
  Speaker 9: I go, uh, he might, he might shine on the
• 35:07
  Speaker 9: assessment fee. I said, if you paid all right now,
• 35:10
  Speaker 9: I said, that's all he's gonna do. Oh no, they will,
• 35:12
  Speaker 9: I said, okay, sure enough, man, Yeah, I know, is
• 35:16
  Speaker 9: that sis?
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Is that a serious?
• 35:18
  Speaker 5: Uh?
• 35:18
  Speaker 9: A serious saint?
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: No felony either, Okay, but is it serious? They take
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: that seriously? Huh?
• 35:24
  Speaker 12: Oh yeah?
• 35:25
  Speaker 9: Man, Hey man, I'm going to tell you, dude, I'm
• 35:27
  Speaker 9: going to send you a picture I still have. I
• 35:30
  Speaker 9: still have shelves left, man. I mean, you know, it
• 35:33
  Speaker 9: was too hot out there, man, you know, send my
• 35:36
  Speaker 9: nephew's out there to light a few and I'd go
• 35:38
  Speaker 9: out there and I come back and tide. Man, it's
• 35:40
  Speaker 9: too hot out there.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Oh it was beautiful this morth of July. The breeze
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: was out.
• 35:45
  Speaker 9: It was nice trip it man. But anyway, all right,
• 35:49
  Speaker 9: I already take listen, I already take three showers a day. Man,
• 35:53
  Speaker 9: you know, you know, But I'll tell you one thing.
• 35:58
  Speaker 9: But one thing. They got clean up the fireworks. Just
• 36:01
  Speaker 9: don't sweep them up and put them right there. Clean
• 36:03
  Speaker 9: them up.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well I know. But you're the guy that
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: don't walk on my long guy Gilly, you're that guy.
• 36:10
  Speaker 9: Oh you know that man.
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: The streets.
• 36:15
  Speaker 9: I'm out there trying to catch those illegal fire when
• 36:17
  Speaker 9: they're gonna hit my lawn. But I'll tell you another thing.
• 36:20
  Speaker 9: Is all though, all of them are grouped up right there,
• 36:23
  Speaker 9: and now this morning, I've seen a big pile of
• 36:26
  Speaker 9: green jerseys. I don't know what they're doing. It's a
• 36:30
  Speaker 9: big pile of green jerseys.
• 36:31
  Speaker 8: They need to keep throwing them in the streets.
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Mexico lost. Mexico lost to England yesterday. Devastating loss
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: from Mexico. All right, so let's see here. Fourth of July.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: I saw the cops bust some people with illegal fireworks.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: It was, Oh, dang, Gilly does have illegal fire Dan Gilly, Man, damn,
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: you gotta get rid of those, all right, eight fourteen, five, four,
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: seven to seven, Hey, yone, Back when I was in
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: my twenties, Oh, this is the guy who said that
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: adds a felony charge. He says the fine was a
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: lot less back then. Thousand dollars rom the fines one
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: thousand bucks for getting busted with those, that's a good
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: chunk of change. I think it's funny how who has
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: to pay it? Right, whoever brought the firework has to
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: pay the fine. I don't think that there's a lot
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: of you out there that will go, well, we're all
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: in it together. No we're not. I didn't bring illegal fireworks.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I brought safe in saying the forty nine er. By
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: the way, how much did you spend on fireworks? Remember
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: when the most expensive box of fireworks at the Fireworks
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: down was ninety nine ninety nine and the old the
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: forty nine er was forty nine ninety nine. Yeah, it's ridiculous,
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: but yeah, who pay? I think who ever brought the
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: illegal firework pays the fine if you get caught. I
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: never see it was crazy. It's the first year I've
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: ever seen anybody get caught with legal fireworks. I didn't
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: know anybody ever got caught, to be honest with you,
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: all right, So we just celebrated fourth of July. We're
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: gonna talk a little bit about barbecues in a minute,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: because something funny happened that one of them I went to,
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: but it says, what do you send me here? Brouh
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: that when that what I tell everyone? The forty nine
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: er was called that. Oh oh yeah, the forty nine
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: er box fireworks called that because the price was forty
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: nine ninety nine. Now it's like a hundred bucks. And
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: that big ass red box was like two hundred or
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: some back.
