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Ep.111 - Cameron Riecker on How the Rosary Transforms Feckless Men into Virtuous Fathers | Catholic Manhood | Daily Thomist | Corda · Virtuous Leaders with Dr. Johann D'Souza

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  The number one problem I'm dealing with, young men, they
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  complain about lust. That's the symptom.
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  But the number one problem that's even deeper than that is
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  men have no idea what they're for or where they're headed.
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  They have absolutely no understanding of what a human
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  person is and what a human person is for.
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  Even the men who are Catholic and attending church regularly.
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  This is Virtuous Leaders, the podcast for based Catholics who
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  will speak truth. Do.
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  Good or die trying, here's the show.
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  Did you have a successful YouTube channel where you form
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  virtuous husbands and fathers? But what do you do to foster
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  that mission on the channel? Yeah, a lot of it is helping
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  young men to recognize their potential.
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  One of the things I like to talk about a lot is the devotion of
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  the rosary. And most men don't understand
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  the spiritual element of what's going on and they don't
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  understand how much power that God has placed into their hands
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  when it comes to doing good and doing evil.
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  So I think a lot of of what I'm trying to do is just open young
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  men's eyes to this idea that their lives matter, their lives
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  have purpose, their lives have a set end.
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  And there are steps that we can take to accomplish that.
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  Because the number one problem I'm dealing with, with young
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  men, they complain about lust. That's the symptom.
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  But the number one problem that's even deeper than that is
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  men have no idea what they're for or where they're headed.
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  They have absolutely no understanding of what a human
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  person is and what a human person is for.
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  Even the men who are Catholic and attending church regularly,
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  it's a pandemic in and out of the church.
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  So the first thing is just opening up men's eyes to the
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  purpose, the dignity that God has given them, the power that
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  God has given them. He's made them to be warriors,
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  to be soldiers in His Kingdom, not to be passive, not to be
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  afraid, not to be fickle or feckless, but to be grown men in
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  the Kingdom of God. So the first thing is just
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  identifying that purpose. Once you do that, and once you
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  understand your purpose as a human being and as a man
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  particularly, then all the other aspects of your life start to
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  fall into place, right? And the way that you kind of
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  have your eyes opened most efficaciously, I think, is
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  through the recitation of the Holy Rosary.
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  Nobody who turns to Our Lady ever falls away from the faith.
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  Nobody who turns to Our Lady ever comes away without help,
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  without guidance, or without direction.
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  So that's kind of the main focus of what I'm doing on my channel.
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  That manifests in different ways.
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  Some apologetics, because you got to know stuff.
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  You can't be a man of faith if you don't know the faith.
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  Some practical stuff, some devotional stuff, but it's all
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  aimed at helping young men to realize their purpose and their
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  power in this life, in the next. What's the number one way to do?
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  The number one way of that, I think the rosary is the most
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  powerful way, right? And I've talked about this in
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  several of my videos, But through recitation of the
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  rosary, Sister Lucia, one of the visionaries of Fatima, she said
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  that no problem on earth cannot be solved by the recitation of
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  the rosary. And that's been true my own
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  experience, and that's been true for many of the men who I've
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  recommended the rosary to as well.
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  The rosary is Saint Padre Pio says, the weapon for our times.
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  They passed, I don't know, 2025 popes have all made a point to
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  recommend the rosary in their encyclicals.
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  The rosary is the most indulgent prayer of all time.
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  Now, obviously there's a lot of natural self help tips that
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  people can use. They're very helpful.
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  There's a lot of hacks, tricks that people can use.
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  They're very helpful. But fundamentally, if you're not
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  fixing the core issue, which is your relationship with God the
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  Father, your understanding of God the Father and the church in
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  Mary is your mother. If you're not fixing that and
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  ameliorating that issue, then all the hacks, the self help
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  stuff, it just falls flat. So through the recitation of the
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  rosary and now in these times, but since the 16th century, I
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  would say we're living in a time where the rosary has been given
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  a special amount of efficacy. So that's the fundamental thing.
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  If people get nothing else out of my channel, nothing else out
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  of this video, nothing else out of any of the work that I do, I
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  want people to know that no matter what your problem is, it
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  is not so difficult that it cannot be solved by the faith or
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  recitation of the rosary. And also, the rosary is not a
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  magic trick. If you're praying the rosary
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  daily, then Our Lady is going to start to put the right things in
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  your life at the right time, direct you where she wants you
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  to go, direct even your heart and your desires.
