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- 0:37Big
- 0:37goals
- 0:38sound
- 0:38exciting
- 0:39until
- 0:39they
- 0:40start
- 0:40taking
- 0:40time.
- 0:41And
- 0:41you
- 0:41know
- 0:42exactly
- 0:42what
- 0:42I
- 0:42mean.
- 0:42If
- 0:42you're
- 0:43listening
- 0:43right
- 0:43now,
- 0:44that
- 0:44down
- 0:45payment,
- 0:45that
- 0:46reliable
- 0:46car,
- 0:47that
- 0:47home
- 0:47repair
- 0:47fund
- 0:48so
- 0:48you
- 0:48can
- 0:48finally
- 0:49fix
- 0:49your
- 0:49house,
- 0:50that
- 0:50business
- 0:51you've
- 0:51always
- 0:51wanted
- 0:51to
- 0:52do,
- 0:52or
- 0:52that
- 0:52vacation
- 0:53you
- 0:53actually
- 0:53enjoy
- 0:54without
- 0:55debt
- 0:55hanging
- 0:55over
- 0:56you.
- 0:56And
- 0:57at
- 0:57first
- 0:57you're
- 0:57super
- 0:58motivated.
- 0:58You're
- 0:58like,
- 0:58okay,
- 0:59this
- 0:59is
- 0:59it.
- 0:59I'm
- 0:59doing
- 1:00this.
- 1:01And
- 1:01then
- 1:01for
- 1:01so
- 1:02many
- 1:02of
- 1:02us,
- 1:02real
- 1:02life
- 1:03happens.
- 1:04And
- 1:04suddenly
- 1:05savings
- 1:05feel
- 1:06so
- 1:06kind
- 1:06of
- 1:06like
- 1:06a
- 1:06tortoise
- 1:07and
- 1:08expensive
- 1:08and
- 1:09never
- 1:09ending.
- 1:10And
- 1:10you
- 1:10start
- 1:11thinking
- 1:11to
- 1:11yourself,
- 1:13am
- 1:13I
- 1:13going
- 1:13to
- 1:13get
- 1:13tired
- 1:14before
- 1:14I
- 1:14even
- 1:14get
- 1:15there?
- 1:16And
- 1:16friend,
- 1:16if
- 1:17you've
- 1:17ever
- 1:17felt
- 1:17that
- 1:18today's
- 1:18show
- 1:18is
- 1:19specifically
- 1:19for
- 1:20you
- 1:20because
- 1:20you're
- 1:21not
- 1:21failing.
- 1:22You're
- 1:22just
- 1:22stuck
- 1:22in
- 1:23the
- 1:23middle.
- 1:24And
- 1:24the
- 1:24middle
- 1:24is
- 1:24where
- 1:25most
- 1:25people
- 1:25quit,
- 1:26but
- 1:27you
- 1:27don't
- 1:27have
- 1:27to.
- 1:28And
- 1:28I'm
- 1:28going
- 1:28to
- 1:28walk
- 1:28you
- 1:29through
- 1:29this
- 1:29today.
- 1:30So
- 1:30here's
- 1:30the
- 1:30question
- 1:31you
- 1:31and
- 1:31I
- 1:31are
- 1:31answering
- 1:32today.
- 1:32How
- 1:33can
- 1:33you
- 1:33save
- 1:34for
- 1:34big
- 1:34goals
- 1:35without
- 1:35burning
- 1:35out?
- 1:36I'm
- 1:36going
- 1:36to
- 1:37help
- 1:37you
- 1:37build
- 1:37a
- 1:37plan
- 1:37that's
- 1:38steady,
- 1:38that's
- 1:39realistic
- 1:40and
- 1:40gentle
- 1:40enough
- 1:40to
- 1:41last.
- 1:41Because,
- 1:41friend,
- 1:41you
- 1:42can
- 1:42reach
- 1:42big
- 1:42goals
- 1:43without
- 1:43crushing
- 1:44yourself
- 1:44to
- 1:44get
- 1:44there.
- 2:05Hey,
- 2:05friend.
- 2:06Ralph
- 2:06Estep
- 2:07Jr.
- 2:07Here.
- 2:07Welcome
- 2:08to
- 2:08Financially
- 2:08Confident
- 2:09Christian,
- 2:09where
- 2:10we
- 2:10learn
- 2:10how
- 2:10to
- 2:10walk
- 2:10through
- 2:11life
- 2:11and
- 2:11money
- 2:11with
- 2:12wisdom,
- 2:12with
- 2:13peace,
- 2:13and
- 2:14with
- 2:14a
- 2:14heart
- 2:14anchored
- 2:15in
- 2:15God's
- 2:15truth.
- 2:16My
- 2:16mission
- 2:16is
- 2:17simple
- 2:17on
- 2:17the
- 2:17show,
- 2:18to
- 2:18help
- 2:18you
- 2:18break
- 2:19that
- 2:19cycle
- 2:19of
- 2:19financial
- 2:20shame
- 2:20and
- 2:20build
- 2:21those
- 2:21steady
- 2:21habits
- 2:22rooted
- 2:22in
- 2:22faith
- 2:23and
- 2:23truly
- 2:24become
- 2:24a
- 2:25financially
- 2:25confident
- 2:26Christian.
- 2:26And
- 2:27I'm
- 2:27so
- 2:27glad
- 2:27you're
- 2:28here
- 2:28today
- 2:28because
- 2:29this
- 2:29is
- 2:29where
- 2:29a
- 2:29lot
- 2:29of
- 2:29people
- 2:30get
- 2:30stuck.
- 2:30It's
- 2:31not
- 2:31at
- 2:31the
- 2:31beginning,
- 2:32but
- 2:32it's
- 2:32right
- 2:33there
- 2:33in
- 2:33the
- 2:33middle.
- 2:34And
- 2:34if
- 2:34you're
- 2:34in
- 2:35the
- 2:35middle
- 2:35right
- 2:35now,
- 2:36I
- 2:36want
- 2:36you
- 2:36to
- 2:37hear
- 2:37this.
- 2:37You're
- 2:38not
- 2:38behind.
- 2:39You're
- 2:39not
- 2:39broken.
- 2:40You're
- 2:41just
- 2:41in
- 2:41the
- 2:41part
- 2:41that
- 2:42takes
- 2:42endurance.