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: In the day.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: Now it's like seven hundred. The tallest what was it
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: the big box? Wasn't that only ninety nine dollars back
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: in the day. I think I remember when fireworks stands
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: the most expensive box you could buy was ninety nine
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: ninety nine. And you're right. I went to the fireworks
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: stand over the weekend, and yeah, there were I couldn't
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: I couldn't believe how much some of those fireworks were incredible.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Makes you wonder how much these people were paying for
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: these illegal fireworks that they were shooting off. It's crazy, right,
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: big Roam, this is big boy, but a big body, bro.
• 39:16
  Speaker 10: The illegals are cheaper than the same fireworks.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: I'm just wondering about that. I kind of thought they
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: might be, but I don't know. I'm a legal person.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I don't buy legal so.
• 39:28
  Speaker 11: Yeah, I don't hear I got money for that.
• 39:30
  Speaker 10: Who couldn't afford that?
• 39:31
  Speaker 8: That's my question?
• 39:33
  Speaker 10: Who can afford to buy and get that ticket?
• 39:37
  Speaker 9: You know what I mean?
• 39:38
  Speaker 8: I don't know.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: There was in my neighborhood. It was insane, big boy.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: It was literally looked like it could have been Disneyland,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: fireworks and double Yeah. So I don't know.
• 39:50
  Speaker 10: My little brother, my little brother fourteen years ago, bat
• 39:55
  Speaker 10: two two tickets back to back, same night, fifteen hundred
• 40:01
  Speaker 10: back then.
• 40:02
  Speaker 11: Oh my god, yeah, bro, I mean I wasn't even
• 40:05
  Speaker 11: there at his house. He had, you know, at his
• 40:08
  Speaker 11: house when he did it. Yeah, but yeah, I remember
• 40:10
  Speaker 11: fourteen years ago it was that's insane.
• 40:14
  Speaker 10: Yeah, that's crazy, man.
• 40:15
  Speaker 11: I don't know who can afford that kind of stuff,
• 40:17
  Speaker 11: you know what I mean?
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: Somebody can because they're doing it.
• 40:21
  Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean all night long, Well in my.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: Neighborhood, the cops showed up. So I know somebody snitched.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: I don't know who, but the cops showed up. And
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: once the cops showed up, every all the all the
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: illegals stopped popping off from the neighborhood.
• 40:36
  Speaker 10: Did you did you see the drone?
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: No?
• 40:40
  Speaker 11: So my little uh, my little nephew, he's probably I
• 40:43
  Speaker 11: don't know, ten man, I think he's ten.
• 40:45
  Speaker 9: And he goes, oh.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Crap, look there's a Maverick.
• 40:48
  Speaker 8: And I was like, what's a Maverick?
• 40:49
  Speaker 11: You go, that's a specialized drone.
• 40:51
  Speaker 10: You could see for eight miles.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: I was like, how do you know that?
• 40:58
  Speaker 10: He got me nervous?
• 41:00
  Speaker 11: Now now this guy, I'm looking at this guys now
• 41:07
  Speaker 11: they following.
• 41:10
  Speaker 8: Nervous, bro not Did I do anything wrong.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: That I didn't know there was really a drone out there.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: Somebody told me last night too that there was a
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: drone out there. I didn't know they really had drones.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: I thought that was just something they made.
• 41:26
  Speaker 10: Of the called the Maverick. And we've seen it.
• 41:30
  Speaker 11: Man, it looks like a mini plane.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: Really, I was like, what that's funny. Well, so maybe
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: it wasn't. Maybe it was Maybe it was a drone
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: and not somebody snitching in my neighborhood.
• 41:44
  Speaker 11: But yeah, I could have been the drone that caught him.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe yeah. I don't you know. I thought somebody
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: would just snitch in my neighborhood. But maybe it was
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: that dru but I got to say, this is the
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: this is the most I've ever seen illegal fireworks in
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: my neighborhood. And it was, uh yeah, I was insane.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: It was ridiculously insane. Yo, room. I don't think anyone's
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: been caught or fine for firing illegal fireworks. We had
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: a Karen have across the street one year where she screamed, Hey,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: what the hell we don't we don't do those here.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna call the police. We kept popping them off.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: Police ended up driving by two hours later when we
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: were all done. The neighbor moved two years ago, So
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: you don't think, well, I saw the cops light up,
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: light up my neighborhood. So I don't know if they
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: gave him tickets or I don't know. I just assume
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: since I saw the cops there.
