Latest / OneLegUpAlex Media / Christina Cates, Fmr. Palm Restaurant GM, Joins Alex Garrett To Talk Dining in NYC 8-25-24
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Here's your host, Alex Darre.
- 0:08Speaker 2: All right, well talk about small worlds and on my
- 0:11Speaker 2: line right now as someone who actually lived on the
- 0:13Speaker 2: same street I grew up on for four years, a
- 0:16Speaker 2: big group on for ten But Christina Kates, you lived
- 0:20Speaker 2: there for four years on East forty fourth Street, and
- 0:23Speaker 2: you worked at the Palm two and the Palm restaurant.
- 0:26Speaker 2: I rolled past the Palm two for my whole child.
- 0:29Speaker 2: That's why I want to connect with you on this podcast.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Thanks for joining me.
- 0:33Speaker 3: Oh my pleasure. Thank you for having me. Good morning.
- 0:36Speaker 2: I cannot say anything else without saying thank you to
- 0:39Speaker 2: Lucas Farar for making this connection happen. You're having to
- 0:41Speaker 2: call up to shake it off show and here we
- 0:43Speaker 2: are talking. It's funny how life works, right.
- 0:46Speaker 3: I know, I guess it was meant to be. Lucas
- 0:49Speaker 3: brings a lot of people together.
- 0:50Speaker 2: I get, I believe so. And the fact that you
- 0:52Speaker 2: lived on forty four. First of all, that street's so beautiful.
- 0:55Speaker 2: I mean, I love it, and I love that when
- 0:57Speaker 2: you look down the block, that UN's right there.
- 0:58Speaker 1: It's such a special to me as a special place
- 1:01Speaker 1: in my heart.
- 1:01Speaker 3: East forty fourth, Oh same, I actually had this outdoor
- 1:05Speaker 3: space behind my studio apartment that was like private to
- 1:09Speaker 3: my apartment, and when I would go out there, I
- 1:11Speaker 3: would get the whole front of the un So I
- 1:14Speaker 3: just sat there in this little urban oasis and thought
- 1:17Speaker 3: to myself, how lucky am I to get to live here.
- 1:22Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure people I worked with you at the
- 1:23Speaker 2: Palm or you know, God to know you through the Palm,
- 1:25Speaker 2: didn't know where you live. That's just like a backstory
- 1:27Speaker 2: here because you know we share that in common. One
- 1:31Speaker 2: last thing on forty fourth the General Assembly every year
- 1:34Speaker 2: is such a mess.
- 1:35Speaker 1: How did you cope with that?
- 1:38Speaker 3: I tried to not leave my apartment because to get
- 1:42Speaker 3: back to your apartment, I had to walk around with
- 1:44Speaker 3: a copy of my lease in my purse to show
- 1:47Speaker 3: the security, like on Second Avenue to get down forty
- 1:50Speaker 3: fourth Street. It was crazy.
- 1:52Speaker 2: Yeah, they had to let They couldn't let the buses
- 1:55Speaker 2: down when I was a kid to get me to school. Anyway,
- 1:57Speaker 2: enough about that, I want to talk about the Palm too, first,
- 2:00Speaker 2: because I rolled past there all the time. It right
- 2:03Speaker 2: on forty fourth, or it was any fond memories that
- 2:06Speaker 2: you want to share on me all one leg with
- 2:08Speaker 2: Alex Scarrett that you can remember, you know, they want
- 2:10Speaker 2: to talk about because that's what I wanted on here first, because.
- 2:12Speaker 1: You know the Palms family if you own a Palm family.
- 2:17Speaker 3: Yeah, So the Palm was owned by the same two
- 2:20Speaker 3: Italian families since nineteen twenty six. And when I first
- 2:24Speaker 3: started working for the Palm, I worked at the one
- 2:26Speaker 3: in Tribeca. I was part of their opening team. And
- 2:29Speaker 3: I didn't go to Palm Too until after Hurricane Sandy
- 2:33Speaker 3: because Hurricane Sandy like devastated Tribeca, like we were closed
- 2:37Speaker 3: for months. So when I moved up to Palm two,
- 2:40Speaker 3: it was a completely different world because Tribecca was new
- 2:43Speaker 3: shiny Wall Street driven crowd and Palm two, which is
- 2:48Speaker 3: very different than the original Palm, although they're right across
- 2:51Speaker 3: the street from each other. It was just a different world.
- 2:53Speaker 3: It was old school. People were going there like longer
- 2:57Speaker 3: than I've been alive. It was just a family crowd,
- 3:01Speaker 3: like it was nothing I'd ever seen before, and it
- 3:04Speaker 3: was a ton of fun. I mean, they had sawdust
- 3:06Speaker 3: on the floor of the restaurant, which is a complete
- 3:10Speaker 3: fire has or like you can't do that in any
- 3:11Speaker 3: restaurant in this day and age. But they were like
- 3:13Speaker 3: grandfathered in, so it was allowed there. And it was
- 3:17Speaker 3: just wild. Like the guys that work there were right
- 3:19Speaker 3: off the boat from Italy, I mean, tight knit crew.
- 3:23Speaker 3: I was just so lucky to be welcomed into that environment.
- 3:27Speaker 3: And I mean it was a lot of fun.
- 3:32Speaker 1: Any you know, Lucasovagey stopped through there a few times.
- 3:34Speaker 2: But any names that you want to talk about that
- 3:37Speaker 2: you got to meet, they got to talk to that
- 3:39Speaker 2: You even got to just watch Dyne at your restaurant.
- 3:43Speaker 3: Oh my god, I mean come too is like like
- 3:47Speaker 3: the Silent Killer. Like you would just walk in and
- 3:50Speaker 3: Liza Minelli you would be sitting back there in a
- 3:52Speaker 3: booth like totally just doing her thing. Mick Jagger would
- 3:58Speaker 3: be there like just total stars. Like would just walk
- 4:01Speaker 3: in and like kiss the waiter on the cheek and
- 4:04Speaker 3: be like, I'll take my table in the corner, give
- 4:06Speaker 3: me the usual.
- 4:07Speaker 2: It was wild, you know, I gotta say personally because
- 4:11Speaker 2: I never went in because I was too young to
- 4:12Speaker 2: go in right when I was a kid. But I
- 4:14Speaker 2: would always see the artwork. I was always drawn by
- 4:16Speaker 2: all the caricatures in that restaurant. Can you talk about
- 4:20Speaker 2: that for a little bit as well.
- 4:23Speaker 3: I mean, so like the history, do you want to
- 4:25Speaker 3: know the history of it? Yea, yeah, Like the r
- 4:26Speaker 3: pictures came to be.
- 4:28Speaker 1: Because they kept adding I think as the years went on, right.
- 4:30Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so I mean that was kind of the
- 4:33Speaker 3: stick at the Palm was the caricatures. It's like what
- 4:35Speaker 3: they were famous for. So back in the nineteen twenties
- 4:39Speaker 3: in that you know area of New York, it was
- 4:42Speaker 3: bustling with like artists and newspaper magazine types. So people
- 4:47Speaker 3: would draw on the walls for basically like a bowlapasta.
- 4:51Speaker 3: So that's kind of how it started, like just the
- 4:53Speaker 3: artists would come in and draw and then you know,
- 4:56Speaker 3: fifty sixty seventy years later, it's just kind of what
- 4:59Speaker 3: we were known for. But we had this artist in
- 5:02Speaker 3: New York specifically, his name is Al Evsmon. He was
- 5:05Speaker 3: like the New York artist that just did these amazing
- 5:08Speaker 3: caricatures of people. And you know, later on you had
- 5:12Speaker 3: to have some kind of a status with a Palm
- 5:15Speaker 3: to get your faith on the wall. You had to
- 5:17Speaker 3: spend a certain amount of money, be part of our
- 5:20Speaker 3: eight thirty seven members club, and then you know, Al
- 5:23Speaker 3: would come in and put you up on the wall.
