Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS Hour 2 | Parents Charged for Letting 6-Year-Old Scooter to the Park
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- 0:00Speaker 1: It is the deal. You could show your twenty twenty
- 0:02Speaker 1: six addition.
- 0:03Speaker 2: So a couple is charged with child and glad they
- 0:06Speaker 2: let their six year old righte four minutes away to
- 0:08Speaker 2: the park and skip. You made a great point, uh
- 0:11Speaker 2: New York. You see kids on the subway for six yeah.
- 0:14Speaker 3: Four yeah, by themselves or just you know, one or
- 0:17Speaker 3: two or bout him. So they moved all around the
- 0:19Speaker 3: city by themselves.
- 0:21Speaker 2: Yees, I know for us you you you uh we
- 0:24Speaker 2: junior said this, or you go to the store yup?
- 0:27Speaker 1: You would? You would? Can I go over? I mean
- 0:29Speaker 1: we had to. It was a big deal. When I
- 0:31Speaker 1: was six or seven years old.
- 0:32Speaker 2: We used to let us cross the street by ourself,
- 0:35Speaker 2: right yeah, like a main street like that's you had
- 0:37Speaker 2: to be old enough to that.
- 0:38Speaker 1: And I think I was six or seven when that happened.
- 0:40Speaker 3: Yeah, we was, cause you remember, we be out all
- 0:43Speaker 3: over the neighborhood and all of a sudden, you hear
- 0:44Speaker 3: that hum, oh oh, street light's coming on. Yeah, and
- 0:47Speaker 3: we had you were way more than four minutes. That's
- 0:49Speaker 3: why we were all in shape back then, because that
- 0:51Speaker 3: was better than the peloton. We would just hey man,
- 0:53Speaker 3: we was flying trying to get back home, but you
- 0:56Speaker 3: were miles away from.
- 0:57Speaker 4: Now, and not to mention, we had to walk to
- 0:59Speaker 4: school and yep, that was way over a couple of miles.
- 1:02Speaker 5: You know.
- 1:03Speaker 1: So Amen, that's why I stopped going.
- 1:06Speaker 6: I'm like this walk, my calves getting too big, my
- 1:14Speaker 6: last walk, Papa, I can't do it no more.
- 1:18Speaker 1: My pro kids is toe up. I can't do this.
- 1:20Speaker 1: You know what's funny?
- 1:21Speaker 2: And you talked about the streetlights coming on and the people,
- 1:24Speaker 2: the dudes who got to stay past the street light.
- 1:27Speaker 2: You know you thought they was cool and the girl
- 1:29Speaker 2: the dudes went to jail and the girls got pregnant.
- 1:31Speaker 1: You got to stay. I'm telling you. If you if
- 1:35Speaker 1: you didn't have to be home, the mama, I ain't
- 1:37Speaker 1: got to be home. If you didn't have to be home.
- 1:39Speaker 1: The dudes all went to jail and the girls all
- 1:40Speaker 1: got pregnant. You just got you got past that street
- 1:43Speaker 1: when I'm ready. Yeah, yeah, my mama said, come on. Yep,
- 1:50Speaker 1: mama locked up and knocked up. That's what happened for Joe. Qus.
- 1:54Speaker 2: We're asking a mother and father of a six year
- 1:57Speaker 2: old charge with because they let him ride school or
- 2:00Speaker 2: four minutes away.
- 2:00Speaker 1: It should there have been. That's the question we're posing
- 2:02Speaker 1: to you. Eight seven seven two two two six.
- 2:05Speaker 2: I do think I think that there were just as
- 2:08Speaker 2: many things that happened back then. I just think we
- 2:10Speaker 2: didn't have social media, we might not have the apparatus
- 2:13Speaker 2: to kind of talk.
- 2:13Speaker 1: About it all the time.
- 2:15Speaker 2: But needless to say, it wasn't unusual for a kid like,
- 2:22Speaker 2: hey man, your mother would.
- 2:23Speaker 1: Leave you at home by yourself. And don't you answer
- 2:25Speaker 1: the door and cut the pilot light off?