• 42:42
  Speaker 8: I don't know.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: Maybe I can maybe they maybe they don't really give
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: him tickets. I have no idea, to be honest with.
• 42:46
  Speaker 9: Him, he don't give out tickets. Yeah, you'll have a
• 42:49
  Speaker 9: slew of people calling in now say, well, we could
• 42:53
  Speaker 9: have went to his land, but I had to pay
• 42:55
  Speaker 9: fifteen dollars and they used those drums for ever everything
• 43:00
  Speaker 9: for people on workers comp people on uh, permanent disabilities.
• 43:05
  Speaker 11: Really.
• 43:06
  Speaker 9: Yeah, they do it for your backyard too, if you're
• 43:09
  Speaker 9: pool you know it's getting a little green or whatever. Yeah.
• 43:13
  Speaker 9: They I seen a guy doing a drone. No, man, no,
• 43:21
  Speaker 9: I mean she ain't looking in your house. I mean
• 43:24
  Speaker 9: I suppose that there's a big fat woman out there.
• 43:28
  Speaker 9: You know, he's going to turn the drone the other
• 43:31
  Speaker 9: way because because the camera ain't that big.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: But I did not know for all that. Wow, for everything, bro,
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: I have never seen one that's great.
• 43:42
  Speaker 9: They do it for people that need uh they need
• 43:46
  Speaker 9: to do the roofs again, the drone over and they said, hey,
• 43:52
  Speaker 9: you know they told one of my uh, one of
• 43:55
  Speaker 9: my brothers, Well, they told this renter, hey, well you
• 43:59
  Speaker 9: need to do that roof goes Oh, I just rent
• 44:01
  Speaker 9: And then they sent it over to my brother. My
• 44:04
  Speaker 9: brother had to get it done.
• 44:06
  Speaker 10: All right.
• 44:08
  Speaker 9: Yeah. So I'm sure that I don't know where that
• 44:11
  Speaker 9: one guy lived. But he said, oh, they're not giving
• 44:13
  Speaker 9: out tickets, yeah, okay, this is Kerrent County.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Later, I wonder how many, if anybody had to guess,
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: how many tickets do you think were actually given out
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: on Saturday for Fourth of July for illegal fireworks. I
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: actually saw a couple. It happened in front of me,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: so I saw it. I wasn't at the party. I
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: just saw it down the street. But yeah, it was
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: I had never seen it before. And you know, contrary
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: to what Gilly just said, I would have believed with
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: the last text message. Text message was that I never
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: believed that they gave out tickets, but I guess they do.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: You guys should have had a barbecue, should have a
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: pool party. Let's talk a little bit about it, because
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: I went to a couple over the weekend. And yeah,
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: there's an etiquette. There's an etiquette to go into somebody
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: else's house for a barbecue, a poll party. There is
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: also an annoying person there. Right, First of all, who's
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: the most annoying person at your barbecue? Who's the person
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: that is the worst? Okay? And the other thing is
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: I I have not seen this forever, and that is
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: I was at a barbecue this one Saturday, Yeah, Saturday
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: afternoon before I went early. They started early, so I
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: went by early because I had I was going somewhere.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: I had to go a couple other places. But they
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: had hot dogs hamburgers, they have some try tit, they
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: had some ribs, and literally, do you guys remember this?
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: I mean because this used to happen to me well
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: when we were kids. And I don't know if it
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: was because we were kids and we didn't want ribs
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: try tip. We wanted hot dogs and hamburgers. But the
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: rule at the barbecue was kids don't get try tip,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: kids don't get hammer our kids don't get ribs. Kids
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: get hot dogs and hammerkers. And that was It cracked
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: me up when somebody told me that. And they told
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: me that on purpose because I know they wanted me
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: to talk about it this morning, and they told me
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: very specifically, Roam check this out. Man, this barbecue the
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: kids only get hammurgers and hot dogs. It's ribs and
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: ribs and try tip is for adults. And I was like, okay.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: Then I asked for a hammerging hot dog because fourth
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: of July I want a hammergrean hot dog. But anyway,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: I thought that was kind of funny people got rules
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: for their barbecue. I Uh, It's been a long time
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: since I've since I've seen that, so it did crack
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: me up. Let's talk about your barbecue, how to go
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: down eight, four to two, five, four, seven to seven.