- 5:24Speaker 3: Sometimes he'd let you choose where you wanted to go,
- 5:27Speaker 3: but if it was too much of a prominent spot,
- 5:29Speaker 3: he'd be like, now we got to save this real
- 5:31Speaker 3: estate for somebody else, so you draw you somewhere else.
- 5:34Speaker 3: But I mean it was like a status symbol. If
- 5:36Speaker 3: you were on the wall with the palm, you were
- 5:38Speaker 3: a big deal.
- 5:40Speaker 2: I think I saw a palm on the west side
- 5:43Speaker 2: as well, Is that right? Was there one on the
- 5:44Speaker 2: upper wind or you know, sort of the Times Square area?
- 5:48Speaker 3: Yes, that was the theater district one, which I believe
- 5:51Speaker 3: is actually still there. It might be the only one
- 5:53Speaker 3: left in the city right now. That was on fiftieth
- 5:58Speaker 3: I believe, between Ethan Broadway.
- 6:01Speaker 2: And just in a different vibe and I a little
- 6:02Speaker 2: more modern vibe, if you all, if I'm not mistaken,
- 6:05Speaker 2: But how did you come to love this history of
- 6:08Speaker 2: the palm? And how did you come to love hospitality?
- 6:11Speaker 2: I mean, you sound like you're very interested in talking
- 6:13Speaker 2: about the pom.
- 6:13Speaker 1: That's why I'm on.
- 6:15Speaker 3: Well, so this is a two part question. That hospitality
- 6:21Speaker 3: is just something I don't know why. I just always
- 6:23Speaker 3: grew up knowing I was going to work in restaurants. Like,
- 6:25Speaker 3: I didn't go to a proper four year college. I
- 6:28Speaker 3: went straight to culinary school right out of high school
- 6:30Speaker 3: because I knew I wanted to work in hospitality. So
- 6:33Speaker 3: when I moved over to the Palm from Tavern on
- 6:35Speaker 3: the Green, I mean I knew nothing about the Pom
- 6:39Speaker 3: at that time. My friend brought me over there, and
- 6:43Speaker 3: once I started working there, I fell in love with
- 6:45Speaker 3: it because of the family presence in ownership. And you know, there's,
- 6:51Speaker 3: like I mentioned before, there's two families that owned the Palm.
- 6:55Speaker 3: One of them is the most down to earth, lovable
- 6:59Speaker 3: family you could ever want to work for, and the
- 7:02Speaker 3: other was a little more corporate, a little sterile. But
- 7:06Speaker 3: it was that other family that I was like, I
- 7:08Speaker 3: will do anything they want me to do. I will
- 7:10Speaker 3: work anywhere they want me to work. I just loved
- 7:12Speaker 3: working for them. And you know, the way they are
- 7:17Speaker 3: is kind of how they treat their employees and the
- 7:20Speaker 3: culture of their restaurant, and I just liked it. It
- 7:23Speaker 3: was just compatible with my personality. So I had people
- 7:27Speaker 3: come in all the time when I worked at the
- 7:28Speaker 3: one in Tribecca. They were like, are you related to
- 7:31Speaker 3: the family, And I was like, no, I'm not at all.
- 7:34Speaker 3: And they always said you talk with such owner's pride,
- 7:36Speaker 3: like it feels like you are part of this family.
- 7:39Speaker 3: And I'm like, you know, I've worked here now for
- 7:41Speaker 3: a long time. I worked there for about seven or
- 7:44Speaker 3: eight years, so you know, it becomes your family. Like
- 7:47Speaker 3: that's part of what working in restaurants is. Like you
- 7:50Speaker 3: work holidays and weekends and you work with these people
- 7:53Speaker 3: fourteen hours a day, and it's becomes who you are.
- 7:57Speaker 3: So I just love it.
- 7:59Speaker 2: You're fairly young. So how old were you when you
- 8:02Speaker 2: started with the Paul? I mean you were It seems
- 8:04Speaker 2: like you got to be in your twenties or earlier, right, I.
- 8:07Speaker 3: Mean, yeah, I worked I think I was twenty five
- 8:11Speaker 3: when I started working there, and so I was what
- 8:15Speaker 3: thirty one, thirty two?
- 8:16Speaker 1: Yeah, and you look thirty thirty three of you. Well,
- 8:23Speaker 1: now let me ask you this.
- 8:25Speaker 2: You mentioned tabern On the Green, and my dad and
- 8:26Speaker 2: I had experienced there too, because at least one marathon
- 8:29Speaker 2: we'd celebrate after the marathon, we just sat there and
- 8:32Speaker 2: watched all the runners come in.
- 8:34Speaker 1: Were you there to experience a marathon day at.
- 8:37Speaker 3: Absolutely that was a non negotiable you if you worked
- 8:40Speaker 3: at Tavan on the Green. You worked the marathon because
- 8:43Speaker 3: it was the busiest day of the year. I think
- 8:45Speaker 3: it's November, right, Yeah, yep, yep, yep, and we were
- 8:50Speaker 3: the finish lines. Tavn on the Green was the finish line,
- 8:52Speaker 3: so it was just like tens of thousands of people
- 8:55Speaker 3: and we had that whole weekend. Marathon weekend was wild
- 8:58Speaker 3: because you have the pasta party the Friday night, all
- 9:01Speaker 3: the runners come and I mean, I'm telling you, it's
- 9:03Speaker 3: like garbage cans full of pasta. Like that's how much
- 9:06Speaker 3: pasta we're serving. It's like I got one hundred thousand
- 9:10Speaker 3: pounds of it.
- 9:10Speaker 1: It was a wild Hey, these athletes gotta eat, right,
- 9:12Speaker 1: that was the whole.
- 9:13Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's just you know, it's volume. It was intense,
- 9:19Speaker 3: but it was so much fun. I worked at Tavern.
- 9:21Speaker 3: That was my first job ever in New York and
- 9:24Speaker 3: in hospitality, and talk about like runner Get Ran Over.
- 9:28Speaker 3: I mean I was nineteen years old when I started
- 9:30Speaker 3: working there, and yeah, super great experience. Very very lucky
- 9:35Speaker 3: again to have that on my resume.
- 9:38Speaker 2: These plays we're talking about are vintage New York and
- 9:40Speaker 2: I could just tell by our conversation. You appreciate the
- 9:43Speaker 2: vintage New York. Are you in New York or by heart?
- 9:46Speaker 3: No, I'm actually from New Jersey and I reside in
- 9:52Speaker 3: New Jersey. Now, you know, my whole family lives here,
- 9:54Speaker 3: so I wanted to be closer to them. But New York,
- 9:57Speaker 3: I don't know. It just always has had a special
- 9:59Speaker 3: place in my heart. Like I have children, I bring
- 10:02Speaker 3: them there all the time, Like even if it's just
- 10:04Speaker 3: to take a walk in Central Park. I just love
- 10:06Speaker 3: New York. I will probably move back there once my
- 10:09Speaker 3: children are older. I love it. It's the best city
- 10:12Speaker 3: in the world.
- 10:14Speaker 1: As I say, being a mom, were you able to
- 10:16Speaker 1: be in this hospitality field? Am be a mom?
- 10:18Speaker 2: Or was that when you kind of said, okay, don't
- 10:21Speaker 2: like what was the design to leave hospitality?
