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When you realized a marriage wouldn't last while attending the wedding · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: A couple of text messages.
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  Speaker 2: This is this is baffling me right now. But somebody
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  Speaker 2: checked me on something I said on the air and
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  Speaker 2: they're right. And I don't know why I thought this.
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  Speaker 2: It's driving me crazy, but it says yesterday I was
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  Speaker 2: talking about bam Abideo who hit eighty three points right,
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  Speaker 2: and I said he was with the Phoenix Suns. And
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  Speaker 2: this person's like John J. If you're going to say
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  Speaker 2: something with such confidence, make sure it's true. Bamambadeo never
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  Speaker 2: played for the Suns. He's always been on the heat
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  Speaker 2: since he was drafted. Peyton was right to question you
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  Speaker 2: yesterday morning. That is all love up. I swear. I
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  Speaker 2: wonder what I'm thinking of. Who I'm thinking of? Bam
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  Speaker 2: from Jackass, Bamajera, No, not bull Bull unless there was somebody.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, those are three letter names with the but no.
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  Speaker 2: I just remember, like seeing the name in the back
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  Speaker 2: of the jersey, like that's what I'm you know, sitting there.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe you should pay attention when you go to the
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  Speaker 4: games and.
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  Speaker 1: I can't.
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  Speaker 2: I don't remember it is there must be somebody else
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  Speaker 2: I'm thinking of. Weird, Uh yeah, I know, and it
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  Speaker 2: was like in the last couple of years. Here's another text.
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  Speaker 2: This is interesting. We should follow up on this, John
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  Speaker 2: Jay and Rich. I heard my boss talking negatively about
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  Speaker 2: me behind my back two weeks ago, and it's eating
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  Speaker 2: at me. Uh, I'm number two on the sales scorecard
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  Speaker 2: and I'm just flabbergasted.
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  Speaker 1: What would you do, Jan Jan.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh, my feelings would be so hurt.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Dylan, call him up real quick, Dylan, Dylan. You
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  Speaker 2: see that number of Dylan. Oh you call him right now?
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  Speaker 1: Good? Thank we can you try to Oh you're with
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  Speaker 1: the person you just won.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like it would be impossible not to feel
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  Speaker 5: crushed at first.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but then.
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  Speaker 5: Kind of depends, like I'm interested in hearing what exactly
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  Speaker 5: negatively they were saying, right, Like, is it that you
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  Speaker 5: have a negative attitude? And if so, then you need
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  Speaker 5: to check yourself And oh, well that's something I can
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  Speaker 5: easily turn around, right Or is.
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  Speaker 6: It like is it about your work or is it
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  Speaker 6: about like who you are as a person, because yeah,
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  Speaker 6: if you're.
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  Speaker 7: Either one you are as a person, they would have
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  Speaker 7: hurt a little. But if you're crushing it at work
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  Speaker 7: and it's a work thing, that would hurt me more.
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  Speaker 4: Really, Yeah, I want to.
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  Speaker 3: Hear what they said. I want to hear what they said.
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  Speaker 1: Dylan. Do you see that text? You get? The most
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  Speaker 1: recent text?
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  Speaker 2: It's a it's it's the one about her boss talking
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  Speaker 2: behind her back. I can just call her right now.
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  Speaker 8: Nine, let's see Hey John Jay Rich Hey got your text?
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  Speaker 9: I love it.
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  Speaker 10: I was just listening to you guys.
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  Speaker 2: We need details, give us more details, please, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 10: So it was last Friday. We were in a we
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  Speaker 10: had a three o'clock meeting in person, so we're all together.
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  Speaker 10: My boss was like, I had to step out for
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  Speaker 10: a four o'clocks meeting. He steps outside or finishing up
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  Speaker 10: our work inside, and I was about to leave. I'm
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  Speaker 10: walking behind him. He's on a call with his boss,
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  Speaker 10: I'm sure, and he's like, well, if she wants to
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  Speaker 10: act like a child, I'll treat her like a child.
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  Speaker 10: And so I texted him and I said, are you
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  Speaker 10: talking about me? And he said not yet? And I'm like,
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  Speaker 10: I just heard you.
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  Speaker 2: How do you know he's talking about you? How do
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  Speaker 2: you know you're the one this acts like a child.
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  Speaker 2: How do you know that's?
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  Speaker 10: Well, I'm the only woman on the team.
