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Unkown Author - "There is a difference between a life that is full and a life that is crowded. Knowing the difference is a form of wisdom." · the Daily Quote - Positive Daily Inspiration and Motivational Quote of the Day

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  Dot com Welcome to that daily quote, the podcast designed to
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  kick start your day in a positive way.
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  I'm your host, Andrew McGivern, and this episode is brought to
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  you by the Great News Podcast because good news should be
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  heard. Listen, we're all fine.
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  Podcasts are found. And for your convenience, the
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  link is in the show notes. Today's quote comes from an
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  unknown author. It captures something that
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  Oliver Berkman, journalist and author of the best selling book,
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  4000 weeks, Time Management for Mortals.
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  He spent an entire book trying to help people understand this.
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  The quote is this. There is a difference between a
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  life that is full and a life that is crowded.
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  Knowing the difference is a form of wisdom, Those two words full
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  and crowded. In a way, they sound identical,
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  and yet they describe completely opposite experiences of being
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  alive. A crowded life is packed with
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  obligations, commitments, notifications to do, lists that
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  never shrink in boxes that never empty, and the relentless sense
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  that you're always behind. It's busy in the way that a
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  traffic jam is busy. There is some movement, but very
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  little progress, and an undercurrent of low grade
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  exhaustion and anxiety that never quite goes away.
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  A full life, on the other hand, is something else entirely.
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  It's rich with meaning, connection, depth, and the quiet
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  satisfaction of spending your time on things that actually
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  matter to you. It may contain fewer things than
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  a crowded life, but everything in it has weight and purpose.
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  Berkman's central argument is that productivity is a trap.
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  Becoming more efficient just makes you more rushed, and
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  trying to clear the deck simply makes them fill up again faster.
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  The day will never arrive when you finally have everything
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  under control, even if you have the best notion template.
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  Believe me, I tried that. That's the crowded life in a
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  single paragraph, and most of us are living it, convinced that if
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  we could just get on top of things, fullness would follow.
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  But Berkman shows us that it never does, because the harder
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  you struggle to fit everything in, the more of your time you
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  end up spending on the least meaningful things.
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  The shift from crowded to full requires something most
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  productivity advice never mentions the willingness to say
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  no, to accept that every decision to use a portion of
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  time on anything represents the sacrifice of all the other ways
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  you could have spent that time. In economics, this is called
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  opportunity cost, and when you understand that opportunity cost
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  is a real cost, you can more easily decide without
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  reservation on what matters most to you.
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  The full life isn't one with more in it, it's one with the
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  right things in it. I can tell you from experience
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  that crowded doesn't feel full. It feels frantic.
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  That busyness is real, but so is the emptiness underneath it.
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  Berkman asks the question in his book 4000 Weeks.
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  What would it mean to spend the only time I ever get in a way
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  that truly feels like it counts? That question has a way of
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  sorting things out very quickly between what's filling your life
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  and what's crowding it. So here's the question.
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  Is your life full right now, or is it crowded?
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  Because knowing the difference, as the quote says, is a form of
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  wisdom, and acting on the difference and choosing depth
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  over volume, meaning over busyness.
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  If you write things over the many available ones, that's
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  where a full life actually gets built.
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  Not by adding more, but by finally being willing to leave
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  some things out. That's it for today.
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  I'm Henry Gibborn, signing off for now, but I'll be back
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  tomorrow. Same pod time, same pod station
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  with another daily quote.