- 10:24Speaker 3: That's kind of when I had to pivot. It's very
- 10:27Speaker 3: hard to be present and be a parent and work
- 10:31Speaker 3: in hospitality, whether you're a woman or a man. Like
- 10:34Speaker 3: you just miss things. You miss putting your kids to
- 10:36Speaker 3: bed at night, you'll miss sports. So for now, that's
- 10:40Speaker 3: why I kind of have retired a little bit my
- 10:44Speaker 3: career in hospitality. But it's just a pause for now.
- 10:47Speaker 3: It is who I am. It's what I like to do,
- 10:50Speaker 3: and it's what makes me very happy and fulfilled. So
- 10:53Speaker 3: I will pick that up again at some point, maybe
- 10:55Speaker 3: in a few years, but right now, I just I
- 10:58Speaker 3: want to do these kinds of things like my kids.
- 11:01Speaker 2: Tell when Christina Kate she was part of the Palm franchise,
- 11:05Speaker 2: really both of them, actually did you you got to
- 11:08Speaker 2: know the chefs there? Did any recipes make it home
- 11:10Speaker 2: with you? They get to make some dishes for the
- 11:12Speaker 2: kids with the recipes from the Palm Any stories like that.
- 11:16Speaker 3: Okay, So actually there's this one dish that wasn't on
- 11:19Speaker 3: the menu. It was kind of like a verbal like
- 11:25Speaker 3: off menu item at Palm Too, called chicken Bruno, which
- 11:28Speaker 3: is pretty much just like chicken cutlet nuggets, but it's
- 11:33Speaker 3: sauce hayd in this lemon butter sauce. I mean, you
- 11:37Speaker 3: want to talk about comfort food, something that just hits
- 11:40Speaker 3: the spot, it's that. So I'll make that for my kids.
- 11:45Speaker 3: But then there's like other things that I make all
- 11:47Speaker 3: the time at home. The GG salads, the West Coast
- 11:49Speaker 3: and East Coast GG salad. So the East Coast was
- 11:51Speaker 3: just shrimped bacon, tomato, onion and green beans and like
- 11:56Speaker 3: a garlic viniagarette and make that all the time. I
- 11:58Speaker 3: actually had that for lunch yesterday. It's just like so easy.
- 12:03Speaker 3: But the rest of it is like, you know, the
- 12:04Speaker 3: steak focused items that I'm just not good at making
- 12:07Speaker 3: that type of thing.
- 12:09Speaker 2: You know, It's funny you mentioned the stakes because I
- 12:11Speaker 2: have to say, right around the Palm too, is where
- 12:13Speaker 2: a Spark steakhouse was, right and that's where yeah, all
- 12:16Speaker 2: Castellano got knocked.
- 12:17Speaker 1: Off, if you will.
- 12:19Speaker 2: So I feel like East forty fourth has that kind
- 12:22Speaker 2: of enter, has that not cursed? But did you ever
- 12:25Speaker 2: feel like kind of spookiness in front of the Palm, like,
- 12:28Speaker 2: oh my god, someone was knocked off right around here?
- 12:30Speaker 1: I mean, did you ever feel that energy or not? Really?
- 12:33Speaker 3: Not really, But I will tell you I heard when
- 12:36Speaker 3: I was working on Second Avenue that when that happened.
- 12:41Speaker 3: The night that happened, the guys were sitting having dinner
- 12:44Speaker 3: in the front window at the original Palm, so not
- 12:46Speaker 3: palmed to the one across the street. They went around
- 12:49Speaker 3: the corner to Sparks, did what they had to do,
- 12:53Speaker 3: came back that down and finished their dinner at the Palm.
- 12:56Speaker 3: After that. I don't know if that's true.
- 12:58Speaker 2: Or not, but what that's that's kind of insane actually,
- 13:02Speaker 2: And yeah, there was that uh you know what was
- 13:04Speaker 2: on there? My friend and she passed away in twenty twenty.
- 13:08Speaker 2: Shelley Ackerman, I have you ever heard any stories about Philip? Yeah,
- 13:12Speaker 2: he was my like my aunt Shelley. She lived more
- 13:15Speaker 2: about me on East forty fourth And she was written
- 13:18Speaker 2: drawn on the palm too, I believe, if not the po.
- 13:20Speaker 3: I believe it was. Yes, maybe both, but yes, palm
- 13:23Speaker 3: too for sure.
- 13:25Speaker 2: So I don't know if you got to meet her
- 13:26Speaker 2: over the that course of time or not.
- 13:29Speaker 3: But she was great, Yes, I believe I did you meet.
- 13:33Speaker 3: You meet so many people, but that name definitely stands
- 13:35Speaker 3: out to me. And she was a local. Yeah.
- 13:40Speaker 1: On she was a singer and performer and everything like that.
- 13:42Speaker 1: I mean, she was she was great.
- 13:44Speaker 2: Got to ask about movies because honestly, when I was
- 13:46Speaker 2: around East forty fourth we got to meet movie stars
- 13:48Speaker 2: through and through. When I was a kid, we went
- 13:51Speaker 2: on the set of The Peacemaker when the when George
- 13:54Speaker 2: Kleeen and Nicole Kimmen were filming there. I got the
- 13:56Speaker 2: chance to be in the director's chair when I was
- 13:58Speaker 2: like five or six years old or even younger. But
- 14:01Speaker 2: when they were filming movies around that area, did you notice,
- 14:04Speaker 2: you know, those folks coming into, like the cast members,
- 14:07Speaker 2: the tech guys.
- 14:09Speaker 1: Was there any kind of movement during movie shoots if
- 14:11Speaker 1: you will.
- 14:12Speaker 3: So I don't recall anything while I was at Palm too,
- 14:15Speaker 3: but when I was in Tribeca at the Palm, I mean, yeah,
- 14:19Speaker 3: they were filming was that movie Wall Street with Michael
- 14:23Speaker 3: Douglas and what's the guy? Uh?
- 14:27Speaker 1: I think it was Martin Sheen? Right?
- 14:28Speaker 3: No, No, the one they the most recent one that
- 14:31Speaker 3: they did with that younger actor. Yeah, you would come
- 14:34Speaker 3: in what was the name? Because he would sit at
- 14:37Speaker 3: the bar and I mean he would just like tell
- 14:40Speaker 3: wild stories. He'd be like, Michael Douglas can't remember any
- 14:43Speaker 3: of his lines. It's taken so long to film a scene.
- 14:45Speaker 3: This is ridiculous. So that was going on, and then
- 14:50Speaker 3: when they were filming Wolf of Wall Street, Leonardo DiCaprio
- 14:53Speaker 3: would come in Jonah Hill. Yeah, I mean all the time.
- 14:59Speaker 2: Tell me about the Tribe Film Festival. I mean, you
- 15:01Speaker 2: guys have a lot of business from there. Did the
- 15:03Speaker 2: man Robert and he or ever walk into the Palm
- 15:06Speaker 2: when you were there.
- 15:09Speaker 3: So he came in I think only once. But the
- 15:12Speaker 3: film Festival was right across the street from us, like BMCC,
- 15:16Speaker 3: like over there west Side Highway and Chambers, So yeah,
- 15:20Speaker 3: we'd get a ton from that, and other celebrities would
- 15:22Speaker 3: like drip in from that, like before or after some
- 15:25Speaker 3: of the shows. But Robertson Hero, I mean, I think
- 15:28Speaker 3: just one time he came in.