- 2:42You're
- 2:43in
- 2:43the
- 2:43hard
- 2:43part.
- 2:44Yesterday
- 2:44we
- 2:45talked
- 2:45about
- 2:45automating
- 2:46your
- 2:46savings,
- 2:46and
- 2:47you
- 2:47can
- 2:47take
- 2:47that
- 2:47willpower
- 2:48out
- 2:48of
- 2:48it
- 2:48and
- 2:49let
- 2:49a
- 2:49system
- 2:49do
- 2:50the
- 2:50heavy
- 2:50lifting.
- 2:51Today
- 2:51we're
- 2:51talking
- 2:52about
- 2:52something
- 2:52different,
- 2:53and
- 2:54that's
- 2:54how
- 2:54do
- 2:54you
- 2:54stay
- 2:54steady
- 2:55when
- 2:55the
- 2:55goal
- 2:55is
- 2:56big
- 2:56and
- 2:56the
- 2:57timeline
- 2:57is
- 2:57long?
- 2:59Because
- 2:59big
- 2:59goals
- 3:00don't
- 3:00just
- 3:00test
- 3:00your
- 3:01budget.
- 3:01They
- 3:02test
- 3:02your
- 3:02patience.
- 3:03And
- 3:03friend,
- 3:04patience
- 3:04is
- 3:05hard,
- 3:05but
- 3:06you
- 3:06can
- 3:06learn
- 3:06it.
- 3:07Here's
- 3:08today's
- 3:08listener
- 3:08question.
- 3:09Ralph
- 3:10I
- 3:10have
- 3:10a
- 3:10big
- 3:10goal
- 3:11in
- 3:11mind,
- 3:11and
- 3:12I
- 3:12really
- 3:12want
- 3:13to
- 3:13do
- 3:13it.
- 3:14Every
- 3:14time
- 3:14I
- 3:14start
- 3:15saving,
- 3:16I
- 3:16do
- 3:16it
- 3:16great
- 3:17for
- 3:17just
- 3:17a
- 3:17little
- 3:17while
- 3:18and
- 3:19then
- 3:19I
- 3:19get
- 3:19tired
- 3:20or
- 3:20something
- 3:20happens
- 3:21Life
- 3:21happens,
- 3:22and
- 3:22I
- 3:22feel
- 3:23like
- 3:23I'm
- 3:23always
- 3:23starting
- 3:24over.
- 3:25How
- 3:25do
- 3:25I
- 3:25save
- 3:25for
- 3:26something
- 3:26big
- 3:26without
- 3:27quitting
- 3:27halfway?
- 3:28What
- 3:29a
- 3:29great
- 3:29question.
- 3:29And
- 3:30friend,
- 3:30if
- 3:31you've
- 3:31ever
- 3:31felt
- 3:31that,
- 3:31that's
- 3:32real,
- 3:32and
- 3:33if
- 3:33that's
- 3:33you
- 3:33right
- 3:34now,
- 3:34I'm
- 3:34not
- 3:34here
- 3:34to
- 3:35shame
- 3:35you.
- 3:35I'm
- 3:36here
- 3:36to
- 3:36remind
- 3:36you,
- 3:37you
- 3:37can
- 3:38do
- 3:38this.
- 3:38You
- 3:39just
- 3:39need
- 3:39a
- 3:39pace
- 3:40that
- 3:40loves
- 3:40you
- 3:40back.
- 3:41If
- 3:42you've
- 3:42ever
- 3:42felt
- 3:43that
- 3:43wave
- 3:44of,
- 3:44I
- 3:44can't
- 3:45get
- 3:45to
- 3:45this
- 3:45thing.
- 3:45I'm
- 3:46stuck
- 3:46in
- 3:46this
- 3:46middle.
- 3:46Ralph,
- 3:47you're
- 3:47not
- 3:48weak.
- 3:49You're
- 3:49just
- 3:49human.
- 3:50Because
- 3:50savings
- 3:51for
- 3:51big
- 3:51goals
- 3:52ask
- 3:52you
- 3:52to
- 3:52live
- 3:53with.
- 3:53Not
- 3:53yet.
- 3:53That's
- 3:54what
- 3:54we're
- 3:54really
- 3:54talking
- 3:54about
- 3:54here
- 3:55today.
- 3:55Not
- 3:55yet.
- 3:56Not
- 3:56yet
- 3:57in
- 3:57that
- 3:57kitchen
- 3:57remodel.
- 3:58You're
- 3:58tired
- 3:58of
- 3:59this
- 3:59kitchen.
- 3:59It's
- 3:59a
- 4:00disaster.
- 4:01Not
- 4:01yet
- 4:01in
- 4:01the
- 4:02new
- 4:02car.
- 4:02I'm
- 4:02tired
- 4:03of
- 4:03this
- 4:03used
- 4:03car.
- 4:04It's
- 4:04not
- 4:04dependable.
- 4:05I
- 4:05can't
- 4:06stand
- 4:06this
- 4:06thing.
- 4:07Not
- 4:08yet
- 4:08in
- 4:08that
- 4:08trip,
- 4:09and
- 4:09not
- 4:10yet
- 4:10in
- 4:10that
- 4:10business
- 4:10upgrade,
- 4:12and
- 4:12not
- 4:12yet
- 4:13for
- 4:13so
- 4:13many
- 4:13of
- 4:13us,
- 4:14feels
- 4:14discouraging
- 4:15when
- 4:16you're
- 4:16doing
- 4:16all
- 4:16the
- 4:16right
- 4:17things
- 4:17and
- 4:17it
- 4:17still
- 4:18feels
- 4:18so
- 4:18far
- 4:19away.
- 4:20So
- 4:20today,
- 4:21I
- 4:21want
- 4:21to
- 4:21help
- 4:21you
- 4:21pace
- 4:22yourself
- 4:22so
- 4:22you
- 4:22don't
- 4:23burn
- 4:23bright
- 4:23and
- 4:24then
- 4:24just
- 4:24burn
- 4:24out.
- 4:25Because,
- 4:25friend,
- 4:26you
- 4:26don't
- 4:26have
- 4:26to
- 4:26sprint
- 4:27to
- 4:27make
- 4:27progress.