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  Speaker 2: So could he be talking about his daughter, could he
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  Speaker 2: be talking about his wife or a client, anybody, somebody with.
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  Speaker 10: No So when he said, if she wants to act
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  Speaker 10: like a child, I'll treat her like a child. I
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  Speaker 10: when I texted him, I said, are you talking about me?
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  Speaker 10: He said, not yet, and then he goes, but I
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  Speaker 10: want to know where where this is because there was
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  Speaker 10: something I was finishing up. And I go, well, I
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  Speaker 10: just walked behind you. I'm sitting in my car finishing
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  Speaker 10: it and it'll be your inbox in five minutes. And
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  Speaker 10: so he knew.
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  Speaker 4: I knew.
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  Speaker 10: I knew he was talking about me. And yeah, we
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  Speaker 10: both knew.
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  Speaker 11: Do you know what am it?
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  Speaker 4: What he's talking about?
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  Speaker 7: What is he referring to you that you were acting
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  Speaker 7: like a child about it?
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  Speaker 12: Like?
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  Speaker 10: Okay? So each week we have to put together like
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  Speaker 10: a plan for the next week, and I have a
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  Speaker 10: hard time doing that sometimes on Thursday. So that is
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  Speaker 10: supposed to be done on Thursday for the following week,
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  Speaker 10: and I usually do it by Friday, and it gives
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  Speaker 10: him like an anxiety attack because it's not done by Thursday.
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  Speaker 4: Oh so you know the thing he's he's he's picking.
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  Speaker 10: At yeah, because, yeah, the plan for the next week.
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  Speaker 4: So I mean, what did you do it on Thursday?
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  Speaker 2: Then?
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  Speaker 7: So you are acting like a child, So yeah, that's
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  Speaker 7: corrective behavior.
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  Speaker 10: Yes, okay, sure fine, John Jay.
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  Speaker 2: I would you know what I would do. I would
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  Speaker 2: walk by him, make eye contacts to your tongue out and.
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  Speaker 7: God, or overcome the objection and have it turned in
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  Speaker 7: by Wednesday.
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  Speaker 10: No, it's just tough because like you've planned something on Thursday, Monday,
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  Speaker 10: things are different.
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  Speaker 2: They still want to plan. Well, let us know what happens, Haley,
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  Speaker 2: or we can call your boss for you if you want.
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  Speaker 2: You want to call your boss.
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  Speaker 5: So I think your boss is going to be like
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  Speaker 5: a deadline's a deadline and she's not getting in in
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  Speaker 5: on time.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you just offering you the opportunity if you
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  Speaker 2: want us to create your boss.
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  Speaker 1: We could do a whole hash it out for you.
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  Speaker 1: We should.
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  Speaker 11: I love it.
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  Speaker 10: But his wife listens so she'll know that we're talking
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  Speaker 10: and I am. I'm doing so well though, so that
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  Speaker 10: he's kind of like, Okay, I could probably leave you
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  Speaker 10: alone for a couple of weeks. So it's pretty funny.
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  Speaker 2: You let us know if we can help you with anything,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm glad you came to us for that for help.
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  Speaker 1: I love you too, thanks for listening.
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  Speaker 2: Wow Um At the workplace, I was like to get
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  Speaker 2: this really cool thing I saw. I thought it was
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  Speaker 2: kind of funny because we were talking about yesterday Kyle's
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  Speaker 2: car how it was broken down and or the radiator problem,
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  Speaker 2: and I was thinking about I was walking across the
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  Speaker 2: street and a tesla just like yours. One of the
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  Speaker 2: things you always talk about yours, how fast it is,
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  Speaker 2: And I like witnessed it for the first time. Like
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  Speaker 2: I was. There was a car stopped and it took
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  Speaker 2: off and I was like, oh.
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  Speaker 1: My god, yeah, its real quick.
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  Speaker 2: Right, And then I saw this article from the nineteen
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  Speaker 2: fifties predictions of the future of what life would be now.
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  Speaker 2: Of that people in the nineteen fifties, they're like, what's
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  Speaker 2: it going to be like in twenty twenty six, And
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  Speaker 2: so they made all these and all these predictions and
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  Speaker 2: they're kind of kind of true, kind of not true, but.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, they did say that women would tower over men.
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  Speaker 2: That's not women were expected to reach an average height
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  Speaker 2: of six feet tall thanks to improve nutrition and medical science.