- 15:31Speaker 2: You know, I gotta say, you sound like you want
- 15:34Speaker 2: to work back in the city. How exciting is it
- 15:36Speaker 2: for you when you get to work in the city
- 15:37Speaker 2: in the hustle and bustle. And you know what's funny
- 15:39Speaker 2: is Tribeca feels a little more slow paced than uptown, right,
- 15:43Speaker 2: I mean there's just a different feeling for both areas
- 15:45Speaker 2: of where Palm two and the Palm Tribeca different feel
- 15:49Speaker 2: overall from both. So you did you like working in both?
- 15:53Speaker 2: Did you like the more you know, fast paced Palm
- 15:56Speaker 2: two in the middle of East forty fourth Street.
- 15:58Speaker 3: There, So they they were both very different, but both
- 16:01Speaker 3: the same, right because they were both busy in the
- 16:05Speaker 3: respect that people follow the name the Palm, So Tribeca
- 16:09Speaker 3: would be very busy like we were a full city block.
- 16:13Speaker 3: That's a huge restaurant, so Monday to Friday. You know,
- 16:17Speaker 3: we're right across the street from Goldman Sachs World's headquarters.
- 16:20Speaker 3: It was crazy busy. Like when I tell you the
- 16:22Speaker 3: things I saw in that restaurant during that time in
- 16:25Speaker 3: my life, I don't think i'll ever see again. It
- 16:28Speaker 3: just can't be replicated. But Palm Too was so small
- 16:32Speaker 3: that you were always busy, but it was like a
- 16:34Speaker 3: different kind of busy. It was an intimate busy where
- 16:37Speaker 3: you're just bouncing from table to table, like talking to
- 16:41Speaker 3: you know, the guy who gets table eight every Monday
- 16:44Speaker 3: night at five thirty. Like it was that kind of vibe.
- 16:47Speaker 3: So very different but very the same, like just fun busy.
- 16:52Speaker 3: And yeah, it's just it's something that can't be replicated
- 16:56Speaker 3: this time anymore.
- 16:57Speaker 2: People listening to this may not realize that around the
- 17:00Speaker 2: Palm Too specifically, there are so many embassies. I mean
- 17:03Speaker 2: you have the Nigerian embassy, or you have all the
- 17:06Speaker 2: different embassies, and you'll see a lot of diplomats walking
- 17:08Speaker 2: through through those doors every day.
- 17:11Speaker 3: Big lunch crowd for the diplomats. Yeah, they'd come in
- 17:15Speaker 3: for like the power lunch they called it, which was
- 17:17Speaker 3: like kind of like a prefixed menu app entrede dessert,
- 17:23Speaker 3: you know, in and out forty five minutes to an hour.
- 17:26Speaker 2: You know, as we're talking about this, hospitality and the
- 17:29Speaker 2: end of the restaurant world has taken a big hit
- 17:31Speaker 2: since COVID. Do you see from where your experience and everything.
- 17:34Speaker 2: Do you see more restaurants, you know, being able to
- 17:37Speaker 2: start up again or restaurants, you know, making a comeback.
- 17:42Speaker 2: I don't want to say the restaurant industry is totally ruined,
- 17:44Speaker 2: right There's there's some good restaurants back up and running.
- 17:47Speaker 2: But overall, what's your feel since COVID with the restaurant industry,
- 17:52Speaker 2: it feels like a lot of the minist here.
- 17:56Speaker 3: Good question, Well, I would say, I'm I'm in the
- 17:59Speaker 3: city all the time. Like, first of all, I'm in
- 18:01Speaker 3: New Jersey, but I'm in the city all the time
- 18:03Speaker 3: and going out to restaurants, and I feel like the
- 18:06Speaker 3: last year two years, I can't keep up with how
- 18:10Speaker 3: many new restaurants are opening that I want to go to,
- 18:13Speaker 3: Like I have a constant running list of places I
- 18:16Speaker 3: need to check out, which obviously is the result of
- 18:20Speaker 3: a lot of places that perished during COVID and didn't
- 18:23Speaker 3: make it, and there's like new retail space, you know,
- 18:26Speaker 3: the places to open. So I do think it's definitely
- 18:31Speaker 3: making the comeback, if not already came back. You know,
- 18:35Speaker 3: the city feels vibrant, it feels great, the restaurants are bustling,
- 18:39Speaker 3: and yeah.
- 18:40Speaker 2: It could also be then for the restaurant tour that
- 18:43Speaker 2: wants to open but maybe sees what happened and maybe
- 18:45Speaker 2: it's nervous or open. What's your message that just open
- 18:47Speaker 2: up the restaurant, right, that should be the message.
- 18:51Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean there's no time like the present. You'd
- 18:53Speaker 3: definitely do it. But I will say I felt fortunate
- 18:57Speaker 3: that I wasn't in hospitality during COVID because I saw
- 19:00Speaker 3: so many people that I knew that lost jobs or
- 19:04Speaker 3: even if the place was still open, you know, they
- 19:06Speaker 3: were making significantly less money because people were afraid to
- 19:10Speaker 3: go out. But yeah, like, as someone myself who thinks
- 19:14Speaker 3: it often about opening a restaurant, it is in the
- 19:16Speaker 3: back of my head like wow, like those unvariables like
- 19:19Speaker 3: a pandemic could crush you. But again carpe DM like
- 19:26Speaker 3: if you want to do it, do it and you'll
- 19:28Speaker 3: find a way to make it successful if you're really
- 19:29Speaker 3: passionate about it.
- 19:31Speaker 2: I thought that the best part was that they found
- 19:33Speaker 2: a way to make it work. A lot of restaurants
- 19:35Speaker 2: in with the outdoor dining and those sheds. Hearing now,
- 19:38Speaker 2: but what would your take? Could you believe how many sheds.
- 19:42Speaker 1: Their were during that time? It felt like almost every
- 19:45Speaker 1: city block had one.
- 19:46Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean that. There was one time I
- 19:49Speaker 3: was sitting outside at Carbone and that's a tight street, right,
- 19:52Speaker 3: Thompson is a tight street. There's this fire truck coming
- 19:57Speaker 3: down as I'm sitting outside on the patio and I
- 20:00Speaker 3: was like, I'm gonna die outside of Carbone having dinner
- 20:04Speaker 3: just because I needed spicy reggaetoni. Like when I tell you,
- 20:07Speaker 3: there was maybe maybe one inch between this outdoor patio
- 20:11Speaker 3: and the fire truck. I was like, let's wrap this up.
- 20:15Speaker 3: We got to get out of here.
- 20:17Speaker 2: Were you consulted on how to deal with all of that?
- 20:19Speaker 2: Did any restaurants say, hey, Christina, we know you have expertise.
- 20:22Speaker 2: How do we get through this? How do we make
- 20:24Speaker 2: sure the customer is happy? How do we make sure
- 20:26Speaker 2: our staff is safe during all of this? Were you
- 20:28Speaker 2: consulted no.
- 20:30Speaker 3: I honestly, I was so out of hospitality at that point.
- 20:33Speaker 3: I was in the thick of like small children COVID
- 20:37Speaker 3: blah blah blah. No, not at all, And honestly, I
- 20:40Speaker 3: don't even think I would have been much help because
- 20:42Speaker 3: you had to be so creative and think outside the
- 20:45Speaker 3: box to make that work. I don't even think I
- 20:48Speaker 3: have that kind of creativity, Like, honestly, like I admire
- 20:53Speaker 3: people who kept restaurants going during COVID.
- 20:55Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they it.
- 20:56Speaker 2: It was a skill for sure, all right, And be
- 20:59Speaker 2: a bad journalist in bulp and asked what restaurants are
- 21:01Speaker 2: you going to that you would recommend?