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  So somebody starts praying the rosary daily, they're going to
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  want to go to daily Mass, go to confession more frequently.
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  They're going to want to pray and be kind.
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  They're going to notice that their heart is changing and that
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  these opportunities are going to open themselves up for them to
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  find the right community for them to find the right person to
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  marry, etcetera, etcetera. So the rosary is the most
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  powerful weapon that we have. And that is, that's what I want
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  to spend my life doing, is spreading devotion to the
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  rosary, especially among young men, because I've seen it work
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  in my own life and in the lives of everyone I've recommended it
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  to. So let's say you have some
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  feckless guy listening to this. Let's call him Joe Feckenburg.
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  He's definitely taking notes right now.
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  And what does Mr. Riker have to say about, OK, pray the rosary.
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  All right, so he's been praying the rosary now.
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  Now what's Step 2 for Mr. Beckenburg?
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  The rosary is a process, right? Praying the rosary is the first
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  thing, and what you'll notice after that is you start to see
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  the world differently. Saint Thomas Aquinas defines
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  wisdom more or less as being able to see things from a divine
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  perspective, being able to see things through the eyes of God.
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  That's what wisdom is in the theological sense.
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  And so whenever somebody's praying the rosary daily, their
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  entire perspective on the universe is going to start to
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  change. And ordinarily, whenever people
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  make decisions, they're weighing pros and cons, and they'll say
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  this is a good part, this is a bad part.
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  And then they'll make the decision based on what seems
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  best to them at the time. If somebody's praying the rosary
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  faithfully. And well, I'll add that the
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  rosary is not a magic spell. You just say the words.
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  That's not what a prayer is, right?
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  You have to pray the rosary, not just say the rosary, in order
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  for it to be fully efficacious. But you'll notice that your
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  perspective starts to change and a lot of things just iron
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  themselves out naturally. But you'll know what the next
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  step is because Our Lady is going to show you exactly where
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  your principal fault is and how to overcome it, right?
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  Not to be like over spiritual here, but just take me at my
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  word. And if you don't believe me, I
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  have dozens of testimonials of people who I've recommended this
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  to and they start to solve their problems.
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  Our Lady is going to show you what your problem is because
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  honestly, most people don't even know what their principal fault
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  is. Most people don't even know what
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  their weak point is. And Our Lady will reveal that to
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  them. And then once you know what that
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  is, you can figure out what the next step is.
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  But until you know what your principal fault is and you know
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  the state of your own soul to a certain degree, I don't know
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  what the next step is. It's different for everybody to
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  a certain extent. How'd you grow your channel so
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  successfully? Was it just through praying the
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  rosary or was there someone something else they did as well?
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  So whenever I started my YouTube channel, I started it with the
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  goal of using my channel to support my family.
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  So I was working as a teacher prior to doing the YouTube
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  thing, and my wife and I always wanted to have a big family.
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  We had one kid, one on the way. And living in Phoenix, houses
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  are expensive. Everything's expensive.
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  Teacher salary just wasn't what I wanted for my family.
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  I want to be able to provide for my family in a better way.
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  We didn't have to live paycheck to paycheck.
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  So I went into YouTube anticipating that I was going to
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  use it to make money. Somehow.
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  I didn't know how. I actually decided to quit my
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  job at the school that I was working at on Saint Joseph's Day
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  and I had 89 subscribers on my YouTube channel at that time.
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  Yeah, you have a lot of sick. Yeah, something like that.
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  But I just decided that this was what was going to be best for my
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  family through praying the rosary, through a lot of prayer
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  to Saint Joseph, and I took the plunge.
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  So the first few months after, obviously, I stayed at the
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  school till the school year ended.
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  But after that, we weren't making any money for a few
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  months and it was pretty rough. We were not exactly sure where
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  the next mortgage payment was going to come from at certain
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  points, but Our Lord and Our Lady kept guiding me along the
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  way and I kept just making videos over and over again.
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  And the thing with social media is that if you make 1000 videos,
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  about 10% of them are going to do well.
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  That's just the way that it works.
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  Assuming your lighting isn't horrible, your audio isn't
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  horrible, your content isn't horrible, right?
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  Things have to be good enough. But if everything's good enough
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  and you just make 1000 videos, 100 of them are going to pop
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  off. And if a hundred of them do
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  well, then you're set. You've got a YouTube channel
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  that is established and respected.
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  So that was my approach as I just made a ton of videos, and I
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  probably made a ton of bad videos.
