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Surrender vs. Taking Action: How To Know Which To Do (WWLD) · Beyond Limits With Olivia Marie

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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to the Live Well Podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Liv, a naturopathic doctor, mentor, energy healer, a cause breeder, intuitive, energetic business mentor, and honestly, so much more.
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  SPEAKER_00: I help you heal on a physical and emotional level so that you can feel delicious in your health, body, relationships, career, and bank account.
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  SPEAKER_00: This show is for those of you who are looking to go beyond the basic wellness stuff, cut out their BS, and really create a life you love.
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  SPEAKER_00: We talk about health, trauma healing, energetics, feminine energy, wealth, and magnetism so that you can live a life that feels delicious.
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  SPEAKER_00: And with that, let's get into the show.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hello, hello, welcome back to another episode of the Live Well podcast.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am so excited.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're doing another what would live do.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're gonna leave the link for those down below.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you want to submit your what would live do question, essentially you get to hear what would I do in this instance or help you through something, whatever it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: So we will leave the link down below.
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  SPEAKER_00: I love the questions we've been getting so far.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm just about to pull up the latest one.
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  SPEAKER_00: How to train your brain and intuition to recognize when you should let things take its course or when you should quote unquote fight and make it happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: For example, if you have a specific goal, how much should you push forward according to your plan?
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  SPEAKER_00: And how much should you evaluate changing the way to get there, or if the plan has obstacles that keep getting in the way?
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  SPEAKER_00: Wonderful question.
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  SPEAKER_00: Love this question.
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  SPEAKER_00: I mean, I love all the questions.
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  SPEAKER_00: You guys ask great questions.
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  SPEAKER_00: Love it, love it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the answer is both, which is I know a little annoying, but we're gonna dive into it more.
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  SPEAKER_00: So more deeply, get out of your brain thinking like the logic of it, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because logic keeps you stuck.
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  SPEAKER_00: Logic keeps you in mediocracy because your brain traps you in what it thinks it, what it thinks based on past experience and doesn't really leave much room for extraordinary.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when we try to overthink our way, it's about taking action, but also surrendered action, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's not like I'm either surrendering or I'm taking action.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're embodying both energies simultaneously.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then the quote unquote fight, it shouldn't be a push.
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  SPEAKER_00: The word fight doesn't have a detached energy, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The word fight is very much a push, it's more lack, it's more scarcity, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So in terms of pushing forward according to plan, you know, and how much in terms of changing the obstacles.
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  SPEAKER_00: Obstacles are not bad, they are actually things that need to be cleaned up.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so oftentimes when we hit an obstacle, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: We're like, oh, obstacle, let me detour, like a car.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, like, oh, this road's closed, let me detour and go another way.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, and then the next time we go, oh, there's another obstacle.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, we're like, well, I can't get to my destination.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, that's not a good idea, but you have to blow past the obstacle.
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  SPEAKER_00: Don't do this when you're driving.
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  SPEAKER_00: But the idea is that you actually have to learn from those things, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because you assume the obstacles are getting in the way instead of remembering that you simply don't receive your desires.
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  SPEAKER_00: You receive the experiences, lessons, and personal power that is required to hold it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's say an obstacle comes up.
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  SPEAKER_00: First, is it an obstacle?
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  SPEAKER_00: Could it be that a quicker detour is available that you don't see?
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: When we're so focused on trying to make something happen, we're very zoomed in.
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  unknown: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna challenge you to zoom out.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you were to zoom out, take a bird's eye view, you might be like, oh, obstacle, obstacle, obstacle.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not realizing that all these obstacles, if you were to zoom out and see it from above, would be guiding you to a path that got you there so much faster or got you somewhere so much better than you could ever imagine, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And second, you know, option is it what is this showing you, but what is required before you can get there?
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm gonna use, I'm gonna give a few examples because I'm not sure what this is in relation to.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, if you guys do fill out the what would live do, if you can give me like context for things, I can even be more specific with you.
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  SPEAKER_00: But like I'm gonna go through a few of them.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's start off with money.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ever because money is always the easiest one.
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  SPEAKER_00: You want to manifest maybe, I don't know, 10k a month or a million dollars.
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  SPEAKER_00: But what is required in you to have that, the universe will show you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you might think, all right, I want I want to start making 10k a month, and then you get fired, and you're like, well, how is that like that's an obstacle?