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  Speaker 2: I wish and these super women would dominate the workforce,
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  Speaker 2: the Moon would have subdivisions. In the nineteen fifties, thinkers
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  Speaker 2: assumed the Moon would have developed residential neighborhoods and vacation
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  Speaker 2: homes and domes right, which, by the way, Elon Musk
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  Speaker 2: is working on that.
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  Speaker 4: But in Mars, I think, right, there might be stuff
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  Speaker 4: already up there.
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  Speaker 3: Water on Mars. Ain't there, like there's.
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  Speaker 7: Like there's there's evidence of water, but not evidence of
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  Speaker 7: life just yet.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so this next one, they said a hose would
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  Speaker 2: replace house cleaning. One science writer thought there would be
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  Speaker 2: a future where cleaning involved hoses and hot air instead
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  Speaker 2: of brooms, and houses that were waterproof, synthetic, and entirely washable.
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  Speaker 4: That'd be cool.
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  Speaker 2: There's cars like that. Jet Packs were supposed to be everywhere, Yes.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, why don't we have I I was excited
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  Speaker 5: about that.
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  Speaker 2: Scary some people thought back in the fifties, and designers
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  Speaker 2: and sign just thought the jet packs would be as
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  Speaker 2: ordinary as bicycles, not just sci fi gimmicks.
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  Speaker 4: Well that's been cool, Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Take your jet pack to work like I saw today.
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  Speaker 2: This is to sound kind of stupid, but we're also
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  Speaker 2: talking about this yesterday too.
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  Speaker 1: So my car.
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  Speaker 2: I don't really do anything in my car. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know how to operate the tech. But I had this.
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  Speaker 2: I was doing this. I was a guest on the
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  Speaker 2: podcast yesterday and there was some technical difficulties and I
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  Speaker 2: was doing it from a parking lot of a meeting
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  Speaker 2: I had, and that we scrapped the podcast because it
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  Speaker 2: took it was too many difficulties and I had a
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  Speaker 2: half hour to kill in the parking lot. So I
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  Speaker 2: just worked on features in my car for a half hour.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, what did you learn? What do you have
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  Speaker 4: that did that this operating?
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  Speaker 2: Are you familiar with Apple car Plays?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, I am. I now have it.
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  Speaker 7: I've been asking you about that for a long time,
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  Speaker 7: like John Jay's car, Like you do what like hand
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  Speaker 7: gestures and it does things. Yeah, but if you're just
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  Speaker 7: talking with your hands, it might just go rogue.
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  Speaker 2: It might god and turn off the radios or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: So now I have Apple car Play. I never had
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  Speaker 2: it before. So yeah, so I was all welcome to
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  Speaker 2: twenty twelve. You think about all these things for the future,
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  Speaker 2: like nowhere, nowhere. Fifty years ago, they didn't predict that, No,
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  Speaker 2: they did not, Or Google Play they said machines would
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  Speaker 2: give us three day weekends later.
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  Speaker 1: They said that about computers and the internet.
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  Speaker 2: Now AI, the dream may still be alive, Kyle, because
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  Speaker 2: she's all about the three day weekend.
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  Speaker 13: Four day work week.
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  Speaker 2: They said that the United States would also fully be
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  Speaker 2: in the metric system by now.
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  Speaker 7: Nah, only those those roads by Rio Rico righty inches.
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  Speaker 2: We is right to gasoline inches would disappear. What they said,
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  Speaker 2: that's still still.
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  Speaker 3: We're still here.
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  Speaker 2: Those are some predictions. Those are some predictions from the
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  Speaker 2: nineteen fifties. Kyle's daughter ADDIE's in the studio with us
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  Speaker 2: right now because she's spring break.
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  Speaker 1: How's it going so far, Addie?
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  Speaker 3: It's been good.
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  Speaker 4: How old are you eleven?
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  Speaker 14: So?
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  Speaker 1: What does an eleven year old listen to? Like?
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  Speaker 2: What your what songs? Do you know?
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  Speaker 9: I like Alex Warren, I like I like like a
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  Speaker 9: lot of like just like pop basically?
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  Speaker 2: What about TV shows? Are you watching anything on TV?
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  Speaker 9: We were watching F one last night.
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  Speaker 2: The movie. Yeah, it's a good movie. Did you guys
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  Speaker 2: know that that F one racing sport is the most
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  Speaker 2: expensive sport in the world? Oh?