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  But GK Chesterton has a quote. He says everything is worth
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  doing. It's worth doing poorly.
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  Why does he say that? Because perfection is often the
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  enemy of progress. So sometimes you have to do
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  something, subjecting yourself to possible ridicule, knowing
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  that it's not a polished and finished and refined product,
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  but you need to put it out there in order to get the reps in.
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  So I did that. I made a ton of videos.
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  I still make a lot of videos and sometimes they do well and
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  sometimes they don't. Through growing the audience,
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  then that's whatever the business opportunities and all
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  these things started to open up for me.
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  What is your current business model and what advice would you
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  give yourself looking back on it?
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  Yeah, I think it would depend on what my goals were.
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  If my goal was to just grow an audience and hit a 50,000
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  subscribers, I would give different advice than if my goal
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  was to make $20,000 a month or to make a business out of it.
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  So it would depend on what my goals were before I would give
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  any advice because you just want to grow an audience.
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  To have an audience, then it's a very different strategy than if
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  you want to grow an audience in order to create a business.
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  OK, gotcha. What is your goal?
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  My goal, My goal is through my channel to like I said, help
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  young men to become virtuous husbands and fathers,
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  specifically through devotion to Our Lady and devotion to the
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  rosary. As far as business goals go, I
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  don't know. I don't really have hard set
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  like I want to be a millionaire by 35 or I, I don't know.
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  I don't care if I money doesn't vote motivate me.
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  If I can make enough money to support my family, if I can make
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  enough money to pay for the things that I need, then I'm
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  pretty happy. So I guess that would be my goal
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  is just sustainability and yeah, being able to help people with
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  my money. But I'm not, I don't have
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  expensive tastes. Food is the exception.
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  We buy like organic food and all that, but.
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  Get free. Other than that, I do not have
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  expensive tastes really. I'm very easily pleased to the
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  point where it might be a fault actually.
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  What you spend on organic food, you save on cancer.
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  So I think it's worth it, even economically.
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  Yeah, said yeah, yeah. Organic food in the gym
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  membership saves you a lot of money in the long run.
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  So in addition to this channel, you also are contributing to the
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  Daily Tow Mist. What inspires you to do?
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  Yeah. So for me, a lot of my
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  intellectual formation and the large part of my conversion is
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  due to Saint Thomas Aquinas. So what the Daily Tomist is,
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  it's a sub stack that I contribute to where we take
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  certain articles from Saint Thomas Aquinas's writing and try
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  to break it down. So it's understandable for just
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  about anybody because the riches of the faith are meant to be for
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  everybody. Perhaps not in the same level of
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  clarity and focus. Some people can view things with
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  a lot more depth than your average Catholic.
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  But even average Catholics need to have an intellectual
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  formation that prevents them from being swept away by the
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  heirs of the world. And so that's what the Daily
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  Tomist is. It's a YEAH sub sect that I
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  contribute to and that indulges my my more intellectual side
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  where I get a chance to interact with Saint Thomas.
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  The reason we got connected was through your friend Joseph, who
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  I understand, and the two of you are working on a mental health
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  startup. I don't know anything about it,
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  but I'm in the mental health field and I wanted to hear what
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  y'all's vision for that is. Yeah.
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  So with Corda, what our plan is to reach as many people as
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  possible who need help and guidance.
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  I personally run a coaching program and I have more people
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  who apply to it than I can possibly care for.
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  There's just a huge supply and demand imbalance.
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  And So what the goal of Korda is, it's to take people like
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  that who wants to develop themselves spiritually, want to
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  grow in virtue, want to grow in leadership, want to become good
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  and virtuous husbands and fathers and plug them into
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  communities where they can do that with a coach as a guide.
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  So this is a really interesting thing that I think is probably
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  the direction that a lot of the mental health care is going to
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  go in the future because the group coaching has been shown to
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  be quite effective, as effective as individual therapy in certain
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  cases. And you're plugged into a
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  community of like minded people. And this is huge, just from my
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  own experience as a coach, I'm working with a lot of guys who
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  are trying to quit lust. That's a major problem that I
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  run into for young guys. And some guy I'll open up and be
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  like, yeah, I struggle with this.
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  I was exposed to stuff when I was 12 years old, and I've just
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  struggled with it ever since. And then basically every other
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  guy in the group is me too, Exact same story.
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  And so there's that accountability that's built in.