- 4:28Here's
- 4:29the
- 4:29truth.
- 4:30Burnout
- 4:30usually
- 4:31doesn't
- 4:31come
- 4:31from
- 4:32a
- 4:32big
- 4:32goal.
- 4:33Burnout
- 4:34comes
- 4:34from
- 4:34trying
- 4:34to
- 4:34reach
- 4:35it
- 4:35with
- 4:35an
- 4:35all
- 4:35or
- 4:36nothing
- 4:36plan.
- 4:36How
- 4:36many
- 4:37of
- 4:37us
- 4:37have
- 4:37those?
- 4:38It's
- 4:38the
- 4:38we're
- 4:38going
- 4:38to
- 4:39do
- 4:39this
- 4:39perfectly
- 4:39mindset.
- 4:40It's
- 4:41the
- 4:41no
- 4:41fun
- 4:41until
- 4:42we're
- 4:42done
- 4:42mindset.
- 4:43And
- 4:44that
- 4:44if
- 4:44we
- 4:44mess
- 4:45up
- 4:45once,
- 4:45we
- 4:45failed
- 4:46mindset,
- 4:48friend.
- 4:48Big
- 4:48goals
- 4:49are
- 4:49not
- 4:49built
- 4:50by
- 4:50intensity.
- 4:51I
- 4:51want
- 4:52you
- 4:52to
- 4:52hear
- 4:52this
- 4:52and
- 4:52I
- 4:52want
- 4:53you
- 4:53to
- 4:53hear
- 4:53this
- 4:53loud
- 4:53and
- 4:53clear.
- 4:54They're
- 4:54built
- 4:54by
- 4:55consistency.
- 4:56Consistency
- 4:57needs
- 4:57a
- 4:58pace
- 4:58that
- 4:58you
- 4:59can
- 4:59actually
- 4:59live
- 4:59with,
- 5:00not
- 5:00a
- 5:00pace
- 5:01that
- 5:01punishes
- 5:01you,
- 5:02a
- 5:02pace
- 5:02that
- 5:03actually
- 5:03supports
- 5:04you.
- 5:04I'm
- 5:05Ralph
- 5:05Estep
- 5:05Jr.
- 5:06I'm
- 5:06an
- 5:06accountant,
- 5:07and
- 5:07I've
- 5:07seen
- 5:07people
- 5:08hit
- 5:08big
- 5:08goals
- 5:09from
- 5:09all
- 5:09kinds
- 5:09of
- 5:10income
- 5:10levels.
- 5:11And
- 5:11the
- 5:11difference
- 5:12usually
- 5:12isn't
- 5:13talent,
- 5:14it's
- 5:15pace.
- 5:16See,
- 5:16people
- 5:16who
- 5:17win
- 5:17long
- 5:17term
- 5:18choose
- 5:18a
- 5:18plan
- 5:19they
- 5:19can
- 5:19repeat
- 5:19without
- 5:20resenting
- 5:20it.
- 5:20Because
- 5:21that's
- 5:21what
- 5:21we're
- 5:21really
- 5:21talking
- 5:21about
- 5:21today.
- 5:22Are
- 5:22you
- 5:22resenting
- 5:23your
- 5:23goals?
- 5:24And
- 5:24I
- 5:24want
- 5:25that
- 5:25kind
- 5:25of
- 5:25plan
- 5:25for
- 5:26you,
- 5:26and
- 5:26I
- 5:26want
- 5:26you
- 5:26to
- 5:26start
- 5:27that
- 5:27today.
- 5:27Because
- 5:28I've
- 5:28watched
- 5:28this
- 5:28happen
- 5:29so
- 5:29many
- 5:29times.
- 5:30Someone
- 5:30starts
- 5:30saving
- 5:31for
- 5:31something
- 5:31big
- 5:32and
- 5:32they
- 5:32go
- 5:32hard,
- 5:33man,
- 5:33they're
- 5:33all
- 5:33in.
- 5:34It's
- 5:34kind
- 5:34of
- 5:34like
- 5:34the
- 5:34beginning
- 5:34of
- 5:35the
- 5:35Year,
- 5:35everybody
- 5:36jumps
- 5:36on
- 5:36the
- 5:36I'm
- 5:36going
- 5:37to
- 5:37lose
- 5:37weight
- 5:37this
- 5:37year.
- 5:38And
- 5:38they
- 5:38do
- 5:38it
- 5:39hard
- 5:39for
- 5:39the
- 5:39first
- 5:39day.
- 5:40And
- 5:40the
- 5:40second
- 5:40day,
- 5:40hey,
- 5:41we
- 5:41get
- 5:41to
- 5:41the
- 5:41fifth
- 5:41or
- 5:42sixth
- 5:42day,
- 5:42and
- 5:42they're
- 5:42like,
- 5:42I
- 5:42can't
- 5:43do
- 5:43this
- 5:43anymore.
- 5:44So
- 5:44maybe
- 5:45that's
- 5:45you.
- 5:45You
- 5:45decided
- 5:46I'm
- 5:46going
- 5:46to
- 5:46save,
- 5:46so
- 5:46I'm
- 5:47not
- 5:47eating
- 5:47out
- 5:47anymore.
- 5:48That
- 5:48lasts
- 5:49for
- 5:49a
- 5:49week
- 5:49or
- 5:49two.
- 5:49Or
- 5:50I'm
- 5:50not
- 5:50going
- 5:50to
- 5:50do
- 5:50any
- 5:51extras.
- 5:51There's
- 5:51not
- 5:51going
- 5:52to
- 5:52be
- 5:52any
- 5:52breathing
- 5:53room
- 5:53in
- 5:53my
- 5:53budget.
- 5:54And
- 5:54for
- 5:55a
- 5:55few
- 5:55weeks,
- 5:55that's
- 5:56super
- 5:56powerful.
- 5:57But
- 5:57then
- 5:58a
- 5:58tough
- 5:58week
- 5:58hits,
- 5:59that
- 5:59problem
- 6:00at
- 6:00home
- 6:00or
- 6:00that
- 6:00problem
- 6:01at
- 6:01work
- 6:01or
- 6:01that
- 6:01bill
- 6:02that
- 6:02surprises
- 6:03you.