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  Speaker 5: I mean you look at like even the movie he
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  Speaker 5: crashes the one hundred and fifty million dollar car three
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  Speaker 5: or four different times.
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  Speaker 9: I would have myself to sleep the rest of the week.
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  Speaker 3: The rest of my life.
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  Speaker 5: It's like when we first saw that movie, it was
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  Speaker 5: like Lewis Hamilton's in it, and I didn't really think
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  Speaker 5: about it. But now that he's dating Kim Kardashian, that's
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  Speaker 5: all I can think about.
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  Speaker 6: When he's on the screen and it's only for like
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  Speaker 6: a second, you kind of got to really be paying attention.
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  Speaker 5: But also he's a producer of it, yeah, which is
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  Speaker 5: pretty wild.
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  Speaker 2: So also if I'm I may be wrong here too,
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  Speaker 2: like I was about bam Man Genera or whatever Abideo.
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  Speaker 2: But wasn't he also in Dance with the Stars, Ess Hamilton?
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  Speaker 10: Was he?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I remember Kim Kardashian was in Danceing with
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  Speaker 2: the Stars. He was in Dancing with the Stars. I
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  Speaker 2: think he won his But I feel like I'm getting
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  Speaker 2: in confused with somebody else. But I'm not sure he's
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  Speaker 2: like the F one guy.
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  Speaker 5: No, he was According to Google, No, seven times F
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  Speaker 5: one world champion. Lewis Hamilton has never been a contestant
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  Speaker 5: on Dancing with the Stars. There is somebody ex girlfriend
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  Speaker 5: Nicole Shre singer and now Kim Kardashian was on the show.
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  Speaker 4: He won the whole I'm dating her.
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  Speaker 6: I think he was dating Nicole Scher, singer when she
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  Speaker 6: was on Dancing with Stars.
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  Speaker 2: There was there was a famous race car driver on
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  Speaker 2: Dancing with the Stars, and that's why I thought it
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  Speaker 2: was lose Hamilton. But then I think it was wrong.
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  Speaker 2: You can about race car drivers on the days the
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  Speaker 2: star that's one of those made.
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  Speaker 1: That's it. He won.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we got Sons tickets on the line in less
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  Speaker 2: than an hour. And you know, we've been talking about
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  Speaker 2: Peyton's wedding for a few months now, and now if
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  Speaker 2: you didn't know, like she's probably gonna get married this weekend, right,
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  Speaker 2: But there is something we're going to get into. It's
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  Speaker 2: not because of Peyton's wedding, but it's just because she
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  Speaker 2: is getting married.
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  Speaker 4: It is adjacent.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we want to know the moment you were at
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  Speaker 2: a wedding and you knew it wasn't gonna last okay
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  Speaker 2: eight seven seven, nine three seven one o four seven. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: my friend's gonna be in a pop up wedding for
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  Speaker 2: a movie. And no, not that you're at a wedding
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  Speaker 2: and you knew it wasn't gonna last eight seven, seven,
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  Speaker 2: nine three seven one O four seven. We'll get to
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  Speaker 2: that next John, Jay and.
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  Speaker 4: Rich Hey, wake up, wake.
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  Speaker 3: Jane, rich wake you last.
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  Speaker 2: Have you witnessed a wedding moment that screamed they are
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  Speaker 2: not gonna last?
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  Speaker 1: Eight seven, seven, nine three seven one O four seven.
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  Speaker 2: Ariel, what happened?
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  Speaker 1: What's your moment?
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  Speaker 15: So this was actually my own moment. It was my wedding,
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  Speaker 15: and I never thought i'd get married. But you know,
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  Speaker 15: you think you find the right person. He's with them
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  Speaker 15: for five years. We're at the wedding, you know, we
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  Speaker 15: get married. We get to the part where you need
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  Speaker 15: to sign the marriage certificate and I'm the only person
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  Speaker 15: the penn didn't work. Fors Literally, as I was signing,
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  Speaker 15: I started to sign. It wasn't writing, and my husband
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  Speaker 15: looks at his husband now looks at me, and he's like,
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  Speaker 15: you're signing the paper and I'm like, this is universe,
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  Speaker 15: the universe.
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  Speaker 6: Say how long were you married to him before you
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  Speaker 6: got divorced?
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  Speaker 15: We were married for three years together five before that?
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  Speaker 4: But what happened? What made it collapse? Besides the pen?
