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Johnjay & Rich Present: Second Date Update · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 1: get and that's what the bit is called Second Date Update.
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  Speaker 1: Starts right now on John Jay and Ridge, John Day
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  Speaker 1: Rich Time for second Ate Update. You meet somebody, got
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  Speaker 1: a date, you have a great time, you expected any
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  Speaker 1: second date doesn't happen, so you come to us. That's
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  Speaker 1: what Tyler's doing.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, Tyler, Hey, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: What's your story? Tell us about this date? How you met?
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  Speaker 3: Who the person is? All that jazz.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so so I met this girl Emma about two
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  Speaker 4: weeks ago through the dating apps, and yeah, I feel
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  Speaker 4: like I'm going crazy because it was honestly one of
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  Speaker 4: the first, the best first dates I went.
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  Speaker 5: On in a long time. You know, like everything was
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  Speaker 5: just connecting. We're laughing, we're joking.
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  Speaker 2: We had planned to.
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  Speaker 5: Get out, go get food, but we ended up just
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  Speaker 5: staying out a lot longer than we initially planned it,
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  Speaker 5: going on a walk afterwards. And then after that, this
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  Speaker 5: is what gets me. We texted every day non stop
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  Speaker 5: for like a week straight, you know, kind of the
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  Speaker 5: good morning text, random memes, just funny jokes, little late
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  Speaker 5: night conversations, you know, we were doing the whole thing,
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  Speaker 5: and we kept talking about future plans and stuff until
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  Speaker 5: kind of felt like all the nowhere, she just kind
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  Speaker 5: of stopped responding all of a sudden, And I don't
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  Speaker 5: know why. I don't know if I send something. I've
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  Speaker 5: been going over my text just non stop to see
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  Speaker 5: if it was something I said.
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  Speaker 2: I can't.
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  Speaker 5: I can't think of anything. So maybe it's another person's
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  Speaker 5: back into her life or I have no idea really,
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  Speaker 5: so I'm hoping you guys can help me out.
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  Speaker 6: Well, what was the last text before she stopped responding
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  Speaker 6: that you had, you know, an opinion or a joke
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  Speaker 6: or something. What did it say?
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  Speaker 5: Oh, the last one was just it was a funny.
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  Speaker 2: It was a cute little dog.
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  Speaker 5: I sent a little little gift.
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  Speaker 2: Very offensive.
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  Speaker 5: We have been sending stuff like that back and forth
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  Speaker 5: for a little bit, so I felt like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: it wasn't it was on par with everything we were doing.
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  Speaker 2: It didn't it didn't?
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  Speaker 6: You know?
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  Speaker 7: I feel I would be confused too, because there wasn't
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  Speaker 7: really anything there to me that stands out as like
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  Speaker 7: that has to be it.
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  Speaker 5: Well, yeah, no, I like, I believe me, I've gone
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  Speaker 5: over a million times in my head like what did
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  Speaker 5: I do?
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 2: What could I have said? And it's just I can't
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  Speaker 2: find anything. So, you know, it's weird when this happens.
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  Speaker 3: I think in the in the non dating world, you know,
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  Speaker 3: when you text someone and they don't get back to you.
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  Speaker 3: I can't imagine what it'd be like in the dating world,
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  Speaker 3: like worse right, just because now it.
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  Speaker 2: Right right right, Like I was telling you guys, I've texted.
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  Speaker 3: I kind of told you guys, I've texted somebody a
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  Speaker 3: couple of weeks ago and they haven't responded to my
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  Speaker 3: text yet. And I was asking for something and they
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  Speaker 3: haven't responded, and I'm like, I know they're busy, like,
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  Speaker 3: but did.
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  Speaker 2: They see my text?
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  Speaker 3: And I respond it still says delivered on it, right,
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  Speaker 3: So that means they could not have seen it, right, yeah, right.
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  Speaker 6: It could have been pushed down to the bottom of
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  Speaker 6: their and they just have a notice.
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  Speaker 3: So I kind of want to bring it back up again,
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  Speaker 3: but they also don't want to be annoying, But at
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  Speaker 3: the same time, I also think I should be. It's
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  Speaker 3: kind of weird, but I can't imagine if someone was dating,
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  Speaker 3: is it like hey, or you do a question mark,
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  Speaker 3: put a little Google eyes.
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  Speaker 7: I do that, like if somebody doesn't respond back, I
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  Speaker 7: just sent the question mark yeah thing on the iPhone.
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  Speaker 6: Maybe she's got a new phone and she just hasn't
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  Speaker 6: had her text populate yet, so she may maybe thinks
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  Speaker 6: that you're not texting her.
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  Speaker 3: What if you text her right now while we're on
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  Speaker 3: hold and just said I love you.
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  Speaker 5: About that one.
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  Speaker 3: All right, we'll get her on the phone. We'll get
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  Speaker 3: Emma on the phone. We're gonna find out why she's
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  Speaker 3: pulling you off. Okay, so Hank type. Second date update continues.