- 2:27Speaker 5: That was all.
- 2:28Speaker 1: No, don't answer the phone, don't answer the door and
- 2:31Speaker 1: leave it sove off. Don't let nobody in my house.
- 2:33Speaker 1: Oh your little nasty friend son. Yeah yeah, And when
- 2:37Speaker 1: I call, you got to pick up the phone. Yep, Mama,
- 2:39Speaker 1: what if the house case, if I were, you better
- 2:41Speaker 1: burn up come back. You could be in hospital smoking
- 2:48Speaker 1: the laces, Like did I tell you not to leave?
- 2:50Speaker 1: I told you not to leave that.
- 2:51Speaker 4: But one difference back then, you know, the whole neighborhood
- 2:54Speaker 4: was kind of like your mama, you know, so even
- 2:56Speaker 4: when your mama was gone, everybody watching the house just
- 2:59Speaker 4: to make sure you get a beaten. If you do
- 3:01Speaker 4: open that door, come out the house, you come running out.
- 3:05Speaker 2: You know you remember, remember you be talking to somebody
- 3:07Speaker 2: out the window, couldn't go outside, and they stay next
- 3:09Speaker 2: to the one.
- 3:10Speaker 1: Of Yeah, like I was saying, my mama, go here.
- 3:18Speaker 1: But you got away with because you wasn't out there.
- 3:20Speaker 1: I wasn't out the house. That's right. They would stand
- 3:22Speaker 1: and talk to you through the screen door. That was
- 3:24Speaker 1: so stupid. Anything to be close, you know what.
- 3:27Speaker 2: It was a punishment to if you if you had
- 3:30Speaker 2: to stay in in the house, I was a punishment.
- 3:32Speaker 3: Now you can't get the kids leave the house?
- 3:35Speaker 2: Yeah, they fat invitament. How are you seven years old
- 3:39Speaker 2: with diabetes?
- 3:39Speaker 1: Fat ass?
- 3:42Speaker 2: The question we're asking a the the parents of a
- 3:45Speaker 2: six year old or charged with child neglect because they
- 3:48Speaker 2: let him ride a scooter four minutes to the park
- 3:51Speaker 2: four minutes. Where do you think they should have been
- 3:52Speaker 2: were going to write to the phones.
- 3:54Speaker 7: I don't think that chim should be charged for dogs.
- 3:58Speaker 7: Might be a little glass or a little you know,
- 4:02Speaker 7: but I don't see where they should be so good.
- 4:05Speaker 8: I mean put the court sent the court, you know,
- 4:08Speaker 8: or maybe charged Like when we were coming up, we
- 4:12Speaker 8: just know.
- 4:12Speaker 7: To be back before the street light.
- 4:14Speaker 9: Come on.
- 4:15Speaker 7: My mom and dad didn't here where we went as long.
- 4:17Speaker 8: As we come back. And I know it's different times
- 4:20Speaker 8: now because there's more pedophiles out there, but I think
- 4:22Speaker 8: maybe a stern talking to. But you know they call
- 4:25Speaker 8: them change treaches now for a reason. It's all from
- 4:28Speaker 8: me age.
- 4:29Speaker 10: Honestly, I think that it's really absolutely careless to give
- 4:36Speaker 10: your child that much time to be unsupervised because you
- 4:41Speaker 10: don't know who's lurking looking at your child. You know,
- 4:45Speaker 10: if your child is the most precious thing that you have,
- 4:48Speaker 10: it's your most precious commodity, so to speak, then you
- 4:52Speaker 10: need to guard it with your life. And by sending
- 4:55Speaker 10: your child out there without proper supervision puts them in
- 4:59Speaker 10: the place to be, you know, harmed. So you know,
- 5:03Speaker 10: if they did it once, that may be a warning.
- 5:07Speaker 10: But if this is you know, if you're a repeated offender,
- 5:11Speaker 10: because if you don't look out for your child and
- 5:13Speaker 10: somebody takes your child, then what are you going to do?