- 6:04Or
- 6:04maybe,
- 6:04like
- 6:04so
- 6:05many
- 6:05of
- 6:05us,
- 6:05you
- 6:05just
- 6:05get
- 6:06tired.
- 6:07And
- 6:07that
- 6:07intense
- 6:08plan
- 6:08just
- 6:09starts
- 6:09to
- 6:09feel
- 6:09like
- 6:10punishments,
- 6:10like
- 6:10that
- 6:11restriction
- 6:11on
- 6:12a
- 6:12diet.
- 6:13And
- 6:13when
- 6:13savings
- 6:14feels
- 6:14like
- 6:14punishment,
- 6:15guess
- 6:15what?
- 6:15You
- 6:16quit.
- 6:16You're
- 6:16not
- 6:17going
- 6:17to
- 6:17do
- 6:17it.
- 6:17Not
- 6:18because
- 6:18you
- 6:18don't
- 6:18want
- 6:18the
- 6:19goal,
- 6:19but
- 6:19because
- 6:19you
- 6:20can't
- 6:20live
- 6:20under
- 6:20that
- 6:21pressure.
- 6:21That
- 6:22pressure
- 6:22is
- 6:22stifling.
- 6:23So,
- 6:24friend,
- 6:24hear
- 6:24me.
- 6:24The
- 6:25goal
- 6:25isn't
- 6:25to
- 6:25save
- 6:26the
- 6:26fastest.
- 6:26The
- 6:27goal
- 6:27is
- 6:27to
- 6:27save
- 6:28the
- 6:28longest.
- 6:29And
- 6:29you
- 6:30can
- 6:30do
- 6:30longest.
- 6:31You
- 6:31just
- 6:31need
- 6:31a
- 6:32plan
- 6:32that's
- 6:32kind
- 6:33to
- 6:33you.
- 6:34So
- 6:34here's
- 6:34the
- 6:34deeper
- 6:35question
- 6:35underneath
- 6:35today.
- 6:36What
- 6:36if
- 6:36the
- 6:36way
- 6:36you
- 6:37reach
- 6:37a
- 6:37big
- 6:37goal
- 6:38isn't
- 6:38pushing
- 6:38harder,
- 6:39but
- 6:39pacing
- 6:40wiser?
- 6:41What
- 6:41if
- 6:41you
- 6:42don't
- 6:42need
- 6:42more
- 6:42intensity?
- 6:43What
- 6:44if
- 6:44you
- 6:44need
- 6:44more
- 6:44sustainability?
- 6:46And
- 6:46it
- 6:47starts
- 6:47when
- 6:47you
- 6:47name
- 6:47the
- 6:48goal
- 6:48and
- 6:48name
- 6:48your
- 6:49why?
- 6:49Because
- 6:49this
- 6:49is.
- 6:49Before
- 6:50we
- 6:50talk
- 6:50numbers,
- 6:51let's
- 6:51talk
- 6:52meaning.
- 6:52What
- 6:53is
- 6:53the
- 6:53goal?
- 6:54What
- 6:54is
- 6:55the
- 6:55goal
- 6:55we're
- 6:55looking
- 6:55for?
- 6:56But
- 6:56bigger
- 6:56than
- 6:56that,
- 6:57why
- 6:57does
- 6:57it
- 6:57matter
- 6:58to
- 6:58you?
- 6:59Because
- 6:59when
- 6:59the
- 6:59goal
- 7:00has
- 7:00purpose,
- 7:01it
- 7:01has
- 7:01staying
- 7:02power.
- 7:02Here's
- 7:03what
- 7:03I've
- 7:03learned.
- 7:03A
- 7:04goal
- 7:04without
- 7:04a
- 7:04why
- 7:05turns
- 7:05into
- 7:05a
- 7:06chore.
- 7:06And
- 7:06nobody
- 7:07likes
- 7:07chores.
- 7:08When
- 7:08my
- 7:08kids
- 7:08were
- 7:08young,
- 7:09I
- 7:09said
- 7:09to
- 7:09them,
- 7:09hey,
- 7:09can
- 7:10you
- 7:10do
- 7:10this?
- 7:10And
- 7:10they
- 7:10say,
- 7:10dad,
- 7:11that
- 7:11sounds
- 7:11like
- 7:11chores.
- 7:12Nobody
- 7:13wants
- 7:13chores.
- 7:14But
- 7:14a
- 7:14goal
- 7:14with
- 7:15a
- 7:15why,
- 7:15that's
- 7:16something
- 7:16different.
- 7:16That's
- 7:17a
- 7:17mission.
- 7:18And,
- 7:18friend,
- 7:18your
- 7:19why
- 7:19matters
- 7:20in
- 7:20this.
- 7:21My
- 7:22tip
- 7:22is
- 7:22this.
- 7:23Break
- 7:23your
- 7:23goal
- 7:23into
- 7:24three
- 7:24milestones.
- 7:25One
- 7:25of
- 7:25the
- 7:26things
- 7:26that
- 7:26I've
- 7:26learned
- 7:26is
- 7:27easy
- 7:27to
- 7:27break
- 7:27things
- 7:28down,
- 7:28because
- 7:28big
- 7:28goals
- 7:29feel
- 7:29heavy
- 7:30because
- 7:30they're
- 7:30too
- 7:31big
- 7:31to
- 7:31hold
- 7:31in
- 7:32your
- 7:32mind.
- 7:32I
- 7:32remember
- 7:32when
- 7:32I
- 7:32was
- 7:33a
- 7:33kid,
- 7:33my
- 7:33dad
- 7:34took
- 7:34me
- 7:34out
- 7:34in
- 7:34the
- 7:34backyard
- 7:35one
- 7:35day.
- 7:35He
- 7:35wanted
- 7:35me
- 7:36to
- 7:36move
- 7:36this
- 7:36big
- 7:36pile
- 7:37of
- 7:37firewood.
- 7:37And
- 7:37this
- 7:38thing
- 7:38was
- 7:38massive.
- 7:38Now,
- 7:39I
- 7:39was
- 7:39a
- 7:39kid
- 7:39at
- 7:39the
- 7:39time,
- 7:40I
- 7:40saw
- 7:40this
- 7:40huge
- 7:40pile
- 7:41of
- 7:41firewood.