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  Speaker 15: I mean, it just it ended up with a domestic
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  Speaker 15: kind of situation. Nothing too happy. Yeah, he was like,
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  Speaker 15: it's okay, I survived. I'm doing great and driving now.
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  Speaker 15: I just as soon as I heard you guys talking
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  Speaker 15: about that, I was like, that's crazy, that's my life.
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  Speaker 2: That was me.
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  Speaker 1: I had this list and that was trending online and
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  Speaker 1: this much like yours.
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  Speaker 2: They said the couple had a unity candle and it
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't light exactly, Like that's a sign.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a sign. That's a sign. All right, Thanks Ariel, thanks.
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  Speaker 3: For listening stuff like that.
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  Speaker 2: Rachel, how about you a moment you in this that
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  Speaker 2: a wedding could be yours or wedding you're at. You
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  Speaker 2: knew it wasn't going to happen? Was it going to last?
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  Speaker 15: Oh?
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  Speaker 14: Yes, thank you.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah. I was a destination luxury wedding planner for many
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  Speaker 11: years in the valley, and I witnessed.
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  Speaker 4: Some crazy things.
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  Speaker 11: But I had I was listening in and I heard
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  Speaker 11: this and I had to hop on here because I
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  Speaker 11: had a couple that I had been working with for
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  Speaker 11: about a year and a half. They're based out of
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  Speaker 11: Lake Tahoe. Very very sweet couple. But the bride was
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  Speaker 11: she was really on edge the entire planning process, but
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  Speaker 11: once we got to the wedding day, everything was just
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  Speaker 11: out of control. She was yelling at everybody. She was
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  Speaker 11: yelling at family and friends. And then when we got
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  Speaker 11: to the end of the evening, she had been drinking
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  Speaker 11: a lot, and we pulled her cake out, for her
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  Speaker 11: beautiful cake, exactly what she wanted. She saw the cake
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  Speaker 11: and she started yelling at her newly just wedded husband,
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  Speaker 11: and he was trying to de escalate the situation. She
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  Speaker 11: ended up having to leave to go calm down, and
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  Speaker 11: just the entire thing. I just thought, this is just
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  Speaker 11: so terrible. I feel so bad for this husband who's
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  Speaker 11: been enduring this process the entire time that we had
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  Speaker 11: been planning, and we bring out this beautiful cake and
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  Speaker 11: she just absolutely loses her mind. But they're still really rocky.
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  Speaker 11: I talked to her frequently and things that they're always
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  Speaker 11: poor and it's just a big red flag.
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  Speaker 2: Let me ask you this in your experience being a
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  Speaker 2: wedding planner, because one of the things on his list
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  Speaker 2: says this person goes, I'm a wedding photographer, and I
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: say the intensity that a bride and groom shoved the
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: cake at each other's faces correlates to exactly how long
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: I think they'll last in their wedding.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: So have you witnessed that?
• 15:42
  Speaker 11: Yeah, yes, I have had.
• 15:45
  Speaker 12: I have two divorces.
• 15:47
  Speaker 14: Both of them were very violent with their wedding cake.
• 15:51
  Speaker 11: And that really could.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: When we got My wife and I got married, she said,
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: am I supposed to smash cake and face? She's like, no,
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: you're not, And I said, okay, so I and then
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: she took the cake and lightly put it on my face, lightly,
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: just for the picture, just like that.
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah that's cute.
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, in fact, that is awesome.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: We got I remember, I remember a buddy when I
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: got married, a buddy of mine. I overheard him saying,
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: I give him two years. That is what you said? Yeah, yeah,
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: I guess what. His marriage lasted two years. Thanks Rachel. Brittany,
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: good morning. What was that moment you knew that they
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: weren't gonna last? Or your own wedding? How'd you know?
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: Brittany coffee?
• 16:35
  Speaker 11: Good morning.
• 16:36
  Speaker 6: Hi.
• 16:38
  Speaker 12: So I'm a wedding planner.
• 16:40
  Speaker 14: I'm a day planner, so typically bride and grooms hire.
• 16:43
  Speaker 12: Me for about twelve hours on the wedding day and
• 16:46
  Speaker 12: I don't usually meet the grooms until the day of
• 16:49
  Speaker 12: I predominantly work with the bribes and the day went
• 16:52
  Speaker 12: pretty normal, pretty standard, And when it was time for.