- 21:03Speaker 3: Us? Go, oh wow, that's a great question. I feel
- 21:10Speaker 3: like a little ashamed to say this in a way,
- 21:14Speaker 3: but I am actually a huge Carbone fan. Like they're
- 21:17Speaker 3: a whole major food group like concept like Teresa. I
- 21:23Speaker 3: just love those restaurants. I feel like they execute it
- 21:26Speaker 3: really well and you feel like really cool being there.
- 21:31Speaker 3: It always has a sexy crowd, the food is always fantastic.
- 21:34Speaker 3: It may be super I don't know, want they overpriced,
- 21:37Speaker 3: but it's expensive. It's not something you can do every night.
- 21:39Speaker 3: But I really always enjoy when I go to those restaurants.
- 21:42Speaker 3: I really love what they're doing at Koka Doc on
- 21:46Speaker 3: East twenty second Street.
- 21:47Speaker 1: Okay, have you have you been there?
- 21:49Speaker 2: No, I'm not yet, but I've got I've got to
- 21:51Speaker 2: check that out as a fiance, As someone whose fiance
- 21:56Speaker 2: is actually in the power wheelchair, I have to think
- 21:58Speaker 2: about accessibility when I these places out. So do you
- 22:02Speaker 2: find that restaurants are getting more accessible as we get here?
- 22:05Speaker 1: You know it's.
- 22:06Speaker 2: Twenty twenty four. Someplace is not always accessible. How do
- 22:08Speaker 2: you find accessibility though?
- 22:10Speaker 1: In New York? Has it improved?
- 22:13Speaker 3: Well? You forced to be. You have to be accessible now.
- 22:16Speaker 3: Like even when I was in Tribeca, which was a
- 22:19Speaker 3: new build construction like three years in, they made us
- 22:23Speaker 3: kind of redo the bar area so that there was
- 22:26Speaker 3: wheelchair access so you know, handicap people could roll up
- 22:30Speaker 3: to the bar itself, not even just like to the
- 22:32Speaker 3: cocktail tables, which we had to put lower cocktail tables in,
- 22:35Speaker 3: but you needed a space designated at the bar that
- 22:39Speaker 3: was lower. So yeah, I feel like they are completely
- 22:42Speaker 3: making changes so that it's accessible to everyone.
- 22:50Speaker 1: There we go, She just call me now, but I
- 22:52Speaker 1: can call her in a second. No, you know it just.
- 22:57Speaker 2: It's one of those things whereas I'm doing research on
- 22:59Speaker 2: all these I gotta figure that out as well. Christina,
- 23:03Speaker 2: I gotta ask this, because you've been around for a while.
- 23:06Speaker 1: When you were in that time, what was the latest
- 23:10Speaker 1: you'd be working to because I feel like the whole
- 23:12Speaker 1: story of oh my god, we were out till four am, But.
- 23:15Speaker 2: That was real back in the day, and it feels
- 23:18Speaker 2: different now in the same I don't feel like they're
- 23:20Speaker 2: open as much as late they used to be.
- 23:22Speaker 1: But maybe I'm just not out as much anymore.
- 23:26Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I would be out pretty late. But
- 23:30Speaker 3: number one, I really liked that lifestyle, Like I liked
- 23:33Speaker 3: being out, Like that's why you're in restaurants, right, So
- 23:37Speaker 3: if you close the restaurant, like you're serving till eleven
- 23:40Speaker 3: and people sit at ten fifty and they're taking their time,
- 23:44Speaker 3: I mean they're not really leaving till twelve one in
- 23:48Speaker 3: the morning, and then you have to do like closing
- 23:50Speaker 3: paperwork and make sure the restaurant's in great conditions. So
- 23:53Speaker 3: then it's like two. And then it's like two so
- 23:56Speaker 3: you're like, all right, I'll go down the street to
- 23:58Speaker 3: the Raccoon Lodge and get a drink with some friends
- 24:02Speaker 3: and then it's three, and then you know it's it's
- 24:05Speaker 3: a late night, but it doesn't feel it in the moment.
- 24:09Speaker 3: It just feels like a regular night.
- 24:11Speaker 2: How you got to know Lucas because it sounds like
- 24:13Speaker 2: he frequented the palm and Palm two? What was he
- 24:16Speaker 2: seems like he's such a fun conversation just based on
- 24:20Speaker 2: have dumb on radio in person, also, he's pretty cool
- 24:24Speaker 2: to talk with that what were your experience with him?
- 24:27Speaker 3: So Lucas is like one of those people that you
- 24:31Speaker 3: get in the restaurant industry for right, he's your Tuesday
- 24:35Speaker 3: night regular who has a standing reservation, you know, once
- 24:41Speaker 3: a week at the same time. And when he comes in,
- 24:44Speaker 3: it's not going to be any drama. He just comes
- 24:47Speaker 3: in for fun. I mean, as he mentions on his
- 24:50Speaker 3: show last week, he didn't even order anything, Like he
- 24:53Speaker 3: doesn't even eat the food, right, He would just order
- 24:56Speaker 3: like a bottle, a very nice bottle of wine. But
- 24:58Speaker 3: he would come in to take his clients out after
- 25:00Speaker 3: he was teaching at Brooklyn Law School or New York
- 25:03Speaker 3: Law School rather down the street. So he's fun, like
- 25:06Speaker 3: he's engaging. There's banter that goes on back and forth.
- 25:10Speaker 3: He's there for two hours, but it feels like five minutes.
- 25:13Speaker 3: I would look forward to seeing him every week, and
- 25:16Speaker 3: if I saw, by chance, there wasn't a reservation for
- 25:19Speaker 3: him on that night, I would text him in the
- 25:21Speaker 3: afternoon to be like, what's the problem, what's happening? Why
- 25:24Speaker 3: aren't you coming in tonight?
- 25:26Speaker 2: So you really grow friendship with him? That's awesome. That
- 25:28Speaker 2: that that's really cool.
- 25:30Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 25:30Speaker 2: I love working on radio for sure. But I wanted
- 25:32Speaker 2: to ask that because I know he's gonna listen and be.
- 25:34Speaker 1: Like, why didn't you ask me about me?
- 25:36Speaker 3: Yeah? I want to make well know if he if
- 25:39Speaker 3: he's gonna listen, I mean he should know this by now.
- 25:42Speaker 3: But literally one of my most favorite people I ever
- 25:45Speaker 3: met working in hospitality.
- 25:48Speaker 2: Oh no, and on the radio. He's so he's so
- 25:51Speaker 2: kind and awesome to work with. I want to talk
- 25:54Speaker 2: a little more about the Vintage because I was just
- 25:56Speaker 2: thinking about how at the Palm too, it was like
- 25:58Speaker 2: all the blinds. It felt like that place was just
- 26:02Speaker 2: sort of.
- 26:04Speaker 1: Vintage New York.
- 26:05Speaker 2: And I can't get over just talking to you that
- 26:07Speaker 2: you worked there, you know, was there any I'd say,
- 26:11Speaker 2: was there any smoking going on because those restaurants type
- 26:13Speaker 2: of things might allow there, or was there no smoking
- 26:15Speaker 2: going on like the old movies, if you will.
- 26:18Speaker 3: Definitely not in Tribeca, but I mean in Palm too.
- 26:22Speaker 3: I mean I I'm pretty sure it was Liza Minelli
- 26:25Speaker 3: that was in the back corner smoking a cigarette at
- 26:27Speaker 3: her table, like you know, she didn't care.
- 26:31Speaker 2: Tell me about your mentor who mentored your growing up
- 26:34Speaker 2: through the hospitality world, Any mentors or anybody that you
- 26:37Speaker 2: look up to in the restaurant field that like, wow,
- 26:40Speaker 2: I want to be there, or something to that effect.