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: There's a couple of things I guarantee happened at your barbecue.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: Uh there was one, hope if not four. And who's
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: the most annoying person? Talk about the let's talk about
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: your barbecues. Right, you got rules, you got etiquette, you
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: got well annoying people. It just it always happens that way.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: It just is what it is, all right, A four two,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. Hey, Romeo, me and my wife,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: we bought a new house last year, so we invited
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: everybody over, our parents, our family. It was a family
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: friendly barbecue and pool party. So everything was going good
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: until one of my nephews brought his girlfriend. She was
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: dressed in a thong bikini. You could see everything, rome
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: And all she did was sit around and take pictures
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: of herself by my pool and acting like she was
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: doing something. It was embarrassing for everybody because it was
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: a family event. Yeah, I mean, yeah, that's always a
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: good question, you know, it's always a good question on
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: is it embarrassing? And if a girl dresses like a
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: hoe and a family function and a family barbecue, and
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: it usually is a nephew's girlfriend or somebody you know,
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: but or because she looks great, is it okay for
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: her to do that? I mean, that's always a good
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: it's always a good question, you know. Already four two
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven, Hey, Uf and Chiese fan barbecue.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: I had burgers and hot dogs and drinking Miller like
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: because I was feeling America. Oh that's hilarious, you know,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: back in the day, Back in the day, man, there
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: was a different menu for the kids. Kids only got
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: hot dogs. They didn't get the prime cut. The adults did. Yeah,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if I guess it's still
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: that way at some houses because I saw it over
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: the weekend.
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: Roam.
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: The most annoying thing that happened at my party because
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: one of the girls came without a baby heathing suit
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: and regular clothes in the pool. I thought that was
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: pretty weird. Oh, regular clothes in the pool. Oh that
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: is pretty weird. That is very weird. You know what
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: I saw, it was hilarious.
• 49:17
  Speaker 8: I was at a.
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: This wasn't this weekend, but it was a few weekends ago.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: I was at a party, pool party. It was with
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: some friends, and one of the kids showed up. He
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: didn't have a swim tree, had no swim trunks, right,
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: and all the kids were playing in the pool. His
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: mom literally said, you got some scissors, cut his pants,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: made them trunks. That's old school right there. That's an
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: old That's what my mom would do. My mom would
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: cut our Levi's if we went somewhere and all of
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: our cousins or friends were swimming or something and we
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: didn't have no shorts, we forgot him, we didn't know.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: My mom would just cut them off, cut our pants
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: into shorts and there you go. The barbecue, Right, how
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: was your barbecue? Do you have a good one over
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: the weekend? Anything go wrong? Who's the most annoying person
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: at your barbecue? All? Righty four two five four seven
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: to seven yo roam. The most annoying or the most
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: annoying person at my barbecue this weekend was my brother
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: in law. He had an ice chest full of beer
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: in the back of his truck, so after we ran,
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: after the beer ran out that we were drinking, he
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: would just go to his truck and grab one for himself.
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: And I didn't know until later on that he was
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: doing that. But that's the most annoying person at my barbecue. Rome,
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: The guy can't even share. He'll come drink all my
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: stuff or eat all my food and not share. Yeah,
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of guys like that, you know. I
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: actually saw that, by the way, what you're talking about.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: I was at a barbecue and I saw a guy
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: doing that. I noticed he was trying to be sly
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: about it. I don't think anybody else was paying attention.
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: I'd just pay attention to a lot of stuff. But yeah,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: he would disappear for a minute, come back with some beer,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: and then yeah, that's you know, it is what it is, right,
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? Stop inviting him to your
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: barbecue already? Four two, five fours seven seven yo, Rome.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, the most annoying person at a
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: barbecue is the guy that throws the barbecue but doesn't
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: know how to cook. I have an uncle like that.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: He's terrible at it. He has a nice place, he
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: invites everybody over, which is nice of him to do,
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: but he is terrible at grilling, and so we always
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: got to eat bad food whenever we go there. Yeah,
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: I actually know a guy like that.