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  But even more than that, there's a natural brotherhood and
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  there's a natural, there's a beauty in seeing yourself and
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  other people, seeing your struggles and other people and
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  being given an opportunity to help people that are struggling
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  with your same issues. And so I think that's a really
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  beautiful part of the group coaching that we're trying to
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  start here on Corda. Yeah, that's a little bit of
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  what it is. Taking men, men for now, women
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  in the future maybe, but men for now.
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  And then getting them in touch with people and communities who
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  are going to be able to help them.
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  Because I say it's a lot of my channel, but Our Lady of Fatima,
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  one of the things that she said is that the final battle between
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  the Kingdom of heaven and Satan is over marriage and the family.
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  And if you want to win marriage in the family, you got to win
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  fatherhood. There's absolutely no other way
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  to do it. If fathers are strong, families
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  will be strong, the faith will be strong.
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  And if fathers are weak, everything else falls apart.
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  Absolutely. Said, So where are you all in
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  the in terms of the production timeline of this starter?
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  Yeah. We are hoping to launch our
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  first group here within the next month or so.
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  There's a lot on the back end. There's a massive amount of work
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  that needs to be done, just like with any startup.
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  We're hoping to launch our first group here in the next month.
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  And then I have my own coaching business that will be running
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  through Corda largely, and I'll be doing a couple of those this
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  month, running guys through my program that I've put together
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  and my program specifically for young men who wants to be
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  virtuous husbands and fathers, generally not married yet.
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  Some engaged guys go through it, but most of the guys are single
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  young men, engaged young men who want to have all the pieces that
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  they need, all the knowledge and equipment that they need to be
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  good and virtuous husbands and fathers.
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  Gotcha. So what is your road map for
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  helping them do that? And I understand that the first
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  step is going to be praying the rosary.
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  And what would be the subsequent steps?
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  Yeah. So a lot of the step, I have a
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  10 week program, some of it is simply steps, a lot of it is
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  perspective and focus change. So the first couple weeks of my
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  program are based on giving people a good solid foundation
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  of understanding what God is, what creation is, and
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  understanding how they fit into that.
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  So at the beginning of this, I talked about how a lack of
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  purpose and a lack of vision is what most men are struggling
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  with foundationally. And then a consequence of that
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  is that most men try to fill that void, that lack of purpose
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  and vision with lust filled on the Internet, all that garbage.
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  So the first couple weeks are aimed at helping people to see
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  themselves as they are so that they can make decisions
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  correctly, helping them to see themselves as they are, so they
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  can understand their temptations and overcome them.
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  Right? Yeah, there are certainly some
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  steps, some things that you have to do, praying, the rosary,
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  minimum, things like that. But generally the first couple
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  weeks are oriented towards vision, towards seeing things
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  correctly. One of the spiritual authors, I
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  think it's in the book The Spiritual Combat, but he says in
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  spiritual warfare eyes are more important than weapons, and
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  that's the case. The devil is not very powerful
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  in a certain sense. His hand is mightily restrained
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  by Our Lord and Our Lady, but he is very clever and so if he can
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  blind you, then it's an easy fight.
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  But if you can see clearly, all you have to do is avoid him, and
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  it's really not that difficult. So the first few weeks all aimed
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  at perspective. Yeah.
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  Yeah. Well, a point.
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  You have really admirable goals here.
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  There is a massive need, as he said, for mental health
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  coaching. What is yours current biggest
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  challenge in executing this vision?
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  In a certain sense, right now is just getting things logistically
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  set up and streamlined so that we can accommodate a lot of
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  people we have. I have hundreds of guys who have
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  filled out my survey who want this kind of help.
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  Now it's just a matter of getting those guys that want
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  help, getting them to recognize that they need the help, and
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  then getting them into the coaching program.
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  So right now it's just logistical setup, right?
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  Emails, behind the scenes, websites, just the logistics,
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  all the stuff that comes with the startup.
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  Yeah, yeah, sure. How successful are you in
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  helping men break out of lust? And my experience is very
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  difficult. And I think I may have found one
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  program I interviewed the founder of on this.
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  It's called the Freedom Group or the Freedom Project or yeah,
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  which, But in general, I just find that people have talked to,
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  they don't have a great track record of actually helping
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  people break out of the diction. Yeah.
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  So whenever you're trying to break lust specifically, a lot
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  of the guys who I work with, I don't know if it would be
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  classified as a full blown addiction.
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  It's more like periodic falls. Some of the guys I work with are
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  a little more extreme and they're really struggling on a
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  daily basis. But the majority of the guys
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  that I work with are occasional falls, go to confession, that
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  kind of thing. And with my program, it does two
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  things. Once it puts an emphasis on the
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  rosary and on certain other devotionals that are really
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  powerful for breaking out of her lust.
