Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS Hour 2 | Sunny Hostin's Flag Comment, The Truth About Nolan Wells & A Stepfather Who Walked Away

Transcript

DLHS Hour 2 | Sunny Hostin's Flag Comment, The Truth About Nolan Wells & A Stepfather Who Walked Away · The D.L. Hughley Show

• 0:03
  Speaker 1: Uh, it is the do you can show what it
• 0:05
  Speaker 1: happened was so Tuesday, what it happened was when you're
• 0:07
  Speaker 1: in the community and you see in abundant American flag,
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: does it make you feel patriotic or paranoid? Of course
• 0:13
  Speaker 1: that came from Sunny House and she was talking to you.
• 0:15
  Speaker 1: We asked that question.
• 0:16
  Speaker 2: You said, yeah, not only do I get a little
• 0:18
  Speaker 2: suspicions about when I see it. You know, I don't
• 0:21
  Speaker 2: get paranoid, but I get a little suspicion. And my
• 0:24
  Speaker 2: thought is this what American do they have when they
• 0:27
  Speaker 2: mind or what American Udasian who who are they thinking about?
• 0:32
  Speaker 2: Are they thinking about that this is their country. They
• 0:34
  Speaker 2: built this country and it belongs to them. Their forefather
• 0:38
  Speaker 2: found this country just for them. That's what I think
• 0:40
  Speaker 2: about when I see it, you know, because again, you know,
• 0:44
  Speaker 2: you can't be patriotic and thinking that you're the only
• 0:47
  Speaker 2: one who built this country. So when I see all
• 0:50
  Speaker 2: these and especially Magas that's finding these flag just like
• 0:53
  Speaker 2: the power boars and the Boogoloo boars, you know, I
• 0:56
  Speaker 2: have the question of they're thinking that this country belongs
• 0:59
  Speaker 2: to them, and they're thinking that the Graace replacement is
• 1:01
  Speaker 2: about to happen, and they are on the on the
• 1:04
  Speaker 2: on the uh, on the on the on the line
• 1:06
  Speaker 2: of being replaced. So but yeah, when I see all
• 1:08
  Speaker 2: those players, I think, hey, what's up with them?
• 1:11
  Speaker 3: People express their their their their feelings, you know, frustrations
• 1:18
  Speaker 3: in different ways.
• 1:19
  Speaker 4: And and I you know, I I love America and.
• 1:24
  Speaker 3: I'm Christian also, so I try to just be good
• 1:28
  Speaker 3: tying of people and not judge people. I try not
• 1:32
  Speaker 3: to mischiet people. I try to cheat people anybody people
• 1:36
  Speaker 3: like people like me are different from me. So you know,
• 1:40
  Speaker 3: over time and conclusion, over time, people I think will
• 1:44
  Speaker 3: treat you pretty much how you consistently treat them over time.
• 1:47
  Speaker 3: If you consistently treat them well, they will over time
• 1:51
  Speaker 3: treat you right. But if you you know, but at
• 1:54
  Speaker 3: the same time, they have to be forgiving of your
• 1:56
  Speaker 3: imperfections and you have to be forgiving of the there.
• 1:59
  Speaker 4: To That issue is very touchy for me because I
• 2:03
  Speaker 4: can look back at pitches and see the flag was
• 2:06
  Speaker 4: being flown and waved at lunchings, and children, black children
• 2:10
  Speaker 4: trying to go to school, all of that in the
• 2:13
  Speaker 4: background being screened that by you know, by white moms.
• 2:17
  Speaker 4: The whole family all of that. So the thing about it,
• 2:22
  Speaker 4: they don't you know, I know most things with that
• 2:25
  Speaker 4: that patriotism is based on their experience, experience, it's certainly
• 2:30
  Speaker 4: not ours, uh, And I not truly mean that. So
• 2:34
  Speaker 4: when I see that, I have the opposite feeling of
• 2:38
  Speaker 4: being paid, you know, being a patriot pledging allegiance to
• 2:43
  Speaker 4: what what are we pledging to, pledging to have to
• 2:47
  Speaker 4: go to court to have your your your votes and
• 2:50
  Speaker 4: your rights and all of that. That's what I'm pledging to,
• 2:53
  Speaker 4: not to say anything. So no, I don't. I don't
• 2:55
  Speaker 4: feel patriotic one bit. It doesn't it doesn't bring up
• 2:59
  Speaker 4: a warm fuzzy thing.
• 3:00
  Speaker 1: You got more of your calls coming up directly right now.