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  Speaker 3: Next Jah Jaye Rich we are in the middle of
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  Speaker 3: second ate update.
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  Speaker 2: This is about Tyler and Emma.
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  Speaker 6: Well, Tyler and Emma had what Tyler calls the best
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  Speaker 6: first date in a long time. He said, everything clicked.
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  Speaker 6: They even stayed out later than planned, They went on
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  Speaker 6: a walk. They'd been texting every day, late night, texts,
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  Speaker 6: little jokes, and then he sent her the dog Jeff
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  Speaker 6: or Kiff, however you wish to pronounce it. That sent
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  Speaker 6: Emma into the void. She stopped texting Tyler, and now
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  Speaker 6: he feels all alone in this big, crazy world and
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  Speaker 6: wants to know what went down.
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  Speaker 2: All right, good recap, Kyle. You ready to call her?
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  Speaker 5: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Thank you?
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  Speaker 5: Are you?
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  Speaker 3: Stay Quiethere you go on the phone find out what
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  Speaker 3: went wrong in her eyes?
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  Speaker 7: Hello?
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  Speaker 5: Hi?
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  Speaker 7: Is this Emma? Yes, hi, Emma.
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  Speaker 2: My name is Peyton.
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  Speaker 6: I'm with John Jaye Rich and we just wanted to
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  Speaker 6: talk to you about a few things on the radio.
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  Speaker 7: If you're free this morning. I have a fume. Okay,
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  Speaker 7: what's going on?
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  Speaker 3: Well, we got a call from a guy on a
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  Speaker 3: radio show that was telling us about a date he
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  Speaker 3: went on with.
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  Speaker 2: He said, it's one of the best dates I've ever
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  Speaker 2: been on.
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  Speaker 3: He thought the chemistry was great, and now she's kind
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  Speaker 3: of ghosted him and he doesn't know why. So we're
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  Speaker 3: going around the room giving him, well, maybe this happened,
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  Speaker 3: maybe this happened, and he's like no, So we said,
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  Speaker 3: can we call her? So long story short, Emma, you
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  Speaker 3: are the girl?
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  Speaker 2: Tyler is? Yeah, Tyler is the guy. He said, you
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  Speaker 2: guys had a fantastic date.
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  Speaker 7: Oh my god, really, oh god, seriously, this is so crazy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, tell us, is there a reason you're blowing
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  Speaker 2: him up?
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  Speaker 5: Well?
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  Speaker 7: I would really love everyone to understand that I did
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  Speaker 7: like him at first. I really did.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, he.
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  Speaker 7: Was funny and cute and like super easy to talk to,
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  Speaker 7: just like I really liked him. We talked NonStop for
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  Speaker 7: a week after we went out. I was super excited
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  Speaker 7: about him at first.
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  Speaker 2: So what did he do? Was it on the date
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  Speaker 2: or well, like, was it after?
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  Speaker 7: Because I'm like in my head, I'm like, why would
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  Speaker 7: you continue to text him for a week after? No,
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  Speaker 7: it was not on the date. It was like stuff
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  Speaker 7: got weird like after the date because I'm like a
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  Speaker 7: bartender and you know, so obviously people are inside my
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  Speaker 7: job all the time, and that's so that's not weird.
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  Speaker 7: But like this man randomly shows up with two of
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  Speaker 7: his buddies and they're just like dressed up like they're
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  Speaker 7: undercover or something like undercover cops, like with their you know,
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  Speaker 7: hoodies up and sunglasses on and at night inside and
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  Speaker 7: they're like sitting all the way in the corner staring
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  Speaker 7: at me like every five seconds. I'm like, bro, I'm
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  Speaker 7: I think I'm not going to recognize you. It was
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  Speaker 7: just so weird, and he just never even came up
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  Speaker 7: to say hi to me. I was just like, what
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  Speaker 7: are you even doing if you want to see me?
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  Speaker 7: That's so fine. But I just feel like you're doing
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  Speaker 7: like this surveillance operation at my place of work, and
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  Speaker 7: I don't know. It's just awkward and I just it's
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  Speaker 7: kind of like made me start looking at him differently
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  Speaker 7: after that.
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  Speaker 5: Oh my god, I saw embarrassed and sorry for that.
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  Speaker 7: Why did you do that, Tyler?
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  Speaker 6: Hey?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, sorry I I I didn't know that you saw us.
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  Speaker 5: I thought we were being chill and you're on the phone. Yeah, no, okay,
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  Speaker 5: I know. I'm sorry. This looks bad. And I was like,
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  Speaker 5: I just freaked out because I cared about you. I
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  Speaker 5: just wanted to I just want to see you, make
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  Speaker 5: sure you know.
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  Speaker 7: I don't even know.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know. I just I feel like I do
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  Speaker 5: crazy stuff when I when I start falling for somebody.