- 7:41He
- 7:41said,
- 7:41son,
- 7:42we
- 7:42need
- 7:42to
- 7:42do
- 7:43something
- 7:43over
- 7:43here.
- 7:43So
- 7:43I
- 7:43need
- 7:44you
- 7:44to
- 7:44take
- 7:44this
- 7:44pile
- 7:44of
- 7:45firewood,
- 7:45and
- 7:45I
- 7:45need
- 7:45you
- 7:46to
- 7:46move
- 7:46it
- 7:46over
- 7:46to
- 7:46this
- 7:46side
- 7:47of
- 7:47the
- 7:47yard.
- 7:47And
- 7:48I
- 7:48looked
- 7:48at
- 7:48this
- 7:48thing
- 7:48and
- 7:48I
- 7:49was
- 7:49like,
- 7:49this
- 7:49is
- 7:49massive.
- 7:50This
- 7:50is
- 7:50going
- 7:50to
- 7:50take
- 7:50me
- 7:51all
- 7:51day.
- 7:52So
- 7:52I
- 7:52thought
- 7:53to
- 7:53myself,
- 7:53you
- 7:53know
- 7:53what,
- 7:53Ralph?
- 7:54You
- 7:54just
- 7:55need
- 7:55to
- 7:55move
- 7:55a
- 7:55couple
- 7:55of
- 7:56sticks
- 7:56at
- 7:56a
- 7:56time.
- 7:57Just
- 7:57grabbed
- 7:58a
- 7:58couple
- 7:58of
- 7:58those
- 7:58and
- 7:59I
- 7:59walked
- 7:59them
- 7:59across.
- 8:00And
- 8:00then
- 8:00I
- 8:00went
- 8:00back
- 8:01and
- 8:01I
- 8:01grabbed
- 8:01a
- 8:01couple
- 8:02more
- 8:02and
- 8:02I
- 8:02walked
- 8:03those
- 8:03across.
- 8:04And
- 8:04before
- 8:04long,
- 8:05guess
- 8:05what?
- 8:06The
- 8:06whole
- 8:06thing
- 8:06was
- 8:07moved.
- 8:08So
- 8:08don't
- 8:09hold
- 8:09the
- 8:09whole
- 8:09thing.
- 8:10Break
- 8:10it
- 8:11down.
- 8:11Listen,
- 8:11if
- 8:11your
- 8:12goal
- 8:12is
- 8:12to
- 8:12save
- 8:12$3,000,
- 8:14set
- 8:14three
- 8:14milestones
- 8:15for
- 8:15yourself.
- 8:16Set
- 8:16a
- 8:16milestone
- 8:16for
- 8:17when
- 8:17you
- 8:17hit
- 8:17the
- 8:17first
- 8:17thousand,
- 8:18and
- 8:18then
- 8:18when
- 8:19you
- 8:19hit
- 8:19that
- 8:19second
- 8:19thousand,
- 8:20hey,
- 8:20now
- 8:20you've
- 8:20got
- 8:20to
- 8:202,000,
- 8:21and
- 8:21then
- 8:22a
- 8:22milestone
- 8:22when
- 8:22you
- 8:23hit
- 8:23that
- 8:233,000.
- 8:24Because
- 8:24you're
- 8:25not
- 8:25just
- 8:25chasing
- 8:26one
- 8:26giant
- 8:26mountain,
- 8:27you're
- 8:27climbing
- 8:27three
- 8:28smaller
- 8:28hills.
- 8:29And
- 8:29hills
- 8:30are
- 8:30doable,
- 8:30aren't
- 8:30they?
- 8:31And
- 8:31you,
- 8:31my
- 8:31friend,
- 8:32you
- 8:32can
- 8:32do
- 8:32doable
- 8:34also.
- 8:34You've
- 8:35got
- 8:35to
- 8:35make
- 8:35your
- 8:35milestones
- 8:36visible.
- 8:37If
- 8:37you
- 8:37can't
- 8:37see
- 8:38progress,
- 8:38your
- 8:39heart's
- 8:39going
- 8:39to
- 8:39assume
- 8:39you're
- 8:40stuck.
- 8:40That's
- 8:40what
- 8:40happens
- 8:41in
- 8:41the
- 8:41middle.
- 8:41So
- 8:41many
- 8:42times
- 8:42people
- 8:43feel
- 8:43like
- 8:43they
- 8:43can't
- 8:44see
- 8:44the
- 8:44progress
- 8:44and
- 8:45they
- 8:45feel
- 8:45stuck.
- 8:46So
- 8:46track
- 8:46it.
- 8:47It
- 8:47could
- 8:47be
- 8:47something
- 8:48like
- 8:48a
- 8:48simple
- 8:48note
- 8:48in
- 8:49your
- 8:49phone,
- 8:49a
- 8:50sticky
- 8:50note
- 8:50on
- 8:50the
- 8:50fridge.
- 8:51One
- 8:51of
- 8:51the
- 8:51things
- 8:51I
- 8:51love
- 8:51is
- 8:51people
- 8:52make
- 8:52these
- 8:52charts
- 8:52and
- 8:52they
- 8:53fill
- 8:53it
- 8:53in
- 8:53with
- 8:53red
- 8:53as
- 8:54they
- 8:54go
- 8:54up
- 8:54and
- 8:54you
- 8:54see
- 8:55that
- 8:55goal,
- 8:55that's
- 8:56a
- 8:56progress.
- 8:57Maybe
- 8:57you
- 8:57do
- 8:57it
- 8:57in
- 8:57a
- 8:58journal.
- 8:58That
- 8:59visible
- 8:59progress
- 9:00creates
- 9:00emotional
- 9:01momentum.
- 9:01That's
- 9:01what
- 9:01we're
- 9:02really
- 9:02talking
- 9:02about
- 9:02here
- 9:03is
- 9:03emotional
- 9:04momentum
- 9:05and
- 9:05big
- 9:05goals
- 9:06that
- 9:07take
- 9:07a
- 9:07lot
- 9:07of
- 9:07time.
- 9:08They
- 9:08need
- 9:08emotional
- 9:09momentum.
- 9:09They
- 9:09don't
- 9:10need
- 9:10hype,
- 9:10they
- 9:11don't
- 9:11need
- 9:11pressure.
- 9:11They
- 9:12just
- 9:12need
- 9:12proof
- 9:12that
- 9:13you're
- 9:13moving.