- 26:43Speaker 3: I mean, not so much celebrity wise, like you know,
- 26:46Speaker 3: celebrity chef.
- 26:47Speaker 2: Wise, you might have worked with in the restaurant field
- 26:51Speaker 2: as you were coming up through the restaurant rings people.
- 26:55Speaker 3: So when I first started working at Tavn on the Green,
- 26:58Speaker 3: I mean I had just been culinary school and I
- 27:02Speaker 3: got very close with the teacher there, and he was like, listen,
- 27:05Speaker 3: I just opened up the times. Head over to Tavern
- 27:08Speaker 3: on the Green. They're having an open call for every
- 27:11Speaker 3: position available, like waiters, bartenders, hostesses, like just get your
- 27:15Speaker 3: foot in the door there and figure it out. So
- 27:19Speaker 3: I wound up being hired there as a hostess, and
- 27:22Speaker 3: there was this guy there named Bismarck Irving. He was
- 27:25Speaker 3: the director of operations or a director of restaurants. He
- 27:31Speaker 3: moved me into management at Tavern on the Green at
- 27:34Speaker 3: nineteen years old with zero experience. And he is someone
- 27:38Speaker 3: who he worked at the Rainbow Room Rainbows and Stars,
- 27:42Speaker 3: like he ran that whole program there. He was with
- 27:45Speaker 3: Tavern on the Green, he was at the Russian Tea Room,
- 27:47Speaker 3: so he was with New York institutions, like, very close
- 27:51Speaker 3: with the Leroy family who owns Tavern on the Green.
- 27:54Speaker 3: So he's someone who taught me everything I know. And
- 27:58Speaker 3: I'm still friends with him to this day. And the
- 28:00Speaker 3: people I worked with there, there's like this just little
- 28:02Speaker 3: group of people. They were the best. We are all
- 28:06Speaker 3: still friends. I'm going to one of their houses tomorrow.
- 28:11Speaker 3: They're just wonderful people who enjoy the industry. And yeah,
- 28:15Speaker 3: they made working seem like it was fun. So yeah,
- 28:19Speaker 3: very inspiring group.
- 28:21Speaker 1: Very cool.
- 28:22Speaker 2: Do you feel like your kids as you bring them
- 28:23Speaker 2: to these restaurants, are having an appreciation for that, you know,
- 28:26Speaker 2: the restaurant experience or are they still young?
- 28:29Speaker 3: No? I think they definitely appreciate it, and I could
- 28:33Speaker 3: be creating monsters because I mean I certainly didn't grow
- 28:36Speaker 3: up going anywhere that was like super nice, like definitely
- 28:40Speaker 3: not in New York. My parents hated going to New York,
- 28:42Speaker 3: so they very rarely brought me there. But I bring
- 28:46Speaker 3: my kids there because I like it and I want
- 28:48Speaker 3: to expose them to, you know, different settings, different groups
- 28:52Speaker 3: of people that go out, so they love it. I
- 28:55Speaker 3: took my kids over the springtime to stay in New
- 28:58Speaker 3: York at like the one Hotel on by Central Park South,
- 29:01Speaker 3: and you know, that was a treat. Obviously that's very
- 29:05Speaker 3: high end hotel. Definitely often, but they still talk about it.
- 29:08Speaker 3: They're like, when are we going back to the One Hotel.
- 29:10Speaker 3: I'm like, probably never, but you know, they have a
- 29:14Speaker 3: taste for this kind of stuff now. But I'm like,
- 29:17Speaker 3: you know what, they're like their mother. What can I say?
- 29:20Speaker 1: Love it, love it.
- 29:23Speaker 2: This has been so cool, Christina to just have you on,
- 29:25Speaker 2: and I love to have you on. I'm just thinking
- 29:27Speaker 2: of all the restaurants tours I've gotten to know, Like
- 29:29Speaker 2: David Burke over the years, open up so many restaurants.
- 29:31Speaker 1: Ever tried a David Burke restaurant?
- 29:34Speaker 3: Yes, I can't remember. It was like in Soho. I
- 29:38Speaker 3: don't remember which one. It was like downstairs, like by
- 29:42Speaker 3: the Jimmy Hotel, the James Hotel, and I remember that, Yeah,
- 29:46Speaker 3: I've been there. I bounce around. I like to try
- 29:50Speaker 3: all the restaurants.
- 29:52Speaker 2: You're a New Yorker, you know in a lot of ways,
- 29:55Speaker 2: so you're not really a tourist. But do you find
- 29:58Speaker 2: that you can be a great.
- 30:00Speaker 1: Resource for tourists? So like, hey where should we go?
- 30:02Speaker 2: I mean, you ever ever con told the people coming
- 30:04Speaker 2: into town, hey where should we go?
- 30:05Speaker 3: Do they consult you constantly? And especially when they want
- 30:09Speaker 3: to know what restaurants to go to? I mean all
- 30:12Speaker 3: the time, I get all right, I'm coming to New
- 30:15Speaker 3: York for two nights. Where am I going to dinner?
- 30:17Speaker 3: Set me up? Like what's hot right now? And I
- 30:19Speaker 3: have this one friend that lives up in Boston, but
- 30:22Speaker 3: he travels a ton for work and he comes to
- 30:24Speaker 3: New York once a month and he's like, Okay, Christina,
- 30:27Speaker 3: where are we going? You make therise, You always have
- 30:30Speaker 3: your finger on the pulse. You know what's good. So
- 30:32Speaker 3: I'm like this personal concierge for my friend of nice
- 30:36Speaker 3: places to go to in New York.
- 30:38Speaker 1: That's so cool. You mentioned you went to cooling air school.
- 30:41Speaker 2: So was this something you want to do as a
- 30:42Speaker 2: kid to be in that chef world, in that restaurant world,
- 30:46Speaker 2: or is it something you kind of.
- 30:48Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess that's the question. Did you want to
- 30:50Speaker 1: do this when you were a kid, since you were
- 30:52Speaker 1: a kid.
- 30:53Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I would be like, I don't know,
- 30:56Speaker 3: sixteen seventeen years old, having dinner parties for my friends,
- 30:59Speaker 3: Like I'd have them where I would cook them dinner.
- 31:02Speaker 3: I just it's my love language. Like cooking for people
- 31:05Speaker 3: and like hosting people is just what makes me happy
- 31:07Speaker 3: and what I like to do. So I just knew
- 31:10Speaker 3: very early on that's what I needed to do for
- 31:13Speaker 3: a career, Like I don't need to waste my parents'
- 31:15Speaker 3: money or my money sended me to a college to
- 31:17Speaker 3: get some degree in something I'm not going to use,
- 31:20Speaker 3: Like I'm going to work in restaurants and it's growing,
- 31:23Speaker 3: it's not always glamorous, but I love it. So yeah,
- 31:27Speaker 3: happy with that decision.
- 31:29Speaker 2: How about Jersey, I mean, if you're from there, so
- 31:32Speaker 2: do you find that the restaurant world is totally different
- 31:35Speaker 2: in Jersey or you know, like I've been in Hoboken,
- 31:38Speaker 2: and I've been to other cities in Jersey, and they've
- 31:40Speaker 2: got a really up and coming kind of thing going
- 31:43Speaker 2: on there in these cities of Jersey, right or not
- 31:46Speaker 2: as to the extent of New York.
- 31:47Speaker 1: But it's growing, it's growing.