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  Speaker 1: It's like the thing that like if you would have
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  Speaker 1: just went in and said hi and be like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I was around town, like thought I would pop in.
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  Speaker 1: But the fact that like you didn't say hell, try
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  Speaker 1: to be in discussion like so.
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  Speaker 7: Weird, Like literally like what the hell?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I think I'm gonna made the red call there.
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  Speaker 2: I would have said, hi, Hello, what are you doing?
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  Speaker 5: This is weird, right, it is weird. It's weird. I
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  Speaker 5: don't know. I don't know why. You just you stopped
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  Speaker 5: answering my text out of nowhere, and it just kind
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  Speaker 5: of sent me in my head and like I'm like,
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  Speaker 5: what you know, Oh my god?
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  Speaker 7: Insane? Okay, with the like the hoodies and the sunglasses
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  Speaker 7: in the bar at night, Like, did you think I
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  Speaker 7: wasn't gonna see you?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's fair, that's fair, that makes sense, I think.
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  Speaker 5: I in my head, I was like, oh, well, be
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  Speaker 5: really discreet, we'll just go in, we'll see you know.
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  Speaker 5: I just I just wanted to see you. To be honest,
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  Speaker 5: I am You're right. I should have just said hello.
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  Speaker 2: You make really bad choices. I think it's cute. I like,
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  Speaker 2: I get it.
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  Speaker 7: But like where I'm like, okay, I get where I
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  Speaker 7: was coming from is the fact that he didn't say hi,
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  Speaker 7: because like, what are you plotting on me for?
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  Speaker 2: What are you trying to see right now?
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  Speaker 5: No, it was not it was not malicious. It was
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  Speaker 5: I am sorry about that, And I like, again, I
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  Speaker 5: just wanted to make sure that everything was okay, that
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  Speaker 5: you didn't you know, something did happened with us and
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  Speaker 5: I blew it. But and I'm sorry and I don't know. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 6: So the reason you didn't text him back is because
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  Speaker 6: of the outfit, Like before that, he just wasn't waiting
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  Speaker 6: long long enough for a return text.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, he just like must I guess he freaked out
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  Speaker 7: or something because like that, it wasn't that long and just.
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  Speaker 3: That was weird.
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  Speaker 7: You guys were just like crazy, It's a red flag teenager, Like,
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  Speaker 7: I don't know, nothing weird.
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm I promised not to do anything like that again.
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  Speaker 5: I just need to be better about being up front,
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  Speaker 5: you know, and uh, coming to you directly obviously. And
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  Speaker 5: it's been a couple of times now it seems like, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: That wasn't like I could see it. Like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: you're sitting you go on this date. You he thinks
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  Speaker 3: she's amazing, the date is great. He's talking to his
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  Speaker 3: two buddies like I'm trying to put myself in his mindset,
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  Speaker 3: and you're sitting at their apartment and you're saying, this
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  Speaker 3: girl is amazing, she's fantastic, she's so beautiful, she's funny,
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  Speaker 3: she's great.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, what should do for them? She's a bartender. Let's
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  Speaker 2: go visitor.
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  Speaker 3: No way, man, no way, come on, let's go viit
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  Speaker 3: in her buddy. The buddies start talking him into it.
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  Speaker 3: Come on, come on, no, I let's just go. And
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  Speaker 3: they're fun guys. And they go and they put on
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  Speaker 3: they look stupid, and then she just sees them and
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  Speaker 3: so I could see her point of view. But now
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  Speaker 3: that I know what he's saying and that what she
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  Speaker 3: thinks about him, I can see it. It's just stupid
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  Speaker 3: and funny at the same time.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's very accurate.
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  Speaker 3: That's how okay, See I can see I have friends
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  Speaker 3: like I mean, it's it comes from a good place
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  Speaker 3: in my opinion.
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  Speaker 7: Once I realized it was you, I was like trying
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  Speaker 7: not to laugh.
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  Speaker 2: It was I wish I wish I had come up.
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  Speaker 7: I wish I had said something.
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  Speaker 2: She starts when she laughs. He's good people. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 2: do you guys? Would you guys go out again? Okay?
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  Speaker 7: If you, if you, I you know, if oh my god,
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  Speaker 7: if you would have just come up and said I
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  Speaker 7: like a normal person, I would have didn't find with that.
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  Speaker 7: But whatever, Yeah, I'm still into you. I would totally
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  Speaker 7: hang out.
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  Speaker 4: Oh there we go, Oh my god, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Get off the phone and.
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  Speaker 7: Text Her'll be weird.
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  Speaker 2: Don't be weird.
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  Speaker 3: Try to be normal. You could be weird the rest
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  Speaker 3: of their life. All right, thank you guys for calling in,
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  Speaker 3: Thanks for jumping, Thank you so much. Okay, what a
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  Speaker 3: fun second date update. Hold on the line that second
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