• 51:33
  Speaker 8: He nice.
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: This guy's the nicest guy in the world. Loves everybody,
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: very welcoming, but man, he over cooks everything. It's terrible already.
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: Four two five fours, seven to seven. Who's the most
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: annoying person at your barbecue?
• 51:48
  Speaker 8: Hey?
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: Four two five fours, seven to seven. Talking about those barbecues. Now,
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: we're gonna be barbecuing now for the next month, month
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: and a half, right, maybe a little longer. We just
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: kind of kicked it off. Fourth of July, a big
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: barbecue time. So who's the most annoying person at your barbecue?
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: Or maybe some barbecue edit like this person said Abroham.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: The most important, the most annoying person at a barbecue
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: is the person who picks the music, because I've gone
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: to quite a few barbecues where the music's terrible and
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: they don't play something for everybody. What do you think
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: about that? I think that there is an etiquette to
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: playing music when it comes to a barbecue. I think
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: when you start kick off your barbecue, you know you
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: need to play something a little lighter, something that kind
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: of appeals to everybody. Then as the barbecue progresses into
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: the night, you know, the older folks kind of go home.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: The hood rats are still there, so you can get
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: a little deeper, I mean, progressively, get deeper into the music.
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't music's tough though, you know. I
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: mean normally the group, normally, a group of people that
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: are congregating together at a barbecue should all have a
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: similar taste in music, right, they should all kind of
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: like the same things. So I don't know what barbecues
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: you're going to. The only thing I would say is,
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: when it comes to music at a cookout, is that
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: lead the cussing till after the thes leave, you know,
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: lead the cussing, Leave the cussing music till after your
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: grandparents leave or your parents leave. Then you can start playing,
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: you know, the music with foul language. So that's the
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: only thing I would say. But I don't know what
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: kind of barbecues you're going to where they're not playing
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: music for everybody. I'm trying to think if I've ever
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: been to a barbecue. Oh, yeah, I've been to a barbecue.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: I've been. You're right, I've been to one where I
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: don't like the music at all at just it. But
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: it could just be me. For all I know, everybody
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: else at the barbecue likes that type of music. It
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: could just be me and so I don't know, but
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: I see what you're saying already four two fat four
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: or seven to seven? So who is the most annoying
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: person at your barbecue? Hey, Romyah, I heard what she
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: said about the girl who dresses in the thumb bikini
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: at the barbecue and that it's inappropriate. Well, I mean,
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: is it inappropriate when you go to a family barbecue.
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: That's what the text message was about one of the
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: nephews bringing his girlfriend to a family barbecue that they
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: thought she was dressed inappropriately. Okay, so based on that, Hey, Rome,
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: I heard what you said about the dressing inappropriate at
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: the barbecue. I am the girl that does that at
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: my family's barbecues. I work very hard to stay in shape.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: I'm young, single, and I should be able to enjoy
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: my life. It's not my fault that all these fat
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: aunts and uncle are out of shape and want to
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: hate on me. Did you just say fat ants and uncles?
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: Those are your aunts and uncles? Want to hate on
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: me for how good I look. I mean, that's a
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: fair statement. I'm not gonna that's a fair statement. Sure, Okay,
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: I mean you work hard, maybe maybe there's an appropriate
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: time maybe there's not. I mean, I don't I don't know.
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: I really don't know. You gotta do you and do
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: whatever your If your family thinks it's inappropriate and you
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: still do it, then hey, okay, but they could have
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: a point if everybody's dressed a little more conservatively. Nobody's saying,
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: you know, but I saw it. Over the weekend, I
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: was at a couple of different barbecues, and there was
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: one or two that were just had so much hanging
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: out that they could have been on OnlyFans. And okay, now,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: just know people are judging you because of it, whether
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: they're right or wrong. All right, already four two five
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: or seven to seven eight Romeo. My sister was having
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: a barbecue at her house and a pool party. I
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: asked her if I could see. I asked her who
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: was coming over. She didn't tell me. I didn't know
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: if I wanted to go, because I got some beef
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: right now with one of my aunts and my uncles,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: and I didn't want to go if they were going
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: to be there. She wouldn't tell me, though, so I
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: ended up not going. Do you think that was cool
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: of her?