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  And what that does ultimately is I don't cure people.
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  I don't fix people. I show people some information
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  that they can apply to themselves to fix themselves.
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  And more importantly than that, I show them how to have a
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  relationship with Our Lady, the source of all purity.
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  And then from there, Our Lady just takes care of it.
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  So my program specifically, one of the things that I think it
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  does really strongly is not just give some people some mental
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  hacks or some temptation device to help them cope whenever
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  things are bad. It does all that's all good and
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  necessary stuff, but what it does ultimately is help people
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  to develop a lifelong relationship with the Blessed
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  Virgin Mary. And once that happens, it's
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  over. That's it.
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  If something belongs to the devil or if someone belongs to
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  Mary, they don't belong to the devil and vice versa.
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  So it has to do a lot with just teaching people to have that
• 19:46
  relationship with Our Lady and showing her how she's
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  instrumental in their daily lives, even if they don't
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  recognize it right away. That's really valuable word man.
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  I'm glad you're doing that. So let's switch over into some
• 19:58
  laser coaching. So I have a YouTube channel too.
• 20:00
  I interview people publishing about 3 episodes a week.
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  What do I need to do to have a greater reach?
• 20:08
  A greater reach on your YouTube channel.
• 20:10
  Yeah. So if you want to increase your
• 20:12
  reach on your YouTube channel, I would once again ask it, is it
• 20:15
  like for business purposes or is it for the sake of just having
• 20:19
  an audience to be able to reach a lot of people because they're
• 20:22
  different strategies, I would say.
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  What do you mean by for business purposes?
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  So for example, if I were going to start a channel tomorrow that
• 20:33
  was specifically designed to help, let's just say I want to
• 20:38
  start a YouTube channel for the coaching program I already have.
• 20:40
  Let's say I want to do that. So I want to start a YouTube
• 20:42
  channel that's specifically designed to help Catholic men to
• 20:45
  break free from lust. That's what my YouTube channel
• 20:48
  does. It's for Catholic men who
• 20:49
  struggle with lust and want to beat it.
• 20:51
  What I would do is create a schedule of if I had time, 3
• 20:56
  videos a week. If I didn't have time, a minimum
• 20:58
  of one video week, and I would create a 7 to 12 minute video
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  once a week to three times a week where I help Catholic men
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  who are struggling with lust to overcome lust with practical
• 21:11
  information. And then at the end of the
• 21:13
  video, I would say, and if you want to chat with me, click on
• 21:15
  the link in the description, fill out my survey, we'll be in
• 21:17
  touch. And then that way if I have 700
• 21:20
  subscribers, I can create a business with 700 subscribers if
• 21:24
  those people want specifically what that Channel offers.
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  I don't have to get 70,000 subscribers. 7000 is more than
• 21:31
  enough to run a successful business if you're laser focused
• 21:35
  in that way. OK, So that's what I would do if
• 21:37
  I was trying to start a business because YouTube Adsense is, it's
• 21:41
  nice. It's not nothing, but unless
• 21:43
  you're getting a million views, 2 million views, three, you got
• 21:46
  to get a lot of views in order for it to be something that
• 21:48
  supports your family. If I were just trying to grow an
• 21:51
  audience to help people, then I would pick problems that were a
• 21:54
  little more general. I would.
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  So for example, anxiety, I don't know, everybody struggles with
• 22:00
  anxiety. I don't know what the exact
• 22:01
  statistics are, but I would pick something like anxiety
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  specifically and then I would create a problem that's, or I
• 22:08
  would create a YouTube video that's maybe once again, that 15
• 22:12
  minute range. You have to do experiments with
• 22:14
  the length of the video. Some problems people tend to
• 22:18
  click and watch a video that's 30 minutes.
• 22:20
  Some problems people tend to click and watch a video that's 4
• 22:23
  minutes. So you have to play around with
• 22:25
  the length, right? But you create a video that
• 22:27
  solves a problem that everybody has with practical stuff that
• 22:31
  doesn't get too nitty gritty and you simplify things so that
• 22:34
  everybody can understand it. Then you're solving a problem
• 22:37
  for a massive audience and you're not going to have leads,
• 22:41
  so to speak, business contacts out of that video so much.
• 22:45
  But you're going to be able to solve a problem for a lot of
• 22:47
  people. And ultimately that's what makes
• 22:48
  people subscribe to a channel is did you solve my problem or not?