- 9:14And
- 9:14remember,
- 9:14you've
- 9:15got
- 9:15to
- 9:15celebrate
- 9:15those
- 9:16checkpoints
- 9:16without
- 9:17breaking
- 9:17your
- 9:17plan.
- 9:18That's
- 9:18a
- 9:18lot
- 9:18of
- 9:19problem,
- 9:19people.
- 9:19Let's
- 9:19talk
- 9:19about
- 9:20celebration
- 9:20here.
- 9:21Celebration
- 9:22doesn't
- 9:22have
- 9:22to
- 9:22mean
- 9:23spending
- 9:23everything.
- 9:23I
- 9:24worked
- 9:24with
- 9:24somebody
- 9:24one
- 9:24time,
- 9:24they
- 9:25said,
- 9:25man,
- 9:25I
- 9:25wanted
- 9:26to
- 9:26save
- 9:26money,
- 9:26so
- 9:27I
- 9:27celebrated
- 9:27by
- 9:27going
- 9:27out
- 9:28to
- 9:28dinner.
- 9:28What
- 9:28they
- 9:28end
- 9:29up
- 9:29doing,
- 9:29they
- 9:29blew
- 9:30everything
- 9:30they
- 9:30saved.
- 9:31But
- 9:32celebration
- 9:32means
- 9:32honoring
- 9:33the
- 9:33progress
- 9:34that
- 9:34you've
- 9:34made.
- 9:35Maybe
- 9:35for
- 9:35you,
- 9:35you
- 9:36make
- 9:36it
- 9:36a
- 9:36special
- 9:36coffee,
- 9:37maybe
- 9:37a
- 9:38special
- 9:38treat.
- 9:38Hey,
- 9:38maybe
- 9:39a
- 9:39date
- 9:39night
- 9:40with
- 9:40a
- 9:40set
- 9:40budget
- 9:41so
- 9:41you
- 9:41don't
- 9:41go
- 9:41and
- 9:42undo
- 9:42what
- 9:42you've
- 9:43worked
- 9:43so
- 9:43hard
- 9:43to
- 9:44do.
- 9:44Because
- 9:45if
- 9:45you
- 9:45never
- 9:45celebrate,
- 9:46the
- 9:46journey
- 9:47is
- 9:47going
- 9:47to
- 9:48feel
- 9:48endless.
- 9:49But
- 9:49when
- 9:49you
- 9:50mark
- 9:50the
- 9:50progress,
- 9:51your
- 9:51brain
- 9:51learns
- 9:52Something
- 9:52your
- 9:52brain
- 9:53starts
- 9:53to
- 9:53say,
- 9:53hey,
- 9:53guess
- 9:54what?
- 9:54This
- 9:54is
- 9:54working.
- 9:55And
- 9:56friend,
- 9:56it
- 9:56is
- 9:57working
- 9:57every
- 9:57time
- 9:58you
- 9:58show
- 9:58up.
- 9:59But
- 9:59you've
- 10:00got
- 10:00to
- 10:00choose
- 10:00a
- 10:00pace
- 10:01you
- 10:01can
- 10:01repeat
- 10:01on
- 10:02your
- 10:02most
- 10:02tired
- 10:02week.
- 10:03This
- 10:03is
- 10:03the
- 10:03biggest
- 10:04one
- 10:04today.
- 10:04I
- 10:05really
- 10:05believe
- 10:05this
- 10:05is
- 10:05the
- 10:05most
- 10:06important
- 10:06part.
- 10:07Don't
- 10:07set
- 10:07your
- 10:08savings
- 10:08amount
- 10:08based
- 10:09on
- 10:09your
- 10:09most
- 10:09motivated
- 10:10day.
- 10:10And
- 10:10that's
- 10:10the
- 10:10problem.
- 10:11A
- 10:11lot
- 10:11of
- 10:11us
- 10:11do
- 10:12that.
- 10:12We
- 10:12think,
- 10:12oh,
- 10:13this
- 10:13I
- 10:13can
- 10:13do
- 10:14this.
- 10:14I
- 10:14am
- 10:14super
- 10:15motivated
- 10:15today.
- 10:16But
- 10:16that's
- 10:16not
- 10:16real.
- 10:17That's
- 10:17not
- 10:17reality.
- 10:18Set
- 10:18it
- 10:19based
- 10:19on
- 10:19a
- 10:19realistic
- 10:20day,
- 10:20a
- 10:21tired
- 10:21day,
- 10:22a
- 10:22normal
- 10:22day,
- 10:23a
- 10:23stressful
- 10:24day,
- 10:24a
- 10:24busy
- 10:25day.
- 10:26See,
- 10:26because
- 10:26if
- 10:27the
- 10:27plan
- 10:27only
- 10:27works
- 10:28when
- 10:28life
- 10:28is
- 10:28calm,
- 10:29it's
- 10:29not
- 10:29going
- 10:29to
- 10:30survive
- 10:30your
- 10:30life.
- 10:30Because
- 10:30guess
- 10:31what,
- 10:31friends?
- 10:31Life
- 10:32isn't
- 10:32common
- 10:32all
- 10:32the
- 10:33time.
- 10:33Choose
- 10:34a
- 10:34pace
- 10:34that
- 10:34still
- 10:35works
- 10:35when
- 10:35things
- 10:36get
- 10:36messy.
- 10:37And
- 10:38remember,
- 10:38you're
- 10:38not
- 10:39planning
- 10:39for
- 10:39perfect,
- 10:40you're
- 10:40planning
- 10:41for
- 10:41real.
- 10:41You've
- 10:42got
- 10:42to
- 10:42build
- 10:42that
- 10:42life
- 10:43happens
- 10:43flexibility
- 10:44into
- 10:44your
- 10:44plan.
- 10:45The
- 10:45truth
- 10:46is,
- 10:46some
- 10:46months
- 10:47you'll
- 10:47save
- 10:47more.
- 10:48Some
- 10:48months
- 10:48you're
- 10:49going
- 10:49to
- 10:49save
- 10:49less.
- 10:49That's
- 10:50not
- 10:50a
- 10:50failure,
- 10:50that's
- 10:51just
- 10:51life.