• 56:30
  Speaker 12: No?
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: Yes, I do. I think if you get invited to
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: a barbecue. I think that you should. Uh, I don't
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: think they whoever's throwing it needs to tell you who's
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: going to be there. Just show up and if somebody's
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: there you don't like, just leave. Coimrny. How what's going
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: on with names?
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: Beverly?
• 56:53
  Speaker 9: Where are you being a Romeo? I don't been.
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I done battle cancer and clear for
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: four years. That's awesome.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Not that you've had to battle it, but that's great
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: that you're clear, that's awesome.
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: And NI replacement.
• 57:12
  Speaker 9: But I'm doing good now.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: So I haven't heard from you, you know, I haven't
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: talked to.
• 57:17
  Speaker 9: You, so decided to call you, Beverly.
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: It's been a long see. Now you really are old?
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: Yes I am.
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: When we first started talking, you just had an old name.
• 57:26
  Speaker 9: Now you old.
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: But I'm not the same Romeo. I haven't no renkles
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: or nothing.
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: That's awesome to you. I appreciate it. Did you have
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: a nice Fourth of July weekend? Yes?
• 57:43
  Speaker 4: I did.
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: No one everybody was dressed appropriately.
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: First of all, it is not inappropriate for a woman
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: who has a banging body to show it all.
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: You know what that is?
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: That is so true?
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: I me and my sisters went to the Platinos and
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: the girl that, you know, the outfits they had on.
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: I told my sister, I'll say.
• 58:09
  Speaker 4: If I was younger and my body was looking like that, again,
• 58:12
  Speaker 4: I said, I would be walking that too.
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: Oh of course you Well that's awesome. Verily, Well, I'm
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: glad you called Beverly.
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: All right, we'll doculatory by right.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: Oh, Beverly, she's something else already fourteen five or seven
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: to seven. Yeah, let's let's just say that first. For
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: a woman who uh works hard to stay in shape
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: and look good, they have every right to show off
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: their body to the with whatever the extent of you
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: know what. I don't know what kind of laws there
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: are about that, but whatever, to whatever extent, you can't
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: hate on them. I mean you can, but you shouldn't.
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: But is there a time and place a roam. There's
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: a time and place for everything. There's no reason for
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: you to dress like that around family unless you're looking
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: for looks around the family. And you never know. There's
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: always that one or two weirdos in the family. Okay,
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: there's always those one or two weirdos in the family.
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: There's plenty of places you can go show off your
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: hard earned body. No need to do it around family,
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: especially around younger girls who maybe their family doesn't want
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: them to be influenced and to dress like that. Plus,
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: there are plenty of more modest coverings that show off
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: plenty of body. Yeah, I agree with you on that,
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: You're right about that, But you've got family and friends.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, what if it's what if you're the girlfriend
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: of one of a family members or what? I mean
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: it just yeah, I don't know, it's a tough argument
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: to have, to be perfectly honest with you, I mean,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: you are right, there's plenty of coverings. Everybody knows, you know,
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: every every hot girl in scrubs looks banging you. Guys
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: all know that. So we're scrubs to the family function
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: already fourteen five, four, seven and seven. It's a it's
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: a tough argument to have, man, I mean, it really is,
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: because indecent exposure is a matter of perspective and is
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: it really Let me put it to you like this,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: are you really upset when somebody at the barbecue is
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: dressed what you would consider inappropriately because they really are
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: dressed inappropriately or are you just embarrassed for yourself? Because
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: you can't do that. All right, the barbecue. First of all,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: who's the most annoying person at your barbecue? What do
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: you got here? What is she's? Good morning?
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 5: Rome? Hey?
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: When will you guys be doing the backpack give away?
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: I want to say August August eighth. Maybe I think
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: it's in August, mid August, right before school starts. I
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: want to say August eighth, if I remember correctly. So
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: we'll start that, nigger, we're still in July. We got
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: to get through July first, all right, four two, five, four,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: seven to seven. Hey, Rome, I was at a barbecue
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: over the weekend. Now, let me tell you this. I
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: am in great shape. Me and my wife work out
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: every day, We eat right, and we try to stay
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: healthy and not overweight. Okay, so what does that mean? Oh? Okay,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: So they want to talk about these women who dress
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: who dress this way to the pool party or the barbecue.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: But yet looking at these guys jumping these pools with
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: their fat bellies hanging over the belt line and their
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: boobs that are bigger than my wife's, what do you
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: think about that? Rome? Is that not just as tasteless
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: as women dressing like hose at the pool party. That's
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: a good question. That's a good question party four four
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: or seven seven?