• 16:56
  Speaker 14: The first dance, I went to gather the biden the groom,
• 17:00
  Speaker 14: and the groom refused to do the first dance.
• 17:03
  Speaker 16: Why and you can really he said that he didn't.
• 17:07
  Speaker 12: Want people staring at him.
• 17:08
  Speaker 14: Or looking at him.
• 17:09
  Speaker 12: Well, we just had the ceremony, which was twenty minutes.
• 17:11
  Speaker 16: Though, are people staring at me?
• 17:14
  Speaker 12: He had to big day, everyone's looking at you and
• 17:16
  Speaker 12: your new wife. So he just was really like, I.
• 17:19
  Speaker 14: Don't want anybody looking at me.
• 17:21
  Speaker 12: And I was like okay. And then a few minutes.
• 17:24
  Speaker 14: Later, the bride and her sister, who was a Native honor.
• 17:28
  Speaker 12: You could tell she was upset. She's wringing her hands,
• 17:31
  Speaker 12: her eyes are getting a little welled up with tears.
• 17:33
  Speaker 12: She's like, I just.
• 17:34
  Speaker 14: Really want to do it.
• 17:34
  Speaker 12: I was like, you know, we can do like ninety seconds.
• 17:36
  Speaker 12: We don't have to do the whole song.
• 17:39
  Speaker 16: So she's like, yeah, let's go.
• 17:40
  Speaker 11: Tell him that.
• 17:41
  Speaker 14: So I went to tell the groom that.
• 17:43
  Speaker 16: I was like, you know, we don't have to do
• 17:44
  Speaker 16: the whole song.
• 17:45
  Speaker 15: We can just put it slow.
• 17:46
  Speaker 12: It down and he very friend was like, I'm not
• 17:48
  Speaker 12: doing it.
• 17:49
  Speaker 16: And I was like okay, and you could just really
• 17:52
  Speaker 16: tell the brides was upset.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: Well.
• 17:53
  Speaker 16: About thirty minutes later, a time.
• 17:55
  Speaker 12: Went on about my day. The groom came up to
• 17:57
  Speaker 12: me and he was like, I don't think we need
• 17:59
  Speaker 12: you for the rest of the day, and he dismissed.
• 18:01
  Speaker 14: Me from my services for the last three hours.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Are they Are they still married or not married?
• 18:07
  Speaker 16: I don't know.
• 18:08
  Speaker 12: I don't get a lot of updates for my brides,
• 18:10
  Speaker 12: but now I'm interested in maybe facebook.
• 18:11
  Speaker 14: Socking that wed.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: Let us know, because that's I would say that they're
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: probably not together. Thanks Brittany eight seven seven nineth three
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: seven one four seven The moment during a wedding you
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: knew it wouldn't last More of your calls after kill one.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Have you witnessed a wedding moment that screamed they are
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: not gonna last? Somebody said they entered the reception to
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: November Rain.
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a pretty Is that like?
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Not?
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: Is that a sad song?
• 18:46
  Speaker 7: The grim Grim song in the video is basically like
• 18:50
  Speaker 7: you really don't know what it's about, but it's like
• 18:51
  Speaker 7: a disaster to wedding.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: You know, nothing lasts forever, and we both know hearts
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: can change. Done within a year. The groom mentions something
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: about the bride stinky far and his vows discussed.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the bride.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: The bride or groom complained about some aspect of the
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: wedding at the reception, and then he says, things are
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: going to be different at my next wedding.
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: That is how you last.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: No, they had been joking, even a joke.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: That they had a who knows their partner better game
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: at the wedding and they both failed every question. They
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: argued at the rehearsal dinner. They only lasted a few weeks.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: D What do you got? What was the moment do
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: you knew a wedding? Was it? The marriage wasn't gonna last?
• 19:38
  Speaker 13: Good barning? During the wedding photos, both the groom and
• 19:42
  Speaker 13: the best man had their hands.
• 19:44
  Speaker 15: On my butt?
• 19:46
  Speaker 10: What and I was the maid of honor?
• 19:50
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: They were they being like they just they didn't know
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: or they were purposely putting their hands on your cheek.
• 19:57
  Speaker 13: They were purposely doing it. And the best man's wife
• 20:00
  Speaker 13: was in the front row.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: So did that wedding last? That marriage last?
• 20:06
  Speaker 10: No?
• 20:07
  Speaker 13: It did not, and the groom actually died the night
• 20:10
  Speaker 13: before the divorce was finalized.