- 31:50Speaker 3: I mean, this is tough for me because obviously I'm
- 31:53Speaker 3: a Jersey girl. I love New Jersey. I see so
- 31:57Speaker 3: much value in living here. You know, you're accessible to
- 31:59Speaker 3: so much any things. But restaurant wise, like nothing competes
- 32:03Speaker 3: with New York. Like there are a handful of places
- 32:06Speaker 3: in New Jersey where I'm like, all right, they're good there.
- 32:10Speaker 3: It's an okay crowd, like it checks a couple boxes.
- 32:14Speaker 3: But when I want to go to dinner, like I'm
- 32:17Speaker 3: going to the city, like I'm not wasting my time
- 32:21Speaker 3: really going out in New Jersey, Like there's a there's
- 32:22Speaker 3: a handful of local places that I like to support
- 32:25Speaker 3: because I like to support small businesses. But if I
- 32:28Speaker 3: want like the quintessential, like fun night in a cool restaurant,
- 32:33Speaker 3: Like I'm driving fifteen minutes down Ruth three and I'm
- 32:35Speaker 3: going through the Lincoln Tunnel to the city.
- 32:39Speaker 2: Well, you know what you just mentioned checking out all
- 32:41Speaker 2: the boxes. So what makes in Christina casable? What makes
- 32:44Speaker 2: an amazing restaurant to go to? What checks all the boxes?
- 32:49Speaker 3: First and foremost, it has to be the hospitality part.
- 32:53Speaker 3: Like you know what it's like when you go somewhere
- 32:55Speaker 3: and you walk in and the hostess makes you feel
- 32:59Speaker 3: like a million bucks. She gives you that great table,
- 33:01Speaker 3: The server is attentive but not pushy right when they're
- 33:06Speaker 3: trying to suggest things, like they really want you to
- 33:08Speaker 3: have a great experience. But then like you order things
- 33:11Speaker 3: and it's like, Okay, the food is fantastic, the drinks
- 33:15Speaker 3: are amazing. It's like that total package, like you need
- 33:19Speaker 3: every single thing to be great. And then when you're
- 33:22Speaker 3: going to a place regularly and they have that off night,
- 33:25Speaker 3: which every restaurant does, like it's inevitable, you're more forgiving
- 33:29Speaker 3: because you're like this place knocks it out of the
- 33:32Speaker 3: park nine times out of ten, Like, Okay, the chicken
- 33:34Speaker 3: palm wasn't you know, the best tonight, But I'll be
- 33:38Speaker 3: back next week. So like that's why I was mentioning
- 33:41Speaker 3: Koka Doc earlier on twenty second Street. I was like
- 33:44Speaker 3: very taken by them, and I've been there a couple times.
- 33:47Speaker 3: Now they have the hospitality part really figured out, you
- 33:52Speaker 3: know New York back in the day, like places like
- 33:54Speaker 3: Buddhacan when it first opened, like it was like so
- 33:58Speaker 3: fun and cool to be there, Like it was almost
- 34:00Speaker 3: like cool to be the nasty hostess, right, Like that
- 34:04Speaker 3: was the vibe. But that's not the vibe in a
- 34:07Speaker 3: post COVID world anymore. Now. It's like how nice can
- 34:10Speaker 3: we treat our guests and be hospitable? And I see
- 34:14Speaker 3: that more often than not now, And I mean that
- 34:17Speaker 3: makes a huge part of what makes a restaurant successful
- 34:20Speaker 3: and what keeps them around for a long time.
- 34:22Speaker 2: All Right, mentioned hostess, you mentioned Barton, You mentioned all this.
- 34:25Speaker 2: Did you work every aspect of these restaurants?
- 34:28Speaker 1: Were you behind the bar? Where are you the hostess?
- 34:30Speaker 1: What was your main role during these years?
- 34:33Speaker 3: So I okay, for the main role, I was a manager,
- 34:37Speaker 3: general manager, floor manager, did all those things. But when
- 34:40Speaker 3: I started working at Tavern on the Green, because I
- 34:43Speaker 3: had no management experience, my mentor, Bismarck Irving, he created
- 34:49Speaker 3: this training program for me where I worked in every
- 34:52Speaker 3: position in that restaurant over the course of that summer,
- 34:57Speaker 3: whether it was like, you know, two weeks, three weeks,
- 35:00Speaker 3: I mean everything, bartender, server, purchasing department, like everything, so
- 35:06Speaker 3: I could really see all aspects of it. I mean
- 35:09Speaker 3: that was a tailor made program just for me, and
- 35:12Speaker 3: I really benefited from it, and I mean it was incredible.
- 35:16Speaker 3: No one else ever got that experience there, but it
- 35:18Speaker 3: really set me up for success because I needed that
- 35:22Speaker 3: happened on the Green was the highest grossing restaurant in
- 35:25Speaker 3: the country for sure. It was like we were doing
- 35:27Speaker 3: like forty million dollars a year, Like that's nuts.
- 35:30Speaker 2: And I can't believe it was almost on the verge
- 35:31Speaker 2: of closing, you know, that's that's just or I did
- 35:34Speaker 2: close at some point or a little bit. You wouldn't
- 35:36Speaker 2: think of that though back in the nineties because there
- 35:38Speaker 2: was so jumping back in the day. Has you know,
- 35:43Speaker 2: I talked about all the different restaurants, and I feel
- 35:46Speaker 2: like azero a consultant.
- 35:47Speaker 1: Has the date night changed in the city.
- 35:49Speaker 2: I feel like since COVID, the date night's changed, But
- 35:51Speaker 2: do do people wanted to still take their loved ones
- 35:53Speaker 2: out to restaurants? I mean, are you seeing that as
- 35:55Speaker 2: still as read?
- 35:58Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, I mean restaurants are a celebratory space, right, Like,
- 36:02Speaker 3: whether you're doing a date night or birthday dinner, it's
- 36:06Speaker 3: still a place to gather. Especially in New York. You
- 36:08Speaker 3: can't always host people in your apartment, right because the
- 36:12Speaker 3: apartments are tinier. You want to get together with eight
- 36:14Speaker 3: ten friends and have them feel comfortable. You know, you're
- 36:17Speaker 3: you're going to a restaurant. So yeah, I mean and
- 36:21Speaker 3: date night. There's nothing better than a New York City
- 36:23Speaker 3: date night.
- 36:24Speaker 1: I can.
- 36:26Speaker 2: On you know, it's funny as we're talking about this,
- 36:30Speaker 2: I'm thinking about doing a live show somewhere. I want
- 36:32Speaker 2: to do a podcast live somewhere, but I don't know
- 36:35Speaker 2: how to do that. Any advice on how to, you know,
- 36:38Speaker 2: reach out to these people say hey, I want to
- 36:40Speaker 2: do a show from your restaurant. I feel like they're
- 36:42Speaker 2: more amicable of just the details I'd be worked out.
- 36:45Speaker 1: Any advice on how to make that happen?
- 36:48Speaker 3: Well, restaurants are very loud. Would would you need a
- 36:51Speaker 3: private room?
- 36:53Speaker 1: Maybe?
- 36:54Speaker 2: I mean I've worked other remotes where my radio station
- 36:57Speaker 2: literally has gone into restaurants and done it.
- 36:58Speaker 1: So I'm god of spoiled.
- 37:00Speaker 2: I think that it could be done like that, you know,
- 37:01Speaker 2: because I'm seeing others set it up like that, but
- 37:04Speaker 2: we'll see.
- 37:05Speaker 3: Yeah, reach out, reach out to the manager of whatever
- 37:08Speaker 3: restaurant you know you're interested in, and it never hurts
- 37:12Speaker 3: to bring a little gift. I mean when I was
- 37:14Speaker 3: when I was a manager at these restaurants, people would
- 37:17Speaker 3: bring me things in all the time, and like that
- 37:19Speaker 3: kind of generosity and thoughtfulness, it goes a long way.