• 22:52
  If you solve my problem, I'll subscribe because I think in the
• 22:55
  future you'll be able to help me solve all the other problems.
• 22:57
  If you didn't solve my problem, well, nice try, but didn't work.
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  So that's what I would say depending on if you want to go
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  broad and just grow your channel or if you want to go laser focus
• 23:06
  and have more of a business mind about it.
• 23:09
  OK. So it sounds like the main
• 23:11
  differences are if you have a specific business offering,
• 23:14
  you're basically orienting every everything towards that call to
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  action versus you can jump around different topics if you
• 23:21
  don't have a specific business offering.
• 23:24
  Yeah, you can jump around to different topics.
• 23:26
  The way the algorithm is working on YouTube, it does a pretty
• 23:30
  good job of putting your videos in front of the people that
• 23:34
  might watch your videos. So I do some apologetics on my
• 23:37
  channel and then I do some stuff that helps young men to overcome
• 23:40
  lust. And so those are two rather
• 23:43
  different audiences. There's a decent amount of
• 23:45
  overlap, but there's two different audiences.
• 23:47
  And YouTube typically does a good job of putting the
• 23:49
  apologetics videos in front of people that like apologetics and
• 23:52
  the other videos in front of the other people.
• 23:54
  So you can do both on the same channel.
• 23:56
  The laser focus does help though if you're just trying to support
• 24:01
  your family off of your YouTube channel or something like that.
• 24:04
  OK, that's a great point. Yeah.
• 24:05
  So I think what I'm missing, I think what I'm doing well so far
• 24:07
  is I have the variety through the Virtuous Leaders podcast, I
• 24:11
  interviewed different people from.
• 24:14
  They have similar views being truth, doing good or dying
• 24:18
  trying, but it's a lot of different ways of approaching
• 24:21
  that. Yeah.
• 24:22
  So I'm thinking what maybe what I need to do is have more
• 24:24
  focused, shorter videos where it's just me explaining how to
• 24:29
  save your team from toxics. Then in my call to action would
• 24:32
  be speaking, because I really enjoy speaking on the topic.
• 24:35
  I do so nationally and that would be a call to action for
• 24:37
  those videos. Yeah, yeah.
• 24:41
  So if you were going to do it, podcasts are great, but until
• 24:45
  you're famous or talking to somebody that's famous, they're
• 24:49
  very difficult to get off the ground.
• 24:51
  You either have to, because think about if you're scrolling
• 24:53
  through YouTube and you see a 4 minute video or somebody's do
• 24:56
  this to get your kids off their screens or something like that.
• 24:59
  I don't know. Well, I might click a 4 minute
• 25:01
  video and watch it and they go, OK, that's a good point.
• 25:04
  He makes sense. And then the next time I see you
• 25:06
  have a 16 minute video, which is like how to get teenagers
• 25:09
  unaddicted to their phone. Oh interesting.
• 25:12
  I would click on that and watch a 16 minute video.
• 25:14
  So it's like whenever I click on a video, the length of the
• 25:16
  video, if I'll click on it or not is determined by how much
• 25:20
  trust you've earned from me. I'm not going to click on an
• 25:22
  hour and a half long video of some guy that I've never seen
• 25:25
  before. I'm just personally I'm not, but
• 25:28
  I might watch a 4 minute video or if I'm scrolling through the
• 25:30
  shorts feed, I might watch a quick short where he explains a
• 25:33
  point really well in 90 seconds. And then next time I see his
• 25:36
  face like, oh OK, this guy. So podcasts are great.
• 25:39
  They do the most problem solving actually, because you have the
• 25:42
  time to flesh out a thought. So they're actually the best at
• 25:45
  problem solving. But in order to get people in
• 25:47
  the door, it's very difficult to get them to watch a 4590 minute
• 25:51
  podcast if they have no idea who they who you are.
• 25:54
  So yeah, that would be what I would say is make a 6 minute
• 25:57
  video, a 12 minute video, an 18 minute video, kind of testing
• 26:00
  what works for you, showing your expertise, showing you know how
• 26:03
  to solve these problems. Provide as much value to them as
• 26:06
  you can in the shortest amount of time possible.
• 26:09
  Give them clear action steps. Teach them exactly what you know
• 26:13
  as best as you can. And then at the end of the
• 26:15
  video, say, and also I do Speaking of this, if you have a
• 26:18
  parent group and you'd like to have me speak there, then click
• 26:21
  on the thing and blah, blah, blah, you can get in contact
• 26:23
  with my guy, whatever you can figure out the call to action.