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: What happened?
• 20:15
  Speaker 13: He was high and fell and cracked his head open.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
• 20:22
  Speaker 13: It was the perfect ending to a very interesting wedding.
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: And your friend group's got some stories.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, okay.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: So when that happens, then does she follow through the
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: divorce or is she like he died?
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: How does that work?
• 20:38
  Speaker 12: She became the widow, so everything they were fighting over
• 20:41
  Speaker 12: just automatically became hers.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: That's interesting. That's how did she marry?
• 20:45
  Speaker 6: I was like, did they investigate her? Because I feel
• 20:47
  Speaker 6: like that would be like that if I was an officer,
• 20:50
  Speaker 6: I would be like, oh, take my tentacles are tingling.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: I'm sure they did.
• 20:55
  Speaker 13: They tried, but they had been separated long enough that.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: There was no foul play. All right, thank you, d Carrie.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: What about you?
• 21:05
  Speaker 17: Hi? This was my own wedding and I had no
• 21:07
  Speaker 17: business getting married. I was not in love. But we
• 21:10
  Speaker 17: did not have karaoke at my wedding, but they let
• 21:13
  Speaker 17: me sing because I love karaoke even though I'm horrible,
• 21:16
  Speaker 17: and I sang before he cheats by Carrie Underwood. That's
• 21:21
  Speaker 17: how the marriage ended.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: So you sang before he cheats without music, without anything.
• 21:28
  Speaker 17: The DJ did have the music, and I was having
• 21:30
  Speaker 17: a fantastic time. Just a wrong, wrong song choice.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Can you give us a couple of bars? That's I'm
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: just curious how like it took? How's it go?
• 21:40
  Speaker 17: I took a LUI their tad night.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: You guys, and you're the groom's family.
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: What the hell?
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: Maybe your favorite?
• 21:52
  Speaker 7: Anyway, thanks for coming to my wedding.
• 21:57
  Speaker 4: Carrie's doing a Carrie Underwood song.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Yanks carry so some other things on this list. Oh,
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: by the way, we are going to play minute to
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: win it, we need to contest an eight seven seven
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: ninety three seven one four seven year chance at one
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: thousand bucks. But to wrap up this list, when the
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: bride's parents speech included this note about the groom, they said,
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: you know, you weren't who we envisioned for our daughter,
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: but you have children together. The groom got super drunk
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: to the point of passing out.
• 22:27
  Speaker 4: Oh not a good look.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: The bride slept with the best man because the groom
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: had already passed out. The person added the elasted a
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: year and the groom never found out a rus. Yeah,
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: the bride wanted to invite only part of the groom's family.
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: Her family got all the invites. Yeah, a lot of people.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: When you talk about marriages breaking up was it was
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: all about who got invited.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: This is a big one here. These are signs you
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: can tell the marriages are gonna last.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: When they both had a long list of marriages for both,
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: the bride said, this is my fourth marriage and it's
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: his fifth. And it took us a while to find
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: each other, but worth the wait. They lasted six months.
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: Oh that doesn't mean your fifth marriage can't be magic.
• 23:07
  Speaker 4: It can't be. I actually have one.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: For like a year.
• 23:11
  Speaker 18: We were trying to convince my brother, like, hey, you
• 23:13
  Speaker 18: shouldn't get married. Let's let's let's slow down a little bit.
• 23:16
  Speaker 18: He was twenty years old, and right as the reception started,
• 23:20
  Speaker 18: they brought into their big eightier cake and it fell
• 23:24
  Speaker 18: and it made the biggest mess. Everyone We're like, huh oh.
• 23:27
  Speaker 18: And six months later they were divorced.
• 23:30
  Speaker 15: No where.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: Was the red floor. The cake was just as messy
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: as the marriage.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. That's why I'm concerned for you
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: this weekenday.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: Why would you say that? What take take your energy
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: and get it out of here.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: You didn't let me.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: My concern is that I don't want you to treat
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: this wedding this weekend as the real wedding. I wanted
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: you to treat it as a fun publicity stunt, so
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: that the chances of something going wrong because it's in
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: somebody else's hands, that you take it as a negative sign.
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying? Put that out there
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: because we're talking about it.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: Why would you say that?
• 24:06
  Speaker 6: And also, it's gonna be like a legit Vegas ceremony.