- 37:22Speaker 3: Like Lucas was the king of that kind of stuff.
- 37:25Speaker 1: You were the GM.
- 37:26Speaker 2: That is so cool and that you know, I know
- 37:29Speaker 2: you wear that title proudly, but you're so down there
- 37:32Speaker 2: at the same time, and I guess that has to
- 37:34Speaker 2: be you don't let the title dictate your personality.
- 37:38Speaker 1: I get the vibe.
- 37:39Speaker 2: And so that leads to my other question, how important
- 37:42Speaker 2: is this for you know, even if you're not in
- 37:45Speaker 2: the restaurant world, you can probably take the expertise you
- 37:49Speaker 2: learn from just talking to people at restaurants into the
- 37:51Speaker 2: real world outside the restaurant, right and and and I'm
- 37:55Speaker 2: sure you coached others along the way in there's perspective
- 37:57Speaker 2: fields based on what you've been doing too.
- 38:02Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean the best advice in any business, I
- 38:06Speaker 3: guess is to just not have an ego right, like,
- 38:10Speaker 3: just do the job you're there to do. You know.
- 38:13Speaker 3: I work from my father right now. He owns some
- 38:16Speaker 3: businesses and I see him every day kind of lead
- 38:19Speaker 3: in that kind of way where he's not above anything,
- 38:23Speaker 3: like he'll do any task that needs to be done.
- 38:25Speaker 3: And I think that's kind of where I get my
- 38:27Speaker 3: work ethic from and the way I you know, deal
- 38:30Speaker 3: with people. You just have to be approachable. And it's
- 38:35Speaker 3: again like not just in hospitality, but it's in any field,
- 38:39Speaker 3: but in a hospitality that really is beneficial because you know,
- 38:44Speaker 3: you're in front of people all the time. How how
- 38:46Speaker 3: can you handle someone who isn't happy with something, whether
- 38:50Speaker 3: like they're drink, they got the wrong drink or the
- 38:52Speaker 3: wrong dish, if you're not approaching them with a smile,
- 38:54Speaker 3: Like it's very hard to stay mad at somebody when
- 38:57Speaker 3: they're smiling in front of you. So I mean that
- 39:00Speaker 3: that was always my biggest thing that I tried to
- 39:02Speaker 3: even tell all of the employees. I was like, anything
- 39:05Speaker 3: can be fixed with a smile, So it goes along.
- 39:10Speaker 2: Yeah, as Rerum's, all I can think of is that
- 39:12Speaker 2: being in that restaurant scene, it feels like the restaurant
- 39:15Speaker 2: is the best place to have the most deeper conversations.
- 39:17Speaker 1: Why is that?
- 39:18Speaker 2: I feel like that's the only place you can really
- 39:20Speaker 2: just talk someone's ear off.
- 39:22Speaker 1: I don't know what is about the restaurant, but that's
- 39:24Speaker 1: what it feels like to me. Did you find that
- 39:26Speaker 1: experience as well?
- 39:27Speaker 2: You could have people talk in your ear off night
- 39:29Speaker 2: in and night out.
- 39:32Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, well, libations kind of help with that, right,
- 39:37Speaker 3: I mean, that's true. You give someone some drinks and
- 39:40Speaker 3: it goes a long way. I don't know. Everyone's just
- 39:44Speaker 3: a little more relaxed when they're out, when they're enjoying
- 39:46Speaker 3: indulging in things. I mean, Lucas, I could sit and
- 39:52Speaker 3: talk to him for hours. I would sometimes have to
- 39:55Speaker 3: feel myself away from the booth he was sitting and
- 39:57Speaker 3: because I like I'd have to be like I have
- 39:59Speaker 3: actually like work to do right now, Like I can't
- 40:01Speaker 3: sit here all night. But it's just a gathering space
- 40:04Speaker 3: for people to kind of be together, and that's amazing.
- 40:08Speaker 2: Well, and it'll continue, well, hopefully run to each other
- 40:12Speaker 2: in the city. That would be awesome as you're doing
- 40:14Speaker 2: your restaurant tours and everything like that. As Lucas asked,
- 40:17Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask you here anything in the works for you,
- 40:20Speaker 2: because I'm kind of curious now what you got in
- 40:22Speaker 2: the works based on all this experience, will we see
- 40:25Speaker 2: char syndicates back in the restaurant field again?
- 40:29Speaker 3: So I kind of dipped my toe back in the water.
- 40:34Speaker 3: Last summer. I was asked to consult for this hotel
- 40:39Speaker 3: restaurant concept down in Manusquan, and I did that over
- 40:44Speaker 3: the last summer, and it kind of did stir up
- 40:46Speaker 3: some feelings I have about working in a hospitality again.
- 40:51Speaker 3: And so short answer is yes, long answer is I'm
- 40:56Speaker 3: still trying to figure out when that timing would be
- 40:59Speaker 3: right because I had to small children, and uh, you know,
- 41:02Speaker 3: they're getting older now, like they're five and seven, so
- 41:05Speaker 3: they're just a bit more established. So I think I
- 41:07Speaker 3: could make something happen. I have a friend who wants
- 41:11Speaker 3: to do something with me, but now the question is
- 41:15Speaker 3: like where do we do it. I obviously am like,
- 41:17Speaker 3: let's do it in New York. He has a lot
- 41:20Speaker 3: of money, and he's like, let's do it down in Florida.
- 41:22Speaker 3: And I'm like, I can't do that, Like I live
- 41:25Speaker 3: in New Jersey. Like because to make a restaurant work,
- 41:28Speaker 3: you have to be there all the time, so figuring
- 41:32Speaker 3: it out nothing tomorrow, but you know, hopefully in the
- 41:36Speaker 3: next year or two we'll make something happen.
- 41:39Speaker 2: Well, stay in touch. Would love to have you back
- 41:41Speaker 2: on the shows. Things keep going for for you and
- 41:44Speaker 2: for really the New York City vibe. I mean, we
- 41:47Speaker 2: have Steve Cuzo on the radio station I work out
- 41:49Speaker 2: all the time. He's great, so I kind of get
- 41:51Speaker 2: the inside. But I love the inside from you as well.
- 41:53Speaker 1: So let's say.
- 41:55Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. Yes, definitely, Alex. It has
- 41:57Speaker 3: been a pleasure. So gad we connect, all right.
- 42:01Speaker 2: That's Christina Kates former GM. Let me get this right
- 42:04Speaker 2: the palm right, the palm and were you Jima at
- 42:07Speaker 2: the Palm two as well?
- 42:09Speaker 1: No.
- 42:10Speaker 3: I worked for this woman. Her name was Janice. Everyone
- 42:14Speaker 3: called her pick like p I s. She is just
- 42:16Speaker 3: this tall, blonde like tooth pick, right, that's kind of
- 42:20Speaker 3: where her name came from. She worked for the Bossie family,
- 42:24Speaker 3: which is like that one family I was talking about
- 42:26Speaker 3: that was so amazing for a long time. So she
- 42:29Speaker 3: was the queen of tecond Avenue, so I was lucky
- 42:32Speaker 3: to work for her. But she also lived on Second Avenue.
- 42:35Speaker 3: She lived right upstairs from the Palm.
- 42:36Speaker 1: Too amazing.
- 42:37Speaker 2: We see we're all connected in that way, all right,
- 42:40Speaker 2: Christina Kates, thanks for joining the Alex Garrett podcast Network.