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  SPEAKER_00: Not realizing that it's because in order to do that, and that's what you wanted and desired, maybe that position wasn't for you, that company wasn't for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now's the time that you're gonna, you know, start your own side thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, maybe you want that and you work kind of similar to me, and you have like an online business, and then you know, you deal with trolls, maybe someone saying something bad about you on the internet, or you know, difficult clients, etc.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, you're gonna have to hold that, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because the person who has that would be able to deal with these things.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I cannot wait to see you in the next activation.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not really an obstacle, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's what is required, and the universe will show you what is required, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Health-wise.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you're like dealing with gut issues or skin issues or fertility issues, it doesn't matter.
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  SPEAKER_00: It will always show you what you have to heal so that you can actually recede those things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Relationships.
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  SPEAKER_00: Why I keep attracting the same person over and over again, you know, keep getting obstacles, it's not an obstacles because you haven't healed what you have to heal in order to receive it.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know, moving, maybe you're moving.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe you're meant to move into a better house, maybe you're meant to whatever it is, but also don't necessarily avoid what it's trying to show you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So deep down, you're really always doing both.
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  SPEAKER_00: Surrendered action.
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  SPEAKER_00: So in terms of like how to know which to do, you have to stop thinking of them as separate things.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because when you take action from a surrendered place, it's not a scarce energy, it's not a fighting energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm going back to money.
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  SPEAKER_00: I remember like, let's say you're like, okay, I want the 10k month, so you're grinding like the 12 to 14 hours and pushing and pushing and ball, I'm taking action, I'm going.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it's just like that's not necessarily what's going to get you there because of the energy of with your taking action.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm more concerned about what is the underlying energy with with you're taking action versus whether you're taking action, the energetics of it, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: And I talk about this and everything.
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  SPEAKER_00: I talk about this in business, that's why you have to clear up all your fears, your wounds.
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  SPEAKER_00: I talk about this in health.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can't heal a body you hate, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: All of this, same thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, in order where to surrender, when to take action, clean up what these obstacles could be and really ask yourself, huh, is there anything like I'm meant to embody and learn here that will allow me to reach get there quicker?
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  SPEAKER_00: Where have I been fighting?
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's like normally when we fight, it's an ego thing, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a pushing because our ego believes this is the only way through, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So when can you take that bird's eye view and zoom out?
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  SPEAKER_00: So zoom out, surrendered action and learn whatever, possibly embody whatever it is that you have to in order for this to come through.
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  SPEAKER_00: And remember, it's not which to do, it's both.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's surrendered action.
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  SPEAKER_00: And what I will say, when were we going into this?
• 9:07
  SPEAKER_00: Well, we were going into this in wealth recode.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I can't wait to run that program again.
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  SPEAKER_00: It was beautiful.
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  SPEAKER_00: I won't go like into the depth that I went into it there, but what I will say is that it's already within you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you're fighting for something outside of you, it's because you believe it's outside of you and it doesn't already exist within you instead of realizing that everything is born and created through you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, and normally that's an ego thing.
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  SPEAKER_00: Again, it shouldn't be a fight, it wouldn't shouldn't be a push.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's not a very surrendered energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's talk about I'll give you an example of like surrendered energy and then like in different aspects, and then uh we'll close this one off.
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  SPEAKER_00: But like, let's say trying to manifest more money.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're fighting, fighting, fighting, trying to make more in your business, blah blah blah.
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  SPEAKER_00: Surrendered would be like, all right, like these are my offers.
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  SPEAKER_00: Surrender, lean back, go about my day, walk the dog.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know, go get a coffee, blah, blah, blah.
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  SPEAKER_00: Not like, okay, put it out there.
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  SPEAKER_00: Any DMs?
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  SPEAKER_00: Any emails?
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  SPEAKER_00: Blah, blah, blah.
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  SPEAKER_00: No.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: It's you took action, you kind of surrendered to it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And that's what that's the ebb and flow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Health-wise.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, you know, I am, you know, setting the boundaries, moving on, you know, heal my gut, blah, blah, blah, whatever it is.
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  SPEAKER_00: Relationships.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, I'm putting myself out there, you know, I have my standards, and I'm not selling for anything less.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so you surrender into knowing that you don't have to choose between shitty relationships andor like uh yeah, shitty relationships and not settling with what you want.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're always doing both.
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  SPEAKER_00: Bridge them together.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hopefully this episode was helpful.
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  SPEAKER_00: Again, if you would like to join what would live do, just leave.
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  SPEAKER_00: We'll leave a link for it down below.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not really joining, but you can fill out the form.
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  SPEAKER_00: And hopefully I'll get to your question.
• 10:44
  SPEAKER_00: I would love doing these, so I feel like we'll we'll keep sprinkling them in because they're fun little segments.
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  SPEAKER_00: And yeah, if you guys have any questions about containers, just send me a message on Instagram because depending on when you listen to this and what comes out, there might be like a different um container that's best for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So with that being said, I will speak to you guys in the next episode.