• 3:02
  Speaker 1: His usher is to deal Hugley Show. And so Wednesday
• 3:05
  Speaker 1: we the incredibly sad story of Nolan Wells that's currently
• 3:09
  Speaker 1: in the news that triggers this question. Do you let
• 3:11
  Speaker 1: your black kids take trips or half sleepovers with their
• 3:15
  Speaker 1: all white friends. That's a you know, we took a
• 3:19
  Speaker 1: lot of heat for that. A lot of people had
• 3:21
  Speaker 1: problems with it, but you said.
• 3:23
  Speaker 5: First and foremost prayers to the family and friends, and
• 3:27
  Speaker 5: thank you so much for asking this question. There needs
• 3:31
  Speaker 5: to be first and foremost a distinction in friends versus associates.
• 3:36
  Speaker 5: You see, if my friend truly is my friend, he
• 3:39
  Speaker 5: ain't let me go nowhere without him, period, end of discussion.
• 3:43
  Speaker 5: I don't agree with women ten colors of people in
• 3:46
  Speaker 5: our circle. I think once we do that, we start
• 3:49
  Speaker 5: to limit our potential. But trust is something that the
• 3:53
  Speaker 5: parents with the other parents, whether they're white, black.
• 3:58
  Speaker 4: Chocolate, green, purple, has to be there.
• 4:00
  Speaker 5: So again I'm sad, and it's a very sad and
• 4:04
  Speaker 5: troubling time.
• 4:06
  Speaker 6: The parents need to educate the children on our history,
• 4:11
  Speaker 6: and they should have encouraged him not to just hang
• 4:13
  Speaker 6: out with with others with white kids, to see some
• 4:17
  Speaker 6: people that look like you, because we will have each
• 4:21
  Speaker 6: other's back, you know. It's just it's a tragedy to
• 4:24
  Speaker 6: see this type of thing. And this is not the
• 4:26
  Speaker 6: first time this has happened, So it's it's really sad
• 4:30
  Speaker 6: how how our children can get caught up and have
• 4:33
  Speaker 6: such low self esteem that they want to assimilate to
• 4:37
  Speaker 6: the white culture and just walk in blindly, not knowing
• 4:41
  Speaker 6: that they don't have our best interests at heart.
• 4:43
  Speaker 1: And then, of course yesterday this is their mother's complain you.
• 4:47
  Speaker 1: She's take a listen.
• 4:48
  Speaker 7: To this, because I don't want to be with you
• 4:50
  Speaker 7: no more. You're not coming to my son gaymore. We've
• 4:53
  Speaker 7: been together for two years. Two years, that's all the
• 4:57
  Speaker 7: times you've playing the games with him, practic sending with him,
• 5:00
  Speaker 7: telling him that you love him. It's not like I'm
• 5:02
  Speaker 7: asked you to buy him nothing. I'm asking you to
• 5:04
  Speaker 7: still be there like you've been doing. That's he looks
• 5:07
  Speaker 7: up to you. Why don't you tell him that you
• 5:10
  Speaker 7: love him? He's nine years old. He really thinks that
• 5:13
  Speaker 7: you give about him.
• 5:15
  Speaker 1: So you were the woman for a couple of years
• 5:16
  Speaker 1: who already has a child, that you stay with that
• 5:18
  Speaker 1: child in that child's life after y'all break up or not.
• 5:20
  Speaker 1: That was a question that I'm sure a lot of people.
• 5:22
  Speaker 2: Deal whether you said yes, yes and here yes, And
• 5:27
  Speaker 2: it depends on the situation. I mean, she'lent, she said
• 5:30
  Speaker 2: that she's breaking up. She don't want to be with
• 5:31
  Speaker 2: him no more. So he's heartbroken. But when it comes
• 5:35
  Speaker 2: to the child, I have X that had kids before
• 5:39
  Speaker 2: we get together, and they are grown now and we
• 5:42
  Speaker 2: and I still have a great relationship with them. And
• 5:46
  Speaker 2: because it's not about the relationship, especially when kids involved.
• 5:49
  Speaker 2: It's about the child. It's about the kids. And and
• 5:51
  Speaker 2: you got to be very careful how you treat kids,
• 5:53
  Speaker 2: you know, because you never know, I mean that maybe
• 5:55
  Speaker 2: that child may grow up to be you know, famous
• 5:58
  Speaker 2: or something like that. You know, and you still looking
• 6:00
  Speaker 2: crazy now because you want to be in the child life.
• 6:03
  Speaker 2: So but yeah, I'm staying. I'm in a kid life.
• 6:06
  Speaker 2: I got exits. They still have kids, and they've grown now,
• 6:09
  Speaker 2: and I'm still in their life and we still have
• 6:11
  Speaker 2: a good relationship. So I'm staying in the child life.
• 6:13
  Speaker 2: That's just me.