- 5:15Speaker 10: So charging the parents gives a message that you know,
- 5:22Speaker 10: take more care with your child, don't be careless with
- 5:26Speaker 10: their wellbeing.
- 5:28Speaker 11: I think that is crave see that they would actually
- 5:32Speaker 11: let the child you talking about the well and let
- 5:35Speaker 11: the child go well let me give a fine answer.
- 5:38Speaker 11: You tell me, I'm curious to know if they're black
- 5:40Speaker 11: or white. I know me personally, I wouldn't do that.
- 5:43Speaker 11: Not two daughters. Ain't no way I'm letting my daughter,
- 5:48Speaker 11: even if I.
- 5:49Speaker 1: Had a son, do that foolish, that's crazy.
- 5:52Speaker 12: I would not allow. I have a five year old
- 5:55Speaker 12: he turns sixth this September, and just looking at him,
- 5:59Speaker 12: I cannot afford to let him go outside by himself, unsupervised.
- 6:04Speaker 12: He's just too little. He doesn't even know so much
- 6:07Speaker 12: about like being outside. What's safety concerns, you know, maybe
- 6:11Speaker 12: there plus everything that's going on right now, the kidnappings
- 6:15Speaker 12: and all of that, I will not let him go
- 6:17Speaker 12: outside when when he's not able to defend himself.
- 6:22Speaker 1: Yeah, I think a.
- 6:24Speaker 13: Low level charge neglect would be sufficient. It's not like
- 6:29Speaker 13: it's when I was coming up at in the seventies,
- 6:33Speaker 13: late seventies and early eighties. I could go to the
- 6:36Speaker 13: park by myself, kicking with my six years sixty seven
- 6:39Speaker 13: year old eight nineteen year old bridge and come back
- 6:41Speaker 13: home by myself. But you can't do that these days
- 6:44Speaker 13: because they will snatch your little croup snatcher and then
- 6:48Speaker 13: you're gonna be crying. So yeah, I do pay some
- 6:51Speaker 13: sort of punishment, legal consequences. Probation is for that, or acknolishing,
- 6:58Speaker 13: even a parenting class.
- 7:02Speaker 1: About them.
- 7:03Speaker 14: Okay, So when I heard the question, immediately, I said,
- 7:07Speaker 14: six years old is young. But then your discussion after
- 7:12Speaker 14: about your childhood and what happened, and I'm like, but
- 7:17Speaker 14: that that happened to me. That's what my parents did,
- 7:20Speaker 14: Like seriously in summer. You've just come back in August.
- 7:24Speaker 15: That was normal, you know what I mean.
- 7:28Speaker 14: But you all had me cracking up when you said
- 7:30Speaker 14: about can you spell cool? When you're a referred to?
- 7:36Speaker 14: So I survived my childhood of you learn to ride
- 7:41Speaker 14: the bike, go outside?
- 7:43Speaker 10: You know.
- 7:43Speaker 14: So well I'm on the fence.
- 7:48Speaker 13: I'm on the fence.
- 7:49Speaker 14: I don't think they should be charged.
- 7:51Speaker 1: So a couple, it's.
- 7:53Speaker 2: Charged with your neglect for letting their six year old
- 7:55Speaker 2: ride his scooter to the park four minutes away.
- 7:58Speaker 1: Do you think they should have been Okay? What do
- 8:00Speaker 1: you think?
- 8:01Speaker 8: I think that.
- 8:03Speaker 7: Times have changed.
- 8:05Speaker 8: I know when we were coming up, we you know, six, seven,
- 8:09Speaker 8: eight years old, I was you know, opening the door.
- 8:12Speaker 8: I was a latchkey kid, and my kids were latch
- 8:16Speaker 8: key kids. But seems like this generation right here particularly,
- 8:21Speaker 8: they just not as responsible. And I don't know if
- 8:26Speaker 8: that's because they're always in front of you know, games
- 8:30Speaker 8: and stuff like that that they don't have the the
- 8:34Speaker 8: wherewithal you know what I mean, just you know, they
- 8:36Speaker 8: don't know to shoot gum and ride a bike at
- 8:41Speaker 8: the same time. So there's different kind of breedy kids.