- 10:52If
- 10:52you've
- 10:52got
- 10:52a
- 10:53plan
- 10:53with
- 10:53zero
- 10:53flexibility,
- 10:54you're
- 10:54going
- 10:55to
- 10:55make
- 10:55yourself
- 10:55feel
- 10:56guilty
- 10:56all
- 10:56the
- 10:56time.
- 10:57And
- 10:57guilty
- 10:58is
- 10:58your
- 10:58excuse
- 10:59for
- 10:59quitting.
- 11:00So
- 11:01decide
- 11:01ahead
- 11:01of
- 11:01time.
- 11:02If
- 11:02I've
- 11:02had
- 11:02a
- 11:02hard
- 11:03month,
- 11:03we
- 11:03don't
- 11:04stop.
- 11:04We
- 11:04adjust.
- 11:05We
- 11:05start
- 11:05again
- 11:05tomorrow.
- 11:06And
- 11:07friend,
- 11:07listen
- 11:07to
- 11:07me.
- 11:08Adjusting
- 11:08is
- 11:09not
- 11:09quitting.
- 11:09Adjusting
- 11:10is
- 11:11using
- 11:11wisdom.
- 11:12See,
- 11:13what
- 11:13I've
- 11:13learned
- 11:13is
- 11:13slow
- 11:14and
- 11:14steady
- 11:14beats.
- 11:15All
- 11:15or
- 11:15nothing,
- 11:16friend.
- 11:16All
- 11:16or
- 11:17nothing
- 11:17sounds
- 11:18spiritual.
- 11:19It
- 11:19sounds
- 11:19like
- 11:19the
- 11:20right
- 11:20thing
- 11:20to
- 11:20do.
- 11:20This.
- 11:21I'm
- 11:21going
- 11:21all
- 11:21in,
- 11:22Ralph.
- 11:23All
- 11:23it
- 11:23does
- 11:24is
- 11:24produces
- 11:24shame.
- 11:25Because
- 11:26if
- 11:26you're
- 11:26all
- 11:26in
- 11:26and
- 11:27you
- 11:27slip
- 11:27just
- 11:27one
- 11:28time,
- 11:29you
- 11:29feel
- 11:29like
- 11:29you've
- 11:29ruined
- 11:30everything.
- 11:31But
- 11:31that
- 11:31slow
- 11:32and
- 11:32steady
- 11:32says,
- 11:33you
- 11:33know
- 11:33what
- 11:33I'm
- 11:34learning
- 11:34this.
- 11:35I'm
- 11:35growing.
- 11:35Yes,
- 11:36I'm
- 11:36making
- 11:36mistakes.
- 11:37I'm
- 11:37stubbing
- 11:38my
- 11:38toe,
- 11:38I'm
- 11:39falling
- 11:39flat
- 11:39on
- 11:39my
- 11:39face.
- 11:40But
- 11:40guess
- 11:40what?
- 11:40I'm
- 11:41getting
- 11:41back
- 11:41up
- 11:41and
- 11:42I'm
- 11:42not
- 11:42quitting
- 11:43today.
- 11:43A
- 11:44little
- 11:44saved
- 11:44consistently
- 11:45will
- 11:45beat
- 11:45a
- 11:46lot
- 11:46saved
- 11:46occasionally,
- 11:47every
- 11:47single
- 11:47time.
- 11:48And
- 11:48yes,
- 11:49you
- 11:49can
- 11:49be
- 11:50consistent.
- 11:51Not
- 11:51perfect,
- 11:51but
- 11:52consistent.
- 11:52Which
- 11:53leads
- 11:53us
- 11:53to
- 11:53today's
- 11:54Bible
- 11:54verse
- 11:54comes
- 11:55to
- 11:55us
- 11:55from
- 11:55Galatians,
- 11:56chapter
- 11:566,
- 11:57verse
- 11:579.
- 11:57It
- 11:58says,
- 11:58Let
- 11:58us
- 11:58not
- 11:58become
- 11:59weary
- 11:59in
- 11:59doing
- 12:00good
- 12:00at
- 12:00the
- 12:01proper
- 12:01time.
- 12:02We
- 12:02will
- 12:02reap
- 12:03a
- 12:03harvest
- 12:03if
- 12:03we
- 12:04do
- 12:04not
- 12:05give
- 12:05up.
- 12:07And
- 12:07friend,
- 12:07that
- 12:07verse
- 12:08isn't
- 12:08just
- 12:08about
- 12:08money,
- 12:09but
- 12:10it
- 12:10absolutely
- 12:10applies
- 12:11to
- 12:11it
- 12:11today.
- 12:12Because
- 12:12savings
- 12:13is
- 12:13a
- 12:13form
- 12:13of
- 12:13doing
- 12:14good.
- 12:14It's
- 12:14choosing
- 12:15wisdom.
- 12:15It's
- 12:16choosing
- 12:16patience
- 12:17and,
- 12:17and
- 12:17it's
- 12:18choosing
- 12:18peace
- 12:18in
- 12:19advance.
- 12:20And
- 12:20that
- 12:20harvest,
- 12:21it
- 12:21takes
- 12:22time.
- 12:23So
- 12:23if
- 12:23you're
- 12:23feeling
- 12:24tired
- 12:24right
- 12:24now,
- 12:24let
- 12:24me
- 12:25tell
- 12:25you
- 12:25right
- 12:25now,
- 12:25you're
- 12:25not
- 12:25failing.
- 12:26You're
- 12:26just
- 12:27in
- 12:27the
- 12:27growing
- 12:27season
- 12:28and
- 12:29God
- 12:29is
- 12:29with
- 12:29you
- 12:29right
- 12:30there
- 12:30in
- 12:30that
- 12:30season.
- 12:31So
- 12:31here's
- 12:32your
- 12:32action
- 12:32step
- 12:32for
- 12:32today.
- 12:33I
- 12:33want
- 12:33you
- 12:33to
- 12:33take
- 12:33one
- 12:34big
- 12:34savings
- 12:34goal
- 12:35and
- 12:35break
- 12:35it
- 12:35into
- 12:36three
- 12:36milestones
- 12:37and
- 12:37write
- 12:37them
- 12:38down
- 12:38today.
- 12:38Not
- 12:39in
- 12:39your
- 12:39head.