• 24:10
  Speaker 6: We all went to a Vegas ceremony, wasn't it absolutely amazing? Yes,
• 24:13
  Speaker 6: January that I got yesterday is that wedding.
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: So I feel like it Just listen to him.
• 24:20
  Speaker 7: They cover everything like there's a little reception and everything.
• 24:23
  Speaker 7: What it covered all?
• 24:24
  Speaker 6: Well, No, that like the ceremony itself, like the flowers
• 24:27
  Speaker 6: walking down the altar, all a photographer, the photographer, videographer,
• 24:32
  Speaker 6: all this time I get to pick out my own bouquet.
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: It's gonna be amazing.
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: You sign a license when you're done, you are reading, So.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: Then when you're done, is it like next and the
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: next people have to use the same flowers, the same
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: everything or its tall?
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Is it a different venue? How do they is it?
• 24:47
  Speaker 6: It's the same venue, but it's about probably twenty minutes between,
• 24:51
  Speaker 6: like when I finished to win the next.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: So it's like the iheard festival the stage spins and
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: this other thing.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: It's Vegas. That's how they do a baby.
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's a Vegas wedding.
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: I need good energy from you, job.
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: I think you're misunderstanding my energy. I'm not giving you
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: bad energy. I'm trying to I'm trying to give you
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: a different mindset.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: Butts, that's good.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Fine, I'm just we're talking about this thing, and that's
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: why I'm bringing it up. Mary's are contested for a
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: minute to win it?
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: Oh morning Mary, good morning.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: All Right, you got a minute to win a thousand bucks.
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: Okay, So it's ten questions.
• 25:27
  Speaker 7: You got to get them, all right, and when you do,
• 25:30
  Speaker 7: I say when you do, Mary, because you are going
• 25:32
  Speaker 7: to crush this. You will win a thousand dollars of
• 25:34
  Speaker 7: Pathicky's money from Peoria Ford.
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: Are you locked in and ready? Girl?
• 25:40
  Speaker 19: I am?
• 25:40
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 25:41
  Speaker 7: What fast food chain is famous for the Big Mac McDonald's.
• 25:46
  Speaker 7: What planet is known as the Red Planet?
• 25:49
  Speaker 15: Mars?
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: What device do you use to measure temperature.
• 25:55
  Speaker 19: Thermometer?
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: What animal is known for building dams?
• 26:00
  Speaker 19: Yours?
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: What German food is made from fermented cabbage.
• 26:06
  Speaker 12: Stakrawt?
• 26:08
  Speaker 7: In a race, if you pass the person in second place,
• 26:11
  Speaker 7: what place are.
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: You in.
• 26:14
  Speaker 19: First?
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: How is that not first?
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: In a race?
• 26:23
  Speaker 7: If you pass the person in second place, what place
• 26:27
  Speaker 7: are you know you'd be in second place because you
• 26:30
  Speaker 7: passed the person at second place? So now you're it's
• 26:36
  Speaker 7: not it's not a correct question.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: That's a good question. That's a really good question.
• 26:43
  Speaker 19: Makes you think, since I lost, can I say something
• 26:47
  Speaker 19: about weddings?
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 26:50
  Speaker 15: Okay, So.
• 26:53
  Speaker 19: At my wedding, they cut the cake and they handed
• 26:56
  Speaker 19: it to my husband and I and they didn't give
• 26:58
  Speaker 19: us any forks, and we're like, we want forks and
• 27:01
  Speaker 19: they're like, no, this is and we're like, we're not
• 27:03
  Speaker 19: going to smash it in each other's face. And it
• 27:05
  Speaker 19: actually we actually made like one of the servers get
• 27:08
  Speaker 19: a sporks and she says to us, oh, if you
• 27:10
  Speaker 19: use forks, she'll curse the wedding. Tomorrow is our thirtieth wedding.
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: Canner Wait, it hasn't been a curse to marriage though?
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 27:23
  Speaker 19: It has not been a curse marriage.
• 27:25
  Speaker 11: Yeah.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: I just think how happy you both have be if
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: you would have listened to her on your shoe.
• 27:29
  Speaker 15: Yeah, I be how happy?
• 27:31
  Speaker 19: Yeah, we would both see if I want thousand dollars.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: But don't worry.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: We are setting you up with Corona Beach Club. You
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: get to go there. It's March twenty sixth for spring break.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: You bring your husband of thirty years. Hold on the line.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: We'll set you up with that.