- 8:45Speaker 8: But when we were coming up four minutes, I mean,
- 8:49Speaker 8: we were gone forever at six. So but I understand
- 8:53Speaker 8: there's a lot of pedophiles. There's a lot of kids
- 8:55Speaker 8: being taken.
- 8:56Speaker 14: We weren't you can.
- 8:57Speaker 8: Give us away when we were coming up. So but
- 9:01Speaker 8: I don't think they should have been charged with neglect.
- 9:05Speaker 8: You know, they trying to be parents to help their
- 9:08Speaker 8: children be independent. That's how I see they.
- 9:11Speaker 13: Probably was doing.
- 9:13Speaker 8: But they shouldn't have been charged with a crime and all.
- 9:16Speaker 16: Honestly, I think that the child should be taken away,
- 9:19Speaker 16: Like there's so much stuff going on in the world
- 9:21Speaker 16: today with kids and just in general, and like why
- 9:25Speaker 16: would you let your kid ride to the six years
- 9:27Speaker 16: old to the park by themselves four minutes away, one
- 9:30Speaker 16: minute away, Like it don't matter. I think they definitely
- 9:32Speaker 16: should have been charged.
- 9:33Speaker 15: I come to the generation next.
- 9:35Speaker 10: While it was okay back then, it's not okay now.
- 9:38Speaker 15: Children have been snatched in less than four minutes before.
- 9:42Speaker 15: So while I wouldn't necessarily charge them or arrest them,
- 9:46Speaker 15: they definitely would get a stack on the risk and
- 9:48Speaker 15: have to go through the parents.
- 9:49Speaker 5: In classic well, it was.
- 9:50Speaker 15: Some person that said that was like a historian to say,
- 9:53Speaker 15: somebody or president. They said, during good times, we raised
- 9:57Speaker 15: soft kids. At hard times we raised strong kids. But
- 10:00Speaker 15: at any rate, when we were younger, and I'm from
- 10:03Speaker 15: the seventies, it's just like, you know, the age of
- 10:06Speaker 15: both parents basically having to work and all that, your
- 10:08Speaker 15: kid had to be made out of something, And we're
- 10:10Speaker 15: not really making our kids responsible for themselves until they
- 10:13Speaker 15: are about to leave our households. So at six years old, man,
- 10:17Speaker 15: I was walking five to ten minutes to my bus
- 10:20Speaker 15: stop that was on a whole nother road and won't
- 10:23Speaker 15: nowhere near the front of my house. So keep that
- 10:26Speaker 15: in mind, brother, We raised this off kids on purpose,
- 10:29Speaker 15: but we can't be surprised when the government can look
- 10:31Speaker 15: at it like most of these kids cannot stand for theirself.
- 10:33Speaker 15: So big ups to the latch key generation.
- 10:36Speaker 9: Yeah, they definitely a CDF need to get the handle
- 10:39Speaker 9: little that they need to take that chaut because I'm
- 10:41Speaker 9: raising a five year old and there's no way in
- 10:44Speaker 9: God's greenough I would leave them other park by himself
- 10:46Speaker 9: to play. I don't care who they think they are.
- 10:49Speaker 9: We had to get in for the lights went on.
- 10:52Speaker 9: Definitely a six year old. Even though they can talk
- 10:55Speaker 9: and they can talk slick, they can cuss, they're still
- 10:59Speaker 9: six years old. They can't defend themselves at all.
- 11:03Speaker 17: Y'all made a valid point when y'all said, these kids
- 11:06Speaker 17: walking to school every day, are their parents being child charged?
- 11:10Speaker 17: Whin neglick because we know if there's a school district
- 11:12Speaker 17: in the area four minutes away from walking from their school,
- 11:16Speaker 17: every parent that let their kids walk to school should
- 11:18Speaker 17: be charged.
- 11:19Speaker 5: When Neglick to when from school.
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