• 26:26
  But that would be what I would do.
• 26:27
  And then maybe as you get better at that, you grow an audience.
• 26:31
  So you get up to 10/15/20 thousand people start to know
• 26:34
  who you are in the space. Then it's pretty easy to do
• 26:38
  something that's a little bit different, like a podcast or
• 26:41
  reach out to different groups and you'll still get views on
• 26:43
  the video because you've done the work to build your core
• 26:45
  audience. So yeah, that's my thoughts.
• 26:48
  That's the strategy that I have behind it.
• 26:49
  If you just are posting on YouTube to just throw stuff out
• 26:52
  there, it doesn't get traction anymore.
• 26:54
  There's just a ton of competition.
• 26:55
  So you have to go in with a little bit of strategy in order
• 26:58
  for it to work. Is there any danger of being
• 27:02
  repetitive? I'm just saying, let's say
• 27:04
  there's maybe 3 hours of high quality content from doing 3
• 27:08
  episodes a week for I don't know.
• 27:10
  Who knows how long I'm going to run to that three hours.
• 27:12
  Is there any danger of that? There's very little danger of
• 27:16
  being too repetitive, and here's the reason why.
• 27:20
  If you're providing high value information, then it's probably
• 27:25
  going to take somebody listening to a video 3 or 4 times before
• 27:28
  that information really sinks in.
• 27:30
  That's just human nature, right? I used to teach middle school
• 27:34
  and high school, and I think one of the reasons that I was
• 27:36
  successful in communicating my ideas into their brains and
• 27:39
  their minds is because I would figure out ways to emphasize the
• 27:43
  same .3 different ways. And so I would tell a story,
• 27:47
  give an example, and then after that I would lay it out in
• 27:50
  principle. So I'm presenting the same
• 27:51
  information three different ways, but they don't realize
• 27:55
  that I'm repeating myself, right?
• 27:56
  Cuz if you just say it over and over again, they're zoned out.
• 27:59
  But if you say a story, say an analogy, and then go to the
• 28:02
  principles, or you can mix up the order depending on what
• 28:05
  works best for your style, then people are having that
• 28:07
  information actually sink in. Because even intelligent people
• 28:10
  actually aren't that intelligent.
• 28:12
  Most people, even if they're intelligent, they need something
• 28:15
  that if it's deep, if it's profound in any way, they need
• 28:18
  it explained a couple times before it really starts to sink
• 28:20
  into their mind and then hopefully into their hearts so
• 28:23
  that it changes their actions. But if you're no, you really
• 28:27
  don't need to worry too much about being repetitive.
• 28:29
  I have four or five videos about how to beat lust, and I go
• 28:33
  through the same 2 steps to start the video basically every
• 28:36
  time. And then I switch up the thing
• 28:38
  that I use at the end, but I'm repeating myself over and over
• 28:41
  again. And even the word religion,
• 28:43
  right? You go to the etymology of the
• 28:45
  word religion, re legere, right, Which means re again.
• 28:49
  And then legere is Latin for to read.
• 28:52
  So what does religion mean? It means read again.
• 28:54
  Why is the liturgical calendar repetitive?
• 28:57
  It's intentionally repetitive. You're supposed to read it
• 28:59
  again. You're supposed to go through
• 29:00
  the same gospel readings over and over again.
• 29:02
  So it sinks into your head and then into your heart.
• 29:04
  So, yeah, there is a point at which you can be too repetitive,
• 29:07
  but I find that it's much often it's much more likely that
• 29:11
  people on social media have a really great point.
• 29:14
  Like, it's fantastic and it does really well and it reaches a ton
• 29:17
  of people and they're like, OK, I've already said that point.
• 29:20
  I can never say it again. No, make another video, make the
• 29:23
  same point and then build on it. People are going to love it.
• 29:26
  Make another video with the same point, but say it a different
• 29:29
  way with a different analogy. People are going to love it.
• 29:31
  Right. Yeah, repetitive is something
• 29:33
  that you probably can fall into, but I think most people do way
• 29:37
  too little repeating themselves and not way too much because
• 29:40
  generally people need information presented multiple
• 29:43
  times before it has an impact on them.
• 29:45
  It's OK, boyman. Do you think there's any benefit
• 29:48
  to doing it daily? Let's say you're going to batch
• 29:51
  create 20 videos. Do you post it in three times a
• 29:55
  week or just post like all 20 at the same time?