- 12:39Put
- 12:39it
- 12:40on
- 12:40paper
- 12:40or
- 12:40in
- 12:41your
- 12:41notes
- 12:41app.
- 12:41Like
- 12:41I
- 12:41said
- 12:42earlier,
- 12:42that
- 12:42goal,
- 12:42maybe
- 12:43you
- 12:43want
- 12:43to
- 12:43save
- 12:43$3,000,
- 12:44will
- 12:44set
- 12:45up
- 12:45three
- 12:45milestones.
- 12:46A
- 12:46thousand,
- 12:47two
- 12:47thousand,
- 12:47and
- 12:48three
- 12:48thousand.
- 12:49And
- 12:50friend,
- 12:50when
- 12:50you
- 12:50hit
- 12:50that
- 12:51milestone
- 12:51one,
- 12:52don't
- 12:52just
- 12:52rust
- 12:53past
- 12:53it.
- 12:54Stop,
- 12:54breathe
- 12:55and
- 12:55thank
- 12:55God
- 12:55for
- 12:56the
- 12:56progress.
- 12:56And
- 12:56tell
- 12:57yourself,
- 12:57guess
- 12:57what?
- 12:57I'm
- 12:58doing
- 12:58this
- 12:59because
- 12:59you
- 13:00are
- 13:00doing
- 13:00it.
- 13:01Lord,
- 13:02thank
- 13:02you
- 13:02for
- 13:02teaching
- 13:02us
- 13:03patience.
- 13:04Help
- 13:04us
- 13:04to
- 13:04not
- 13:04grow
- 13:05weary,
- 13:05Lord.
- 13:05Give
- 13:06us
- 13:06strength
- 13:06to
- 13:06keep
- 13:06going
- 13:07and
- 13:07joy
- 13:08at
- 13:08each
- 13:08and
- 13:08every
- 13:09step
- 13:09on
- 13:09the
- 13:09journey.
- 13:10And
- 13:10for
- 13:10the
- 13:10listener
- 13:11right
- 13:11now
- 13:11who
- 13:11feels
- 13:12tired,
- 13:12remind
- 13:13them
- 13:13that
- 13:13steady
- 13:14steps
- 13:14still
- 13:14count.
- 13:15Remind
- 13:15them
- 13:15that
- 13:15you
- 13:16are
- 13:16not
- 13:16disappointed
- 13:17and
- 13:17you
- 13:17are
- 13:18present
- 13:18where
- 13:18we
- 13:18are
- 13:18right
- 13:19now
- 13:19and
- 13:19that
- 13:19you
- 13:19will
- 13:20finish
- 13:20what
- 13:20you
- 13:20started
- 13:21in
- 13:21them.
- 13:21And
- 13:21we
- 13:21ask
- 13:22this
- 13:22in
- 13:22Jesus
- 13:23name,
- 13:24Amen,
- 13:25friend.
- 13:25If
- 13:25you
- 13:25want
- 13:26encouragement,
- 13:26just
- 13:27like
- 13:27we
- 13:27talked
- 13:27about
- 13:27today,
- 13:27while
- 13:28you
- 13:28chase
- 13:28those
- 13:28big
- 13:29goals,
- 13:29I
- 13:29want
- 13:30to
- 13:30invite
- 13:30you
- 13:30to
- 13:30join
- 13:30us.
- 13:31Go
- 13:31to
- 13:31financiallyconfidentchristian.com/join
- 13:34again.
- 13:35That's
- 13:35financiallyconfidentchristian.com/join.
- 13:39That's
- 13:39where
- 13:39we
- 13:39help
- 13:39each
- 13:39other
- 13:40stay
- 13:40steady,
- 13:41stay
- 13:41hopeful,
- 13:42and
- 13:42keep
- 13:42going
- 13:43without
- 13:43shame.
- 13:43And
- 13:43friend,
- 13:44you're
- 13:44not
- 13:44alone
- 13:45in
- 13:45this.
- 13:46So
- 13:46let
- 13:46me
- 13:46remind
- 13:46you,
- 13:47big
- 13:47goals
- 13:48are
- 13:48possible
- 13:48without
- 13:49burnout.
- 13:49But
- 13:50you
- 13:50have
- 13:50to
- 13:50pace
- 13:51it,
- 13:51break
- 13:52it
- 13:52down,
- 13:52celebrate
- 13:53those
- 13:53progress,
- 13:54adjust
- 13:54when
- 13:54life
- 13:55shifts.
- 13:56All
- 13:56in
- 13:56all,
- 13:57keep
- 13:57moving
- 13:57forward.
- 13:58Tomorrow
- 13:59we're
- 13:59going
- 13:59to
- 13:59talk
- 13:59about
- 13:59something
- 14:00a
- 14:00little
- 14:00deeper.
- 14:00We're
- 14:00going
- 14:00to
- 14:01talk
- 14:01about
- 14:01how
- 14:01can
- 14:01you
- 14:01trust
- 14:02God
- 14:02with
- 14:02what
- 14:02you
- 14:03saved
- 14:03and
- 14:04what
- 14:04you
- 14:04can't.
- 14:05So
- 14:05today,
- 14:06if
- 14:06this
- 14:06show
- 14:06has
- 14:06encouraged
- 14:07you,
- 14:07if
- 14:07you
- 14:07know
- 14:08someone
- 14:08who's
- 14:08chasing
- 14:09a
- 14:09big
- 14:09goal
- 14:09right
- 14:10now,
- 14:10I
- 14:10encourage
- 14:10you
- 14:10share
- 14:10the
- 14:11show
- 14:11with
- 14:11them.
- 14:11This
- 14:12show
- 14:12is
- 14:12not
- 14:12about
- 14:13financial
- 14:13shame.
- 14:14It's
- 14:14about
- 14:14walking
- 14:15in
- 14:15wisdom,
- 14:15staying
- 14:16financially
- 14:16savvy,
- 14:17and
- 14:17truly
- 14:17becoming
- 14:18a
- 14:18financially
- 14:19confident
- 14:19Christian.
- 14:20So
- 14:20God
- 14:20bless
- 14:20you
- 14:21and
- 14:21I
- 14:21hope
- 14:21to
- 14:21see
- 14:22you
- 14:22again
- 14:22on
- 14:22tomorrow's
- 14:22show.