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 3: Uh.
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: Some guy was asking I guess. He said, him and
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: his wife's stay in great shape, so when they go
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: out they can dress, you know, a little provocatively if
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: they want. They don't have to dress conservatively for their bodies.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: And he was asking me, well, Rome, what do I
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: think about these fat dudes that are at these pool
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: parties or there's barbecues with their shirts off. And I
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: just thought, I mean, I guess it's the same thing,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: just in reverse. I don't really know, to be honest
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: with you, but anyway, this is the next text message
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: I got, all right, four two five, four seven seven. Hey, Rome,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: I gotta tell you what's funny. Me and my buddies
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: we were all meat heads growing up, so we all
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: got a lot of muscle on us. After we got
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: married and had kids. We got now we don't have
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: so we don't have the time to look like that
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: anymore and put the work in that's needed. So when
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: you come to my pool party, everybody thinks they still
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: look good because they got big arms and a fat gut.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: For some reason, the big arms they for some reason
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: with the big arms. They don't believe they still got
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: a gut. Well that's how, isn't that how bigger is filled?
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: The women stay skinny well before ozempic, how they stayed
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: skinny was they just got bigger boobs. If you look
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: down and see boob and no stomach, you're skinny. Hey, Rome,
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: we have a Fourth of July party every year for
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: our friends and family. It's not really a family family party.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: It's more of an adult party because most of the
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: kids are grown up. So this year it went from
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: SeaWorld to Baywatch thanks to ozepic. Rome, So I don't
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: say nothing bad about it. It's funny because all my
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: wife's co workers were big as he last year. This
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: year they all came trimmed down in their two piece thongs.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: It was great, Rome, I really enjoyed my barbecue this year.
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: Oh I bet so, I bet there was a lot
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: of thanks to these thanks to zippeg. I bet there
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: was a lot of thong bikinis going around this morning
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: at your pool party or Saturday night at your parties. Right,
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: that's funny, he said, Sea World Debate Watch. We were
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: talking about, well about the barbecues about Fourth of July,
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: your pool parties, most annoying people, maybe etiquette things like that,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: right already fourteen five four or seven to seven. Hey, Rome,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: it's funny that you bring up the ozempic because there
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: was a couple of ants in our family that are
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: on that shot and they've lost a lot of weight
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: and they really do look good. But they came, you know,
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: wearing their sexy clothes because they were feeling themselves. A
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: couple of the younger kids who actually work out and
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: stay fit in the family, we're actually hating on the
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: older ants for doing that, saying they were too old,
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: they didn't do dressing like that. It was kind of funny.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: It was the opposite. Rome, Well, you know it is funny,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: by the way, that is that is a funny argument.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: And I will say this that don't hate on somebody
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: how they get thin. I mean, there's a lot of
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: you that work your asses off. There's a lot of
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: you out there that eat right every single day. There's
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: a lot of you that put in the work. And
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: but what are you gonna do if there's an easy
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: solution and somebody next to you does it, you're gonna
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: hate on them. I mean, what if they look good.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: How are you gonna hate on somebody for looking good
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: regardless of how they got there. So don't be a hater,
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: Just be just don't say anything, right, alrighty four two, five,
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. Hey Roe, My brother shows up
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: for Father's Day. We were barbecue and he was drinking
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: all the beer until he was drunk. We tried to
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: tell him he had enough because he was cursing and
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: talking crazy, talking about he will put his foot in
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: our neck. He was gang banging on us. It was
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: not for my uncles, I would have beat him down
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: and threw him out. I had a brother pull out
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: a gun and gun on me before. He a gang
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: member who can't fight. Tired of them gang bangers on
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: me and being disrespectful, I had enough rohim. If that
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: gang banger stuff stuff, take it somewhere else and not
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: at my house. But these are your brothers, like your
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: real brothers.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 4: The morning, every morning, morning ninety four one