• 29:58
  Yeah, I would space it out because if you post all 20 at
• 30:02
  the same time, then you're posting all twenty of those
• 30:05
  videos without growing your audience at all.
• 30:07
  So for example, for me, a really bad video now, like just doesn't
• 30:12
  work at all. A really bad video, we'll get
• 30:14
  1500 views. Maybe used to be the case where
• 30:17
  1500 views was a good number for me on a video.
• 30:20
  Yeah, I got over 1000. Let's go.
• 30:22
  And so as your audience, every video that you drop, hopefully
• 30:25
  you're gaining subscribers, not losing subscribers, which has to
• 30:27
  be a pretty bad or insensitive video for you to lose
• 30:31
  subscribers. It just really doesn't happen.
• 30:33
  But every video that you drop, hopefully you're gaining a few
• 30:35
  subscribers, and that increases your reach for all the other
• 30:38
  videos down the road. So spacing it out about once
• 30:42
  every two days, three videos a week is a good way to do it.
• 30:45
  But yeah, you got to play around with your audience and see what
• 30:48
  works. And also, it depends on your
• 30:50
  production value. If you have an editor, if you're
• 30:52
  doing the editing yourself, how much time do you have to
• 30:54
  accommodate that to your own situation?
• 30:56
  That was super helpful. Is there anything else you want
• 30:58
  to share on that topic? Yeah, make it the fruit of
• 31:01
  prayer. One of the other things that's
• 31:03
  really important, I think, is consecration of exterior goods
• 31:08
  to the Blessed Virgin Mary. So my entire social media
• 31:11
  endeavor, all my business endeavors are, are, or will be
• 31:15
  consecrated to the Blessed Virgin Mary.
• 31:18
  And consecration is different than entrustment in a lot of
• 31:20
  ways. Consecration is where you
• 31:22
  surrender the rights to make decisions to the Blessed Virgin
• 31:26
  Mary. So entrustments, I'm loaning
• 31:28
  this to you. You can have it for now, but if
• 31:30
  I need it back, better give it back.
• 31:32
  Consecration is different. Consecration is where you
• 31:34
  totally surrender all of your present and future rights over
• 31:39
  whatever the object consecrated is.
• 31:41
  So the best Virgin Mary is in charge of my YouTube channel.
• 31:44
  She can do what she wants with it.
• 31:45
  If she wants to burn it down tomorrow, that's great.
• 31:47
  It's up to her, not me. Best Virgin Mary is in charge of
• 31:50
  all of my business, as ever, is my Instagram, everything that
• 31:53
  I'm doing, my house, my family. She's in charge.
• 31:55
  It's her family more than in this mine in the very real
• 31:57
  sense. And so once you do that and you
• 31:59
  hand that over to the best Virgin Mary, you say you take
• 32:01
  care of it, things just tend to go right.
• 32:05
  She's never outdone in generosity.
• 32:06
  And if you're giving everything you own to her, she's going to
• 32:09
  give you back much more in return.
• 32:10
  So that'd be the other thing. More of a spiritual piece of
• 32:13
  advice here, but consecration of exterior goods to the Blessed
• 32:16
  Virgin Mary is imperative. I think the other thing I would
• 32:19
  add to that is the demons have a certain amount of influence that
• 32:24
  they can exercise over individuals, yes, but also over
• 32:27
  businesses, corporations, governments, states, etcetera.
• 32:30
  And so if you consecrate something to the Blessed Virgin
• 32:32
  Mary, once again, this principle of if it belongs to Mary, it
• 32:35
  doesn't belong to Satan, then you're protecting yourself and
• 32:38
  guiding yourself from a lot of influence that you may not want
• 32:40
  down the road. So that'd be another thing is
• 32:42
  the consecration of exterior goods is imperative, I think,
• 32:45
  when it comes to business dealings.
• 32:47
  Wow. God bless you man.
• 32:49
  How can people follow you, Cameron?
• 32:52
  Yeah, if people want to follow me, YouTube, Instagram, it's
• 32:55
  just Cameron Riker on YouTube, Cameron under score, Riker on
• 32:58
  Instagram, and Riker on X So yeah, you're smart.
• 33:02
  People. If you want to find me, I'm sure
• 33:04
  you can. But if anybody wants to check
• 33:06
  out my channel, God bless you. I hope it blesses you.
• 33:09
  Thanks for listening. Please like, subscribe and share
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  with your friends. See you next time.