• 6:14
  Speaker 8: Hi, I'm a grandmother. So my son had a girlfriend
• 6:18
  Speaker 8: who had a three year old girl, and then they
• 6:21
  Speaker 8: got married and they were together for ten years. This
• 6:24
  Speaker 8: girl is now about to turn twenty. I'm not gonna
• 6:27
  Speaker 8: stop being in her life when they broke up. I
• 6:29
  Speaker 8: continue doing what I did for her. Bought her Christmas
• 6:33
  Speaker 8: gift and took her out and birthday gifts. Last year
• 6:38
  Speaker 8: for graduation gifts, I took her with my daughter on
• 6:41
  Speaker 8: the cruise. We're getting ready to go to the Sea
• 6:44
  Speaker 8: Usher and Chris Brown have taken her to that. When
• 6:47
  Speaker 8: she started school, I pretty much purchased everything she needed
• 6:51
  Speaker 8: for her doing room, you know, taking her off for
• 6:53
  Speaker 8: Thanksgiving and everything. My son the saft, he picked her up,
• 6:56
  Speaker 8: took her out, you know, for Father's Day, because he's
• 7:00
  Speaker 8: the only man that's did in her life. So no,
• 7:03
  Speaker 8: I say, you know, yeah, it may depend on the person,
• 7:07
  Speaker 8: but the children in this case, No, she's part of
• 7:11
  Speaker 8: my family. She's my granddaughter. She goes to the family reunion.
• 7:14
  Speaker 4: Everything, it's feel good Friday, don't sweat the boss, the kids,
• 7:20
  Speaker 4: et cetera.
• 7:21
  Speaker 2: Let's get it started on the Deal Hughgley Show.
• 7:24
  Speaker 1: Now, for those of you who are not regular listening
• 7:26
  Speaker 1: to The Deal Show, he's a tidy sample of why
• 7:28
  Speaker 1: you should listen. Every day they're fighting for their lives.
• 7:33
  Speaker 1: The problem is it ain't the first time they fought somebody.
• 7:36
  Speaker 1: They can fight Alexander the Great. They got a problem
• 7:38
  Speaker 1: with Donald the Dumb. They don't. How could they be
• 7:39
  Speaker 1: negotiating with because every time Israel finds out that they
• 7:42
  Speaker 1: got a leader, they kill them.
• 7:43
  Speaker 2: Ain't nobody answer that?
• 7:44
  Speaker 1: Gonna say yeah, it's phone for you, uh huh take
• 7:46
  Speaker 1: a message, and lots say yeah, phone for you, Well,
• 7:50
  Speaker 1: thank you, I'm not here receptions.
• 7:55
  Speaker 7: Man, put your phone closer to the woman.
• 7:57
  Speaker 1: That's not gonna age. Well, now you know he wants
• 8:00
  Speaker 1: his name on money, which is great, but we're having
• 8:03
  Speaker 1: a thirty nine trillion dollar deferens so if it's any
• 8:06
  Speaker 1: money should be on a food stead. Skip my man,
• 8:10
  Speaker 1: cheat on what you learned today.
• 8:11
  Speaker 5: Ben just got some breaking news.
• 8:12
  Speaker 1: Breaking news.
• 8:13
  Speaker 9: Tiger Woods has just been announced as a Transportation secretary.
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: Infects it diseases that are on the rise ever since
• 8:23
  Speaker 1: RFK became the secretary of HHS. I'm telling you, I
• 8:27
  Speaker 1: think the wrong Kennedy was taking flying lesson. I think
• 8:30
  Speaker 1: I think the wrong Kennedy had a pincher for convertibles.
• 8:33
  Speaker 2: I think that's what it got.
• 8:34
  Speaker 1: Did you see Christy Nomes husband is a cross dresser,
• 8:38
  Speaker 1: so apparently all that makeups to you and buy one
• 8:42
  Speaker 1: and let's see, like, I can't wait. Did she take
• 8:43
  Speaker 1: those parties off so I could wear them?
• 8:46
  Speaker 9: So you remember all of the hubbub when the Little
• 8:51
  Speaker 9: Mermaid was played, Yeah it was black. Well, now, if
• 8:54
  Speaker 9: you're a Harry Potter fan, people are very upset that
• 8:57
  Speaker 9: a black guy is playing the role of Professor Snape.
• 9:00
  Speaker 1: Wait till they find out whos playing the role of
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: Jesus in real life. I never understand why they get
• 9:06
  Speaker 1: mad a little mermaid. I mean, if you throw that
• 9:08
  Speaker 1: many slaves over it's boundary. Somebody black down there. You
• 9:11
  Speaker 1: think that crabs are bashed and get his hair bread.
• 9:14
  Speaker 1: It is the Dal Hugley Show.